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Hope sustains the soul when all falls apart. Find hope to make it through difficult times.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Chip's series on James 1 offers God's hope and insight for facing trials and fear today.3 Observations about life in a fallen world1. Trials are inevitable2. Trials tend to “make us” or “break us”3. Victims fail to move beyond asking “why” and remain stuck in their painA word from God to those whose world is “falling apart.” -James 1:1-41. What can I control? -My ATTITUDE2. What must I do to make it through today? -ENDURE3. What hope do I have for tomorrow? -God will take the WORST and use it for my BESTHow God uses adversity to mature us1. We're forced to DEPEND on God at a new level. Left alone, we're self-sufficient, proud, and insensitive to Him.2. We're WEANED from the temporal, urgent, and worldly affairs of life. We're forced to REEXAMINE our values, priorities, commitments, and future.3. Trials let us WITNESS God's reality and power first-hand. Our need becomes the vehicle of His grace; our problems the object of His power.4. They serve as a TESTIMONY to the unbelieving world. How we endure hardship shows the world how real God is.5. We become sensitive, caring, and compassionate CHRIST-LIKE people. Those hurt deeply tend to love deeply.Broadcast ResourceSeries ResourcesMessage NotesYear End MatchDouble Your Gift TodayMinistry ReportAdditional ResourcesChristmas GiftsConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Is it possible to actually be “good” AND “mad?” According to scripture there are times when the right thing to do is get angry. In this message, Chip persuades us that it's possible to know when anger is the best option.Introduction: How to be good and madAnger is a channel to maximize your potential in Christ.God's agenda for your life is for you to trust Him. What's at stake – God gave you this gift of anger to transform your life to make you like Christ.I. God commands us to express our anger. -Ephesians 4:26aII. God commands us to express our anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26bIII. Righteous Indignation: How God Used AngerJesus was visibly angry. -Mark 3Jesus was verbally angry. -Matthew 23Jesus was physically angry. -Mark 11IV. God commands us to resolve our anger before bedtime. -Ephesians 4:26c-27Anger Resolution = “Healing the Wound” so good things can happen.Step #1 – Cleanse the wound -Ephesians 4:31How? CONFESS and REPENT of unresolved anger!Step #2 – Treat the wound -Ephesians 4:32How? Extend FORGIVENESS and seek RECONCILIATION! As far as it depends on you!Step #3 – Bandage the wound -Ephesians 5:1-2How? Put the PAST behind you!Broadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Is it possible to actually be “good” AND “mad”? According to scripture there are times when the right thing to do is get angry. In this message, Chip persuades us that it's possible to know when anger is the best option.Introduction: How to be good and madAnger is a channel to maximize your potential in Christ.God's agenda for your life is for you to trust Him. What's at stake – God gave you this gift of anger to transform your life to make you like Christ.I. God commands us to express our anger. -Ephesians 4:26aII. God commands us to express our anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26bIII. Righteous Indignation: How God Used AngerJesus was visibly angry. -Mark 3Jesus was verbally angry. -Matthew 23Jesus was physically angry. -Mark 11IV. God commands us to resolve our anger before bedtime. -Ephesians 4:26c-27Anger Resolution = “Healing the Wound” so good things can happen.Step #1 – Cleanse the wound -Ephesians 4:31How? CONFESS and REPENT of unresolved anger!Step #2 – Treat the wound -Ephesians 4:32How? Extend FORGIVENESS and seek RECONCILIATION! As far as it depends on you!Step #3 – Bandage the wound -Ephesians 5:1-2How? Put the PAST behind you!Broadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

We hear a lot today about reducing stress and the health benefits of living with less of it. The question is, how do you do that? How do you get ahead of the stress that comes at you each day? Well, there is a way to stop stress before it starts. Chip walks you through some simple steps you can take to gain victory over stress.Introduction: AQ = (E + P) x O426Anger Quotient = (Environment + Perspective) x Obedience to Ephesians 4:26I. EnvironmentMinimize StressEliminate hurryDownsize expectationsLearn to say noAdmit mistakes and imperfectionsLaugh more—don't take life or yourself too seriouslyTake care of yourselfKnow what triggers your anger - HALT: Stop when you're hungry, angry, lonely, or tiredII. PerspectiveMaximize GodGet right with God: believe in Him, confess your sins, forgive others. -James 4:7-8Experience God's unconditional love and acceptance. -Zephaniah 3:17Accept who God made you to be. -Psalm 139:13-16Trust God and His sovereignty—let Him be in control. -Isaiah 40:25-28Be merciful. -Luke 6:35-36Pray about everything. -Philippians 4:6-7Broadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Deadlines, flight delays, traffic jams, crying babies - what do all these have in common? Well, for most of us these situations cause us stress. We are surrounded by stressful events every day! How do we keep the chaos of life from stressing us out? Chip clarifies God's solution for stopping stress BEFORE it starts.Introduction: AQ = (E + P) x O426Anger Quotient = (Environment + Perspective) x Obedience to Ephesians 4:26I. EnvironmentMinimize StressEliminate hurryDownsize expectationsLearn to say noAdmit mistakes and imperfectionsLaugh more—don't take life or yourself too seriouslyTake care of yourselfKnow what triggers your anger - HALT: Stop when you're hungry, angry, lonely, or tiredII. PerspectiveMaximize GodGet right with God: believe in Him, confess your sins, forgive others. -James 4:7-8Experience God's unconditional love and acceptance. -Zephaniah 3:17Accept who God made you to be. -Psalm 139:13-16Trust God and His sovereignty—let Him be in control. -Isaiah 40:25-28Be merciful. -Luke 6:35-36Pray about everything. -Philippians 4:6-7Broadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Tired of anger hurting relationships? Want to stop losing your temper? Chip shows it's possible to control your temper and even turn anger from a foe into a friend.Introduction: How to make anger work for you Anger is like a wild stallion out of control or under control.Our anger holds powerful potential for good and evil; it must be harnessed!The A, B, C, Ds of anger:Acknowledge the angerBacktrack to the primary emotionConsider the causeDetermine how best to deal with itThe practical process: How to deal with your angerAt whom am I angry?What should I do? How do I deal with the situation?When should I deal with it?God's 3-step training method to bridle anger:Step #1: “Be Quick to Hear”Our immediate response to God, others, circumstances, and our anger is to be “receptive listeners” not “reactionary responders.”Key Question: What is this anger telling me? Step #2: “Be Slow to Speak”Our interim response to God, others, circumstances, and our anger is to “think before we speak.”Proverbs 10:19; 13:3; 29:20Key Question: What must I do to prevent a “verbal reflex response?”Step #3: “Be Slow to Anger”Ecclesiastes 7:9Our life changing response to anger begins when we replace “reaction” with “reflection.”Key Question: What root issue is behind this anger? (ABCD Method)Summary:Anger is a choiceAnger is a secondary emotionIt's not wrong to feel angry, it's what you do with it.The A, B, C, Ds of angerBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Tired of anger hurting relationships? Want to stop losing your temper? Chip shows it's possible to control your temper and even turn anger from a foe into a friend.Introduction: How to make anger work for you Anger is like a wild stallion out of control or under control.Our anger holds powerful potential for good and evil; it must be harnessed!The A, B, C, Ds of anger:Acknowledge the angerBacktrack to the primary emotionConsider the causeDetermine how best to deal with itThe practical process: How to deal with your angerAt whom am I angry?What should I do? How do I deal with the situation?When should I deal with it?God's 3-step training method to bridle anger:Step #1: “Be Quick to Hear”Our immediate response to God, others, circumstances, and our anger is to be “receptive listeners” not “reactionary responders.”Key Question: What is this anger telling me? Step #2: “Be Slow to Speak”Our interim response to God, others, circumstances, and our anger is to “think before we speak.”Proverbs 10:19; 13:3; 29:20Key Question: What must I do to prevent a “verbal reflex response?”Step #3: “Be Slow to Anger”Ecclesiastes 7:9Our life changing response to anger begins when we replace “reaction” with “reflection.”Key Question: What root issue is behind this anger? (ABCD Method)Summary:Anger is a choiceAnger is a secondary emotionIt's not wrong to feel angry, it's what you do with it.The A, B, C, Ds of angerBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Your anger, instead of becoming your worst nightmare, can be your best friend. In fact, God wants to turn your anger into a tool that will serve you and help you like never before. Join Chip as he unpacks this powerful tool from God's Word.Introduction: Anger is a secondary emotionIt is easier to be angry than to face the deeper, more sensitive issues of anger.Anger is not the problem. Anger is the red warning light on the dashboard – something under the hood is amiss.We cover stuff inside that God wants to heal, forgive, and restore.Three root issues behind anger:1. HURT = Real or perceived unmet needsTool: “I feel….” Messages – Attack the issue not the person2. FRUSTRATION = Real or perceived unmet expectationsTool: “I desire…” vs. “I demand….” Statements3. INSECURITY = Real or perceived attacks on my worthTool: Ask yourself, “Why am I feeling threatened?”Summary: The first step in overcoming the destructive power of anger is the COURAGE to look below the surface.Anger is the light on the dashboard; something's wrong under the hood.Anger is our way of protecting ourselves from painful, hard-to-deal-with hurts, frustrations, and insecurities.Anger has many faces and despite its power for good, it destroys, unless we learn to…-Acknowledge it-Back-track to the 1st emotion-Consider the real cause-Determine to rightly respondBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Would you like to be able to tame your temper, but you find yourself in a cycle of destructive reactions and explosive responses, and you just don't know how to stop? Join Chip as he explains some biblical tools that will help you get a grip on anger before it gets a grip on you.Introduction: Anger is a secondary emotionIt is easier to be angry than to face the deeper, more sensitive issues of anger.Anger is not the problem. Anger is the red warning light on the dashboard – something under the hood is amiss.We cover stuff inside that God wants to heal, forgive, and restore.Three root issues behind anger:1. HURT = Real or perceived unmet needsTool: “I feel….” Messages – Attack the issue not the person2. FRUSTRATION = Real or perceived unmet expectationsTool: “I desire…” vs. “I demand….” Statements3. INSECURITY = Real or perceived attacks on my worthTool: Ask yourself, “Why am I feeling threatened?”Summary: The first step in overcoming the destructive power of anger is the COURAGE to look below the surface.Anger is the light on the dashboard; something's wrong under the hood.Anger is our way of protecting ourselves from painful, hard-to-deal-with hurts, frustrations, and insecurities.Anger has many faces and despite its power for good, it destroys, unless we learn to…-Acknowledge it-Back-track to the 1st emotion-Consider the real cause-Determine to rightly respondBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Everyone struggles with anger - period! We struggle in different ways: some blow up, some spew, and some repress. So, is it really possible to keep anger from getting the best of us? Join Chip as he uncovers what causes our anger, and what we can do to keep it under control.Introduction: James 1:19-20A look at anger from God's perspective:Definition: Anger is neither good nor bad; it is a “charged,” morally neutral, emotional response of protective preservation.Positively – It can be a healthy emotion that motivates us to correct attitudes, behaviors, or injustices that we perceive to be wrong. -Eph 4:26-27Negatively – It can be an unhealthy and destructive emotional response to protect us from (real or perceived) hurt, frustration, or personal attack. -Pro. 19:19; 22:24; 29:22Anger wears many masks: We EXPRESS our ANGER in such a wide variety of ways that many people assume anger is not an issue in their life.Spewers: Anger is necessary – They're exploding or calculating time bombsStuffers: Anger is wrong – They deny and avoid OR pretend and ignoreLeakers: Showing anger is wrong – They're passive-aggressiveBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What can turn a normal rational person into an out of control monster - destroying relationships, abusing children, spewing threats, and alienating lifelong friends? Join Chip as he reveals the source of that devastating power, and how to keep it under control.Introduction: James 1:19-20A look at anger from God's perspective:Definition: Anger is neither good nor bad; it is a “charged,” morally neutral, emotional response of protective preservation.Positively – It can be a healthy emotion that motivates us to correct attitudes, behaviors, or injustices that we perceive to be wrong. -Eph 4:26-27Negatively – It can be an unhealthy and destructive emotional response to protect us from (real or perceived) hurt, frustration, or personal attack. -Pro. 19:19; 22:24; 29:22Anger wears many masks: We EXPRESS our ANGER in such a wide variety of ways that many people assume anger is not an issue in their life.Spewers: Anger is necessary – They're exploding or calculating time bombsStuffers: Anger is wrong – They deny and avoid OR pretend and ignoreLeakers: Showing anger is wrong – They're passive-aggressiveBroadcast ResourceOvercoming Emotions that Destroy ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsOvercoming Emotions that Destroy Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What do you do when you suspect someone you know is under demonic influence? Do you know what to do? Should you do anything at all, or is this kind of thing reserved for the “professionals?” Join Chip as he tackles the important and controversial subject of deliverance ministries.Intercessory prayer is pivotal and essential for corporate and individual deliverance. With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints, and pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.Summary of Ephesians 6:18-20The means by which believers are to withstand and overcome the attacks of the enemy in spiritual warfare is by consistent, intense, strategic prayer for one another in conjunction with the personal application of the armor of God.Intercessory prayer is our most powerful and strategic corporate weapon in spiritual warfare.What kind of prayer brings God's deliverance and power in the midst of spiritual attack?The ministry of deliveranceBroadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Chip shares what he believes is the most powerful weapon God has given every believer to combat the forces of evil, and he'll tell you how to use it to protect yourself from demonic attack.Intercessory prayer is pivotal and essential for corporate and individual deliverance. With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints, and pray on my behalf, that utterance may be given to me in the opening of my mouth, to make known with boldness the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains; that in proclaiming it I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.Summary of Ephesians 6:18-20The means by which believers are to withstand and overcome the attacks of the enemy in spiritual warfare is by consistent, intense, strategic prayer for one another in conjunction with the personal application of the armor of God.Intercessory prayer is our most powerful and strategic corporate weapon in spiritual warfare.What kind of prayer brings God's deliverance and power in the midst of spiritual attack?The ministry of deliveranceBroadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Ever have wicked thoughts or evil impulses? Discover the source of these wild thoughts and how to combat them.Four facts you need to knowGod has objectively defeated Satan. He has delivered us from sin's penalty and power. In the interim, we are involved in guerilla warfare with demonic forces.As believers, we have been transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the Kingdom of light with all the rights, privileges, and position a child of God entails.The spiritual battle involves a responsibility to “put on” the spiritual protection God has provided. We can resist the enemy's attempts to deceive, accuse, and cast doubt when we stand firm.The great majority of spiritual warfare need never go beyond the regular practice of living out our position in Christ by faith. Our practice of the spiritual armor protects us from Satan's attempts and minimizes any impact by the enemy.There are times however, when we must move beyond “standing firm” and ENGAGE the enemy in actual combatWhen taking significant steps of faith for spiritual growthWhen invading enemy territoryWhen exposing him for who he really isWhen we repent and make a “clean break” with the world, a long-held sin pattern, or an unholy relationshipWhen God is preparing us for a “great work” for His gloryHow to engage the enemy and win: Taking up the shield of FAITHTake the helmet of SALVATIONTake the sword of the SPIRITSummary: How to engage the enemy in spiritual warfarePrerequisite is a HEALTHY spiritual lifeUnderstand your POSITION in ChristDISCERN when demonic influence may be the causeClaim God's promises OUT LOUDTake our authority and position in Christ to COMMAND demonic forces to cease their activity and departBroadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Chip relates the most fearful encounter with demons he ever faced and how you can prepare yourself to do battle with the Enemy.Four facts you need to knowGod has objectively defeated Satan. He has delivered us from sin's penalty and power. In the interim, we are involved in guerilla warfare with demonic forces.As believers, we have been transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the Kingdom of light with all the rights, privileges, and position a child of God entails.The spiritual battle involves a responsibility to “put on” the spiritual protection God has provided. We can resist the enemy's attempts to deceive, accuse, and cast doubt when we stand firm.The great majority of spiritual warfare need never go beyond the regular practice of living out our position in Christ by faith. Our practice of the spiritual armor protects us from Satan's attempts and minimizes any impact by the enemy.There are times however, when we must move beyond “standing firm” and ENGAGE the enemy in actual combatWhen taking significant steps of faith for spiritual growthWhen invading enemy territoryWhen exposing him for who he really isWhen we repent and make a “clean break” with the world, a long-held sin pattern, or an unholy relationshipWhen God is preparing us for a “great work” for His gloryHow to engage the enemy and win: Taking up the shield of FAITHTake the helmet of SALVATIONTake the sword of the SPIRITSummary: How to engage the enemy in spiritual warfarePrerequisite is a HEALTHY spiritual lifeUnderstand your POSITION in ChristDISCERN when demonic influence may be the causeClaim God's promises OUT LOUDTake our authority and position in Christ to COMMAND demonic forces to cease their activity and departBroadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Condemnation. Doubt. Guilt. Is the enemy using these emotions to keep you from God's love and power? How do you get rid of them? Chip explains how you can prepare yourself for spiritual battle and win!Introduction: The South Pacific after WWII was wonThe victory had been won, but battles continued and lives were lost; the bullets were real.The same is true spiritually:Satan was defeated at the Cross.Sin's penalty was paid for all people for all time.Sin's power was broken.Yet, Satan and his host of fallen angels engage in guerilla warfare to discourage, deceive, divide, and destroy God's people and God's program.Believers are commanded to equip and prepare themselves in the strength of the Lord and in His mighty power to stand firm against the enemy's schemes, repel his multi-faceted attacks, and engage and defeat him in specific battles.Four keys to spiritual victoryWe must become AWARE of the Invisible War.We must learn to APPROPRIATE God's protection for daily living.We must learn to ENGAGE the enemy with supernatural weapons.We must utilize God's means of deliverance when spiritually attacked.How can you prepare yourself for satanic attack?Having girded your loins with TRUTHHaving put on the breastplate of RIGHTEOUSNESSHaving shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of PEACEApplicationKnow and understand the content of the Gospel. -1 Cor. 15:1–5; Eph. 2:1–9Know the basis for your eternal security and the assurance of your salvation. Security – Rom. 8:38–39; Eph. 1:13–14. Assurance – 1 Jn. 5:11-13Faith is based on facts, not feelings.Sharing your faith is one of the most powerful faith-builders available, often “the best defense is a good offense.”Broadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

The Bible shows we're in a conflict, and Satan wants you to fail. Chip reveals how to be victorious over the Evil One by using the supernatural weapons God provides to protect you and your loved ones. Fight back!Introduction: The South Pacific after WWII was wonThe victory had been won, but battles continued and lives were lost; the bullets were real.The same is true spiritually:Satan was defeated at the Cross.Sin's penalty was paid for all people for all time.Sin's power was broken.Yet, Satan and his host of fallen angels engage in guerilla warfare to discourage, deceive, divide, and destroy God's people and God's program.Believers are commanded to equip and prepare themselves in the strength of the Lord and in His mighty power to stand firm against the enemy's schemes, repel his multi-faceted attacks, and engage and defeat him in specific battles.Four keys to spiritual victoryWe must become AWARE of the Invisible War.We must learn to APPROPRIATE God's protection for daily living.We must learn to ENGAGE the enemy with supernatural weapons.We must utilize God's means of deliverance when spiritually attacked.How can you prepare yourself for satanic attack?Having girded your loins with TRUTHHaving put on the breastplate of RIGHTEOUSNESSHaving shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of PEACEApplicationKnow and understand the content of the Gospel. -1 Cor. 15:1–5; Eph. 2:1–9Know the basis for your eternal security and the assurance of your salvation. Security – Rom. 8:38–39; Eph. 1:13–14. Assurance – 1 Jn. 5:11-13Faith is based on facts, not feelings.Sharing your faith is one of the most powerful faith-builders available, often “the best defense is a good offense.”Broadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Can a Christian be possessed? Can Satan read your mind or control your thoughts? Chip shares that victory over Satan requires knowing who he is, how he works, and what weapons he uses against you.GENERAL Command (Eph. 6:10) “Allow yourself to be continually strengthened by the power already made available to you in your new position and relationship with Christ.” It is the power that raised Christ from the dead and now dwells in you.SPECIFIC Command (Eph. 6:11) How? By continually and repeatedly putting on, at specific points in time, the spiritual protection God has provided for you... for the express purpose of holding on to your position in Christ as you are bombarded by Satanic strategies designed to destroy you and/or render you ineffective in Kingdom pursuits.The REASON for Commands (Eph. 6:12) It's because our real struggle is not against physical/material adversaries, but against a hierarchy of demonic forces doing battle in the spiritual realm.Five basic truths about spiritual warfare:There is an INVISIBLE world that is just as real as the visible world.We are involved in an invisible WAR, a cosmic conflict that has eternal implications.Our foe is FORMIDABLE and his goal is to destroy us and discredit the cause of Christ.We must RESPECT our foe, but not FEAR him – become acutely aware of his “methods,” but not be preoccupied by them.As believers in Christ, we do not fight “for” victory, we fight “FROM” victory. In Christ's power we are invincible!Summary:Satan is a DEFEATED foe. -Jn 12:31Jesus DESTROYED the work of the devil. -Col 2:14-15We are VICTORS in Christ. -1 Cor 15:55-58We have the POWER and resources to resist Satan and demonic attacks. -1 Jn 4:4We must LEARN how to put on the “full armor of God” to experience in daily living the victory we already possess. -Eph 6:13-17Broadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Demons, Satan, and the powers of darkness are real and at work. Do you know how to recognize and combat them? Chip begins "The Invisible War" with an overview of who the Enemy is and how they operate.GENERAL Command (Eph. 6:10) “Allow yourself to be continually strengthened by the power already made available to you in your new position and relationship with Christ.” It is the power that raised Christ from the dead and now dwells in you.SPECIFIC Command (Eph. 6:11) How? By continually and repeatedly putting on, at specific points in time, the spiritual protection God has provided for you... for the express purpose of holding on to your position in Christ as you are bombarded by Satanic strategies designed to destroy you and/or render you ineffective in Kingdom pursuits.The REASON for Commands (Eph. 6:12) It's because our real struggle is not against physical/material adversaries, but against a hierarchy of demonic forces doing battle in the spiritual realm.Five basic truths about spiritual warfare:There is an INVISIBLE world that is just as real as the visible world.We are involved in an invisible WAR, a cosmic conflict that has eternal implications.Our foe is FORMIDABLE and his goal is to destroy us and discredit the cause of Christ.We must RESPECT our foe, but not FEAR him – become acutely aware of his “methods,” but not be preoccupied by them.As believers in Christ, we do not fight “for” victory, we fight “FROM” victory. In Christ's power we are invincible!Summary:Satan is a DEFEATED foe. -Jn 12:31Jesus DESTROYED the work of the devil. -Col 2:14-15We are VICTORS in Christ. -1 Cor 15:55-58We have the POWER and resources to resist Satan and demonic attacks. -1 Jn 4:4We must LEARN how to put on the “full armor of God” to experience in daily living the victory we already possess. -Eph 6:13-17Broadcast ResourceThe Invisible War ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsThe Invisible War Small Group OfferConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

When your child goes off to college, starts a career, or gets married, how does your role as mom and dad change? In this program, Chip continues his insightful conversation with Jim Burns, "Doing Life with Your Adult Children." They discuss this dramatic, relational shift from one of direct authority to one of mutual respect, which causes many parents to feel lost about their place in their kids' lives. Learn why parents should embrace this new chapter and strive to foster a healthy adult-to-adult relationship that encourages their children's independence.6 Principles to Parenting Your Adult KidsYour ROLE as a parent has to change. -Psalm 127:3-5aUnsolicited advice is usually taken as CRITICISM. -Proverbs 9:8-10Become a STUDENT of their culture. -1 Corinthians 9:20-22When your grown children VIOLATE your values, you can't want it more than they want it. -Proverbs 14:12, 21:1They will never know how far the town is if you CARRY them on your back. -Hebrews 12:11Financial independence and responsibility is the GOAL. -Luke 16:10Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

For the first 18 years of a child's life, their parent plays a critical role as caregiver, guide, and mentor. But what happens when kids leave the safety of home and go off on their own? How does a parent's role change? In this program, Chip talks to author Jim Burns about his book “Doing Life with Your Adult Children.” They discuss the new complexities of the parent-child relationship and highlight the boundaries that parents need to set to empower their kids without intruding on their lives.6 Principles to Parenting Your Adult KidsYour ROLE as a parent has to change. -Psalm 127:3-5aUnsolicited advice is usually taken as CRITICISM. -Proverbs 9:8-10Become a STUDENT of their culture. -1 Corinthians 9:20-22When your grown children VIOLATE your values, you can't want it more than they want it. -Proverbs 14:12, 21:1They will never know how far the town is if you CARRY them on your back. -Hebrews 12:11Financial independence and responsibility is the GOAL. -Luke 16:10Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Chip Ingram continues his conversation with apologist Sean McDowell, offering guidance for parents whose child is struggling with their gender identity or sexuality. They explain how to reject parental guilt, adopt a long-term perspective, and initiate dialogue rooted in both love and biblical truth.Key Topics:Your Initial Response: How to lead with love and preserve the relationship.Giving Yourself Grace: Avoiding the trap of self-blame and the "perfect parent" myth.Moving Forward: The power of asking questions and listening to understand.Holding Firm: How to balance unconditional love with biblical conviction.A Proactive Culture: Creating a safe home for conversations about faith and sexuality.Defending God's Design: Answering the "outdated Bible" objection with Scripture and reason.Actionable Steps for Parents:Lead with Unconditional Love: Affirm your relationship first to establish a foundation of safety and trust.Listen More, Lecture Less: Ask thoughtful questions to understand their heart and experience, not just to correct them.Hold Firm with Grace: Maintain your biblical convictions with compassion, establishing loving boundaries without compromising truth.Build a Culture of Conversation: Intentionally create a home where it's safe to discuss any topic before it becomes a crisis.Know the "Why": Be ready to explain the goodness and purpose behind God's design, not just the rules.Use Their Interests as a Bridge: Use your child's passions (movies, hobbies, etc.) as a natural starting point for deeper conversations.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Chip interviews Sean McDowell to tackle the conflict between the Bible and modern culture on sex and gender. They offer parents a practical roadmap to guide their children with biblical truth and compassion.Key Topics:Your Initial Response: How to lead with love and preserve the relationship.Giving Yourself Grace: Avoiding the trap of self-blame and the "perfect parent" myth.Moving Forward: The power of asking questions and listening to understand.Holding Firm: How to balance unconditional love with biblical conviction.A Proactive Culture: Creating a safe home for conversations about faith and sexuality.Defending God's Design: Answering the "outdated Bible" objection with Scripture and reason.Actionable Steps for Parents:Lead with Unconditional Love: Affirm your relationship first to establish a foundation of safety and trust.Listen More, Lecture Less: Ask thoughtful questions to understand their heart and experience, not just to correct them.Hold Firm with Grace: Maintain your biblical convictions with compassion, establishing loving boundaries without compromising truth.Build a Culture of Conversation: Intentionally create a home where it's safe to discuss any topic before it becomes a crisis.Know the "Why": Be ready to explain the goodness and purpose behind God's design, not just the rules.Use Their Interests as a Bridge: Use your child's passions (movies, hobbies, etc.) as a natural starting point for deeper conversations.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What are the top two discipline issues you're facing with your kids right now? Think about it - have you got ‘em? If you want to learn how to develop a game plan to address those specific issues, join us for this program!Case Study #1 – Reuben Hill (Minnesota Report)Summary: The balanced authoritative parent, who gives high support (love) and high control (discipline), typically produces children with high self-esteem, good coping skills, and a positive relationship with parents.Case Study #2 – Hebrews 12 - Christians A.D. 66-70Summary: Discipline is teaching obedience to God and His Word through consistent consequences (actions) and clear instructions (words) in an atmosphere of love.Five characteristics of discipline:The necessity of discipline = To deter DESTRUCTION. -Heb. 12:4The means of discipline = The ACTIONS and WORDS. -Heb. 12:5The motive in discipline = To express LOVE. -Heb. 12:6-9The goal of discipline = To teach OBEDIENCE or SUBMISSION. -Heb. 12:9The result of discipline = Short term PAIN and long term GAIN. -Heb. 12:10,11Two key biblical concepts1) Actions: Consistent consequencesSeven steps to discipline:Clear WARNING.Establish responsibility.Avoid EMBARASSMENT.Communicate grief.Flick the WRIST.Sincere repentance.Unconditional LOVE.2) Words: Clear instructionsFour ways to use words to bring about correction:Say “no” FIRMLY.CLEAR WARNING of consequences.Use CONTRACTS.Use CONSEQUENCESBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Discipline. It's only one word, but it conjures up a multitude of thoughts or memories. In this message, Chip encourages us that done properly, discipline can actually build a strong, positive bond between you and your kids.Case Study #1 – Reuben Hill (Minnesota Report)Summary: The balanced authoritative parent, who gives high support (love) and high control (discipline), typically produces children with high self-esteem, good coping skills, and a positive relationship with parents.Case Study #2 – Hebrews 12 - Christians A.D. 66-70Summary: Discipline is teaching obedience to God and His Word through consistentconsequences (actions) and clear instructions (words) in an atmosphere of love.Five characteristics of discipline:The necessity of discipline = To deter DESTRUCTION. -Heb. 12:4The means of discipline = The ACTIONS and WORDS. -Heb. 12:5The motive in discipline = To express LOVE. -Heb. 12:6-9The goal of discipline = To teach OBEDIENCE or SUBMISSION. -Heb. 12:9The result of discipline = Short term PAIN and long term GAIN. -Heb. 12:10,11Two key biblical concepts1) Actions: Consistent consequencesSeven steps to discipline:Clear WARNING.Establish responsibility.Avoid EMBARASSMENT.Communicate grief.Flick the WRIST.Sincere repentance.Unconditional LOVE.2) Words: Clear instructionsFour ways to use words to bring about correction:Say “no” FIRMLY.CLEAR WARNING of consequences.Use CONTRACTS.Use CONSEQUENCESBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

It's a fact - your children fail. And when they do, how do you respond? Today, Chip uncovers why the Bible says that failure is never final, and that God can teach you to respond to your children exactly the same way He responds to you when you fail. Chip shares how to respond to your child's failure in a way that strengthens them not to give up, to grow, and to become better able to handle failure in the future.Introduction: “Five Smooth Stones” - God has been in the business of helping children defeat the “evil giants” in their world for a long time.Teach them to suffer wellTeach them to work “Unto the Lord”Teach them to manage their lives wiselyTeach them to discern good from evilTeach them to live grace-filled livesBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Let's face it - our kids live in a world that is hostile, difficult, and painful. They're in a battle for their lives - whether it's sex, drugs, alcohol, peer pressure, or just the culture of bigger, better, more. The question is, how do you help your child face these battles, see them for what they are, and then WIN? Chip answers that question and encourages us to step up and step in to make a difference in our kids' lives.Introduction: “Five Smooth Stones” - God has been in the business of helping children defeat the “evil giants” in their world for a long time.Teach them to suffer wellTeach them to work “Unto the Lord”Teach them to manage their lives wiselyTeach them to discern good from evilTeach them to live grace-filled livesBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Have you ever seen a 5-year old drive a car? Well, you say, “Don't be ridiculous!” Right! They watch you drive for years, before they begin to drive – with you in the car, and finally, they're able to drive on their own. That's a word picture for where Chip is headed today. Your children watch you as you live in obedience to the Lord, they practice obedience with you alongside, and finally, they live a life of love and obedience to God all on their own. Exactly how that process unfolds is what Chip explains in this message.Introduction: God's Dream for Your ChildYou must understand your child's two primary needs are for SIGNIFICANCE and SECURITY.You must recognize your child's primary responsibility is to learn OBEDIENCE.You must remember, obedience is a DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESS.You must commit to providing the necessary RESOURCES for your child to learn obedience.Obedience is achieved when your child has TRANSFERRED his/her primary love, submission, and dependency from YOU to JESUS CHRIST.Three characteristics of righteous childrenThey make wise DECISIONS. -Philippians 1:9-11They keep their COMMITMENTS. -Proverbs 20:6They care genuinely for OTHERS. -John 15:13Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

We all have dreams for our children. But do you know that God has a dream for your child that is higher and even more amazing than yours? If that's true, how do you cooperate with God to allow His highest and best purposes to become a reality in the life of your son or your daughter? Join Chip and find out how to develop your child's full potential.Introduction: God's Dream for Your ChildYou must understand your child's two primary needs are for SIGNIFICANCE and SECURITY.You must recognize your child's primary responsibility is to learn OBEDIENCE.You must remember, obedience is a DEVELOPMENTAL PROCESS.You must commit to providing the necessary RESOURCES for your child to learn obedience.Obedience is achieved when your child has TRANSFERRED his/her primary love, submission, and dependency from YOU to JESUS CHRIST.Three characteristics of righteous childrenThey make wise DECISIONS. -Philippians 1:9-11They keep their COMMITMENTS. -Proverbs 20:6They care genuinely for OTHERS. -John 15:13Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Conflicts with our kids are inevitable. And one of the most intimidating things about parenting is the fear of losing our kids when these conflicts present themselves. Join Chip has he lays out 8 keys that'll help you build securely bonded relationships with your kids. If you want to learn how you and your child can weather the storms ahead, this message is for you.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

One of the biggest questions parents are asking today is, “How do we raise positive kids in such a negative world?” In this message, Chip explains that God has a plan for parenting and the Bible clearly lays it out. If you long to strengthen the relationships with your children and increase the joy in your parenting journey, the first step begins here.Four principles for positive parentingEffective parenting begins with positive CLEAR-CUT OBJECTIVES! -Ephesians 6:4Effective parenting demands we PRACTICE what we PREACH. -1 Corinthians 4:14-16Effective parents build relationships that BOND. -1 Thessalonians 2:7-8, 11-128 “Keys” that build relationships that bondUNCONDITIONAL loveScheduled TIMEFOCUSED attentionEYE contactONGOING communicationMeaningful TOUCHHave FUN togetherPRAY together oftenEffective parenting requires CONSTANT REPAIR and ONGOING MAINTENANCE. -1 John 1:9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod's perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

What is the single biggest source of conflict in your marriage right now? Join Chip as he teaches you how to fight fair in marriage.What I learned on the sandlot from the “Barnes Boys”Conflict is normal, it's an opportunity for growth, it must be diffused or it will destroy, and it demands rules so no one gets hurtGod's perspective on conflict:Conflict is inevitable in a fallen world. -Jn. 16:33Conflict flows from our differences and our selfishness. -Jms. 4:1-3Conflict is an opportunity for growth. -Phil. 2:1-4The most common communication styles:Turtles: The goal is to avoid.Sharks: The goal is to win.How to diffuse conflict in your marriage:D: DEFINE the problem (on your own). -Pr. 15:14 I: INITIATE a time to talk. -Matt. 5:23-24F: FOCUS on the “perceived” problem, not the person. -Pr. 18:19 F: FEEL their pain. -Pr. 17:17U: UNCOVER the root problem. -Pr. 20:5S: SET things right between you. -Jms. 5:16E: ESTABLISH a specific action plan that addresses the issue discussed. -Jms. 1:22-25Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In this message, Chip explains how you can improve the communication in your marriage. Communication is the highway on which love travels. Chip shares how you can start building your own relational super highway.Understanding the communication process:Definition: The meeting of MEANINGS.“Communication is the privilege of exchanging vulnerabilities.” -Norman Wright“Communication is the process of sharing yourself verbally and nonverbally in such a way that the other person can both accept and understand what you are saying.” -Norman WrightThe complete messageWords alone = 7% of meaningTone of voice = 38% of meaningFacial expression, gestures, posture, total non-verbal = 55% of meaning5 Principles that will transform communication in your home:BE HONEST - Speak the truth in love. -Ephesians 4:15, 25BE ANGRY- Deal with anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26-27BE DILIGENT - Work hard on your relationship. -Ephesians 4:28BE POSITIVE - Don't wound with your words. -Ephesians 4:29-31BE FORGIVING - Be the first to say, “I'm sorry.” -Ephesians 4:32Practical skills and suggestions to enhance communication in your home:The conference - A tool for listening. Ask Three Questions:What are you concerned about?What do you desire?What are you willing to do?Word pictures - A tool for understanding“Care” lists - A tool for building: List seven simple, loving, “caring behaviors” that are non-conflict producing and not expensive that make you feel loved by your spouse.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

This message focuses on a candid look at communication. If you want to learn how to improve the communication in your marriage, to share hearts instead of just exchanging words, then join Chip.Understanding the communication process: Definition: The meeting of MEANINGS.“Communication is the privilege of exchanging vulnerabilities.” -Norman Wright“Communication is the process of sharing yourself verbally and nonverbally in such a way that the other person can both accept and understand what you are saying.” -Norman WrightThe complete messageWords alone = 7% of meaningTone of voice = 38% of meaningFacial expression, gestures, posture, total non-verbal = 55% of meaning5 Principles that will transform communication in your home:BE HONEST - Speak the truth in love. -Ephesians 4:15, 25BE ANGRY- Deal with anger appropriately. -Ephesians 4:26-27BE DILIGENT - Work hard on your relationship. -Ephesians 4:28BE POSITIVE - Don't wound with your words. -Ephesians 4:29-31BE FORGIVING - Be the first to say, “I'm sorry.” -Ephesians 4:32Practical skills and suggestions to enhance communication in your home:The conference - A tool for listening. Ask Three Questions: What are you concerned about?What do you desire?What are you willing to do?Word pictures - A tool for understanding“Care” lists - A tool for building: List seven simple, loving, “caring behaviors” that are non-conflict producing and not expensive that make you feel loved by your spouse.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Have you ever forgiven someone who hurt you, only to have resentful feelings begin to fester a short time later? How does that scenario change when it is your spouse who caused you pain? In this program, Chip explains why forgiveness is a powerful skill couples need to harness. Learn about the dangers of unresolved conflict in relationships and the freedom that comes when you genuinely say, “I forgive you.”Introduction:The foundation of a great family begins with a deep, intimate marriage.Three skills for a great marriage:Skill #1: FORGIVINGSkill #2: COMMUNICATIONSkill #3: RESOLVING CONFLICTForgiveness – What it's not and what it is:Forgiveness is NOT a quick fix or an excuse to be a “doormat” by repeatedly accepting hurtful behavior without addressing the root issuesForgiveness IS a spiritual discipline that involves three distinct parts:It's a DECISIONIt's a PROCESSIt actually is ACCOMPLISHEDThe parable of the unforgiving servant:Matthew 18:21-35Three-part method for forgiveness:Act: Choose to forgive.Process: Actively pray and bless the person with your words and actions.Accomplished: The true test of forgiveness is when you can genuinely rejoice in the other person's success and well-being.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In Genesis 2, we read about how God uniquely created men and women. Those differences can loom so large at times that it is almost as if the sexes are from entirely different planets. In this program, Chip explains how couples can bridge the gap between each other to communicate effectively, understand each other's needs, and navigate challenges together. Discover how to have a thriving, God-honoring relationship with your spouse.Foundational Marriage TruthsFoundational truth #4 (for men):I will choose to LOVE my wife today in a SPECIFIC and SACRIFICIAL way that is meaningful to her. She is God's gift to me and I will CHERISH her just as Christ loves His bride, the Church.Key verse:Ephesians 5:28-29Foundational truth #5 (for women):I will choose to ENCOURAGE and RESPECT my husband today in a specific and sacrificial way that is meaningful to him. He is God's gift to me and I will BUILD HIM UP with my words and actions for the glory of Christ.Key verse:Proverbs 31:10-12Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Every marriage experiences conflict, tragedies, and adversity. The question is: will you and your spouse allow those hardships to be deal-breakers or heart-makers in your relationship? In this program, Chip dispels the illusion that marriage is a care-free journey, without bumps in the road. He reveals that–contrary to popular belief–challenges and suffering are not signs of trouble in your marriage, but an opportunity to deepen your intimacy with your mate.Introduction:Marriage is an UNCONDITIONAL commitment to an IMPERFECT person.Review:Foundational Truth #1:You can't live this life without the supernatural power of God, so following Jesus personally is the number one priority.Foundational Truth #2:You must choose to love your mate whether you feel like it or not. Foundational Marriage TruthsFoundational Truth #3:We will have ongoing challenges with communication, sex, finances, parenting, and extended family. These issues are not “DEAL BREAKERS,” they are “HEART MAKERS” as we learn to listen, understand, and follow God's path.Key verse:James 1:2-5Foundational Truth #6:I will not consider a divorce as an OPTION and I will never threaten my spouse with divorce. I have made a holy and binding COVENANT before God to let nothing undermine our LIFELONG commitment.Key verse:Matthew 19:6-9Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

There is no shortage of great podcasts, popular books, and helpful resources to help you strengthen your marriage. But in this program, Chip explains that there's one simple discipline that, if you commit to it, you will transform your relationship. Listen in to learn what this fundamental habit is and the steps you can follow to make it a daily priority in your life.Introduction:God's original design:Marriage was created as a sacred stewardship to reflect the unity and love of the Trinity.Satan's agenda:To destroy or pervert marriage by telling lies that make it self-centeredFoundational Marriage TruthsFoundational truth #1:In my own strength, I am INCAPABLE of being the husband of wife God calls me to be. Therefore, my first priority for a successful marriage is my own vibrant DAILY walk with God. By His Word and His Spirit in community with fellow believers God will give me ALL I need to become a loving and godly husband or wife.Key verses:2 Peter 1:3-4Galatians 2:20The BIO Acronym:B: Before God DailyI: In communityO: On missionFoundational truth #2:I will CHOOSE to love my mate by God's power and grace in all circumstances. Love is giving another person what they NEED the most, when they DESERVE it the least, at great PERSONAL COST.Key verse:1 Corinthians 13:4-8aBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In the Book of Proverbs, King Solomon reminds us that “life and death are in the power of the tongue.” So it should come as no surprise that how we use our words really matters, especially when we talk to and about our spouse. In this program, Chip helps us better guard what comes out of our mouths and how we can repair past wounds we have created with careless or harsh comments. Discover how to cultivate a more loving and supportive environment with your mate.Introduction:Have you ever wondered why a little comment can cause such a big argument with your spouse?Fighting lies with truthLie #14 (for women):My husband's attitude makes no sense to me. He gets so upset when I make even the smallest comment in front of others about something he did wrong.The truth:Husbands fear FUTILITY, the sense that they don't measure up. That's why my AFFIRMATION, refusing to CRITICIZE publicly, and PHYSICAL intimacy build up his confidence.Key verse:Philippians 2:3-4Lie #15 (for men):My wife's attitude makes no sense to me. If I joke about her gaining weight or take notice of other women, she comes unglued.The truth:Women fear ABANDONMENT, of losing the relationship. That's why saying “I LOVE you,” being a good LISTENER, and showing AFFECTION in public build up her sense of belonging.Key verse:Philippians 2:3-4Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

There has been a dramatic shift in the family dynamic over the last 50 to 60 years. Back then, men typically went to work to earn money, while women managed the house and cared for the kids. In this program, Chip Ingram raises a few vital questions: how does this traditional structure compare to the realities of how families function now? And what does the Bible have to say about the roles men and women play in their households? Join us for those profound answers!Introduction:“Relationships just don't work well when the man neglects to take the lead when he should, neglects to make decisions at home, and fails to be proactive in his involvement with his family.” -“Passive Men, Wild Women” by Pierre MornellFighting lies with truthLie #12 (for men):Husbands are to earn the money and wives are to take care of the kids and the house.The truth:As a husband, I am the SERVANT LEADER in our home. I am responsible to provide for and protect my family's physical, spiritual, and emotional needs, as I MODEL Jesus every day.Key verse:Ephesians 5:1-2Lie #13 (for women):My husband is almost like another child I have to take care of. If I didn't handle our finances, the house, our children, and major decisions, this place would fall apart tomorrow.The truth:When I take care of everything myself, I'm actually usurping my husband's GOD-GIVEN role. Until I STOP taking care of everything, my husband will never step up and lead.Key verse:Proverbs 3:5-6Breaking the cycleWomen: Refuse to do things that are your spouse's jobMen: Step up and own the responsibilityBroadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In this program, Chip stresses the devastating impact unresolved conflict has on a marriage. Every marriage will eventually face struggles and arguments over four key areas:RolesIn-lawsMoneySexFighting lies with truthLie #9:Getting help for our marriage from a counselor or a mentor is for losers. We should be able to figure this out on our own, and besides, we don't want to broadcast our problems.The truth:Every great athlete, artist, and business executive knows the value of a COACH. We all get stuck on occasion and need help to work through the issues we can't see for ourselves.Key verse:1 Peter 5:5Lie #10 (for women):All he cares about is work and sports. I feel like I'm left to do all the work of raising our kids and taking care of our home. I wonder sometimes if he even cares.The truth:Men default to areas where they feel confident. Your husband has fears and insecurities about being a SPIRITUAL LEADER and EFFECTIVE FATHER. Criticism and disrespect will heighten those fears and push him away.Key verse:1 Peter 3:1-2Lie #11 (for men):All my wife cares about is the kids and the calendar. Our sex life is on life support because she's always tired or making excuses. Sometimes I wonder if she even cares.The truth:Women default to areas where they feel confident. Your wife has fears and insecurities about her VALUE, IDENTITY, and physical ATTRACTIVENESS. Sarcasm about sex, her looks, or her preoccupation with the kids will only reinforce her feelings of inadequacy.Key verse:Ephesians 5:28-29Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

When tackling an important project, it is natural to want to divide all the tasks fairly, so everyone shares the responsibilities and weight of the job. However, in this program, Chip Ingram cautions that while that strategy may be successful in the workplace, it often causes stress, burnout, and resentment at home. Hear what God's Word says about an all-in partnership with your spouse, that is deeply rewarding and life-giving.Fighting lies with truthLie #6:Marriage is a 50-50 proposition. As long as everyone does their part everything will be okay.The truth:Marriage is a 100%-100% proposition. It is an UNCONDITIONAL commitment to an imperfect person. It's giving the other person what they need the MOST, when they DESERVE it the least, at great PERSONAL COST.Key verse:John 13:34-35Lie #7:Marriage shouldn't be this difficult. No matter how hard I work it seems like we always have issues to work through. I really wonder if it's worth it.The truth:Everything of great value requires COMMITMENT, SACRIFICE, and PERSEVERANCE. As my spouse and I face challenges and overcome them, our intimacy and joy will far outweigh our present problems.Key verse:Galatians 6:9Lie #8:I've tried hard to make this marriage work, but it's too far gone. God wants me to be happy and I know He'll understand if I get a divorce.The truth:God HATES divorce. No marriage is beyond repair. If Jesus can raise the dead, He can certainly RESURRECT my marriage.Key verse:Malachi 2:16Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

In this program, hear what the research reveals about cohabitation and long-term relationships, and why this sacred covenant is so much more than just a simple piece of paper.Fighting lies with truthLie #3:Marriage is merely a man-made set of rules and restrictions. I can tailor my marriage however I want to fit my needs.The truth:Marriage is an institution created by God. He designed it with specific guidelines and roles to provide SPIRITUAL, EMOTIONAL, and PHYSICAL intimacy as a family's foundation.Key verse:Genesis 2:24-25Lie #4 (for men):Until my wife shows me the respect and physical affection that I need, she shouldn't expect me to step up and lead my family God's way.The truth:It is tempting to wait for my wife to do her part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the HUSBAND God wants me to be.Key verse:Ephesians 5:25Lie #5 (for women):Until my husband takes the initiative in the financial, emotional, and spiritual aspects of our relationship, he shouldn't expect me to show him the respect and affection God calls me to as a wife.The truth:It is tempting to wait for my husband to do his part before I do mine. But the only person I can change is ME. Transformation will occur when I FOCUS on being the WIFE God wants me to be.Key verse:Ephesians 5:22-24Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Has a selfish act or a hurtful comment from your spouse caused you to think, “I thought they loved me?” or “Did I make a mistake marrying this person?” In this program, Chip Ingram confronts these common yet dangerous misbeliefs with powerful truth from Scripture. Better understand the relational fallout of this lie and the practical ways to eliminate these harmful thoughts from your mind when they arise.Introduction: Among evangelical couples, what does the research actually say are the biggest issues in their life?”Marriage strugglesParenting in a secular cultureFighting lies with truthLie #1:When I finally meet “the right person,” everything will work out fine.The truth:Marrying the right person is CRUCIAL, but even with the greatest mate, a successful marriage requires following GOD'S DESIGN, putting in the hard work, persevering through difficulties, and relying on the Holy Spirit.Key verse:Hebrews 10:36Lie #2:When I experience disappointment, annoyance, and anger toward my spouse, that means I'm “falling out of love” and I may have married the wrong person.The truth:CONFLICT and NEGATIVE emotions are not only normal, they are essential to learning to COMMUNICATE and forgive each other in the process of becoming one.Key verse:Ephesians 4:32Don't buy the LIES. Do it GOD'S WAY.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

The Apostle Paul reminds us in Ephesians that a Christian's battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of darkness. Join us as Chip exposes powerful lies that have misled believers for centuries and are undermining the institution of marriage.The command: Walk differentlyWalking worthy of your CALLING -Ephesians 4:1, 17Walking in LOVE, like Christ -Ephesians 5:2Walking as children of LIGHT -Ephesians 5:8Walking not as unwise, but as WISE -Ephesians 5:15How?By letting your relationship with God—with Jesus and by the power of the Holy Spirit—be the one central, most important thing that focuses your mind around the truth of how to live. -Ephesians 5:15-20By applying the instructions for the Spirit-filled life to the family structure. -Ephesians 5:21-6:4The ultimate context:The armor of God is detailed immediately after family instructions to frame the family as a primary spiritual battlefield for fighting lies. -Ephesians 6:10-18Fighting for your familyIdentify lies and understand where they come from and what they do.Understand that lies make it impossible for children to grow up in a safe, stable, supportive environment where they feel valued, encouraged, and supported.Recognize that the most dangerous lies are the ones that you believe to the point where you think it's good.The family as a witnessFew things will be more important to show the world the love of Christ than marriages that reflect Jesus and His Church.Our mission: To show the world that there is hope by identifying lies in our families and culture, and building Spirit-powered homes that glorify God.Broadcast ResourceDownload Free MP3Message NotesAdditional Resource MentionsMarriage Truth Cards Offer"Uninvited Guests" ResourcesConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

When your whole spiritual engine breaks down and you've messed up so bad that you're running away from God, you may think there's no hope. When your faith fails, are you ready for this? God remains faithful. Why? Because He can't deny Himself. It is part of God's character. He is absolutely faithful.Defining the faithfulness of GodDefinition = “Steadfast in affection or allegiance – loyal.Synonyms – Dependable, trustworthy, loyal, staunch, resolute, constant, reliable, true to one's word, keeps one's promises, true to and consistent to one's character, someone “who comes through for you.”Why is God able to be faithful 100% of the time?He is all-knowing – He is never caught off guard. -Romans 11:33-36He is all-powerful – He never encounters anything or anyone who can thwart His plans or purposes.He is holy – He is pure, honest, full of integrity, unable to lie, and therefore, is always consistent with His character and His Word. -Isaiah 6:1-6He is eternal – He is not affected by space or time; He knows the end from the beginning. -Psalm 90:2He is omnipresent – Nothing can happen outside the sphere of His influence. -Psalm 139:7-11He is immutable – He never changes; is never different then He is now, He is never in a bad mood, and never has a bad day. -Malachi 3:6, Hebrews 13:8How does God reveal His faithfulness to us?Through His CREATIONThrough His PEOPLEThrough His CHARACTERThrough His WORDThrough His SHAPING of our livesHow can we respond to God's faithfulness?Put your PAST behind you today! -1 John 1:9Bring your PRESENT problems, pains, and failures to Jesus today! -Matthew 11:28-30Put your HOPE for the future in the One who will never let you down! -Jeremiah 17:5-8Broadcast ResourceThe Real God ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsDaily DiscipleshipA.W. Tozer - The Knowledge of the HolyConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

The Bible tells us that God is faithful to His Word. That means that we can count on what He's written to us in scripture. Want proof? Join Chip as he discusses what it means for God to be faithful to His Word.Defining the faithfulness of GodDefinition = “Steadfast in affection or allegiance – loyal.Synonyms – Dependable, trustworthy, loyal, staunch, resolute, constant, reliable, true to one's word, keeps one's promises, true to and consistent to one's character, someone “who comes through for you.”Why is God able to be faithful 100% of the time?He is all-knowing – He is never caught off guard. -Romans 11:33-36He is all-powerful – He never encounters anything or anyone who can thwart His plans or purposes. He is holy – He is pure, honest, full of integrity, unable to lie, and therefore, is always consistent with His character and His Word. -Isaiah 6:1-6He is eternal – He is not affected by space or time; He knows the end from the beginning. -Psalm 90:2He is omnipresent – Nothing can happen outside the sphere of His influence. -Psalm 139:7-11He is immutable – He never changes; is never different then He is now, He is never in a bad mood, and never has a bad day. -Malachi 3:6, Hebrews 13:8How does God reveal His faithfulness to us?Through His CREATIONThrough His PEOPLEThrough His CHARACTERThrough His WORDThrough His SHAPING of our livesHow can we respond to God's faithfulness?Put your PAST behind you today! -1 John 1:9Bring your PRESENT problems, pains, and failures to Jesus today! -Matthew 11:28-30Put your HOPE for the future in the One who will never let you down! -Jeremiah 17:5-8Broadcast ResourceThe Real God ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsDaily DiscipleshipA.W. Tozer - The Knowledge of the HolyConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

People play all kinds of games when it comes to love. Our minds can get wrapped up in ego and selfishness that hinder love at its best. God demonstrates His love in ways that are so different from ours. Join Chip as he explores God's love and what could happen if we stop looking for love and start giving it away instead.Introduction - Three facts about loveFact #1: It's a universal need - Everyone is looking for love!Fact #2: There's a universal solution - God loves all people everywhere and longs to meet the deepest needs of every heart for love!Fact #3: There's a tragic disconnection - Even so, most people remain starved for love… for three primary reasons:They don't know God loves them.They know of God's love, but have not received it.They have received God's love, but don't know how to experience it in daily life.Love is giving another person what they need the most, when they deserve it the least, at great personal cost.God reveals His love to us through:CREATION - He made you for Himself.PROVIDENCE - He shows His kindness to all.INCARNATION - He is proactively pursuing you.DISCIPLINES - He chastises us to protect us from self-destructive behavior.INDWELLING - He supernaturally pours His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit.JESUS – The Second Person of the Trinity demonstrated the nature of God's love for us.How must we respond to God's love?We must RECEIVE IT by faith in our hearts. -John 3:16, 1:12We must BELIEVE IT by faith in our minds. -1 John 4:13-16, Romans 8:38-39We must SHARE IT by faith through our choices and decisions. -1 John 3:18Broadcast ResourceThe Real God ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsDaily DiscipleshipBrennan Manning - Abba's ChildConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

Could there ever be too much kindness, too much forgiveness, too much love? When was the last time you heard someone say, "Love? I'm good. I really don't need any more."? God's love is infinite. God's love is matchless. God's love is perfect. Join Chip as he defines God's love and what it means.Introduction - Three facts about loveFact #1: It's a universal need - Everyone is looking for love!Fact #2: There's a universal solution - God loves all people everywhere and longs to meet the deepest needs of every heart for love!Fact #3: There's a tragic disconnection - Even so, most people remain starved for love… for three primary reasons:They don't know God loves them.They know of God's love, but have not received it.They have received God's love, but don't know how to experience it in daily life.Love is giving another person what they need the most, when they deserve it the least, at great personal cost.God reveals His love to us through:CREATION - He made you for Himself.PROVIDENCE - He shows His kindness to all.INCARNATION - He is proactively pursuing you.DISCIPLINES - He chastises us to protect us from self-destructive behavior.INDWELLING - He supernaturally pours His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit.JESUS – The Second Person of the Trinity demonstrated the nature of God's love for us.How must we respond to God's love?We must RECEIVE IT by faith in our hearts. -John 3:16, 1:12We must BELIEVE IT by faith in our minds. -1 John 4:13-16, Romans 8:38-39We must SHARE IT by faith through our choices and decisions. -1 John 3:18Broadcast ResourceThe Real God ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional Resource MentionsDaily DiscipleshipBrennan Manning - Abba's ChildConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003