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The Inner Life® with Josh Raymond is one-on-one Spiritual Direction on the radio. Every day, a Catholic priest joins listeners to offer spiritual advice and guidance designed to assist you along your faith journey, speaking about a variety of topics to he

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    The Joys of Finding God in Nature

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2026 51:12


    Fr. Tom Wilson joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss the joys of finding God in nature (2:56). Topics/calls: nature as a tool & care for creation (8:55), God spoke to me through nature (14:13), the beauty of Maui (18:30), living on 14 acres (21:26), the beach (25:54), mountains (29:50), find God in the open water (35:31), the destructive tendencies of nature (40:22), desert life (44:18), and the Redwood forest (47:31).

    Keeping the Faith in Dry Seasons - The Inner Life - July 17, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2026 51:13


    Father Bobby Blood joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Keeping the Faith in Dry Seasons What is Spiritual Dryness (7:59) Importance of routines in our spiritual life Why would God let us go through dry times in our life? (12:16) Elias - If I feel like I am doing well in prayer life, how do I best prepare for when the dry season comes? Juan - I am enduring a heavy cross, and how to carry it. (17:49) Break 1 (19:15) Wade - A few months after Lent I lose my spiritual drive. Why is this a consistency every year? What can I do to alleviate this? (24:45) How are the Sacraments important or times of Dryness? What do you do when you aren’t getting anything out Mass? (30:59) Email from Dylan – I have been dealing with dryness for years now and I don’t know what to do. Email from Rose – How do you deal with the accusing voice of the Devil? (34:44) Teresa - I get very melancholic for no reason, accusing myself of sloth, and I am wondering if it is because God is trying to prepare me for a blessing? (37:40) Break 2 Email from Adrian – How does dryness relate to how we perceive God? (41:36) Maria - Spiritual Dryness: There are moments, I say, 'is there all there is to it?' What will happen? (44:03) Bonnie - Shame, regarding your life situation and shame as opposed to guilt and not feeling close to God b/c of shame. (47:54) Gianna - One thing that could help refresh the faith is something new, something different

    Our Lady of Mount Carmel - The Inner Life - July 16, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2026 51:12


    Father Michael-Joseph Paris joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Our Lady of Mount Carmel and Carmelite Spirituality (7:25) origins of the Brown Scapular. Giacomo - I was in Israel a few years ago at Mt Carmel at an Equestrian event. Home parish was Our Lady of Mt Carmel in Melrose park. Bishop asked me to read one day. I was moved to be in the real Our Lady of Mt Carmel that day. (16:51) Rose - Wanted to know if Father believes that just by wearing the scapular when you pass, the virgin of Mt Carmel would take you out of purgatory the following Saturday. Is that true? (20:19) Break 1 (25:16) Sarah - I had fallen away from church. Hadn't worn a scapular for years. My mom came to see me and brought me a scapular. Threw it on the counter. Months later, put it on a cabinet and went to bed. Sunday, I heard, 'Get up and go to church.' Heard it twice. Put pillow over my head, but heard again. Finally got up and heard 'put the scapular on.' Burned around my neck. Went to church. During benediction, heard St. Michael prayer. Landlord met with me, dog bit me at his house, doctor said scapular saved me from the bite (jugular). (33:09) Paulin - Sabbatine privilege. I believe you have to be invested in the scapular, is that correct? Shirley - I was enrolled with the scapular by a priest and I consecrate myself to Our Lady of Mt. Carmel daily. Just want to share that. (37:22) Break 2 Elements of Carmelite Spirituality. Great saints of the Carmelite order. Third order Carmelites. (47:24) Carmel - My mom called me Carmel because I was born July 16th. She couldn't have children and was devoted to our lady of mt Carmel. Always wore scapular. Finally expecting a baby and it was me. I was Christened on St. Ann day. After hearing this program, I was thinking...wow, maybe I should start wearing it again. Resources: Flos Carmeli: A Guide to Marian Consecration Through the Brown Scapular https://www.icspublications.org/products/flos-carmeli-a-guide-to-marian-consecration-through-the-brown-scapular

    Why We Laugh - The Inner Life - July 15, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2026 51:13


    IL – Father John Paul Erickson joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Why We Laugh (5:43) How is laughter a uniquely human trait? (20:09) Nick - Appropriate laughter and why we laugh. Altar server trying to light a candle. All of a sudden, people were laughing after he tried so many times. It has to be tempered with the appropriateness of the situation. (24:38) Break 1 Did Jesus have a sense of Humor? (30:58) Rose - Humor. I'm 87. Humor has helped me in my last stages to continue without having to complain so much. (38:04) Break 2 Pauline - Joke: Pastor and bus driver. Both die at the same time. Bus driver gets ticketed first. Pastor waits and finally to gates. I thought I'd be the first in line. St. Peter said why was I first? When you preached everyone slept, when he preached, everyone prayed. (43:47) Joe - Joke: Jesus and Moses on a golf course. At this dog leg of a hole. Jesus says, 'I'm going to get above par on this. Jesus hits the ball, goes into water. He walks on water to get the ball. Asked Moses if it's Jesus, and said no, it's Jack Nicholas. (47:04) Carol - When I think about laughter, I think why it's important to have a merry heart. It does good like medicine. Laughter is the best medicine you can have. Juanita - Years ago, God showed me his sense of humor when I was upset over my grandson's mom keeping us from seeing him. I unexpectedly received a gift of a small meat cleaver. It just made me laugh. It keeps us grounded in our sense of humor.

    Making Good Decisions - The Inner Life - July 14, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2026 51:12


    Father Rob Kroll joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Making Good Decisions What is free will? (15:01) Email – Can God work with mistakes in our major decisions? (17:58) Thomas - I'm confused how everyone is being assisted by God in making decisions. What communications are being made with callers and receiving messages from God? I don't know how God is communicating with them. (23:26) Break 1 Does God care about every decision we make? (29:53) Carol - Does the holy spirit ever allow you to make a bad decision to teach a lesson? (34:53) Ethel - Someone gave me 20 thousand dollars for helping them remedy a situation (sell a property). Sold it, and I received the $ and now the person wants it back. should I give it back? They made a report that I stole the $. (38:55) Break 2 (40:14) Veronica - Decision on whether to get married or not. We were engaged and going through the process. Asked friends to pray for me to discern God's will. That weekend, we found that the Lord put it on our hearts that, no, we weren't meant to marry. I ended up years later entering the convent. Importance of prudence in making good decisions. (47:12) Anna - I want to know why people make bad choices. If they know something is bad, why do they still choose it and those horrible decisions?

    The Charismatic Renewal - The Inner Life - July 10, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2026 51:11


    Father Lawrence Harlow joins to talk about the Charismatic Renewal St. Elena Guerra wrote about the Church being in need of renewal by the Holy Spirit Mark - I've always felt a connection with the Holy Spirit. Miles – I became part of the Charismatic Renewal in 1976. How do I know or have the gift of interpretation? Break 1 Steven - Interested in the renewal. Anita - I've had a personal experience. The Holy Spirit used me so profoundly and helped bring a man back to God. God and Mary have something special for us. Break 2 James - What is the relationship between the baptism of the holy spirit and the sacrament of confirmation? A sacrament is always greater than any charismatic prayer

    Why you Want to Avoid Hell - The Inner Life - July 13, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2026 51:12


    Father John Eckert joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Why you Want to Avoid Hell (7:17) Joseph - For Catholics who don't confess and go to the priest to get their sins absolved, is it in the church's norms to proclaim they are in hell? (15:32) Margaret - I think people don't understand the definition is love. When you cut off from God, you're cutting off eternally. (25:05) Break 1 Fatima’s vision of hell. (34:24) Prescott - Fires of Hell...spirits...how does that affect us? (37:46) Email - Is the Fire of God’s love the same as the fire of Hell? (41:32) Break 2 (43:16) Tessa - Thinking about hell...wondering if it's a fair thing to talk to somebody who is walking away and telling them they're choosing to walk away and out of a state of grace. (48:15) How to be aware of hell without falling into despair?

    Eucharistic Adoration - The Inner Life - July 9, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2026 50:30


    Fr. Joseph Illo of Star of The Sea Parish in San Francisco joins to talk about Eucharistic Adoration and blessings you can receive from making adoration a frequent part of your life. (5:28) What is Eucharistic Adoration? Go to adoration and you will find out wat God wants you to do (11:17) Break 1 (19:04) John - Most who go to adoration have something to ask. I'm reminded about the scriptures saying that you have not because you ask not. The reason they don't get it is because they're not asking. Prayer is 98% consistency. Every prayer is answered. (31:59) I find that silence is difficult to maintain during adoration, how do I overcome distractions? (35:50) Carlos - I had colon cancer 8 years ago. In adoration and had my conversion. I'm still here! Break 2 (42:05) Angie - I am an adorer that has a late-night/overnight adoration shift. I have never felt worried at all. I wanted to talk about why it's so important in my life. (45:27) Olivia - I'm a cradle catholic, but new to adoration. I haven't experienced anything very emotional when going or 'aha' moment. Am I doing something wrong?

    Mystical Body of Christ - The Inner Life - July 8, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2026 51:13


    Check out this show from June 9, 2026 Father Robert Ryan joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss the Mystical Body of Christ (3:50) Why is the Church known as the mystical body of Christ? (11:42) What is Paul talking about when he mentions the body of Christ? (20:01) Herb - when Jesus asked Paul, 'why are you persecuting me,' was he talking about him specifically or the Church? (25:20) Break 1 (27:51) Jesus’ prayer for unity in the Church. (38:14) Tom - How does the family have a role in the broader Church? How can clergy better form the family? (43:27) Break 2 (46:10) Missionary work as a Body of Christ.

    Confession - The Inner Life - July 7, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2026 51:12


    Father Tom Wilson joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Confession Why is Confession Important. (6:08) What is the process of confession? (17:00) How do priests feel about people coming to confession? (20:14) Break 1 (21:40) Denise - Sometimes hard to confess. I feel the more I go, the easier it gets to confess the sins. Just being vulnerable and saying the sins...just feel better like a weight has been lifted. Really encourage all to go to confession. I don't want to be in mortal sin. (35:12) Diane - I suffer from scrupulosity. 2 years ago I came back to the church after being away for 30 years. How do you determine difference between temptation and actual sin? Something in the news recently aroused me and I don't know if it was temptation or sin. It wasn't pornography. (38:50) Break 2 (39:55) Patrick - How does Father feel about receiving communion when you are aware of a minor sin, not a major sin? Email – What is the relationship between venial sins and confession? (44:50) Marie - How do I clarify for a friend that confession is about confessing sins and not a counseling appointment? Also, I have some very protestant relatives and couldn't understand the value of confession. How do I answer that question?

    Purity: Lessons from St. Maria Goretti - The Inner Life - July 6, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2026 51:12


    Father John LoCoco joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Purity: Lessons from St. Maria Goretti Story of St Maria Goretti. (5:44) Why is St Maria Goretti so important to our lives today? (13:25) Jerry - I am an attorney. Had a young lady come to me asking for a name change so she could no longer be tailed by the guy who was violating her. The name she chose was Maria Goretti. We got her name change 6 years ago on the feast of Maria Goretti. Thought it would be interesting given what you're talking about today. Difference between Purity and Chastity (21:01) Break 1 (22:40) Donna - When Maria Goretti was murdered. Locals were mad at him. When Maria appeared to him in prison, he eventually repented. He took care of her mother. He would have probably been in hell, but repented and was forgiven. Important to keep in mind with capital punishment. (32:23) Email from LJ – How can we bring back our daughter to come back to the faith? (35:18) email from Connie – I find that having more time alone was really helpful to bring my husband and I together first. (38:17) Break 2 How does Lust lead to anger? (45:56) Sonya Maria - How do you convince a mother-in-law that pornography...just looking at it...is wrong? (48:17) Custody of the eyes. Resources: Painting of Maria Goretti saint-maria-goretti-artwork-shrine-our-lady-guadalupe-church-la-crosse-wisconsin.jpg (400×948)

    Finding Peace - The Inner Life (Encore) - July 3, 2025

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2026 51:13


    (7:58) Who was Venerable Bruno Lanteri? (14:36) Craig - Peace is important for us to understand. We lose so much in the translation of peace. We don't quite grasp it. Knowing the Lord is instrumental to understanding peace. How does fear and discouragement take away our peace? (22:42) Break 1 How do we have peace eve in the midst of sinning? (27:37) how do we get out of discouragement in our lives? (30:27) Flo - 10 years ago, I had depression, got a peaceful moment and I had a holy spirit moment. It changed my life. 11:38 How to find peace through tragedy? (38:53) Break 2 Carol - I understand the forgiveness of God. My children are taking a bad road. How do you get beyond that and find peace and not fear for the future? Resources: Ignatian Discernment Institute https://www.discernment.institute/ If You Want Peace in This Life https://www.discernment.institute/product-page/if-you-want-peace-in-this-life Oblates of the Virgin Mary https://www.omvusa.org/

    Catholic Patriotism - The Inner Life - July, 02 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2026 51:12


    Father Peter Pomposello joins to discuss Catholic patriotism. Theresa - I've designed a crystal red, white and blue rosary. How do I go about giving this to our military veterans? Nick - We have to distinguish ourselves as Catholics before we're Americans. God comes first. Everything belongs to God. Look at the precepts of church. Break 1 More comments on Catholic patriotism Walter - It goes straight to the gospel. In John, he says the light of God is the life of man. God is guaranteed to give light. Evangelizing. It takes faith. Break 2 Dave - Patriotism and the Convention of State. We the people would propose amendments to the constitution. This has never been used. Educating people about this and getting involved by petitioning state legislators is essential. I think this is part of the Catholic cause. Tony - I'm a retired engineer who worked on radar and missile systems. I have had my doubts because I didn't want to work on weapons that kill. Glad to be part of it and in service to our country.

    The Particulars of Going On Pilgrimage - The Inner Life - July, 01 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2026 51:12


    (1:48) Father Michael Hurley joins to discuss the particulars of going on a pilgrimage and all that it entails. (10:09) Joseph - I was in Rome at the Santa Scala. Break 1 (28:38) Terri - I went through the Holy Land, and it was an amazing trip. I first thought since I received Jesus, that I didn't need to go there. (35:16) Email – Mary went on a pilgrimage to visit St. Padre Pio’s relics and received a healing. (38:09) Pauline - What about someone who cannot travel like the infirm or elderly? How do we do retreats or pilgrimages? Break 2 (43:23) Elia - I went on a pilgrimage to Portugal, Spain, France recently. How wonderful they were.

    Lectio Divina & Scripture Study - The Inner Life - June 30, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2026 51:11


    Fr. Chris Walsh joins to discuss meditating on Sacred Scripture with Lectio Divina. (6:53) How do I get started with Lectio Divina and where is a good setting or place to practice it? Break 1 (32:22) Lucy - Reading the Psalms has helped me. (37:10) Dale - Today's Magnificat has a meditation from a saint in the 400's. He goes through analysis of Lectio Divina in today's gospel. (38:32) Rob - I'm part of a group that meets weekly to review the Sunday Gospel as Lectio Divina. We have been doing this for 20 years. (42:05) Rick - I am a deacon and the practice you are talking about is wonderful. I do it myself. I teach homiletics. Also, I tend to be a more visual person. Contemplating great artwork is a good thing to do as well. Father Chris Walsh recommends In Conversation with God by Francis Fernandez-Carvajal, The Catechism of The Catholic Church, the writings of the Saints and even Jesus of Nazareth by Pope Benedict 16 for Lectio Divina.

    Freedom In The Spiritual Life - The Inner Life - June 29, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2026 50:25


    (8:24) Fr. Alan Hoffa joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss freedom in the spiritual life. Break 1 (20:05) Tom - In Russian, the word for freedom connotates no restraint whatsoever. I believe that the Soviet Union had people living out this view. St. Peter and Paul were free because of how they lived their lives in Christ (28:04) Email – Bonnie – In the spiritual canticle St. John calls wandering thoughts nymphs. Is it a sin to have these thoughts? Break 2 (39:38) Justin - Freedom of sin led to me to prison but now I'm following the Lord. I tell students in OCIA that we need to follow rules placed by the Church and our Lord allowing us to travel the road of life safely and freedom is gained through that. (44:53) Email – Robin – what are the differences between religious freedom and spiritual freedom. Father Hoffa also addresses how does serving others help us become more free.

    Secret Service of The Church: Hidden Holiness - The Inner Life - June 26, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2026 51:13


    On today's Inner Life, Fr. Eric Nielsen discusses how to share the Gospel in a hidden way and shares about the life of St. Josemaria Escriva. Fr. Eric Nielsen joins the show. The life of St. Josemaria Break 1 Morgan calls to discuss Evangelization through the parish men's group that he and his brother started. Break 2 Anne wants to know how she can evangelize and answer the questions of her non-Catholic friend.

    How to Become a Saint with Fulton Sheen - The Inner Life - June 25, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2026 51:12


    Msgr. Jason Gray joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss How to Become a Saint: Through the Lense of Bishop Fulton Sheen (4:20) How does the case for veneration start in the Church? What does the Church look for when a saint is canonized? (16:58) what virtues did Fulton Sheen have that we can imitate? (19:57) Break 1 (21:39) Marybelle - Clarification between beatification and canonization. What are the differences? Kathy - I have a recent interest in FS. Have a book about him and St. Therese. Praying for his intercession for a grandchild who is sick. How do you know if it's him when you're praying or another saints...especially when you're doing a lot of novenas. (27:33) What was he process like in doing the canonization process? (33:24) Dean - Wanted to express my admiration for FS. Grew up as a protestant. Addressed difficult subjects when Catholics were supposed to remain quiet. Always impressed me. (38:47) Break 2 Christopher -FS has inspired my life. Made a trip to Peoria. Went to Cathedral and spent time in front of the altar where he is buried. Felt his presence and I've now been drawing closer to him. Huge inspiration. (43:33) Nicole - My personal relationship with FS...growing up and now as an adult. Listening to him. My mom, grandma, we were only an hour from Peoria and very familiar with him. Grown into a closer relationship with him. Mom's funeral card had his pro-life prayer on it. I'm going to the beatification and taking my granddaughter. Resources: https://www.celebratesheen.com/

    Compassion - The Inner Life - June 24, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2026 51:13


    Father Ryan Brady joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Compassion (2:45) what is compassion? (18:07) Bob - I have a person in my life (sister) that gambles. She gambles up to 100k per year. I don't want to be involved in it, but she buys dinners for her friends every Friday. I asked her if I could say grace, she said she doesn't do that. I make the sign of the cross over myself. It has a hold on her bad. Am I being a hard liner or unloving/uncompassionate for her and what she's enslaved with? (23:09) Break 1 (24:26) Melissa - I feel like there's a lack of compassion toward me when I try to do as the church and Jesus guides us to do. If I voice that, I feel a great deal of rejection. I don't feel the compassion. Am I to be compassionate to their misunderstanding of the truth? How do you be compassionate without being condescending? (35:52) Email about compassion shown while at a seminary. (38:32) Break 2 In what ways can we practically show compassion to others? (47:41) how can we grow in compassion?

    Overcoming Sin - The Inner Life - June 23, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2026 51:13


    Father Matthew Widder joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Overcoming Sin Resolving to sin no more in confession? (4:43) What is sin really? (11:34) The saints were very aware of their sins. Why was this? (17:50) Mary Jane - When I go to confession, I am confessing that I am wishing that I am not taking care of my parents and wishing that I’m not here. I really miss my grandchildren, being free from working but can’t visit my family. Is that a sin? (23:21) Break 1 (26:21) Enrique - Maybe I am being overly guilty and overly scrupulous according to my confessor. Perhaps some of the Saints were guilty of scrupulosity even with minor sins? (30:23) Mary - When unwanted thoughts enter my mind, what should I do with those? Sometimes they come from nothing, or they come from past anger. (38:35) Break 2 The importance of replacing sin in out lives with something else. How to battle against the sin of gossip? (43:25) Katie - My current husband is seeking an annulment. I go to confession regularly, as of a month ago, all my confessions have been invalid said a priest so I've stopped. They say it was because I'm living with my husband while he is going through annulment. Is this true? Jean - Wondering about a sinful pattern of watching movies, staying up late, and eating too much all at once. How to overcome that?

    Ask Me Anything about the Catholic Faith - The Inner Life - June 22, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2026 51:13


    Father Dave Heney joins Deacon Patrick Conley to take any listener question about the Faith and Church (6:45) How does knowledge translate to faith? (11:22) Martin - In Ezekiel 1:1-28, God revealed himself to Ezekiel. Why did God reveal himself to Ezekiel? (14:13) George - We hear everyday about the possibility of life from other planets etc. What is the stance of the Church on this, and that other life could be visiting us? Joseph - Why in the gospels does Jesus refer to John as 'the disciple whom he loved?' (21:04) Break 1 Mary - I'm a Eucharistic minister, and distributing at a wedding Saturday. Pretty sure someone will come forward as a Lutheran. What to do? Email – How do you help someone who has an addiction? (29:36) Jeff - About the apostolic pardon--my priest friend wants me to have apostolic pardon at death. Other priests say it is redundant. Which is true? Email from Robin – How can AI help with our Spiritual life. What do you think? (37:06) Break 2 Ayni - If Catholicism is a monotheist religion, how can they say that Christ is also God? (41:41) John - Deacon Patrick: What was it like for you going through the diaconate? I am considering being a deacon myself. (44:31) Connie - Liturgy of the Hours: How do you do priests do them? The word on Fire one has extra songs. Email from Sue – I was asked to babysit so I can’t go to daily Mass. What should I do? Email from Adrian – My wife doesn’t want communion anymore. What should I do?

    Faith and Reason - The Inner Life - June 19, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2026 51:12


    Check out this great show from June 16, 2026 Msgr. Robert Dempsey joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Faith and Reason (3:26) Do Faith and Reason contradict Is Faith really blind? (15:01) Where do all problems come from philosophically? (20:06) Break 1 (21:46) What does doubt have to do with Faith and Reason? (29:05) Martin - What do you think Jesus meant on the cross by saying 'My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?' Mary Alice - There is a movie that came out recently: 'The Story of Everything'. Even debunks Darwinism, physicists backing up intelligent design. What position should you take when starting Philosophy? How do you not get frustrated when talking with people who don’t believe? (40:33) Break 2 How is the Catholic Church doing today? (47:11) Best help book for the ordinary Catholic. Some great saints who help us grow in Faith and Reason. Resources: Books by Peter Kreeft Books by Peter Kreeft (Author of Handbook of Christian Apologetics)

    Marriage and Divorce: Building up and mending the Church - The Inner Life - June 18, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2026 51:10


    Father Ramil Fajardo joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Marriage and Divorce: Building up and mending the Church Why is Marriage important for the Church? (12:31) what happens to marriages that don’t work? (16:58) Bai - I run an organization that helps people with marriage after divorce. We teach divorce is a great offense. What about no-fault divorce? Distinction between way state views it vs church. Seems to be a silence about this in the public arena. John - I'm married 60 years this October. Quality in and quality out. Until you find that quality person, you're probably not ready for marriage. Negative comments...cutting remarks...when we do that, it hurts them and not a good way to start a marriage. Build each other up not down. (25:07) Break 1 (27:10) Michelle - My husband an I celebrating 40 years. His family thought it wouldn't last. Love (caritas) change a couple of letters and it becomes charity. Be forgiving, gratitude, establish traditions, patience. Laughter...it can be witty, silly, between the 2 of you. Look for the positives. There will be challenges. (30:42) Patrick - Vocations crisis. Any thought if there's a parallel between that and divorce rate in broken families? Divorce rate equals vocations crisis. John Farrell on X - How can *any* divorce be natural? (39:02) Break 2 Can separation ever be a good idea among Married Couples? (44:03) Olga -My parents divorce when I was 18. We moved to the US. After I got married, having trouble coping with this divorce. How can I overcome what my parents did? I'm trying to keep my marriage alive.

    Importance of Rest - The Inner Life - June 17, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2026 51:12


    Father Tom McCarthy joins Patrick to discuss the Importance of Rest Why is rest so important (8:35) Anxiety in our church today (17:39) Steven - Truck driver. For people having a hard time in traffic, put a note up that says it's his road too. He's another person. (21:04) Mateo - Does the rest always have to be on Sundays? Some have to work that day and how they supposed to rest? (23:49) Break 1 Our Hearts are restless until they rest in you. (32:30) Silence (37:55) Break 2 Mary – the importance of giving the priest time to prepare before Mass. (42:22) Can taking time to rest lead to sloth? (47:12) If you want to rest but you can’t.

    Faith and Reason - The Inner Life - June 16, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2026 51:12


    Msgr. Robert Dempsey joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Faith and Reason (3:26) Do Faith and Reason contradict Is Faith really blind? (15:01) Where do all problems come from philosophically? (20:06) Break 1 (21:46) What does doubt have to do with Faith and Reason? (29:05) Martin - What do you think Jesus meant on the cross by saying 'My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?' Mary Alice - There is a movie that came out recently: 'The Story of Everything'. Even debunks Darwinism, physicists backing up intelligent design. What position should you take when starting Philosophy? How do you not get frustrated when talking with people who don’t believe? (40:33) Break 2 How is the Catholic Church doing today? (47:11) Best help book for the ordinary Catholic. Some great saints who help us grow in Faith and Reason. Resources: Books by Peter Craft https://www.goodreads.com/author/list/17860874.Peter_Craft

    Discerning your Vocation - The Inner Life - June 15, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2026 51:13


    Check out this great show from June 8, 2026 Father John Eckert joins Dcn. Patrick Conley to discuss Discerning your Vocation (5:24) what is a vocation? Going even deeper into your vocation. Email from Rob – How do I get over past sins that haunt me? (24:50) Break 1 (26:37. How do you know when you should start discerning your vocation? How is the will important when entering your vocation. (37:34) Break 2 (39:20) Can you miss your vocation?

    Devotion to the Sacred Heart - The Inner Life - June 12, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2026 51:13


    Father Marc Lenneman joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Devotion to the Sacred Heart The importance of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. 11:09 Imagery of the Sacred heart 11:17 What is the History of the Sacred Heart? Break 1 11:29 The 12 promises of Jesus. 11:39 Walter - God has given us intellect and the Sacraments. If we do not also have faith in our Sacraments can't fully understand. Jesus VERY heart of the Sacraments. Break 2 What is the Catholic perspective about reparations? Sacramental life and connection to the Sacred Heart of Jesus.

    Consecration to the Sacred Heart - The Inner Life - June 11, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2026 51:13


    Father Michael Hurley joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Consecration to the Sacred Heart (5:30) why is today a significant day? The Mercy of God through Confession. (15:10) Karina - I'm a returning Catholic, and feel I need to make a General Confession. What should I do about sins I forgot and now remember? (23:46) Break 1 (25:22) Sr. Maria Francesca - Do we know why the USCCB decided to the consecration today instead of tomorrow on the Feast of the Sacred Heart? (32:08) Robin - My brother is one of the bishops going to be at the consecration!! I am very excited. (34:02) Damon - I returned to the Church 5 years ago. Mass and adoration. Is there a 'starter kit' for doing a novena or consecration. (40:39) Break 2 (42:43) Nicholas - How can we relate this consecration to the line in the Pledge 'one nation under God'. What is the Churches' interpretation on this line? (47:21) Sharon - I'd like to talk about my consecration to the Sacred Heart.

    Holiness through Service - The Inner Life - June 10, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2026 51:13


    Father James Kubicki joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss Holiness through Service Why is service important? (9:52) Humility in service. (17:34) how do we put love where there is none? (19:48) Elizabeth - Instead of going to college, is there a kind of service that our kids can learn humility from? (24:01) Break 1 Rudy - Comment: When i worked at Disney I used to do the potlucks for the employees. I opened it up to all departments. It was based on the idea that 'what you do for the least...' (35:01) Adrian - I participated in a group trip to western north Carolina after Helene. And I helped an elderly woman with her shower and bath tub. She said, 'not until the day I day would I ask for this.' I told her 'it's OK'. She said I will never understand. I am Lutheran. (39:26) Break 2 Mary - I have found that when I'm at Wal Mart, I make it a point to see people who look dejected. I make it a point to connect with them. What do we do when our service is not recognized? (47:29) Tim - We've been working on a project at our parish, and we learned that everything had already been decided. The priest said he would pray for our internal conversion. How do I deal with anger in the context of service?

    Mystical Body of Christ - The Inner Life - June 9, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2026 51:13


    Father Robert Ryan joins Deacon Patrick Conley to discuss the Mystical Body of Christ (3:50) Why is the Church known as the mystical body of Christ? (11:42) What is Paul talking about when he mentions the body of Christ? (20:01) Herb - when Jesus asked Paul, 'why are you persecuting me,' was he talking about him specifically or the Church? (25:20) Break 1 (27:51) Jesus’ prayer for unity in the Church. (38:14) Tom - How does the family have a role in the broader Church? How can clergy better form the family? (43:27) Break 2 (46:10) Missionary work as a Body of Christ.

    Discerning your Vocation - The Inner Life - June 8, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2026 51:13


    Father John Eckert joins Dcn. Patrick Conley to discuss Discerning your Vocation (5:24) what is a vocation? Going even deeper into your vocation. Email from Rob – How do I get over past sins that haunt me? (24:50) Break 1 (26:37. How do you know when you should start discerning your vocation? How is the will important when entering your vocation. (37:34) Break 2 (39:20) Can you miss your vocation?

    Finding Joy in a Life with Christ - The Inner Life - June 5, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2026 51:13


    Check out this great show from April 21, 2026 Father Peter Armenio joins Patrick to discuss Finding Joy in a Life with Christ (8:06) Joy the midst of suffering. (18:29) Break 1 Janet - Person who I find joy from...Right after Vatican 2, she helped prepare laity what sisters couldn't help with. Did it so peacefully. Loved to talk about the Lord and catechesis. (24:32) Angelo - Dealing with mother who has dementia. Trying to find joy in this. Looking for some inspiration. It's been difficult. (33:05) Matt - My dad's side is from Denmark. Grandffather had a tough life. settled in small town. A lot of these people have had difficult lives. When you struggle and suffer with Christ, you find great joy and community and unity. It's a beautiful thing. (37:42) Break 2 Ann - When I was doing work with husband in the missions, we met a lady who made a pie, so kind and sweet. One day, I went to her house and I noticed how messy her house was. I found out later she suffered from back problems. She was always doing such good things for others. I felt bad for being judgmental. She radiated Christ. (42:27) Joy lived out in a deep way. Prayer brings joy. (47:07) Email from Lisa about her mom with Parkinson’s Encounters with true Joy in evangelizing.

    Holy Orders - The Inner Life - June 4, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2026 51:13


    Father Donald Hying joins Patrick to discuss Holy Orders Bishop Hying shares his vocational story. (5:17) How should a young man discern his vocation story? (9:23) Sacrament of Holy Orders Nature of service in Holy Orders (19:18) Break 1 (21:47) What do the Clergy need to do in order to serve the Church well? (25:54) Indelible character of Holy Orders Form and Matter of Holy Orders (32:48) Dennis - Does the bishop think the restriction on marriage would be relaxed like for Anglicans? (37:11) Break 2 What are some of the Challenges the clergy face today? (44:13) Thomas - Just saw my son ordained to the transitional diaconate. Thought you might like some perspective from the parent of a newly ordained deacon. (46:45) Bishop Hying shares his experience of ordaining Deacons and Priests. (47:53) Annette - comment: Thanks to the bishop and Patrick for their service and sacrifice for the church.

    Journeys of Faith - The Inner Life - June 3, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2026 51:12


    Father Joseph Johnson joins Patrick to discuss Journeys of Faith Father shares his faith journey. (11:18) When God feels distant in our sufferings. (17:31) Nancy - Being a befriender. I go to our local hospital and see the Catholic patients each week. Takes me all day. I get more from it I think than they from it. God calling me to my gift of time. (21:14) Break 1 (23:28) Karen - I have lived a long life doing a lot for the church. Find it difficult to speak about God to those who are not believers. How do I get past that because I've been praying a long time. Why does there need to be a journey? (36:36) Break 2 (42:11) Lolly- My husband and I dealing with fertility. Not angry at God, but just don't know how to 'lean' into him right now.

    Holiness in the Ordinary - The Inner Life - June 2, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2026 51:09


    Father Matthew Widder joins Patrick to discuss Holiness in the Ordinary (3:15) Is ordinary mundane? What is holiness? How do you resist the temptation to see the daily life as boring? (11:54) Jesus’ hidden life explained (15:31) Jeff - Listening to Relevant Radio is what I do. Nancy - St Therese of the Little Flower. Try to be holy that way. Listening to Christian music. Not listening to inappropriate music. (20:09) Break 1 (21:54) Eli - My artwork and how it has transformed in a way. God's calling me to create works for him. Email from Jenna – Sign of the cross whenever you hear a siren. Email from Lori – Morning Coffee and morning offering are great! (29:55) How do small things help us grow in what we are suppose to do in life? How do you get in touch with God’s love for you? Offering up EVERYTHING for the glory of God. (36:59) Break 2 How does community help with us growing in holiness? (41:29) Adrian - My Catholic faith. Convert of 12 years. I take part in Bible studies, Sunday Mass. I'm the only Catholic in my family. I don't push it. Give sound advice in helping raise my daughter with my ex. (45:46) Lynn - As a homeschooling family and the way we try to live out our vocations and vacations. With children, we go places including daily Mass and put it as a priority even on vacation.

    New Ways to Evangelize - The Inner Life - June 1, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2026 51:11


    Father Ethan Southard joins Patrick to discuss New Ways to Evangelize Importance of Evangelization (14:49) what is the New Evangelization? (19:10) Break 1 (20:54) Arlene - My way of evangelizing is I'm a pretty good in giving reflections. Just an ordinary woman trying to be a better person as a Catholic. Every time I read the gospel, I try to search prayers and if I see a prayer or reflection, I share it with relatives/friends. (28:03) Joe - One way is trying to do ministry of care. Bringing the Eucharist to people who are sick and in nursing facilities. Also believe we need to learn how to help someone who wants to become Catholic. Referring people to sources of information and also being welcoming. How pleasant we are is important with generalization. (37:17) Break 2 How can we evangelize if we are afraid or feel inadequate. (42:09) Marcel - I think that the dioceses that have active young adult groups and Cursillo...sets a wonderful experience that many have made. By being involved with that, you learn a lot about evangelization and can share what works and what doesn't. Get to know them. Dangers of AI.

    Leisure and the Spiritual Life - The Inner Life - May 29, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2026 51:13


    Father Robert Kroll joins Patrick to discuss Leisure and the Spiritual Life (4:15) What is the Church’s teaching on Leisure? (12:07) Mark - Been to retreat center. They would pray 8 times a day but would work too. Majority of retired people out there...it's getting a balance. Going to Mass everyday. Take care of your body like you're going to be 100 but take of your soul like you're going to die tomorrow. (21:53) Break 1 (24:02) Chrystal - Something that happened with me in my career. Was a teacher and the district decided not to renew my contract. Only jobs I've been able to find and apply for are part-time. I've applied to other full time. My kids are little and keep asking God to show me what path to take. Pursue teaching where I have more time with family or do I choose the other that's more time consuming? How does leisure help us to grow in trust? (32:31) How do we honor the Sabbath day as Catholics? (36:49) Break 2 Marcy – Teaching at the same school as my kids helps me to relax Leisure in art and music. (44:13) James - How do I get motivated now that I'm retired? I just do the basic Sunday Mass. Used to go more often and adoration. Just the lack of enthusiasm in activities and spiritual life. Resource: Leisure the Basis of Culture https://ignatius.com/leisure-lbcp/

    Foundations of Religion - The Inner Life - May 28, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2026 51:12


    Father Ramil Fajardo joins Patrick to discuss Foundations of Religion What is Religion? (8:26) What is it about Religion versus Spirituality (18:27) What is the difference between Catholicism and other religions? (20:50) Break 1 What is the importance of the Church in connecting us with our Faith? (26:38) John - It seems to me that instead of one or the other, it's all of the above. I remember when the Lord told us I have more to tell you, but you can't handle it. Unless you're in the state of fellowship with God, it's hard for us to accept certain truths because we have dimmed our intellect. I think sin dims our intellect. (32:42) Mike - It seems to me that instead of one or the other, it's all of the above. I remember when the Lord told us I have more to tell you, but you can't handle it. Unless you're in the state of fellowship with God, it's hard for us to accept certain truths because we have dimmed our intellect. I think sin dims our intellect. (37:48) Break 2 Why rules and regulations help us in our Faith? (43:31) Email – How do we explain to none believers why life is so difficult? (48:20) How can we pass on the Faith to our children and grandchildren? Resources: Fides et Ratio: Between Faith and Reason https://www.vatican.va/content/john-paul-ii/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_jp-ii_enc_14091998_fides-et-ratio.html

    Worship Through the Mass - The Inner Life - May 27, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2026 51:12


    Father Joseph Illo joins Patrick to discuss Worship Through the Mass What is Worship and the Mass? (16:08) Miguel - How can I talk to my pastor about making the mass more reverent? (19:59) Break 1 What does it mean to participate in the Liturgy? (28:00) What if you don’t “get anything” out of the Mass? (32:44) Gilberto -Mass for me is a representation of Jesus with his disciples at last supper (35:28) Break 2 Arlene - When there is no applause, the mass is always more reverent for me How do you prepare yourself well for Mass? (45:09) Sherry - How can I make my sister understand that she needs to go in person to mass instead of watching on tv (48:30) Rose - I'm a convert due to beautiful mass at the cathedral of St. Paul Resources: Spirit of the Liturgy https://ignatius.com/the-spirit-of-the-liturgy-commemorative-edition-splcep/?searchid=4934343&search_query=spirit+of+the+liturgy Sacrosanctum Concilium: Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy (from the Second Vatican Council) https://www.vatican.va/archive/hist_councils/ii_vatican_council/documents/vat-ii_const_19631204_sacrosanctum-concilium_en.html

    Human Dignity - The Inner Life - May 26, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2026 51:13


    Father Tom Wilson joins Patrick to discuss Human Dignity (10:45) Identity of human Dignity Why does the Church even care about AI? (18:31) Nick - In a couple months, it would be nice to go back to this to see how the public has digested it. Militia of the Immaculate...look at encyclicals. We have a duty to uphold and live a life worthy and protect the venerable. We're called to be missionary disciples. Hold the identity of all. Tom -Remember back in 3rd grade...had to use the bathroom. Janitor was in there and asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. Said I didn't want to be a janitor and he told me there's dignity in every job you do. (25:23) Break 1 Is AI all bad? (32:12) Erica - Separate time talent and treasure from the idea that we're not needing to do anything to be valuable to God. Trying to be fruitful with the gifts he's given us. How does human interaction get lost in technology? (38:21) Break 2 Margo - For the people who are not intellectually able. I work with some of them. They get caught up with a lot of scams...tend to be gullible. As things advance with AI, grows worse. Their level of comprehension is more challenging. (42:33) Mary Alice - There's an epidemic of loneliness. I've asked them to stop texting me. I understand there's so many who are craving to get together, but guys play with hand held devices and have little social skills. (47:52) How does upholding human dignity help society to flourish? Resources: MAGNIFICA HUMANITAS OF HIS HOLINESS POPE LEO XIV https://www.vatican.va/content/leo-xiv/en/encyclicals/documents/20260515-magnifica-humanitas.html

    Veterans and the Military - The Inner Life - May 22, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2026 51:11


    Bishop Joseph Coffey joins Patrick to discuss Veterans and the Military (3:10) what is the teaching of the Church on war? (8:16) Where do Military people celebrate Mass? Robert - Met the Bishop a few years ago. He was invited to Dayton where 2 of my daughters were confirmed. So cool and laid back. (15:17) Paul - If he's on the field with the soldiers, and runs out of wine but has hosts, can he celebrate mass without wine and just the host? John - I saw him in Philadelphia. I have children in the Military. shook hands with him. Both active duty. Want to thank him for the chaplaincy. (20:00) Break 1 (21:54) John - How do the priests get recruited for military? Lisa – How can we involved with the Archdiocese of the Military? (25:45) Ralene - Thank you . They're out there in danger and helping men and women grow. Dear friend who was in the army and assisted chaplains at Mass. Friend built portable kneelers. Also have RCIA (OCIA). Armor of God. Vicki - He was here for many years as a pro life supporter. Thank him for his protection for all and hello from San Diego. (30:55) Noma - How does the chaplain have ranks in the military? I thought they were just a priest. History of the Chaplains in the Military. (36:36) Shelly - I'm military family and want to share my experience how important it is to have military parishes and life. (40:12) Break 2 (42:59) Mike - All the military chaplains are commissioned officers I believe. What is the highest rank of a chaplain? Kevin - I'm a military retiree. the value of chaplains specifically to leaders who have to make hard decisions. How can we encourage military chaplaincy?

    Fruits of the Holy Spirit - The Inner Life - May 21, 2026

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2026 51:09


    Father John Paul Erickson joins Patrick to discuss the Fruits of the Holy Spirit (3:53) who is the Holy Spirit? What are the fruits of the Spirit? (19:58) Break 1 How are the fruits of the Spirit an antidote to the desires of the flesh? (25:33) Why do none-Christians show signs of the fruits of the spirit? How does Nature and grace build upon each in cultivating the fruits of the Spirit? How does humility play a role in the fruits of the Spirit? (36:59) Jackie - I'm in my mid-70's. in the late 60's we were confirmed. I really believed what they said the holy spirit was with you the whole time and that's what got me through life. (39:40) Break 2 What fruit should I develop in order to overcome Obsessiveness or compulsiveness? (43:52) what is the difference between the Gifts and he Fruits of the Spirit? (45:47) Ann - Tension that exist between fruits of the spirit and family who struggles with dependencies. Can be difficult to maintain the fruits. would like some insight.

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