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Hi friend! Feeling like your needs aren't being met in your marriage? Wondering if love is starting to feel one-sided? You're not alone—and you need a P.L.A.N. Marriage was designed to reflect God's love. But what happens when you feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected? In today's episode, we're unpacking how to respond when your spouse isn't meeting your emotional or relational needs—not with bitterness or shutdown, but with wisdom rooted in God's Word. We'll walk you through a simple, godly P.L.A.N. to help you respond with faith, courage, and intentional love—no matter where you are in your marriage. Whether you're in a difficult season or just feeling the slow drift of disconnection, this conversation will help you lead with love, stay anchored in the Truth of God's Word, and invite God into the unmet places of your heart. Let's dive in. ................................................................................................

Hi friend! Big shifts in marriage don't usually come from big, dramatic turning points—they're built through small, intentional moments, day by day. In this episode, we explore one powerful (and often overlooked) habit that can deepen emotional closeness, rebuild connection, and strengthen your friendship in marriage: studying your spouse. "What does it mean to S.T.U.D.Y my spouse?" We'll walk through a simple, memorable framework to help you tune in, grow together, and create space for deeper connection—one conversation, one gesture, one choice at a time. Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a fresh reset, this episode will guide you toward deeper emotional intimacy and closeness. Alright, let's dig in! ................................................................................................

Hi friend!  You've probably said it—or at least thought it: “Once things calm down... once I get that promotion... once the timing feels right, then we'll reconnect." It's so easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time to connect with your spouse. But here's the truth: waiting might be hurting your marriage more than helping it. In this episode, we're unpacking 4 powerful reasons why you shouldn't delay meaningful connection with your spouse—including how waiting for the “right time” can quietly sabotage intimacy and what to do instead. Whether you've felt emotionally distant lately or simply “too busy,” this loving (and practical!) conversation will give you the nudge you need to prioritize your marriage right now—in the middle of real life. ................................................................................................

Hi friend! It's always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse? In today's episode, we're unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We'll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and more importantly, how to reclaim connection, intimacy, and intentional love in your relationship. If you've ever felt more connected to your screen than your spouse, this episode is for you. Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! ................................................................................................

Hi friend! Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be. If you're feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you're not alone.  Today's episode is for the couples holding on by a thread… The ones still showing up even when it's hard…and anyone who needs a reminder that hope is still possible. ................................................................................................

Hey friend! Today, we're diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that's exactly why it's so important to talk about. Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we're talking about a few things husbands often wish their wives would stop doing—not because they're trying to control or complain, but because they truly care. They're longing to feel closer, more understood, and more at peace in the relationship. This isn't about blame or finger-pointing—it's about understanding each other better and growing together. So, whether you're listening on your own or with your spouse, take a deep breath and lean in with an open heart. Some of it might sting a little—but it just might open the door to something really beautiful. ................................................................................................

Hi friend! Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let's be honest, it's not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don't even realize are hurting the very people we love most. That's why today, we're diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples: “4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.” We're talking about those small, everyday moments—things that might make her feel unseen, unheard, or unappreciated… even if that was never your intention. These habits, if left unchecked, can slowly chip away at trust, intimacy, and connection. But here's the good news: this isn't about guilt—it's about growth. Backed by biblical truth and practical wisdom, we're unpacking what it really means to lead, love, and listen with intention. Whether you're newly married or decades in, the fact that you're here says something powerful: you care. And that's exactly where change begins. This episode will challenge and equip you to love better—starting today. So open your heart, guys… and let's get into it. ................................................................................................

Hi friend! There's a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.” But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered? In today's episode, we're exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage. Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the heat of the moment—without thought or care—can slowly erode emotional safety, trust, and intimacy. More importantly, we'll talk about what to do instead:

Hi friend! What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn't arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we're unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions. You know the ones: “They should know what I need.” “If they really cared, they'd act differently.” “I already know how they'll respond, so why bother?” Sound familiar? Yeah, I've been there too. But here's the truth: assumptions aren't facts. And when we stop asking, stop listening, and start assuming, we slowly stop truly connecting. In this episode, we're diving into: Why we make assumptions in marriage The damage they do (even when we don't realize it) How to break the habit — before it breaks us.  ...........................................................................................................

Hi friend! When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen? In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage. Whether you've been married for 5 months or 5 years, these questions will help you go beyond surface talk and truly show your spouse that you see them, hear them, and care deeply about who they are and what they're going through. Grab a pen (or hit save!)—because these questions might just open the door to some of the most powerful conversations you've had in a while. ...........................................................................................................

Hi friend! Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we're diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved. Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in marriage, here's your gentle reminder: showing love doesn't have to be complicated to be impactful. Small, intentional acts of love can create lasting change in your marriage.

Hi Friend!  The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That's why in today's episode, we're diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse. Because let's be real—sometimes, it's not just what we say, but how we say it that makes or breaks a conversation. So why not choose words that bring you closer instead of further apart? Ready to improve communication and deepen your connection?

Hi friend! Avoiding difficult conversations in marriage may seem like the easier route to take to prevent major conflicts from coming up but this could potentially lead to resentment due to the presence of unresolved conflict over time. However, when difficult conversations take place, the way they are handled is important as this could either result in bringing a couple closer together or causing disconnection in a marriage. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 phrases to try when difficult conversations occur in marriage. This includes knowing how to respond when our spouses express their concerns to us. You can add these phrases to your marriage toolbox as you continue to invest in your marriage in the long run. Ready to know more? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! **This is the continuation of Episode 139 \ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!)**   When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   To listen to the first part of this series, click below: EP 139 \ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!) .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   Have you been praying for your spouse to change for many years? You've fasted,  held vigils, and prayed fervently that he becomes more spiritual or that she becomes more compassionate and supportive, and despite all your prayers there has been no change. And you're wondering, “Is God going to change my spouse?” In this episode, you will discover why prayers are not enough to save your marriage. ......................................................................................  

Hi friend! Are you in a place in your marriage where you're feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you're just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation? If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions  to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 questions can be found in the five-letter pneumonic, P.R.E.F.R). ......................................................................................  

Hi friend! Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you're wondering what to do, you're not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage. Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy or psychological advice. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance.   .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! *This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved. .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! *This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved. .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage. So, if your desire is to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about this five-letter word - one that can save your marriage! Curious to find out? Then, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings & fights in your marriage? Have you ever thought about what could be causing this increase in conflict in your marriage? We get it. Marriage can feel so tough when there is so much conflict and disconnection present. And there are different reasons why this sometimes show up in marriages. In this episode, you will discover one thing that could be the culprit and how to deal with it.  Curious to know more? Then tune in to listen to find out more! .................................................................................................................  

Hi friend! Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?   If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire. .................................................................................................................  

Hi friend! When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   Are you feeling frustrated about the frequent misunderstandings in your marriage? Do you wish you could understand each other better so you can feel more connected as an intimate couple?  If any of these sounds familiar, you're not alone.   In this episode, you will discover 3 possible reasons for the increased misunderstandings in your marriage and some hacks to try so you can stop these misunderstandings from causing a strain in your marriage.   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! Happy New Year!!! A new year has begun...this presents us with an opportunity to reflect, think about what we really want our marriages to look like, and set some goals in the new year (if we haven't done so already). If your desire is to enjoy a stronger and more connected marriage in the new year, this is an episode you don't want to miss. In this episode, you will discover 5 simple ways to invest in your marriage in 2025. Ready to find out? Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.   We pray this episode blesses you:)     .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   In this episode, you will discover ONE key ingredient you can add to your marriage for a stronger marriage this year and beyond…even if you are raising a family and don't have a lot of time.   This ingredient is ONE thing that has contributed to helping us achieve this level of growth in our marriage…even as parents of three living in North America who are living far away from family.   And we want to share this with you because of how important it is especially as we raise our families in this 21st century, in a world where so many things are begging for our attention these days.   Want to know more?   Tune in to find out more!   We pray this episode blesses you:)   .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   Want a stronger and happier marriage? Embrace growth. In this episode, you will discover 3 essential key growth areas for a stronger and happier marriage. These key areas of growth have influenced our marital goals and contributed to the level of success we have experienced in marriage.   Want to find out more?   Ready…Set…Tune in to find out more!   .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! In today's episode, we delve into 3 virtues that you need in your marriage to keep the peace. Many of us do well with the first two, but the last one is where we fall short. What are these virtues and how do you go about attaining them?  Curious to find out? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more. .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   As we get closer to the end of the year, you may have spent some time reflecting on how the year has been so far. Maybe, you've had some wonderful experiences over the past months and maybe you've had challenging or even painful experiences. No matter what you discover, there is one thing I find that could help while facing challenging times. I am referring to a habit that can transform your life in different ways…including your marriage. Want to know more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   Links mentioned in this episode:   -Giving thanks can make you happier by Havard Health Publishing blog https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier   Additional resources you may be interested in:   A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405   -The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass  https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/   .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend!   Some persons get into marriage with certain expectations and because these expectations do not hold true, they bring about frustrations. This can impact a marriage negatively if not addressed. In this episode, you will discover 5 marriage myths that could hurt the relationship between spouses if these beliefs continue to be embraced.   Want to know more? Then, tune in to listen to find out more!   .............................................................................................................  

Hi friend! Have you ever wondered if there was a way to resolve conflicts or disagreements faster when they show up in marriage? If so, this is an episode you do not want to miss. In this episode, you will discover what it means to be a H.O.T Spouse and how this approach can help you as you navigate those tough conversations in marriage during conflict.  Alright, then, tune in to listen to find out more!   Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below:  Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you're struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It's a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com ~David  Lead Coach at Happy Married Family   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings in your marriage pulling you apart from each other? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 3 possible reasons that could be at play here and what to do to change the narrative in your relationship. Alright, let's dig in!   Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below:  Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you're struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It's a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com ~David  Lead Coach at Happy Married Family   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your relationship? Do you desire to grow closer as an intimate couple while experiencing more peace, harmony, and unity in your home? If this describes your current experience, you're not alone. This episode was created just for you...to encourage you on your marital journey. I invite you to tune in to listen and grab some encouragement along the way!   Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below:  Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you're struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into a fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Maybe you've began to notice that when an opportunity for discussion arises, you get into more arguments and misunderstandings than pleasant and relaxing conversations with your spouse. Then, to avoid this cycle of discomfort, you begin to avoid having conversations with your spouse and choose to save up the energy to invest in your relationship with your kids, work or other interests.   Do you wish you could truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It's a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com ~David    ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend,  We all know too well that when we have done something for so long we can become bored with it and begin to take it for granted. Interestingly, we treat our marriages and relationships this way. But what happens if your spouse refuses to upgrade? Or when you feel they are not meeting your expectations? Is there another approach you could use? What about having a different perspective? In this episode, I share what it means to change your perspective in marriage.   Want to know more? So get ready, set, and tune in to listen to find out more!   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend!   One way to connect with your spouse is by being honest with them about how you're feeling and how you're really doing. This could begin with answering one question.   This involves vulnerability and here is the honest truth: You can't have a great emotional connection without vulnerability.    So, as you tune in to listen to this episode, I want to encourage you to ask your spouse this ONE question today (and actually mean it) because this question may go a very long way to make a difference in your marriage, deepen your connection as a couple and increase emotional intimacy.   Want to know ONE question that could bring you closer and improve your emotional connection & intimacy in your marriage?   Then, tune in to listen to find out more!   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! Wondering if a married couple needs a joint bank account for a strong and successful marriage? Then, get ready to tune in to listen to this episode as I address one of the questions that come up in marriage and money conversations. We pray this episode blesses you:)   Any information, commentary, recommendations or statements of opinion provided in this episode are for general information purposes only. It is not intended be personalised investment advice or a solicitation for the purchase or sale of securities.    ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend!   Have you ever wondered, “How can I have more energy (and time) to spend with my spouse?” In other words, “What are some things I can do to achieve this?" If so, then, this episode for you. In this episode, we are going to reveal 3 tried & tested ways to have more energy (and time) to build connection in your marriage. So, if you desire to spend more quality time together as a couple, reconnect and grow closer together in marriage, then, tune in to listen to find out more!     ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend!   Intimacy in marriage is important because the more intimate we are, the closer and more connected we feel as a couple. When we feel connected as a couple, it benefits us not only as a couple but as individuals too. For example, we work better together as members of the same team rather than engage in conflicts that sap the little time and energy we have left after a long day. In this episode, we would be sharing three hacks you can use to increase intimacy in your marriage…even if you're raising kids and have little time & energy! These three hacks make up the F.A.R method, a three-part method to help you serve each other better and grow stronger in love, connection and intimacy in marriage.   Want to find out more?   Ready…Set…Tune in to find out more!   Link mentioned in this episode:   The Love Language Quiz: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict or disagreements better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 essential things to know for better conflict management in marriage so you can enjoy a closer and more connected relationship.    So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out more!   Links mentioned in this episode   Understanding Conflict - Meaning and Phases of Conflict by Management Study Guide https://www.managementstudyguide.com/understanding-conflict.htm#  

Hi friend! What do you do when you have different needs in marriage simultaneously? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deep conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time?  How can we navigate this scenario especially when the end goal is to build connection and improve intimacy in marriage? If this sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn about our experience and what we did when faced with a similar situation...and be prepared to also grab some valuable marital tips along the way! Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   Related episodes: EP 62 \ Want to have more marriage sex after kids? These 5 tips could help! EP 42 \ HELP! We Talk to Each Other But are Feeling Disconnected in Marriage. Start this Non-Sexual Couple Ritual, Grow Closer to Your Spouse & Build More Intimacy...Even as Parents!   ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend, Have you ever wondered or been curious about how to improve communication in your marriage? If so, you're not alone. One of the ways we have strengthened our marriage and grown together as a team has involved communicating better with each other. The way we communicate or the manner in which we communicate with our spouses can either strengthen or weaken our connection in marriage or even result in the escalation of conflicts. Communication is such a broad topic to discuss in one episode but today I will be sharing 3 communication blunders or mistakes to avoid for a stronger connection with your spouse. When these communication blunders are made from time to time,  it becomes harder for spouses to connect with each other. This can eventually result in creating distance between spouses. If your desire is to communicate to connect better with your spouse, then get ready to discover these three communication mistakes to avoid so you can begin to prevent conflicts from escalating and also enjoy a stronger bond & connection in marriage.  Ready...Set... Tune in to listen to find out more! ....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! It is no longer news that building a thriving marriage takes hard work. When we think about investing in our marriages, what often comes to mind are actionable tips to deepen connection, grow stronger in marriage and stay connected as a couple. But over the years, we've realized that sometimes, in order to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy we desire in our marriages, we need to stop doing certain things and one of them will be the topic of discussion today. Want to know more? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   .....................……………………………………….................

Hi friend! We live in a global village. We don't have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent. Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person's spouse or marriage. Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in... "If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."   In this episode (part 2 of this episode series), you will discover how to stop comparisonitis from hurting your relationship with your spouse so you can enjoy a more connected marriage. We pray this episode blesses you. Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)     .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  15 mins Free Consultation: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session  

Hi friend!  We live in a global village. We don't have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent. Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person's spouse or marriage or even your parents (mum or dad). Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in... "If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."   In this episode, you will discover what comparisonitis entails and why you should stop engaging in comparisonitis, including its possible effects on your marriage. We pray this episode blesses you. Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)     .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  15 mins Free Consultation: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session        

Hi friend! We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process. Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!  As individuals who have had to be courageous spouses at different points during our marital journey, we have seen positive results in our marriage as it continues to grow stronger over time. So, if your desire is to have a more connected marriage and you're wondering how to move forward or make progress in your marriage even if your spouse is not currently showing up on their end, then, this episode is for you. In this episode, you will discover 3 reasons why you should not wait for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage…or investing in your marriage and steps you can begin to take towards building the strong and connected marriage you truly desire. We pray this blesses you:)  .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  15mins Free Consultation: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to book a 15mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session        

Hi friend! In the early years of marriage, engaging in meaningful conversations with our spouses boosts connection and draws us closer to each other. Over the years, these conversations can begin to fade, especially when most of our communication become centered around the running of the household, activities the kids have to attend and other functional aspects of the relationship. For a deeper connection and intimacy in marriage, it is important to continue to engage in meaningful conversations as a couple, that is, conversations that go deeper. Maybe you truly desire to have deep and meaningful conversations with your spouse but it seems like you're miles apart when you talk or communicate with each other. If you can relate to this, you're not alone. This is why in this episode, we will be addressing 5 possible reasons why your spouse may be avoiding having meaningful conversations with you and what to do about them. So, get ready..set...tune in to listen to find out more! We pray this episode blesses you:) .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  15 mins Free Consultation: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to book a 15 mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session      

Hi friend!   Have you ever been stressed, struggled to concentrate… been less patient with your spouse and your kids? Are you feeling tense, frustrated, and upset at things that would normally not make you feel upset? Then, you may need a particular kind of care: Self-Care.   As a couple, and especially parents living abroad, when our schedules are filled up with activities or things to do, the to-do-list continues to increase and there seems to be so much demand for our time and attention, especially in these modern times…with all of these going on, it is so easy to forget to do something: to take care of yourself. But what can happen when this is ignored?   In this episode, you will discover the importance of self-care in building a connected marriage and peaceful home; how engaging in a simple self-care routine can benefit your marriage even if you're a busy couple living abroad, and some practical tips for starting a simple self-care routine that works for you during this season of your life.   We pray this episode blesses you.   Links mentioned in this episode   Importance of Self-Care by the Canadian Mental Health Association https://cmhahkpr.ca/importance-of-self-care/   Self-Care: Why Is It So Important? Why Is It So Hard? by Psych Central  https://psychcentral.com/blog/self-care-why-is-it-so-important-why-is-it-so-hard#7   **Anniversary Giveaway**   Book a FREE Communicate to Connect Coaching 1hr Session by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)   .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  Free Discovery Call: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to book a 15mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session    

Hi friend!   Does this sound familiar? You don't like sweeping things under the carpet. This means that when an issue arises in your marriage, you like to resolve it and settle the issue as quickly as possible. However, you've noticed that when you try to express yourself or communicate your thoughts to your spouse, it seems like your spouse does not get you or reacts differently from what you expect or even gets upset in the process. You really want to settle this issue but you don't want to sweep things under the carpet. If so, you are not alone. In this episode, we will be answering the question “Is it wrong to express myself to my spouse?” as well as addressing reasons why your spouse may be struggling to get you  or is being defensive or responding in anger when you are trying to communicate with them and also, what to do instead.   Curious to discover more?   Alright tune in to listen to find out more!   We pray this episode blesses you.   **Anniversary Giveaway**   Book a FREE Communicate to Connect Coaching 1hr Session by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)     .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?  Free Discovery Call: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to book a 15mins free discovery call! Want customized practical strategies tailored to your marriage so you can grow closer as a couple...in less time?  Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session    

Hi friend! **Anniversary Giveaway sign up details below** Guess what! It is our 14th year wedding anniversary week and we are so glad for how far God has seen us through on this journey. You see…to be honest, it has not been all rosy. We've faced challenges and transitions over the course of the years and we are happy that we are still here together…and together, we've grown as a stronger team. So, in this episode, we will be sharing our personal experience and part of our marriage story as we discuss how we can invest in ourselves to significantly & positively impact us as individuals as well as our marriages. There is also an anniversary giveaway waiting for you:) (pls see below for the link to participate)!   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!    We pray this episode blesses you.   **Anniversary Giveaway**   Book a FREE Communicate to Connect Coaching 1hr Session by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). .....................……………………………………….   Want to work with us?  Free Discovery Call: Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to book a 15mins free discovery call! Book a Communicate to Connect Coaching Session

Hi friend! Do you love your wife but you're feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a source of major conflict in your marriage. If this sounds like you, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 4 possible reasons why this may be happening and what to do instead.  Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! We pray this episode blesses you. .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/