Podcast appearances and mentions of marry him

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go? 5:03 - Q2: I Wasn't Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help! 17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can't Marry Him, But… 27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend's Fiancé's Extracurricular Activity Of Choice? 46:31 - Q5: My Friend's Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her? Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Girl to Girl : When Did You Realize You Can't Marry Him?? | Hilarious Twitter Replies

I once had a female client who was quite frustrated, because after going through the “Meet Him and Marry Him” program, she would end up meeting great guys… but sometimes the guys just didn't know how to interact in any kind of attractive way.  There was one guy she was telling me about who - the first time they met in person - was dressed in a hoodie and really ugly, torn, dirty shoes...

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2452: Evan Marc Katz guides Patty through her dilemma between a safe but less passionate relationship with Ken and the allure of her high school flame, Jim, who has a history of infidelity. He stresses the importance of making long-term decisions based on shared values and stability rather than fleeting attraction, reminding Patty that the only vote that truly matters is her own. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/should-i-choose-my-old-flame-over-my-safe-boyfriend Quotes to ponder: "When someone shows you who he is, believe him." "Attraction is not a solid foundation for a long-term relationship. Good communication and shared values is a much better predictor of success." "The only person who decides what's best for you is YOU." Episode references: Marry Him: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Settling-Mr-Good/dp/045123216X The Paradox of Choice: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/0060005696 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2338: Evan Marc Katz highlights the struggles many face in dating when they pursue unattainable partners while ignoring those who genuinely appreciate them. He emphasizes the importance of letting go of rigid ideals and opening up to the possibilities of love from people who truly value and connect with you. Katz urges us to reconsider our expectations, leading to more fulfilling relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/the-real-reason-youre-still-single Quotes to ponder: "Real relationships aren't about credentials; they're about connection." "By thinking you're 'better' than everyone who wants you, you're eliminating the greatest source of love around - the person who wants you!" "The key is in letting go of the image you've been holding onto." Episode references: Marry Him: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Mr/dp/0525951512 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Archive.is Marry Him! The case for settling for Mr. Good Enough By Lori Gottlieb The Atlantic: Marry Him! The case for settling for Mr. Good Enough By Lori Gottlieb That time Lori Gottlieb quoted me in the Atlantic about how women are too picky Lori Gottlieb's 2008 article in The Atlantic sparked widespread debate with her controversial argument that women should consider "settling" for Mr. Good Enough rather than waiting for the elusive "Mr. Right." She uses personal anecdotes and social commentary to critique the unrealistic expectations of romantic fulfillment that many women hold. As biological clocks tick and societal pressures mount, Gottlieb suggests that women may find greater happiness by choosing reliable partners over idealized ones. In contrast, Chris Abraham's blog post, which was quoted in Gottlieb's piece, provides a male perspective on the issue. He describes his own experience dating "the perfect woman," confidently predicting that she will settle for him when her desire for children outweighs her romantic aspirations. This juxtaposition of viewpoints offers a more comprehensive look at how societal pressures around settling affect both men and women. Gottlieb's article focuses on the internal conflict faced by women, while Abraham touches on the gender dynamics in the dating world, asserting that men retain more romantic prospects as they age compared to women. Ultimately, the two perspectives highlight the tension between romantic ideals and the practical realities of relationships. They both suggest that societal constructs around age, marriage, and family shape decisions in ways that often lead to compromise, but Abraham's tone suggests a more transactional view of "settling," where the idealized vision of love takes a backseat to biological and social realities. Show Notes: In this episode, we explore Lori Gottlieb's provocative 2008 article "Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" alongside a response from Chris Abraham, who was quoted in the article. We delve into the nuances of romantic expectations, the societal pressures faced by women as they age, and the contrasting perspectives on whether it's better to "settle" or keep searching for the ideal partner. Key Points: Lori Gottlieb argues that women might be happier settling for a stable, reliable partner rather than waiting for a passionate, idealized Mr. Right. Chris Abraham shares his belief that women are often too picky, and he expects that his ex-girlfriend will eventually settle for him when her biological clock ticks down. The societal pressures around age, marriage, and family impact how both men and women view the idea of "settling." Discussion of the changing nature of romantic expectations as individuals move from idealism in their 20s to pragmatism in their 30s and 40s. FAQ: What is Lori Gottlieb's main argument in the article? Lori Gottlieb argues that women should consider "settling" for a stable, reliable partner instead of holding out for an idealized version of Mr. Right. She believes this will ultimately lead to greater happiness, particularly for women who want to start a family. Why does Gottlieb believe settling is a better option? Gottlieb argues that marriage is more about partnership and practical compatibility than passionate romance. She believes that settling will provide the stability needed for family life, which many women ultimately desire. Is settling portrayed as a negative concept? While settling is often seen negatively, Gottlieb reframes it as a pragmatic choice that could lead to long-term happiness and fulfillment in areas like family life. What is the male perspective on settling, according to Chris Abraham? Abraham believes that men don't experience the same societal pressures as women, and that women are the ones who ultimately have to "settle" as they age and want children. He views it as women compromising, while men like him still get to be with their ideal partner. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chrisabraham/support

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2199: Evan Marc Katz reflects on the impact of Tinder on modern dating, emphasizing how the app accelerates judgment based on superficial traits and class biases. By dissecting our subconscious preferences, he reveals how Tinder mirrors real-life snap judgments, highlighting the complexities and contradictions of instant attraction in the digital age. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/online-dating-tips-advice/what-tinder-tells-you-about-yourself Quotes to ponder: "Essentially, we're constantly inventing narratives about the people who surround us. Tinder appears to encourage these narratives and crystallize the extrapolation process and package it into a five-second, low-stakes decision." "A 5-foot-7 male was 'too short.' A 39-year-old guy was decidedly 'too old' for Katie's 33 years. Another is bald; she decides him 'too' much so." "Tinder is by no means the cause of this decline. It simply encourages and quietly normalizes the assumptions that undergird it." Episode references: Marry Him: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Mr/dp/0525951512 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Emily Bazelon, John Dickerson, and David Plotz discuss President Joe Biden's State of the Union address and Special Counsel Robert Hur's congressional testimony; crime and punishment with the Wren Collective's Jessica Brand; and Congress's move to ban the Chinese government from TikTok. Join us for Political Gabfest Live in Washington, D.C. on March 27! Tickets are on sale now. Planning to attend? Submit a Listener Chatter to gabfest@slate.com and you might be picked to chatter live.    Here are some notes and references from this week's show: C-SPAN: 2024 State of the Union Address and Former Special Counsel Hur Testifies on Biden Classified Documents Report, Part 1and Part 2   House Committee on the Judiciary: Recorded Interview: Robert Hur, President Biden Transcript, Date of Interview: October 8, and Date of Interview: October 9 Kaitlan Collins for CNN: Fmr. Mar-a-Lago employee who helped move classified docs speaks with CNN   Adam Serwer for The Atlantic: How Hur Misled the Country on Biden's Memory Jack Goldsmith in The New York Times: Jack Smith and Robert Hur Are the Latest Examples of a Failed Institution Erica Pandey and Russell Contreras for Axios: Blue cities go red with conservative policies on crime Michael Barbaro and Mike Baker for The New York Times's The Daily podcast: Oregon Decriminalized Drugs. Voters Now Regret It. Madaleine Rubin for The Texas Tribune: Sean Teare unseats Harris County District Attorney Kim Ogg in primary   Stefanie Dazio for AP: Progressive Los Angeles County District Attorney George Gascón advances to runoff Jeffrey M. Jones for Gallup: More Americans See U.S. Crime Problem as Serious Stephanie Sy and Shoshana Dubnow for the PBS News Hour: As concerns grown around surging violent crime, the numbers tell a different story   David Leonhardt for The New York Times: Should China Own TikTok? CBS News: FBI Director Wray says China targeting U.S. civilian infrastructure, economic security Laura He for CNN: If the US bans TikTok, China will be getting a taste of its own medicine CBS Mornings: Jon Stewart on why he's going back to “The Daily Show” anchor desk Mike Pence on Fox News: TikTok is digital fentanyl and Congress, Biden must act before it's too late Josh Dawsey and Jeff Stein for The Washington Post: How Donald Trump switched to defending TikTok Here are this week's chatters: Emily: Josh Gerstein for Politico: Federal courts move against ‘judge-shopping' and John Dickerson and Jessica Levinson for CBS News Prime Time: New rules aim to prevent “judge shopping” in major court cases John: Emily Goulet for Philadelphia: Fight Like a Girl: The New Wave of High-School Wrestling and Alex Bellos for The Guardian: He ate all the pi: Japanese man memorises π to 111,700 digits David: Lend A Box Listener chatter from Steven in Queens, New York: New York Times: Soon Finds Mother For His 5 Children; Widower Discovers Six Women Eager to Marry Him and Care for His Brood.   For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment, David, John, and Emily talk about marriage proposals. See Caroline Kitchener for The Atlantic: Marriage Proposals Are Stupid; Sadiba Hasan for The New York Times: 10 Great Ways to Pop the Question; and Parija Kavilanz for CNN: After 2023 wraps up, get ready for a spike in marriage proposals.   In the latest Gabfest Reads, David talks with Kiley Reid about her book, Come and Get It.   Email your chatters, questions, and comments to gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be referenced by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.)   Podcast production by Cheyna Roth  Research by Julie Huygen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Emily Bazelon, John Dickerson, and David Plotz discuss President Joe Biden's State of the Union address and Special Counsel Robert Hur's congressional testimony; crime and punishment with the Wren Collective's Jessica Brand; and Congress's move to ban the Chinese government from TikTok. Join us for Political Gabfest Live in Washington, D.C. on March 27! Tickets are on sale now. Planning to attend? Submit a Listener Chatter to gabfest@slate.com and you might be picked to chatter live.    Here are some notes and references from this week's show: C-SPAN: 2024 State of the Union Address and Former Special Counsel Hur Testifies on Biden Classified Documents Report, Part 1and Part 2   House Committee on the Judiciary: Recorded Interview: Robert Hur, President Biden Transcript, Date of Interview: October 8, and Date of Interview: October 9 Kaitlan Collins for CNN: Fmr. Mar-a-Lago employee who helped move classified docs speaks with CNN   Adam Serwer for The Atlantic: How Hur Misled the Country on Biden's Memory Jack Goldsmith in The New York Times: Jack Smith and Robert Hur Are the Latest Examples of a Failed Institution Erica Pandey and Russell Contreras for Axios: Blue cities go red with conservative policies on crime Michael Barbaro and Mike Baker for The New York Times's The Daily podcast: Oregon Decriminalized Drugs. Voters Now Regret It. Madaleine Rubin for The Texas Tribune: Sean Teare unseats Harris County District Attorney Kim Ogg in primary   Stefanie Dazio for AP: Progressive Los Angeles County District Attorney George Gascón advances to runoff Jeffrey M. Jones for Gallup: More Americans See U.S. Crime Problem as Serious Stephanie Sy and Shoshana Dubnow for the PBS News Hour: As concerns grown around surging violent crime, the numbers tell a different story   David Leonhardt for The New York Times: Should China Own TikTok? CBS News: FBI Director Wray says China targeting U.S. civilian infrastructure, economic security Laura He for CNN: If the US bans TikTok, China will be getting a taste of its own medicine CBS Mornings: Jon Stewart on why he's going back to “The Daily Show” anchor desk Mike Pence on Fox News: TikTok is digital fentanyl and Congress, Biden must act before it's too late Josh Dawsey and Jeff Stein for The Washington Post: How Donald Trump switched to defending TikTok Here are this week's chatters: Emily: Josh Gerstein for Politico: Federal courts move against ‘judge-shopping' and John Dickerson and Jessica Levinson for CBS News Prime Time: New rules aim to prevent “judge shopping” in major court cases John: Emily Goulet for Philadelphia: Fight Like a Girl: The New Wave of High-School Wrestling and Alex Bellos for The Guardian: He ate all the pi: Japanese man memorises π to 111,700 digits David: Lend A Box Listener chatter from Steven in Queens, New York: New York Times: Soon Finds Mother For His 5 Children; Widower Discovers Six Women Eager to Marry Him and Care for His Brood.   For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment, David, John, and Emily talk about marriage proposals. See Caroline Kitchener for The Atlantic: Marriage Proposals Are Stupid; Sadiba Hasan for The New York Times: 10 Great Ways to Pop the Question; and Parija Kavilanz for CNN: After 2023 wraps up, get ready for a spike in marriage proposals.   In the latest Gabfest Reads, David talks with Kiley Reid about her book, Come and Get It.   Email your chatters, questions, and comments to gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be referenced by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.)   Podcast production by Cheyna Roth  Research by Julie Huygen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Emily Bazelon, John Dickerson, and David Plotz discuss President Joe Biden's State of the Union address and Special Counsel Robert Hur's congressional testimony; crime and punishment with the Wren Collective's Jessica Brand; and Congress's move to ban the Chinese government from TikTok. Join us for Political Gabfest Live in Washington, D.C. on March 27! Tickets are on sale now. Planning to attend? Submit a Listener Chatter to gabfest@slate.com and you might be picked to chatter live.    Here are some notes and references from this week's show: C-SPAN: 2024 State of the Union Address and Former Special Counsel Hur Testifies on Biden Classified Documents Report, Part 1and Part 2   House Committee on the Judiciary: Recorded Interview: Robert Hur, President Biden Transcript, Date of Interview: October 8, and Date of Interview: October 9 Kaitlan Collins for CNN: Fmr. Mar-a-Lago employee who helped move classified docs speaks with CNN   Adam Serwer for The Atlantic: How Hur Misled the Country on Biden's Memory Jack Goldsmith in The New York Times: Jack Smith and Robert Hur Are the Latest Examples of a Failed Institution Erica Pandey and Russell Contreras for Axios: Blue cities go red with conservative policies on crime Michael Barbaro and Mike Baker for The New York Times's The Daily podcast: Oregon Decriminalized Drugs. Voters Now Regret It. Madaleine Rubin for The Texas Tribune: Sean Teare unseats Harris County District Attorney Kim Ogg in primary   Stefanie Dazio for AP: Progressive Los Angeles County District Attorney George Gascón advances to runoff Jeffrey M. Jones for Gallup: More Americans See U.S. Crime Problem as Serious Stephanie Sy and Shoshana Dubnow for the PBS News Hour: As concerns grown around surging violent crime, the numbers tell a different story   David Leonhardt for The New York Times: Should China Own TikTok? CBS News: FBI Director Wray says China targeting U.S. civilian infrastructure, economic security Laura He for CNN: If the US bans TikTok, China will be getting a taste of its own medicine CBS Mornings: Jon Stewart on why he's going back to “The Daily Show” anchor desk Mike Pence on Fox News: TikTok is digital fentanyl and Congress, Biden must act before it's too late Josh Dawsey and Jeff Stein for The Washington Post: How Donald Trump switched to defending TikTok Here are this week's chatters: Emily: Josh Gerstein for Politico: Federal courts move against ‘judge-shopping' and John Dickerson and Jessica Levinson for CBS News Prime Time: New rules aim to prevent “judge shopping” in major court cases John: Emily Goulet for Philadelphia: Fight Like a Girl: The New Wave of High-School Wrestling and Alex Bellos for The Guardian: He ate all the pi: Japanese man memorises π to 111,700 digits David: Lend A Box Listener chatter from Steven in Queens, New York: New York Times: Soon Finds Mother For His 5 Children; Widower Discovers Six Women Eager to Marry Him and Care for His Brood.   For this week's Slate Plus bonus segment, David, John, and Emily talk about marriage proposals. See Caroline Kitchener for The Atlantic: Marriage Proposals Are Stupid; Sadiba Hasan for The New York Times: 10 Great Ways to Pop the Question; and Parija Kavilanz for CNN: After 2023 wraps up, get ready for a spike in marriage proposals.   In the latest Gabfest Reads, David talks with Kiley Reid about her book, Come and Get It.   Email your chatters, questions, and comments to gabfest@slate.com. (Messages may be referenced by name unless the writer stipulates otherwise.)   Podcast production by Cheyna Roth  Research by Julie Huygen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2055: Evan Marc Katz's article "How Can I Be Sure That He's the Right One?" offers a nuanced perspective on relationships, emphasizing the importance of personal connection, shared values, and chemistry in a partnership. He advises against marrying someone just for their positive traits, underscoring that a strong relationship involves more than just stability and loyalty. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/marriage/how-can-i-be-sure-that-hes-the-right-one Quotes to ponder: "Chemistry can't redeem a broken relationship; all it can do is provide fuel that irrationally erases your doubts, even when those doubts should be there." Episode references: "Marry Him" book: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Case-Settling-Enough/dp/045123216X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Tess sits down with the one and only Allison Anderson!Such a fun episode discussing everything from Ryan Seacrest's tv departure, the hot new clothing subscriptions everyone should try and all about the BIG DIP. IYKYKAllison and Tess chat about what they want more or less of this week and a very interesting new book called Marry Him. Tune in to hear their thoughts about what really matters in looking for a S.O.This episode is fun, light hearted and gives an inside look to the Nevada Mining Industry and what life looks like for a busy working mom of 3!Contact More Or Less With TessInstagram: @moreorlesswithtesspodcastEmail us at moreorlesswithtess@gmail.comLink to Website: https://moreorlesswithtess.buzzsprout.comThanks for listening!

Naomi is BACK for today's very special movie. Dying to Marry Him shows what happens when an engaged couple crosses paths with a wedding planner who's out to marry the groom herself – no matter the consequences. This one stars the one and only Anna Marie Dobbins, THE original Pink Fedora Lady from Deadly Mile High Club. Naomi and Megan welcome her back to see what it was like to play a bride in peril.Catch this movie on the Lifetime Movie Club! Go to https://try.lifetimemovieclub.com/podcast/ to sign up for a 7-day free trial, today. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

What would you do if you were apart of a large crowd witnessing a violent attack? That question comes up a lot in the murder of Stacy Wilson, and the answer may shock some of you. CONTENT WARNING: Today's case talks about incest, and graphic scenes of murder. If you or someone you know needs help, please contact: Crime Victims. National Center for Victims of Crime. Phone: 1-855-4VICTIM (1-855-484-2846) Suicide Prevention Lifeline Crisis support and resources 1-800-273-TALK Trevor LifeLine LGBTQ Crisis Support 1-866-488-7386 Trans Lifeline Trans Peer Support 1-877-565-8860 RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-4673 The Hotline National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE Be sure to follow us at: Twitter: @rarwpodcast Instagram: @rarwpodcast Contact us at: E-mail: redrumandredwinepodcast@gmail.com All music written and produced by: Savasas savasas | Free Listening on SoundCloud Resources: Karomo, Chege. “Stacy Wilson's Story: Stacy's Killer Wanted Her to Marry Him.” TheNetline, 22 Dec. 2021, https://thenetline.com/stacy-wilson-story/. Roni Sianturi, 19 January. “Roni Sianturi.” MeBERE, 19 Jan. 1970, https://www.mebere.com/stacy-wilson-murder-death-obituary-shorn-samuel-crime-scene.

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This week we're chatting with social media superstar Nathan the Cat Lady! In addition to being a world-famous cat dad, Nathan Kehn is also an accomplished actor. In fact, this episode is coming out one day before the premiere of a new Lifetime original movie starring him in the lead role! Keep an eye out for Dying to Marry Him this weekend — I know I will! While you're waiting for your popcorn to pop, listen to Meredith and I chat with him about anti-cat dad bias on dating apps, his path to feline-focused internet stardom, and his journey as a working actor.  We also ask him how he'd improve the internet, and he explains why cat dads make better human dads. Fun AND educational! * A couple quick production notes: • There was a brief issue where our connection was interrupted around the 13 minute mark. Apologies for the clunky editing! • At the top of the episode I state that it is episode 146 of the podcast. This was incorrect — it is episode 145. What are numbers anyway, besides tools to help us measure how little time we have left on the earth?

The former U.S.S.R. had its own synthpop and new wave acts, but the Cold War prevented a lot of Americans from hearing how good they were at assembling those 80s music building blocks into cool formations we didn't get here. Track listing:  0:00 Alyans, “At Dawn (На заре)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music  8:18 Forum, “Let's Call Each Other (Давайте созвонимся)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music 11:37 Tvoi Den, “Let Me (Позвони)”  15:26 Rusya, “Bewitched Ring (Зачароване Коло)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music   19:24 Bioconstructor, “Bureaucrat (Бюрократ)” — Spotify 26:03 Vladmir Osinskov and Olga Chipovskaya, “Safari (Сафари)” 33:09 Natalya Gulkina, “This Is China (Это Китай)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music  36:38 Piknik, “Telephone (Телефон)” — Apple Music • Spotify 41:33 Olga Voskonyan, “Cars (Автомобили)” — Apple Music • Spotify 46:55 Allyans, “Give Me Fire (Дайте огня)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music  50:40 Rusya, “Rusalanka (Русалонька)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music   54:14 Forum, “Little Island (Островок)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music 57:29 Tvoi Den, “Don't Forget (не забывай)” 65:51 Electroclub, “Don't Marry Him (Ты замуж за него не выходи)” — Apple Music • Spotify • Amazon Music  This whole thing is put together by me, Drew Mackie. Follow me on Twitter. I'm on Instagram too. Also listen to the Spotify playlist that inspired this podcast. If you have a recommendation for a song you think should be played on the show, hit me up on Twitter or leave me a voicemail by calling ‪(970) 823-4726 — or 970 82 DISCO. I may play your recommendation on a future show. Have a look at the official website for fancy people. The original art for this podcast was designed by Sarah Wickham, who rocks. Check out her art and also buy her stuff. Subscribe: Mixcloud • iTunes • Stitcher • Libsyn • Google Podcasts

On this week's Sunday Special, Jared and Jordana are joined by psychotherapist and author Lori Gottlieb. They start out with a discussion of what type of relationship issues Lori sees in therapy and how COVID has impacted them. Then they get into Lori's book Marry Him and what you should actually look for in a long-term partner. Later, they answer an email from a listener who is anxious about planning a future with her boyfriend. Is it normal for her to feel she should date around more? How can she stop feeling like the grass is greener on the other side? Plus, they discuss how our pasts play out in our dating choices.

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“We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.”Lori GottliebLet's talk about talking to someone.Personally, I've been in and out of therapy for more than two decades. Over the last couple years, I've been deeply immersed in a weekly therapist-led men's group — intimate game-changing sessions that have helped me work through deep-seated stuff that lives and breathes beyond 12-step.We're only as sick as our secrets. The path to healing and personal growth requires openly sharing our hidden struggles. Bearing our vulnerabilities. And allowing others to identify the blind spots that elude us.My point is that we all need help. And as today's guest will openly admit, even therapists benefit from therapy.A Los Angeles-based psychotherapist, journalist and author, Lori Gottlieb writes the weekly ‘Dear Therapist’ column for The Atlantic. She contributes to several prominent publications including The New York Times. And she recurs as a mental health expert on a variety of national television and radio outlets including, The Today Show, Good Morning America, The CBS Early Show, Dr. Phil, CNN, and NPR’s ‘Fresh Air.'In addition, Lori is the author of three books: Marry Him,Stick Figure and her latest, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone, a fun and highly relatable romp behind the scenes of a therapist’s world. What it’s like to be a therapist. And what it’s like to be a therapist in therapy.A hit that spent many weeks on The New York Times bestseller list, the book was listed as People magazine’s ‘Book of the Week.' O magazine named it one of the ‘Best Nonfiction Books of 2019.' And it's currently being developed into a TV series with Eva Longoria.This is a conversation about what happens when a therapist — someone specifically trained to understand what makes people do what they do — experiences her own personal crisis.But it’s also a broader conversation about mental well-being in general. About the benefits of therapy. And why we can all better ourselves by talking to a professional.In addition, we discuss the psychological impact of comparing ourselves to others. Healthy and unhealthy parenting practices. Repairing ruptured relationships. And many other topics.I should note that I did my very best to resist making this a personal therapy session (not easy!).As a final thought: if you are struggling in the darkness, don't wait to talk to someone. If you're afraid to shed light on that thing — whether it be anger, shame, addiction, resentment, depression, anxiety, or suicidal thoughts — don't wait to talk to someone. Don't wait until it's a crisis. Find the courage. Reach out. raise your hand. Help awaits you.You can watch our entire conversation on YouTube. And the episode is of course available on See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Psychotherapist, national advice columnist (she writes "Dear Therapist" for The Atlantic) and New York Times bestselling author Lori Gottlieb stops by the show to talk about her new memoir Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, Her Therapist and Our Lives Revealed, the out-of-nowhere breakup that landed her in therapy, her circuitous career path, googling your therapist, the controversy over her previous book Marry Him, her childhood, parenting, turning down a crazy sum of money, anorexia and so much more. We also took your questions. Check us out on Patreon: http://patreon.com/alisonrosen   Buy Alison's Book: Tropical Attire Encouraged (and Other Phrases That Scare Me) You probably need to buy a new ARIYNBF Legacy Shirt! and the HGFY ringtone! Try Amazon Prime Free 30 Day Trial

"Marry Him! The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" by Lorie Gottlieb inspired my previous episode on the previous episode about the balance between settling and being too picky as a millennial. Here's a reading of that article. An Excerpt: "They [the mothers in the mommy and me class], like me, would rather feel alone in a marriage than actually be alone, because they, like me, realize that marriage ultimately isn’t about cosmic connection—it’s about how having a teammate, even if he’s not the love of your life, is better than not having one at all".

"Marry Him! The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough" by Lorie Gottlieb inspired my previous episode on the previous episode about the balance between settling and being too picky as a millennial. Here's a reading of that article. An Excerpt: "They [the mothers in the mommy and me class], like me, would rather feel alone in a marriage than actually be alone, because they, like me, realize that marriage ultimately isn’t about cosmic connection—it’s about how having a teammate, even if he’s not the love of your life, is better than not having one at all".

Francesca is joined by Abby Rodman who's here share some insight from her book "Should you Marry Him." Stay tuned for an episode chock full of advice that anyone interested in tying the knot would be grateful to have.

Ken talks with TAN Books publicist Katie DeMoss about “Marry Him and Be Submissive: Radical Advice from a Real Woman, About Marriage, Love, Kids, Work, Play & Everything Else” by Costanza Miriano and Fr. Jeffrey Kirby on the new Bible study program from St Benedict Press “Luke: The Gospel of Mercy”. The Miriano book is […]

Are there really Prince Charmings out there and all you have to do is wait? Or do you have unrealistic expectations? This week Lisa & Philip talk with Lori Gottlieb, author of “Marry Him, A case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough.” For more information about Lori you can go to www.lorigottlieb.com. … Read more about this episode...