Single Mother Survival Guide

Divorce is a challenging experience, and navigating it often requires guidance and support. But not all advice is created equal. While many divorce coaches provide helpful insights, there are some hard truths they might avoid sharing. These truths, though difficult to hear, can empower you to take control of your life and move forward with clarity and strength. In this episode, I share five things most divorce coaches are too afraid to tell you - truths that will help you approach this journey with empowerment and resilience. Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode to dive deeper into the five truths most divorce coaches won't tell you. It's packed with practical insights to help you navigate divorce with clarity and courage. Click HERE to get your copy now.  Checkout Episode 324 - What is collaborative divorce, with Kurt Chacon Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As single mums, the way we speak to ourselves—shaped by trauma, pain, and fear—can deeply influence not only our lives but also the lives of our children. In this episode, I explore the profound effects of negative self-talk and share practical strategies to help you heal, break the cycle, and prevent these patterns from affecting your children. Let's create a future rooted in positivity, growth, and resilience. You've got this, my friend! Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the free guide for this episode to learn actionable strategies to stop passing trauma to your children and create a healthier family dynamic. Click HERE to grab your guide now! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Balancing parenting, finances, household duties, co-parenting, and emotional support as a single mum can feel overwhelming. This week, we're diving into practical strategies to lighten the mental load and reclaim your energy. From routines to mindfulness, discover how to navigate the chaos with greater ease and peace of mind. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free guide accompanying this episode and get practical tips to lighten your daily responsibilities and create a calmer, more manageable routine. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Mother's Day can bring up mixed feelings for single mums. Many feel the desire for recognition while managing isolation or the responsibility of making the day special for their children alone. This episode looks at redefining Mother's Day for single mums, celebrating resilience, love, and the journey you're on. Join me as we explore ways to create a meaningful, empowering Mother's Day all about you. Links mentioned in the episode:  Embrace a Mother's Day that's all about celebrating YOU. Click HERE to download our free guide to learn ways to make this Mother's Day meaningful, empowering, and focused on your own journey.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we cover five essential factors to include in your parenting plan. Whether you're just starting or revising your plan, these elements can help ensure stability for your children and peace of mind for you. A well-structured parenting plan isn't just about logistics; it's about building a healthy co-parenting relationship that keeps the focus on your children's well-being. This is especially useful if you're navigating a high-conflict situation. A good parenting plan reduces confusion, minimises conflict, and provides clarity on your shared parenting responsibilities. Join me as we explore practical ways to put together an effective plan that works for you and your family. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide accompanying this episode. It's packed with practical insights to help you develop a solid, supportive plan. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we explore how, as a single mum, you can find joy amidst the whirlwind of daily life. From morning rituals to setting boundaries and celebrating small wins, we'll discuss actionable ways to bring more happiness, laughter, and calm to your days. These tips are designed to help you embrace the everyday chaos with a bit more ease and joy. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download your free guide, packed with easy tips and insights to create moments of calm and happiness even on your busiest days. Let's make finding joy possible, no matter how chaotic things get! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

Navigating life as a single mum while co-parenting can feel like a balancing act. Creating a future for yourself and your children that's filled with joy and growth requires courage and intention - even with their dad still in the picture. In this episode, I share practical strategies for moving forward, staying focused on your own journey, and making the most of each day. Let's work together to embrace this journey toward empowerment. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get your free resource guide for this episode! It's packed with practical tips and tools to help you on your journey as a single mum navigating co-parenting. Check out Episode 416: Who would want to date me? Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Divorce is a challenging and emotional process, especially when children are involved. As a mum, you want to protect your kids, secure their future, and navigate the separation in a way that's least disruptive for everyone. One powerful tool that can help you do all of this is mediation. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the thought of mediation, it's completely normal. But mediation offers some incredible benefits that can ease your stress, help you stay in control, and pave the way for a more peaceful post-divorce future. In this episode, we explore why mediation could be a game-changer for mums going through divorce. Links mentioned in the episode:  Download our free guide, packed with insights into the benefits of mediation and tips for getting started. Start your journey towards a less stressful separation HERE. Check out Episode 16: Things to consider regarding parenting, in preparation for mediation Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

In this episode, we discuss the importance of being fully prepared for mediation as a single mum navigating divorce. Mediation provides an opportunity to shape your future on your own terms, but it can feel daunting. Preparing effectively helps ease the stress and ensures you're ready to advocate for yourself and your family.  In this episode, I share five reasons why being prepared for mediation is essential. Tune in to learn how you can walk into mediation with clarity and confidence.  Links mentioned in the episode:  Download our free resource guide for practical steps on how to prepare, minimise stress, and make informed decisions for you and your family's future. Click HERE to access the guide! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we're diving into the common feelings of guilt many single mums experience. Whether it's not being able to do it all or feeling like you're falling short, the pressure can be overwhelming. But today, we explore strategies to overcome that guilt, recognise the positives in your situation, and focus on what truly matters - your well-being and the love you give to your children. Let's start shifting that guilt into self-compassion and empowerment. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download your free resource guide designed to help you overcome single mum guilt and focus on your strengths.  Check out Episode 237: Single mum guilt... Why we have it, and how to manage it Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we dive into a topic that affects many single mums - burnout. As a mum who's navigated separation or divorce, it can feel like you're carrying the weight of the world, managing the household, the kids' schedules, work, and being emotionally present for everyone. Burnout isn't just feeling tired; it's a profound exhaustion that impacts your emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. But here's the good news - it's possible to avoid burnout with the right strategies. Today, I'm showing you how to recognise the warning signs of burnout and sharing some practical tips to help you prevent burnout before it takes over. Links mentioned in the episode:  Learn how to recognise and avoid burnout by downloading the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. Packed with practical tips, this guide will help you prioritise your well-being while juggling life's demands. Click HERE to download it now! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today we discuss reframing forgiveness as acceptance and how this can become a key step in your healing journey. For many single mums who have gone through separation or divorce, forgiveness can feel impossible or overwhelming. It can feel like you're letting the person who hurt you off the hook. But what if we changed the perspective? What if, instead of focusing on forgiveness, we thought about acceptance? Shifting towards acceptance can create a space for healing without the pressure of making peace with a past that no longer serves you. In this episode, we discuss how acceptance can be a powerful tool in gaining emotional freedom, and how to get there! Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to access the free resource guide for this episode. In it, you'll find practical steps and insights to help you reframe forgiveness and start your journey towards emotional freedom.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we dive into a topic that many single mums can relate to: rediscovering your identity outside of motherhood. The demands of raising children can make it easy to lose sight of who you are beyond being a parent. You might often ask yourself, “Who am I beyond my kids?” This episode focuses on why it's essential to nurture your unique self and gives you five practical steps to help you rediscover your identity. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It includes practical tips and journaling prompts to help you explore your identity beyond motherhood. Check out Episode 378 - Rediscovering Yourself - A Journey to Confidence and Empowerment Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this week's episode, we're talking about how to help our kids navigate difficult relationships. Whether it's dealing with friends, siblings, or even adults, kids, just like us, can face challenging relationships throughout their lives. As parents, it's essential to equip our children with the tools and confidence to handle these situations. While it can be tough, navigating these relationships teaches valuable life skills such as empathy, conflict resolution, and emotional regulation. Today, I dive into three key aspects to help your child manage difficult relationships, build stronger connections, and develop emotional resilience. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get the free resource guide accompanying this episode! It's filled with helpful strategies to support your child as they navigate challenging relationships and build resilience. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we discussing healthy tech practices for your family. With schools back in Australia and technology becoming a daily part of life, it's crucial to strike a balance. From smartphones and tablets to laptops and smart TVs, screens are everywhere – and our kids see us using them too. While technology offers many benefits, we must implement healthy, realistic practices at home to ensure it supports rather than hinders our well-being. Today, I share three practical strategies to help you create mindful and balanced tech use for your family. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide accompanying this episode! It's packed with actionable tips on how to establish healthy technology practices at home that work for both you and your kids. Check out Episode 413 - Supporting kids and their mental health, with Wayne Holdsworth Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this week's episode, we dive into quick and simple ways for busy single mums to relax and recharge – all in under 15 minutes! As single mums, we're constantly balancing endless responsibilities, and finding time to prioritise self-care can feel impossible. But it's so important, not only for your own well-being but for your children's too. Today, I'm sharing 10 practical tips that you can implement right away to help you unwind and recharge, no matter how hectic your schedule is. Tune in for this much-needed conversation and start your journey to implementing daily self-care! Links mentioned in the episode:  Feeling overwhelmed? Download the free resource guide accompanying this episode and get practical tips to help you relax and recharge in just 15 minutes. Click HERE to get started! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

This week we discuss a topic many single mums will face at some point – meeting your ex-partner's new wife. This situation can stir up a whirlwind of emotions, from a sense of loss to concern about how this person will fit into your children's lives. You may wonder, "Do I need to like her?" In this episode, we explore how to manage these complex feelings and also offer practical strategies to make this first meeting a positive experience, while maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship. Tune in to gain insights on navigating this sensitive moment with confidence. Links mentioned in the episode:  Navigating co-parenting can be challenging, especially when it comes to meeting your ex's new partner. Click HERE to get the free resource guide accompanying this episode, filled with strategies for handling these situations with grace. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we discuss financial stability for those mamas going through divorce and rebuilding their lives. Financial security can seem like a distant dream, especially when managing on a single income. However, with the right mindset and strategies, it is possible to achieve. Take a listen to learn tips and insights to help single mums regain control of their finances, reduce anxiety, and start building a secure future for themselves and their children. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide accompanying this episode! It's filled with tips to help you rebuild your financial security and peace of mind. Resources mentioned in the episode:  Blog: Why a child's first day at school is so hard on single mums Blog: Building an emergency fund as a single mum Episode 001: Wills and Estate Planning for Single Mums, with Anna Leonard Episode 004: Insurance for single mums, with Katherine Hayes Episode 012: Budgeting for single mums, with Katherine Hayes Episode 155: Canna Campbell and the $1000 project Episode 361 - Building an emergency fund as a single mum Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we tackle an issue that many single mums face: undervaluing ourselves in relationships. Being a single mum comes with a lot of responsibility, strength, and love, but it can also leave us feeling weighed down by the challenges and ripple effects of previous relationships. One of the most toxic habits many single mums unknowingly fall into is undervaluing themselves, particularly in romantic relationships. We'll explore how to recognise this pattern and offer strategies for rebuilding self-worth so you can find the healthy, loving relationship you deserve. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. This guide will provide actionable steps to help you recognise when you're undervaluing yourself and empower you to overcome it in relationships. Resources mentioned in the episode:  Episode 416 - Who would want to date me?  Episode 418 - Ten dating red flags you need to know about Blog: How To Set Dating Boundaries For A Happy Dating Experience Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

As we start the new year, it's the perfect time to reflect and set intentions for the future, especially when it comes to strengthening relationships. Whether it's improving your bond with your children, co-parent, family, or friends, healthy relationships are key to our happiness and well-being. In this episode, we explore how to deepen connections, mend rifts, and nurture the relationships that matter most to us in 2025. Join me as we dive into strategies to enhance relationships this year. Links mentioned in the episode:  Strengthening relationships is vital for our well-being. Download the free resource guide accompanying this episode for practical tips on improving and deepening connections with your loved ones. Click HERE to get your free guide! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we dive into an essential life skill to teach our kids: how to set goals for the year. With the new year underway, it's the perfect opportunity to encourage our children to reflect on what they want to achieve and how they can make it happen. Goal-setting helps kids develop responsibility, motivation, and a sense of accomplishment. Listen to this epsiode as I share practical tips to guide them through the process, giving them the tools to problem-solve, build confidence, and develop a positive outlook. Tune in for ideas on how to support your children in achieving their aspirations! Links mentioned in the episode:  Help your kids kickstart the new year with purpose! Download the free resource guide accompanying this episode for helpful tips on teaching goal-setting to children. Click HERE to get started today and set them up for success. Check out the following resources:  Episode 88 - Goal setting for single mums Blog post: Setting goals as a single mum Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

Happy New Year, everyone, and welcome to the first episode of The Single Mother Survival Podcast in 2025! I hope you've had a restful and joyful holiday season. As we step into this fresh new year, it's the perfect time to pause and reflect on the lessons we've learned from 2024 and explore how we can apply them to make 2025 even more successful. Whether last year was full of challenges, growth, or a mix of both, the insights we've gained can help us set clear priorities, make better decisions, and create a more empowered and fulfilling future. So, let's dive in and discover how we can use reflection to set the stage for a positive and thriving year ahead! Links mentioned in the episode:  Ready to make 2025 your best year yet? Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's packed with practical strategies to help you apply the lessons from 2024 and set yourself up for a more positive and successful year ahead! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode, we're focusing on finding joy in the little things and embracing presence over perfection. As the festive season is upon us, many of us feel the pressure to create a flawless Christmas - perfect gifts, immaculate decorations, and ideal celebrations. For single mums, this can be especially overwhelming while juggling work, parenting, and co-parenting arrangements. But let's shift our focus. The true essence of this time of year is not about perfection; it's about appreciating the simple, meaningful moments. Join me as I share tips on how to be present, let go of unrealistic expectations, and find joy in the little things. Links mentioned in the episode:  Feeling the pressure to make Christmas perfect? Don't let stress take over this holiday season. Download the free resource guide for practical tips on how to focus on joy, presence, and simplicity this festive season. Click HERE to get your guide now. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we discuss how to simplify your Christmas preparation, especially if you're a new single mum facing the holiday season for the first time. While Christmas is often seen as a time of joy, it can also bring a lot of stress - thanks to dealing with an ex, meal planning, presents, decorating, and the pressure to create a perfect celebration. But the key to truly enjoying the holiday is to focus on what matters most: spending quality time with loved ones. So today, I share five practical tips to reduce the overwhelm so you can embrace and enjoy a more relaxed and joyful Christmas. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode! Inside, you'll find practical strategies to simplify your holiday preparation and reduce the stress that comes with being a single mum at Christmas.  Other resources to support you during these holiday changes:  Episode 431 - Budget-friendly christmas: Creative and affordable gift ideas for kids Episode 381 - Coping with Christmas stress as a single mum Episode 327 - Developing new holiday traditions Episode 176 - Celebrating Christmas as a single mum Episode 123 - Celebrating Christmas as a single mum Blog post: A single mum's guide to the Christmas season Blog post: To the single mum at Christmas Blog post: 7 tips for your first Christmas as a single parent Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

The holiday season is often filled with joy and celebration, but for many children, it can also be a challenging time, especially when there are changes in family dynamics. Whether due to a recent separation, a new co-parenting arrangement, or the absence of a loved one, these transitions can be difficult for children to process. In this episode, we discuss practical ways to support your kids through these holiday changes, helping them feel secure, loved, and understood during this emotional period. Links mentioned in the episode:  Download our free resource guide packed with practical tips to help you support your kids through this emotional time. Click HERE to get your guide now. Other resources to support you during these holiday changes:  Episode 70 - Christmas and the Single Mum Episode 123 - Celebrating Christmas as a single mum Episode 176 - Celebrating Christmas as a single mum Episode 381 - Coping with Christmas stress as a single mum Blog: Ten strategies for single mums to navigate Christmas season sadness Blog: A single mum's guide to the Christmas season Blog: Spending Christmas without the kids Blog: 7 tips for your first Christmas as a single parent Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Christmas is a magical time, especially for kids, and it's my favourite time of the year too. However, as a single mum, it can also be stressful with the pressure to give your kids the perfect gifts. In this episode, I share some budget-friendly gift ideas that will make your kids smile without breaking the bank. With a bit of creativity and planning, you can have a wonderful Christmas without ending up in debt. Links mentioned in the episode:  Want to make this Christmas special without overspending? Click HERE to get your free resource guide, packed with budget-friendly gift ideas that will make your kids smile without breaking the bank. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode, we're focusing on creating a peaceful home environment with your children. This can often feel challenging due to external stresses and the internal turmoil you might be experiencing. However, creating a calm and harmonious home is essential for your well-being, your children's development, and your overall mental health. A peaceful home leads to better communication, stronger family bonds, and a more positive atmosphere where everyone feels secure and supported. In this episode, I share some practical tips to help you cultivate a serene and balanced life for you and your kids, even amidst the chaos of everyday life. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's packed with practical tips to help you create a peaceful and balanced home environment for you and your children. As mentioned in the episode, check out Episode 370 - The Power of Praise. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I discuss a topic that many single mums can relate to: discontentment. This is a common feeling that you might recognise - there's so much on your shoulders: raising your kids, managing finances, balancing work and home life, dealing with an ex... The list is endless! All these pressures can leave you feeling unfulfilled, frustrated, and resentful. In this episode, I outline some causes of discontentment, strategies to deal with discontment, and ways to create a more positive and fulfilling mindset that will help you live your best life. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's packed with strategies and insights to help you address feelings of discontentment and create a more fulfilling mindset. Check out our past episodes and blog post on goals:  Setting goals as a single mum (Blog) Episode 88 - Goal setting for single mums Episode 414 - Setting and achieving mindset goals Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this week's episode, we're discussing the importance of setting and maintaining boundaries to protect your personal well-being. As a divorce and recovery coach, I often work with clients who find the concept of boundaries quite new and sometimes uncomfortable. In this episode, I'll explain what boundaries are, why they matter, and guide you through identifying areas in your life where boundaries might be needed. We'll also cover steps to establish healthy boundaries, how to overcome common challenges, and the long-term benefits of maintaining strong boundaries. I hope you find this episode really helpful. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to download the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's filled with practical tips and steps to help you establish and maintain healthy boundaries in your life. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

This week, we're focusing on a topic that's incredibly important for many single mums: overcoming career obstacles. Balancing the demands of parenting with professional aspirations can be challenging, but it's entirely possible to achieve your career goals with the right strategies and mindset. In this episode, we discuss five common career obstacles faced by single mums and provide practical ways to overcome them. Whether you're re-entering the workforce, seeking advancement, or pursuing a new career path, this episode is here to empower and support you on your journey. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's packed with practical tips and strategies to help you overcome career obstacles as a single mum and achieve your professional goals. Check out these podcast episodes to help you manage your time more effectively:  Episode 354 - How to manage your time as a single mum Episode 355 - Time-saving strategies for single mum life Episode 390 - How to stay focused to give you back more time Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today, we tacke a topic that's crucial for many single mums: smart shopping strategies. Managing a household budget on a single income can be challenging, but with the right strategies, you can stretch your budget and find some great deals. In this episode, I share practical tips and examples to help you save money while ensuring your family has everything they need. Whether you're looking for ways to cut down on grocery bills, find affordable clothing, or make the most of sales, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to discover smart shopping strategies that can help you save money and get great deals.  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today, we're exploring a topic that many single mums find both exciting and challenging: balancing romance and parenting. Even when you're in a relationship, balancing these two aspects can be difficult - let alone when you're doing it as a single mum! Managing the responsibilities of single motherhood is overwhelming enough, but it is possible to find harmony between romance and parenting. In this episode, I'll share some tips and insights to help you manage both areas of your life successfully. Whether you're in a relationship, considering dating, or simply curious about how to balance these aspects, this episode is for you. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get the free resource guide that accompanies this episode. It's full of practical tips on how to balance romance and parenting as a single mum. Don't miss out on this valuable resource! Check out these blog posts as mentioned in this episode:  How To Introduce Your Child To Your New Partner What you need to consider when introducing a new partner to your children Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today, we're diving into a powerful and inspiring topic: embracing empowerment and defying stereotypes as a single mum. Society often places unfair judgments and stereotypes on single mothers, but it's time to challenge these perceptions and redefine the narrative. In this episode, we'll discuss ways to overcome societal judgment, embrace your unique journey, and empower yourself to live confidently and authentically. Whether you're dealing with criticism or seeking to inspire others, this episode is for you. Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get our free resource guide accompanying this episode. It's packed with tips on how to embrace empowerment and defy stereotypes as a single mum. Don't miss out on this valuable resource! Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we delve into the unique dynamics of co-parenting in blended families. This often involves biological parents and their new partners (who might also be stepparents) working together to provide a stable and supportive environment for the children. While co-parenting in blended families can be incredibly rewarding, it also comes with its own set of challenges. Managing multiple households, maintaining consistency in parenting styles, and creating a harmonious environment requires extra effort and communication. Whether you're a biological parent, a stepparent, or part of a blended family, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you navigate your co-parenting journey including the 5 key aspects of successful co-parenting in blended families and 8 strategies for effective co-parenting in blended families.  Tune in to learn more and strengthen your co-parenting approach! Links mentioned in the episode:  Click HERE to get our free resource guide accompanying this episode. It's packed with practical tips and strategies for co-parenting in blended families. Don't miss out on this valuable resource! Check out our blog posts about co-parenting and having a parenting plan:  Five factors you need to consider in your parenting plan Building a better future: 20 co-parenting milestones to strive for Co-parenting with an ex who has a new partner Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we talk about how to make the most of the last three months of 2024. This time of year can be tricky and overwhelming with Christmas, school holidays, and end-of-year goals looming. Whether you're feeling stressed about achieving your goals or just looking for ways to finish the year strong, this episode is for you. Join me as we explore strategies to make the most of the remaining months of 2024. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to get practical tips on making the most of the last three months of the year. Check out these episodes for other helpful tips: Episode 379 - Family adventures for the holidays on a budget Episode 392 - The power of hope Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today, we're focusing on a crucial life skill: financial responsibility. Teaching children about money from an early age can set them up for a secure and successful future. In this episode, I share practical tips for instilling financial responsibility in your children. From understanding the value of money to saving and budgeting, these strategies will help your children develop healthy financial habits that will benefit them throughout their lives. Join me to learn how to equip your children with the knowledge and habits necessary for a secure financial future. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to get practical tips on teaching your children about financial responsibility.  Check out the following blog posts and episodes regarding money/finances: Episode 401 - Overcoming money blockers for single mums Blog posts:  The one financial improvement exercise that is better than the rest Four budgeting hacks for single mothers Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we're focusing on a crucial topic for many single mums: returning to work. The journey back into the workforce can be daunting, especially after a period of being out of the professional loop. But fear not! In this episode, I share eight comprehensive job search tips to help you navigate this transition smoothly and confidently. Whether you're re-entering the workforce after a few months or several years, these strategies will provide you with practical guidance and inspiration. Tune in to gain the confidence and tools you need to embark on this new chapter with ease. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to discover eight job search tips and recommended remote work job sites to help you transition back into the workforce with confidence.  Check out the following episodes mentioned in this episode:  Episode 390 - How to stay focused to give you back more time Episode 405 - Elaine Glass on finding the truth of who you are Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Today's topic is all about embracing fulfillment and purpose beyond being a mum. While being a mum is incredibly rewarding, it's also essential to nurture our own growth, healing, interests, and passions. In this episode, I share six practical ways to help you find and embrace fulfillment and purpose outside of your role as a mum. Join me to explore how to enrich your life beyond motherhood. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to discover six practical ways to find and embrace fulfilment and purpose beyond motherhood.  Check out the following episodes mentioned in this episode:  Episode 88 - Goal setting for single mums Episode 414 - Setting and achieving mindset goals Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode, I wanted to alert you to 10 dating red flags that are crucial for you to be aware of. For many, starting to date again is both exciting and daunting, especially if you haven't dated in years. It's easy to either expect the best of everyone or be overly cautious. Today, I'll help you identify potential red flags to avoid unhealthy dynamics in your new relationships. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode. Click HERE to get practical tips on identifying dating red flags and ensuring healthy relationship dynamics. Listen to Episode 367 - Love bombing... What is it? What are the signs to look out for? And why is it dangerous? Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

This week's episode is extra special as it marks the eight-year anniversary of the podcast! It's hard to believe we've reached this milestone - over 417 episodes later. I never imagined I'd be here eight years on, still sharing stories and advice with such a loyal community of listeners. Whether you've been with me from the start or you're new to the podcast, I'm truly grateful for your support. This podcast wouldn't be what it is today without you tuning in each week, leaving reviews, and sharing your thoughts with me. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey, and being a part of this community! I'm excited to have my husband on the show with me today interviewing me for this special milestone episode.  Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode, we're addressing a question that many single mums struggle with: "Who would want to date me?" This topic resonated deeply in our Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum, so I wanted to delve into it further in the podcast. In this episode, I share my personal experience and offer reassurance that feeling this way is completely normal. Join me to explore how to shift this mindset and open yourself up to the possibility of finding love and fulfilling relationships. It is possible! Tune in to listen! Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode. Click HERE to gain insights and strategies for shifting your mindset and opening up to new relationships.  Check out the blog post, Dating a Single Mum - From a Male Perspective! Listen to Episode 406 - Mel Wilson and Isabelle Richards on Parenting in Progress Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode, we explore the transformative power of positive affirmations. Positive affirmations are powerful statements that you affirm to yourself, shaping your thoughts, beliefs, and actions towards personal transformation. As a Certified Divorce Coach and Certified Transition and Recovery Coach, I often incorporate affirmations into my work with mums to support their journey. Today we look into how affirmations can help you achieve personal growth and overcome challenges and how to incorporate them into your day-to-day life. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of positive affirmations for your own transformation. Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode. Click HERE for the guide to learn how to harness the power of positive affirmations for personal transformation. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In today's episode of Single Mother Survival Guide, we dive into one of my favourite topics: mindset. I love discussing this with my coaching clients because it's such a powerful area of personal growth. Today, we're focusing on setting and achieving mindset goals. We'll define what mindset goals are, share concrete examples, explore tools and strategies for success, discuss common obstacles, and provide tips to overcome these challenges. Join me as I explain how to cultivate a resilient and positive mindset, set meaningful goals, and achieve them despite any hurdles that may arise. Tune in to discover how to transform your mindset and unlock your full potential! Links mentioned in the episode:  Don't miss out on our free resource guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to get practical tools and tips for setting and achieving your mindset goals. Episodes mentioned in the podcast:  Episode 88: Goal setting for single mums Episode 380: Navigating toxic positivity as a single mum Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

Please note this episode and topic may act as a trigger for some people, and this episode is not suitable to listen to within earshot of children. In this episode, we are joined by Wayne Holdsworth, who shares his heart-wrenching story and important mission. On Tuesday, the 24th of October, Wayne's life was forever changed when he discovered that his son, Mac, had taken his own life at home in Victoria. Faced with the unimaginable task of telling his daughter, Daisy, that her brother had died, Wayne has turned this personal tragedy into a powerful crusade to prevent suicide. Wayne is now dedicated to raising awareness about the alarming rates of suicide in Australia. Last year alone, 801 people took their own lives in Victoria, with more than 3,200 across Australia. Wayne points out that these numbers are on the rise, creating an epidemic that surpasses the impact of COVID-19 in its devastation. In honour of his son, Wayne founded the charity "Smack Talk" and now travels the country sharing his story. Through his talks, he educates parents and communities about the warning signs of suicide and provides essential tips for supporting mental health. Wayne's mission is to spread awareness, educate others, and offer practical advice on how we can all contribute to supporting children's mental health and recognising the signs of distress. We talked about:  Wayne's story about how his son passed. How Smack Talk was started after his son passed away. Statistics and the impact of social media to children's mental health and brain development. Reasons some kids take their lives. Sextortion in social media. How the government could be an ally in making legislative reforms on social media usage. Warning signs of suicide and tips for helping people. How we can help. I hope you find this episode not only inspiring, but also educational and informative as Wayne shares his invaluable insights and experiences. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help. Together, we can make a difference and support each other in preventing such tragedies. Links mentioned in the episode:  You can connect with Wayne Holdsworth on his Website and Instagram.  Other resources where you can find support:  Lifeline: 131 114 Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467    Sextortion: esafety.gov.au Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.  

In today's episode, we explore ways to stay connected to your young child, even when they are with their other parent. Maintaining a sense of connection while they are away can provide your child with a sense of security and stability, which is crucial for their emotional well-being. We discuss practical strategies for staying connected to children under eight, and I give you some tips that are easy to implement and effective in fostering a continuous bond. Whether it's through simple communication techniques or creative activities, these strategies will help you maintain a strong connection with your child, no matter the physical distance. Tune in to learn how to support your child's sense of security and keep the bond strong, even when they're with their other parent.  Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Don't miss out on our free guide accompanying this episode! Click HERE to get practical strategies for staying connected to your young child when they're with their other parent. Check out the blog post, The Best 5 Books for Children of Single Parents. Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we focus on improving intimate relationships, a topic that resonates with many of our listeners, especially single mums in new relationships, or those thinking about new relationships. Whether you're currently in a relationship, contemplating one, or envisioning a future partnership, this episode offers valuable insights.  Tune in to discover practical, research-based tools and strategies that you can start applying today. These tips are designed to help you foster a supportive and fulfilling relationship, no matter where you are on your journey. Don't miss out on this insightful episode that aims to empower and guide you towards better intimate relationships.

In today's episode, we delve into the misconceptions surrounding the transition period after a divorce or separation. This episode is dedicated to helping you understand and navigate these misconceptions with a healthier perspective. In this episode, I cover five common misconceptions about the transition of divorce, providing insights and practical advice on how to approach them more healthily. I also discuss how to avoid getting stuck in the transition period, and how to move forward with confidence and clarity. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of these misconceptions and learn strategies to handle the transition period more effectively. Whether you're in the midst of a divorce or separation, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights and support. Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Unlock valuable insights from today's episode with our free resource guide on navigating the transition of divorce. Click HERE to gain practical advice and support for your journey. Episodes mentioned in the podcast:  Episode 242 - Three common co-parenting styles Episode 289 - Six biggest mindset mistakes when getting divorced Episode 301 - Four biggest mindset mistakes that can affect your decision making Episode 353 - Four common co-parenting issues and effective strategies to set you up for success! Episode 389 - Navigating divorce with kids: 3 mistakes to avoid as a mum Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Daria, a single mum from Victoria, Australia. I love it when single mums come on the show to share their stories. It's incredibly powerful to hear other people's journeys. Stories, like Daria's, help women feel less alone, understood, and connected, fostering a sense of community. Today, Daria shares her story as a single mum, offering insights and inspiration to our listeners. Her story is a testament to the strength found in single motherhood. Join me for this very open chat as we dive into her journey and celebrate the incredible community of single mums. Tune in to feel connected and empowered by Daria's inspiring story.  Links mentioned in the episode:  You can connect with Daria on her Instagram. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of cultivating an abundance mindset for single mums. Mindset can profoundly impact our lives, shaping how we view the world, engage in self-talk, and form our core beliefs. Changing our mindset is hard work, requiring time, effort, and consistency, but it is one of the best gifts we can give ourselves. This shift also positively impacts our children, passing on the gift of positivity and possibility. While abundance may seem like an unrealistic dream due to the many challenges single mums face, an abundance mindset can shift perspectives and attract positive opportunities. We explore practical strategies for single mums to embrace an abundance mindset, leading to a life filled with joy, fulfilment, and prosperity. Tune in to learn how you can empower yourself and create a life you love.  Links mentioned in the episode:  Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Check out Episode 218 - Mindset Tool #1 Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Discover practical strategies to cultivate an abundance mindset as a single mum! Sign up HERE to get our free resource guide based on this insightful podcast episode. Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

This week on the show, I have Hannah Strong joining me. Hannah Strong is an industry expert, coach, and therapist, specialising in helping mums to support their children in the best way possible through divorce and throughout a childhood of growing up with separated parents - so their children do not just survive and get by, but thrive! She supports mums through her own framework which is not only based on the science of child brain development and Hannah's psychological knowledge as a therapist but also her own lived experience as a separated mum of two children.   Through Hannah's lived experience she personally understands the struggles of the mums she works with. Her passion for empowering children to thrive led to the creation of her own podcast and coaching programme known as My Thriving Child. In this episode, Hannah and I talked about:  Hannah's background and her single mum journey Attachment of children and its impact   Her experience working with mums who were separating Her drive to let her children thrive as they grow  Advice to single mums struggling to support their child during the co-parenting transition period Links mentioned in the episode:  You can connect with Hannah directly on her Website, LinkedIn and Instagram. The MyThrivingChild Podcast is also available on Apple Podcasts. Hannah's free transitioning between homes guide can be downloaded HERE.   Get Hannah's 7-step guide to helping your child cope with your divorce HERE. Download the E-book, I'm A Single Mum... Now What? - HERE. Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.

In this episode, I have Mel Wilson and Isabelle Richards joining me.  Mel Wilson has over 20 years of experience in broadcast, print and digital journalism, covering parenting, lifestyle, entertainment and news. She is an accomplished voice artist, co-host of The Juggling Act podcast and executive producer of true crime podcast My Father The Murderer, which has been nominated for multiple awards. Mel herself has been nominated for and won a number of career awards, including Podcast of the Year at the Ausmumpreneur Awards, Best Parenting Podcast at the Australian Podcast Awards, and Journalist of the Year and Executive of the Year at the Women in Media Awards. She's recently released her book, Parenting in Progress, a book of reassurance, advice and hilarious epic fails for parents and carers of toddlers to primary-school-aged kids, along with those from a diverse range of (celebrity) parents and carers, with a bit of guidance from experts thrown in. Isabelle Richards stars on Gogglebox Australia alongside her mum, Kerry, and her grandma, Emmie. Together, they showcase the power of multi-generational women's relationships and voices, now in the show's nineteenth season. As a contributing writer for Body+Soul, Mamamia, and Kidspot, Isabelle is passionate about exploring the unspoken truths about motherhood, love, and relationships. She thrives on sparking conversations that challenge social norms and inspire others to do the same. She is also an investor in social impact projects, driven by collaborative and purpose-driven thinking that fosters connection and social change.  Both Mel and Isabelle have lived experience of being single mums, and have now re-partnered. Isabelle also has a new baby with her husband, Alex. In this episode, we talked about:  Mel's book, Parenting in Progress, and why she wrote the book. Inspiring stories of single mums. Relationships and blended families. Remarrying and the role of men and step-fathers in the lives of children. Dating and navigating the challenges of step-parent relationships. Navigating the separation process and taking care of the children at the same time. Asking for help. Links mentioned in the episode:  To connect with Mel, check out her Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn. Check out her book, Parenting in Progress HERE.  To connect with Isabelle, check out her Website, LinkedIn and Instagram. Click HERE to join the free Facebook Group, The Single Mother Survival Guide Support Forum.  Click HERE to learn more about the Trauma coaching and support group program.  Join the Thrive Tribe waitlist HERE.  Check out Episode 307 - Asking for Help Previous episodes with Mel and Isabelle: Episode 82 - Editor of Kidspot Mel Wilson's Single Mum Story Episode 136 - Isabelle Silbery on becoming a single mum and the power of giving (Part 1) Episode 137 - Isabelle Silbery on becoming a single mum and the power of giving (Part 2) Episode 223 - Catching up with Isabelle Silbery Episode 306 - Out of the box, with Isabelle Silbery Download the E-book – Thirteen single mothers share their struggles, top tips, and their favourite things about being a single mother – HERE. To contact Julia, email: julia@singlemothersurvivalguide.com. Visit us at Single Mother Survival Guide. And join the email list there too. Or connect with Single Mother Survival Guide on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, or Pinterest.