Cocktails With Carly & Toks OGun

We all know dating is hard in 2022 but what if there was a better way? On this episode of CWCTO we talk to Mr International Raj @rajatdashrath. We discuss how arranged marriages work and what are the benefits, are you exclusive, how long does it take, single parents in India and interracial dating in the Indian Community. Thanks to our guest Raj @rajatdashrath for talking us about Indian Culture Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications __________________________________________________________________________________ Click The Link Below to Listen To Full Episodes On Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and iHeartRadio https://linktr.ee/CWCTO _________________________________________________________________________________ #CocktailsWithCarlyAndToksOgun

We all know dating is hard in 2022! On this episode of CWCTO we talk to Cory about finding his way dating as a young man. He's got all the confidence anyone could ever need and he tells us how he went from being a young man who didn't have a lot of money and couldn't provide some of the things he girl wanted to having money and questioning why he should be with certain types of women. He's definitely come into his own and is accessing his many options. We also discuss Lori Harvey and her many choices, what it's like as a man to have expectation thrust upon you and the differences with BBLs. On this Episode of #CWCTO, we had the pleasure of hosting Corey Smiff Thank you @iamcoreysmiff for joining us to candidly discusses these topics! Watch us on YOUTUBE

When it comes to developing relationships, foundational values is one of the most critical aspects. Although we grow up differently, being a product of your environment is necessarily a bad thing. It's what you absorb, alter and or adjust during the growth process is what shapes you and how you project and carry yourself in relationships. On this Episode of #CWCTO, we had the pleasure of hosting seasoned Television Entertainment Guru Dax!! A special thank you our guest Dax for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. Click HERE to watch the full episode On Our YouTube Channel, Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com  Follow Us On Instagram @CWCTO1   Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_   Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

On this Episode of #CWCTO, we hosted the one and only comedian The Kiana Dancie! Topic: A Woman Can Not Play Her Role Of She Doesn't Have A Man That's Willing To Play His… Strong woman are created based off of men that have failed them! A special thank you to our guest The Kiana Dancie for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. Tap HERE to watch the full episode On Our YouTube Channel. Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow Us On Instagram @CWCTO1 Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_ Toks @toksogun

On this episode of Cocktails With Carly & Toks Ogun... The Fall of Raise and Fall of Kevin Samuels Black Women are not rejoicing they are Relieved…. Kevin Samuels rose to social media fame posting and offering controversial relationship and dating advice, volunteering highly critical remarks about women — many of whom were Black — determining their “value” based on their appearance, age, income and number of children. Kevin was known amongst some as “telling it like it is” but was he really!? What has this done in our community besides create yet another form of cultural division!? Did we completely disagree with Kevin- NO, but without a doubt his disparaging behavior towards Black women sparked a newly found disrespect for women interested in perusing a man of class… or “high value”. Also, subscribe and view the to visual interview on YouTUBE at Cocktails with Carly and Toks OGun. For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com  Follow Us On Instagram @CWCTO1   Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_   Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

On this Episode of Cocktails With Carly and Toks OGun, we chatted it up with “Mr. Get Your Girl FIT”…Personal trainer to your faves, Mr. X FACTOR!!!! X shared his dating views and cleared up some of the misconceptions of being a trainer to primarily women…how he curves mixing business with pleasure and so much more!!! A special thank you our guest @_xfactorfit for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. Watch us on YOUTUBE

On this Episode of Cocktails With Carly And Toks OGun, the lovely playboy model and video vixen Chafera joins us to discuss how she's adjusting to a NEW LIFE & new lifestyle! The gorgeous mother of 3 weighed in on her dating, her business ventures and sooo much more!!!  A special thanks to our guest @MarriamChafera for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. TAP HERE TO VIEW THIS EPISODE ON OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL! YEA WE GOT THE VISUALS!  For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com   Follow our host on Instagram   @cocktailswithcarly_   @toksogun   --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Are Men Truly Maintaining Finances While Dating? On this Episode of Cocktails With Carly And Toks OGun, Financial Advisor Emanuel Jones joins us to discuss the steps for dating while managing finances. Endless dates are expensive for men and women. People have to choose between living a certain lifestyle which is attractive or focusing on their future. A special thank you our guest @mrjonesfinance for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. Tap HERE to watch the full episode On Our YouTube Channel. Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow Us On Instagram @CWCTO1 Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_ Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

On This Episode Of Cocktails with Carly and Toks OGun Felix Jean joined us to discuss the steps to finding the love of his life and how sustaining that diverse union is the foundation of their love. The Pro Black Love, Cigar and Men's Style devotee's secret to love lasting love and understanding….Listening to listen not respond!! Felix Jean's recommendation to all in the dating world today…Date with intention and purpose for the best results! A special thank you our guest Felix Jean with @barsandcigarsatl for joining us to candidly discuss these topics. Click HERE to watch the full episode On Our YouTube Channel, Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow Us On Instagram @CWCTO1 Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_ Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

On this Episode of Cocktails With Carly And Toks Ogun We Are Joined By Massage Therapist Barron of Better Body Atl. He lets us in on some of his freaky secrets and sessions, and gives us insight on sexual pleasures women desire and are willing to pay top dollar for!!     To book Barron for the Adult Massage Experience and check out other services he provides tap HERE for his website.  Click HERE to watch the full episode On Our YouTube Channel, Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications  Follow Us on Instagram  @CWCTO1  For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com  Follow our host on Instagram  Carly @cocktailswithcarly_  Toks @toksogun  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Finding A Deeper Meaning Through Spiritual Healing and Guidance with @AmalgamDivinityGlo CLICK HERE TO WATCH THIS EPISODE On Our YouTube Channel, Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications Follow Us on Instagram @CWCTO1 For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_ Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Maaaaannnnn…. We had a BALL with one of Atlanta's TOP eligible bachelors and Celebrity Chefs to your favs… the one and only Chef Joe! Chef shared some of his never heard before dating experiences, turn on and offs, career in music prior to becoming a chef and so much more…on the latest episode of CWCTO TuneIN!!! Special Thanks to our guest @theofficialchefjoe for joining us and being open to discuss these topics. Swing over to his Instagram and tap that Follow button! CLICK HERE TO WATCH THIS EPISODE On Our YouTube Channel, Like, Subscribe, and Hit The Bell To Turn On Those Post Notifications Follow Us on Instagram @CWCTO1 For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow our host on Instagram Carly @cocktailswithcarly_ Toks @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

What if unhappily married couples had an OUT without divorce…renewed marriage license!? Side chick expiration…is cheating a hobby or a lifestyle. The difference in a date or DATING!!! And so much more!!! For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram @cwcto1 Follow our host on Instagram @cocktailswithcarly_ @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Special Thanks to our guest @tennisgem for joining us and being open to discuss these topics. Swing over to her Instagram and tap that Follow button!   For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com  Follow our host on Instagram  @cocktailswithcarly_  @toksogun  @cwcto1

Special Thanks to our guest @thekyndracrumpshow for joining us and being open to discuss these topics. Swing over to her Instagram and tap that Follow button!  For guest inquiries, questions, or if you have any topics you would like for us to discuss, email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com Follow Us on Instagram @cwcto1  Follow our host on Instagram @cocktailswithcarly_ @toksogun 

Why do people that appear to be successful automatically get the trust pass. People should focus on a connection instead of looking for something better… know how to decipher the difference. Do your friends influence who you date… and so much more!!! TuneIN! @cwcto1 @cocktailswithcarly_ @toksogun @paris.simone --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

What a multifaceted subject that may require a Part 2! Are we sick of standing in brunch lines for 2hrs to only in turn get a mediocre dining experience!? What about being overcharged and under serviced… This is a must listen…. Follow us on Instagram @CWCTO1 Follow the Host on Instagram @CocktailsWithCarly_ and @ToksOgun If you would like to be a guest on our show, or have any questions, comments, or suggestions on topics you would like us to discuss email us at CWCTO100@gmail.com

Infused conversations with the The Tastebud King himself! All edibles and infusions are not created equal! Quality vs “But it's from Cali”. Atlanta's very own...Tastebud King aka The Scientist sat with us as we dove into the world of understanding edibles, consumption limitations and more! Of course what would CWCTO be without discussing the latest...How do you accept an engagement from a man you barely know that's already married and his wife happen to be in your friend group!? Sheeesh... on the next episode of CWCTO!! TuneIN on all streaming platforms. A special Thank you to @tastebudking

In todays world there are many pressures that we deal with in a relationship, different people have different values, levels of life people want to attain and specific things that people want in their significant other. This world is said to be ruled by men and the power is mostly for women to take. Do women agree and what is fight the power for female empowerment? As a man do u feel the pressures of having this power and feel the need to live a certain life style. As a woman do they also feel these pressures, do they need a high value man that is living these high lifestyle to maintain things. Many complications happen because of this discussion, therefore should a man even feel complete if he doesn't have a woman by his side.

Happy Birthday to all of our February and March Pisces! Cocktails with Carly was surprised with her very own birthday episode where she highlighted being 40 & Fortunate! Tune in... Carly was dropping some lifestyle nuggets. Shout out to Toks Ogun and The Complicated Gentleman for hosting this milestone episode.

Happy Black History Month beautiful people! In our latest and most current episode we had to highlight and pay homage to the lovely Cicely Tyson. Of course, in true CWCTO fashion, we jumped right into our politically not to correct Shenanigans! Discussing everything from,...but not limited to: Why are men seen as the head of the household? Why aren't women happy with going 50/50 on the bills?! To wondering... Could we be facing gender wars? Are both men and women rebelling against the Double Standard? Whew... we also went in depth on dating outside your race...and if the N words come up how do you respond?! Off limits or you could careless! Some believe Black men/ women more of a fetish appose to having true interest...hmm... and MORE! Whew... let us know what you think... we'll be dropping more show inserts on our IG @toksogun @cocktailswithcarly_ Our girl @thexaviera joined us for #cocktailsandconversation as we shared insight from different perspectives. It's interesting y'all... In celebration of Black History we present the COCKTAIL of the week: Stinger–Country Club Style Use a large Mixing glass; fill with Lump Ice. 1 jigger Old Brandy. 1 pony white Creme de Menthe. Shake well; strain into Cocktail glass and serve. [jigger=1.5 ounces] [pony=1 ounce] I prefer a two to one ratio of even more brandy to menthe. No matter the proportions, the stinger has been seen sipped in the swankiest New York nightspots and remains a classic the world over. Enjoy! #cocktailswithcarlyandtoksogun

Can you date yours friends Ex? The 3 states of sex. People who can only have sex with an emotional connection. Does everyone want to have a relationship and get married.

We had a ball on the latest episode! We celebrated a monumental point in history by witnessing the 1st African American and Indian FEMALE Vice President, Kamala Harris be sworn into office along with everyone's Fav- President Joe Biden! WE DID JOE!! Redefining what an eligible man or women look like... dating with or without kids? Does it matter? Are women more susceptible to forgiving their spouse for emotional cheating vs physical cheating?! You'll be surprised with the responses on this one! Do you feel like you HAVE to see your partner everyday? Or seeing them 1-2 times a week good enough?! We also discussed how @hakeem_the.dream deals with dating from the lenses of a successful man in Atlanta! @Cocktailswithcarly_ believes, even the most successful will eventually get lonely without companionship... @ToksOgun & @taygotti_the_rabbi also shared some pretty interesting thoughts...oh, that was just the beginning of a action packed show...TUNE IN, you won't regret it. #TheUSBNetwork

Happy New Year!!! On the latest episode of Cocktails with Carly and Toks Ogun we discussed the affects being in Quarantine while in relationships. Ooooh...the debate on whether to take the vaccine now, later or never!!! 1 out of 3 of us are willing to take the vaccine...like yesterday...which one of us do you guys think it is...lol. We ROCKED the VOTE!!! For anyone thinking their vote got lost in the shuffle...Nope! Your vote matters! Would you be willing to take the vaccine for a guaranteed $2k Stimmy? Hmmm. And of course we talked about the foolery that happened at the Capitol Building with our very own home grown domestic terrorist...and so much more... TUNE IN to our 1st episode of 2021, of course joined by the Relationship Rabbi himself @taygotti_the_rabbi hosted by @toksogun and the one and only @cocktailswithcarly_ Shout out of @AngryOrchid for the hard cider...it was refreshing and smooth. You guys have got to try it out!!!

On the latest episode of Cocktails with Carly and ToksOgun, we talked about marriage ya'll!!! Would you rather have a spritual cermony without a legal marriage?! Or a legally binding marriage? Sheesh!! We also discussed dating and what woo's you!?...vacations, gifts...?? hmm...TUNE IN to @CocktailswithCarlyandTokGun This week's episode was really just us shooting the shit...talking ish! We enjoyed hosting our friend of the show, "The Relationship Rabi" Mr. Tay Gotti!!! @taygotti_the_rabbi. Of course we peeled back layers of perceptive with smoother than smooth ass @toksOgun and the one and only @cocktailswithcarly_ TUNE IN...and tell us what you think!!

If you are the dominate person in a relationship it is your responsibility to ensure you are leading with a positive approach. Otherwise, you can disrupt the energy and flow with the negativity you excude... Sheesh. This episode was packed with real talk!!! @toksogun and @cocktailswithcarly_ would like to thank our special guest, the lovely Gabrielle Symone B. Author of Embracing the Unbothered Life: The "ABC" Steps to Being Unbothered in a Very Bothered World. And you can find Gabby on IG at @gabbysymone_b. Per usual Thank you for tuning IN...we hope you enjoy the show!

How long do you have to wait to take a baecation? One date, a few months or never? We're joined by the amazing Xavi @thexaviera who has never been on a baecation.

We're all talking about how crazy politics have been as of late. We revisted the debate with our 2 presidential candidates...Is Trump a bully or did he have alot to say... Our special guest and fan fav Atlanta bred artist, Mr. Polo himself...Skinny C weighed in on the madness. Check it out guys.... Thank you to @TeamSkinnyC for joining us to share your opinion about what the heck is going on in politics. @toksogun @cocktailswithcarly_ Thank you for listening.... Enjoy!

Are women required to have sex when invited on an overseas trip? Why are black men dating outside their race once they a certain level of success. Men not just providing intimacy, but being an all around provider to his woman....as SO MUCH MORE!!!! TUNE IN @cocktailswithcarly_ and @toksogun --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Being more selective and recognizing the signs of abusive behavior in both men and women! We got extremely up close and personal with our good friend Nu from @apodnamedkickback and his polyamorous lifestyle...Very INTERESTING! Keep your hands to yourself...especially lil Bow Wow's ass...Anyway. Beware of a person's representative and put a cap on how long do you stick around before you truly know them...Time means more than money and you could never waste time getting to know someone... Communication and a level of openness is the foundation. Changed patterns...being hard to figured out..."Red Flags"... One of the DOPEST Episodes of Cocktails with Carly and Toks Ogun...PERIODT! A special "Thanks Boo" to our girl @haajarjador for joining us!

Engaging in lifetime commitments. Dating while married...It's a thing!!! Whew...so, Toks thinks women cheat more than men!

Toks was showing OUT this eposide! He served up some FREE GAME on how to friendly curve unwanted physical touch during the initial dating stage. If it's really all about the vibe, how do you know your catching a mutual vibe?! After weeks and maybe months of waiting, if the sex is wack do you break up with that person? Carly is back at it again with being a hopeless romantic...do you guys think love stories still exist? Do men still aspire to be that Knight and Shinning Armor? Are we creating a foundation before trading DNA- Let's talk about it! Is this generation too sexually fluid?! And so much more... We really dug into the details with some impactful nuggets! TUNE IN to #CocktailsWithCarlyAndToksOGun and let us know what you think...we want to hear from you guys!! Much love, respect and always a vibe... @toksogun @cocktailswithcarly_

Is everybody DTF!? ( Down to Fu*k) Do you take a person seriously if they give it up on the 1st date...Can you date someone that had a train ran on them?! Choose your leftovers wisely...to date or not date in the same social circles...Identifying Traumas prior to jumping into relationships...and understanding when you're ignoring your tramaus and screwing up good connections. Wheeeew....it was a good show!! We had a whole therapy session guys...lol. Tune IN for the latest eposide...let us know what you think! @cocktailswithcarly_ and @toksogun on IG. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

NEW EPISODE ALERT! Hey Guys!!!! On the latest episode of #cocktailswithcarlyandtoksogun we really took a deep dive into some of your questions! As you know...we did something a little different and asked our viewers, audioers

SUPER charged and loaded show guys!!! We had a chance to host 2 awesome guests this week, @myblkcoffee and @bo_loco. We spoke in depth about being financially responsible in your personal and dating life, false realities men like...is it about the beauty or the booty?! The truth behind how men really feel about female enchantments... do they really want a simple woman?! Are women putting up with more from men that have more to offer financially?! I mean...who's crying in a Civic?! Are men leading with money and women leading with the HONEY...and is that why people can't capture a real connection...WHEW!!!! We covered so much ground, it was LIVE!!! TUNE IN...and let us know what you think!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

NEW EPISODE ALERT Our newest episode just dropped on all streaming platforms!!! Of course Trav had his infamous TravaRITAS popping to help fuel our tantalizing conversations!! Opening PANDORAS box in unfulfilled relationships?! Social media ruining our perception of beauty..Jada got her groove bacccck!!!! Knowing your body or I'm OUT!!! What the heck is pillow talk?! Choosing brains over beauty?!...and so much more!!!! TUNE IN to @cocktailswithcarlyandtoksogun and catch the latest...it's juicy ya'll....muaah! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Is marriage still the American dream? Are you getting married to achieve an emotional need... Some 9- 5 jobs pay more than your favorite rapper, kissing and telling...is that right- August Alsina. Is Trump is getting a little nervous? Fans Only pages...what's really going on? Terry Crews- Wtf! And so much more...TUNE IN! @cocktailswithcarly_ @toksogun @usbnetwork --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We're Baacckk! Carly & Toks discuss dating during Covid, mask on or off when going out and socializing all while practicing social distancing over a few cocktails. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app