Abdulfattah Adeyemi

Marriage is often seen as a blend of choice, effort, and divine will, yet luck plays an undeniable role in shaping its success or struggles. While love, patience, and commitment are essential ingredients, certain uncontrollable factors can either ease the journey or make it more challenging. These “luck factors” are not solely about fate but about circumstances that a couple may or may not have power over.However, luck is not everything. With faith, wisdom, and effort, even the most "unlucky" marriages can become sources of blessing and growth. Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Communityto Edit Your Youniverse: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0 For more experiences, download AdeyemiApp or visit www.adeyemi.ng. 

In this talk, “MODERN RELATIONSHIPS IN ISLAM: BRIDGING THE GAP BETWEEN IDEALS AND REALITIES” (25 March, 2025), Abdulfattah Adeyemi discussed that marriage is neither a perfect fantasy nor a constant struggle. It is an effort in growth, learning, and companionship. It is about embracing the reality rather than clinging to expectations. It is about understanding that love is not just in grand moments, but in small, everyday choices. Those who enter marriage with wisdom, patience, and sincerity find that even in the struggles, there is beauty. Even in the challenges, there is love. And even in the imperfections, there is a great opportunity to grow, to forgive, and to become better, together. An ideal marriage is not free of challenges, but it is one where faith, respect, and commitment create a bond that overcomes any storm.  Join Abdulfattah Adeyemi's Community to Edit Your Youniverse: https://t.me/+Gz7wGuTsRLRmNzU0 For more experiences, download the Adeyemi App or visit www.adeyemi.ng.

Life is a journey, but how we move through it differs from person to person. Some move very fast, some are quite slow, and some advance steadily, while others stumble, retreat, or remain motionless. Our choices, habits, and circumstances determine whether we are progressing, regressing, or stagnating.  While looking at life through metaphorical movementstyles, this lecture discussed five distinct patterns and suggested that moving fast-forward does not mean rushing blindly. It means advancing wisely, purposefully, and consistently in every area of life. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse! Get more experiences with Adeyemi App and at www.adeyemi.ng

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The path to Paradise is unseen, yet not unknown; hidden, yetilluminated by the words of the Divine. So, how many miles to Paradise? Is it a journey of distance or devotion? Is it measured in the footsteps that pace the earth or the weight of deeds that tilt the scales? Your answers arethe same as mine. This lecture suggests that when the purified and free soultakes its final step, it will find that the journey was never about distance, but about becoming worthy of arrival. Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse! Get more experience on Adeyemi App or www.adeyemi.ng

It is a wild world out there, where animals eat the eggs of other animals. What if eggs were hearts, and hearts were eggs, would you keep your eggs with heart breakers?  How many promises have been broken when the eggs of trust are kept with someone who cannot think beyond a hammer? You are you own egg! You deserve an EGGXEPTIONAL EGGXISTENCE! Listen, learn, and think deeply as you Edit Your Youniverse!Experience more on the Adeyemi App or www.adeyemi.ng

When a person realizes that gaining Allah's pleasure is the highest achievement, their perspective on life changes completely. They no longer chase the fleeting illusions of this world but instead devote themselves to seeking His approval in every aspect of life. The question that governs their choices, actions, and even their thoughts: “Is Allah pleased with me?” This talk gave some practical hints on how to know if Allah is pleased with you.

This lecture discusses a "Professional" approach to Ramadhan by adopting the "S.M.A.R.T" strategy and treating the fasing period as a form of spiritul retreat.

Every child, no matter their origin, carries within them thespark of divinity, the potential to illuminate the world in ways unimaginable. Because, in their small hands lie the power to shape the world, and in their boundless hearts, the courage to dream beyond the horizon. When you give them love, theyflourish. When you give them freedom, they soar.  The parent is the gardener of this delicate seedling. Theparent is the custodian of the promise that the child embodies. In the end, the measure of any society is found in how it treats its children.  With this topic, “Parent for Rent” Abdulfattah Adeyemi passionately appeals to parents: “Leave no Child Behind!”

This topic explores the Quranic concept of Antifragility, discusses examples from real-life experiences, and motivates the listeners to be antifragile to succeed in life. It calls for self-reexamination by asking, "How fragile are you?"Do let me know if this lecture resonates with you through your comments. Thanks for listening.

This lecture (delivered on the 21, of January, 2024) demonstrates that marriage is a sacred union of hearts. It is a refined relationship between two individuals who embark on a marital journey filled with joy, challenges, and growth. Understanding and patience emerge as steadfast companions in this journey that can lead to a resilient and lasting bond. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply, as you edit your Youniverse! Visit www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

When a child loses either or both of his parents, he faces so many economic, social, and emotional issues down the line. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the importance of fostering or caring for orphans and considered it one of the noblest deeds in Islam. The lecture (delivered on 4 November 2023) shows us the “Big Picture”: we must never lose sight of the compassionate imperative to extend a helping hand to those who have known the depths of emotional trauma. Listen, learn, and reflect, as you edit your Youniverse! Visit www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

This lecture (4, February 2024) examines the effects of globalization, internal strives, and socio-cultural challenges the Muslim Ummah faces in general, and the specific challenges that the Nigerian Ummah is experiencing. The lecture also suggests unity, knowledge, and understanding of how things work as parts of the way out. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For more lectures and counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

The crux of our marital relationship is love and mercy: there can be no mercy without love, and there can be no true love without mercy. This lecture (5, February 2024) posited that mercy is not just an emotion we feel; it is a decision to make, and an action to take. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For more lectures and counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

This is part of a leadership lecture (delivered on 28, January 2024). It examines the Islamic concepts of stewardship, intention, welfare, spirituality, and other parameters of ethical leadership in the home. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For more lectures and counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

This is part of a leadership lecture (delivered on 28, January 2024). It looks at the idea of religiousness of marital leadership in five ways: faith, devotion, experiential comprehension, consequential considerations, and deep knowledge. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For more lectures and counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

This is part of a leadership lecture (delivered on 28, January 2024). It is a philosophical view of leadership's contexts, limits, circumstances, and terrains, based on observations and inferences from the natural world. Listen, learn, and laugh as you edit your Youniverse! For more lectures and counseling services, visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

This speech (delivered on the 14, of October 2023) suggests that couples can use social media to enrich their love story, fostering connection, communication, and shared growth. It is a tool that, when harnessed wisely, can serve as an extension of the love that binds them in the real world, nurturing and strengthening the marital bond in the digital age. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! Visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

Welcome to the enchanted kingdom of "Socialtopia," where WiFi signals flow like rivers. Where hashtags grow on virtual trees, and where the quirky citizens embarked on a digital adventure like no other. This speech (delivered on the 14, Oct. 2023) invites us to explore the profound philosophical questions surrounding technology, identity, and the human experience in the digital ecosphere of wires and waves. Listen, learn, laugh, and think deeply as you edit your Youniverse! Visit: www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com

We are always busy chasing deadlines and dreams, such that we forget to live in the moment to enjoy the simple things. We are always busy; but what are we busy for? We need to pause and reflect to find our inner core. This lecture (recorded via zoom on 10 September, 2023) discusses how we are addicted to being busy and how to balance family and work. Listen, learn, laugh and edit your Youniverse! Visit www.abdulfattahadeyemi.com