Abdulfattah Adeyemi

When a husband goes silent, the marriage begins to suffer — often in ways that are hard to repair. In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores why husbands emotionally withdraw and how this silentdistance slowly erodes love, trust, and connection. Learn how Islam teaches us to break the silence and build bridges of communication and mercy.In this episode, you will discover:·        The hidden reasons why some husbands withdraw emotionally·        The devastating impact of silence on wives and families·        How emotional withdrawal damages faith, love, and the marriage bond·        Qur'anic and Prophetic guidance on communication, mercy (rahmah), and compassion·        Practical steps for husbands and wives to reconnect and healThis is an essential talk for couples, counsellors, and anyone seeking to build stronger, more loving relationships in light of Islam.Remember to:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ ·        Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Not every wife who is hurting speaks up. Silence doesn't mean she's fine. In this deeply moving and insightful episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi sheds light on the hidden pain that many wives endure quietly in their marriages. Learn to recognize the silent cries for help — before it's too late.In this episode, you will discover:·        The signs of silent suffering in marriage·        Why many women choose silence over complaint·        The emotional and spiritual damage caused by neglect and indifference·        The duty of husbands to see and respond to their wives' needs·        How the Qur'an and Sunnah guide us to build marriages of mercy, care, and connectionThis is a powerful reminder for husbands, couples,parents, and anyone striving to build a loving, compassionate home.·        Be sure to: Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Follow me for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ ·        Join The Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Did you know that emotional fulfilment is a right in marriage, not a luxury? In this profound and enlightening talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores how Islam honours the emotional needs of both husband and wife. Learn how our faith encourages love, compassion, and emotional support as the foundation of a blessed union.In this episode, you will discover:·        The Qur'anic and Prophetic teachings on emotional fulfilment·        Why emotional well-being is a right — not just an expectation — in marriage·        The balance between physical, emotional, and spiritual connection·        How to give and receive emotional support with sincerity and mercy (rahmah)·        Practical steps for nurturing emotional intimacy in your relationshipThis is recommended for couples, singles preparing formarriage, counsellors, and all who seek to strengthen Muslim family life.Be sure to: Like, Comment and Share with couples who need this message. Follow me for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·    Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ ·        Join The Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

What happens when the one who should know you best acts like you're invisible? In this deeply reflective talk, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi addresses the painful reality of feeling unseen and unheard in marriage. Discover how emotional invisibility damages relationships, and how Islam teaches us to honour, value, and truly see our spouses.In this episode, you will learn:·        What it means to feel “invisible” in your marriage·        How spouses unintentionally ignore or dismiss each other·        The emotional and spiritual cost of neglecting your partner·        Islamic guidance on showing appreciation, respect, and care·        Simple, powerful ways to restore connection and presence in marriageThis is an essential talk for couples, parents, and counsellorsseeking to strengthen emotional bonds and build marriages filled with mercy and love.Don't forget to:·        Like, Comment and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance! ·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Is your spouse present, but absent? Emotional neglect is one of the silent destroyers of marriages, often going unnoticed until deep damage is done. In this heartfelt episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi uncovers what emotional neglect really looks like in marriage, how it starts, and how couples can reconnect before it's too late.In this episode, you will learn:·        The subtle signs of emotional neglect between spouses·        How emotional distance grows over time — and why it's so dangerous·        The impact of neglect on love, trust, and faith·        What the Qur'an and Sunnah teach about caring for your partner's heart·        Practical steps to restore emotional connection and mercy (rahmah)This is a must-watch for couples, parents, counsellors, and anyone who wants to build stronger, more loving relationships.Take action now:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, andIslamic life guidance! ·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

When should you seek help in your marriage? Before it breaks. In this crucial episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi shares the warning signs that couples should never ignore — and explains why waiting too long can make healing muchharder. Learn how to recognize when your marriage needs help, and how to seek support with wisdom and faith.In this episode, you will discover:·        Early signs that a marriage is heading toward crisis·        Why many couples delay getting help until it's too late·        The Islamic view on seeking counseling, advice, and mediation·        How to approach marriage problems proactively·        Simple, practical steps for couples to strengthen their bond before it breaksWhether you're married, engaged, or advising others, this talk offers timeless guidance for building resilient, loving relationships.Be sure to:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Follow me for more family, marriage, andIslamic life guidance! ·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy ·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa ·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠ ·        Join The Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

What are the biggest threats to a happy marriage? From years of experience counseling couples, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi reveals the Top 3 Marriage Killersthat silently destroy love, trust, and connection. If you're married, planning to get married, or guiding others, this essential talk will help you identify and defeat these dangers before it's too late.In this episode, you will learn:·        The 3 most common and destructive forces that break marriages·        How these issues start small and grow unnoticed·        The Qur'an and Sunnah's guidance on preventing and healing these problems·        Real-life examples from the counseling desk·        Practical steps to protect your marriage from collapseEquip yourself with the wisdom to build a stronger, healthier, and lasting marriage — starting today.Don't forget to:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy·        Download Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠·        Join AbdulfattahAdeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Why do so many marriages start on shaky foundations? Don'tmarry for the wrong reasons — a powerful reminder from Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi about the hidden dangers of marrying for status, pressure, wealth, beauty, or mere convenience. In this essential talk, uncover the true criteria for a blessed and lasting marriage in Islam.In this episode, you'll discover:Common wrong reasons people marry — and the painful consequencesHow family, culture, and peer pressure influence bad choicesThe qualities that truly matter in a spouse, as taught in the Qur'an and SunnahHow to purify your intention before marriagePractical tips for singles, parents, and matchmakersThis is a must-watch for those preparing for marriage, advising youth, or seeking to strengthen the foundations of Muslim families.Be sure to:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Follow me for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·        Book for Counselling/Therapysession here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy·        Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠·        Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Is every divorce a disaster? Does separation always mean failure? In this eye-opening and balanced discussion, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi challenges common assumptions about divorce in Islam. Discover how divorce, while painful, can sometimes be a path to healing, growth, and mercy —for individuals, families, and communities.In this episode, you will learn:When divorce is a mercy and not a failureThe Islamic view of separation (ṭalāq) with wisdom and fairnessHow couples and society misjudge divorced individualsSigns that separation might be the best pathSteps to part with dignity, compassion, and faithWhether you are married, separated, or advising others, this talk offers clarity, hope, and guidance on navigating the sensitive subject of divorce in Islam.Take a moment to:·        Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!·        Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy·        Download Adeyemi App from Google Play:  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa·        Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠·        Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

How can two people share a home yet feel so far apart from each other? Married but lonely — a silent struggle faced by many couples today. In this in-depth and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi delves into the causes of emotional loneliness in marriage and offers practical, faith-based solutions.In this episode, discover:•             The hidden reasons why spouses feel lonely in marriage•             How communication breaks down between couples•             The role of emotional neglect, unmet expectations, and spiritual distance•             Islamic guidance on restoring rahmah (mercy) and mawaddah (love)•             Simple, practical steps to reconnect hearts and rebuild intimacy Whether you're married, engaged, or supporting others, this talk will equip you with wisdom to create stronger, more loving relationships.Take action now: •             Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for more family, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!•             Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy•             Download the Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa•             Visit: www.adeyemi.ng⁠•             Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

Is your marriage silently falling apart? In this emotionally charged and eye-opening episode, Ustaz Dr. Abdulfattah Adeyemi reveals the subtle yet painful signs that a marriage is in crisis. Love rarely dies with a bang — it fades quietly, often unnoticed until it's too late. Discover how to identify the warning signs early and what the Qur'an, Sunnah, and psychology reveal about healing fractured relationships. In this episode, you will discover: •             The hidden signs your marriage is at risk•             How couples drift apart emotionally and spiritually•             The impact of neglect, harsh words, and unmet needs•             Islamic guidance on rekindling love and mercy (rahmah) in marriage•             Practical steps to rebuild trust and connectionWhether you're married, engaged, or advising others, this talk offers essential lessons for anyone seeking stronger, healthierrelationships. Take action now: •             Like, Comment, and Share with couples who need this message. Subscribe for morefamily, marriage, and Islamic life guidance!•             Book for Counselling/Therapy session here:https://calendly.com/abdulfattahadeyemi/counseling-therapy•             Download Adeyemi App from Google Play: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.kwickapp.panel.android665e0fb9ed2fa•             Visit:www.adeyemi.ng⁠•             JoinAbdulfattah Adeyemi's Community: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0⁠

What is the true purpose of life? Are we merely traveling through time, or are we on a divine mission? In this thought-provoking episode, Abdulfattah Adeyemi explores the grand scheme of life, breaking down the difference between a journey and a quest, and how understanding this distinction can reshape your mindset, your relationships, and whether you live intentionally with faith and vision or you live everything to chance.Key Themes Covered:1. Is life a journey with no destination, or a quest with purpose?2. How the Qur'an distinguishes between scheming and scamming in life.3. The role of scheming, planning, purpose, and spiritual direction on the journeys through life.4. How the Sunnah shows a balanced view between effort and luck.5. Guidance for families, youth, and seekers of truth.With deep insights rooted in Islamic wisdom and contemporary realities, this episode will help you reflect on your goals, trials, and legacy.Don't forget to:Like, Comment, Share, and Follow for more thought-provoking, spiritually grounded content!Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community toEdit Your Youniverse! (https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0)⁠ For a lot more experiences, download the Adeyemi App or visit www.adeyemi.ng⁠.#GrandSchemeOfLife#LifeJourneyOrQuest #IslamicMotivation #PurposeOfLife #DrAdeyemi #Baynakum#IslamicWisdom #MuslimFamily #TarbiyahTalks #QuranicReflections#IslamicCounseling

Get ready to uncover the hidden world of human behaviour! “Life in a Snakearium: living with the most venomous humans in the world” is a thought-provoking exploration of the complexities of human nature, using the Snakearium and its inhabitants as metaphors for the convoluted subtleties of human relationships.The Snakearium represents the elusive balance of power, trust, and communication in our personal and professional lives. Through insightful analysis, we will explore the twists and turns of human behaviour, revealing the fascinating and sometimes venomous ways we interact with each other. Just as snakes shed their skin, we too can change our ways, and put the snake within our souls under control. Join me on this journey into the human psyche, where we will encounter: - The venomous vipers of toxic relationships- The constricting pythons of codependency- The deceptive vipers of insecurity- The lethal warnings of rattlesnakes- And the ultimate battle with the serpent in your soul: the venom within. Through this unique lens, we'll gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, as well as discover new strategies for building stronger, more meaningful, but cautious connections. This audio is a must-listen for anyone interested in human behaviour, psychology, and personal growth. Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community to Edit Your Youniverse! (https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0)⁠For a lot more experiences, download the Adeyemi App or visit www.adeyemi.ng⁠

Get ready to slither into the world of ophidiophobia! “Who is Not Afraid of Snakes?” is a thought-provoking exploration of human fear and fascination with serpents. In this captivating talk, we'll delve into the psychology behind our reactions to snakes, from primal fear to curious fascination. We will consult the Qur'an and Hadith to examine the contexts in which snakes are mentioned. Then we will explore the complexities of human emotions and the power of snakes to evoke strong emotional responses. Join me on this journey into the heart of fear and fascination, and discover: - The science behind ophidiophobia- The role of culture and upbringing in shaping our perceptions - The reference to the snake in the stories of Moses This video is a precursor to a deeper exploration of human relationships with snakes and will leave you questioning your reactions to these fascinating creatures. Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community to EditYour Youniverse!(https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0)⁠ For a lot more experiences, download the Adeyemi App from the Google Play Store or visit www.adeyemi.ng⁠

Marriage is often seen as a blend of choice, effort, and divine will, yet luck plays an undeniable role in shaping its success or struggles. While love, patience, and commitment are essential ingredients, certain uncontrollable factors can either ease the journey or make it more challenging. These “luck factors” are not solely about fate but about circumstances that a couple may or may not have power over.However, luck is not everything. With faith, wisdom, and effort, even the most "unlucky" marriages can become sources of blessing and growth. Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Communityto Edit Your Youniverse: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0 For more experiences, download AdeyemiApp or visit www.adeyemi.ng. 

In this talk, “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS IN ISLAM: BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN IDEALS AND REALITIES” (25 March, 2025), Abdulfattah Adeyemi discussed that marriage is neither a perfect fantasy nor a constant struggle. It is an effort in growth, learning, and companionship. It is about embracing the reality rather than clinging to expectations. It is about understanding that love is not just in grand moments, but in small, everyday choices. Those who enter marriage with wisdom, patience, and sincerity find that even in the struggles, there is beauty. Even in the challenges, there is love. And even in the imperfections, there is a great opportunity to grow, to forgive, and to become better, together. An ideal marriage is not free of challenges, but it is one where faith, respect, and commitment create a bond that overcomes any storm.  Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community to Edit Your Youniverse: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0 For more experiences, download the Adeyemi App or visit www.adeyemi.ng.

Life is a journey, but how we move through it differs from person to person. Some move very fast, some are quite slow, and some advance steadily, while others stumble, retreat, or remain motionless. Our choices, habits, and circumstances determine whether we are progressing, regressing, or stagnating.  While looking at life through metaphorical movementstyles, this lecture discussed five distinct patterns and suggested that moving fast-forward does not mean rushing blindly. It means advancing wisely, purposefully, and consistently in every area of life. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse! Get more experiences with Adeyemi App and at www.adeyemi.ng

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The path to Paradise is unseen, yet not unknown; hidden, yetilluminated by the words of the Divine. So, how many miles to Paradise? Is it a journey of distance or devotion? Is it measured in the footsteps that pace the earth or the weight of deeds that tilt the scales? Your answers arethe same as mine. This lecture suggests that when the purified and free soultakes its final step, it will find that the journey was never about distance, but about becoming worthy of arrival. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse! Get more experience on Adeyemi App or www.adeyemi.ng

It is a wild world out there, where animals eat the eggs of other animals. What if eggs were hearts, and hearts were eggs, would you keep your eggs with heart breakers?  How many promises have been broken when the eggs of trust are kept with someone who cannot think beyond a hammer? You are you own egg! You deserve an EGGXEPTIONAL EGGXISTENCE! Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!Experience more on the Adeyemi App or www.adeyemi.ng

When a person realizes that gaining Allah's pleasure is the highest achievement, their perspective on life changes completely. They no longer chase the fleeting illusions of this world but instead devote themselves to seeking His approval in every aspect of life. The question that governs their choices, actions, and even their thoughts: “Is Allah pleased with me?” This talk gave some practical hints on how to know if Allah is pleased with you.

This lecture discusses a "Professional" approach to Ramadhan by adopting the "S.M.A.R.T" strategy and treating the fasing period as a form of spiritul retreat.

Every child, no matter their origin, carries within them thespark of divinity, the potential to illuminate the world in ways unimaginable. Because, in their small hands lie the power to shape the world, and in their boundless hearts, the courage to dream beyond the horizon. When you give them love, theyflourish. When you give them freedom, they soar.  The parent is the gardener of this delicate seedling. Theparent is the custodian of the promise that the child embodies. In the end, the measure of any society is found in how it treats its children.  With this topic, “Parent for Rent” Abdulfattah Adeyemi passionately appeals to parents: “Leave no Child Behind!”

This topic explores the Quranic concept of Antifragility, discusses examples from real-life experiences, and motivates the listeners to be antifragile to succeed in life. It calls for self-reexamination by asking, "How fragile are you?"Do let me know if this lecture resonates with you through your comments. Thanks for listening.