Kinship Podcast

Kinship LIVE! In August, Bethany Baptist Church had its first women's conference. It was a joy to be present among women that wanted to be open and kill sin so that they aren't overtaken by it. We did our first live episode in front of a live audience. Also, we had more than two listeners!Show notes: Doctrine of Repentance- Thomas WatsonLife Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community- Dietrich Bonhoeffer 

Many would agree that having "the talk" or bringing up "the birds and the bees" with our children gives us a lump in our throat! How can we better tackle this necessary conversation and be faithfully discipling our children? Join us as we stumble through this topic.Show notes:God's Design for Sex series4 Principles for Talking to Your Kids About SexKids, Let's Talk About Sex- TGC

What's it like to be around others and get drained? Introverts know that feeling all too well! There are blessings of being an introvert but cons too. Since data shows there are more extroverts in society sometimes introverts can feel the struggle of keeping up with the the group. Join us as we talk about who's an introvert among us and what it looks like.4 Lies About Introverts- TGCHow Do Introverts Guard Against Selfishness?- Desiring GodThe Christian Introvert- Tim Challies

What's it like to be around others and get re-energized? Extroverts know that feeling all too well! There are blessings of being an extrovert but cons too. According to data there are more extroverts in society than introverts. Join us as we talk about who's an extrovert among us and what it looks like.Stree-Free Small Talk

Listening to people comes easy to some and difficult for others but essential to healthy relationships. How can we listen well to people in order to love them well? Listen in as we discuss how we struggle and we lean on Christ for help in order to listen well. Six Lessons in Good Listening-Desiring GodStress-Free Small Talk

We were asked by one of our sisters to talk about insecurity and the struggles (and blessings) that come with it. Join us as we feel insecure even about the topic! Lay Aside the Weight of Insecurity- Jon Bloom

Busyness is part of the American life. How about the church? Can believers balance being genuinely busy and able to make room for more? Come join us as we chat about how busy or non busy we are!Crazy Busy- Kevin DeYoungBusyness Is Not the Problem- Desiring God

 The pastor of the church is usually well connected but what about his wife? In many local churches there are many ideas of what the pastor's wife should do or be but are they encouraging to the body or hurtful? Join us after a LONG hiatus as we talk about our experience with being a pastor's wife. Thank you to our two listeners for hanging with us :)

The dreaded talk that we have to have with someone. We've all felt that at some point. How can we think about conflict in a helpful way? Join us as we compare notes and discuss our imperfect conflict resolutions. The dreaded talk that we have to have with someone. We've all felt that at some point. How can we think about conflict in a helpful way? Join us as we compare notes and discuss our imperfect conflict resolutions. Resources:Resolving Everyday Conflict by Ken Sande Your Family, God's Way: Developing and Sustaining Relationships in the Home Difficult Friendships Are Good for You

Being friends with like minded people is easy but God has also called us to live in a hostile world. Our family and friends might oppose God so then how should we engage them? Join us as we talk about loving others with Gospel truth. *technical difficulties for the first 7 mins*Tim Chester B.L.E.S.SThe Simplest Way to Change the World: Biblical Hospitality as a Way of Life by Dustin Willis and Brandon ClementsSaturate Jeff by VandersteltThe Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosario ButterfieldWisdom in Friendships with Non-Christians- Desiring God

In this episode we discuss male and female relationships. In our local churches we are called to be in covenant with our sisters and brothers but what does that look like? Maybe you feel uncomfortable around the opposite sex but want to grow in fellowship with brothers. How should you think about it? Or should you? Join us as we talk about our local church and friendships. 

The local church is filled with mothers of all sorts. But what about those women who haven't been able to bear children biologically? Infertility is lonely and painful. The local church can walk alongside these women and carry this burden. Join us and listen as we talk about the deep struggle of infertility.Resources:Care for Couples Struggling with InfertilityInfertility in the Arms of the ChurchThe Silent Struggle of Childlessness

Finding deep friendships in the local church can be a challenge. What can you do to cultivate those type of relationships? Whatever advice is given is easier said than done but something needs to happen in order to grow your relationships. Join us as we talk about not having deep friendships in the church.

Gathering with church family includes chilren. We know children are a blessing because God says so but how do we intentionally incorporate these "blessings" into our Sunday gathering? Join us as we talk about our kids and our local church.Show notes:Should Children Sit Through 'Big Church'?Our Home is Like a Little ChurchFamily Driven Faith: Doing What It Takes to Raise Sons and Daughters Who Walk with God10 Lessons on Parenting Big(ger) Kids

 It's been awhile but we are back! In this episode we talk about our engagement stories and things we learned--or didn't learn-- about this special season in dating/courting. It's good to be back.Show notes:Questions to Ask When Preparing for Marriage- John PiperDating for God's Glory part 1 of 3- PJ TibayanGospel Centered Marriage- Tim ChesterA premarital curriculum

Being a new mom is hard! There's tons of blessings embedded in motherhood too and seeing through the trials to enjoy Jesus Christ is essential. Join us as we take a stroll down memory lane and talk about our motherhood journey. 

For those married, what would you want to tell yourself in your first year of marriage? If you're not married but want to be, listen to us talk about some foolish struggles we had and learn from our failures! Join us at the table of life struggles.

 With the upcoming election, things seem tense. How about in our church? Is the church able to have conversations about politics? As difficult as it is we should be able to express our thoughts and feelings but with love and clarity. Join us as we unpack what politics looks like for us as we engage our local church. Show Notes: Prophetic Politics Podcast

Are we there yet? That's a familiar question when traveling to your family's planned "oasis." But will it be an oasis when everyone's already on edge? Despite it not being summer vacation anymore we thought it still would be helpful no matter the season! In this episode, we talk about the differences between a family vacation and a family trip. Show notes:The Disciple-Making Parent podcast: Thoughts for the Summer  

 In this episode, we discuss losing a loved one. Grieving is part of a process that looks different for everybody. As we grieve, we can lean on the local church family to help support and give us a place where we can mourn. 

We're back! Welcome to season 3! In this episode of Kinship Podcast, we think about cliques in the church. How do Christians keep close friendships and yet not leave people out? That's a hard balance. Join us as we discuss this common church issue. Show notes:John Piper- When the "Want To" and "Ought To" Don't Match

This isn't the best time to practice hospitality but when things settle down (Lord willing!) and we get more answers concerning Covid-19 we'll all be itching to be around others. Despite the social distancng, it's still a good topic to talk about and prepare for once confinement is over. It's been a while but hopefully we'll be back with more episodes in the near future.  

Taking the log out of your eye while removing the speck out of your brother's eye is a tall order. Who can rebuke well all the time? In this episode, we discuss confronting sin and the lessons we have learned and continue to learn.Resources:The Lion KingReframing Foster CareInstruments in the Redeemer's HandsThem-Why We Hate Each Other-and How to HealPolitics According to the BibleWhen Should You Confront Someone About Their Sin?The PeacemakerThe Beginner's Guide to Conflict Resolution

We like how Tim Challies explains it, "the family goes to public school" as opposed to "sending your children to public school." In this episode, we have a familiar guest back to discuss why her family chooses to go public. Resources:10 Lessons from 10 Years of Public SchoolingGoing PublicBook Review-Going PublicInterview with Jen Wilkin

What do married couples do to increase connection? There are lots to do but one thing we've enjoyed is dating our husbands. In this episode, we discuss what gets in the way of connecting in this way to what makes it quality time together.Resources:A Marriage ChecklistDate Your WifeDon't Put Your Hope in Date NightSex, Romance, and the Glory of GodYou Don't Need a Date Night

This episode might offend some, encourage others and discourage a few, we are not sure hoe it will fall on our friend's ears but this is an honest conversation among us women who vary in seasons of life, love our families, the Bible and strive to seek Christ first and His Kingdom. Join us as we tackle this sensitive topic.is it better for moms to stay at home?will you still work when the baby is born?Christian subculture and the stay-at-home-momwhat should a wife's priorities be?

"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." These biblical words offer great guidance as we handle money. In this episode, join us as we discuss how we manage our finances and think about them.Resources:Money, Possessions, and EternityFinancial Peace UniversityDebt Is Not a Money ProblemA Letter to Younger Me About MoneyThe Treasure Principle: Unlocking the Secret of Joyful Giving

On this episode, we talk about reading the Bible with various people. We briefly talk about our experiences and the blessing they have been.Resources:Six Questions to Ask When Studying the Bible in a GroupFaith Hacking: The Swedish MethodThe Bible ProjectRead the Bible with Someone Else: Four Benefits of Studying in CommunityOne-to-One Bible Reading

*Warning: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children. In episode 39, we discuss sexual abuse within the local church. The recently published Houston Chronicle article brought to light horrific data concerning sexual abuse and the churches cover up. The #MeToo Movement has ignited a fire of courage in women who have been kept silent. The Kinship ladies talk through these sensitive topics.Southern Baptist Their #MeToo MovementHow Can the Church Minister to Victims of Sexual Abuse?On Guard: Preventing and Responding to Child Abuse-Deepa RejuHouston Chronicle: Abuse of Faith

*WARNING: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children. In episode 38, we discuss Frances' sexual abuse story. We pray this topic can help other women deal with the repercussions of sexual abuse within their local church. Recovering from Child Abuse: Healing and Hope for VictimsSexual Abuse-CCEFShame Interrupted: How God Lifts the Pain of Worthlessness and RejectionGod Hates What Happened to YouDating and Marriage for the  Victims of Past Abuse

With happy hearts, we're proud to introduce our newest member to Kinship. We are now officially back to "four church sisters..." She even got Kelly's blessing. We hope you enjoy getting to know her. She's such a sweet blessing to us and we can't wait to share her with you all.

All the single ladies (All the single ladies) All the single ladies (All the single ladies). In this episode, we talk about being single and ready to mingle. No, we don't. We talk about the local church body and singleness. How does the local church serve and encourage our singles? Come along with us as we chat with our guest speaker Hannah.To the Church on Valentine's DaySingleness: A Personal TestimonySick of Singleness and Satisfied in Christ5 Misconceptions About SinglenessLove Thy Neighborhood-Where the Gospel Meets SinglenessNot Yet Married: The Pursuit of Joy in Singleness and Dating

To homeschool, or not to homeschool, that is the question. In this episode, we have a disclaimer towards homeschooling yet, we tease out both sides...at least as best we could! Homeschool Will Not Save Them3 Reasons Not to HomeschoolWhy I Do Not Homeschool (Part1)The Great Vision of Christian EducationHow to Create a Gospel-Centered Homeschool

The Scriptures remind us to consider how to stir each other up in love and good deeds. What and how should we be thinking in regards to Sunday morning as we gather with our local church family. Dive into the conversation with us as we sift through ideas.How Should Christians View Sunday?Why Do Christians Worship Together on Sundays?What Does It Mean Practically to Keep the Sabbath Holy?Spring Sports and Sunday Church

Sunday after Sunday we hear God's word preached and walk away either applying the text to our lives or forgetting what the point of the text was and how it applies to our lives. In this episode, we discuss not being hearers only but doers.Resources7 Ways to Become a Better Sermon ListenerTake Care How You Listen (free e-book)How to Listen to an Expository SermonHow To Listen To An (Expository?) Sermon

"Pure and undefiled religion before God the Father is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained from the world." James 1:27Our very own church sister Linda joins us as we discuss something dear to her heart. She pulls on our heartstrings and asks God to move in us and our churches to love the orphans. Get ready for some life changes people!Koinonia Family ServicesOlive Crest ServicesFoster LA KidsJason Johnson BlogFoster Care as the Way of Christ- articleAdopted for Life- bookAn Adoption Story

Our beloved Kelly returns to help us discuss how to leave a church. She shares the process they are currently in and the deciding factor. We were so thankful Kelly joined the conversation and for the short reunion. We pray this episode can be helpful for the local church. Resources: How to Leave Your Church WellIf You're Thinking About Leaving a Church7 Bad Reasons to Leave a ChurchWhen Should I Leave My Church?What to Say to Church Members Leaving for Bad ReasonsWhat Should I Look For In a Church?#7: Church Membership- Kinship PodcastWhen a Member Wants to Leave the Church- Shepherd LA

In this episode, we walk a tightrope as we balance social media. Join us as we handle this tough topic. This can be a touchy issue to deal with individually and within your local church family. Show notes:A Social Media Heart Check How Has Social Media Changed Bible ReadingThe Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness by Timothy KellerThe Liturgists Podcast (we don't necessarily agree doctrinally but a good episode)There are more resources about this topic, so read up and be encouraged!Kinship's social media accounts :)Twitter InstagramFacebook

Summer's over in our neck of the woods and that means it's time to get down to business. We begin with quick updates and talk about the new season ahead. Join us as we begin Season 2 of Kinship!

In episode 28, we share our experiences and struggles with learning how to live in joyful submission in our marriages.This is our final podcast before our summer break, so stay tuned for SEASON 2 coming in September! We want to thank you for all the support we have received throughout Season 1, and we hope you spend the summer in good conversation and fellowship with your church family! 6 Things Submission is Not What Women Want and What Obedience Gets I'm a Better Leader A Godly UnsubmissivenessSeeing Jesus on the Stage of Marriage Defining Submission and Headship within MarriageHappily Ever After 50 Crucial Questions About Manhood and Womanhood

* WARNING: contains sensitive topics not suitable for children.In episode 27, we discuss the trend of pornography addiction amongst women in the church and other sexual sins. We share our own struggles, experiences and think through how to relate to one another as we fight sexual sin together. 15 Ways to Fight Lust with the Sword of the SpiritTop 10 Books On Fighting PornStatistics: Christian Women and Porn Addiction Heart of Man- documentaryCovenant EyesBreaking Porngraphy AddictionThe Pain of Porn

In this episode, we discuss the progression of a dating relationship towards marriage. As a couple moves towards matrimony, things will evidently change. Time management, communication, and spiritual intimacy differ in each stage. Join us as we seek to unravel this topic. Back in episodes 3, 5, and 6 we delved into dating boundaries and marriage. Take a listen if you missed those episodes!

Since 1949, May is Mental Health Awareness Month. In honor of it, we invited our sister Sally to come and share her story. The mental health stigma harms our culture and our churches. The fear of not knowing how to help overwhelms the church family. Being known as a person with a mental disorder is a heavy burden. The truth of the gospel combats displaced identity and encourages hope. My Name is "Beloved": Finding Identity in Mental IllnessThe Root of Mental HealthNami (a secular organization)Biblical Counseling- ACBC blogTruth in Love PodcastChristian Counseling & Education Foundation (CCEF) PodcastA Theology of Biblical CounselingThe Biblical Counseling Guide for WomenInstruments in the Redeemer's Hands

In Episode 24 we discuss the "tasty" sin of gossip, and how to help one another avoid falling into this easy and harmful trap. We hope that sharing our struggle with this sin and discussing ways to fight it, is as helpful and encouraging to you as it was to us.Resources:Questions to Ask Before We GossipHow Can I Share Conflicts with My Spouse Without Gossiping?What Gossip Says About GodSlander- Worse Than You Think (sermon)

In episode 23, us wives recap the previous discussion between our husbands on lust. We discuss how we, as their spouses, help to fight it and how to navigate confession, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Caution: blatant language regarding sexual topics is used in this episode. 

In episode 22, the Kinship husband's come in to lend their perspective on the topic of lust. They discuss the sin of lust and how to fight it as married men and as Christian brothers. Caution: blatant language regarding sexual topics is used in this episode. Resources:15 Ways to Fight Lust with the Sword of the Spirit3 Biblical Strategies for Fighting LustSelf-Centered Sex part 1 Self-Centered Sex part 2 Sex, Romance, and the Glory of GodSex and the Supremacy of Christ

In episode 21, we discuss the difficulty of making hard decisions. As we all try to decide what is best, many things come into play. How do we as believers think through tough choices? How can we keep from being crippled over every decision? We hope this encourages your journey with your local church.Resources:Why Making Decisions Is So HardHow Do I Make Decisions That Please God?A Prayer for Wisdom and PeaceHow Much of My Decision-Making is Emotional?Knowing God's Will-Recommended ResourcesJust Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's WillFinding God's Will-J.I. PackerGuidance-Capitol Hill Baptist Church, Core Seminar

In this episode, we speak loosely about the idea of getting your church ladies together for the purpose of fellowship and eating good food. For some of us, food HAS to be involved. Sometimes the plan will fail, other times it'll succeed, either way, the effort is not lost if there's a simple goal in mind. How do we plan ahead to get together with other ladies we'd normally not feel gravitated towards? Or set time aside despite our busy schedule? Join us as we share our ideas and get your juices flowing for your local church unity. 

In episode 19 we answer questions from listeners, cast our own movies, and talk through the issue of anxiety in our own lives and broader culture as a whole. What does anxiety look like? How can we as Christians support brothers and sisters who struggle? What even is the Kinship email address anyway? All this and more coming your way, enjoy! (articles)Fear & AnxietySome Things You Should Know About Christians Who Struggle With AnxietyAnxiety: My Thorn in My FleshFrom Anxiety to Peace(books)Blame It On the BrainAnger, Anxiety and Fear: A Biblical PerspectiveThe Biblical Counseling Guide for WomenRunning Scared(podcasts)The Bible and Anxiety-Association of Certified Biblical CounselorsChristians and Psychiatric Medicationvarious topics-Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation

In episode 18, we talk through worshiping God in our homes with our families. We discuss the many different ways to incorporate this precious time into family routines and use it to praise the Lord while encouraging our spouses and training our children. We hope you are encouraged by what you hear. Resources:Leading Family Worship5 Reasons to Prioritize Family WorshipFamily Worship- Laying the Foundation for Heart-Centered ParentingA Baptist CatechismThe New City CatechismThe Jesus Storybook BibleThe Big Picture Story BibleThe Action BibleThe Biggest StorySticky SituationsDangerous Journey: The Story of Pilgrim's ProgressOur Home Is Like a Little Church

In this episode, we share stories and examples of God's grace to us through our fathers. We recognize that each of our relationships with our fathers is unique and encompass both positive and negative experiences. However, we also recognize that they are used by God to teach us many important lessons. By sharing these lessons with our sisters in Christ, we can grow in understanding of one another as sisters and as people. We hope you enjoy these stories as much as we did.