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In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women's pleasure. One of Hollie's books, Slug and Other Things I've Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat. Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her late grandmother who thought orgasms were mythical creatures. They also explore why certain words—like "moist" and "vulva"—trigger deep discomfort rooted in societal shame. You won't want to miss this one—it's time to dismantle taboos, one orgasm at a time! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Sex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week. We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why investing in high-end pleasure tech might just be self-care at its finest. Oh, and then we take a detour into the world of sex dolls—because, of course. Expect frank talk, fascinating insights, and a solid reminder that knowing your body is power. Let's put the stigma to bed, shall we? Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn't. Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they become mothers. This is a conversation that hits deep. If you've ever questioned the script society wrote for you, this one's for you. Tune in and let's rewrite the rules. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Danusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it's metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically. From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.” This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your unique slay, and never let trends define you. Press play and prepare to feel inspired! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Danusia "Beatz" Nowak-Riffel and Dave Riffel, visited the Flamingo Lounge on January 12, 2025 to talk about their music and provide excerpts of some brand new music that is still in Post-Production Danusia and Dave have been in a musical and life partnership since their 2003 high school band "Besides the Obvious," have built a thriving career in Western New York. Danusia, a renowned drummer mentored by the late Teddy Reinhardt, is known for her groove and collaborations with local greats like The Beard and the Bird and Grace Lougen. Dave, a multi-instrumentalist and producer, complements her with intricate backing tracks and a passion for fostering creativity. Together, they co-own a production studio at the Niagara Arts & Cultural Center, supporting local musicians since 2013. They co-founded Music Garden Sessions, a virtual concert series, and Dave is releasing his debut solo album in 2025. Married with a son, they continue to inspire and uplift their community.
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she's still raising the bar. They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in business. Mary also shares her thoughts on having children in her 40s and how technology is redefining motherhood. This candid conversation is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone looking to break barriers and chase their dreams. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics. This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy can transform a relationship once riddled with misunderstandings into one of empowerment and growth. The pair also reflect on breaking free from patriarchal narratives and embracing an ongoing exchange of wisdom between mothers and daughters. From the emotional rollercoaster of raising daughters to the intensity of female relationships, this conversation is full of practical takeaways for anyone seeking to build stronger bonds. If you've ever struggled to navigate your relationship with your mother or daughter, this episode offers plenty of food for thought—and hope. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In deze aflevering praat Flowerdales / Anne Bloemendaal met Danusia Schenke, art director bij Trouw, over de mogelijkheden die zij ziet voor fotografie binnen de nieuwsmedia van Trouw. We hebben het over de verschillen in beeld in de Verdieping en in Tijdgeest, naast het beeldgebruik in de nieuwskatern. En natuurlijk praten we over de mogelijkheden die online nog verkend kunnen worden en de noodzaak om een beeld goed te benoemen, is er aan gesleuteld of is het een echte nieuwsfoto die de feiten weergeeft? Danusia is groot voorstander van het experiment, alles doen zoals we het al hebben gedaan dat werkt echt niet meer. En we hebben het over de magie van de combinatie van het verhaal, de juiste fotograaf en de juiste journalist; dan kan er iets heel moois ontstaan. Natuurlijk blikken we ook vooruit; hoe kunnen we in de toekomst nog meer nog mooiere verhalen vertellen.En we hebben het ook over het werk van Danusia voor de jaarlijkse verkiezing van de Meesterverteller, de jaarlijkse wedstrijd van Stichting Verhalende Journalistiek. Danusia noemt in deze podcast een paar fotografen, dit zijn de links naar hun werk: Lars van den Brink, Marwan Magroun, Sakir Khader, Tina Farifteh, Merlin Daleman en Fenna Jensma. Dit gesprek is opgenomen op 18 november 2024 in Amsterdam in het nagelnieuwe gebouw van DPG, waar nog wel (nog heel zacht hoorbaar) geboord moest worden. Met excuses. Wil je nog meer afleveringen van de podcast Iedereen maakt foto's doe dan een donatie!
What if you could feel more alive in your 80s than ever before? Meet Jane Wyker, the unstoppable force behind Soul Selfish: The Awakening of a Good Girl. Jane's story is proof that it's never too late to prioritise yourself, let go of toxic baggage, and embrace joy at every stage of life. Danusia and Jane unpack the inner work of shedding the “good girl” identity, balancing self-love with motherhood, and yes, even the realities of sex, dating, and pleasure in your 80s. Jane's advice on “inner housekeeping” is a game-changer—because let's face it, no one thrives in a cluttered emotional home. This episode is a masterclass in how to own your life, your choices, and your happiness—no matter your age. Tune in for some unforgettable wisdom and a bold call to put pleasure (and yourself!) at the centre of your world. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Find Jane Wyker here • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Rebekah Taussig, author of Sitting Pretty: The View from My Ordinary, Resilient Disabled Body, to unpack the complexities of living with a disability. In this episode, Rebekah challenges the oversimplified narratives that often surround disabled lives and calls for a more inclusive, open-hearted perspective. From embracing her body to navigating pregnancy, Rebekah shares stories that illuminate the richness, challenges, and ordinariness of disability—pushing past stereotypes of pity or inspiration. They discuss how society's fear of disability limits understanding and how breaking those barriers starts with recognizing the nuance in every human experience. Danusia and Rebekah also dive into the untold stories of disabled motherhood, touching on everything from baby kicks to the broader need for representation. This conversation is a profound reminder: disability doesn't diminish humanity—it enriches it. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Find Rebekah's book here • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Sarah Peck, CEO of Start Up Parent, to discuss the often unspoken realities of postpartum sex and recovery. Sarah shares her personal experiences, from healing after childbirth to the surprising physical challenges that follow. Danusia and Sarah also talk about living brazenly, including Sarah's daring naked swim from Alcatraz, and what it means to push past conventional metrics of success. This episode offers a fresh, unfiltered look at life after giving birth and how to embrace boldness in all areas of life. Tune in for real talk on postpartum recovery, relationships, and living by your own values! Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben explores Stoicism and its relevance to parenting. Drawing on her experience as a mother to 10 children, she reflects on how Stoic principles like control, patience, and detachment have shaped her approach to raising kids. But it's not just about personal resilience ~ Danusia also gets into the limits of Stoicism, especially when it comes to addressing the broader systemic challenges that families face. Through thoughtful reflections, she balances Stoic ideas with insights from feminist and care ethicists like bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Carol Gilligan, showing that emotional engagement and systemic awareness are essential in parenting. This episode challenges listeners to consider how they can raise resilient children while also recognising and addressing the societal pressures their children face. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of Stoicism, love, and the complexities of modern parenting. Head over to comment on this episode on the “Parents Who Think” on Substack. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this rare solo episode, Danusia shares a self-care secret that's hiding in plain sight: cuddling a teddy bear. Yep, you heard right. We're talking about the comfort of snuggling up to a stuffed toy, and why it's not just for kids anymore. From CEOs sneaking plushies into bed to Supreme Court judges traveling with their own teddy, we unpack how this simple, often hidden habit can be a game-changer for stress relief and better sleep. We get into the science, real stories, and some surprising facts about why this soft, squishy form of self-care is making a comeback among adults. Grab your snuggly, get comfy, and let's challenge the stigma together. Join the conversation and share your own plushie story—head over to “Parents Who Think” on Substack. Until next time, keep taking gentle care of yourself. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this week's minisode Parents Who Think host, Danusia Malina-Derben chats with PR expert and author Lucy Werner about the art of self-promotion. Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Lucy shares tips from her books "Hype Yourself" and "Brand Yourself," offering a fresh take on how to be seen without feeling cringe. Danusia and Lucy dive into the often daunting world of self-promotion, unpacking why it feels so tricky and how to make it work for you - without losing yourself in the process. Lucy's insights are perfect for anyone wanting to boost their visibility, whether you're a pro or a beginner at putting yourself out there. This episode is packed with real, actionable advice on how to hype yourself with confidence, humility, and just enough fun to make it feel right. Tune in for a quick dose of PR wisdom you didn't know you needed! Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on Substack • Check out Lucy's books: Hype Yourself and Brand Yourself • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben revisits conversations with British author, journalist, and fellow podcaster Clover Stroud. Known for her raw, beautiful prose on motherhood, trauma, and grief, Clover has crafted a voice that resonates with readers who seek honesty in life's most complex experiences. In this episode, Danusia and Clover get into the complexities of writing about motherhood and life's messy truths. Clover reflects on the challenges of crafting authentic stories while living through the realities of being a mother to five. She shares candidly how motherhood reshapes every aspect of life - from career to marriage, and even sexual desire. Danusia and Clover's transparent discussion about marriage, motherhood, and the creative process makes this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the rollercoaster of life with kids, career, and relationships. Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Episode Description: In this compelling episode, Rob Gorski, host of The Autism Dad Podcast, sits down with Danusia Malina-Derben, a mother of ten and a successful business consultant, to discuss the complexities of balancing motherhood, especially when raising neurodiverse children, with a demanding career. Danusia shares her journey from being a mother to ten children, including neurodiverse triplets, to managing a thriving consultancy and podcasting career. Key Topics Covered: Balancing Motherhood and Career: Danusia dives into her experiences of managing a large family while leading a successful consultancy. She discusses the challenges and rewards of juggling both roles without compromising her personal or professional identity. Raising Neurodiverse Children: Danusia's candid conversation about her neurodiverse triplets offers invaluable insights into the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting children with autism and other neurodiverse conditions. The Impact of Societal Expectations: The discussion highlights the societal pressures placed on mothers, especially those with careers, and how these expectations differ from those faced by fathers. Danusia and Rob explore the double standards that exist and the importance of redefining these roles. Navigating Meltdowns and Professional Obligations: Danusia shares real-life examples of how she has had to balance professional responsibilities with the immediate needs of her children, particularly during meltdowns, and how she navigates these situations with grace and transparency. The Role of Privilege in Parenting: Both hosts discuss the privileges they hold and how these impact their experiences as parents, especially in the context of single parenting and gender expectations. Quotes: "Motherhood and a successful career should not be mutually exclusive." - Danusia Malina-Derben "Society is not built to support women who want to have it all, but we must challenge that." - Danusia Malina-Derben Resources: Danusia Malina-Derben's Website: DanusiaMalinaDerben.com Books by Danusia Malina-Derben: Noise: A Manifesto Modernizing Motherhood Spunk: A Manifesto Modernizing Fatherhood Connect with Us: Rob Gorski - The Autism Dad: Website Follow on Instagram: @theautismdad Listen to The Autism Dad Podcast: Podcast Link Learn More: Grokkoli Hey parents! Is your child struggling with math? Meet Grokkoli, an AI tutor that helps kids progress multiple grade levels in months. Grokkoli identifies where your child struggles, meets them at their level, and is effective even for kids with learning disabilities, ensuring they get the support they need. Currently supporting K-5 math, Grokkoli is expanding to grow with your child, making it a great alternative to human tutors at a lower cost. Try Grokkoli free for 7 days! Visit grokkoli.com and use code “theautismdad” for 50% off your first month. Learn More: Mightier Mightier helps kids self-regulate emotionally through biofeedback-based video games. Learn more and get a discount at Visit Mightier. Use code “theautismdad22” to save 10%.
New episodes released Thursday. If you're in the UK, for more BBC podcasts listen on BBC Sounds: bbc.in/3UjecF5It's double-bubble on the Olympian-front as this week's Listener of the Week, Danusia, is a former Olympic gymnast too! Plus, Spencer actually does some work for a change, as we call his mate - Olympian and Team GB marathon runner, Rose Harvey!It all gets a bit Frost-Nixon, as James grills Spencer about how he feels as he's about to set off on his 30 desert marathons in 30 days challenge.As usual, Jamie attempts to catch Spen out with some more riddles. Plus, Phil has some outtakes from last week's podcast to share with the team.Want to message the team? We're looking for Listeners of the Week too! If you're over 16 WhatsApp us for free on 07968 101 610. Or email 6degrees@bbc.co.uk
Throughout this week, we'll be bringing you special episodes debriefing the gymnastics competitions at the 2024 Olympics. Today, we're breaking down the women's team final and with guest co-host Danusia Francis-Reed, a commentator and former Olympic gymnast who competed for Great Britain, Jamaica and UCLA. On this episode, we chat about the “redemption tour” by Simone Biles and the US women, the historic achievements by Brazil & Italy and the importance of leadership and group morale in team competitions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Dive into the full "Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this complex topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back. We kick off with guests presenting their brief 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they reveal whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten, Danusia, shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE. In the IF THIS, THEN THAT section, we clearly outline the consequences of allowing or not allowing underage children to drink alcohol, without any sugarcoating. We also examine the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their beliefs, showcasing how their stances shape their actions. Danusia wraps up the debate with her own reflections. Consider this: Did this debate challenge your perspective or prompt you to rethink your beliefs? At Parents Who Think, we spark thought, not dictate it. Join us in September after a summer break when we'll return to tackle even more controversial questions. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • World Health Organisation Study • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Join us for the final episode of the debate, "Should Parents Let Their Underage Children Drink Alcohol?" Our three guests tackle tough questions head-on, openly sharing their views on underage drinking. In the "If This, Then That" segment, they reveal the unvarnished consequences of allowing or not allowing underage drinking. We also explore the one habit each guest adopts based on their beliefs, highlighting how their stances influence their actions. Danusia concludes the debate with her reflections. Share your thoughts at team@parentswhothink.co.uk or on the PWT Youtube channel PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Keiyia Jackson-George +Dave Wilson+ Casey McMurray Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT Substack • World Health Organisation Study • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
This special episode is perfect for binge listeners! Listen to the complete "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate and enjoy an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking topic. Three parents share their unfiltered thoughts and opinions, holding nothing back. We start with guests presenting their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, then move on to THE P THAT FITS ME segment, where they disclose whether they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or Polarising. Host and mother of ten Danusia shares her experiences in the DISHING THE DIRT segment before diving into the main discussion in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE. In the IF THIS, THEN THAT section, we lay bare the consequences of smacking, without any sugarcoating. We explore the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their stance, highlighting how beliefs influence actions. Danusia wraps up the “Should smacking be banned in England & Northern Ireland?” with her own reflections. Consider this: Did this debate challenge your perspective or prompt a rethink of your beliefs? At Parents Who Think, we aim to spark thought, not dictate it. Join us next time as we tackle the big question: "Should Parents Let Their Under-Age Kids Drink Alcohol?" Get ready for debate done differently. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over. • 70 countries that banned smacking • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Join us for the final episode of the “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Our three guests tackle tough questions head-on as they openly discuss their views on smacking and whether it should be banned. From examining its impact on children to exploring the cultural acceptance of smacking, we delve into the consequences in our IF THIS THEN THAT segment. Next, we reveal the ONE HABIT each guest has developed based on their stance on children being smacked. Get an inside look at how these strong beliefs shape their everyday actions and approaches to handling parental stress and dysregulation. Prepare for lively views as our guests present their arguments, whether they support or oppose banning smacking in England and Northern Ireland. Expect a mix of raw honesty, straightforward reflections, and a touch of sass – because at Parents Who Think (PWT), we thrive on the clash of ideas, never settling for empty agreement. As host Danusia concludes the debate, she shares her personal perspective on whether smacking should be banned. After listening to this concluding debate conversation, take a moment to reflect: Has this debate changed your view? Has it made you think about your beliefs around a ban on smacking? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode make you think? At Parents Who Think we present the debates, and you see what you think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the controversial question: “Should parents let their underage children drink alcohol?” Get ready for a debate like no other! PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over. • 70 countries that banned smacking • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Jo, Roma and Nicole “Get Up On Their High Horse” in our “Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?” debate. Didn't listen to episode one of this debate? Don't worry. If you've a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland, or not. In this episode, we begin with guests sharing their most challenging parenting moments that led to smacking or rough handling. Brace yourself for candid and unfiltered stories as these PWT parents recount the times when they resorted to physical discipline. The heart of this episode is our "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment, where differing opinions clash, and reaching a consensus is not our goal. Here's a glimpse of what you'll hear: Self-Regulation Advocate - One parent emphasises the importance of parents developing self-regulation skills to create a safe environment for their children. Pro-Education Stance - Another parent argues for mandatory parent education to support those struggling, rather than criminalizing parents who are doing their best under difficult circumstances. She highlights the impact of sleep deprivation in her case against banning smacking. Ban Smacking Proponent - The final guest advocates for an outright ban on smacking, dismissing arguments for 'reasonable punishment'. Key Discussions: - The blurred lines in defining physical punishment. - Whether some parents might be granted accommodations. - The cultural shift required to move away from smacking as a norm. Next week, we'll explore the real-world implications of these parents' beliefs. At Parents Who Think, we don't hand out answers; we spark debates and leave it to you to choose your side. Join us for our thought-provoking close-out discussion that challenges traditional views on parenting and physical punishments. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We're building a PWT community there. Come on over. • 70 countries that banned smacking • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
For our "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" debate, host Danusia Malina-Derben speaks with Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe . Two guests firmly advocate for a ban (but for different reasons), while one urges us to tread carefully before implementing these measures. Part 1 kicks off by delving into the lives of these three debate parents when they share the heart of their Life Stories in 200 words. Then the conversation unfolds, as Danusia opens up about her personal journey with smacking in the Dishing the Dirt segment, setting the stage for the challenging dialogue to come. Despite her composed demeanor, she candidly shares her unvarnished experiences, rooted in her role as a devoted mother to ten children. In the Say It In Six segment, guests condense their views into six succinct words, offering a glimpse into their perspectives. Following this, we move onto The P That Fits Me, where they reveal whether they identify as having Predictable, Progressive, or Polarizing opinions—a segment bound to spark disagreement! With our topic heating up, guests unpack their stances on whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland, by sharing about their childhoods and they begin to reveal the complexities beneath the surface. Is this topic as clear cut as we maybe thought?! Join us next week for Part 2 of this debate, where things get even messier as our PWT parents return to argue their case. Get ready for serious truth-telling in the core Get Up On Your High Horse segment. Don't miss out on the tea-spilling action! By the way, if you're new to Parents Who Think, this 10-minute episode, gives the lowdown on how PWT debates work and introduces you properly to host, Danusia Malina-Derben. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe Discover more from us: • Join us on Substack ~ We've developed a nice little community there. Come on over. • 70 countries that banned smacking • Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article • Why smacking should not be criminalised article • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
This special episode is for those who love a binge listen. Here's the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” debate in one convenient download. Expect a seamless exploration of this thought-provoking debate as three parents share their raw thoughts and opinions without holding back. We kick things off with guests sharing their quick 200-word LIFE STORIES, followed by the THE P THAT FITS ME segment where they reveal if they see themselves as Progressive, Predictable, or perhaps Polarising. Host Danusia also dishes her take in the DISHING THE DIRT segment, before diving into the core debate in GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE. In the IF THIS, THEN THAT section, the consequences of teaching gender identity and sexual orientation in schools are laid bare, without any sugarcoating. We delve into the ONE HABIT each guest adopts based on their stance, shedding light on how beliefs influence actions. As the debate wraps up, Danusia tackles the question herself: should schools teach her ten children about these topics? Reflect on whether this debate challenged your perspective or prompted a rethink of your beliefs, because ultimately, did it make you think? At Parents Who Think, we're all about sparking thought, not dictating it. Join us next time as we tackle the big question: "Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland?" Get ready for debate done different. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
Join us for the final instalment of our robust debate on "Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation?" Our trio of guests dives deep into this contentious issue, fearlessly tackling tough questions and offering candid insights on the importance of addressing these topics in education. From the allocation of classroom time to fostering inclusivity and empathy among students, we confront the repercussions head-on in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment. Tune in to uncover the unique ONE HABIT each guest has cultivated in response to their stance on the inclusion of gender identity and sexual orientation education in schools. Gain exclusive behind-the-scenes access as we delve into how these convictions shape their daily routines. Prepare to be surprised by the unexpected rituals these individuals adopt due to their positions on this matter. Expect a lively exchange of perspectives as our guests passionately defend their viewpoints, whether advocating for or against the incorporation of gender identity and sexual orientation education into the curriculum. Anticipate a blend of unfiltered honesty, introspective reflections, with an edge of chutzpah – because here at Parents Who Think, we celebrate the clash of ideas without settling for mere consensus. As our host, Danusia, wraps up the discussion, she shares her own thoughts on whether schools should address these topics with her own children. After immersing yourself in this thought-provoking dialogue, take a moment to ponder: Has this debate challenged your beliefs? Has it prompted a re-evaluation of your perspective? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode provoke introspection? Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the question: "Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?" PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
This episode Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Amy, Jane and Virginia continue debating the “Should Schools Teach About Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?” topic. Didn't listen to episode one of this debate? Don't worry. If you've a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether schools should teach about gender identity and sexual orientation, or not. In this episode, we kick things off by revisiting guests experiences of being taught about gender identity and sexual orientation at school and at home. Plus, we hear from one of Danusia's sons about what he learned about this too. Cue the condom on the banana situation - this rite of passage was inadequate in the past and just doesn't cut it now either. Then, prepare for the main event—the "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment where opinions collide; consensus isn't the ultimate goal here. You'll hear from one parent who's all about teaching beyond the binary model and sees entrusting teachers to impart gender identity and sexual orientation education as the way forward. Then there's another parent who wants heteronormativity eradicated and for schools to model diversity in their culture and across the curriculum. And finally, there's the third parent who argues schools do not have time for teaching gender identity, that this teaching is untested, not necessarily appropriate, and that other life skills are more important to focus on in school time. But wait, there's more: the safety of playgrounds is at stake, and everyone's got skin in the game. Next week, we delve further into the real-world implications of these parents beliefs. Remember, Parents Who Think won't hand you the answers; we're dishing out the debates, and it's up to you to pick your side. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Virginia Mendez + Jane + Amy McKeown Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
This special PWT Sharing Episode is for people who like a binge listen. Here's the “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids?” debate in one convenient download. Prepare yourself for an uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking debate - three parents share their candid thoughts and opinions from start to finish, leaving no stone unturned. Unlike other debate shows, PWT guests don't name-call or shame each other despite their differing opinions. There are plenty of surprises but no personal attacks. We start out with guests sharing their quick fire 200 word LIFE STORY, followed by THE P THAT FITS ME segment. You'll hear which guest thinks their opinion is Progressive, or Predictable or perhaps Polarising. Danusia, host of PWT says where she stands on this debate in the DISHING THE DIRT segment. And on we go as each guest says it like they see it in the GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE core part of the debate. In the "IF THIS, THEN THAT" section, the consequences of mollycoddling are debated without sugarcoating. We uncover the "ONE HABIT" adopted by guests based on their stance on favourite children. As we explore the relationship between beliefs and actions, we reveal how guests' beliefs shape their choices, offering a unique perspective on the topic. With the debate drawing to a close, host Danusia answers the question: does she mollycoddle her ten children? As you consider what you've heard, ask yourself: Did this debate challenge your perspective? Did it prompt you to reconsider your beliefs? Because ultimately, the most important question remains: Did this episode make you think? Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. This is debate done different. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the burning question: ""Should Schools Teach about Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?" PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
Join us for the last episode of this meaty debate on “Are we Creating Mollycoddled Kids”?! Our three guests certainly don't shy away from tough questions as they share their candid insights on mollycoddling. From dissecting its impact on society to the rise of entitled kids, we confront the consequences head-on in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment. Tune in to discover the ONE HABIT each of our guests has developed in response to their stance on coddling children. Peek behind the scenes as we explore how these deeply held beliefs inform their day-to-day actions. Prepare for spirited views as our guests explore their positions, whether advocating for or against mollycoddling kids. Expect a blend of raw honesty, blunt introspections, and a dose of sass – because In Parents Who Think, we embrace the clash of ideas, never settling for mere agreement. As host Danusia wraps up the debate, she shares her own insights on whether she mollycoddles her brood of ten kids. After immersing yourself in this thought-provoking conversation, take a moment to reflect: Has this debate challenged your perspective? Has it prompted a reassessment of your beliefs? Ultimately, ask yourself: Did this episode make you think? Here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the question: "Should Schools Teach about Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation?" PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
Last episode on Parents Who Think, we threw down the start of the debate on whether we're making our kids too soft. If you missed it, don't sweat it. If you've never listened into a PWT debate you can catch up on details in a quick 10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates roll and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents get real about whether we're coddling our kids too much. In this episode, we kick things off by defining what "mollycoddling" even means and what kind of grown-ups, guests want their kids to turn into. Then, they jump straight into the juicy part—the "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment. This is where things warm up a treat as guests air their opinions and share some eyebrow-raising practices. And hey, there's no pressure to agree here. You'll hear from one parent who's all about teaching self-control and sees discipline as the holy grail of parenting. Then there's the other parent who's basically a one-person concierge for their kids, although they didn't always spoil their older ones like this. And finally, there's the third parent who's setting their own standards for what mollycoddling means, all in the name of protecting their kids' mental health. And that's a wrap for now. Tune in next week for more from these same folks, where we''ll dish out the real-life consequences of their beliefs. Remember, Parents Who Think aren't here to tell you what to believe; we're serving up debates, and it's up to you to decide where you stand. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Nicola Middleton + Rosie Sherry + Tanya Hackney Discover more from us: Join us on Substack Follow us on Instagram Connect with Danusia Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts Advertising Inquiries here Credits: Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers Assisted by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
This special PWT Sharing Episode is for listeners who want to dive into all three episodes of Debate 1 in one convenient download. Prepare yourself for uninterrupted exploration of this thought-provoking debate on “Is Having a Favorite Child Okay?” Three parents share their candid opinions from start to finish, leaving no stone unturned. Unlike other debate shows, PWT guests don't name-call or shame each other despite their differing opinions. There are still plenty of surprises but no personal attacks. -We start out as guests share their quick-fire 200 word LIFE STORY, followed by THE P THAT FITS ME segment. You'll hear which guest thinks their opinion is Progressive, or Predictable or perhaps Polarising. -Danusia, host of PWT confesses where she stands on this debate in the DISHING THE DIRT segment. And on we go as each guest says-it-like-they-see-it in the GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE core part of the debate. Meanwhile, you'll hear clips from four of Danusia's ten children as they discuss their perspectives on being her favourite child, or not. -In the "If THIS, Then THAT" section, the consequences of favouritism are debated without sugarcoating. We uncover the “ONE HABIT" adopted by guests based on their stance on favourite children. We explore the relationship between beliefs and actions, and reveal how guests' beliefs shape their choices and habits. -With the debate drawing to a close in the LAST WORDS segment , host Danusia answers the question: does she have a favourite among her ten children? As you consider what you've heard, ask yourself: Did this debate challenge your perspective? Did it prompt you to reconsider your beliefs? Because ultimately, the most important question remains: Did this episode make you think Because here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the burning question: "Are we creating mollycoddled kids?" PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Darya Haitoglou + Jamie Newton + Peggy Starnes Discover more from us: • Join PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
In this episode, Helen Packham engages in an eye-opening and candid conversation with special guest and renowned podcast host Danusia Malina-Derben. Join them as they delve into the critical topic of giving voice to diverse perspectives that can often challenge the status quo. Uncover the struggles, triumphs, and personal growth that come with using one's voice, and explore the complexities of inclusion, identity, and freedom of speech. Together, they navigate through a thought-provoking discussion on parenting, controversy and diversity. Plus the dilemma of giving a voice to Katie Hopkins. Shedding light on the power of words to ignite change. With real-life experiences and empowering insights, this episode promises to inspire and challenge listeners to amplify their voices and embrace the impact of their words on the world.Here are the highlights:06:33 Survival through adversity, despair, and corporate connections.08:25 Negotiated settlement after a prolonged, and invasive process.13:18 Reached out for help with serious fraud.16:13 Empowerment through adversity, using voice, achieving limits.17:42 Promoting diversity and inclusion in podcasting.20:47 Focus on inclusion and diversity in motherhood.28:39 Unpublished episode titled "Too Afraid to Publish"33:05 Facilitating open, respectful dialogue on important topics.36:41 Fear of cancel culture affecting public image.39:30 Acknowledging the need for vulnerability in self-reflection.46:30 Danusia's child doesn't need to be the favourite.47:52 Importance of giving a voice to divisive topics.Connect with: Danusia Malina-DerbenDanusia Malina-Derben is a mother of ten children, and still her own woman. From teen mother to tenured Organisational Behaviour and Development academic, on to award-winning, internationally published leadership expert. Danusia traded academia in for boardrooms where she, and her team, consult on peak performance and strategic leadership in senior teams. Beyond the boardroom she is a regular contributor on future C-level business changes/trends, cultivating women's leadership and age-old debates about women's careers and family. Danusia is a rousing and sought-after keynote speaker, and frequent expert commentator featured most recently in The Guardian, The Times, Observer, and Metro. Danusia hosts two top-rated companion podcasts; School for Mothers and School for Fathers. In 2021 her book on motherhood identity “NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood” (Triumph Press) received praise and recognition from The Sunday Times to Metro, Psychologies to the Guardian. Her next book “SPUNK: A Manifesto Modernising Fatherhood” (2022) on fatherhood identity was described by The Metro as provocative and compelling. She lives in Somerset with her family, and their mini-dachshund, Dickie Van der Sausage. Website: danusiamalinaderben.com Substack: https://danusiamalinaderben.substack.com Connect with Helen:Website: helenpackham.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/helenpackhamFacebook: www.facebook.com/helenpackhamcoachLinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/helenpackhamGet instant, free access to my
Dive into the last episode of this juicy debate on “Is Having a Favourite Child Okay”?! Our three guests certainly don't sugarcoat things as they share their real-life opinions about the potential fallouts of favouritism. From bruised self-esteem to strained relationships, the consequences are laid bare in our "IF THIS THEN THAT" segment. But hold on, it's truly not all doom and gloom! Love still reigns supreme amidst it all. Discover the "ONE HABIT" that these parents developed based on their stance on favourite children. Peek behind the curtain as we explore how their beliefs shape their actions. This episode is fueled by diverging opinions and contrasting behaviours where guests passionately defend their insights, either for or against having favourites. We're all about the contrast of ideas here — because agreement is never the aim! And in an unexpected bonus, we hear again from Harriet, one of Danusia's ten children, as she shares one additional perspective on being (in her view) the favoured child. Brace yourself for a blend of raw honesty and a dash of sass! Host Danusia closes this debate with heartfelt emotion when she answers whether she has a favourite child in her brood of ten kids. So, after diving into this thought-provoking discussion, ask yourself: Did this debate challenge your perspective? Did it prompt you to reconsider your beliefs? Because ultimately, the most important question remains: Did this episode make you think? Because here at Parents Who Think, we're not about telling you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. Join us for the next PWT debate as we tackle the burning question: "Are we creating mollycoddled kids?" PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Darya Haitoglou + Jamie Newton + Peggy Starnes Discover more from us: • Join PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
The Parents Who Think debut debate “Is having a Favourite Child Okay?” landed last episode. Prime yourself with the mini episode called “HOW PARENTS WHO THINK DEBATES WORK' and episode 1 before tuning in unless you like wondering, "What's even going on, and what am I in for?" Meet PWT host, Danusia Malina-Derben and the three parents as they begin to spill tea on this emotive debate topic. In episode 2 guests share whether they were favourite children or not, then jump straight into the GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE segment where the core back-and-forth debate goes down. Split opinions are at the heart of this episode. This is where guests passionately throw down their views and go head-to-head on why they believe what they believe. Remember, agreement is never the goal. Four of Danusia, the host's ten children, also share why they think they're either the favourite (or not) in her family. It's a mix of honesty, heart and a sprinkle of sass. And that's a wrap till next week where the same guests tell you more, especially about the real life consequences of their opinions. Parents Who Think are not here to tell you what to think; we provide debates, you decide what to think. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Darya Haitoglou + Jamie Newton + Peggy Starnes Discover more from us: • Join PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Welcome back to another episode of PerformHappy! Today, I am thrilled to introduce you to an extraordinary individual whose journey embodies the essence of dreaming big and achieving even bigger. In this episode, I have the honor of sitting down with none other than Danusia Francis-Reed – an Olympian whose remarkable story will undoubtedly inspire you to reach for the stars.Danusia Francis-Reed's accolades speak volumes about her prowess in the world of gymnastics. A former UCLA superstar, she graced the Olympic stage, representing not just one, but two different countries. Her journey is a testament to the resilience, determination, and unwavering commitment required to pursue one's dreams relentlessly.Throughout our conversation, Danusia will impart invaluable insights into the transformative power of setting a vision and cultivating ambitious goals. From her experiences as an elite athlete to navigating the intricate dynamics of international competition, Danusia's wisdom is bound to resonate with each and every one of you, regardless of your pursuits.We delve into the intricacies of visualization, goal-setting, and the unwavering belief in oneself – elements that have been instrumental in Danusia's journey towards excellence. Through her personal anecdotes and profound reflections, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the mindset required to overcome obstacles and carve out a path towards success, both on and off the mat.In this episode, Coach Rebecca and Danusia Francis-Reed talk about:How a Young Gymnast Quickly Became an Olympian The Inspiring Journey of Danusia Francis-Reed.Navigating Highs and Lows: Parental Support in Gymnastics Journeys.Nurturing Personal Growth in Gymnastics.Vision Boards, Affirmations, and Goal Setting.Resilience and Self-Compassion for Gymnasts.Overcoming Obstacles to Reach Olympic Dreams.Tips for Conquering Mental Blocks from Danusia Francis-ReedDanusia Francis-Reed's Website: https://danusiafrancis.co.uk/Danusia Francis-Reed's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danusiafrancisIntroducing my upcoming book: "Parenting Through Mental Blocks: How to Get Your Happy Athlete Back." Packed with insights and strategies, this book is a game-changer for navigating the challenges of mental blocks in sports.
Danuta Szaflarska urodziła się 6 lutego 1915 roku. Dzieciństwo spędziła w Kosarzyskach, dzielnicy Piwnicznej-Zdroju. O jej dziecięcych latach i powrotach do rodzinnego miejsca opowiada jej bliska znajoma Wanda Łomnicka-Dulak, poetka i regionalistka.
The Parents Who Think debut debate has arrived. Join us for “Is having a Favourite Child Okay?” We break down what PWT debates are all about in this episode, so you're not left wondering, "What's even going on, and what am I in for?" Meet PWT host, Danusia Malina-Derben. Instead of hitting you with a boring bio, she spills some real-deal stats about herself. Yep, these numbers are no joke, totally legit! After an intro to the general subject of favourites, Danusia DISHES THE DIRT on her background with favourites, setting the stage for the main event. Then, get to know the three debate parents as they spill the deets on their lives in a quick LIFE STORY segment. They don't hold back in the SAY IT IN SIX segment, summing up their opinions in just six words. Once you've got the lowdown on where everyone stands, it's time for THE P THAT FITS ME segment. Guests declare themselves as Predictable, Progressive, or Polarising - it's like planting a flag in the ground to mark their territory. And that's a wrap for this episode! Jump back into episode Two of this debate next week for another round with the same three PWT parents. This time, they're spilling even more tea. The highlight? A segment called GET UP ON YOUR HIGH HORSE, where the core debate goes down on whether having a favourite child is okay or not. Get ready to also hear from four of the host, Danusia's children, as they share why they think they're the favourite (or not) in her family. PWT Guests featured in this debate are: Darya Haitoglou + Jamie Newton + Peggy Starnes Discover more from us: • Join PWT on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers • Assisted by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
Danusia reflects on the only episode she didn't publish and the reasons why. Join her in celebrating, and closing out the last episode of the pod – and hear about what's in store in the next chapter. In this episode you'll hear: > What happened when Danusia made a tiny list of guests she didn't want on the pod - and how Katie Hopkins (no.1 slot) became her guest; > How the Katie Hopkins interview went and why it sat unpublished on Danusia's podcast shelf for so long; > Moments from this interview that left Danusia agitated - including how this sharpened her need to review who gets voice; > How Danusia ‘drawing lines' on what can and cannot be said and what gets to be made public impacted her thinking; > Why the distinction Danusia explores between freedom of speech and safety for women and marginalised people, is crucial; > Why hearing from people with different views has nothing to do with seeking agreement - and how this matters for our children; > How this process sparked the future of the pod. “I love School for Mothers, it's an injection of badass”
EV charging network provider ChargeNet welcomes the latest announcement from National. The party pledges it will roll out 10,000 more EV chargers up and down the country, to the tune of $257 million. CEO Danusia Wypych says this investment from National would encourage more people to use electric vehicles. "Now, people are more worried about- will I get a charger? And we've seen from our own customer base that there's starting to be more drivers out on the road, and we know we have to upgrade." LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What you'll learn in this episode: How the internet has changed the way people research and shop for jewelry Why even antique jewelry should be appraised with today's market in mind Why lab-grown diamonds are becoming increasingly popular, even if they aren't necessarily a good financial investment How to tell if you're working with a qualified appraiser, and what techniques they use to determine a piece's value Ed's advice for purchasing jewelry at auction, online and while traveling About Ed Lewand Edward A. Lewand, GG, ASA, AAA, is a professional, independent appraiser of fine and antique jewelry. He has earned a Graduate Gemologist degree from the Gemological Institute of America, is a Certified Member of the Appraisers Association of America and a Senior Accredit Member in Gems and Jewelry from the American Society of Appraisers. Mr. Lewand also teaches a course that he developed on appraising jewelry called the Art of Appraising Jewelry at the NYU School of Continuing and Professional Studies. He lectures on appraising and antique jewelry. He maintains his insurance brokerage license in P&C and has a certificate in Paralegal studies from Adelphi University. He specializes in antique jewelry appraisals and works with attorneys on estates, trusts, insurance matters, and copyright issues as well as appraisal theories and concepts. He is also an outside expert for the IRS and consults with numerous galleries and dealers in New York on antique jewelry. Mr. Lewand is also the director of Jewelry Camp (JewelryCamp.org), now in its 43rd year, held at PHILLIPS Auction House in New York, an international conference on antique jewelry and art pertaining to jewelry. He does work for international accounting firms as well as appraisals for the sale of major companies. Additional Resources: Jewelry Camp Website Consultant Appraisal Service, LLC Website www.independentlychecked.com Instagram Facebook Twitter Photos available on TheJewelryJourney.com Transcript: A good jewelry appraiser can give you much more than just an estimate of what your jewelry is worth. As a professional, independent appraiser of fine and antique jewelry, Ed Lewand draws on his historical knowledge of jewelry and his connections in the industry to give his clients a deeper understanding of what they have in their collections. He joined the Jewelry Journey Podcast to talk about how to know you're working with a qualified appraiser; why less expensive jewelry, like lab-grown diamonds and art jewelry, is on the rise; and why you should always read the fine print when making a purchase. Read the episode transcript here. Sharon: Hello, everyone. Welcome to the Jewelry Journey Podcast. This is the second part of a two-part episode. If you haven't heard part one, please head to TheJewelryJourney.com. Today, our guest is Ed Lewand, who was one of our first podcast guests several years ago. He's a professional independent appraiser. Welcome back. Ed: So, I do recommend product knowledge. As far as theories and concepts, a lot of places like to make appraisals more important than they really are. As long as you do your research and your documentation, provide whatever is needed for that particular assignment, explain what you're doing in your scope of work, and maintain all your files and notes, you've pretty much got it. [End of repeat of first part] It's also establishing the right market for somebody. I don't know who wrote the books a long time ago. There are 12 principles about appraising and theory. I always put every little note down. I'm valuing the second retail. The model is no longer in current production. The value is based on auction comps and comps on the internet from sites such as 1stDibs. I put that in my notes. I don't put the actual comps in; those are in my notes, but I put that on the appraisal just so people understand where the numbers are coming from. One of the misconceptions—I just ran into this last month in Nashville; I don't run into it in New York—is that everybody is like, “Why isn't the item appraised for double?” It's a real item. It exists in the real world. Appraising it for double isn't doing anybody any favors. It's misleading. The appraisal should reflect a real number that exists and that the piece sold for. This way you understand that it's the value of the piece. It's just like when you're buying a house. The appraisers value it based on comps in the marketplace, the location and everything else. They're not going to give an appraisal for double on the house, because the bank's only going to give you money based on that loan and what they could sell it for if they have to take over the house and you default. The same thing with an engagement ring. If everybody in the area sells the ring for $5,000 for a comparable ring, then the price of the ring is going to be $5,000 on the appraisal. How is it presented? If the color and clarity are correct, this is a $5,000 ring. “Well, my mother always taught me to appraise for double.” Well, if it was worth double, why weren't they selling it to you for double? Now, when we get down to value, a lot of people don't understand value. I don't fight people on value. I fight people on documentation. I fight people on research, on comps. Value is whatever somebody wants to pay for something, whatever anybody wants to charge for it. There's nothing wrong with that. If you feel this ring is worth $10,000 and somebody buys it from you for $10,000, even if all the appraisers say it's worth $2,500—but I really love the ring, so to me it's worth $10,000—that's fine. The guy didn't do anything wrong. That's what he wanted for it. That's what you paid for it. It's just like with certain things I collect. If I want it badly enough, I'm going to pay what they're asking for it. Even if they think it's high, I'm not buying for investment; I'm buying it for my own enjoyment. As you can see from the background, I have a lot of things in the house on the walls, the bookshelves and everything else. This is my private office. The wife is not allowed to go past the door of my office. I enjoy collecting weird little tidbits here and there. You have to understand; there are certain things you argue, certain things you can't argue. It's basically representation. Now, if you're buying a new piece—in fact, a situation just came up. I can't mention the names, but the salesperson represented the price with four numbers. She never added the zero. She had said 1625. She said to them, both the husband and wife, 1625, and they took that to mean $1,625. I think anybody would. Now, if you said 16250, that's $16,250. You never add the zero on this particular item. The people came back from their cruise and took it to a local jeweler, and the local jeweler said, “Oh, it's only worth $8,000.” So, they called me. I said, “Well, there's a conflict here. I can't physically give you an appraisal. This firm is connected to an accounting firm and a bank that I do work for, so I can't do that; it wouldn't be fair.” It affects all the companies and businesses too. So, I suggested and recommended that they call the company and see what they can negotiate. I looked at the earrings, the item, and I agreed they were only worth $8,000. Actually, between $6,000 and $8,000. I think they had a very valid thing, and they'll end up getting money back or being able to return them. What I always advise people is know what the rules are before you buy something. When you're traveling it may seem like a good deal, but jewelry is jewelry, no matter where we go in the world. It has a certain value and that's it. Sometimes you can negotiate. Maybe somebody has things marked higher so they're expecting you to negotiate. It just depends on what region of the world you're in. Always check. Is it a returnable item? Are there no returns? If you're traveling, I also suggest—I'm not an expert or anything, but from my own personal experience, I strongly recommend that you use a regular Amex card, not a credit card, because there is a difference. Some companies have rules that you can't dispute anything more than 100 miles from your home. You've got to be careful with what you do and read the fine print. Unfortunately, today, the fine print is 30 or 40 pages on some things. So, you've got to be very, very careful with that. Sharon: I missed something, or I didn't understand. If you have a platinum card, let's say, and it's not a credit card, or you use a green Amex, what's the difference? Ed: It's a charge card. Amex is a charge card. It's an international bank. It's not a local bank. With Visa and Mastercard and some of these others, you have to see what the rules are for disputing something beyond a certain range from the address of the card. Some companies don't do it. Amex is an international company, so they handle things everywhere you go. They're very, very good to their members—they call us members. That's something I always tell people. Do a little research before you buy something. It takes you five minutes to Google, read the fine print, see what their policy is. In this way, if something goes wrong, you don't have a problem a month later. It's always a good thing, even here in the States. If you buy something and the pricing is too good to be true, it probably is. Sharon: Have you ever bought anything in your travels that you thought was a good deal and then you came home and found it wasn't? Ed: No, because when I used to go the islands or to Europe and I'd find something for myself or the family, it's basically some souvenir. I like antiques. I collect Sorcerer's Apprentice, Mickey Mouse paraphernalia and stuff. I know what the markets and the values are, but sometimes I'll overpay. If I'm down on the islands and I go into one of these little shops with the balloons and stuff, I'll buy the kids those; they're a few bucks. Have I ever bought anything overseas where there was an error or mistake? No, luckily, I haven't. I never did. I think when I started, I had some very good teachers who I used to travel with, and they would say, “Oh, don't do that. Don't do this. Don't do that.” We flew to Europe right after 9/11. They took away my tweezers at the airport, but we got on the plane. We're flying business class and first class. When we got on the plane, they gave us steak knives with the dinnerware, and we're going, “Wait a minute. They took my tweezers away as security, but you're giving me a real steak knife? That's classic.” We're sitting there trying to understand this concept. I think on the trip back, we flew out of Geneva. The people I was with, we all bought Swiss army knives, and we said, “O.K., make sure we put it into our checked luggage, not in our carry-on.” One left it in his carry-on, and we were sure it was going to get confiscated. They called him over. They took everything out, looked in his bag, took everything. We get to the gate and there's a duty-free store. What were they selling there? Swiss army knives. Remember they used to have the little clerks that would go around the plane and sell souvenirs and things? What were they selling? Swiss army knives. Sharon: You did better than I did. They took away my plastic steak knife and I couldn't believe it. Ed: I'm telling you, it's weird. It's very, very strange. Our government has developed TSA PreCheck. They've developed Global Entry. There are all different things you could do. There's Clear, which I strongly suggest people use. It makes life so much easier, and it moves so much faster. But you're always going to run into a problem traveling. Like I said, if people take five minutes to read the fine print, they avoid a lot of problems later for themselves. That's what I suggest. That's the story. Sharon: Yeah, I can believe that. What should we look for in a good appraiser? Ed: That they have kept updated with the latest USPAP, the Standards of Professional Appraisal Practices, that they have obtained a certain level in one of the appraisal organizations for gems and jewelry, that they're providing you with an adequate description of the item with a photograph, and that they're charging a fair price and explaining the value to you. In other words, they're not just saying, “O.K., here's a ring. It's worth $3,000. Thank you, goodbye.” No. “It's worth $3,000. We checked the internet. We made a few phone calls. We looked at the Rapaport List. We looked at the guide. This is the number we came up with for you, and here's the reason why.” It takes a few minutes to explain it to people. Your explanation should be a narrative of the report, or for a standard retail replacement appraisal, it should contain a very good description for replacement purposes. It should have a fair value on it, which makes sense. Now, if it's not a new purchase, if it's an older purchase, if it was mom's engagement ring, it should still be based on information related to what it will cost you to go out and buy a new ring in a store in this area or nationally. I take into account the internet because I see a lot of diamonds coming off the internet still. Remarkably, you can buy some very large, expensive stones on the internet. I'm shocked; five, six, eight carats. I'm fascinated that people spend that kind of money, but they do. The other thing, too, when you're buying diamonds, is making sure you have an accompanying GIA web report. They're not certificates; they're reports. A certificate in different states means warranty, but they're lab reports. GIA developed the system we use today. They are still the premier lab that everybody wants to use for identification and grading. I think you solve a lot of headaches for yourself that way. And, be forthcoming with your appraiser. If you're going to have jewelry appraised or if you're selling something, the appraiser is going to ask you certain questions. Do you have the original box and papers for this watch? Do you have the original receipt? What type of store did you buy it in? Are there problems or situations? Professional appraisers are there to work for you. I can do a standard engagement ring in about 10 minutes. The more information you give me, the better I can research everything you're looking for and help figure out if there's a problem. So, don't withhold the certificate. It's not a game. We're here to work for you. We're charging anywhere from $150 for a ring under a carat to $400 or $500 for something that's five carats. We're charging you a lot of money to sit there, talk to you and explain and investigate your piece of jewelry so we can derive a value that's in the correct marketplace. Sharon: Do you look for a hallmark on a piece or something that would be a manufacturer's signature? Ed: Just to clarify something, a hallmark is a government-issued stamp for taxes and content for the gold. A trademark is the seller's mark or the manufacturer's mark. They're two different things. One of the best people that knows about that is—I just forgot his name. He used to teach at Jewelry Camp. He's a good friend; I talk to him all the time. It's Bill and Danusia, who do a great class. They wrote the World Hallmark Book, which is right behind me. Sharon: I didn't know Danusia wrote a hallmark book. Ed: Danusia is going to be mad at me if she listens, but Bill, Lindy and Danusia wrote World Hallmarks. It's a great book. They put so much time and effort into that. It was never about profit; it's just about education. They have the most information. They are the top people in identifying marks, and Bill is a walking encyclopedia. If you ever get to hear them lecture—I think this summer they're lecturing for Gail Levine at her NAJA Conference. If you have a chance, you definitely have to hear them talk. They're fantastic. That's another good little jewelry organization that just specializes in jewelry, the NAJA. Gail tries her best to bring people the best information they can possibly get. The difference between a jeweler appraiser and a professional independent appraiser is not much. If the values are there and they do the work correctly and their report is defendable, then they're doing a good job. Niklewicz, that's Danusia's name. Sharon: So, a hallmark is like a Tiffany mark? Ed: No, that's the manufacturer's mark. Hallmark is like the eagle's head for 18-carat gold in France, the wolf's head or dog's head for platinum, whatever you use. You could date a piece with it. You could date an antique from the cut of the stone. You could do a lot of things from understanding products. When was platinum first used? When did it develop? When did the torch come, which combined oxygen and gas to give a hotter, higher flame so you could work in platinum? When you see black platinum pieces, it's because it was a white metal. They used to back silver in gold; otherwise, it would rub on your skin and everything and turn black. They were doing that with platinum early on. Platinum stands by itself, but by understanding hallmarks you can understand if the piece is all platinum. If the piece is platinum in 18-carat white gold, you can understand the country or where it comes from; you can understand a timeframe. Understanding history is very important if you're an appraiser. I tell people I don't authenticate. It's not my place to do that, but I will value something. If the stamps and everything are correct, I will value something based on those markings. Do I guarantee them to be genuine? To the best of my knowledge, they might be, but again, I'm not authenticating it. To this day, with the major houses and the major pieces, you still have to go to them to get the best authentication. From what I'm told right now, they're not doing it. There's a new service out there that will verify, I think, Winston, Cartier, Tiffany and Van Cleef. They do those four houses. I think auction houses are finding them quite useful. They're still not the company itself, but they're accepted. They are very intelligent, knowledgeable people who are doing it. They've all worked for those companies. Like I said, you may have to hire someone or find other people who know more than you do, but the sign of a good appraiser is they will ask other people who have more knowledge than they do about something. I do that all the time, especially with antique and aesthetic jewelry. I always ask a dealer I know, who's like a walking encyclopedia. I ask for their opinion, their thoughts, their input, what their prior sales were, so I can provide the best information, not only to cover myself, but also to protect the client. That's important. You're there to protect your client no matter what and to be honest and truthful. Sharon: Yeah, that would be very important. Ed: I think so. Sharon: One last thing I wanted to ask. I was going back and reading the transcript of the very first time you were on the podcast. You talked about the fact that brooches originally were heavier, and people don't want them now because they stretch fabric. What do you think today? Ed: It's still taste. They're not as popular as they once were. People would wear them because you could wear it with a scarf; you could wear it with a jacket; you could put it on a hat. There were a lot of different things. I do see some designers and people still making a brooch or two, but it's not something that's a mainstay. People don't want heavy things on their clothing. Clothing is lighter. With some people, it's less clothing. So, they're still not super-popular, but they're still there and collectable. A lot of times they're worn on a chain, or they're made with a pendant attachment. A lot of people don't realize jewelry was sometimes made for several purposes. I've seen pieces made by some of the finer houses where they could be attached onto a bracelet, they could be a brooch and they also had a pendant fitting. Some of them even had tiara fittings to be worn as a tiara back in the day. But as times, styles and people's choices change, so does the jewelry industry and the art world. Right now, I know that art jewelry is very popular. It's a hard item. There's a lovely lady—I'm getting old; I can't remember her name. She's going to hit me when she sees me, but she represents artists, and it's fun jewelry. Is it super-expensive? Yes and no. If it's a noted artist, it could be worth $20,000, $25,000, but most of the time it's not. She's been to Jewelry Camp a number of times. Some of this stuff is so amazing, how they can concoct it and how they make it and design it. It's a lot of fun. People should consider art jewelry. It's a statement, but it's fun to collect. It's not super-expensive, and it's a piece that when you wear it and walk into a room, people go, “Look at that ring. Oh my god, I've got to ask her about it.” It may be made out of tin. I've seen some weird stuff, but it really is interesting. Not to show my age, but as we used to say, it's really cool. People love to wear it. Some of the finer houses have just now started seeing auctions. I know Heritage had one on art jewelry. You don't see them a lot, but they are starting to come about a little bit more. Sharon: That's interesting, just became I happen to like art jewelry and it's been behind the scenes for so long. Ed, thank you so much for being with us today. I really appreciate it. Ed: My pleasure. It was great seeing you and talking to you. Hopefully somebody can use this knowledge. If people contact you with a question, feel free to forward it to me and I'll help them out anytime I can. Sharon: Thank you very much. We will have photos posted on the website. Please head to TheJewelryJourney.com to check them out. Thank you again for listening. Please leave us a rating and review so we can help others start their own jewelry journey.
Edwin is joined by former British and Jamaican gymnast Danusia Francis-Reid to discuss her journey and mindset.
Danusia Malina-Derben, speaker, organizational leadership consultant, researcher, podcaster, author - and mother of 10 - begins with her story of growing up in the rural southwest of England, longing for human connection and the energy of the city. At 19 she moved to a small mining town two hours outside of Johannesburg, South Africa. There, informed by the obvious, everyday inequities of Apartheid, Danusia grew very worldly very quickly. We dig into power structures and disruptive behaviors within organizations and society at large, and explore what it means to be a conscious parent. We dig into the struggles fathers face in a world where men expressing their vulnerability are still the exception rather than the rule.Danusia Malina-Derben is a lifelong entrepreneur and straight-talking consultant.After earning her PhD scholarship, Danusia rose from ESRC Research Fellow to senior levels as an Organisational Behaviour (OB) and Development expert. Much of her academic research focused on cross-cultural research & impact in OB. She has authored more than 30 international articles and book chapters and remains one of a select few in the United Kingdom to secure publication in the prestigious US-based, Academy of Management Journal on cross-cultural methodology.After leaving her tenured academic post she became an authority on C-level execs and Boards. Described by others as a ‘pocket dynamo', Danusia's straightforward interventions [combined with her humour and warmth] bring results. Her expert level knowledge and background in cross-cultural Organisational Behaviour and Development have enabled her to work impactfully with clients in Europe, North America, Asia, Australasia, Africa and Antartica.In 2018 Danusia launched the School For Mothers (SFM) Podcast. Through this show and work with progressive organisations, School for Mothers upends old narratives and practices that limit the potential of individual mothers and those collectively within businesses. Her book “NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood” (Triumph Press, 2021) set out new paradigms for ambitious mothers who want more than mere balance. The Telegraph broadsheet called it, “a complete debrief of motherhood”. Danusia also hosts a second business podcast, the School for Fathers (SFF) Podcast. Since 2019 she's been interviewing men in business about success, family, and fatherhood identity. In May 2022, her latest book, “SPUNK: A Manifesto Modernising Fatherhood” (Triumph Press) landed in bookstores and was featured in a Metro interview as a “thought-provoking problem-solving roadmap causing a stir for modern fathers”.Danusia is a dynamic media contributor on future C-level trends, cultivating women's leadership and debates about careers and family. She is also a mother of ten including her “last baby', triplets of nine years old. She lives in Somerset, UK with her family and mini sausage dog, Dickie.danusiamalinaderben.comSchool for Mothers School for Mothers Podcast | School for Fathers Podcast
Today I'm connecting with Richard Stokes. Richard has a background in the intense world of advertising and media. He spent more than 20 years working for global brands and organisations at the board level, in the UK and around the world.Now he's a Leadership Coach, Workshop Facilitator & also a Podcast Host. In this second career, Richard has found his purpose, working with clients 1-to-1 and in larger team settings. He specialises in advising people and organisations in navigating change — something he understands well having taken the leap into his own business.Richard learned Vedic Meditation in 2016 having witnessed the benefits his wife Danusia experienced. They now live in Ibizia with their young son.Richard's podcast is The Mojo Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-mojo-podcast/id1486366382So Speaking of Meditation, here's Richard.-----Speaking of Meditation is written and produced by Michael Miller, with direction by Jillian Lavender and assistance from Emma Rae.Editing by James Green at Green Podcast Productions.https://www.greenpodcastproductions.com/Original music by Rich Jacques.https://www.richjacques.comGraphics by Elle and Elle.http://www.elleelle.comSpeaking of Meditation… What are you noticing? Who is benefitting? And how are you staying inspired?
How can we be brilliant fathers? Does fathering only mean those that have biological fathered children or is the role more complex than that? Join Em as we chat all thigs fathering and so much more. Follow Danusia: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=608711498 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/school.for.mothers.podcast LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danusiamalinaderben About Danusia Malina-Derben: Danusia Malina-Derben is a mother of ten children, and still her own woman. From teen mother to tenured Organisational Behavior and Development academic, and onto award-winning, internationally published leadership expert. Danusia traded academia to head a global firm that fixes corporate boardrooms and develops top talent. She also hosts two critically acclaimed companion podcasts; School for Mothers and School for Fathers. Danusia has received praise and recognition from The Sunday Times to Metro, Psychologies to Good Housekeeping. She lives in the South Downs, UK with her family, and their mini-dachshund, Dickie. Visit her online at danusiamalinaderben.com Her latest book, SPUNK: A Manifesto Modernising Fatherhood elevates the conversation about modern fatherhood beyond the nuts and bolts of daddy daycare as it goes deep inside how men view their fathering as they attempt (day in, day out) to be a dad to their kids.
Our guest this episode is Danusia Rogacki, Creative Services Manager at Canada's Wonderland. Danusia is a long-time Canada's Wonderland native, who started her career in Halloween haunts and park operations. Steeped in the park's rich traditions, she now gives creative direction to the park's themed offerings and seasonal special events. Connect with Danusia Rogacki on LinkedIn or at Canada's Wonderland. Show hosts: Mel McGowan & Freddy Martin Show design & production: Barry R. Hill Theme music composed by Rob Watson, closing music by the Lost Dogs. Give us a shoutout on iTunes; we love the attention, and browse www.themedattraction.com for even more on the attractions industry. Thanks for listening! Transcript coming soon.
SFM host Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the role of guest on the “What's the worst that could happen?” podcast. Hosted by multi-award winning business lawyer Suzanne Dibble, Danusia chats to her about the worst-case legal scenarios that have, and unfortunately did, rear their ugly head, and importantly how she dealt with them – this is all covered in a fun and light-hearted way, but with serious undertone. Danusia reveals what happened when IP for a mega media project was taken and in a separate corporate project when as advisor to a CEO, her client died unexpectedly. Both instances are not run of the mill and involved potential loss of substantial revenue. Listen in to hear what happened! “I love School for Mothers, it's an injection of badass”
Tim opens up the podcast commenting on being patient with our daughters when we know we've made mistakes in the past that may come back to be discussed in the future. Danusia Malina-Derben joins the pod. Her latest book SPUNK: A Manifesto on Modernizing Fatherhood https://www.triumphpress.co/books/p/iaw6r26bkdx6qjjkz6vr9u0c6zryql and her podcasts School for Mothers and School for Fathers are leading edge guidance and research on the thoughts and feelings of being a parent. She's the mother of 10 at various ages and we discuss the path forward to take on the challenges of being the best Dad possible. She discusses how a reframing of the roles and responsibilities is something that's widely desired by many men but only slowly to be enacted. We discuss how women can help and even hurt the effort to get there. We also touch on her relationship with her father and how it evolved particularly towards the end of his life. School for Mothers: https://www.schoolformothers.com/podcast/ School for Fathers Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/school-for-fathers-podcast/id1484664927 Please buy tickets to see Tim's one person play The Father Daughter Dance in San Francisco on Nov 11&12 here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-father-daughter-dance-tickets-344442194877
Thanks for tuning in to this weeks episode of One For The Road.We are joined by thought leader, entrepreneur, author, speaker, and mother of ten Danusia Malina-Derben. From teen mother to tenured Organisational Behavior and Development academic, she traded academia to head a global firm fixing boardroom strategy and consulting on peak performance. She also hosts two critically acclaimed podcasts; School for Mothers & School for Fathers. She wrote, NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood (Triumph Press, 2021) blending memoir, manifesto, and action. Her next book SPUNK: A Manifesto Modernising Fatherhood (Triumph Press, 2022) elevates the conversation about modern fatherhood (through brand new research married alongside portraits from acclaimed podcast, School for Fathers), beyond the nuts and bolts of daddy daycare by going deep inside how men view their own fathering.This episode of One For The Road is sponsored by https://tweaklife.co.uk/ Further information and links attached below.If you want to connect with me via Instagram, you can find me on the instahandle @Soberdave https://www.instagram.com/soberdave/or via my website https://davidwilsoncoaching.com/Provided below are links for services offering additional help and advice and for Danusia.https://www.danusiamalinaderben.com/https://www.schoolformothers.com/https://www.instagram.com/school.for.mothers.podcast/https://www.linkedin.com/in/danusiamalinaderben/https://alcoholchange.org.uk/https://www.drinkaware.co.uk/advice/alcohol-support-serviceshttps://nacoa.org.uk/Show producer- Daniella Attanasio-Martinezhttps://www.grownuphustle.com/Instagram - @TheDaniellaMartinez @ GrownupHustleThis season's podcast is sponsored by a great new start up called Tweak Life. They have built a well-being hub full of useful information and tweaks that can help you improve your mental and physical health and finances. There is a wide range of topics covered which includes mindfulness, eating well, exercise. managing addictions, improving finances, mortgages and even menopause. This is free to use, just go to https://tweaklife.co.uk/ for more information.https://www.instagram.com/tweaklifeukhttps://www.facebook.com/tweaklifeukhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/tweaklifeuk/ See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
In the last episode of this series, Josie Long uncovers a group of daring Polish soldiers and their secret wartime history in Essex. She visits Audley End House, known during the Second World War as Station 43, to find out about the Cichociemni: elite special forces soldiers who volunteered to go above and beyond for their nation and Allied victory. Josie meets Dr Peter Moore, Curator of Collections and Interiors, to find out more about Audley End's wartime history and the enormously important role the Polish heroes played in winning the war. Denise Hall, a research volunteer, tells Josie about the training and tasks the Poles undertook at Audley End, before author Ian Valentine takes her through the grounds with stories of the highly skilled individuals selected to carry out and undertake training. Josie also meets Anthony Massey and Danusia Kellett, who are both children of Polish special forces soldiers. Danusia relates her father Antoni's incredible story, from his training at Audley End to his role in the Polish resistance and daring escapes from danger. And Anthony shares his father Lewis's story as an officer in the Polish Special Operations Executive during the Second World War. Speaking with Shadows is an English Heritage podcast. You can find out more on these stories by going to www.english-heritage.org.uk/speakingwithshadows or head to the English Heritage website to find out how you can visit Audley End House and Gardens. And if you think this story should be heard, share this podcast on your social media with the hashtag #speakingwithshadows. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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