Podcasts about being honest with my ex

"I think when you feel safe with someone and you let out all of your insides, you really let out all of your insides. Like, once it started spilling you can't stop it. And that comes with the good, the bad and the ugly." After a 4-year break, Being Honest With My Ex returns (without SJ). Frankie acts as interviewer, asking: where's Peter? Where's SJ? And what happened at the end of the podcast? Edited by AJ Brandon. Full transcript. Mentioned this episode: Peter's Kickstarter campaign for Cartouche Peter's Kickstarter campaign for Robotopia The Reginald Method Support the show (and get early episodes!) If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!" See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We invited Peter C. Hayward to discuss Australia, his freelance life, podcasts, boardgames, erotica and how living with someone who's suicidal and having a child is not that different after all. Peter gives us all an update of what his life looks like at the time of recording in December 2018 while the last episode of his podcast was released a year prior. And lastly, a trip to Cape Verde at the end.Show notes:• Being Honest With My Ex – https://www.beinghonestwithmyex.com/• Tim Tam – https://www.timtamusa.com/• Cherry Ripe – https://www.cadbury.com.au/Products/Chocolate-Bars/Cherry-Ripe-Bar.aspx• Pavlova Cake – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pavlova_(cake)• BHWME 76: Gaslighting My Ex – https://omny.fm/shows/being-honest-with-my-ex/76-gaslighting-my-ex• Procrastination Matrix – https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/03/procrastination-matrix.html• Single-Cam sitcoms – https://screencraft.org/2016/06/21/differences-single-camera-multi-camera-tv-pilot-scripts/• Cortex #45: Cortex Working Group – https://www.relay.fm/cortex/45• Peter's fist board game: Scuttle! – https://jellybean.games/scuttle/• SJ's show No Feeling Is Final – https://www.abc.net.au/radio/programs/no-feeling-is-final/• I Love You, Man – https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1155056/• Peter on Twitter – https://twitter.com/peterchayward• Peter's website – https://peterchayward.com/about• Peter's other projects – https://beard.blue/• Jellybean Games – https://jellybean.games/• Peter's Patreon – https://www.patreon.com/panwhowrites• Peter on Literotica – https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=4248571• Our Airbnb in Cape Verde – https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/10014065• My video from Cape Verde – https://youtu.be/zMmlWLGe0H4freelensers.fmAdelahttps://www.adelabohackova.comhttps://www.instagram.com/adela.bohackovaMikehttps://www.youtube.com/c/michalsodekhttps://www.instagram.com/michal.sodek

We invited Peter C. Hayward to discuss Australia, his freelance life, podcasts, boardgames, erotica and how living with someone who's suicidal and having a child is not that different after all. Peter gives us all an update of what his life looks like at the time of recording in December 2018 while the last episode of his podcast was released a year prior. And lastly, a trip to Cape Verde at the end.Show notes:• Being Honest With My Ex – https://www.beinghonestwithmyex.com/• Tim Tam – https://www.timtamusa.com/• Cherry Ripe – https://www.cadbury.com.au/Products/Chocolate-Bars/Cherry-Ripe-Bar.aspx• Pavlova Cake – https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pavlova_(cake)• BHWME 76: Gaslighting My Ex – https://omny.fm/shows/being-honest-with-my-ex/76-gaslighting-my-ex• Procrastination Matrix – https://waitbutwhy.com/2015/03/procrastination-matrix.html• Single-Cam sitcoms – https://screencraft.org/2016/06/21/differences-single-camera-multi-camera-tv-pilot-scripts/• Cortex #45: Cortex Working Group – https://www.relay.fm/cortex/45• Peter's fist board game: Scuttle! – https://jellybean.games/scuttle/• SJ's show No Feeling Is Final – https://www.abc.net.au/radio/programs/no-feeling-is-final/• I Love You, Man – https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1155056/• Peter on Twitter – https://twitter.com/peterchayward• Peter's website – https://peterchayward.com/about• Peter's other projects – https://beard.blue/• Jellybean Games – https://jellybean.games/• Peter's Patreon – https://www.patreon.com/panwhowrites• Peter on Literotica – https://www.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=4248571• Our Airbnb in Cape Verde – https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/10014065• My video from Cape Verde – https://youtu.be/zMmlWLGe0H4freelensers.fmAdelahttps://www.adelabohackova.comhttps://www.instagram.com/adela.bohackovaMikehttps://www.youtube.com/c/michalsodekhttps://www.instagram.com/michal.sodek

Honor Eastly is a writer, artist, podcaster and mental health worker who has made a career of talking about the stuff most of us really don't want to talk about. Her podcasts Being Honest With My Ex and Starving Artist explored love, heartbreak, rejection, anger, cash, creativity, and class.Last year she teamed up with the ABC to create No Feeling Is Final, that traced her own mental health story. Like all her work it dealt with money, heartbreak, depression, and suicide. Alongside the strange, mundane, day-to-day realities of sometimes wanting to die. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we've got a rebroadcast of an episode from the other podcast I make, Being Honest With My Ex, about quitting my job, imposter syndrome, and how you definitely don’t have the same amount of hours in the day as Beyonce. Being Honest With My Ex is basically a weekly personal journal that I’ve been keeping with my ex-fiance for the past two years, and has ended up documenting each of our journeys of trying to make the art + money equation work for ourselves. If Starving Artist is the documentary series on making a living creatively, then Being Honest With My Ex is basically the live stream version. It’s the very up close, very intimate, the ugly-crying account of trying to make it work. Buy tickets to the upcoming Being Honest With My Ex LIVE shows here. You can find the podcast at beinghonestwithmyex.com, and if you're looking for somewhere to start, check out the new listener guide.  Check out the show notes for all the linky goodness for this episode at starvingartistpodcast.com/listen To discuss this episode, head over to the Starving Artist Facebook Page (or Instagram or Twitter, or your local dog park) (bork bork) To support this show on Patreon go to www.patreon.com/honoreastly

This week we talk to the author of an email that started like this: I have been trying to continue listening to your podcast for months now. I am so enamoured with SJ but Peter is honestly a giant douchebag. And ended like this: The day that SJ does something alone, I am on board, but as of today I am unsubscribing from the show, entirely because of Peter. Shit gets real. Things discussed this episode: Episode 47: Staying Friends With My Ex (the episode about getting the above email from Alice) Episode 31: Poly-sposions With My Ex (part 2 of the trilogy about the mess Peter and SJ made of polyamory Episode 20: Naked Photos Of My Ex (the episode that contains a reading of the one and only love letter Peter has sent) Episode 42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex (the episode about finding your path and aggressive self-sabotage) Episode 43: Having Kids With My Ex (the episode where Peter lays into Canada) Episode 28: Making Money With My Ex (Peter gives SJ a pep talk on quitting your job and living creatively) Episode 29: Getting Therapy With My Ex (on SJ’s troubles with the mental health system) Episode 10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex (look honestly I can’t even remember what this episode was about!) Peter’s other podcast, Let’s Write A Film To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I think one of the biggest changes as a result of doing this podcast is that you and I are so much closer than we were a year ago. We are probably as close as when we were dating if you ignore sex.” It’s episode 52 of this weekly podcast, so this week is a year in review. Things discussed this episode: SJ’s #nofeelingisfinal campaign SJ’s What The Actual Fuck video Episode about getting hatemail about Peter (from someone who Peter interviewed on for the next episode) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"With the patreon I feel like I have all this opportunity and I’m just crumbling underneath it" This week: creative terror and SJ’s private Patreon fears. Things discussed this episode: Jon Ronson’s So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed Hello Internet Dakota Access Pipeline Protests Ira Glass - The Gap So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: SJ sits down with Peter’s new partner to discuss love, exes and how shameless Peter really is. Things discussed this episode: Days Until app to count down to an event Podcasting panel SJ did for Digital Writers Festival (warning: there were lots of technical issues with this one!) Episode 20, when SJ read out the first (and only) love letter Peter has sent Email Debt Forgiveness Day To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“The next twenty seconds were really interesting cause I was like “oh, I could die now. This could be it.”” This week: Peter’s car accident, and what SJ would’ve done if he’d died. Things discussed this episode: Speed limits: to check out speed limits in different countries check out this handy Wikipedia page. Turns out that SJ and Peter were both right on Australian speed laws., Anything over the speed limit by 3 km/h or more will get you a fine in Victoria, whereas it’s 7 km/h over in Western Australia. In other states it’s 10% over the speed limit. Quora - the website that claims to have the answer to every question Peter’s injury from car accident Werner Herzhog’s film From One Second To The Next, on texting while driving. It’s 35 minutes long and you can watch it all on YouTube. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I don’t see you as the SJ I dated. You are my ex SJ, my friend who I used to be engaged to who I do a podcast with. I don’t like the SJ I dated.” Big talks, plus it’s Peter’s birthday so SJ gives him the best gift ever and asks him The Birthday Questions. Things discussed this episode: Peter’s games that he’s Kickstarted: Dracula’s Feast and Scuttle! Episode about Peter getting turned away at the US border Episode about Peter’s Facebook wall The Ferrett (quoting Jay Lake) on Bathtub Theory Ira Glass: the gap Alasdair Tremblay-Birchall’s new dad instagram To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!

SJ tells Peter of the horrible things she’s learned about him, and the pair try to decide whether or not they should stay friends. Things discussed this episode: Lena Dunham article No One Likes My Ex To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: the time Peter tried to placate SJ with rabbits, convenient veganism, and Peter realising he’s a bit of an asshole. Things discussed this episode: Gamergate video series Video about hating Phill Phish Video on what it is to be a good person To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I’m not saying that I’m easy to date, I’m saying dating me does not in any way prepare you for having a kid.” Peter insults SJ, and she makes the mistake of trying to get him to apologize. Things discussed this episode: Peter conflated two of Joe Peacocks posts: 12 (also, it’s worth noting that Joe has disavowed a lot of the opinions and phrasings of his old writings) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I have recurring baby-related nightmares. I lose them like a set of car keys.” After a week surrounded by tiny humans, SJ unpacks all of her ideas about whether or not to have kids. Things discussed this episode: Australian Houses are Glorified Tents in Winter Target figured out a teenage girl was pregnant...before her family did. The Horrors of Children To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"I am really really talented at not achieving my goals." In this episode, Peter reveals that he has been aggressively sabotaging himself for the last, oh, 8 years now. Things discussed this episode: Neil Gaiman’s Make Good Art commencement speech Do women’s period’s sync? - "In light of the lack of empirical evidence for MS [menstrual synchrony] sensu stricto, it seems there should be more widespread doubt than acceptance of this hypothesis" Vlog brothers videos on failure - here’s Hank’s video, and John Green’s response on failing to follow up his book The Fault in Our Stars Wait But Why procrastination post (the best post on the internet). Here is a direct link to the Eisenhower Matrix. You can also check out the TED talk on procrastination by Tim Urban, the writer of that post. Episode 13 - Let’s Write A Film Teach For Australia Seth Godin - The Dip To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“Fuck! I bought a food truck before I realised I hate hospitality.” This episode: SJ’s embarrassing past as a boldly naive young person trying to save the world. Things discussed this episode: Little Bets, The Four Hour Work Week, The Art of Non-Conformity - all books about lifestyle design and design thinking (that I’m warning, can sometimes be distinctly missing an awareness of or to, social / political context) That Sexy Show - a sex-positive comedy game show that we did back in the day Who Gives A Crap - social enterprise toilet paper company Shebeen - Melbourne bar and social enterprise Conflict Kitchen, started by Jon Rubin (who’s work SJ really digs) Streat - social enterprise in Melbourne working with homeless people Be Bangles - I feel bad about coming down so hard on this project and looking like an asshole (and also a hypocrite) I guess we’re all just trying to find the best way to do the right thing really The Most Good You Can Do by Peter Singer Guy who has made a pledge to donate half his income GiveWell.org - an organisation that does in-depth charity research to suggest what would be best to donate to Dave Gorman - the man behind Are You Dave Gorman? And Googlewack Adventure Global Fund for Women - organisation advocating for women’s rights Sock company Odd Pears (turns out they do donate part of profits to charity!) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: the wild wild west of Peter’s Facebook wall. Things discussed this episode: Gamergate video series Really great video on Phil Fish about internet celebrity Previous episode: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex Peter’s new board game: Dracula’s Feast Video Sia made for SJ where she got her name wrong (SJ still cringes when she watches this) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"You don’t have capacity for a sandwich let alone complex emotional situations" This week: burning out, being afraid of feelings, and how to cry well on a podcast. Things discussed this episode: Hip hop dance video that made SJ cry The episode about SJ collecting her tears To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I have a PhD in shame, but I don’t even have a Cert II in happiness” This week: shame, the creative driving force, and the dangers of true crime documentaries. Things discussed this episode: Review of Being Honest With My Ex from Always Listening Amanda Palmer’s book The Art of Asking Louis CK talking about feeling your feelings Here’s the facebook write-up for the group process / social dialogue event that I talked about Broadly doco about paid maternity leave in America (54 minutes) (also I find interviewer pretty annoying in this doco, but it’s important / interesting info) Broadly doco about egg freezing and the future of fertility (28 minutes) (same interviewer, but I found this one much more watchable) (this one made me pretty angry / sad) Ira Glass on The Gap between your taste and your skills Making A Murderer OJ doco series (very very good) Jane The Virgin - the first season is seriously gooooood and fun and light! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In 2012, SJ recorded an interview with Peter for her radio show “Your Life The Musical”. We couldn’t resist sharing the audio of these younger and much smarmier versions of ourselves. Songs used this episode: Rock n Roll Nerd - Tim Minchin This Year - The Mountain Goats Step Right Up - Tom Waits Everyday - Buddy Holly The Broken Penis Song - Sarah Jane Haywood End Of The Movie - Cake In My Mind - Amanda Palmer Don't bother trying to visit any of the links Peter talks about. You can read more about Your Life The Musical here, and This Is Your Song here.  To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

If Peter was dying, would SJ help put him out of his misery? Things discussed this episode: SJ’s favourite show at the moment, You Can’t Ask That Andrew Denton’s podcast about euthanasia, Better Off Dead Relevant CGP Grey videos: The Queen is also the head of England, and technically God is in charge of the Commonwealth.How to Become Pope The powers of the Queen One of the best videos ever made: The History of Japan -There’s much more to mortal sin than Peter covered. Further reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortal_sin To talk about the show, head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. To support this show, pledge to Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: SJ’s Patreon success, Peter’s insane aspirations, and how much the pair have grown since they started dating. Things discussed this episode: SJ’s Patreon - support the show! Get cool rewards! Be a better person! CGP Grey - learn stuff! Enjoy a British accent! Seriously, learn so much stuff! Peter’s porn Patreon - read porn! Get hard/wet! Have orgasms! Majority is more than 50%, plurality is whichever individually has the highest percentage! Amanda Palmer’s Patreon - listen to music! Support the precursor to Honor Eastly! Pentatonix’s Patreon - listen to music! Acapella music! The Procrastination Matrix - the single best post on the internet. SJ’s first public Patreon post - includes gif of dancing. The Canon on Kevin Smith - famous people do not grow up. Out on the Wire: Dark Forest - growing hurts. Holly Lisle on When To Quit Your Job - a bit out of date, but still fascinating! Startup Podcast - business is all about feelings. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: feminism, atheism, AA, religion, and talking to your pets during sex. Things discussed this episode: SJ's new favourite podcast, Invisibilia Wikipedia on the Effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous Perhaps Peter's very favourite blog series: What Happened to Big Idea? The Dark Side of Guardian Comments To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I definitely did something wrong. I betrayed the trust of the person that I love, and that’s a fucked up thing to do. I just didn’t do it as badly as you did.” This week we sail our polyamory ship into the treacherous Cheating Sea. Neither of us come out unscathed. Things discussed this episode: Turns out breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic Episode of This Feels Terrible, hosted by Erin McGathy, where she talks about her relationship with her first boyfriend, and the verrry long conversations they had when she didn’t want to leave and go home Turns out it’s called Correspondence Bias or the Fundamental Attribution Error. Note, Jacqui (a patreon backer) linked me to this fascinating article about the difference in Correspondence Bias between East and West cultures. Give it a read! Alain De Botton - contemporary philosopher. Check out The School Of Life YouTube channel, particularly the videos on relationships. Old Man’s War by John Scalzi Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, or for the quicker run-down check out the TED talk Turns out it’s hard to know how many people cheat because well, no one wants to admit to it. Also, it’s hard to know definitively what constitutes cheating (an issue discussed this episode!) Episode 20 of Being Honest With My Ex: Naked Photos Of My Ex To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I just lay down on the gravel and sobbed into the dirt” - SJ This week we dive into way more dirty laundry than we realised as we unpack the gigantic mess we made of polyamory. Things discussed this episode: Polyvic - the Victorian Polyamory Community (they have monthly socials and discussion groups) The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Opening Up by Tristan Taormino The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron Kinsey scale of sexual orientation To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: Peter was banned from the US because he’s too honest, and we talk polyamory! Polyamory flag aka the ugliest / most non-sensical flag in the history of the human race (see pic below) How romanticism ruined love from The School of Life - this one is SO GOOD! What Nice Men Don’t Say To Women - one of the only School of Life vids that I’ve not really liked The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Opening Up by Tristan Taormino The Jealousy Workbook by Kathy Labriola (I did get the last name right!) Your Relationship Toolbelt - Melbourne-based workshops and individual sessions on open / polyamorous relationships Freaking FANTASTIC article about Trump and the historical relationship between classism and sexism To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

SJ talks her troubles with the mental health system and Peter is reasonably unhelpful. Invisibilia episode The Problem With The Solution - holy hell it’s so good. Just don’t listen to this and listen to that instead Article about people's breakthrough moments (turns out I have read this before!) Neville Medhora - problem solving checklist (ugly graphics but gooood info) Episode 4 - Getting Therapy With My Ex Prevention And Recovery Centre (PARC) - here’s the list of them through Mind Soteria - I totally said the wrong thing. Definitely check this stuff out! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: quitting your job and living creatively. How do you go about it? Things discussed this episode: Marie Kondo - organisation consultant and creator of the KonMari method of decluttering. In finding this link I also found her interesting folding method Comic book writer and artist Jessica Abel. The product spreadsheet I mentioned is at the end of this article (which is great btw) Kickstarter Lessons The Market Revolution by John Green on Crash Course US History Shitty Robot Nation The Wife Drought by Annabel Crabb Lean In by Sheryl Standberg Millennial the podcast Startup by Gimlet Media (the first season is really really good!) CGP Grey Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss Austin Kleon To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I love that we can have these conversation but I also hate having them” This week: part 2 of unpacking The Big Fight. Things discussed this episode: The story of a guy who bought a motel in order to watch his guests have sex. Super interesting read, but not for the faint of heart. The video we were sent by Isabel about hospital, illness and incidentally, being grateful. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I think that’s the biggest fight we’ve had since we broke up” This week they try to unpack that argument. Things discussed this episode: Stanford prison experiment, which was covered in Jon Ronson’s The Psychopath Test. Turns out there’s also a movie that was released in 2015 about it, here’s the trailer. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Peter falls in love, and it’s way more complicated than he imagined. Things discussed this episode: Turns out disingenuous is definitely a word Here’s the episode where Peter talks about exclusively dating people who will like SJ Australian comedian Corey White Scott Adams - creator of Dilbert, and one of the most controversial blogs on the interwebs Paul Graham - the top idea in your mind Amy Webb - data analyst and author of Data: A Love Story. Check out her TED Talk where she talks about using data to find love Peter’s most successful erotica story Limits The timelapse of Peter editing this episode To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

SJ on the shame of losing your sexiness and Peter on the realisation that he’s never going to be Steve Jobs. The Five Love Languages SJ in the penguin store Episode about living on the streets Wait But Why post about Elon Musk The Sex Myth - book about the pains of thinking we’re not having enough sex Slingshot - doco about Dean Kamen, the guy behind The Segway Turns out that the guy who bought Segway Inc did actually fall off a cliff while riding a Segway Agatha Christie’s Curtain To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: realising the government governs your life, entertaining flies, and what the hell is a millenial anyway? The (really good!) article about redefining Millennials that Peter read Wait But Why article about accelerated technology Democratic Media Please - a website run by Kyle, who covers over public advertising. There’s an interesting explanatory video on the front page. Steve Roggenbuck - check out this video (which is my favourite and always makes me love the world), and if you’re a creative who sometimes struggles to go on, check out this one, oh god it gets me in the feels every time. Check out Melody Sheep - We Are All Connected is one of my favourites The Depths: The Evolutionary Beginnings of the Depression Epidemic To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Erin talks to the world's #1 Incest Mind-Control Erotica author and co-host of Erin's favorite new podcast, Being Honest With My Ex. ​

“At the end of our relationship, when you cried, I just couldn’t care. I had no fucks left to give.” This week: a sombre episode about that sad moment when you run out of fucks to give the person you love. Things discussed this episode: Reasons To Stay Alive, a book by Matt Haig Wait But Why article - Life Is A Picture, But You Live In A Pixel To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: an episode that almost got deleted. Listen in to hear an awkward conversation about whether SJ is a shit friend. - Things discussed this episode: Peter’s Kickstarter (turns out SJ bought three copies of Peter’s game) Reasons To Stay Alive by Matt Haig To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“Why do I have to delete the naked photos I have of you?” Peter asked. “WTF?!” SJ replied. Also in this episode, SJ reads Peter’s first (and only) love letter. It is a surprisingly painful experience. This is the part where we put in any links to anything we talked about, but this is the first time we've exclusively talked about ourselves! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

SJ has been collecting her tears for over a year. Peter thinks this the weirdest thing she’s ever done. The article that SJ read that made her want to fly to Amsterdam to have a beer with the writer A bit more info on the project where SJ tried to fall in love with people Some writing on the collecting tears project by SJ The notorious Reddit cum box story (you may not want to know what it) Article about emotional labour that Peter mentioned The final article on Daily Life about what SJ has learned from doing the podcast To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

If this episode were a high-school essay topic it would be: Peter spent a month living on the streets of Melbourne, and it made him both broken and invincible. Discuss. Dr. Professor Neal Portenza. Look, he doesn’t really have that much stuff online, but here’s is his slightly unnerving website Here’s a pic of Josh Ladgrove’s fantastic suit Sentinels of The Multiverse - the card game Peter’s friend Christopher made The genius thing that SJ wrote about her sister Flex by Ferrett Steinmetz - turns out Peter was right and he has asked SJ to read it at least 3 times. Also turns out Peter has way too much time on his hands if he wants to dedicate that much energy to proving himself right. (PS. he has a small penis) Here’s one of Lena Dunham’s first short films (also turns out she didn’t invent Mumblecore) Peter’s early awful writings, still online Showerbus Peter’s old, awful, rapey stand-up MX article about Peter’s being homeless Paul Graham essay about truth and optimism and happiness Making A Murderer - documentary series about a specific case showcasing the failings of the justice system Miranda July’s novel The First Bad Man (when the book was released you could also buy objects that were in the book itself. The store still exists) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

How did a broken penis get SJ and Peter together? Find out this week! Episode about Peter’s broken penis Invisibilia episode about Maria Bamford and her mother (on that note, Maria Bamford’s comedy album, Ask Me About My New God!, is one of the best comedy I’ve listened to about mental illness. Get your earholes around that shit!) That TV show Peter liked - Brooklyn Nine-Nine Episode about Peter convincing professional actors to work for free on his projects and how the mental health system can make you sick Fantastic Meanjin essay about contemporary feminism by Eleanor Robertson Great doco about feminist movement in America in the 60s & 70s - She’s Beautiful When She’s Angry (also turns out SJ was right and the suffragettes were first wave feminism) Another great article about the gender pay gap To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Peter has no filter. SJ has a bunch of filters. This time they discuss why.  Also included: SJ momentarily forgets that she ever went out with Peter. It's a lot of fun. Things discussed this episode: So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson. Also the guy I mentioned who was embroiled in a sex scandal is Max Mosley, you can read a bit about it on his wiki page SJ’s instagram post about of Mary O’Hagan that made her anxious The Wait But Why article on Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think If you’d like to go down the Scott Adams Is A Misogynist Douchecanoe, here’s a good link for that Trust Me I’m Lying by Ryan Holiday. Seriously, read this book! Otherwise check out this much shorter post by him (which includes the Sasha Grey ad) SJ’s anniversary post Peter’s Kickstarter!! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

How did Peter manage to make several terrible TV shows on unbridled self-confidence alone? Was SJ really The Messy One? Does the mental health system make you sick? Find out this week with the fancy podcast for fancy people. Things discussed this episode: If you’re interested in perusing through Peter’s back catalogue of terrible TV shows you can check out Help!, NAP-Time, and here’s a fun behind the scenes video of The Map Shop Here’s that picture of SJ drunk at a house inspection(this link is shamelessly put here so you can go follow her on instagram) This is the Uni of California Student Cooperative housing place that I mentioned. It’s actually a really cool enterprise and you should check it out if you’re interested in that kind of thing. If you’re interested in Intentional Peer Support I suggest reading some things by Shery Mead, the creator of IPS. This article is about what it is and this article is about her personal experience. Turns out people with a “serious” mental illness have a life expectancy 10-25 years lower than the rest of the population :( If you haven’t seen David Foster Wallace’s commencement speech This Is Water please, please watch it. It’s an amazing way of describing what mindfulness is without the word mindfulness or any irritating inspirational bullshit (that being said I find it really inspiring) To talk about how you want to co-produce a child with SJ, how best to propose to someone and whether Peter’s jokes are sub-par head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode the pair chat How Not To Propose, How Not To Get Un-Engaged, and SJ starts her hunt for a baby co-producer. Is it you? Things mentioned this episode: Chore wars - a online role play game where you can track household chores (and save relationships) Sex At Dawn - check out the TED talk for an abridged version Louis CK on how great divorce is To talk about how you want to co-produce a child with SJ, how best to propose to someone and whether Peter’s jokes are sub-par head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode Peter gets his feelings hurt for the first time, SJ reveals why she’s so jealous and the pair do a call out for someone to draw a picture of SJ’s vulva. This Feels Terrible - great podcast about love and relationships by Erin McGathy Human Conversation - another podcast with Erin McGathy and Wayne Fedderman Short doco on Australian paralympian and awesome dude Dylan Alcott Studies into mice and addiction Who cares for the mental health of artists? South Park episode about Britney Spears changing her image (note this came out 3 years before Miley Cyrus performed at the 2013 VMAs with Robin Thicke and broke the internet) Chris Sacca - big billionaire investor dude To talk about the podcast, creativity, mental illness and how Peter’s blue hair is holding him back, head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you are particularly good at drawing vulvas please get in contact. We need a forensic vulva draftsperson! If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In this episode the pair discuss privilege in creativity, SJ considers an experiment in honesty on social media, and Peter looks at nude photos. Awful selfie of SJ Peter's webcomic (bleventy iCousins 2.0 (and here’s the videos of Peter talking to an iPad and Peter surprising Gavin for his birthday) and here’s the Brother’s 2.0 Project by the Vlog Brothers. What is iSnack 2.0? That quote Peter couldn’t remember: "The secret of success is sincerity. Once you can fake that you've got it made." I’m Special by Ryan O’Connell SJ definitely meant hollow, not hallow Millenial podcast - and damn is it good! Startup podcast - also very very good! Gimlet media - podcast company who create Startup, Reply All, Mystery Show and a bunch of other great shows. Outro this week was brought to you by BK who’s a great artist, you can find all his videos here and follow him on twitter here. Maybe one day SJ will hear his beautiful voice. !!!! If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com):"Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode the pair talk Peter’s questionable dirty talk, showing your genitals to strangers and how Peter caused SJ’s current creative existential crisis. Warning: may not be fit for consumption by people who are uncomfortable around tears, if you are a middle-aged male doctor at a bulk-billing clinic, beware! That fabulous tweet that was so good SJ said it twice Peter’s dirty talk - which is turns out no one really cared about Blog post Peter mentions about how no one is really lucky Multi-potentialite - here’s a TEDTalk by Emilie Wapnick on Why some of us don’t have one true calling (upon looking up this properly SJ realised calling herself a multi-potentialite is perhaps a bit too generous) The show SJ’s in starts March 16 on ABC TV (here’s the teaser) Hans Solo Dad Joke Twitter - turns out SJ doesn’t know enough about Star Wars to find it funny If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In which we go behind the scenes, try to justify why SJ isn't the weirdest person in her family, and get fucked from the inside. List of Presidents of the USA (fuck you Peter) Capital city of every country in the world and their major export (seriously, fuck you Peter) The real facts that Peter fucked up about Dubai: before the GFC 25% of the world’s cranes were in Dubai. Also check out this link to see how Dubai grew from five skyscrapers in 1991. Mister Money Moustache Follow the Being Honest twitter for all the links we flip back and forth Sign up to our mailing list! If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode Peter learns that somewhere a bank-teller thinks he is the worst human of all time. Things mentioned in this episode: Sheryl Sandberg - chief officer of Facebook - her book Lean In Wait But Why - here’s the post on How To Pick Your Life Partner and Why Procrastinators Procrastinate Shamus Young on why he doesn’t buy a lottery ticket Amanda Palmer - The Art of Asking Mailing List!! - sign-up for interesting articles and bonus episodes! Our new twitter! - follow us for even more interesting articles and general tweetering If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Where SJ tells Peter exactly the kind of person he is (the kind that likes Disneyland) and the pair realise how uninformed they are about the United Arab Emirates, Nikola Tesla and Islamic veils. Things mentioned in this episode: OUR MAILING LIST - Sign up for bonus episodes! Teen girls should masturbate (the article Peter was talking about) Dismaland by Banksy Turns out a skyscraper is any “continuously habitable” (whatever that means) building over 40 storeys high (according to Wikipedia) This guide to islamic veils is much more informed than us Turns out the Nikola Tesla elephant story is shrouded in misinformation. Sign up to our mailing list to get the low down on that! Freakonomics podcast episode about why Norway has so many Tesla cars - seriously this episode is soooo interesting! Infidelity Test Kit *sadface* If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In this episode we explain why SJ / Honor Eastly has two names and why nobody likes Peter. Things mentioned in this episode: That Sexy Show - comedy show that SJ and Peter made. WARNING: website very out of date Some details on the Facebook real-name policy Harmontown - a podcast by Community creator Dan Harmon Pervocracy - amazing blog about sex, relationships and feminism! Here’s the Cosmocking article Peter references and the article about the author’s name change. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Where the pair try to decipher what success is and realise they have very different memories of their First. Big. Fight. This is an extended hour-long "2015 in review" special episode where we go wildly off that topic but do deliver on the length. Enjoy.  Things mentioned in this episode:  Peter's erotica - in particular his stories The Elephant in the Closet, The Kindness of Strangers & Logical Fellatio. Honor Eastly's mailing list - sign-up to stay in the know.Little Bets - a book about how breakthrough ideas emerge from small discoveries Honor Eastly's New Years Anti-Resolutions post and her brother's fantastic response. Peter's board game company, business blog and daily Vine series. Amanda Palmer - not sure how to sum her up. Musician/blogger/community maker who talks really openly about finances and creativity. Her book, The Art of Asking, is fucking great. Austin Kleon - a writer who draws. Just finished his book, Steal Like An Artist. It's disarmingly simple but incredibly powerful. Patreon - subscription crowd-funding for people who make stuff. Find Peter's here. Find Amanda Palmer's here. We also jokingly talked about linking to a Neo-Nazi website as a protest against the proliferation of offensive content creators but I don't actually want to link to shit like that, so I won't. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In which the pair try to discuss Christmas but end up talking about the benefits of Tumblr porn and the moral issues that arise when playing "Cards Against Humanity". Things mentioned in this episode: Shut Up And Sit Down - Game Review website, here’s the Cards Against Humanity review. Cards Against Humanity - Very controversially popular card game. Bred By The Billionaire Tentacle - Peter’s best piece of erotica OF ALL TIME (that he read to SJ’s parents before proposing). Peter’s Cracked article about writing porn The Imposter - really great doco. Don’t watch the trailer, just watch it! Are You Thinking What I’m Thinking B1? - Australian kids show starring two giant bananas. Until I wrote that sentence, I never quite realised how weird that was. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In which SJ has a question about a big decision she has to make by morning and Peter learns a lot about the mental health system. The cat poster the pair were talking about: If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email - beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"