The Boy Mom Podcast with Monica Swanson and Friends

Gather your kids and join Luke and I for part I of my summer Proverbs series!  The Book of Proverbs is packed full of wisdom and has incredibly practical help for all of the things kids (and adults) face today. The Swanson boys have all grown up reading a lot of Proverbs and it has shaped them into the (wise) young men they are today. In today's episode, Luke (19) updates us on his life as a professional surfer and college student, and then shares some of his favorite Proverbs, and how they have impacted his life. I hope your kids can join you to listen and be inspired.  Don't miss the free PROVERBS for LIFE Printable over on my website.  www.monicaswanson.com/proverbs-luke Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

I am so happy to be back with another monthly episode covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked!  Today we get to cover Chapter Three: Parentamorphosis. This is all about modeling an amazing life for your kids! We want so many good things for our kids' future: From a strong faith to a healthy lifestyle to a great marriage or success in their work.  And the best way to we can help our kids grow up to have all of these things is to model what it looks like to live them out.  We'll never get anything perfect, but we certainly can model a life of excellence and a humble spirit that keep seeking God's grace and direction!  So join Dr. Rick (“parenta-life coach”) and I for this important…possibly challenging episode.  I hope you are encouraged! Find a free download with a lovely printable of 1 Corinthians 11:1 over in show notes! www.monicaswanson.com/Raising-Amazing-3   Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Summer is a great time to help our kids develop spiritual habits that might stick with them through the year. But sometimes that is easier said than done, right? Steph Thurling, executive director of Christian Parenting, co-founder of Raising Prayerful Kids ministry, and super-fun mom is with us to offer some practical help!  Steph offers encouragement for every mom – the one who is new to faith (and prayer!) as well as the mom who is trying to get her kids on board with praying. I think you'll be inspired by what Steph shares and relieved that praying with your kids does not have to be complicated!  www.monicaswanson.com/Steph-Thurling Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

A lot of women trade in their personal passions and hobbies when motherhood takes over. Motherhood is so important and there is no doubt -- some seasons require just about all of us (right!?) Yet, what if we can be great moms, and nurture our creative side too? Ashlee Gadd is on the podcast today to give listeners permission to pursue their creative gifts alongside motherhood! And I think you're going to be inspired! Ashlee is the Founder of the very popular website: Coffee + Crumbs, and she is an incredibly gifted writer. (One of my favorites!) Her new book, Create Anyway: The Joy of Pursuing Creativity in the Margins of Motherhood is so good! In this interview you can hear some of Ashlee's personal journey -- finding the balance between motherhood and creativity, as well as some ideas for how we all might explore the gifts God has given us, even in the busiest of seasons! Find links and more over in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/Ashlee-Gadd Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Technology does not have to steal your summer! Every summer I hear from parents who are frustrated, trying to navigate screen time with their kids.  How much is too much?  How can we keep them safe? Why do we have to have these battles!?  I get it. And I'm here to help! I am sharing a blog post with 7 steps that literally could save your kids (and your sanity!) this summer. Over in show notes you'll find a printable checklist to use as you go through each of these steps.  I hope this is helpful and I am praying you have a wonderful summer with a little less stress over screens! Find a free download with the 7-Steps Checklist over in show notes! www.monicaswanson.com/seven-steps Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Join Monica for chapter Highlights and a free download! I am so excited to be back with another monthly podcast covering highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked!  Today we get to cover Chapter Two: Welcome Aboard: Lead Your Family on an Intentional Trajectory.   This has been a favorite chapter for a lot of people, as I get really practical about intentional family life. I talk about identifying your family's core values, considering your family's “brand” or “culture”, then putting things together in a Family Mission Statement. I talk about challenges or hard things families might face, and how that too, can shape us in unexpected, but beautiful ways. Find a free download of a Family Mission Statement Template over in show notes!   www.monicaswanson.com/Raising-Amazing-2   Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

The benefits of reading aloud, audio books, and so many inspiring tips and lists for you this summer! Sarah Mackenzie is with us today to talk about all things summer reading! Sarah is the author of Teaching from Rest and The Read-Aloud Family, and I have been a fan of Sarah's for many years. Sarah is so much fun to talk to, and an absolute wealth of information and inspiration when it comes to families and reading! In today's conversation Sarah offers some super motivating facts about the power of reading aloud, and tells us the best age-range for reading aloud (hint: no one is too old for read-alouds! - And my sons would agree!) Sarah gives some super helpful book recommendations (especially for middle-age boys who don't love to read!) and many more practical tips and resources for families and reading this summer. You might want to take notes on this episode (but I will also have a lot of links and notes over on my website…) www.monicaswanson.com/sarah-mackenzie Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

How understanding disabilities makes us better family, friends, and neighbors This is such a special conversation and I hope you can listen and share it with all of your friends. Laura Wifler of Risen Motherhood has so much profound wisdom and grace that will impact every listener! Laura is sharing from her experience raising a daughter with a rare chromosome disease, which led to her new children's book, Like Me: A Story About Disability and Discovering God's Image in Every Person. Laura offers heart-felt encouragement for those raising a child with a disability, and advice for how we might support others who are. I think this conversation is great for all of us and I pray it inspires great conversations in your own home!  Find links and show notes over at: www.monicaswanson.com/laura-wifler Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

What do Moms' need most?  Mother's Day flowers? Or chocolate? Or beautiful jewelry perhaps!?  Katie Lewis of the much-loved brand, Dear Mushka, is with us to talk about what moms truly need most! Katie shares some of the difficult story of tragically losing her mother, and through that finding God's Word to be her lifeline. Her brand, Dear Mushka, grew out of this experience.   Katie shares about her story and we agree that more than all the other stuff (as good as it is) what us moms need most is Truth from God's Word!   Katie is also offering podcast listeners a lovely Mother's Day giveaway, so be sure to go over to show notes to enter to win! And... visit dearmushka.com and use code: Monica for 15% off everything on the site! Show notes: monicaswanson.com/dear-mushka The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org   Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Questions and Prayers to prepare kids' hearts Tricia Goyer, author of a lot of books :), and Mom to ten (!!) is with me today to talk about her new book (co-written with Robin Jones Gunn) called “Before You Meet Your Future Husband: 30 Questions to Ask Yourself and 30 Heartfelt Prayers” Tricia shares from her own experience facing a teenage pregnancy, and how that shaped her heart to raise her own children.  Though the book we are drawing from is for girls/young women, (12 and up, approximately) we are applying this conversation to topics important to talk to our sons and daughters about. This may be a great episode to invite your teenager to join you for!  Notes and links found over on my website: www.monicaswanson.com/Tricia-Goyer Thank you to Artza Box for sponsoring this episode!  Use this link and CODE: BOYMOM25 for 25% off your Holy Land Subscription box (thinking Mother's Day gift idea!)  Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

I am so excited to be diving into the new monthly podcast feature where I am sharing highlights from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked! Today we get to cover Chapter One: All-In! – Fully Embrace Your Role as Parent.  This chapter opens with my scary experience of nearly losing my first son right after birth, as well as my honest experience with mommy-burnout. I talk about perspective, and how being all-in is a decision we make, not just a feeling we experience.  At the end I share 4 things being an all-in parent is not, and then I offer a long list of how we can show our kids that we are ALL-IN!  Find a link to get the full downloadable list of 25 ways to be all-in, over in my website show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/Raising-Amazing-1 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast This episode's Sponsor:  ARTZA BOX!  The quarterly subscription box from the HOLY LAND!!  You'll love it -- and it makes a great (Mother's Day!) gift!  (Use code: BOYMOM25 for 25% off!)    The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Hopefully you caught last week's episode where Megan Hyatt Miller gave us a little “Brain Science 101”.  We talked about what it means to “Mind Your Mindset” (from her book with that title!) and the three steps to embrace a better mindset. Understanding this process can be an absolute game changer for your business, family, and every area of life. In today's episode, Megan tells the story of her parenting challenges with two of her adopted sons, and how that led her to learning more about brain science. She offers encouragement for how we might change our parenting mindsets. Then she shares examples and steps to helping our kids recognize their own false narratives, and then rewrite their stories based on truth.  I love this topic so much and I think you'll find it helpful, practical, and empowering!    Find show notes and links at: www.monicaswanson.com/megan-hyatt-miller-2   Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Find Megan's free gifts and downloads at www.mindyourmindsetbook.com/monica   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

If you feel stuck in just about any area of life -- from parenting, to business or finances, to your health, this interview may be just what you need! Today I am talking with Megan Hyatt Miller  --  President and CEO of Full Focus, a best-selling author, and mom to 5 kids! Through challenges she faced after adopting two of her sons, Megan discovered life-changing truths about the power of our thoughts...and our ability to change our thoughts -- and therefore, our lives! Megan and her Father, Michael Hyatt, co-authored a book on this topic, titled: “Mind Your Mindset: The Science That Shows Success Starts with Your Thinking." Today Megan shares with us three simple, proven steps to rewire your brain for better thinking and the results you are looking for! I love how this topic aligns with the Biblical call to be "transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2).  Good news!!  -- Next week Megan will be back to apply these concepts specifically to parenting!  I hope you enjoy this episode, and you can find links to everything we talk about over in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/megan-hyatt-miller Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Tickets are available now for this weekend's Christian Parenting Digital Event: “EVERY PARENT WANTS TO KNOW” !  Link here or go to www.perfectlyimperfect.org/monica Find Megan's free gifts and downloads at www.mindyourmindsetbook.com/monica

Family life is busy, and parenting can be downright overwhelming. Oh how we need the sound wisdom of successful parents who are a step ahead of us to encourage us along the way. Today's guest, Miles Mettler is exactly that! Miles is an ambassador with Focus on the Family, and he has raised 4 amazing kids into adulthood. He has so much wisdom to share!  Miles is the author of 52 Parenting Principles: How to bring out the BEST in your kids which we are drawing from in this episode! In today's conversation Miles talks about the importance being intentional about listening to our kids, avoiding the lectures, (so hard!) being “disciplined in your discipline” and more. I found so many nuggets to hold on to in this episode, and I think you will too!  Find show notes with links over at:  www.monicaswanson.com/miles-mettler Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Raising Amazing book page: www.monicasawanson.com/raisingamazing   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org Will I see you at the Perfectly Imperfect “Every Parent Wants to Know” digital event on April 14th?  I hope so!  Sign up's are open and it is going to be SO GOOD! Use my link to get your tickets now: www.perfectlyimperfect.org/monica    

Welcome to the FIRST episode of my new monthly podcast feature where I'll be sharing highlights, nuggets, and free downloads and resources from my book, Raising Amazing: Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like Their Family, and Do the Dishes Without Being Asked. I am so excited to walk through these chapters with you on the last Wednesday of each month of 2023!  This might be a good time to gather some friends to meet up with each month for coffee + podcast listen to chat through the chapters of Raising Amazing! Today's episode is brief as I am sharing simply from the “note to readers” at the beginning of the book. This is about the heart of the book, including the title, subtitle, and what to expect. Also, I take a moment to speak directly to the Dads…as this book is for them as well! ☺   www.monicaswanson.com/Raising-Amazing-introduction CHARACTER TRAINING COURSE doors are open this week!  Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast the Perfectly Imperfect "Every Parent Wants to Know" Digital Event Tickets are now available at www.perfectlyimperfect.org/monica The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

We all want our kids to have good character, but we don't always consider how crucial character is to our kids' future success.  In today's interview, former multi-billion-dollar investment manager, Dennis Trittin, helps us connect the dots and find even more motivation for raising kids of character.  After over 30 years managing investments and studying successful leaders all over the world, Dennis shifted his focus to sharing what he had learned with the next generation.  Writing books and speaking to students, parents, and educators, Dennis is passionate about inspiring the next generation to embrace the kind of character that will help them get jobs, (and not get fired from them!) nurture healthy relationships, and live happy, fulfilling lives. Today we draw from his chapter on Character from his book, What I Wish I Knew at 18: Life Lessons for the Road Ahead. It is great timing for the conversation because next week, (Monday, March 27th- Friday, March 31st) the doors to my Character Training Course will be once again open!  See more and grab links below! www.monicaswanson.com/character-course TODAY'S EPISODE: www.monicaswanson.com/dennis-trittin Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Raising Amazing book page: www.monicasawanson.com/raisingamazing   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

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Crystal Paine, known for years as “The Money-Saving Mom” knows a thing or two about balancing time. Balancing a busy career with raising six kids, and being a passionate advocate for foster-and-adoption, Crystal is still able to prioritize her walk with God, her marriage, and…even some rest! In the midst of the busiest season of her life, Crystal was writing “The Time-Saving Mom: How to Juggle a Lot, Enjoy Your Life, and Accomplish What Matters Most”. She has lived her message and in today's conversation she shares more of her story and a few helpful tips and tools we can all put into practice right away.  I sure need this message and I think Crystal has encouragement for everyone who listens! Find links and listen at show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/crystal-paine Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Raising Amazing book page: www.monicasawanson.com/raisingamazing   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Today's guest has inspired me from a distance for a long time.  Greta Eskridge is a homeschool grad – and now homeschool Mom to 4, and she and I share a passion for offering our kids healthy adventures growing up! Greta has written two books about adventuring with kids, and her enthusiasm is contagious! If the idea of adventure sounds complicated, dangerous, or overwhelming to you, I think you'll be relieved by this conversation! Greta and I hope to inspire you to realize that adventure may be closer than you think, and it's definitely worth the effort to offer it to your kids!  Find show notes and links over at: www.monicaswanson.com/greta-eskridge Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Raising Amazing book page: www.monicasawanson.com/raisingamazing

Today our son Luke, (19) takes the microphone and interviews his parents!  Raising Amazing released on February 21st, and we are celebrating the release with a fun, but heart-felt conversation about the book. Luke asks us about the title (“Is Amazing a little over-the-top?”), the heart of the book, what Dave enjoyed about his first author-experience (and what was the hardest part) and more.  I hope you feel like you're at a release party and this interview should give you a little more insight into what you'll find in the pages of Raising Amazing.  Find links to order, leave an Amazon review (as soon as you read it!) and more in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/amazing-release-week Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Raising Amazing book page: www.monicasawanson.com/raisingamazing   The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Korie Robertson, author of Strong and Kind, and star of A&E's Duck Dynasty, joins us as we count down the final days to the release of my new book, Raising Amazing! Korie was so kind and generous to team up with me as the Foreward writer for the book, and I love sharing her heart for the message of Raising Amazing with all of you.  Korie has raised 6 children and is now entering the grandparent stage of life, and she has so much experience, wisdom, and healthy perspectives to share with parents. I think you will be encouraged by her stories and blessed by this conversation as well as her message at the beginning of the book!  Find links to all we talk about (including a link to get Korie's Foreward, AND the first chapter of Raising Amazing for free) in show notes!  www.monicaswanson.com/korie-robertson Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Don't miss my the pre-order bonus for Raising Amazing, available now! - Be sure to visit my new book page monicaswanson.com/raisingamazing to pre-order Raising Amazing so it will arrive at your doorstep on its release day, February 21st and get immediate access to my PRE-ORDER BONUS: 4 Interviews featuring my 4 sons!  In the interviews, my boys respond to questions sent in by podcast listeners and social media followers related to their faith, sibling relationships, what they like about their parents (!), birth order, and so much more.  These will be great for your kids to tune into with you!    The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Sean McDowell is an author, speaker, seminary professor, and father to teenagers! He has a heart to educate and empower students to think Biblically, communicate effectively, and stand strong in the midst of the noise of our world. Today we are chatting about Sean's most recent book: A Rebel's Manifesto: Choosing Truth, Real Justice, and Love amid the Noise of Today's World. This book is written for teens but I think parents will benefit from it greatly as well!  I have followed Sean for years, and before that I was already a fan of his father (Josh McDowell, evangelist and author of hundreds of books!) You can find links to Sean's Youtube channel and social media feeds where he shares helpful videos on topics related to our culture and faith in my show notes.    Show notes for this episode Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Don't miss my the pre-order bonus for my new book, Raising Amazing, available now! - Be sure to visit my new book page monicaswanson.com/raisingamazing to get access to Korie Robertson's Foreward and my first two chapters!!  Be sure to pre-order Raising Amazing for it to arrive at your doorstep on it's release day, February 21st and get immediate access to my PRE-ORDER BONUS: 4 Interviews featuring my 4 sons!  In the interviews, my boys respond to questions sent in by podcast listeners and social media followers related to their faith, sibling relationships, what they like about their parents (!), birth order, and so much more.  These will be great for your kids to tune into with you!  The Monica Swanson Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

Teens today are growing up in a confusing world, and they are facing things we couldn't have imagined when we were young. From mental health issues, to the internet (cyberbullying, access to pornography, and social media to name a few,) to vaping, increased suicide rates and more, it is not an easy time to navigate the teenage years.  Or to parent a teenager! Enter Jessica Peck! Jessica has a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree, she is a professor at Baylor, and she is a mom to FOUR teenagers!  In today's interview we cover topics from her incredibly helpful book, Behind Closed Doors: A Guide to Help Parents and Teens Navigate Through Life's Toughest Issues. I love Jessica's kind and humble heart and her passion for intentional parenting. I also appreciate the wisdom she has gained through a lot of experience quite literally, “behind closed doors.”  Please spread the word about this episode – No matter the age of your kids, these topics will be relevant eventually!  Find show notes and links to all we talk about: www.monicaswanson.com/jessica-peck   Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast   Don't miss my NEW PRE-ORDER BONUS!! - Be sure to visit my new book page monicaswanson.com/raisingamazing to get access to Korie Robertson's Foreward and my first two chapters!!  Be sure to pre-order Raising Amazing for it to arrive at your doorstep on it's release day, February 21st and get immediate access to my PRE-ORDER BONUS: 4 Interviews featuring my 4 sons!  In the interviews, my boys respond to questions sent in by podcast listeners and social media followers related to their faith, sibling relationships, what they like about their parents (!), birth order, and so much more.  These will be great for your kids to tune into with you!   

I am so excited to share this encouraging (and perhaps a bit convicting – in the best sort of way) – conversation with you! Abbie Halberstadt believes that Christ has so much more to offer you and your family than the empty validation of fist bumps for surviving another day that worldly culture bring to the table. Her book, M is for Mama, resonated with me deeply, and I am so glad I get to share her with all of you! Raising and homeschooling her ten kids (including two sets of identical twins—and that's a story of its own!) Abbie has hard-earned wisdom to share, as well as humor and grace. This was one of my favorite interviews ever! Find show notes and links to all we talk about: www.monicaswanson.com/Abbie-Halberstadt Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Don't miss my new Raising Amazing Preorder bonus!! Be sure to visit my new book page: monicaswanson.com/raisingamazing to get access to Korie Robertson's Foreward and my first two chapters!! Be sure to pre-order Raising Amazing for it to arrive at your doorstep on it's release day, February 21st, and get immediate access to my PRE-ORDER BONUS: 4 Interviews featuring my 4 sons! In the interviews, my boys respond to questions sent in by podcast listeners and social media followers related to their faith, sibling relationships, what they like about their parents (!), birth order, and so much more. These will be great for your kids to tune into with you!

If you want your family to have an amazing year ahead, this episode will give you some practical tools to help make that happen!  Emily Ley -- owner of Simplified Planners, best-selling author, and dedicated mom -- is with us to offer 5 ways to kick-start an amazing year ahead. (Personally,) I am a fan of starting off the new year slowly – taking my time to set goals and develop a vision for the new year. Whether you catch this episode in January or later in the year, the good news is, God's mercies are new every morning, and we can always regroup for a fresh start!   Check out Emily's beautiful new journal, Sure as the Sunrise: 100 Morning Meditations on God's Mercy and Delight in show notes! Find links to everything we talk about (as well as some notes from our chat!) in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/Emily-Ley Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Happy New Year and Welcome to the Monica Swanson podcast!  If you missed last week's episode, I hope you can go back and have a listen (it's SHORT!) In this new year I am rebranding the podcast with a new name and a broader scope, but the heart of the podcast has not changed.  I am SO excited to dive into some great topics and interviews ahead. (Also: Welcome to the girl moms joining us!) Today's interview is special for so many reasons. First, Wendy Speake was my very first guest over 3.5 years ago when I launched the Boy Mom Podcast; it only made sense she would also help me kick off this new season of the podcast!  Second, Wendy has a new book coming out this month which is so much of my heart for all of us this year.  The 40-Day FEAST is a follow up to her books, “The 40-Day Sugar Fast” and “The 40-Day Social Media Fast.” The Feast she is referring to is the kind where we consume God's Word…learning to read it, study it, and hide it in our hearts.  And friends: Living in this world today I cannot emphasize enough how important this is.  I am really excited about Wendy's new book and I am excited to feast on God's Word in the New Year alongside all of you!  (Deal?! Deal!). Find all of the links Wendy mentioned in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/Wendy-Speake-Feast Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

A New Season with Monica!  Happy New Year and Welcome to the Monica Swanson podcast!  For over 3.5 years I have been sharing episodes on the Boy Mom Podcast, and you can still revisit all 190 episodes any time. (I recommend you do! – there's some good stuff in there!) But in this new year and new season, we are broadening our scope (and welcoming our girl moms – and all of the dads!) as we rebrand as the Monica Swanson Podcast!! (imagine the confetti!) Today's very short episode is a quick intro to this new season as I talk about what you can expect and about how excited I am to be releasing my next book – Raising Amazing – on February 21st!   This podcast community has grown tremendously over the past couple of years with 1.7 million + downloads and so many new subscribers (hit the + to "follow"/subscribe!) and it is my heart to continue to serve you well.  I pray that you feel welcome here and I hope you will spread the word about the podcast with all of your family-loving friends!   Find links and show notes at:https://monicaswanson.com/monica-swanson-podcast-trailer/ Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Welcome to the FINAL episode of the Boy Mom Podcast!  Wait! Let me explain. Beginning next week (New Year's, 2023) this podcast will be called The Monica Swanson Podcast!  In this very special, final episode of the Boy Mom Podcast, I am sharing highlights from the final TWO chapters of Boy Mom! This wraps up my monthly series which began in January of 2022! If you've missed any of the previous book highlights, be sure to go back and catch previous episodes from the last Wednesday of each month of the year! This week we are talking about raising boys to embrace a solid worth ethic…how that begins in the home, and how we might motivate boys to be hard workers as they grow up!  After that we touch on the final chapter of Boy Mom, called “Ready, Set, Launch!”  This part brings up some emotions for me because it is a topic so near to my heart and also because this is the closing episode for the Boy Mom Podcast.  Oh, so many feelings!  Be sure to visit show notes to get the free downloads mentioned:  A list of “Life Skills by Age” as well as the “Boy Mom Manifesto”!  I pray you have enjoyed this series and I will look forward to doing a similar series highlighting chapters from my next book: Raising Amazing, which comes out on February 21, 2023!   www.monicaswanson.com/episode-190 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Merry Christmas!  Join Luke (18), Levi (12), and I for a Merry Christmas chat…and also catch up on Luke's world travels since he was last with us back in June.  If you're busy you can skip to 20 minutes for a brief Christmas greeting, but if you have the time/enjoy surf stories or listening to Luke (☺) then grab some cocoa and enjoy this conversation! (Your kids might enjoy it too!) Sending hugs and love to all of you and praying you have a most wonderful Christmas week ahead! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-189 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

True confession:  This is about the exact week when I typically find myself morphing from the happy, care-free, "I love Christmas everything!!!!" Mom, to the stressed out, feeling behind, "I just want to get Christmas over with" Mom.  Yep.  Anyone with me?  As much as I love (truly, adore!) this season, I have learned that Christmas can bring up all kinds of hard emotions and dashed expectations, leaving us moms weary and worn. If you relate to this a little or a lot, today's episode (a replay from 2020) is for you. Alexandra Kuykendall joins us today with such a refreshing, endearing message about Loving Your Actual Christmas. Drawing from her book (by that name ;)) Alex reminds us that Christ did not come for the people who have it all together (if such people even exist!) but for the weary, grieving, and hurting. He came for us real people who sometimes struggle our way through the holidays. When we don't have our act together, Jesus meets us in the most real way. Whether this Christmas finds you with joy and plenty, or grief and struggle (or any combination of things in between,) I think Alex's words about Jesus and Advent (and “Christmastide” – I learned something new!) will will be refreshing to your soul. www.monicaswanson.com/episode-188 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

I am so excited to share this special conversation with my (now, in-real-life) friend, Asheritah Ciuciu. Asheritah has been on the podcast before as we talked about her amazing Advent devotional, Unwrapping the Names of Jesus. Now, with a beautiful Children's Book newly released, Asheritah joins me to talk about the power of sharing our own stories with our kids, as we point to what Jesus has done in our lives. I loved learning a bit more about Asheritah and her husband (both Romanian) and the amazing things God has done in their lives. In this busy holiday season, I believe this conversation will be a blessing and so inspiring!  I hope you love it as much as I have! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-187 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast  

In this episode we are talking about how we can approach the topic of dating and relationships as our sons grow up. I talk about how we have handled things with our sons, focusing on Biblical values and wisdom principles, not a set of rules. I share some resources we use for teaching our kids about sexuality, and the importance of having many conversations about even the awkward topics as our kids grow up. Many more highlights found in this episode and in Chapter 12 of Boy Mom. Be sure to get the free printable download: "Before He Asks Her Out" (a list of questions to go over with your son when he feels he is ready to date) in show notes:  www.monicaswanson.com/episode-186 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast      

Today I am sharing a podcast episode that could transform your holiday season…maybe even your whole life.  Seriously, that's a big claim, but have a listen and I think you'll agree — it's that powerful. I'm so happy to bring back this conversation I had with Kate Merrick in 2019.  If you aren't familiar with Kate yet, you'll fall in love with her quickly.  In this episode I get to tell the funny story of how Kate and I met, and all of the wild ways our lives now intersect.  Kate shares her story of embracing presence in the hardest season of her life and how much she does not regret that now. Friends, this episode is both convicting, and inspiring.  I hope you can dive in and listen! And then go have a wonderful Thanksgiving and holiday season! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-185 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

If you're like me, you always intend to keep the holidays Christ-centered, but in reality it isn't easy. In the busyness of the holidays, we often finish the Christmas season feeling defeated and depleted. Today's guest, Ruth Chou Simons knows the hectic nature of the holidays; raising 6 sons and running a retail business that is thriving over the holidays, the Simons family has to be intentional to keep Christ at the center.   Pour a cup of coffee (or some holidays cider!) and join Ruth and I as we talk about family traditions, (or lack of!) our shared love for raising boys, and how we can all set our hearts on Jesus during the holidays, and beyond! Find links to Ruth's gorgeous Christmas devotional and all the things we talk about over in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-184 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Come join this conversation about setting healthy boundaries, which seems especially timely as we head into the holiday season. Boundaries can be challenging – in marriage, in family, work, church, and all relationships.  Lysa Terkeurst, best-selling author and founder of Proverbs 31 ministries, joins us to talk about a biblical understanding of boundaries. She offers helpful guidelines for recognizing when and where we need to set boundaries, and she shares a bit of her own difficult story that led her to this topic. She also brings the concept home with some relatable (and fun) illustrations. Lysa and I talk about modeling boundaries for our kids and how we need to practice our own good boundaries as our kids grow into adulthood (gulp). I think you'll find a lot of wisdom and practical encouragement in what Lysa shares.  Find show notes and links to all that we talk about on my website: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-183 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

This week's guest ushers us into the holidays with wisdom, grace, and laughter.  Grab a cup of coffee and join Lana Stenner and I for a fun chat about raising goats and chickens, the joy of grown kids who still gather around the table, and perspectives that will lead us into the holidays embracing a slower, simpler rhythm. (How good does that sound!?) Lana Stenner is a homesteading, goat-and-chicken raising, garden-growing mom who doesn't take herself too seriously. Her new book, The Grace-Filled Homestead is irresistible, with the most beautiful photos, delicious recipes, helpful household tips, and wisdom from the farm. In today's episode we talk about Lana's journey to becoming a homesteader, family lessons she has learned, and wisdom for facing the holidays in the midst of busy family seasons. Lana also shares about her brain tumor diagnosis, and how that impacted her in the middle of writing a book.  I hope this interview will be a breath of fresh air to you as you enter the holiday season! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-182 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

This is the 10th part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 11 – A Lot Going On. In this chapter I focus on the things we can do as parents to prepare our sons for an emotionally healthy future. I talk about the importance of an emotional vocabulary, how to communicate with our sons about their feelings, and the surprising value of family togetherness. I talk about how we might model emotional resilience, even when we are feeling stressed or anxious. I cover many ways we can equip our sons with coping skills for emotional health – from self-awareness to understanding an internal locus of control. We talk about navigating hard times (including depression, anxiety, and bullying) and the importance of teaching our boys to get help when they need it!  There is a lot in this chapter, and as always, I am offering a free printable download: Dinnertime conversation starters for your family! Find more in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-181 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

“Live your truth,” “Follow your heart”, “God wants you to be happy”…the list goes on of popular cultural messages that sound so good…but do not line up with Scripture. As harmless as these memes and messages may seem, they have great potential to lead our kids down a very dangerous path. These cultural messages are not only all over on social media and the world of entertainment, but many of them have found their way into Christian communities.   Alisa Childers, once known for her role in the popular Christian band, ZOEgirl, now spends her time writing and speaking on the topic of apologetics. In her recent book, Live Your Truth and Other Lies, Alisa uncovers the most common lies our kids are being raised with. Many of these lies are candy-coated with just enough truth that we often don't recognize them. In today's interview, Alisa tackles some of the most common lies our kids are being confronted with and offers us some helpful perspectives and talking points so that we might teach our kids the Truth. I can't think of a more important tool for our kids than the ability to compare cultural messages to God's Word. Alisa is so helpful on this topic, no matter what age your children, I think you'll get a lot out of this interview! Find show notes and links to Alisa's books in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-180 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast  

This is an episode I have been so excited to share! I begin with a few announcements, one of which is about a big decision I am asking for your help with (see link to a short survey in show notes!) With my new book, Raising Amazing, coming out in February, I will also be making some changes in the podcast.  I can't wait to share them with you! Next I dive into as many questions from podcast listeners as I can. I cover everything from helping a tween/teen to take responsibility for things to working moms and time management, to a teenager struggling with his faith. I think there is something in this one for everyone. I hope you enjoy! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-179 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast Take short survey HERE and be entered to win a giveaway! 

Life can be incredibly challenging, and pain and suffering are a part of the human experience. (I wish they were not.) We will all face difficult times, and when you are a parent, the way you respond to difficulties has an impact on the generations that follow you. Today's guest, Nicole Jacobsmeyer has faced her fair share of difficulties. From being a medical residency spouse (that's hard, I know from experience!) to miscarriage, to cancer – all in a short time frame with three little boys in her care. Though Nicole has battled depression and hopelessness, her faith and her kids have inspired her to choose purpose and joy in the midst of hard seasons. In her brand new book: Take Back Your Joy, Nicole shares the hard and vulnerable parts of her story, while encouraging readers to face their own battles with supernatural faith.  Whatever season you are in, I think you'll feel like you've found an honest friend in Nicole!  Find out more and get links over in show notes… www.monicaswanson.com/episode-178 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

This is the ninth part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 10 – Body Wise. This chapter covers some of the ways we can help our boys to grow up to be active, healthy, and motivated to take care of themselves for a lifetime.   When our kids are young they depend on us for all of their health choices, and that is no small responsibility. As they grow up, we can still teach and coach and guide them in their decisions. I share some of the ways Dave and I have done this with our boys and things I've learned from friends who have navigated: overweight kids, picky eaters, and all the rest! I hope this offers you some food for thought (haha, catch that?) and maybe springboards you into some good conversations with your family about health…now and in their future! Be sure to check show notes for all of the links I mention, and a free download with some “boy-approved” (healthy-ish) foods we try to keep on hand for our boys!   www.monicaswanson.com/episode-177 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast  

This week I am bringing back an episode from the past on a topic that is on a lot of parents' minds. I get asked about kids and video games, a lot, and have never felt qualified to give a comprehensive answer.  We are not much of a video game family, but I am not fully anti-video game, either.  So, I have always wanted to bring someone on who has an educated, balanced approach.  Boy did this conversation exceed my expectations!! Liz Busby, a researcher and writer for the Protect Young Minds website (now called, "Defend Young Minds",) a dedicated mom to four, and an enthusiastic gamer herself, 

I hear from a lot of parents who want to raise their kids to know and love God's Word but are afraid of pushing too hard, or worried their kids might rebel against church and faith. My oldest son, Josiah (23) joins us today to share his faith journey, from his earliest years, through some years of doubt and questioning, and on to where he is today: A young man who loves God and cherishes the Word of God. Josiah answers questions sent in by listeners, including how he suggests responding to a teenager who doesn't want to go to church, as well as a couple questions about choosing colleges. Find links to things Josiah and I mention over in show notes, and follow Josiah on his European travels on his Instagram feed! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-175 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

None of us want to imagine our kids carrying emotional baggage into adulthood, but…it happens.

This is #8 of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 9 – Inspiring Young Minds! This chapter is all about motivating boys to learn and helping them discover what will fuel their soul (and hopefully stick with them into adulthood!) We cover a lot in this episode – from creating a rich learning environment in the home, to small shifts that might help kids learn better (getting some fresh air, stand-up for math!? and more!) We also talk about the importance of introducing kids to a variety of sports and activities, and allowing them to discover their passions at their own pace… I love this topic and I hope you do, too! Be sure to check show notes for all of the links I mention, and a free download with conversation starters for fostering a growth mindset in your kids! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-173 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

This is part II of a listener-favorite conversation with David Thomas which first aired nearly two years ago! In these episodes we are drawing from a book that David co-authored: “Are Your Kids on Track: 12 Emotional, Social, and Spiritual Milestones Your Kids Needs to Reach.” David's insights and experience from counseling are relatable and encouraging! This week we are talking about 4 social milestones our sons need to reach, as well as the main stumbling blocks that get in the way. (If you missed it, be sure to go back to last week's conversation about the 4 emotional milestones!) I think you'll end this conversation with some new tools and inspiration to help make sure your son is on track socially! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-172 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

This week and next I am sharing listener favorite-conversations with David Thomas which first aired nearly two years ago. David is a counselor at Daystar Counseling Center in Nashville, TN., and the author of several books. In these episodes we are drawing from his book: “Are Your Kids on Track: 12 Emotional, Social, and Spiritual Milestones Your Kids Needs to Reach.” David's insights and experience from counseling are relatable and so helpful! This week we are talking about 4 emotional milestones our sons need to reach, as well as the main stumbling blocks that get in the way. Next week we'll tackle 4 social milestones. I think you'll end this conversation with some new tools and inspiration to help make sure your son is on track emotionally! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-171 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

My 2nd son Jonah, (21) joins us to chat about his first two years of college, and the years leading up to that. From being homeschooled, to taking a gap year, to navigating friend groups, spiritual questions and more – we cover a lot! This is a great episode for high school kids to listen to. Jonah offers encouragement for securing your identity before college, knowing what you believe, and making your college (or wherever you launch to) feel like “home”! I love what Jonah shares and I chime in as well to give a Mom's perspective on many of the topics we cover. Please share this with friends who are nearing or in this season of life!  Thank you for listening.  Find links to things Jonah and I mention in show notes! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-170 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Jordan Raynor has always been passionate about creativity and productivity, and he's written a number of best-selling books on these topics. In his new book, The Creator in You, Jordan's goal is to inspire our children to start young!  He helps kids to understand that work existed from the very beginning – even before sin entered the world...He reminds kids that God is a creative, working God, who invites them to create alongside Him! Jordan and I talk about work as a spiritual theme, how we as parents can inspire our kids to value work, and the role of chores and doing hard things. If you have little kids, this is a must listen. But for all of us, this conversation should inspire an appreciation for all the work we do (Motherhood counts!) and encourage us to raise our children to dream, create, and work hard, all to God's glory. Links and my own list of books to inspire kids to work in show notes: www.monicaswanson.com/episode-169 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast    

This is the seventh part of the 2022 monthly feature on the podcast, covering the “12 Things Your Son Needs Most from You” from my book, Boy Mom. Today I am sharing some snippets from Chapter 8 – Navigating the Digital Age. There is a lot to cover, but I think this is one of the greatest parts of our job as parents in today's world! Be sure to check show notes to find two free downloads: A Technology Contract, and a list of helpful resources! (filters and accountability software.) I hope this episode encourages and equips you to raise your son to grow up with a healthy relationship with technology! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-168 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast

Amy Gannett of Tiny Theologians has inspired me with her incredible knowledge of Scriptures and her heart to bring up children who know and love God's Word.  Many people have ideas about who God is – based on their feelings or wishes, or what the culture has to say (scary!) But our kids need to know who God says He is, and what He says about them!  Amy creates resources to share Truths from Scripture, and practical ways we can teach our children to be…tiny theologians. Be sure to check show notes to get links to follow Amy, order her darling new board books, and more! www.monicaswanson.com/episode-167 Podcast page (for all episodes) www.monicaswanson.com/podcast