School for Mothers Podcast

What does real equality look like when you're parenting solo? In this moving conversation, Danusia interviews Michael Ray, a father who's raising his daughter on his own after her mother stepped away from their lives. What might sound like a tough beginning becomes a powerful dialogue on parenting, presence, and the messy realities of gendered expectations. Michael shares what it means to parent with depth and integrity—how he built his work life around his daughter's needs, and why respect for her mother remains non-negotiable. We talk about how men are still applauded for showing up as parents, while women are expected to carry the full load with little recognition. We also get into why equality initiatives often fail, because they don't come with a redistribution of domestic labour. This conversation isn't only about lone parenting. It's about the emotional labour of raising children well, the cultural rewiring men need to do, and how raising a daughter changed Michael's entire outlook on power, gender, and responsibility. If you think you've heard every take on fatherhood, think again. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

If you think menopause is just hot flashes and mood swings, Meg Mathews is here to set you straight. In this unfiltered episode, Meg opens up about how menopause knocked her sideways—crippling anxiety, misdiagnosis, zero libido—and how it took years before anyone mentioned hormones. That journey led to Meg's Menopause, a platform busting taboos and pushing for real education, access, and self-respect. We cover it all—testosterone, bone health, dry everything, and the identity shifts no one warns you about. Meg tells it like it is: women aren't broken, they're just not being told the truth. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

What does it really mean to be a good dad in a world that's (finally) rethinking power, privilege, and gender? Jordan Shapiro offers a fresh framework—one that demands more than just ‘helping out' or being ‘the fun one.' In this episode, we talk about radical inclusivity, critical consciousness, and why patriarchal manliness needs a total rethink. Jordan doesn't dodge the difficult stuff—he names the creepy undercurrents of the “daddy as first boyfriend” trope and unpacks why so many men feel attacked when the cultural tide changes. We cover big ideas, big shifts, and the kind of inner work modern fatherhood really requires. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

We're told to be selfless. To give everything for our children. To die to ourselves for the sake of being a “good” mother and parent. But what if that's not the answer at all? In this fierce, funny, and deeply real conversation, Danusia is joined by Meredith Masony —a woman who came back from a health crisis with one loud, clear truth: she was done putting herself last. They talk about the myth of the perfect mum, what happens when you carry the entire domestic load for a decade, and why sometimes the most radical thing a mother can do is say, “It's my turn.” This episode is a battle cry for any woman who's been told she's selfish for wanting more. If that's you? Tune in. We saved you a seat. Discover more from us: • Join the PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

This episode, I speak with Simon Squibb, founder of HelpBnk and author of What's Your Dream? We dive into cultivating luck (hint: it's not random), why desperation can be a creative superpower, and how his mother kicking him out of the house became the very thing that made him. Simon shares his raw take on privilege, failure, and the myth of the A-grade life. We talk resilience, drive, and what it means to burn the boats and go all in—even if you don't know how to hold a garden spade. You'll leave this one fired up. Maybe even rethinking your whole idea of risk. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Enquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this episode I sit down with Eve Rodsky, author of the groundbreaking book Fair Play, to discuss the often invisible and unequal labour dynamics that play out in our homes. We get into why women frequently become the "she-fault" parent, shouldering the brunt of domestic responsibilities and emotional labour, often at the expense of their own well-being and careers.   Eve doesn't just identify the problem; she offers solutions. Drawing on her own experiences and extensive research, she introduces us to the Fair Play system, a practical and insightful approach to rebalancing domestic labour and creating a more harmonious partnership. We explore how this system helped Eve and her husband transform their own relationship and learn how it can work for others.   We also discuss the crucial role of communication and boundary setting in achieving a truly equitable partnership. Eve shares invaluable insights on how to have those difficult conversations, break free from societal conditioning, and reclaim our time.   This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the demands of modern life and wants to create a more balanced and fulfilling relationship. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women's pleasure. One of Hollie's books, Slug and Other Things I've Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat.   Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her late grandmother who thought orgasms were mythical creatures. They also explore why certain words—like "moist" and "vulva"—trigger deep discomfort rooted in societal shame.   You won't want to miss this one—it's time to dismantle taboos, one orgasm at a time!   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

What happens when a woman is the breadwinner and her husband takes the lead at home? Apparently, a lot of raised eyebrows, unsolicited opinions, and a bizarre mix of pity and praise. Entrepreneur and mother Priscilla McKinney joins me to talk about flipping the script on traditional gender roles, how she and her husband Steve made the switch, and what it really means to thrive in a setup that works for them—not society's outdated rulebook.   We get into the hilarity of watching people fumble over the idea of a stay-at-home dad (spoiler: they either worship him or assume he's unemployed), the brutal weight of being the sole financial provider, and the power of letting go—of guilt, control, and the need to know everything about your child's life.   This one is for anyone who's ever questioned the status quo, felt the pressure to do it all, or needed a reminder that you get to decide what your family dynamic looks like. Listen in and prepare to unlearn a few things.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Sex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week.   We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why investing in high-end pleasure tech might just be self-care at its finest. Oh, and then we take a detour into the world of sex dolls—because, of course.   Expect frank talk, fascinating insights, and a solid reminder that knowing your body is power. Let's put the stigma to bed, shall we?   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

We've been sold a lie: that working parents can “have it all” if they just work hard enough. Today, we're tearing that fantasy to shreds. Danusia Malina-Derben PWT host is in conversation with journalist and author Christine Armstrong. They get  brutally honest about the impossible expectations of juggling kids, careers, and sanity. Burnout isn't a personal failure—it's a rigged system that needs changing. They talk about the silent struggles, the real costs of trying to “do it all,” and why it's not you failing, it's the structure. Tune in to blow up the myth and start demanding better. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc Ah, the old “you're too much” conundrum. Too loud, too opinionated, too ambitious, too everything—and somehow, simultaneously, not enough. If you've ever felt stuck in this impossible tug-of-war, you are not alone. Joining Danusia today is Jeanette Leblanc, writer, coach, and self-proclaimed champion of “too muchness.” They get into what it means to reclaim our full, unapologetic selves—without waiting for permission. Jeanette shares her own path from self-doubt to radical self-love, including the messy, gut-wrenching, but ultimately liberating process of breaking free from the boxes we're shoved into. They cover it all—motherhood, desire, monogamy (or the lack thereof), self-forgiveness, and that unshakable need to live on our own damn terms. Plus, Jeanette's got a Jung quote tattooed on her ribs, so you know this conversation is good. Feeling the pull to unleash your own “too muchness?” Press play. The world needs all of you. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Motherhood and sexuality—two things we're told don't belong in the same sentence. But who made that rule? And why are we still following it? Steph wasn't about to. After decades of marriage, she found herself single, re-entering the dating world with a libido very much intact. But society had a different script for her: midlife divorce means fading into the background. Sex? Desire? Not for women past a certain age. Well. About that. In this episode, Steph shares what really happens when you stop putting yourself last—how desire resurfaces, how dating multiple people changes the game, and why owning your sexuality is about so much more than sex. If you've ever wondered whether life gets smaller after divorce, press play. The answer is a resounding no. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Danusia Parents Who Think host, gets real with Dr. Shahzadi Harper about hormones, libido and why women's sex lives shouldn't have an expiration date. Shahzadi, a badass in women's health, spills the tea on how hormonal changes—hello, perimenopause—mess with your libido, energy, and self-confidence. But it's not all doom and gloom. They unpack how testosterone (yep, women have it too), oestrogen, and orgasms—partnered or solo—can reignite that inner fire. Dr. Shahzadi talks about beating libido crashes with lifestyle tweaks, hormone therapy, and simply learning to put yourself first. Think of libido as your life force, not just a sex drive—it's the secret sauce to strutting through life with joy and confidence. Ready to ditch outdated ideas about "sexual shelf life"? Hit play and feel empowered to reclaim your pleasure and power—at any age. Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

What happens when a woman builds an empire that shatters every outdated idea about female sexuality, and then dares to become a mother? Today, we feature Emma Sayle—founder of Killing Kittens, global disruptor, and all-around unapologetic powerhouse. We're talking about breaking taboos, rewriting the rules of partnership and parenting, and why self-care isn't a luxury—it's a damn necessity. Emma shares how she built a community where women take control, how motherhood collided with societal expectations of her, and why ‘just asking' is the most underrated relationship strategy. We also tackle the myth of the self-sacrificing mother (spoiler: no one's handing out medals for martyrdom), the financial leverage that changes the game, and why taking time for yourself isn't selfish—it's survival. If you've ever been made to feel like you can't have power, pleasure, and parenthood on your own terms, this one's for you.  Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Join Host, Danusia Malina-Derben brings you a powerful conversation with Dr Shoshana Garfield, a survivor of childhood torture and sexual abuse. Shoshana shares her journey of healing and self-reclamation, highlighting the importance of forgiveness,  self-compassion, and relentless kindness.   This episode explores the long-term impacts of trauma and the process of overcoming adversity to create a life filled with freedom and joy. Shoshana also discusses her work as an expert in torture rehabilitation and the power of energy psychology in her own healing journey.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn't.   Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they become mothers. This is a conversation that hits deep.   If you've ever questioned the script society wrote for you, this one's for you. Tune in and let's rewrite the rules.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Danusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it's metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically.   From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.”   This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your unique slay, and never let trends define you.   Press play and prepare to feel inspired!   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Today, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by author Uju Asika. She shares her powerful story of navigating childhood racism, the lessons it taught her, and why hope is at the heart of her work. We talk about when kids start noticing race, why “colorblind” parenting doesn't work, and how we can have honest, age-appropriate conversations about race. Uju also challenges us to lovingly examine our own lives and the unconscious messages we're passing on. This is a conversation about healing, growth, and the power of the next generation to make change.   Don't miss Uju's book Bringing Up Race: How to Raise a Kind Child in a Prejudiced World. —it's a game-changer.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she's still raising the bar.   They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in business. Mary also shares her thoughts on having children in her 40s and how technology is redefining motherhood.   This candid conversation is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone looking to break barriers and chase their dreams.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Why is asking for what we want so hard? In this episode, host Danusia Malina-Derben gets into this question with guest Emer Brady, exploring the barriers many women face when advocating for themselves. From the subtleties of language to the power of body language, this conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to show up stronger—especially in the workplace.   You'll hear why apologetic language holds us back, how to communicate assertively without losing authenticity, and the importance of preparation before asking for what you need. Plus, there's a fascinating discussion on the role of cultural dynamics in how requests are received and why understanding your audience matters as much as knowing what you want.   One standout insight? Advocacy isn't just about the ask—it's about planting seeds, listening actively, and learning from those who've mastered the skill. With actionable tips like video-recording yourself to refine your delivery or observing how others successfully navigate workplace dynamics, this episode is a practical guide for turning self-doubt into self-confidence.   If you've ever hesitated to speak up or worried about being seen as “too much,” this episode will leave you with tools to start making your voice heard. A must-listen for anyone ready to reframe their mindset and take action.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics.   This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy can transform a relationship once riddled with misunderstandings into one of empowerment and growth.   The pair also reflect on breaking free from patriarchal narratives and embracing an ongoing exchange of wisdom between mothers and daughters. From the emotional rollercoaster of raising daughters to the intensity of female relationships, this conversation is full of practical takeaways for anyone seeking to build stronger bonds.   If you've ever struggled to navigate your relationship with your mother or daughter, this episode offers plenty of food for thought—and hope.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

Perfection is overrated—especially in parenting. In this thought-provoking episode, Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Dr Joanna Fortune, child psychotherapist and author, to challenge the myths of perfect parenting and embrace being “good enough.”   Joanna shares about the concept of parental stamina—how to recharge your tank without guilt—and why your own self-care isn't just essential but a powerful teaching tool for your kids. From playful strategies (hello, dance breaks!) to the importance of taking time-outs (for parents too!), you'll discover practical ways to lighten the load without compromising connection.   And here's the kicker: Joanna shares her bold take on why kids shouldn't be the centre of the family universe. Spoiler alert: happy parents create a solid foundation for happy kids.   This episode? A guilt-free guide to doing your best, showing your kids it's okay to make mistakes, and letting go of the pressure to be perfect. Permission to be good enough granted.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the myth of “having it all” with Caroline Flanagan, author of Be the First and all-round powerhouse. Together, they shred the outdated idea that women need to do everything to have it all—and dig into what your “all” could look like.   But that's not all. Imposter syndrome? They're calling it out for the fraud it is. Caroline shares her real-life experience of feeling like she didn't belong and how she flipped the script to reclaim her power.   This isn't about perfection or keeping up appearances—it's about learning to own your worth, rewrite the rules and reframe your inner narrative to find solutions (instead of self-doubt).   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Buy Danusia's Motherhood book: NOISE • Caroline Flanagan's book: Be the First • Mentioned reads: Your Brain at Work by David Rock and My Hidden Chimp by Prof. Steve Peters • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

What if you could feel more alive in your 80s than ever before? Meet Jane Wyker, the unstoppable force behind Soul Selfish: The Awakening of a Good Girl. Jane's story is proof that it's never too late to prioritise yourself, let go of toxic baggage, and embrace joy at every stage of life.   Danusia and Jane unpack the inner work of shedding the “good girl” identity, balancing self-love with motherhood, and yes, even the realities of sex, dating, and pleasure in your 80s. Jane's advice on “inner housekeeping” is a game-changer—because let's face it, no one thrives in a cluttered emotional home.   This episode is a masterclass in how to own your life, your choices, and your happiness—no matter your age. Tune in for some unforgettable wisdom and a bold call to put pleasure (and yourself!) at the centre of your world.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Find Jane Wyker here • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Rebekah Taussig, author of Sitting Pretty: The View from My Ordinary, Resilient Disabled Body, to unpack the complexities of living with a disability. In this episode, Rebekah challenges the oversimplified narratives that often surround disabled lives and calls for a more inclusive, open-hearted perspective.   From embracing her body to navigating pregnancy, Rebekah shares stories that illuminate the richness, challenges, and ordinariness of disability—pushing past stereotypes of pity or inspiration. They discuss how society's fear of disability limits understanding and how breaking those barriers starts with recognizing the nuance in every human experience.   Danusia and Rebekah also dive into the untold stories of disabled motherhood, touching on everything from baby kicks to the broader need for representation.   This conversation is a profound reminder: disability doesn't diminish humanity—it enriches it.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Find Rebekah's book here • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Want your heart to skip a beat? Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with poet Kate Baer—three-time New York Times bestselling author of What Kind of Woman, I Hope This Finds You Well, and her latest, And Yet. They get real about everything from raw realities to anger simmering beneath the surface.   Kate opens up about finding her voice amidst parenting, the poets who inspire her (think Mary Oliver and Sharon Olds), and tackling taboo topics with honesty and wit (yes, including poems like "The Pope's Penis"). They delve into the visceral experience of being a woman today, the societal pressures we face, and why it's high time mothers' voices are heard and valued.   If you're ready for a conversation that cuts deep into the soul of womanhood and leaves you feeling seen and understood, this episode is a must-listen.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Guilt—it's the nagging companion of parenthood. Jo Wimble-Groves, creator of Guilty Mother, joins host Danusia Malina-Derben to unpack why so many parents feel this way and how to start shifting that guilt into something useful (yes, it's possible!).   From screen time to sandwich choices, Jo's refreshing take on embracing imperfection and rethinking what it means to care will leave you feeling lighter. If you're tired of feeling like you're never doing enough, this episode offers some much-needed relief.   Tune in to discover why guilt doesn't equal love and why it's time to put down the “perfect parent” yardstick!   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

This week, Danusia Malina-Derben brings in Wies Bratby—founder of Women in Negotiation and self-proclaimed “women's butt kicker”—to break down why every woman needs to own her worth in the world of negotiation. It's not just about more zeros on the paycheck; it's about freedom, choices, and doing life on your own terms.   Wies shares her wisdom on the art of asking for what you deserve—without the guilt trip. From salary boosts to the (often trickier) negotiations at home, she dishes out practical tips for women ready to stand up, speak up, and stop settling. And heads up: there's no room for playing small here.   This episode is a masterclass in confidence, clarity, and the sheer power of knowing your worth. Tune in to get fired up, and don't miss Wies's top tips on making every negotiation a win.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Find Wies here • The Harvard Negotiation Method • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Host Danusia Malina-Derben gets real with Molly Forbes, author of “Body Happy Kids: How to raise children who love the skin they're in” for adults and “Every Body” for children. They're talking about one thing every parent worries about—how to raise kids who love their bodies in a world obsessed with diet culture. Spoiler: It's not about looking “pretty.”   Molly dishes out her no-BS take on raising confident kids, from smashing beauty ideals to using her household mantra “It's not my job to be pretty.” You'll learn how to dodge diet culture's sneaky traps and arm your kids with the self-love they need to stay strong. Oh, and Molly even has a genius idea involving compliment circles that you'll definitely want to steal for your next family hangout.   This episode? Pure fire for anyone ready to raise resilient, body-happy kids.   Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Sarah Peck, CEO of Start Up Parent, to discuss the often unspoken realities of postpartum sex and recovery. Sarah shares her personal experiences, from healing after childbirth to the surprising physical challenges that follow.   Danusia and Sarah also talk about living brazenly, including Sarah's daring naked swim from Alcatraz, and what it means to push past conventional metrics of success.   This episode offers a fresh, unfiltered look at life after giving birth and how to embrace boldness in all areas of life. Tune in for real talk on postpartum recovery, relationships, and living by your own values!   Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben explores Stoicism and its relevance to parenting. Drawing on her experience as a mother to 10 children, she reflects on how Stoic principles like control, patience, and detachment have shaped her approach to raising kids. But it's not just about personal resilience ~ Danusia also gets into the limits of Stoicism, especially when it comes to addressing the broader systemic challenges that families face.   Through thoughtful reflections, she balances Stoic ideas with insights from feminist and care ethicists like bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Carol Gilligan, showing that emotional engagement and systemic awareness are essential in parenting.   This episode challenges listeners to consider how they can raise resilient children while also recognising and addressing the societal pressures their children face.   Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of Stoicism, love, and the complexities of modern parenting.   Head over to comment on this episode on the “Parents Who Think” on Substack.    Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this episode of *Parents Who Think*, host Danusia Malina-Derben interviews Anna Pawlowicz, CEO of Humankind, about the often invisible role of caregivers in society. Anna opens up about the challenges faced by those who provide care, whether for children, elderly family members, or those with medical complexities, and why caregivers remain undervalued and unsupported.   They explore the heavy toll caregiving takes on mental health, work, and personal relationships, and question why governments and workplaces aren't doing more, despite the fact that caregiving touches us all at some point in our lives.   With insights from both personal experience and a broader societal lens, this episode asks us to rethink how we value care and what needs to change to better support caregivers. It's a conversation that goes beyond caregiving—it's about the systems that shape all of our lives.   Tune in for an essential discussion on why care matters to everyone.   Want to join the conversation and share your own caregiver story? Head over to “Parents Who Think” on Substack.   Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this rare solo episode, Danusia shares a self-care secret that's hiding in plain sight: cuddling a teddy bear. Yep, you heard right. We're talking about the comfort of snuggling up to a stuffed toy, and why it's not just for kids anymore. From CEOs sneaking plushies into bed to Supreme Court judges traveling with their own teddy, we unpack how this simple, often hidden habit can be a game-changer for stress relief and better sleep.    We get into the science, real stories, and some surprising facts about why this soft, squishy form of self-care is making a comeback among adults. Grab your snuggly, get comfy, and let's challenge the stigma together.    Join the conversation and share your own plushie story—head over to “Parents Who Think” on Substack. Until next time, keep taking gentle care of yourself.   Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

In this week's minisode Parents Who Think host, Danusia Malina-Derben chats with PR expert and author Lucy Werner about the art of self-promotion. Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Lucy shares tips from her books "Hype Yourself" and "Brand Yourself," offering a fresh take on how to be seen without feeling cringe.   Danusia and Lucy dive into the often daunting world of self-promotion, unpacking why it feels so tricky and how to make it work for you - without losing yourself in the process. Lucy's insights are perfect for anyone wanting to boost their visibility, whether you're a pro or a beginner at putting yourself out there.   This episode is packed with real, actionable advice on how to hype yourself with confidence, humility, and just enough fun to make it feel right. Tune in for a quick dose of PR wisdom you didn't know you needed!   Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Check out Lucy's books: Hype Yourself  and Brand Yourself • Follow us on Instagram  • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben revisits conversations with British author, journalist, and fellow podcaster Clover Stroud. Known for her raw, beautiful prose on motherhood, trauma, and grief, Clover has crafted a voice that resonates with readers who seek honesty in life's most complex experiences.   In this episode, Danusia and Clover get into the complexities of writing about motherhood and life's messy truths. Clover reflects on the challenges of crafting authentic stories while living through the realities of being a mother to five. She shares candidly how motherhood reshapes every aspect of life - from career to marriage, and even sexual desire.   Danusia and Clover's transparent discussion about marriage, motherhood, and the creative process makes this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the rollercoaster of life with kids, career, and relationships.   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram  

We're back after the summer break, and Parents Who Think is ready with some exciting changes! Host Danusia Malina-Derben returns with a fresh format - short, 15-minute episodes with thought-provoking questions from parents who don't just raise kids, they question the future.   While we've lightened the load from our weekly debates, we're not leaving them behind. Starting now, those edgy debates you love will happen quarterly, with the next one dropping in January 2025. Join us on September 14th for the first micro-episode featuring literary powerhouse Clover Stroud!   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Dive into the full "Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this complex topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back.   We kick off with guests presenting their brief 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they reveal whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten, Danusia, shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE.   In the IF THIS, THEN THAT section, we clearly outline the consequences of allowing or not allowing underage children to drink alcohol, without any sugarcoating. We also examine the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their beliefs, showcasing how their stances shape their actions. Danusia wraps up the debate with her own reflections.   Consider this: Did this debate challenge your perspective or prompt you to rethink your beliefs? At Parents Who Think, we spark thought, not dictate it.   Join us in September after a summer break when we'll return to tackle even more controversial questions. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack  • World Health Organisation Study  • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Join us for the final episode of the debate, "Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?"  Our three guests tackle tough questions head-on, openly sharing their views on underage drinking. In the "If This, Then That" segment, they reveal the unvarnished consequences of allowing or not allowing underage drinking. We also explore the one habit each guest adopts based on their beliefs, highlighting how their stances influence their actions. Danusia concludes the debate with her reflections. Share your thoughts at team@parentswhothink.co.uk or on the PWT Youtube channel   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack  • World Health Organisation Study  • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Opinionated parents weigh in on the topic of underage drinking. Listen to debate guests discuss the reasons for and against allowing underage kids to drink alcohol. Is normalizing alcohol consumption harmful, and if so, why? Should parents introduce alcohol to their underage children to prepare them for adulthood? What are the risks of endorsing underage drinking?   Get surprising answers to these questions from guests who candidly give their perspectives. Share your thoughts on this debate by emailing team@parentswhothink.co.uk or by visiting the PWT YouTube channel.   Next week, we get stuck into the real-world implications of these parents beliefs. How do their beliefs affect their lives? Remember, Parents Who Think won't hand you the answers; we're dishing out the debates, and it's up to you to pick your side.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack  • World Health Organisation Study  • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Opinionated parents sound off about whether underage kids should drink alcohol. Who are the three parents in this hot debate? Do they have predictable, progressive or polarising opinions? What's the link between their childhood and what they think about underage kids drinking booze?   Have your say at team@parentswhothink.co.uk or over at the  PWT Youtube channel   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray   Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack  • World Health Organisation Study  • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Listen to the complete "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back.   We start with guests presenting their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move on to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they disclose whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten Danusia shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE.   In the IF THIS, THEN THAT section, we lay bare the consequences of smacking, without any sugarcoating. We explore the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their stance, highlighting how beliefs influence actions.   Danusia wraps up the “Should smacking be banned in England & Northern Ireland?” with her own reflections.  Consider this: Did this debate challenge your perspective or prompt a rethink of your beliefs? At Parents Who Think, we aim to spark thought, not dictate it.   Join us next time as we tackle the big question: "Should Parents Let Their Under-Age Kids Drink Alcohol?" Get ready for debate done differently.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe   Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over.  • 70 countries that banned smacking  • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article  • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Join us for the final episode of the “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Our three guests tackle tough questions head-on as they openly discuss their views on smacking and whether it should be banned. From examining its impact on children to exploring the cultural acceptance of smacking, we delve into the consequences in our IF THIS THEN THAT segment.   Next, we reveal the ONE HABIT each guest has developed based on their stance on children being smacked. Get an inside look at how these strong beliefs shape their everyday actions and approaches to handling parental stress and dysregulation.   Prepare for lively views as our guests present their arguments, whether they support or oppose banning smacking in England and Northern Ireland. Expect a mix of raw honesty, straightforward reflections, and a touch of sass – because at Parents Who Think (PWT), we thrive on the clash of ideas, never settling for empty agreement.   As host Danusia concludes the debate, she shares her personal perspective on whether smacking should be banned. After listening to this concluding debate conversation, take a moment to reflect: Has this debate changed your view? Has it made you think about your beliefs around a ban on smacking? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode make you think? At Parents Who Think we present the debates, and you see what you think.   Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the controversial question: “Should parents let their underage children drink alcohol?” Get ready for a debate like no other!   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe   Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over.  • 70 countries that banned smacking  • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article  • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Jo, Roma and Nicole “Get Up On Their High Horse” in our “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Didn't listen to episode one of this debate? Don't worry.   If you've a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick  10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland, or not.   In this episode, we begin with guests sharing their most challenging parenting moments that led to smacking or rough handling. Brace yourself for candid and unfiltered stories as these PWT parents recount the times when they resorted to physical discipline.   The heart of this episode is our "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment, where differing opinions clash, and reaching a consensus is not our goal. Here's a glimpse of what you'll hear:   Self-Regulation Advocate - One parent emphasises the importance of parents developing self-regulation skills to create a safe environment for their children. Pro-Education Stance - Another parent argues for mandatory parent education to support those struggling, rather than criminalizing parents who are doing their best under difficult circumstances. She highlights the impact of sleep deprivation in her case against banning smacking.   Ban Smacking Proponent -  The final guest advocates for an outright ban on smacking, dismissing arguments for 'reasonable punishment'.   Key Discussions: - The blurred lines in defining physical punishment. - Whether some parents might be granted accommodations. - The cultural shift required to move away from smacking as a norm.    Next week, we'll explore the real-world implications of these parents' beliefs. At Parents Who Think, we don't hand out answers; we spark debates and leave it to you to choose your side. Join us for our thought-provoking close-out discussion that challenges traditional views on parenting and physical punishments.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe   Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over.  • 70 countries that banned smacking  • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article  • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

For our "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate, host Danusia Malina-Derben speaks with Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe . Two guests firmly advocate for a ban (but for different reasons), while one urges us to tread carefully before implementing these measures.    Part 1 kicks off by delving into the lives of these three debate parents when they share the heart of their Life Stories in 200 words. Then the conversation unfolds, as Danusia opens up about her personal journey with smacking in the Dishing the Dirt segment, setting the stage for the challenging dialogue to come. Despite her composed demeanor, she candidly shares her unvarnished experiences, rooted in her role as a devoted mother to ten children.   In the Say It In Six segment, guests condense their views into six succinct words, offering a glimpse into their perspectives. Following this, we move onto The P That Fits Me, where they reveal whether they identify as having Predictable, Progressive, or Polarizing opinions—a segment bound to spark disagreement!   With our topic heating up, guests unpack their stances on whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland, by sharing about their childhoods and they begin to reveal the complexities beneath the surface. Is this topic as clear cut as we maybe thought?!   Join us next week for Part 2 of this debate, where things get even messier as our PWT parents return to argue their case. Get ready for serious truth-telling in the core Get Up On Your High Horse segment. Don't miss out on the tea-spilling action!   By the way, if you're new to Parents Who Think, this 10-minute episode, gives the lowdown on how PWT debates work and introduces you properly to host, Danusia Malina-Derben.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe   Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We've developed a nice little community there. Come on over. • 70 countries that banned smacking • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia  • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

This special episode is for those who love a binge listen.  Here's the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” debate in one convenient download. Expect a seamless exploration of this thought-provoking debate as three parents share their raw thoughts and opinions without holding back.   We kick things off with guests sharing their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, followed by the THE P THAT FITS ME segment where they reveal if they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or perhaps Polarising. Host Danusia also dishes her take in the DISHING THE DIRT segment, before diving into the core debate in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE.   In the  IF THIS, THEN THAT section, the consequences of teaching gender identity and sexual orientation in schools are laid bare, without any sugarcoating. We delve into the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their stance, shedding light on how beliefs influence actions.   As the debate wraps up, Danusia tackles the question herself: should schools teach her ten children about these topics? Reflect on whether this debate challenged your perspective or prompted a rethink of your beliefs, because ultimately, did it make you think? At Parents Who Think, we're all about sparking thought, not dictating it.    Join us next time as we tackle the big question: "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" Get ready for debate done different.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown   Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  Advertising Inquiries here     Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

Join us for the final instalment of our robust debate on "Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation?" Our trio of guests dives deep into this contentious issue, fearlessly tackling tough questions and offering candid insights on the importance of addressing these topics in education. From the allocation of classroom time to fostering inclusivity and empathy among students, we confront the repercussions head-on in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment.   Tune in to uncover the unique ONE HABIT each guest has cultivated in response to their stance on the inclusion of gender identity and sexual orientation education in schools. Gain exclusive behind-the-scenes access as we delve into how these convictions shape their daily routines. Prepare to be surprised by the unexpected rituals these individuals adopt due to their positions on this matter.   Expect a lively exchange of perspectives as our guests passionately defend their viewpoints, whether advocating for or against the incorporation of gender identity and sexual orientation education into the curriculum. Anticipate a blend of unfiltered honesty, introspective reflections, with an edge of chutzpah – because here at Parents Who Think, we celebrate the clash of ideas without settling for mere consensus.   As our host, Danusia, wraps up the discussion, she shares her own thoughts on whether schools should address these topics with her own children. After immersing yourself in this thought-provoking dialogue, take a moment to ponder: Has this debate challenged your beliefs? Has it prompted a re-evaluation of your perspective? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode provoke introspection?   Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the question: "Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?"   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown    Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  Advertising Inquiries here     Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

This episode Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Amy, Jane and Virginia continue debating the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” topic. Didn't listen to episode one of this debate? Don't worry.    If you've a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick  10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether schools should teach about gender identity and sexual orientation, or not.   In this episode, we kick things off by revisiting guests experiences of being taught about gender identity and sexual orientation at school and at home. Plus, we hear from one of Danusia's sons about what he learned about this too. Cue the condom on the banana situation - this rite of passage was inadequate in the past and just doesn't cut it now either. Then, prepare for the main event—the "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment where opinions collide; consensus isn't the ultimate goal here.   You'll hear from one parent who's all about teaching beyond the binary model and sees entrusting teachers to impart gender identity and sexual orientation education as the way forward. Then there's another parent who wants heteronormativity eradicated and for schools to model diversity in their culture and across the curriculum. And finally, there's the third parent who argues schools do not have time for teaching gender identity, that this teaching is untested, not necessarily appropriate, and that other life skills are more important to focus on in school time. But wait, there's more: the safety of playgrounds is at stake, and everyone's got skin in the game.   Next week, we delve further into the real-world implications of these parents beliefs. Remember, Parents Who Think won't hand you the answers; we're dishing out the debates, and it's up to you to pick your side.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown      Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  Advertising Inquiries here     Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

We kick off the "Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation?" debate today.   If you're new to Parents Who Think, this 10-minute episode, gives the lowdown on how PWT debates work and introduces you to host, Danusia Malina-Derben. Don't let her demeanor fool you; she's genuinely a mother to ten!   In episode one, we meet our next three debate parents as they share about their lives in a quick-fire segment called Guest Life Stories. Then, Danusia Dishes the Dirt on her background with gender identity and sexual orientation, setting the stage for things to come.   Next, we have the Say It In Six segment, where parents sum up their opinions in just six words. Once we've got the nub of their views, we move onto The P That Fits Me segment. Guests reveal whether they believe they hold Predictable, Progressive, or Polarizing opinions. You'll probably disagree with them on this.    As this is a scorcher of a topic guests tell us how they are defining gender identity, sexual orientation and non-binary. It's not as plain sailing as we might think. And that's a wrap for this episode.    Tune in next week for episode two of this debate, where we get ever so messy with the same three PWT parents. Settle in for some serious tea-spilling in a segment called Get Up On Your High Horse, where the core debate thrashes out whether schools should teach about gender identity and sexual orientation, or not.   Ps. Here's the UK Govt Research Briefing Danusia promised to give you in this episode.PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown   Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

This special PWT Sharing Episode is for people who like a binge listen.  Here's the “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids?” debate in one convenient download. Prepare yourself for an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking debate - three parents share their candid thoughts and opinions from start to finish, leaving no stone unturned. Unlike other debate shows, PWT guests don't name-call or shame each other despite their differing opinions. There are plenty of surprises but no personal attacks.      We start out with guests sharing their quick fire 200 word LIFE STORY, followed by THE P THAT FITS ME segment. You'll hear which guest thinks their opinion is Progressive, or Predictable or perhaps Polarising.     Danusia, host of PWT says where she stands on this debate in the DISHING THE DIRT segment.  And on we go as each guest says it like they see it in the GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE core part of the debate.     In the "IF THIS, THEN THAT" section, the consequences of mollycoddling are debated without sugarcoating. We uncover the "ONE HABIT" adopted by guests based on their stance on favourite children. As we explore the relationship between beliefs and actions, we reveal how guests' beliefs shape their choices, offering a unique perspective on the topic. With the debate drawing to a close, host Danusia answers the question: does she mollycoddle her ten children?     As you consider what you've heard, ask yourself: Did this debate challenge your perspective? Did it prompt you to reconsider your beliefs? Because ultimately, the most important question remains: Did this episode make you think? Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. This is debate done different.     Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the burning question: ""Should Schools Teach about Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?"     PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney     Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

Join us for the last episode of this meaty debate on “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids”?! Our three guests certainly don't shy away from tough questions as they share their candid insights on mollycoddling. From dissecting  its impact on society to the rise of entitled kids, we confront the consequences head-on in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment.    Tune in to discover the ONE HABIT each of our guests has developed in response to their stance on coddling children. Peek behind the scenes as we explore how these deeply held beliefs inform their day-to-day actions.   Prepare for spirited views as our guests explore their positions, whether advocating for or against mollycoddling kids. Expect a blend of raw honesty, blunt introspections, and a dose of sass – because In Parents Who Think, we embrace the clash of ideas, never settling for mere agreement.   As host Danusia wraps up the debate, she shares her own insights on whether she mollycoddles her brood of ten kids. After immersing yourself in this thought-provoking conversation, take a moment to reflect: Has this debate challenged your perspective? Has it prompted a reassessment of your beliefs? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode make you think?   Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the question: "Should Schools Teach about Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?"   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney   Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram

Last episode on Parents Who Think, we threw down the start of the debate on whether we're making our kids too soft. If you missed it, don't sweat it. If you've never listened into a PWT debate you can catch up on details in a quick  10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates roll and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents get real about whether we're coddling our kids too much.   In this episode, we kick things off by defining what "mollycoddling" even means and what kind of grown-ups, guests want their kids to turn into. Then, they jump straight into the juicy part—the "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment. This is where things warm up a treat as guests air their opinions and share some eyebrow-raising practices. And hey, there's no pressure to agree here.   You'll hear from one parent who's all about teaching self-control and sees discipline as the holy grail of parenting. Then there's the other parent who's basically a one-person concierge for their kids, although they didn't always spoil their older ones like this. And finally, there's the third parent who's setting their own standards for what mollycoddling means, all in the name of protecting their kids' mental health.   And that's a wrap for now. Tune in next week for more from these same folks, where we''ll dish out the real-life consequences of their beliefs. Remember, Parents Who Think aren't here to tell you what to believe; we're serving up debates, and it's up to you to decide where you stand.   PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney   Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram  Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts  Advertising Inquiries here     Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben  Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram