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Everyone has the desire to be desired, finally, in this episode, the mystery of desire is stripped back. Dr Karen Gurney is a Clinical Psychologist, Psychosexologist and Couples Therapist, she has been helping couples tackle sex problems for over 20 years. She is the author of the bestselling book, ‘Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to future proof your sex life'. In this conversation Karen and Steven discuss topics, such as the reasons for a dead sex life, why women prefer non-penetrative sex, how technology is killing your sex life, and why you should invest in your sexual currency. Topics: 0:00 Intro 02:07 What Do You Do and Why Do You Do It? 03:56 Our Attention Is Being Hijacked Which Is Affecting Our Sex Lives 09:57 Why Does Sex Get Harder the More We Think About It 11:50 Why Expectations and Pressure Make Sex Worse 15:56 Our Society Has Created a "Sexual Script" That's Wrong 17:10 How to Talk About Sex with Your Partner 23:09 How to Tell Your Partner You're Not Attracted to Them Anymore 25:56 How to Not Let Kids Ruin Your Sex Life 27:25 The Demographic That Comes to You More Than Any Other 28:16 Why Desire Goes in a Relationship 34:13 How to Trigger Desire in Your Relationship 38:34 The "Initiation" Problem 40:21 Should We Schedule Sex? 43:05 What Should We Be Doing to Keep Desire High in Our Relationships 45:55 How to Talk About Your Fetish with Your Partner 50:54 What Women Really Want During Sex 52:45 Does It Matter Who Initiates Sex? 56:04 If Our Idea of What We Want From Sex Isn't Happening What Should We Do? 58:31 If Men Can't Get It Up, What Should We Do? 01:00:56 If Men Can't Get It Up, What Should We Do? 01:01:15 Should We Have Sex Before or After We Eat? 01:02:22 The Optimal Amount of Times to Have Sex 01:04:16 Sexual Dissatisfaction Between Men and Women 01:07:54 How to Deal with a Sex Life as a Parent 01:11:54 What You Can Do as a Parent to Ensure Your Sex Life Doesn't Go Off Track 01:13:26 The Relationship Between Poor Sleep and Sex 01:16:39 At What Point Should People Reach Out to You? 01:17:21 Have You Ever Seen Relationships That Are Unrecoverable? 01:18:45 The Top 3 Most Common Sexual Problems 01:20:46 The Impact of Pets on Our Sex Lives 01:22:43 Are You Hopeful for the Future of Sex? 01:24:04 How Menopause Affects Our Sex Lives 01:25:21 Our Bodies Changing Over Time and How That Impacts Our Sex Lives 01:26:27 Are We Meant to Be Monogamous? 01:31:51 The Last Guest's Question You can pre-order Karen's book, ‘How Not to Let Having Kids Ruin Your Sex Life', here: https://amzn.to/49VnduP Follow Karen Twitter - https://bit.ly/4bEnROQ Instagram - https://bit.ly/49i1AEP Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo Sponsors: Uber: https://p.uber.com/creditsterms Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You can buy a digital deck of the "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards", or the recently released "Neurodiverse Love Conversation Card Workbook" at: www.neurodiverselove.com. On the Neurodiverse Love website you can also subscribe to the Neurodiverse Love newsletter, or get more information about the support groups that Mona facilitates for neurodiverse couples, or the neurotypical/non-autistic partners. Thank you for being part of the Neurodiverse Love community! ________________________________________________________ Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a certified sex therapist and supervisor and also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). She is the author of two books and also teaches graduate courses in human sexuality. Dr. Tina also leads the Northwest Institute on Intimacy (https://www.nwioi.com) where she trains therapists, physicians, and educators on sexual health. During this episode, we talk about the history of sexual shame and how to heal it. We also discuss other topics that many neurodiverse couples may be dealing with related to physical and sexual intimacy. Those topics include: Being relationally and sexually healthy. The history and definition of sexual shame. How does sexuality look for diverse populations? Only 18 states require medically accurate sex education. The impact of silencing and shaming someone for being sexually curious. Understanding your internal critic and internalized judgment and the source of sexual dysfunction. Ways to heal from sexual shame. What was the misinformation you may have received about sex?◦ How can we be comfortable in our own skin related to physical and sexual intimacy? When something that is pleasurable to you doesn't seem common. Understanding consent, support and how you maintain both. Experiencing pleasure in the way that works for each of you. Feeling othered doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. Bring your less reactive self to the conversation about what you like. Find people who share your interests. Partners can mirror back to each other the things that are most important. Is there a bridge to each other around areas of significant difference? Exploring the possibility of opening up your relationship regarding getting your needs made in different ways. How misunderstandings regarding needs can create struggles with physical and sexual intimacy. Lack of knowledge and feeling you don't deserve something better can cause you to give up. Sex may have been routine and may not include a lot of communication. High desire person may not be getting the heart connection and pleasure they want. Penetrative sex is not the only type of sex. Research has shown that many queer couples are having better sex. Can you and your partner create a menu of what you each like? Mojoupgrade.com has a quiz regarding sexual interests and preferences. When one partner wants to engage in watching pornography and the other partner is confused. Understanding the role of pornography and why it's in your partner's life. Understand why your partner may feel betrayed. Porn does not give you intimacy. Gain an understanding of when your partner started looking at porn, what was the purpose, what does it help with, what does it get in the way of, and how can you build a sexual health plan together. Pinklabel.tv; Erikalust.com (suggested sites for ethical porn) Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health (https://weknowship.org/) Any act of loving is an act of risk. Your partner may disappoint you and/or break your trust. Have reasonable expectations and determine how each of you want to manage the bumps in the road of your relationship. Are you both willing to work to become a better version of yourself on the other side of your challenges? You can contact Dr. Tina at: www.TinaSchermersellers.com or you can follow her or the Northwest Institute on Instagram: @Drtinashameless or @Nwinstituteonintimacy --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/neurodiverse-love/message

CONTAINMENT & PENETRATION IN BDSM PLAY AND SENSUALITYIt's good to understand that sensual energies move in an UP & DOWN cyclical form.It's good to master providing both of these phases to our partners in our sensual connections:CONTAINMENT involves the grounding and integrating phase of the energy.PENETRATION is the more stimulating and arousing phase of the cycle.*******************Culturally, we are more aware of and have more emphasis on the Penetrative aspect of sensuality.  We want to stimulate our partners.  We want to arouse them.  We want to create a big response in them.BDSM is brilliant at emphasizing the Containment element of our energetics.  A good BDSM scene begins and ends in Containment.To learn more about this, please come take our class:  https://omrupani.org/tantra-bdsm— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

If you would like to experience the most erotic audio available then please down load it exclusively on the Wylde Erotic Stories app here. On this episode we journey alongside Carla and Max, two virtual strangers who share a mutual interest in bondage and domination. Having connected online, they have indulged their fantasies through tantalizing webcam sessions, and now, they have decided to meet in person. We invite you to join us as we unravel their first encounter at a hotel bar where anticipation and nerves collide. Listen in as they share intimate conversation, and Carla is captivated by Max's voice and piercing blue eyes, setting the stage for an afternoon of unrestrained pleasure.Prepare for a surge of passion in our exploration of Carla and Max's intimate encounter. As Carla takes the reins, their shared desires intensify, culminating in a steamy session of oral and penetrative sex. Indulge in their sensual journey as they achieve mutual satisfaction, their shared desires leaving them satiated and fulfilled. Be part of this journey as we traverse the thrilling landscape of their shared fantasies.This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5520412/advertisement

This is an excerpt from Bentinho's most highly-acclaimed course, Meditation Mastery.Meditation Mastery is a 30-day masterclass designed to help beginners understand the true use of meditation (and fall in love with it), and to support seasoned meditators in deepening and refining their practice. Whether you're a seasoned meditator or just starting out, this course is guaranteed to deepen your practice, grant you the most direct access to awakening, and orient your entire spiritual journey.If you're ready to master your meditation, check out Meditation Mastery now.As a podcast listener you'll receive a 10% discount if you use the code MMPOD23.Visit meditationmastery.io to learn more._________This is the fourth video in a 4-part series. During the 30-Day Meditation Mastery online course, Bentinho gives a distillation of the four types of meditation he recommends and considers integral to the meta-journey of Self Realization. These types of meditations are the most helpful in terms of how to use your attention or consciousness to lead to the fastest, truest results. The four types of meditation are:1) Penetrative: inquiring into, or directing one's focus toward deeper levels of awareness beyond one's current level of perception;2) Surrender: using inquiry or faith and devotion as a means to surrender to God/Source/Oneness the falsehoods discovered through this inquiry, giving away any sense of ownership, doership, or any idea or belief that one may be holding onto energetically;3) Recognition/Abiding: recognizing the presence of the true nature of Reality or Consciousness to some degree, and then resting in the awareness of this truth, or abiding in this recognition; and4) Amplification: using the will to see a certain presence of truth more clearly and purely, and then turning up the brightness or luminosity in order to experience the chosen state of awareness more precisely._________Follow Bentinho on Social Media:InstagramFacebookYouTubeTwitterTikTok_________Subscribe to the Bentinho Massaro newsletter: bit.ly/3rhVNhs

This is an excerpt from Bentinho's most highly-acclaimed course, Meditation Mastery.Meditation Mastery is a 30-day masterclass designed to help beginners understand the true use of meditation (and fall in love with it), and to support seasoned meditators in deepening and refining their practice. Whether you're a seasoned meditator or just starting out, this course is guaranteed to deepen your practice, grant you the most direct access to awakening, and orient your entire spiritual journey.If you're ready to master your meditation, check out Meditation Mastery now.As a podcast listener you'll receive a 10% discount if you use the code MMPOD23.Visit meditationmastery.io to learn more._________This is the third video in a 4-part series. During the 30-Day Meditation Mastery online course, Bentinho gives a distillation of the four types of meditation he recommends and considers integral to the meta-journey of Self Realization. These types of meditations are the most helpful in terms of how to use your attention or consciousness to lead to the fastest, truest results. The four types of meditation are:1) Penetrative: inquiring into, or directing one's focus toward deeper levels of awareness beyond one's current level of perception;2) Surrender: using inquiry or faith and devotion as a means to surrender to God/Source/Oneness the falsehoods discovered through this inquiry, giving away any sense of ownership, doership, or any idea or belief that one may be holding onto energetically;3) Recognition/Abiding: recognizing the presence of the true nature of Reality or Consciousness to some degree, and then resting in the awareness of this truth, or abiding in this recognition; and4) Amplification: using the will to see a certain presence of truth more clearly and purely, and then turning up the brightness or luminosity in order to experience the chosen state of awareness more precisely._________Follow Bentinho on Social Media:InstagramFacebookYouTubeTwitterTikTok_________Subscribe to the Bentinho Massaro newsletter: bit.ly/3rhVNhs

This is an excerpt from Bentinho's most highly-acclaimed course, Meditation Mastery.Meditation Mastery is a 30-day masterclass designed to help beginners understand the true use of meditation (and fall in love with it), and to support seasoned meditators in deepening and refining their practice. Whether you're a seasoned meditator or just starting out, this course is guaranteed to deepen your practice, grant you the most direct access to awakening, and orient your entire spiritual journey.If you're ready to master your meditation, check out Meditation Mastery now.As a podcast listener you'll receive a 10% discount if you use the code MMPOD23.Visit meditationmastery.io to learn more._________This is the second video in a 4-part series. During the 30-Day Meditation Mastery course, Bentinho gives a distillation of the four types of meditation he recommends and considers integral to the meta-journey of Self Realization. These types of meditations are the most helpful in terms of how to use your attention or consciousness to lead to the fastest, truest results. The four types of meditation are:1) Penetrative: inquiring into, or directing one's focus toward deeper levels of awareness beyond one's current level of perception;2) Surrender: using inquiry or faith and devotion as a means to surrender to God/Source/Oneness the falsehoods discovered through this inquiry, giving away any sense of ownership, doership, or any idea or belief that one may be holding onto energetically;3) Recognition/Abiding: recognizing the presence of the true nature of Reality or Consciousness to some degree, and then resting in the awareness of this truth, or abiding in this recognition; and4) Amplification: using the will to see a certain presence of truth more clearly and purely, and then turning up the brightness or luminosity in order to experience the chosen state of awareness more precisely._________Follow Bentinho on Social Media:InstagramFacebookYouTubeTwitterTikTok_________Subscribe to the Bentinho Massaro newsletter: bit.ly/3rhVNhs

This is an excerpt from Bentinho's most highly-acclaimed course, Meditation Mastery.Meditation Mastery is a 30-day masterclass designed to help beginners understand the true use of meditation (and fall in love with it), and to support seasoned meditators in deepening and refining their practice. Whether you're a seasoned meditator or just starting out, this course is guaranteed to deepen your practice, grant you the most direct access to awakening, and orient your entire spiritual journey.If you're ready to master your meditation, check out Meditation Mastery now.As a podcast listener you'll receive a 10% discount if you use the code MMPOD23.Visit meditationmastery.io to learn more._________This is the first recording in a 4-part series. In Meditation Mastery, Bentinho gives a distillation of the four types of meditation he recommends and considers integral to the meta-journey of Self Realization. These types of meditations are the most helpful in terms of how to use your attention or consciousness to lead to the fastest, truest results.The four types of meditation are: 1) Penetrative: inquiring into, or directing one's focus toward deeper levels of awareness beyond one's current level of perception;2) Surrender: using inquiry or faith and devotion as a means to surrender to God/Source/Oneness the falsehoods discovered through this inquiry, giving away any sense of ownership, doership, or any idea or belief that one may be holding onto energetically;3) Recognition/Abiding: recognizing the presence of the true nature of Reality or Consciousness to some degree, and then resting in the awareness of this truth, or abiding in this recognition; and4) Amplification: using the will to see a certain presence of truth more clearly and purely, and then turning up the brightness or luminosity in order to experience the chosen state of awareness more precisely._________Follow Bentinho on Social Media:InstagramFacebookYouTubeTwitterTikTok_________Subscribe to the Bentinho Massaro newsletter: bit.ly/3rhVNhs

“Sexual activity can be classified in a number of ways. The practices may be preceded by or consist solely of foreplay.[2] Acts involving one person (autoeroticism) may include sexual fantasy or masturbation.[2] If two people are involved, they may engage in vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex or manual sex.[2] Penetrative sex between two people may be described as sexual intercourse, but definitions vary. If there are more than two participants in a sex act, it may be referred to as group sex. Autoerotic sexual activity can involve use of dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and other sex toys, though these devices can also be used with a partner. Sexual activity can be classified into the gender and sexual orientation of the participants, as well as by the relationship of the participants. The relationships can be ones of marriage, intimate partners, casual sex partners or anonymous. Sexual activity can be regarded as conventional or as alternative, involving, for example, fetishism or BDSM activities.[3][4] Fetishism can take many forms, including the desire for certain body parts (partialism) such as breasts, navels, or feet.[5] The object of desire can be shoes, boots, lingerie, clothing, leather or rubber items. Some non-conventional autoerotic practices can be dangerous. These include autoerotic asphyxiation and self-bondage.[6] The potential for injury or even death that exists while engaging in the partnered versions of these fetishes (choking and bondage, respectively) becomes drastically increased in the autoerotic case due to the isolation and lack of assistance in the event of a problem.[6] Sexual activity that is consensual is sexual activity in which both or all participants agree to take part and are of the age that they can consent.[7] If sexual activity takes place under force or duress, it is considered rape or another form of sexual assault. In different cultures and countries, various sexual activities may be lawful or illegal in regards to the age, gender, marital status or other factors of the participants, or otherwise contrary to social norms or generally accepted sexual morals.[7]” --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:1) I've been with my partner for 13 years and recently found out he's been having sex with a woman he works with. It's over now and we're having therapy, but we haven't had sex since I found out six months ago. I can't even think about sex. Every time I do, I imagine the two of them together and it makes me feel sick to the stomach. How long will this last? Will I ever be able to enjoy sex again?2) My question is about penetrative orgasms. We do what you guys talk about—my boyfriend gives me an orgasm first through oral sex—but I'd like to at least attempt to have one through intercourse. Any suggestions on how to do that? I know woman on top is the favored position, but is there anything I should be doing to up my chances of it resulting in an orgasm for me?3) My partner and I have been dating for two years. We're deeply in love and the relationship and the sex are great. We are very physical and love long cuddle sessions. But we have very different needs after sex: he wants to cuddle, and I just want to sleep or get on with my day. We had a big fight about this recently: he feels "used" and needs a long post-sex physical connection. I deeply love him and want to fulfill his needs, but find it hard to cuddle post-orgasm. I almost feel a repelling force as if as a switch turned in my brain. Post-orgasm, I suddenly notice all the sweat, stickiness, dirty sheets, and don't want to be touched. If it's in the morning, I suddenly realize that I have a lot of work to do and feel time pressure. I'm not that into morning sex, for exactly that reason. He really likes it and wants to do it more often. What can we do to find a compromise? Is it normal to find cuddling repellent after sex for some people? Can I train myself to get used to it (I really don't like it)?To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelUWant a copy of Tracey's book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Liz Daws OAM, CEO of the Robert Connor Dawes (RCD) Foundation, discusses the origin of the RCD Foundation and its work supporting the research and care of patients with paediatric brain tumours, and canvasses the upcoming Connor's Run event on September 10; Professor Jeffrey V. Rosenfeld, Senior Neurosurgeon in the Department of Neurosurgery at The Alfred and Professor of Surgery at Monash University, shares his research into the management and treatment of traumatic and penetrative brain injuries; and the team discuss recent research on the correlations between brain volume, brain pathways, and mental health illnesses, and unpack the Matildas' injury preventative warm-up routine FIFA 11+. With presenters Miss Perineum, Dr Training Wheels, and Dr Patient. Website: https://www.rrr.org.au/explore/programs/radiotherapyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/RadiotherapyOnTripleR/Twitter: https://twitter.com/_radiotherapy_Instagram: https://instagram.com/radiotherapy_tripler

Violet Benson started her now-famous Instagram account @DaddyIssues_ while working through issues of her own. On today's podcast, she opens up about working through deep emotional struggles so she can create the sex life and relationships that truly work for her. No matter your background or life stage, I'm positive this conversation will liberate and inspire you to take the next step in your sex life. Violet, who hosts the popular podcast Almost Adulting, tells me about her decision to temporarily swear off penetrative sex, freezing her eggs, and how she quit playing games while dating. She also takes the Sex IQ quiz inspired by my upcoming book, Smart Sex! Listen to her results, then listen to both of us answer a listener question: when the sex is hot but they've got huge, emotional red flags, should you pursue them anyway?Show Notes:Sexy Summer Pack List: The Seven Essentials5 Reasons to Add Anal Play to Your Masturbation RoutineSex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event DatesPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureTAKE THE FULL SEX IQ QUIZ! Email proof of pre-order purchase to smartsex@sexwithemily.com and I'll send you a link to take the quizSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)LELO LILY 3 (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide)More Violet Benson: @daddyissues_ | InstagramAlmost Adulting Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Connect with Ruby : https://www.instagram.com/ruby.josif.... 0:00 Intro 0:12 Perth , Australia 0:20 Your journey 1:06 Tantra and sacred sexuality 1:35 Healing and growth 2:07 needs , wants and desires 2:45 taboo , dirty and shameful 3:15 Boundaries and desires 3:20 Lack of exploration 5:02 Practice expressing 5:40 Be gentle 5:43 Are you comfortable 6:05 Hot mess 6:35 Emotional safety 7:03 Sexual experience 7:08 Our boundaries can change 7:45 Penetrative sex 7:57 They won't be offended 9:10 Honour your boundaries 11:40 shame and guilt 12:00 Sex on drugs 13:30 Crossing your boundaries 14:17 People pleasing 15:02 How can you be sensual 16:09 Exploring the feminine archetypes 17:40 Taste , touch and sound 18:12 Tune into taste 18:20 Pleasure through our five senses 19:00 Your friends cycles are synched 20:35 Fermones 20:57 Ovulating together 22:22 Listening to my body 23:08 Offering menstrual blood 23:17 A guide to dirty talk 23:35 Confidence piece 24:35 Brining sound into sex 25:03 Start small 26:04 Say what feels true to you 26:35 Practice in the shower 26:40 Practice saying cock 27:28 Express your desires 27:34 Being squeezed and grabbed 28:04 Connect the senses 28:40 Feeling safe and comfortable 28:47 A tap of curiosity 29:00 Baby go slow 29:25 My vagina shrivelled 29:57 No toy or finger up their 30:20 Being surprised by things in sex 30:47 More capacity for pleasure 31:35 Squirting 32:10 Exploring squirting 32:17 Self- pleasure 32:25 Can you squirt through masturbation 32:52 G spot stimulation 34:22 Becoming aroused 36:50 Hot wet mess 37:02 Gushy , mushy , sound 37:38 It's not pee 37:50 Orgasmic and pleasurable 38:15 Safety and trust 38:30 Favourite book 39:47 Love actually 40:58 Learn how to squirt 40:50 Desires and wants

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On this episode of Sips & Smacks, we discuss what sexuality means for us and other ways that intimacy can be expressed. We also dive into labels: what are ours? What do they mean? Where do we fit in? Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy- Alanah- Anne- Autumn- Avi- Bacon- Carolyn- CatNamedEaster - Carrie- Charley- Chloe- Cool Pseudonym- Dells- Diane- DME- Em- Icse- js4n6- Justin- Lauren- Lena- Margot- Mary- Melissa- SylviaPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/sipsandsmacksTumblr: @adaliak@rexismycopilotEmail:sipsandsmacks@gmail.comInstagram:@sipsandsmacksWebsite:https://www.sipsandsmacks.comIntro and outro music is "Badly Behaved" and licensed through Premium Beat

Rocky Heron says that in the gay community, sex is often like a handshake; you have sex first and then look for a deeper connection. People fear depth and connection, and often a deep energetic exchange feels more penetrating and vulnerable than physical penetration. But Rocky has a penetrating aura, and he isn't looking for sex to fill a void anymore. This is part one of my conversation with Rocky. We talk about finding transcendent self-love, discovering sexual identity, open relationships, leaning in to jealousy, and so much more. Make sure to tune in for part two, coming soon! Connect with Rocky: @rockyheron Sign up for Sexy Sunday poetry prompts HERE Connect with Bonnie: Instagram, Email (hello@bonnieweeks.com), Website Check out the Yoga Strong Podcast HERE

Ep 188: “It hurts when having sex.” Do you find yourself saying that sentence? Sex should be fun and satisfying. It should feel good. But for some women, penetrative sex is painful. Yikes! Something that is supposed to be enjoyable and give people feel-good hormones is suddenly dead in the water when unwanted pain chokes off the fun. I'm so happy to be sharing that there is a solution to help eliminate the pain! I'm excited to share this tool so that people can quit being plagued by painful sex. Curious? Here's my affiliate link to it: https://tinyurl.com/3ccdnacy Sex Should be Enjoyable, Not Painful.There are other ways to enjoy sex and physical closeness with a partner other than vaginal penetration, such as oral sex, nipple play, cuddling and caressing each other, stimulating the clitoris and or penis, or anal sex. But if penetrative sex is something both partners desire to include in their sexual intimacy but it hurts, then intimacy can't be at its best. I'm an affiliate for a sex toy company called MysteryVibe. I recently received an announcement from them that one of their products reduces pain from penetrative sex for those suffering from such pain. I was very excited to hear this news. Immediately, I wanted to spread this information around because I'm passionate about helping people have better sex, both solo and with a partner(s), improve their sex lives, and experience increased libido so they can enjoy their bodies and their interpersonal relationships.That's a lot of words for … I just want people to enjoy sex! Ha! Well, it's true, I do.Being limited by the fear of pain due to penetration during sex is a sad state to be in. This pain closes off a whole area of the body that can bring pleasure, namely the G-spot/internal clitoris. So, when something gets invented to help alleviate that pain, I have a giant urge to shout it from the rooftops. Woohoo! Let's go!What Can a Woman Do When It Hurts When Having Sex?If this is you, what are the options? Listen and find out in this episode.Curious about this? You can also find out more in the article I wrote about this on my website at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/if-it-hurts-when-having-sex-try-a-doctor-endorsed-vibrator-to-help/The sex toy/tool is Crescendo, and it has resulted in a 480% improvement in pain scores for those suffering from painful sex. WOW! Now that's some seriously positive results! The disorder that was studied is called Genito-Pelvic Pain & Penetration Disorder (GPPPD). They report “1 in 10 women suffer from GPPPD, a condition known to cause painful sex and difficulty with vaginal penetration. There are currently limited treatment options available for GPPPD, therefore, this news is unprecedented and potentially Quality-of-Life changing.”Affiliate link to Crescendo for women: https://tinyurl.com/3ccdnacyFor men: https://tinyurl.com/2p84prssRuan interviews the CEO of MysteryVibe: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10080476-ep-121-how-technology-improves-sex-an-interview-the-ceo-of-mystery-vibeConnect with podcast host Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowNew! Leave Ruan a voicemail for the podcast!  https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillowSupport the show

Talk on May 25, 2022 Anguttara Nikaya 6.63 Penetrative Discourse on p. 958 SN36.21 Sivaka Sutta Here Delson talks about Karmic results, Sensual Desires and the 8 fold path. Dhammachariya Delson leads his second retreat this year at Dhamma Sukha from May 19th to May 29th https://www.dhammasukha.org/getting-started-with-twim Where: Dhamma Sukha Meditation Center https://www.dhammasukha.org A complete guide to the meditation the way the Buddha taught: https://www.thepathtonibbana.com/ How to practice Metta/TWIM Meditation https://www.dhammasukha.org/beginner-lovingkindness What are the 6Rs https://www.dhammasukha.org/the-6rs Delson Armstrong https://www.dhammasukha.org/delson-armstrong

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Sex is so much more than penetration, and I think these underrated sex experiences are actually going to make your sex life so much better. So here's the list of things that don't involve penetration. Number one grinding. Oh my God, it's not just for teens. Grinding is so hot like you're basically riding each other, snogging each other's faces off. It's so intimate and also kind of like cute at the same time. Plus, when you're riding somebody, your stimulating the clitoral network by putting pressure on the pubic mound. So it's a win-win Number two massage. Like if somebody is good at massage, I am basically like Okay, I've just died & gone to heaven like I am. I'll do anything for you. A really good massage, especially if you level up and you bring some massage oil into it. You put on some candles. It's just like so orgasm. I don't know if anyone's looked at massage like, if you haven't, we'll look at it as a whole as fuck seriously. Number three. Mutual masturbation. Like I think this is totally underrated, and I think it should get way, way will be more popular than it is because there's nothing hotter than looking at your partner and just showing this totally vulnerable but like intimate and sexy thing that you're doing together but also individually. Number four nipples, everybody, everybody can come through nipple stimulation. Isn't that amazing? So think outside the box and you'll have much better sex!Check out the replies and reactions on Beams.fm

Tyomi Morgan is BACK and this time we're talkin' stroke (aka penetration with a penis or strap on). Penetrative sex CAN be just as pleasurable as all the other sex acts we know and love, it just takes a little practice. From speed, to rhythm, to depth, there is so much to know when it comes to stroke (and don't worry, we cover it all). We also learn how to move your hips, where to aim during penetration, and how to make yourself queef (you'll understand it once you listen lol). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Hi and welcome to lies about sex with Cat from UNGIRL. Welcome to our new series. We're gonna hopefully uncover some truths about sex, not just lies. And in today's episode, I want to talk about one that is close to my heart and really pisses me off. Is that sex should hurt. And I'm talking particularly penetrative sex for people vaginas. Yeah, if you're like me and you heard Oh, my God, you're first time, is going to hurt. And you're going to bleed on the sheets like you experience the pain and the fear and the awkwardness that came with that. Well, yeah, this is going out to you because it is not true. Penetrative sex does not and should not have to hurt. But why do we keep telling this lie and why does it perpetuate? Like all things we hear about sex? Well, I think because we literally just ignore female pleasure, we ignore the part that's super important. Before you have penetrative sex, which is actually get turned on, give her some pleasure, or at least use lube. I mean, dry sex equals painful sex that ‘s just it doesn't matter what age you are. The myth also makes people with penises think they should make their partner. Because if they didn't, do they have a small penis? or oh, their partner's vaginas is loose, obviously. Right. Don't get me started on that. I know it doesn't need to hurt. My first time ended up actually been quite pleasurable, to be honest. And it was probably because I really knew my body. and I got really, really wet. So I just I want this lie to end and I want you to join me in my next episode.Check out the replies and reactions on Beams.fm

Work. My boss rocks. Went for a fish n chip picnic for [COUSINS] birthday down at the beach. Couple beers. Amazing chips. Just wasn't so hungry at the time unfortunately. Water has been so clear lately. Walk with mum and [SISTER]. Watched some TV with mum -- a frank discussion about the whys-and-wherefores of penetrative sex while a womyn is on her period. Not feeling like doing any tinkering or anything tonight. Early night, I reckon. Might be getting one of my songs played on the radio soon. M: 3.5. E: 3.5.

Break the stigma about keeping pelvic health talk behind closed doors. Dr. Lauren Trosch is a pelvic PT passionate about helping people get back to sexual intimacy without pain. We discuss common cases of pelvic pain, free resources available, and when is the best time to seek care. Now let's get to the Core of the Pelvic Floor! Hosted by Shravya Kovela, PT, DPT, OCS and supported by Flyte by Pelvital.

The idea of what is involved in being "good in bed" has a lot of factors, and staying power is certainly one of them. Premature ejaculation is a source of anxiety for many men, and on the other end of the scale, delayed ejaculation can cause similar issues. In a bid to clear up some of the misinformation out there, urologist and pelvic surgeon Rena Malik, MD addresses the average length of time that sex lasts in real life. In a new video on her YouTube channel, Malik refers to a study which collected data from 500 couples around the world, who recorded the duration of sexual intercourse using a stopwatch. The data is limited to penetrative sex, excluding foreplay, and only heterosexual couplings were studied in the research. Penetrative sex is measured in terms of intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT), the time from the beginning of penetration to ejaculation. The study revealed that the IELT which men consider to be the "ideal" length of time is 16 minutes, but they estimate that the real time is closer to 9 minutes. However, according to the study, the average IELT is actually just 5.7 minutes. Malik notes, however, that the recorded times ranged from less than a minute to 55 minutes. "Interestingly, it varied by location," she says, explaining that Turkey had the lowest average IELT of 4.4 minutes, while the United Kingdom had the highest IELT of around 10 minutes. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hollywoodandchinadollshow/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hollywoodandchinadollshow/support

Today we're talking about Sensate Focus, one of my favorite goto things, and something I would often use in my therapy practice.What is Sensate Focus and where did it come from?It was developed by Masters and Johnson as a way to help couples learn more about themselves and each other and move towards a more intimate relationship.The aim is to build trust and intimacy within your relationship, helping you both give and receive pleasure.  How long will Sensate Focus take?It's not a race to an end, it's a continuous reinforcement and it can help to overcome negative reactions to intimacy. You don't want to rush through it, it can take months to get through the first two phases. Only move onto the different phases of Sensate Focus when you're both ready. Some ground rules to get started: Choose a time and place that is acceptable for both of you.  Choose music, lighting, and aromas that are suitable.Turn off your phone, tv, gadgets, and other distractions. And lock the door. There are three phases to Sensate Focus and one pre-phase. Pre-phase: Non-genital sensate focus clothed (Start here if you have previous trauma, or are someone who doesn't enjoy physical touch.)Phase 1: Non-genital sensate focus unclothed (non sexual touching) Phase 2: Genital sensate focus (sexual touching but no penetration)Phase 3: Penetrative sensate focus (sexual touching with penetration)Non-genital sensate focusThis phase focuses on touch, sensuality and mutual exploration free from any concern that it's going to lead to sex. When in phase one, both partners know that sex and orgasm are off the table.  Before the session starts you want to decide who is going to go first, and then you'll take turns. First,  concentrate on touching the parts of the body that are normally visible. When you're ready start to include the back, neck, and butt. Finally, bring in the chest, stomach, shoulders, thighs, but avoid breasts, top of legs and the groin area.  It's okay to stay in phase one for however long you and your partner decide you want to. Genital sensate FocusThe main focus of this phase is to increase each person's pleasure and awareness of each other's response from different types of stimulation. During this phase you might want to incorporate some lubricant or some bedroom accessories. Penetration is not permitted in this phase. If orgasam happens, it happens,  but the point here is to focus on the pleasure, and how your partner responds to positive stimulation.First, incorporate touching of the breasts and nipples. Next, include the area around the genitals. Then, introduce the touching of the genitals. After a while you may also want to incorporate some oral as well as kissing, licking, and sucking. Penetrative Sensate FocusYou've spent the time on the nongenital and genital phases of sensate focus so that you can now begin to include the penetration with your finger, toys, and or the penis. You still want to incorporate and pay attention to the parts of the body that we explored in the previous phases. While orgasm and intercouse is permitted in this phase, it is still not the goal.   First, incorporate different forms of gentle penetration.  Start with little thrusting, enjoy the sensation of containment, and feeling the fullness inside. Try first with one person on top, and then switch. Later you can incorporate more of the thrusting but with the person being penetrated in full control. The aim of  this phase and sensate focus as a whole is to focus on the enjoyment of the touch and growing the intimacy between the two of you. Connect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com

Why do folks continue to debate if the g-spot is a real thing? Does everyone have the potential to enjoy g-spot stimulation? What if someone is new to using sex toys for penetrative sex? And what's the deal with the new VDOM strap-on technology?  We also answer a sex question: I'm jealous of the pleasure my wife gets from her vibrator.  Oh, and we are giving away some FREE sex toys and lube! Tune in to find out how to win! About our guest: Glenise Kinard-Moore is the founder of SkiiMoo Tech and the creator of The VDOM. The VDOM is the first app-connected prosthetic genital device that can go from flaccid to erect at the push of a button. An information security consultant by profession and an ambitious tech creative at night; Glenise is a self-proclaimed tech nerd and she likes to say that her superpower is breaking apart many things to create new things. To learn more visit thevdom.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 2 for 1 of our favorite Willy Willy Hot Sauce at WillyWillyHotSauce.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast  

Let's be real, sex impacts your decision-making! It's week 2 of Wellness April and we (or maybe just one of us) is abstaining from sex. Penetrative sex has the power to mask mediocre behavior as over-the-moon chivalry. Like you will literally start liking someone you had doubts about just because they pleased you in the bedroom. We ain't doing that in 2021! This is exactly why our DICKTOX is in motion & we are inviting you to join us!On this week's episode, we discuss how intimacy comes in many forms: physical, emotional, and spiritual just to name a few. However, I think we all know how the physical can really throw everything off. By abstaining from physical intimacy we have the ability to strengthen our intuition by reducing the noise in our head. We also really get to know if we actually fuck with someone before actually giving and sharing our beautiful energy and

Throughout your lifetime, you’ll go through various phases and stages of sexuality. If the one you’re in feels negative or limiting, the key is to not get stuck there. Rather, do the work and cycle through it. If you’re in a resting or healing phase of sexuality, today I’m giving you eight ways to intimately connect without having penetrative sex. Join me for my Pleasure Practices for Busy Women Playshop happening Friday February 12, 2021. Sign up at www.tillystorm.com/pleasure-practices

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Sex is about a lot more than making babies, so why are we always so focused on penetration? Sexual play comes in all shapes and sizes and some of the most satisfying has nothing to do with 'traditional intercourse'. From oral play to spanking, there are so many ways to explore your partner's body. In this episode, Nick, Anna and Violet discuss the benefits of penetration-free sex, as well as giving some tips on how to have incredible orgasms, without going all the way.

HAPPY MONDAYYYYY TATER #TOTS (yep, y'all have a new nickname. you're welcome ;)) In this episode unpack non-penetrative sex & what that looks like as well as some conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation. These are some conditions that can hinder an individual from participating in penetrative sex sooooo let's change the narrative of what 'sex' looks like.Thanks so much for listening! Be sure to follow us on IG @topicsoftaboo if you would like to get involved (or even featured) in future episodes!

Dr. Megan Martin is focused on providing a safe space for Women to find answers and solutions to their sexual health and wellness questions. Nothing is too taboo or embarrassing to ask. She believes in shame-free education about our bodies throughout the different stages of our lives. Penetrative heterosexual sex is normally associated with virginity, but that's not the only kind of sex there is. Most of us were taught about Virginity in some sort of religious context (growing up Catholic, I heard it a lot and even prayed to the Virgin Mother). Then marketing from Disney's Jones Brothers and others sold society this idea of purity culture (complete with special rings) that made people even more fixated on the concept of virginity. The virginity myth perpetuates a sexist story where women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. What if we're wrong to recognize virginity in the first place? And how do we stop buying into the notion of virginity?

Dr. Megan Martin is focused on providing a safe space for Women to find answers and solutions to their sexual health and wellness questions. Nothing is too taboo or embarrassing to ask. She believes in shame-free education about our bodies throughout the different stages of our lives. Penetrative heterosexual sex is normally associated with virginity, but that's not the only kind of sex there is. Most of us were taught about Virginity in some sort of religious context (growing up Catholic, I heard it a lot and even prayed to the Virgin Mother). Then marketing from Disney's Jones Brothers and others sold society this idea of purity culture (complete with special rings) that made people even more fixated on the concept of virginity. The virginity myth perpetuates a sexist story where women are damned if they do and damned if they don't. What if we're wrong to recognize virginity in the first place? And how do we stop buying into the notion of virginity?

Yes, it's more sex talk. Yes, it's honest. Too honest, some might say. Do I care? Do I f*ck. 

I talk about Halloween, back to school 2020 and salt shenanigans.  I also rehash a pregnancy story.  (I accidentally say "My mother in law" when I should've said "My mom's mother in law." AKA my Nana."  Ugh.)  My mom drops in to tell a story my grandma told her about my dad before they got married.  More of a warning really.  

Gaby and Allison tackle the conundrum of a newly married woman who realizes she does not enjoy penetrative sex. Then, they talk to comic book writer Greg Pak about indie presses vs. working for Marvel, Asian representation in comics and the collaboration between storyteller and artist. Also bucket lists! What's on them? Why do people make them? What's stopping us from both getting pet rabbits? Come nerd out with us! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https://foreverdogpodcasts.com/podcasts/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/just-between-us/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Gaby and Allison tackle the conundrum of a newly married woman who realizes she does not enjoy penetrative sex. Then, they talk to comic book writer Greg Pak about indie presses vs. working for Marvel, Asian representation in comics and the collaboration between storyteller and artist. Also bucket lists! What’s on them? Why do people make them? What’s stopping us from both getting pet rabbits? Come nerd out with us!

Khenpo Sherab Sangpo guides us in combining calm abiding (shamatha) with penetrative insight (vipashyana) meditation. As our minds become more tranquil, we are able to lessen conceptual thoughts that block us from seeing the nature of reality. Join us to experience resting meditation that gives rise to a peaceful mind filled with equanimity and joy! "Penetrative insight joined with calm abiding Utterly eradicates afflicted states. Knowing this, first search for calm abiding, Found by those who joyfully renounce the world." - Shantideva Please visit our website to learn more about Khenpo Sherab Sangpo, his teachings and for practice texts. This episode can be seen on Youtube.

Khenpo Sherab Sangpo guides us in combining calm abiding (shamatha) with penetrative insight (vipashyana) meditation. As our minds become more tranquil, we are able to lessen conceptual thoughts that block us from seeing the nature of reality. Join us to experience resting meditation that gives rise to a peaceful mind filled with equanimity and joy! "Penetrative insight joined with calm abiding Utterly eradicates afflicted states. Knowing this, first search for calm abiding, Found by those who joyfully renounce the world." - Shantideva Please visit our website to learn more about Khenpo Sherab Sangpo, his teachings and for practice texts. This episode can be seen on Youtube.

Khenpo Sherab Sangpo guides us in combining calm abiding (shamatha) with penetrative insight (vipashyana) meditation. As our minds become more tranquil, we are able to lessen conceptual thoughts that block us from seeing the nature of reality. Join us to experience resting meditation that gives rise to a peaceful mind filled with equanimity and joy! "Penetrative insight joined with calm abiding Utterly eradicates afflicted states. Knowing this, first search for calm abiding, Found by those who joyfully renounce the world." - Shantideva Please visit our website to learn more about Khenpo Sherab Sangpo, his teachings and for practice texts. This episode can be seen on Youtube.

Khenpo Sherab Sangpo guides us in combining calm abiding (shamatha) with penetrative insight (vipashyana) meditation. As our minds become more tranquil, we are able to lessen conceptual thoughts that block us from seeing the nature of reality. Join us to experience resting meditation that gives rise to a peaceful mind filled with equanimity and joy! "Penetrative insight joined with calm abiding Utterly eradicates afflicted states. Knowing this, first search for calm abiding, Found by those who joyfully renounce the world." - Shantideva Please visit our website to learn more about Khenpo Sherab Sangpo, his teachings and for practice texts. This episode can be seen on Youtube.

In this podcast, Pastor Tom Deuschle shares a message titled "Surgically Penetrative Prayer" on the second day of the Kingdom Prayer Conference 2020: Watch and Speak.

This week on the flagship Pure Fitbaw podcast Gavin and Owen discuss St Johnstone’s Old Firm ticketing decision and analyse a selection of Scottish lower league matches.We debate St Johnstone handing three quarters of their stadium to fans of visiting Rangers and Celtic and talk through pricing initiatives, fan experience and if millennials are killing football attendance.Next we take in clashes from League 1 & 2 including Clyde, Queens Park, Falkirk and Cowdenbeath. We talk weather, sex tape titles, criminal actions, lower league YouTube highlights VAR and yes, even some football. Extra scorn aimed at goalkeepers this week so if you are one cover your ears but not before you’ve dealt with that cross. Are you Pure Fitbaw? Subscribe, rate and review the podcast and join us at www.purefitbaw.com and on all social media.

JKS 31 Bareback Mountain Whatever you call it, Barebacking, rawdog,Leap of faith, Makin’ a Twinkie,Au Naturale,Pulling the goalie, breeding,Gator Jimmies? Or Stupid. (or even a "Farmer Mickey.” Why? Cause I’m plantin’ seed baby!! thanks Mickey from Casual Swinger podcast)Penetrative sex without a condom is kinda considered taboo in the #Swinger #Lifestyle world. We decided to record on our way home from a party and unexpectedly wind up having an open discussion about our experiences with this topic.ALWAYS using protection is the NUMBER 1 RULE for most couples in Swinging.But sometimes rules get broken.As usual, We don't have any answers for you,but its a good place to start a discussion.You can reach Mr. Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter, email at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.com or leave a voicemail at 707-68SWING.If you like our show and the perspective we provide, please give us a review on iTunes.Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!

JKS 31 Bareback Mountain Whatever you call it, Barebacking, rawdog,Leap of faith, Makin’ a Twinkie,Au Naturale,Pulling the goalie, breeding,Gator Jimmies? Or Stupid. (or even a "Farmer Mickey.” Why? Cause I’m plantin’ seed baby!! thanks Mickey from Casual Swinger podcast)Penetrative sex without a condom is kinda considered taboo in the #Swinger #Lifestyle world. We decided to record on our way home from a party and unexpectedly wind up having an open discussion about our experiences with this topic.ALWAYS using protection is the NUMBER 1 RULE for most couples in Swinging.But sometimes rules get broken.As usual, We don't have any answers for you,but its a good place to start a discussion.You can reach Mr. Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter, email at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.com or leave a voicemail at 707-68SWING.If you like our show and the perspective we provide, please give us a review on iTunes.Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!

Vaginismus is an involuntary muscle contraction in the vagina that makes penetration painful or impossible. For women living with vaginismus, everything from tampons to penises can cause tremendous pain. In this eye-opening conversation, Kirsten and her new friend talk about how to accept our bodies as they are, redefine sex and reclaim female sexual pleasure - especially in heterosexual relationships. Your body isn't broken!To join the digital conversation, visit www.justagirl.co/forumIf you'd like to participate in Girl Talk and share an emotion or experience weighing heavy on your heart, get started here: www.justagirl.co/joingirltalkInstagram: @justagirl_globalFacebook: @justagirlglobalTwitter: @justagirlgloba1

Back in the day before everything imaginable was just a click away, if you wanted to buy a sex toy, AKA a Marital Aid, you’d have to venture into the back room of a super sketchy adult bookstore. Or, you could purchase one through mail order and hope it arrived (weeks later) in a plain brown wrapper. Today, sex toys are so normalized you can pick up butt plugs, ball gags and a strap-on at your local Walmart! That’s right, in one shopping trip you can get Tide PODS, Honey Nut Cheerios and Deluxe Adjustable Nipple Clamps! Save Money. Live Better. Get Off. I’m a big fan of sex toys. My office at Playboy TV was overrun with them. Dozens of manufacturers wanted them featured on my shows so I received vibrators and lube by the caseload. Surgical steel g-spot massagers, rose quartz dildos and gift bags of remote-controlled vibrating underpants covered my office floor. If I ever gave you a pleasure product between the years 2010-2017, you can be certain I didn’t pay for it. One afternoon, about 10 huge pieces of Liberator sex furniture arrived at my house. We weren’t home at the time of delivery, so all of the unboxed sex furniture sat on our front porch for hours. Once my husband discovered the sex furniture on display all over our front porch, he immediately dragged it into the house and then yelled at me over the phone. Whatevs. I gave most of the sex furniture away. Not all of it…but some of it. My office at Playboy TV was known as the place where you could find just about any sex toy imaginable, and I was more than happy to share with my friends a coworkers. The head of HR once trudged into my office absolutely overwhelmed with stress. So I threw an Hitachi Magic Wand and some lube into brown paper bag and sent her back to HR. I’m tellin’ ya, the next day she had a little spring in her step. Solving life’s problems, one orgasm at a time™. I’m a big proponent of sex toys and I frequently encourage women and couples to experiment with them. They’re fun, efficient and also a great way ensure a woman has an orgasm. Penetrative sex isn’t the best way to get a woman off and, for various reasons, other direct pathways to a woman’s pleasure can become roads less traveled. Hey…you do you. Or better yet, have a sex toy do you! Nothing against the “analog” way to rub one out, but the right sex toy can be a great tool to get the job done. There’s a reason we called the Hitachi Magic Wand “The Closer” at Playboy TV. HOW-EVVV-ERRR… Before you head out to your favorite big box store for a battery-operated bestie, I have a very serious warning about sex toys that you must heed. Please, do everybody in your bed a big favor. Before you introduce a new sex toy, listen to this episode. Trust me on this one.

A professor critiques Dr Ramani and Silvia Saige for ignoring lesbian perspectives. Another listener pontificates on the taboo of male anal penetration. We encourage all listeners to write us with topics or concerns we may be overlooking! Our first e-mail causes us to reflect on the amount of attention we pay to queer relationships. The writer brings up terrific points about shame, romance, online dating and the many non-penetrative options for pleasing a woman. Then, a listener's e-mail revisits the hot topic of male anal play. She wonders if psychological power dynamics may lead to avoidance. Ramani is skeptical, but Producer Bill chimes in with a personal perspective. Finally, Silvia offers professional tips for anal sex prep! *** Write the show, ALWAYS ANONYMOUS, with your questions on sex, love, relationships and everything in between: sexualdisorientation@gmail.com Dr Ramani Durvasula (@doctorramani) is a licensed clinical psychologist, a Professor of Psychology, and the nation's leading expert on narcissism. Silvia Saige (@silviasaigexxx, @silviasaigesex) is an adult film actress and standup comedian. Get Dr. Ramani's book Should I Stay Or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship With A Narcissist now in paperback! Please subscribe to Sexual Disorientation on Apple Podcasts , Stitcher, Google Play, or any podcast app! Follow Bail Bonds Media on Instagram for behind-the-scenes looks and other great content.

Internal touch is a powerful healing practice for your yoni. And if you have penetrative sex with your partner, you'll want to explore your own pleasure with internal stimulation as well. When you have sex with a man, do you want him to just touch you on the outside of your vagina, or do you desire penetration, for him to be inside you? The more you can experience pleasure from internal stimulation on your own, the easier it will be with a partner. To learn how to increase your sensitivity, pleasure and orgasm by yourself, read my book “Orgasm Unleashed - Your guide to Pleasure, Healing and Power”, which was endorsed by female sexuality educators and described by one of them as 'the best orgasm guide for women". It teaches a woman how to become deeply orgasmic by herself, and later share that with her partner. Download a free sample or get the gorgeous paperback at http://intimatepower.com/orgasmunleashed/

We're all here, queer and ready to spill on our favourite foreplay and non-penetrative sex, Tumblr's war on porn, Ari's 'thank u, next' video and what to do if you accidentally misgender a trans person. Book tickets to our live show in February!Subscribe (for free!), rate and review The Gays Are Revolting on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Google Podcasts. Follow The Gays Are Revolting on Twitter at @gaysrevolting, Facebook at The Gays Are Revolting & Instagram @gaysrevolting.The Gays Are Revolting is a Lipp Media production. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

280 - Ask Dr. Angela - Rekindling The Spark In Your Sex Life, And Sex In The Senior Population: Ways To Get Off Beyond Penetrative Sex. Featuring Sexologist Dr. Jess. - The Ask Dr. Angela Podcast. Dr. Angela Jones, Board Certified OB/GYN answers all your personal health questions with quick humorous answers. Ask your own question at www.AskDrAngela.com

Tom Read Wilson returns with comedian Adam Hess to talk dreams, fears and booking Theresa May for the next podcast. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Tom Read Wilson returns with comedian Adam Hess to talk dreams, fears and booking Theresa May for the next podcast. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We're back with more Swinging basics in our Swinging for Dummies series! Full Swap and Soft Swap are the two main classifications of swinging, with full swap including traditional PIV/PIA ( penis in vagina/penis in anus ) sex and soft swap not. Tonight on Life on the Swingset the podcast, we're going to be talking about the decision making that can lead you from one classification to another, as well as the benefits and drawbacks of both. But, you know, sexy like.   Also… Take a listen to The Drifters – Save the Last Dance For Me!

This 25-minute audio explains some basics of sexuality in an information-driven, non-judgmental sex-positive light. Includes overviews of masterbation, oral sex and penetrative sex for men and women, covering both the pleasures of the activities as well as the dangers and responsibilities involved. Thanks to Kidder of Sex Is Fun! for taking the time to create this fun yet fact-filled introduction to sex for responsible adults.