Memoirs of an LDS Therapist

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, host Maurice Harker explores how to turn intrusive thoughts, exhaustion, and spiritual opposition into fuel for growth instead of proof that you're failing.Drawing from the Come, Follow Me lesson and recent general conference talks, Maurice explains how to reframe negative self-talk as deliberate spiritual opposition, not “just your own broken mind.” He walks through his process of creating “Notes to Self”—personalized, gospel-rooted reminders in written and audio form—to anchor your mind when Satan attacks with shame, depletion, or “you're not enough” narratives.In this episode, you'll learn:How to recognize intrusive, self-critical thoughts as spiritual warfare—not your true identityWhy exhaustion and burnout are often a satanic strategy, not a badge of righteousnessHow customized audios and written “notes to self” can function as a personal iron rod during late-night anxiety and early-morning attacksWhy God expects you to rest and let divine compensation (ministering angels, teammates, and grace) cover what you can't doHow to support youth and adults who are wrestling with questions, doubt, and truth-seeking without fearIf you're an LDS spouse, parent, leader, or disciple striving for self-mastery, resilient faith, and Christ-centered emotional health, this episode will help you see your mental battles in a new light—and give you practical tools to fight back with the Savior instead of against yourself.

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, host Maurice Harker dives into one of Satan's most subtle but powerful tactics: the war between remembering and forgetting. Why is it so hard to remember spiritual impressions, goals, and revelations—even when we want to? And why do the worst thoughts tend to show up right as we're falling asleep or just waking up?Drawing on his Spiritual Psychology Masterclass, Maurice shares how he discovered and built “personalized iron rods”—practical systems that help you hold to the word of God when your mind is drifting or under attack. From missionary days with 3x5 scripture cards in Detroit to using modern text-to-audio tools as wake-up and bedtime “iron rods,” he explains how to turn reminder systems into spiritual weapons, not shame-filled “crutches.”In this episode you'll learn:How Satan uses drifting, anxiety, and late-night/early-morning thoughts to derail youWhy even smart, faithful people forget critical truths and commitmentsHow to build personalized iron rods using scriptures, notes, and audioHow to use two-alarm systems and intentional listening to push back on fear-based morning thoughtsWhy “affirmations” often feel cheesy—but intelligent reminders are powerful and doctrinally soundHow to see structure, tools, and supports as Christlike compensation, not weaknessIf you're an LDS disciple striving for self-mastery, stronger relationships, and spiritual clarity, this episode will give you hope—and concrete tools—to stop losing battles you're not even aware you're fighting.

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker dives into the real-life battle between your thoughts, weaknesses, and Satan's lies—and how God uses all of it to turn you into a powerful servant, not a failure.Maurice explains why being “lazy,” “undisciplined,” or “scattered” is often Satanic spin, not your true identity. Instead of shaming yourself, he teaches how to build compensation systems—reminders, structures, and teammates—that actually make you more Christlike. You'll learn the “seeds and weeds” mental gardening model, using simple tools like 3x5 cards to pull out destructive thoughts (“I'm inadequate,” “I'll just fail again”) and replace them with truth, over and over, just like tending a real garden.Key principles in this episode include:Why using supports, structure, and people is not a crutch, but a Christlike way to work (“let them be one”)How passion project teammates can cover your weak spots and give you confidence to move forwardThe “seeds and weeds” method for catching Satan's lies and consciously planting truth-based thoughtsHow to replace unwanted behaviors (like overeating or numbing out) with healthy, intentional alternativesTurning the DAR cycle (Discover–Plan–Act–Reflect) into a joyful, daily repentance and growth processUsing warrior chemistry—holy urgency and righteous anger at suffering—to push through resistance and serve othersMaurice also shares how to talk to others who are drowning in “weed thoughts” with love unfeigned, and how to start saying, “I have a dream, I don't know how to do it yet, and I'm looking for teammates,” so you can become part of God's miracle-making process—even while you're still very, very human.If you're a Latter-day Saint striving to repair your marriage, build self-mastery, and push back against Satan's lies, this episode will help you see your “weaknesses” as invitations to partner with God and His people.

In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker (founder of Life Changing Services and creator of Eternal Warriors) helps you learn how to never be “spiritually bored” again—and how to fight back when Satan uses anxiety, depression, distraction, and “I'm just lazy” thinking to shut you down.Maurice introduces key Eternal Warriors 4.0 principles, showing how passion projects—big, faith-based missions that matter to you—can become instant tools against feelings of worthlessness, boredom, and discouragement. Instead of just trying to “stop a bad habit,” you'll learn how to aim your life at something powerful, and then build systems that help you actually follow through.Using stories from his own life and work with Latter-day Saint individuals and couples, Maurice teaches:The “war between remembering and forgetting” and why forgetting your goals is not a personal weakness, but a Satanic strategyHow to use reminder systems (alarms, 3x5 cards, written plans) as spiritual weapons, not crutchesThe DAR cycle (Discover, Plan, Act, Reflect) and why planning specific times and places is like declaring war on Satan's interferenceHow to plan for failure with backup plans and still move forwardThe chemical scale and why moods (low motivation, “I'm just lazy,” “I'm broken”) are one of Satan's favorite toolsHow to catch Satan's lies, write them down, and create truth-based rebuttals so he can't reuse the same tricksIf you're an LDS man or woman trying to rebuild your marriage, overcome addiction, or develop real self-mastery through the gospel of Jesus Christ, this episode will help you see your mind, your schedule, and your “forgetfulness” in a whole new spiritual light.

What if the very things Satan uses to whisper, “you're too broken, too messy, too late” are the exact things God wants to use to bless His children?In this episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker (founder of Life Changing Services and creator of the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass) dives into the psychology behind fear, perfectionism, and “I'll just mess it up” thinking. From mission stories in Detroit to the story of Martin Harris and the 116 pages, Maurice explains how perfect love casteth out fear and why God invites us into His work knowing full well that we are still in process.You'll hear powerful insights on seeing yourself as one vital chess piece on God's board, learning when to move and when to “hold still,” and why your anger at the pain in the world is actually a form of Christlike love when it drives you to get tools to those who are suffering. Maurice and Markel also share about their new “Phase 3” effort—a project to turn deeply wounded, resilient Latter-day Saint women into an army of healers and creators who bring hope to others.

Can God really do His work through you when your life feels like a total mess? In this powerful episode of the Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast, Maurice Harker (founder of Life Changing Services and creator of the Spiritual Psychology Masterclass) explores what it really means that “God's work cannot be frustrated”—even by our weaknesses, sins, or failures.Drawing on the story of Martin Harris and the 116 lost pages, early Church history, and real-life examples from modern disciples, Maurice dives deep into spiritual psychology—the mental and emotional patterns behind fear, shame, perfectionism, and “I've ruined everything” thinking. He also shares memorable insights like “the miracle is in the mess” (a phrase coined by Karen Broadhead of Mothers Who Know), and why God often uses our most chaotic, humiliating experiences as the raw material for miracles.

Miracles in the mess, overcoming the fear of others' opinions, and trusting that God's work cannot be frustrated—Host Maurice Harker shows how to begin with the end in mind, let go of perfectionism, and move forward even when life feels chaotic. You'll hear real stories, courage cues (think Daniel & Esther), and practical framing to trade shame for purpose and act with faith today.If this helps, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so others can find the show.

Intrusive thoughts, DPAR cycle and NINI-FIFI replacement cards—learn to flip lies fast, act with courage, and review-revise-recommit. Host Maurice Harker maps fear and overthinking into a simple battle plan: notice it, name it, flip it with truth on a 3×5 card, then act. You'll also get “caddy-style” teammate tips, scrum-style block clearing, and drills to make fast, values-aligned decisions in real life.If this helps, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so others can find the show.

DPAR cycle and intrusive thought replacement—learn how to beat the fear of getting it wrong, stop overthinking, and build a fast, repeatable feedback loop for self-mastery. Host Maurice Harker shows how to review-revise-recommit, use caddy-style support (how to listen like a great teammate), and turn 3×5 cards into on-the-spot counterattacks during real “spiritual warfare.” You'll leave with a battle-tested structure to observe, plan, decide, and act—then reflect and improve quickly.

Healthy disentanglement, lay down “weapons of war,” and personal iron rod—Host Maurice Harker shows how to stop over-relying on a partner for needs, end weaponized words, and anchor yourself in Christ-centered self-mastery. Learn practical tools: replacement thoughts for intrusive thinking, values-aligned boundaries without ultimatums, and a simple reflect-plan-act rhythm you can repeat daily. Subscribe for weekly tools, share with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find the show.lifechangingservices.org

Personal iron rod, spiritual motivation, and self-mastery—learn how to stop drifting and create a customized anchor that holds. Host Maurice Harker shares practical ways to turn quotes and principles into daily reminders, use the DAR/DPAR reflection cycle, and practice habits until they become muscle memory. You'll hear real-life strategies (3×5 cards, highlight-and-breakdown method, memorize-by-heart apps, audio replays), plus how to recover after “I've ruined everything” moments with a fresh start mindset.Subscribe for weekly tools, share with someone who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find the show.lifechangingservices.org

Warrior chemistry, the DPAR cycle, and team-based planning help parents and young adults rebuild motivation, self-mastery, and values-aligned goals. Host Maurice Harker explains why there's no “once-and-done root cause,” how to beat isolation with simple reminder systems, and how to practice new habits until they become muscle memory. You'll learn reflection prompts, a conversation script for sharing thoughts with a spouse, and ways to recover faster after a “lost battle.”Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a lift, and explore more resources at lifechangingservices.org

Struggling with motivation and purpose? Learn how warrior chemistry helps you fight back against negative thoughts, reclaim your identity, and align goals with your true mission. In this episode, Maurice Harker explains practical tools to overcome isolation, beat forgetfulness, and stay focused on becoming your best self.

After betrayal, even everyday moments can feel dangerous to your wife. Learn how to help her feel safe—even when her world feels like it's falling apart.Full Summary:Why does your wife flinch when you glance at someone else—even casually? Why does every woman, every billboard, every walk outside feel like a minefield? In this powerful episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice Harker unpacks the torment your wife may be living with—even long after the betrayal was disclosed—and gives you actionable steps to rebuild emotional safety without becoming defensive.You'll learn:Why your wife sees the world as unsafeWhat not to do when she's triggeredWhy explanations often backfireHow to use public anxiety as a moment of connectionHow to spiritually prepare to protect her from the unseen battles she faces

Why does your wife feel unsafe—even around strangers? In this episode, we unpack how betrayal trauma rewires her world, and what you can do to help.Full Summary:After betrayal, many women begin to feel like every woman is a threat, every glance is dangerous, and the entire world is unsafe. In this eye-opening episode, Maurice Harker and guests share why even innocent actions—like looking at a passerby—can feel devastating to your spouse, and how shame-free transparency and emotional awareness can rebuild safety.Learn:Why your wife sees every woman as competitionHow trauma turns daily life into a war zoneWhat not to do when your wife is triggeredHow to use public moments to turn toward, not awayWhy emotional presence matters more than perfection

Struggling to understand your wife? In this episode, we break the myth that “women are just confusing” and show how real connection begins with curiosity.Full Summary:Have you ever joked that women are just impossible to understand—only to find yourself stuck, frustrated, and disconnected? In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice Harker challenges that mindset with powerful insight: what if your wife isn't incomprehensible… just undiscovered?We explore:Why mocking the complexity of women is a defense against growthHow to respect the unknown and learn to see more deeplyThe damage of trying to mold your wife into something she's notWhy spiritual discovery leads to emotional intimacyHow understanding her true “substance” unlocks partnership and purpose

Why can't she trust you—even now? Discover how invalidation, betrayal trauma, and dismissive advice from leaders deepen the wounds. Listen and learn how to do better.Full Summary:If you've ever thought, “Why can't she just get over it?”—this episode is for you. Maurice Harker reveals the damaging impact of invalidation from spouses, church leaders, and even therapists who don't understand betrayal trauma. When your wife says she doesn't feel safe, it's not about a single moment—it's about the cumulative trauma of being ignored, dismissed, or gaslit for years.You'll learn:The real difference between big-T and little-t traumaHow “normalizing” porn or betrayal creates emotional devastationWhy some professionals accidentally do more harm than goodHow to finally stop dismissing her pain—and start healing the right way

Why can't she trust me, even after disclosure? Learn how betrayal trauma, unsafe responses from others, and lack of purpose delay healing. Listen now.Full Summary:Even after the truth comes out, trust doesn't come back right away. Why? Because the damage runs deeper than the behavior—it shatters her trust in herself and in anyone she turns to for help. In this eye-opening episode, Maurice Harker breaks down the ripple effects of betrayal trauma and explains why being a man with a clear purpose is more powerful than just “trying to be better.”You'll also discover how friends, family, church leaders, and even counselors often make things worse—and what true emotional safety looks like from her side.

Still not earning trust after stopping the behavior? This episode breaks down why recovery isn't just sobriety—and how to lead with daily spiritual purpose.Maurice Harker challenges the myth that "not messing up" is enough. Real recovery isn't about avoiding mistakes—it's about living with purpose, reflection, and direction. This episode unpacks how daily DPAR (Reflect, Discover, Plan, Act) becomes a spiritual discipline, how it reclaims trust over time, and why your wife needs to see more than just “trying.”

Still reacting poorly in emotional moments? Learn how real spiritual prep, practice, and DPARs help you stop repeating mistakes and start leading with strength.In this episode, Maurice Harker reveals the hidden reason many men fail to connect emotionally with their wives—even when their hearts are in the right place. It's not because you don't care. It's because you haven't practiced correctly. Learn how to turn mistakes into growth using the DPAR process, and why defensiveness, emotional resets, and spiritual playbooks matter in rebuilding trust.

Still reacting poorly during tough moments? This episode shows how spiritual film review and practice build the emotional and verbal muscle memory you need to improve.Maurice Harker walks you through why you keep failing in the moments that matter—and how to build the habits, structure, and pre-rehearsal needed to finally show up as your best self. From spiritual “film review” with God to real-life emotional drills, you'll learn why practice makes peace, and how true growth never happens by accident.

Do you get defensive when your wife shares past pain? Learn how to protect her heart, build emotional intimacy, and lead with courage instead of fear.In this episode, Maurice Harker dives into one of the deepest spiritual challenges in marriage repair: learning to listen with charity instead of defensiveness. You'll discover the mindset required to create emotional safety, how to practice in-person DPARs, and how to reawaken the natural instinct to protect—even when it's hard to hear the truth.

Struggle to talk about the past without it turning into pain or panic? This episode teaches how to build emotional intimacy without fear or emotional collapse.Maurice Harker walks you through one of the most important and most difficult relationship skills: talking about the past without destroying progress. With tools like the Foursquare Listening Method, emotional safety prep, and step-by-step intimacy layering, you'll learn to lead uncomfortable conversations without causing harm—to yourself or your spouse.

Struggling to fix your marriage conversations? This episode shows why success starts with practice, spiritual courage, and learning to lead with warmth.Maurice breaks down the real reason many men continue to fail in key relationship moments—not because they don't care, but because they haven't practiced the right kind of courage. With golf as the metaphor and marriage as the mission, you'll learn how to:Reflect, discover, plan, and act through the DAR processBuild daily momentum with verbal intimacyLead without fear, even when results are uncertainDrop perfectionism and embrace intentional practiceRecognize when you're in Season 4 (self-work) vs. Season 1 (marriage rebuild)

Struggle to say the right thing in emotional moments? In this episode, learn how to approach conversations with clarity, spiritual preparation, and recovery tools.Maurice and a guest draw powerful parallels between golf and marriage repair—exploring how planning, reflection, and mindset shape the outcomes of our interactions. You'll learn how to:Stay calm and focused after emotional misstepsReflect clearly without self-shamingDiscover better approaches before actingCommit with confidence, even when uncertainRecover from setbacks and re-center spiritually

Do you feel like miracles are for other people—but not you? This episode teaches you how to reconnect with personal revelation, build spiritual momentum, and create a custom planning system that brings impossible dreams within reach.Maurice Harker shares how to:Invite others into your spiritual process without shameWrite your way into personal miracles through the DPAR methodLet go of "shoulds" and "supposed to's" and trust the Spirit's guidanceCreate uplifting sharing partnerships that accelerate your growthDevelop faith that you can be part of the miracles you've only heard about

Struggling to move forward on a dream you care deeply about? This episode reveals why your goals feel impossible—and how to stop isolating as you pursue them.Maurice shares the power of spiritual sharing partnerships, how to dream big with God's help, and why involving others in your personal growth isn't weakness—it's how miracles happen.

Feeling spiritually stuck even though you're trying? This episode uncovers how to move past survival mode and step into a life of real spiritual momentum. Maurice Harker shares how to build a personalized spiritual system, partner with ministering angels, and write powerfully toward your unique miracles and passion projects.In this episode, you'll learn:How to shift from survival to miracle-level livingWhy you're not disqualified from greatness—no matter your pastHow to tailor spiritual habits to your energy, personality, and scheduleHow writing “What If” visions can invite divine supportWhy continuity—not consistency—is the secret to spiritual momentum

Tired of trying to follow a schedule that doesn't match your real life? This episode explores how to create a spiritual planning system that actually works for you. Whether you thrive in 10-minute windows or 3-hour marathons, Maurice breaks down how to honor your personality, energy, and daily chaos without guilt or “supposed to” pressure.You'll learn:How to stop copying other people's planning stylesWhy "supposed to" thinking blocks revelationThe power of flexible planning appointmentsHow to pray, read, and write in your own rhythm

Tired of forgetting your goals—even the ones that really matter? This episode explores the power of strategic alarms and reminder systems to combat spiritual forgetfulness. Maurice shares practical tools to win the war between remembering and forgetting, build momentum, and stop self-sabotage before it starts.

Struggling to stay consistent with your goals and spiritual planning? This episode uncovers the secret weapon: continuity. Learn how to win the battle between remembering and forgetting using a practical, spiritually grounded system. Maurice walks you through the Power DPAR method—a repeatable process designed for busy minds and real life.

“What if I'm not overreacting?”“What if my strong feelings are actually part of the right response?”For many women, feeling anger—especially in relationships—can come with guilt, confusion, or shame. You wonder if you're losing control, being too emotional, or somehow stepping out of your values.But what if your anger wasn't a mistake?What if it was supposed to be there—strategic, planned, even sacred?In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we confront the myth that all strong emotion is a loss of control. Maurice explores the difference between reactive rage and righteous indignation—the kind that even Christ himself modeled. We dive into how to create spiritual safety protocols, handle emotional or mental health patterns like OCD or bipolar, and stop trying to “change the weather” when the better answer is to move to higher ground.Inside, you'll discover:When anger is a divine signal—not a moral failureHow to build a practiced emotional response plan before triggers hitThe myth of controlling others as your safety planWhat the Savior's example really teaches about standing in strengthWhy your mental health patterns aren't broken—but can be used as a giftHow to turn OCD or emotional waves into powerful purposeYou don't have to suppress your emotions. You need to train them—on purpose, with love, and with strategy.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/taming-your-dangerous-emotions-and-reclaiming-your-power/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVXeq9KlUJQCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Am I overreacting, or is something really wrong?”“How do I protect my peace without starting a fight?”Many women second-guess their own warning bells—especially when others don't understand their sensitivity. Whether it's emotional triggers, past trauma, or just needing quiet in a loud world, you know when something feels off.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we explore the subtle intrusion of what Maurice calls “the third person in the room”—the influence that turns moments upside down without warning. Learn how to recognize those intrusions, build deliberate responses, and stop labeling your instincts as overreactions.Topics include:How to identify spiritual vs. fear-based reactionsWhy your first impulse to “talk it out” might backfireWhat it really means to defend your personal space with loveThe importance of rehearsing your response before the momentWhy unique triggers (even “uncommon” ones) still deserve respectHow honoring your spiritual space sets the tone for your homeThis episode is your reminder: your alarm isn't broken. It's trying to protect you.You're not “too sensitive”—you're learning how to stand strong in your sacred space.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/finding-balance-managing-stress-and-apathy-in-life/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dgKC-_nHGmECheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I fall apart when I thought I was ready?”“Why can't I stay calm when things go sideways?”If you've ever been caught off guard in a moment that felt normal seconds ago…If your heart pounds, your thoughts scramble, and suddenly the conversation is over before it begins…You're not failing—you're just under-trained.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dive deep into the overlooked truth: self-mastery in relationships isn't just about belief or insight—it's about training. Just like a dancer drills her moves or a musician repeats scales, you must rehearse how you'll respond to chaos, triggers, and miscommunication.Inside, we discuss:Why the "Holy Ghost" doesn't use panic as a communication toolThe real reason you feel like the problem—even when you're notWhat it means when your first thought is “he did something wrong”Why discernment is a drilled skill, not a magical momentThe fire drill method for responding to sudden conflictAnd how to reclaim your confidence with practiced spiritual courageYour mind, like your muscles, can be trained.But weeds grow by default—peace doesn't.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/going-deeper-addressing-the-full-continuum-of-change-with-the-chemical-scale/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoiexO35i_sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does it feel like even my best efforts get misread?”“Why do innocent moments suddenly feel contaminated or chaotic?”If you've ever tried to create peace, set a boundary, or have a good-hearted conversation—only to watch it unravel into confusion, hurt, or misunderstanding—you are not alone. You're not crazy. And you're not imagining it.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we explore how spiritual sabotage happens in real time:Why the “third person in the room” often hijacks what should be a calm or loving momentHow Satan blends good things with harmful ones—on screens and inside your thoughtsWhy your home and mind must be sacred spaces with clear boundariesHow to build a personal protocol to regain control over your thoughtsWhat to do when the voice in your head isn't yours—and how to reclaim clarityReal examples from everyday women dealing with triggers, confusion, and spiritual battlesHow to act with confidence without being reactiveThis episode will help you identify spiritual interference, sort truth from lies, and stay grounded when your environment—or even your own brain—feels like enemy territory.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reverence-for-your-partners-growth/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uW0bf9TdzXwCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I feel unsafe, even when nothing is happening?”“How do I know which voice in my head to trust?”When your relationship has been painful, broken, or on edge for too long, your inner world can get louder than your outer one. And not all voices in your mind are actually you. Some are fear. Some are pain. And some are… something far more deceptive.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dive deep into:How to tell when fear and trauma are driving your reactionsWhat it really means to “know your own mind” before reconnectingWhy spiritual sabotage often follows progress—and how to recognize itThe danger of assigning meaning to dreams or triggers without discernmentHow Satan inserts himself into your relationships with soothing lies and subtle distortionsWhat to do when it feels like there's a “third person in the room”This episode is a must-listen if you've ever asked:“Is this me… or something else?”“Why do I feel crazy even when I'm trying to grow?”“Why do I spiral when things start getting better?”It's time to reclaim your clarity. And your voice.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/your-brain-works-like-a-presidential-cabinet/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVorKPxxTkUCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“I look in the mirror and don't even recognize myself.”“How did I become this version of me?”“Is my marriage dead… or just dormant?”When a relationship breaks down—or you find yourself in a season of emotional numbness—it's easy to blame the other person, the marriage, or even life itself. But this episode invites a deeper question: Who have you become… and who are you meant to be?In this powerful and grounding conversation, we unpack:How stress, fear, and emotional survival mode (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn) distort our true identityWhat it means to enter Season Four—a sacred time of dormancy, reflection, and personal rebirthWhy spiritual growth can't happen while you're pretending everything's fineHow to place your struggling relationship “on the altar” while becoming your best selfWhat Christ's example of being “unshaken” in Gethsemane teaches us about identity in hard seasonsThis episode isn't about fixing your marriage overnight—it's about becoming someone who can walk back into a relationship with clarity, strength, and peace.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-battle-of-perspectives-laman-nephi-and-the-power-of-faith/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybqzJ039vw4&t=5s⁠Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does she still feel unsafe—even when I do what she says?”“Why do I feel attacked when she disagrees?”“What's the difference between reacting and actually leading?”In this episode, we confront a hard truth for many men: doing what your wife says doesn't build trust—leading with purpose does. If you're feeling unsure, aimless, or overly sensitive to disagreement, this conversation will challenge and equip you.Inside, you'll learn:Why following your wife's words isn't the same as taking her seriouslyHow to respond with spiritual authority rather than people-pleasingThe truth about being “psychologically lazy” at home—and how to fix itWhy your wife watches how you adapt your goals, not just whether you complete themHow confidence, spiritual purpose, and consistency build emotional safetyWe'll also explore how misinterpreting your wife's strength leads to confusion—and how embracing your stewardship can restore clarity, direction, and unity.This episode is a wake-up call for any man who wants to be more than a passive partner. It's time to lead with wisdom—not just reaction.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/reacting-to-toxic-people/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWJ3rS21Hmw&t=1sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“What if I don't remember what I felt back then?”“What if she asks a question I'm not ready to answer?”“What if I say something wrong and it comes back years later?”This episode tackles one of the most terrifying moments in a man's healing journey: being caught off guard by a question he should have an answer to—but doesn't. When your wife brings up something from years ago, and you can't recall your thoughts, feelings, or even the situation… what do you do?Inside this episode:The “Rough Draft Protocol” that protects both of you from jumping to conclusions too fastWhy writing things down—even when you don't understand them—can be a spiritual disciplineHow to include God in your reflection so you don't avoid the hard stuffThe danger of saying anything while emotionally or chemically compromisedWhy women often cling to old words—and how to avoid making haunting statementsWhat consistency in your spiritual habits tells her (even more than your words)This episode is not about being perfect. It's about being intentional—even when your memory fails you, your confidence falters, or your timing is off. It's about growing into a man who wants to get it right, and is learning how.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-chemical-scale/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIGKTWRqqvQ&t=5sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why is she asking about something from five years ago?”“Why does she want to talk about something I barely remember?”“Why won't she just drop it?”If these questions echo in your mind during hard conversations with your wife, you're not alone. This episode tackles the psychological and spiritual disconnect men often feel when their wives want to revisit confusing or distant emotional topics—and why engaging anyway may be the most loving thing you ever do.Inside this episode:Why her questions might not be about fear—or betrayal at allHow emotional intimacy works differently for her than it does for youWhat it means to be “doing it right when it doesn't make sense”Why shutting down, avoiding, or saying “I don't remember” causes more damage than you thinkHow to use DARs (Divine-Assisted Reflection) to uncover what you didn't even realize was going on back thenHow staying connected—even in discomfort—is an act of strength, not weaknessIf you want to stop being defensive and start being dependable—especially when you're confused, embarrassed, or unsure—this episode is for you.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/the-chemical-scale/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znVmbVCdVdsCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does she keep asking questions about things I barely remember?”“Why does she want to know every little detail from years ago?”“Haven't I already told her enough?”If you've ever felt exhausted or confused by your wife's need for details, this episode will change how you see her questions—and how you see emotional intimacy.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, Maurice and the group explore:Why your wife's need for information isn't always about betrayalHow trauma, fear, and connection each drive different kinds of questionsWhy being available for the conversation matters more than the answers themselvesThe emotional parallel between a wife's desire to “see inside your life” and a husband's desire for physical closenessWhy details are not just facts—they are shared experiencesWhat to do when she's overwhelmed one day and asking deep questions the nextThis episode offers a powerful reframing: her questions aren't about interrogation—they're about intimacy. And when you handle them with patience and curiosity, it builds the trust you've both been starving for.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/make-a-record-of-your-proceedings/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QpSepSlsOo8Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I feel like I'm still being lied to—even when he says he's being honest?”“Why do I need so many details to feel safe?”“Why does he think saying ‘I didn't lie' is enough?”In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we explore one of the most misunderstood pillars of healing: radical honesty. But not the kind of “honesty” that just checks a box or avoids technical lies.We're talking about a whole new level of masculine responsibility:➡️ The transfer of accurate information➡️ The intentional sharing of details she needs (not just the ones you're comfortable with)➡️ The difference between honesty and transparency➡️ Why “I didn't lie” is a dangerous excuse➡️ How to use daily reflection tools (like DARs) to create trust➡️ Why women feel unsafe when information is vague, generalized, or withheld—even by accidentAnd for those struggling with memory loss, disclosure fears, or wondering if there's a “statute of limitations” on what must be shared—this conversation is filled with grace and clarity.If you've ever felt like you were being open, but she still didn't feel safe, this episode explains why—and what to do about it.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/embracing-our-divine-sexual-nature/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKjJtzTrk74Check out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I feel guilty for overreacting?”“What if I misjudge him—but still don't feel safe?”In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we address a struggle many women face in emotionally unpredictable relationships: the fear of doing "too much" to stay safe. You're not crazy. You're not dramatic. And you don't need to apologize for choosing the storm cellar when the sky darkens.You'll learn:Why the instinct to act fast matters more than being rightHow to recognize when you're thinking instead of moving—and why that's dangerousWhat it means when he gets upset that you “ran away”Why a caring man supports your safety plan, even when it's earlyHow to honor courageous hope without ignoring red flagsThe secret to acting with faith without feeling stupid laterWhy journaling your decisions can protect your peace—and your future choicesPlus, you'll hear a vivid story that compares emotional safety to tornado drills—and what it really means when the alarm doesn't go off in time.If you're tired of wondering whether it's “bad enough” to run… this episode gives you permission to stop waiting for proof. Your safety doesn't need to be justified.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/deals-a-formula-for-happiness/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKG5Tpv7aPECheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why does it feel unsafe when I share first?”“Why can't I trust his goals if I helped shape them?”This episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher uncovers a subtle but powerful truth:

“Why isn't he taking me seriously until I finally step away?”“Why does trying to ‘connect' just leave me more hurt?”In this powerful episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dig into the hard truth: you can't rebuild intimacy while you're still bleeding. And your relationship can't grow if it's stuck in survival mode.We explore:Why emotional safety must come before emotional connectionWhat it means to build your own raft—and why that scares so many womenHow unresolved pain contaminates your attempt at intimacyWhy stepping away often leads to the biggest breakthroughsHow to know when it's time to court again—or heal aloneWhat a real greenhouse of intimacy looks like—and why it matters who brings the four-wheelerYou'll also hear from special guest Markel Brown, director of the Worth Group, as she shares a deeply personal analogy that will reframe how you view emotional separation and strength.This episode isn't just for women trying to hold on—it's for those ready to stand up, heal deep, and check whether he's actually ready to build with you.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/dyslexia/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5TV_7b7sHsCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I feel so anxious when he makes bad decisions?”“Why do I keep trying to control him even though I don't want to?”This episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher gives you the answer—and a surprisingly freeing solution.If you've felt that everything he does affects your peace, it's probably because you're still emotionally sitting in the same life raft. His bad plans, his good intentions gone wrong, his risky thinking—they all feel like threats, because they are. You're in his boat. But what if you weren't?This episode teaches a powerful concept: emotional and cognitive intimacy can't grow inside the same raft. You need your own—your own stability, your own direction, your own emotional oxygen. Only then can you connect without anxiety, pressure, or panic.You'll learn:Why staying in his raft destroys intimacy and triggers controlHow to build your own raft (pioneer woman mode) so you can feel safe againHow to tell if and when it's time to tie rafts together—and what that really looks likeWhat to say (and not say) when his plans scare youWhy anxiety isn't always a flaw—it might be your survival system sounding the alarmHow trust and collaboration actually come after separation and self-relianceIf you've been trying to fix, manage, or convince him to get on the same page, this episode might be the mind-blowing shift you've been waiting for.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/embracing-our-divine-sexual-nature/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5yEKqzdijeQCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“He said he agreed… but did he really?”“How do I know if we're truly aligned—or just coexisting?”In this eye-opening episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we unpack one of the most common (and dangerous) relationship assumptions: thinking you're on the same page just because he nodded.Whether you're dating, married, or decades into a relationship, you may be missing the signs that real cognitive intimacy is missing. Learn how to protect your psychological security—not by lecturing, pleading, or guessing—but by discovering the truth with one powerful tool: the Weather Check.You'll learn:Why a simple nod doesn't always mean agreement—and what it could actually meanThe difference between hoping for alignment and confirming itThe dangers of trying to “mother” someone into having ambitionHow to ask second-date-style questions that reveal true goals, values, and plansHow to find out what kind of man you're actually in the raft with—before it sinksThe life-saving mindset shift that helps you stop assuming and start discerningThis episode is raw, real, and built to help you stop guessing and start growing in truth—whether you're years into a relationship or just realizing you're still not aligned.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/using-the-pattern-for-growth-to-fine-tune-the-agile-checklist-for-becoming-better-husbands/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97Dhfk3DhRk&t=1sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“How do I schedule spiritual habits when every day is chaos?”“Why does planning always feel like I'm setting myself up to fail?”This episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher tackles the real-life struggle of trying to stay spiritually grounded when life is anything but consistent. Whether your house is filled with toddlers, noise, distractions—or just plain unpredictability—this episode introduces a better way forward.You'll learn:How to use the SHE-PWR or MAN-PWR system to create realistic routinesWhy sticker rewards, gel pens, and chocolate chips might be your new spiritual tracking toolsThe difference between consistency and wisdom-based continuityHow to plan power sessions that actually match your life—not someone else'sWhat counts as writing, reading, prayer, and service when every moment feels crunchedHow even a 3-second “knuckle-bump” prayer or a goofy compliment can count as real spiritual winsYou don't need perfection. You need a plan that makes room for being human—and this episode shows you how to start.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/overriding-fear-in-marriage-repair/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XfXByOTumQCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I fall off track—no matter how hard I try?”“Why can't I just be consistent like other people?”If you've ever felt like you're failing simply because you can't follow a rigid routine or daily checklist, this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher is for you.You'll discover:Why expecting consistency is often the wrong goal—and what to aim for insteadThe truth about spiritual and emotional progress in real-life, chaotic schedulesWhat “continuity” is—and how it's a more sustainable, flexible mindsetWhy Satan steps up his attacks the moment you start tryingHow to plan your next power session without guilt, shame, or perfectionismHow simply showing up to your planning session can be a spiritual winThis episode will challenge your expectations while giving you a much more livable way forward—especially if your life is full of surprises, messes, or tiny humans. You don't need perfection to grow. You need continuity, grace, and the courage to try again.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/adhd-blog-comorbidities/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwGNuY6nNAgCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I always lose momentum—even when I start strong?”“Why is it so hard to build daily spiritual habits that actually last?”In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we dig into one of the most frustrating challenges of self-mastery: consistency. If you've ever felt discouraged because you keep starting over… or felt like your efforts to be “nice,” “spiritual,” or “intentional” are too small to matter—this one is for you.You'll learn:Why Satan attacks your momentum with shame and perfectionismThe difference between “accidental kindness” and intentional serviceWhat the daily MAN-PWR and SHE-PWR systems really mean—and how to use them without burnoutHow to track your growth with the Progress Calendar (and why missing a day isn't failure—it's feedback)How tiny, silly, even weird acts of goodness are more powerful than you thinkThis episode combines powerful spiritual tools with down-to-earth humor and real talk. If you're tired of giving up after a few days or feeling like it doesn't count unless it's perfect, this is your call to start small—and keep going.Want to read more about this topic? https://www.lifechangingservices.org/our-support-system/Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3q9DzvCP_ICheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/

“Why do I keep falling back into the same patterns—even when I know what to do?”“Why does progress feel so lonely, frustrating, and fragile?”This episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher dives straight into one of the most overlooked reasons people stay stuck—isolation masked as independence.You'll learn:Why real spiritual and emotional strength isn't about going it aloneHow Satan weaponizes loneliness—even in the faithfulWhy interdependence is not codependence (and what that actually looks like)How to start building a personal cohort—a Christ-centered team to fight with, grow with, and rise withWhat daily brain workouts like M-A-N-P-W-R and P-W-R can do for your spiritual momentumWhy your “half-eaten chicken” offering is exactly what someone else needsWhether you're burned out from trying to fix everything by yourself, or watching a loved one stay stuck in their own wilderness, this episode brings both challenge and comfort.You're not supposed to do this alone. And you're not as far from miracles as you think.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/product/heal-my-broken-heart-an-lds-guide-to-dealing-with-those-bound-by-the-deadly-sin-of-pornography/Rather Watch Something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ohQCiqAEzM&t=5sCheck out Life Changing Services: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/