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Perimenopause and menopause can bring surprising changes to your brain—making multitasking even harder and emotional overwhelm way more real. That's why in this episode, women's health expert Dr. Aviva Romm joins us to break down what's really happening cognitively in midlife and how these shifts can be a normal, navigable transition. Together, we're debunking common perimenopause myths and unpacking how sleep, nutrition, exercise, and daily lifestyle choices can dramatically support your brain power and emotional resilience. Dr. Romm shares her top practical tools that will help you feel clear, focused, and confident as your body evolves in midlife. Ready to thrive—not just survive—through midlife and beyond? Tune in now and discover how to support your brain and body so you can step into this next chapter feeling your best! Aviva Romm, MD Dr. Aviva Romm is a Yale-trained family physician, midwife, and herbalist who's been a leading voice in women's, maternal, and environmental health for over 35 years. She's the author of nine books, including the landmark Botanical Medicine for Women's Health, the New York Times bestseller Hormone Intelligence, and the forthcoming Force of Nature, a groundbreaking guide to perimenopause and menopause. Dr. Romm sees patients in New York, Massachusetts, and via telehealth. She also runs acclaimed online health programs and hosts the popular podcast On Health with Aviva Romm, empowering women worldwide. IN THIS EPISODE Navigating symptoms and changes in perimenopause The cognitive emotional overwhelm that happens for women Recognizing the common causes of midlife cognitive issues The importance of advocating for yourself with your doctor The massive benefits of sleep for cognitive functioning Why you should focus on strength training in perimenopause Creating your own community for perimenopause support Debunking the myths and misinformation in the media around perimenopause and menopause QUOTES“So often sleep is disrupted by perimenopause and menopause. What a lot of women don't realize is you can be having hot flashes but not consciously registering you're having hot flashes. So a lot of women are being woken up by hot flashes they didn't realize they were having.” ”We desperately need more practitioners who can answer those questions for women, whether it's a more natural, holistic approach that does or doesn't include hormone therapy, antidepressants, or any of the other things. Because the other problem is that these doctors are often doling out pharmaceuticals for sleep.” ”We now know that the impact of declining estrogen and progesterone on the brain [and] on the nervous system absolutely has an impact on anxiety, depression, and sleep.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Order my new book: The Perimenopause Revolution https://peri-revolution.com/ Use code ENERGIZED and get 10% off on your MitoQ order https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-101585564-17091761 Dr. Aviva Romm's Website Dr. Aviva Romm on Instagram Dr. Aviva Romm's Podcast: On Health RELATED EPISODES 701: Mood Swings, Brain Fog & Exhaustion: The Hormone Conversation You Deserve with Dr. Carrie Jones 690: The Perimenopause Revolution: Why midlife isn't the end — it's the beginning of your most energized, powerful, and vibrant self 689: The Hidden Brain Shift: Why Perimenopause Symptoms Start Earlier Than You Think 686: Your Second Puberty Explained: What's Really Happening to Your Body in Perimenopause 673: From Fatigued to Energized: Reclaiming Sleep in Midlife With Evidence-Based Solutions
In this inspiring and illuminating conversation, Dr. Dan sits down with Inna Segal, bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body, to explore how pain, trauma, and emotional overwhelm can become powerful gateways to healing, self-awareness, and inner freedom. Inna shares her extraordinary personal journey from debilitating chronic illness and profound grief to discovering her intuitive healing abilities — and dedicating her life to helping others reconnect with the wisdom of their bodies. Dr. Dan and Inna break down why the body is never the enemy, how slowing down is the first essential step toward wellness, and why meaningful healing requires curiosity, courage, compassion, and patience. Inna explains how unresolved childhood wounds, ancestral trauma, and unprocessed emotions can shape our physical and emotional experiences — and how simple daily practices can begin to restore balance, empowerment, and alignment. Listeners will learn how to tune into the body's signals, use breath and attention to shift internal states, embrace personal growth without overwhelming themselves, and understand healing as a lifelong journey toward authenticity, connection, and wholeness. If you're seeking hope, clarity, or a renewed sense of purpose along your wellness path, this episode offers profound insights and practical tools to help you begin or continue your transformation. For more information, visit innasegal.com and follow @innasegalauthor on Instagram. Please listen, follow, rate, and review Make It a Great One on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Follow @drdanpeters on social media. Visit www.drdanpeters.com and send your questions or guest pitches to podcast@drdanpeters.com. We have this moment, this day, and this life—let's make it a great one. – Dr. Dan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Sara Billups (type 4, 4-5 pairing), author of "Nervous Systems: Spiritual Practices to Calm Anxiety in Your Body, the Church, and Politics," joins us for a conversation about anxiety that's especially needed as we head into Christmas. Sara explores how anxiety manifests in three interconnected ways, and how couples who are in the sandwich generation (Millennial, Gen X especially) navigate personal anxiety, church disillusionment, and political division all at once as their nervous systems rise up in anxiety. Drawing from her experience caregiving for aging ill parents while parenting teens with their own anxiety along with her own anxiety, Sara offers wisdom for couples in the sandwich generation stretched thin caring for multiple generations while trying to protect their marriage. She also unpacks scrupulosity and how being trained to pursue "being good" is often far from healthy holiness, especially for those raised evangelical, and how this performance anxiety shows up in marriage. Sara's prescription for anxiety is holy indifference, the Ignatian concept of open-handedness toward both blessings and trials, not as giving up but as giving into the Spirit, and what this looks like practically when anxious about outcomes or when life isn't going as hoped. Rather than offering prescriptive how-to lists, Sara offered a soothing balm for anxious hearts heading into holiday chaos. Find "Nervous Systems" wherever books are sold. Watch on YouTube, too! Get Sara's book, Nervous Systems, here! https://a.co/d/ieVOMum Deeper Dive Guides on sale here! Use code DEEPERDIVE for $10 off! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/deeper-dives Find more about your type, the pod, freebies, and SO much more at our website right here! www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too here! Get Christa's Best-Selling Book, The Enneagram in Marriage, here! https://a.co/d/df8SxVx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Before you map out new habits, routines, or big 2025 goals, you need to understand the season you just lived through. In this reflective and intimate conversation, join us on our full 2025 debrief — breaking down what worked, what didn't, what stretched us, and what surprised us. Instead of rushing into new-year pressure or setting goals from burnout, we show you how to pause, assess your capacity, and understand the patterns that shaped your year. We share our personal lessons, the habits we're carrying into 2026, the ones we're releasing, and the anchors we're rebuilding. This episode gives you a framework for looking back with honesty (not judgment), so you can create intentions for 2026 that support your actual life — not an idealized version of it. What You'll Learn • Why you must debrief your year before setting new goals • The role of capacity, bandwidth, and emotional load in aligned goal-setting • How to create forward momentum without force or pressure • How to set goals that feel good, not heavy Chapters (00:22) — Welcome Back to The Wellness Effect (01:00) — What Social Media Success Really Feels Like (05:50) — A Vulnerable Share: TTC, Hope & Heartbreak (08:24) — Navigating Health When Emotions Run High (18:43) — How Fertility Challenges Shape Mental & Physical Wellness (25:25) — Kira's Birth Story: Strength, Surrender & Transformation (35:15) — Trust, Control & How Partners Show Up (35:47) — Masculine + Feminine Energies: Finding Harmony (36:36) — When Relationship Dynamics Shift (37:12) — Trauma, Birth, and the Body's Memory (38:58) — Why Confidence in Men Creates Safety (42:45) — The Dance Between Independence & Surrender (53:26) — Infertility, Hormones & Staying Connected to Your Body (01:02:38) — What This Season Taught Us (01:04:19) — Closing Reflections + Gratitude Want to Work With Us? If this episode feels like the missing piece in your healing journey, connect with us below: Visit our website: https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/ Follow us on Instagram: @wellnesseffectpod Lacey Iskra - @laceeiskk Jensen - @wellnesswjensen Kira Iskra - @kiraiskk Lifestyle U have helped over 1,000+ women transform their mind and body and become the best version of themselves. Want to be next? Click Here to Apply! - https://www.lifestyleucoaching.ca/apply If you loved this episode and want to hear more, subscribe and leave a review! Share this episode with a friend who's ready to start their own wellness journey. Follow us on Instagram at @wellnesseffectpod to stay up-to-date with the latest episodes and tips.
Hello! Welcome back to another episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! This week I'm joined by Dr Jaime Knopman, a board certified reproductive endocrinologist and one of the leading voices in fertility preservation today. Jaime brings clarity, honesty, and real world perspective to conversations that are often filled with fear, confusion, and pressure. We're talking all about infertility and her upcoming book Own Your Fertility: From Egg Freezing to Surrogacy, How to Take Charge of Your Body and Your Future. This conversation is empowering, grounding, and full of information every woman deserves to have.In this episode:How fertility works and why egg supply changes with ageWhen people should start thinking about fertility healthCommon fertility myths and misunderstandingsWhat it means to be proactive rather than reactive with fertility careWhat egg freezing is and who may want to consider itWhen surrogacy becomes part of the fertility conversationThe importance of emotional support, self compassion, and staying grounded through fertility decisionsThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode!ResourcesOwn Your Fertility: From Egg Freezing to Surrogacy, How to Take Charge of Your Body and Your Future Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine The Chick Mission Connect with JaimeInstagram - @DrJaimeKnopmanWebsite - DrJaimeKnopman.comSupport the showConnect with Rachel!Instagram: @The_Rachel_MaineWebsite: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertiseYouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelfFacebook: Rachel MaineEmail: therachelmaine@gmail.com
I'm one of millions of women specifically trying to parent themselves while parenting children… and it can be seriously exhausting. And when childhood trauma still comes back to haunt us in midlife and beyond, life can feel impossible. That's why I've invited trauma expert Anna Runkle on for this powerful episode to help unpack why so many midlife women are still impacted by old trauma, and how that buried stress shows up in our bodies. We dive into the hidden ways trauma can lead us to isolate, dysregulate our nervous system, and disrupt key hormones like cortisol, dopamine, and serotonin. Anna and I break down how this cascade of stress and deregulation can spark inflammation, oxidative stress, blood-sugar swings, and even contribute to autoimmune issues that so many women face. But most importantly, Anna shares simple, compassionate tools to help regulate your nervous system and finally begin healing the deeper patterns driving overwhelm in midlife. Ready to feel more grounded in this season of life? Hit play and listen now! Anna Runkle Anna Runkle is the creator of the popular YouTube channel, blog, courses, and coaching programs that provide tools for adults to heal dysregulation and other common trauma symptoms, helping them feel better and change their lives. Anna's methods were developed through research, her mentoring of hundreds of individuals over the years, and her direct experience healing her own symptoms of early trauma. She's the author of Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviors That Keep You Stuck and Connectability: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, and Feel (At Last) Like You Belong. IN THIS EPISODE Understanding nervous system deregulation How Anna learned to adapt after childhood trauma Symptoms that can manifest from over-functioning How to manage stressors and stay regulated day to day Top ways we can start to regulate, especially when deregulated How connection can be a huge tool for healing Free resources and where you can find more from Anna! QUOTES“All these weird symptoms that I had… It's neurological dysregulation. It's really normal. Everybody gets dysregulated sometimes, but those of us who are traumatized as kids are often more prone to it. It happens more easily. It's more intense. It's harder to get out of.” “Early trauma is very strongly correlated later in life with high rates of cancer, diabetes, heart disease, autoimmune disorders, reproductive disorders, just about everything bad.” “Those three things– dysregulation, disconnection, and self-defeating behavior– those are the things that can just take you out and keep you stuck in trauma forever. So the good news is you can learn to reregulate.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Order Anna's Book: CONNECTABILITY: Heal the Hidden Ways You Isolate, Find Your People, And Feel (At Last) Like You Belong HERE Order Anna's other book: Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and the Trauma-Driven Behaviors That Keep You Stuck HERE Anna's Website Anna Runkle on YouTube Anna Runkle on Instagram RELATED EPISODES 681: The Biology of Trauma: How Stress Gets Stored in Your Body (and Passed On to Your Kids) and How You Can Start To Heal with Dr. Aimie Apigian #629: Unlocking Emotional Resilience with Awareness, Lifestyle and Tools to Regulate Your Stress Triggers with Dr. Drew Ramsey 685: End Emotional Outsourcing: Break Free from Codependency, Perfectionism & People-Pleasing with Beatriz Albina #308: What Is Trauma and How Does It Make Us Sick? with Dr. Elena Villanueva
Dr. Neal Barnard is a physician, clinical researcher, and founder of the Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine (PCRM). He is a leading advocate for plant-based nutrition and has conducted groundbreaking studies on how diet affects diabetes, heart disease, and brain health. Dr. Barnard is the author of numerous bestselling books, including The Power Foods for the Brain and Your Body in Balance. Through his research and public education efforts, he has become one of the most influential voices in promoting evidence-based, compassionate nutrition.In our conversation we discuss:(00:00) – Misconceptions and origins of the plant-based diet(02:24) – Early exposure to heart disease and meat connection(05:11) – Discovery that plant-based diets reverse diabetes(06:07) – Portion control vs. natural body regulation(07:38) – Humans as plant-eaters, not natural carnivores(08:53) – Stone Age tools enabled unnatural meat consumption(10:22) – Returning to plant-based diets improves health(14:10) – Reversing diseases through diet changes and research(16:03) – What “plant-based” truly means and typical meals(17:33) – How fat buildup causes insulin resistance(18:53) – Three-week vegan diet and diabetes improvement(20:47) – Why omnivorous diets fail long-term(21:59) – Clarifying vegan vs. plant-based terminology(22:31) – Comparing keto and plant-based diet results(25:12) – Health risks and misconceptions of ketogenic diets(27:36) – The four pillars of a healthy diet(29:37) – Environmental and ethical impact of meat consumption(33:14) – Getting sufficient protein from plants(35:22) – Shrimp farming ethics and environmental damage(39:26) – Food production methods vs. health outcomes(41:31) – Protein intake debates and sarcopenia(45:03) – Plant protein sources and practical meal ideas(47:02) – Dining out and global vegan meal options(49:44) – Supplements: B12, D, iodine, omega-3s(54:06) – Iron sources and risks of excess iron(59:33) – Dairy, hormones, and links to cancer(1:07:06) – Compassion, evolution, and human indifference to animals(1:13:20) – Cultural and economic factors in diet choices(1:20:11) – Ethical debates about plants, pain, and life(1:23:22) – Dr. Barnard's books and closing reflectionsWatch full episodes on: https://www.youtube.com/@seankimConnect on IG: https://instagram.com/heyseankim
You're tired all the time. Your joints ache. Your brain feels foggy. Your stomach is always off. You've been to multiple doctors, run the labs, and everything comes back "normal." So you're told it's stress, or aging, or maybe it's all in your head. It's not. It's chronic inflammation, and it's the hidden thread connecting most long-term diseases, from heart disease and diabetes to Alzheimer's, autoimmune conditions, and even cancer. That's chronic inflammation, and it's happening in your joints, your gut, your brain, your arteries, and your metabolism- quietly, invisibly, for years before symptoms force you to pay attention. You'll learn the 5R framework for gut repair, why sleep is the most underrated anti-inflammatory tool, how to eat to lower inflammation starting today, and which supplements actually move the needle when layered on top of solid habits. If you've been chasing diagnoses, collecting labels, or told your symptoms don't match anything "real," this episode is your roadmap out. Chronic inflammation is measurable, fixable, and under your control once you understand what's feeding it. Check us out on social media: drefratlamandre.com/instagram drefratlamandre.com/facebook drefratlamandre.com/tiktok #functionalmedicine #drefratlamandre #medicaldisruptor #NPwithaPHD #nursepractitioner #medicalgaslighting #ChronicInflammation #InflammationSymptoms #GutHealth #AutoimmuneDisease #FunctionalMedicine #ChronicIllness #MedicalGaslighting #BrainFog #JointPain #MetabolicHealth #LeakyGut #Dysbiosis #AntiInflammatory #WomensHealth #IntegrativeMedicine Chapters 00:00 – Introduction: The Hidden Root of Most Diseases 01:12 – What We'll Cover in This Episode 02:01 – What Is Inflammation? Your Body's Protective Alarm System 03:15 – Acute vs. Chronic Inflammation: When Healing Gets Stuck 05:02 – Chronic Inflammation in Action: How It Shows Up in the Body 05:22 – Autoimmune Disorders & Joint Inflammation 06:10 – Heart Disease: Why It's Really an Inflammatory Condition 07:05 – Brain Inflammation: Cognitive Decline, Brain Fog & Microglia 08:30 – Gut Inflammation: IBS, IBD & Leaky Gut Explained 10:10 – Cancer Risk & Cell Behavior: The Inflammation Link 11:05 – Metabolism: Insulin Resistance & Metaflammation 12:30 – What Actually Causes Chronic Inflammation? 13:00 – Nutrition: The SAD Diet & Food-Driven Inflammation 14:12 – Gut Microbiome, Dysbiosis & Immune Activation 15:40 – Chronic Stress & Cortisol Disruption 16:55 – Sleep: Your Nightly Anti-Inflammatory System 18:10 – Chronic Infections & Hidden Contributors (Lyme, etc.) 19:18 – Mold Exposure & Immune Sensitivity 20:30 – Adrenal Fatigue & Biological Burnout 21:40 – Functional Medicine: Addressing Root Causes 23:00 – What You Can Do Today to Lower Inflammation 23:22 – Eat the Rainbow: Anti-Inflammatory Nutrition 24:10 – The 5R Gut Repair Framework 26:20 – Sleep, Stress Management & Daily Habits 27:40 – Smart Supplements (Used Correctly) 29:00 – Final Thoughts & Next Steps Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sponsored By: → Just Ingredients | For an exclusive offer go to justingredients.us and use code DRG to get 10% off all non-subscription orders. → Cornbread Hemp | For an exclusive offer go to cornbreadhemp.com/drg and use promo code DRG and take advantage of holiday BOGO savings and enjoy free shipping on orders over $45! → Timeline | For an exclusive offer go to timeline.com/DRG and use code DRG to get 20% OFF Episode Description What if everything you think about health is keeping you sick? Dr. G dismantles the biohacking industry, lab-obsessed wellness culture, and guru worship that's stolen your internal compass. This isn't another podcast about blood markers, cold plunges, or longevity hacks—it's a wake-up call about the spiritual crisis masquerading as chronic illness. The controversial truth? Your chronic disease isn't a diet problem or a supplement deficiency. It's your soul suffocating under a life you weren't meant to live. In this game-changing episode, Dr. G reveals why vibrant health has nothing to do with perfect biomarkers and everything to do with embodied purpose. He exposes the three non-negotiable biological rhythms that—when ignored—create the chronic stress, inflammation, and disconnection driving your unexplained symptoms. But here's what the wellness industry won't tell you: "If you are not letting your soul create every single day, you will feel like you are suffocating. Creation is the very essence of God." After losing his mother at 59—before she could live her retirement dreams in Mexico—Dr. G delivers an urgent message about the cost of postponing your truth. This episode will make you question every health decision you've outsourced to Huberman, Attia, or the latest biohacking trend. Discover why your nervous system is screaming for alignment, not another protocol. In This Episode: • Why health is a subjective spiritual experience—not objective lab numbers or longevity metrics • The soul's blueprint for vitality: creation, deep human connection, and nature's rhythm • How chronic illness is a biological message that you're living out of sync with your purpose • Why the Sahara tribe lives disease-free (and what modern life is destroying in your body) • The internal compass test: how to know if a health expert is feeding you truth or fear • Dr. G's personal story of loss and the urgency of creative expression before it's too late • The "soul-sucking" job connection to autoimmune disease, anxiety, and burnout • Why feeling alone is a biological imperative—not just an emotional experience • The nature prescription: how many days you need outside for every week in the city • How to activate your God-given right to overflowing vitality (and stop letting gurus save you) If you're exhausted from perfect eating, optimal sleep tracking, and endless supplements—but still feel disconnected, anxious, or chronically unwell—this episode reveals the embodied truth your nervous system has been waiting for. My one stop shop for quality supplements: https://theswellscore.com/pages/drg Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:15 - Health as the Embodiment of Your Soul's Purpose 9:31 - Stop Giving Your Power Away to Health Gurus 12:21 - Listen to Your Body's Truth, Not External Voices 13:35 - The Cellular Level of True Vitality 16:41 - Life Is Short: My Mom's Story and Finding Your Compass 17:48 - Creativity as Essential Medicine 19:25 - The Power of Nature and Rhythm for Healing 21:14 - Getting Back in Rhythm with Nature to Heal Chronic Illness 22:01 - Embodying Your Soul's Purpose Is True Health
Inna Segal, a pioneering intuitive healer and the bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body. Inna has dedicated over two decades to helping individuals unlock the secrets of their body's wisdom, facilitating profound healing on physical, emotional, and energetic levels.Through her transformative teachings and intuitive insights, Inna empowers people to reconnect with their inner guidance, fostering self-healing and personal transformation. Her work has touched countless lives, offering tools and practices that bridge the gap between mind, body, and spirit.In this episode, we'll delve into Inna's journey, explore the principles behind her healing approach, and discover how tuning into our body's innate intelligence can lead to lasting well-being.Whether you're new to the world of intuitive healing or seeking more profound understanding, this conversation promises to be enlightening and inspiring.For more, visit: https://www.innasegal.com/Send us a textSupport the show Contact me at: postcardstotheuniverse@gmail.com Shout out and follow on IG - @postcardstotheuniverse https://linktr.ee/postcardstotheuniverse Thank you and keep listening for more great shows!
This week on The Diet Obsessed Podcast, I cover a variety of fascinating topics in my regular segments, including:When abrupt change affects mental health. Is it rude to gift other people anti-aging products?When Thanksgiving food is VERY disappointing :(In this week's podcast review, I highlighted the topic of the intersection of Internalized Ageism and how it intersects with Fat Phobia and Diet Culture, as discussed on the podcast Burnt Toast with host and author Virginia Sole-Smith. Virginia invited guest Debra Benfield, RDN who is a registered dietician focused on the intersection of anti-ageism and body liberation. Her book Unapologetic Aging: How to Mend and Nourish Your Relationship with Your Body helps create a framework for nourishing the body in a way that honors body respect, prioritizes liberation and embraces the full spectrum of aging. This was a fascinating conversation and you won't want to miss this review, along with my personal takes! If these topics interest you, subscribe to Craving More or Craving More VIP premium content here: linktr.ee/thedietobsessedpodcast.Don't forget to leave a rating and review — it really helps the show grow!Follow along for more on Instagram: @thedietobsessedpodcast | @veronica.santarelliSupport the show
It's a bit of a cliché to say that we live in uncertain times. Just look at the headlines. Relationships — from the global to the intimate — are fraying. We swim in waters full of fear and worry, contempt and disdain. Anxiety abounds. That's why today's guest — writer and cultural commentator, Sara Billups — has written a new book. It's called “Nervous Systems: Spiritual Practices to Calm Anxiety in Your Body, the Church and Politics.” It's out now and — spoiler alert — Billups writes quite a bit about Ignatian spirituality. She looks to Ignatius' all-important idea of holy indifference as a way of approaching the anxiety-inducing moment in which we all find ourselves. You may recall that when Ignatius says “indifference,” he's not promoting a lifestyle that is apathetic or callous to the signs of the times. Rather, Ignatius wants us to let go of how we want things to go and to instead allow God's Spirit to use us as they Spirit wills. In short, God's ways are not our ways; so, let's put aside our preferences and discover God's. In addition to this new book, “Nervous Systems,” Billups has bylines in the New York Times and Christianity Today. She completed a Doctor of Ministry in the Sacred Art of Writing at Peterson Cetner for the Christian Imagination at Western Theological Seminary. She writes a Substack called “Bitter Scroll” and hosts a podcast called “That's the Spirit.” You can learn more about Sara and her work by exploring the links below. Website: https://www.sarabillups.com/ Order the book: https://www.amazon.com/Nervous-Systems-Spiritual-Practices-Politics-ebook/dp/B0F2NC1QDL Substack: https://www.sarabillups.com/bitter-scroll
In this deeply meaningful episode of The End in Mind, I'm joined by Marla Mervis-Hartmann — bestselling author of Be-Friend Yourself, TEDx speaker, Reiki Master, and the creator of Love Your Body Love Yourself.Marla is known for her compassionate and intuitive approach to healing emotional eating, body shame, and the deeper wounds that keep so many people stuck in cycles of control, restriction, obsession, or disconnection. Her work goes far beyond food — it's about coming home to yourself.Together, we explore:- What emotional eating really is (and what it's not)- How food can become a coping mechanism for grounding, avoiding, or bypassing deeper emotions- The difference between “dieting” and true nourishment- How spiritual connection plays a role in healing body image- Why so many high-achieving entrepreneurs get stuck in loops of “overthinking, overworking, and overeating”- How childhood environments shape our relationship with food and our bodies- Why getting into your body (not just your mind) is essential for healing- How to rebuild trust with food, your body, and yourself- Practical tools for moving through overwhelm without abandoning yourself- What to do when healing uncovers a “void” or identity gap — and how to fill it with self-love rather than old patternsThis conversation is filled with wisdom, grounded spirituality, and gentle reminders that we don't heal through force — we heal through safety, compassion, and connection.Connect with Marla & Explore Her Work:- Her Book: Be-Friend Yourself: https://www.loveyourbodyloveyourself.com/book- Free Gift — Breaking the Cycle of Emotional Eating: https://goloveyourbodyloveyourself.com/emotionaleating- Website: www.LoveYourBodyLoveYourself.com- TEDx Talk: The Secret Ingredient of Feeling Good in Your Body: https://youtu.be/nEVjlT9B6dU?si=0--OdXuS_qTEi1X9- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/marlamervis- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveyourbodyloveyourselfalways- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/loveyourbodyloveyourselfhttps://www.facebook.com/marla.mervis*Loved this episode?*Send me a DM on Instagram @meraki_media_management — I'd love to hear your reflections, your story, or what resonated most. Sharing these episodes or leaving a review helps this community grow and reach more people who need these conversations. Thank you for being here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the pain in your body, the emotions you carry, and the patterns you repeat are all messages… guiding you back to your true self?In today's episode, Ashley sits down with Inna Segal, internationally acclaimed healer, intuitive visionary, and bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body. After years of debilitating back pain, a painful skin disorder, and overwhelming anxiety, Inna's life changed through a moment of divine grace that opened her ability to “see” the energetic blocks and emotional roots of illness.Her profound self-healing journey led her to develop her groundbreaking work in energy medicine and body-soul communication. Today, she helps people around the world understand why their bodies speak the way they do - and how to listen.This powerful conversation explores the messages held within our organs, our aches, and our emotions - and how reconnecting to the wisdom of the body unlocks our greatest transformation.Tune in to Episode 294 of Uncover Your Magic to explore the deeper intelligence of your physical and emotional healing. You'll hear about the pivotal moment that awakened Inna's intuitive vision, the way each organ carries its own language and story, and how your emotions live inside your body in specific and surprising ways. Plus, Inna explains why healing requires a partnership between your soul, your body, and your conscious awareness.May this episode remind you that your body is always guiding you - and that when you listen with love, you open the door to your most vibrant and empowered self.Episode Takeaways (timestamps)00:10:30 – How early bullying sparked Inna's first health issues.00:19:30 – The loss that led her into self-healing.00:21:00 – The moment she saw inside her body intuitively.00:27:30 – Her first vision of another's inherited trauma.00:30:00 – Why every organ holds a message for healing.Resources:Connect with Inna: Website • Instagram • FacebookEmbark on a healing experience with Inna's audios. Click Here for AccessConnect with Ashley: Website • Instagram • FacebookYour Next Move: Subscribe to Uncover Your Magic PodcastShare with a Friend: Simply forward this episode - it's that easy, or tag them on socialFree Gift: Download your Easy Magical Morning Routine for Busy People Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We explore how trauma, ancestry, and attention shape the body's signals, and how clear daily practices can turn symptoms into guidance. Ina shares how refining intuition, setting boundaries, and choosing exact words can shift healing from generic advice to personal change.Inna Segal is a pioneer in the field of energy medicine and human consciousness, and the bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body, translated into 26 languages• family trauma shaping early digestive issues and psoriasis• learning to listen through breath, movement and touch• awakening intuition and the need to refine it• ethics, boundaries and energy management for sensitives• why words and translation change outcomes• the etheric body and early warning signs before tests• genetics as predisposition rather than destiny• lifelong learning, soul pace and navigating narcissism• stages of healing and honouring timing• resources, books and a free masterclassIf you want to learn and actually explain some of the processes, I have a lot of free masterclasses, and you can go to innasegal.com forward slash secretSend BEHAS a text.Support the showTo Share - Connect & Relate: Share Your Thoughts and Shape the Show! Tell me what you love about the podcast and what you want to hear more about. Please email me at behas.podcast@gmail.com and be part of the conversation! To be on the show Podmatch Profile Ordinary people, extraordinary experiences - Real voices, real moments - Human connection through stories - Live true storytelling podcast - Confessions - First person emotional narratives - Unscripted Life Stories. Thank you for listening - Hasta Pronto!
In this powerful episode, I'm joined by the incredible Jen Aks - leadership coach, speaker, author, and the visionary creator of The Power of Gesture®, a groundbreaking bodyset practice that bridges the gap between mindset and the innate intelligence of the body. Jen has over 30 years of experience as a dance educator and somatic expert. Her work teaches people how to reconnect with their inner wisdom, process emotions somatically, and lead their lives with clarity, authenticity, and confidence - whether they're navigating family dynamics, professional leadership, personal transitions, or their own healing journey. Together, we dive into a transformational conversation that will help you soften into your body, release fear, and access the intelligence you've had within you all along. ✨ In this episode, we explore: The different forms of intelligence — including emotional and kinesthetic intelligence, and why they matter The Power of Gesture® practice — what it is, why it works, and how it helps you break limiting patterns Jen's 3E Framework — Embody, Empower, Elevate — and how to apply it to your daily life The difference between mindset and bodyset — and why bodyset is the missing piece for true transformation How to discern the voice of your body vs. the voice of fear The G.I.F.T. Method — Ground, Imagine, Feel, Transform — and how this simple process can shift your energy Why embodiment is essential for emotional regulation, leadership, creativity, and authentic living If you've been craving a deeper connection with yourself, your intuition, and your body's wisdom… this episode will feel like coming home. Meet Jen Aks: Jen Aks is a leadership coach, speaker, and author who helps people reconnect with their innate embodied wisdom. As the founder of The Power of Gesture®, Jen's work bridges somatics, emotional intelligence, and creative self-expression to help people lead from a place of grounded authenticity. Through her teaching, workshops, coaching, and somatic practices, Jen has helped thousands of clients shift their inner narrative, process emotions, and step confidently into their fullest lives. She is the author of Your Body is Speaking and the creator of the Bodyset™ approach — an evolution beyond mindset that integrates the body, emotions, and intuitive knowing. Connect with JeN: Website: https://yourbodyisspeaking.org/ Free Live Gesture Workshop: https://book.jenaks.com/free-live-gesture-workshop-page TED Talk — Your Body's Hidden Intelligence: From Mindset to Bodyset: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfZGY1mAbWs Instagram: @jenaks Get Jen's Book: Your Body is Speaking https://yourbodyisspeaking.org/ Connect with Cortney WEBSITE INSTAGRAM UNIQUE WAY INSTAGRAM NEWSLETTER _________________________________ Upcoming Retreats: Charleston Private Retreat: this holiday season treat yourself (or gift a loved one) a one-of-a-kind private retreat Craving a getaway? Dreaming of a staycation? Prefer to spend your money on experiences rather than material things? Want a unique, personalized, soul-nourishing experience to share with a friend or loved one? If you want the magic of a retreat without international flights or jet lag, my Charleston Private Retreat is for you. This one-of-a-kind experience is fully customized to your goals, preferences, and desired vibe. We'll begin with a Discovery Call so I can design a personalized itinerary based on your goals, desires, and what your body + soul are craving right now. Expect a nourishing blend of daily movement (walking, yoga, dance or strength training), healing bodywork and massage, delicious meals at award winning restaurants, exploring Charleston's rich beauty and history, and plenty of time for rest and relaxation. For the entire weekend, I'll be your host, hype woman, teacher, coach, tour guide, personal driver, and new BFF - creating a retreat experience that feels luxurious, nourishing, and unforgettable. Although this retreat was originally created as a 1:1 experience, you now have the option to bring a +1 (BFF, sister, mom, partner, etc.). It not only makes the investment lighter, but creates a meaningful memory-making experience you'll cherish forever. Interested? Email hello@cortneyostrosky.com with the subject line: Private Retreat to receive your questionnaire and schedule your Discovery Call. From there, we can start designing your dream retreat!
SummaryDo you feel like you're doing everything right but still not seeing the results you want? In this episode, Chase and Chris talk about why working hard isn't always enough — especially if you're only focusing on part of the picture. They explain how your results come from stacking multiple habits like sleep, stress, movement, and nutrition — not just one or two.They give real-life examples from clients, show how to spot what's holding you back, and share ways to build better systems so you're not relying on willpower alone. You'll also hear how tracking your consistency and focusing on one change at a time can help you move forward faster — even if it feels slow at first. This episode is all about getting real, removing guilt, and putting the puzzle pieces together to make lasting change.Chapters(00:00) Why You're Working So Hard... But Not Seeing Results(01:59) When Partial Consistency Isn't Enough Anymore(03:51) How Your Lifestyle Impacts Progress(04:09) The Synergy Effect: Why It All Works Together(06:28) Don't Crank the Knobs Too High(06:43) Seasons of Life & Meeting You Where You're At(08:32) Sleep & Stress: The Glue That Holds It All Together(10:13) Managing Expectations During Slower Seasons(11:25) Find Your Weakest Link & Start There(13:21) How Coaches Use Biofeedback to Adjust the Plan(15:55) Maintenance vs Momentum: Why Eating More Might Be the Answer(17:50) Your Body's Check Engine Light(19:51) Build Systems, Not Just Willpower(21:25) The Problem with White-Knuckling Your Way Through Diets(23:40) If Your System Feels Hard, It's Probably Broken(25:09) Slow Progress Is Still Progress(27:32) Tracking Your Puzzle Piece Consistency(30:43) Be Good at Many, Not Perfect at One(32:12) Your Consistency Will Need to Improve Over Time(33:21) It's Not Just How Often You're Off — It's How Badly(34:03) Why You Can Still See Results Through the Holidays(35:07) Final Thoughts + How to Support the PodcastSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective
2025-07-28 - Your Body; God's Instrument : 1 Thessalonians 4: 1-12 [GXle4qQjBqY] by Salvador Flores III
“Your energy tells the truth long before your words do.”In this episode, we talked about how understanding your energy, your wiring, and your human story reveals the clearest path to building a sustainable business, in particular:
Today we're stepping into a conversation that hits home for a lot of believers — the pressure to serve like someone else.Every church has that one person who seems to do everything effortlessly…That one leader with natural charisma…That one servant whose kindness feels like sunshine…That one worshiper whose voice shakes the room…And if you're not careful, you walk in thinking:“My gifts aren't enough.”“I don't measure up.”“I wish I could serve like them.”Brother… I know that feeling.There were years when I tried to out-serve, out-lead, and out-perform everyone in sight — not because it was my calling, but because it was my insecurity.But here's the truth God whispered to me when I needed it the most:“Matthew, I don't anoint the mask — I anoint the man.”Let's dig in.
In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Jess Connolly—author, podcaster, and speaker—invites us into a season of her life marked by heartbreak and uncertainty. Jess opens up about the winter of 2023, when her husband experienced panic attacks, heart issues, and a mental health crisis. At the same time, her family was facing major loss as her stepfather passed away after heart surgery, while also preparing for a book release. Followed by one of her children walking through a dark trial. Jess brings so much truth and gentle encouragement to anyone walking through a season that desperately needs hope, not the shallow Christian clichés we often hear, but a deep and steady hope that God is with us in the valley. Here's some of what we cover: The myth of the “prosperity gospel of parenting” and why 1+2 does not always equal 3 The pressure to assign purpose to a painful season Rethinking Psalm 23 and understanding the rod and the staff Learning to lament: why anger expressed to God is actually intimacy An exclusive sneak peak at her next book! Connect with Jess Connolly: Instagram: Jess Connolly | Author + Bible Teacher (@jessaconnolly) Facebook: Jess Connolly Website: Jess Connolly Links Mentioned: What Comes Next: By Jess Connolly Tired of Being Tired: By Jess Connolly It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: By Lysa TerKeurst Related Episodes: Sidetracked with Jess Connolly :: Cynthia and Heather [Ep 484] Your Body is GOOD :: Jess Connolly [Ep 329] Worth Repeating // Jess Connolly Featured Sponsors: Sex Ed Reclaimed: Sex Ed Reclaimed offers a full curriculum with lifetime access so with that mind, visit sexedreclaimed.com to get your family's video curriculum today. Branch Basics: Get yourself and your loved ones the best gift of all - the gift of clean with Branch Basics! For a limited time only, our listeners get 15% off and Free Shipping on their premium starter pack when you use code DMA at BranchBasics.com/DMA . Jones Road Beauty: This holiday season, simplify your routine with makeup that's clean, strategic, and multifunctional. From November 18th - December 1st, Jones Road is doing their first ever Black Friday Sale! Go to JonesRoadBeauty.com to get up to 20% off sitewide.
In this episode, Mark Bell, Nsima, and guest Marshall Jones unpack a spicy claim making the rounds: “When you're a good athlete and you're Black, that's your birthright.” We push past hot-takes to ask what really shapes performance—genetics, culture, environment, reps, or all of the above? Along the way we hit stereotype threat, why “raw talent” can be a backhanded compliment, how music/rhythm cultures translate to movement, and why focusing on work you can do beats obsessing over gifts you can't control.Follow Marshall Jones: @marshalldavisjonesCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro02:10 - Reacting to Mike Israetel05:52 - Understanding Stereotype Threat11:36 - Success: Environment vs. Genetics17:49 - The Role of Genetics in Success20:10 - Words and Mindset Impact27:40 - Essential Equipment for Success28:28 - Interview with Mike Israetel28:54 - Your Body's Potential29:18 - Analyzing Gordon Ryan's Athleticism30:10 - Defining the Word “Athlete”32:40 - Gordon Ryan's Jiu Jitsu System41:25 - Learning to Dance: A Process43:50 - The Biological Benefits of Music48:36 - Methylene Blue Benefits51:54 - Exploring Unfair Advantages55:43 - Genetics and Racial Factors1:00:50 - Environmental Influences on Success1:03:16 - Expanding the Gene Pool1:04:15 - Was Steve Nash Born Gifted?1:05:48 - Key Takeaways for the Audience1:11:53 - Outro
Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of eating disorders, body image, and fertility loss. Please listen with care.In this double-feature episode, Jess talks with Jordan Lee Dooley about her new book Be Good to Your Body, a biblical and sustainable vision for caring for the body without obsession or shame. Then she sits down with Erica Gwynn, author of That's Just Not True, to expose the subtle lies women believe and replace them with God's unchanging truth. Two timely books, one powerful conversation.Let's go.Don't Miss:Grab Be Good to Your Body and That's Just Not True for a powerful pair of books that will reshape how you see your body, your health, and the truth you live by.Signed books on sale
Today, we're diving into a topic that countless believers wrestle with quietly — the feeling of standing in a room full of Christians and still wondering, “Where do I fit in the Body of Christ?”You can love Jesus deeply…You can read your Bible…You can worship with passion…And still feel unsure about where you belong.I've been there.There were Sundays when I smiled, shook hands, held the door, served wherever I could — and yet inside, I felt like a man wandering the edges of the campfire, unsure if there was actually a seat with my name on it.But here's the truth God whispered to me in a season when I felt the most spiritually displaced:“Son, you don't find your place by earning it. You find it by listening to Me.”And that whisper reshaped everything.OUR SPRINGBOARD FOR TODAY'S DISCUSSION IS:1 Corinthians 12:18 (ESV)“But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as He chose.”The Church isn't spiritual musical chairs.You don't get lucky.Nobody ends up where they are by accident.Paul says God arranged each person — intentionally, deliberately, lovingly.That means three things:* Your place is not random.* Your place is not fragile.* Your place is not optional.When a believer wanders through life unsure of where they belong, the enemy rushes in to fill the silence with lies:* “You don't matter here.”* “Everyone else has purpose except you.”* “God uses other people better than you.”But Scripture cuts through all that fog:God chose the place you were built to stand.You don't have to compete for it.You don't have to compare yourself into it.You don't have to convince anyone to give it to you.God Himself arranged you.There was a season in my life when I felt like I had disqualified myself from God's family table. Not because God pushed me away — but because I pushed people away with my words, my pride, and my reactions.I had moments when I looked around at church and thought,“Everyone else has this figured out. I'm the odd one out.”And in one of my lowest moments, when everything felt strained — my marriage, my walk with God, my own identity — God spoke a whisper that stopped me cold:“Stop. Slow your roll. Don't let Satan get a foothold.”That whisper wasn't condemnation.It was rescue.It was the Father saying,“You still belong to Me. I'm not done arranging your life.”And you know what else God used?Michelle.Her steady, faithful presence.Her ability to serve without needing a spotlight.Her commitment to the church even while managing chronic pain, exhaustion, and the weight she carried for our family.Watching her taught me something powerful:Sometimes your place in the Body is discovered through humility, not ambition.Michelle never tried to be someone else.She didn't compete with anyone.She simply served — and God magnified her faithfulness.And through watching her, God reminded me:“Matthew, your place isn't found by pushing harder.It's found by coming closer.”LIVING APPLICATIONIf you want to find your place in the Body:* Start where your feet are.Serve somewhere. Anywhere. Movement reveals mission.* Stop comparing your calling.Someone else's gift isn't a threat. It's reinforcement.* Ask God directly: “Where do You want me?”And wait. He will whisper.* Let humility guide you.Many people miss their place because they look too high instead of too near.* Trust that you were arranged, not abandoned.Your place is secure.DAILY ACTIONAsk the Holy Spirit one simple question today:“Show me where You've placed me.”Write down whatever He brings to your heart.PRACTICEActively serve in one small, tangible way this week — even if it feels insignificant.You'd be surprised what God reveals while your hands are moving.CHALLENGE OF THE WEEKEvery time you feel like you don't belong, declare out loud:“God arranged me.”PRAYERFather, thank You for arranging my life with purpose and precision.Silence every lie that tells me I don't matter.Heal every wound that makes me doubt my value.Reveal the place You've prepared for me, and give me courage to step into it.Use me in Your Body exactly how You designed.In Jesus' name — amen.Let's Get To Work.Thanks for reading My Reasons To Believe! This post is public so feel free to share it.My Reasons To Believe is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit myr2b.substack.com/subscribe
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Okay girlfriend, we're going there. We're talking about the thing nobody talks about when it comes to eating disorders: sex, intimacy, and what's happening (or NOT happening) in your bedroom. If you've noticed your sex drive has disappeared, you're avoiding intimacy with your partner, you can't be present during sex because you're too busy worrying about what your body looks like, or your relationship is suffering and you don't know why - this episode is for you. Host Lindsey Nichol gets incredibly vulnerable about her own experience with blocked intimacy during her eating disorder - how she was physically shut down, emotionally unavailable, and performing instead of experiencing. She shares the research-backed reasons why eating disorders completely sabotage intimacy (spoiler: your body is literally in survival mode), and gives you practical tools to address it. This isn't just about emotional connection - we're talking about SEX. Physical intimacy. The bedroom. Your relationship with your spouse or partner. Because your eating disorder isn't just stealing your relationship with food and your body. It's stealing your relationship with your partner too. In this episode, you'll learn: The 5 reasons why intimacy gets completely blocked when you have an eating disorder Why your libido has disappeared (hint: hormones, energy, survival mode) How body shame follows you into the bedroom Why you can't experience pleasure when you're disconnected from your body How to check your "intimacy temperature" and get honest about where you are Exactly what to say to your partner about what's going on Practical steps to start reconnecting This is real talk. This is vulnerable. This is the conversation we need to have. So grab your favorite Tarjay journal and let's get into it. Content Note: This episode discusses sexual intimacy and eating disorders openly. Best listened to in a private space. In This Episode, You'll Hear: Lindsey's Vulnerable Truth What intimacy looked like when she was in the thick of her eating disorder Being in a relationship while physically and emotionally shut down Not being present during sex - performing instead of experiencing Constantly worried about what her body looked like during intimacy Anxious thoughts: "Is my stomach flat enough? Can he feel certain parts? Should the lights be off? Should I keep my shirt on?" The realization: She wasn't experiencing intimacy, she was performing it The Research Nobody Talks About Women with eating disorders experience significantly higher rates of sexual dysfunction Lower libido, avoidance of intimacy, relationship dissatisfaction are common We suffer in silence, fake it, avoid it, make excuses And our relationships suffer while we pretend everything is fine The Question We're Answering Why is intimacy blocked when you struggle with an eating disorder? And what can you actually DO about it? The 5 Reasons Why Intimacy Gets Blocked: Reason #1: Your Body is Literally Shutting Down When you restrict food, your body goes into survival mode Sex, reproduction, intimacy are NOT essential for survival Your hormones tank: estrogen, progesterone, testosterone plummet Your libido disappears completely You lose your period (amenorrhea) Your energy is non-existent Research shows women with anorexia and bulimia have significantly disrupted hormone levels All of these hormones impact sexual desire and function If you have zero sex drive, if intimacy feels like a chore, if you're exhausted - your body is saying "I don't have resources for this" Your body is trying to keep you alive, not reproduce Reason #2: You're Disconnected From Your Body When you spend every day hating, criticizing, punishing your body - you disconnect You dissociate from physical sensations The problem: You can't experience pleasure in a body you're not connected to Intimacy requires being IN your body, feeling sensations, being present But when you're trapped in your head analyzing what you look like - you're performing, not experiencing Research: Women with eating disorders report significantly higher body image concerns during sexual activity This directly correlates with lower sexual satisfaction and avoidance behaviors You can't enjoy intimacy when you're worried about appearance the entire time Reason #3: The Shame is Paralyzing Body shame doesn't stay in the mirror - it follows you into the bedroom When you feel disgusting in your own skin, how are you supposed to let someone see it? Touch it? The shame is so heavy that many women avoid intimacy altogether Making excuses, shutting down, pulling away Being vulnerable and exposed when you feel shame about your body is terrifying Intimacy requires vulnerability - shame blocks that completely Reason #4: You're Emotionally Unavailable When you're consumed by an eating disorder, there's no room for anything else Your entire mental and emotional bandwidth is taken up by food thoughts, body checking, planning, restricting, compensating You don't have capacity to show up emotionally for your partner Can't connect, can't be present, can't be intimate beyond the physical act Intimacy requires emotional availability When your eating disorder is screaming 24/7, you're not available - you're surviving Reason #5: Control Issues Prevent Vulnerability Eating disorders are about CONTROL Intimacy requires letting GO of control, being vulnerable, surrendering If you can't let go of control long enough to eat without anxiety, how can you surrender during intimacy? The same rigidity and need for control with food shows up in the bedroom It blocks true intimacy completely The Impact on Your Relationship: What This Means: Distance and disconnection in your relationship Your partner might feel rejected, confused, helpless They might think you're not attracted to them anymore They might think they did something wrong You feel guilty, broken, like you're failing at one more thing "I can't do anything right - not food, not my body, and now not my relationship" The Truth You Need to Hear: This is not a personal failure. This is a SYMPTOM of your eating disorder. Just like: Restriction is a symptom Body checking is a symptom Blocked intimacy is a symptom The Hope: Research shows that as women recover from eating disorders, sexual function, desire, and satisfaction improve SIGNIFICANTLY. Recovery doesn't just give you food freedom - it gives you intimacy freedom too. If your relationship is suffering, recovery is the answer. Not just for food. Not just for your body. But for your relationship too. What You Can Do About It (6 Action Steps): Step 1: Check Your Intimacy Temperature Get honest with yourself. On a scale of 1-10, where is your intimacy RIGHT NOW? Not where you think it should be. Not where it used to be. Where is it TODAY? Ask yourself: Am I avoiding intimacy? Am I going through the motions? Am I anxious the entire time? Am I emotionally checked out? Is my libido non-existent? Am I making excuses to avoid it? Get real about what's actually happening. You can't change what you won't acknowledge. Step 2: Recognize This is an ED Symptom Stop blaming yourself. Stop thinking you're broken or wrong or failing. This blocked intimacy is a SYMPTOM of your eating disorder. Your body is depleted. Your hormones are disrupted. You're disconnected. You're consumed. This isn't about: Not loving your partner enough Being inadequate Being broken Personal failure This is about your eating disorder stealing one MORE thing from you. Name it for what it is: An eating disorder symptom. Step 3: Bring It Into the Light - Talk to Your Partner This is the scariest step, but it's the most important. You have to talk to your spouse or partner about what's going on. When to Have This Conversation: NOT in the moment NOT during intimacy In a calm, safe space where you can be honest What to Say (Script): "Hey, I need to talk to you about something that's been hard for me. I've been struggling with my relationship with food and my body, and it's affecting our intimacy. I want you to know it has nothing to do with you or how I feel about you. My body is depleted, my hormones are off, and I'm having a hard time being present. I'm working on it, but I need you to know what's going on." You Don't Need: All the answers A complete plan To have everything figured out You Just Need: To be honest about what's happening To help them understand it's not about them To let them in instead of shutting them out Step 4: Start Small With Reconnection You don't have to fix everything overnight. Start somewhere small. Ideas: Physical touch that's NOT sexual - holding hands, cuddling, hugging Reconnecting with non-sexual physical intimacy first Being honest when you're not in the mood instead of forcing it or avoiding it Working on being present - staying in your body during intimacy instead of in your head Taking pressure off yourself and your partner Just start. Somewhere. Anywhere. Step 5: Work on Body Acceptance You don't have to LOVE your body to be intimate. But you do have to accept that your body is allowed to: Exist Be touched Experience pleasure Take up space This is work: Therapy work Coaching work Recovery work Daily practice work The more you work on accepting your body (not loving it, just ACCEPTING it), the more available you'll be for intimacy. Step 6: Prioritize Your Recovery If you want intimacy back in your relationship, you MUST prioritize recovery. Because the eating disorder is the blocker. What This Looks Like: Get support (coach, therapist, dietitian) Join a community Do the work of nourishing your body Work through the shame Address the control issues Heal the disconnection Recovery gives you: Food freedom Body peace Your relationship back Intimacy freedom Key Takeaways: ✨ Your ED isn't just stealing food freedom - it's stealing intimacy too ✨ Blocked intimacy is a SYMPTOM, not a personal failure ✨ Your body is in survival mode - sex is not a priority when you're starving ✨ You can't experience pleasure in a body you're disconnected from ✨ Body shame follows you into the bedroom and paralyzes intimacy ✨ You're emotionally unavailable because the ED consumes all your bandwidth ✨ Control issues with food show up as control issues with intimacy ✨ Research shows recovery improves sexual function, desire, and satisfaction ✨ You need to talk to your partner - bring it into the light ✨ Start small: reconnect with non-sexual touch first ✨ Body acceptance (not love) opens the door to intimacy ✨ Recovery gives you your relationship back Powerful Quotes from This Episode: "Let me just be really honest with you. When I was in the thick of my eating disorder, intimacy was one of the first things to go" "I wasn't experiencing intimacy. I was performing it. And I was anxious the entire time" "Research shows that women with eating disorders experience significantly higher rates of sexual dysfunction, lower libido, avoidance of intimacy, and relationship dissatisfaction" "But we don't talk about it. We suffer in silence. We fake it. We avoid it. We make excuses" "When you're restricting food, your body goes into survival mode. And guess what's not essential for survival? Sex. Reproduction. Intimacy" "You can't experience pleasure in a body you're not connected to" "Intimacy requires you to be IN your body. But when you're trapped in your head analyzing what you look like - you're performing" "Body shame doesn't stay in the mirror. It follows you into the bedroom" "When you're consumed by an eating disorder, there's no room for anything else" "Eating disorders are about control. And intimacy requires letting go of control" "This is not a personal failure. This is a symptom of your eating disorder" "Recovery doesn't just give you food freedom - it gives you intimacy freedom too" "If your relationship is suffering, recovery is the answer" "You can't change what you won't acknowledge" "Stop blaming yourself. This blocked intimacy is a SYMPTOM" "You don't have to have all the answers. You just have to be honest about what's happening" "You don't have to love your body to be intimate. But you do have to accept it" "Your eating disorder has stolen enough from you. Don't let it steal your intimacy too" Research-Backed Information: Sexual Dysfunction & Eating Disorders: Women with eating disorders experience significantly higher rates of sexual dysfunction Lower libido is common across all ED types Avoidance of intimacy and relationship dissatisfaction are prevalent Hormone Disruption: Women with anorexia and bulimia have significantly disrupted hormone levels Estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone all tank during restriction These hormones directly impact sexual desire and function Amenorrhea (loss of period) is common and signals reproductive system shutdown Body Image During Sex: Women with EDs report significantly higher body image concerns during sexual activity Body image concerns during sex directly correlate with lower sexual satisfaction This creates avoidance behaviors and performance anxiety Recovery Improves Everything: As women recover from eating disorders, sexual function improves Desire returns as hormones regulate Satisfaction increases as body acceptance grows Recovery restores intimacy capacity Questions to Reflect On: About Your Intimacy: On a scale of 1-10, where is your intimacy right now? Are you avoiding intimacy? How often? Are you going through the motions or truly present? What are you thinking about during intimacy? (Your body? His reaction? What you look like?) When did intimacy start feeling like a chore instead of connection? About Your Body: Do you insist on lights off? Shirt on? Certain positions only? Are you disconnected from physical sensations during sex? Can you feel pleasure or are you too in your head? What body parts are you most self-conscious about during intimacy? About Your Partner: Have you talked to them about what's going on? Do they know you're struggling with an eating disorder? Do they understand why intimacy has changed? Are you making excuses or being honest? About Your Recovery: Is blocked intimacy motivation for you to prioritize recovery? What would it mean to get intimacy back in your relationship? Are you willing to do the work to heal this area too? What's one small step you can take today? Who This Episode Is For: This episode is essential listening if you: Have noticed your sex drive has completely disappeared Avoid intimacy with your partner or spouse Go through the motions but aren't present during sex Can't stop thinking about what your body looks like during intimacy Insist on lights off, shirt on, or specific positions to hide your body Feel anxious or panicked about being intimate Make excuses to avoid sex Feel guilty about avoiding your partner Feel broken or like you're failing at your relationship Have a partner who feels rejected or confused Want to understand WHY this is happening Need practical tools to start reconnecting Are married or in a long-term relationship Are ready to bring this into the light and talk about it Want your relationship back Need to know recovery can restore intimacy The Conversation Starter (What to Say): The Script: "Hey, I need to talk to you about something that's been hard for me. I've been struggling with my relationship with food and my body, and it's affecting our intimacy. I want you to know it has nothing to do with you or how I feel about you. My body is depleted, my hormones are off, and I'm having a hard time being present. I'm working on it, but I need you to know what's going on." Why This Works: Acknowledges there's a problem Takes responsibility without self-blame Reassures your partner it's not about them Explains the physical reality (hormones, depletion) Shows you're working on it Opens the door for support What Happens Next: They might have questions They might be relieved you're talking about it They might not fully understand (and that's okay) The important thing is you brought it into the light Important Truths About Intimacy & EDs: Your Libido Disappearing is NOT Your Fault: It's biology. Your body is in survival mode. Sex is not essential for survival. Your hormones are disrupted. This is a symptom. You're Not Broken: Your body is responding exactly as it should to starvation and restriction. This is protective, not defective. Your Partner Isn't the Problem: Even if you're attracted to them, your body can't prioritize sexual function right now. This isn't about attraction. Shame is the Enemy: The shame you feel about your body during intimacy is what's blocking connection. The body itself isn't the problem - the shame is. Recovery Restores Everything: This isn't permanent. As you nourish your body, your hormones will regulate. Your libido will return. Your ability to be present will come back. Intimacy can be restored. You Deserve Intimacy: Even with an eating disorder, you deserve connection, pleasure, and intimacy. But you have to do the recovery work to get there. Ready for Support? Work with Lindsey One-on-One: If you're ready to prioritize your recovery - not just for food freedom, but for your relationship too - Lindsey offers personalized recovery coaching where you work through: The food piece The body image piece The relationship piece The intimacy piece ALL of it Your relationship deserves you showing up fully. Your partner deserves you being present. YOU deserve to experience intimacy without shame, anxiety, or the ED blocking it. Recovery gives you that. And Lindsey is here to help you get there. Ready for Support? Option 1: The Recovery Collective Join Lindsey's group coaching program where you'll get: Community support from women who understand Weekly guidance and tools Accountability for hard days Strategies for stomach triggers and body image struggles Option 2: One-on-One Personalized Coaching work directly with Lindsey for: Custom plan for YOUR triggers and challenges Weekly support and accountability Tools specific to your recovery journey Personal guidance through the hardest moments Learn more about both options at www.herbestself.co You don't have to navigate this alone. Let's walk through recovery together. Connect with Lindsey Website: www.herbestself.co Private Facebook Community: Her Best Self Society www.herbestselfsociety.com 1:1 Client Applications: HBS Co. Recovery Coaching - Client Application - Google Forms . Subscribe & Review: If this episode resonated with you—if you saw yourself in Lindsey's rejection story—please subscribe to Her Best Self wherever you listen to podcasts and leave a review. Your reviews help other women who are tired of perfectionism and people-pleasing find this show and realize they're not alone. Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear the truth! About the Host Lindsey Nichol is a former competitive figure skater turned God-led entrepreneur, boy mom, and digital CEO. She understands how core beliefs formed in childhood can create and maintain eating disorder patterns, and she's passionate about helping women identify and transform these beliefs to find lasting freedom. If this episode helped you feel hopeful again and remember your worth isn't found in your body or on your plate, please share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Your support helps more women break the chains of limiting beliefs. *While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.
You're listening to Burnt Toast! I'm Virginia Sole-Smith. Today, my conversation is with Debra Benfield, RDN.Deb is a registered dietitian/nutritionist with 40 years of experience helping people heal their relationship with food, movement and their bodies. Her work sits at the intersection of anti-ageism, body liberation and trauma-informed care, offering a radically compassionate alternative to diet and wellness culture—especially for those in midlife and beyond. After turning 60, Deb began questioning the dominant narratives around aging, vitality and beauty, and quickly realized the majority of resources still centered weight loss and youthful appearance as the ultimate goals. In response, she created what she couldn't find: A framework for nourishing the body that honors body respect, prioritizes liberation and embraces the full spectrum of aging. Deb is the author of the beautiful new book Unapologetic Aging: How to Mend and Nourish Your Relationship with Your Body. Deb came on the podcast back in 2023 and we had what was really the first, or certainly one of the first, conversations we've had on Burnt Toast about the intersection of ageism and anti-fat bias. That discussion helped lay the foundation for how we're continuing to talk about those issues. Deb is someone I always turn to for resources and wisdom as we're navigating those conversations here. I am so thrilled to have Deb back on the podcast today, to talk about her new book, how diet culture has hijacked the menopause discourse, and why peanut butter and jelly sandwiches are actually giving you all the protein you need. Unapologetic Aging comes out on December 16, so now is the perfect time to pre-order it as a holiday gift for yourself, your mom, or anyone you know in midlife and beyond! And don't forget that if you've bought Fat Talk from Split Rock Books, you can take 10% off your purchase of Unapologetic Aging there too — just use the code FATTALK at checkout.And if you value this conversation, a paid subscription is the best way to support our work!Join Burnt Toast!
Inna Segal is a pioneer in the field of energy medicine and human consciousness. She is also the bestselling author of "The Secret Language of Your Body," which has been translated into 26 languages and has sold over a million copies worldwide. We talk about her roots as a healer, clairvoyance, pain, anxiety, meditation, exercise, living consciously, intuitive healing, food choices, understanding what gets into our bodies, emotional wisdom and how to improve it, learning from other people's mistakes, narcissism, boundaries, her book "The Secret Language of Your Body," color, how there is always an opportunity to learn and grow, and more. links are on the shownotes page support the show through Patreon
Dr. Natalie Crawford, OBGYN and REI, sits down with pelvic floor physical therapist Dr. Sara Reardon to dive into a part of women's health that's often overlooked—but incredibly important. In this conversation, they break down the mysteries of the pelvic floor, explore how hormones shape your daily experiences, and share actionable steps to help you feel empowered in your body. Key Topics: 1. Understanding the Pelvic Floor - What the pelvic floor is and why it matters in daily life - How it's connected to different parts of your body - Reasons it might not be “feeling right,” and what that could mean 2. Listening to Your Body's Signals - Signs you shouldn't ignore related to periods or discomfort - Why certain symptoms may not be “just normal” - The importance of knowing your own body cues 3. Hormones Through Every Stage - How monthly cycles, pregnancy, and menopause impact what you feel - When hormone changes could affect more than you expect - Ways to be proactive before, during, and after big life changes 4. Making Pelvic Floor Care Accessible - Steps you can take in your own home to support your health - What to expect if you see a pelvic floor therapist - Helpful resources and how to advocate for your own care Pre-order Dr. Crawford's debut book, The Fertility Formula, now! https://www.nataliecrawfordmd.com/book Follow Dr. Reardon on IG @the.vagina.whisperer and TikTok @thevagwhisperer Buy her book Floored Check out her website thevaginawhisperer.com Join her V Hive app for pelvic floor workouts Want to receive my weekly newsletter? Sign up at nataliecrawfordmd.com/newsletter to receive updates, Q&A, special content, and freebies If you haven't already, please rate, review, and follow the podcast to be notified of new episodes every Tuesday. Plus, be sure to follow along on Instagram @nataliecrawfordmd, check out Natalie's YouTube channel Natalie Crawford MD, and if you're interested in becoming a patient, check out Fora Fertility. Join the Learn at Pinnacle app to earn FREE CE Credit for listening to this episode! This episode is brought to you by The Pinnacle Podcast Network! Learn more about Pinnacle at learnatpinnacle.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if the parts of you you've been quieting are actually the keys to your next chapter? In today's episode of The Healing + Human Potential Podcast, we're exploring what happens when your soul starts nudging you toward a truer, more authentic version of yourself – even when the world expects you to stay the same. If you've ever felt the tension between who you used to be and who you're becoming, this conversation will give you the tools and the courage to take your next step. We dive into the subconscious blocks that keep you repeating old patterns, how to recognize when a cycle has expired, and what it really takes to break generational conditioning so you can live a life that feels aligned, creative, and true. You'll learn how to reparent the parts of you that were never modeled self-trust, how to turn rock bottom moments into initiations, and how to actually listen to the wisdom inside your body so you can move toward the life you're meant to create. Joining us is Olivia Amitrano – whose work bridges music, wellness, and storytelling – and whose journey will remind you that you're allowed to evolve, to shift paths, to let go of old identities, and to become someone both old and brand new. Episode Chapters: 0:00 · Trailer + Intro 1:20 · Feeling the Call to Evolve 2:00 · Olivia's Butterfly Effect Story 3:22 · From Music to Chronic Illness 4:10 · When Western Medicine Isn't Enough 5:00 · Discovering Chinese Medicine 5:40 · Building an Herbal Wellness Brand 6:20 · The Soul Nudge Back to Music 7:20 · Honoring Creative Identity Shifts 8:15 · Inner Child Work & Parts Integration 9:43 · Procrastination as Inner Wisdom 11:21 · Turning Rock Bottom Into Initiation 12:39 · How Meaning-Making Creates Momentum 14:44 · Radical Acceptance (vs. Avoidance) 16:58 · Sponsor: Institute for Coaching Mastery 19:13 · Breaking Family + Generational Cycles 21:32 · Seeing Our Parents Through New Eyes 23:45 · The Moment Forgiveness Landed 25:46 · Why Anger Is Part of Healing 26:36 · Tracking Patterns in Your Lineage 28:45 · The Power of Knowing Their Stories 30:05 · Reparenting Yourself in Practice 31:55 · Dopamine, Discipline & Hard Things 34:03 · Small Promises & Self-Trust 35:32 · Reparenting Through Food & Pleasure 37:30 · Alyssa's Emotional Eating Process 38:46 · How Inner Work Heals the Body 40:33 · Hearing Your True Inner Voice 42:18 · Regulating the Nervous System 44:11 · Creativity, Expression & Being in Your Body 46:10 · Where to Begin With Self-Connection 48:14 · Breakfast & Self-Respect (The First Shift) 49:19 · Shedding Old Identities 52:17 · Outgrowing Who You Were 53:02 · Loving the Performer Part 55:06 · Accepting All Parts of You 56:40 · Inner Child + Manager Dialogue 59:08 · Letting Your Parts Collaborate 59:50 · Following the Call (Even When Scared) 1:01:35 · Choices Our Ancestors Never Had 1:02:49 · Closing & Staying Connected === Have you watched our episode with Dr. Martha Beck on How To Use Your Pain To Awaken? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gjK95rzGY60 ====
What if your chronic pain, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion isn't just a problem, but a message your body is desperately trying to send you?In this powerful episode, we explore the deeper intelligence of the human body with Inna Segal, best-selling author of The Secret Language of Your Body. If you've ever struggled with persistent physical symptoms, emotional burnout, or the feeling of being outwardly successful but inwardly empty, this conversation will radically shift how you view healing. You'll discover why slowing down isn't just helpful, but essential, and how your pain could be the key to reconnecting with your life force and inner wisdom.Learn how to interpret the hidden emotional and energetic meanings behind common physical symptoms and what different body parts are trying to tell you.Discover a step-by-step practice to awaken your body, calm your nervous system, and start a meaningful dialogue with your inner self.Understand the difference between asking for help from a place of victimhood versus curiosity, and why this shift can open the door to real transformation.Press play now to uncover the powerful language of your body and start your journey toward deep healing and true fulfillment.˚KEY POINTS AND TIMESTAMPS:00:54 - Episode promise and who it's for02:01 - Meet Inna Segal03:20 - Inna's healing turning point12:37 - Curiosity instead of victimhood14:03 - Reading the body's signals20:09 - A practical method to listen24:17 - Recovering from emotional exhaustion27:09 - Feminine and masculine sides of the body32:14 - From success to fulfilment and spiritual depth˚MEMORABLE QUOTE:"Slow down, stop rushing through life, and allow yourself to enjoy each stage of growth with patience, reflection, and wisdom."˚VALUABLE RESOURCES:Inna's masterclass: https://www.innasegal.com/masterclass˚Coaching with Agi: https://personaldevelopmentmasterypodcast.com/mentor˚
Topics: Die to Self, Bible Says We Must Die to Self, Die to Self is Man-Made Religious Jargon, Our Old Self Died, Put Off the Old Self and Put On the New Self (Ephesians 4), Self as a Dirty Word, You are Not a Sinner But a Saint, Sin is Not Fun, Walking in Your Righteousness is Natural, Your Old Self Has Been Crucified (Galatians 2:20 Colossians 2:20), Be Yourself Rather than Die to Self, Paul Said I Die Daily, Context of I Die Daily is Defending the Resurrection (1 Corinthians 15), Paul Put His Life on the Line Every Day, Grace Teaches an Upright Self-Controlled Life (Titus 2:11-12), Paul Was Formerly the Chief of Sinners (1 Timothy 1:12-17), Sinning is Not Your Natural Practice, Unbelievers Have a Practice of Sinning (1 John 3:8), dJohn the Baptist Said He Must Increase, His Ministry of Law Decreasing for Grace to Increase, Self-Abasement is of No Value, Crucifying Your Flesh and Denying Sinful Desires, Your Body is a Temple of the Holy Spirit, Your Flesh (SOMA) Versus The Flesh (SARX), You Have Crucified the Flesh (Galatians chapter 5), Jesus Said Deny Yourself Carry Your Cross, Jesus Was Telling Them What They Could Not Do, Jesus is Referring to Himself, Count the Cost (Luke 14), Be Yourself Support the showSign up for Matt's free daily devotional! https://mattmcmillen.com/newsletter
Inna Segal is a pioneer in the field of energy medicine and human consciousness, and the bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body, translated into 27 languages and with over 1 million copies sold worldwide. Her journey from illness and personal tragedy to profound self-healing has led her to spend the past 25 years helping thousands transform pain into freedom. Through her books, healing card decks, and global teachings, Inna has worked with doctors, psychologists, creatives, and trauma survivors across more than 20 countries. She's also been featured on Fox, CNN, Sunrise, Channel 10, and ABC Radio. In this episode, Inna shares the incredible story of how she discovered her healing gift, how ancestral trauma factors in, what emotions are and how to deal with them, and much more. RESOURCES: Learn more about Inna here: https://www.innasegal.com/ Instagram: @innasegalauthor Get 15% off Peluva minimalist shoe with coupon code COACHTARA here: http://peluva.com/coachtara CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 3:42 How Inna got into healing 10:00 Inna discovered pain relief via breath 18:20 Ancestral type of trauma 25:31 1st intuitive nudges and visions 35:50 Going against the grain 43:55 What can people start with? 48:10 Emotions have a storyline 54:57 The astral body & sleep 1:05:01 Resources available on Inna's website WORK WITH ME: Are You Looking for Help on Your Wellness Journey? Here's how I can help you: TRY COACH TARA APP FOR FREE: http://taragarrison.com/app LEVEL UP PROGRAM: http://taragarrison.com/level-up INDIVIDUAL ONLINE COACHING: https://www.taragarrison.com/work-with-me CHECK OUT HIGHER RETREATS: https://www.taragarrison.com/retreats SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram @coachtaragarrison TikTok @coachtaragarrison Facebook @coachtaragarrison Pinterest @coachtaragarrison INSIDE OUT HEALTH PODCAST SPECIAL OFFERS: ☑️ Upgraded Formulas Hair Test Kit Special Offer: https://bit.ly/3YdMn4Z ☑️ Upgraded Formulas - Get 15% OFF Everything with Coupon Code INSIDEOUT15: https://upgradedformulas.com/INSIDEOUT15 ☑️ Rep Provisions: Vote for the future of food with your dollar! And enjoy a 15% discount while you're at it with Coupon Code COACHTARA: https://bit.ly/3dD4ZSv If you loved this episode, please leave a review! Here's how to do it on Apple Podcasts: Go to Inside Out Health Podcast page: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inside-out-health-with-coach-tara-garrison/id1468368093 Scroll down to the 'Ratings & Reviews' section. Tap 'Write a Review' (you may be prompted to log in with your Apple ID). Thank you!
Such an empowering conversation filled with healing wisdom with Inna Segal, global healing expert and award-winning author. Please join us as we discuss: her personal story of healing back pain agony and inflammation her insights on the secret language of our bodies her philosophies on feminine and masculine energies how we create a boundary with anger to shield sadness, shame, fear, and more her healing work with archetypes an understanding of needing a guide to help us connect with the wisdom inside and so much more! Welcome to The Healing Place Podcast! I am your host, Teri Wellbrock. You can listen in on Pandora, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Deezer, Amazon Music, and more, or directly on my website at www.teriwellbrock.com/podcasts/. You can also catch our insightful interview on YouTube. Bio: Inna Segal Inna Segal is a pioneer in the field of energy medicine and human consciousness, and the bestselling author of The Secret Language of Your Body, translated into 27 languages and sold over a million copies worldwide. Her journey began after years of illness and the tragic stillbirth of her child, which led her to discover a profound ability to heal herself. From that turning point, she dedicated her life to helping others transform pain into freedom. For over 25 years, Inna has worked with people worldwide— from doctors and psychologists to trauma survivors and creatives—teaching how to uncover the true roots of suffering and restore health through the wisdom of the body and soul. Website: https://www.innasegal.com/ Social media links: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InnaSegalAuthor LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/innasegalauthor/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/innasegalauthor/ Teri's #1 best-selling books and #1 new-release book can be found here. Teri's inspirational audiobook productions can be found here. Teri's monthly newsletter can be found here. Teri's book launch team can be found here. AMAZON AFFILIATE Teri Wellbrock and Unicorn Shadows are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. In other words, I make commission off of purchases made using any affiliate links on my site.
Thanksgiving through New Year's creates a perfect storm for immune system failure: packed airports where everyone touches the same surfaces, recycled air in metal tubes with potentially sick passengers, and circadian rhythms destroyed by time zone chaos that leaves you dragging for days. However, with these non-negotiable's that I share in this video, you'll show up as the best version of yourself, instead of hoping you survive the trip! Join the Ultimate Human VIP community for Gary Brecka's proven wellness protocols! https://bit.ly/4ai0Xwg Thank you to our partners H2TABS: “ULTIMATE10” FOR 10% OFF: https://bit.ly/4hMNdgg BODYHEALTH: “ULTIMATE20” FOR 20% OFF: http://bit.ly/4e5IjsV BAJA GOLD: "ULTIMATE10" FOR 10% OFF: https://bit.ly/3WSBqUa COLD LIFE: THE ULTIMATE HUMAN PLUNGE: https://bit.ly/4eULUKp WHOOP: JOIN AND GET 1 FREE MONTH!: https://bit.ly/3VQ0nzW AION: “ULTIMATE10” FOR 10% OFF: https://bit.ly/4h6KHAD A-GAME: “ULTIMATE15” FOR 15% OFF: http://bit.ly/4kek1ij CARAWAY: “ULTIMATE” FOR 10% OFF: https://bit.ly/3Q1VmkC HEALF: 10% OFF YOUR ORDER: https://bit.ly/41HJg6S BIOPTIMIZERS: “ULTIMATE” FOR 15% OFF: https://bit.ly/4inFfd7 RHO NUTRITION: “ULTIMATE15” FOR 15% OFF: https://bit.ly/44fFza0 GOPUFF: GET YOUR FAVORITE SNACK!: https://bit.ly/4obIFDC GENETIC METHYLATION TEST (UK ONLY): https://bit.ly/48QJJrk GENETIC TEST (USA ONLY): https://bit.ly/3Yg1Uk9 Watch the “Ultimate Human Podcast” every Tuesday & Thursday at 9AM EST: YouTube: https://bit.ly/3RPQYX8 Podcasts: https://bit.ly/3RQftU0 Connect with Gary Brecka Instagram: https://bit.ly/3RPpnFs TikTok: https://bit.ly/4coJ8fo X: https://bit.ly/3Opc8tf Facebook: https://bit.ly/464VA1H LinkedIn: https://bit.ly/4hH7Ri2 Website: https://bit.ly/4eLDbdU Merch: https://bit.ly/4aBpOM1 Newsletter: https://bit.ly/47ejrws Ask Gary: https://bit.ly/3PEAJuG Timestamps 00:00 Intro of Show 02:33 What Happens to Your Body during Flight? 03:40 Preparing Your Body before Travel 05:00 Non-Negotiable's to Feeling Sharp while Traveling 10:00 What to Do After Landing 13:45 Join The Ultimate Human VIP The Ultimate Human with Gary Brecka Podcast is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute the practice of medicine, nursing or other professional health care services, including the giving of medical advice, and no doctor/patient relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The Content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their health care professionals for any such conditions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you've been spinning in survival mode, holding it all together while slowly running on empty, this episode will help you find your way back to yourself. When I called over 100 Motherkind listeners recently, burnout came up again and again. It's become such a common part of motherhood, but it doesn't have to be this way. So in this episode, I've brought together three incredible voices to help us understand burnout, spot the signs early, and start to heal from it. First, Dr Claire Ashley, known as The Burnout Doctor, shares her own story of burnout, the signs she missed, the science behind what's really happening in our bodies, and the steps she took to recover. Then, Rhiannon Lambert, one of the UK's leading nutritionists, opens up about her own experience and what true nourishment looks like when you're completely depleted. And finally, I share the tool that changed everything for me, how to complete the stress cycle, so your body and mind can finally rest, reset, and recover. This conversation is for every mother who's ever felt like she's running on empty. Burnout isn't who you are; it's a sign that something needs to shift. And you deserve to feel better. In this episode, you'll learn: The early signs of burnout and how to catch them before you crash What's really going on in your body when you're burned out How food, rest and self-compassion support recovery The simple tool to complete the stress cycle How to take small, doable steps towards balance again Chapters: (00:00:00) Intro - Why Burnout Matters (00:05:01) Expert 1 - Dr Claire Ashley (00:06:17) The Six Triggers of Burnout (00:08:46) Expert 2 - Rhiannon Lambert (00:10:44) Listening to Your Body (00:12:28) Rebuilding Your Energy (00:15:38) Expert 3 - Zoe Blaskey (00:16:10) Complete the stress cycle Remember to subscribe to Motherkind — it helps more mothers find the show and keeps our community growing. If you liked this compilation, you can listen to the full episodes: The Burnout Doctor: It takes 1-3 years to recover from burnout - here's how to avoid it Recovering from burnout, prioritising yourself and managing the motherhood juggle - how nutrition can help you with Rhiannon Lambert Five vital warning signs that you are heading to end-of-year burnout - and what you can do about it Ready to feel like yourself again? Download your FREE Mental Load Cheat Sheet Connect with Zoe: Follow Zoe on Instagram Get Zoe's Sunday Times bestselling book, 'Motherkind: A New Way to Thrive in a World of Endless Expectations' This Motherkind episode is sponsored by: Headline sponsor Wild Nutrition, the brand raising the bar for women's supplements. Want to feel the Food-Grown difference yourself? Get 50% off for three months at wildnutrition.com/motherkind. Ts and Cs apply. For a £100 sponsored job credit, visit Indeed.com/ Motherkind Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Watch on YouTube here to see all the pictures!I'm excited to tell the story of my ONE HOUR, accidental unassisted home birth today! After a challenging fifth birth and then a miscarriage, I had a lot of questions and concerns about my body and my ability to birth more babies. God answered all the questions and assuaged my fears with a new wonderful pregnancy, and the most fabulous birth I could imagine--with just my husband and my mom in attendance. SPOILER ALERT: the midwife didn't make it!Episodes I mentioned:The Birth Story I Couldn't Tell...Until NowCaring for Your Body, Soul, and Spirit after a MiscarriageWant to hang out more? Here's where I am these days!
In this episode of The Healers Café, Manon speaks to Nina, with 18 years of marketing experience, now helps healers grow businesses without burnout. For the transcript and full story go to: https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/nina-maglic Highlights from today's episode include: Nina explains building relationships is essential in both healing and business—trust and authenticity come before selling or offering services, especially for healers. Nina's personal healing requires letting go of expectations, surrender, and addressing subconscious benefits of holding onto pain; nearly everyone can heal with the right mindset and support. Manon's authentic connection and word-of-mouth are powerful tools for healing practitioners to grow their practices—genuine help and trust create referrals and sustainable success. BIO: NINA MAGLIC With 18 years of experience leading campaigns for global brands like Toyota and Samsung, Nina now helps healers grow purpose-driven businesses without burnout. She blends marketing strategy, business clarity, and energy healing to help clients attract aligned clients and scale with ease. Nina's presence is magnetic, her story deeply relatable, and her mission clear: to help healers thrive so they can help heal the world. Core purpose/passion: My mission is to help healers thrive—so they can help heal the world. That's why I created Healing Millions, a movement that supports healers in building aligned, sustainable businesses without burnout. I believe true healing is a layered process that requires support, intuition, and deep inner work. Through my programs, I guide people in releasing generational trauma, limiting beliefs, and fear—so they can step fully into their purpose and grow with peace and clarity. – Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube | Twitter | Website ABOUT MANON BOLLIGER: Dr. Manon is a Naturopathic Doctor, the Founder of Bowen College, an International Speaker, she did a TEDx talk "Your Body is Smarter Than You Think. Why Aren't You Listening?" in Jan 2021, and is the author of Amazon best-selling books "What Patient's Don't Say if Doctors Don't Ask". & "A Healer in Every Household" For more great information to go to her weekly blog: http://bowencollege.com/blog. For tips on health & healing go to: https://www.drmanonbolliger.com/tips Follow: Manon Bolliger - | Linktr.ee | Rumble | Gettr | Facebook | Instagram | YouTube | Twitter | LinkedIn | Follow: Bowen College Inc. | Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube | Twitter | Rumble | Locals ABOUT THE HEALERS CAFE: Dr. Manon's show is the #1 show for medical practitioners and holistic healers to have heart to heart conversations about their day to day lives. Follow Dr. Manon, ND on social media! FB: https://www.facebook.com/DrManonBolliger/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/drmanonbolliger/ Follow the podcast on social media! FB: https://www.facebook.com/thehealerscafe
What if the symptoms you're trying to fix, fatigue, bloating, anxiety, weight change, are really your body's way of asking you to listen? Today on Rooted in Wellness, me and my guest Dr. GuyCitrin, explore the intricate connection between the gut, hormones, and nervous system, and how inflammation and stress create the “stuck” feeling so many women describe. This is the bridge we love on this show: modern functional medicine meeting ancient wisdom in a way that feels empowering, not overwhelming. In this conversation, we dive into why gut health must come before hormone therapy, how nervous system regulation transforms digestion, and why true detoxification isn't a cleanse, it's a reconnection to your body's natural rhythm. We also discuss peptides, NAD, and regeneration through a balanced, grounded lens. Dr. Guy Citrin is a board-certified naturopathic doctor and founder of Citrin Wellness and EndoAxis, where he helps patients restore vitality through integrative gut and hormone optimization. He blends evidence-based functional medicine with the wisdom of Ayurveda and emotional healing to guide people toward true regeneration. What's Discussed: (00:00) Reclaiming Your Health: What Wellness Really Means (05:58) The Gut is the Gateway: Where Real Healing Begins (16:15) How Gut Health Shapes Every Hormone in Your Body (24:34) Decoding Female Hormones: What Balance Actually Looks Like (31:26) PCOS Is Not One Thing: Understanding the Real Root Causes (42:30) Your Nervous System on Fire: The Hidden Cost of Inflammation (47:03) Stress, Digestion, and the Body's Cry for Safety (51:13) Detox Without Deprivation: Supporting the Body's Natural Rhythm (01:04:16) Learning to Trust Your Body Again (01:08:36) The Peptide Conversation: When Modern Science Meets Healing (01:14:00) NAD, Regeneration, and the Future of Cellular Repair (01:21:40) Creating a Whole-Body Ecosystem for Lasting Wellness Learn more about Mona Sharma: Download Your FREE Guide - 12 Wellness Tips to Unlock Your Best Health Now: Ready to reclaim your vitality? Download Mona's 12 Wellness Tips and take actionable steps to transform your health, energy, and mindset. Get started now at https://monasharma.com/12tips. Visit Mona's website: https://monasharma.com – Unlock powerful tools and wisdom rooted in wellness to elevate your health, energy, and clarity. Mona blends ancient healing practices with modern science to help you achieve lasting transformation. Follow Mona on Instagram: Stay connected with Mona for daily inspiration, holistic health tips, and personal growth. Join the conversation on Instagram at https://instagram.com/monasharma. Learn more about Dr. Guy Citrin: Website: https://www.doctorguy.com/ Clinic: https://citrinwellness.com/ Instagram: @askdrguy
In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey introduces Heike Yates, a midlife fitness expert with over 35 years of experience, an Iron Man triathlete, ultra marathon runner, author, and podcast host. Heike shares her journey from Germany to the United States, her love for travel, and how she evolved her fitness career to focus on midlife women. The discussion covers maintaining fitness and health through midlife changes, including the importance of nutrition, stress management, and listening to one's body. Heike emphasizes the need for realistic, sustainable changes in fitness routines and shares insights from her book and podcast, 'Pursue Your Spark.' The episode also touches on personal anecdotes, like Heike adjusting her fitness regime due to arthritis and the importance of a supportive and positive community. Contact Heike Yates Website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pursueyourspark Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heike-yates/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQIeOesGLGAOD5RhI2KYjcA Podcast - Pursue Your Spark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursue-your-spark-midlife-fitness-nutrition-mindset/id1231586317 Book - Pursue Your Spark Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide. 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Fitness 00:38 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 01:41 Meet Haika Yates: Midlife Fitness Expert 03:33 Haika's Journey from Germany to the US 06:18 The Evolution of Haika's Fitness Journey 08:37 Realistic Fitness Goals for Midlife Women 11:56 Implementing Sustainable Fitness Changes 15:51 Haika's Personal Fitness and Nutrition Strategies 17:19 Embracing New Activities Beyond Running 17:46 Finding Joy in New Hobbies 18:30 Empowering Clients with Choices 18:46 Healthy Eating and Lifestyle Adjustments 19:07 Managing Health Conditions Through Exercise 20:21 Listening to Your Body's Needs 21:36 Dealing with Stress and Energy Levels 25:09 Daily Routine and Intermittent Fasting 30:08 Importance of Nutrient Variety 30:41 Eliminating Negative Influences 31:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
The federal government inches towards reopening as five Democratic senators signal they will join Republicans in passing legislation to fund the government. SNAP benefits were in question during the shutdown– how can Christians think about the role of the federal government in providing food assistance? And we haven't heard much in the news about Iran recently; what's going on there? Mike Cosper and Clarissa Moll discuss these headlines, and Clarissa talks with Sara Billups about how to address anxiety through embodied, spiritual practices. REFERENCED IN THE EPISODE: -Nervous Systems: Spiritual Practices to Calm Anxiety in Your Body, the Church, and Politics by Sara Billups. GO DEEPER WITH THE BULLETIN: -Join the conversation at our Substack. -Find us on YouTube. -Rate and review the show in your podcast app of choice. ABOUT THE GUESTS: Sara Billups is a Seattle-based writer and cultural commentator whose work has appeared in The New York Times, Christianity Today, Aspen Ideas, and others. Sara writes Bitter Scroll, a monthly Substack letter and co-hosts the podcast That's the Spirit. She earned a Doctor of Ministry in the Sacred Art of Writing at the Peterson Center for the Christian Imagination at Western Theological Seminary. ABOUT THE BULLETIN: The Bulletin is a twice-weekly politics and current events show from Christianity Today moderated by Clarissa Moll, with senior commentary from Russell Moore (Christianity Today's editor-at-large and columnist) and Mike Cosper (senior contributor). Each week, the show explores current events and breaking news and shares a Christian perspective on issues that are shaping our world. We also offer special one-on-one conversations with writers, artists, and thought leaders whose impact on the world brings important significance to a Christian worldview, like Bono, Sharon McMahon, Harrison Scott Key, Frank Bruni, and more. The Bulletin listeners get 25% off CT. Go to https://orderct.com/THEBULLETIN to learn more. “The Bulletin” is a production of Christianity Today Producer: Clarissa Moll Associate Producer: Alexa Burke Editing and Mix: Kevin Morris Graphic Design: Rick Szuecs Music: Dan Phelps Executive Producers: Erik Petrik and Mike Cosper Senior Producer: Matt Stevens Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
On 11.11.25 at 8pm GMT, I am hosting a LIVE WORKSHOP called The Secret Map of Your Body! The workshop is inspired by my research of the Minor Chakras and is all about understanding what your body is really trying to tell you.Those aches, that fatigue, that tension you call “chronic”? They're not problems - they're messages. And pleasure - yes, pleasure - is the medicine!We'll explore how to listen, how to move energy, and how to come back home to your body. Join me at 8pm tomorrow when I'll be live from Morocco.Here is the link - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86844262702 - just copy and paste into your browser!See you there!Much loveRosanne xx
Read OnlineJesus answered and said to them, “Destroy this temple and in three days I will raise it up.” The Jews said, “This temple has been under construction for forty-six years, and you will raise it up in three days?” But he was speaking about the temple of his Body. John 2:19–21We celebrate, today, the Lateran Basilica in Rome, the mother church of the entire Roman Catholic Church. It was given to the Bishop of Rome in the fourth century and remained the pope's primary residence until the building of St. Peter's Basilica, at a time when the Lateran Basilica was falling into ruins. However, the Lateran Basilica to this day remains the most important Church in the world, since it is officially the Cathedral Church of Rome.As we honor this church, we honor more than a building. The Lateran Basilica is a symbol of the one true Church of Jesus Christ. Its interior is beautiful and awe-inspiring so as to point us to the unimaginable beauty of the Church Herself, which is the Mystical Body of Christ.Today's Gospel depicts Jesus entering the Temple and driving the money changers out with a whip and the animals they were selling for profit. As He did so, He cried out, “Take these out of here, and stop making my Father's house a marketplace.” Psalm 69 is then quoted: Zeal for your house will consume me.Jesus loves His Church as His own Body—because that is what it is. As His Body, the members of His Church are called and sent to act as His instruments, members of His saving action. Much more than a church building, today we honor the Church Herself—which means we honor you, insofar as you are a member of the Body of Christ. And in light of this Gospel passage for today's Feast, we are reminded of the zeal that our Lord has for the cleansing of His Church.How is the Church purified? It is purified by the cleansing of Her members. That means that Jesus desires, with perfect zeal, to drive out every sin from your soul, cleansing the filth that keeps you from fulfilling your essential role as a member of His Body.Sometimes we become slack in our own commitment to be purified. We can easily become comfortable with the sins we commit, and we can form habits that are hard to break. When this happens, it is useful to ponder this story of the cleansing of the Temple and see it as Jesus' desire to cleanse our own soul. At times, we need to be shaken up, challenged, confronted and encouraged with the unwavering zeal in the heart of our Lord. Reflect, today, upon this powerful image of Jesus cleansing the Temple. As you do, apply it to your own life. The people selling and buying in the Temple must have been shocked at Jesus' zeal and actions. If you have become complacent with your sins, try to allow this holy shock to also wake you up. Allow our Lord's zeal to affect you, and know that His purifying actions are acts of love by which He desires to free you to become a more fully functioning member of His holy Church. My zealous Lord, Your heart burns with a deep desire to cleanse me and all Your children from sin. Your zeal reveals Your deep love and Your willingness to do all that You can to make me a fuller member of Your Body, the Church. Open my mind and will, dear Lord, to all that You wish to say to me and give me the grace to respond to Your purifying action in my life. Jesus, I trust in You.James Tissot, Public domain, via Wikimedia CommonsSource of content: catholic-daily-reflections.comCopyright © 2025 My Catholic Life! Inc. All rights reserved. Used with permission via RSS feed.
Ever wondered what really goes into writing a book while juggling babies, edits, and everyday life? In this episode, Matt and I pull back the curtain on the heart and the humor behind Be Good to Your Body.This episode gives you a front-row seat to the creative, messy, grace-filled process of writing Be Good to Your Body and how faith and family shaped every word. Matt and I talk about what it looked like to create in the middle of real life — parenting, exhaustion, and all — and why this message means so much to us personally. You'll hear the stories that didn't make it into the book, the lessons God taught us through the process, and the heart behind it all! What You'll LearnThe story behind the title Be Good to Your Body and how Matt came up with itWhat it really means to care for your body without striving for perfectionHow our health journeys shaped this message togetherThe role faith plays in redefining wellnessWhy simple stewardship (not obsession) is the key to lasting healthLinks:Grab Your Copy of Be Good to Your BodyFollow Jordan on InstagramGet 10% Off Crunchi using "ADVOCATE10"Check Out Some of My Low Tox Amazon Finds Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
The Enneagram Journey may be recording next at your local Hilton! Maybe not, but this episode was fun to record at Joel's hotel room when LTM travelled to Charlotte, NC for a workshop. Kim Honeycutt (8) and Larissa Miller (4) join the show to talk about their relationship, their journey, justice, and what do you know about polyvagal theory? You can find out more about what Kim and Larissa are up to at icutalks.org, watershedcharlotte.com and kimhoneycutt.com PLUG TIME!!!! The Enneagram AND 2026 Tour is around the corner! The Enneagram and Parenting in Nashville, TN - The Enneagram and Spirituality in Jackson, MS - The Enneagram and Trauma in Colorado Springs, CO - The Enneagram and Your Body in Minneapolis, MN - The Enneagram and Stress in California. Join us in person, or join us online virtually! Get all of the important information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/enneagramand Today's Intro: The Waterboy (1998, Touchstone Pictures) Bob's Burgers (s15, e1 FOX) Breaking Bad (s4, e6 AMC)
Many people struggle with anxiety, relationship patterns, or chronic health conditions without realizing these challenges stem from attachment trauma stored in the body. Attachment isn't just about relationship styles or emotional patterns—it lives in our nervous system, immune system, and cellular biology, creating survival mechanisms that formed before we could even walk. In this episode, I reveal how attachment trauma begins in utero and shapes three distinct childhood survival styles that show up in your life today. I share my own rocking chair moment with my adopted son Miguel, explaining how that experience led me to discover the three critical elements that create secure or insecure attachment: attunement, neurodevelopment, and biology. You'll learn about the six types of attachment pain—from "hold me" to "love me"—and discover why people-pleasing, perfectionism, chronic overwhelm, and even autoimmune conditions trace back to these early survival adaptations. Whether you're a professional working with attachment issues, someone recognizing your own patterns, or a parent wanting to break intergenerational cycles, this episode bridges conventional psychology with nervous system regulation and functional medicine. You'll understand why traditional talk therapy often hits a wall with attachment healing, and what becomes possible when you address the body's stored attachment pain across all three levels: mind, body, and biology. In this episode, you'll learn: [00:00:22] Why attachment trauma lives in your body's cells and immune system, not just your relationship patterns [00:05:11] Three critical elements that create secure or insecure attachment: attunement, neurodevelopment, and biology [00:10:32] Critical Element #1 - Attunement: The trust cycle and co-regulation through eye contact, touch, and need responsiveness [00:15:34] The Rope Test: discovering your primary childhood survival style in relationships when survival feels at stake [00:18:48] Critical Element #2 - Neurodevelopment: How tummy time and crawling gaps create anxiety, ADHD, and sensory issues [00:24:41] Critical Element #3 - Biology: Which neurotransmitters promote connection versus protection in your nervous system [00:27:49] Attachment Pain #1 - Hold Me: Early holding needs and global high intensity activation pattern [00:30:02] Attachment Pain #2 - Hear Me: When your needs weren't heard and you learned to rescue others while feeling empty [00:32:56] Attachment Pain #3 - Support Me: Movement support gaps that create "I can't" default thinking and overwhelm [00:35:22] Attachment Pain #4 - See Me & Attachment Pain #5 - Understand Me: Being different and unique, yet feeling drained when people don't understand you [00:37:05] Attachment Pain #6 - Love Me: Perfectionism, high inner anxiety, and the fear of being unlovable [00:40:35] The repair approach: addressing body, mind, and biology across all six attachment pain types Main Takeaways: Attachment Lives in Your Body, Your Mind: Attachment trauma isn't only about relationship patterns or emotional wounds—it's stored in your nervous system, immune system, digestive system, and cells. Your body holds muscle memory of childhood survival patterns that show up as chronic health conditions, hypervigilance, people-pleasing, and perfectionism decades later. Three Critical Elements Create Your Attachment Foundation: Attunement (co-regulation through touch and responsiveness), neurodevelopment (movement milestones like crawling), and biology (neurotransmitter balance) all determine whether you developed secure or insecure attachment. Gaps in any one of these elements create attachment pain that requires repair across all three levels. The Trust Cycle Builds Nervous System Security: When babies experience the repeated pattern of need-dysregulation-need met-regulation-connection, they develop inborn trust that "when I have a need, I'm going to be okay because they always come." Without enough repetitions of this trust cycle, the body stores the belief that survival depends on protection rather than connection. Your Childhood Survival Style Shows Up Today: The Rope Test reveals whether you pull people close, push them away, or feel confused in relationships when your survival feels threatened. These aren't conscious choices—they're stored patterns from how your young self had to survive. Whether pulling close or pushing away, both responses come from protection mode, not connection. Six Sequential Attachment Pains Create Distinct Patterns: Hold me (birth to months), hear me (first year), support me (second year), see me (age three), understand me (age four-five), and love me (age six-seven) represent sequential developmental stages. Each creates specific thoughts, feelings, physical symptoms, and coping mechanisms that can be identified and repaired. Chronic Illness Traces to Stored Attachment Pain: IBS and autoimmunity connect to "hold me" attachment pain, food issues and emotional eating link to "hear me" attachment pain, and back pain flare-ups and stomach ulcers signal "understand me" attachment insecurity. These aren't random—they're the body's downstream response to unresolved attachment trauma. Notable Quotes: "For him, survival meant protecting his heart." "There's an existential anxiety that is created when you don't know if you really exist." "You can have had great parents and still have these survival patterns from your childhood. "Everything that I experience today is filtered through my attachment foundation." "If I don't change my filter, I will continue to recreate the same pain for the rest of my life." Episode Takeaway: When my five-year-old adopted son told me he would kill me tomorrow while I held him like a baby, I realized his survival depended on protecting his heart—not connecting. That rocking chair moment launched six years of searching that revealed attachment isn't just psychological, it's biological. Your attachment foundation formed through three critical elements: attunement, neurodevelopment, and biology. Gaps create six sequential attachment pains that live in your nervous system and show up as chronic health conditions, relationship patterns, and survival responses today. True repair requires addressing all three levels simultaneously—mind, body, and biology—because everything you experience is filtered through your childhood attachment foundation. Resources/Guides: The Biology of Trauma book - Available now everywhere books are sold. Get your copy Foundational Journey - If you are ready to create your inner safety and shift your nervous system, join me and my team for this 6 week journey of practical somatic and mind-body inner child practices. Lay your foundation to do the deeper work safely and is the pre-requisite for becoming a Biology of Trauma® professional. Related Episodes: Episode 69: How Attachment Shapes Our Biology and Behavior with Dr. Aimie Apigian Episode 128: How Attachment Trauma Drives Anxiety, Autoimmunity & Chronic Illness Your host: Dr. Aimie Apigian, double board-certified physician (Preventive/Addiction Medicine) with master's degrees in biochemistry and public health, and author of the national bestselling book "The Biology of Trauma" (foreword by Gabor Maté) that transforms our understanding of how the body experiences and holds trauma. After foster-adopting a child during medical school sparked her journey, she desperately sought for answers that would only continue as she developed chronic health issues. Through her practitioner training, podcast, YouTube channel, and international speaking, she bridges functional medicine, attachment and trauma therapy, facilitating accelerated repair of trauma's impact on the mind, body and biology. Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast, you agree not to use this podcast as medical, psychological, or mental health advice to treat any medical or psychological condition in yourself or others. This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your own physician, therapist, psychiatrist, or other qualified health provider regarding any physical or mental health issues you may be experiencing. Comment Etiquette: I would love to hear your thoughts on this episode. Please share and use your name or initials so that we can keep this space spam-free and the discussion positive
EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE WhisperVibe™ OR a FREE Rose toy with any Whisper™ order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!: https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ In this Sex with Emily episode, wellness educator Lauren Roxburgh explains why Western medicine discarded the body system that might be blocking your orgasms—and how to bring it back online. Lauren reveals fascia: the communication network your body uses to record trauma, send arousal signals, and feel everything. Medical schools in the 1900s threw it away as "packing wrap" without studying it. Now we know it's your sixth sense, and when it's congested, you age faster and feel less. A woman with a tilted uterus faces sudden stabbing pain with her well-endowed partner after a decade of great sex—discover why the diagnosis isn't the whole story. Someone's tried every technique for premature ejaculation with zero results—learn why most solutions create the opposite effect and what pro athletes know about lasting longer. A post-menopausal woman on hormones still bleeds during painful sex—hear which ancient practices work when Western medicine falls short. Lauren teaches the reverse Kegel (why opening beats squeezing), how stress clenches your pelvic floor without you knowing, why Brazilians walk differently than Westerners and what that reveals about sexual energy, and the breathing pattern that pumps toxins from your brain while awakening sensation below. If pain during sex, premature ejaculation, or post-menopausal dryness have stumped your doctors, this reveals what they're missing. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:16 - What is Fascia? The Body's Communication Network Explained 5:05 - Why Western Medicine Ignored Fascia Until Now 9:36 - How Fascia Impacts Sexual Pleasure and Embodiment 15:03 - Releasing Trauma Stored in Your Body's Tissues 21:27 - The Blood Flow Problem Behind Sexual Dysfunction 27:34 - Pain During Sex: Understanding Your Pelvic Floor 30:24 - The Reverse Kegel Technique for Better Orgasms 33:40 - Painful Sex with Tilted Uterus: Solutions Beyond Positions 38:38 - Fixing Lifelong Premature Ejaculation with Body Work 43:07 - Postmenopausal Pain: When Hormones Aren't Enough
If you've ever felt frustrated with your body -- how it looks, how it feels, or how it functions — you're not alone. So many of us have treated our bodies like problems to solve or projects to perfect, believing that if we could just “fix” them, we'd finally feel whole. But what if the invitation isn't to control your body, but to care for it as the good gift God created it to be?In this episode, Jordan shares the heart behind her new book Be Good to Your Body and opens up about her own journey from striving and restriction to grace and stewardship. Through personal reflection and biblical truth, she helps us reframe how we view our bodies, moving from frustration and control toward freedom and trust in the way God designed us.What You'll Learn:Why your beliefs about your body shape your behaviors toward itHow “discipline” can quietly turn into self-punishmentThe difference between supporting and controlling your bodyHow to spot when wellness becomes an idolWhat Scripture says about your body as a good gift from GodOne mindset shift that can help you treat your body with grace, not guiltLinks:Grab Your Copy of Be Good to Your BodyFollow Jordan on InstagramGet 10% Off Crunchi using "ADVOCATE10" Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Fall is so packed full and it can be hard to prioritize our bodies. And what does it even mean to be a good steward of our bodies without obsessing over them? Jordan Lee Dooley is back to help us with that today! She's in a totally new season of life — mom of three under three. She opens up about how so many of us wrestle with this idea that our bodies are failing us and this new understanding of what it really means to steward our bodies — not just like them or fix them, but truly honor them as part of the calling God's given us. Her new book, Be Good to Your Body, dives deep into that idea. I can't wait for you to hear this conversation. If you're following along in your TSF Seasons Guidebook, we're on page 114. As always, the guidebook is available for you at anniefdowns.com/seasons! . . . . . If you enjoyed this episode, I think you'd also like: Episode 303: Jess Connolly + Breaking Free From Body Shame Living Crunchy with Emily Morrow – Episode 897 . . . . . Want to watch this episode? Watch on your Spotify App, or head on over to our YouTube Channel and be sure to like and subscribe! . . . . . Sign up to receive the AFD Week In Review email and ask questions to future guests! #thatsoundsfunpodcast . . . . . Thank you to our sponsors! BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/THATSOUNDSFUN. AG1: If you're ready to turn down the stress, and focus on the rest, head to drinkag1.com/soundsfun to get a FREE Frother with your first purchase of AGZ. Our Place: Visit fromourplace.com/TSF and use code TSF for 10% off sitewide. WayFair: Get organized, refreshed, and ready for the holidays for way less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home. Brave Books: Head to Bravebooks.com/TSF and use the code TSF for 20% off your first order. NIV Application Bible: If you're looking for a new Bible or know someone you'd like to gift a Bible to, I highly recommend the NIV Application Bible! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/soundsfun. Thrive Market: Go to ThriveMarket.com/THATSOUNDSFUN to get 30% off your first order and a free $60 gift. Helix Sleep: Go to helixsleep.com/thatsoundsfun for 20% off sitewide! . . . . . NYTimes bestselling Christian author, speaker, and host of popular Christian podcast, That Sounds Fun Podcast, Annie F. Downs shares with you some of her favorite things: new books, faith conversations, entertainers not to miss, and interviews with friends. Spread the Word. Leave a Rating and Review. It would mean the world to me if you would rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts and leave us a brief review! You can do the same on Spotify as well. Your ratings and reviews help us spread the word to new friends! And your feedback lets me know how I can better serve you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices