Three Shades Of Grey

What happens when your non-monogamy is no longer a secret? In this episode, we go deeper with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast to unpack the emotional journey of being outed to their church (and family)—and how they handled it with grace, honesty, and strength. We share our own fears around exposure and talk about how to prepare for conversations you might never want to have. Whether you're out loud or staying low-key, this episode is filled with tools, perspective, and solidarity. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website We Gotta Thing | Mr. & Mrs. Jones Desire Riviera Maya Pearl  

In this double bonus episode of Three Shades of Grey, Anthony shares the summer plans for the crew and takes you inside his first-ever Splash Mocha, an interracial and hot wife hotel takeover in Atlanta, Georgia. While he couldn't make it with his wife Pinky or girlfriend Ava (thanks to #MomLife and a preference for smaller scenes), he experienced it all with his babygirl, Bree. Anthony sits down with Socrates of The Bull Brotherhood and Michael C. of Keys and Anklets to unpack their Splash Mocha experiences, the interracial hotwife lifestyle, and their perspectives as podcasters in the space. Real talk, real connections—don't miss it!

The girls are back in their jammies and this time they've brought a special guest—Dragonfly returns for another round of real, raw, and playful conversation. In this episode, Pinky, Ava, and Dragonfly dive deep into the delicious topic of pleasure: from the power of self-connection to the fun of toys, and why prioritizing intimate time with yourself is more than just self-care—it's self-celebration. So grab your favorite toy (or take notes for later), because after this episode, you won't have homework… you'll have homeplay.  LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Dragonfly Somatic Wellness SOCIALS:  Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram Dragonfly's Instagram  

In this powerful episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with the incomparable Cindy Gallop—advertising icon, entrepreneur, and founder of the groundbreaking platform MakeLoveNotPorn (https://makelovenotporn.tv). Known for speaking boldly about sex, Cindy shares how she “accidentally” got into porn—not the industry, but the mission to revolutionize how we think about it. Dating younger men led Cindy to discover a troubling gap between porn fantasy and real-world sex. Frustrated by the lack of practical, healthy sex education, she took action by launching MakeLoveNotPorn—a site that showcases real people having real sex, for the purpose of education, not titillation. We dive into:     •    Cindy's origin story and what inspired her to create a sex-positive business     •    The disconnect between mainstream porn and intimate reality     •    The role of MakeLoveNotPorn in normalizing open conversations around sex     •    How we can all be part of changing the narrative This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about sextech, intimacy, and reshaping the way we talk about sex in the digital age. Click Here For A Special Offer!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Make Love Not Porn | Website Cindy's Viral Ted Talk | YouTube Make Love Not Porn Academy SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram Cindy's Twitter (X.com)  

In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby, one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers, the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer. We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what he's observed in the lifestyle over the years, from shifting dynamics to evolving community norms, and sprinkles in some hilarious and heartwarming stories along the way. Whether you're a seasoned vet or just curious about dipping your toes in, this episode offers a fun and entertaining peek into one of the best hotel takeovers in the scene. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers EROTICON 2026 | August 6-9, 2026 SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram

In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party, we welcome back relationship coach Elizabeth Cunningham for a deep and juicy conversation about eroticism and pleasure. Elizabeth reminds us that eroticism isn't just about sex — it's about the full range of aliveness, desire, and connection in our lives. Together, they explore how to tap into your wants and needs, whether in polyamory, sexually, or in other parts of your relationships. Plus, Elizabeth, Pinky, and Ava offer practical ideas for asking for (and getting!) what you want. If you've ever struggled to express your desires or felt unsure about navigating pleasure with multiple partners, this one's for you! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Elizabeth Ann Cunningham | Website Miss Jay | Erotic Blueprints How To Have Difficult Convos | Website Ro Moed | Writer & Relationship Coach

What happens when a triad and a quad walk into a podcast?  You get one unforgettable conversation full of laughs, insight, and lifestyle realness. In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with two incredible couples in the non-monogamy space—Swinky Life and The Accidental Swingers—to explore what it really means to be polyamorous. From love and labels to communication, compatibility, and the beautiful messiness of human connection, this is the kind of episode that goes way beyond the surface. We talk about:    •    Navigating poly dynamics as couples and groups     •    Dealing with jealousy, growth, and unexpected feelings     •    How each couple defines “poly” in their own lives     •    The power of community and authentic connection Whether you're new to polyamory or living the life out loud, this episode is full of real talk, hard truths, and hilarious moments you won't want to miss. #ThreeShadesDeeper #WhatDoesItMeanToBePoly #AccidentalSwingers #SwinkyLife #ThreeShadesOfGreyPodcast #Polyamory #NonMonogamy #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestylePodcast #RealRelationships #SexPositiveCommunity

In this episode, we sit down with the incredible Dragonfly Lee and her partner E from Pure Orgasmic Love, two passionate guides in the realms of non-monogamy, somatic work, and holistic intimacy. Pinky first connected with Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins, and it was clear from the start that her energy and depth of experience needed to be shared with our community. In this conversation, Dragonfly opens up deeply about her personal journey — from navigating health challenges to embracing a life of embodied pleasure and conscious connection. E adds his own thoughtful insights, sharing how they work together to help people rediscover intimacy, trust, and empowerment in their relationships. We explore the origins of Pure Orgasmic Love, the transformative power of somatic practices, and how they hold space for individuals and couples to step into their fullest, most authentic selves. With moments that are playful, vulnerable, and deeply educational, this episode is a beautiful reminder of how our personal healing journeys can lead to expansive love lives. Plus, Dragonfly and E are offering a special gift just for our listeners! Check out the exclusive offer linked below. SPECIAL OFFERS:  Hearts and Hips Membership. Use the code "3SHADES" for 30% off the first month; after a 2 week trial. Free Guided Audio with Dragonfly LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Pure Orgasmic Love Naughty N'awlins Erotic Blueprints and Breakthrough with Miss Jaiya SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

In this special International Women's Day episode, Pinky and Ava welcome a friend of the show, the one and only Chocolate Fox! She's a slightly sadistic, top-leaning Domme/switch, a swinger, and proudly poly—so you know this conversation is going to be deliciously dynamic. Together, they dive into the world of BDSM, busting myths, sharing practical advice, and sprinkling in their own spicy stories along the way. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just curious, this episode has something for everyone—especially if you've ever wondered what it really means to be a switch, how power exchange works, or why consent is the ultimate key to pleasure. Get ready for an episode filled with laughs, insights, and just the right amount of sadistic charm. Press play and let's get kinky!

In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we dive into the world of relationship coaching—especially for those navigating non-monogamy. Our guest, Elizabeth Cunningham, is a relationship coach, speaker, and polyamory educator who has helped countless people create thriving, authentic connections. We explore the real benefits of coaching, from gaining clarity in your relationships to handling challenges with confidence. Elizabeth also shares tips on how to find the right coach, what to look for, and how coaching can be a game-changer in non-monogamous dynamics. Plus, we inject some humor and spice along the way—because deep conversations don't have to be dry. Ready to level up your relationships? Elizabeth is offering our listeners the first module of her How to Have Difficult Conversations course. Don't miss out! Check out Elizabeth's work and claim your free course module by clicking HERE  LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Elizabeth Cunningham | Website SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

In this episode we sit down with Ava's new partner, Ramone, to explore his journey through non-monogamy. Ramone had always identified as strictly polyamorous, but meeting Ava introduced him to new experiences, including his first sex-positive event. We dive into Ramone's past relationships, his perspective on polyamory before Ava, and how stepping into a more open, play-oriented space challenged and excited him. Plus, we hear about his first impressions of finally meeting Anthony and Pinky in person. Join us for a candid conversation about evolving relationship styles, exploring new spaces, and what happens when love meets adventure. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website The Ethical Slut | Third Edition Splash Mocha SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

In this episode of Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party, we're stripping away the negativity and celebrating body positivity! From embracing our unique shapes to shutting down unrealistic beauty standards, we're diving deep into self-love, confidence, and owning every part of ourselves. Join us as we share personal stories, challenges, and tips on how to feel good in your skin—because every body is a beautiful body. So grab your favorite pajamas and let's get comfy with some real talk about loving ourselves just the way we are! #BodyPositivity #SelfLove #PinkyAndAvasPajamaParty #ConfidenceIsSexy

Three Shades Deeper: Exploring Intimacy with Beth Darling Welcome to the debut episode of Three Shades Deeper, a new segment where we take an even more intimate look at love, sex, and connection. Our first guest is Beth Darling—author, coach, and speaker—who delves into the nuances of intimacy, sharing insights from her book, The 5 Kinds of Intimacy: How to Keep Your Love Alive. Beth's journey from a former divorce lawyer to a passionate advocate for deeper, more fulfilling relationships offers a unique perspective on cultivating lasting connections. Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore what true intimacy means, how to nurture it in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, and why great sex starts long before the bedroom. Whether you're looking to strengthen emotional bonds, reignite passion, or navigate new dynamics, this conversation is one you won't want to miss. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Beth Darling | Website (Promo Code: 3SHADES) 5 Love Languages | Gary Chapman Splash Takeovers SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

Compersion—the warm, fuzzy feeling of joy when your partner experiences pleasure with someone else—is often called the “opposite of jealousy.” But what does it really mean, and how do you cultivate it in your non-monogamous relationships? In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava dive into the concept of compersion; sharing personal stories, insights, and practical tips on how to navigate this unique emotion. They discuss:     •    What compersion is (and what it isn't)     •    The role of compersion in different types of non-monogamy     •    How to develop compersion if it doesn't come naturally     •    Common challenges and how to work through them     •    Real-life experiences of feeling (or struggling to feel) compersion Whether compersion flows easily for you or feels like a work in progress, this episode offers perspectives to help you explore and deepen this often-misunderstood aspect of non-monogamous relationships. LINKS: More Than Two (2nd Edition) Inside Out 2 Discipline Equals Freedom | Jocko Willink Naughty N'awlins SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram  

Vulnerability is often seen as a risk, but in non-monogamy, it can be the key to deeper connection, trust, and growth. In this episode, Pinky & Ava explore what it means to be vulnerable in relationships that challenge traditional norms. Join us for an honest and raw conversation about the power of being “bare and unbound.” Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned pro, this episode will inspire you to embrace the beauty of being truly seen. Tune in now and let's get vulnerable! SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram    

In this episode, Anthony, Pinky, and Ava recap their unforgettable holiday bowling event.  From Pinky becoming part of a couch (à la Half-Baked) to Ava offering herself as tribute (à la The Hunger Games); we're sharing all the highlights (and strikes) from the night. We also take a look back at our journey over the past year, reflecting on the incredible moments, lessons learned, and growth we've experienced. Plus, we're sharing a sneak peek at what's to come for the podcast and our adventures in non-monogamy. A heartfelt thank you to everyone who has supported us along the way—you've made this journey so much more special. Tune in for laughs, insights, and a toast to the future! Listen now and join the conversation! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website More Than Two | Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin Exxxotica Expo Naughty N'awlins Three Shades Of Grey (Episode 6) Splash Takeovers Life Of Spice UpsideDown Creations | Instagram We Gotta Thing Podcast Normalizing Non-Monogamy Hump Day Quickies [sic] Confessions Splash Mocha Southwest Love Fest Eroticon 2026 SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Get ready for laughs, gasps, and maybe a few “Ohhhhhs” in this month's episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party! Ava drops a bombshell that she's been holding onto for way too long—like, years-long—and it's all about orgasms (yes, those orgasms). We dive deep into Ava's revelation, unpacking the hilarity, the honesty, and the sheer audacity of keeping a secret this big. Did Pinky see it coming? (Spoiler alert: absolutely not.) Join us as we talk about the Big O, the small lies we tell ourselves, and why Ava's secret is the ultimate plot twist. It's a juicy mix of real talk, belly laughs, and a reminder that even in non-monogamy, there's always something new to learn…or confess. Warning: Listening may cause spontaneous giggling and side-eyeing your partner. Tune in now—because the truth has never been this orgasmically funny! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Psychology Today | "The Case of the Female Orgasm," Revisited Mama Gena | Website SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

In this episode of Anthony, Pinky, & Ava dive into the concept of polysaturation—the moment when managing multiple partners in non-monogamy becomes overwhelming. While love and connection are infinite; time, energy, and emotional capacity are not. Join us as we break down three concerns surrounding polysaturation:     1.    Time Management     2.    Emotional Burnout     3.    Relationship Quality vs. Quantity Through personal anecdotes, practical tips, and heartfelt advice, we explore how to recognize the signs of polysaturation, the benefits of setting limits, and strategies to maintain healthy, fulfilling connections. If you've ever felt like your calendar is bursting or your emotional bandwidth is maxed out, this episode is for you. Learn how to navigate the delicate balance of love, time, and energy in your non-monogamous journey. Tune in now and take a step toward a more intentional love life! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website More Than Two | Franklin Veaux Open Deeply | Kate Loree Splash Takeovers | The Premier Couples Event SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram  Ava's Instagram TikTok

In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party, the tables are turned as Ava steps boldly into the spotlight. She's on the prowl, and her latest adventure leads her to an unexpected discovery: someone who speaks Pinky! What does it mean to "speak Pinky"? Ava reveals how she navigated this surprising connection and what made her sit up and take notice. Meanwhile, Pinky offers her perspective on this unique dynamic and how it feels to be understood in such a personal way. Join us for laughter, revelations, and a story that's sure to entertain.  This episode is full of heart, humor, and the unexpected. Don't miss it! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Feeld | A dating app for the curious Splash Takeovers Naughty N'awlins Haulover Beach Mama Gena Normalizing Non-Monogamy Mel Robbins | 9 Small Things.... Victoria's Secret | Beauty Daisy | Marc Jacobs SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Slumber party, anyone?  In this episode, we're diving into one of the more complex aspects of non-monogamous relationships; sleepovers!!! Spending the night can bring up a range of emotions, from excitement to anxiety, and we're here to explore it all. We'll look at how sleepovers impact feelings like jealousy, security, and connection, along with the unique pros and cons they bring. While they can deepen bonds with other partners, they also come with challenges like balancing time, handling communication, and respecting boundaries.  We'll share personal stories and insights on how we've navigated the highs and lows, offering a real look into the realities and rewards of non-monogamous sleepovers. From swapping PJs to navigating morning routines with new faces, we've got all the playful, awkward, and heartwarming stories covered. Tune in to see how we keep it fun (and drama-free!)  Grab your snacks and listen now!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Hitachi Magic Wand | Website "Intimacy Is About Truth..." quote | Taylor Jenkins Reid  "Intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me'- that's intimacy." Taylor Jenkins Reid, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo "It Is Not Sex..."quote | Marge Piercy "It is not sex that gives the pleaure, but the lover" Marge Piercy, Gone To Soldiers SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram  Ava's Instagram TikTok

Love, freedom, and maybe just a dash of “did we call it or what?” are all on the table in this juicy episode!  After leaving the non-monogamous world to pursue love in a monogamous relationship, PD/Nirvana Lover is back—and let's just say, Ava and Pinky couldn't be happier!  This shared partner of theirs isn't just making a return to the lifestyle; he's back where he belongs, rekindling connections and rediscovering the magic of non-monogamy. What was it about monogamy that lured him away, and what did he miss about the lifestyle? How does it feel to be welcomed back by two excited partners who aren't shy about letting him know he's been missed? Pinky and Ava; with help from Anthony ask the tough (and tempting!) questions as they dive into Nirvana Lover's journey.  Expect laughs, insights, and a bit of heat in this playful and heartfelt reunion. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Normalizing Non-Monogamy | Emma and Fin Splash Takeovers Exxxotica Expo | Website Life Of Spice | Website SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram  TikTok

In this episode, Pinky and Ava dive into the Netflix series Nobody Wants This, a romantic comedy that follows the unlikely connection between an atheist sex podcaster and a Jewish rabbi. From quirky mishaps to heartfelt moments, the show navigates the challenges and joys of balancing differences in lifestyle, belief, and love. Join Pinky and Ava as they break down how they relate to the characters' struggles, surprises, and laughter-filled moments. They share their own experiences that resonate with the series' themes and explore how it captures the complexities of modern relationships, offering a fun yet thoughtful look at love beyond traditional boundaries. Stick around til' the very end for a sultry poetry reading by Pinky of Ev'yan Whitney's I Am A "Too Much" Woman. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Netflix | Nobody Wants This Armchair Expert Podcast Ev'yan Whitney | I Am A "Too Much" Woman SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram Ev'yan Whitney's Instagram TikTok  

Join us for this exciting episode as Anthony and Pinky recap their first time attending a Splash Takeovers event in Florida to celebrate another anniversary of Pinky's "21st birthday".    This was no ordinary getaway—Splash Takeovers hosts premier couples only, clothing-optional, lifestyle events where participants from the swinging and kink communities come together for unforgettable experiences.   Unfortunately, Ava couldn't join in on the adventures. However, Anthony and Pinky were able to enlist the participation of some fascinating guests who were front and center at the event:   • The Accidental Swingers • Swinky Life • Sentinel Bear   Each of them shares their unique take on the lifestyle, their experiences at Splash, and what this vibrant community means to them.   From the wild energy of the hotel takeover to the deeper connections made throughout the weekend, you'll hear all about what makes Splash Takeovers a must-attend event for anyone in the lifestyle.   Whether you're curious about what really goes down at these events, or you're a seasoned participant looking for the inside scoop, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises along the way. Tune in for open, honest, and thrilling conversation!   LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers | Website Accidental Swingers | Website SwinkyLife | Website Sentinel Bear | Instagram Beth Darling | Website Haulover Beach | Website   PODCASTS: The Accidental Swingers Podcast The Bare Effect Podcast Come With Us Podcast   SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram The Accidental Swingers / Myrina's Instagram Tristan's Instagram Crimson Dragonfly's Instagram Phoenix Phyre's Instagram The Bare Effect Podcast / Mercy JustFly's Instagram

Picture this: a Christmas party, but instead of unwrapping gifts, Ava's unwrapping…well, you get it.  But this wasn't just any party; it was an empowering space where women ruled, respect was paramount, and despite a few creepers; she felt safe. In this episode, Pinky gets Ava to share her wild introduction to the swinging scene, where "multitasking" took on a whole new meaning for her!   Ava shares the salacious details of her crash course into the lifestyle; where she found herself at the deep end—diving headfirst into the lifestyle and learning that sometimes its all about saying “fuck it” and embracing the moment.   Join the ladies for this rollercoaster of an episode that'll leave you thinking: maybe the holiday spirit isn't the only thing that's contagious! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of setting and navigating Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules (BAR) in non-monogamous relationships. With insights drawn from real-life experiences and expert advice, we explore how these tools help foster trust, respect, and growth in any relationship dynamic.   Join us for this candid and enlightening conversation on how to set, respect, and evolve the boundaries, agreements, and rules that work for your unique relationship style. Whether you're new to non-monogamy or looking to refine your existing framework, this episode has something for everyone.   Tune in and let's set the BAR!   LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Sex WIth Emily | Instagram More Than Two | Website Polysecure | Jessica Fern (Website) Make Love Not Porn | Website   SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Pinky is still on the prowl in this exciting follow-up to the original “Pinky on the Prowl” episode.   Join Pinky and Ava as they dive deeper into their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual liberation.  Inspired by the powerful writings found in the New York Times Bestseller "Pussy, a Reclamation" by Regena Thomashauer (Mama Gena); the ladies explore the importance of embracing the word “Pussy” as a term of empowerment rather than a derogatory label. They also discuss why "faking it" when it comes to orgasms—is a disservice to both yourself and your partner. This episode is about reclaiming your power, being unapologetically yourself, and celebrating the beauty and strength of your sexuality. Grab a seat as these goddesses continue their journey of exploration and embrace the full power of “Pussy”! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Mama Gena's | Regina Thomashauer's Website SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram

In this episode, we dive into the intricacies of balancing non-monogamous relationships with two other F words; friends and family. How do you handle those moments when explanations fall flat or are lost in translation? Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they explore the hilarious, heartwarming, and sometimes harrowing moments that arise when you talk to monogamous people about non-monogamy.   Plus, they also discuss the importance of setting healthy boundaries, opening up to those closest to you, and embracing the reality of living authentically.

In this episode Pinky & Ava tackle the controversial topic of unsolicited D!*k pics.  Exploring why these uninvited snapshots are a major pet peeve and turn-off for them as well as others. While they love the human form, seeing it in an unsolicited and explicit manner can be off-putting. Join the ladies as they delve into the importance of depth and meaningful connection in the world of nonmonogamy; highlighting the significance of showing who you truly are beyond just physical attributes. Also, emphasizing the inherent consent and boundary issues that arise when sending these spicy pics.  Lastly, they touch on the undue pressure some feel to reciprocate and how to navigate these situations with grace and respect.  Tune in for a candid conversation about maintaining respect and connection in the digital age of nonmonogamy. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram

In this episode, we dive into the vibrant and thrilling world of Naughty N'awlins 2024, the annual non-monogamous, sex-positive conference held in the heart of New Orleans. Join us as we recount our experiences, share highlights from the event, and discuss the various workshops, parties, and meetups that made this year's conference unforgettable. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Naughty Events | Producers & Hosts of Naughty N'awlins Amanda-The Kink Consultant | Disney Character Kinks BizBonobos | The Business With Benefits Network Dragonfly | Pure Orgasmic Love The Safe Space | Boise Shibari Studio Cafe Beignet Red Fish Grill Paddlewheeler Creole Queen PODCASTS: 4OURPLAY Podcast | Bella & Jase Hump Day Quickies | Swinger Confessions The Pineapple Express Podcast The Sinsational Unicorn Podcast The Swing Nation Podcast SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok    

The Instigator returns, and this time Pinky & Ava couldn't let Hot Mama escape without an invite to the wildest Pajama Party yet. Get ready as Hot Mama spills the tea on her most salacious experiences, from jaw-dropping party tricks to marathon sessions that defy all limits. No walls or boundaries are off-limits in this episode! This episode is a no-holds-barred exploration of freedom, passion, and the limitless possibilities within non-monogamous relationships. If you're ready to challenge norms and dive into the deep end of desire, this is the episode for you. Free your mind, and the rest will follow! **Episode Highlights:** - **Free Your Mind:** Breaking free from oppressive upbringings and embracing true freedom. - **Beyond Duty:** Hot Mama shares how she found more meaningful relationships by breaking away from societal expectations. - **Discoveries & Revelations:** Hot Mama opens up about discovering bisexuality, exploring interracial relationships, and diving into BDSM. - **Scandalous Set-Up:** The story behind the texturized headboards and the ruined floors—party tricks gone wild! - **Endurance Unleashed:** Tales of marathon sessions that will leave you breathless. - **Poetic Passion:** Hear about the poetic moments that intertwine with Hot Mama's erotic adventures. - **Eye Contact:** The intriguing dynamics of looking into your partner's eyes during intimate moments. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Hot Mama's Guide To Vetting Single Men SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Do you know someone who gets the party started, but looks so innocent?   Anthony, Pinky, and Ava take a road trip to visit "The original Instigator", other than Pinky.   Join the 3SOG crew as they sit down with Hot Mama; the woman that unintentionally, or intentionally (you be the judge) helped put the pieces together that led to this podcast. We break Hot Mama's podcast cherry as she shares her journey in non-monogamy including her time as an event hostess/"gatekeeper"; vetting single men, such as Anthony, for parties. Buckle up and enjoy!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram  Ava's Instagram

We're taking the show on the road to "The Big Easy"!!! Anthony, Pinky, & Ava are heading to Naughty N'awlins 2024 hosted by Naughty Events.  Naughty Events is one of the leading lifestyle event planners in the country. With over 40, Hotel & Resort Takeovers, Bob & Tess (the producers) know what their customers want... and they deliver. The crew discuss their initial introduction to this annual event, which is in its 26th year; and what/who they're looking forward to: Educational classes, Parties, Playrooms, etc... Take a listen and look for Anthony, Pinky, & Ava on Bourbon Street!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Naughty N'awlins 2024 Dragonfly-Pure Orgasmic Love Dr. Stephanie-Evolve Your Intimacy

How does a goddess navigate the world of non-monogamy?  Lookout, Pinky is on the prowl!! Join Pinky and Ava as they discuss the challenges of finding suitable suitors; aka "Professionals".  From speaking the same language so desires are known, to surviving the gauntlet of online dating; the ladies share their experiences and advice. Buckle up as they get down and dirty!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Feeld | A Dating App For The Curious SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram (& Poems) Ava's Instagram  

What's your kink?  Interested in BDSM?  Is there something that gets your rocks off that isn't "normal"?   You'd be surprised to know you're probably not the only one. Join Anthony, Pinky, & Ava as they discuss their adventures in kink and BDSM. They discuss their dyanamics and roles, various play styles, and provide some resources for those that might want to visit the "dark" side.  LINKS Three Shades Of Grey / Website Dr. Emily Morse / Sex With Emily (Yes! No! Maybe?) FetLife / The Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community KinkFest / Portland Leather Alliance Normalizing Non-Monogamy / Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging

Pinky & Ava invite Anthony and PD (aka Nirvana Lover) to the Pajama Party.   The ladies get to share opinions/views about their relationships.  Slide on in and enjoy the conversation. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Überlube | Feeling Is Everything SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Can you hear me now? Which love languages do you and your partner(s) speak; which do you each comprehend? Do compromise or negotiate in your relationships with others? Join Anthony, Pinky, and Ava as they discuss how they communicate within their non-monogamous dynamic. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey / Website The 5 Love Languages Kate Loree / Open Deeply Normalizing Non-Monogamy-Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging / Episode 238 Naughty N'awlins Sybian

Finding quality partners in the lifestyle can be a challenge for ladies.  Pinky and Ava discuss their adventures in finding what they call PROFESSIONALS. Do you want the secret to an invitation to the "Magical Island"?  Cultivating friendships and respecting boundaries are a few of the criteria to joining the "Circle". Pour yourself a drink and join us for a night of intimate revelations and provacative discussions on Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website STDcheck.com | Fast, Private & Affordable STD Testing Uberlube | Feeling is everything Waterproof Blanket SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Join Anthony, Pinky, and Ava as they discuss what led them to choose non-monogamy and what keeps them in this lifestyle. They continue to discuss their individual origin stories and how they all came together. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey / Website The Ethical Slut Naughty N'awlins Desire Resorts SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok

Ever wonder what girls talk about at a pajama party? Grab you favorite pajamas or lingerie because in these juicy installments Pinky and Ava will dive deep into the sultry and salacious side of nonmonogamous relationships; nothing will be off-limits. Get ready to kick back, relax, and indulge in the uninhibited world of nonmonogamous exploration. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just curious about the lifestyle, Pinky and Ava have you covered with their candid insights and playful banter. Pour yourself a drink and join us for a night of intimate revelations and provocative discussions on Pinky & Ava's Pajama Party!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website SOCIALS: Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

Welcome to the inaugural episode of 'Three Shades Of Grey' where hosts Anthony, Pinky, & Ava embark on an insightful journey through the realms of non-monogamy. Join us as we delve into our origin story; exploring the intricacies, challenges, and joys of embracing non-traditional relationships. Get ready to uncover the depths of intimacy as we share our personal narritives, unraveling the complexities of love, connection, and individuality in a world beyond monogamy.  Tune in for candid conversations, raw emotions, and transformitive insights. This is the beginning of a revolutionary exploration into the diverse landscapes of human connection. Welcome to 'Three Shades Of Grey'!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website BUMBLE | Date, Chat, Meet New People & Network Better SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok