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Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected ways. Learn how love, security, and reassurance work together in a real relationship.jealous manmale insecuritywhy men get jealousrelationship insecuritywomen dating adviceemotional triggers in menlove and jealousyunderstanding menhealthy reassuranceattachment and relationships

A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.relationships, attachment, jealousy, fear of intimacy, emotional intelligence, self-worth, dating, avoidant partner, consistency, secure loveEpisode Tags (Optional but Suggested for Spotify SEO)

What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?In this two-part episode of You're Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn't just a relationship checklist. It's a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you're trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.

What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?In this two-part episode of You're Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.This isn't just a relationship checklist. It's a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.Whether you're trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.

Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy

When love turns into a mirror, it stops being romance and starts being revelation.In this raw, cinematic episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores the heartbreak of chasing someone who keeps running — not from you, but from themselves.This talk unpacks:Why avoidant partners pull away when love feels realHow emotional distance becomes a form of controlWhy anxious and avoidant types mirror each other's fearsWhat “closure” really means when words can't fix what silence already hasAnd how peace feels when you finally stop chasing and start healingThis one isn't about revenge or regret — it's about release.For anyone who's ever loved deeply, lost quietly, and learned to let go with grace.

In this deep, psychological episode of You're Probably Right, MCM breaks down the hidden world of the dismissive-avoidant attachment style — the people who want connection, but only on their terms.Through real-life examples and quiet honesty, this episode explores how avoidant partners use politeness, physical distance, and “sorry” messages to regulate emotional closeness, why they appear calm when relationships end, and how their need for control quietly sabotages intimacy.Whether you're the one who pulls away or the one left wondering what went wrong, this episode will help you understand the emotional blueprint beneath the phrase “No Strings Attached.”

Men who love their partners still cheat sometimes, and not every “onetime” cheater becomes a lifelong liar. In this straight talk from a maleperspective, MCM unpacks why good men make bad choices, why intimacy can changeafter commitment, and how mismatched desire, silence, and resentment pushcouples toward betrayal. We cover unmet needs, opportunity, thrill seeking, thepsychology of the “bait and switch” in the bedroom, double standards aboutcheating, and what most men actually want in long term love. This is not anexcuse for infidelity, it is an honest look at how it happens and how to stoprepeating the same patterns.

Sometimes, love doesn't end with a fight — it ends in silence.In this deeply human episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores what happens when someone's heart quietly walks out of a relationship long before their body follows.We talk about:The subtle signs someone's heart is leaving before they say it.Why people emotionally withdraw and stop showing up.The psychology of detachment, disinterest, and emotional fatigue.How to stop performing for love and start protecting your peace.The difference between someone leaving to escape… and you leaving to evolve.If you've ever been devalued, ignored, or slowly erased in love — this one's for you.Because sometimes, their heart grows feet… but yours?Yours learns to stand tall.

We all carry secrets — some small, some soul-deep. In this powerful, intimate episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores the hidden parts of our lives we rarely talk about: the things we bury, the emotions we mute, the truths we fear will change how others see us.From the psychology of secrecy and the silent cost of repression to the gendered ways we hide emotion, the quiet battles with mental health, intrusive thoughts, and even private desires we're too ashamed to name — this episode dives into what it really means to be human beneath the surface.This isn't about confession. It's about compassion — for ourselves and for everyone quietly holding their own stories.If you've ever felt alone in what you carry, this one will remind you: you're not.

I did things in love that felt right at the time — and I paid for them.In this episode I walk through the ten mistakes that cost me time, dignity, andpeace: caring past reason, mistaking intensity for connection, trying to earnlove by fixing problems, over-explaining, reading mixed signals as hope, andmore. For each one I explain why it felt sensible, why it hurt, when it mightmake sense, and the practical swap that actually protects your heart.If you want less drama and more clarity in dating and relationships, thisis your playbook.Keywords: relationship advice, heartbreak recovery, breadcrumbing, emotionalintelligence, dating red flags, attachment styles, self-worth, boundaries,modern dating, MCM podcast 

Why do we keep chasing the wrong people — and overlooking the right ones?In this long-form, heartfelt episode of You're Probably Right, MCM breaks down the science and soul of modern relationships — the green flags that signal safety, trust, and emotional maturity… and the red flags that quietly unravel love from the inside out.You'll learn:Why your brain confuses chaos with chemistryHow to spot calm, consistent love (and stop mistaking it for “boring”)What real emotional safety feels likeThe ten Universal Green Flags that define healthy partnershipThe ten Universal Red Flags that warn when to walk awayHow to heal your attachment patterns, rebuild self-worth, and find peace after heartbreakThis isn't dating advice — it's relationship reprogramming for anyone tired of repeating the same love stories.If you've ever wondered why peace feels foreign or why red flags look romantic, this episode will change the way you see love forever.

Ever felt like you were almost loved — but never chosen? In this specialepisode of You're Probably Right, MCM breaks down one of the mostpainful emotional games in modern relationships: breadcrumbing.From the “maybe later” messages to the hot-and-cold attention loops, thisepisode exposes how emotional rationing works, why people do it, and how tostop falling for it.Learn how to: This one's part truth-bomb, part healing session. If you've ever beenkept waiting for love that never fully arrives, Breadcrumbing 101 willgive you the clarity (and closure) you've been missing.

What happens when you stop chasing answers from other people and start asking the right questions about love, boundaries, and healing?In this raw and reflective episode of You're Probably Right, MCM sits down to answer 20 of the hardest questions about relationships — the kind that keep you awake at night. From emotional patience vs. self-betrayal, to why silence hurts more than words, to learning when love has stopped being love, this episode pulls no punches.These aren't easy questions. They're the ones that help you grow up emotionally.MCM unpacks how to:Recognize when “patience” becomes self-abandonment.Stop confusing validation with connection.Let go of people who only love you halfway.Rebuild confidence after being dismissed or unseen.Understand what peace actually feels like after chaos.If you've ever loved too deeply, waited too long, or lost yourself in trying to be enough — this one's for you.A slow, honest talk about love that hurts, love that heals, and everything we learn in between. Listen, reflect, and maybe finally understand why the right questions can heal more than any apology.love podcast 2025, emotional healing, relationship boundaries, why love hurts, MCM You're Probably Right, letting go of toxic love, anxious avoidant relationship, emotional intelligence podcast, dating self-worth, modern relationships, healing after heartbreak

In this powerful new episode of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks one of the most painful and misunderstood relationship dynamics: why deeply feeling empaths are often drawn to emotionally avoidant partners — and how to finally break free from the cycle.Through raw storytelling and emotional insight, MCM explores:The emotional chemistry between empaths and avoidants.Why love feels like both home and heartbreak.How self-betrayal happens in the name of “patience.”The hidden addiction to emotional inconsistency.What real healing and emotional sobriety look like.If you've ever felt unseen, over-giving, or trapped in the push-pull of someone who can't meet you halfway — this episode will hit home. Learn how to let go without hardening your heart, reclaim your peace, and finally choose love that feels safe.

In a world where likes, swipes, and text replies are traded like currency, MCM breaks down how romantic attention became love's new economy.This special long-form episode explores how attention — the rarest commodity of the digital age — can make or break modern relationships.From ghosting and breadcrumbing to anxious attachment and quiet self-sacrifice, MCM exposes how couples confuse attention with affection, validation with love, and scarcity with power.He explains why being “seen” feels like being loved, why silence hurts like punishment, and how to reclaim your emotional balance when the person you care about controls the flow of their focus.If you've ever waited for a reply that never came or felt addicted to someone's next text — this one's for you.• attention economy relationships• emotional validation in dating• ghosting and breadcrumbing podcast• anxious attachment and attention• how attention replaces love• relationship power dynamics 2025• MCM You're Probably Right• romantic attention podcast• digital dating and self-worth• modern love and emotional connection

In this long-form special, MCM asks the question few men ever say outloud but most women secretly wonder about — Why do men even want womenanyway?From independence to intimacy, from respect to peace, this 90-minute talkpulls back the curtain on how men really think about love, loyalty, andconnection. It's not about clichés or magazine advice — it's about what happensbeneath the armor, behind the quiet, and inside the heart of a man who's tiredof noise but still craves meaning.MCM breaks down ten honest truths — the need for emotional safety, thepower of admiration, the craving for peace, and the real reason men stillbelieve in partnership.This episode isn't a debate; it's an understanding. It's a seat at the tablebetween men and women, stripped of ego, full of truth.If you've ever been confused about what men actually want, this is theone you play twice.

In this raw and reflective episode, MCM speaks about the parts of life that don't make it into the highlight reels — the quiet work, the loss, the moments when truth costs you more than a lie ever could. Say it, explores what it means to live with integrity in a world that rewards the performance of happiness.Drawing from personal experiences — a father's discipline, a sister's silence, and the lessons hidden in everyday struggles — MCM invites you to think about the pages of your own story that are still blank. This isn't just another motivational talk; it's an intimate reminder that the story of who you are is still being shaped every single day.Whether you're at the gym, on a long drive, or just sitting with your thoughts, this episode will make you pause — not to regret what's passed, but to write what's next.SEO Keywords & Phrases:​ authenticity podcast episode• emotional storytelling podcast• faith and self-discovery• grief and personal growth• honesty and legacy in life• truth vs image podcast• Christian reflection podcast• MCM You're Probably Right• motivational real talk• finding peace through honesty

This episode is about value—how you signal it, how others read it, and how those signals shift attraction, leverage, and relationship dynamics. Drawing on research you provided, we unpack:Social proof (pre-selection/mate-choice copying): why people rate you higher when they see others do the same, and how to show real belonging even without a big following.Scarcity (healthy selectiveness): why being slightly less available increases perceived worth—and why chasing lowers it.“Prize” mindset: carrying yourself with inner confidence and options, instead of pedestalizing anyone who undervalues you.Style & first impressions: how presentation boosts your confidence and shapes perceptions before you speak.Anxious–avoidant dynamics: how to stop kneeling for crumbs, rebalance “hand,” and behave more securely without playing games.Practical strategies: active life, subtle social proof, boundaries, abundance (ethically), and continual self-investment.This isn't about manipulation. It's about self-respect—letting your calendar, clothes, voice, and community say what you won't beg for: “I'm valuable. I have options.” Walk this out and watch the world recalibrate.Sources (as provided by you):reddit.com (social proof studies & pedestalizing insight) · rochester.edu (scarcity/“hard-to-get” findings) · samiwunder.com (abundance/“prize” mindset) · kleinepsteinparker.com (style & confidence) · attachmentproject.com (anxious/avoidant patterns)Call to action:If this helped, share it with a friend who needs to stop chasing and start choosing.

Sometimes, losing yourself in love isn't loud — it's quiet.It's the text you never send. The joke you laugh at even though it cuts deep. The plans you cancel just to keep someone else happy.In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores how self-abandonment creeps into relationships and what it takes to reclaim your autonomy. From the psychological roots of anxious attachment to the societal pressures of money, looks, and social media, this conversation exposes the hidden costs of giving away your power.But more importantly, it shows you how to flip the script — through boundaries, self-respect, and small acts of self-trust that rebuild your identity. Because love doesn't demand you disappear. Love grows when two whole people choose each other without fear.This episode offers reflection, real-life examples, and practical steps to help you reclaim your heart and protect what's yours.reclaiming autonomy in relationshipslosing yourself in loveself-abandonment in relationshipsanxious attachment and self-worthsocietal pressures in datingrelationship red flags podcastemotional boundaries in lovehow to rebuild trust with yourselfrespect and dignity in relationshipsflipping the script in love

Betrayal isn't always dramatic. Sometimes it whispers.In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores micro-betrayals — the subtle lies, secrets, and dismissals that eat away at trust over time. From flirting under the guise of friendship to venting to others instead of your partner, these quiet cracks in the foundation can do as much damage as full-blown affairs.MCM breaks down why micro-betrayals happen, how to recognise them, and what it takes to repair trust before small fractures turn into collapse. Through practical insights and real-world examples, this episode offers a roadmap to protect intimacy and strengthen connection.Because love doesn't just survive big betrayals — it survives the small, daily choices to be honest, open, and emotionally present.micro-betrayals in relationshipssubtle ways trust is brokenemotional betrayal podcastsmall lies in relationshipsdismissing partner's feelingswhy small secrets damage lovehow to rebuild trust podcastrelationship red flagsemotional intimacy podcastrespect and honesty in love

This special edition of You're Probably Right breaks from the usual timeless reflections and leans directly into the moment. Recorded on Monday, September 15th, 2025, MCM takes a raw look at the state of Canada, the United States, and the Black community today.From Shedeur Sanders' rise in football to the National Guard deployment in Memphis, to the voices of Charlie Kirk and others shaping headlines, this episode is a candid snapshot of culture, politics, race, and faith in North America.It's not evergreen — and that's the point. This is about right now. The climate, the conversations, the conflicts. The way Canada and the U.S. treat Black voices differently. The way faith and scripture still frame truth in the middle of chaos.If you want honesty without polish, commentary without spin, and a record of this moment in history, this is it.Black America podcast September 2025Shedeur Sanders quarterback NFL draftNational Guard Memphis TrumpCanada vs US Black experienceCharlie Kirk commentary podcastChristian perspective on current eventsrace politics and culture 2025Canadian Black voices podcastBlack experience North America todaycultural commentary Sept 15 2025

n this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM unpacks the lies we're told from childhood and carried into the workplace: “you can be anything” and “prove yourself again and again.” Both create shame, frustration, and disillusionment. But the truth is simpler: you don't need to be everything to be valuable.Through stories, real-world examples, and honest reflection, MCM explores why limitless potential is a myth, how corporate interviews are performance theatre, and why proven loyalty too often goes unseen. This episode challenges both leaders and everyday listeners to rethink success, respect, and recognition.You'll leave with a fresh perspective: ordinary does not mean unimportant. Showing up, being consistent, and living authentically is enough — and deep down, you already knew it.SEO Keywords & Phrasesworkplace culture podcastcorporate interviews are brokenproving yourself at workleadership and respect podcastmyth of limitless potentialcareer advice authenticityemployee loyalty vs corporate systemsredefining success podcastordinary work valuemotivation podcast real talkCover Design

In this episode of You're Probably Right, MCM explores the importance of showing up as yourself—not as a mirror of what others expect, but as the truest version of who you are. Too often, people hide their real selves behind safe reflections, hoping to be accepted. But living that way drains your energy and leaves no room for genuine connection.Through real talk, personal reflection, and practical insight, this episode explains why mirrors don't build intimacy, why setting the culture early matters, and why “fit” is more important than proving who's right or wrong. You'll learn how to lead with your voice, recognize the quiet metrics that reveal true connection, and walk away with the courage to let your true colours be seen.Love, friendship, even work—it's not about echoing others. It's about being authentic, because the right people won't want the mirror. They'll want the colours.relationship podcast authentic selfshow your true coloursself-worth and authenticity in datingstop mirroring in relationshipshow to be authentic in lovereal connection vs surface-levelbuilding healthy relationship culturerelationship advice podcast 2025fit vs fault in relationshipsemotional health and authenticity✅ You now have the title, description, SEO keywords, and the Spotify-ready square cover for Episode 263.

Julian has always been the kind of man who listens—but what happens when listening becomes its own kind of deception? In this fourth installment of More Than You Think, the story deepens. We explore the emotional terrain between honesty and performance, love and attention, intention and impact.Eva is waking up to a painful truth. Julian isn't cruel. But he's not really present either. And that might be worse. As the illusion begins to crumble, new faces and buried patterns resurface. Through elegant storytelling, sharp introspection, and a haunting narrative tone, Part 4 Weak peels back what it really means to be “there” for someone—until you're not.Stay tuned to see who walks away with their dignity, who's left behind, and why sometimes being seen isn't the same as being chosen.

Episode 261 of It's You're Probably Right takes Avril Lavigne's question—“Why you have to go and make things so complicated?”—and answers it with 20 universal truths for relationships. 00:01:06 – Theme of the EpisodeWhy do we make relationships so complicated? From riddles and crumbs to silence and excuses—love isn't meant to be this messy.00:01:51 – The Promise20 universal points you can use in any situation with anyone. Each one is simple, practical, and designed to cut through confusion.00:02:41 – Welcome & Housekeeping00:03:32 – Point 1: Boundaries Matter More Than IntentionsIntentions without respect mean nothing. Boundaries protect you—enforce them clearly.00:06:07 – Point 2: Respect Shows in Time, Not WordsAnyone can say they care. Time and consistency reveal the truth.00:08:52 – Point 3: Mixed Signals Are Still SignalsConfusion is not neutral—it's avoidance. Treat mixed signals as a no.00:11:08 – Point 4: Overgiving Creates ImbalanceGiving too much only enables takers. Balance effort to protect your value.00:14:28 – Point 5: Crumbs Aren't CommitmentOne text, one call, one gesture—crumbs don't equal real investment.00:18:15 – Point 6: Avoidance Isn't NeutralityDodging hard talks and intimacy is a choice—not “just space.”00:21:01 – Point 7: Intimacy Without Reciprocity Is EmptyPhysical closeness without respect and consistency is hollow.00:23:09 – Point 8: Excuses Are Red Flags“It's bad timing” or “I'm not ready” often hide disinterest.00:24:55 – Point 9: Your Worth Isn't Up for NegotiationYou're not a bargain deal. If they can't see your value, move on.00:28:29 – Point 10: Absence Reveals More Than PresenceHow they act when you're not around says more than their performance when you are.00:31:24 – Point 11: Professionalism Protects YouBlurring lines in shared spaces creates imbalance—respect yourself first.00:32:37 – Point 12: Don't Decode CrumbsPoints 13–1500:35:27 – Point 13: Healthy Relationships Are MutualPartnership means both people initiate, plan, and invest. If only one person is doing the work, it's not a relationship—it's a project.00:38:14 – Point 14: Silence Is CommunicationNo reply is still a reply. Silence says: “You're not a priority.” Listen to it, don't excuse it.00:41:03 – Point 15: Over-Explaining Your Value Is a TrapIf they don't see your worth, convincing won't change their mind. Value needs recognition, not persuasion.00:44:26 – Point 16: Consistency Is the Real TestOne sweet gesture doesn't matter—patterns matter. Consistency is the proof of real care.00:47:36 – Point 17: Respecting Your Own Time Is PowerStop chasing. Keep your schedule. Let people rise to meet your time, not consume it.00:50:42 – Point 18: Don't Mistake Attention for AffectionLikes, glances, compliments—they feel good, but affection is steady and invested. Don't confuse the two.00:53:26 – Point 19: Relationships Reveal CharacterStress and pressure show you who people really are. Believe what's revealed, not the mask.00:56:34 – Point 20: Clarity Beats ChemistryAttraction is powerful, but chemistry without clarity is chaos. Choose clarity every time.01:00:24 – Recap of All 20 PointsQuick review: boundaries, respect, mixed signals, excuses, silence, consistency, clarity, and more—20 universal truths to simplify relationships.01:03:17 – Closing ThoughtsWhen love feels complicated, it's because we're ignoring the obvious. These points strip away confusion and bring you back to truth: clarity beats complication every time.Points 16–20Final Recap & Closing01:05:01 – Thank You & Sign-Offcomplicated relationships podcast, dating advice, relationship red flags, healthy relationships, stop overgiving, self-worth in love, mixed signals in dating, consistency in relationships, respect and boundaries, clarity vs chemistry, emotional health podcast, personal growth

In the final part of Show Me Love, MCM walks through points 24–30, showing you how to state what you want clearly, protect your energy, and stop measuring your worth by reply speed. You'll also learn how to weigh happiness vs. money in opportunities, make love a choice instead of a lifeline, and heal old wounds before building new connections.Show Notes with Timestamps00:00 – OpeningMCM welcomes listeners to the final installment of the Show Me Love series. A reminder: if you're new, go back to Episodes 258 & 259 to hear the first 23 points before finishing here.01:01 – Point 24: Stop Being Unclear → State What You WantWhy silence and hint-dropping cause confusion, and how clear communication creates alignment instead of heartbreak.04:46 – Point 25: Stop Confusing Busyness with Value → Protect Your EnergyWhy being overextended doesn't make you valuable—and how to budget, cap, and recharge your energy so you show up fully.07:38 – Point 26: Stop Measuring Your Worth by Reply Speed → Build Inner StabilityHow to break the habit of tying your self-worth to how quickly someone replies, and how to fill the waiting time with growth.09:49 – Point 27: Stop Chasing Opportunities That Use You → Weigh Happiness vs. MoneyHow to filter shiny offers—jobs, relationships, or attention—and choose peace over payoffs that drain you.13:43 – Point 28: Stop Treating Love Like a Lifeline → Make It a ChoiceWhy real love is chosen, not clung to—and how to keep your goals, identity, and partnerships balanced.15:09 – Point 29: Stop Trying to Be ‘Enough' → Focus on AlignmentThe shift from proving yourself to checking for alignment: values, rhythms, and mutual effort matter more than “enoughness.”16:55 – Point 30: Stop Ignoring Old Wounds → Heal Before You BuildThe final shift: unhealed wounds leak into new relationships. Learn how to acknowledge pain, seek help, and self-soothe so you stop repeating cycles.19:16 – Recap of All 30 PointsMCM reviews the entire journey, from chasing to choosing, from desperation to dignity, and from panic to peace.22:26 – Core ReminderLove isn't proven by begging, chasing, or sacrificing. It's shown in alignment, respect, and mutual effort—and the only way to find love like that is to first give it to yourself.23:41 – Thank You & Sign-OffClosing reflections on finishing the 3-part series, appreciation for listeners, and encouragement to share, subscribe, and stay connected.

In Part 2 of Show Me Love, MCM continues with points 12–23, unpacking how to stop tolerating disrespect, why you shouldn't interpret distance as a challenge, and how to protect your energy. This section dives into authenticity, stability over drama, using solitude for growth, keeping your schedule intact, and leveling the power in your relationships.Show Notes with Timestamps00:00 – OpeningMCM introduces Part 2 of the Show Me Love series, picking up from Point 12. A reminder to new listeners to go back to Episode 258 for the first 11 points.01:25 – Point 12: Stop Answering Every Late Call or Last-Minute Plan → Protect Your TimeHow to set “quiet hours,” avoid last-minute scraps, and reinforce that your time has value.07:11 – Point 13: Stop Pouring From an Empty Cup → Refill FirstWhy self-care is non-negotiable, how to schedule recharge time, and how a full cup benefits everyone around you.10:59 – Point 14: Stop Wearing a Mask → Lead With AuthenticityThe dangers of faking who you are, and why authenticity filters out the wrong people while attracting the right ones.16:03 – Point 15: Stop Craving Dramatic Highs → Seek Consistency, Respect, and EffortHow to recognize that chaos isn't passion, and why peace and predictability create real love.21:15 – Point 16: Stop Tolerating Disrespect → Name ConsequencesSetting boundaries, naming what disrespects you, and following through with consequences.23:42 – Point 17: Stop Interpreting Distance as a Challenge → See It as DataWhy pulling away is information, not an invitation, and how to respond without chasing.26:26 – Point 18: Stop Forcing Growth → Let Things UnfoldThe dangers of rushing intimacy and how to let natural rhythm build healthy connection.28:30 – Point 19: Stop Reading Anxiety as Chemistry → Build CalmHow to stop confusing nerves with attraction, and why real love steadies you instead of draining you.32:08 – Point 20: Stop Equating Being Alone With Failure → Use Solitude to GrowWhy being alone is not failure, but an opportunity for self-growth, healing, and reconnection.34:11 – Point 21: Stop Moving in Every Direction → Pick a LaneThe importance of focus, choosing one lane, and sticking to it long enough to see progress.36:32 – Point 22: Stop Rearranging Your Life to Impress → Keep Your ScheduleWhy keeping your commitments shows self-respect, and how to invite others into your real life.38:11 – Point 23: Stop Pedestalizing → Level the PowerThe dangers of idealizing someone, and why love thrives in balance, not worship.42:06 – Recap & ClosingReview of Points 20–23, reminder that each point is about holding your ground and valuing yourself before inviting anyone else in. MCM previews the final installment (Points 24–30) coming in Episode 260.

Description:In Part 1 of Show Me Love, MCM breaks down the first 11 shifts that can transform your approach to relationships. Learn why chasing love pushes it away, how to stop outsourcing your worth to others, and how to set standards that protect your time and energy. This episode covers self-worth, boundaries, intimacy vs. intensity, approval-seeking, rejection as alignment, and more.Episode 258 – Show Me Love (Part 1: Points 1–11)Show Notes with Timestamps00:00 – Opening & IntroductionWelcome to You're Probably Right. MCM sets the tone for this special series, explaining why so many relationship talks online fall short—and why this one will be different.03:41 – The Mood of the EpisodeStarting with “heartbreak and promises,” MCM frames the common frustration: giving love, effort, and time… and getting nothing back.07:06 – Why This Talk Is DifferentNot abstract, not theory—this episode is a how-to. MCM promises practical steps, examples, and words you can actually use in daily life.11:01 – The RoadmapLaying out 30 key shifts: from chasing to choosing, from desperation to dignity.16:32 – Point 1: Stop Chasing Love → Build a Life Worth LivingWhy chasing pushes love away, and how to create anchors (fitness, creativity, friendships) so your life attracts connection naturally.22:17 – Point 2: Stop Outsourcing Your Worth → Choose Yourself FirstBuilding self-worth from the inside: win lists, affirmations, and practicing small choices that reflect your value.29:28 – Point 3: Stop Settling for Scraps → Name and Enforce StandardsDefining your non-negotiables and enforcing them with confidence so you stop accepting crumbs of attention.33:59 – Point 4: Stop Smothering → Allow SpaceWhy over-texting and over-giving suffocates connection, and how to mirror energy, respect your schedule, and let love breathe.37:02 – Point 5: Stop Begging and Proving → Invest Energy into BecomingShifting from convincing others to improving yourself with routines, creativity, and measurable goals.40:34 – Point 6: Stand in Your Truth → Let the Right Person Walk Toward YouClarity and alignment over chasing—why speaking your values early saves years of wasted effort.44:54 – Point 7: Stop Confusing Intensity with Intimacy → Build Calm ConsistencyHow to spot the difference between butterflies and real connection, and why intimacy feels stable, not chaotic.50:41 – Point 8: Stop Running After Approval → Redirect Energy into Self-WorthPractical self-worth loops: daily acts of care, growth tracking, and celebrating wins without chasing validation.53:38 – Point 9: Stop Accepting Mixed Signals → Walk Away from InconsistencyWhy mixed signals are just noise, and how to replace confusion with clear standards and reliable effort.57:02 – Point 10: Stop Fearing Rejection → Treat It as AlignmentHow to see rejection as proof of misalignment, not as evidence of unworthiness.59:54 – Point 11: Stop Scarcity Thinking → Live Like Love Is AbundantBreaking free from the fear that “this is my only chance” by building multiple sources of joy and openness.Quick summary of points 8–11, reinforcement that each step moves you from chasing to choosing. MCM closes out Part 1 and teases continuation into Points 12–30 in the next episodes.

In this episode of It's You're Probably Right by MCM, we talk about the weight of life when it feels like you may never “arrive.” Bills don't stop, responsibilities pile up, and even when you take a break, the stress follows.MCM reflects on:Why “rest” isn't always restful when paychecks stop.How to position yourself to succeed when you're single or creative.Negotiating your value at work — and in life.Protecting yourself from people who only come for what they can take.Building inner stability through discipline and self-care.Moving forward even without guarantees of money, relationships, or security.If you've ever searched Spotify or Google for how to find self-worth, work-life balance, money vs happiness, resilience, or personal growth, this episode is for you. It's not about having all the answers — it's about learning how to keep moving when life feels incomplete.

In this charged continuation of the More Than You Thinkseries, we finally meet Marcus—the man Eva once married, the artist who's beenliving in the shadows of her life. Now broke and barely holding on, Marcus getsa shot at redemption: a San Francisco performance that could change everything.All he needs is $700 and a reason to believe in himself again.But asking Eva for help? That comes with a cost.Tensions rise, truths surface, and the collision course between Marcus andJulian reaches its breaking point—on stage, in front of everyone. This isn'tjust about music. It's about identity, control, desire, and the people who loveus... or claim to.No neat endings. No easy villains. Just consequences.Tags:romantic suspense, fiction podcast, emotional thriller, artist story, brokenlove, toxic dynamics, love triangle, music industry, relationship tension,second chances 

She's not what he said. She's more.In Part 2 of More Than You Think, we hear Eva's side—the backstory, the baggage, the men who never left, and the one who might've stayed too long. This is a slow unraveling, told in Eva's own voice, from behind the makeup, the money, and the mistakes.It's not an explanation. It's not an apology. It's just what happened.If you've ever kept someone in your life because they made you feel safe…If you've ever shut someone out because they saw too much…If you've ever wondered what a woman really meant when she said, “I'm fine”—This one is for you.

Welcome to a special episode of You Are Probably Right. I'm M C M.What you're about to hear is different. This isn't commentary. It's not a conversation. It's a story.But it's the kind of story that tells the truth in a way advice never can.It's for anyone who's ever waited a little too long. For anyone who's ever felt like they were almost chosen—but never quite enough. For anyone who's felt the ache of wanting someone who doesn't know what to do with something real.So sit down. Get quiet. And stay with it.Because this one's not just fiction.It's more than you think.A man who's always been overlooked.A woman who's always been hurt.A connection neither of them fully understands—until it's too deep to deny.Told in the form of a raw, journal-style narration, More Than You Think is a 90-minute emotional fiction story that explores what happens when patience meets fear, when kindness outlasts doubt, and when love comes not with a promise, but with a choice.It's gritty. It's quiet. It's the kind of story that sneaks up on you late at night—and stays.For anyone who's ever waited too long to be chosen.Title: More Than You ThinkEpisode Number: 253Type: Bonus Episode (optional)Season: Leave blank or “Specials” if your platform supports seasonsAuthor/Creator: M C M / You're Probably RightLanguage: English (US)Explicit: NoA quiet man. A complicated woman. A bond they never defined—until it's almost too late.More Than You Think is a 90-minute fiction story about almost-love, emotional patience, and finally being chosen. Told in raw, journal-style narration, this one's for the listener who needs more than surface-level romance.fiction podcastemotional storyslow burn romanceheartbreak recoveryrelationship fictionshort story audiohealing and loveyou're probably right podcast

A clear, practical talk on building a strong relationship. We cover sharedmission, respectful communication that maintains trust, a simple reset plan forpast issues, real-world rules for money and phones, desire and boundarieswithout games, and a clean repair script for conflict. You'll leave with aweekly check-in you can run tomorrow plus three commitments to keep you honest.SEO Keywordsstrong relationship, couples communication, trust reset, conflict repair,intimacy, money rules for couples, phone privacy agreement, weekly check-inTimestamps00:00 Opening and promise03:30 Shared mission, team first10:30 Talk that keeps respect19:30 Trust and the reset plan28:30 Attraction, jealousy, and the truth37:00 Money and logistics without power games45:00 Phones, privacy, and agreements52:00 Intimacy and feeling chosen, conflict repair59:00 Three commitments and closeShow Notes: Copy & PasteResources from this episode• Weekly check in cardWhat went wellWhat hurtWhat we try nextSet the day, set the time, twenty to thirty minutes, phones away• Trust reset sheetThe issueThe condition we setCheck dateIf met, we stop reopeningIf not met, the next step we both agreed• Money rules sheetBills listSavings targetPersonal spending amountsBig purchase threshold and process• Phone agreementModel we choose, open or privacy with rulesAccess details and passcodesLocation sharing and social rulesHow we change this later• Desire talk stemsI feel wanted whenI feel safer whenI lose desire whenI would like more of

A viral 45-second clip asked five “deep” relationship questions—but are theyreally deep, or dangerously shallow? In this episode of You're ProbablyRight, we unpack each question in full—what it gets right, what it misses,and why microwaved counseling can quietly poison your marriage. With vividstorytelling, real-world scenarios, and hard-earned wisdom, this 90-minuteconversation dives into: If you've ever wondered whether you're with the right person—or feltrattled by quick-fire relationship “tests” online—this episode is for you.Show Notes: Listener Reflection Questions (SEO-rich prompts): Keywords / Tags for Search:relationships, marriage, dating advice, fulfillment, intimacy, toxic cycles,love questions, viral TikTok relationship advice, relationship counselingmyths, self-discovery in love, how to choose a partner, marriage podcast

In this raw and unfiltered episode of You're Probably Right, we go straight into the heart of marriage and long-term relationships — when love feels one-sided. Drawing on real stories, timeless truths, and unspoken frustrations, this episode exposes why so many men and women feel disconnected under the same roof. We'll talk about silence, intimacy, negotiation, influence, and the lies modern culture feeds us about love. And along the way, we'll unpack how different men — Beta, Sigma, and Alpha — experience these struggles uniquely, and what it takes to bridge the gap before silence wins. This is not about blame. This is about truth. About survival. About choosing each other again, time after time.

Why do we keep circling back to the same kinds of partners, the same heartbreaks, the same endings — time after time?In this episode of You're Probably Right, we explore why good people often fall into bad love. Through vivid storytelling and real-life scenarios, we uncover the hidden patterns that keep us hooked on the wrong relationships. You'll hear about the illusion of change, why familiarity feels safer than growth, and how to finally break the cycle for good.This isn't just another “relationship talk.” This is an invitation to pause, reflect, and begin choosing differently — time after time.The pattern trap: why we mistake familiarity for comfortThe illusion of change: why “this time will be different” rarely isComfort vs. growth: why peace feels wrong if you're used to chaosWhy good people choose bad love (and how childhood scripts shape us)Breaking the cycle: stories of those who did… and those who didn'tReflection exercise to spot your relationship patternsHow to show up for yourself, time after timeReflection Questions:What similarities do your last three relationships share?Is this a preference… or a pattern?What's one thing you've accepted time after time that you will no longer accept?

This episode borrows its title from one of the most famous songs of the '80s — a track so haunting and unforgettable it became a global anthem of longing. Years later, it was reimagined by The Notorious B.I.G., introducing a whole new generation to its power.But here's the question: Why does a song like that still resonate? Because we all know the feeling of watching, waiting, and wondering about someone who slipped out of our lives. Was he the one who got away, or just the one who broke you?In Episode 248 of You're Probably Right, we go beyond the lyrics, beyond the nostalgia, and into the real-life stories of love lost, heartbreak, and the myths we tell ourselves about “the one.”

In this episode of You're Probably Right, we dive deep into one of the toughest truths men face in dating: knowing when she's just not interested.For 44 minutes, I walk you through the signs most guys miss—signs that end up wasting months or even years of their lives. From canceled plans to cold body language, from endless “I'm busy” excuses to watching her flirt with someone else right in front of you, these are the red flags you can't afford to ignore.If you've ever found yourself chasing, over-explaining, or settling for scraps of attention, this episode is for you.Questions we explore in this episode:How do you know when she's canceling because she's busy… or because she just doesn't care?What does her phone say about her interest in you?Why do short, one-word texts matter more than you think?How can you tell the difference between “shy” and “avoiding intimacy”?What does her body language reveal that her words never will?Why is it a mistake to compete for her attention when she's flirting with others?What's the danger of ignoring these signs and staying too long?This isn't about shame—it's about clarity. The goal is to help you stop wasting time where it's not valued, and create space for real, genuine connection.

Conflict is inevitable — but unfair conflict can destroy love. In Episode 245 of You're Probably Right, we unpack 7 battle-tested rules that help couples argue without tearing each other apart. From learning to pause before reacting, to avoiding low blows, to repairing with “touch gloves,” these principles transform fights into opportunities for connection.Whether you're married, dating, or simply want healthier communication, this episode gives you a blueprint for fighting fair — so your relationship grows stronger instead of weaker.00:00 – Intro | Why fighting fair matters in love & marriage01:57 – The truth about conflict | It's not the fight, it's how you fight06:11 – Rule 1: Pause Before You Swing | The pause is power11:04 – Rule 2: Attack the Problem, Not the Person | Team first, not enemies14:12 – Rule 3: Keep the Fight in the Ring | Don't drag in old arguments16:50 – Rule 4: Respect the Referee (Boundaries) | Knowing when to call time-out22:23 – Rule 5: No Low Blows (Words That Scar) | Why some words never fade26:28 – Rule 6: Replay the Tape Together | Learning from conflict patterns27:42 – Rule 7: Touch Gloves, Reconnect | Rituals for repair & intimacy29:42 – Closing | Why fighting fair deepens lovefight fair in marriage, conflict resolution for couples, how to save a marriage, healthy arguments in relationships, husband and wife communication

Everyone says it: “Pull back your energy. Let them miss you. Stay silent and they'll value you more.” It's the advice plastered across TikTok, Instagram, and dating podcasts. But what if that's not power — what if it's avoidance?In this episode of You're Probably Right with MCM, I challenge the popular mantra of withdrawing your presence as a strategy in relationships. If you feel like a backup option, you don't need silence or games — you need communication. Real confidence isn't disappearing to test someone; it's speaking honestly, even if your voice shakes.We break down why emotional withdrawal isn't strength, how uncertainty doesn't create value, and why clarity beats scarcity-driven tricks every time. If you're tired of gimmicky relationship advice and want real talk about respect, connection, and maturity, this episode is for you.

### What Really Happens When Men Face the Questions No One Dares to Ask? **Brace yourself for the most honest conversation about masculinity in 2025.** On this electrifying episode of "You're Probably Right," host M.C.M. boldly answers 20 of the toughest, rawest questions men are told never to confront. This is more than a podcast—it's a deep dive into the heart of what it means to be a man today, exploring masculinity, relationships, vulnerability, and the silent battles men fight every day.#### Episode Highlights- **Emotional Labor & Outdated Expectations:** Discover what it feels like when no one checks if men are emotionally okay, and why the pressure to always act “manly” can be crushing.- **Weaponized Incompetence & Quiet Grief:** Dive into the complicated truths behind jokes about helplessness, and the grief men rarely talk about.- **Vulnerability in the Spotlight:** Is opening up a sign of weakness—or the ultimate act of strength in 2025?Whether you're a husband, partner, single father, or a woman eager to understand the emotional maze men navigate, this episode will flip your assumptions and challenge you to listen differently.***###

In this episode of You're Probably Right, host MCM breaks down one of the most confusing parts of modern dating: why men are told to open up, but often penalized when they do. We explore the science of first impressions, the psychology of attraction, men's mental health stigma, and why timing and framing make vulnerability either magnetic or off-putting.Through storytelling, research, and real-world examples, you'll learn:Why women's desire in men balances confidence with emotional intimacyHow psychology explains dating double standardsThe three dials of male vulnerability: timing, framing, and doseGuidance for both men and women on building trust without killing attraction

In the final part of this three-part series, we uncover signs 11–15 that your partner might not truly love you. From open contempt to constantly bringing up their ex, these red flags can help you spot when the relationship isn't what it seems. We talk blunt truths, real-life examples, and why you deserve respect and genuine affection. If you missed Parts 1 and 2, check them out first.Show Notes & Time Stamps00:00 – Welcome to You're Probably Right Podcast – no fluff, no filters00:50 – Intro to Part 3 and quick recap of Part 202:22 – Reminder: This is entertainment first, not absolute advice02:46 – Sign 11: They tell you to your face that they don't like you05:57 – How contempt destroys respect and affection07:45 – Sign 12: They say or do things just to intentionally hurt you10:48 – The impact of deliberate emotional harm and control11:48 – Sign 13: They constantly bring up their exes14:51 – Why constant ex talk signals unresolved attachment16:56 – Sign 14: They refuse to do simple things for you without reason19:22 – When “I won't” means deeper disconnection21:44 – Sign 15: They only value you for one specific attribute24:10 – Why conditional love isn't real love26:30 – Closing thoughts on all 15 signs and what to do next

In Part 2 of this 3-part series, we dive into signs 6–10 that your partner may not love you the way you deserve. From secrecy around phones and finances to double standards, public embarrassment, and dismissing your opinions—these behaviours chip away at respect and connection. You'll hear examples, the emotional impact, and why these patterns matter. Remember, it's about honesty, respect, and protecting your own well-being.00:00 – IntroductionQuick welcome and reminder of what the Probably Right Podcast is all about—straight talk, no fluff. Recap of Part 1 and setup for today's discussion on signs 6–10.02:22 – Sign 6: They're very protective of their phone or computer and won't share the passwordWhy extreme secrecy around devices can be a red flag, when it's a behaviour issue versus a trust issue, and how it impacts closeness.06:41 – Sign 7: They won't share a bank account even if you're marriedWhat refusing to merge finances can say about trust and commitment, when it might be understandable, and how to talk about money boundaries.12:04 – Sign 8: They act better with others than they do with you – and then say “just accept me”Why this double standard hurts, how it shows up, and why you deserve your partner's best self at home—not just in public.18:12 – Sign 9: They regularly embarrass you in publicThe damaging effects of public humiliation, the importance of addressing it quickly, and why a loving partner should have your back.20:50 – Sign 10: They have no respect for your opinionWhat constant dismissal of your views says about the relationship, how it makes you feel small, and why respect is non-negotiable.27:19 – Closing thoughtsReminder that none of these signs alone necessarily mean your partner doesn't love you—but repeated patterns are worth a serious conversation. Teaser for Part 3, covering signs 11–15.Show Notes with Timestamps

In this first part of the three-part series, we break down the first five signs that your partner may not truly love you.From avoiding quality time to speaking to you like a friend instead of a lover, these subtle behaviours can reveal a lot about the state of your relationship.Each sign is explored with real-world examples, psychological insights, and practical advice, helping you recognise patterns that could be harming your connection.Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, these insights can help you see clearly, have honest conversations, and make informed choices about your future.00:00 – IntroductionQuick welcome, explanation of the 3-part format, and why these signs matter.02:47 – Opening MonologueAcknowledging how difficult it can be to face doubts and why self-awareness is key in love.05:01 – Sign #1: They Don't Want to Spend Time with YouThe difference between being busy and avoiding youBody language and behaviour cuesExpert insights on reduced quality time as a warning sign14:32 – Sign #2: They Don't Respect Your TimeChronic lateness and last-minute cancellationsBoundary violations through repeated waitingPsychological effects of feeling undervalued21:02 – Sign #3: They Don't Put Much Thought into PlansOne-sided planning patternsThe toll of always being the organiserWhy mutual effort matters for connection28:49 – Sign #4: They Don't Think It's Worth Their Time Getting Intimate with YouAvoidance of physical and emotional closenessPossible reasons and what they mean long-termResearch-backed views on intimacy decline38:16 – Sign #5: They Speak to You Like a Friend, Not a LoverChanges in tone, nicknames, and romantic languageSigns of “friend-zoning” in a committed relationshipHow loss of verbal intimacy impacts emotional closeness47:53 – Closing Thoughts for Part 1

In Part 3 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, we explore the deeper emotional and psychological traps that kindness can create when it's given too fast, too soon. MCM breaks down the subtle ways over-giving can shift power, expectations, and attraction in relationships. This episode unpacks how to balance generosity with self-respect, how to avoid getting trapped in an unbalanced dynamic, and how to protect your energy while still being genuine.If you've ever wondered why being “too nice” hasn't gotten you the love or respect you deserve, this conversation might change how you approach connection forever.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro02:15 – Why being “too nice” is often misunderstood08:40 – Spotting early imbalance in a relationship15:12 – Why boundaries strengthen respect21:48 – Turning “too nice” into healthy giving27:55 – Final thoughts and wrap-upListen now and take control of your relationship balance.Listen & Watch:

In Part 2 of Being Too Nice Too Quickly in a Relationship, I explore the hidden dangers of moving too fast when showing kindness and generosity in the early stages of dating. This episode continues the deep dive from Part 1, focusing on why overinvesting too soon can lead to imbalance, resentment, and even emotional disconnection.Whether you've been told you're “too nice” or you've experienced a partner pulling away after you gave too much too soon, this conversation will give you the clarity to protect your energy and keep your self-worth intact.

In Part 1 of this three-part deep dive, we explore why being “too nice” too quickly can backfire—especially when dealing with avoidant partners. Drawing from eight key reflections, this first segment covers shifts 1 through 3, unpacking the subtle behaviours that can unintentionally erode attraction and respect.We'll look at how over-giving, rushing emotional intimacy, and neglecting personal boundaries can create imbalance, and why these patterns are often misunderstood as kindness. This episode challenges you to rethink the way you show care in relationships, helping you set a foundation for genuine connection without losing yourself.0:00 – Opening monologue & episode overview2:15 – Introduction to “too nice too soon” and avoidant dynamics5:47 – Shift 1: Recognising over-giving as a form of self-abandonment12:30 – Why over-investment early on feels needy, not generous17:55 – Shift 2: The importance of pacing emotional intimacy24:20 – Avoidant reactions to early emotional overexposure31:05 – Shift 3: The role of personal boundaries in building respect37:50 – How to hold space without overextending yourself43:15 – Closing thoughts for Part 1 and setup for Part 2relationship advice, dating mistakes, avoidant attachment, emotional boundaries, too nice too soon, over-giving in relationships, dating red flags, emotional intimacy pacing, healthy relationship habits, attraction killers⏱ Timestamped Show Notes (Clickable)