a young milf podcast

Hey Friends! In this episode Janni Ayala & Rachel Anastacia sit down with our friend Mia as she talks about her experience with raising 3 boys at the age of 26.Mia has gone through 3 c-sections, the first one being an emergency when the umbilical chord wrapped around her babies neck; A MOTHER'S FEAR! She also experienced pre-eclampsia after giving birth to her youngest son. Talk about a strong mother!Mia also talks about raising a son diagnosed with ADHD and the hard decision of getting her son medicated. She says taking this difficult step has helped her mothering while also helping her child. Taking him to therapy multiple times a week with 2 other babies right by her side.Now Mia is maneuvering through being a stay at home mom, balancing a relationship with her fiancé' in the midst of being a busy mother, and learning to prioritize herself.We can't express our gratitude enough for Mia allowing herself to come on here and speak her truths for herself and all the women out there raising babies and taking care of themselves.We hope you enjoy this episode with this guest as incredible as she is.xoxo,Janni & Rach

whewww is this a topic that NEEDED to be talked about! let's face it-as woman, we all think about getting "old". one day or another, we are bound to spot the physical changes that come with age, everyone will. but let's remind ourselves that it is all a mindset. rather than fear it, try to accept it. for a very long time, woman have faced countless ends of judgment from others (as well as from themselves) as they have aged. youth is such a sacred thing, and looking and feeling "young" is something that every older person strives for. in this episode, Janni and Rachel speak on their own opinions and viewpoints of aging in society as women and mothers, and what they look forward to as they grow. change is inevitable, so let's not run from it-because as human beings we are supposed to be ever-evolving. that's just life! aging is truly something to be grateful for. as we get the opportunity to live out our lives, watch our children grow older, and do everything we dream of doing. we only get one body in this lifetime of ours, so let's hold onto it and take care of it while we can.

In this Episode Janni & Rach dive into the proposed "baby bonus" that President Trump is looking to get passed by Congress, which would cost the government $17.6 BILLION to fund.Since there has been a decline in U.S. births the government is essentially "bribing" women by offering $5000 in exchange for their reproduction. A decline that has occurred AFTER banning abortion in many states and the constant increase on the price of living.We discuss the risks of getting pregnant, giving birth, and how this proposal for financial compensation is made to make women seem like machines to help fund the economic crisis in the United States, without taking into consideration the many impacts it can have on a woman and these children.The U.S. government prioritizes our unborn babies but when it comes to the babies that have been born AND their mothers, they are no longer that priority. With no paid leave for parents, expensive healthcare, and millions of children homeless each year and thousands & thousands of children in the foster care system. Make it make sense?We also mention that the governments want to increase IVF accessibly and affordability and how this is actually a good thing for women who are trying or have been struggling with getting pregnant. As many of us have seen online women sharing their IVF journeys and the constant battle these couples have to go through to reproduce. The government SHOULD help with this!We want to make it very clear that we are NOT political at all but whenever it comes to women and mothers we have to talk about it. These are things we will discuss with a platform because that is our right.HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS?We hope you enjoy this episode. Hopefully this encourages you to stay informed and speak up for your rights and what you believe in. As women & mothers we must stick together.Thank You for your support.xoxo, Janni & Rach

Hi mamas! We are back with a very special episode, welcoming our friend Aeja! Aeja is another young milf herself, as well as an educator and photographer. Her son, Nugget (how cute!), is diagnosed with Autism, and in honor of Autism Awareness/Acceptance Month, Aeja is here to share the story of her son's journey, as well as her own. She speaks on her experience upon finding out she was pregnant, up until receiving her son's diagnosis, and what a gift that is! Sharing the importance of advocation and the obstacles she has faced, Aeja shows just how strong of a mother she is...truly such an inspiration. Every child should be lucky enough to have a mother, as well as a community around them, that speaks up for them when they can't, and who will always have their back. This episode shows the true dedication and love of a mama to a child with special needs, and how much of a beautiful thing that is.For more information on Autism, follow these links below!https://www.autismspeaks.org/world-autism-monthhttps://autismsociety.org/autism-acceptance-month/

In this episode Janni and Rach discuss one the most recent episodes of “Call Her Daddy” hosted by Alex Cooper, who spoke with Chappell Roan. In their discussion they got on the topic of motherhood where she, Chapell Roan, said all parents were in hell, no parent our age is happy and have no lights in their eyes.Janni and Rach both gave their opinion on the matter while also discussing different point of views on this topic because everyone has a right to their own opinion. Understanding that this “hell” experienced in motherhood can be frustrating and overwhelming while also being fulfilling and full of life.Of course we are always mentioning personal experiences like Janni not wanting children before getting pregnant (but loves it now), Rachel reliving her childhood through her daughter, forming beautiful relationships with our children and so much more.We even get on the topic of PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder), an intense form of PMS that not many women realize they experience. This causing women to have around 1 “good” week out of each month and having a major impact on a woman's mental health… wishing us women were more informed on this.This episode is full of understand, no judgement, cute interactions with Romeo (Janni's son), sips of Olipop, and tons of gratitude.Reminder: People will always have opinions in the decisions YOU make in YOUR life and it's our decision to let that impact us as or choose to be grateful no matter what anyone else thinks.Thanks for Listening!Xoxo,Janni & Rach

Hi mamasss! We are back with Episode 25...hello??? 25?! Is this real life? How grateful are we that we have come so far. And to see the beautiful community of woman and mothers that has grown over the years...it's truly such an amazing thing.In this episode, Janni & Rach touch base on balancing mom life and work life, all while finding your true passions, and honestly, just figuring it all out. It can be hard for a lot of people to do these things, let alone you're freshly postpartum as a first time mom, or you have six kids. It will always be a juggling act, because your life doesn't stop when you become a mom. You are still allowed to do the things you love to do, and show up for yourself AND your kids. Whether it's in your career, or you're chasing a dream. You are so capable of doing what you need (or want) to do for YOU! Motherhood can be consuming at times, but remember...you are still your own person.So, chase that dream. Start that business. Take those classes. Get the job. Be the boss mama you are, and let your children be a reason why you do it all as well. Teach them that you can be anything you want to be in this life.GO FOR IT MAMA!

In this episode, Janni Ayala and Rachel Anastacia talk to Janni's "baby dad"/ Romeo's dad, Quentin Williams, about his experience with co-parenting for the past 4 years and becoming a dad at 20 years old.We dive deep into the reality of raising a child in a HEALTHY co-parenting arrangement. Even though there are many benefits to having a healthy relationship between the mother and father of a child, there are the struggles of dealing the "consequences" that impact the life of that child. Especially the child's understanding of this arrangement and becoming comfortable in their reality while knowing 2 parent households exist.Quentin also talks about co-parenting while being in a relationship and the balance of being tied to the mother of his child and his girlfriend.At the end of the day, the CHILD IS MAIN FOCUS. Any relationship of the past or current one does have an impact on the child most, so it's important to be considerate and mindful of the environment in which that kid will grow and develop in.Our kid's are the product of the environment we create. They remind us of the many things we should also love about ourselves because they are the best versions of us. Our kid's deserve everything from open communication to respect to patience and everything in between. Just know that your best is the best they will get and it's more than enough.We hope we enjoy this episode.xoxojanni & rach

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Hey mamas! In this episode Janni Ayala & Rachel Anastacia talk about the power we hold in other's lives as women but even more specific as mothers. As moms we NEED to keep showing up no matter what, in real life AND online. Share the pretty, share the ugly, share the cuteness, share the struggle, share it all. Every life is full of beauty no matter the circumstance because through it all, you are still doing the damn thing!!!Motherhood is consistently so many things at one time. It's being overwhelmed all day but missing your child the moment they fall asleep. It's getting angry with them for throwing a tantrum in the middle of the grocery store but feeling so much love as they reach out their arms for you. It's yelling in frustration at them but feeling guilty for not being able to stay calm. That's just what motherhood is sometimes.. and still somehow it's all worth it.We discuss friendship and the importance of finding real friends. Of course people will come and go but you will always know who's truly there for you. Many moms openly discusses how hard it is to find other mom friends but don't give up on finding your people or even just one person. They do exist... and if anything, we are here for you!We are all "CREATED TO CREATE." Our creations are limitless. Creating life, friendships, memories, love, stories, content, knowledge, beauty. Everything in our lives and those around us is created by us. We appreciate the amazing "artist" that you are because look at all you've created!take some time to be still with the masterpiece you call life. Isn't it lovely?We hope you enjoy this episode.We love you!!!

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HELLO 2025!!In this episode, we talked about reflection while also reflection on ourselves.Reflection is one of the most important things for us to keep evolving. Understanding your emotions, triggers, mindset involve so much reflecting. We are constantly learning ourselves and will continue to learn ourselves as we grow older and meet new versions of ourselves along the way.As mothers, it's very important that we still prioritize our well being because not only do our kids need to live with that but so do we. Self care is childcare. We tend to carry the unhealed versions of ourselves into our adulthood & motherhood and that's okay, we just need to give our inner child the love and support that she deserves.We hope as you listen to this episode you realize that there is time for you to be the person and mother that you want to be. It may cause you to scream and cry and break down but YOU ARE CAPABLE!! We must give ourselves grace, time, patience, understanding, and love along the way. It might be uncomfortable, but that's only because we haven't done it yet.Self love and care is a lifelong journey, so take your time. You don't have to do it all this year. Do what you can.We love you!

um...what do you mean an entire YEAR has already passed us by?!? in this episode, Janni and Rachel talk about how pregnancy, postpartum, and motherhood is such a huge life transition for woman. often times after becoming a mother, a lot of us find ourselves grieving the women we once were before having children. that's because having a baby not only changes us physically, but it chemically alters our brains. so scientifically, we are absolutely different people. that in itself is such a hard part of motherhood-trying to take care of this little human you created, while also trying to navigate the new woman you are. but listen, you can do it. it won't be easy, and a lot of times you might feel like you might never get your spark back, but with time and a little GRACE...you fill find that spark again. and to all of the mothers on social media who have taken the time to build community on social media, we thank you. and we are beyond grateful to be a part of it. we love you ALL. thank you for an amazing year, and we can't wait to see you in the next.

In this episode, Janni and Rach really wanted to talk about the "17 diapers" trend that has circling around the tiktok mom community. This trend has opened up room for moms to share their experiences with motherhood on topics that are truly just not discussed, like postpartum rage, aggression, anxiety, depression, etc. and what that looked like for them. As always, we also shared some of our stories for you to know that it is normal and there is nothing wrong with you. These are just the parts of motherhood that are basically kept a secret until you experience them yourself. Trust and believe that you are not alone!!On the other side of it, we talked about the insane amount of mom shaming that comes out of women sharing their vulnerable truths. This shame comes from other moms, men, and people who don't even know what it's like to raise a child. It's sad but people are always going to point fingers and judge without knowing what really goes on behind the scenes of a mothers life. That's why, as a friend, we should all be checking in with these women/men in our life and lifting them up because as we all know, parenthood and life itself can be difficult.We hope through this episode you understand that these things do happen and if you need help it's okay find someone you can talk to. While things are hard remember there is still beauty in the struggle. One day our babies won't be babies anymore and the struggle would have just been a phase. It's going to be okay. Share your truths. Give yourself grace. Listen to no one who won't take a moment to understand. You're doing your best and that is more than enough. love,janni & rach (the young milfs)(We also want to share that we recorded this about a month ago. It was a great movement that brought mothers together but unfortunately recently there has been a lot of backlash on the mother that started this trend for her mistreating her toddler, and we don't stand with that.)

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In this episode, Janni Ayala and Rachel Anastasia discuss a post that Janni saw in a "Stay At Home Mom" Facebook group where a young mom was pregnant while her husband was on TINDER messaging other women!!!.. From this we discuss the changes that us women go through once a child enters the womb and after they are born. Like trouble with body image, relationships, baby mama (and baby daddy) drama, growth, heartbreak, etc. But also how showing yourself love, patience and understanding will lead you to a better version on you; for you and your little one.As people we will always be going through something new (good and bad), but it is happening FOR YOU!! You may not see it now but let time d the healing and keep your eyes open. It's not easy but it is very worth it.

10 years ago...why does that still feel so weird saying that?? In this episode, we got to talk about our lives as teenagers, and all the glories of high school...lol. Teenage-hood was filled with so many feelings and emotions, and we're sure that a lot of you can relate. We were just growing into ourselves as (somewhat) independent people for the first time, and growing into our bodies-which came with a bunch of insecurities, especially as woman. It feels good to be able to look back on yourself at a different time in your life and realize just how much you have grown and changed! Because one day, we will have teenagers ourselves...omg.

Janni Ayala & Rachel Anastacia (and Cali) discuss the beautiful struggles of toddlerhood...if you know, you know. There are so many new experiences to look forward to as you enter this new stage of your child's life-talking, playing, dancing, singing...but also-temper tantrums, big emotions, sleep regressions, and lots of "no's". Toddlers are just little people experiencing the world for the first time, and we as their parents are here to navigate them, and most importantly, love and care for them. Tune in to listen to our stories as mother's to toddlers, because we are doing this for the first time too....and the struggle is real! We hope you enjoy listening! Love you

In this episode, Janni Ayala & Rachel Anastasia (with Romeo and Cali occasionally throughout) cover new updates on motherhood and the babies. We are both officially mamas of TODDLERS! Between potty training and the "terrible twos" it's safe to say we have entered a new stage of motherhood. And with that of course comes struggles, but no one seems to talk about the potential struggles that you might not even think twice about...like getting pregnant on the IUD.Less than 1% of woman become pregnant on the IUD each YEAR, and if you didn't know already, it can become a true medical emergency. Tune in now to hear this crazy story, and if you can relate, even better. As always, our goal is to share the real and the raw. That's what we're here for. And if you have gone through a similar experience, we are here for you. We love you

Janni Ayala & Rachel Anastacia have their first guest EVER on the podcast.. Keenan Kelly aka Rachel's hubby and Cali's dada. In this episode, we aimed to dig a little deeper into dad's point of view on experiences we shared as mothers, like finding out we were pregnant and giving birth. We covered a bunch of other topics like thoughts on our kid's smoking weed (eventually,) our personal puberty experiences, our friend group, some motivation to living life, and a couple story times in between. Like always, we keep it real and raw for you guys and we hope this episode makes you laugh a little (it's one of our favorites so far.) Love you guys.

In this episode, we discussed our realities with going through changes having to do with our bodies. We wanted to be completely honest and open up to everyone about things we have gone through like eating disorders, insecurities, body changes, and learning to accept all forms of ourselves. We understand what it's like to feel like a "stranger" in your own body. Being a women is already hard enough, but stack being a mother on top of that and it can feel very isolating. Although we might not always like what we see in the mirror, every single one of us is beautiful no matter what stage we are in. Our bodies have changed so much and will continue to do so. We will never have a final form and that's okay. We want everyone to know that you are not alone in how you feel. But remember, we only get one body and we deserve to love everything about it. The journey to self appreciation can be difficult but YOU have all the power to make that difference. Not only have our bodies been there for us for our whole lives but it's created life itself.. what could be more beautiful? Our goal this episode is to validate everyone's feelings when it comes to their bodies but also remind us all that beauty radiates from within. If you are feeling alone please contact either of us to vent or outsource for help. Remember we were baddies then, now, and forever. Don't forget that. We love you.

In this episode Rachel & Janni talk about how life can take over sometimes and the importance of knowing that you are doing your best wherever you are. Everyone is going through their own struggles constantly, whether that's feeling defeated, being overwhelmed, anxiety, depression, etc. we are all going through something. Sometimes it takes taking a break from the things that "distract" you from how blessed you truly are and be as present as you can be. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep going. Give yourself grace and be patient! Trust & believe that you are that bitchh

Every mom/parent has received "advice" or heard opinions from others that they never asked for. If you are a parent, you know EXACTLY what this is like and how annoying it can be (especially when you don't reach out for help.) Rachel & Janni are here to share some of their real experiences with you, and maybe you can relate.We aren't saying we don't appreciate help but there is a time for it. And when that time comes, we'll express that. We hope you enjoy this episode

Janni and Rachel discuss the importance of wanting more for yourself and taking the steps to becoming the best version of you. Setting goals can be overwhelming if we try to rush our process. It's all about taking it day by day. Understand that goals aren't to simply accomplish something but to get you closer to what you want from your life. Whether that is true happiness, wealth, comfort, etc. you can get yourself there. Do it for you! Do it blind! Do it scared! Just Do it! You deserve it.

This episode should give you a good laugh. Janni and Rachel shared some never before shared stories from their childhood that are permanently engraved in their brains. From super embarrassing home videos to the 3am tummy trouble stories. We've all been there before. We hope you really enjoy this episode.

*TRIGGER WARNING*Rachel & Janni discuss the scary reality of raising children in 2022. Nowadays no one is safe. We talk about how human rights are being taken away from women in the "United States." The scary reality of having to eventually send our children to school when school shootings and mass shooting numbers are only increasing overtime. Kidnappings are also major fears of ours. We also discuss the harsh truth of raising biracial children when racism and police brutality is continuing to happen. It's a scary world for anyone but especially parents. We wanted to open up a safe place for us and anyone else who might have these fears to freely discuss these topics. We as a HUMAN RACE should stick together. Always use your voices to speak up on the things you find uncomfortable or unfair, never stop using your voice.

Janni & Rachel dive into what they individually experienced with postpartum.. As much as we go through physical changes, having a baby does a lot to parents mentally. Depression, insecurities, anxiety, ect. A lot goes through the mind of a parent, especially young parents. We go from starting to figure out our own lives to now being responsible for a new one. We wanted to share the truth behind our lives to hopefully allow all other parents to know it's okay to not be okay. We are here with you. You aren't alone.

Rachel and Janni go into the details of giving birth in their early 20's DURING COVID! We both have different stories and experiences. Rachel giving birth a month early and Janni giving birth 10 days "late." We talk about what we physically and mentally went through while giving birth for our first times. From the actual pain to the fears that went through our minds while in this very life changing experience. Women are stronger than we think especially when going through this process. No birth story is the same and that's okay. We hope you enjoy listening to ours.

Pregnancy is extremely life changing for anyone, and in this episode, Janni and Rach want to share what that was like for them both. From growing bigger t!tties, to their sex lives, to doctors appointments, to gender reveals, and so much more. Whatever we went through we're about to talk about it. Hope ur ready. Pour up a drink and let's talk.

Wassup ladies! We are excited to share our motherhood stories and we are starting from the top of our journey.. finding out we were pregnant! We talk about all the feels and realness that came with experiencing this at a young age. Our stories are different and yours probably is too. Pour up a drink and let's talk.