Podcast appearances and mentions of susan winter

Trapped in the breakup–makeup loop, stuck in a cycle you can't escape? Here's how to break free and reclaim your power for good. The breakup–makeup loop keeps you stuck in a cycle of leaving and returning, never getting to resolution of the issues that are plaguing the relationship. This loop keeps repeating, even when you know the relationship no longer serves you. Learn why it's so hard to let go — and how to finally break free for good. The endless break up-make up cycle. Decoding your behavior. How to break free. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You've done the work. You've stayed open. Gotten out there—online and in person. So why are you still alone and questioning your worth? Here's the shift that changes everything: Does love still feel out of reach? Wondering why others seem to find love with ease and you don't? If you're feeling ashamed, confused, or even guilty about being single, you're not alone. Far too many people carry a quiet burden of believing they've somehow failed at Love. But that perspective is not only wrong—it will never assist you in your journey. Love isn't a reward for effort. Being single isn't a personal flaw. Edifying self-worth and eliminating self-judgment. Be sure to check out ‘Allowing Magnificence'— both in book and audio, to reconnect with your worth and release the shame that blocks love. Link below: Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Beautiful women are often underestimated.Miss Universe contestant Angela Martini's outer life may “appear” effortlessly perfect, but few would guess the sacrifices she's endured and the battles she's fought—not only for herself, but for the freedom of the man she loved, now her husband. Wisely escaping a potential kidnapping as a child, to ‘dreaming' her way into a purposeful life, and refusing to see herself as a victim—Angela's story is one of triumph over adversity.Also in this interview, she also shares the touching and powerful concept of “BESA”— a key tenet of her heritage. Angela's journey from Albania to the global stage is not just about her modeling career but also about her resilience and refusal to be a victim of circumstance. Her memoir – Love. Hope. Light. (Simon & Schuster)– delves into the struggles she faced in her rise to fame and the transformative lessons she's learned, particularly about love and spirituality. How her modeling career inspired a journey of personal growth. The lessons she's learned about self-love and spirituality Life's intentional intersections and ‘accidental meetings.' Her husband's story, their fight for justice, and how it's reshaped their lives. Love-Hope-Light Angela-Martini IG and TikTok: @Angela_Martini Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Everyone wants to be happy. But how? Temporal pleasure isn't sustainable— but training our mind for optimism IS. My interview with Neil Wood, top keynote speaker and business consultant, reveals how to reshape your thinking and kickstart happiness. Neil Wood has over 35 years of experience as a sales rep, trainer, speaker, and business coach. He has given more than 5,000 presentations in his career and has trained more than 50,000 sales representatives. Neil has also written and published five books. One of his most popular books is ‘Dating Success After 40' which talks about relationships and finding your ideal partner. How To Learn To Be Happy Programming Your Mindset Catching Your Thoughts Expect and Notice Enjoyable Things Neil Wood Keynote Speaker/Master Facilitator/Author Neil@neilwoodconsulting.com Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They sleep with you— but won't commit. Wondering why they won't date you seriously? Here's what you need to know if you're stuck in a loop of hoping and waiting. Maybe it's not about you. Maybe it is. They could be committed to casual dating. Maybe they're emotionally unavailable, unskilled for partnership, or lack sufficient attraction. In truth, you may never know. But the reason you're stuck in a painful situation-ship is because you're committed to the dream— and a partner who won't commit. Acknowledge the Reality Accept the Truth Keep the Dream. Replace the Person Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

They left when you needed them most. You realize they're not your person, but you still want them. Here's how to handle the battle between your head and heart— and come out victorious. Your mind knows the relationship wasn't right if they could leave you this way—but your heart can't seem to stop wanting them. Why is it so hard to let go, even when the logic is clear? Keep the Dream. Replace the Person. Why Your Heart and Mind are at Odds Steps to Unify Your Heart and Mind How To Rise From the Ashes Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

What does a healthy relationship look like? While the details may be unique to you, there are clear signs—and most importantly, a distinct way it will feel. Here's how to know if you're heading in the right direction: #HealthyRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #HealthyLove A healthy relationship looks like a natural, easy connection with someone who feels right for you. But more importantly, it feels calm, safe, and secure. You feel comfortable being yourself. There's no confusion, no anxiety, and no second-guessing. Consistency replaces chaos, and emotional safety becomes your new normal. Getting Comfortable with Feeling Comfortable No More Confusion or Drama New Baseline for Trust and Security Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Worried About the Age Gap? Your age gap relationship is great. But you can't stop wondering—what if AGE becomes a problem later? Before you sabotage your love, reassess what's working vs. fears about the future. Here's how: #agegaprelationships #agegaplove Before you throw your love away, ask yourself this: Are you reacting to reality, or to a story you've told yourself about what might go wrong someday? Here's how to shift that mindset and protect the relationship you already have. Fear of the Future Imagined vs. Real Problems Assessing Your Relationships Long-Term Value Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

One of the most painful forms of breakup happens in the honeymoon phase. Our partner is still perfect, and our hopes are at their highest. Here's the best way to process and heal from this intense experience. #HoneymoonBreakUp. The honeymoon breakup receives little comfort from the outside world—new and short term relationships are viewed as fleeting and fanciful, therefore the depth of your heartache is misunderstood. Here's why it hurts so much and how to transition through your heartache with greater ease Initial Shock Upward Trajectory to Rapid Fall Rewriting the Dream Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Stuck on a love that never happened? Still holding on and can't let go of the ‘dream?' Here's how to finally move on and find the real thing. It's so easy to have our mind jump ahead of our experience. If we don't pace our hearts and our fantasies about what “could be” we will find ourselves in trouble as we leap past the reality of what's really happening inside this connection. I realize it's hard to let go. But you don't have to let go of the dream. You can ‘keep the dream and replace the person.' What Was It (Really)? Taking Them Off the Pedestal Clearing the Way For Real Love Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Healthy relationships can feel uncomfortable when you're not used to them. Before you self-sabotage, here's the key to easing into this beautiful new experience and rewriting your love story. The Mental Shift Patience, Flow, and Ease Trust Yourself and the Process No Loss- You've Evolved Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Kezia Noble is a leading dating coach from London and author of the bestselling book, 'The Noble Art Of Seducing Women.' She's been helping men since 2006 overcome the challenges they experience in meeting and attracting women. Her honest insights and straight-talking advice have helped men fall across the globe dramatically increase their success rate with women. My interview with Kezia contains a wealth of information on the inner game of dating, how to overcome approach anxiety, and the merits of mental self-discipline. Best tips to overcome 'approach anxiety'- overcoming fear and insecurity What is the inner game and its components How to release the pressure of being outcome driven Website: kezia-noble.com Facebook: kezianoble.officialfanpage Instagram: kezianoble18 Youtube: kezia2929 Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You loved each other— so why did it still fall apart? Discover the hidden reasons couples break up even when the love is real. Here's what no one tells you about the heartbreak that makes no sense. It can seem as though the breakup makes no sense when love is involved. But sometimes love is not enough. Here are the reasons a relationship can end when two people still love each other: Unresolved Internal Confusion Personal Growth Needs Loss of Self and Identity Relationship Reality vs Fantasy Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

You're trying to recover from a breakup and need to move on. BUT… you're still hoping for a future together. Can the two desires exist simultaneously? Here's how this works: #breakuprecovery Grieve- But Move On Hope- But Move On Prepare For Both Outcomes Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The Empath's Romantic Downfall Empaths face a hidden challenge: absorbing too much of others emotions can block the ability to find a mutually loving partnership. Here's how to overcome this inherent issue and receive the depth of love you deserve. #empaths Over giving and Overdoing Recalibrating Your Energy Opening to Receive and be Loved Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The dating and relationship world is rife with blindsided breakups. Is this the hallmark of an Avoidant? Counsellor Ken Reid is here to discuss Fearful and Dismissive Avoidants and explain why this heartbreaking scenario is so often the upshot of their relationship trajectory. Counsellor Ken Reid is the go-to source for all things ATTACHMENT THEORY. His work includes relationship challenges, breakups, grief, and communication skills. He also serves the LGBTQIA+ community. Defining fearful and dismissive avoidants Hallmarks and “Tells” of an Avoidant The Blindsided Breakup Strategy Website: https://www.kenreidcounselling.com.au Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kenreads Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

How can they say, "I'll always love you,” then leave? The pain, confusion, and heartache demand answers. Here's how to make sense of it and move forward. The emotional whiplash is devastating—one moment, you feel safe in their love, the next, you're left questioning everything. It shatters your trust, making you wonder if anything they said was ever real. Why Did They Do It? Did They Ever Love Me? How To Handle It. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you unconsciously driving your partner away? What appears as helpful information can also be why they're losing interest, attraction, and desire. Here's how to get back on course and reignite your relationship. Your Attempt to Fix Them Pulling Away and Losing Interest Communicating Differently Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandCold The avoidant's attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It's easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you're back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant's Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional Rollercoaster Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Don't Fall for This! Learn how the ‘frailty factor' blindsides you every time. Here's how cons and scammers break your heart (and bank account)— and how realizing this dynamic shuts it down. #healthydating #scammers #onlinescams #romancescams #datinggames Human beings are built to love and be loved. It's our natural desire. But in the hopes of being loved, we're also vulnerable to those who'd prey upon us. Awareness of our internal weakness will assist us in filtering out the scammers from truly interested partners. What Is The ‘Frailty Factor' Identifying its Hallmarks Self-Correction, Boundaries, Reassessment Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Unleash Your Personal Power-What is personal empowerment? What does it look like? How do we get it? My interview with award-winning Wellness and Relationship coach Teresha Young answers these questions and offers directives for setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and trusting yourself. What is Empowerment? What does it look like in the real world? How do we cultivate it? Website:https://tereshayoung.com Podcast:https://tereshayoung.com/real-ationship-talk-the-podcast YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/c/tereshayoung Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you together, broken up, or something in between? Relationship limbo put you in a state of ongoing anxiety and confusion. Here are the steps to gain clarity and remove the mixed messages and ambiguity. Mixed Messages Delaying DTR Uncertainty About Your Future Communication Tips Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Do you know how to love yourself unconditionally? Does it seem like an impossible task? Here's what it takes to get into agreement with yourself, your choices, and your journey. Stop Comparing Macro not Micro YOU The ‘Dirty Mirror' Realization Where Self-Love Went Wrong Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Expressing sexual preferences can be challenging. In this interview, America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay, provides clear guidelines and practical speaking points to help you communicate your desires with confidence and ease. Stating Your Preferences Dating Contracts, Exclusivity, and Romantic Goals Feedback and Honest Dialogue Youtube:JonathonAslay www.jonathonaslay.com Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Tired of dead-end relationships? Are you filtering for love? Or just wasting time. Here's how to know if someone wants what you want and wants it with YOU. Filter From the Start Clarify Your Goals Discern, Assess, and Be Decisive Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you're looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/protection) Conversational skills – knowledge of various topics Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here's how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn  1.     If he/she doesn't want me = no one will. 2.     They are irreplaceable  3.     They'll give all their love to someone else 4.     Unnecessary suffering, through negative overthinking and projection Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.  1.    Externalized Version of Worth 2.    Securing Inner Worth 3.    Social Media Conformity 4.    Accepting Your Choices Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   The partner you say you want isn't the one you're actually choosing. Why? It's the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here's how to find lasting love. 1.     The Dating Paradox 2.     Why We Choose Blindly (with our eyes) 3.    Edifying Our Ego 4.    Social Status and Peer Approval Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Rejection hurts. And it's hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here's how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   We often hear in dating advice, “Don't give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here's how to never feel like you've lost your power, no matter the circumstance. 1. Power Dynamics In A Relationship 2. Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances 3. How To Do It Examples Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Feeling judged? Here's Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here's the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.   1. Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger 2. Fear of Difference and the Unknown 3. Only Two Positions- Open/Closed 4. The Closed Position 5. Evolving Toward Open Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We've locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we're still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle.  1.     The Mental Snapshot That Hooked You 2.     Why We Ignore Red Flags  3.     Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here's how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here's how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension.  1.    How To Know If It's Love Or Loneliness 2.    How And Why You Got Stuck 3.    Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner' 4.    Clarity = Freedom From Melancholy Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here's how to get what you truly want… 1.    Consider the past- positive or negative 2.    Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.    Do they care to try again? Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here's how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here's how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

How slow is ‘too slow' in dating? What's the difference between waiting and wasting time? Here's how to tell if your partner's legitimately setting a reasonable pace as opposed to playing you. We know ‘too hot too soon' will ruin a relationship. But what about too slow? When is slow way too slow?  1.    The Difference Between Pace and Playing You 2.    Setting a Reasonable Timeframe 3.    Self-Worth vs. ‘The Dream' How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here's how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there's something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem.   Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you're up in the hopes that you've met somebody, the next minute they reveal themselves to be false. Not to worry. There is a way to survive and thrive in modern dating. Here's how:   1.     The Key to Staying Centered 2.     Discerning Your Stuff vs Their Stuff 3.     Creating a Positive Vision for the Future Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here's how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here's what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game.   The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn't. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you in your recovery and future partnerships. 1.      You Can't Change a Player 2.      Assessing What Really Happened 3.      Charting a Course Forward Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Have you fallen for the “Spiritual Player?” You may think you want a spiritual partner— but what you're really requesting is ethical behavior and higher standards. Here's the test: 1. You assume the realm is “safe” – not so.  2. Know your ‘why.' What's the real reason behind your request?  3. Beware of spiritual gaslighting. You'll be blamed as being “less spiritual” for having a reaction to their bad behavior. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Struggling to find love? Frustrated, exhausted and in need of hope? Learn the structure and tools that enable you to get the love you want from the first date onward. These are the foundational principles: 1.    Hope: 2.    Filtering:  3.    Communication: 4.      Process: Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Is it your first love (and first breakup)? Or is it the first time you let yourself fall in love? Recovering from this type of heartache requires these tools:  1.     Accepting it's over 2.     Separating ‘the dream' from reality 3.     Trust LIFE to bring you love again. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   What is the ‘3-6-9 Rule' for relationships and why is it crucial for finding a lasting love? Here's how evaluating your relationship at each segment of time will reveal key insights that guide you in determining if this is your ‘person.'  3. The Discovery Phase: The first three months are a period of discovery and assessment. Here is where you assess your level of attraction and compatibility.    6. The Bonding Phase: This phase is marked by the deepening of your emotions for each other and the strengthening of your relationship.      9. The Evaluation Phase: This is the phase where you begin to determine the long-term potential of this person.  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Ever felt like love is more about 'give and take' than genuine connection? You may be in a transactional relationship. Learn how to spot the signs and identify the cycles so you can protect your heart.  ·  Identify Transactional Relationship Signs: Learn how to recognize the key indicators of a transactional relationship and ensure your connection is based on genuine love and respect. ·  Understand the Game's Cycles: Discover the hallmark patterns and cycles of a transactional relationship to better navigate and address this con early on. ·  How To Protect Your Heart: Awareness of the game and its cycles will ensure you're one step ahead and not letting ‘the illusion' destroy your emotional well-being. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Are you attracted to unavailable and bored with compatible? Attraction and chemistry may seem independent of logic… until you understand this:    ·   Underlying Factors: Discover the underlying factors that allow you to find healthy relationships boring and how to overcome the desire to create drama and distraction in your life   ·   Break the Cycle: Learn how to break the cycle of being addicted to the drama, seeing it for what it is, and understanding the consequences of these actions when done repeatedly, and how it keeps you in opposition to the loving relationship you seek to create.   ·   Create a New Love Model: Through assessing what doesn't work and seeing how it keeps you from getting the love you want; you can begin to create a new love model that focuses on attraction that is healthy. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Are you agonizing over the fact that it's your fault for the breakup? Here's how to handle your guilt and anxiety… and (possibly) recover the situation:    ·       Why you feel such guilt over the breakup that was supposed to set you free. ·       How dumpers remorse keeps you locked in a loop of stagnation ·       How to make peace with yourself and move on knowing that your decision was right, or take action to get your ex back Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   You did everything right—were the perfect partner but still got dumped. How can you heal and rebuild after heartbreak? Here's how to let go of the grief, anger, and sadness and move forward without regrets. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

   Want to overcome your dating anxiety? Wish you knew the key to leading with confidence and self-assurance? Here's how to shift your mindset and free your fear Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile