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"Topics of Taboo" is a zero filter podcast hosted by YouTuber & Social Media 'influencer' Megan Dijkman. Megan is known for her ability to discuss somewhat taboo and uncomfortable topics both online & in her personal life! On this weekly podcast, she will dive deep into topics that aren't spoken about comfortably amongst friends and family in everyday life! From love & relationships to body image, money and mental illness (and everything in between) nothing is off limits! Be sure to tune in if you want to learn, laugh & explore taboo topics with Megan & special guests/friends on her new podcast, Topics of Taboo!

Megan Dijkman


    • May 3, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 35m AVG DURATION
    • 37 EPISODES

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    35. Getting laser on my a$$ hole: an awkward story time + getting my sh!t together!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 21:22


    Happy hump day tot-ers! In today's rather humbling ep, I travel down memory lane to the time another beautician and her client walked in on me getting my perineal area lasered (yes, that is the technical term for asshole). I also chat about self growth, love and the progress I've made over the past couple of weeks. I honestly feel like a new me and I'm here for it! I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! x Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ

    34. I'm going to Mardi Gras with TikTok! + I'm creating exclusive content on a new app???

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 11:33


    Happy Tuesday cuties! I'm currently on a flight to Sydney but I just wanted to update y'all on my week ahead. I'm going to Mardi Gras with TikTok wooo, so exciting! Be sure to follow along on all my socials (below!) I also wanted to tell you all about a new app that I'm on (Sunroom) where creators can post/upload anything without any censorship (HELLOOOO! what a dream). I go into more detail in the ep but if you want to follow me on there and create a closer friendship with me, my link is below! I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman Sunroom: https://api.sunroom.so/creator/2d11423a-9ce6-4c0c-a748-141cfa56aa53 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    33. Getting diagnosed with ADHD at 25 | signs, symptoms + medication?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 36:08


    Hi tot fam! In today's episode I reveal all re: my recent ADHD diagnosis (woohoo finally!). I discuss the signs and symptoms I experienced throughout childhood into adulthood that pointed towards ADHD as well as the struggles I still face daily. If you're struggling, I highly recommend making an appointment to get that referral or talking to a psychologist about the possibility of getting tested if that's something you've been considering. I also answered some of your questions towards the end re: getting a diagnosis!! love u all! hope you're having a great week! xx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ

    32. Australian School Bans LGBTQ+ students?! Citipointe Christian College Horror

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 10:51


    Australian School Bans LGBTQ+ students?! Citipointe Christian College Horror Hey tot fam! In today's mini ep I discuss the foul goings on at a Brisbane Christian College known as Citipointe. Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    31. Gender-fluidity, pronouns & not feeling queer enough with Keara Graves

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2022 79:07


    Happy Tuesday fam! In today's episode I am joined by my friend and fellow queer, genderfluid, human - Keara Graves! In this episode we speak very candidly about our experience' with being genderfluid including how we knew, what it feels like, how to distinguish between wanting to challenge societal norms and actually being GF and SO much more. We also answer a tonne of your burning Q's relating to gender fluidity, pronoun usage and/or being queer in general. Definitely check out Keara's socials below too - they create amazing content as well!! We hope you enjoyed! Definitely let me know if you loved hearing from Keara - you'll be hearing from us again v soon! ;) Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Keara's IG: https://www.instagram.com/kearagraves/ Keara's YT: https://www.youtube.com/c/KearaGraves Keara's Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@keara.graves Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    30. I'm BAAACK! covid positive (maybe?) a new puppy + gender fluidity.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2022 12:33


    Happy Tuesday cuties! Welcome to 2022 - let's get this bread. I recorded today's episode from isolation (woohoo - naht). I'm currently awaiting my covid test results (5 days and counting) and was eager to get back on my poddy shit for y'all. In this catch up ep I speak about what I've been up to for the past couple of months including: my new puppy Moose, quitting my previous job, landing a new job in fashion marketing and coming out as gender fluid at the end of last year (more about this in future eps I'm sure!!) I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo My personal IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    29. Mental Health Update: Lexapro, Anxiety & ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2021 31:00


    Happy Thursday Tater Tots! In today's episode I open up about my current mental health struggles & starting my journey on lexapro. I also speak about birth control, specifically the pill and how much I've changed since coming off 6 months ago. I fully feel like a different person since coming off and it's been incredible. I love you all so much and hope you're doing as well as you can be! I'd love to hear from you on the topics of taboo ig if you'd like to chat about anything from this episode! Links are below! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    28. Crying at trashy tv shows with Dom Barton

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 42:14


    Happy Tuesday Tater Tots! It's been a hot minute! I hope you're all doing well and staying safe! :) In today's episode Dom and I have a casual chit chat catch up about life, trashy tv, locky-d and so much more. Pop this one on for an easy listen! Keen for the return of weekly episodes! Loveeee, Dutchy xxx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    27. Should men have an opinion on abortion? with Charlee Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2021 65:29


    HEYYY TATER TOTS!! In today's episode I am joined by one of my besties Charlee! We cover A LOT of topics in this chit chat/catch up episode. Please make note of the time stamps below for sensitive issues. In this episode we discuss vaccines, living abroad, solo travel, abortion & being pro choice, the toxic side of social media, sexual assault, cancel culture, tiktok drama, sex toys, therapy + more. We hope you enjoy this super casual chat between two pals and I'll catch you in next weeks episode! Don't forget to like, rate & review if you're enjoying topics of taboo so far - it helps me out a heap xxx **TIME STAMPS** 00-1:40 Intro 1:40-3:01 Charlee's intro 3:01-6:07 Life in the UK/living in lockdown 6:07-8:20 Vaccinations 8:20-11:53 Anti-vaxxers & fear mongering in the media/facebook 11:53-24:03 Abbie Chatfield speaks about Abortion 24:03-32:19 Tiktok Drama + Sexual Assault 32:19-36:34 Spreading negativity/online bullying/cancel culture 36:34 - 1:04:01 Answering your questions 1:04:01 Outro Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    26. Male porn addiction is ignored | Debunking Unpopular Opinions with Fraser

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2021 35:32


    Hey Tater-tots. Today I'm joined by my wonderful boyfriend Fraser as we delve into some of the internet's best unpopular opinions. Some are fun, some are dumb, but they are all thought provoking. DISCLAIMER: We briefly talk about sexual assault and rape between 13:22 and 14:52 Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    25. Going to therapy, imposter syndrome & possible coeliac diagnosis?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2021 21:34


    Going to therapy, opening up about my mental health & maybe I'm coeliac? Happy Monday Tater Tots!! In today's epsiode, ya girl opens up about her mental health a bit more & why I've been a bit slow on the socials of late. I finally booked myself in to see a Psychologist (woo!!) and really want to normalise going to therapy and talking about it as someone with a platform. I also dive into my thoughts on thinking I'm undiagnosed ADHD and that all of my gut issues may very well be due to having coeliac disease. Lots to unpack here. Thanks for listening and being the most patient fam ever.

    25. Let's have a chat about the Asexual Spectrum!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2021 36:21


    Happpppy Tuesday Tater Tots!! Today's episode is all about what it's like being on the asexual spectrum. I recently uploaded this one onto my YouTube channel and it was far too wholesome not to post on here as well as an audio file! Some of the Dutchy fam reached out & were happy to answer some of your questions re: asexuality! In this episode we cover topics such as sexual desire (or lack of), how to know if you're asexual, what it means to be demi, what sexual attraction feels like, what the aro/ace spectrum entails and so much more!! I seriously hope you enjoy this one & learn lots!! All my love, Dutchy xx Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    23. Celebrating Pride When You're Closeted (HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 17:12


    Happy Pride Month Tater Tots! After last weeks absolute mammoth of an episode with Frase last week, this is a nice brisk ep were I talk all things pride, from my first pride month to how to celebrate pride when you are closeted (hence the title of the podcast ;)) and a special merch announcement (WHAT?!). Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@megandijkman?lang=en Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUSFh6y_kIV9a34NzvU4avQ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dutchyy

    23."We Met on Tinder" ft. Fraser

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2021 50:44


    Happy Hump Day Tater Tots! In todays episode, my boyfriend (Fraser) and I discuss all things online dating and also answer some of your questions about dating a bisexual, dating as a bisexual + so much more. Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman Youtube: Dutchy

    22. Male Bisexuality & Gender Questioning with Owen A

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 44:04


    Happy Tuesday #tot fam! In today's episode I welcome one of our very own listeners on to the pod to chat about male bisexuality, gender dysphoria, demisexuality + so much more! Be sure to follow #tot on IG if you would like to get involved/featured on future episodes or to chat about topics covered in each of my episodes! I'll catch you all next week! LINKS: Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman Youtube: Dutchy

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    21. Queer imposter syndrome. How to handle not feeling 'queer' enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2021 15:54


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode I dive into queer imposter syndrome and how to deal with feeling like you're not queer enough or the LGBTQ+ community. Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman Youtube: Dutchy

    Let’s talk about SEX! Playing ReFlex with Kyah Zois (ily FlexMami)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 49:56


    Happy Monday tot fam! In today’s raunchy episode I invite my good friend Kyah back onto #tot to talk about SEX! I was sent FlexMami’s card game (ReFlex) so we decided to play & discuss. We chat about our first time, hook up culture, orgasms (and what they feel like), squirting, how to communicate personal boundaries inc. likes & dislikes and SO much more! Like this episode? Leave a review or continue the conversation on my IG! Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman Youtube: Dutchy Time stamps with ** = sensitive topics/trigger warning! Time Stamps: Intro 0:00-2:40 Hook up culture: 2:40-4:27 Communicating sexual desires: 4:27-7:07 Your first sexual experience: 7:07-9:52 First sex talk: 9:52-13:45 Female condoms/protection: 13:45-14:50 **What to do when "no" isn't enough for someone: 14:50-16:26** Dental dams - where to get them/are they necessary: 16:26-17:19 How to have safe lesbian/gay sex: 17:19-17:44 Should you still use protection in relationships? 17:44-18:37 How to move past sexual assault? 18:37-20:13 Painful penetration & alternative sexual acts: 20:13-21:05 How to make sure I don't hurt my gf for our first time: 21:05-21:55 How to be confident in the bedroom/sex injuries/awkwardness: 21:55-23:44 Vasectomies & cumming? 23:44-24:38 How to smell & taste healthy down there: 24:38-26:50 How do girls masturbate: 26:50-29:40 Where to get STI tests in Australia? 29:40-31:05 Squirting? But no orgasm? 31:05-32:00 **How to set boundaries in the bedroom/how to say no: 32:00-33:10** Could you live a fulfilling life without sex? 33:10-34:34 Favourite thing about sex? 34:34-36:17 How do you communicate your sexual boundaries verbally? 36:17-37:34 Non-verbal consent? 37:34-40:31 Favourite way to initiate sex: 40:31-42:02 What is bad sex? 42:02-44:37 How would you describe an orgasm? 44:37-46:55 Outro 46:55-48:17 REVIEWERS OF THE WEEK: 48:17-49:57

    Periods, Vaginal Discharge & Coming Off The Pill with Jema Lee

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2021 66:59


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today’s episode I am joined by the wonderful Jema Lee. She is a women’s cycle health educator or as I like to call her, the guru of women’s health. She is a period coach & menstrual cycle educator/speaker, helping women and those who menstruate find balance and connection to their bodies. It is important to note that not all individuals who identify as women menstruate and that some humans who do identify as women do no not menstruate. In today’s episode we speak about all things menstruation, painful periods, how the pill can affect your body, vaginal discharge & what it means, PCOS, how nutrition can effect your cycle & so much MORE. This episode is honestly jam packed with lots of helpful information for anyone who menstruates, is on the pill or just wants to know about their own body and cycle. Thanks for listening cuties! Be sure to follow #tot on IG if you would like to get involved/featured on future episodes or to chat about topics covered in each of my episodes! I'll catch you all next week! LINKS: Podcast IG: @topicsoftaboo Megan's IG: @megandijkman Youtube: Dutchy JEMA'S LINKS: CTA:  Download Cycle Tracker https://www.subscribepage.com/love-your-cycle Website : https://www.wellsome.com/ Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/wellsome_jemalee/ Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/wellsome.jemalee/ Podcast :  https://www.wellsome.com/podcast/ Gift: Get 20% off Jema's course here: Use code CYCLELOVE to save 20% 5-Day LoveYourCycle Mini Course:  https://www.wellsome.com/product/love-your-cycle-course/

    18. Living with Endometriosis ft. Kyah Zois

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2021 47:10


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode I welcome Kyah back onto the podcast to chat candidly about her experience with Endometriosis. For those of you who don't know, endometriosis is an often painful disorder in which tissue similar to the tissue that normally lines the inside of your uterus (the endometrium) grows outside your uterus. It occurs most commonly in your ovaries, fallopian tubes and the tissue lining your pelvis. Kyah was recently clinically diagnosed with endometriosis & so kindly opens up about her experience. We talk about how/when she started noticing symptoms, what her symptoms were, multiple misdiagnoses from many GPs/professionals, fertility, the 'normality' surrounding painful periods and dismissal of pain, the pill as a treatment/bandaid for endometriosis + so much more.Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!

    17. A million mental breakdowns & a Facebook hacking (general life update)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2021 27:15


    Happy Monday tater tots!! I'm back with a bit of a sombre one today. In today's episode I open up about my (poor) mental health including *but not limited to* anxiety, mood swings, a few too many mental breakdowns, my gut health, spiralling/self diagnosing, losing friends & my Facebook getting hacked. Yep, 2021 has been a shit one so far buttt I'm crossing my fingers for the rest of the year. I just wanted to highlight how social media can be such a facade. You never really know everything going on in another persons life unless they tell you. I haven't had the energy or mental capacity to create content for a few weeks and I apologise for that even though I don't have to. I don't even owe anyone an explanation, but I decided to provide one because you deserve it. I am so thankful to have a followers like YOU. So thank you for being patient with me, thank you for understanding and not expecting content from me when I'm not doing so great. It means more than you would know, so thank you. GET KEEEEEN for more Topics of taboo!! Uploads will be going back to normal after this one (woo!!).

    16. Why The Birth Control Pill Might Be Ruining Your Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2021 23:40


    Happy Monday tater tots! Welcome back to another episode of Topics of Taboo! Today's topic of conversation is on hormonal birth control, more specifically, the pill. I delve into my experience and side effects of 10+ years on the combined pill. I also chat about everything they don't tell you when going on the pill, share your stories/thoughts/opinions on oral contraception and introduce you the male contraceptive pill (the clean sheets pill).What are your thoughts on the birth control pill? I would love to hear from you!! DM me on instagram at @topicsoftaboo or comment on my most recent post! Let's have a chat!! :D

    15. Challenging Societal Expectations & Gender Norms

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2021 25:04


    HAPPY MONDAY TATER TOTS! In today's episode I discuss my current gut health issues, what's been going on in my life (mini life update) along with societal expectations, gender norms & most importantly, how to challenge them. Thanks so much for listening! Don't forget to leave an apple podcast review if you're enjoying the podcast :)What are your thoughts on societal expectations and gender norms? I would love to hear from you!! DM me on instagram at @topicsoftaboo or comment on my most recent post! Let's have a chat!!!

    14. It's time to talk about Biromantic Lesbianism.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2021 24:14


    HAPPY MONDAY #TOT FAM!! How are we all?! In today's episode we delve into the taboo sexual identity of 'bisexual lesbianism' or 'bisexual homosexuality'. Is it a valid sexuality? Can romantic and sexual attraction be separated? Or are 'bisexual lesbians' just confused and struggling with compulsory heterosexuality? I dive into what it means to be a bisexual lesbian, my experience with the separation of romantic and sexual attraction, how members of the LGBTQ+ community feel about this term & some of our own #tot listeners share their experience with bisexual lesbianism, how they've chosen to label themselves and the stigma they have faced. What are your thoughts on the topic of 'biromantic lesbianism?' I would love to hear from you!! DM me on instagram at @topicsoftaboo or comment on my most recent post! Let's have a chat!!!

    13. My Coming Out Story & How To Deal With Internalised Homophobia/Bisexual Erasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2021 28:46


    Happy Monday my tater tots!! Welcome back to season 2 of Topics of Taboo!! I'm so glad you're here! In today's episode I open up & spill the tea about my coming out story/journey. I also share advice on how to deal with internalised homophobia and bisexual erasure. I end this episode by answering a series of your questions from IG re sexuality & coming out.Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!

    12. Cutting ties with toxic friends & family with Dom Barton

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 62:26


    HIIII tater tots!!! In the last episode of season 1 and 2020 I sit down with my best pal Dom as discuss how to identify red flags of a toxic relationship as well as how to cut ties with toxic friends & family.

    11. the Jay Alvarrez SEX TAPE & what you DON'T see in porn with Kyah Zois

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2020 38:56


    Hiiiii #tot fam!! In today's SPICY episode Kyah and I react to/discuss the 'leaked' Jay Alvarrez sex tape! OoOOooh *scandalous* !! We also get stuck into the unrealistic standards of porn, using sex toys with a partner & our own experiences with sex tapes :o Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!

    10. Dealing with trauma, misdiagnosis, bipolar & eating disorders with Karlia Webster

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2020 64:09


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode I am joined by Karlia - an old friend from high school. She offered to come on to the podcast to open up about her experience with mental health. In this episode, we discuss how Karlia was misdiagnosed with depression from year 9 to the age of 23 as well as her struggles with trauma, bipolar & eating disorders. We are not qualified to give out specific medical advice however, we will be discussing topics and disorders that Karlia has experienced first hand & the stigma and complications surrounding them. Some of these topics can be quite heavy & triggering for some, so I have left time stamps below if you need to skip through sections of the episode. I will also post some helpful website and phone numbers if you do need to seek help/talk to someone about these topics if you are experiencing them. If you're not feeling like yourself, please talk to someone. Seek help. Your mental health is of utmost importance.Beyond blue - 1800 512 348Butterfly National Hotline (eating disorders) - 1800 33 4673 You can also chat online on both of these websites. Episode time stamps:00:00-2:05 Intro2:05-3:06 Introducing Karlia3:06-4:47 How it all begun4:47-8:04 Being misdiagnosed with depression & the bipolar/borderline in females/stigma/stereotypes.8:04-12:00 Borderline explained, fear of abandonment & people being undiagnosed.12:00-15:20 Negative reactions to antidepressants *overdose warning*, being hospitalised. Highs and lows.15:20-16:00 Being diagnosed with bipolar, borderline or both.16:00-17:44 Hospitalised due to overdosing once again. Getting medicated for bipolar & borderline.17:44-18:50 The importance of listening to your body. If something is wrong, don't let up.18:50-22:05 Mental health care plans & the importance of multidisciplinary teams.22:05-24:55 The stigma around anti-psychotic meds.24:55-25:40 Men and mental health.25:40-26:50 Viewing mental health a positive experience. Mental illness vs personality.26:50-28:04 Going through a break up & seeing personal growth.28:04-28:40 Feeling critical of Psychologists.28:40-30:16 Everyone has trauma. Therapy isn't just for severe trauma.30:16-31:20 Passing trauma onto others in relationships/friendships.31:20-32:35 Eating disorders vs disordered eating.32:35-34:00 Atypical anorexia.34:00-36:15 Karlia's experience with disordered eating & the gym.36:15-37:20 Everyone's experience is different. Restrictive eating.37:20-38:00 Calorie counting. Gym work. Gains?38:00-1:02.36 Advice/answering your questions1:02.36-1:04.09 Outro

    9. Non-penetrative sex & why it's the only option for some people

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2020 25:12


    HAPPY MONDAYYYYY TATER #TOTS (yep, y'all have a new nickname. you're welcome ;)) In this episode unpack non-penetrative sex & what that looks like as well as some conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation. These are some conditions that can hinder an individual from participating in penetrative sex sooooo let's change the narrative of what 'sex' looks like.Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!

    8. Wtf is VIRGINITY? With Kyah Zois

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2020 41:41


    Happpppy Monday #toters!! In today's episode Kyah and I discuss the concept of VIRGINITY. What is it really? Is it a social construct? Is there a right age to lose your virginity? What do you do if your personal views on religion don't align with your religion? Can you lose your virginity to a girl? We talk through all of these questions and more today! All of the opinions & comments expressed throughout the episode are our own and understand/accept that everyone is entitled to their own opinions and views on virginity/religion and that other people's opinions may differ from ours. :) Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!If you'd like more from Kyah, follow her on Instagram @kyah.z*rape/sexual assault mention is between 14:00 & 14:21 and 25:20-28:22*0:00-1:29 Intro1:29-2:20 Welcome Kyah/Disclaimer2:20-3:57 Virginity as a social construct/origins of virginity3:57-4:22 Nerves re: intimacy vs nerves re: virginity4:22-6:30 Views on virginity evolving over time6:30-8:00 Double standards/gender disparity8:00-10:00 History of Virginity & Sexual "Purity"10:00-11:20 Losing your virginity vs your first time. What about "the gays?"11:20-14:22 When you don't agree with your religions view on virginity.14:22-14:46 The hymen14:46-16:13 The "right age" to lose your virginity16:13-17:28 How to deal with nerves if your partner is not a virgin17:28-19:00 Can you lose your virginity to a girl/twice?19:00-20:21 Does masturbation count?20:21-21:50 Does oral sex count?21:50-22:35 Does having sex with someone with a vagina count?22:35-24:08 Negative connotations surrounding losing your virginity.24:08-25:20 Fingering? And changing the dynamic.25:20-28:22 How to deal with/move on from a bad experience?28:22-29:30 Am I still a virgin if I had sex with a woman but not a man?29:30- 40:37 Your comments/messages/input40:37-41:33 Outro

    7. Dealing with Depression & Anxiety in High School with Charlee Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2020 64:24


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode my best friend Charlee explains her experience with depression, anxiety & borderline personality disorder. We also try our best to answer some of your questions re: mental illness & seeking help (as well as how to). I'll provide some links and phone numbers below if you do need to speak someone in confidence/not a family member or friend. If you need help, we strongly encourage you to do so. You do not need to be going through this alone. We love you so much. LifeLine ph: 13 11 14BeyondBlue ph: 1300 22 46 36Sane: 1800 187 263HeadSpace: 1800 650 890Gay and Lesbian Switchboard: 1800 184 527

    6. Period Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 28:18


    Welcome back #tot fam! Happy MONDAY (or whatever day). PERIOD SEX. Heck yeah or heck nah and why the heck is it still a TABOO?

    5. Life inside a Polyamorous Relationship with Tim & Issy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2020 30:19


    HAPPY MONDAY #TOT FAM! In today's episode I am joined by two of my good friends Tim and Issy who are polyamorous. We discuss what it means to be poly, how the dynamics work, how to do deal with friends & family not accepting your lifestyle choices and so much more. Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo!! Be sure to leave a review if you would like to get involved (or to be featured) in future episodes! See ya next week :D

    4. The Sexuality Spectrum & Not Feeling Bi Enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 32:14


    HAPPPPPYYY MONDAY #TOT FAM! How are we all doing?! In today's episode I dive deep into my own sexuality, my internalised biphobia & the spectrum of sexuality.Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or to be featured) in future episodes! See ya next week :D

    3. Ask a bisexual anything with Georgia Bridgers

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 45:18


    Happy Monday #tot fam!! In today's episode I am joined by the one and only Georgia Bridgers (eeeek!!) We chat about how we knew we were bisexual as well as the struggles we've faced with coming to terms with our sexuality (both internally and externally). We also answer a bunch of your questions re: dating men and women, how lesbians have sex, how to make queer friends & so much more - this one gets JUICY!!Thanks so much for listening! If you'd like more from Georgia, follow her on IG @georgiabridgers !!Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or to be featured) in future episodes! See ya next week :D

    2. High school SUCKS!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 28:15


    Hiiii #tot fam!! It's just me on my lonesome in the studio today (a.k.a my bedroom). In today's episode I chat about a lil mental breakdown I had last week & all about how much high school SUCKS (for most of us). I speak about bullying, cliques, teachers, judgement, starting a YT channel in high school & what life is REALLY like beyond high school. At one point, I even try my hand at being an inspirational speaker... yep, sorry about that. But no seriously, chase your dreams legend!! Stop letting fear of other people's opinions and judgement stop you from doing what makes you happy or what you want to do - life's too dang short!!Thanks so much for listening!! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or be featured) in future episodes!!00:00-1:43 - intro1:43-2:52 - my mental breakdown2:50-3:30 - addressing audio issues3:30-4:40 - apple took my podcast down4:40-6:30 my worst trait6:30-6:50 100k milestone6:50-8:10 HIGHSCHOOL SUUUCKS8:10-9:40 16 yr old Megan9:40-11:58 changes & bullies11:58-12:50 the real world12:50-13:20 the popular people13:20-15:00 BEST ADVICE EVER!!15:00-15:16 friends forever?15:16-19:40 a refreshing change19:40-20:00 the harsh reality20:00-22:41 light at the end of the tunnel22:41-24:00 starting a YT channel in high school vs uni24:00-25:25 honest advice25:25- outro

    1. Life as a transgender woman with AJ Clementine

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2020 36:56


    Happy Monday #tot fam! I have a very special guest joining me on the podcast for our FIRST official episode. This woman is an absolute icon & her story is awe inspiring! She is a model, a YouTuber, a TikTok star, an IG queen, an inspiration & role model to many and she also happens to be one of my dearest friends, AJ Clementine.In this episode, AJ bares all. We discuss how she knew she was transgender, her coming out journey, gender reassignment surgery, the importance of pronouns & so much more. My apologies in advance for 2 or 3 sections of the ep where audio is a bit hairy (sound spikes/echo-ing) I tried fixing these as much as I could! All part of starting something new! Rest assured the audio is smoothed out in future episodes :)Thanks so much for listening! If you'd like more from AJ, follow her on Instagram @ajclementine_.Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!0:00-2:54 Intro2:54- 6:56 the realisation/early years6:56-10:51 gender "norms "& society10:51-15:14 gender dysphoria15:14-20:32 what does it feel like to be transgender20:32-23:00 bottom surgery23:00- 24:49 are non-binary people trans?24:49-26:21 they/them pronouns26:21-28:06 perceptions of others28:06-29:44 how did your family react29:44-32:52 hurtful questions32:52-34:00 advice for your younger self34:00- LGBTQ message36:00-36:56 Outro

    Welcome to Topics of Taboo

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 1:24


    Introducing "Topics of Taboo". A a zero filter podcast hosted by Megan Dijkman.

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