Podcasts about sex at dawn

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “On the Inevitability of the Patriarchy” and “The March of the Monogamous”, the second part of Chapter 9 of Sex At Dawn over a Hendrix Gin and Tonic. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

MORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  https://www.alimezey.comInstagram:  ali_body_brilliancePersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTransgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/If you have any questions, email Ali at: ali@alimezey.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Paternity Certainty: The Crumbling Cornerstone of the Standard Narrative,” part one of Chapter 9 of Sex At Dawn over an Armadillo Negroni. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “On Matrimonial Whoredom,” the 2nd part of Chapter 8pm Sex at Dawn over. G-Net. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the first part of Ch 8 “Making a Mess of Marriage, Mating and Monogamy”, where verbs Poets Dream.Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Mommies Dearest,”Chapter 7 of “Sex at Dawn” over a Negroni. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn the episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the second part of Chapter 6 of Sex at Dawn, including the sections. “The Person is of Promiscuity” and, “Bonobo Beginnings” over a Railroad.Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “Whose Your Daddies?” Chapter 6 f “Sex at Dawn” over a Tequila Negroni Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Chapter 5 of “Sex at Dawn”, Lust in Paradise (solitary) over a Perfect Martini. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss “The Ape in the Mirror, Chapter 4 of “Sex at Dawn” over a Cherry Vesper. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petraxand Saffermaster discuss Chapter 3 of Sex at Dawn, A Closer Look at the Stabdard Narrative of Human Sexual Evolurion over a Negroni. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textI'm n this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss Ch1. Part 2 of Sex at Dawn, What Darwin Didn't Know about Sex, and The Flintonization of Prehistory over a Vodka Martini.Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss part one of Sex at Dawn, Remember the Yukatan over a Boulevardier. The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hardmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the introduction to the book over a Boulevardier.  The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at Motorbunny.com You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at http://myfirmtech.com using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hrdmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

Send us a textIn this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster discuss the preface of Sex at Dawn over a Vesper. Support the showHard Married: A Guide to Building Lasting Love by Unlocking the Secrets of Deep Intimacy. Get your copy of this new book by Saffer here: https://tinyurl.com/Hard-Married Visit Hrdmarried.net Listen on Podurama https://podurama.com

SYNOPSIS:This is a recording of one of our free, live Eventbrite sessions, where Ali Mezey was joined by Jane Peterson, PhD - and you, our audience - for a live, honest, body-centered conversation about the real work of being in relationship.(Yes, this episode includes live audience questions!)Together, we explore how our bodies carry old relational patterns - what Jane calls the "social soma" - and how these hidden imprints can shape the way we love, fight, and stay (or don't stay) connected.We talk about why love alone isn't always enough to align two people's lives, and why asking deeper, more honest questions early on matters so much.Jane shares practical ways to stay close even when life pulls you in different directions: evolving agreements, repairing after hurt, setting shared goals, and building intimacy that grows with you.We touch on marriage, infidelity, and non-traditional relationships with honesty and warmth, offering grounded advice for navigating real-world love.Whether you're partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this conversation will leave you with new ways to understand yourself, your relationships, and the deep intelligence of your body in all of it.To be an angel to the podcast, click hereTo read more about the podcast, click hereMORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTransgenerational Healing Films: www.constellationarts.comMORE JANE PETERSON:Website: www.human-systems-institute.comContact: humansystemsinstitute@gmail.comBIO:Jane Peterson, PhD, is the co-founder and executive director of the Human Systems Institute, Inc. She is the originator of Somatic Imaging and the somatic-resonance approach to constellation work. Her work is internationally respected for being tailored to meet the high learning demands of adult professionals. She was a faculty member at the International Intensive Workshop on Systemic Resolutions in Bernreid, Germany for 9 years. Jane is an INFOSYON certified Master Trainer and has served as an advisor and author for the Knowing Field journal. She has taught systemic constellation work in Asia, South America, South Africa, Mexico, Canada, Europe, and the U.S.In 2005, she organized the first U.S. Conference in constellation work. Her Institute offers trainings in Somatic Imaging and systemic constellation work, including training in organizational constellations. The institute is currently offering it's seventeenth year of training programs.Jane started her professional career as an engineer and manager in a high tech firm (the first woman engineer hired into her department) and knows first-hand the demands placed on leaders in the corporate environment. In the course of becoming a constellation facilitator, she has also been a professional ceramic sculptor and ran her own fine arts studio, Laughing Bones, Inc.Jane is a master practitioner of Neuro-linguistic Programming, a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, a Certified Professional Behavioral Coach and a member of the American Counseling Association, VOIS, OHA, and ODN. She has studied Process Oriented Psychology with Arny Mindell and Max Schupbach, Group Dynamics with Michael Grinder, Peruvian energy healing with Don Amèrico Yàbar, Attachment and Trauma work with Dan Siegel and Diane Poole Heller, a Psycho-biological Approach to Couples Therapy with Stan Tatkin (Level 2), Coordinated Management of Meaning with Barnett Pearce, and continues to learn with other research-driven leaders in the fields of personal and social evolution. She holds a doctorate in Human and Organizational Systems from Fielding Graduate University, and has been a post-doctoral fellow of the Institute for Social Innovation.OTHER RESOURCES, LINKS AND INSPIRATIONS:Essential Skills for CouplesAdapting Systemic Constellations to OrganizationsHuman-Systems-InstituteBurt Hellinger: “caring for desire”Elaine Debutant: compatibility is actually an achievement of love, not a precondition.”SOCIAL SOMA - our body is shaped by our social relationshipsLALAGE SNOW:  We Are the Not Dead - photographerStan Tatkin - safety in relationship = taking care of each other. The Social BiomeTerry Real - The Social EcosystemEsther Perel: Mating in CaptivityArny Mindell, Sitting in the Fire: Large Group Transformation Using Conflict  and DiversityScience of TouchingEllyn Bader, the Initiator/Inquirer processStan Tatkin, In Each Other's Care: A Guide to the Most Common Relationship Conflicts and How to Work Through ThemTerry Real,

Happy Sunday, my lovely congregation, and welcome back to Pussy Church! This week, we're diving into polyamory, open relationships, and whether being "open" is really the enlightened choice—or just another relationship trend.I break down: my almost-open relationship, the history & science of monogamy and the rise of non-monogamy. Plus, how growing up in a Buddhist commune shaped my views on love and loyalty.If you've ever wondered, non-monogamy is the future—or just a phase?—this one's for you.Amen.

In this minisode, Ali guides you on a mini mapping experience to explore your heart/sexuality split - or un-split!Using her method, Personal Geometry® (explored in Episode 31 with Lauren Gleason) in mere minutes you will gain insights into what your present stance is in relation to your romantic heart and your sexuality - in relation to anyone or anything that is currently an issue for you.Find out what your body knows about it!In minutes, you'll see-feel what could help you understand, and live, a more harmonious relationship between these essential aspects of being - whether in relationship to someone else and/or yourself.MORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  https://www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTo book a session, email Ali at ali@alimezey.com

NEXT COHORT STARTS TOMORROW February 8th - Jump In!Personal Geometry® is a somatic and spatial practice that taps into the body's innate, felt-sense understanding of spatial relationships. This work can do so much so quickly. It's an amazing way to get you, your clients, your partner, other participants, to see and feel the body-truth of things in minutes. We are excited to share Personal Geometry Foundations with you as a practitioner discover how you can best tailor it to the disciplines you are already, or will be, practicing. This non-verbal, embodied approach provides a clear and immediate visual and visceral representation of a person's inner world, making it an invaluable tool for therapists, facilitators, and anyone seeking profound transformation.  A seven-week online class - perfect for therapists, sexologists, coaches, and healing practitioners. Foundations is the prerequisite for advanced classes on Sexuality and Addiction, and individuals seeking personal healing are welcome too!  PERSONAL GEOMETRY TRAININGSJoin the Next Personal Geometry® Foundations Class  (online over Zoom)Now enrolling - click here for more details. Next cohort starts February 8th, 2025.Our audience gets $250 off - just mention the show when contacting Ali. MORE ALI MEZEY:Website:  https://www.alimezey.comPersonal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundationsTransgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/If you have any questions, email Ali at: ali@alimezey.com

"How we mate, why we stray, and what it means for modern relationships"

Send us a textWhat's good all you culinary capybaras & sparkle-necked starlings!  Crouched in the home studio saddle delivering some thoughts. topics include Saturday being named after a maniacal offspring-munching Roman deity, cultivating one's mental health, waging cage fights with depression, coping strategies for 2024, how wretched and self-defeating misogyny is, institutional religions being infested with demonic impulses, and more! Support links below, appreciate all the Day Ones & welcome all the new listeners!un amor,lr kerkawwwTRACKLIST FOR THIS EPISPODE Afro Lofi - GROWN FOLKS - soul lofi music to chill toExcerpt from Sex At Dawn by Cacilda Jetha & Chris Ryan(Chapter: In Search of Primate Continuity)Paul Robeson - Ol Man River (1938) From the film Showboat (FAIR USE SLOWED N VERBED)Paul Robeson was a Genuine American Hero. This cruel empire not only failed to appreciate his spectacular & multifoliate talents: singer, orator, civil rights activist, debater, stud in American football, and lawyer- but also the Agent Smiths of the empire relentlessly hounded the man his whole life. All he did was be a boss and take names and speak truth. Lord forbid!! Agent Smith hounded and hounded Robeson, eventually cornering him in a spiritually wretched London hospital and administering him unfair doses of the MKULTRA brainwashing drug BZ. According to Robeson's son Paul Jr., this horrific act of nonconsensual behavior modification "broke" Robeson, who shied away from public spaces until the end of his days. Goddess & God Bless you Paul Robeson. You continue to be an inspiration and source of strength and light to this day, in this wretched year of Another Dude who was hounded to death by imperial storm troopers for the simple act of speaking some sense, 2024. EMPIRES ARE THE PRIMARY PROBLEM. we're at the crossroads friends: liberate ourselves from the clutches of demonic imperial filth, or mad max it after a fiery poop storm. * ...tick tick tick... * we ain't gonna vote ourselves out of this horrid ditch we've built up. gonna take good honest community building and hard work.Support the showSupport My Sponsor:Magic Mind Adaptogenic & Nootropic Elixir 20% off at Checkout! Support Link here | Use Code: BARBARIANNOETICS20Tip me in Solana (crypto):Address: 9XPHpqH7GawTGtPgZAzfXFU6oPWTpSua1QXwRYAWVh9y If you dig the pod, check out the adjacent video & livestream show Barbarian Yak Fest on Rokfin: https://rokfin.com/BarbarianYakFestFind me on IG: barbarian_noetics Become a Patron: patreon.com/noetics (unlock bonus content plus win a Dream Interpretation)Direct Donate on PayPal @barbarian.noetics@proton.me Cash App@ $BarbarianRavenbuymeacoffee.com/noetics.Spread the word and tell a friend. Remember to set the BNP on Auto Download after you subscribe. I appreciate you all. Section 107 of the Copyright Act of 1976 allows for “fair use” for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, education and rese...

Christoper Ryan is a psychologist, author and podcaster.  His work has appeared everywhere from Netflix & HBO to CNN & Fox News.  He has been a featured speaker at TED and SXSW, as well as a frequent guest on the Joe Rogan Experience.  In this episode we discuss his books "Sex At Dawn" & "Civilized to Death" as well as happiness, the illusion of luxury, psychedelics, his interview with comedian Neal Brennan and much more! 0:00:00 - Intro0:00:13 - Comparing American and Spanish Healthcare Systems0:02:17 - Christopher Ryan Discusses His Relationship with Joe Rogan0:09:27 - Human Nature Through the Lens of Bonobos and Chimps0:14:31 - The Evolutionary Roots and Modern Implications of Sociopathy0:17:50 - The Paradox of Fame and Leadership in Modern Society0:26:22 - The Illusion of Luxury and True Value0:30:26 - The Difference Between Private Jets and Commercial Flights0:33:16 - The True Cost of Never Having Enough0:33:26 - Balancing Drive and Enjoyment in Personal and Professional Life0:41:05 - Monogamy Vs. Swingers 0:45:00 - Hysteria of Women & Orgasms 0:47:50 - Female Teachers Having Sex with Students 0:51:15 - Controversy of "Sex at Dawn" 0:54:45 - Asexual People Vs. Toxic Masculinity 1:00:57 - Comedian Neal Brennan 1:05:40 - Helping Each Other Out & Doing Podcasts 1:08:40 - Misinterpretations and Backlash Against 'Sex at Dawn'1:12:20 - Navigating Non-Monogamy and Parenting in Modern Society1:16:20 - A Return to Basics: Whole Foods, Self-Sufficiency, and Community1:18:10 - The Transformative Potential and Risks of Psychedelics1:28:35 - Healing Concussions and Exploring Ultimate Reality with Psychedelics1:31:20 - Outro Christopher Ryan website:https://chrisryanphd.com/Chuck Shute Linkree:https://linktr.ee/chuck_shuteSupport the Show.Thanks for Listening & Shute for the Moon!

Dr. Chris Ryan is the author of The New York Times best-seller, Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships

The Tip of the Iceberg is a 30-foot tall clitoris of stone, steel and cement, fabricated to be monumental like Stonehenge, thus the nickname Clit-Henge. It aroused a lot of conversation at Black Rock City 2023. It's the phallic symbol's sister. It's highly sensitive, and highly talked about, and according to the artist, the more we discover what it does for any of us and all of us, and the more we can celebrate the birthright of pleasure.Melissa Barron a.k.a. Syn has traveled to many places around the world that informed her lens of creativity, sustainability, gender equality. With her family and friends, she co-creates art, from the 2013 Temple of Whollyness to her decade-long regeneration project Art for Trees, to this new intimate inquiry, the Tip of the Iceberg. And what about the aerialist performance involving the Burning Man and wombs and birth, sanctioned by none other than Burning Man founder Larry Harvey?Journey with Syn, Andie Grace and Stuart Mangrum through the Clit Renaissance, the re-thinking of pleasure inequities, the teachings of cancer, the wisdom of aging, and the intuition of radical reciprocity. They explore these complexities, and they keep it light and bright.Tip of the Iceberg (Burning Man 2023 Art Installations)Tip of the Iceberg (Burning Man Gallery)The Temple of Whollyness (Burning Man Journal)Art for Trees (Burning Man Journal)Syn on Social Media (Crone of Arc)  LIVE.BURNINGMAN.ORG

In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan.We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD.Guest Links:https://chrisryan.substack.com/https://chrisryanphd.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Moments after the door to my condo closed behind us, the stranger I'd cruised on the subway locked his mouth on mine. I eagerly accepted. The tension of 30+ minutes of eyeing each other in the train car, up the escalators, down Sunset Blvd., to this moment, piqued our primal need to engage. He pulled at the bottom of his shirt.  I leaned away from kissing his scruffy face and said, “Hold on, can I get that for you?” and I slowly pulled his shirt up, revealing his bare skin, happy trail, belly button, chest, nipples, and finally, his masculine shoulders. The inside-out collar of thin cotton material moved up his throat while the bulk of the shirt acted as a temporary blindfold. As the shirt released from his head, I looked into his eager eyes – the t-shirt hanging relaxed in my hand. “Your turn,” I said. “Take your time.” Rather than ignoring all this erotic energy and racing towards orgasm with the intensity of an Olympic sprinter, I've learned to lean into erotic tension and savor its rare pleasures. This is a departure from the avid Sport Fucker practice I once thought was the height of sexual pleasure and liberation. Sport Fucking is about having sex for its own sake. Keeping a score sheet (even if it's just in one's head) of the numbers, variety, and status of sex partners is what it's all about. Commitment and emotional depth are not part of the practice. An ass up, no talking, jackhammer fuck n' go is its hallmark protocol. It allows us to protest against the heteronormative standard narrative: All sex outside of a monogamous relationship is bad. It also satisfies our need to seed, and be seeded by, as many individuals as possible. Sperm competition, as outlined in the book Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, provides evidence that our genes are programmed to both give and receive as much sperm as possible. The one who gives or receives the most wins the genetic prize. Sport Fucking is still in my sexual repertoire, but it is only one musical genre with which to play the music. Sometimes, I want a nasty two-minute country tune by Dixon Dallas: “No strings attached, I'll arch my back and let you do what you want.” At other times, I want an hour-long Deep House Anjunadeep Edition 434 with Marsh DJ session: “Reach inside me. Gonna take my love in,” that transports us on a multilayered sensory/emotional/spiritual journey. Each encounter is usually a variation that mixes a bit from each style, depending on my partner's proclivities and how our energies mix.If I'd taken this guy to a stairwell to seal the deal, a long, drawn-out connection wouldn't have been practical. But we were in my place, and I had more than two minutes. Until the moment his shirt came off, and I felt the heat radiating from his torso, my attraction to this guy was almost entirely visual. It was tied to what he was wearing, especially his grey sweatpants and the shape of the underwear seams framing his butt cheeks as he shifted his weight, side to side, only one escalator step ahead of me on the long ride up and out of the deep Sunset-Vermont subway station, my heart pounding all the way. I was returning home from my workout, where I'd seen lots of Hollywood hotties dressed in their best gym gear hugging all the right places oh so coyly, never to be touched. (Well, not never, but that's another post.) This was an opportunity to actually touch, smell, and taste the tantalizing essence that is usually off-limits. Why throw all that on the floor? Both shirtless, we moved to the playroom.It had become clear to me during our makeout session, while my hands massaged the raised underwear seams through his sweats, that he preferred to let me take charge. I didn't let that stop me from dropping to my knees to explore the cause of a raging boner still inside my jeans. As an aside, for a long time, I lived with a made-up rule that tops don't kneel for their partners – that maintaining dominance requires insertive, taking energy only. I was wrong about that, especially the kneeling part. Down on my knees, there is a lot of pleasure to give by actively taking what he generously allowed. Undressing a man slowly, like the beautifully wrapped gift that he is, moves that spark of erotic energy up and into every power zone of your body. Without an immediate release (a quick orgasm), the energy expands its way from that space between your balls and your butthole, through your gut, your heart, your throat, your mind, and out into the Universe. The vibrational energies of your whole self, the energies that the Great Yoga Sages called the seven chakras, become available mojo for your eventual climax. Dipping my fingers between the cotton waistband of his sweatpants and the formfitting elastic of his briefs, nuzzling the swollen mound straining the fabric beneath his sweatpants, looking up to see how this is being received via his eyes, expressing gratitude in mine, inching the sweats down to reveal his previously hidden tight undies, feeling the heat of his contained junk that had been walking down the street with me, now pressing on my nose and cheeks, smelling the epicenter of his pheromone production, allowing the sweatpants to gather at his feet, fanning anticipation by leaving his underwear on, overtly looking him up and down, from his bright brown eyes to his pants that are now a heap around his ankles. Pro Tip: To remove his pants with just two sweeping motions, I find the leg opening behind one heel, allow him to shift his weight to the other foot, and pull on the seam of the leg opening. Most pants will easily slide off one leg at a time. This avoids the struggle of pulling the pants at the waist and having them turn inside out, causing awkward logistics that break the sultry trance. “Your turn,” I said.  Whatever we do next will be charged with intimacy and understanding, which clears a path to mind-bending release.While undressing each other, we transmit and receive information about what turns the other guy on, what doesn't, and what's meh. We just need to look, listen, and feel for it. It also builds erotic tension. Cum denial, as it's called in parts of the fetish community, or semen retention, as it's called in various eastern spiritual communities, leads to an altered state of consciousness. Senses are heightened, and the mind focuses. Done in a community of men, it fosters heart-centered connections and a willingness to be vulnerable. I first experienced this state with Tantra 4 Gay Men during a weeklong retreat near Joshua Tree, California, where I went nearly two weeks without ejaculation. The point is that building erotic heat without release creates a heightened mental state. Invest in that state, and you'll have an insanely intense orgasm—a frighteningly powerful full-body release. It's a rollercoaster ride that's worth the wait in line. The undressing ritual gives you a tiny glimpse into that euphoria, that connection to Everything, to the Divine. You just need to be emotionally brave enough to speak your truth. Communicate what you want. Probably non-verbally. Say and accept “no” as helpful information so that everyone can lean into their erotic and emotional desires and needs, sometimes called fantasies. The jackhammering may still happen, but if it does, it becomes a well-timed crescendo rather than the entire piece of music. It's a dynamic highpoint, igniting the root charka, blasting energy up through the now energized spiritual centers, including the crown chakra where it's possible to touch Divine wisdom, imbuing your cum shot with a melding of primal and sacred certainty. We know joy. We know peace. Strangers we meet on the train leave happy.  Get full access to The Sensitive Slut at mikegerle.substack.com/subscribe

Chris Ryan's work has been translated into over twenty languages, and appeared just about everywhere, including Netflix, HBO, MSNBC, Fox News, CNN, NPR, The New York Times, The Times of London, Playboy, The Washington Post, National Geographic, and More… Chris has been a featured speaker at TED, SXSW, The Festival of Dangerous Ideas at the Sydney Opera House and is a frequent guest on The Joe Rogan Experience, the Duncan Trussell Family Hour, and many other podcasts. Even before co-authoring the New York Times best-seller, Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What it Means for Modern Relationships with Cacilda Jethá, MD in 2010, Chris was on a wild ride. After receiving a BA in English and American literature in 1984 he spent the next two decades traveling around the world, pausing in unexpected places to work at very odd jobs. In his mid-30s, Chris decided to get a little serious and pursue doctoral studies in Psychology at Saybrook Graduate School, in San Francisco, CA, using his dissertation to examine Darwin's rather naive understanding of human sexual evolution — providing the core arguments later advanced in Sex at Dawn. Chris's latest book, Civilized to Death: The Price of Progress asks whether civilization has been a net benefit to our species. He hosts a weekly podcast, Tangentially Speaking, often recorded from the road while traveling in his van. The podcast features conversations with comics, bank robbers, drug smugglers, porn stars, authors, and an occasional rattlesnake expert. #ChrisRyan #BestsellerAuthor #SexAtDawn #CivilizedToDeath #GlobalExplorer #ThoughtLeader #Psychoanalysis #DiverseConversations #CulturalObserver | CHRIS RYAN | SUBSTACK - https://substack.com/@dudeinhammock WEBSITE - https://chrisryanphd.com/ IG - https://www.instagram.com/thatchrisryan X - https://twitter.com/ThatChrisRyan FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/chrisryanphd/ BOOKS - https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= & https://www.amazon.com/Civilized-Death-What-Lost-Modernity/dp/1451659105/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1702656704&sr=8-1 Join Host

My guest today is Christopher Ryan, an acclaimed author and speaker who has led a diverse and unconventional life, from working odd jobs around the world to earning a Ph.D. in Psychology and being a self-proclaimed “vanthropologist.”He is the host of the podcast Tangentially Speaking, as well as the author of “Civilized to Death” and the co-author of “Sex At Dawn”, which columnist Dan Savage has called “The single most important book on human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey's Sexual Behavior in the Human Male.”When I read “Sex At Dawn” over a decade ago, it had a significant influence on my life path and approach to relationships, as you'll hear in this episode. As well, we cover Chris' own journey that inspired him to reach into the pre-history of humanity and find fresh insights into modern relationships, sexuality, and how remarkably similar we are to bonobos. We discuss the complex challenges for men & masculinity today, we touch on his observations about the radical peace project of Tamera, and finally, he shares his best (and only) advice on how to live into the future of relationships.LINKS* Christopher Ryan - Official Website* Christopher Ryan on InstagramSHOW NOTES* Crestone is a unique spiritual community at 8,000 feet with open-air cremations, Tibetan stupas, and diverse spiritual centers.* Historical Origins: Crestone's history involves visionary landowners and prophecies of harmonious coexistence among different religious traditions, leading to the creation of spiritual centers.* Chris's Journey: Chris's exploration of cultures and alternative lifestyles began in his youth and eventually led him to Crestone.* Understanding the Human Condition: Chris's career focuses on understanding human behavior and challenging cultural norms.* "Sex at Dawn": The book challenges traditional monogamy notions, examining evolutionary psychology, anthropology, and bonobo behavior.* Controversy and Conversation: "Sex at Dawn" sparked debates and opposition by questioning conventional beliefs about monogamy.* Career Evolution: Chris shifted from literature to psychology and faced backlash from the academic community.* Cultural Biases in Science: The discussion highlights how cultural biases influence scientific disciplines like anthropology.* Exploring Masculinity: Masculinity encompasses risk-taking, humor, and courageous conversations, not limited to stereotypical traits.* Challenges in Modern Masculinity: Contemporary culture presents complexities, with concerns about toxic masculinity and limited career opportunities for young men.* Impact of Toxic Messages: Toxic ideologies exploit the challenges faced by young men and promote disrespect toward women.* Rediscovering Cooperation: The future presents a choice between eroding traditional gender roles and rediscovering human cooperation, which may necessitate shared resources and mutual support.FROM THE ARCHIVEYou may also enjoy these episodes: Get full access to The Mythic Masculine at themythicmasculine.substack.com/subscribe

Swingers are couples that have sex with other couples, right? Well, like everything with our sexual desires, it's not so hard and fast ;) Suzie Wong talks about how the Lifestyle (LS) includes wife swapping, unicorns, half unicorns, single men, orgies, and much more. Her stories about how her swinging lifestyle make hosts @KerstinPorter and @GreenberryLucas question most of what they thought they knew about swingers. They also learn an amazing new word, COMPERSION, which means to wholeheartedly participate in the happiness of others. It's the opposite of jealousy and what couples experience in the swinger community.  Suzie also helps our caller, Becky, figure out how she can be a swinger with her husband, but without having to do any girl on girl action.  Books: The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy, Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá  Swinger Communities and Dating Sites: SDC.com, Kasidie, Adult FriendFinder,  Resorts: Desire Every other Wednesday, tune in for another episode on how to find an adult buddy.   Hit up AdultBuddyFinders.com to join the conversation and even become a caller! #swingers #thelifestyle #LS #Orgies #WifeSwap #unicorn  #podcast #sexpositive #sexual #sexed #sexpositivepodcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adultbuddyfinders/support

On this ID the Future from the vault, hear a segment from Discovery Institute Vice President John West's talk given at the Dallas Conference on Science and Faith, on how Darwinism has corroded Western culture. Here he examines the morally poisonous effects of Darwinism on marriage, sexual ethics, and religion, such that virtually anything can be defended as OK, and no particular culture's ethic is to be preferred over another. Humankind's spiritual purpose has likewise been eroded. Yet West closes with hope by pointing to moving examples of science in our generation uncovering more and more signs of intelligent design and purpose in nature. As West further notes, a new generation of researchers, including at least one Fulbright scholar, are Read More › Source

BONUS EPISODES & PREMIUM ACCESS: https://auxoro.supercast.com/ On this episode of The AUXORO Podcast, Chris Ryan and Zach discuss the witch hunt against sexual freedom and nuance in today's society, Chris' best-selling book 'Sex At Dawn,' a conversation Chris recorded with a rattlesnake expert, the myths of monogamy, why the ridiculousness of America is both good and bad, and more. Guest bio: Chris Ryan is the best-selling author of Civilized To Death and Sex At Dawn, the host of the podcast 'Tangentially Speaking' and has appeared on The Joe Rogan Experience, Duncan Trussell's Family Hour, and many other prominent shows. Chris has also spent over two decades traveling the world and has a PhD in psychology.  CHRIS RYAN LINKS:Sex At Dawn: https://amzn.to/3TcFmwfCivilized To Death: https://amzn.to/3pYbnLvSubstack: https://chrisryan.substack.com/Tangentially Speaking (podcast): https://pod.link/566908883 THE AUXORO PODCAST LINKS:Apple: https://apple.co/3B4fYju Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3zaS6sPOvercast: https://bit.ly/3rgw70DYoutube: https://bit.ly/3lTpJdjWebsite: https://www.auxoro.com/ AUXORO SOCIAL LINKS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/auxoroYouTube: https://bit.ly/3CLjEqFFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/auxoromagNewsletter: https://www.auxoro.com/thesourceYouTube: https://bit.ly/3CLjEqF If you enjoy the show, please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts. It takes less than 60 seconds, helps us appear higher in searches so more people discover the show, and it boosts my ego;) Past Guests On The Auxoro Podcast Include: Aubrey de Grey, Andy Weir, Eben Britton, Eric Jorgenson, Isabelle Boemeke, Houston Arriaga, Jerzy Gregorek, Chris Cooper, Gryffin, Elsa Diaz, Dave Robinson, Meghan Daum, FINNEAS, Chloé Valdary, Coleman Hughes, Maziar Ghaderi, YONAS, Ryan Michler, Ryan Meyer, Gavin Chops, Bren Orton, Zuby, Jason Khalipa, Ed Latimore, Jess Glynne, Noah Kahan, Kid Super, Deryck Whibley, and many more.  

Author of ‘Sex At Dawn' and ‘Civilized To Death' joins Abby on DOSED Download the Callin app for iOS and Android to listen to this podcast live, call in, and more! Also available at callin.com

Ben Greenfield is a Coach, Author, Speaker, Ironman Triathlete, and host of the podcast Ben Greenfield Fitness.Mark Healey is a professional big wave surfer and spearfisherman.Chris Ryan is the author of Sex At Dawn and host of the podcast Tangentially Speaking.If you dig this podcast, would you be please leave a short review on Apple Podcasts? It’s takes less than 60 seconds and makes a difference when I drop to my knees and beg hard-to-get guests to come on the show. All of my stuff is on Thiermann.substack.comConnect with me on Instagram | Twitter | YouTubeBrought to you by Santa Cruz Medicinals and RPM Training.RPM Training is a Norcal based active lifestyle brand founded on the idea that legit, purposeful functional training is the foundation of a truly full, adventurous life. I love their workout equipment and use it daily. Use the code KYLETMAN at checkout and get 10% off any order. Santa Cruz Medicinals CBD has supported this podcast from day one. Their founder actually convinced me to start the podcast! They make a range of potent CBD products and my personal favorite is the Peppermint Tincture, which I use most nights before before I go to bed. Use the code KYLE10 at checkout, and get 10% off any order. Sore muscles, be gone!Connect with me on Instagram | Twitter | YouTubeSend voice memos to: info@kyle.surf Get full access to Writing by Kyle Thiermann at thiermann.substack.com/subscribe

This episode was recorded in 2021 over a year ago in the midst of the pandemic. Chris and I  touched on a few subjects including vaccines and masks that may feel slightly dated but the principle arguments I feel remain relevant. We also swap stories about Charlie Sheen, Hunter S. Thompson, Aikdo, the death touch, hitch hiking, martial arts, and other obscure topics. Hope you enjoy the chat. If you're curious to learn more about my work check out www.budokon.com 

Have you ever wondered if it's possible to be married but still hookup, or even have relationships, with other people? Join your captain, Kaya, as she takes you through the vastly open sea of ethical non-monogamy. Kaya, herself, has been recently attempting to navigate these waters herself, but for her guest speaker, Jocelyn Burton, it is all she knows! Jos is in a non-monogamous marriage and she shares a ton of insight to help us better wrap our heads around this (oftentimes) misunderstood form of relating. Whether you're curious about unconventional relationship styles, or you're attempting to actually do it yourself with your current partner, this episode is full of insight and advice to help open up your mind and guide you!Connect with Jos on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/submanic/Resources for ethical non-monogamy:*The Ethical Slut (book) by Dossie Easton - https://www.booktopia.com.au/the-ethical-slut-third-edition-dossie-easton/book/9780399579660.html*Sex At Dawn (book) by Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jetha- https://www.booktopia.com.au/sex-at-dawn-christopher-ryan/book/9780061707810.html*More Than Two (book) by Franklin Veaux, Janet Hardy, Eve Rickert (Illustrator) - https://www.booktopia.com.au/more-than-two-franklin-veaux/book/9780991399703.html*Monogamish (film) - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4169390/Check out this YouTube video by Shan Boody which helped me a lot. It helps explain different commitment styles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VwU-R3Le2rcAnd if you're still unsure about what your commitment style is, take this quiz on Shan Boody's website to help find some clarity: https://www.thegameofdesire.com/commitment

The Heart of Jacks PodcastEpisode #17 - Fourth Monday, May 2021Released May 24, 2021Supported by Patreon - - - - -Email the show: podcast@theheartofjacks.comCall the show: 206-580-3120The Heart of Jacks Podcast, written and produced by Paul RosenbergPodcast distribution by Simplecast - - - - -Mentioned in this podcast:Simplify Podcast Simplify Podcast Episode 5, Christopher Ryan: Don't Take Sex So Seriously Sex at Dawn, by Christopher Ryan & Cacilda Jetha Rain City JacksNew York Jacks Music from this EpisodeMonday Again, Frankie Lane with Carl Fischers Orchestra (1948)I Could Write a Book, Guy Lombardo and his Royal Canadians (1941)Please Tell Me Now, Billie Holiday (1949)Tell Me More, Billie Holiday (1940)Memories, Harry Horlick and his Orchestra (1941)

Reviewing the second half of the book Sex At Dawn with Co Host Alma. The truth about marriage and monogamy, how testosterone levels affect men as they age and why they stray, the unknown about female orgasms, going and growing through abusive relationships, and more!!

Have you ever wondered why we practice monogamy when marriages are breaking down more today than ever before? Is the key to a successful marriage sexual variety? Perhaps swinging with different partners can help keep it spicy… for some couples? Join us with Sex Educators, Kim and Brad, from Tantric Hearts, as we dissect the ideas of promiscuity, sexual desire and fidelity as presented in the book, “Sex at Dawn”, by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jetha, and discuss how their ideas might explain the growing trend towards the swinging lifestyle.

First episode of Bookclub For Baddies. Empowering women to voice their opinion on controversial topics in an open and accepting environment. Introducing Sydney and Alma the hosts, and reviewing the first half the book Sex at Dawn. Thanks for listening!

Liz and Jen talk about their journeys with Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM). We also discuss the book Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, which explores relationship styles from an evolutionary and anthropological perspective. Learn more about ENM and polyamory by reading The Ethical Slut or listening to the amazing Multiamory podcast. Listen to us wherever you get your podcasts. Rate, Review, & Subscribe if you want to hear more! Share this episode with friends, families, partners, and coworkers to spread the ethical love! If you want to help spread poly awareness, support us on PayPayl, Anchor, or Patreon and get exclusive updates! Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter! Check out our website for the latest episodes! Rough transcripts on YouTube! Thanks Harlots! See you next week! Music by Wataboi from Pixabay --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/harmlessharlots/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/harmlessharlots/support

Christopher Ryan, PhD is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller “Sex At Dawn” and he also hosts a podcast called “Tangentially Speaking" available on Spotify. His latest book “Civilized To Death” is available now: https://www.amazon.com/Civilized-Death-What-Lost-Modernity/dp/1451659105

Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller “Sex At Dawn” and he also hosts a podcast called “Tangentially Speaking" available on Spotify. His latest book "Tangentially Reading" is available now.

Duncan Trussell is a stand-up comedian, and host of his own podcast "The Duncan Trussell Family Hour" available on Spotify. Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller Sex At Dawn, and also host of his own podcast "Tangentially Speaking" available on Spotify.

Christopher Ryan, PhD is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller "Sex At Dawn" and he also hosts a podcast called "Tangentially Speaking" available on Spotify.

Duncan Trussell is a stand-up comedian, and host of his own podcast "The Duncan Trussell Family Hour" available on Spotify. Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller Sex At Dawn, and also host of his own podcast "Tangentially Speaking" available on Spotify.

Christopher Ryan, PhD is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller "Sex At Dawn"

Christopher Ryan, PhD is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller "Sex At Dawn"

Christopher Ryan, PhD is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller "Sex At Dawn" - http://chrisryanphd.com/ http://podcasts.joerogan.net

Duncan Trussell is a stand-up comedian, and host of his own podcast "The Duncan Trussell Family Hour" available on Spotify. Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller Sex At Dawn.

Duncan Trussell is a stand-up comedian, and host of his own podcast “The Duncan Trussell Family Hour”, available on Spotify. Christopher Ryan, Ph.D. is a psychologist, speaker, and author of New York Times best seller "Sex At Dawn".