The Inner Life

Fr. Ramil Fajardo joins Patrick to discuss Annulments What does indissolubility of marriage? (11:15) What does freedom and living faithfully have to do with Marriage? What are Declarations of Nullity? (16:46) Debbie - If you're not married in the church or any church and just justice of peace, do you still need an annulment? I have a friend whose marriage was nullified. Is it just a government marriage? (22:28) Break 1 Elizabeth - After 37 years of marriage, I've filed for a declaration of nullity. If I don't receive it, what would my ongoing responsibility to him be? For rich or for poor? Do I need to give him money? (29:37) Email from Kent – Can I reach out to my diocese to get an update on my case? The healing process of annulments. Rose - If someone was unbaptized at the time of marriage and that ended in divorce and later they were baptized and become married, what effect does it have on the marriage? (38:41) Break 2 Email about the validity of the marriage that was really bad. Mary – Can annulments be appealed if not given? (43:48) Diane - I was married twice. Had an annulment. Now I got divorced again. I haven't filed an annulment. He has remarried and is not Catholic any more. When I married him, he had a habit of watching porn. I didn't find out until after we were married. Is that a reason to nullify the marriage? Annie - Prenuptial agreements...is that grounds for nullity?

Fr. Kris Stubna joins Patrick to discuss Confession Why is can’t we just go straight to God with confession? (5:33) what is the purpose of confession? (11:06) Carol - I was raised protestant and converted in 1991 in Newark New Jersey. I went through RCIA. Many people were reluctant or scared about confession. We were advised if we didn't want to do that, there was a universal confession where you go through the act of contrition. I never have gone to confession, however, I have been struggling and really want to go. I feel ashamed that I've never go. (16:51) Tim - If I go to confession and confess my sins, but intentionally don't confess a sin, are the others forgiven? (22:31) Beak 1 Sal - I'm 80 years old. Cradle Catholic. I've been thinking about sins that I don't know if I confessed them or not. Should I make an appointment with a priest? When I go to confession, there is usually a long line. (27:59) Email from Mary - How do you battle a sin when you have an affection for sin? What is an examination of conscience? (34:07) Kathleen - I would go to confession maybe 2-3 times a year. Son and husband left the church. I started going once a week. Transformation happened over the last year. I began recognizing the graces. Husband and others asked about the transformation. Peace and joy in my heart. I have had such graces from confession. Victor - What am I supposed to say when I go into the confessional? How do I start? First words...Father forgive me for I have sinned or something else. I'm a convert. (40:49) Break 2 Jane - I have been going to confession quite regularly. Our priest said this is an opportunity to have a relationship with Jesus. Confession isn't there to make you feel bad, but bind that sever. Made such an impression on me. More priests should tell parishioners that. (43:51) Theresa - I have a hard time forgiving myself. I have OCD. I caused a lot of pain through my ignorance have trouble getting over it. Is it okay to confess both sins and faults?

Fr. Dave Heney joins Patrick to discuss Mary Mother of the Church When did the Church Give Mary the title Mother of the Church? (9:44) what is Mary’s role as Mother of the Church? (16:40) Nora - When I was taking care of my mom in hospice. I grew up protestant and wasn't introduced to her until my teens. At that time, I really came to understand her power and her healing. We were praying the rosary when she passed. The feeling of the presence was so comforting. (20:24) Break 1 Carl - Rosary on the 7 sorrows of Mary. Wanted to get some clarification on the Rosary. The origin of the 7 sorrows Rosary and how it came to be and tied with the gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit. (26:13) Maritza - 2016, My mom passed away. 2017 my dad passed away. I buried my mom on Dec 8, 2016, and Dad on Dec 8, 2017. I started receiving Rosaries from all over the world. I didn't understand what it meant. Finally, I understood, Mary wanted me to start praying the Rosary. She walked me to Jesus. I'm now more active in church. (39:19) What is the importance of the first time Mary speaks? Heidi - She helped us get our house. Helped me get my CPA. There's been so many things Mary has helped me with and she's been wonderful to us. (39:19) Break 2 Mike - Went to the altar at my mom's funeral during the singing of Ave Maria. Bouquet of flowers and offered prayers during the singing of that song. We were offering prayers of thanksgiving. (45:16) Catherine - Mary has come into my life in so many ways: I met my husband at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church. I had a bad situation and ended up getting a job at Our Lady of Assumption School. Daughter was born on Feast of Immaculate Conception. House hit by tornado...brought statue into house before that and we were right by the statue in the basement. Abby - Cradle catholic, Catholic Schools, etc, but very mechanical faith and not really feeling it. Not going to confession for 17 years. After my son's confirmation, I was moved to go to confession and the flood gates opened in my heart. She called me back the week my parish asked me to become more involved.

Fr. Joseph Johnson joins Patrick to discuss Pentecost (5:19) What is Pentecost? What is the difference in our connection with God through Pentecost? (10:50) What is the incentive required on our end to receive the Holy Spirit? (18:20) Break 1 What is the importance of waiting on the Lord in Pentecost? (32:02) how were the apostles changed by the Holy Spirit and how does that affect us today? How is our “yes” important to the coming of the Holy Spirit? (37:32) Break 2 How does the holy spirit relate to confirmation? (43:47) How I the Holy Spirit finding unity in diversity? Resources The Great Dvorce – CS Lewis https://www.amazon.com/Great-Divorce-C-S-Lewis/dp/0060652950

IL – Fr. John Paul Erickson joins Patrick to discuss Leisure and the Spiritual Life What makes it difficult to find leisure? (8:40) What are things that drive us to fill up our brokenness? (18:17) Break 1 (24:39) Leonard do retreats count for leisure? How does leisure help us identify where restlessness lies? How do we remember our dignity as men and women? (38:38) Break 2 (42:51) Tim - can you speak about the restlessness we feel on Sunday night before we start work on Monday? (46:35) Karen - America as a culture seems addicted to work. how do we get out of that?

Fr. Chris Walsh joins Patrick to discuss Gifts of the Holy Spirit (2:31) What are the Gifts of the Holy Spirit? (8:19) How does cooperation work with us receiving the gifts of the Spirit? How does Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel and Knowledge work together? (21:07) Break 1 (22:45) Theresa - My brother said mean things to me and I responded by saying that I only care what God thinks. Was that correct? (fear of the Lord) What is the gift of Fortitude? (34:51) Break 2 What are the Graces of the Spirit given to people? (39:49) Why is it important to be giving to the Church by using your own Charism?

Sr. Amelia Hueller joins Patrick to discuss Friendship (4:27) Why are friendships important? What are different types of friendships? (13:14) Pamela - I have a conflict with a friend. I let her borrow a jacket and she then gave the jacket away. Should I accept that as Gods will? How do we respond to when we are hurt by friends? (21:14) Break 1 Peter - Shout out to one of my friends who helped me in my faith and is now my brother-in-law. (30:03) Cookie - I have a person in my HOA and her morals are really bad. Can’t avoid this person but I don’t know how to stay away from her. How do I distance myself? (37:23) Break 2 What are some things we need to develop to be good friends with others? (42:44) Lisa - when you move away from a friend what is your duty to that friendship? (47:10) Karen - met a woman through our mutual love of art and have seen her slow conversion to the catholic faith.

(1:59) Fr. Patrick Hyde joins us to talk about his role as a Eucharistic Preacher. Break 1 (34:29) John - Doesn't feel like he's going to heaven. what do you recommend he reads to get closer to Jesus. Break 2 (40:26) Rosie - Are our souls tied to those we've married? (43:06) – Jenny - Baptism for separated parents. does the catholic church require permission from both parents? (48:44) – Lorna - last rites: father didn't get last rites. What happens now?

Fr. Sam Martin joins Patrick to discuss The Visitation of Mary (3:59) what is the visitation of Mary? How did Elizabeth recognize Mary and her role? (21:14) Break 1 Julie - I've had a visit from the blessed Mother. I had it confirmed from a priest. It makes me cry, but it's a beautiful thing. Miracle. You want to share it, but you know people won't believe you. (28:48) what can we learn form the visitation in how to interact with Mary? (33:28) What can we learn from the Magnificat? (38:58) Break 2 Rita - I'm wondering if one of the reasons for the visitation was to prepare Mary for what was coming. She was a complete virgin and didn't know about childbirth. She was close to Elizabeth and that might have given her some reassurance about what was happening to her. (42:13) Bob - How has Mary come into our life in a special way...through the many religious sisters and nuns. They have a special relationship with Jesus. I know many who have given their life to the Lord. Always filled with joy. Ericka - I believe the blessed mother appears to us in dreams and wants to protect us and let us know we need to pray.

Fr. Michael Hurley joins Patrick to discuss The Ascension (2:47) how is Ascension an Aloha moment? Why is the Ascension celebrated on Sunday in some place and Thursday on others? Why did Jesus leave us in the Ascension? (20:39) Break 1 How is the ascension wrapped up in our own destiny? (27:38) Ronny - I am glad that Jesus left the HS as a gift after ascension Don - I have this idea that we hold on to Jesus' ankles so that He ascends with us along with Him. (37:18) Break 2 Why waiting on the Lord is important for Ascension? (46:40) Karen - what did Christ mean when he told Mary to stop holding on to him?

Fr. Rob Kroll joins Patrick to discuss Mental and Spiritual Health (7:12) What is the correlation of mental and spiritual health? How does the prayer help with metal health? (19:12) Mary Ellen - I've struggled with mental health all my life. 60 years old. Suicidal, but I've always been faithful Catholic. I love God and have had a good relationship with Him. Even though I've been in and out of the hospital many times, I'm on meds that keep me steady and I've always had a deep faith life, but only since I've had good mental health therapy and meds. (24:51) Break 1 How can we be aware of our mental state? (30:17) Doug - I struggle with schizophrenia. I'm consecrated to St. Dymphna. I've seen many things with this illness. Struggled throughout most of my life. I live in a mental health community and we all struggle with many different diseases. Every day I wake up with my devotionals and spiritual guidance. Want to thank you all for bringing awareness. (36:12) Carlo - What does father thing about 'warm lines.' Different than hotlines, They're set up so people can call in and talk to someone who is willing to listen. (41:16) Break 2 How can prayer and the sacraments help us mentally? (45:46) Recommendations for mental and spiritual health. Resources: Catholic Therapist. https://catholictherapists.com/ Be Healed - Dr. Bob Schuchts https://www.avemariapress.com/products/be-healed Real Suffering - Dr. Bob Schuchts https://www.amazon.com/Real-Suffering-Dr-Bob-Schuchts/dp/1505112486 The Catholic Guide to Depression https://www.catholiccompany.com/catholic-guide-to-depression-i36385/?sku=1004922&utm_term=&utm_campaign=**LP+-+Shop+-+*Catch+All&utm_source=adwords&utm_medium=ppc&hsa_acc=1453680900&hsa_cam=18868498708&hsa_grp=142003438246&hsa_ad=634071324946&hsa_src=g&hsa_tgt=pla-297267570956&hsa_kw=&hsa_mt=&hsa_net=adwords&hsa_ver=3&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18868498708&gclid=CjwKCAjw6NrBBhB6EiwAvnT_rrqpbpv_xw9kc_GSb_8BKGKE7PrjqftpOkAvIdS_YvMoEglfqSv82BoCRSMQAvD_BwE Understanding Scrupulosity: 3rd Edition of Questions and Encouragement https://www.amazon.com/Understanding-Scrupulosity-3rd-Questions-Encouragement/dp/0764825275 The Catholic Guide Through Anxiety - Fr. John Paul Mary Zeller https://www.amazon.com/Catholic-Guide-Through-Anxiety-Wellness/dp/B09QP22W14

Fr. Bobby Blood joins Patrick to discuss Fallen Away Family Members How is Faith a gift from God? What is the role of the community in staying in the faith? (19:11) Vicki - My siblings...most away from faith. I have a cousin who might want to come back. She goes to Mass, receives communion, and realizes she shouldn't do that. Siblings aren't talking to me. What can I do to help bring my siblings back? (19:11) Break 1 Mary - Fallen away member (daughter). Married a wonderful Christian. Said to my daughter he would do whatever she wanted. Moved around the country and has now gone to a Christian church. His mother was a fallen away Catholic. I can't say anything critical, but I want to bring them back. I think if she came back he would follow her. What are mistakes when trying to bring family back to the faith? (28:50) Patrick shares an email about the need for reflection in discerning what they did wrong in raising their kids Sue - I have a 30-year-old daughter and 27-year-old son. They don't believe in God. They were raised Catholic, Catholic school, etc. Wondering how to bring them back. We went through a divorce. I think they're dealing with a lot of hurt from it. (35:33) Patty - My question is...I have 2 nephews who are young adults. Sister has allowed them not to go to church, but they live in her house. Want to reach out and bring them back to church. My sister is blocking me from doing that, and I don't know what to do. (39:07) Break 2 (41:14) David - 2 children and my wife have left the church. All different situations. Daughter, 18, graduated last week and is a lesbian. Son, 23, he's into heavy metal. Wife, I think, is just laziness. There were a lot of changes in our parish and I think they didn't like it. I reminded them we're not here to worship you, we're here to worship God. Want to bring them back. (46:54) Carl - I encouraged my sisters to download the RR app to bring them back to the church. Shared something from Drew and she was impressed what she heard. What she did since then, I don't know, but she has the app and now has the opportunity to listen.

Fr. Richard Simon joins Patrick for a Sunday Bible Study Father shares the Gospel reading for today. (18:18) Deacon Michael - I have a suggestion for homily number 5 - let your heart not be troubled. (21:18) Break 1 How can we Rely on the Holy Spirit in our world today? (30:38) Nick - The Lord tells us I must go to the Father. I see the Lord on the cross. Our Lord is saying it is finished. It's a beautiful Trinitarian reference. Great advocate is going to come. (37:41) Break 2 Email Did John know about St Paul’s conversion or How do you feel God’s peace? (43:28) Regina - Jesus suffers for us. God sent his only son. We also have to suffer. No getting around it. How are we supposed to not see God as a sadist?

Bishop Michael Martin joins Patrick to Discuss Love for the Papacy Bishop Michael Martin Gives his thoughts on the new Pope Leo What is the papacy? (12:54) What does it mean that the pope is the visible head of the Church? (16:35) Break 1 Pamela - Experience with Pope John Paul II. Visited my country (Ecuador). I was a young child. The street was so crowded. I recall him going down the road looking at us with the sweetest look. Gave us his blessing. My dad cried with joy. (29:28) Fr. Don - I'm a priest in the diocese of Phoenix. in 87, JPII came to the diocese. My sister gave him flowers. Beautiful experience and is part of why I became a priest. (36:18) Break 2 Tim - One of my dear friends, a deacon, told me a story about not being into any faith. Saw JPII in Chicago and he looked him in the eye and he blessed him. Changed his life and he became a deacon. (41:24) Margie - I've been praying for years for conversion of my mother. She's 82. Pope Leo has touched her heart. She told me she's considered about being more faithful to the Catholic faith. I gave her a crucifix and miraculous medal. This pope reminds me of my grandfather. What happens when you say you don’t like this pope or that pope?

Msgr. Tom Richter joins Patrick to Discuss 6 Foundations of Prayer (Part 1) (4:01) why is it important to develop foundations of prayer? (11:05) First foundation of prayer: Awakened Faith (20:20) Break 1 David - How can I get more awaken faith if I already experience it in the past, but it has fallen away? How to reinvigorate the awaken faith and bringing it back? (26:07) What is the second foundation of faith: Getting God Right. (40:32) Break 2 Patrick shares an email about offering daily activities in getting God right? (41:46) Third foundation of prayer: The Cross

Father Matthew Widder joins Patrick to the Rosary (3:06) Father Shares his thoughts on Pope Leo What is the Rosary? (9:55) Mysteries of the Rosary Rita - I remember years ago, there was a man who was convicted as a mass murderer. one of the things I remember is that he went to a dormitory and killed them. He went into another room and couldn't get in. The comment was a young nurse had fallen asleep with a Rosary in her hand. Very powerful. Jeannie - I would like to help my family learn the Rosary. Going to a funeral in June. What is the best way to approach this and teach them? (22:21) Break 1 (25:22) Chris - I meditate on the Rosary and try to think about what Mary was doing. Was she baptized in the Jordan? Was she sacramental? (27:56) Vicki Lou - It's changed my life completely and brought me home to the faith. It's changed my entire life. I pray it daily. Tom - I came into the church in 2009. I did not know anything about Mary. In 2010, I sailed offshore and on the way I would pray the Rosary. Didn't know it, but had a pamphlet. Had it down after 16 days. Did the Camino and prayed the Rosary daily. All these years later, we both pray the Rosary daily. Very important to my wife and me. Margaret - The Rosary was gifted to me when my mother died. I've been praying it ever since. (37:51) Break 2 Patrick shares an email from AJ about how he can be close to Mary? Nancy - I pray the Rosary daily in church or with Fr Rocky. I know there's a plenary indulgence when praying with a group. Can you still get the indulgence when praying with Fr. Rocky? (45:30) Christina – My story on how the rosary saved a life (48:36) Father shares the conversion story of a Satanic priest.

Father Allen Hoffa joins Patrick to discuss Battling Addiction (3:32) what is addiction? 11:17 Chris - I've struggled with Sexual addiction. I'm in recovery now. Wreckage it's left behind is terrible. Trying to figure out how to repair that. Making amends is something that just doesn't happen. (21:07) Break 1 Chris- 2 programs for sexual addiction. Which one is conformity with Catholic teaching? (27:22) Can you be addicted to romance novels? (29:50) Cynthia - Just got off the phone with somebody in rehab with a crack issue. God has opened that door to help them. Going to rehab Saturday. Those of us that have had issues need to speak out and share our story and testimony. So often it's a secret because of shame. How can we help others who are struggling with addiction? (37:43) Break 2 Can you use anointing of the sick for addiction? (41:02) Sharice - How does God feel about pushing child away? Son has been addict for 11 years. He gets physical and abuse towards us. Husband is afraid he's going to go on the street and die. How can you be aware of and stop addictions before they begin? Resources: Hope’s Garden https://hopesgarden.com/ Integrity Restored https://integrityrestored.com/ Catholic Therapist https://catholictherapists.com/

Father Patrick Hyde joins Patrick to discuss Prayer (2:22) What is prayer? (13:01) What are the different forms of prayer? Walter - Holy spirit the main person in prayer because he is so much and possessing us and leads us all the time. He is love. (27:00) Break 1 Dee -When you pray for someone does it have to be a 'full on' prayer? I'll offer up a word list prayer and not necessarily a hail Mary, etc. If someone asks me to pray for them, I'm not 100 percent sure I remembered everyone. If I don't remember specifically, I'll mention any prayer that I said I would pray for. Is that ok? (41:35) How do you deal with distractions in prayer?

Father Ramil Fajardo joins Patrick to discuss Office of Bishop Who was Saint Mathias how does he relate with the office of bishop? (12:51) Father offers his thoughts on Pope Leo XIV How does a bishop become elected? (18:05) Bob - were any of the original apostles alive when peter died. If so, why was one of those not chosen as his successor? Deacon Martin - I've been present at all types of ordinations. It's a phenomenal experience. If you have the chance to go to an episcopal ordination, I highly recommend it. I've also been at a Bishop's installation. (27:00) Break 1 What can only bishops do ordinations? (32:05) Email – What happens to the vows of a religious when they are made a bishop? (42:07) How can we disagree with the bishops in authority over us? How can we help our bishops?

Father John Eckert joins Patrick to discuss Our Lady of Fatima (2:30) Pope Leo’s connection with Mary. What is a Marian apparition and what are the big 3 Marian apparitions? (15:58) Father explains the story of Fatima, and the secrets of Fatima (27:00) Break 1 Nick - I have a devotion. Introduced to Our Lady in 1986. Started praying the Rosary. I loved her message. She asks us to pray and offer up sufferings and conversions - unite with our Lord. What is the time frame of the apparitions of Our Lady of Fatima? (41:55) Maritsa - I was in Fatima about a month ago. It was an extraordinary blessing and amazing place to be. Humble town. I can imagine when the Virgin appeared, it had to be more humble. Fatima is everywhere? Resources: Inside the Light: Understanding the Message of Fatima https://www.amazon.com/Inside-Light-Understanding-Message-Fatima/dp/1505116074 Fatima for Today The Urgent Marian Message of Hope https://ignatius.com/fatima-for-today-fatop/

Father Marcel Taillon joins Patrick to discuss Obedience (1:50) more about the new pope. (3:58) what is obedience? Who can help us with obedience? (27:00) Break 1 Is it ever okay to disobey earthly authorities? (40:22) how do we foster obedience in our lives? How can we help family members grow in obedience?

Father Eric Nielsen joins Patrick to discuss Motherhood (2:47) Father shares his thoughts on the new Pope Leo The importance of Mary our mother (17:58) Anne - She wasn't a saint, but she gave her 4 children the gift of knowing God. She made sure we went to Catholic school. Up until she died, she prayed the rosary and talked to us about Jesus and passing that along to our kids. I know many who didn't have that kind of mom. Feel so blessed. (20:40) Break 1 How can mothers bring the faith to their children. JoAnn - I'm one of 9. Mom is deceased. Greatest gift is our faith. She was raised Catholic. Her mom started the Rosary society in Brooklyn, NY. Great role model. What if mom (30:47) Mario - My mom passed away 4 years ago. I was in charge of her Rosary. Wrote a eulogy about her. (35:41) Teresa I struggled because I didn’t remember my mom but now I am thankful for it. (41:26) Break 2 (45:07) Vince - My mom (immigrant Italian) married at the shrine of Pompeii. I remember her being very devoted. Watched the angelus every Sunday. She went through so much growing up in WWII Italy. Sharon - My mom was a convert and raised us all Catholic. What do you do when the father isn't Catholic and teaches them not to follow what the mother says?

The Inner Life was pleasantly interrupted by the announcement that we have a new pope! (5:53) Check out this Live and in the moment commentary on the election of the new pope! Pope Leo XIV

Check out this encore show from April 30, 2025 Father John Paul Erickson joins Patrick to discuss Confirmation What is a Sacrament? (5:12) What is Confirmation? What are some misconceptions about confirmation? (13:19) Laura - I'm 57 and converted when I was 19. My mom was Catholic and dad was Lutheran. We didn't have formal RCIA at that time. Feel like I missed something in the process. I did get a certificate of confirmation from the church. My kids are in Catholic school and I've learned so much from them. (20:00) Break 1 Sandra - Born in Mexico. Confirmation and baptism was done at the same time. I just want to make sure that is valid when you don't have full knowledge of your confirmation. (24:20) David - I taught CCD for a number of years. Some weren't interested in becoming confirmed, How is grace confirmed at confirmation when they are accepting it but not really wanted? Katie - I made my first communion in April of the 1960s...three weeks later I made confirmation because the bishop only came every 4 years. (30:46) How is Confirmation a missionary Sacrament? John - I was confirmed in 72. I remember we being nervous. Reaffirming that you had attitudes of people being bored, but others being nervous and perhaps more serious about it. John - I have fond memories about it. I was an altar boy and when I was confirmed I was able to be a lector. Very rewarding. It forced me to learn and study the readings. (40:15) Break 2 Why does the Bishop need to be the one to Confirm people? (44:05) John - Question: I recently got confirmed but my wife and I were supposed to get convalidated. I was wondering about the process and whether that is true or not. Who can be confirmed? Niki - Confirmed in 2014. Felt so much joy and cried happy tears. Daughter was my sponsor. I became catholic when Pope Francis stepped out on the balcony. Felt the holy spirit tell me I had to become Catholic.

Father Peter Armenio joins Patrick to discuss Forgiveness (4:01) What is forgiveness? (15:08) Patsy - Married 47 years. Difficult marriage. I find myself touched by the holy spirit. Devoted myself to believing. However, my husband has continued on his path the way he has lived his life. Difficult time talking to him. I don't know if that's the same as not forgiving him. I feel no sense in trying to communicate. (21:32) Break 2 Fred - How far does forgiveness go when you think you have someone and make contact, and no response? I thought I did my duty before God in asking for forgiveness. Did I do enough. (26:15) Crystal - I've been struggling with this topic. My family escaped communism. It's created a broken situation with my family. Sibling and father don't talk. Done a lot mentally, spiritually, physically, but they're not open to relationships unless it's conditional. I still struggle with getting to answer to this. I think forgiveness is a process and some days I'm unhappy with the situation. 11:36 Rob - Struggling with a brother in law. I've forgiven him, but I don't want to talk to him. It always ends up the same way. What should I do? Ann - My late husband died several years ago. Was a permanent deacon. He was obliged to say the divine office. I prayed part of it with him. If couples pray together everyday, they'll get rid of a lot of these issues. I wonder how many people who have trouble forgiving would be better off by praying together. I think it applies to those having difficulties. (37:26) Break 2 How do we know if we haven’t forgiven someone? (44:02) Patrick shares an email about how to forgive someone with narcissistic tendencies? (46:28) Yvonne - Someone very close to me did some things he shouldn't have. I think that I've forgiven him, but the hurt keeps coming up. I keep questioning as to whether I really forgave him.

Father Tom Wilson joins Patrick to discuss Spiritual Hunger and the Eucharist What is Spiritual hunger? (7:18) What should we be looking for when it comes to spiritual hunger? Why is it a blessing to be hungry? (20:07) Break 1 (22:02) What happens when people say they are not being fed? (27:49) Sebastian - in my experience, I have relied on my relationship with Jesus with my attempt of fidelity to Him with constantly a sense of anxiety. I have a family member who grew up Catholic and eventually became protestant. He gives the impression that he's living the sense of bliss and roll with the punches by the use of psychedelics. I don't feel the need to use them. Annette - Not Catholic, but watch mass etc. Spiritual hunger for me is when I'm not in my daily reading devotions. That's when I huger for God most because I'm out of place. (39:28) Break 2 (41:00) Colleen - Eucharist and presence of Christ. Years ago, my husband and I (dating) I remember receiving Christ and then going to my husband's church (Lutheran) and he wasn't there. It's in your soul...you know when he's there, in the Eucharist. Is it ever appropriate to abstain from communion to build up our spiritual hunger? Patrick shares an email about receive Mayra - I was raised without any faith. Found myself in a Baptist church at age 10. As the pastor held up the bread, he said we're only doing this to remember Jesus. He said the words, this is my body given up for you. I had a long faith journey and I feel learning about the Eucharist was the easiest part because I already believed that was the body and blood of Christ.

Father Joseph Illo joins Patrick to discuss the Immaculate Heart of Mary (4:00) What is the Immaculate Heart of Mary? Images of the Immaculate heart. How can we emulate the Immaculate heart of Mary? (19:24) Break 1 Monica - When you go to Friday Mass, what do you do to honor her? do you say certain prayers? (22:25) How do you pray the Seven sorrows of our lady Rosary? What is Saint Maximilian devotion to the Immaculate Lady? (29:24) Can someone be too close to Mary? (37:21) Break 2 Jasmine - I recently came back to the church. Immaculate Heart has helped me and led me to Jesus. Praying the Rosary. (40:49) Adrian Email – speaks about being able to receive Jesus better through Mary. How is Mary receptive? (45:44) Coky - Miracle from Our Lady. Was diagnosed with illness.

Father Michael Maher joins Patrick to discuss the Feast of St Joseph the Worker (3:05) What is the devotion to Saint Joseph like? Why is Marxist communism so evil? what is the importance of the family in society? (16:22) Roland - Devotions to him for years. Was unemployed and prayed for his intercession. Has helped me many times. (20:38) Break 1 Robert - I am curious about when someone consecrates themselves to a saint. I've heard of the St. Joseph consecration. What is it about? (27:00) Father shares 5 points on how we can consecrate our lives through our work? (36:36) Break 2 Work being a gift even when it is hard. (41:09) Work and human dignity. (45:50) Ann - I was taught a prayer to St. Joseph. O Saint Joseph whose protection is so great... Wanted to share this prayer with you. Husband was a deacon. How are we co-creators in our own work with God? Resources: Consecration to St. Joseph https://ignatius.com/consecration-to-st-joseph-csjp/

Father John Paul Erickson joins Patrick to discuss Confirmation What is a Sacrament? (5:12) What is Confirmation? What are some misconceptions about confirmation? (13:19) Laura - I'm 57 and converted when I was 19. My mom was Catholic and dad was Lutheran. We didn't have formal RCIA at that time. Feel like I missed something in the process. I did get a certificate of confirmation from the church. My kids are in Catholic school and I've learned so much from them. (20:00) Break 1 Sandra - Born in Mexico. Confirmation and baptism was done at the same time. I just want to make sure that is valid when you don't have full knowledge of your confirmation. (24:20) David - I taught CCD for a number of years. Some weren't interested in becoming confirmed, How is grace confirmed at confirmation when they are accepting it but not really wanted? Katie - I made my first communion in April of the 1960s...three weeks later I made confirmation because the bishop only came every 4 years. (30:46) How is Confirmation a missionary Sacrament? John - I was confirmed in 72. I remember we being nervous. Reaffirming that you had attitudes of people being bored, but others being nervous and perhaps more serious about it. John - I have fond memories about it. I was an altar boy and when I was confirmed I was able to be a lector. Very rewarding. It forced me to learn and study the readings. (40:15) Break 2 Why does the Bishop need to be the one to Confirm people? (44:05) John - Question: I recently got confirmed but my wife and I were supposed to get convalidated. I was wondering about the process and whether that is true or not. Who can be confirmed? Niki - Confirmed in 2014. Felt so much joy and cried happy tears. Daughter was my sponsor. I became catholic when Pope Francis stepped out on the balcony. Felt the holy spirit tell me I had to become Catholic.

Father Rob Kroll joins Patrick to discuss St. Catherine of Siena Why do we even celebrate feast days? (8:04) Early life and highlights of St Catherine of Siena. (19:50) Break 1 Cathy - My friend gave me a book about her written by a priest who knew her. Wasn't catholic at the time, but made me mad I didn't hear about her earlier after reading her story and then becoming a Catholic. I joined the church about 30 years ago. (27:44) How did Saint Catherine help reform the Church and the Pope? St. Catherine of Siena’s espousal to Christ. (37:17) Break 2 What are some of her aesthetical practices and how can we relate with that? Catherine of Siena as a Doctor of the Church (45:06) How can we set the world on fire with our own lives? Resources: Catherine of Siena by Sigrid Undset https://ignatius.com/catherine-of-siena-casip/

Father John Eckert joins Patrick to discuss Consecrations (2:36) what are consecrations? Who was St. Louis De Montfort? How do consecrations fit into God’s plan of salvation? (22:56) Break 1 Ronny - I did a consecration in 2021. Approved by Pope Francis. It's a consecration to Jesus over 33 days. We read the 4 gospels, pray, fast on Wednesdays and at the end, we receive 5 topics. (29:48) David - Question: I've never consecrated myself to anything. I'm wondering if I might have missed an opportunity. There was a time that St. Faustina kept coming up before I even knew who she was. (38:24) Break 2 (39:17) What do you do in a consecration? Is it okay to be consecrated to multiple Saints? Resources: Divine Mercy Consecration: 33 Days to Merciful Love https://www.thedivinemercy.org/articles/introduction-33-days-merciful-love Consecration to Jesus Christ https://elsembradorministries.com/esne/iam73/

Father Eric Nielsen joins Patrick to discuss Divine Mercy (3:51) What is Mercy? Nick - We have a divine mercy ministry at our parish. Sick and dying ministry. I think we are told and taught to give. The Lord really touches our hearts to forgive. Errors we make are blessings and the Lord gives us perspective as to why we fell off. His mercy is unfathomable. Mary - My mom is 99. She has never forgotten her faith. Went to church on Easter Sunday. I thought I was putting false gods before her, but a priest said you're seeing God through her. After communion, a woman knelt down in front of her and kissed her hand. She works at the nursing home where she lives. We watch the goodness through all of us and find that forgiveness. That is my divine mercy. (21:27) Break 1 Kathleen - About 2 years ago, I experienced depression and anxiety. Confession really helped. Did Divine Mercy the night before and meditating in my prayer time. Anxiety and depression have now been lifted. Read St. Faustina's diary. (25:00) What is the role of Forgiveness of other in Mercy? (29:28) Teresa - I learned about divine mercy in 2000. 15 years ago, I did a fast and prayed and my son who was on meth had a breakthrough. Went to a mass and women were handing out divine mercy images. I started my mission of handing these pictures out and I'm blessed to be able to do that. Ronda - I had come into the church from Protestantism. Was in the room where the tabernacle was and divine mercy picture was there. I asked, 'Is this all real?' The rays started moving. That happened 3 times. (35:33) Ken - I thought I was dying, and I prayed that the blessed mother would intercede. Went to Jesus and asked for his mercy. Woke up the next morning and had a blood clot near my heart. Beautiful experience because I asked Jesus to have mercy. Felt like I was approaching the king of the universe. I no longer fear death. (39:00) Break 2 (40:05) Linda - Question: I'm new to it...I don't understand we offer you your body and blood. How do we offer something that's already His body and blood? (45:08) how do we get a plenary indulgence on Divine Mercy Sunday?

Father Joseph Illo joins Patrick to discuss the Effects of the Resurrection What happened during the resurrection? (6:23) what are proofs for the Resurrection? Why is the Resurrection so pivotal to the Faith? (14:25) What are the effects of the resurrection in our personal lives? (19:40) Break 1 What does hope have to do with the resurrection? (23:55) Testament of the Holy Father Pop Francis. (30:37) Philip - Maximilian Kolbe - his great sacrifice which mirrors Jesus's. The timing...July 1941. 14th of August he was injected with carbolic acid. For me...that heroic sacrifice is still life-giving. My death to sin...it brought me new life. That's what the resurrection means to me. (34:05) Break 2 Bradley - I was baptized on Easter. Before that, I've had 4 medical miracles. I came indirect contact with relics. Jesus's nail, thorn, nail, wood, I picked them up...prayed...3 months later my wife was getting tested and I prayed and she was cured of hypertension. That's why I became Catholic. (41:05) What is the Church’s teaching on the resurrection of the body?

Father Christopher Walsh joins Patrick to discuss Being Alive in Christ What does it mean to be alive in Christ? (8:34) What does baptism mean in our life and what does mortal sin do to our life in Christ? Kim - If you believe in the blood and Flesh of Jesus in the Eucharist, you have Christ alive in you, and you are live in Him and he is dwelling in you in your heart. Bella - My missionary life when I was single. Feeling that happiness, that childlike joy being in Christ. Finishing a mission before heading back home. That joy is so overwhelming. How can I improve that when dealing with clinical depression? (22:02) Break 1 Where can we find life in the Church? (29:41) What things can prevent us from feeling alive in Christ? (36:09) Addison - I am a youth minister in Diocese of Phoenix. My teens have radically changed me in the way they love the Lord. Every youth night, my life is just bursting with the love of Christ. (40:30) Break 2 How do the saints help us to grow in our life with Christ? (45:33) How does prayer life and the sacraments help us grow with Jesus? What is the role of humility in learning about the life of Christ?

Father Ramil Fajardo joins Patrick to discuss Spiritual Benefits of Celebration How do we celebrate in the presence of the Death of Pope Francis? (5:59) why is celebration an important part of the Christian life? Mary - My mom is 99. She used to have everyone over. She'd have a huge open house. Father died at 54 on Easter Sunday. Everyone was there to say goodbye. Every Easter we say it was sad, but everything will be ok...think about dying, but we're joyful for his goodness. (20:13) Tom - I'm curious about how do I discover that Easter joy. I'm a very joyful person, but Easter Sunday was difficult because my children and family weren't there. (29:05) Break 1 Dean - The divine mercy novena takes on a special meaning with the death of Pope Francis. Intensifies the joy of Easter. Chocolate and red wine, wearing bright colors, new life outdoors. Left an angel on my porch at Christmas. Leaving it there as a reminder of the joy. What are some practicalities in celebrating? (40:13) Break 2 How does music help us celebrate in the Church? (45:41) Patrick shares an email about the need to celebrate through suffering

Father James Kubicki joins Patrick to Honor Pope Francis What was he main focus of Pope Francis’ ministry (10:50) Perth -I'm a convert and was just talking to family members who are protestant. Defending the pope on his stances. I didn't know much about him and didn't look further until 4 months ago when I came back to the church. Today I saw an interview and it softened my heart and made me cry. He was for the people. Mary Lou - I remember hearing that when he was living in Argentina before coming Pope and throughout his papacy, he used to take the bus wherever he worked. Never took special cars, maid, chef, etc. Was with the poor. It profoundly influenced me so many ways in letting to ego and materialism. (20:40) Break 1 (27:45) Roland - I live in Metro Philadelphia. Was at world meeting of families. Was touched by his warmness. I'll never forget it. I served as a Spanish translator. To see everyone in such peace and love was a vision of heaven on earth. Mphasa - He touched my heart. His resilience. He was there for the people and there was so much Jesus in him. I will carry that on. (34:27) Barb - I think his work with Laudato Si was beautiful. It was a great opportunity to be ecumenical. It brought in a lot of people to the church and speaking to an issue that was relevant to them. Ray - My father passed away at the time the white smoke went up and that's why he's been a special figure for me. (39:26) Break 2 How did Pope Francis promote hope? (44:27) Brian - I'm a convert of 12 years. First pope. whether he focused on the environment or whatever, he was always trying to find a common ground with all people. How did Pope Francis promote devotion to Saint Joseph?

Check out this great encore show from April 2, 2025! Father Michael Hurley joins Patrick to discuss Intellect and faith When it comes to Jesus, we must care and we must mind (2:53) What does the intellect teach us about the life of faith? The intellect is a human faculty that is a direct reflection of God. (4:04) Faith should be accessible to us all (11:27) Our capacity to love is finite. Do you want to grow in love? The only way to expand your love is to expand your mind? (14:48) Break 1 (22:28) The difference between the intellect, the will, and the passions? (23:51) Dean - As we talk about reason and faith, we need to think about how can we make it accessible to all people? The illumination of God is so important. (27:35) Email – Bob – Is supernatural faith necessary for salvation and are people who lack faith culpable for that lack of faith? (31:10) Glen - There is a difference about learning about Jesus, and knowing Jesus. (33:43) Break 2 (36:45) Addressing the objection, “I just believe” or “I kind of know the faith already and you can’t teach me anything new about the Church”. (37:38) Regina - What does Jesus mean when he says: 'unless you become like little children, you cannot enter into the kingdom'. (41:33) Resources: Angelic Warfare Confraternity

Check out this encore show from March 21, 2025! Father Tom Wilson joins Patrick to discuss Fasting. Christ fasted before His public ministry. It was a time of preparation, just as it is for us. Catholics between the ages of 14 and 59 are to fast 2 days per year. Fasting is supposed to help us become more in tune with our Lord, spiritually. It reminds us that the blessings that we choose to set aside are less important than the Lord who gave them to us in the first place. (1:09) John - I was unaware that we had to abstain from meat on Fridays. By listening to RR, I found out otherwise. I've been fasting on all Fridays. (22:16) Marie: I'm a mom and decided to give up social media for Lent. I thought it wouldn't be much of a sacrifice, but as we've been in Lent, I realized how much I was missing with my daughter. Didn't realize I had a problem with it. (28:27) Ilka is fasting from meat and also eggs, dairy and butter. Any fast that helps us change direction a little bit, is going to be helpful? (32:43) Patrick: I've added something rather than taking away. My Lenten 'fast' has been reading the Gospel of John. (35:14) Miguel – I decided to give up smoking during Lent. (45:13)

Check out this encore show from March 28, 2025 Father John LoCoco joins Patrick to discuss Modern Idols What is an idol? (6:41) How can we identify we are placing out trust in something other than God? How is materialism one of the greatest idols against God. (15:09) Phyllis - I'm battling modern idols right now. Feeling secure when I don't have enough funds in my account. Money. Found myself not trusting God. Patty - For years I've been considering spending a lot of time with sacramental. I love them because they have Mother Mary and Jesus. Talked to a religious sister about it. Wondering if I'm committing idolatry. (22:04) Break 2 Are there other passages that talk about idolatry (26:12) Butch - Is playing things like board games with family members an idol if it's done excessively...like every night? Could that be considered an idol? Janet - Coming to realization after 30 years of marriage that I think I idolize the outcome of my children's lives. I'm watching some ugly journeys. Is that a form of idolatry? (33:28) Idolatry in relationships? (37:16) Break 2 How do you talk with family who are committing idolatry? (42:40) What is the difference between Addiction and Idolatry How can we put God in the center of our lives? Resources: Strange Gods https://www.avemariapress.com/products/strange-gods

Check out this great encore show from April 8, 2025 Father Bobby Blood joins Patrick to discuss Charitable Chastisement How do you discern when to offer correction to someone? (14:14) Judy - I wish somebody had loved me enough to chastise me. I walked away from faith, husband, etc. Nobody said Judy...you can't do this. I think it's important that we love enough to do that. I've come back to God and I know how much he loves me. It took a long time to accept the fact that he forgave me. (17:57) Thomas - I do sales for a living. When you have the truth and a way to convey it...chastisement, etc. tonality and all are everything. One of the ways to chastise is to site another source. Another way is the tonality...like... raising the voice. Coming from a place of love. (22:16) Break 1 What are things we can say to help build a relationship? (25:11) Mary - My sister was seriously ill. Didn't realize it was terminal. I told her she had to get it together because she was very ill. I talked to a priest and he went to see her and everything was taken care of. Patty – I have been wanting to control my husband who is living in sin and the Lord told me what to do in talking with him and it worked out great! (37:36) Break 2 Isabelle - My dad wasn't a Catholic. He was sick...92...and I used to go to church every day. I asked a lady from church if she could take a priest to see him. He went to confession and received the Eucharist. 9 days later...he died. (41:36) Candy - How do I talk to a 3 and 8-year-old about accepting correction or even correct them? I'm a mother of 3. I don't know how to better handle it.

Check out this great encore from March 24, 2025 Father Dave Heney joins Patrick to discuss Anxiety in the Spiritual Life What is Anxiety? (6:49) What is the biggest source of anxiety? What is scrupulosity? (12:58) Email - How can we stop worrying we aren’t going to go to heaven? Barbara - I have suffered with OCD and scrupulosity. In the last couple years, I discovered Dr. Greg Bottaro's book and he has a chapter called Surrender to the Will of God. Admitting we are powerless over this. That is what I have to do every day. Just turn it over to God. (22:09) Break 1 What is the difference between anxiety, fear and stress? (27:41) Lisa - Are there are people who are predisposed to worry and anxiety genetically.? If they don't have faith, but tendency toward perfectionism. How advice would you offer to them? Thomas - Comments on healing between psychiatric approach and spiritual approach. Action between mental health work and spirituality. Finding healing and that people have the power to trust God and not get anxious. (40:51) Break 2 Leticia - Anxiety developed into a eating disorder. I battle with that. I do what you are suggesting...Jesus I trust in you. I take some medication. I teach catechism...takes my mind off it. (46:38) what can we do to keep anxiety down?

Father Tom Wilson joins Patrick to discuss Palm Sunday and Holy Week How does Palm Sunday get relate with the Passion? (14:48) why does Jesus ride in on a donkey? Nick - Palm branches, signification of victory and what is going to happen after the turnaround. (22:35) Break 1 Sana - Can you talk about the difference between Palm Sunday celebrations in other churches and in the Catholic Church? (27:14) Dean - Talking about unmet expectations, The Chosen: When Jesus doesn’t raised Thomas' girlfriend from the death. And other good comments about his best Holy Week. (34:21) Break 2 What can we do to make the Triduum more sacred? (40:02) Father shares a question about Judas’ betrayal of Jesus? (44:06) Patrick - Comment, 7 years ago I went to Easter Vigil and thought that was fantastic and have been going ever since. How can we make this Holy Week be the best one yet?