The Winning Single Mom

It's "Relationship Week" here on the podcast and in today's episode of Mom Talk, I thought I'd share a little bit of my story AND my love of K-dramas. Spoiler Alert: I share the not so glamorous way I became a single mom and I don't let that define me. I'm also hoping you see no matter what your story that you can live past it and go on to have the life and love you want. Every relationship, I challenge the man interested in me to love me for who I am. I also make room to do the same.Listen, you do not want to miss this episode. It's a mix of hindsight is 2020 mixed with grace. We all need to give ourselves more grace for the decisions we've made and the people we've picked (whether or not on purpose) to father our children. They're here, we're here, let's make a good life.We don't always get to choose how life turns out, but we do get to choose what we do with it. Tune in and share your thoughts. I'd love to know what you think. Next week, we'll hear from a female relationship coach but don't forget to check out the previous episode with Jay Hurt. He dropped some nuggets that will bless you in love and business. And remember sis, you are worthy.Connect with Kaywanda at KaywandaLamb.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In today's episode, I interview Jay Hurt, Relationship Strategist, Chief Operating Officer at The Academy of Creative Coaching, and Mastermind Trainer. Simply put, Jay is a man you need to know. We discuss relationships of all kinds, dating, marriage, and business. Jay shares why he loves helping single parents deepen their understanding of how to find a relationship that's right for them. As a former single dad himself, he knows exactly what we've experienced. Jay Hurt is a phenomena relationship coach, and I love his practical wisdom that you can tell he thinks a lot before he speaks. Listen in and be inspired by all the wisdom Jay has picked up over the years. Jay impressed me so much that I invited him to be on a panel for my first “Brunch and Love Relationship Soiree” in 2017. We also discuss connecting with other entrepreneurs, building social capital, and how to get “put on.”Tips for networking:Figure out who aligns with your valuesBuilding community Building REAL relationships leads to REAL friendshipsBe who you areFocus on ONE thing that moves the needle in your life and businessThen, we discuss “How to fit love into your life” as a busy single mom.His tips to fit love into your life:Be comfortable with adjusting what you need in different seasonsFace what you believeFind the issue that's keeping you from wanting to date again or being afraid of datingDon't be afraid to seek help with a therapist or a relationship coachWatch your energy because you could be repelling potential matesAnd so much more! Get this tea, mama.We mention a few men I think you should check out. Each of these men we both hold in high esteem and support their work in the world. Paul C. Brunson, Lamar Tyler, Tieron Spear (not worried about vanity metrics, this millionaire puts in work and is hard to find on the internet), and Derrick Jaxson.Listen, this episode gets to the heart of the matter, and I hope it truly blesses you to think about your stance on relationships. Give yourself grace, mama. No pressure. No rush. But if you're ready, take the nuggets that bless you and go get it. Sis! Real love exists!We'd love to hear what you thought about today's episode. Let us know on social what you thought and please continue to share the podcast with moms you know. You're worthy.Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In this episode, Kaywanda discusses how you can do both and reminds you that you get to choose. What does this mean? Well, you can raise your babies well AND chase your dreams. You can do what you want in your career and love life AND raise strong, well-loved babies. Single parenting can be like drinking from a water hose. That, by the way, if you've done it, is almost impossible. The water comes out fast, gets all over the place, and drips downward missing your mouth if the pressure is too slow. LOL! A struggle. But, it is possible. And so, you may have some challenges, a full plate, some folks and things to cut out of your life, but if you focus, you CAN do both.Stop waiting for perfection and live the life you want right now. You can do both. You get to choose.Tune in for some Mom Talk and inspiration to get going on your dreams. And, please rate and review the podcast if it is speaking to you in this season. We love knowing that it's impacting you and helping you get further faster. Learn more about Kaywanda at KaywandaLamb.comSupport the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In this episode, I chat with Kiaundra Jackson, America's Relationship Therapist. We discuss why she decided to become a relationship therapist, how she worked hard to get her brand seen by some of the top media outlets in the world, prioritizing mental health, and exactly what you should be focusing on while dating as a single mom. Yep! This episode is going to give you business nuggets as well as help you get your love life together. Let's get into it.Kiaundra shares how she ended up taking the plunge to be and entrepreneur and leaving her 9 to 5. She shares how her life looks different today and she gets to speak on stages with thousands of people in attendance, help people restore relationships, prevent divorce, and more all because she took a meeting with a friend and the rest is history. She discusses her big leap to trust God and live in her fullest potential. Now, she's been on The Doctors numerous times and was voted one of he most influential therapists in the U.S. We discuss what it took for her to get here and how you to should be encouraged to fulfill your dreams.Then, we tackle the age-old question, “Do black people have mental health issues?” “Do we need therapy or do we just need Jesus?” Ummm... yes, we do. Therapy is good and sometimes we do need to talk to professionals who can help us through some of the toughest situations we can imagine. Kiaundra shares why mental health needs to no longer be a stigma in the AA community and how seeing a therapist is good. We then get into relationships. Ayyy!!! So, Kiaundra shares tips on dating for single women who feel they have it all together except in the relationship area. Hint: Enjoy the season you're in. Kiaundra says your singlehood is a time to get yourself together physically, financially, spiritually, and mentally. Live and enjoy your life and go where the kind of guy you want hangs out. Hmmm, that's some good tea right there.Wow! I enjoyed this conversation. Kiaundra is so full of wisdom. Her hunger for life is amazing and the nuggets she dropped are life-giving. Be sure to check out her free relationship course and follow her on social.Links:Visit Kiaundra on social and on her website: https://kiaundrajackson.com  And, sign up for her FREE relationship course to learn the 3 relationship killers and how to avoid them in  The Relationship Goals CourseHer books: Staying Sane in an Insane WorldThe Art of RelationshipsThanks again for tuning in. We hope you enjoyed this conversation. So many nuggets. Please share this podcast with women you know who could use some amazing wisdom and real talk about what it takes to build a business or side hustle while raising your family. Until next time, I hope this has helped you go further faster!Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In this episode of Mom Talk, Kaywanda shares why you must absorb the idea of giving yourself grace. This single parenting journey is one filled with lots of new beginnings and sometimes hard things that happen all at once. But, if you can learn to add in grace for yourself and for your kids, you'll find that you'll enjoy your life a whole lot more and you'll discover so much about you and your babies.Kaywanda discusses what grace is and shares some of her own hangups and scenarios with her children to help you get further faster by grasping that you can do this just not all at once. And grace is for the journey.Be good to yourself and your babies. Love on you! Keep showing up and showing yourself grace. Suggested reading:-The Holy Bible (choose a version that speaks to you. I use the Amplified and KJV/NKJV)-The Purpose Driven Life by Pastor Rick Warren-Parent, Thrive, Win! A 31 Devotional for Courageous Single Moms by Kaywanda LambSuggested Practices:-Journal your thoughts-Get organized, make a plan, give yourself grace-Revisit your goals, dreams, redraft if neededSuggested Viewing/Listening:-Listen to the past 3 Mom Talks (Winning as a single mom/Mindset, Finances, and Organization)-Kaywanda's Periscope and YoutubeHave an amazing day! Thank you for tuning in. If this episode blessed you, please subscribe, rate the podcast, and share it with your community. Somebody needs to hear that we single moms have a space just for us to help us grow professionally and personally. Talk to you soon!Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In this episode, Kaywanda interviews Brian J. Olds of Black Speakers Network. Brian shares why he felt there was a need to create Black Speakers Network, how he got the idea, and why this network exists. Brian goes on to share his 5 step framework from BSN which is the 5 M's: Mission, Message, Marketing, Monetize, and Management. He also explains what you need to learn right now to get started speaking for free.This episode is FULL of nuggets about how to get started speaking and how to build a long-lasting speaker brand, what you need to have in place, and where you can go for support. Listen to this episode with a pen and paper, sis. So many good nuggets for new and experienced speakers. Even if you're not black, this episode is super valuable.He then breaks down how to know what you can talk about for the next ten years. Hint: 3 things: passion, expertise, and marketing demand. He shares this process so you can figure out your special speaker brand sauce using a Venn diagram. He calls the intersection of these 3 your “Speaker Sweet Spot.”This conversation was so good. Be sure to check Brian out at BlackSpeakersNetwork.com Join the BSN Facebook group and look up the book, Speak Up! I have a copy of it and it is LIFE! I'm also a silver member and I paid for the annual membership after this interview. I cannot believe the value I get for the price he charges. The community is awesome. Note: This episode was recorded in 2019 pre-COVID. Be sure to follow Brian and BSN to keep up with future live and virtual events and join his free community. He gives every member the opportunity to speak.Links to Things we mentioned to help you:Join the Black Speakers Network Facebook groupBSN WebsiteGrab your copy of “Speak Up! The Ultimate Guide to Dominate in the Speaking Industry” with the foreword from Dr. George Fraser and Afterword by Les Brown.Brian's tip for speakers: “If you think you can do better than the speakers you're listening to, do it.”Whatever you do, just get started. Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

Welcome to the latest episode of Mom Talk. Today, I discuss how and why you must “Organize Your Life.” I discuss the four areas in which every single mom needs to get organized. If you want your life to run smoother, you've got to do something about it. Tune in for some quick tea to help you take organization bit by bit in what I call your "FCLM." This episode is short, it's sweet, and it's powerful. Hey girl hey! Since you're here, please go ahead and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Mom Talk is every Thursday and Every Tuesday, I interview a boss entrepreneur to help you get further faster in your business. If you haven't, listen to the previous episodes. They are FIRE. No for real. Really good information from women entrepreneurs who's real talk will help you level up faster.Need a planner? Why not order the Single Mom Success Planner at KaywandaLamb.com/shop It'll bless you with 3 layouts to help you balance mom life, work-life, and your dreams. Woo!And don't forget to do your homework. Getting organized is a process. Take the first step and assess what's not working, get help, make a plan, and take action. You can do this!I'll talk to you soon!Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

 In this episode, I interview legit Shopify Master, Vivian Kaye. Vivian is a single mother, an immigrant, a college dropout, AND a successful entrepreneur. We discuss her pivot from one successful business to her current company KinkyCurlyYaki.com. Vivian shares how to know when to pivot, how she came up with the idea for the company, and how she catapulted it to 7 figures. This didn't happen overnight and Vivian has had her challenges. But, she wants to inspire you and says "if she can do it, you can do it." We discuss bouncing back from divorce, life, parenting her son while building these businesses, dating, self-love, healing, and preparing for the next good love in your life. So, tune in for this good tea.  She is a Shopify master because she's sold more than a million on that platform. Since we last talked, Vivian has gone on to even more massive success. Her smile is infectious and her business insight is unmatched. She's unapologetic about her success, loves her son with all she has and is one of the most authentic brands I've seen. Vivian shows every day how you can truly be a winning single mom and accomplish your goals and dreams.See links below to connect with Vivian:Follow her on Instagram @itviviankayeVivian's FABULOUS natural hair website: KinkyCurlyYaki.comWatch her interview with Shopify. It will bless you.All her links in one placeThis was a special interview. Vivian is a BOSS mom, but she made time to support me and you with her nuggets of wisdom. We laughed like old friends because we have a common goal in mind- educate women. Please remember to subscribe to the podcast and invite a friend to listen by sharing on social media. I pray this episode blesses you to start your own empire or continue working your dream. And like Vivian, may you show up no matter what to make it work.Support the show

Welcome to the 2nd episode of Mom Talk. In this episode, Kaywanda Lamb, The Winning Single Mom discusses how to get your money foundation right starting with a recap of mindset. She then discusses checking your money story and lays out 4 steps to focus on to build a firm foundation. Kaywanda also shares how she paid off 10 credit cards in 2 years using her Mama Money Cashflow System found in her Single Mom Success Bundle. She also shares books that she's read that led to shifting her money mindset. See links below. “I want you to win in every area of your life. Before you start a business, fix your relationship with money.”Kaywanda shares why she lives on the 80-10-10 principle and why you should, too. This is definitely an episode every single mom should tune in to. Utilize the resources, absorb the wisdom, and apply it to your life.As you face your situation and make a plan to fix it, you will see where you have room to invest in yourself, start your business, and build a legacy for your family.Resources mentioned in this episode:The Single Mom Success Bundle (includes 13 resources to help you balance your budget and organize your life as a single mom)The Automatic Millionaire by David BachResources that helped Kaywanda along the way:Prayer, Jesus, faith, never giving up (yes, keep these #1)Dave Ramsey- The debt snowball methodBankrate.com to compare prices on loans, credit cards, bank interest rates, mortgage loans, etc.Blog posts about finances and the single mom:5 Money Habits You Need to Break Now That You're a Single Mom10 Uncommon Ways Single Moms Can Keep More Money in Their Pockets5 Ways to Earn Extra Money as a Single Mom7 Things You Must Do When You Become a Single MotherHey mama, you can do this! Do the homework Kaywanda asks you to do in this episode and you will see change in your life and in your bank account. Need one on one support? Kaywanda offers life, budget, and business coaching to single mothers. Connect with her for a discovery call to see if her coaching plans or courses are right for you at KaywandaLamb.com.Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

In this episode, I sit down with Stacey Ferguson co-founder of BeBlogalicous.com and coach, speaker, and brand strategist at JusticeFergie.com. Blogalicious is a multicultural blogger conference for women of color. We discuss how to be a multi-passionate entrepreneur, the mindset behind building a huge blogger conference that had never been done before, why diversity and inclusion matters, and why it was so important to her over the ten year run of Blogalicious to have space for women who looked like her.We also discuss partnering with others to excel further faster and how to always give your audience what they want. She shares how she's sealed some major deals with sponsors and magical partnerships. And it's not as hard as you think!This is a two-part interview with amazing nuggets. If you are a blogger or want to start a blog, hearing Stacey's journey and insight will bless you. We also touch on challenges to live events and how she overcame planning a major conference when a hurricane happened in her host city. Wherever you are in the process, do not let small beginnings discourage you. Share your uniqueness with your tribe.Stacey Ferguson has been featured in FastCompany.com, Inc.com, Entrepreneur.com, Southern Living, EBONY, The Washington Post, Black Enterprise, and on NPR, The Tom Joyner Morning Show, Mashable, FOX, The Root, and more, Stacey is a sought-after influencer coach, media personality, digital brand strategist, content creator, public speaker, and Chief Curator of the Be Blogalicious community and conferences celebrating diversity among women in social media.  As Founder of Justice Fergie Lifestyle Media, she combines media, publishing, coaching & events to inspire women to live richly, with strategies for life design and turning personal passions into viable brands.  She is also a technology and advertising attorney by trade and regularly consults with entrepreneurs, startups, and established brands on digital and brand strategy.  Stacey is a wife, and mother of 3 and lives in the DC Metro Area.Connect with Stacey at Beblogalicious.com and JusticeFergie.com.Support the show

In this episode, I continue my conversation with Stacey Ferguson of BeBlogalicous, a multicultural conference for bloggers of color. We discuss how to be a multi-passionate entrepreneur, the mindset behind building a huge blogger conference that's never been done before, we chat diversity and inclusion and why it was so important to her over the ten year run of Blogalicious, and we discuss how to be yourself in business and be okay about it.Stacey is known for building amazing relationships with HUGE brands and being able to show you how to do it, too. She teaches what she's learned over the last decade so that you see how your audience is valuable to brands and others who want to partner with you. “Brands don't sponsor you because you're cute. Your platform is a valuable marketing tool,” Stacey Ferguson. Well, BAM! That's good. It is important that whoever you partner with respects your audience and wants to see them succeed. Leveraging your audience with a brand's initiative to find a win-win is key. Stacey hosts sponsorship training, and I am a proud taker of said course. I share how Stacey's training helped me gain sponsorship for my last brunch. Woo! Tune in for these juicy tips from Stacey. She goes in-depth on how to decide WHO to partner with. And how she gets her family involved in helping her conference be a success.We then talk being present as a mom, balancing full-time work, finding time for herself, and balancing it all with this big dream of hosting a blogger conference for multi-passionate multicultural women. Have your pen and paper ready. Today's episode is really good. It was great to connect and listen to all her wisdom. Pull out what you need and implement what you can. Think outside the box for events during this season. Online events still need sponsors. Happy connecting and being multi-passionate!Connect with Stacey at http://justicefergie.com and find out more about Blogalicious at http://beblogalicious.com P.S. Hey girl, hey! Please subscribe to the podcast if you love what you're hearing and share this podcast with your network. I appreciate you sooo much! I'll see you Thursday for our Momchat episode! I'm talking finances. Get ready!!! Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

Welcome to Episode 02 of The Winning Single Mom Podcast! In this episode, podcast host, Kaywanda Lamb sits down for "Mom Talk." She discusses how to shift your mindset and prepare to win. As single mothers, we experience countless challenges, but we need to know how to shift our thinking to reshape our reality. Kaywanda lays out how to shift your mindset by focusing on your faith and your vision for your life. She discusses how to dream again if you have lost your way and why you getting to your NEXT level is so important.Kaywanda shares her Single Mom Success Planner as a resource to help you envision your next year and break your goals into 90-day increments. She also recommends you do a physical representation of your vision by creating a vision board. She then challenges listeners to reshape their reality by adjusting their actions now that could be holding them back from the success they desire.Preparing to Win:1. Reshape your vision2. Write the vision3. Create the vision4. Get focused5. Release the negative6. Embrace the new7. Stop hiding8. Take steps to make it happen9. Focus on your faith10. Keep going"In order to have the success you want, you're gonna have to do something differently"- Kaywanda Lamb.Kaywanda also shares some not so pretty moments in her past and encourages you if you're in that season to snap out of it. This is a must-listen episode. It'll get you fired up to make a plan for your future and prepare for your business and personal life to thrive! Tune in to be inspired and empowered.Resources mentioned in this episode to help catapult you to destiny:The Single Mom Success Planner a planner designed specifically for single moms. Includes affirmations, space to prioritize your to-do list AND your dreams, self-care, monthly goal check-ins, success notes, 3 views in one planner. And, so much more.To get one on one coaching support with Kaywanda, Sign up for a discovery call here.Other suggested resources for moms who are wanting to know God's vision for them:1. The Purpose Driven Life by Pastor Rick Warren changed my life as a young single mom. It helped me go deeper into why I'm here, and it helped me see that no matter what I'd gone through, I had purpose. As you push to create a new vision and figure out your why this book will help you understand God (if you're a Christian) on a deeper level. 2. Mindset by Carol Dweck To learn more about what mindset is and how to shift your mindset to a growth mindset instead of a fixed one, this book is a bestseller that I read and have on my shelf. 3. Instinct by Bishop T.D. Jakes As I was writing my first book, I knew I was being called into destiny. This book was a page-turner for me and I believe every person of faith pursuing entrepreneurship should read it.Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)

Meet Tara Darnley, CEO and Co-Founder of Darlyng & Co. Show Notes:In this episode, we discuss how to balance it all and raise a family. Is balance real especially while running a million-dollar brand? Find out as Tara discusses balance and her goal-setting process to achieve attainable goals. Tara gives tips on how to start your business to ensure it's profitable. And, she dishes on how she started her million-dollar lifestyle brand to fit her newborn baby's teething needs at just 2 months old. And we find out what encouraged them to go all in and make this brand a success. And, we discuss how to launch before you're ready.Also, for more inspiration and real talk from Tara, please check out Tara's community and podcast for entrepreneurs: Dreams Inspire Reality. Tara and her babies are seen in one of Amazon's latest commercials because she is a TOP seller on Amazon. Not only can she teach you HOW to get your product into Amazon and to sell at the top of its category, but she can also teach you to get in stores as she's done countless times. Buckle up and have your notepad. This one is going to be good!Tara's tips for organizing her ideas:1. Write it down. Organize ideas2. Set Your Time framePrioritize your task list3. Know what can solve a problem or be beneficial to you in the long run and do that.“If it don't make money, it don't make sense.” -Ms. RobbyWe didn't get to discuss it all but if you want to be a major product producer for Amazon or get in Walmart and retail, look up Tara. She is a sweetheart and a brilliant businesswoman.Visit Tara at dreamsinspirereality.com and https://www.darlyngandco.comTara has a Facebook group for budding and serious entrepreneurs where she drops wisdom every week to help you win. Look her up and request to join- Dreams Inspire Reality Facebook Group.Was that good or what? Yassss! Tune in for the next entrepreneur and my thoughts on single parenting and creating a life you love while building a legacy.Links to Things we mentioned to help you:-Blue Ocean Strategy book is by W. Chan Kim and Renee Mauborgne-Lamar Tyler of Blackandmarriedwithkids.com also has a Facebook group called Traffic, Sales, and Profit, and he serves as a mentor and coach to entrepreneurs of color. Support the show

Meet Kaywanda Lamb, author, speaker, business coach, and serial entrepreneur. Her favorite title is "mama" which her two boys Syon and Kamron call her. Kaywanda discusses why she started the podcast and what she hopes to accomplish by sharing interviews with well known and rising entrepreneurs. Tune in for some encouragement and a look at what's ahead. Kaywanda hopes to inspire single mothers all over the world to pursue every endeavor their heart desires and to raise great babies in the process.Kaywanda is the author of two amazing self-help books for single moms, "Do It Anyway! The Single Mom's Guide to Living Life and Achieving Her Goals" and "Parent, Thrive, Win: A 31 Day Devotional for Amazing Single Moms Who Know God Has Called Them to Be More." Get these her life-changing books at KaywandaLamb.com/shop or on Amazon. Kaywanda has devoted the last 7 years to coaching, inspiring, and uplifting single mothers. She believes it is her life's purpose, and she hopes to share tips on thriving as a single mom as well as in business in this podcast. The website for the podcast is TheWinningSingleMom.com Sign up for the email newsletter and be notified of the website launch and special surprises. We hope you love the podcast. Check back every Tuesday for new entrepreneur interviews and every Thursday for Mom Talk with Kaywanda.Support the show (https://cash.app/$KaywandaLamb)