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“Why is she still in pain when I'm trying everything I can?”“Why does it feel like the more I talk, the less she trusts me?”Welcome to Part 2 of “I'm Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage.”This episode speaks to the heart of every husband who's doing his best—but keeps hearing, “You still don't get it.”If your wife seems overwhelmed by your efforts…If she pulls away after you open up…If she seems to want emotional intimacy, but then panics when it actually starts to happen…You're not alone—and you're not failing.In this episode:Why emotional timing is everything—and how the “clutch and gas” metaphor could save your marriageHow talking too much, too soon, creates emotional whiplashWhy your wife might feel less safe the more you “lecture”The terrifying reason she shuts down when you're finally trying to connectWhy it's not about whether you're trying—but how you're tryingAnd what it means when she says, “It still hurts” even though you've changedIf you're ready to stop stalling conversations and finally drive emotional intimacy with precision—this one matters.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-power-of-anchors-habits-and-routines-a-path-to-happiness-and-calm/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIgWTVWUCSMCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does it feel like everything is still my fault—even when I'm doing better?”“Why does she keep bringing up pain I didn't even know I caused?”Welcome to Part 1 of I'm Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage, where we tackle the moment every husband reaches:You're trying. You're sincere. You're changing.But somehow… it's still not enough for her.In this episode, we unpack the hidden pain points that wives carry—and why your progress can feel invisible or even infuriating to her if you don't know how to handle it.You'll discover:Why her long list of “problems” might be a signal of deep emotional wounds—not just complaintsThe cultural damage of male echo chambers that normalize blaming womenHow “fixing her pain” too quickly actually backfiresWhy emotional intimacy requires feeling the “clutch and brake” like a manual car—not just logicWhat silent husbands are learning in the back row… and why it might change everythingIf you're tired of feeling like the bad guy even when you're trying to be the good guy—this episode will explain the real disconnect… and how to start bridging it.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-advanced-reflective-listening-tool/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s-uFCwXHxQ0Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does it feel like every little thing becomes a big deal to her?”“Why can't I just explain myself and move on—why is everything I say somehow wrong?”If you've ever felt paralyzed by your wife's triggers… or confused why your explanations just make things worse… this episode is for you.In Part 5 of Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I'm Never Doing Enough, we unpack one of the most painful patterns in marriage repair:The moment when your past choices show up in places you didn't expect—and your wife's emotional pain collides with your best attempts to be better.Inside this episode:Why your “truthful” answers still feel like betrayal when you dodge the real questionThe hidden emotional cost your wife pays just to attend a family dinnerWhat it really means when she says “I can't even have friends anymore”How to recognize your old shame patterns before they sabotage trust againWhy you must schedule emotional reflection like game film—not do it in crisis modeHow recovery actually mirrors the athlete's discipline, not just the preacher's wordsIf you're wondering why she still seems so hurt—even now—and if you're tired of feeling like the enemy while you're doing your best… you need this episode.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/masking/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hragOt5QhFACheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does she keep finding problems… even when I'm finally trying to fix myself?”“Why does it feel like I'm walking on eggshells, no matter how much I grow?”In Part 4 of this gut-level honest series, we tackle one of the most maddening disconnects in marriage recovery:You're trying harder than ever.You're cleaning up your past.You're opening up and staying consistent.But she still doesn't trust you. And even worse—she seems to be pulling away more.This episode explores:Why “good intentions” don't undo the damage of past behaviorsThe common trap of arguing intention instead of owning impactHow even positive change can feel unsafe to her if it's not anchored in understandingWhat partial honesty really communicates (even if you technically didn't lie)The truth about why defensiveness often protects shame, not progressWhat spiritual strength really looks like when she's “doing it wrong”If you're exhausted from trying, confused by her reactions, and desperate to understand what she needs from you now—this episode will help.

“Why doesn't she notice what I'm doing?”“Why do I feel like every time I reach out, she pulls farther away?”In Part 3 of this brutally honest series, we confront one of the most painful patterns in marriage recovery:You try to show up.You say the right things.You even check in, open up, and stay consistent.But it still doesn't feel like enough.This episode explores:Why your wife may feel invalidated even when you compliment herHow “checking in” can go wrong if it becomes a test rather than a giftThe hidden ways men accidentally make progress about themselvesWhy you feel desperate for a reaction—and how that desperation can backfireThe difference between truly connecting vs. just fishing for praiseWhat it means to serve without needing applause, especially when it's hardestYou're not crazy. You are doing the work. But if your emotional engine still runs on her validation—you may be building connection on a crumbling foundation.

“Why does she get sad when I try to compliment her?”“Why do I feel like I keep saying the wrong thing—even when I'm trying to be kind?”In Part 2 of this brutally honest series, we explore one of the most frustrating disconnects in marriage repair:

“Why does she have so many pain points… and why do they all seem to point to me?”“Why am I trying so hard—and still feel like I'm always behind, always wrong, and never enough?”In Part 1 of Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I'm Never Doing Enough, we step into the heavy emotional space many husbands find themselves in:You're doing more.You're listening better.You're showing up.And somehow… she's still hurting.This episode digs into:Why emotional safety isn't created by compliments or checking boxesThe real reason your “support” may actually make her feel worseWhat happens when your need for affirmation overrides her need for healingHow to stop rewriting the same painful chapter—and start building a new oneWhy you keep forgetting what matters (and how to fix that without shame)The role of identity statements in escaping old patterns and regaining spiritual tractionIf you've ever wondered “What else am I supposed to do?”—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and tools to finally stop spinning in circles.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/triggers-vs-alarms/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ohQCiqAEzM&t=4sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

"Why does she still feel unsafe… even when I'm trying to be supportive?""Why do I feel like the more I try to help, the more I get shut out?"In Part 5 of Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I'll Never Be Enough, we confront one of the most misunderstood stages of relational healing:When showing up doesn't seem to be enough—because your version of support still doesn't meet her deepest needs.This episode reveals:Why your instinct to "rescue" may actually reinforce her traumaHow your desire to be helpful often masks a fear of being unneededWhat it means to support without expectations—and love without controlling outcomesThe truth behind rejuvenation: why rest isn't selfish, it's sacredWhy you can't “earn” trust with effort alone—it must be built with spiritual precisionThe danger of forcing closeness instead of inviting connectionIf you feel like you're doing all the right things but nothing is working—this episode will explain why… and what to do next.This one isn't about fixing her. It's about finally understanding what it means to grow with her.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/advice-to-my-12-year-old-self/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8s0gWfXtMQ&t=2sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why is she still upset when I'm finally doing the work?”“Why do I feel like I'm always two steps behind—and still not what she needs?”In Part 4 of this brutally honest series, we unpack the silent tension eating away at so many relationships:

“If I'm finally doing what's right… why does she still act like I'm the problem?”“Why do I feel like no matter how hard I try, I'm always failing her—and myself?”In Part 3 of this powerful series, we dig into a silent struggle few men know how to name:You're working hard to change.You're doing better than ever before.But your wife still doesn't trust it—and you're starting to feel hopeless.This episode confronts the painful moment when her silence feels like rejection…And when your exhaustion starts sounding like, “What's the point?”You'll uncover:Why your progress may not feel safe to her yet—and why that doesn't mean she's ungratefulHow “waiting to be rewarded” sabotages real Christlike changeWhat your emotional burnout is really telling you (and how to recover from it)How to lead with purpose, even when your efforts feel invisibleWhy your growth must be about identity, not approvalIf you're tired of feeling behind—emotionally, spiritually, relationally—and you're desperate for clarity, this episode gives you the map your heart's been missing.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/sons-of-helaman-empowering-young-men-through-faith-based-self-mastery/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBAVPy0qBvM&t=1sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“If I'm doing everything I can to change… why does she still act like I'm the problem?”“Why do I feel so exhausted, scattered, and unsure if I'll ever be enough for her—or for myself?”In Part 2 of this raw and revealing series, we explore a painful crossroads in marriage recovery: when you're trying your hardest to grow, but she's still guarded… and you're starting to wonder if she'll ever see you differently.This episode dives deep into the emotional disconnect between husband and wife when:He's stuck in survival mode, trying to fix things without clarity or directionShe's emotionally burned out but still expected to give, connect, and trustBoth are trapped in a cycle of misread intentions, unmet needs, and emotional exhaustionYou'll discover:✅ Why your wife's coldness might be her cry for space, not rejection✅ How your lack of direction might be feeding her fear✅ What “emotional intimacy” really means—and why you both skipped it before marriage✅ How to know if she's truly ready for connection… or still gathering emotional resources✅ What real resilience looks like (it's not pretending you're okay)Whether you're feeling like a failure for falling behind—or wondering why her pain feels like an accusation—this episode offers clarity, direction, and a path forward.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-battle-of-perspectives-laman-nephi-and-the-power-of-faith/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjixUFwtWRMCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does she act like I'm still failing—even when I'm trying so hard to fix myself?Why do I feel like no matter what I do, I'm always behind, always forgetting something, always not enough?In Part 1 of Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I'll Never Be Enough?, we pull back the curtain on one of the most quietly destructive patterns in struggling marriages: the lack of clear direction.This episode tackles:Why survival-mode living keeps your brain in chaosHow a missing GPS (identity + mission) sabotages her trustThe real reason your wife questions your growth—and why she has every right toWhat happens when you try to change without a map… and expect her to followWhy emotional overwhelm is not laziness—it's a sign you've lost your whyThe one question every wife is silently asking: “If I follow you… where are you taking me?”If she doesn't believe you're changing—and you secretly wonder if you're fooling yourself—this episode will help you slow down, reset, and start walking with purpose again.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/rebuilding-trust-a-husbands-guide-to-understanding-and-healing-betrayal-trauma/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gv4x7PWpru8Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does my wife feel like I'm never doing enough… even when I'm exhausted, overwhelmed, and trying so hard?Why does my brain keep spinning with guilt, forgetfulness, and a list of things I'll never finish?In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dig deep into the internal chaos that plagues so many men in recovery and relationship repair. Whether you're trying to get your life back on track, reconnect with your wife, or simply stay focused without forgetting everything—you're not alone.This week's breakthrough strategies include:Using 3x5 cards to brain-dump and organize your thoughtsWriting mission, purpose, and identity cards to anchor you when Satanic attacks hitBuilding mental clarity to avoid overwhelm, guilt spirals, and constant reactivityLearning why your wife's disappointment doesn't mean you're failingAnd how remembering who you are can restore your energy and hopeYou're not weak because you forget or get scattered. You're human. This episode offers tools to become mentally organized, spiritually grounded, and emotionally ready—without needing to be perfect.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/letter-to-my-returned-missionary-self/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsvXDoQcUUICheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does my wife always seem disappointed, no matter how hard I try?Why do I keep forgetting my goals, losing focus, and slipping back into old habits—even when I want to do better?In this powerful episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we explore the battle inside your mind that silently sabotages your progress. From forgetfulness and self-doubt to Satanic attacks masked as ordinary thoughts, this conversation walks through the exact tools men and women are using to catch destructive thoughts, flip them into truth, and reclaim peace and power in their daily lives.Using nothing more than a stack of 3x5 cards and a sharpened sense of awareness, you'll learn how to:Recognize subtle, daily Satanic attacks before they knock you off courseStop feeling like a failure every time your wife is upsetReplace toxic thoughts with truth in real-timeDefine your season of life, so your purpose feels realistic—not overwhelmingRebuild confidence, identity, and direction using the Eternal Warriors Battle PlannerIf your mind feels scattered, and your wife's pain seems louder than your progress, this episode is a lifeline.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/taming-your-dangerous-emotions-and-reclaiming-your-power/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWJ3rS21HmwCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Do you keep spiraling into guilt, rumination, or overwhelm when all you're trying to do is improve?Does your wife feel frustrated that you're not doing enough—while you feel like you're already drowning?In this follow-up episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dive into the daily experience of men who are trying to change but feel stuck in a fog of forgetfulness, mental noise, and emotional exhaustion. We introduce one of the most underrated tools for mental clarity: the Eternal Warriors Battle Planner and the powerful use of 3x5 cards to refocus, reflect, and reset.Learn how to:Identify your own “death spiral” and reverse it fastUse simple visual tools to combat Satan's psychological attacksStop blaming yourself for emotions you didn't chooseCreate a new pattern of reflection instead of ruminationBuild consistency that your wife can trust—even if you still fall shortThis isn't about being perfect. It's about getting back up faster.It's time to stop trying harder and start planning smarter.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/eternal-warriors-workshop/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-gdoHSc3bgCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Do you keep forgetting what actually matters? Feel like no matter how hard you try, you're always behind—and your wife sees every dropped ball?You're not alone.In this powerful and practical episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we go back to basics and uncover one of the most effective, low-tech tools for managing mental overload, emotional fog, and daily chaos: the 3x5 card.Discover how a young man used this simple tool to train his mind, win daily battles, and transform his identity—and how you can use the same system to finally stop forgetting what matters most.Whether you're a husband trying to rebuild trust, a dad juggling eight kids and two jobs, or just a man trying not to drown in life's noise, this episode will give you real, actionable tools for:Remembering your purpose in high-stakes momentsRefocusing your brain when it's scattered or stressedBuilding systems that help your wife see your growthRegaining your personal dignity through consistent actionYou don't need to be perfect. You just need to remember what you're fighting for.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/specialized-self-mastery-training-winning-mood-battles/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4g6TykyVHyQ&t=3sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why do we keep having the same arguments even when we try to "meet each other's needs"?Why does it feel like my wife wants more from me than I have to give—and I'm the one being blamed?In Part 5 of this powerful series, we expose one of the most destructive myths in modern relationships: the “needs-fulfillment” mindset. When both partners are cold, empty, and emotionally drained, handing each other lists of unmet needs only leads to conflict, disappointment, and emotional burnout.Instead, Maurice introduces a radical shift: The Marriage Investment Model—a consecration-based approach inspired by early pioneers. This episode walks you through how to become a contracted contributor in your marriage—someone who gives even when their own tank is low, and builds a foundation that creates long-term healing and trust.Learn:Why emotional coldness is often a two-way famine, not a one-way failureHow to stop relying on your spouse to "fix" your emotional depletionWhat to do when both of you are exhausted and feel like giving upThe secret to building emotional wealth in your marriage—one deposit at a timeIf you're tired of fighting over who's hurting more and are ready to build something that lasts, this episode is your blueprint.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/shouldnt-you-be-able-to-rely-on-people-what-if-others-are-not-meeting-your-needs/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THUGXxLBwN4Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does my wife say I'm hiding something—when I'm not?Why does she feel left out or betrayed when I simply change plans in my head and move on?In Part 4 of this transformative series, we expose a hidden but common problem in many marriages: a lack of transparent communication around everyday plans, emotions, and intentions. Maurice breaks down the difference between being “secretive” and simply not narrating your thought process—and how this disconnect leaves your wife feeling shut out, unimportant, or unsafe.You'll learn:Why last-minute changes without communication feel like betrayal (even when they're innocent)What “psychological intimacy” really means—and how it stops repeated argumentsHow intelligent wives are wired to contribute—and why dismissing their input destroys trustWhy avoiding control can accidentally create emotional abandonmentHow to lead with clarity, connection, and confidence—without giving up your independenceThis episode is your roadmap for building strategic, intellectual partnership in your marriage—so she feels like a teammate instead of an outsider, and you stop stepping on emotional landmines.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/rebuilding-trust-in-a-traumatized-relationship-a-spiritual-and-psychological-approach/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfO4yyDwbrwCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does my wife say I'm not being vulnerable—even when I'm doing my best to be honest?Why does it feel like every time I open up, it backfires?In Part 3 of this deeply practical series, we break down the misunderstood idea of vulnerability—but in man talk. Using the metaphor of building a bridge, Maurice reveals how to create emotional safety by treating communication like an engineering project: sharing accurate, useful information to strengthen trust—not just confessing weakness or oversharing emotion.You'll learn:The male definition of vulnerability (and why women still say it's not enough)Why sharing emotionally charged details isn't always real transparencyThe difference between gaslighting and engineering-level communicationWhy emotional safety requires independent stability—not constant reactionHow to know if your wife is still too unstable for certain conversations (and how to proceed without making things worse)If you feel like you can't say anything without upsetting her—or if she's accusing you of being unsafe when you're just trying to function—this episode is your blueprint for navigating the chaos.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/your-brain-works-like-a-presidential-cabinet/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ot_wqKwviwk&t=1sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why does my wife say I'm not vulnerable—when I feel like I've told her everything?Why does she still say I'm unsafe, even when I try to be honest?In Part 2 of this breakthrough series, Maurice walks husbands through the emotionally exhausting challenge of showing up in conversations that never seem to go right. You'll learn why “vulnerability” often means something totally different to your wife than it does to you—and how to create the kind of emotional safety that actually opens the door to rebuilding connection.You'll also learn:What real vulnerability is (and what it isn't)Why most men react rather than respond—and how to reverse thatHow to become your best self before trying to repair the relationshipWhat the “four seasons of intimacy” actually look like in real lifeWhy building safety has to come before solving problemsThis episode is for any man who's ever thought:“I was trying to be honest… so why did it blow up in my face?”If you feel like your marriage is stuck in emotional landmines, this episode gives you a real path out.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/seeds-and-weeds-attending-to-our-psychological-garden/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybqzJ039vw4&t=3sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

She says you're abusive.You say you're just trying to talk.She wants emotional safety.You want clarity and connection.So why does every conversation end in disaster?In Part 1 of this new series, we dive into one of the most exhausting and confusing struggles men face in broken or strained marriages—how to communicate with your wife when every word seems to make things worse. Maurice introduces a strategy rooted in film review, proactive empathy, and slow-motion emotional intelligence, empowering you to stop reacting and start learning the real meaning behind her words.Inside this episode:Why your wife's words often don't match what she's actually trying to sayHow recording conversations (yes, really) can change everythingWhat it means to “translate” your wife's emotions like a foreign languageWhy not living together doesn't mean you stop learning how to show upThe role of baseball and slow practice in rebuilding emotional intimacyHow to introduce vulnerability as a strength in communicationThis episode is for every man who's thought:“No matter what I say… it's never the right thing.”Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/taking-responsibility-for-our-thoughts-navigating-satanic-attacks/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z19MHfqpEsA&t=7sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

You're telling the truth. You're trying to stay calm. You're even using logic.So why is she still upset—and why do you keep ending up in the same exhausting argument?In Part 5 of this vital series, we explore what happens when your honest efforts to be transparent and reasonable don't bring your wife the peace she needs. You'll learn how even the “right answer” can come across as cold, how to stop fueling her fear without abandoning your integrity, and how to finally break the cycle of defensive reactions and relational disconnection.Key insights:Why logic doesn't help when your wife's heart is in survival modeHow to stop trying to “win” the conversation and start making her feel safeWhy emotional disconnection is the real issue—not whether you remember every detailHow judging her emotional responses can destroy trust (even when she's being “unfair”)The myth that “time alone will fix it”—and what to do insteadIf you're tired of walking away from painful conversations asking, “What am I doing wrong when I'm trying so hard?” — this episode is for you.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/rebuilding-trust-in-a-traumatized-relationship-a-spiritual-and-psychological-approach/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SvGqOiziaYsCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why would you lie about something like this?”“Of course you remember—you're just trying to protect yourself again.”If your wife has ever pressed you with hard questions about your past behaviors—especially around sexual thoughts or past fantasies—and your honest answer is, “I don't remember,” this episode is for you.In Part 4 of this breakthrough series, we unpack one of the most painful points of tension in many marriages: when your wife's deep need for security crashes into your fractured memory and emotional compartmentalization.In this episode:Why men often genuinely forget what they've fantasized about—and why that feels like betrayal to herHow to stop being caught off guard by emotional landmines you didn't see comingWhat she really needs when she asks tough questionsWhy her emotional outbursts are rooted in logic—not manipulationHow to prepare emotionally and spiritually for the “truth” conversations without freezing upA new way to approach hard questions with clarity, calm, and integrityThis isn't about rehearsing answers—it's about becoming a man she can trust even when the answers are hard. If you're tired of being accused of lying when you're doing your best to be honest, you'll find a lifeline in this episode.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/deals-a-formula-for-happiness/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIGKTWRqqvQ&t=4sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“She says I connect better with strangers than I do with her.”“I'm not cheating. I'm just being nice. Why is that such a big deal?”If you've ever felt caught off guard by your wife's reactions to your everyday interactions with coworkers, friends, or even casual compliments—this episode is your wake-up call.In Part 3 of this powerful series, we explore how seemingly innocent connections and conversations can quietly undermine emotional trust and intimacy in marriage. Whether it's locker room banter at work or praise from someone outside the home, these unexamined behaviors can trigger insecurity and fear in your wife—even if you don't mean them to.You'll learn:Why “harmless” relationships can still sabotage trustWhat real emotional safety looks like to your wifeHow craving validation from others keeps you from true recoveryWhy recovery isn't just about stopping bad behavior—but building emotional disciplineThe difference between sobriety and connection—and how to finally rebuild bothHow empathy for your wife's radar can deactivate the cycle of repeated argumentsThis episode is especially for men who are tired of hearing “You just don't get it”—and are finally ready to understand what she sees that you don't.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/french-fry-machine-metaphor/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97Dhfk3DhRkCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“She says I'm not connecting—but I don't even know what that means.”“I do all the things. Why does she still feel unloved?”If your marriage feels like a loop of frustration—especially around connection, sex, and emotional intimacy—this episode gets to the root of it.In Part 2 of this honest series, we dismantle some of the biggest myths that keep couples stuck in unproductive arguments and unmet needs. From porn addiction recovery to misunderstandings about what emotional connection actually looks like, this episode is a roadmap for men trying to reconnect with their wives without losing their sanity.You'll learn:Why “more sex” (or total celibacy) won't fix porn addictionHow many men confuse service with intimacy—and why it isn't enoughWhy your wife may still feel unloved even if you're doing everything “right”What real connection looks like and why it usually starts with giving, not receivingThe silent sabotage of seemingly harmless outside “connections” (yes, even friendly ones)How to break the myth that it's your wife's job to validate your progressThis episode is about rebuilding from the inside—so you can finally start understanding why you keep having the same arguments and how to move forward.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybqzJ039vw4&t=3sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

Why do we keep fighting about the same things—even when we both say we're trying?Why does she say I'm not supportive… when I know I am?In Part 1 of this powerful new series, we break down one of the most frustrating patterns in marriage: recurring arguments over misunderstood definitions. Whether it's about love, support, connection, or emotional safety—too many couples use the same words but mean totally different things.This episode reveals:Why your wife feels unsupported even when you're doing your bestHow conflicting definitions of “love,” “support,” and “respect” cause emotional gridlockWhat men can learn from measuring systems like inches and centimetersHow to lead the rebuilding process by standardizing communicationWhat real emotional recovery looks like (hint: it's not just more sex or total celibacy)Why confusion, not laziness, causes most husbands to shut downIf you're ready to stop spinning in circles and start actually connecting, this is the conversation that unlocks the door.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/supportingresponding-to-spouse-husband/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iefBWa0iybo&t=1sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

The Betrayal Trauma Summit: Empowering You to HealMarquelle announces the launch of the Betrayal Trauma Summit on March 24th, highlighting an impressive lineup of speakers and topics aimed at addressing the needs of individuals facing betrayal trauma. Key sessions include discussions on establishing a foundation, creating identity statements, aligning with spiritual values, understanding and navigating trauma, maintaining relationships, financial stability, and developing resilience. The summit, spanning five days, features live presentations, Q&A sessions, and breakout rooms, with all sessions available for later access through the Thinkiffic Portal. Attendees are encouraged to take advantage of the resources and support offered by Life Changing Services and its various programs.00:00 Introduction to the Betrayal Trauma Summit00:38 Day 1: Establishing a Foundation02:35 Day 2: Healing Relationships and Navigating Adversity04:12 Day 3: Celestial Orientation and Financial Stability05:42 Day 4: Living in Light and Truth08:02 Day 5: Execution Under Pressure11:38 Conclusion and How to Join the Summit

Are you struggling with feelings of shame around your child's sexuality or your own? Do you wonder if you're failing as a parent when you discover your son or daughter has been exposed to things you wish they hadn't? In this powerful episode of Mothers Who Know, host Karen Broadhead sits down with therapist Greg Dunford from Life Changing Services to tackle the deep-rooted fears and guilt many parents experience.Greg shares insightful strategies to help parents shift from fear and shame to love, connection, and growth. He explains why shame never helps, how to guide our children without controlling them, and why embracing difficult conversations about sexuality is essential. This episode is a must-listen for any mother who wants to support her child through challenges with compassion, faith, and confidence.

In this episode of the Mothers Who Know Podcast, we explore the insights and lessons from Week 3 of the Mom Power course, focusing on the importance of noticing Christ's presence in our daily lives. We discuss the difference between true peace and temporary comfort, the power of purposeful noticing, and how our everyday actions can be transformed into acts of faith. This episode also touches on the significance of embracing our spiritual journey and understanding that Christ's love is steadfast, no matter where we are in our personal growth. Join in on this meaningful discussion that highlight the importance of noticing and embracing the Savior's presence in our lives. Register for FREE Mom Power Training. Please take a look at all our resources that we have compiled to help you at Mothers Who Know. We are part of Life Changing Services where there is support and healing for your whole family.

Join us as we discuss insights from recent lessons, focusing on the significance of staying present and allowing the spirit to meet us where we are. We share experiences on how to identify and combat the lies that we often tell ourselves, and how to restore our truth through the power of prayer, writing, and reading. Hear heartfelt testimonies from fellow mothers about their journeys, the importance of influence over control, and the transformative power of personal revelation. Whether you're dealing with personal struggles or supporting a loved one through theirs, this episode offers profound wisdom and practical tools to help you navigate your path. Tune in and discover how to harness the strength and unity found in our shared experiences and faith. Join us for FREE Mom Power Training Check out all our resources at Mothers Who Know. Many resources for you and your loved ones at Life Changing Services.

In this episode of the "Mothers Who Know" podcast, we dive into the essence of Mom Power, celebrating the strength and unity among mothers. Drawing inspiration from Elder Anderson's and Sister Abierto's powerful messages, we discuss how revelation is scattered among us and the importance of sharing our truths. This episode is a safe space for mothers to ask questions, share experiences, and receive support, whether they are part of Life Changing Services programs or not. Join us as we explore the significance of ministering, the impact of personal revelation, and the joy of supporting one another through life's beautiful messes. Tune in every Tuesday at 9 a.m. to be part of this empowering community. Register for Mom Power Training . Register your son for Sons of Helaman where he will gain confidence in his own self-mastery https://sonsofhelaman.org/ Register your daughter for our Daughters of Light program.

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Therapist," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the intricate process of recognizing and discerning divine guidance. Drawing from the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice shares personal stories and psychological principles that help differentiate between your own thoughts, the adversary's influence, and true inspiration from the Holy Ghost. Learn practical strategies to strengthen your spiritual communication and gain confidence in personal revelation. This episode is essential for anyone seeking to deepen their spiritual understanding and navigate their journey with divine clarity. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/navigating-spiritual-discernment-recognizing-satanic-influences-and-embracing-divine-guidance/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97933wjQh38 Check out the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://1w78otm1.pages.infusionsoft.net/

Join us for an insightful discussion on how the act of noticing—free from judgment—can deepen our connection with the Spirit and increase our joy, patience, and ability to interact positively with others. Through personal stories and practical examples, we explore how noticing God's hand in our lives, practicing gratitude, and maintaining holy habits can dispel darkness and open windows of truth. Discover how writing in journals, meditating, and embracing daily spiritual practices can serve as powerful tools for emotional and spiritual renewal. Join us for more Mom Power Training Tuesdays 9:00am MST. Link arms with us and increase your peace here at Mothers Who Know. Looking for help for a loved one? We have many resources for you at Life Changing Services. Don't suffer in pain anymore.

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the common struggle of discerning divine communication. Drawing from the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice and his guests discuss practical strategies to identify the voice of the Lord and differentiate it from other influences. Through personal stories and insights, listeners will learn how to invite and recognize personal revelation, enhancing their spiritual journey. This episode is perfect for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of divine guidance and personal revelation. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/god-as-the-blacksmith/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YVhjmiwzEg Check out the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://1w78otm1.pages.infusionsoft.net/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the common struggle of discerning divine communication. Drawing from the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice and his guests discuss practical strategies to identify the voice of the Lord and differentiate it from other influences. Through personal stories and insights, listeners will learn how to invite and recognize personal revelation, enhancing their spiritual journey. This episode is perfect for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of divine guidance and personal revelation. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/embracing-our-divine-sexual-nature/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3iDRvMIqms&t=1s Check out the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://1w78otm1.pages.infusionsoft.net/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, delves into the challenges many face in understanding and receiving personal revelation. Drawing from the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice provides insights into how to harvest psychological concepts from the Words of the Prophets to enhance our spiritual experiences. Through personal stories and practical strategies, this episode aims to help listeners develop a deeper connection with God, enhancing their ability to receive and act upon personal revelation. Perfect for anyone seeking to strengthen their spiritual communication and self-mastery. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/product/heal-my-broken-heart-an-lds-guide-to-dealing-with-those-bound-by-the-deadly-sin-of-pornography/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EPfx3YFV2nI&t=1s Check out the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://1w78otm1.pages.infusionsoft.net/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, explores the critical challenge of staying spiritually awake and engaged. Drawing from the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice delves into the teachings of the prophets and how they intersect with psychological principles to help us stay spiritually vigilant. This episode encourages listeners to use personal revelation as a tool to "awake and arise," providing practical strategies to integrate these teachings into daily life. Perfect for those seeking deeper understanding and practical application of spiritual psychology. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/shattered-spirit-ebook/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7kE2MQ6ggY Check out the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://1w78otm1.pages.infusionsoft.net/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, challenges men to stop waiting for their wives to take the first step in marriage repair and instead, take proactive measures themselves. He emphasizes the importance of building and preparing, regardless of immediate feedback or results. Maurice shares practical strategies for using marital mission statements, identity statements, and the DPAR process to stay focused and committed. This episode is crucial for anyone ready to move forward in their marriage repair journey with confidence and determination. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/dependency/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mkDSOeovmMg Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, addresses the essential but challenging task of building courage and psychological resilience in marriage repair. This session, part of the Marriage Repair Workshops, focuses on the importance of being psychologically fortified, ready to face the inevitable challenges and setbacks in the journey of relationship recovery. Maurice shares practical strategies, including using a checklist for self-assessment and understanding residual effects of past behaviors, to help individuals prepare for and succeed in Season 1 of their marriage repair efforts. This episode provides invaluable insights for anyone striving to overcome personal and marital challenges with strength and courage. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/therapists/rod-limb/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lBuF0jZ6b8&t=2s Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," we explore the intricate challenges of marriage recovery. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the importance of creating personalized strategies for healing, understanding safety, and building courage within your marriage. Drawing from his extensive experience and training, Maurice provides practical insights on how to navigate the complex process of rebuilding a relationship. This episode is crucial for anyone seeking to understand the essential steps to take when recovering from marital issues and aiming for a stronger, healthier relationship. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/embracing-our-divine-sexual-nature/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtnQuM9ZX-Q⁠ Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hr-oaLKnm5I&t=1s

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," we delve into the critical topic of healing personal and marital injuries. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, discusses the importance of discerning truth and developing personalized strategies for healing and safety within marriage. Using real-life examples and metaphors, Maurice explains how to address psychological wounds, ensure adequate safety, and maintain a strong connection with God. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone striving to overcome hurt and build a resilient relationship. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/shattered-spirit-ebook/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9sHQCh4LZM Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," we delve into the complexities of marriage repair and the painful but necessary steps involved in Season 1 of the Marriage Repair Workshops. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares insights into the cycle of fear and hesitation, the importance of marital mission statements, and the psychological readiness required for successful relationship work. Learn why initial attempts at Season 1 often lead to hurt and how to navigate these challenges with patience and skill. Bring your questions and your commitment to improve as we explore this vital process. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/product/i-the-lord-have-seen-thy-sorrow-an-lds-guide-to-dealing-with-the-pain-of-infidelity/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bgysljq8K8 Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," we explore the elusive nature of motivation and how subtle biochemical processes can derail our best intentions. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, uses insights from the book "Like Dragons Did They Fight?" to explain the science behind brain chemistry and its role in our daily battles. Discover the concept of "The Chemical Scale" and "The Satanic Spin" and learn practical strategies to identify and counteract these subtle attacks. Bring your "one thing" you want to improve and join us for a transformative discussion on overcoming these hidden challenges. Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/gingerbread-man-parable-anger-pain-management/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIgWTVWUCSM Check out the Eternal Warriors 3.0: ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/eternal-warriors-workshop/

In this episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher," we delve into the War of Choice in the Now. Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, shares his personal journey of understanding why we lose motivation and fail to follow through on our commitments. Drawing from both spiritual and psychological insights, Maurice explains how our brains transition from focused and clear-headed to overwhelmed and distracted. Discover the science behind these transitions and learn practical strategies to regain control over your choices, guided by both divine wisdom and scientific understanding. Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/our-support-system/ Rather Watch Something? ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4xkLIW4zM4 Check out the Eternal Warriors 3.0: ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/eternal-warriors-workshop/

Join in as you experience a journey of Mom Power Training. Participants share their testimonies and personal revelations, reflecting on the growth and changes they have experienced. We explore the concepts of courageous vulnerability and collective support, highlighting how these principles have fostered a unique and empowering community. Discover practical tools and insights that have helped mothers navigate challenges, find strength in their faith, and support each other. T his episode also introduces the benefits of joining Team Mom Power for ongoing connection and encouragement. Join us to be inspired and uplifted by the shared experiences and wisdom of fellow mothers. A T.E.A.M is waiting for you! Join Here. Don't sit in pain, take a look at all our resources. We are here for you. Mothers Who Know. Learn exceptional tools in your mothering. Register for MomPowerTraining. Need help for your son or daughter? Our parent company has resources for you take a look here at Life Changing Services. No need to watch them suffer any longer.

In this episode, we'll discuss how each of us is an "atmosphere angel," influencing our surroundings with love, faith, and a sense of connection. We'll explore the scripture from D&C 84:88, which reminds us that the Savior walks beside us, lifts us, and brings hope and change: "I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left... My angels round about you to bear you up."Through heartfelt testimonies and personal stories, we'll see how the small and simple things we do can have a significant impact. From supporting a daughter making a major life decision to being there for a sick spouse, we'll recognize the miracles in the messes of life.We'll also discuss how, as mothers, we can find peace and comfort in knowing that we are not alone in our struggles. Whether it's dealing with daily challenges or monumental decisions, this episode is a reminder that you are doing it, and you're doing it in an amazing way. Tune in for a dose of spiritual upliftment, connection, and the reassurance that you are enough.Thank you for being with us today, and remember, you are a vital part of God's plan, and your efforts are making a difference. Register for Mom Power Training here. We have many resources for you here at Mothers Who Know. Our parent company is Life Changing Services where you will find help for you and your loved ones. Schedule a FREE consult with Karen Broadhead, director of Mothers Who Know.

The Mothers Who Know Podcast," where we remember the divine spirit within us and believe that all things are possible through faith in Jesus Christ. This podcast supports the parents of young men in the Sons of Helaman and young women in the Daughters of Light programs at Life Changing Services. These programs offer therapeutic and mentoring services for youth struggling with depression, anxiety, self-harm, pornography, and other difficult behaviors. We provide parent support, training, and resources for mothers and fathers seeking to best support their loved ones. Hosted by Karen Broadhead, Director of Mothers Who Know and Parent Support Specialist at Life Changing Services, this podcast shines light in dark corners, eliminates isolation and shame, and empowers mothers with warrior hearts. Join us at MothersWhoKnow.org to find the online meeting details and become part of our supportive and uplifting community. If you or a loved one is in need of help and/or resources please take a look at our parent company as well: Life Changing Services Would you like you son or daughter to gain more confidence? Register them for Sons of Helaman or our Daughters of Light program and watch the grow in confidence and faith.

Welcome to the Mothers Who Know podcast! In this empowering episode, we are joined by Bryton Peterson, a dynamic Sons of Helaman Group Leader and the visionary Director of Camp Onidah. Bryton shares his personal journey of overcoming challenges and the profound impact of therapeutic and mentoring services for youth struggling with depression, anxiety, self-harm, and pornography.Discover how Camp Onidah integrates fun and adventure to teach young men principles of self-mastery and self-improvement. Bryton dives deep into the transformative power of passion projects and the DPAR (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) process, offering practical insights for parents to support their sons in the journey towards self-mastery.Join us for an inspiring conversation that sheds light on the innovative approaches used at Camp Onidah and the importance of fostering resilience and spiritual growth in our youth. Don't miss this chance to learn from Bryton's experience and wisdom, and see how you can support your own warrior in becoming a strong, faithful leader. Register your son for Camp Onidah here. Take a look at the resources we offer for you and your loved ones at Life Changing Services. Join us for Mom Power Training! Click here to register. You thought you had checked all the boxes but now your family is navigating issues around mental health, pornography, identity, sexuality, faith and more. You are feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, helpless, like a horrible parent, you missed something or just did it wrong. You're desperate for help but don't know where to turn….     We get it! Don't be alone! Come link arms with like-minded mothers and increase your PEACE…even in the middle of hard. Is your mother heart breaking?You are in the right place! Mothers Who Know!

Join host Karen Broadhead, Director of Mothers Who Know and Parent Support Specialist at Life Changing Services, as she engages in a vital discussion with BJ about internet and device safety for families. This episode, "Timely Tech Tips for Parents," dives deep into practical strategies for managing technology in the home. BJ shares expert advice on securing your home's digital borders, implementing slow tech adoption, and designating tech-free times and places. Learn how to conduct meaningful tech talks with your children, provide soft landings when they encounter challenges, and strengthen their personal filters. The conversation also highlights the importance of understanding and reinforcing your child's personal and spiritual identity. This episode is perfect for parents seeking to support their children dealing with depression, anxiety, self-harm, and other difficult behaviors. Discover how to create a safe and uplifting environment, connect with your kids through positive tech experiences, and utilize available resources for additional support. Visit MothersWhoKnow.org for more information and join the supportive community of Warrior Mothers Who Know. Don't miss this essential guide to navigating the digital world with faith and confidence. If you daughter is struggling with her confidence there is help for her at our Daughters of Light program. For you Momma, please know you are not alone. Download a FREE ebook by Karen Broadhead. "Momma Trauma, Now What". Join T.E.A.M. - Together Everyone Achieves More

Welcome to the Mothers Who Know Podcast, hosted by Karen Broadhead, Director of Mothers Who Know and Parent Support Specialist at Life Changing Services. This podcast is a sanctuary for women to remember the spirit God gave them, understand their worth, and believe that all things are possible through faith in Jesus Christ. Karen and her guests provide support and resources for parents of youth struggling with depression, anxiety, self-harm, pornography, and other challenging behaviors. T This podcast focuses on uplifting and educating mothers and fathers, offering them tools to support their loved ones effectively. Whether or not you have a child in Life Changing Services' programs like Sons of Helaman or Daughters of Light, you are welcome to join the Mothers Who Know community.Tune in to hear inspiring stories, expert advice, and compassionate guidance to help you and your family navigate difficult times and emerge stronger. Visit MothersWhoKnow.org for more information and online meeting details. Join us as we shine light into dark corners, eliminate isolation and shame, and empower ourselves to raise the warriors of this generation. If you have a loved one struggling please check out all the resources at Life Changing Services. Is you son struggling? Register him for Sons of Helaman. Sons of Helaman is a gospel oriented training program for young men, teaching them to overcome pornography challenges and other unwanted sexual self-mastery behaviors. Arm your home this summer with safety from unwanted online experiences. Listen to BJ Hill on our Mothers Who Know YouTube. You'll be glad you did!