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Join Dianne Whitford and Heather Abbe from Coffee, Grit and Inspiration for brief thoughts on whatever is going on in the Coffee, Grit, and Inspiration blog at the moment! Join us for weekly 10-15 minute chats about personal development and self-improvement. We cover topics like grit, growth mindset…

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    S4E1: It Matters - Even Though It's Uncomfortable

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2020 22:19 Transcription Available


    Back from what some might consider a vacation, but I just consider a ton of WORK. This episode is one that Carter and I felt we needed to do, even though it felt weird, and a little awkward. Like many of you, we're trying to be better. Come join us as we talk through the idea of "all lives matter" versus "black lives matter". See what you think, and if it maybe gives you a different perspective. I hope you all are staying safe, being healthy, and taking good care of each other. Be good to one another. Talk to you next week!Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin Hall- Limited Edition Love (Sting Version) by Anders EkengrenSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E9: Being Yourself At Work: Pros, Cons, and Patent Leather Pants

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2020 28:41 Transcription Available


    Today I'm joined by my friend Carter and we're continuing in the same vein of militant authenticity talked about in Season 3 Episode 6. Listen in as we discuss being an authentic jerk, how you may be defining yourself, and how - perhaps - patent leather pants aren't quite the thing for work. Being true to who you are is important. It can get in your way sometimes, too. How do you find the balance? How can you think about who you are in a way that still lets you be flexible, adaptable, and open to growth? Join us for a discussion!Referenced in this episode:S3E6: Militant Authenticity: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/when-authenticity-gets-in-the-way/Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Music via Epidemic Sound:Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallLimited Edition (Sting Version) by Anders EkengrenSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E8: How Multitasking Isn't All It's Cracked Up to Be

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2020 31:17 Transcription Available


    Multitasking is kind of one of those things where you might feel like you SHOULD be doing it, or maybe you think you should be doing it better. The reality is though, multitasking prevents you from doing an individual task well, it prevents you from actively listening, can damage your relationships, and can be flat-out dangerous. Join me, Emily, and John for a great discussion on multitasking, how it can hurt you, and what you can do to avoid it.Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E7: Self-Care and Self-Compassion Even When Stuck At Home

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2020 18:53 Transcription Available


    Even in the best of times, self-care and self-compassion are so very important. In these times, it becomes even more critical to safeguard your mental and physical wellbeing. Even though you may be locked down right now, there are things you can do to do your self-care even when stuck at home.Referenced in this episode:Coping with the Quarantine: 102 Self-Care Ideas & Activities to Do At Home | TCN Behavioral Health: https://www.tcn.org/news/2020/3/24/coping-with-the-quarantine-100-self-care-ideas-amp-activities-to-do-at-homeCoffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E6: Militant Authenticity: Getting Out of Your Own Way

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2020 14:21 Transcription Available


    Militant authenticity is when you have such a strong allegiance to "you being you" that you get in your own way. Or worse, you have a negative impact on those around you or their respect for you. I have always been a strong advocate for people being themselves, and I still strongly believe that. I also believe that we have choices about when and how to express that authenticity, and we can do it in a way that still allows us to be present to the needs and feelings of those around us. Referenced in this episode:The Fine Line Between Helpful and Harmful Authenticity | Adam Grant | NY Times: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/10/smarter-living/the-fine-line-between-helpful-and-harmful-authenticity.htmlBook Review: Option B: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/book-review-option-b-by-sheryl-sandberg/Coffee, Grit and Inspiration on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CGInspo/Coffee, Grit and Inspiration on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coffeegritandinspiration/Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E5: Creating Unity in Your Community

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2020 25:40 Transcription Available


    Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Communities are powerful when they pull together. In times like these, the strength of a community will help people come out the other side. As a leader, you have a large impact on the communities you're a part of. How are you showing up? Are you building up your community, or are you tearing it down? Let's give our people strength and fortitude by building bonds with them and doing what we can to build up our families, teams, and communities.Show Notes and Transcript: Referenced in this episode:Listening with respect and engagement | CPB S2E10: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/active-listening/Keep Calm and Lead On: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/calm-leadership-during-a-crisis/How to Inspire Community Spirit in Times of Social Isolation | Alexandra Laxmi Iyer | Salesforce.org: https://www.salesforce.org/how-to-inspire-community-spirit-in-times-of-social-isolation/The Kindness Postcard and Other Heartwarming Gestures Sparked By Coronavirus | Lucy Handley | CNBC: https://www.cnbc.com/2020/03/16/coronavirus-compassion-the-kindness-postcard-and-other-heartwarming-gestures.htmlCompassion in the Time of the Coronavirus | Nicholas A. Christakis | The Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/03/11/compassion-time-coronavirus/Facing COVID-19 With Community Instead of Fear | Lornet Turnbull | Yes Magazine: https://www.yesmagazine.org/health-happiness/2020/03/10/coronavirus-covid19-community/Face Masks:I found this set of tutorials super helpful in sewing my own face masks for my husband, son, and their coworkers: https://sweetredpoppy.com/how-to-sew-a-surgical-face-mask/Have a wonderful week!Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E4: Advice from Veteran Remote Workers to Those Newly Remote

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2020 39:21 Transcription Available


    If you're one of the millions of people being asked to work from home, you might be struggling with some of the challenges that working remotely can present. Or maybe you're just looking for some tips to make your work-from-home life a little bit easier! Either way, never fear, because us three veteran remote workers are here to share some of the challenges, benefits, and our best tips for working from home. Whether you're working from home or not, I hope you're staying safe and healthy, in both body and mind. Be well. Referenced in this episode:5 Tips to Build Stronger RelationshipsSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E3: Emotionally Hijacked! 3 Ways To Take Back Control

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2020 15:08 Transcription Available


    The world is going crazy right now. Our personal worlds are turned inside out, upside down. In situations like this, it's easy for our emotions to jump in, take control, and ruin our ability to make rational decisions about what's happening. We get emotionally hijacked! I struggle with this a lot, and found some ways that I think will work well to help us to regain control over our emotions and get some mastery over our emotions when they threaten to overwhelm us. If you're struggling, please don't wait to ask for help. Times like these can make us feel more alone than usual, maybe than we've ever felt before. Everyone needs help sometimes.Referenced in this episode:Empathy and Emotional Intelligence | Coffee, Grit, and InspirationStrong Emotions: Name It To Tame It! (video)The A-Z Guide to Feelings and Emotions | Laughter Online UniversityReduce Emotional Hijacking With Emotional Intelligence | TTI Success InsightsTame Reactive Emotions By Naming Them | Mindful.orgWhat Was I Thinking? Handling The Hijack | Dr. Relly Nadler, True North Leadership | Psychology TodayCoffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/Find us on Facebook and join the Coffee, Grit and Inspiration Community!Music via Epidemic Sound:Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3E2: Getting Rid of the "But"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2020 14:06 Transcription Available


    This week I'm talking about what happens when we use "but" to say something and then immediately negate it, or when we start our sentences with "no", "but", or "however". This seemingly harmless habit can cause our communications to break down, or to cause us to be seen as ineffective communicators or people who don't listen. Note that no butts were harmed in the making of this podcast. Referenced in this episode:S2E9: Overapologizing and Minimizing YourselfWhat Got You Here Won't Get You There [affiliate link] by Marshall Goldsmith and Mark ReiterHave a wonderful week!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S3 E1: How to be a "Learn-It-All"

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 19:53 Transcription Available


    Instead of being a "know-it-all", be a "learn-it-all"! People that cultivate curiosity about the world around them experience greater levels of satisfaction with their lives, are more innovative, have better ideas, and are more engaged. You can cultivate curiosity in your life and at work to enrich your experience and get the most out of what you have. Show Notes and Transcript:Referenced in this episode:Psych Central: 6 Ways to Cultivate Your Curiosity: https://blogs.psychcentral.com/everyday-creativity/2018/01/6-ways-to-cultivate-your-curiosity/Psychology Today: Cultivate Curiosity: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/200609/cultivating-curiosityHarvard Business Review: 4 Ways to Cultivate a Culture of Curiosity: https://hbr.org/2013/09/four-ways-to-cultivate-a-culture-of-curiosityHow to Fail Like a Champ: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/overcome-failure/Growth Mindset: An Introduction: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/growth-mindset-intro/Email me at: dianne@coffeegritandinspiration.comSubmit comments and feedback at: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/contact/ Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/If you liked this episode, please follow and give it a rating!Music via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E10: Listening With Respect and Engagement

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 20:19 Transcription Available


    Active listening is much more than just inserting "yeah" or "okay" at regular intervals in a conversation. Active listening also means listening with respect, with engagement, and listening with your whole body. Thinking before you speak. Creating connections with people and helping to ensure that they don't leave a conversation with you feeling bad about it, or about you. Join me in Season 2 Episode 10 while I talk about active listening, what it is, the attributes of a good listener, and some tiny tactics you can employ to make yourself a better listener. Remember that Season 3 starts on February 26. There won't be a podcast on the 19th - try not to miss me too much! Referenced in this episode:What Got You Here Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter: https://amzn.to/2Nx1Sjt [affiliate link]How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith: https://amzn.to/2NBeYw8 [affiliate link]Marshall Goldsmith's Tiny Tactics (https://www.marshallgoldsmith.com/articles/the-skill-that-separates/):Listen. Don’t interrupt. Don’t finish the other person’s sentences. Don’t say, “I knew that.” Don’t even agree with the other person. If he praises you, just say thank you. Don’t use the words “no,” “but,” and “however.” Don’t let your eyes wander elsewhere while the other person is talking.Maintain your end of the dialogue by asking intelligent questions that show you’re paying attention, move the conversation forward, and require the person to talk (while you listen).Coffee Break Podcast: making personal development accessible and helping people grow. One episode at a time.Have a wonderful week!Subscribe to my mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/If you liked this podcast, please follow, subscribe and/or give it a rating!You can also find me here:- Coffee, Grit, and Inspiration Blog: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com- Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-break/id1482885097- Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0TzyV9SXyVZ8MAz18A7D6P?si=aKTGUm0XQ5qeCioxCXATqw- TuneIn: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Health--Wellness-Podcasts/Coffee-Break-p1288067/- Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5idXp6c3Byb3V0LmNvbS82NTQwMjgucnNzMusic via Epidemic Sound:- Enjoy Your Heartbreak (Sting Version) by Martin HallSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E9: Over-Apologizing and Minimizing Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2020 21:14 Transcription Available


    It's amazing what comes out of your own mouth, and at times, how much of what you say seems designed to "make yourself small" - to minimize yourself and what you're saying. In today's episode, I am joined by my dear friend and long-time coworker Emily Hastings, and we're revisiting the topic of over-apologizing with some additional tips and insights, plus exploring how apologizing, like several other speech habits, doesn't serve you. In fact, it can serve to minimize you and devalue what you have to say in the minds of those you are speaking to. Please forgive any audio issues, we tried out a new program for remote podcasting. It will get better! Also, I used a swear word. #sorrynotsorry.Referenced in this episode:S1E4: The Effects of OverapologizingPoem: Our Deepest Fear by Marianne WilliamsonMore on minimizing in a future podcast! In the meantime, you can learn more by reading How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith [affiliate link].Check out the Show Notes for this episode!Give us a review and ranking to show your support!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E8: Feedback is Your Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2020 18:08 Transcription Available


    Last week we talked about when you get feedback, to say thank you and then shut up. Feedback itself is a whole other topic! There is an art to giving feedback, and a perspective that, if you can develop it, will help you implement feedback in ways that enrich your life and your relationships with other people. In this episode I'm talking about the different types of feedback, how to give it, how to receive it, and what to do with it once you've got it. Plus I define "synthesize" which is helpful no matter who you are.

    S2E7: Three Times You Should Just Say Thank You and Then Shut Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2020 10:48 Transcription Available


    "Thank you" is such a versatile phrase! After bingeing on several personal development books over the last week that have to do with behavioral changes and forming and ending habits, it occurred to me that there are three situations (at least) where you should just say thank you...and then shut up. Enjoy!Referenced in this article: CBP S1 E4: The Effects of Overapologizing: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/s1-e4-effects-of-overapologizing/How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith: https://amzn.to/2NBeYw8 [affiliate link]What Got You Here Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith and Mark Reiter: https://amzn.to/2Nx1Sjt [affiliate link]Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/2GbbEn7 [affiliate link]Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E6: Stress: Responding vs Reacting, and Ways to Manage It

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 15:09 Transcription Available


    Stress is a pervasive, unavoidable part of life. For better or worse, it happens, and it's a good idea for us to get better at managing it. The more resilient we can be in response to negative events, the more we can respond to rather than react to them, the less stress we will let into our lives. Join me as I talk about stress, some causes, how our reactions can actually compound the stress we feel, and some ways to manage stress. Referenced in this episode:Give Yourself the Gift of "I Will Handle It": https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/i-will-handle-it/Stress and Personality | Psych Central: https://psychcentral.com/lib/stress-and-personality/Respond vs. React | Mindful Minutes: https://mindfulminutes.com/respond-vs-react-how-to-keep-your-cool-in-times-of-stress/10 Ways To Change the Way You Deal With Stress | Lifehack.org: https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-ways-change-the-way-you-deal-with-stress.htmlCauses of Stress | WebMD: https://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/causes-of-stress#1Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E5: Helping Others Shine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2020 15:05 Transcription Available


    This week's episode was inspired by a presentation I heard last month about helping others shine, and the comment that "helping others shine doesn't decrease your own shine." Sometimes we get our egos tied up with our contributions, and it can seem like helping others shine somehow reduces our own value. In this episode, I talk about why I struggled with this concept a little bit, and talk about some ways that we can help each other shine. Shine on!Referenced in this episode:How you can support usCritical Thinking Theme contentAdditional shine sources: Shine Theory9 Ways To Help Others Shine | Advice For My Daughter10 Ways To Make Others Shine | Leadership NowMake Your Success About Shining Your Light On The People Around You | John Addison | Success.comSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E4: What's In Your Backpack?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2020 14:59 Transcription Available


    Happy 2020! The new year is here and in an effort to stretch ourselves this year, we're looking at what's in our backpacks that we want to unload. From family relationships to failed relationships, there's a lot we have to let go of if we're going to continue to grow. Join us to see if you identify with anything we're talking about! What's in YOUR backpack?Subscribe to the newsletter: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionView this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RodYJU6GixISupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E3: Keeping Track of Your Emotional Wake (Plus Amazing Bob Ross Christmas T-Shirt)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2019 8:00 Transcription Available


    In today's episode, I am talking about emotional wake: how people feel once you leave a room. Is it positive or negative? What do you do to control it and clean it up if you need to? How blinding IS my Bob Ross Christmas T-Shirt? You might have to check out the YouTube below to find out the answer to that last one. Referenced in this episode:Fierce Conversations | Susan Scott: https://amzn.to/2ZbSNEC [affiliate link]The Effects of Overapologizing | S1 E4: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/s1-e4-effects-of-overapologizing/To see my Bob Ross Christmas T-Shirt, check out the YouTube video of this episode! https://youtu.be/O1HNW6U0fCsTo submit topics for the podcast, do any of the following:Send an email to dianne@coffeegritandinspiration.com Go to https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/contact/ and submit your idea or request using the formGo to https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/podcast/ and use the form in that pageHave a wonderful rest of the year!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E2: Counting Your Contributions

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2019 11:42 Transcription Available


    Counting your contributions - your wins - can have a huge impact on your emotional resilience, your confidence, and your sense of self worth. Show yourself some self-compassion and spend a few minutes each day writing down a win, something you're proud of, that you accomplished or achieved today. No matter how small. Do it for you!Referenced in this episode: Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy | Sheryl Sandberg [affiliate link: https://amzn.to/2Sakysx]Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/cultivate-an-attitude-of-gratitude/)Subscribe to our newsletter at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    S2E1: Why You Should Care About Critical Thinking - and What It Actually Means

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2019 16:57 Transcription Available


    We're back from hiatus with episode 1 of season 2! Today we're talking about critical thinking - what it is and why it's important, even outside of the workplace. Critical thinking is not necessarily disbelieving everything you hear - it's more about forming objective opinions and judgments based on data. So in this podcast, I'm discussing what critical thinking is, and the skills you need to develop in order to grow your critical thinking.Referenced in this episode:Critical Thinking: Not Just Being All Siskel and Ebert (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/what-is-critical-thinking/)Talent vs Effort: Talent is Overrated (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/talent-vs-effort/)Find us here:Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/diannew2309/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFmhaesAKv083RE8fOkpMhwBlog: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.comNewsletter: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E11: Recognizing Effort Vs Talent (And It Doesn't Mean Giving "Participation Awards")

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2019 13:57 Transcription Available


    Today I'm talking about effort vs talent again, and how important it is to recognize the effort and hard work someone put into something vs their innate talents. Don't dismiss hard work as "talent" - recognize the perseverance, persistence, and effort when those things led to someone's success. Tie success to level of effort, and you'll be teaching kids that effort is what success is dependent on, and not something like "talent" or something they were born with.Also note that this is the last episode of Season 1! We will be back with new episodes in Season 2 starting on December 11. In the interim, you can still find tasty good content on the blog! Talk to you then!Referenced in this episode:Why Talent is Overrated: Effort is Really Where It's At: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/talent-vs-effort/Also find us here:Sign up for our mailing list!: https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFmhaesAKv083RE8fOkpMhwPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/diannew2309/Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E10: The Importance of Pursuing Your Passions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2019 11:50 Transcription Available


    In this episode, I reflect on a Quora question I came across the other day. It made me think about how as individuals, pursuing our passions with intention and effort, and as parents, supporting our kids in doing the same, can make all the difference between having a dream and achieving a goal. Sign up for our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionCheck out our YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFmhaesAKv083RE8fOkpMhwCheck out our blog at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.comCheck out our Pinterest at: https://www.pinterest.com/diannew2309/Please feel free to give us a rating and review! We appreciate the support!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E9: Whatever Happens - I Will Handle It

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2019 9:34 Transcription Available


    Sometimes life can be pretty crappy, and it seems like there's so much fear and anxiety about what will happen next. In this episode, I'm talking about something that gives me comfort when I'm freaking out about what will happen next. Whatever happens, I will handle it!Referenced in this episode: Give Yourself the Gift of "I Will Handle It": https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/i-will-handle-it/No More Mr. Nice Guy | Robert Glover: https://amzn.to/30cAJKb [affiliate link]Other Links:Subscribe to our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionView the video of this podcast at: Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E8: Five Tips to Build Stronger Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2019 13:17 Transcription Available


    Relationships - not necessarily the ones you have with your significant other - are hard! They have a huge influence on our success at work and in life. I try to learn everything I can about how to build stronger, more meaningful relationships from everyone I can, and here are five of the best tips I have. Here's to building stronger relationships!See the blog post at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/s1-e8-5-tips-for-building-stronger-relationshipsSign up for our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription. Watch the YouTube video that goes along with this podcast on our channel at: https://youtu.be/jBZ9-RNlZNA. Give it a like and a subscribe if that's what you're into!Have a great week!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E7: 20 Life Lessons We Wish We'd Listened To

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2019 19:50 Transcription Available


    Heather joins me this week in 20 Life Lessons We Wish We'd Listened To. Which is, unsurprisingly, about 20 life lessons (10 from each of us) that we wish we could go back and teach our younger selves, if they would even listen (which they probably wouldn't). Maybe one of you will find this useful!Subscribe to our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscriptionVisit us at www.coffeegritandinspiration.comWatch the video for this podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GT--ODLwvVkHave a wonderful week!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E6: How Journaling Helps With Self Awareness

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2019 9:12


    Self awareness is one of the four pillars of emotional intelligence, along with self-management, relationship management, and social awareness. Journaling can help you build your self awareness through self-reflection and tracking your thoughts, beliefs, and habits. Tune in to hear more!Sign up for our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription. New! Watch the video that goes along with this episode on YouTube!Referenced in this episode:Emotional Intelligence 2.0 | Travis Bradberry & Jean GravesPsychology Today | Dr. Tchiki Davis, Ph.D.: What is Self-Awareness and How Do You Get It?Our Pinterest Journaling BoardSupport the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E4: The Effects of Overapologizing

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2019 9:08


    Do you, like me, apologize for EVERYTHING? What you might not know is the effects that overapologizing has on the perceptions that the people around you have about you. We apologize for all sorts of things! If you'd like ideas on how to avoid overapologizing, see the related blog post at https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/how-to-stop-over-apologizing/.Sign up for our mailing list at https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscribe!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E5: Don't Be Afraid of Hard Work!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2019 5:47


    Thoughts on hard work and how nothing we want that is worth having will necessarily be easy - and we might not value it as much if it was!The YouTube video mentioned is by Tyler Larson, founder of Music is Win, and you can view it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt9PQIzZPS8.The book mentioned is Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth [affiliate link]. You can view my full affiliates disclosure here. Have a wonderful week!Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E3: Developing an Action Plan for Your Goals

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 9:19


    In my super-scientific, ultra-analytical Facebook survey, people indicated they had trouble reaching their goals because they didn't know where to start. Here are some quick thoughts on ways you can start brainstorming action plans to realize your goals, even when they seem unachievable.To subscribe to our mailing list, visit https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Articles referenced in this episode:How to Create a Mission Statement (https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/mission)Goals Workshop (https://www.coffeegritandinspiration/goals)Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

    E2: Effects of Perfectionism and How to Avoid It

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2019 10:45


    Do you, like me, struggle with a tendency towards unhealthy perfectionism? Stuck in "tweaking" mode instead of moving on and getting things done? Are you afraid to start something new because you're afraid to fail? You're not alone. Join me in the Coffee Break podcast for a quick discussion on perfectionism and some ideas on how you can avoid it.Subscribe to our mailing list at: https://www.coffeegritandinspiration.com/subscription/Support the show (https://coffeegritandinspiration.com/support-us/)

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