Big Dating Energy

Red flags. We've all got them. How can we recognize our own red flags and use that information to grow? Why do we find ourselves drawn to people with the same red flags over and over? And why do we ignore red flags even when we know they're there? Brianna McCabe, professor and author (The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored: Love, Lust + Lessons), joins Jeff this week to help answer all of these questions. Plus, she and Jeff break down some common red flags on reality TV and play a round of Rapid Fire Red Flags.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Brianna: Instagram: @thebriannamccabe TikTok: @thebriannamccabeLearn more about Brianna: thebriannamccabe.komi.ioRead: The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored: Love, Lust + Lessons Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

Can a marriage heal after infidelity? Jimmy Knowles believes it can. After cheating on his wife years ago, he put in the work to rebuild their relationship and become the husband he knew she deserved. Now, Jimmy shares his journey and insights with others. Today, he joins Jeff to discuss navigating conflict in relationships. They cover the best ways to address issues, how to spot conflict green flags in a new partner, and whether or not it's truly possible to agree to disagree. Plus, they explore how to recognize if you've successfully resolved and repaired your relationship after conflict.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Jimmy on Instagram: @jimmy_on_relationshipsJimmy Knowles and Matthias Barker's course on Conflict: From Conflict To Connection - The Path To Lasting Intimacy And Understanding

Ever wondered if Mister Fantastic is that stretchy everywhere? Or if everything Spider-man produces is radioactive? Jeff dives into the world of superhero intimacy with Diana McCallum, author of Sex Lives of Superheroes. Diana explores these scenarios through the lens of science, comic lore, and humor, all while offering a unique perspective on the intersection of psychology and superhero culture. Tune in as we discuss the pros and cons of superpowered sex and the complexities of intimacy in the superhero realm.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Pick up Sex Lives of SuperheroesFollow Diana on Instagram: @picsofdianaCheck out the From Superheroes Network: https://www.fromsuperheroes.com/podcastsOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

Are we missing out on valuable experiences by sticking to conventional monogamy? What's the difference between non-monogamy as a relationship style and non-monogamy as an orientation? How do you know if non-monogamy is right for you? This week, Jeff sits down with his longtime friend, polyamory coach and therapist Heidi Savell, to tackle these questions and more–from first steps, to common pitfalls, and navigating jealousy and emotional regulation. Whether you're poly-curious or already on your journey, this is a perfect conversation for anyone who wants to learn more about non-monogamy.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Heidi Savell on Instagram: @steadypolyamoryLearn more about Heidi: https://shelovesradically.comOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

Is social media a double-edged sword for mental health? In this episode, Jeff chats with “no BS” therapist Jacqueline Tenaglia, LMHC about the fine line between helpful and harmful online content. They discuss the impact of social media on mental health, the rise of “therapy speak,” and “concept creep,” and the ethics of AI in therapy.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Jacquelyn on Instagram (@no.bs.therapist) and X (@TweetATherapist)Learn more about Jacquelyn Tenaglia: https://jacquelyntenaglia.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

Ever wondered how people-pleasing affects your sex life? Jeff and his guest, author and certified coach, Hailey Magee, break it down in this week's episode. They talk about setting boundaries, the impact of gender expectations on people-pleasers in the bedroom, and the journey to self-advocacy. Plus, Hailey shares some strategies for folks who are looking to break out of their people-pleasing patterns.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Learn more about Hailey Magee: https://www.haileymagee.com/Purchase Stop People Pleasing and Find Your PowerFollow Hailey on Instagram: @haileypaigemageeOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!Head to factormeals.com/big50 and use code big50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month.

Writer, performer, and creator Tess Gattuso is diving into Jeff's Twenty Questions. You know the drill; it's twenty questions with Jeff, so we're covering everything from perfect sandwiches, to crushes on cartoon horses, and all of the relationship stuff–communication, showing affection, setting boundaries–in between. But more importantly, perfect sandwiches and crushes on cartoon horses. Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Tess on Instagram: @tesspleaseKeep up with Tess Gattuso - tessgattuso.comOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

What can digital dating apps teach us about our broader culture? This week, Jeff talks with Treena Orchard, an author, anthropologist, and proud cat mother about exactly that. Treena discusses her memoir, Sticky, Sexy, Sad, which delves into her deep dive into digital dating. With a background in anthropology and a focus on sexuality and culture, Treena offers a unique perspective on the world of online dating. Join Jeff and Treena as they discuss everything from the evolution of dating apps to the broader implications for culture and society.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Pick up Sticky, Sexy, Sad: Swipe Culture and the Darker Side of Dating AppsFollow Treena Orchard on Instagram: @treenaorchardLearn more about Treena: https://treenaorchard.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

This week, Jeff chats with the brilliant Dr. M the Science Femme, who holds a PhD in neuroscience. They talk about her unique approach to teaching science while challenging societal norms by doing it in lingerie, focusing on increasing respect and credibility for women. They also dive deep into her personal experience with polyamory, discussing the dynamics of her polycule, addressing common misconceptions, and celebrating the joys of three-way kisses and poly euphoria. Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Dr. M the Science Femme on Instagram @drmthesciencefemme and TikTok @drmthesciencefemmeSubscribe to Dr. M's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/drmthesciencefemmeOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

Matthew Caws is a singer and songwriter who leads the best band in the world, Nada Surf. He joins Jeff this week to talk about love, songs, and writing love songs. Jeff gets to ask him a million questions about his process, point of view, inspirations, how he feels about his earlier music, what it feels like to put yourself into your songs, and whether or not every lyric has to mean something. It's the best episode.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Nada Surf's album Moon Mirror is out September 13th. Pre-order/pre-save now!Catch Nada Surf on the road this fall! Tour dates here!Follow Nada Surf on Instagram: @nadasurf_officialOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

This week, Jeff is joined by one half of the Double Teamed podcast, Niki, to convince everyone listening that you should all be non-monogamous. Okay, not really, but they do bust a whole bunch of negative non-monogamy myths. They also share what they love about non-monogamy, weigh in on some of the more common challenges, and offer some tools and guidance for folks who think they might be interested in trying non-monogamy on for themselves.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Double Teamed Podcast:Website: doubleteamedpodcast.comInstagram: @doubleteamedpodcastTwitter: @doubleteamedpodYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoubleteamedpodcastOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

This week, Jeff is joined by Leann Borneman, LCSW, CST. Leann is a licensed psychotherapist, sexologist, and certified sex therapist who specializes in ADHD and sexuality. She talks with Jeff this week about how women with ADHD can feel empowered when it comes to sex, intimacy and their relationships.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Leann on Instagram: @bornemanpsychotherapyLearn more about working with or learning from Leann: bornemancoaching.comOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

This week on Big Dating Energy, Brett and Tiffany from Love is Blind Season 4 bring their A-game to 15 of Jeff's most unhinged questions. From secret social experiments to tricky wishes, Brett and Tiff laugh their way through Jeff's wildest hypotheticals, showing off their playful banter and strong connection. But do any of Jeff's questions throw these two out of sync? Listen to find out! Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with the Browns: @tcpenny and @the.brettbrownOrder your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!

This week is all about firsts! Ely Kreimendahl, Dan Savage and Zachary Zane share their best first time stories. Jeff shares a few firsts of his own, too. From first kisses, to first sex parties, there are so many memorable first times in this one.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!Follow Ely Kreimendahl on Instagram: @elykreimendahlSubscribe to Ely's SubstackRead Dan Savage's column, listen to Savage Lovecast, learn more about the HUMP! Festival and more here.Follow Zachary Zane on Instagram: @zacharyzane_Pick up Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

Libby Supan is a licensed therapist and certified intuitive eating coach who specializes in food and body issues, working to help women break the cycle of restrictive eating. She talks with Jeff this week about her personal journey as someone with an eating disorder and how she has used her lived experience to help others find food and body image freedom. Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!Learn more about Libby's work: https://www.libbysupan.com/Follow Libby on Instagram @foodfreedomwithlibby and Tiktok @foodfreedomwithlibby

This week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff talks with Lindy Elloway, who you might remember from that reality TV show where she tied the knot with a total stranger and then had the world peeping into every moment of their marriage. Lindy spills the beans with Jeff about how things on screen compared to real life, the behind-the-scenes influence of producers on their day-to-day, and whether the whole experience has changed her outlook on love and marriage now.Get your tickets for Big Dating Energy: Jeff Guenther, LPC (@TherapyJeff) in Conversation with Zach Noe Towers at 92Y - Wednesday, July 10th!Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Lindy on Instagram: @lively.lindyPre-order your copy of Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self - July 9th, 2024Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeff

This week, you're in for a treat! Jeff's reading the first chapter of his new book, this podcast's namesake, Big Dating Energy. Listen along as Jeff reads from the book and provides some behind-the-scenes commentary. And then head to the link below to pre-order your copy. It comes out so soon!Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Pre-order your copy of Big Dating Energy: How to Create Lasting Love by Tapping Into Your Authentic Self - out July 9th, 2024Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeff

Alli Goldberg is a comedian and the creator and host of the live dating show, Love Isn't Blind. She joins Jeff this week to talk about making live love connections, going through mens' phones, red flags, green flags, and why she might believe in soulmates.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeffPre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyKeep up with all things Alli Goldberg: https://www.allisongoldberg.com/Follow Alli on Instagram: @alli_goldiCatch Love Isn't Blind on the road: https://www.loveisntblind.co/

Todd Baratz is a certified sex therapist, a licensed psychotherapist, and author whose book How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind is out now! He joins Jeff this week to talk about what makes modern love so messy, whether or not “right person, wrong time” is really thing, and if the honeymoon period can last forever. Plus, Jeff puts him through a round of “Is This a Red Flag?”Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeffPre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyKeep up with Todd Baratz: toddbaratz.comFollow Todd on Instagram: @yourdiagnonsenseOrder How to Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind: Forget the Fairy Tale and Get Real

Olivia de Recat is an author and illustrator. Her cartoons have been featured in The New Yorker since 2017. Her book, Drawn Together: Illustrated True Love Stories was published in 2022. She joins Jeff this week to talk about the importance of humor in relationships. They talk rescue attempts, being the funny one in your relationship, and more.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeffPre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyPick up your copy of Drawn Together: Illustrated True Love Stories Keep up with Olivia de Recat: https://www.oliviaderecat.com/Follow Olivia on Instagram: @drawingoliveDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does

Hannah Jones is a Denver-based comedian and one of Jeff's favorite funny people on TikTok. She co-hosts the podcast Help! with Hannah Jones and Calvin Reid, and she's one of the few brave souls to sit down and answer Jeff's twenty questions. Hannah shares the story of her tortilla-scented first day on earth, why dating while living in your car is very different for women, some of her hottest relationship takes, and a whole lot more (like seventeen more. At least.) Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Subscribe to Jeff's Patreon: https://patreon.com/therapyjeffPre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyKeep up with all things Hannah Jones: https://hannahjonescool.com/Listen to Help! With Hannah Jones and Calvin ReidFollow Hannah on Instagram (@Hannahjonescool) and TikTok (@hannahjonescool1)DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does

Lily Womble is an intersectional feminist dating coach, the founder of Date Brazen, and host of the Date Brazen podcast. She joins Jeff this week to share her journey from​​ being a top matchmaker to empowering clients to build their own confident and joyful dating life. She and Jeff discuss the misery that is the dating app landscape, the importance of asking for what you want in a relationship, how the patriarchy has really screwed up the dating scene for all of us, and why Lily is absolutely not making her own dating app.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Lily Womble on Instagram: @datebrazenPre-order Thank You More, PleaseListen to The Date Brazen PodcastPre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does

Ely Kreimendahl is a writer, comedian, and therapist. She's also the host of the Shame Spiral podcast and just an absolute delight. She joins Jeff for a conversation on shame, why it's so painful to experience, why we're afraid to talk about it, and why confronting our shame can be so empowering. Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Ely Kreimendahl on Instagram: @elykreimendahlSubscribe to Ely's SubstackIf you're near Brooklyn, check out Ely's monthly queer comedy show, Gay Shame. Pre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

This week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff welcomes Zachary Zane to the podcast. Zachary wears many hats–columnist, author, speaker, and sex expert. His book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto offers a vulnerable and informative exploration of sexuality, societal norms, and serves as a call to everyone let go of sexual shame. He is also the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine. With columns in Men's Health and Cosmopolitan, Zachary encourages readers to understand and embrace who they really are, free from all those pesky societal messages. He's also just a really thoughtful person and a great storyteller. This is a good one. Get into it.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Zachary Zane on Instagram: @zacharyzane_Pick up Boyslut: A Memoir and ManifestoKeep up with all things Zachary Zane: https://linktr.ee/zacharyzanePre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Dedeker Winston, Emily Sotelo Matlack, and Jase Lindgren are the hosts of the long-running Multiamory podcast, a research-backed advice show that delves into everything you've ever wanted to know about alternative relationships: polyamory, open relationships, non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, solo polyamory, you name it. There are so many ways of being in relationship that go beyond monogamy, and the Multiamory crew is here to help Jeff break it all down.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comListen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Listen to Multiamory: Rethinking Modern RelationshipsFollow Multiamory on Instagram: @multiamory_podcastPick up their book: Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern RelationshipsGet your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Sabrina Zohar is a dating coach and host of Do the Work podcast. She's a give-it-to-you-straight kind of person who wants to help you start your healing journey. She joins Jeff to answer his twenty random questions about childhood, trauma, love, sex, dating, you know, all that casual stuff.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comListen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Get your copy of Big Dating EnergyLearn more about Sabrina Zohar: https://www.sabrinazohar.com/Follow Sabrina on Instagram and TikTokListen to Do the WorkDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

In this episode of Big Dating Energy, Jeff talks with best-selling author, actor, and podcast host Gabrielle Stone. Join Jeff and Gabrielle as she shares everything from the devastating discovery of her husband's affair to the empowering aftermath that led to her best-selling book Eat, Pray, FML. Discover how Gabrielle turned heartbreak into humor, and learn about her solo travel experience that reshaped her perspective on love and self-discovery. Jeff and Gabrielle explore the complexities of recognizing red flags in relationships and why we often stay despite them, while emphasizing the importance of showing compassion to our past selves. They also laugh a lot. It's a great conversation full of vulnerability, empowerment, and–seriously–a lot of laughter.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comFor 25% off Big Dating Energy, pre-order your copy from Barnes & Noble by April 19th: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/big-dating-energy-jeff-guenther/1144328520Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Gabrielle Stone:@gabriellestone@eatprayfmlListen to FML Talk.Pick up Gabrielle's books Eat. Pray. FML and The Ridiculous Misadventures of a Single GirlDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Busy Philipps is an actor, author, activist, and podcaster. You know her from Freaks and Geeks, Dawson's Creek, Girls5Eva, and a million other things, including as Mrs. George in this year's musical comedy Mean Girls. She joins Jeff for a candid chat about all the messy, wonderful stuff: falling in love, staying pals with your ex, diving back into dating, and the eternal hunt for the right person. It's the kind of conversation that feels like catching up with an old friend—and you might even pick up some useful insights for your own life along the way.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Busy Philipps on Instagram @busyphilippsListen to Busy Philipps is Doing Her BestJeff's TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/Jeff's Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffGet your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Jennie Young is a writer, rhetorician, and English professor at University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She is also the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method which aims to right the wrongs of the current digital dating landscape. Dr. Young joins Jeff to share her ten dating app rules, break down how the words we use affect our dating lives, and to help us better understand how we can use our language with intention to hopefully have a less miserable dating app experience.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Learn more about Jennie Young and her Burned Haystack Dating MethodJeff's TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/Jeff's Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffGet your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

Nick Thompson, host of the Eyes Wide Open podcast and a familiar face from season two of Love Is Blind, joins Jeff this week for a candid conversation on mental health and reality television. Nick shares what goes on behind-the-scenes to make for compelling on-camera stories and the profound impact that participating in reality TV can have on one's mental well-being. In addition to shedding light on the challenges faced by those in the reality TV spotlight, Nick shares ways in which fans can show support for individuals in the industry. He highlights the UCAN Foundation, an organization dedicated to mental health support for reality TV participants, and encourages listeners to sign the Move On petition advocating for disclaimers on reality TV shows.Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Nick on Instagram: @nthompson513Listen to Nick's podcast: Eyes Wide OpenFollow the UCAN Foundation: @the_UCAN_FoundationSign the Move On petition: moveon.org/realityListen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

In this episode of Big Dating Energy, Jeff and special guest Chris Corsini dive into the fun and fascinating world of astrology. Chris, known for helping folks live their truth and make positive changes, gives us a crash course that goes beyond just the "big three." He shows us how all our placements can help us understand our connections with others and maybe even find a better, more in-tune love connection. Plus, he breaks down the myth that some signs are all good or all bad (looking at you, Gemini), highlighting the high and low vibes of each. Chris also offers an astrology-based dating survival guide for each sign, providing insights and tips tailored to help navigate the dating world with a cosmic edge. Join Chris and Jeff for a fun and enlightening chat that will deepen your understanding of astrology and help you vibe with your true self.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/For more information about Chris Corsini's donation-based readings and others way to connect with and learn from Chris, check out https://chriscorsini.com/Youtube: https://youtube.com/@chriscorsinitarot/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriscorsiniGet your copy of Big Dating Energy!

This week's guest is the hilarious and lovely Zach Noe Towers. Zach is a comedian, actor, writer, and the first guest brave enough to answer Jeff's Twenty Questions on the spot. You'll have to listen to hear what those questions are, but some topics covered include: navigating a chaotic upbringing, crushing on the middle Hanson brother, and falling in love at Burning Man. Plus, Jeff and Zach play Red Flag Lightning Round.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Zach Noe Towers: https://linktr.ee/ztowersGet your copy of Big Dating Energy!

In this episode, Jeff talks with Logan Ury, a brilliant behavioral scientist, author, and dating coach. Logan, who heads up Relationship Science at Hinge and penned How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love, is like your BFF who also happens to have a degree in dating. She breaks down the three dating tendencies, helping us figure out what might be getting in the way of our love lives. She tells us why we should say f*ck the spark—Logan's all about the slow burn of real connection. Plus, she and Jeff tackle the art of the breakup, because let's face it, we could all use some tips on how to do that gracefully. Join Jeff and Logan for a candid chat that'll leave you feeling like you just had a heart-to-heart with your smartest friends about love, life, and everything in between.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

Taylor Lorenz is a brilliant journalist who has been at the forefront of covering internet culture since the early days of Tumblr. Her book Extremely Online: The Untold Story of Fame, Influence, and Power on the Internet delves into the world of influencers, online communities, and the ways in which the internet shapes our behaviors and worldview. She joins Jeff this week to talk about hacking the algorithm, getting stuck in Tinder's “Ugly Jail,” and why some people are trying to move away from finding love on dating apps. The two discuss the complicated nature of living an online life, offering nuanced discussions on topics that are often refused that treatment, like the controversy around those leaked Jonah Hill texts and the saga of “West Elm Caleb.” And honestly? So much more. This episode is packed full of fun, insightful discussions you won't want to miss.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Taylor Lorenz: https://www.instagram.com/taylorlorenz/Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

This week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff chats with Solana Sparks, a San Juan-based sex worker, activist, and advocate, about the ins and outs of the sex work industry. From the intricacies of client screening to navigating personal relationships, Solana sheds light on the often overlooked aspects of her profession. Get ready to see sex work in a new light as Solana gives us a peek into her world.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Solana at solanasparks.com or by following her at twitter.com/solanasparksResources:Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers' Rights by Juno Mac and Molly SmithBody Autonomy: Decolonizing Sex Work & Drug Use by Justice Riverahttps://sexworkersproject.org/https://www.nswp.org/https://www.reframehealthandjustice.com/

Emily Dexter, a bestselling author, celebrity psychic, mentor, podcast host, influencer, artist and self-described “mega nerd,” has honed her psychic abilities for nearly a decade. Initially believing everyone shared her capabilities, she now assists clients in activating their own psychic potential. She joins Jeff this week to dive into the world of connecting with our spirit guides. They also touch on the nuanced topic of free will, explore the concept of soulmates, and discuss what insights the spirit world offers about our moral compass here on Earth. Emily also shares some top tips for dating profiles, as handed down by the spirit guides.Learn more about Emily Dexter at www.emilydexterauthor.com and by following her @likerofwords.Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

This Week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff talks with renowned relationship coach Jillian Turecki. With her wealth of experience, she stresses the importance of self-awareness and open communication with the people we care about. And while Turecki leads first with empathy, she isn't afraid to get real about the challenges of dating in today's world, where finding genuine connections can be tough. Throughout this conversation, she encourages listeners to break free from old-fashioned ideas and to take control of their own happiness. Turecki's message is clear: building healthy relationships with others starts with understanding ourselves.You can keep up with Jillian Turecki at jillianturecki.com or by following her on Instagram @jilliantureckiGet your copy of Big Dating Energy!

Comedian Kevin James Thornton is in town, so he's come by Jeff's place for a lovely chat. It's part interview, part therapy session, and part relationship history exploration. They dive deep into Kevin's life, from his early roots in the church, to The Rocky Horror Picture Show, to his reentry into the dating scene at 50. It's a candid conversation that's very fun and sweet, and Kevin is so open and vulnerable. You're going to love this one. And if you do love it, which you will, please consider leaving a glowing five-star review.Catch Kevin James Thornton when he's in your city.Get your copy of Big Dating Energy!

In this episode of Big Dating Energy, Jeff is joined by the incredible Katie Thurston for a candid discussion about her journey in the world of reality TV and the intricacies of her dating life. From exploring the highs and lows of being in the public eye to reflecting on the unique challenges of finding love on camera, Katie shares valuable lessons learned during her time on The Bachelor, Bachelorette and FBoy Island. Jeff and Katie delve into the behind-the-scenes dynamics, discuss the influence of producers, and examine the ever-relevant question: Can genuine love truly blossom on the stage of a reality dating show?Keep up with Katie at @thekatiethurstonGet your copy of Big Dating Energy!

Is there a sell-by date on nude pics? We find out on this week's Big Dating Energy when Jeff invites comedian Catherine Cohen to share her hilariously honest and insightful opinions on your relationship questions. Including the subject of sending old nudes, competing with babes, and the age old question of asking how many people your partner has slept with.Love Cat Cohen? You can find her here www.catherine-cohen.comGet your copy of Big Dating Energy!

Welcome to Big Dating Energy, a new relationship and dating podcast hosted by licensed therapist Jeff Guenther, whom you may know as 'TherapyJeff,'. In this trailer episode, Jeff explains exactly what listeners can expect from future episodes of Big Dating Energy.Click to Pre order your future favorite book now!