POPULARITY
I am SO EXCITED that today my new book Relationship Skills officially releases into the world!! Because I believe that healthy relationships are not found, they're built – I invited Levi and Sabrina to join me on today's episode to discuss some of the concepts in Relationship Skills and how to apply them to this season of marriage. After welcoming their rainbow baby 9 months ago, they find themselves dealing with more conflict and tension in their relationship than usual...and they need some hacks to help them better navigate the conflict when it comes up. We dive into some of my favorite conflict hacks, and I teach them how to practice the skills necessary to get through conflict feeling more connected than they started. Relationship Skills is officially available anywhere books are sold, and I cannot wait to share it with you!! So grab a copy and start building the skills you need to take your relationship to the next level! Click here to WATCH the full episode. Podcast Extras: Relationship Skills - Order Now! Relationships don't fall apart because of a lack of love but struggle because of a lack of skill. As you and your partner move through the four seasons of a relationship each bringing its own rhythms, challenges, and opportunities for growth—how you show up will either strengthen your relationship or slowly wear it down. Originally released as Love in Every Season, this updated and expanded guide from licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta is your road map to the skills you need to strengthen your relationship at every stage. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, Relationship Skills will help you ● in SPRING: stop ignoring red flags and build on a healthy foundation ● in SUMMER: build connection and intimacy without losing yourself ● in FALL: communicate honestly, repair, and grow through conflict ● in WINTER: stay intentional when things feel stagnant Let this guide help you take your relationship skills to the next level so you can grow in maturity, deepen intimacy, and build a relationship that lasts! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors...
Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating
You can read every relationship book on your shelf and still get blindsided the moment someone you love moves closer, moves in, or simply hits the exact nerve you thought you already healed. That's why we wanted this candid conversation with Nancy Pickard, author and certified relational life therapy coach trained in Terry Real's work. We talk about why triggers are not just drama, they are data, and how the “adaptive child” takes over your brain in conflict unless you learn the skills to come back to your wise adult self. We get practical about what actually derails couples: the five losing strategies and how they show up in everyday fights. We also unpack anxious attachment and avoidant attachment, including how even a secure person can start to feel anxious when their partner is walled off. Nancy explains boundaries in a way you can use immediately, including the difference between a containing boundary (so you don't dump every thought) and a protective boundary (so you don't absorb everything that's thrown at you). We also go deeper than conflict management. Nancy shares a framework for the five types of intimacy and why expecting one partner to meet every need can quietly create resentment and codependence. You'll hear concrete communication tools used in relationship coaching and couples therapy.If you're dating, rebuilding trust, or trying to stop repeating the same patterns, this one will give you language and next steps. Subscribe for more conversations like this, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show.Send us Fan Mail Support the showThanks for listening!Check out this site for everthing to know about women's pleasure including video tutorials and great suggestions for bedroom time!!https://for-goodness-sake-omgyes.sjv.io/c/5059274/1463336/17315Take the happiness quiz from Oprah and Arthur Brooks here: https://arthurbrooks.com/buildNEW: Subscribe monthly: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1805181/support Email questions/comments/feeback to tamara@straightfromthesourcesmouth.co Website: https://straightfromthesourcesmouthpod.net/Instagram: @tamaraschoondatingTwitter: @tamarapodcastYouTube and IG: Tamara_Schoon_comicWant to be a guest on Straight from the Source's Mouth: Frank Talk about Sex and Dating? Send Tamara Schoon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17508659438808322af9d2077
When kids take over the house, marriage can easily go to survival mode - and suddenly the relationship you love feels like one more chore on the to-do list. In this powerful Couples Therapy episode, Lenny and Letty open up about the invisible ways parenting, exhaustion, and unresolved patterns are draining their connection. With three kids, room-sharing, chronic sleep disruption, and years of putting everyone else first, they have reached a point where intentional connection is nonexistent. Debra helps them uncover what is really happening underneath the bedtime battles. What starts as a conversation about kids in the bedroom becomes a deeper look at motivation, avoidance, emotional timing, and the patterns that keep couples disconnected even when they still love each other deeply. If you've ever felt like your marriage is getting lost under the demands of parenting, work, and fatigue, this episode will hit home. It's honest, hopeful, and full of practical wisdom for couples who want to move from barely getting by to building something stronger on purpose.Tune into this episode, and then grab a copy of Relationship Skills to learn the skills you need to build a thriving relationship. Click here to WATCH the full episode. Podcast Extras: Relationship Skills - Pre-Order Now! Relationships don't fall apart because of a lack of love but struggle because of a lack of skill. As you and your partner move through the four seasons of a relationship each bringing its own rhythms, challenges, and opportunities for growth—how you show up will either strengthen your relationship or slowly wear it down. Originally released as Love in Every Season, this updated and expanded guide from licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta is your road map to the skills you need to strengthen your relationship at every stage. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, Relationship Skills will help you in SPRING: stop ignoring red flags and build on a healthy foundation in SUMMER: build connection and intimacy without losing yourself in FALL: communicate honestly, repair, and grow through conflict in WINTER: stay intentional when things feel stagnant Let this guide help you take your relationship skills to the next level so you can grow in maturity, deepen intimacy, and build a relationship that lasts! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session...
Award-winning mediator and TEDx speaker Doug Noll reveals a simple communication technique that can calm anger, resolve conflict, and strengthen relationships in seconds. Discover why the words "You feel..." may be the most powerful phrase you'll ever use.Doug Noll is an award-winning mediator, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, creator of the Noll Method™, and founder of the Prison of Peace program. After spending 22 years as a successful trial lawyer, Doug changed careers and dedicated his life to helping people solve difficult, highly emotional conflicts.In this fascinating conversation, Doug shares insights from his TEDx Talk, Listen Someone Into Existence, and explains how one simple skill can dramatically improve communication. Instead of focusing on the words people say, Doug teaches us to listen for the emotions behind the words and reflect those emotions back using simple statements such as, "You feel frustrated," "You feel misunderstood," or "You feel disrespected."This technique, called affect labeling, helps people feel seen, heard, and understood. Research shows that accurately naming emotions can calm the brain's emotional centers in seconds, reducing tension and creating trust.Doug has used these methods in some of America's most violent prisons through his Prison of Peace program, helping inmates learn to manage emotions and resolve conflict peacefully. The same skills can be used in marriages, families, parenting, workplaces, and leadership roles.We also discuss why empathy is not weakness but a powerful leadership skill. Doug challenges traditional communication advice and explains why direct "You feel..." statements are often more effective than common "I think you're feeling..." responses.Doug shares a simple three-step process:Ignore the words.Listen for the emotions.Reflect those emotions back using "You feel..." statements.The result is a practical tool that can help de-escalate conflict, build trust, and create deeper connections in every area of life.In This Episode You'll Learn:How to calm an angry person in 90 seconds or lessThe science behind affect labelingWhy empathy is a leadership skillHow to help others feel seen, heard, and understoodWhy "You feel..." statements build trust and connectionHow these techniques improve relationships, parenting, leadership, and conflict resolutionThe communication skills that transformed violent prison environmentsAbout Doug NollDoug Noll is an award-winning mediator, bestselling author, TEDx speaker, and founder of the Prison of Peace program. He specializes in helping people resolve difficult and highly emotional conflicts through practical, research-based communication techniques.Learn more at https://dougnoll.comThank You For Listening!If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. Your support helps us continue bringing messages of hope, healing, and personal growth to listeners around the world.To learn more about Linda's Corner Podcast, visit lindascornerpodcast.com.Listen, Share, and SupportIf this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who may need hope today.Be sure to subscribe, leave a rating and review, and help us spread more healing and inspiration to the world.Free Resource for HealingIf you're ready to release stress, calm your mind, and begin healing from within, visit:
If you grew up in a broken or dysfunctional family, you may have entered adulthood without ever seeing what healthy conflict looks like.But avoiding conflict isn't the answer. In fact, healthy conflict can be one of the main ways couples build trust, deepen intimacy, and discover whether they can actually build a life together.Our guest, Adam Lane Smith, is a former licensed marriage and family therapist, bestselling author, and attachment specialist whose work has attracted more than 1.3 million followers across social media. In this conversation, Adam breaks down the practical relationship skills many people never learned growing up.In this episode, you'll learn:Why people from broken families often struggle in relationshipsHow healthy couples handle conflict differentlyWhy avoiding conflict can actually weaken trustWhat conflict reveals about whether someone is marriage materialHow to communicate, repair, and build trust after things go wrongIf conflict makes you shut down, blow up, people-please, or wonder whether you're capable of building the healthy marriage you never saw growing up, this episode is for you.Resources mentioned in this episode:
We're BACK with the most popular series of the year: COUPLES THERAPY! And we hit the ground running in this heated episode with Curt and Lindsey.They've been dating for quite some time, moving toward marriage, yet they still don't see eye to eye about some of their boundaries in the relationship. Curt feels uncomfortable with some of Lindsey's decisions and interactions, and Lindsey feels like Curt is not able to understand her perspective, nor trust her to make good choices. Is this an issue of healthy boundaries, or is this an issue of control? Debra helps them get to the root of what might actually be going on underneath their conflict, and the deeper feelings and needs that each one of them need to communicate. This conversation gets a little tense, which is exactly why healthy relationships require us to have the skills to navigate difficult topics and stay engaged. Tune into this episode, and then grab a copy of Relationship Skills to learn the skills you need to build a healthy relationship that lasts! Click here to WATCH the full episode. Podcast Extras: Relationship Skills - Pre-Order Now! Relationships don't fall apart because of a lack of love but struggle because of a lack of skill. As you and your partner move through the four seasons of a relationship each bringing its own rhythms, challenges, and opportunities for growth—how you show up will either strengthen your relationship or slowly wear it down. Originally released as Love in Every Season, this updated and expanded guide from licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta is your road map to the skills you need to strengthen your relationship at every stage. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, Relationship Skills will help you in SPRING: stop ignoring red flags and build on a healthy foundation in SUMMER: build connection and intimacy without losing yourself in FALL: communicate honestly, repair, and grow through conflict in WINTER: stay intentional when things feel stagnant Let this guide help you take your relationship skills to the next level so you can grow in maturity, deepen intimacy, and build a relationship that lasts! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder...
We are constantly told that good relationships depend on communication.But the problem is that most of us have never really been taught how to communicate!In this episode of Pearls of Wisdom, I explore why two people can be talking constantly and still feel completely unheard, misunderstood or disconnected.We all have different ways of processing and communicating our experience. Some of us naturally communicate through facts, concepts and concise information, while others communicate through emotion, story, context and relationship.Neither is right. Neither is wrong.The difficulty arises when we assume that our way of communicating is the right way, and become frustrated, dismissive or defensive when someone communicates differently.I explore the importance of the inner work that comes before communication - becoming aware of our attachment to our own opinions, learning to pause when we react, and becoming genuinely curious about another person's map of reality.Drawing on my work with individuals and relationships, I also explore the idea of the "connected knower" and "separate knower", and how expanding our ability to move between heart and mind can help us communicate more effectively.I also explore intentional dialogue: listening to understand rather than preparing our response, reflecting back what we've heard, validating another person's experience without necessarily agreeing with it, and becoming willing to step into their world.Because communication isn't ultimately about getting somebody to see things our way.Communication is about meeting.And when two people stop trying to be right and become genuinely interested in understanding one another, communication becomes connection.
Today we're closing out our Singles Series with Brittany from deep east Texas! One of my favorite parts of getting to know Brittany was learning about her heart for God's word and memorizing scripture, ever since she was young. We talk about the power that God's word has had on her life and how it's informed so much of who she is and how she chooses to live, and how growing up in a large family shaped the way she sees life, her leadership abilities, and her communication skills. It's a conversation about faith, family, spiritual leadership, unexpected heartbreak – and personal growth – and I know you'll be inspired by Brittany, and want to get to know her! Single guys, reach out to Brittany and say hello on Instagram or via email. **A quick note: While we're excited to introduce you to the singles featured in this series, their appearance on the podcast should not be considered an endorsement or recommendation. We have not conducted background checks or extensive screening, so if you choose to connect with someone featured here, please do so thoughtfully and at your own discretion. Click here to WATCH the full episode. Podcast Extras: Relationship Skills - Pre-Order Now! Relationships don't fall apart because of a lack of love but struggle because of a lack of skill. As you and your partner move through the four seasons of a relationship each bringing its own rhythms, challenges, and opportunities for growth—how you show up will either strengthen your relationship or slowly wear it down. Originally released as Love in Every Season, this updated and expanded guide from licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta is your road map to the skills you need to strengthen your relationship at every stage. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married, Relationship Skills will help you in SPRING: stop ignoring red flags and build on a healthy foundation in SUMMER: build connection and intimacy without losing yourself in FALL: communicate honestly, repair, and grow through conflic in WINTER: stay intentional when things feel stagnant Let this guide help you take your relationship skills to the next level so you can grow in maturity, deepen intimacy, and build a relationship that lasts! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of nine books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances...
What if someone had actually taught you how to have a great relationship? While Sex and the Psyche takes a short production break, we're bringing back some of the conversations our listeners connected with most. In this Encore Episode, we revisit our conversation with Zach and Sally Maxwell and explore The Relationship Framework Nobody Taught You. Relationships don't come with an instruction manual. Most of us learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, build intimacy, and stay connected by trial and error—and sometimes by making a whole lot of mistakes along the way. Zach and Sally offer a fresh perspective on the skills and framework that can help couples better understand each other, communicate more effectively, and create a stronger, more connected relationship. Whether you heard this conversation the first time around or you're discovering it for the first time, this is one worth revisiting. Take another listen, share it with someone you love, and remember: a better relationship starts with better conversations. New episodes of Sex and the Psyche return soon. Until then, enjoy this Encore Conversation—and keep your questions coming! Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok and please DM us with your questions! Guest Information: sally@max-wellcoaching.com https://www.max-wellcoaching.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ask Rachel anythingSo many parents come to me saying 'My teen has no friends. What should I do?' and I can't help wondering if we are missing one of the most important ways to help them. Being good at friendships ourselves.Think about it. If we're not good at making and maintaining friends ourselves, who will our babies learn their friendship skills from?In this episode of Teenagers Untangled, I'm joined by author, broadcaster, and founder of The Friendship Lab, Sheridan Voysey, to unpack why 20–25% of adults now say they have no close friends, how that impacts our teens' mental health, and what we can actually do about it. We explore the five stages of friendship, why busyness, smartphones, and constant mobility are eroding our connections, and the simple, intentional steps parents can take to help their tweens and teens build deep, lasting relationships.Whether your child is struggling to find “their people,” stuck on the surface with classmates, or hiding behind screens, this conversation will give you practical language, science-backed insight, and real-life ideas for modelling healthy friendships at home. If you care about your teen's confidence, wellbeing, resilience, and sense of belonging, this is an episode you won't want to miss.Contact the Friendship LabThe Friendship Lab CourseI create notes on every episode which you'll find on my Substack page Support the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.Find all the tips from the episdoe on Substack: My email teenagersuntangled@gmail.comMy website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact meInstagramFacebook
Licensed professional counselor Debra Fileta uses the predictable patterns every relationship moves through―what she calls the four seasons―as the roadmap for building a healthier, stronger connection. Just like the seasons shift, every relationship moves through different stages, each one bringing its own rhythms, challenges, and opportunities for growth. How you show up in those seasons will either strengthen your relationship or slowly wear it down. Join us for great conversation.Become a Parshall Partner: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/inthemarket/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Relationships can be one of our greatest sources of support, but few of us are ever taught how to build and maintain healthy ones. In this episode, Dr Jodi Richardson is joined by counsellor and relationship coach Anne Sidebottom for a thoughtful conversation about the relationship patterns we learn in childhood, how those patterns show up in adulthood, and what it takes to create healthier, more connected relationships. Anne shares her deeply personal story of navigating betrayal, separation and single parenthood, and how those experiences ultimately led her to a career helping individuals and couples strengthen their relationships. Together, Jodi and Anne discuss the power of counselling, the importance of understanding our family influences, and why seeking support is one of the bravest steps we can take. You'll also learn Anne's practical communication framework, the Feedback Wheel, a simple tool that can help couples navigate difficult conversations with greater understanding and less defensiveness. Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, healing from the past, or simply wanting to connect more deeply with the people you love, this episode offers wisdom, hope and practical takeaways. Connect with Anne Sidebottomwww.sidebottom.com Connect with Dr Jodi Richardson https://drjodirichardson.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A Better, More Enjoyable Way to Build Your MarriageTrying to improve a marriage can become exhausting when pressure, repeated problem talks, and attempts to force progress only create more distance. Coach Jack explains how to replace those reactions with a step-by-step approach that makes relationship building calmer, more effective, and more enjoyable.What You'll LearnHow to begin at your spouse's current emotional level instead of pushing for premature commitmentHow to identify and replace behaviors that quietly damage connectionHow validation can help rebuild comfort, trust, and closenessHow attraction, independence, and healthy boundaries support a stronger marriageWant to Work With Coach Jack?The Re-Connections Coaching Package helps clients identify unhelpful relationship patterns, choose more effective behaviors, and rebuild connection through practical, manageable steps. Coach Jack works with clients to make the marriage-building process clearer, healthier, and less focused on pressure or pursuit.Key TakeawaysStart where your spouse is emotionally.Small, consistent steps build trust.Repeated problem discussions can increase distance.Validation helps a spouse feel understood and accepted.Healthy boundaries reduce resentment and ongoing conflict.Additional ResourcesOvercome Neediness and Get the Love You Want, by Jack Ito PhDRe-Connections Coaching PackageFree Downloads for helping your spouse to enjoy talking with you againWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
More teenagers are turning to AI chatbots for friendship advice, family conflict, and even romantic conversations. But what happens when artificial relationships begin replacing real ones? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why God designed adolescents to learn conflict, empathy, forgiveness, and resilience through real people, not perfectly agreeable machines. Together, they unpack why AI can never satisfy our deepest relational needs and how parents can prepare children to use technology wisely without sacrificing the relationships that shape character.
What if relationship skills are not just practical life skills, but part of discipleship? In this episode, Laura sits down with Dr. Kelly Haer, Executive Director of the Boone Center for the Family at Pepperdine University, to talk about Relationship IQ, a practical resource designed to help young adults build healthy relationships. Kelly shares her own story of being drawn to counseling and relationship work from a young age, and how God opened the door for her work at the Boone Center. Together, Laura and Kelly explore why young adulthood is such a formative season, why many young people are longing for meaningful connection but have not always been taught the skills to build it, and how churches can help. This conversation is hopeful, practical, and deeply relevant for pastors, parents, youth leaders, young adult leaders, and anyone who wants to help the next generation grow in healthy relationships with God, family, friends, dating, boundaries, conflict, technology, and more. Quotes “Technology changes how we relate and connect.” Dr. Kelly Haer “There are relational calories being consumed, but the quality of those relational calories are subpar.” Dr. Kelly Haer “So much of life happens in and around relationships.” Dr. Kelly Haer “Our greatest highs are around relationships, our greatest lows often happen through relationship.” Dr. Kelly Haer “This is a huge part of following Jesus, being able to relate well with those that we're around.” Dr. Kelly Haer “My vision and heart is that young adults both are competent and feel confident.” Dr. Kelly Haer Resources Boone Center for the FamilyA relationship training center located at Pepperdine University that integrates psychology and theology to equip people with healthy relationship skills. Relationship IQA curriculum from the Boone Center for the Family is designed to help young adults live out healthy relationships. Connect with Hope Made Strong Website: HopeMadeStrong.org Socials: Facebook – Instagram – Twitter – YouTube
Amy's marriage hit rock bottom, and she was desperate for a solution. Over the coming years she learned several life-changing lessons that changed not just her marriage, but, more importantly, herself. Today she shares everything she learned about how women can be happier and how broken marriages can thrive again. NEW: Check out our Merch store! https://shop.lilaroseshow.com/Join our new Patreon community! https://patreon.com/lilaroseshow - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world's leading religious network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-EveryLife Women: https://www.everylife.com/lila Buy diapers and women's health products from an amazing company and use code LILA10 to get 10% off!-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee and Save up to 25% with promo code 'LILA' & get a free gift: http://www.sevenweekscoffee.com-Presidio Healthcare: Healthcare and doctors who share your values. Visit: https://www.presidiocare.com/lila -We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. 00:00:00 - Intro00:00:50 - What's the #1 thing you help women with?00:02:22 - What does surrender really look like?00:04:36 - What are women ashamed to say out loud?00:05:54 - Years of not feeling enough00:09:03 - What does self-care look like?00:11:09 - Most common struggle in marriage?00:14:37 - Why are Christian women having so many problems?00:17:36 - What's the difference between marriages who get better or not?00:20:40 - The conversation that changed everything00:23:52 - The quest for radical joy00:25:33 - Focus on your issues or other's issues?00:33:13 - The Secret to Unlocking Peace: Self-Care is Biblical00:38:57 - Satan's Letter To Christian Women00:44:21 - 6 Intimacy Skills00:51:32 - Hoping against hope00:53:08 - Intimacy Skill: Relinquish Control00:55:27 - Intimacy Skill: Receive Graciously00:58:00 - Intimacy Skill: Vulnerability00:59:52 - Intimacy Skill: Gratitude01:01:00 - Complains are lazy desires01:04:58 - Should women list out ALL their desires?01:07:25 - Which desires should you share?01:08:28 - Healing vs coping01:08:39 - What about abuse?01:09:07 - Can marriages heal after disasters?01:10:38 - How are children affected by healed marriages?01:12:12 - What does day-to-day look like now?01:18:05 - Most dramatic transformation?01:19:48 - Practical daily advice for busy moms?01:21:26 - 1 Small Habit for Women
In This Episode You'll Learn: Why I kept attracting the wrong people for years The biggest dating mistakes I didn't realize I was making How to identify emotionally available vs emotionally unavailable partners The difference between chemistry and compatibility Why "doing the work" has nothing to do with being perfect The standards and boundaries that changed everything How to stop ignoring red flags The 8 steps I took before meeting my fiancé What healthy love actually feels like How to date with more confidence and intention Topics Discussed: Dating advice Healthy relationships Emotional availability Dating after heartbreak Self-worth Boundaries Red flags Conscious relationships Personal growth Finding love Relationship patterns Mindset shifts Connect with Lauren: Instagram: @laurenrudick Website: laurenrudick.com Yoga Teacher Trainings: YogaAcademyInternational.com Resources:The book Calling in the one Everything on the show is a matter of opinion. I'm not here to offer advice or tell you what to do with your life or what decisions you should make. I am just here sharing my process with you.
How to Get More Love and Affection from Your WifeWhen a wife feels distant, trying to convince her to love more often creates pressure and disconnection. In this episode, Coach Jack helps men understand how emotional connection is rebuilt through consistent loving actions rather than reassurance, persuasion, or household responsibilities alone.What You'll Learn: How to focus on emotional connection instead of task-focused efforts Why gaze, words, voice, touch, and listening matter more than routine responsibilities How to help your wife feel uniquely special without pressuring her How consistency helps rebuild trust when loving feelings have faded Want to Work With Coach Jack?Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package helps men stop pursuing, reduce pressure, and rebuild a friendly emotional connection with a distant wife. The focus is on helping her relax, enjoy the relationship again, and become more open to reconnecting.Key Takeaways: Love grows from actions, not persuasion Routine responsibilities do not replace romance. A wife needs to feel uniquely valued. Listening without fixing helps restore connection. Pressure and pursuit make reconnection harder. Additional Resources: Re-Connections Coaching PackageFree Download: How to Talk to Your Wife: Restoring Loving Communication in a Damaged Relationship (eBook)Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
Nothing activates us quite like love. This week, we're sharing a special episode from The Angry Therapist podcast, hosted by John Kim, licensed therapist, author, co-founder of Soulprint Media, and Robin's dear friend. John sits down with Robin to talk about the story behind Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy, and the experiences, losses, lessons, and relationships that shaped her belief that love is something we can learn, practice, and grow in. Robin shares where her lifelong love of love began, what working as a matchmaker taught her about the way people show up in dating and relationships, and how losing her twin brother and her father changed the way she understands grief, purpose, and connection. Together, Robin and John talk about forgiveness, family, spiritual connection, relationship patterns, and the myths that so many of us carry about love. At the heart of this conversation is the question that sits at the centre of Real Love Ready: what would change if we treated love not just as a feeling, but as a practice? We'll be back next week with a brand new episode of Real Love Ready: The Series! IN THIS EPISODE (00:00) Why Love Is So Hard to Learn (01:01) Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy (02:08) Robin and John on Friendship, Soulprint, and Synchronicity (02:50) Where Robin's Love for Love Began (06:22) From Matchmaking to Relationship Education (08:25) Losing Her Twin Brother (13:48) How Grief Changed Robin's Mission (17:48) Forgiveness as an Act of Love (21:49) The Origin of Real Love Ready (22:22) What In Bloom Is Really About (27:00) Joy, Learning, and Walking the Walk (28:59) Why Robin Wrote Real Love Ready (30:24) High-Functioning Codependency, Fawning, and Healing Patterns (00:00) Love Myths, Relationship Skills, and What We Were Never Taught QUOTES “People struggle with love. That's the thing we struggle with the most. And so, how do we learn how to do it?” — Robin Ducharme “Our loved ones don't go anywhere, they don't leave us, they stay with us.” — Robin Ducharme “Forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts of love that we can give ourselves.” — Robin Ducharme “Forgiveness is the way into seeing someone's wholeness, and all the beauty of who they are.” — John Kim “This stuff should be taught in high school and college. We learn from our hearts being shattered, we learn from divorce, we learn from relationships going sideways. We learn the hard way.” — John Kim GET THE REAL LOVE READY BOOK Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy is a clear, compassionate guide to the knowledge, skills, and daily practices that help us love with greater intention, truth, and heart.https://geni.us/RealLoveReadyBook ABOUT JOHN KIM John Kim, also known as The Angry Therapist, is a licensed therapist, author, speaker, podcast host, and co-founder of Soulprint Media. He is the author of I Used to Be a Miserable F***, Single on Purpose, Breakup on Purpose, and It's Not Me, It's You, co-authored with Vanessa Bennett. His new book, Love Hard. On Purpose., is available now: https://www.theangrytherapist.com/love-hard Instagram: @theangrytherapistWebsite: theangrytherapist.com FOLLOW US @realloveready @robinducharmeofficial @soulprintmediaco Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the thing you're craving most isn't another dating app, another relationship book, or another set of rules?What if it's community?In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, Ellecia sits down with Jamie Love, Executive Director of Sex Positive World, to talk about the power of finding spaces where you can show up authentically, explore with curiosity, and realize you're not as alone as you thought.They dive into what sex positivity actually means beyond the stereotypes, why community is essential for people navigating non-monogamy, kink, and alternative relationships, and how play can become a pathway to deeper intimacy and self-discovery.Whether you're brand new to this world or you've been practicing non-monogamy for years, this conversation is a reminder that you don't have to have it all figured out before you find your people.In This Episode, We Discuss:What Sex Positive World is and the work they're doing to make sexuality education more accessibleWhy community matters so much when exploring non-monogamy and kinkThe courage it takes to attend your first event aloneHow shame keeps us disconnected and what happens when we let ourselves be seenWhy observation is participation and why you never have to do more than feels right for youBoundaries, consent, and learning what your wants, needs, and desires actually areThe role of play in intimacy, pleasure, and connectionPet play, primal play, cuddle spaces, and expanding your definition of what intimacy can look likeHow sex positivity intersects with advocacy, belonging, and creating cultural changeWhy finding your people matters now more than everResources MentionedSex Positive World: https://www.sexpositiveworld.orgLearn more about Sex Positive World's online classes, community events, and educational offeringsPolytopia Conference in Portland, OregonJessica Fern and PolysecureConnect with Jamie LoveJamie Love (she/they) is the Executive Director of Sex Positive World and an educator, facilitator, and community builder passionate about creating spaces where people can explore sexuality, relationships, consent, and connection without shame.Send us Fan MailSupport the show
In this episode, Shelley Howard interviews Rob Heller, founder of The Boost Program and author of The Missing Course. Together, they explore why human skills are becoming one of the most important predictors of future success. Rob shares the 26 skills he teaches students, including communication, confidence, empathy, resilience, character, and mindset. He explains how smartphones, social media, and AI are changing the way students interact and why parents and schools must intentionally help teens develop the people skills that technology cannot replace. Topics discussed include: • The 26 human skills every teen needs to thrive • Why soft skills matter more than ever in an AI-driven world • How technology is affecting communication and relationships • The connection between character, confidence, and career success • What parents can do to help teens become future-ready • Why schools should prioritize life skills alongside academics Guest: Rob Heller, Founder of The Boost Program and author of The Missing Course
What you'll learn in this episode Why listening—not talking—is the ultimate sales skill The 3 steps of the CPI framework: connect energetically, ask adept questions, actively listen How to uncover what clients are afraid to admit Why setting emotional expectations prevents frustration and blame How to turn predictable problems into opportunities for trust The difference between fake rapport and real connection Why influence is something you're given, not something you chase How authentic listening positions you as the trusted expert Teach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:Website: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/NoBrokeMonths/Facebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan RochonTeach to Sell Preorder: Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do Instead
Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz sit down with Zach and Sally Maxwell, relationship thought leaders, executive coaches, and co-founders of The Art of Conscious Love, for a conversation that will change how you think about romance. Together since they were 18, the Maxwells have built a modern relationship framework around a radical premise: love is not something you fall into. It's something you practice. They walk through their eight-pillar approach to conscious relationships covering personal accountability, inner narratives, transparency, desire, conflict resolution, and the art of consciously designing your own monogamy. A masterclass in what it actually takes to make love last. https://www.max-wellcoaching.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/sally-swallow-maxwell/ sally@max-wellcoaching.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince wraps up his conversation with relationship coach Brett Jones. This time around, they talk about money discussions and trust, anxiety and defensive spirals, resentment and repairing connection, and Brett's book and resources. For more on Brett book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org, 00:56 Security Scanning vs Fixing 01:50 Why Conversations Differ 03:16 Anxiety and Defensive Spirals 04:52 Presence Over Fixing 10:38 Money Decisions and Trust 16:12 Resentment and Repairing Connection 20:21 Samurai Love Resources 24:35 Final Takeaways and Links Key Links: https://www.relationshipcode.org/ Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos Brett P, Jones | Linkedin Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com Want to be a guest on CFO at Home? Send Vince a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1628643039567x840793309030672500
On this episode of CFO at Home, Vince's guest is relationship coach Brett Jones. Brett and Vince discuss relationship skills. and how communication breakdowns—especially around money—can drive conflict and even divorce. Brett shares the story of how his first marriage collapsed, which led him into 30 years of relationship coaching. We also discuss why "love is not enough," how men and women often communicate differently, and how money conversations can trigger safety and security concerns, leading men to shut down when they hear criticism. For more on Brett, his book Samurai Love, resources, and upcoming events, go to the relationshipcode.org Key Topics: 01:42 Why Relationships Need Skills 02:55 Brett's Story and Divorce Stats 07:47 Money Fights and Divorce Patterns 11:36 Why Men Check Out 14:24 Safety and Money Conversations 18:19 Budget Talk Mistakes Men Make 22:44 Letting your Partner Influence Decisions Key Links: https://www.relationshipcode.org/ Samurai Love: Cut Through the Bulls**t In Relationships Marie McCrystal Jones | Facebook Brett Jones (@brettjonesmoney) • Instagram photos and videos Brett P, Jones | Linkedin Contact the Host - vince@thecfoathome.com Want to be a guest on CFO at Home? Send Vince a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1628643039567x840793309030672500
This episode is brought to you by Audible, Ancient + Brave, Strong Coffee Company and Fatty15. Today we welcome relationship expert Amy Chan to break down the science of heartbreak, attachment patterns, and modern dating, revealing why breakups feel like addiction withdrawal and how high-performers often sabotage their healing by avoiding emotions instead of processing them. You'll learn how to stop ruminating on your ex, rebuild your identity after a breakup, and create new neural pathways through intentional action, as well as why strategies like "staying friends" or "winning the breakup" often backfire. Amy also shares her dating funnel framework, helping listeners understand how to move from casual dating to committed relationships while avoiding common pitfalls like confusing preferences with dealbreakers. This conversation is a powerful guide for anyone looking to move on faster, date smarter, and build healthier, more conscious relationships. Follow Amy @missamychan Follow Chase @chase_chewning ----- 00:00 – Why You Can't Skip the Pain of a Breakup 00:28 – Feeling vs Avoiding Emotions 00:58 – What Happens When You Suppress Pain 01:26 – Meet Amy Chan 01:51 – The Problem with Forcing Forgiveness 02:47 – The Science of Breakup Withdrawal 04:15 – Why Men Struggle More After Breakups 05:26 – Rebound Relationships Explained 06:30 – How Long It Really Takes to Heal 08:40 – Your Brain on Heartbreak (Addiction Comparison) 09:09 – Why No Contact Works 10:12 – The Reality of Avoiding Your Ex 11:11 – Why Doing Nothing Slows Healing 12:07 – How to Stop Ruminating 13:19 – Building New Neural Pathways 14:38 – Trying to "Win" the Breakup 15:57 – What to Do in the First 30 Days 17:19 – How Friends Should Support You 18:16 – Different Types of Breakups 19:53 – Should You Ever Get Back Together? 22:32 – Why Hooking Up with Your Ex Sets You Back 23:21 – The Danger of Staying Friends Too Soon 24:29 – Healing vs Avoidance 25:47 – Pedestal vs Villain Mindsets 27:32 – Living in Reality vs Fantasy 29:19 – The Dating Funnel Explained 31:03 – From Dating to Commitment 32:29 – Biggest Dating Mistakes Today 33:31 – Preferences vs Dealbreakers 34:28 – Dating Skills vs Relationship Skills 36:34 – How to Create Attraction on Dates 39:14 – Desperation & Dating Energy 41:25 – What Men Get Wrong on Dates 42:04 – Dating After Long-Term Relationships 44:23 – What Predicts Relationship Success 45:16 – Why Your "Type" Is Holding You Back 46:33 – The Dating Experiment That Works 49:31 – Dating Apps vs Real-Life Connections 51:27 – Optimizing Your Dating Profile 53:02 – Best Cities for Dating 54:54 – Aligning Strategy with Relationship Goals 56:56 – Are You Delusional in Dating? 58:30 – Money, Roles & Modern Relationships 01:00:28 – Navigating Family & Cultural Differences 01:02:30 – Final Lesson: Keep Your Heart Open 01:03:27 – What Relationships Are Really For 01:04:09 – How to Move Ever Forward in Love ----- Episode resources: FREE 30-day trial of Audible at https://www.AudibleTrial.com/everforward 20% off True Creatine and True Biome with code EVERFORWARD at https://www.AncientAndBrave.com 15% off organic lattes and coffee with code CHASE at https://www.StrongCoffeeCompany.com/chase 15% off C15:0 essential fatty acid with code EVERFORWARD at https://www.Fatty15.com/everforward Watch and subscribe on YouTube Get Amy's new book Unsingle
What if the health of your relationship is shaping more of your life than you realize? We spend so much time focusing on our individual growth—our healing, our self-awareness, our inner work. But at some point, that work has to find its way into our closest relationships. And that's where things often get complicated. In this episode, Dr. Alison is joined by Dr. James Cordova to explore what it actually looks like to build and sustain healthy, connected relationships over time—and why it's so much harder than we expect. Because the truth is, relationships aren't neutral. They're either strengthening and supporting your overall well-being…or quietly eroding it. If you've ever felt close to someone you love… and also strangely disconnected, this conversation will help you understand why. You'll explore: Why relationships are more foundational to your health than you might think What actually happens as intimacy shifts over time—and why it's not a sign something is wrong The “porcupine dilemma” and why closeness and hurt often go hand in hand How small, everyday moments either build or erode connection What it means to respond to bids for connection—and why they matter more than you realize How mindfulness and presence shape the quality of your relationships What to do when you feel stuck, disconnected, or like you're the only one trying This conversation offers a compassionate and practical reframe:Healthy relationships aren't about avoiding conflict or getting it right all the time. They're about learning how to stay present, stay curious, and stay connected—even when it's hard. More Resources: Connect further with @dralisoncook on Instagram Read Dr. James Cordova's Book: The Mindful Path to Intimacy: Cultivating a Deeper Connectin With Your Partner Want to go deeper? Join 80,000+ soul menders in our email community and receive weekly reflections and gentle practices here. Want to hear more like this? Start here: Episode 115: 4 Ways to Transform Your Relationship—Expert Tips to Heal Pain Points and Deepen Intimacy Episode 148: Dan Allendar on Healing, Intimacy, and Hard Fights Episode 137: The Mindful Marriage with Ron and Nan Deal
Why Is My Spouse Becoming Cold and Distant from Me?When a spouse feels cold or distant, it is easy to react with more pressure, more honesty about frustrations, or repeated attempts to fix the problem. Those responses often increase defensiveness and emotional distance instead of rebuilding closeness. In this episode, Coach Jack helps listeners look at what may be driving the distance and how to replace unhelpful patterns with behaviors that create safety, connection, and steadier progress.What You'll Learn:How to tell whether the distance may be tied to stress, substances, health issues, an affair, unavailability, or needy behaviorHow to identify relational blind spots that may be pushing a spouse further awayHow to replace criticism and arguing with behaviors that protect closeness while still addressing problemsHow to make gradual, practical changes that help a spouse feel more loved, valued, and emotionally safeBuild a Closer Relationship With Your Spouse: The Re-Connections Coaching Package helps you respond to distance in ways that can improve connection, rebuild emotional safety, and create more closeness in your marriage. It is designed to help you know what to say and do to increase your spouse's desire for you.Emotional distance often has more than one possible cause.Waiting passively rarely improves disconnection.Criticism and arguing can reduce love and closeness.Positive requests, validation, and boundaries are stronger alternatives.Small, consistent changes can create meaningful improvement.Additional Resources:Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want, by Jack Ito PhDCoaching ConsultationsContact PageWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
⚠️Trigger Warning: This episode discusses past abusive relationships, stalking/harassment by an ex-partner, trauma recovery, family estrangement, and mental health topics including anxiety and OCD. Please listen with care and take breaks if needed.In this episode of The Neurodivergent Creative, Caitlin shares how romance novels have unexpectedly helped her heal from relationship trauma and emotional abuse.March marks the anniversary of leaving an abusive marriage, which brings up a lot of memories and emotional triggers. But instead of viewing healing as a straight line, or assuming that getting triggered means you're back at the beginning, Caitlin introduces a powerful idea: Healing is a spiral staircase.You may encounter the same triggers again and again, but you are meeting them from a different place each time.This episode explores how trauma healing unfolds in layers, how safe relationships can help rewire the nervous system, and how romance novels can model communication, repair, and emotional safety in ways many of us never experienced growing up.What We Explore in This Episode:Trauma healing and the spiral staircase metaphorWhy triggers changing over time is actually evidence of healingLeaving an abusive marriage and rebuilding safetyThe role of romance novels in reshaping beliefs about love, repair, and communicationHow fiction can model safe relationships when real life didn'tThe emotional power of dual POV romance and seeing care from both sidesQueer identity, bisexual visibility, and romance representationLearning to communicate needs in a healthy relationship after emotional abuseWhy “use your words” can feel revolutionary when you've been trained not toReflection QuestionsWhere in your life are you assuming that being triggered means you're “back at the beginning”?What would change if you viewed your healing as a spiral instead of a straight line?Are there stories, books, or characters helping you imagine safer ways of being loved?What small communication need have you been sitting on because part of you still expects punishment?
EPISODE 12: advice column on relationship skills and standards!JUICY (POLARITY PROGRAM): https://revsydneyfinn.com/juicySQUEEZE: https://revsydneyfinn.com/squeezeTEXTING MAGIC: https://revsydneyfinn.com/texting-magicICE QUEEN MASTERCLASS: https://revsydneyfinn.com/ice-queenSUBMISSION FOR THE THURSDAY ADVICE COLUMN: https://revsydneyfinn.com/tlg-pod-subs SHARE YOUR PROOF: https://revsydneyfinn.com/testimonial-submissions Support the showSIGN UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER: www.revsydneyfinn.com/newsletter ALL MY CLASSES AND FUN STUFF: https://revsydneyfinn.com/what EVENT CALENDAR: https://revsydneyfinn.com/when REACH OUT: email hello@onyxhealing.com Instagram: @rev.sydney.finnTikTok: @rev.sydney.finnYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/OnyxHealing
Panelists give tips on how to increase pleasure when you're super stressed. Host Karen Yates delivers her Sermon on the Pubic Mound on getting grounded. And the audience tells us the weirdest places they've had sex. From our Seventh Anniversary show October 12, 2025. The October live show's main show sponsor was Rowan Tree Counseling. On this episode:Matthew Amador, therapistDr. Jennifer Litner, sex therapistZeuben Painter-Edington, surrogate partnerHost Karen Yates - host, somatic sex educator, energy workerWant more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies! Or show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil' tip!Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50.Do you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here!Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
Send us a textSometimes the most meaningful collaborations don't start as collaborations at all.Marnie and Patrick originally came to Staci as clients. Two passionate, creative humans who loved each other deeply, but could feel that love alone wasn't going to carry them through blended family stress, real-life pressure, and the places where communication gets messy.Fast forward, and they're not only thriving, they're living proof of what happens when people learn skills they were never taught.In this conversation, we sit down with Marnie and Patrick to talk about the real work of building a relationship that lasts: emotional safety, voice, honest repair, and learning how to stay close even when life is loud.In this episode, we talk about:How “magic” can be real and still not be enough on its ownThe moment you hit the bottom of your bag of tricks and realize you need skillsThe “gap” where assumptions grow and relationships drift (and how to close it)What changes when you learn to say the thing… kindly, clearly, and without explodingWhy emotional safety is the foundation for blended families, grief, and big life transitionsNovelty vs. grounding: how couples stop fighting their differences and start using themA simple but powerful truth: nobody completes you, but the right partnership can expand youWhy so many people hit a crisis around 40, and what's actually happening underneath itThe difference between a “travel itinerary” and an experience that helps you remember you like each otherWant to join us in Tuscany? We're co-creating a couples retreat in a thousand-year-old castle in Tuscany, Italy. It's part romance, part relationship skills, part sensory reset. Slow mornings, incredible food, a space that helps you exhale, and daily relationship sessions designed to bring you back to each other.Book/save your room (only 7 couples): https://stacibartley.com/couples-retreatWant to taste what Marnie + Patrick create? You can order Solstice Savory Pies online (they ship nationwide) and bring a little “break bread together” energy to your own kitchen.Order here: https://solsticesavorypies.com/Want support choosing what's next? If you're not sure what you need right now, book a clarity call and we'll help you find your best next step.Clarity Call: https://stacibartley.com/applyAnd if this episode moved you, share it with someone you care about. Human to human is how this work spreads.Timestamps: 04:05 Navigating Blended Families05:54 Transformative Relationship Skills08:08 Balancing Individuality and Partnership14:13 The Challenges of Modern Relationships20:47 Generational Perspectives on Relationships29:15 Gratitude for Supportive Partners30:29 A Strong Partnership30:52 Tuscany Retreats: A Journey Begins32:18 The Magic of the Castle33:50 Immersive Experiences36:25 Slowing Down in Tuscany38:12 Etruscan History and Exploration42:48 Creating Forever Memories54:46 Savory Pies and Final Thoughts
Kink 101: What is a munch? Plus Alan Colorado needs our pervy help!Newbie kinksters can learn all about the kinky social event known as the munch. And storyteller Alan Colorado needs the wisdom of the audience to expand his sexual repertoire. From our Seventh Anniversary show October 12, 2025. The October live show's main show sponsor was Rowan Tree Counseling. On the episode:FetLife Galleria Domain 2 (GD2) LRA Host Karen Yates karen-yates.comOur Valentine's Kick Off Show is in Chicago, February 8, 6pm at Lincoln Lodge. Get tickets! Want more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies! Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50.Do you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil' tip!Get tickets to our Valentine's Kick Off in Chicago! Burlesque, standup and lively conversation about sex. Sunday Feb 8 at 6pm at the Lincoln Lodge! Tickets here!Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
On this episode of The Vibe, Kristyn Wolf, a counselor with Equinox Sex and Relationship Counseling, describes ways you can improve your personal relationships and how your body responds to emotional stress.
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.STOP stacking unsafe situation on unsafe situation!If your family's toxic, it's time to cut the bullshit—YES, even if it's your own blood.You want a healthy marriage?Draw the line.Protect your home.No more Mr. Nice Guy, no more letting people walk all over you.If they're not helping you rise, they're dragging you down.Period.Cass & Kathryn break down EXACTLY how to spot the manipulation, when to cut ties, and why your marriage comes BEFORE anyone else—family included.This episode's not for the weak. It's for the ones ready to lead, ready to change, ready to STOP making excuses and finally do what needs to be done.If you need permission, here it is: CUT. THEM. OUT.And if you're still asking “will this work for me?”—you're not listening close enough.Let's go.
Hi friend, David's supporters weren't only loyal—they were trained, ready, and dependable. What if your marriage didn't just need more love, but better skills? In this episode, we connect 1 Chronicles 11–12 to practical marriage tools: healthy communication, repair after conflict, emotional regulation, and daily rhythms that keep love steady. You'll learn how to “train for connection” so your home feels safer, warmer, and more united—even during stressful weeks. .................................................................................................................
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2843: Dr. Dabney delivers a no-nonsense strategy for men to avoid emotional and financial pitfalls in dating by making smarter decisions early in the relationship. By treating dating like a high-stakes investment, with clear evaluations during casual dating, commitment, and the early relationship stage, men can avoid toxic entanglements and choose partners who truly align with their needs and values. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.drldabney.com/article/advice-for-men/ Quotes to ponder: "Dating is about the experience, not the destination." "Trustworthy women do not come with unresolved financial, drug or legal issues." "Dating is not a contractual commitment, and you don't owe anyone the burden of this difficult problem." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2843: Dr. Dabney delivers a no-nonsense strategy for men to avoid emotional and financial pitfalls in dating by making smarter decisions early in the relationship. By treating dating like a high-stakes investment, with clear evaluations during casual dating, commitment, and the early relationship stage, men can avoid toxic entanglements and choose partners who truly align with their needs and values. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.drldabney.com/article/advice-for-men/ Quotes to ponder: "Dating is about the experience, not the destination." "Trustworthy women do not come with unresolved financial, drug or legal issues." "Dating is not a contractual commitment, and you don't owe anyone the burden of this difficult problem."
You've done the work. You've built the career, gone to therapy, read the books. So why does love still feel like the one area where your brilliance doesn't translate?Annie Lalla is a relationship cartographer with an Honors Science Degree in Biology and Philosophy, a minor in Buddhism, and professional certifications in Coaching, NLP, and Clinical Hypnotherapy. Her work weaves evolutionary psychology, integral theory, intergenerational family systems, and therapeutic sexuality into a framework that actually works. She helps singles done with dating find their person—and couples in love resolve the conflicts that keep them stuck. Her mission: help you build a relationship that's a trampoline for your dreams and a sanctuary for your heart.In this episode, you'll discover:→ Why women are actually the visionary leaders of relationships—and what happens when they wait to be rescued instead→ The reason your partner triggers you so intensely (hint: you've time-traveled back to childhood)→ How to know if overwhelming emotions are actually yours—or inherited pain you've been carrying for someone else→ The simple practice that releases feelings that aren't yours back to their rightful owner→ Why conflict is actually a collaboration trying to happen—and how to use it to strengthen your bond→ The "WTF to MLK" method that transforms criticism into an invitation your partner can't refuse→ What your partner is really doing when they challenge you (think Michelangelo carving David)→ The one question that reveals whether a relationship is worth the growth it demandsHere's the truth: The love you're looking for exists. But it won't come from rescue. It won't come from finding someone who finally "gets it" so you don't have to feel your feelings anymore. True love is the emotional CrossFit of human existence—and it's rare because most people are chasing happily ever after instead of alive ever after. The fantasy says love should be easy. The truth says love is the highest game you can play as a human being. You have everything you need to lead. Listen to the full episode and let Annie show you how.Connect with Annie:Website: https://www.annielalla.com/Instagram: @lallabirdConnect with Raj:Newsletter – Sign up here: https://www.rajjana.com/staygrounded/Website: http://www.rajjana.com/Instagram: @raj_janaiTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/rs/podcast/stay-grounded-with-raj-jana/id1318038490Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22Hrw6VWfnUSI45lw8LJBPYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@raj_janaLegal Disclaimer: The information and opinions discussed in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only. The host and guests are not medical or mental health professionals, and their advice should not be a substitute for seeking professional help. Any action taken based on the information presented is strictly at your own risk. The podcast host and their guests shall have neither liability nor responsibility to any person or entity with respect to any loss, damage, or injury caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly by information shared in this podcast. Consult your physician before making any changes to your mental health treatment or lifestyle. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Send us a textYou were told that love would be enough.That if you just cared more, tried harder, stayed patient, and didn't give up, your relationship would work itself out. So when the distance crept in, when conversations started going sideways, when you felt lonely sitting right next to the person you love, you told yourself to love harder.But love isn't what translates your emotions into words.Love doesn't create emotional safety when conversations get tense.And love alone can't bridge the gap between two people living in very different emotional worlds.Skills do.In this episode of Love Shack Live, we sit down to break down the three core relationship skills that most couples are missing when they feel disconnected, misunderstood, or stuck in the same painful patterns.You'll learn:Why loving each other deeply still isn't enough to prevent conflict and emotional distanceThe #1 skill couples need to stop reacting and start understanding each otherHow emotional safety actually works (and why most couples don't have it)Why differences in perspective create so much conflict and how to stop taking everything personallyHow unresolved emotional “messy dishes” pile up and quietly erode connection over timeThrough real client stories and honest conversation, this episode shows why relationships don't fail because of a lack of love. They struggle because no one taught us the skills required to communicate, regulate emotions, and truly understand one another.If you've been asking yourself:“Why do we keep having the same fight?”“Why do I feel so misunderstood?”“Why does love feel harder than it should?”This episode will give you clarity, relief, and a different way forward.Love is real. It matters.But skills are what make love safe, lasting, and livable.Love Isn't Enough. Skills Get You Through the Holidays.If the holidays already feel heavy and you're trying not to spiral, you don't need more information. You need tools you can use in the moment.That's why I created the Holiday Survival Bundle: the Holiday Stress Test + 3 micro-skill programs to help you calm the tension, communicate more clearly, and stay connected when things get stressful.$97 or 2 payments of $55: https://stacibartley.com/holiday-bundle-nc
Host: Darryl S. Chutka, M.D. Guest: Cory Ingram, M.D. There are a couple outcomes in taking a medical history. Obviously, one is information gathering. You need to hear the patient's symptoms to help form your differential diagnosis. The second, and equally important, is to help establish a relationship with that patient. There are several reasons a good provider-patient relationship is important. The patient is more likely to feel positive about their medical encounter, they're more likely to be adherent to your recommendations regarding their health conditions, and they tend to be more forgiving if they experience an adverse event. What makes up a good provider-patient relationship? What can we do as clinicians to help establish a good relationship with our patients? Can we still establish a good relationship when we practice telemedicine? These are questions I'll be asking my guest, Cory Ingram, M.D., a palliative care physician at the Mayo Clinic as we discuss “Provider-Patient Relationship Skills”. Connect with us and learn more here: https://ce.mayo.edu/online-education/content/mayo-clinic-podcasts
If you've ever wondered which relationship skills actually make non-monogamy easier, healthier, and less chaotic, this episode is your new favorite deep dive.Today I'm talking with couples therapist Dr. Dan Sneider, who works with both monogamous and non-monogamous partners and brings a grounded, compassionate, very human approach to communication, trust, and emotional safety.We get into the skills that truly make the biggest difference, including:• How to communicate without spiraling• How to know when you're going too fast• How to tell old baggage from a real relationship issue• The 5 to 1 positivity ratio and why it matters• What emotional safety feels like in your body• How to navigate the sex and feelings part of non-monogamy without gaslighting each other• Why “go slow to go fast” works every single timeWhether you're opening up, rebuilding trust, or trying to deepen connection, this episode gives you practical, usable tools you can apply right away.
Cultural differences profoundly impact our ability to communicate in relationships, often leading to misunderstandings when interpreting nonverbal cues, directness of speech, or emotional expression. To have better conversations and foster a happy life, it's crucial to cultivate strong communication skills. To explore communication strategies to cultivate deeper relationships, Harvesting Happiness Podcast Host Lisa Cypers Kamen speaks with Patricia Timerman Barbosa da Silva, aka Dr. T, a psychotherapist, author, and founder of Advocate2Create. Dr. T shares communication strategies from her book, Why Are We Fighting?, and explains how her IAP and preamble models empower people to have better conversations and strengthen their relationships.This episode is proudly sponsored by:Nature's Sunshine—Offers modern herbal supplements backed by science and harvested from the earth. Visit https://www.naturessunshine.com/ and use promo code HHTR to get 20% off + free shipping on your 1st order.and Cozy Earth—Offers luxury loungewear, premium pajamas, and essential home goods. Visit http://cozyearth.com/and use promo code HHTR to get up to 40% off your order. Like what you're hearing?WANT MORE SOUND IDEAS FOR DEEPER THINKING? Check out More Mental Fitness by Harvesting Happiness bonus content available exclusively on Substack and Medium.
How does obsessive compulsive disorder manifest in sex and relationships? In so many ways, but treatment is possible and effective. Karen talks with sex therapist Laura Federico about the root issue in OCD, ramifications, and solutions. The shame of minor attraction and getting help is included. They also discuss Laura's new book The Cycle Book, about the effect of menstrual hormones on the body and mind.On this episode:Psychologist and sex therapist Laura Federico Host Karen Yates The Cycle Book and related events - Buy on Bookshop or AmazonBuy on Bookshop and support Wild & Sublime! “Sexual Intrusive Thoughts” on the SMSNA siteSupport the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
Our guest, Dr. Caroline Jurisich, joins Discover Lafayette to discuss her inspiring work with The Quad, a Lafayette-based program helping adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities continue learning, building independence, and forming meaningful social connections after leaving school. A Lifelong Passion for Education and Inclusion Originally from North Louisiana, Caroline earned her bachelor's degree in communications from LSU and initially worked in that field. But her career path changed after she began working with students who had emotional and behavioral challenges. She went on to earn her Master's at UL Lafayette and taught in the Lafayette Parish School System before being recruited to help develop and teach in UL LIFE, an inclusive post-secondary education program for students with intellectual disabilities. “When I started with UL LIFE in 2014, there were about 200 programs like it in the country,” she recalled. “Now, there are 364.” The program, which began as a small pilot with local students, has since expanded to 35 students from across the U.S. who live on campus, participate in university classes, and are fully integrated into campus life. As the program grew, Caroline noticed a troubling pattern: “Once these students graduated, they secured employment, but there was still a gap in opportunities for continued learning and in maintaining the skills they'd developed.” That realization led her to found The Quad in 2023. Filling the Gap After Graduation Located in the Oil Center at 1021 E St Mary Blvd., Suite A, The Quad serves adults aged 18 to 62 who have completed high school or college-based programs and are seeking continued education, social engagement, and life skills training. “I'm a big believer in building a strong foundation before branching out,” Caroline said. “We're focused on what we call learning sessions—structured, engaging opportunities to develop practical skills without feeling like school.” The Quad offers 26 sessions a week, each about real-world abilities: Money Smarts: budgeting, banking, and financial literacy. Vocational Training: preparing for, securing, and maintaining employment. Social and Relationship Skills: navigating family, friendship, and workplace dynamics. Independent Living Skills: cooking, meal planning, grocery budgeting, and household management in their full kitchen lab. Each session is small and tailored. “We want to make sure it's meaningful for every individual,” she said. “Independence doesn't necessarily mean doing it all by yourself—it means knowing when to ask for help, knowing your strengths, and building on both.” The Quad also emphasizes community engagement. Members participate in service projects such as filling the Lafayette Community Fridge, supporting Second Harvest, and organizing toy drives. “We remind our members that to be an active, engaged part of your community, you also have to give back,” Caroline said. Creating Belonging and Connection Social isolation after leaving school is a major challenge for adults with disabilities. Caroline has seen firsthand how The Quad helps bridge that gap. “There's so much research on the impact of isolation—higher rates of depression and anxiety once individuals leave school,” she explained. “At The Quad, they have a space for connection, shared experiences, and casual practice of social skills.” Each Friday, The Quad hosts Happy Hour—a relaxed afternoon where members gather for games, conversation, and community. “Some play air hockey, some just hang out. For many, weekends can be isolating, so this helps fill that gap with friendship and laughter.” Members often form their own social groups. “We've had young men who didn't know each other before The Quad but now meet regularly to play cards or go out to lunch together. That's huge.” A Member-Focused Community
In this thought-provoking episode of the "Father and Joe" podcast, hosts Father Boniface Hicks and Joe Rockey delve deep into the potential impacts of technology, particularly artificial intelligence (AI), on human relationships and spiritual life. The conversation builds on the last week's discussion about the encroachment of AI in personal interactions, highlighting the dangers of relying too heavily on technology to connect with others and ourselves.Joe and Father Boniface discuss how AI can create a sense of emptiness in relationships, akin to trying to fill an infinite void with finite substances, which is often how sin manifests. They raise a critical question: When does the artificial relationship, facilitated by AI, feel fulfilling, and when does it leave us longing for more? This episode provides a "litmus test" to help listeners evaluate their interactions with AI—does it enrich their lives, or does it deplete their relational and emotional capacities?Father Boniface introduces insights from a Vatican document, "Antiqua et Nova," emphasizing that AI lacks the intrinsic qualities necessary for genuine human interaction—it has no interiority, intentions, or the capacity to truly care. Despite AI's sophisticated simulation capabilities, it cannot replace the profound depth of embodied human experiences that shape our intellect, morals, and soul.Through the lens of spirituality, the hosts explore the notion that AI, devoid of a soul, cannot nurture our spirituality or contribute to the development of virtues. Joe and Father Boniface urge listeners to critically assess their engagement with technology, ensuring it serves humanity rather than detracts from it.Towards the episode's end, the importance of traditional, interpersonal connection is revisited. In an age where technology often mediates relationships, the hosts stress the enduring necessity of face-to-face interaction for spiritual growth and relationship building.This episode is a call to mindfulness about the roles technology plays in our lives, encouraging continued philosophical inquiry into its ramifications. Joe and Father Boniface affirm the value of questioning and discerning technology's place in supporting human essence—a distinctly relational nature imbued with the divine spark.Tags:AI, Artificial Intelligence, Human Relationships, Technology, Spirituality, Church, Faith, Soul, Relational Growth, Podcast, Father and Joe, Religion, Emptiness, Sin, Vatican, Bible, Antiqua et Nova, Emotional Intelligence, Interpersonal Connection, Moral Discernment, Genuine Care, Spiritual Direction, Relationship Skills, Holiness, Embodied Experience, Humanity, Personal Development, Emotional Fulfillment, Relationship Evaluation, AI Therapists, Technology and Faith, Conversational AI, AI Limitations, Relational Intelligence, AI Impact, Emotional Health, Authentic Connection, Technology Dependence, Friendship, Connection, Spiritual Growth, Meaningful InteractionsHashtags:#AI #ArtificialIntelligence #HumanRelationships #Technology #Spirituality #Church #Faith #Soul #RelationalGrowth #Podcast #FatherAndJoe #Religion #Emptiness #Sin #Vatican #Bible #AntiquaEtNova #EmotionalIntelligence #InterpersonalConnection #MoralDiscernment #GenuineCare #SpiritualDirection #RelationshipSkills #Holiness #EmbodiedExperience #Humanity #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalFulfillment #RelationshipEvaluation #AITherapists #TechnologyAndFaith #ConversationalAI #AILimitations #RelationalIntelligence #AIImpact #EmotionalHealth #AuthenticConnection #TechnologyDependence #Friendship #Connection #SpiritualGrowth #MeaningfulInteractionsThis line is here to correct the site's formatting error.
In this episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Father Boniface Hicks and Joe Rockey dive deep into the fast-evolving world of artificial intelligence and its implications on human relationships. With AI becoming an integral part of our lives, it's crucial to understand its impact, especially on the sanctity and quality of human connections. Father Boniface and Joe explore the nuances of trust within relationships in an age where AI can imitate human behavior with uncanny precision. Can technology ever replicate the profound depth of human relationships? Join the hosts as they discuss the dangers of blurring the lines between genuine human interaction and AI-powered communication.The episode looks into the potential pitfalls of AI-generated content and how it may compromise our ability to discern truth from fiction. Our relationship dynamics, whether personal or professional, rely heavily on the trust and authenticity that AI may challenge. This conversation underscores the importance of maintaining robust in-person relationships and developing skills to ensure what we perceive as real is indeed so. Father Boniface touches on the philosophical and theological aspects of these changes, calling listeners to reconsider the value of human connections that transcend mere transactional interactions.Joe brings to light the effects seen in the business and social landscapes, where AI is often used to automate everything from advertising to customer interactions. The hosts discuss the potential saturation and diminishing quality of AI-generated content, which could cause a decline in meaningful human engagement.As Joe and Father Boniface navigate these complex ideas, they challenge listeners to enhance their "relationship muscles" and prioritize cultivating genuine human connections. Whether it's strengthening existing bonds or repairing broken ones, they highlight the critical need for human interaction in our technology-driven world.Tags: Artificial Intelligence, AI Impact, Human Relationships, Trust, Technology and Humanity, Father and Joe, Podcast, Spiritual Guidance, Relationship Skills, AI Concerns, Authentic Connections, Digital Age, AI Content, Communication, Human Interaction, Father Boniface Hicks, Joe Rockey, Personal Development, Spirituality, Theology, AI Challenges, AI Future, Business Impacts, Social Media, Online Interactions, Human Connection, Life Skills, Technological Growth, AI Ethics, Digital Communication, AI Algorithms, Relationship Dynamics, Trust in Technology, Spiritual Reflection, Real vs Fake, New Technology, Human Creativity, Generative AI, AI in Society, Faith and TechnologyHashtags: #ArtificialIntelligence, #AIImpact, #HumanRelationships, #TrustIssues, #TechAndHumanity, #FatherAndJoe, #PodcastTalk, #SpiritualGuidance, #RelationshipSkills, #AIFears, #DigitalConnections, #AIContent, #TrueCommunication, #HumanInteraction, #FatherBonifaceHicks, #JoeRockey, #PersonalGrowth, #Spirituality, #TheologicalTalk, #AIChallenges, #FutureTech, #BusinessImpact, #SocialMedia, #OnlineInteractions, #RealHumanConnection, #LifeSkills, #TechGrowth, #AIethics, #DigitalCommunication, #AIGeneration, #RelationshipDynamics, #TechTrust, #SpiritualReflection, #RealVsFake, #NewTech, #HumanCreativity, #GenerativeAI, #AISociety, #FaithAndTechThis line is here to correct the site's formatting error.
We all know emotional maturity is essential for a healthy relationship—but how do you actually get there? In this episode of The Dr. Hyman Show, I talk with Diego Perez, the #1 New York Times bestselling author known as Yung Pueblo, about the small mindset shifts that can make a huge difference in how you show up for yourself and your partner. Drawing from his new book, How to Love Better, Diego shares how to stop repeating the same old patterns and start building relationships grounded in awareness, honesty, and real emotional growth. In this conversation, we explore: Why emotional maturity is the #1 skill for resolving conflict How letting go of control can lead to more trust, connection, and ease in your relationship How your old emotional patterns might be causing tension you don't even realize Why owning your emotions can help you avoid blame and grow together Simple mindset shifts that can make love feel more secure, stable, and honest Check out the episode for a practical, compassionate guide to loving better. View Show Notes From This Episode Get Free Weekly Health Tips from Dr. Hyman https://drhyman.com/pages/picks?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast Sign Up for Dr. Hyman's Weekly Longevity Journal https://drhyman.com/pages/longevity?utm_campaign=shownotes&utm_medium=banner&utm_source=podcast This episode is brought to you by Sunlighten, Timeline Nutrition, Paleovalley, and LMNT. Visit sunlighten.com and save up to $1400 on your purchase with code HYMAN. Support essential mitochondrial health and save 10% on Mitopure. Visit timeline.com/drhyman to get 10% off today. Get nutrient-dense, whole foods. Head to paleovalley.com/hyman for 15% off your first purchase. Get a free LMNT Sample Pack with any order—just head to drinklmnt.com/hyman.
In this episode, I'm talking about what's really been on my mind lately. First, we get into relationship skills—the ones many of us never learned and why so many people end relationships when things get hard. Then, a little culture check: what's going on with Meghan Markle, brand timing, and who gets the freedom to try (and fail) publicly. And finally, a reminder we didn't know we needed—why so many of us are starving for art, beauty, and aesthetics…and how they might just be the medicine we've been missing. Resources Mentioned: Your Brain on Art: How the Arts Transform Us Connect With Me: Website: myleik.com Instagram: @myleik Community: Myleik & Mommas Newsletter: Sign up here Substack Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices