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Have you ever wondered whether your biggest dreams are truly yours—or shaped by fear, validation, and old conditioning? Jessica sits down with bestselling author and TBMer Tara Mohr to explore the powerful distinction between your inner critic and inner mentor. Together, they unpack how we hide from visibility, delay our purpose through perfectionism, and unknowingly play small in pursuit of safety. Tara shares the framework that has helped thousands of women reconnect with their authentic voice and step into greater self-expression, impact, and fulfillment. From the nervous system's role in self-doubt to reframing feedback and confidence, this episode offers practical tools for anyone ready to be seen—in work, creativity, relationships, and life. Whether you're launching a business, sharing your story, or simply feeling the pull toward a more authentic version of yourself, this conversation is a reminder: your wisdom already lives within you. Ready to step into your power? The Be Seen Challenge is live — drop into the TBM app to take the kickoff quiz and begin. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: The Be Seen Challenge Stop playing small in your career, relationships, and life and manifest your next level. Now live inside The Pathway. Summer Sale: $23/Month Start your manifestation journey at our lowest price of the season: $23/month! Join now and step into the Be Seen Challenge with us before this offer ends. Free Masterclass: Step Into Your F*ck It Energy If you missed our live masterclass with Lacy and Jessica — don't worry, you can still watch the replay! Learn how to step into your f*ck it energy and feel genuinely safe being seen. Join the Pathway Membership Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE Get the latest from TBM Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now! New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library Ready to find out what's holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story Submit to Be a Process Guest What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode! 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Sun Goddess Matcha In this episode we talk about: The concept of the Inner Mentor and how to access it Distinguishing intuition from fear-based thinking Understanding the true role of the inner critic Why visibility activates the nervous system Playing big versus playing small The hidden ways women avoid being seen Perfectionism and its connection to self-worth Designing at the whiteboard versus taking action Finding confidence through values instead of validation Why feedback reflects the giver as much as the receiver The relationship between curiosity and fear Language patterns that diminish personal authority Reclaiming your authentic voice and self-expression Sharing your story versus hiding behind expertise The joy and fulfillment that emerge from living authentically Mentioned In the Episode: Take the Be Seen Quiz in the TBM app Playing Big book available here: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/ Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Inner Child Workshop, Safe to Be Seen DI, and the Be Seen Challenge Challenge) Connect with Tara Mohr! Playing Big book available here: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/ Meet Your Inner Mentor (guided visualization): https://www.taramohr.com/book/inner-mentor-signup/ Free Inner Critic chapter from the Playing Big book: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/free-chapter/ HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill)Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM's Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we've redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you'll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you're meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. 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In this episode of Stop Sabotaging Your Success, Cindy Esliger explores why so many professionals achieve a goal only to immediately move the goalposts and focus on what is still not enough. She explains how productivity can become a form of self-soothing, especially in environments where recognition is scarce and we feel we need to constantly prove our value. Cindy examines the connection between achievement and self-worth, and why relying on external validation creates a cycle where success never feels satisfying. We need to learn to distinguish between productive discomfort and true misalignment. Productive discomfort signals growth and expansion into new territory, while misalignment feels like climbing a ladder that's leaning against the wrong wall. Cindy challenges us to evaluate whether we're pursuing goals that genuinely reflect our values or are simply chasing recognition that may never arrive. She also outlines five beliefs that keep us trapped in moving our own goalposts: 1. If we keep proving ourselves, we'll finally be recognized, 2. Slowing down or setting boundaries will make us seem uncommitted, 3. We can't afford to make mistakes or show vulnerability, 4. We need to do it all to prove we can handle it, and 5. Changing direction means we failed. Cindy outlines six workplace red flags that can normalize this pattern and seven practical strategies to regain control: 1. Design our own scorecard, 2. Distinguish between productive and performative work, 3. Set boundaries as strategic career moves, 4. Channel anxiety into action, not affirmation, 5. Build selective vulnerability, 6. Create decision criteria for our career ladder before we pursue a new goal, and 7. Practice less control. Cindy's message is that success should be measured by alignment with personal values, not by endlessly chasing validation. Sometimes the bravest career move is recognizing that a path no longer fits and giving ourselves permission to choose a different one. Resources discussed in this episode: Guide to Recognizing When You're Moving Your Own Goalposts Astronomic Audio Confidence Collective — Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this inspiring episode of The Greatness Machine, host Darius Mirshahzadeh sits down with legendary author Steven Pressfield to discuss his newest novel "The Arcadian" and dive deep into the creative process. Pressfield, author of over 20 books including "The War of Art," "The Legend of Bagger Vance," and "Gates of Fire," shares his journey from a 30-year struggle to published success at age 52. The conversation explores the spiritual and practical aspects of creativity, the concept of resistance, and the warrior mindset needed for artistic achievement. In this episode, Darius and Steven will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Steven Pressfield (01:05) Steven's Origin Story and Journey to Writing (04:02) Reflections on Past Struggles and Regrets (06:57) The Creative Process and the Role of the Muse (10:02) Uncovering Ideas: The Artist's Journey (12:08) The Impact of 'The War of Art' and Resistance (15:01) Understanding Self-Sabotage and Resistance (18:00) The Spirituality of Creativity vs. Blue Collar Work (21:06) The Importance of Grit and Hard Work (23:54) Expectations vs. Reality in Creative Work (27:05) The Process of Writing and Overcoming Perfectionism (29:54) The Long View: Building a Body of Work (33:02) Channeling Creativity and Letting Go of Outcomes (34:21) The Power of Surrender and Channeling Creativity (37:34) Warrior vs. Mother: The Duality of Creative Virtues (41:58) The Arcadian: A Journey Through Time and Identity (46:31) Striving for Agency: The Artist's Quest (49:41) Making the Unconscious Conscious: The Role of Art (53:10) Reincarnation and Relationships: A Storytelling Device (55:05) Mortality and Legacy: Reflections on the Creative Journey (57:50) AI and Authenticity: The Future of Creativity (59:26) The Grind: Overcoming Barriers to Greatness Steven Pressfield is the bestselling author of The War of Art, with over a million copies sold worldwide. His historical novel Gates of Fire is required reading at West Point and on the recommended reading list of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. The author of more than 18 books, Pressfield lives and writes in California. Connect with Steven: Website: https://stevenpressfield.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/steven_pressfield/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StevePressfield/ Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When highly capable children spend years cruising through an educational system where academic rigor is geared toward the average, they fail to develop the neurological muscles required to process difficulty. This week, we present an encore chat with Dr. Brian Housand, coordinator of the academically or intellectually gifted program at the University of North Carolina Wilmington, and Andi McNair, a gifted education author and digital innovation specialist. They discuss how burnout can be a result of long-term exposure to unrealistic expectations and a profound fear of failure, and how it can also manifest in a sort of imposter phenomenon among high-ability learners. They explain why teachers and parents should resist the urge to rescue high-ability kids from cognitive discomfort, instead allowing space for productive struggle. TAKEAWAYS Equating intelligence with "quick and easy" creates a highly fragile academic identity that collapses the moment a learner encounters an authentic cognitive challenge. The feeling of ineffectiveness that comes with burnout often stems from an internalized need for external validation. Depriving high-ability students of productive struggle prevents them from building coping mechanisms and adaptive emotional resilience. High-ability learners sometimes experience a profound sense of isolation, which can be minimized by structuring shared spaces to foster a sense of universality. Gifted burnout in adults sometimes signals an unidentified twice-exceptional presentation, where early compensation strategies have finally been overwhelmed by adult executive demands. Perfectionism can be difficult to identify in therapy, and once identified, still very difficult to overcome. If you're a mental health professional, join us for Overcoming Perfectionism in Therapy: Supporting Neurodivergent Clients Who Keep Moving the Finish Line. Matt Zakreski will present this 1.5 hour continuing education course this Friday, June 5th at 1:00 pm Central, and if you can't join us live, that's okay. The video will be available afterward for anyone who registers, and either version is APA and NBCC approved for 1.5 hours of continuing education credit. Register now or learn more at this link, or just go to neurodiversity.university. Dr. Brian Housand is the coordinator of the Academically or Intellectually Gifted program at University of North Carolina Wilmington, and creator of Gifted360.com. He is also a published author and speaker, and has worked in education as a classroom teacher, gifted ed teacher, and university professor for over 20 years. Andi McNair is a passionate educator, author and speaker. Andi taught in the gen-ed classroom for 16 years, and then switched to serving gifted learners where she found her calling. She enjoys sharing her passion for innovative education through her books for educators, speaking nationally, and finding meaningful ways to use technology. Andi currently works as the Digital Innovation Specialist in a Waco, Texas school district. BACKGROUND READING Brian Housand's website, BH Facebook, BH Twitter/X, BH Instagram Andi McNair's website, AM Facebook, AM Twitter/X, AM Instagram The Neurodiversity Podcast is on Facebook, Instagram, BlueSky, and you're invited to join our Facebook Group. For more information go to www.NeurodiversityPodcast.com If you'd like members of your organization, school district, or company to know more about the subjects discussed on our podcast, Emily Kircher-Morris provides keynote addresses, workshops, and training sessions worldwide, in-person or virtually. You can choose from a list of established presentations, or work with Emily to develop a custom talk to fit your unique situation. To learn more, visit our website.
What if real change doesn't happen through giant bursts of motivation… but through tiny repeated stitches over time? In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Wendi Bergin shares her idea for a “15-Minute Summer” after realizing that spending just 15 minutes a day learning to quilt would give her nearly 18 hours of practice before her daughter returns to school. That simple realization opened the door to a bigger conversation about overwhelm, motherhood, preparedness, burnout, perfectionism, and why the brain often resists massive projects but responds well to tiny manageable steps. Using quilting as a metaphor for life, Wendi explores how meaningful things are often built slowly: one seam, one square, one tiny faithful effort at a time. She also shares the psychology behind small habits, including how small wins create momentum in the brain and why manageable goals help reduce emotional resistance and procrastination. The episode takes a deeper turn into disappointment and unmet expectations with the phrase: “Yes, thank you.” Wendi discusses how cognitive reframing and emotional resilience can help us continue showing up for our lives even when plans fall apart, routines get messy, or progress feels slower than expected. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stuck, discouraged, or emotionally exhausted, this episode is a gentle reminder that tiny stitches still matter. Your life does not need a giant overhaul overnight. Maybe you just need the next 15 minutes. Connect with Wendi Bergin and share your own “15-Minute Summer” goal at wendi@joyfulprep.com Joyfully Prepared Library -https://www.joyfullypreparedlibrary.com Meal Planning Worksheet - https://joyfulprep.kartra.com/page/planning Joyfully Prepared Realtor - https://joyfullyprepared.com/realestate/ Website - https://joyfullyprepared.com Instagram - https://instagram.com/joyfulprepper Facebook - https://www.joyfulprepgroup.com
Have you ever watched your child melt down before a project even begins, refuse to try unless they're sure they'll succeed, or abandon something halfway through? If so, you're not alone—and it's not laziness or stubbornness. This week on the podcast, we're unpacking the hidden side of perfectionism in our neurodivergent kids, especially when it shows up as avoidance. Key Takeaways Normalize Beginnerhood: Let your child see you start new things and make mistakes—show them it's okay not to be perfect right away. Shrink the Entry Point: Break projects into tiny, manageable steps so getting started feels less intimidating. Praise Effort, Not Perfection: Celebrate risk-taking, persistence, and trying—mistakes are experiences, not identity. Model Emotional Safety: Remind your child that progress matters, mistakes are allowed, and their worth isn't tied to performance. Collaborate & Scaffold: Offer body-doubling, share in tasks, and provide extra support when needed—support is not failure. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling outside-the-box learners! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Tackling Perfectionism | A Conversation with Lisa Van Gemert Managing Perfectionism | Strategies for Parents Anxiety vs. Stress vs. Perfectionism: Helping Our Children Cope Perfectionism And Gifted Children: What You Need To Know Managing Perfectionism: 10 Tips for Helping Your Gifted Child RLL #81: [Audioblog] Managing Perfectionism: 10 Tips for Helping Your Child RLL #55: Helping Your Child Manage Perfectionism RLL #52: Overcoming Perfectionism and Finding Joy in Homeschooling Homeschool Testing | Helping Your Perfectionist Do Hard Things
Jeannette breaks down the common misconception that successful leaders and entrepreneurs possess a natural, unshakeable confidence, revealing instead that self-doubt and insecurity affect everyone behind closed doors. She examines the pressures of modern leadership in a hyper-visible social media age, warning against the traps of perfectionism and comparison that stifle progress You'll Learn Why: True confidence is rarely a natural talent; it is a muscle built incrementally through practice, trial and error, and continuous repetition. Perfectionism does not exist. Waiting for conditions to be perfect breeds overthinking and hesitation; true growth requires taking massive action while accepting your flaws. To expand a business, a leader must remain visible to clients and teams. This visibility demands the courage to make mistakes publicly and press forward anyway. True leadership confidence does not look like dominating a room or seeking constant external validation. The most impactful leaders speak less but carry deep gravitas when they do. This episode is living proof that no matter where you're starting from — or what life throws at you — it's never too late to be brave, bold, and unlock your inner brilliant. Visit https://brave-bold-brilliant.com/ for free tools, guides and resources to help you take action now
Cindy Esliger explores why personal and professional growth often feels threatening. This feeling can be compounded for women working in environments where they already feel constant pressure to prove themselves. Admitting that we are improving can feel risky because it means acknowledging that we didn't always have all the answers. Cindy explains how many of us were conditioned through school and early experiences to avoid failure at all costs, even though career success and innovation require experimentation and mistakes. She discusses the hidden pressures women face while trying to grow, including perfectionism, double standards, and the emotional labor of constantly managing how they are perceived. Cindy outlines four common pitfalls women encounter when they begin owning their growth: 1. The double bind, 2. The perfectionism trap, 3. The language audit problem, and 4. Invisible labor. She also shares six warning signs to watch for in professional environments: 1. Growth being framed as ‘catching up', 2. Moving goalposts, 3. Isolation, 4. The humble trap, 5. Comparison culture, and 6. Shame-fuelled perfectionism and fear of failure. Cindy reframes the beliefs that keep people stuck, challenging the idea that failure proves incompetence. Instead, she explains that growth comes from learning to cope with frustration, confusion, disappointment, and even humiliation without giving up. To help make growth more manageable, Cindy shares five practical strategies: 1. Create a proof of progress file, 2. Do a language audit, 3. Use the cope and adjust framework, 4. Embrace strategic failure, and 5. Apply the momentum principle. She explains that confidence is not built by avoiding failure, but by repeatedly surviving it and continuing forward anyway. The ability to fail, learn, and keep moving becomes one of the most valuable career skills we can develop. Cindy encourages us to stop waiting for external validation, start documenting our progress, and recognize that becoming better than before requires courage. Resources discussed in this episode: Guide to Owning Your Growth Without Apology Astronomic Audio Confidence Collective — Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
When a neurodivergent child or teen struggles with daytime focus, emotional volatility, or low frustration tolerance, caregivers naturally look for behavioral or psychological explanations. However, chronic sleep deprivation frequently hides behind these daytime struggles, acting as an unseen amplifier for executive dysfunction and sensory overload. Dr. Melisa Moore, a clinical psychologist and board-certified behavioral sleep medicine specialist at Rady Children's Health San Diego, joins Emily Kircher-Morris to reframe sleep not as an isolated nighttime issue, but as a continuous 24-hour biological reality deeply intertwined with neurodivergence. They talk about specific genetic, chronobiological, and comorbid factors that cause sleep disorders, the structural differences in adolescent circadian rhythms, and methods to address bedtime sensory traps. TAKEAWAYS Neurodivergent individuals experience higher rates of sleep disorders due to shared genetic roots, co-occurring medical conditions, and baseline variations in biological clocks. ADHDers often experience a natural circadian rhythm delay of up to two hours, while autistic people often possess highly inconsistent circadian patterns from night to night. Daytime sleepiness in younger children rarely presents as lethargy and instead as hyperactivity, increased irritability, dysregulation, and an increased use of negative emotion words. Shifting the bedtime linguistic framework from "trying to sleep" to "waiting for sleep to arrive" reduces cognitive pressure and lowers physiological alertness. Underlying physiological issues like obstructive sleep apnea or periodic limb movement disorder directly mimic or exacerbate the core diagnostic criteria of ADHD, including severe inattention and social friction. Perfectionism can be difficult to identify in therapy, and once identified, still very difficult to overcome. If you're a mental health professional, join us for Overcoming Perfectionism in Therapy: Supporting Neurodivergent Clients Who Keep Moving the Finish Line. Matt Zakreski will present this 1.5 hour continuing education course on June 5th at 1:00 pm Central, and if you can't join us live, that's okay. The video will be available afterward for anyone who registers, and either version is APA and NBCC approved for 1.5 hours of continuing education credit. Register now or learn more at this link, or just go to neurodiversity.university. Dr. Melisa Moore, PhD is a clinical psychologist and board-certified behavioral sleep medicine specialist who focuses on sleep and mood challenges in children, teens, and young adults. She works at the sleep center at Rady Children's Health San Diego and also provides care through her private practice, supporting clients across the country with a specialization in neurodiversity. Dr. Moore is the author of The Good Sleep Guide for Neurodivergent Kids, offering practical, research-informed strategies to help families improve sleep in ways that are both effective and affirming. BACKGROUND READING Melisa's website, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn The Neurodiversity Podcast is on Facebook, Instagram, BlueSky, and you're invited to join our Facebook Group. For more information go to www.NeurodiversityPodcast.com If you'd like members of your organization, school district, or company to know more about the subjects discussed on our podcast, Emily Kircher-Morris provides keynote addresses, workshops, and training sessions worldwide, in-person or virtually. You can choose from a list of established presentations, or work with Emily to develop a custom talk to fit your unique situation. To learn more, visit our website.
Cindy Esliger unpacks the hidden cost of self-doubt and how hesitation quietly sabotages career growth. In competitive workplaces, many women spend too much time overthinking conversations and waiting to feel ready. We hold back instead of speaking up. Cindy explains that confidence is not a personality trait that a few of us luck into; it's a skill that can be developed. Action, resilience, and self-trust are the keys to growing confidence, and she highlights how, without them, holding back can damage our visibility, momentum, and professional reputation over time. Many of us believe confidence means being the loudest person in the room, but Cindy challenges that idea. Real confidence is about genuine presence. Cindy outlines five common pitfalls that keep brilliant women stuck: 1. Confusing confidence with extroversion, 2. Perfectionism, 3. People pleasing, 4. Risk aversion, and 5. The readiness illusion. These patterns often feel responsible or safe, but they slowly reinforce self-doubt and make it harder to step into leadership opportunities. Cindy states that the real consequences of constantly playing small include burnout and resentment, stalled career growth, and missed opportunities. She shares five red flags to watch for in our own behavior: 1. Using diminishing phrases to preface ideas, 2. Waiting to be called to speak, 3. Declining opportunities because we don't meet all criteria, 4. Attributing our success to luck instead of competence, and 5. Avoiding opportunities to share our expertise. Cindy offers practical strategies for growing confidence from within, like keeping promises to ourselves, practicing self-compassion, and creating reset rituals, among others. The goal is not to become someone else, but to stop letting outdated thought patterns dictate how we show up at work. Resources discussed in this episode: Guide to Building Your Confidence Astronomic Audio Confidence Collective — Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Parents often believe they know their children, when in reality they haven't made the effort to really understand them. That understanding can be even harder when adding ADHD into the mix. Dr. Sharon Saline is a clinical psychologist and author of the book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew. She talks with Emily Kircher-Morris about how to go about understanding your child better, and how ADHD can complicate the relationship. This conversation was previously released. Perfectionism can be difficult to identify in therapy, and once identified, still very difficult to overcome. If you're a mental health professional, join us for Overcoming Perfectionism in Therapy: Supporting Neurodivergent Clients Who Keep Moving the Finish Line. Dr. Matt Zakreski will present this 1.5 hour continuing education course on June 5th at 1:00 pm Central, and if you can't join us live, that's okay. The video will be available afterward for anyone who registers, and either version is APA and NBCC approved for 1.5 hours of continuing education credit. Register now or learn more at this link, or just go to neurodiversity.university. Sharon Saline, Psy.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of the award-winning book, What Your ADHD Child Wishes You Knew: Working Together to Empower Kids for Success in School and Life, and creator of The ADHD Solution card deck, which specializes in working with neurodiverse children, teens, adults and families living with ADHD, learning disabilities, high-functioning autism, twice exceptionality and mental health issues. Working for years as a clinician, educator, coach and consultant, she translates complex information into accessible language and concepts that everybody can understand and apply in their lives. BACKGROUND READING Facebook, Instagram, Twitter/X, Pinterest, LinkedIn, YouTube The Neurodiversity Podcast is on Facebook, Instagram, BlueSky, and you're invited to join our Facebook Group. For more information go to www.NeurodiversityPodcast.com If you'd like members of your organization, school district, or company to know more about the subjects discussed on our podcast, Emily Kircher-Morris provides keynote addresses, workshops, and training sessions worldwide, in-person or virtually. You can choose from a list of established presentations, or work with Emily to develop a custom talk to fit your unique situation. To learn more, visit our website.
Are you actually stuck… or are you hiding behind perfection?Most nonfiction authors say they're “not ready.” Kristin Bentley calls that out for what it is.As founder and CEO of EP House, Kristin has spent 25+ years helping leaders, experts, and change-makers turn lived experience into books that matter. In this conversation, she breaks apart the idea that confidence comes first… and replaces it with something far more uncomfortable and far more effective.Because the truth? You don't think your way into writing a book. You write your way into clarity.What This Episode Will Challenge:“Ready” is a moving target. If you're waiting for it, you may be waiting forever.Clarity doesn't come before the work. It shows up because of it… and only if you start.Outlines can help… or quietly stall you. There's a fine line between structure and avoidance.Writer's block isn't random. It's usually pointing to something deeper you'd rather not face.Your voice gets lost the moment you try to please everyone. And most authors don't realize when that's happening.Kristin also shares how to use tools like AI without losing your voice, how to move through resistance without forcing it, and why your first draft should feel a little uncomfortable if you're doing it right.If you've been circling your book, tweaking your outline, or telling yourself you'll start “soon”… this episode will hit closer than expected. So, tune in now!Here's how to connect with Kristin:Website: EPHouse.coLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristin-hernquist-bentleyFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristin.hernquist.bentley*************************************************************************When Visibility Feels Hard, Podcast Guesting Changes the GameIf you know your book deserves more reach but visibility feels like a struggle, podcast guesting can open the right doors.Podcast Connections gets you in front of the audiences who need your message and your expertise.Contact them at PodcastConnections.co*************************************************************************
Author, Glory Edim joins Dr. Thema to share her homecoming journey in understanding the roots of her perfectionism and the path to self acceptance and worthiness. Glory talks about the role of books as a coping strategy, imagination activator, and source of comfort and liberation. From the departure of her father to her experience as a single mother, Glory shares a powerfully transparent testimony. Glory Edim is a writer, literary advocate, and the founder of Well-Read Black Girl (WRBG), a nationally recognized community and literary imprint dedicated to celebrating and publishing the voices of Black women writers. Founded in 2015, WRBG has grown from a book club into a cultural platform that amplifies diverse narratives and fosters dialogue at the intersection of literature, identity, and social change. Edim is the editor of the Well-Read Black Girl anthology and the author of the memoir Gather Me (2024), a reflective exploration of self-discovery and the transformative power of books. Through her writing and editorial work, Edim continues to champion literacy, representation, and Black literary traditions. Don't forget to get her book and like, subscribe, comment, and share.
There are moments in life that feel like little winks from the universe… quiet confirmations that you're on the right path, even when you didn't realize you needed reassurance. This episode was born from one of those moments. I brought a story I've been writing—something that's lived in my heart for years—into my classroom. It wasn't polished. It wasn't illustrated. It wasn't even finished. Just simple words printed on plain white paper. Before I began, I told the class there were no pictures, so they would have to imagine everything in their minds. And they did. They leaned in, they listened, and when I asked what they thought the message was, their answers were so pure and so beautiful—“to have a colorful heart”… “to be grateful.” They felt it. They understood it. Even without the ending. And then life carried on. Recess came, the story paused, and I honestly thought that moment would just drift away like so many small classroom memories do. But days later, a little hand went up. “What happened to that story?” A boy remembered. He was still thinking about it. He wanted to know how it ended. And in that moment, something shifted. Because that's when I shared the truth—that the story wasn't finished yet… and that I was the author. The students response? “You're going to make millions. It's amazing. We want to buy it.” And while that made me smile (and hey… I'll take the millions too
Welcome to an inside look at a private accountability call. You'll hear a real-time business audit as Truly coaches his client through the hurdles of launching her "Audit Your Policy" brand. If you've been stuck on the "minimum questions" for a survey or feel paralyzed by perfectionism, this episode is your blueprint for moving forward.[Key Takeaways]The 90/10 Teeter-Totter: Why 10% of your year (36.5 days) should be dedicated to "not doing shit" so you can be 100% effective the rest of the time.Stop Fighting Yourself: The secret to high-level performance is aligning your business with your identity rather than fighting against your natural tendencies.The Perfectionism Trap: A deep dive into why we get stuck on small technicalities (like survey questions) and how to break through the "minimum requirement" mindset.Realistic Expectations for 2026: How to set the tone for the rest of the year by getting a clear update on your business standing and identity.Discipline vs. Consumption: A vulnerable moment about the habit of "buying stuff for no reason" and how better discipline changes your business output.[The Keyholder Challenge]Are you living 90% of the time or doing 90% of the time? As you listen to this coaching audit, ask yourself: Where am I on the teeter-totter?#BusinessCoaching #TimeManagement #EntrepreneurMindset #9010Rule #KeyholderCall #2026Success #OvercomingPerfectionism
Have you ever found yourself running on empty—trying to hold everything together while quietly feeling like you’re falling apart? If so, you’re not alone. And today’s episode of The Love Offering Podcast was recorded with you in mind. In this honest and hope-filled conversation, I sit down with author and speaker Vivian Cumins to talk about burnout, breakdown, and the beautiful way God meets us right in the middle of it all. In her book Break Down Better, Vivian shares her personal story of striving, exhaustion, and a breaking point that ultimately became the doorway to deep healing and restoration. Together, we talk about why so many women feel overwhelmed, how perfectionism and control can keep us stuck, and what it looks like to surrender our lives back to the Lord—one step at a time. In this episode, you’ll discover:• The subtle warning signs of burnout you may be overlooking• Why rest is not selfish—it’s biblical• How surrender can lead to deeper freedom and peace• Practical ways to invite God into your everyday life• Encouragement for finding joy again, even in hard seasons If you’ve been feeling exhausted, discouraged, or stretched too thin, I pray this conversation reminds you of this simple but powerful truth: God is near, and He longs to restore what feels worn down in you. Friend, you don’t have to keep striving. You don’t have to carry it all. There is a better way—and it begins by turning back to Him. With love,Rachael P.S. If this episode encourages you, would you share it with a friend who might need it too? You never know how God might use a simple invitation to bring someone hope. Connect with Vivian: Home | Vivian Cumins Connect with Rachael: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Download your Free Love Always Devotional: https://rachaelkadams.com/free/ Read the Show Notes: https://rachaelkadams.com/writing/ Support the Show: https://rachaelkadams.com/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3977: Kelley Long challenges the costly illusion of perfection in personal finance, showing how playing it “safe” can quietly sabotage long-term wealth. By reframing risk, credit, and savings as flexible tools rather than rigid benchmarks, she reveals how embracing imperfection can unlock smarter financial decisions. Let this perspective shift help you avoid missed opportunities and build real financial freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2017/12/06/your-obsession-with-being-perfect-could-cost-you-six-figures/ Quotes to ponder: "When it comes to investing, there is no perfect, but generally speaking, the longer your time horizon, the more chance that taking risk will pay off." "What's the point of having a great credit score if you're not going to use it?" "Anything over 750 is enough, heck even 720 will be good enough to offer you great credit options." Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3977: Kelley Long challenges the costly illusion of perfection in personal finance, showing how playing it “safe” can quietly sabotage long-term wealth. By reframing risk, credit, and savings as flexible tools rather than rigid benchmarks, she reveals how embracing imperfection can unlock smarter financial decisions. Let this perspective shift help you avoid missed opportunities and build real financial freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2017/12/06/your-obsession-with-being-perfect-could-cost-you-six-figures/ Quotes to ponder: "When it comes to investing, there is no perfect, but generally speaking, the longer your time horizon, the more chance that taking risk will pay off." "What's the point of having a great credit score if you're not going to use it?" "Anything over 750 is enough, heck even 720 will be good enough to offer you great credit options." Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3977: Kelley Long challenges the costly illusion of perfection in personal finance, showing how playing it “safe” can quietly sabotage long-term wealth. By reframing risk, credit, and savings as flexible tools rather than rigid benchmarks, she reveals how embracing imperfection can unlock smarter financial decisions. Let this perspective shift help you avoid missed opportunities and build real financial freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialfinesse.com/2017/12/06/your-obsession-with-being-perfect-could-cost-you-six-figures/ Quotes to ponder: "When it comes to investing, there is no perfect, but generally speaking, the longer your time horizon, the more chance that taking risk will pay off." "What's the point of having a great credit score if you're not going to use it?" "Anything over 750 is enough, heck even 720 will be good enough to offer you great credit options." Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Think-Supposed-Embrace/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Momentum Matters, we sit down with executive facilitator Vitali Harden to explore how perfectionism impacts leadership, trust, and team culture—and what to do about it.Vitali shares her personal journey from high-achieving perfectionist to trust-centered leader, revealing how perfectionism is often rooted in fear—and how it shows up in subtle but powerful ways like overthinking, people-pleasing, burnout, and stalled innovation.Together, we unpack how leaders can let go of unrealistic standards, build healthier habits, and create high-trust environments where individuals and teams can thrive.We also dive into the modern pressures fueling perfectionism—from AI-driven productivity to social media comparison—and how to reclaim space, presence, and self-trust in a constantly moving world.In this episode, you'll learn: Why perfectionism is rooted in fear How it shows up in leadership and team dynamics The connection between perfectionism and low-trust cultures Practical ways to reduce overthinking and people-pleasing How to build “self-trust anchors” and sustainable habits The impact of AI and social media on focus and well-being How to lead with transparency and build trust during uncertainty If you're a high performer, leader, or someone who struggles with “getting it just right,” this conversation will give you practical tools and powerful mindset shifts to lead with confidence—not perfection.Visit our website: www.MomentumLeaders.org Follow us on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MomentumLeadersInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/momentumleadersLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/momentumleadersYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@momentumleaders
Ryan goes live — sort of — and ends up doing what he does best: real, honest coaching. In this solo-ish episode, Ryan chats with Mark Cruz about the fear of hiring help and what it actually looks like to start delegating in a small video business. Ryan also gets candid about overcoming perfectionism and why launching imperfectly beats not launching at all. Key Takeaways Hiring a virtual assistant through sites like onlinejobs.ph or Upwork — even for just 5–10 hours a week — can free up serious mental bandwidth and open the door to more revenue-generating work You don't need consistent income to start hiring; start small, build trust, and scale from there Perfectionism is the enemy of progress — in business and in life, done beats perfect every time Use AI tools (like Claude!) alongside personality assessments to build a hiring process that finds someone who truly complements how you work About Ryan Koral Ryan Koral is a documentary filmmaker, founder, and creative coach based in Michigan. Over the last 20+ years, he's built a 7-figure story-driven video studio (Tell Studios), a global community of filmmakers and creative entrepreneurs (Studio Sherpas), and a weekly podcast with over 1 million downloads. His work has reached email audiences of over 100,000 people, and he's had the privilege of working with names like Gino Wickman, Mike Kim, Disney, and the University of Michigan. Today, Ryan helps founders and experts who are the best-kept secret in their industry step into their voice, tell their story, and build a brand people believe in. He's currently writing a book about storytelling in the age of AI. In This Episode [00:00] Welcome to the show! [07:24] Hiring an Executive Assistant [16:02] Buy Back Your Time [23:25] Overcoming Perfectionism [25:49] What Could Happen? [28:51] Being More Authentic [31:22] Outro Quotes "You don't learn until you launch." — Ryan Koral "If you just got 10 hours back a week — how would that feel?" — Ryan Koral "I built my job, my studio, for my life — I'm not trying to build my life around my work." — Ryan Koral "Make mistakes, go ugly early, try things out at a fraction of the cost to learn your processes." — Ryan Koral Links Find out more about the Studio Sherpas Mastermind Join the Grow Your Video Business Facebook Group Follow Ryan Koral on Instagram Follow Grow Your Video Business on Instagram Join the Studio Sherpas newsletter
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.Episode 276 of the Make Time for Success podcast kicks off a 3-week miniseries exploring hidden patterns that drain time, energy, and progress. In this episode, host Dr. Christine Li dives deep into perfectionism, revealing how it can secretly sabotage productivity by fueling control, avoidance, and exhaustion. She shares insights on why striving for perfect results often leads to mental fatigue, procrastination, and lost opportunities, and offers practical strategies to help listeners step back from perfectionism, reclaim their energy, and get work done with greater ease. The episode encourages embracing progress over perfection and reconnecting with genuine satisfaction and self-esteem in your work and life.Timestamps00:00:00: Dr. Christine Li introduces the miniseries and today's topic perfectionism.00:01:04: Dr. Christine Li shares her background and podcast purpose.00:01:47: Perfectionism's impact on productivity begins.00:03:23: Fears driving perfectionism are discussed.00:04:31: Negative consequences of perfectionism outlined.00:06:51: Signs of perfectionism in work habits explained.00:09:07: Mindset shifts to let go of perfectionism offered.00:13:09: Detaching self-worth from work and focusing on progress.00:14:34: Final advice and preview of next episode.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/perfectionismTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/labSimply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
Jessie Mershon discusses how perfectionism can hinder progress and how taking control of your life as the driver, not passenger, can help you reach your goals in health, fitness, and life. She shares practical tips on handling setbacks, making mindful choices, and embracing the messiness of growth. 00:00 Taking Control of Your Life 03:14 Overcoming Perfectionism in Health and Fitness 05:59 Making Conscious Choices 08:47 Embracing Imperfection for Growth
Did you know that happy people are less judgmental? Nobody likes being judged… and for the judgmental ones, it doesn't feel good either. We've all been judgy, and the truth is, being overly critical of others is often linked to insecurity, anxiety, perfectionism, and unhappiness. Subscribe to my new Substack! In this week's quickie, we're unpacking the psychology of judgment: where it comes from, why we do it, and how to become less judgmental in a world that fuels comparison and criticism about everything from how we parent, to how we look, to how we earn and spend our money. Judgment usually says more about our own wounds than someone else's behaviour. So we're exploring the psychological drivers behind judging, and psychology-backed tools to shift into a more curious, understanding, and compassionate mindset. Tune in to hear: Why the ego needs to feel “right” The link between perfectionism and criticism How insecurity and comparison fuels judgment The connection between self-judgment and judging others Understanding the Fundamental Attribution Error The blind spots I've had to confront in my own judgments Using curiosity as the antidote to judgment Challenging your assumptions and biases Practicing self-compassion to reduce projection For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube
In this episode, we are joined by Habits and Identity Coach Monica Packer to explore why the most profound transformation happens in the "messy middle" of our big goals. Monica shares how to dismantle maladaptive perfectionism and replace it with a Do Something mindset that values consistent progress over polished, all-or-nothing results.Tune in to learn:How to break the all-or-nothing pendulum swing of perfectionism that leads to burnout, underachieving, or staying stuck at the starting line.The secrets to bridging the gap between your big vision and your daily reality by focusing on the transformative power of the process rather than just the final outcome.How to identify and navigate tipping points—learning how to stay on the path even when you feel dejected or like you are on a sinking ship.Practical ways to start a Do Something approach by taking one small, messy step today to build momentum toward your vision.By aligning your dreams with your core values, Monica provides a roadmap to rediscover who you are outside of your roles and embrace the beautiful reality of growth.Free Gift: Do Something List TrainingReady to explore who you are? The Do Something List (DSL) is your answer. This free training will help you uncover and discover what makes you "YOU," and all outside goals and resolutions.Monica's Giveaway Contribution: 1-on-1 Habit and Identity Coaching SessionStop spinning your wheels and get tailored support with a 60-minute, 1-on-1 Habit and Identity Coaching Session with Monica Packer. Valued at $197, this deep-dive session is your chance to troubleshoot exactly where your progress has stalled so you can finally trade all-or-nothing thinking for actual momentum.Connect with Monica: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Enter the Book Launch Celebration Giveaway!
As a continually recovering perfectionist myself, I share why that drive to do everything just right can actually hold kids back from starting, trying, and growing. We've all heard “progress over perfection,” but I wanted to explore what that really looks like in everyday life, especially for teenagers who can freeze up when things don't feel exact or guaranteed.The kitchen, in my opinion, is one of the best places to practice letting go of perfection. When I filmed Teens Cook Real Food with eight real teens who were mostly beginners, we captured the messy, real-life moments: broken eggs, small cuts, burned food, and lots of learning along the way. I intentionally pushed them to measure like TV chefs, eyeball seasonings, and move faster than felt comfortable, all to help loosen that grip of perfectionism. Cooking shows us that food doesn't need to be flawless to be delicious, and that it's actually pretty hard to completely mess things up.When kids can aim for “yummy” instead of “five-star restaurant quality,” they gain confidence, experience, and momentum. If you have a teen whose perfectionist tendencies keep them from trying new things or putting themselves out there, cooking can be a powerful and practical way to help them grow.Get the parenting video series now at raisinghealthyfamilies.com/teenvids or check out Teens Cook Real Food at raisinghealthyfamilies.com/teenscookResources We Mention for Overcoming Perfectionism in the KitchenTeens Cook Real Food courseFree 3-part video series on parenting teens intentionallyTeen Tidbit 1 on ownershipTeen Tidbit 2 on agencySubscribe to the podcast so you don't miss any episodes this week! Apple, Spotify, other options Kitchen Stewardship Raising Healthy Families follow Katie on Instagram or Facebook Subscribe to the newsletter to get weekly updates YouTube shorts channel for HPH Find the Healthy Parenting Handbook at raisinghealthyfamilies.com/podcast Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!
In this episode, we cover:How Charmaine turned her own search for worth into a life of serviceWho she serves—and why purpose doesn't have an age, role, or titleWhy confidence and finances are common roadblocks for mission-driven entrepreneursLetting go of perfection and choosing authenticity insteadFaith, consistency, and perseverance when building something meaningfulWhy your win doesn't have to look like someone else'sCreating space for people who feel invisible or unworthyHow small daily actions compound into long-term impactConnect with Charmaine Casimir:Speaker profile: womenspeakers.com (Philadelphia)Instagram / Facebook / YouTube: @EmpowermentJourney1Website: https://charmainecasimir.wixsite.com/powerful-petals-1Key Questions(00:54) How did you get to where you are today? I'm sure it was very linear, right?(01:33) Who do you tend to serve these days?(02:22) How do you get in front of them? How do you find them? Or how do they find you?(03:07) Do you do anything online?(03:38) How are some ways that you help them?(04:50) Do you have any modalities that you use to help people?(05:53) What are some big goals that you have in the next year or two?(06:55) How many books do you have?(08:15) On those struggles, what have you learned or how have you been able to persevere through the struggles with having a business?(09:28) What do you feel is What is the number one roadblock from stopping you achieving more stages, bigger stages, some of your goals?(11:01) What is the best advice that you have ever received?(14:53) What's the best advice you've ever given?(16:35) Can you talk to us a little bit about being a beating heart for people who don't feel worthy?(19:24) Is there anything that we haven't touched on yet that you would like to to talk about?(20:58) Do you have a place on your website or something like that that shows your upcoming events?Charmaine Casimirwomenspeakers.com/united-states/philadelphia/speaker/charmaine-casimir@Empowermentjourney1 Facebook Instagram and YouTubehttps://charmainecasimir.wixsite.com/powerful-petals-1Virginia PurnellFunnel & Visibility SpecialistDistinct Digital Marketing(833) 762-5336virginia@distinctdigitalmarketing.comwww.distinctdigitalmarketing.com
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the balance between waiting on God's timing and taking proactive action in life. He emphasizes the dangers of perfectionism leading to procrastination and encourages listeners to take imperfect action towards their goals. Using scripture and personal anecdotes, Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate the tension between patience and proactivity, ultimately guiding listeners towards personal growth and integrity. Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) The Tension Between Waiting and Action (03:40) Understanding the Problem (08:34) Overcoming Perfectionism and Procrastination
Text Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). When co‑host Brandon Clift and his pregnant wife climbed aboard a neighbour's Piper Apache, they expected a relaxing ski trip in West Virginia. Instead, one engine failed on take‑off, forcing their small plane to circle back as gusting winds pushed them toward the trees. With another pilot trailing the plane calmly advising “hold your blue line” over the radio, their pilots managed a safe landing. In this episode, Brandon recalls looking at his wife and wondering whether they were about to orphan their three‑year‑old daughter while denying their unborn baby a chance to live. He explains how that question cracked open his own perfectionism and catalysed a new commitment to “sovereignty” and action."Is this it?"Brandon shares the full story of the incident and, more importantly, what shifted in the weeks that followed. This conversation explores how proximity to death can strip away old narratives and expose what actually matters.Takeaways – Near‑death experiences can act as catalysts for growth, but listeners don't need to flirt with danger to integrate the lessons. The hosts encourage men to:Recognise the opportunities and support networks already in place.Choose empowering meanings for challenging events, leveraging the brain's RAS to find evidence that supports growth.Adopt identity‑based habits by deciding who you want to become and taking consistent action.Prioritise purpose and sovereignty over perfectionism.This episode is not about chasing danger or manufacturing trauma. It is an invitation to look honestly at the places where fear, old stories, and self protection are quietly delaying the life you already know you are meant to live.If you have been waiting for certainty, permission, or the perfect plan, this conversation may be the nudge you did not know you needed.- Atomic Habits by James Clear BetterHelp: Get 10% Off Your First Month Of Therapy The ManKind Podcast has partnered with Betterhelp to make it easier for listeners to access licensed mental health therapists who can aid them in their mental health journey. Brandon and Boysen stand by this service as they use BetterHelp for their therapy needs.#Sponsorship #AdSupport the showGet up to 48% off Magic Mind with our link:https://magicmind.com/MANKIND50 Subscribe/Rate/Review on iTunes ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐: >>>HERE
Send us a textYou have the data. You have the insight. You know the answer. But while you are double-checking your notes to be 100% certain, someone with half your experience speaks up and claims the idea.Does this sound familiar?For many women leaders, over-preparation isn't just a habit; it's a survival strategy that has morphed into a barrier. We often tell ourselves we are being "thorough" or "strategic," but in reality, we are operating from fear—the fear that if we aren't perfect, we aren't qualified.In this episode, Kele Belton dismantles the myth that more preparation equals better leadership. We explore the dangerous difference between strategic diligence and fear-based delay, and why the behaviors that got you promoted early in your career might be the very things preventing you from reaching the C-suite today.If you find yourself rewriting emails five times, building 60-slide decks for 15-minute meetings, or staying silent until you have "all the answers," this episode is your permission slip to stop proving yourself and start leading.What You Will Learn:The "Maya" Case Study: How one director went from freezing in executive meetings to earning a senior leadership promotion by reducing her prep time.The T.R.U.S.T. Framework: A 5-step tool to move you from analysis paralysis to confident contribution.Strategic vs. Fear-Based: How to identify if you are preparing to add value or preparing to avoid risk.The "First 10 Minutes" Rule: A simple challenge to shift how you are perceived in high-stakes meetings.Scripts for Uncertainty: Exact phrases you can use to sound authoritative even when you don't have all the data.Key Quotes:"Over-preparation isn't perfectionism. It's fear wearing a very convincing disguise.""While you're preparing, someone else is contributing. While you're perfecting, someone else is influencing.""Your goal isn't to be perfect and unchallengeable. Your goal is to be prepared enough to represent your expertise."Resources Mentioned:Work with Kele: Schedule your complimentary Leadership Strategy Call HERELeave a Review: If you loved this episode, please leave a review here.About Your Host:Kele Belton is a communication and leadership facilitator, coach, and consultant who specializes in helping women leaders develop confidence and impact through strategic communication and practical leadership frameworks.Connect with Kele for more leadership insights:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com
Beginning the Journey: An Introduction to the Gospel of John with Dr. David L. MathewsonSeason Three of Divine Table Talk opens with a rich and thoughtful introduction to the Gospel of John, featuring special guest David L. Mathewson, PhD. Dr. Mathewson—associate professor of New Testament at Denver Seminary—guides Jamie and Jane through the purpose, structure, and theological depth of John's Gospel.Together, they explore why John is written “that you may believe,” how its language and themes shape our understanding of Jesus, and what makes this Gospel uniquely formative for faith and discipleship. This episode sets the foundation for the year ahead, inviting listeners to slow down, read deeply, and encounter Jesus not just as a teacher—but as the Word made flesh.Whether you're new to studying Scripture or ready to go deeper, this conversation will equip and inspire you as we begin our journey through John together.____________________________________Connect with Dr. David Mathewson:Website: https://denverseminary.edu/directory/mathewson-phd-david-lEmail David: EMAILConnect with Jamie:Website: www.jamieklusacek.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamieklusacekConnect with Jane:Website: www.janewwilliams.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/janewwilliams____________________________________ Get Jamie's Newest Book:Living Loved: An 8-week Journey to Living Fully Loved
Is perfectionism holding you back from going even further in your elopement photography business? If you feel like perfectionism has been keeping you feeling stuck, behind, or constantly second-guessing every move in your business, then this episode is for you. Today, we are having an honest conversation about perfectionism and talking about why it leads to procrastination, how taking imperfect action can lead to faster success, and our own personal experiences struggling with perfectionism. If you've been holding yourself back because you're afraid to put something out before it feels flawless, hit play now because this episode will help you take the pressure off, trust yourself more, and start moving forward again. Apply now for the Dream Destination Workshop The 2026 lineup for the Dream Destination Workshop: Alaska: July 12-17, 2026 Iceland: August 2-7, 2026 Switzerland: August 10-15, 2026 Connect with Megan:
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In this New Year reflection episode of Make Time for Success, Dr. Christine Li shares 13 powerful insights and lessons inspired by her clients in the Success Lab program. She encourages listeners to embrace the present moment, appreciate the value of slow and steady progress, let go of perfectionism and clutter, prioritize relationships, and envision big possibilities for the year ahead. The episode closes with an uplifting meditation to help you set intentions for a successful and joy-filled 2026.Timestamps:03:27 – "Be where you are:" Dr. Christine Li shares the foundational idea of embracing your present circumstances, using her hotel lobby recording location as a real-time example.04:00 – "Slow is not less than fast:" The concept that moving slowly does not mean you are less successful; in fact, slow, mindful progress is celebrated by members of her Success Lab.05:54 – "The things that seem impossible right now are doable if you take tiny steps and you stay consistent." Dr. Christine Li encourages listeners to break down big goals into micro steps and maintain consistency for surprising results.06:15 – "Putting pressure on yourself is just another way of slowing you down." On the importance of self-compassion and reducing unnecessary expectations to avoid overwhelm and paralysis.09:15 – "When you let things go, you end up revealing more of your true self." Letting go of hangups, patterns, or clutter allows your authentic self to shine and brings greater fulfillment.13:11 – "Use life as a playground, not a prison." A motivating reflection on the possibilities and freedoms we all have, inviting the audience to approach the new year with playfulness and power.17:16 – Dr. Christine Li's New Year Reflection/Meditation. A guided meditation and affirmation, beautifully rounding out the episode's themes.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/newyearTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/labSimply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
Send us a textWhat if the biggest glow-up of 2026 isn't about goals, resolutions, or a 47-step plan… but about letting go of the sh*t that's been draining you all year?
Send us a textWe ask a simple but searching question: is a date on the calendar quietly running your spiritual life? Together, we talk about the common habit of waiting for January 1st—or Monday, or the “right time”—to finally change, and how that delay slowly erodes peace, fuels numbing behaviors, and keeps us distant from God. We explore the hidden costs of postponement during the holidays: overeating that dulls awareness, scrolling that steals presence, spending that numbs grief, and the pressure that crashes down when the new year arrives. Anchored in Romans 12:2, Proverbs 3:5–6, and Psalm 95, we re-frame change as daily mind renewal and trust, not a performance-driven reset. Along the way, we share honest stories of striving, fear of failure, and the relief that comes when we let go of perfectionism and return to a daily walk with God.At the heart of the episode is Look and Learn, a simple two-part rhythm for resilient growth. First, we look with God at what actually happened—without judgment—asking questions like: Was I tired? Triggered? Believing something untrue? Then we learn by naming truth we can hold onto now and considering how we might respond differently next time. This practice turns setbacks into growth points and reminds us that every moment is an invitation to begin again. We close by remembering that the gospel calls us to reliance, not resolutions, and that Philippians 1:6 assures us God Himself is faithfully carrying the process forward. If you're tired of waiting for the perfect start, we invite you to take one surrendered step today.Class starts December 10thhttps://teamlifeisgood.com/goSupport the showLearn more about our Revelation Within Community: https://www.revelationwithin.org
In this episode, Cindy Esliger addresses perfectionism and why the drive to be perfect quietly sabotages us, fuelling procrastination and self-doubt. The pursuit of flawlessness seems like a noble quest, but it proves to be a cleverly disguised trap that delays progress and increases our stress. What is the alternative to perfectionism? Cindy explains that sustainable excellence is what we should strive for over perfection. It's a balance of ambition with self-compassion that protects our mental health and rebuilds confidence. Perfectionism becomes a loop that urges us to set impossibly high standards, feel anxious about meeting those standards, avoid the task due to the pressure we created, finally get the task done in a panic, and then, exhausted, still believe we could have done better. Flawlessness is damaging and drives us to constantly outdo ourselves. Cindy points out five ways in which perfectionism messes with our performance, well-being, and career growth: 1. Expectation, escalation, and burnout, 2. Mental health fallout, 3. Inconsistent performance, 4. Refusal to delegate, and 5. Plateaued growth. Cindy advises that we shift our energy from being perfect to being more strategic. She explains intentional imperfection and how it involves choosing where to be excellent and where to be average on purpose. She offers five strategies for moving away from the perfectionism trap: 1. Use time, not outcome, to set boundaries, 2. Get honest about the trade-offs, 3. Practice planned procrastination, 4. Recalibrate what enough means, and 5. Intentionally choose where to excel. It's okay to want to be great, but greatness doesn't come from being perfect. It comes from showing up consistently and learning through missteps.Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Letting GoAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Send us a textIn this episode, I go deeper into the visibility work we started last week. I explore two blocks that show up for every entrepreneur I know: imposter syndrome and perfectionism. These patterns often present as hesitation, overthinking, procrastination, or feeling like you need everything perfect before you show up online. I share how they show up in life and business, how they have shown up in my own journey, and how you can move forward with confidence even when doubts and fears are present. I also talk about the power of DM automation and how it keeps your business running even when you step away from your phone.What You'll Learn[00:00] Why visibility work matters and why hesitation usually comes from deeper blocks [00:28] Introduction to imposter syndrome and perfectionism [00:59] My mission to help entrepreneurs get visible and monetize on Instagram [02:07] How DM automation allows your content to drive leads while you are offline [03:03] How keywords in comments or DMs trigger links and next steps automatically [08:43] How imposter syndrome signals growth rather than weakness [10:12] The emotional journey leading up to speaking at Wedding MBA [14:04] How perfectionism shows up through planning, delaying, and waiting [15:00] How writing my book has challenged my own perfectionism [20:30] Why sustainability matters more than hustling in every directionKey TakeawaysImposter syndrome and perfectionism are not signs that you lack readiness. They are signals that you are growing.You do not need to eliminate doubt. You need to learn how to move forward with it.Confidence comes from taking action, not waiting for perfection.Visibility and results come from consistency, not flawless execution.DM automation helps your business continue to sell and serve while you rest or focus elsewhere.Links MentionedTry ManyChat Pro free for 30 days or by DMing me LEADS on InstagramJoin the Hot Reels waitlist or by DMing me HOT on InstagramCONNECT WITH YOUR HOST, ELIZABETH MARBERRY:WORK WITH ELIZABETH Apply for your FREE Instagram Breakthrough Session with Elizabeth Free guide to Monetize Your IG: Seven Simple and Proven Ways to Finally Make Money on Instagram Follow Elizabeth Marberry on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook Please be sure to rate, review and follow the show on Apple podcasts (or wherever you find your podcasts) so we can get this free value to other people who need it.
In this candid client interview, Angie shares how she broke free from perfectionism in nutrition and built real confidence with her food choices—while juggling life as a busy parent. We talk about flexible dieting without obsession, eating out without guilt, and why progress comes from mindful choices, not rigid rules. You'll hear how she balances family schedules with sustainable habits, what finally ended the "start over Monday" cycle, and how tracking can be a tool—not a trap. Perfect for anyone ready to replace all-or-nothing thinking with practical routines that actually fit real life. APPLY FOR COACHING: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/1-1-coaching SDE Method app: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/sde-method-app The Fitness League Waiting List https://u3rwk.share.hsforms.com/2rkAwsFntTAeZ__PxwXdr4Q Macros Guide https://www.lvltncoaching.com/free-resources/calculate-your-macros Join the Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lvltncoaching FREE TOOLS to start your health and fitness journey: https://www.lvltncoaching.com/resources/freebies Alessandra's Instagram: http://instagram.com/alessandrascutnik Joelle's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joellesamantha?igsh=ZnVhZjFjczN0OTdn Josh's Instagram: http://instagram.com/joshscutnik Chapters: 00:00 Angie's Journey to Rebuilding Trust 02:56 Transitioning from Past Coaching Experiences 06:01 Embracing a New Training Philosophy 08:38 The Shift in Mindset and Results 11:44 Finding Balance in Fitness and Life 15:19 Overcoming Perfectionism in Nutrition 18:09 The Importance of Enjoying the Process 21:16 Navigating Life as a Busy Mom 24:24 The Power of Coaching Relationships 28:08 Final Thoughts on Growth and Consistency
High achievers are rarely "in balance"—and that's not a problem when your intensity is calibrated. In this conversation, Dr. Alison Curdt—PGA Master Professional, LPGA Master Professional, and Doctor of Psychology—opens up about the sacrifices behind elite performance, how to reframe "pressure," and why curiosity is the antidote to perfectionism, fear of failure, and self-criticism. We dig into process vs. performance vs. outcome goals, separating identity from results, and the importance of strategic rest so your practice actually sticks. Dr. Curdt also shares the pivotal moment that reshaped her life and work, how to coach an athlete at "rock bottom," and practical scripts you can use on the course this weekend. In this episode, you'll learn: Why "pressure" is a perception problem—and how to reframe it fast The difference between outcome, performance, and process goals (and which one drives wins) How to detach self-worth from scorecards, sales, and rankings The simple language shifts ("have to" → "get to") that unlock better golf How to use curiosity to replace judgment and perfectionism What "calibrated intensity" looks like (and why rest multiplies growth) Practical ways to coach yourself out of a slump—on the range or at work Whether you're chasing a lower handicap or scaling a business, this is a masterclass in durable confidence, emotional regulation, and performance psychology—the exact mindset training that turns effort into results. Get your pencils ready and start listening. P.S. Curious to learn more about the results my clients are experiencing and what they say about working with me? Read more here. More About Dr. Alison Curdt Dr. Alison Curdt is a dual PGA Master & LPGA Master Professional. She has over 35 years of background in golf competition and competed in 8 LPGA Tour majors. Owner of "Alison Curdt Golf" and Director of Instruction at Wood Ranch Golf Club in Los Angeles, CA, she has earned countless teaching & professional awards such as the 2025 Tom Addiss II Professional Development Award, 2019 SoCal PGA Golf Professional of the Year, 2018 SCPGA Clubfitter of the Year, 4-time LPGA Western Section Teacher of the Year, 2016 SCPGA Teacher of the Year, and 2015 LPGA T&CP National Teacher of the Year. She was selected as an LPGA Top 50 Teacher 4 times and was inducted into the SoCal PGA Teaching Hall of Fame. Dr. Curdt has been featured in over a dozen separate segments on the Golf Channel and Golf Digest selected her three times as one of America's Best Young Teachers. She is currently on the Golf Digest Best in State list (CA) and has been honored as Top 50 Teacher in America. Dr. Curdt is also a clinical sport psychotherapist utilizing EMDR & Brainspotting to help athletes achieve peak performance and overcome athletic traumas. She served as the LPGA T&CP National Vice-President and is currently the first female president of the Southern California PGA. Her book, The Golf Performance Code: Unlocking secrets to mind, body, and nutrition was published in 2025. Connect with Alison Instagram YouTube Play to Your Potential On (and Off) the Course Schedule a Mindset Coaching Discovery Call Subscribe to the More Pars than Bogeys Newsletter Download my "Play Your Best Round" free hypnosis audio recording. High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential. He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential. Click here to learn more about how high-performance hypnotherapy and mindset coaching can help you get out of your own way and play to your potential on (and off) the course. Instagram: @thegolfhypnotherapist Twitter: @parsoverbogeys Key Takeaways: Pressure is self-created. It's a byproduct of expectations and outcome fixation; reframe it as a challenge and return to controllables. Process > performance > outcome. Track performance stats, but win the day by executing process goals (breath, target, routine, commitment). Curiosity beats judgment. Asking "What's really happening?" dissolves shame, perfectionism, and fear—opening access to better decisions and motor memory. Calibrated intensity. Grind isn't mindless hours; it's intentional focus paired with recovery, so skills encode and become automatic. Detach identity from results. You are not your score or sales number; evaluate inputs and execution quality, not just outcomes. Reframe your language. "I have to" → "I get to," "I'm busy" → "I'm in demand"—word choice shifts physiology and performance. Coach with empathy first. Before offering fixes, make athletes feel seen; then co-create reframes and experiments they can own. Key Quotes: "Pressure doesn't exist—outside of physics. We create it with expectations." "Achievement can feel like a drug—use it to fuel you, not break you." "You're not what you produce. You are enough—regardless of the number." "Win with process goals; they ladder up to performance—and then outcomes." "Curiosity is the antidote to so many psychological 'diseases.'" "If you keep grinding the stone, it turns to nothing. Rest builds growth." "Tell yourself: You have everything you need to succeed. Then access it." Time Stamps: 00:00 The Journey of Achievement and Sacrifice 04:42 Rebirth from Trauma: A Turning Point 06:46 Navigating Rock Bottom: Questions for Growth 09:01 Building Resilience: Coaching Through Adversity 12:05 Understanding Pressure: A Psychological Perspective 20:06 The Grind: Positive vs. Negative Connotations 22:58 The Importance of Rest and Recovery 25:34 Detaching Identity from Performance 29:01 Understanding Enoughness and Self-Worth 32:20 Effective Communication and Expectation Management 35:52 Overcoming Perfectionism and Embracing Variability 38:58 Empowering Beliefs for Success
In this episode of the Healthy, Wealthy and Smart podcast, host Dr. Karen Litzy is joined by Liane Wood, RP, a seasoned entrepreneur and registered psychotherapist. They discuss the transition from clinician to CEO, focusing on the mindset and identity shifts required. Liane shares her journey from running insurance brokerages to becoming a psychotherapist and eventually helping others build thriving private practices. The conversation covers the importance of systems, niching, and value-based pricing, as well as overcoming perfectionism and burnout. Takeaways Transitioning from clinician to CEO requires significant mindset shifts. Building systems in practice saves time, energy, money, and stress. Niching helps therapists attract the right clients. Value-based pricing focuses on transformation rather than time. Overcoming perfectionism is crucial for business growth. Delegation is key to scaling a practice. Balancing working in and on the practice prevents burnout. Shifting from fear to excitement can drive business vision. Therapists can be both compassionate clinicians and confident business owners. Successful therapists integrate strategic planning into their practice. Chapters · 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction · 00:00:00 Liane's Journey from Insurance to Therapy · 00:00:00 The Importance of Systems and Niching · 00:00:00 Value-Based Pricing and Overcoming Perfectionism · 00:00:01 Balancing Practice Work and Preventing Burnout · 00:00:01 Leadership and Vision in Therapy · 00:00:01 Conclusion and Key Takeaways More About Liane: Liane Wood is a registered psychotherapist, private practice mentor, and the host of The Build Your Private Practice Podcast. With a background as the former CEO of an insurance brokerage, Liane brings a unique blend of business strategy and clinical insight to her work. She supports mental health therapists in building profitable, sustainable private practices that align with their lives—not just their caseloads. Through her podcast and programs, Liane helps therapists step confidently into the role of business owner, with clarity, integrity, and impact. Resources from this Episode: Build Your Private Practice Website Build Your Private Practice on Instagram Jane Sponsorship Information: Book a one-on-one demo here Mention the code LITZY1MO for a free month Follow Dr. Karen Litzy on Social Media: Karen's Instagram Karen's LinkedIn Subscribe to Healthy, Wealthy & Smart: YouTube Website Apple Podcast Spotify SoundCloud Stitcher iHeart Radio
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity
Do you feel overwhelmed by stress as a grandparent raising grandchildren in today's fast-paced, social-media-saturated world? Are you searching for ways to nurture resilience in both yourself and your grandkids, while struggling to move past perfectionism and the fear of failure? The unique challenges that come with kinship care can leave you feeling isolated and exhausted, as you navigate trauma, financial strains, and emotional upheaval within your family.I'm Laura Brazan, and I found myself suddenly responsible for my grandchildren, learning firsthand the emotional weight and transformation this role requires. Over time, I discovered that resilience isn't something you're simply born with—it's a vital skill that can be learned and modeled, no matter your age or circumstances.Welcome to "Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity." In this episode, Dr. Kate Lund, clinical psychologist and author of "Bounce" and "Step Away," reveals her evidence-based approach to building resilience in caregivers and children alike. We'll discuss practical techniques for self-care, overcoming the comparison trap of social media, and breaking the cycle of perfectionism. You'll hear inspiring strategies to help you manage stress, cultivate authenticity, and foster lifelong resilience in your family.For more information on Dr. Kate Lund, her work, podcast and publications, please visit her website.Join our supportive community as we explore expert insights, share real-world stories, and provide resources tailored to grandparents raising grandchildren. Together, let's replace isolation with connection, and empower you to rewrite your grandchildren's story with hope, strength, and compassionate guidance.Send us a textHello! Thank you for creating this podcast. It is a blessing to my life in this season
In this special episode of the She Believed She Could™ Podcast, host Allison Walsh sits down with Carolina and Carlos Flores, founders of Hi Hello Labs, to talk about building a service driven brand, creating professional content that actually moves the needle, and why the right collaborators help you stay focused on your genius while they handle the execution.We cover how to pitch and structure win win brand collaborations, the mindset blocks that keep creators from hitting publish, and real examples of media that created measurable community impact, including a UN project tied to YouTube Health and a corporate series that sparked donations and awareness.In this episodeThe power of partnership and staying in your laneWhy professional content is a magnet for future opportunitiesDiscovery before the pitch and how to over deliver for sponsorsBreaking through perfectionism, fear, and imposter syndromeAccountability, confidence, and making it easy to hit publishFrom nonprofit storytelling to corporate campaigns with impactHow Hi Hello Labs helps good people make good contentChapters00:00 Welcome and why partnership matters02:10 Meet Carolina and Carlos of Hi Hello Labs06:30 From first studio session to full creative partnership12:05 Content that creates real world impact18:20 Pitching brands the right way and reporting outcomes23:40 Mindset blocks and tools to move through them29:55 Collaboration that compounds your mission36:20 Corporate storytelling, community impact, and sponsorships43:10 Confidence and showing up authentically47:50 Where to find Hi Hello LabsConnect with Hi Hello LabsWebsite: hihellolabs.comInstagram: @hihellolabs / @carlosflores / @carolinadiplanfloresdWork with AllisonReady to turn your story into a service-driven brand that opens doors and expands your impact?
Mom Curious is a weekly podcast produced by Hoff Studios in New York City, hosted by cultural voice Daniella Rabbani. Each episode dives into candid, thought-provoking conversations about motherhood, womanhood, and the messy, magical spaces in between. With humor, honesty, and curiosity, Daniella sits down with women of all stripes to talk about what it really means to raise children—and ourselves—in today's world. About the Host: Daniella Rabbani (@DaniellaRabbani on Instagram) is a Brooklyn-based storyteller, actress, singer, and podcast host. On screen, she's appeared in HBO's Scenes from a Marriage, Amazon's The Better Sister, FX's The Americans, and films like Ocean's 8. On stage, she's headlined concerts worldwide, from Jazz at Lincoln Center to the State Jewish Theater in Warsaw. Through her podcast Mom Curious, Daniella blends her creative spirit and lived experience as a mother of two to spark conversations that are raw, hilarious, and deeply relatable. Her mission: to create a community where mothers (and those curious about motherhood) feel seen, supported, and inspired. Jennie Monness (@JennieMonness on Instagram) is a parenting voice, podcast host, and content creator whose work reaches thousands of families through social media and her podcast We Didn't Turn Out Ok. On her channels, Jennie shares honest reflections, tools, and research-backed practices that help parents reframe challenges, deepen connection, and support their children with more empathy and confidence. She is also the Co-Founder of Charmspring, a developmental children's brand designed to bring more connection and fun to family life through visual routines, and Union Square Play, a playspace for children aged 0–5 focused on early childhood development, child-led play, and community. Jennie began her career in early childhood development and education 15 years ago after earning her master's degree in Psychology and Education from Teachers College, Columbia University. She went on to teach in daycare and preschool settings, became a NY State Certified Early Childhood Teacher, and later served as Education and Center Director of several early learning programs. She is currently completing her certification in the RIE® Educaring Approach. Jennie lives in New York City with her husband, Matt, and their two daughters, Tess (7) and Nell (5). Stay Connected:• Subscribe and review us on Spotify or Apple Podcasts• Share this episode with a friend who needs it! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ever feel like no matter how much you achieve, it's still not enough? Like the goalposts keep moving and the pressure to look successful is crushing the joy of actually being successful?Mitch Matthews is a bestselling author, keynote speaker, and success coach who helps people dream bigger, think better, and do more of what they're built to do. Through his coaching programs and top-ranked Dream Think Do podcast, Mitch empowers leaders and entrepreneurs to overcome limiting beliefs, build intentional habits, and lead with courage and authenticity.In this conversation, Steve sits down with Mitch Matthews to explore one of the biggest challenges high-achievers face: perfectionism.They unpack how the constant drive to get it right often robs us of peace, creativity, and real growth. Mitch shares his personal journey from corporate success to coaching freedom, revealing how embracing imperfection not only changed his work, but his life.Together, they dive into actionable tools for shifting your mindset from performance to purpose, building confidence that isn't tied to results, and learning how to lead yourself (and others) through seasons of uncertainty and self-doubt.If you've ever felt trapped by your own standards, this episode is your permission slip to redefine success on your terms.Key TopicsThe hidden cost of perfectionism in leadership and entrepreneurshipHow to turn pressure into purposeThe power of curiosity in breaking the perfection cycleRedefining success beyond achievementBuilding emotional awareness and resilienceHow to coach yourself out of performance-driven burnoutThe difference between excellence and perfectionReal tools to reconnect with creativity and authenticityLinks & Resources MentionedMitch Matthews' WebsiteDream Think Do Podcast: Listen HereSteve Mellor's WebsiteBook Mentioned: Dream Job: Redefined by Mitch Matthews#GrowthReadyPodcast #LeadershipMindset #HighPerformanceCoach #PerfectionismRecovery #MindsetShift #SelfLeadership #EntrepreneurGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #PurposeDriven #AuthenticLeadershipSend us a textSupport the showThis podcast was produced on Riverside and released via Buzzsprout Sign up for the monthly newsletter with Steve and GrowthReady (formerly known as Career Competitor) by providing your details here - Request to become part of our community Also be sure to give him and the show a follow on Instagram @coachstevemellor
When motivation disappears and perfectionism takes over, most people shut down. Casey Beros learned the opposite approach. We talk about how to stop waiting for the perfect time, why momentum matters more than motivation, and the small daily actions that can rebuild your health and mindset when you feel stuck.Timestamps: (00:00) Overcoming Perfectionism(00:32) Introduction(01:35) Casey's Journey(02:47) The Fascination with Health and Wellbeing(06:37) Navigating the Healthcare System(07:46) The Role of Influencers in Health Communication(09:58) Finding Credible Health Information(13:32) Casey's Book - Next of Kin(15:57) The Impact of Being a Carer(21:25) The Importance of Intergenerational Care(25:13) Challenges in the Healthcare System(29:55) The Need for Preventative Care(31:45) Preventative Approaches in Healthcare(32:04) The Slow Pace of Medical Research(32:52) The Impact of AI on Medicine(33:49) Innovative Mental Health Solutions in the UK(35:19) Caring for Carers - Mental and Physical Health Tips(38:38) The Importance of Social and Spiritual Wellbeing(42:17) Momentum Over Motivation(45:17) The Burden of Caregiving and Health Debt(49:13) Action Cures Inaction(50:29) Closing Thoughts and ReflectionsAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Given the high stakes involved (and the desire to provide high-quality service) when working with clients, it can be tempting for financial advisors to lean into perfectionist tendencies. However, doing so can sometimes lead to overwork and potentially burnout, particularly as a firm grows over time. Lisa Brown is the President of Greenwood Gearhart, an RIA based in Fayetteville, Arkansas, managing $1.8 billion in AUM for 1,070 households. In this episode, Lisa shares how her firm's early culture of “urgent perfectionism” led to overwork amongst firm leaders and team members alike, and why she developed a new leadership mantra: “calm excellence.“ Listen in as we talk about how Greenwood Gearhart redesigned workflows to reduce team burnout, eliminated meetings and ensured those that remained focused on high-leverage activities, and created the conditions for sustainable growth—for clients, teams, and firm leaders alike. For show notes and more visit: https://www.kitces.com/458
Recovering perfectionist Kolbie Blume shares how she moved from fear and external validation to creative flow—starting with hand lettering, falling for watercolor, and learning self-compassion. If perfectionism has stalled your art, writing, or podcast, this convo will help you choose process over outcomes and finally start. Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/how-perfectionism-is-getting-in-your-waySign up as a Supporter to get access to our private, premium, ad-free podcast, More Personal. Episodes air each Friday! More for Moms Conference Leave a rating and review Check out my workshops! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Book Launch Committee Free DSL Training Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Ask David: How to Stop Giving a Crap Motivating a Procrastinator . . . and More The answers to today's questions are brief and were written prior to the show. Listen to the podcast for a more in-depth discussion of each question. Today's questions. 1. Chris has a question about Positive Reframing and the Magic Dial. 2. Joe asks: What method would be best to stop giving a crap? 3. Ollie asks: How do you motivate a procrastinating patient to do the hard work of facing the task they've been putting off? 4. Owen asks: Should I complete a full Daily Mood Log each day? 5. Owen also asks: Is it okay to copy the positive reframing from a previous DML when relevant? 1. Chris asks about Positive Reframing and the Magic Dial. Hi David! I'm currently on my third re-read of "Feeling Great" and want to thank you for the positive changes and progress I have experienced in my life as a result of the techniques and information present in the book. My question is, when you use positive reframing, and identify all the advantages of a negative thought, but still decide, "Hey I would still like to reduce my suffering, in spite of all these good things. But I would love to keep the advantages too." Does this mean my conviction for change is not strong enough? Or is this when I should transition to the magic dial technique and try to keep the best of both worlds ? Thank you in advance, Christian David's reply Thanks, do the Magic Dial and you can have it both ways. However, keep this in mind, or perhaps discover it later on. Once you start to challenge your thoughts successfully, and your belief in your negative thoughts diminishes substantially, you may decide to lower your feelings even further, possibly all the way to zero. And at that point, you're probably ready for Relapse Prevention Training as described in the book. The Feeling Great app is free this summer if you're in the US, so that might help you along the trail if needed. Warmly, David Can I use this as an Ask David question on one of our Ask podcasts? d Christian responds Hello David, Thank you for your in depth response, that's really handy. Part of me is really hoping I'll want to lower my ratings even further, but I think as you have outlined many times, honoring my resistance is important if I want to get to that point. It's weird isn't it, I know at an intellectual level I want these things to happen, but at the gut level part of me is still holding on. I would love to use the app, however I'm based in the UK and it isn't available to me, I saw on the FAQ on the website that it may be getting released in other parts of the world soon ? I also hope there will be more and more TEAM-CBT therapists available in the UK in future too ! Absolutely, I would love for my question to be featured in the podcast ! Warm Regards, Christian 2. Joe asks: What method would be best to stop giving a crap? Hey Dr. Burns, Your two most recent webinars have been very helpful, especially Overcoming Perfectionism, yet I still struggle hard with perfectionism. [To be specific, I put a video out there that people enjoyed (internally) and that I spent a month on, only to get mostly ignored, and I feel defeated.] What method would be best to stop giving a crap? Thanks! Joe David's Reply As I have said so often, I don't recommend “methods” for “problems.” I use TEAM, a process. I sometimes have the same problem with media interviews. I am often asked to give three tips on this or that problem, like gaining self-esteem or whatever. For example, a Chinese interviewer asked for “tips” on overcoming depression, like spending more time in nature or more time with friends and the people you care about. I am not happy about such questions, as my answer is that I'm a no tips please type of guy. I have developed many powerful processes for dealing with a variety of common problems. For example, for individual mood problems I find it extremely useful to start out with a partially completed Daily Mood Log, and for a relationship problem a partially completed Relationship Journal can lead to some fantastic and revealing work. But as far as general “tips” for not “giving a crap” if you're struggling with perfectionism, I can only quote what the Buddha said nearly 2,500 years ago: “General tips suck! Give me something specific and real, please!” Best, david 3. How can you motivate someone who procrastinates? Dear David, I have a question but first I'd like to tell you and the team just how much I'm loving the app. Especially since you gave the AI a voice so now we can speak with it rather than typing out responses. Now it feels so quick and easy. Sometimes, I find it can be hard to motivate myself to do the self-help work but talking to the app makes the process effortless. It really does feel like having a friend who's got your best interest at heart, and they're available to talk to you whenever you need them. My question is about the role of therapists when it comes to patient motivation. I was hoping you could clarify why when patients present with anxiety, we know they will predictably resist doing exposure, but as a therapist it is necessary to press the matter. However, when working with a procrastinating patient, they will almost always show similar process resistance (to doing whatever it is they're procrastinating about), but your recommendation (as far as I understand it) is not to push them to do anything. Not to help motivate them to do the hard work. Is there a reason for this difference, or have I misunderstood entirely? Warmest regards, Ollie David's Reply I can make this an Ask David question, and thanks. Appreciate the kind comments. As a therapist working with anxiety or depression, I work out the Outcome and Process Resistance before trying to “help.” So, the depressed patient must agree to homework, and the anxious patient must agree to exposure, in order for us to work together on those problems. This is called Dangling the Carrot, Gentle Ultimatum, and Sitting with Open Hands and sometimes with Fallback Position at the end. If a patient wants help with procrastination, they must agree to the five-minute rule, to get started at a specific time today, even if they don't feel motivated. I see it as the same thing: making the patient accountable and giving the patient free will to decide what they are willing to do—or not willing to do. I would never try to motivate a procrastinating patient! That's not on the menu. However, I can help them get started if they need help, but I the first five things they have to do into simple things taking 15 seconds each, like sit in my chair might be the first step in organizing you desk. Then reaching for a piece of paper that needs filing. Etc. Five minutes work of little things. You might want to listen to / search the podcasts for this process. We'll mention a bit more on the podcast. Warmly, david If I missed it, try again! 4. Owen asks: Should I complete a full Daily Mood Log each day? Hi Dr. Burns, Thank you again for all the incredible content you've been sharing—both the Feeling Good podcast and your Feeling Great videos. You're so engaging and natural on camera, it's hard to believe you were ever camera-shy! The Ask David segments are always a highlight of my Mondays. I just had two quick questions about the Daily Mood Log. I often find it takes me several hours to complete one fully, including the positive reframing. Should I aim to complete a full log each day for maximum benefit, or is it okay to work through one gradually over several days? I often get unrelated negative thoughts while still working on a previous log, which means I can't get to the new ones right away. David's Reply Hi Owen, Yes, you can spread it out for sure. david 5. Owen asks: To speed things up, is it okay to copy positive reframing from a previous DML when relevant, or is it better to start fresh each time? Thanks so much in advance, Owen (assumed name) David's Reply Hi Owen, Yes, you can use previous PR! Will include your questions at the upcoming Ask David podcast. Can we use your first name? david At our next Ask David, we'll start out with this question: 1. Zainab asks: Is friendship a basic human need? What do you think? Yes? No? Maybe? We did a survey among our group in preparation for the next Ask, and it was two “no's” (Matt and David) and one “yes” (Rhonda). So stay tuned next week for the discussion of this question that comes up often in different disguises. For example, we often hear heated proclamations on whether love is an adult human “need.” What do you think about that question? Thanks for listening today! Matt, Rhonda, and David
In this episode of the Rachel Hollis podcast, Rachel dives into a mastermind conversation about women's financial empowerment and overcoming societal norms related to money. Insights are shared from four successful female entrepreneurs: Cassie Ho, Marie Forleo, Stacey Flowers, and Marcia Kilgore. Each shares their personal journeys of building successful brands, shifting their money mindset, and claiming their worth.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:28 Welcome to the Show01:21 Mastermind Conversation: Women and Money03:22 Cassie Ho: From Corporate Job to Fitness Mogul04:21 Cassie Ho: Building a Brand09:00 Cassie Ho: Overcoming Challenges13:47 Marcia Kilgore: Entrepreneurial Journey15:25 Marcia Kilgore: Building Successful Brands18:52 Marcia Kilgore: Lessons in Business21:09 Understanding the Importance of a Unique Selling Proposition (USP)21:52 The Power of Communication in Business23:09 Passion and Motivation in Entrepreneurship24:33 Challenges and Successes in Business Growth25:03 Empowering Women Financially26:59 The Impact of Financial Empowerment on Society33:26 Overcoming Perfectionism for Progress34:52 Personal Growth and Embracing Identity38:42 Healing and Rebuilding After Trauma44:49 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.
In this episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rachel delves into the complexity of forgiveness and the journey through grief. She highlights the concept of forgiveness as a path to personal freedom. Rachel shares her transformative experiences and the significance of subscribing to the podcast. The episode features insights from renowned voices like Anne Lamott, Dr. Edith Eger, and Arthur Brooks on emotional resilience, healing, and purpose.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:44 Welcome to the Show01:42 Healing Forward: Finding Peace and Purpose After Loss03:22 Writing as a Path to Self-Discovery04:15 Overcoming Perfectionism in Writing04:52 The Importance of Self-Respect and Self-Care11:42 The Choice: Embracing Freedom and Forgiveness16:08 Understanding Happiness and Genetics20:37 Defining Happiness21:24 The Role of Pleasure in Happiness21:46 Balancing Pleasure and Social Connections23:14 The Neuroscience of Addiction24:13 The Science of Happiness25:37 The Power of Acceptance28:51 Navigating Unexpected Life Changes34:23 Coping with Loss and Grief36:49 Finding Meaning in Life's Challenges41:33 Embracing the Full Spectrum of LifeSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.