Podcasts about honor eastly

Deanna shares how she transforms her MRI scans into vibrant artwork, reframing her experience with Multiple Sclerosis. We explore her journey of managing chronic pain and endometriosis, advocating for mental health, and the importance of representation for invisible disabilities.   Connect with Deanna: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/circularblooms/  Deanna also mentioned Honor Eastly https://www.instagram.com/honor_eastly/ Mean Baby by Selma Blair  https://www.booktopia.com.au/mean-baby-selma-blair Connect with Peta: Instagram: @petahooke Website: www.icantstandpodcast.com Email: icantstandpodcast@gmail.com Episode Transcript:https://www.icantstandpodcast.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Graham doesn't think I am broken, but I still suspect I might be.

Graham doesn't think I am broken, but I still suspect I might be.

How to collect your tears, the existential angst of the shampoo aisle, and the boy returns.

How to collect your tears, the existential angst of the shampoo aisle, and the boy returns.

We have 60,000 thoughts each day. I will try to track every single one of them.

We have 60,000 thoughts each day. I will try to track every single one of them.

There are no good snack options in psych hospital. And it’s really hard to not look crazy.

There are no good snack options in psych hospital. And it’s really hard to not look crazy.

Hunting for a psychiatrist is a lot like hunting for 'The One'. Only much more expensive and with a tiny dating pool.

Hunting for a psychiatrist is a lot like hunting for 'The One'. Only much more expensive and with a tiny dating pool.

We all have that voice in our head. The one that is brutally honest. It’s a good thing, right? Except when it really isn’t.

We all have that voice in our head. The one that is brutally honest. It’s a good thing, right? Except when it really isn’t.

Feel like you've been working harder than ever this year, and still don't know what all that hard work is adding up to? Why do we do this to ourselves? And what if you didn't have to work so hard just to feel like a viable human?Guest: Gareth EdwardsThe Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

All those helpful bus ads tell you to 'just ask for help' when you're struggling. But what if you've already asked for help, multiple times, and you still don't feel any better?Here's that Big Feels article I mentioned about the Long, Slow Twisting Shame Spiral.Guest: Gareth EdwardsThe Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.clubDisclaimer: we're not mental health experts and the info in this podcast is general, it's not mental health advice. If you're considering what to do for your mental health, we suggest seeking advice tailored to your specific situation.

Psych drugs. What if you feel like they don't work for you? or what if they kind of work but... it's complicated? This ep: an honest conversation about medications. Including…— Graham's two wildly different attempts at taking psych drugs. Once, when they really helped, and once when they really didn't.— How to have more honest conversations about psych drugs— Gareth's reflections on experiencing compulsory treatmentGuest: Gareth EdwardsThe Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.clubDisclaimer: we're not mental health experts and the info in this podcast is general, it's not mental health advice. If you're considering what to do for your mental health, we suggest seeking advice tailored to your specific situation.

Feel like you're just one dumb mistake away from ruining all your relationships forever? How social distancing turns the volume up on that. Plus: — what do you actually want from people when you're having a hard time, especially right now?— why you can't always answer the dreaded question, ‘r.u.o.k.?'— why it's not always easy to do the things you know will make you feel better— spending ages writing a single emailGuest: AmieThe Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

It’s hard to know how to look after your mental health at a time like this. But what happens if that’s something you were already struggling with, before the pandemic hit? 

It’s hard to know how to look after your mental health at a time like this. But what happens if that’s something you were already struggling with, before the pandemic hit? 

For many of us, 'being productive' is a key go-to strategy for feeling like a worthy human. So what happens at a time like this, when it's harder and harder to get things done?Guest: Gareth Edwards.Here's that recent issue of the Big Feels Club newsletter on this same topic, the dreaded self-worth + productivity nexus: mailchi.mp/147cc6f8d647/productivityThe Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

“Every time I feel a bit better, I think that I'm faking it. And every time I feel shit, I just feel — shit.”What do you do when you have a physical illness that defies modern science? The kind of illness that is clearly debilitating, but still makes you wonder, ‘is this all in my head?' This ep: we talk chronic fatigue, nervous exhaustion, and what to do when you're just really, really tired.Guest: Gareth Edwards.The Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

Staying indoors all day, avoiding people, sound familiar? When self-isolating feels like depression. (Plus, why most of the ‘lockdown self-care' advice sucks.)Guest: Amie.The Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

The panic / information spiral. Is all this pandemic news just making us feel like shit? Or is it too important to look away?Plus, feeling totally over it. (Or are we just depressed?)The big epic book Graham's reading about the end of the world.A good article Graham wrote about Pema Chödrön's “pause” idea.And the ‘good news' source Honor mentioned: Future Crunch.The Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

What happens when you and your partner have different ideas about how to practice social distancing... from one another... when you share a bedroom?What do you do when one of you has major health phobias, convinced every possible surface in the house needs disinfecting by the minute, and the other is a (relatively) more chill bean?First of a few special pandemic pods for sensitive cats navigating these scary times.The Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

We tackle some of our listeners' big, existential questions. Q1. How do you know the difference between a useful coping mechanism and a crutch?Q2. Is the fact that I'm depressed even though my life is so privileged just another sign of how privileged I am?With special guest, longtime feelings guru Gareth Edwards, author of The Procrastinator's Guide to Killing Yourself.The Big Feels Club is Graham Panther and Honor Eastly. Come join the club at bigfeels.club

Flashy public proposals are all over social media, but people seem divided over whether they’re adorable or cringeworthy. This week on Man Up, Aymann learns about two different public proposal stories and figures out whether the people involved have any regrets. First up is Honor Eastly, a musician, podcaster, and writer based in Australia. Her partner proposed to her during a big charity event with friends and family present. Then Aymann talks to newscaster Evie Allen and her husband Matt, who proposed to Evie during a live newscast.  Tell us what you think about this and other topics by leaving a voicemail at 805-626-8707 or emailing manup@slate.com. We may feature you on the show. And please tell us what you think by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.   Podcast production by Cameron Drews Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Flashy public proposals are all over social media, but people seem divided over whether they’re adorable or cringeworthy. This week on Man Up, Aymann learns about two different public proposal stories and figures out whether the people involved have any regrets. First up is Honor Eastly, a musician, podcaster, and writer based in Australia. Her partner proposed to her during a big charity event with friends and family present. Then Aymann talks to newscaster Evie Allen and her husband Matt, who proposed to Evie during a live newscast.  Tell us what you think about this and other topics by leaving a voicemail at 805-626-8707 or emailing manup@slate.com. We may feature you on the show. And please tell us what you think by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.   Podcast production by Cameron Drews Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Flashy public proposals are all over social media, but people seem divided over whether they’re adorable or cringeworthy. This week on Man Up, Aymann learns about two different public proposal stories and figures out whether the people involved have any regrets. First up is Honor Eastly, a musician, podcaster, and writer based in Australia. Her partner proposed to her during a big charity event with friends and family present. Then Aymann talks to newscaster Evie Allen and her husband Matt, who proposed to Evie during a live newscast.  Tell us what you think about this and other topics by leaving a voicemail at 805-626-8707 or emailing manup@slate.com. We may feature you on the show. And please tell us what you think by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.   Podcast production by Cameron Drews Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Flashy public proposals are all over social media, but people seem divided over whether they’re adorable or cringeworthy. This week on Man Up, Aymann learns about two different public proposal stories and figures out whether the people involved have any regrets. First up is Honor Eastly, a musician, podcaster, and writer based in Australia. Her partner proposed to her during a big charity event with friends and family present. Then Aymann talks to newscaster Evie Allen and her husband Matt, who proposed to Evie during a live newscast.  Tell us what you think about this and other topics by leaving a voicemail at 805-626-8707 or emailing manup@slate.com. We may feature you on the show. And please tell us what you think by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts.   Podcast production by Cameron Drews Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Honor Eastly is a writer, artist, podcaster and mental health worker who has made a career of talking about the stuff most of us really don't want to talk about. Her podcasts Being Honest With My Ex and Starving Artist explored love, heartbreak, rejection, anger, cash, creativity, and class.Last year she teamed up with the ABC to create No Feeling Is Final, that traced her own mental health story. Like all her work it dealt with money, heartbreak, depression, and suicide. Alongside the strange, mundane, day-to-day realities of sometimes wanting to die. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In 'No Feeling is Final ' from the ABC the writer and podcaster Honor Eastly presents a highly personal account of her experiences of living with anxiety and suicidal thoughts. The show weaves together years' worth of audio diaries with scripted narrative and recreations of scenes from her past. It creates a moving memoir about mental health that's difficult and heartbreaking and confronting at times, but also speaks powerfully and with humour about the experience of living with a cruel voice in your head that's always trying to put you down. We play some of Episode 1 of 'No Feeling Is Final' from the ABC called The Voice presented by Honor Eastly, produced by Alice Moldovan, the sound engineer's Russell Stapleton, and the Executive Producer is Joel Werner.

Just a warning, this episode deals with issues surrounding mental health. If you need help, please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 There have been four times in Honor Eastly’s life when she felt completely and utterly hopeless.  So hopeless she wasn't sure whether she could keep on living. And those times weren't fleeting.  Some have lasted up to six months. Honor has dealt with mental health issues since she was a teenager and at 25 she found herself admitted to a psychiatric hospital. An experience she decided to turn into a podcast called No Feeling Is Final... Click here to subscribe to No Filter. CREDITS: Host: Mia Freedman  With thanks to special guest Honor Eastly. Listen to her podcast No Feeling Is Final here.  Producer: Elissa Ratliff GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at podcast@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia No Filter is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just a warning, this episode deals with issues surrounding mental health. If you need help, please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 There have been four times in Honor Eastly’s life when she felt completely and utterly hopeless.  So hopeless she wasn't sure whether she could keep on living. And those times weren't fleeting.  Some have lasted up to six months. Honor has dealt with mental health issues since she was a teenager and at 25 she found herself admitted to a psychiatric hospital. An experience she decided to turn into a podcast called No Feeling Is Final... Click here to subscribe to No Filter. CREDITS: Host: Mia Freedman  With thanks to special guest Honor Eastly. Listen to her podcast No Feeling Is Final here.  Producer: Elissa Ratliff GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at podcast@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia No Filter is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Just a warning, this episode deals with issues surrounding mental health. If you need help, please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 There have been four times in Honor Eastly’s life when she felt completely and utterly hopeless.  So hopeless she wasn't sure whether she could keep on living. And those times weren't fleeting.  Some have lasted up to six months. Honor has dealt with mental health issues since she was a teenager and at 25 she found herself admitted to a psychiatric hospital. An experience she decided to turn into a podcast called No Feeling Is Final... Click here to subscribe to No Filter. CREDITS: Host: Mia Freedman  With thanks to special guest Honor Eastly. Listen to her podcast No Feeling Is Final here.  Producer: Elissa Ratliff GET IN TOUCH: Call the PodPhone on 02 8999 9386. Email the show at podcast@mamamia.com.au Find any book mentioned at apple.co/mamamia No Filter is a podcast by Mamamia. Find more shows here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you're overwhelmed by distressing feelings and big emotions, it can feel lonely, particularly if you can't find the help you need in the mental health system. Alternative grassroots approaches to staying alive are now being explored, which focus on connecting with others in a similar space.

Silly, Scintillating and Serious - Warning this contains explicit content 01:30 – Clip from Sex Talk With My Mom by Cam Poter and KarenLee Poter. http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-talk-with-my-mom/id1044963177 12:30 – Being Honest with My Ex by Peter C. Hayward and Honor Eastly https://www.beinghonestwithmyex.com/ https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/being-honest-with-my-ex/id1070978416?mt=2 15:45 – Sugarcast by Shan Jiang https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/peachbooth-presents-sugarcast/id1265893443?mt=2 24:25 – Come On In by Alexander Charles Adams and Laine Farber http://smashcutthepodcast.com https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/smash-cut/id1078426109?mt=2 28:52 – Provincetown Remembers Aids by Sophie Kazis https://soundcloud.com/sophie-kazis Music: Maja by Yusuf Siddiquee

At the end of 18-months of increased blood, sweat, and tears, Honor Eastly recaps the three big things she's learned from creating Starving Artist. You can help shape the future of Starving Artist by filling out the listener survey. Click here to help us out. To discuss this episode, head over to the Starving Artist Facebook Page (or Instagram or Twitter, or your local dog park) (bork bork) To support this show on Patreon go to www.patreon.com/honoreastly

Honor Eastly, Miles Martignoni, Hannah Reich and Megan Tan answer all our nosy questions about how they pay the bills. This survival guide to freelancing was recorded at the 2017 Audiocraft Conference. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

For this episode of NAVA: in conversation, Melbourne-based artist and producer Audrey Hulm, (aka ADHOC) speak with Honor Eastly - founder and director of the very successful 'Starving Artist Podcast' Her podcast, released in April 2017, is an excellent series exploring the relationship between and challenges of art and business for emerging and established artists. The conversation covers a range of challenges facing Honor in her work as an artist, producer and marketing director of her own creative practice, including social media, mental health and self care, collaboration and identity, and provides insight into establishing and dealing with success in creative endeavours.

This week we talk to the author of an email that started like this: I have been trying to continue listening to your podcast for months now. I am so enamoured with SJ but Peter is honestly a giant douchebag. And ended like this: The day that SJ does something alone, I am on board, but as of today I am unsubscribing from the show, entirely because of Peter. Shit gets real. Things discussed this episode: Episode 47: Staying Friends With My Ex (the episode about getting the above email from Alice) Episode 31: Poly-sposions With My Ex (part 2 of the trilogy about the mess Peter and SJ made of polyamory Episode 20: Naked Photos Of My Ex (the episode that contains a reading of the one and only love letter Peter has sent) Episode 42: Finding My Mountain With My Ex (the episode about finding your path and aggressive self-sabotage) Episode 43: Having Kids With My Ex (the episode where Peter lays into Canada) Episode 28: Making Money With My Ex (Peter gives SJ a pep talk on quitting your job and living creatively) Episode 29: Getting Therapy With My Ex (on SJ’s troubles with the mental health system) Episode 10: Behind the Scenes With My Ex (look honestly I can’t even remember what this episode was about!) Peter’s other podcast, Let’s Write A Film To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I think one of the biggest changes as a result of doing this podcast is that you and I are so much closer than we were a year ago. We are probably as close as when we were dating if you ignore sex.” It’s episode 52 of this weekly podcast, so this week is a year in review. Things discussed this episode: SJ’s #nofeelingisfinal campaign SJ’s What The Actual Fuck video Episode about getting hatemail about Peter (from someone who Peter interviewed on for the next episode) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"With the patreon I feel like I have all this opportunity and I’m just crumbling underneath it" This week: creative terror and SJ’s private Patreon fears. Things discussed this episode: Jon Ronson’s So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed Hello Internet Dakota Access Pipeline Protests Ira Glass - The Gap So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: SJ sits down with Peter’s new partner to discuss love, exes and how shameless Peter really is. Things discussed this episode: Days Until app to count down to an event Podcasting panel SJ did for Digital Writers Festival (warning: there were lots of technical issues with this one!) Episode 20, when SJ read out the first (and only) love letter Peter has sent Email Debt Forgiveness Day To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“The next twenty seconds were really interesting cause I was like “oh, I could die now. This could be it.”” This week: Peter’s car accident, and what SJ would’ve done if he’d died. Things discussed this episode: Speed limits: to check out speed limits in different countries check out this handy Wikipedia page. Turns out that SJ and Peter were both right on Australian speed laws., Anything over the speed limit by 3 km/h or more will get you a fine in Victoria, whereas it’s 7 km/h over in Western Australia. In other states it’s 10% over the speed limit. Quora - the website that claims to have the answer to every question Peter’s injury from car accident Werner Herzhog’s film From One Second To The Next, on texting while driving. It’s 35 minutes long and you can watch it all on YouTube. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I don’t see you as the SJ I dated. You are my ex SJ, my friend who I used to be engaged to who I do a podcast with. I don’t like the SJ I dated.” Big talks, plus it’s Peter’s birthday so SJ gives him the best gift ever and asks him The Birthday Questions. Things discussed this episode: Peter’s games that he’s Kickstarted: Dracula’s Feast and Scuttle! Episode about Peter getting turned away at the US border Episode about Peter’s Facebook wall The Ferrett (quoting Jay Lake) on Bathtub Theory Ira Glass: the gap Alasdair Tremblay-Birchall’s new dad instagram To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!

SJ tells Peter of the horrible things she’s learned about him, and the pair try to decide whether or not they should stay friends. Things discussed this episode: Lena Dunham article No One Likes My Ex To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: the time Peter tried to placate SJ with rabbits, convenient veganism, and Peter realising he’s a bit of an asshole. Things discussed this episode: Gamergate video series Video about hating Phill Phish Video on what it is to be a good person To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: the trials, tribulations and masturbatory habits of those who work from home. Things discussed this episode: Here’s the Millennial episode that made Peter cry A short film that will definitely make you cry: Denali The Ferrett on why there isn’t one technique that works for everyone Neville Medhora’s to do list Eat That Frog Workflowy - the best list makey thing ever! Focus keeper - SJ’s trusted pomodoro app Pomodoro app - Peter’s trusted pomodoro app Money shredding alarm clock Gym pact 7 minute workout app Neville Medhora’s problem solving checklist Dracula’s Feast - there’s still a week to go! Hello Internet - and here’s the episode about email management Cortex - CGP Grey and Myke Hurley talking the methods and tools they use to be productive and creative Mitchell and Webb sketch about working from home This Is Your Song - project SJ did back in the day. Click the link to see SJ performing a song to Peter about his broken penis after they’d just met To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com):

“I’m not saying that I’m easy to date, I’m saying dating me does not in any way prepare you for having a kid.” Peter insults SJ, and she makes the mistake of trying to get him to apologize. Things discussed this episode: Peter conflated two of Joe Peacocks posts: 12 (also, it’s worth noting that Joe has disavowed a lot of the opinions and phrasings of his old writings) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I have recurring baby-related nightmares. I lose them like a set of car keys.” After a week surrounded by tiny humans, SJ unpacks all of her ideas about whether or not to have kids. Things discussed this episode: Australian Houses are Glorified Tents in Winter Target figured out a teenage girl was pregnant...before her family did. The Horrors of Children To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"I am really really talented at not achieving my goals." In this episode, Peter reveals that he has been aggressively sabotaging himself for the last, oh, 8 years now. Things discussed this episode: Neil Gaiman’s Make Good Art commencement speech Do women’s period’s sync? - "In light of the lack of empirical evidence for MS [menstrual synchrony] sensu stricto, it seems there should be more widespread doubt than acceptance of this hypothesis" Vlog brothers videos on failure - here’s Hank’s video, and John Green’s response on failing to follow up his book The Fault in Our Stars Wait But Why procrastination post (the best post on the internet). Here is a direct link to the Eisenhower Matrix. You can also check out the TED talk on procrastination by Tim Urban, the writer of that post. Episode 13 - Let’s Write A Film Teach For Australia Seth Godin - The Dip To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“Fuck! I bought a food truck before I realised I hate hospitality.” This episode: SJ’s embarrassing past as a boldly naive young person trying to save the world. Things discussed this episode: Little Bets, The Four Hour Work Week, The Art of Non-Conformity - all books about lifestyle design and design thinking (that I’m warning, can sometimes be distinctly missing an awareness of or to, social / political context) That Sexy Show - a sex-positive comedy game show that we did back in the day Who Gives A Crap - social enterprise toilet paper company Shebeen - Melbourne bar and social enterprise Conflict Kitchen, started by Jon Rubin (who’s work SJ really digs) Streat - social enterprise in Melbourne working with homeless people Be Bangles - I feel bad about coming down so hard on this project and looking like an asshole (and also a hypocrite) I guess we’re all just trying to find the best way to do the right thing really The Most Good You Can Do by Peter Singer Guy who has made a pledge to donate half his income GiveWell.org - an organisation that does in-depth charity research to suggest what would be best to donate to Dave Gorman - the man behind Are You Dave Gorman? And Googlewack Adventure Global Fund for Women - organisation advocating for women’s rights Sock company Odd Pears (turns out they do donate part of profits to charity!) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: the wild wild west of Peter’s Facebook wall. Things discussed this episode: Gamergate video series Really great video on Phil Fish about internet celebrity Previous episode: Shit’s Complicated With My Ex Peter’s new board game: Dracula’s Feast Video Sia made for SJ where she got her name wrong (SJ still cringes when she watches this) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

"You don’t have capacity for a sandwich let alone complex emotional situations" This week: burning out, being afraid of feelings, and how to cry well on a podcast. Things discussed this episode: Hip hop dance video that made SJ cry The episode about SJ collecting her tears To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I have a PhD in shame, but I don’t even have a Cert II in happiness” This week: shame, the creative driving force, and the dangers of true crime documentaries. Things discussed this episode: Review of Being Honest With My Ex from Always Listening Amanda Palmer’s book The Art of Asking Louis CK talking about feeling your feelings Here’s the facebook write-up for the group process / social dialogue event that I talked about Broadly doco about paid maternity leave in America (54 minutes) (also I find interviewer pretty annoying in this doco, but it’s important / interesting info) Broadly doco about egg freezing and the future of fertility (28 minutes) (same interviewer, but I found this one much more watchable) (this one made me pretty angry / sad) Ira Glass on The Gap between your taste and your skills Making A Murderer OJ doco series (very very good) Jane The Virgin - the first season is seriously gooooood and fun and light! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

In 2012, SJ recorded an interview with Peter for her radio show “Your Life The Musical”. We couldn’t resist sharing the audio of these younger and much smarmier versions of ourselves. Songs used this episode: Rock n Roll Nerd - Tim Minchin This Year - The Mountain Goats Step Right Up - Tom Waits Everyday - Buddy Holly The Broken Penis Song - Sarah Jane Haywood End Of The Movie - Cake In My Mind - Amanda Palmer Don't bother trying to visit any of the links Peter talks about. You can read more about Your Life The Musical here, and This Is Your Song here.  To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

If Peter was dying, would SJ help put him out of his misery? Things discussed this episode: SJ’s favourite show at the moment, You Can’t Ask That Andrew Denton’s podcast about euthanasia, Better Off Dead Relevant CGP Grey videos: The Queen is also the head of England, and technically God is in charge of the Commonwealth.How to Become Pope The powers of the Queen One of the best videos ever made: The History of Japan -There’s much more to mortal sin than Peter covered. Further reading: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mortal_sin To talk about the show, head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. To support this show, pledge to Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: SJ’s Patreon success, Peter’s insane aspirations, and how much the pair have grown since they started dating. Things discussed this episode: SJ’s Patreon - support the show! Get cool rewards! Be a better person! CGP Grey - learn stuff! Enjoy a British accent! Seriously, learn so much stuff! Peter’s porn Patreon - read porn! Get hard/wet! Have orgasms! Majority is more than 50%, plurality is whichever individually has the highest percentage! Amanda Palmer’s Patreon - listen to music! Support the precursor to Honor Eastly! Pentatonix’s Patreon - listen to music! Acapella music! The Procrastination Matrix - the single best post on the internet. SJ’s first public Patreon post - includes gif of dancing. The Canon on Kevin Smith - famous people do not grow up. Out on the Wire: Dark Forest - growing hurts. Holly Lisle on When To Quit Your Job - a bit out of date, but still fascinating! Startup Podcast - business is all about feelings. To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: feminism, atheism, AA, religion, and talking to your pets during sex. Things discussed this episode: SJ's new favourite podcast, Invisibilia Wikipedia on the Effectiveness of Alcoholics Anonymous Perhaps Peter's very favourite blog series: What Happened to Big Idea? The Dark Side of Guardian Comments To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I definitely did something wrong. I betrayed the trust of the person that I love, and that’s a fucked up thing to do. I just didn’t do it as badly as you did.” This week we sail our polyamory ship into the treacherous Cheating Sea. Neither of us come out unscathed. Things discussed this episode: Turns out breasts are a secondary sexual characteristic Episode of This Feels Terrible, hosted by Erin McGathy, where she talks about her relationship with her first boyfriend, and the verrry long conversations they had when she didn’t want to leave and go home Turns out it’s called Correspondence Bias or the Fundamental Attribution Error. Note, Jacqui (a patreon backer) linked me to this fascinating article about the difference in Correspondence Bias between East and West cultures. Give it a read! Alain De Botton - contemporary philosopher. Check out The School Of Life YouTube channel, particularly the videos on relationships. Old Man’s War by John Scalzi Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, or for the quicker run-down check out the TED talk Turns out it’s hard to know how many people cheat because well, no one wants to admit to it. Also, it’s hard to know definitively what constitutes cheating (an issue discussed this episode!) Episode 20 of Being Honest With My Ex: Naked Photos Of My Ex To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“I just lay down on the gravel and sobbed into the dirt” - SJ This week we dive into way more dirty laundry than we realised as we unpack the gigantic mess we made of polyamory. Things discussed this episode: Polyvic - the Victorian Polyamory Community (they have monthly socials and discussion groups) The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Opening Up by Tristan Taormino The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron Kinsey scale of sexual orientation To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page, to support this show pledge on Honor Eastly’s Patreon. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: realising the government governs your life, entertaining flies, and what the hell is a millenial anyway? The (really good!) article about redefining Millennials that Peter read Wait But Why article about accelerated technology Democratic Media Please - a website run by Kyle, who covers over public advertising. There’s an interesting explanatory video on the front page. Steve Roggenbuck - check out this video (which is my favourite and always makes me love the world), and if you’re a creative who sometimes struggles to go on, check out this one, oh god it gets me in the feels every time. Check out Melody Sheep - We Are All Connected is one of my favourites The Depths: The Evolutionary Beginnings of the Depression Epidemic To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“At the end of our relationship, when you cried, I just couldn’t care. I had no fucks left to give.” This week: a sombre episode about that sad moment when you run out of fucks to give the person you love. Things discussed this episode: Reasons To Stay Alive, a book by Matt Haig Wait But Why article - Life Is A Picture, But You Live In A Pixel To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record your unique take on the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: contact@beinghonestwithmyex.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This week: an episode that almost got deleted. Listen in to hear an awkward conversation about whether SJ is a shit friend. - Things discussed this episode: Peter’s Kickstarter (turns out SJ bought three copies of Peter’s game) Reasons To Stay Alive by Matt Haig To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

“Why do I have to delete the naked photos I have of you?” Peter asked. “WTF?!” SJ replied. Also in this episode, SJ reads Peter’s first (and only) love letter. It is a surprisingly painful experience. This is the part where we put in any links to anything we talked about, but this is the first time we've exclusively talked about ourselves! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

SJ has been collecting her tears for over a year. Peter thinks this the weirdest thing she’s ever done. The article that SJ read that made her want to fly to Amsterdam to have a beer with the writer A bit more info on the project where SJ tried to fall in love with people Some writing on the collecting tears project by SJ The notorious Reddit cum box story (you may not want to know what it) Article about emotional labour that Peter mentioned The final article on Daily Life about what SJ has learned from doing the podcast To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

If this episode were a high-school essay topic it would be: Peter spent a month living on the streets of Melbourne, and it made him both broken and invincible. Discuss. Dr. Professor Neal Portenza. Look, he doesn’t really have that much stuff online, but here’s is his slightly unnerving website Here’s a pic of Josh Ladgrove’s fantastic suit Sentinels of The Multiverse - the card game Peter’s friend Christopher made The genius thing that SJ wrote about her sister Flex by Ferrett Steinmetz - turns out Peter was right and he has asked SJ to read it at least 3 times. Also turns out Peter has way too much time on his hands if he wants to dedicate that much energy to proving himself right. (PS. he has a small penis) Here’s one of Lena Dunham’s first short films (also turns out she didn’t invent Mumblecore) Peter’s early awful writings, still online Showerbus Peter’s old, awful, rapey stand-up MX article about Peter’s being homeless Paul Graham essay about truth and optimism and happiness Making A Murderer - documentary series about a specific case showcasing the failings of the justice system Miranda July’s novel The First Bad Man (when the book was released you could also buy objects that were in the book itself. The store still exists) To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

How did a broken penis get SJ and Peter together? Find out this week! Episode about Peter’s broken penis Invisibilia episode about Maria Bamford and her mother (on that note, Maria Bamford’s comedy album, Ask Me About My New God!, is one of the best comedy I’ve listened to about mental illness. Get your earholes around that shit!) That TV show Peter liked - Brooklyn Nine-Nine Episode about Peter convincing professional actors to work for free on his projects and how the mental health system can make you sick Fantastic Meanjin essay about contemporary feminism by Eleanor Robertson Great doco about feminist movement in America in the 60s & 70s - She’s Beautiful When She’s Angry (also turns out SJ was right and the suffragettes were first wave feminism) Another great article about the gender pay gap To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Peter has no filter. SJ has a bunch of filters. This time they discuss why.  Also included: SJ momentarily forgets that she ever went out with Peter. It's a lot of fun. Things discussed this episode: So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson. Also the guy I mentioned who was embroiled in a sex scandal is Max Mosley, you can read a bit about it on his wiki page SJ’s instagram post about of Mary O’Hagan that made her anxious The Wait But Why article on Why You Should Stop Caring What Other People Think If you’d like to go down the Scott Adams Is A Misogynist Douchecanoe, here’s a good link for that Trust Me I’m Lying by Ryan Holiday. Seriously, read this book! Otherwise check out this much shorter post by him (which includes the Sasha Grey ad) SJ’s anniversary post Peter’s Kickstarter!! To talk about the show head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

How did Peter manage to make several terrible TV shows on unbridled self-confidence alone? Was SJ really The Messy One? Does the mental health system make you sick? Find out this week with the fancy podcast for fancy people. Things discussed this episode: If you’re interested in perusing through Peter’s back catalogue of terrible TV shows you can check out Help!, NAP-Time, and here’s a fun behind the scenes video of The Map Shop Here’s that picture of SJ drunk at a house inspection(this link is shamelessly put here so you can go follow her on instagram) This is the Uni of California Student Cooperative housing place that I mentioned. It’s actually a really cool enterprise and you should check it out if you’re interested in that kind of thing. If you’re interested in Intentional Peer Support I suggest reading some things by Shery Mead, the creator of IPS. This article is about what it is and this article is about her personal experience. Turns out people with a “serious” mental illness have a life expectancy 10-25 years lower than the rest of the population :( If you haven’t seen David Foster Wallace’s commencement speech This Is Water please, please watch it. It’s an amazing way of describing what mindfulness is without the word mindfulness or any irritating inspirational bullshit (that being said I find it really inspiring) To talk about how you want to co-produce a child with SJ, how best to propose to someone and whether Peter’s jokes are sub-par head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode the pair chat How Not To Propose, How Not To Get Un-Engaged, and SJ starts her hunt for a baby co-producer. Is it you? Things mentioned this episode: Chore wars - a online role play game where you can track household chores (and save relationships) Sex At Dawn - check out the TED talk for an abridged version Louis CK on how great divorce is To talk about how you want to co-produce a child with SJ, how best to propose to someone and whether Peter’s jokes are sub-par head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

This episode Peter gets his feelings hurt for the first time, SJ reveals why she’s so jealous and the pair do a call out for someone to draw a picture of SJ’s vulva. This Feels Terrible - great podcast about love and relationships by Erin McGathy Human Conversation - another podcast with Erin McGathy and Wayne Fedderman Short doco on Australian paralympian and awesome dude Dylan Alcott Studies into mice and addiction Who cares for the mental health of artists? South Park episode about Britney Spears changing her image (note this came out 3 years before Miley Cyrus performed at the 2013 VMAs with Robin Thicke and broke the internet) Chris Sacca - big billionaire investor dude To talk about the podcast, creativity, mental illness and how Peter’s blue hair is holding him back, head to Honor Eastly’s Facebook page. If you are particularly good at drawing vulvas please get in contact. We need a forensic vulva draftsperson! If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"

Where the pair try to decipher what success is and realise they have very different memories of their First. Big. Fight. This is an extended hour-long "2015 in review" special episode where we go wildly off that topic but do deliver on the length. Enjoy.  Things mentioned in this episode:  Peter's erotica - in particular his stories The Elephant in the Closet, The Kindness of Strangers & Logical Fellatio. Honor Eastly's mailing list - sign-up to stay in the know.Little Bets - a book about how breakthrough ideas emerge from small discoveries Honor Eastly's New Years Anti-Resolutions post and her brother's fantastic response. Peter's board game company, business blog and daily Vine series. Amanda Palmer - not sure how to sum her up. Musician/blogger/community maker who talks really openly about finances and creativity. Her book, The Art of Asking, is fucking great. Austin Kleon - a writer who draws. Just finished his book, Steal Like An Artist. It's disarmingly simple but incredibly powerful. Patreon - subscription crowd-funding for people who make stuff. Find Peter's here. Find Amanda Palmer's here. We also jokingly talked about linking to a Neo-Nazi website as a protest against the proliferation of offensive content creators but I don't actually want to link to shit like that, so I won't. If you want to record an outro to be used in an upcoming episode, record the following and carrier-pigeon it to us (we also use email: beinghonestwithmyex@gmail.com): "Thanks for listening to Being Honest With My Ex. If you've enjoyed the podcast, subscribe to us on iTunes, leave a review and tell your friends. Peter is my favourite son!"