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6 episodes with Alain de Botton
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3 episodes with Alain de Botton
3 episodes with Alain de Botton
3 episodes with Alain de Botton
3 episodes with Alain de Botton
3 episodes with Alain de Botton
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The philosopher argues that as a culture, we'd be happier and saner if we re-examined our view of love, because our romantic notions can actually work against the relationships we want most. (R)Alain De Botton's novel from 2016 called The Course of Love challenges many assumptions about falling in love and what comes next.Alain first tackled the subject when he wrote Essays of Love in his early 20s.The episode of Conversations was first broadcast in 2016The producer was Michelle Ransom-Hughes and the Executive Producer was Pam O'Brien.To binge even more great episodes of the Conversations podcast with Richard Fidler and Sarah Kanowski go the ABC listen app (Australia) or wherever you get your podcasts. There you'll find hundreds of the best thought-provoking interviews with authors, writers, artists, politicians, psychologists, musicians, and celebrities.
In deze aflevering zetten we de bril op van de millennials: de generatie die opgroeide met de boodschap dat ze bijzonder zijn, hun talenten moeten benutten en het beste uit zichzelf moeten halen. Eva gaat op bezoek bij haar buurvrouw Valerie, een millennial die voluit leefde naar dat ideaal, tot ze merkte dat de druk van altijd meer, beter en zichtbaarder zijn haar geen geluk bracht. In de studio onderzoeken we waarom juist deze generatie zo hard wordt geraakt door burn-out en stress, en wat de keerzijde is van een opvoeding waarin alles mogelijk leek. Het gesprek leidt ons naar de kracht van goed genoeg zijn. Niet als excuus om het op te geven, maar als echte moed: de moed om een gewoon leven te leiden zonder de voortdurende drang om uitzonderlijk te zijn. Filosoof Alain De Botton noemt mensen die daarin slagen de emotionele superhelden van onze tijd. En ook ons Generatie Alpha-panel Peri en Ferre hebben daar hun eigen kijk op: zij weten al heel goed wat hun talenten zijn - en waarvoor ze die willen inzetten. Extra bronnen: Je kan zelf je talenten onderzoeken op mytalentbuilder.com met de code uit het boek ‘Ik kies voor mijn talent’ van Luk Dewulf Waarom zitten zoveel millenials thuis met een burn-out? Filmpje van Universiteit van Nederland door psycholoog Thijs Launspach Veel interessante input van Alain De Botton vind je op het youtube kanaal van The School of Life Siska Schoeters schreef het boek ‘Goed Genoeg. Opvoeden in tijden van hoge verwachtingen’ en heeft daar ook een podcast over Persoonlijke groei is een element van floreren volgens onderzoek van Carol Ryff, je leest er alles over in het boek ‘Leven om te floreren’ van Maaike Verstraete See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Making connections and building relationships in the age of social media is hard. Many of us are having to relearn what it means to really click with another person, beyond the swipe culture of dating apps and the pressure to live up to the ‘perfect' relationships we see online.Alain De Botton is a modern-day philosopher who founded the School of Life to help people understand the aspects of life we don't get taught at school. In this Great Moment, he explains how love doesn't just need closeness, it also needs distance, and how that space can help us better understand our partners. Listen to the full episode HERE!If you enjoyed the show, you can also follow us: Instagram- @greatcompanypodcastTikTok - @greatcompanypodcast And if you've got thoughts, questions and comments, you can email us at: greatcompany@jampotproductions.co.uk THE CREDITSExec Producer: Ewan Newbigging-Lister & Jemima RathboneProducer: Helen BurkeAssistant Producer: Issy Weeks-HankinsVideo: Jake JiSocial Media: Laura CoughlanGreat Company is an original podcast from JamPot Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
If you've ever felt like you're failing because you can't hold it together all the time — this conversation with philosopher and author Alain de Botton will change how you see yourself. Science confirms that happiness comes in 15-minute bursts, and the relentless pursuit of permanent calm is the very thing driving burnout in high-achieving women. You'll also discover the simple eight-minute text that could transform how you ask for help — and finally let the people who love you actually show up.Alain De Button in conversation with Sarah Ann Listen to the full episode here.Watch the full episode on YouTube here.***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.
In this episode, I review an interview between Sarah Macklin and Alain De Botton on heartbreak, its consequences, preventative measures to keep it from happening, and how to deal with it if it happens. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6KLxJxuphM&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=13To become a subscriber of this podcast, visit:https://anchor.fm/seth-hensley/subscribe
In this episode, I review an interview between Sarah Macklin and Alain De Botton on heartbreak, its consequences, preventative measures to keep it from happening, and how to deal with it if it happens. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6KLxJxuphM&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=13To become a subscriber of this podcast, visit:https://anchor.fm/seth-hensley/subscribe
Do you speak to yourself as kindly as you would to a friend? We examine how harsh inner voices are often carried from childhood and how a kinder stance can help when you mess up. This clip explores naming and dismissing that internal critic, the role of the ‘super ego', the limits of relying on a motivational whip, the creative costs of self-censorship, and why our biology makes criticism stick, even online. Alain De Button in conversation with Sarah Ann Listen to the full episode here.Watch the full episode on YouTube here.***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.
How can couples talk about hard feelings without hurting each other? This clip explores building a therapeutic atmosphere where jealousy, mixed feelings, and the need for space can be shared gently. Here, I'm discussing why self-understanding must come before communication, how “I feel” language respects two realities, and what an examined relationship means beyond formal therapy. We also consider going to bed on an argument, avoiding freeze-outs by returning to the table quickly, and setting WhatsApp rules to avoid aggravating anxious or avoidant attachment. Alain De Button in conversation with Sarah Ann Listen to the full episode here.Watch the full episode on YouTube here.***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.
Should everyone be treated equally?Many see populism with its focus on immigration and nationalism as not only politically dangerous but morally wrong. This reflects the universalist morality of the main Western moral frameworks. But critics argue moral universalism generates a case for favouring strangers over the interests of those close to us and that it is profoundly mistaken. In contrast, Chinese Confucian morality accepts partiality towards our nearest. Recent studies have shown that we do in practice favour those close to us, and moreover that we think we are morally right to do so.Alain de Botton is the best-selling philosopher and founder of The School of Life, an organisation dedicated to developing emotional intelligence through philosophy, psychotherapy, and culture. Seyla Benhabib is one of the most influential political philosophers of her generation and is the author of At the Margins of the Modern State. Tommy Curry is the Personal Chair of Africana Philosophy and Black Male Studies at the University of Edinburgh, renowned for his critical scholarship on the intersection of race, gender, and power. Alex O'Connor hosts.Don't hesitate to email us at podcast@iai.tv with your thoughts or questions on the episode!To witness such debates live buy tickets for our upcoming festival: https://howthelightgetsin.org/festivals/And visit our website for many more articles, videos, and podcasts like this one: https://iai.tv/You can find everything we referenced here: https://linktr.ee/philosophyforourtimesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this episode, I review a talk by Alain de Botton where he argues that we will all marry the wrong person and give you a different perspective than the one he presents. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjyk&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=8To become a subscriber of this podcast, visit:https://anchor.fm/seth-hensley/subscribe
In this episode, I review a talk by Alain de Botton where he argues that we will all marry the wrong person and give you a different perspective than the one he presents. To access the sources for this episode, visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EvvPZFdjyk&list=PLqXPXGGcbW9e3LOL4pjZ_iN2I9KBx8qX-&index=8To become a subscriber of this podcast, visit:https://anchor.fm/seth-hensley/subscribe
Do anxious and avoidant partners keep finding each other? Often, we're drawn to familiar dynamics and hope to solve old problems as adults. This clip explores the anxious-avoidant pattern, repetition compulsion, and why styles rarely change but can be managed. We discuss dialing conflicts down, naming your pattern early, and setting firm boundaries such as asking for regular check-ins. It also considers choosing calmer relationships over intense fireworks to support your nervous system. Watch the FULL podcast here: https://youtu.be/eTbA81qNYt4Alain De Button in conversation with Sarah Ann Listen to the full episode here.Watch the full episode on YouTube here.***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.
How long does heartbreak really last and what actually helps you heal? This clip explores heartbreak as a trauma that can take years, the call for real closure, and how unexplained breakups shatter trust and sense of self. I'm exploring with my guest the quieter, tragic view that not all pain becomes growth, even while we may learn boundaries and ask sharper questions. Here, I'm discussing the slow turn toward self-compassion, moving from siding with the rejector to being on your own side, and what recovery realistically looks like. Watch the FULL podcast here: https://youtu.be/eTbA81qNYt4***This episode is sponsored by:NOWATCH: The compassionate health trackerConnecting body and mind with unique stress recovery insights so you can live fully today15% off with code LWBW15 at https://nowatch.com/Mojo: the app for expert-led courses in better sex.Learn from world-class sex therapists and relationship experts with courses tailored to your needs.15% off with code LiveWell15 at mymojo.com/livewellbewell***The Great British Veg OutHow to support your gut, energy, and hormones by eating more — not less.
Eksik Olan'ın bu bölümünde Say yayınlarından çıkan Alain de Botton'un Felsefenin Tesellisi kitabının ikinci kısmı ele alınıyor. Ömer Çeşit ve Alp Kozanoğlu, Montaigne, Schopenhauer ve Nietzsche üzerinden mutluluk, hayatın anlamı, kırık kalp acısı ve teselli kavramını tartışıyor. Filozoflar, insanın bedeninin ve bilinçdışının etkisi altında olduğunu; mutluluğun ve kontrolün bizde olduğu fikrinin çoğu zaman yanıltıcı olduğunu söylüyor. Hayatta kesin olan belki de tek şey: teselli. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We spend so much of our lives trying to be impressive. We polish our edges and hide our cracks because we're terrified that being "real" means being weak. But what if the very things we are hiding are actually the only bridges to real connection? It is a scary thought, but one that completely changes how we show up in the world.Here's what we explore together:- Why being "invulnerable" is sometimes just as important as being open and how to know the difference.- How accepting your own foolishness can actually make you invincible to humiliation.- Why we feel "boring" with some people and alive with others and why it is not your fault.- How to use curiosity to metabolize pain and crisis into understanding.- Why following your "gut" in love can sometimes lead you straight into disaster.- Why the truth sometimes needs to be delivered in "small pieces" to be heard.- Why a functioning relationship is the most difficult achievement of a human life.- How to find a path that fits your unique nature in a world that wants you to conform.Love, Sarah Ann
Happy New Year's Eve! As we get ready for a new year, I wanted to revisit one of my all-time favourite episodes of Great Company with the incredible Alain de Botton. I've been lucky enough to sit down with Alain not once, but twice on the show and every time I speak to him, I come away feeling calmer, a little wiser and thinking about life in a new way. I keep coming back to this episode because every time I do, I take something new from it. Alain's insights into human connection, love and emotional growth are fascinating. They've shaped how I think about my relationships, my friendships and what it really means to grow into the best version of ourselves. We cover: How to navigate heartbreak Why our childhood is so informative on the rest of our lives Why funny people often have sad parents How attachment styles and past experiences can shape the way we love What actually is the meaning of life This conversation is a gentle reminder that becoming a “new you” often starts with understanding the old one.Alain De Botton is Great Company. If you enjoyed the show, you can also follow us: Instagram- @greatcompanypodcastTikTok - @greatcompanypodcast And if you've got thoughts, questions and comments, you can email us at: greatcompany@jampotproductions.co.uk THE CREDITS Executive Producers: Ewan Newbigging-Lister & Jemima RathboneProducer: Helen BurkeAssistant Producer: Issy Weeks-HankinsVideo: Jake Ji & Josh BennettSocial Media: Laura Coughlan Great Company is an original podcast from JamPot Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Alain de Botton is a philosopher, bestselling author, and cofounder of The School of Life, known for his fearless engagement with the complexity of human existence. In this special episode, Adam co-hosts alongside former guest RaQuel Hopkins, a therapist, social media star, and fan of Alain's work. They discuss the roots of and remedies for status anxiety. They also discuss the loneliness and dissatisfaction that many people experience in the quest for happiness and examine how we've lost the plot on therapy.Host & GuestAdam Grant (Instagram: @adamgrant | LinkedIn: @adammgrant | Website: https://adamgrant.net/)Alain de Botton (Website: https://www.alaindebotton.com/)Follow TED! X: https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tedFacebook: https://facebook.com/TEDLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferencesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks Podcasts: https://www.ted.com/podcastsFor the full text transcript, visit ted.com/podcasts/worklife/worklife-with-adam-grant-transcripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Alain de Botton is a philosopher, bestselling author, and cofounder of The School of Life, known for his fearless engagement with the complexity of human existence. In this special episode, Adam co-hosts alongside former guest RaQuel Hopkins, a therapist, social media star, and fan of Alain's work. They discuss the roots of and remedies for status anxiety. They also discuss the loneliness and dissatisfaction that many people experience in the quest for happiness and examine how we've lost the plot on therapy.Host & GuestAdam Grant (Instagram: @adamgrant | LinkedIn: @adammgrant | Website: https://adamgrant.net/)Alain de Botton (Website: https://www.alaindebotton.com/)Follow TED! X: https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tedFacebook: https://facebook.com/TEDLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferencesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks Podcasts: https://www.ted.com/podcastsFor the full text transcript, visit ted.com/podcasts/rethinking-with-adam-grant-transcriptsReThinking is produced by Cosmic Standard. Our Senior Producer is Jessica Glazer, our Engineer is Aja Simpson, our Technical Director is Jacob Winik, and our Executive Producer is Eliza Smith. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Eksik Olan'da bu hafta Alp Kozanoğlu ile Ömer Çeşit, Alain de Botton'ın "Felsefenin Tesellisi" adlı kitabı üzerine konuşuyor. Kozanoğlu ve Çeşit kitaptan yola çıkarak Antik Yunan ve Roma dönemi filozoflarının düşüncelerinin günümüz insanına nasıl teselli ve yaşam rehberliği sunabileceğini değerlendiriyor. Dostluk, mutluluk, özgürlük, demokrasi, arzu ve “iyi nedir?” sorusu etrafında antik felsefenin bugünün hayatına sunduğu teselliler tartışılıyor. Sokratik yöntem, Stoacılık ve Epikürcülük ışığında felsefenin neden rahatsız ederek güçlendirdiği, insanı nasıl daha bilinçli ve özgür kıldığı derinlikli bir sohbetle inceleniyor. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Get tickets for my UK tour here.Alain de Botton is the creator of The School of Life. A Swiss-born British author and public speaker, his books discuss various contemporary subjects and themes, emphasising philosophy's relevance to everyday life.
Why we worship without knowing itWhat should be included within the remit of philosophy? Religion? Love? Hair? Join well-known public speakers and writers Alain de Botton and Alex O'Connor as they talk through what philosophy can offer us, why we should study love, and what the role of religion is in philosophy and in our lives. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Popular philosopher Alain de Botton on life, death, the role of philosophy in contemporary life, love, anger, decision-making, pleasure, happiness, success, and ignorance.
Modern Wisdom: Read the notes at at podcastnotes.org. Don't forget to subscribe for free to our newsletter, the top 10 ideas of the week, every Monday --------- Alain de Botton is a philosopher, author, and founder of The School of Life. How can we truly understand ourselves? Most of us either ignore our emotions or overthink them, turning simple feelings into complex puzzles. So how do we navigate the minefield of emotion to grow and become better? Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D, and more from AG1 at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get $100 off the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Main website: https://www.theschooloflife.com/ Newsletter sign up: https://www.theschooloflife.com/signup/ Shop: https://shop.theschooloflife.com/ Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Alain de Botton is a philosopher, author, and founder of The School of Life. How can we truly understand ourselves? Most of us either ignore our emotions or overthink them, turning simple feelings into complex puzzles. So how do we navigate the minefield of emotion to grow and become better? Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get Free Travel Packs, Free Liquid Vitamin D, and more from AG1 at https://ag1.info/modernwisdom Get $100 off the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Neal Brennan interviews Alain de Botton (The School of Life) about the things that make him feel lonely, isolated, and like something's wrong - and how he is persevering despite these blocks. Subscribe to the School of Life: @theschooloflifetv 00:00 Intro 00:33 Philosophy as self-therapy 3:24 ‘Status Anxiety' & Career Snobbery 5:30 You Will Marry the Wrong Person 11:40 The Tragedy of Baldness 14:02 Philosopher to Psychotherapy 16:55 Healing 19:50 Putting Your Wound To Use 20:40 Self-Pity 27:35 Difficulty of Changing 30:33 Love 32:36 Religion & Spirituality 40:14 Fatherhood 44:27 How The School of Life is Advice to Himself 45:49 Friendship 49:00 Neal & Alain become friends 50:28 Sponsor: BetterHelp 52:30 Sponsor: Huel 55:45 Love vs. Friendship 57:10 Ending Relationships 1:00:30 Advice & Wisdom 1:03:50 What Constitutes a “Good Friend” 1:08:50 Need for Validation 1:12:30 Sponsor: Tushy 1:15:42 Sponsor: Fitbod 1:18:27 What He Wishes He Could Do-Over 1:19:55 Being Flawed 1:21:35 American Ambition 1:23:55 Starting a Monestary 1:26:02 Panic 1:31:50 Philosophy as a Defense-Mechanism 1:33:40 Who Knows Themselves? 1:38:34 Reacting to his own quotes 2:01:40 Outro ---------------------------------------------------------- Follow Neal Brennan: https://www.instagram.com/nealbrennan https://twitter.com/nealbrennan https://www.tiktok.com/@mrnealbrennan Watch Neal Brennan: Crazy Good on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81728557 Watch Neal Brennan: Blocks on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/81036234 Theme music by Electric Guest (unreleased). Edited by Will Hagle ---------------------------------------------------------- Sponsors: https://www.betterhelp.com/NEAL for 10% off your first month https://www.huel.com promo code NEAL for 15% off for new customershttps://www.hellotushy.com promo code NEAL for 10% off your first bidet orderhttps://www.fitbod.me/NEAL for 20% off your subscription Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Philosopher and bestselling author Alain de Botton invites us to completely rethink what success really means. This profound and therapeutic conversation explores how true high performance isn't about external achievement, but about realising your unique potential and finding peace within yourself.Alain challenges the obsession with being “special,” explaining why accepting our ordinariness can be the most liberating idea of all. He also discusses how envy can reveal our hidden potential, how we lose touch with our true selves by trying to please others, and why moments of crisis or even pain can be the body's search for balance.This is a deeply human exploration of ambition, self-worth, and acceptance, an invitation to define success on your own terms.Heights
Questions, suggestions, or feedback? Send us a message!Our guest this week is Alain de Botton. Alain is a London based writer and psychotherapist. His first book, Essays in Love was published when he was 23 years old and went on to sell two million copies. His books emphasise philosophy's relevance to everyday life. Other bestsellers include How Proust Can Change Your Life (1997), Status Anxiety (2004), and The Architecture of Happiness (2006).He's written 15 books under his name and many more under The School of Life imprint, which have become bestsellers in 30 countries. He is not just a writer, but also an organizer of ideas and institutions.He founded The School Of Life in 2008, which is dedicated to help people lead more emotionally intelligent lives – through classes, books, games, therapy, films, articles, their app, and their podcast. Their website says, everything they do supports self-knowledge, better relationships, and brings calm to modern life.His public profile emphasises his desire to bridge intellectual ideas into a lived experience.We talk about:2 and a half friends is plenty A more rigorous approach to friendshipDifferent types of friends - from the teasing to the mirco Platonic sleepoversOne way friends Enemies of friendship The bravery of being weird Good substitutes for friendsLet's make friends!Web: www.whereshallwemeet.xyzTwitter: @whrshallwemeetInstagram: @whrshallwemeet
Following on from episode 57, we delve further into the dark world of Axel Rudakubana and the horrific attack(s) he perpetrated in sunny Southport last July. This time, Antony provides more details of the sometimes bizarre events surrounding the attack (without dwelling on the gory details), and also the media framing of the killer and the handling of this shocking ongoing ‘story'. On this latter point, we are aided by a few paragraphs from Alain De Botton's ‘The News: A User's Manual', which looks at the strange and compulsive relationship most of us have with the telling to us of the apparently most important events in a vast and complex world. The Southport Inquiry is currently taking place in Liverpool, and part 2 will reveal more details and context from the wealth of information that the inquiry is providing on a daily basis. As with the previous episode, there is also brief mention of the Lucy Letby case and John Lennon's killer, Mark David Chapman. We hope you enjoy the show! If so, please subscribe, like, share etc... Feedback to lifeandlifeonlypod@gmail.com Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/lifeandlife75 Twitter https://twitter.com/lifeonly75 Support the show at: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/antonyrotunno OR https://www.buymeacoffee.com/antonyrotunno Antony's website (blog, music, podcasts, life coaching) https://www.antonyrotunno.com Antony's John Lennon podcast https://glassoniononjohnlennon.com If you are interested in very affordable Life Coaching, or know someone who might be, you can contact Antony on lifeandlifeonlypod@gmail.com episode links Previous LALO episode on the case https://lifeandlifeonly.podbean.com/e/episode-57-axel-rudakubana-explaining-the-unexplainable/ Axel Rudakubana in a BBC Children In Need advert 2018 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5wc1WqGScg ‘One Day In Southport' documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4mR2HUeUxE&t=116s Axel's Taxi ride and the arrival of the police https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72kZoJTw5FE The policemen on the scene's testimonies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dW6eFZU66wQ Axel Rudakubana arrest video and Craig Houston's take on it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5ye387OZYM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxWO6gH1Tss Joel Verite testimony https://news.sky.com/video/man-describes-coming-face-to-face-with-southport-knife-attacker-13187561 Axel restrained by classmates at school https://www.youtube.com/shorts/OaiB03ZcYo0 Alain De Botton's ‘The News: A User's Manual (book link and Google talk by the author) https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18282869-the-news https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4aAJrJB6h0 Media fakery? (different video to the one mentioned in the episode) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tocuyJ1Fu7U ‘Lucy Letby Analysis' (highly recommended you tube channel) https://www.youtube.com/@LLAnalysis/videos
Welcome to this brand-new concept for How to Fail – where I dive into the back catalogue of the How to Fail archives, highlighting specific themes each week to bring you bitesize takeaways! Hopefully these episodes can bring some clarity on similar issues you're facing or great stories that you might find comfort from. This week we're looking at heartbreak. You'll hear a highlight from my conversation with philosopher Alain de Botton, originally released in October 2019, who shares wise and insightful advice on how to process and understand heartbreak. Secondly, we hear from Jay Shetty, whose episode originally broadcast in May 2023, and gives incredibly validating advice and support for anyone who might have experienced heartbreak of any kind. I hope that this episode will be a beacon of light to anyone who has been or is currently going through this! Listen to Alain de Botton's full episode of How to Fail here: https://link.chtbl.com/RBaS4VUy Listen to Jay Shetty's full episode of How to Fail here: https://link.chtbl.com/-nR18lfT
We live in a culture that often celebrates the ‘perfect' relationship but does little to prepare us for the reality of long-term commitment. Modern life is filled with idealised images of love and marriage – but the truth, as this week's returning guest suggests, is far more human, messy and ultimately hopeful. I'm delighted to welcome Alain de Botton back to the podcast. Alain is an author, internationally acclaimed philosopher and founder of The School of Life, a hugely popular education and wellness organisation that provides guidance on how to achieve happiness and fulfilment. His latest book, ‘From Trauma to Healing: How to Locate, Process and Recover From Psychological Wounds' helps us understand what trauma is, how it affects us and what we can do about it. During this incredible conversation, we discuss: Why the idea that we will “marry the right person” sets us up for disappointment How our childhood experiences shape who we're drawn to as adults The hidden cost of perfectionism in relationships The cultural myths about soulmates, instant understanding and effortless romance, and how these ideas can undermine lasting love How unprocessed trauma can resurface in our closest relationships, and why learning to communicate our needs is an essential skill The surprising role that distance, independence and time apart can play in sustaining desire and intimacy There's something deeply reassuring in knowing that love doesn't have to look like the stories we grew up with. And by letting go of these cultural myths and by embracing each other's flaws, we improve not only our relationships, but also how happy and contented we feel. I hope you enjoy listening. Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Thanks to our sponsors: https://drinkag1.com/livemore https://calm.com/livemore https://join.whoop.com/livemore http://www.vivobarefoot.com/livemore Show notes https://drchatterjee.com/574 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.
To mark 20 years of Design Matters, Debbie Millman revisits some of her most memorable conversations with acclaimed non-fiction writers Lisa Taddeo, Malcolm Gladwell, Anne Lamott, Maria Konnikova, and Alain de Botton. This anniversary collection captures the insight, candor, and wisdom of five extraordinary thinkers whose work continues to shape how we see ourselves and the world around us.For a chance to give your own TED Talk, fill out the Idea Search Application: ted.com/ideasearch. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Alain de Botton came on the show one year ago and totally blew me away. We spoke about relationships with parents, partners, attachment styles and so much more. And now he's back and we're talking all about a relationships we often overlook but is potentially one of the most important in our lives: friendship.Alain artfully dissects the issues we run into with deepening our friendships, why it's so scary to vulnerable but how and why letting people in can lead us to a richer life. We cover:How to open up to having more meaningful friendshipsSexual anxiety in friendship particularly among menHow polyamory could be born from a lack of real friendshipFriendship break-ups and why they can be a good thingWhy people might be bad friendsHow to argue well in relationshipsAs expected, my mind was well and truly blown again. This conversation reminded me we can all have richer relationships if we take down our guards and ask the questions we really want to be asked.If you enjoyed the show, you can also follow us:Instagram - www.instagram.com/greatcompanypodcastTikTok - www.tiktok.com/@greatcompanypodcastAnd if you've got thoughts, questions and comments, you can email us at greatcompany@jampotproductions.co.ukIf you'd like to get Alain's latest book, 'The Secrets of Successful Friendships', you can find it here: shop.theschooloflife.com/products/the-secrets-of-successful-friendshipsYou can also hear more about The School Of Life here: www.theschooloflife.com/signup/And I'm also releasing a book, ‘Boys Don't Cry' which you can pre-order here: https://boysdontcry.co.uk/--THE CREDITSExec Producer: Jemima RathboneVideo: Jake JiAudio: Rafi AmsiliSocial Media: Laura Coughlan & Anthony BarterGreat Company is an original podcast from JamPot Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Alain de Botton is a philosopher, author, and the founder of The School of Life. He is known for his insights into the intersection of philosophy, love, and the modern world, often exploring how societal structures impact mental well-being. In today's Moments episode, Alain explores the psychological toll of living in an individualistic, meritocratic society. He reflects on the regression in mental health despite societal progress, and how ancient views could offer us a healthier path. Listen to the full episode here! Spotify: https://g2ul0.app.link/Dy8GbYDXDVb Apple: https://g2ul0.app.link/tmgaYAJXDVb Watch the episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
After our journey in part 1 into anxiety and depression, we follow Matt Haig's recovery, as detailed in his fine book ‘Reasons To Stay Alive', and talk about all the great stuff in life, both big and small, with a little help from some of Antony's friends and family -thanks again to all contributors- as he approaches his half century (hence the title). Along the way, we explore regrets of the dying, how a healthy attitude to death can enhance our lives, and those moments of ‘the sublime' that we experience a lot as children but seem to ‘grow out of' as we pass into adulthood. Declutter your soul, travel, take some exercise, express gratitude, stroke an animal, do whatever works… We hope you enjoy the show! If so, please subscribe, like, share etc... Feedback to lifeandlifeonlypod@gmail.com Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/lifeandlife75 Twitter https://twitter.com/lifeonly75 Support the show at: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/antonyrotunno OR https://www.buymeacoffee.com/antonyrotunno Antony's website (blog, music, podcasts, life coaching) https://www.antonyrotunno.com Antony's John Lennon podcast https://glassoniononjohnlennon.com If you are interested in very affordable Life Coaching, or know someone who might be, you can contact Antony on lifeandlifeonlypod@gmail.com episode links ‘Reasons To Stay Alive' by Matt Haig https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25733573-reasons-to-stay-alive Stephen Fry's 2-part documentary ‘The Secret Life of the Manic Depressive' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtImgnj5DN0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ECv-24Ruu-o Learning from ‘Regrets of the Dying' https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cop-doc/202301/learning-from-the-top-5-regrets-of-the-dying The benefits of spending time with animals https://travelswithbibi.com/the-benefits-of-spending-time-with-animals An Uplifting Conversation about depression (LALO 28) https://lifeandlifeonly.podbean.com/e/episode-28-an-uplifting-conversation-about-depression The link between depression and creativity https://www.verywellmind.com/the-link-between-depression-and-creativity-5094193 Robert Greene on ‘The Sublime' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FGMq4T7G0Mk The universe is way bigger than you think https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iy7NzjCmUf0 Derealisation https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/depersonalization-derealization-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20352911 How To Resist Advertising https://www.rationalhumanbeing.com/blog/how-to-resist-advertising-even-when-you-cant-escape-it F**k It: The Ultimate Spiritual Way https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4837266-f-k-it Derren Brown's book ‘Happy' https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/30142270-happy Alain De Botton on ‘The News' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4aAJrJB6h0 Bill Hicks- It's Just A Ride https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgzQuE1pR1w
I interviewed Alain de Botton, a philosopher and writer who has turned personal pain into universal wisdom. He's written dozens of books and built The School of Life into a YouTube channel with nearly 10 million subscribers, but the thing that makes him unique is that he approaches writing as a form of emotional archaeology. We talked about why good writing requires suffering, why loneliness is essential to the creative process, and how writing is actually a form of revenge. He also shared his approach to writer's block and why he believes the pressure is on us creatives to deepen our self-exploration. If you want to understand how to write with emotional honesty and create work that genuinely connects with people, this conversation will show you a completely different way to think about the craft. Enjoy! Hey! I'm David Perell and I'm a writer, teacher, and podcaster. I believe writing online is one of the biggest opportunities in the world today. For the first time in human history, everybody can freely share their ideas with a global audience. I seek to help as many people publish their writing online as possible. Follow me Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-i-write/id1700171470 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DavidPerellChannel X: https://x.com/david_perell Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Alain de Botton, philosopher, author, and founder of The School of Life, joins the Giant Ideas show today. The School of Life provides emotional education to help people lead more fulfilled lives.Alain is a world-renowned philosopher and public speaker, and has shaped much of the discourse of 21st century philosophy and emotional introspection. He is the author of over 20 books - from novels like Essays in Love, to non-fiction books like Religion for Atheists, Art as Therapy, and Status Anxiety. Today we're talking about status and success - what is it? Why does it drive us? Can we be happy and want success? And is it ok to be... ordinary?Building a purpose driven company? Read more about Giant Ventures at www.Giant.vc.Music credits: Bubble King written and produced by Cameron McLain and Stevan Cablayan aka Vector_XING. Please note: The content of this podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. It should not be considered financial, legal, or investment advice. Always consult a licensed professional before making any investment decisions.
This new Essential Habits series breaks down the key habits behind high performance, one episode at a time. This week's habit is deceptively simple: asking better questions.Philosopher Alain de Botton joins us to explore how a single, uncomfortable question, “How have I annoyed you?” can deepen trust, defuse tension, and create stronger connections in every part of life.Whether it's at home, at work, or with close friends, we often avoid the conversations that would help us grow. Alain shows us a different way, one built on emotional generosity, honest listening, and the courage to be vulnerable.In this episode, we explore:Why awkward questions build trustHow to listen without getting defensiveThe science behind emotional connectionWhat high-performing teams can learn from philosophyThe hidden power of backstories and being 'truly heard'Here is a list of studies referenced in the episode:The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness. Arthur Aron, Elaine Aron (1997)Understanding the conversation gap: Why employees aren't talking, and what we can do about it (Braverly), referenced in How to Navigate Difficult Conversations with Employees. Harvard Negotiation Project Rejection Really Hurts, published in Science (Oct 2003). University Of California - Los AngelesDaring Greatly by Brené BrownListen to the full episode with Alain De Botton here: https://pod.fo/e/1f5db0
Have you ever wondered why, despite all our modern comforts, so many of us still struggle with unhappiness and anxiety? What if a more fulfilling life isn't about constant positivity but rather a form of ‘cheerful pessimism'? Feel Better Live More Bitesize is my weekly podcast for your mind, body, and heart. Each week I'll be featuring inspirational stories and practical tips from some of my former guests. Today's clip is from episode 495 of the podcast with author, internationally renowned philosopher, and founder of The School of Life, the wonderful Alain de Botton. Alain is known for his thoughtful, often humorous take on the complexities of modern life. In this clip, Alain explains a concept that he calls ‘cheerful pessimism' which challenges what he describes as the modern obsession with happiness and introduces the idea that a more melancholic outlook to life might actually lead to greater fulfilment. His message of hope and understanding about the shared human experience of suffering and complexity is both comforting and inspiring and his thoughtful and practical strategies offer a roadmap for anyone seeking a more authentic and meaningful life. Alain's latest book: A Therapeutic Journey: Lessons From The School of Life. Thanks to our sponsor https://www.drinkag1.com/livemore Show notes and the full podcast are available at https://drchatterjee.com/495 Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to constitute or be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website
Today, Alain De Botton discusses how our romantic assumptions have destroyed our capacity to love. No one is normal. Everyone is crazy. Don't trust your instincts. Turn your bedroom into a classroom.Source: How We Destroyed Our Capacity to Love | Alain de Botton | Google ZeitgeistHosted by Sean CroxtonFollow me on Instagram
Podcast Description:In this episode, the conversation unfolds as a deep dive into the challenges of modern adulthood, exploring personal growth, societal expectations, and the evolving landscape of energy and technology. The discussion begins with reflections on gratitude and the complexities of "adulting," shedding light on the responsibilities and decisions that shape our lives.The conversation then shifts to the joys and challenges of traveling, highlighting how exploration can influence our perspectives and personal development. The hosts explore the future of energy, discussing sustainability, innovation, and the impact of these changes on daily life. They also touch on the feeling of having "no choice" in certain situations and how mindset plays a crucial role in navigating limitations.As the discussion continues, they examine the emotional toll of modern life, including the concept of "personate" and the mental energy required for decision-making. The risks of letting go, career uncertainties, and the intersection of social media with the education system further add to the thought-provoking dialogue.Finally, the conversation turns toward the rise of AI, the responsibility of making decisions for future generations, and the contrast between childhood and adulthood. The episode wraps up with an exploration of children's energy—how it differs from adults' and what lessons can be learned from their unfiltered enthusiasm for life.Through it all, the hosts offer insights into navigating an ever-changing world, embracing uncertainty, and finding balance in the journey of life.00:00 Intro02:58 Thank you03:37 Adulting05:06 Traveling10:47 Energy for the future12:45 No choice13:39 Personate23:50 Mental energy25:17 Risk of letting go27:52 No job31:20 Social media and the school system33:56 AI movement39:34 Decisions for your kids42:30 Childhood vs. adulthood47:45 Energy of childrenGuest Bio:Although perhaps best known for her work as a sports tv presenter, Alexandra has over 15 years of experience as a yoga, meditation and mindset teacher. After a rather innocuous fall, resulting in a broken spine, 3 prolapsed discs and a dislocated pelvis, doctors discovered she had a severe degenerative disc disease and was told she would never be able to do any form of high impact or heavy load exercise again. So she focussed instead on yoga, meditation and her mindset. Within a few months it became apparent that the benefits she gained from practising yoga would not just be physical, but mental. Within 6 months, Alex was stronger physically and mentally than ever before. While she now still endures pain, it is manageable, predominantly, she feels, as a result of having a new positive relationship with her body. She went on to train as a teacher in India and has since travelled the world teaching yoga in some wonderful places. She has also written and created 6 top selling beginners yoga dvds, and reached #1 on the Amazon UK fitness charts.Alex is also a qualified Integrative Psychotherapist and combines her love and knowledge of the holistic world with psychotherapy. She created the Mindset Group Ltd and runs a yearly, very popular wellbeing festival in Wokingham as well as many other wellbeing events - Upcoming events: 1st Feb - Unfiltered Sessions: Winter Reset at South Hill Park, Bracknell, Berkshire For more info www.mindsetunlimited.co.uk www.alexandralegouix.comStay Connected:Follow Oliver on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliverWant to regain control of your life from modern-day stress, anxiety, and influence?Check out my FREE course - take control! http://www.talkwitholiver.com#Tagsself improvement, Time Management, Motivation, mental health, Financial Literacy, Growth Mindset, Personal Development, philosop
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Alain de Botton, le fondateur de the School of Life, est l'un des penseurs contemporains les plus brillants au monde sur l'amour et les relations humaines. Autant vous dire que je suis super excité de sortir cet épisode totalement excité de sortir cet épisode pour la Saint Valentin!Son livre "the course of love" ma beaucoup accompagné il y a des années et la suite de ses travaux encore plus.C'est sans doute l'un des penseurs les plus articulés sur le sujet par ailleurs.Il propose une approche lucide et profondément humaine des dynamiques amoureuses.Dans cet épisode, nous avons exploré ensemble les 20 à 30 questions les plus importantes sur l'amour. Pourquoi tombons-nous amoureux ? Comment éviter de répéter les mêmes schémas destructeurs ? Le mythe de l'âme sœur nous empêche-t-il d'être heureux ? Pourquoi la passion s'étiole-t-elle avec le temps ?J'ai interrogé Alain sur les paradoxes de l'amour moderne : l'influence des applications de rencontres, la difficulté d'accepter les imperfections de l'autre, la complexité du pardon après une infidélité, et bien d'autres sujets essentiels.Un échange fascinant qui éclaire nos attentes souvent irréalistes sur l'amour et nous invite à une approche plus consciente et apaisée des relations.Voici 5 choses marquantes dont il parle par exemple : « Nous ne sommes pas attirés par le bonheur, mais par le familier. »« Tout le monde est un peu fou. Ce qui compte, c'est la capacité à reconnaître et gérer cette folie. »« L'amour n'est pas une question d'intuition, mais de lucidité et d'efforts. »« Nous voulons un amour sans friction, mais la friction est ce qui nous fait grandir. »« La pire chose dans une rupture, ce n'est pas la douleur, c'est de ne pas comprendre pourquoi. »Voici 10 questions que l'on traite par exemple :Comment le mythe de l'âme sœur influence-t-il notre vision de l'amour ?Pourquoi sommes-nous attirés par des partenaires qui reproduisent nos schémas familiaux ?Les "papillons dans le ventre" sont-ils un bon indicateur d'une relation saine ?Pourquoi certaines personnes sabotent-elles inconsciemment leurs relations amoureuses ?L'amour peut-il durer ou est-il condamné à s'éteindre avec le temps ?Comment surmonter une rupture amoureuse sans sombrer dans l'idéalisation de l'autre ?Peut-on vraiment pardonner une infidélité ? Et si oui, comment ?Pourquoi tant d'hommes en couple cherchent-ils aujourd'hui des relations ouvertes ?Quel impact les attentes irréalistes ont-elles sur la solidité d'un couple ?Pourquoi certaines personnes restent-elles dans des relations toxiques malgré la souffrance ?Timelaps. :00:00 – Introduction et présentation d'Alain de Botton02:25 – Le mythe de l'âme sœur et ses dangers06:54 – Pourquoi tombe-t-on amoureux ? L'influence du passé10:59 – Les papillons dans le ventre : excitation ou peur déguisée ?17:52 – L'amour dure-t-il vraiment trois ans ?20:08 – Quelles attentes réalistes avoir dans une relation ?29:54 – Les relations modernes et l'impact du digital33:28 – L'amour est-il une compétence ? Comment la développer ?38:50 – Pourquoi les hommes ont-ils plus de mal à exprimer leurs émotions ?46:30 – Peut-on vraiment changer dans une relation ? Suggestion d'autres épisodes à écouter : Vlan #40 Les relations amoureuses à l'ère digitale avec Esther Perel (https://audmns.com/FGuIRnh) #264 Réinventer les relations amoureuses libérées des contraintes sociales avec Franck & Vanessa Lopvet (https://audmns.com/hEsJSqT) #273 Faire durer le sexe dans le couple avec Anne et Jean François Descombe (https://audmns.com/FEKTJuP)
Alain de Botton, le fondateur de the School of Life, est l'un des penseurs contemporains les plus brillants au monde sur l'amour et les relations humaines. Autant vous dire que je suis super excité de sortir cet épisode totalement excité de sortir cet épisode pour la Saint Valentin!Son livre "the course of love" ma beaucoup accompagné il y a des années et la suite de ses travaux encore plus.C'est sans doute l'un des penseurs les plus articulés sur le sujet par ailleurs.Il propose une approche lucide et profondément humaine des dynamiques amoureuses.Dans cet épisode, nous avons exploré ensemble les 20 à 30 questions les plus importantes sur l'amour. Pourquoi tombons-nous amoureux ? Comment éviter de répéter les mêmes schémas destructeurs ? Le mythe de l'âme sœur nous empêche-t-il d'être heureux ? Pourquoi la passion s'étiole-t-elle avec le temps ?J'ai interrogé Alain sur les paradoxes de l'amour moderne : l'influence des applications de rencontres, la difficulté d'accepter les imperfections de l'autre, la complexité du pardon après une infidélité, et bien d'autres sujets essentiels.Un échange fascinant qui éclaire nos attentes souvent irréalistes sur l'amour et nous invite à une approche plus consciente et apaisée des relations.Voici 5 choses marquantes dont il parle par exemple : « Nous ne sommes pas attirés par le bonheur, mais par le familier. »« Tout le monde est un peu fou. Ce qui compte, c'est la capacité à reconnaître et gérer cette folie. »« L'amour n'est pas une question d'intuition, mais de lucidité et d'efforts. »« Nous voulons un amour sans friction, mais la friction est ce qui nous fait grandir. »« La pire chose dans une rupture, ce n'est pas la douleur, c'est de ne pas comprendre pourquoi. »Voici 10 questions que l'on traite par exemple :Comment le mythe de l'âme sœur influence-t-il notre vision de l'amour ?Pourquoi sommes-nous attirés par des partenaires qui reproduisent nos schémas familiaux ?Les "papillons dans le ventre" sont-ils un bon indicateur d'une relation saine ?Pourquoi certaines personnes sabotent-elles inconsciemment leurs relations amoureuses ?L'amour peut-il durer ou est-il condamné à s'éteindre avec le temps ?Comment surmonter une rupture amoureuse sans sombrer dans l'idéalisation de l'autre ?Peut-on vraiment pardonner une infidélité ? Et si oui, comment ?Pourquoi tant d'hommes en couple cherchent-ils aujourd'hui des relations ouvertes ?Quel impact les attentes irréalistes ont-elles sur la solidité d'un couple ?Pourquoi certaines personnes restent-elles dans des relations toxiques malgré la souffrance ?Timelaps. :00:00 – Introduction : Peut-on vraiment comprendre l'amour ?00:12 – Changer la dynamique d'un couple, est-ce possible ?02:30 – Pourquoi la maturité émotionnelle est essentielle en amour05:44 – L'incompréhension dans le couple : quand faut-il partir ?05:52 – Désir et routine : comment raviver la flamme ?08:15 – Relations ouvertes et polyamorie : une illusion dangereuse ?10:57 – Pourquoi les hommes veulent-ils des relations ouvertes ?12:43 – Pourquoi la plupart des histoires d'amour finissent trop tôt15:16 – Passion et amour durable : incompatible ?16:44 – De l'amour à l'indifférence : pourquoi on devient des étrangers17:46 – Rupture et deuil amoureux : pourquoi c'est si douloureux19:00 – Les pires façons de quitter quelqu'un21:16 – Rester ami avec son ex : bonne ou mauvaise idée ?22:47 – Comment arrêter d'aimer quelqu'un ?25:30 – Avoir un enfant : un choc pour le couple28:19 – Faut-il rester ensemble pour les enfants ?30:10 – Comment savoir si c'est vraiment fini ?32:17 – Peut-on vraiment changer pour sauver son couple ?33:52 – Infidélité : faut-il tout avouer ?35:39 – Accepter la "folie" de l'autre dans une relation39:00 – Conclusion : comprendre l'amour pour mieux aimer
Alain de Botton is a philosopher, author, and founder of The School of Life Healing yourself is one of the most transformative journeys you can undertake. From nurturing your inner voice to improving relationships, how can we embrace healing to not only grow personally but also show up better for those around us? Expect to learn where bad inner voices come from and how to hear a negative voice, why we struggle to connect with our emotions, if there is a danger of intellectualising challenges of emotion for smart people, Alain's advice for obsessive people who want to let go a little more, advice for an anxious person dealing with an avoidant one, why we get stuck in unhappy relationships, how to improve your self worth and much more... Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: https://chriswillx.com/deals Get $350 off the Pod 4 Ultra at https://eightsleep.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get a Free Sample Pack of all LMNT Flavours with your first purchase at https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom Get a 20% discount on the best supplements from Momentous at https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom Get the best bloodwork analysis in America at https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom Extra Stuff: Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: https://chriswillx.com/books Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: https://tinyurl.com/43hv6y59 #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: https://tinyurl.com/2rtz7avf #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: https://tinyurl.com/3ccn5vkp - Get In Touch: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
You want wisdom? Here's five bucketfuls of Wisdom poured into your ears. Britain's top philosopher Alain de Botton sits down with Russell and, well, it's an absolute belter.
Have you ever wondered why, despite all our modern comforts, so many of us still struggle with unhappiness and anxiety? What if a more fulfilling life isn't about constant positivity but rather a form of ‘cheerful pessimism'? Today's guest is Alain de Botton. Alain is the founder of The School of Life, a hugely popular education and wellness organisation that provides guidance on how to achieve happiness and fulfilment. He is also an internationally renowned philosopher and the author of multiple books including his very latest: A Therapeutic Journey: Lessons From The School of Life. In this conversation, we delve deep into the complexities of modern life and the importance of love, empathy and tolerance in addressing societal problems. Alain introduces the concept of ‘attuned care' in childhood and explains why a lack of it can show up in our adult behaviours and relationships. Alain also explains a concept that he calls ‘cheerful pessimism' which challenges what he describes as the modern obsession with happiness and introduces the idea that a more melancholic outlook to life, might actually lead to greater fulfilment. We also discuss the value of inner reflection, the truth about modern anxiety and the importance of effective communication. Throughout this conversation, Alain shares practical tools that we can immediately apply into our lives – such as specific journaling exercises, ‘the 2 chair' technique he has borrowed from Gestalt therapy and simple strategies to help us become better listeners and more effective communicators. This conversation is an invitation to reassess what truly matters in life. Alain's message of hope and understanding about the shared human experience of suffering and complexity is both comforting and inspiring and his thoughtful and practical strategies offer a roadmap for anyone seeking a more authentic and meaningful life. Support the podcast and enjoy Ad-Free episodes. Try FREE for 7 days on Apple Podcasts https://apple.co/feelbetterlivemore. For other podcast platforms go to https://fblm.supercast.com. Thanks to our sponsors: https://drinkag1.com/livemore https://www.essilor.com https://calm.com/livemore https://airbnb.co.uk/host Show notes https://drchatterjee.com/495 DISCLAIMER: The content in the podcast and on this webpage is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or qualified healthcare provider. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on the podcast or on my website.
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Alain De Botton is one of the greatest philosophers of our time. His work has had a profound impact on me more than any other. I have wanted to do this episode for the last 8 years. In Today's Episode with Alain De Botton We Discuss: 1. Why Status is Making You Miserable: Why are we richer yet more anxious than ever? What is the right way to define status? Why do we want it so much? Is it bad to want status? What are some non-obvious signs that you are seeking status when you do not realise it? Does social media enhance the desire for status? How so? Do the happiest people want status the least? What are Alain's biggest observations in how truly happy people think about status? 2. Why Parents Want You To Fail: Why is the sign of good parenting when your child does not want to be famous? Why do your parents sometimes want you to fail? What should parents do if their child wants to chase an unachievable goal? Why should parents encourage their children to start very early? 3. Why Meritocracy is a Fallacy & Meaningful Work: Why does Alain believe a true meritocracy is an impossible dream? Why is meritocracy a bad thing when taken to the extreme? Why does Alain believe that companies are not families? Why does Alain tell people that they should not bring their full selves to work? 4. WTF is “Meaningful Work”: What does it mean to do “meaningful work”? Why do humans need to do “meaningful work” today in a way that we did not many years ago? What are Alain's biggest pieces of advice to young people today, unsure of what they should do with their lives and careers? Why does Alain believe the idea of a “calling” is BS? 5. Ambition, Achievement and Sacrifice: What does Alain mean when he says “you have to tolerate your own averageness”? What does Alain say to the young generation who want work/life balance? What does Alain mean when he said you “cannot be at war with yourself”? Does Alain agree that to achieve you must sacrifice?
In part 3, Alain de Botton shares his expertise on what makes relationships so complex and how to understand your partner better.Alain explains attachment theory, and the real-life scenario you see it playing out; why we make the bizarre choice to choose partners who seem obviously bad for us; and he offers his advice on how to get over heartbreak. Find all of Alain's books at www.alaindebotton.comFollow the podcast on Instagram @thestompcastTo improve your mental fitness, get Dr Alex's book The Mind ManualDownload Mettle: the mental fitness app for men Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Petrified that your parenting is screwing your kid up? Crying out for support from people around you? Fearne's pulled together some stories and advice from Happy Place guests who'll make you feel more empowered and less alone in raising children. Not a parent? Not to worry! You'll learn just as much about how to regulate your own emotions, how your childhood is affecting your behaviour today, and why feminism might have sold women an unrealistic dream... You'll hear from Paloma Faith on the pressure for women to ‘have it all', Kate Ferdinand on caring for her blended family, and Gabor Maté on why we all need wider community support. Kate Silverton asks: “are kids being ‘naughty' or are they just really struggling to regulate their nervous system?” Alain De Botton explains how your childhood is still be affecting your actions, and Zayn reflects on how fatherhood has changed him for the better. CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains some chat about suicide, so take care while listening Listen to Paloma Faith's episode Listen to Kate Ferdinand's episode Listen to Gabor Maté's episode Listen to Kate Silverton's episode Listen to Alain de Botton episode Listen to Zayn's episode Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
In this moment, world-renowned philosopher and thinker Alain De Botton discusses how communication can lead to a better sex life. Alain says sex is like a mirror to the relationship as a whole. If something is wrong with a couples sex life, it's usually a symptom of a wider problem. He says that a first step towards a more fulfilling sex life is reflecting on how you are as a partner. Being open about yourself in a relationship is the best way to create mutual trust, which means that you can ‘tease' out any issue in a relationship. This then leads to being open with one another sexually. Listen to the full episode here - Apple- https://g2ul0.app.link/v1foloy7kLb Spotify- https://g2ul0.app.link/5NT1dmK7kLb Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Alain: https://www.alaindebotton.comm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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