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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro. Whether you're a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasure—we've got you covered.Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and professional experience. We talk technique, confidence, communication, and why good oral isn't just about what your mouth is doing—but also how present, excited, and connected you are.In this episode, we discuss:How to make oral feel incredible with your mouth and your whole bodyDeepthroating 101: tips, angles, breathing, and how to stay in controlWhat makes a blowjob feel intimate (even when it's casual)How to avoid jaw fatigue and still make it look/feel amazingCommon mistakes people make when giving oral to penis-haversThe power of eye contact, vocal feedback, and enthusiasmCommunication tips—how to ask for direction without killing the moodThe difference between porn blowjobs and what people actually wantWhat to do if you're nervous, insecure, or don't love giving oral (yet)How Zachary's bisexuality influences his approach to pleasureThe importance of mutual pleasure and making oral a two-way experienceThis episode is informative, hot, and actually helpful—no shame, no judgment, just real talk about how to become a more generous, confident, and attuned lover.Thank you Fantasia for being a sponsor on today's episode. Check out fantasiatoy.online to see what your fantasy feels like!✨ Unedited episodes, behind-the-scenes of my dating & sex life, and access to my close friends list on Instagram available on Patreon
Let us know your views now - text us hereSam, Ashley and Lewis take a deep breath about all the crazy happenings from America. How worried should the rest of the world be about developments in the White House? British TV writer Russell T Davies says he's noticed a change and an increase in hatred towards LGBTQ people. Chris, whose 48 from Nebraska in the States tells us his bisexual journey story - Chris works for the military. How's he coping with recent pronouncements from the Trump regime?Sam, Ashley and Lewis talk candidly about 'the trouble with straight men' after a queer woman said she's stopped dating heterosexual men.Would you consider polyamory? activist Zachary Zane says it's made him truly realise his bisexuality. But could Lewis, Sam, Ashley and Tom ever embrace being poly themselves?Bi actor and writer Tom Ward-Thomas joins Ashley to chat all things film, tv, theatre, radio - and this time books! Maurice, the coming of age gay EM Forster novel was made into a film with Hugh Grant, James Wilby and Rupert Graves. How much of it actually had a bi theme in reality?Bi author Sam Mills tells her bisexual journey story as she talks to Ashley about her new book 'Uneven' which charts the lives of 9 famous bi people through history starting with Oscar Wilde.The packed show concludes with another 'Ask a Bisexual'. If you have a question, do please drop us a line.Heads up - another Bisexual Brunch will be out soon including stories from Imogen in Guernsey and David in Belgium. And we've an episode discussing bisexual experience of dating apps coming up. If you'd like to be part of that discussion message us at info@madeinmanchester.tv OR contact us via the Fan Mail tab (text link above) on Buzzsprout. But remember to leave your contact details.Support the show
PUT ON THOSE GLASSES AND OPEN UP THOSE PAGES! We're introducing the 'Emotionally Horny Book Club', where we discuss three books that explore themes of sexuality, dating, and emotional health! THE BIG THREE THAT MATTER! Kelsey dives into the narratives of 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane, 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men' by Blythe Robertson, and 'Open Deeply' by Kate Laurie, offering insights and saucy personal reflections on each. Chapters00:00 Welcome to the New Studio!03:27 Exciting Film Premiere in Miami06:46 Reflections on Art and Society10:09 The Journey of Moving and Unpacking16:51 Introducing the Emotionally Horny Book Club20:36 Exploring 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane34:22 Navigating Dating with 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men'40:24 Understanding Open Relationships with 'Open Deeply'Our Sponsors:* Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
This is not a Zachary Zane podcast episode — but it's not a Zach-less episode. Professional Hot Guy Jonzu Jones is telling us about using Trimex to keep it up on set, his first sex party, and yes, a little tea about dating the internet's favorite bi guy. Also, Brenna from Front Porch Swingers joins in to help with a question about BDSM in swinger spaces! Mentioned: March 1 - PHILADELPHIA - The Naked Comedy Show @ https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1145225483249 Speed Dating - New York Speed Dating - https://www.eventbrite.com/o/ditto-bing-productions-68695817023 Use code MANPOD for 10% off your tickets at http://humpfilmfest.com Follow Jonzu Jones! Instagram: @jonzu JFF: @jonzu Twitter: @jonzuxjones Follow Billy! Instagram: @billyprocidajr TikTok: @TheBillyProcida Threads: @billyisprocida BlueSky: @thebillyprocida 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Money Stuff Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod PayPal/Zelle: funnybillypro@gmail.com E-books are now available at http://bookshop.org/shop/billy! Get ad-free episodes at https://www.patreon.com/manwhorepodcast! Make new friends in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/discord Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com. Late Night Radio by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ www.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes guest Zachary Zane to dive into themes of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and bisexuality. Zane reflects on his personal journey, discussing how he used non-monogamy to avoid emotional investment and his experiences at swinger and bisexual events. He addresses societal stigmas around male bisexuality, his evolution in relationships, and moving from polyamory to an open relationship with his current partner. Zachary also talks about his upcoming book projects, his transition from writing personal narratives to fiction, and shares insights into his mental health journey, including his use of somatic therapy. Throughout, he emphasizes the importance of finding community, overcoming sexual shame, and navigating personal identity in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS
Welcome, writers and book lovers. The Bleeders is a podcast about book writing and publishing. Make sure you subscribe to the companion Substack: https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcomeToday's guest is Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. Follow Zachary on Instagram @zacharyzane_ and Twitter @ZacharyZane_.>>> Watch the full interview with Zach on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7_qeIcK1N7g?si=j7EN2zy3y6dnxCxa The Bleeders is hosted by Courtney Kocak. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram @courtneykocak. For more, check out her website courtneykocak.com.Courtney is teaching some upcoming workshops you might be interested in:New Year's Newsletter & Pitch Party Extravaganza: https://www.courtneykocak.com/teaching (Use code BLEEDERS for $100 off)Start a Newsletter to Supercharge Your Platform, Network & Business: https://writingworkshops.com/products/start-a-newsletter-to-supercharge-your-platform-network-business-zoom-seminar60-Day Writer's Platform Coaching: https://writingworkshops.com/products/60-day-writers-platform-coaching-with-courtney-kocakLand Big Bylines by Writing for Columns: https://writingworkshops.com/products/land-big-bylines-by-writing-for-columns-zoom-seminarPodcasting for Writers: How to Start, Sustain & Grow Your Podcast: https://writingworkshops.com/products/podcasting-for-writers-how-to-start-sustain-grow-your-podcast-4-week-zoom-workshopHow to Build a “Platform” for Writers Who Shudder at the Thought: https://writingworkshops.com/products/how-to-build-a-platform-for-writers-who-shudder-at-the-thought-zoom-seminar
Send us a textGet ready for an eye-opening and no-holds-barred conversation on this episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast! We're joined by Zachary Zane—an acclaimed writer, and the brilliant mind behind Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. We talk all things evolutionary, including the evolution of male bisexuality in the world of swinging and non-monogamy.Zachary shares personal stories and insights on what it's like to navigate bisexual identity as a man, breaking down outdated stigmas and discussing how the swinging community is becoming more inclusive. We talk openly about the challenges and triumphs of being a bi man in non-monogamous relationships, how sexual fluidity is being embraced, and why representation matters.This episode is packed with real talk, laughs, and some seriously empowering moments. If you're curious about male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle or want to learn how non-monogamy is evolving, you won't want to miss this raw and engaging chat. Tune in and join us for an unfiltered look at sex, sexuality, and everything in between!Follow my favorite ‘BoySlut' on social media Instagram https://www.zacharyzane.com/Get a copy of Boy Slut
Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Leanne Yau (@polyphiliablog), who shares her journey from growing up in Hong Kong to leaving a law career behind to become a full-time content creator focusing on non-monogamy. They discuss what it's like getting recognized at sex parties, balancing a large online platform, and how being neurodivergent shapes Leanne's life and work. Leanne opens up about her current relationship structure, her shift from orgasm-driven sex to scheduling time for pleasure, and her thoughts on whether non-monogamy is more challenging for men. They also dive into successful de-escalations as an alternative to breaking up and why sex, for both Leanne and Alexa, is totally a hobby! Check out Leanne and Zachary Zane's workshop on Bisexuality and Non-Monogamy on Nov 10th here!
The Boyslut, Zachary Zane, dishes on diving into the deep end with non-monogamy, how he's scaled back romance responsibly and why he loves the label of bisexual slut. "I Could Never..." is a Chill Polyamory podcast. For more info and episode transcripts: https://www.chillpolyamory.com/icouldnever Chill Polyamory on IG - @chillpolyamory Chill Polyamory on TikTok - @chillpolyamory Chill Polyamory on YouTube - @chillpolyamory Zachary Zane on IG - @zacharyzane_ Zachary Zane's Website - zacharyzane.com Cover Artwork by Anni Jyn - @annijyn All music is sourced from the Free Music Archive, under a Creative Commons 4.0 Attribution License (CC BY 4.0) Intro/Outro: Ruffling Feathers by Jesse Spillane, Transitions: City Line by Beat Mekanik, Ad Read: Lope and Shimmer by Podington Bear
Ask an Anonymous Sex Question to be featured on the next Listener Q & A episode: https://heathershannon.co/ask-a-sex-question/ Welcome to another episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast! In today's listener Q&A, Heather Shannon dives deep into questions about sexual energy, maintaining desire in long-term relationships, understanding demisexuality and fraysexuality, and coping with feelings of loneliness while dating. Heather also shares insights about the importance of novelty in keeping sexual attraction alive and addresses the nuanced dynamics of intimacy. Don't forget to submit your questions anonymously via Heather's website for future episodes!Links, Contact Information & Resources:Curious about coaching? Book an Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather: https://heathershannon.co/video-page/ The YouTube channel is getting organized! Check out our playlists for libido, communication, penis owners, etc: https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach/playlists Ep. 39 with Zachary Zane: https://youtu.be/j4zZjM18aZ0?si=7nj5fw9KlEyDOoXy This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp
This week is all about firsts! Ely Kreimendahl, Dan Savage and Zachary Zane share their best first time stories. Jeff shares a few firsts of his own, too. From first kisses, to first sex parties, there are so many memorable first times in this one.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Order your copy of Big Dating Energy Available now!Follow Ely Kreimendahl on Instagram: @elykreimendahlSubscribe to Ely's SubstackRead Dan Savage's column, listen to Savage Lovecast, learn more about the HUMP! Festival and more here.Follow Zachary Zane on Instagram: @zacharyzane_Pick up Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto
We're breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto". We cover: What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi Labels in life and social media What queerbaiting actually means [Episode 137 on Youtube] Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Columnist, author, tall bisexual. Zachary Zane from Men's Health Magazine has got it all. And he's here to talk about his new book, "Boyslut" to recount all of the shenanigans and trouble that slutdom has led him to. Tim gets hot under the collar. Boy is flustered in the presence of sexiness.Website______________________________________________________________________________Use code SEXEDWITHTIM for awesome discounts!Get 15% all regular-priced items off when you shop at Love ShopKink closet need a glow-up? Head to dalekuda.com for 25% off your entire purchase plus free shipping.Friends of the pod:Honey Play BoxFleshjackInya RoseLe WandLovehoneyHot OctopussWet For HerAdam & EveBabeland______________________________________________________________________________Email: timlagman@sexedwithtim.comInstagram: @sexedwithtimFacebook: Sex Ed With TimTwitter: and @sexedwithtimVoicemail: SpeakpipeVisit my website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Send us a Text Message.In this lively interview with bisexual mega influencer and Men's Health columnist Zachary Zane, he discusses Boyslut, his recent book, now in paperback, that chronicles his sexual journey, as well as how to live a more shame-free, sex-positive life. [Rebroadcast]Get tix to our Chicago Pride Show on Friday, June 28, 8pm!Help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity! Leave a tip for our work or join our monthly Patreon members' club!In this episode:Zachary Zane - author and sex columnist Boyslut, the book. Get it at Bookshop, our affiliate partner!Are you looking for…?A Wild & Sublime giftEpisodes on specific topicsBooks on sex and relationshipsBuzzsprout bonus! Thinking of starting your own podcast? Buzzsprout can help you create, host and promote it! Plus lots of useful tools and resources to streamline the process! Use our affiliate link for $20 off!Want to rev up your relationship? Host Karen Yates, a somatic intimacy coach, gives you easy tools to put into practice right away with her free guide: Say It Better in Bed! 3 Proven Ways to Improve Intimate Communication. Download today!Want to be Wild & Sublime out in the world? Check out our tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection to make a sexy statement.GET TICKETS to our Friday June 28 8pm Pride Show at Hungry Brain Chicago. Sponsored by Rowan Tree Counseling.Support the Show.Follow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
Original Air Date: May 22, 2023Kayla is joined by sex activist, columnist, and author Zachary Zane to discuss his personal journey in healing from sexual shame and living with OCD as a bisexual man. If you're ready to get out of your comfort zone and also have some laughs along the way, listen in to expand not just your mind but vocabulary to unpack social stigmas surrounding sexual desire. Follow ZachZach's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/?hl=enCheck out “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/boyslut-zachary-zane/1141910850 Follow Us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/directionallychallenged__/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This week on Big Dating Energy, Jeff welcomes Zachary Zane to the podcast. Zachary wears many hats–columnist, author, speaker, and sex expert. His book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto offers a vulnerable and informative exploration of sexuality, societal norms, and serves as a call to everyone let go of sexual shame. He is also the founder and editor-in-chief of Boyslut Zine. With columns in Men's Health and Cosmopolitan, Zachary encourages readers to understand and embrace who they really are, free from all those pesky societal messages. He's also just a really thoughtful person and a great storyteller. This is a good one. Get into it.Listen to Jeff's podcast Problem Solved here: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Follow Zachary Zane on Instagram: @zacharyzane_Pick up Boyslut: A Memoir and ManifestoKeep up with all things Zachary Zane: https://linktr.ee/zacharyzanePre-order your copy of Big Dating EnergyDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.
In today's episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game.First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ :from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life! Then, The Builder:from Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes! Fucking yourself in the ass as a way to warm yourself up and clean yourself out before a play night. (3:20)Squirt juice facials with a side of hot sweaty squirty sex. (9:24)Spitting on your partner and into their mouth. (16:01)For men, the balance of being forward yet also needing to read the room correctly. (19:45)Enthusiastic consent in straight play spaces versus opt-out consent in gay spaces. (22:42)Prostate play and how to have a prostate orgasm. (25:10)Leaking prostate juices and toys for prostate play: nJoy and anal hook discussed. (29:14) Airtight: the benefits of each position. (38:26)"Running a train". (44:19) Experiences meeting people on ENM or swinger apps. (50:15)Working through catfishing and making real connections on dating apps. (54:48) Where do you meet dates, and what do you do dates with a unicorn or another couple? (59:59)Full head mask during sex and latex fetish experience. (1:03:03)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
In this minisode, hear snippets from some of our fav queer trailblazers. Zachary Zane reminds us that yes--you ARE bi enough, while Jamie and Shaaba share their experiences of finding radical support through sharing their queer journeys online Hear the full episodes: Coming Out As Bisexual with "Boyslut" Author, Zachary Zane Sharing Your LGBTQ+ Journey with The World with YouTubers, Jamie Raines PhD (@Jammidodger) and Shaaba Raines PhD (@Shaaba)
Ever wondered how self-judgment and outdated stereotypes can throw a wrench in our love lives? Tune in to this fascinating episode with Rachel Burch, one of Heather's besties, as we get real about cougaring, age differences, and what it takes to forge genuine connections at any stage of life. No “age is just a number” cliches—we promise—just raw, hilarious insights from two women who aren't afraid to challenge norms.
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people. Being “closeted” as a sex positive swinger. (3:42)Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12)From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13)Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46)Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44)Common myths or misrepresentations of bisexuals. (27:28)Overcoming sexual shame and coming out as bi. (34:05)How to come into your own and overcome shame: finding your people, and identifying who or what is trying to shame you. (38:54)Polyamory. (45:05)The challenges of being biexual. (46:55)Trans party Inferno. (49:43)Sexy threesome story, MMF vs MFM, and having sex with people who are on the same page as you. (51:24)How to channel your inner Boyslut! (1:01:54)Links:ZacharyZane.comZachary Zane on InstagramSupport the showInstagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWhoreible Life: Get 10% off your pack with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.comWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!
Unshaming and celebrating our sexuality is an essential step toward self-acceptance. In this deeply personal episode, I share my story of sexual liberation while also exploring the societal pressures that often repress sexual expression and how overcoming these can lead to personal growth and fulfillment. We dive into 3 books that helped me shift my limited perspectives and own my true desires — "Sex Outside the Lines" by Chris Donaghue, "Boyslut" by Zachary Zane, and "Pleasure Activism" by Adrienne Maree Brown.
Joined once again by the fabulous Zachary Zane, we're diving deep into these taboo topics with humor, honesty, and a whole lot of sass. From breaking down bisexual stereotypes to exploring the dynamics of throat-fucing, expert anal tips and navigating the complexities of unprotected sex, this episode is a rollercoaster of exploration and revelation. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting "In Bed With Alexa." Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2350-alexa To watch the unedited version and read all about my dating life, consider joining my Patreon!
Get ready for some juicy details as Zachary Zane and I spill the tea and take you behind the scenes of our wild adventure at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica —expect all the fun, frolics, and a few surprises! Join the laughter as we dish on everything we got up to, and share our thoughts on who these spaces are perfect for (or maybe not so much). Discover why being surrounded by an amazing community of bisexual folks made this experience so unforgettable. A special thank you to our incredible sponsor, Beducated, for supporting "In Bed With Alexa." Beducated is committed to empowering individuals on their sexual wellness journey with expert-led courses that foster intimacy, communication, and pleasure. Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 60% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up: https://beducate.me/pd2350-alexa To watch the unedited version and read all about my dating life, consider joining my Patreon!
Jason and Brett talk to sexpert Zachary Zane (Boyslut) about bisexuality, kinks, overcoming shame, and the importance of talking openly and honestly about sexual expression in its many forms. In case the title of the episode doesn't make it clear: sex comes up a lot in this episode. Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ+ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto. He's also the coauthor of Men's Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He has two columns: “Sexplain It” the sex and relationship advice column at Men's Health and “Navigating Non-Monogamy” at Cosmo, where he shares all the mistakes he's made in his polyamory journey, so you don't have to. He is also the founder and editor in chief of Boyslut zine, which publishes real sex stories from kinksters worldwide. His work on sexuality and relationships has been published in the New York Times, Rolling Stone, the Washington Post, GQ, OUT, and many others.**BOOKS!** Check out the list of books discussed on each episode on our Bookshop page:https://bookshop.org/shop/gaysreading | By purchasing books through this Bookshop link, you can support both Gays Reading and an independent bookstore of your choice!Join our Patreon for exclusive bonus content! Purchase your Gays Reading podcast Merch! Follow us on Instagram @gaysreading | @bretts.book.stack | @jasonblitmanWhat are you reading? Send us an email or a voice memo at gaysreading@gmail.com
PARENTAL ADVISORY: Join Jonny and his panel of Queer Readers (Ian Kelly, Andrew Mark Carlos and Dave Walton) as they discuss their experiences reading the book BoySlut by Zachary Zane. There is far too much to discuss in one episode, but tune in and BUY THE BOOK!
This week we're putting our sluttiest foot forward and pussing ourselves OUT THERE by learning how to be hot sluts. Lucky for us, Zachary Zane aka The Boyslut, is here to teach us how. Zach is a sex expert, advice columnist, and author who is here to help you embrace your inner slut. We cover: What it means to be a slut (it's empowering af) Finding your slutty confidence Zachary's journey to becoming a slut Slutty mantras to live by What if you want to be a slut but you also catch feelings? How to embrace your slutiness and feel into it ALL DAY LONG Connect with Zach: Buy his book "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto" HERE! Visit his website HERE Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
We discuss an article from PRIDE Magazine titled "13 Non-Sexual Reasons You Should Date A Kinkster" written by Zachary Zane and Andrew J. Stillman. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Affiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Cancerphase.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Visit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pinkkink/message
In this playful and deliciously provocative episode brilliant writer, sex expert and activist Zachary Zane joins us to discuss all things bisexuality. We dive into everything from the differences between bisexuality to other orientations to Zachary's own journey in uncovering and embodying his ultimate bi (and often empowered slutty) self. About our guest: Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, sex expert, and activist whose work focuses on sexuality, culture, and the LGBTQ community. He is the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto and co-author of Men's Health: Best. Sex. Ever. He writes “Sexplain It,” the sex and relationship advice column at Men's Health, and “Navigating Non-Monogamy,” the polyamorous relationship column at Cosmopolitan. He is editor-in-chief of the BOYSLUT Zine, which publishes nonfiction erotica from kinksters across the globe. His work has been featured in New York Times, Rolling Stone, Washington Post, Playboy, and more. To learn more go to zacharyzane.com Pre-order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com and get free access to our online workshop How to Pamper Your Partner for every book preorder (offer/workshop is exclusive to preorders). Other links: Get 20% off The Personal Massager by Butter Wellness when you go to butterwellness.com and use the code “SHAMELESS” at checkout Get 50% off some of our new favorite THC and CBD products with code SHAMELESS at dietsmoke.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com
This week host Negin Farsad is joined by a pair of her funniest friends, Selena Coppock and Zachary Zane, as they recap episodes 3 & 4 of The Golden Bachelor. They all discuss Joan's sudden departure, Kathy's conniving, and who they think will win Gerry in the end.——Rate Fake The Nation 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave us a review!Follow Negin Farsad on TwitterEmail Negin fakethenation@headgum.comSupport her Patreon ——Host - Negin Farsad——Producer - Andrew McGuire——Theme Music - Gaby AlterSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Apply for a no-pressure "Ignite Your Intimacy" breakthrough call with Heather to get her top 3 recommendations to enhance your sex life - https://heathershannon.co/video-page/ You'll also learn about her "Intimacy Infusion" transformational coaching program.~In this episode, join Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist, Dr. Heidi A. Sauder, and I for a fun primer on incorporating more adventure into your sex life . . . and even on talking to your kids about sex!Heidi has written a practical and fun workbook called Adventures In Sex (endorsed by Dr John Gottman from the Gottman Institute) that will help you become your own sexpert. We'll discuss the importance of open conversations about sex, the impact of communication and education on relationships, and the various transitions that occur in our sex lives.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN:- How to start conversations around sex and sexuality- The importance of incorporating novelty in your sex life, especially in a long-term relationship- How to explore new ways to enhance self-pleasure.- Using this workbook to educate your teens about sexuality and their bodies.LET'S CONNECT! FIND HEATHER HERE ⤵️:Heather's Website & Free Gifts - https://HeatherShannon.co/FreebiesHeather's Instagram - https://instagram.com/AskASexTherapistHeather's YouTube - Check out the video version of this podcast & more! - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHeUNWJIkOPSK6-Bwvf0EOwCONNECT WITH OUR GUEST:Learn more about Dr. Heidi Sauder's group practice - https://enrichcenter.org/staff/heidi-a-sauder-ph-dGrab your copy of Adventures in Sex: Journaling to Create Desire, Passion, Romance...and a Fun Sex Life - https://amzn.to/3Rye1q0SIMILAR EPISODES:039 - Male Bisexuality and Being a Boyslut with Zachary Zane https://pod.fo/e/1e36be043 Exploring Findom Kinks with Dr Kate Balestrieri - https://pod.fo/e/1ecfaaRATE & REVIEW US!Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here. https://podfollow.com/AskASexTherapistThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis:Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrpThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacyPodtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp
Zachary (32 bisexual polyamorous kinkster and author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto)
Zach has a great sex life—it's sex positive and sexy and slutty and bisexual and kinky, there are glory holes, gay clubs, daisy chains and nipple play, he's hosted bukkakes and gang bangs and cum dumps, he has tons of casual sex (catch him when he's horny!), deeply intimate sex and novel and hardcore sex, prostate play makes him shoot “like a fucking geyser,” and people tell him things like, “I want you to fuck my gay husband.” If we can get his book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto on The NY Times top 100 we might get him to do some porn-y stuff on onlyfans, but for now he's busy writing—for Men's Health and Cosmo and his extremely raunchy Boyslut Zine, and he joins Wyoh to talk about how he went from a 10 to a 1 on the shame-o-meter (for details, read Boyslut), what it's like to live in a sex-positive world where friend hangs turn into orgies, going from thinking he was going to die a virgin to celebrating his bisexuality and frolicking on Sniffies, how hot owning his desires and creating a space for partners to do the same has been, what it's like to travel to different sex resorts and write about it for work—which leads to stories like getting beckoned over by a cougar. Zach's risk tolerance includes a schedule of regular testing and a fair amount of barrier-free fucking, and he reflects on learning about sex via the media coverage of Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky, and shares stories of early anxiety, judgement and shame spirals that affected his boners until he learned to say, “hey, I might not get hard.” He talks about first exclusively topping, a bad first experience bottoming that led to anal fissures, how it took a woman to get him to enjoy anal, the five years he spent getting drunk and hooking up with guys until his therapist asked him a pointed question about his “bi confusion.” Zach talks about getting paid to perform live sex acts at clubs, hooking up with and paying sex workers, how he decides what to share with whom and when in terms of his sex-related work, his messy intro to poly and his observations around the generational and locational differences in various non-monogamous communities, and how he went from getting his PhD in clinical psychology and working in smoking cessation to writing from a bi perspective for a bi perspective. He wants everyone to know that they are normal and there's nothing to be ashamed of. He leaves Wyoh with a tease of what's next (bisexual RomCom YES PLEASE) and a giant sexy jacuzzi fantasy.
Liz chats with Zachary Zane writer of "Boy Slut" memoir, Boy Slut zine and columnist for Men's Health Magazine and Cosmopolitan about bisexual men, polyamory, bathhouses, and more! Connect with Zachary: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/ Website: https://www.zacharyzane.com/ Connect with Liz: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listentoliz415 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listentoliz/ , https://www.instagram.com/coolcoolcool/ For exclusive content, support Liz on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/listentoliz
In Episode 54, we are joined by author and bisexual icon, Zachary Zane, of the book Boyslut. We talk about bisexual men, biphobia, and bisexual audibility. We discuss sexual shame, sexual risk, and the complexities of consent. An unabashedly pro-sex, pro-desire writer, Zachary shines light on what men-who-fuck-men communities can teach the rest of us. This is three thirsty bisexuals talking shit. Absolutely iconic. SHOW NOTES Boyslut, the book Boyslut, the zine Zachary Zane's instagram Follow Fucking Cancelled on Patreon & Instagram. Find merch on our BigCartel. Also check out Clementine's website and Jay's website. Theme song by ST x LIAM. Mixing and editing by Charlotte Dora. Free transcripts are added on Patreon as they become available.
On a new TAGSPODCAST aka Talk About Gay Sex podcast, Host Steve V. is joined by Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette to revisit a couple of favorite interviews from TAGS LIVE. Up first we revisit our interview with Frank Smith who talks about his scintillating, fun and provocative web series "Open to It". Help Frank out raise funds to film EP'S 10-12. $15 or $30 goes along way! https://www.opentoitseries.com/Next we revisit our conversation with Zachary Zane talking about his current book, "Boy Slut". This juicy memoir is a must to wrap up your Summer season!Follow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevevFollow Kodi's Life Coaching on IG: @kmdcoachingFollow Kodi on IG: @mistahmauriceJoin us Oct. 29 - Nov. 5 for VACAYA's 2023 Mexico Resort vacation Use our Promo Code: TAGS and get up to $200 off! https://www.myvacaya.com/trip/mexico-resort-2023/Wanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS!Visit our website: tagspodcast.comNeeds some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contactSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/talk-about-gay-sex-tagspodcast/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Let's talk about male bisexuality, biphobia, role-modeling mental health and have a raunchy, fun time with Zachary Zane. He's an advice writer and the author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto.1:00 a book about bisexuality and shame3:00 having OCD as a child and now6:00 mental health and spirituality10:00 bisexuality and stigma13:00 not enjoying sex due to stress16:00 a darn good therapist session20:00 how do you role model healthy male sexuality?25:00 tips on coming out to family members 28:00 more discussion on this ^31:00 how to address my gf's biphobia34:00 Bi-Men, By Women book38:00 if they aren't 100% enthusiastic, maybe avoid them42:00 real non-fiction erotica stories46:00 theragun in the butt story49:00 Boyslut things and projects52:00 cancel culture vs call-ins 55:00 any sex tips for our audience?Find our guest on ZacharyZane.comListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon't sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)
Welcome to Season 6 of Two Bi Guys! Our premiere episode features Zachary Zane, back for his second Two Bi Guys interview, and we discussed his awesome new "memoir and manifesto", BOYSLUT.We chatted about sexual shame, the relationship between porn and queerness, kinks, fetishes, dom/sub dynamics, Zach's book tour and the surprising "controversies" that have popped up, the joys of anal stimulation -- when done correctly (and how to do that), why it can be beneficial to come out if you're married and monogamous, unlearning what society teaching us about sex, rejection, therapy, lube, and much more!Can't get enough? There are 20 extra minutes of bonus content with Zach on my new Patreon (found here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=48796855 -- or find the link in our social media bio). There, we talked about Zach's pornstar boyfriend, our thoughts on starting our own OnlyFans (and possible collaboration...), sexual queerness v. cultural queerness, non-monogamy and polyamory, and the play parties Zach has been hosting in NYC, Boyslut and Bislut. Thanks for listening!
Calling all bi babes! Join us for an amazing conversation with Zachary Zane, author of "Boy Slut." DB and Zach discuss her bisexual awakening, the challenges and privileges that come with being bisexual, and the power of vulnerability in sharing personal stories. Zachary generously shares his journey of understanding his sexuality and the impact of his public persona on his decision to be open about it. The conversation extends to the intricacies of bisexuality and pansexuality, the nuances of non-monogamous relationships, and the importance of community and queer spaces. Don't miss this one! —— (0:14:13) - Sexual Identity and Vulnerability (0:19:30) - Claiming Bisexuality (0:23:37) - Bisexual Versus Pansexual (0:42:43) - Importance of Finding Community Find more from Zachary Zane: https://www.zacharyzane.com/ Zachary Zane is a Brooklyn-based columnist, author, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture. He's ecstatic to share that my book Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto is out now! Through the lens of his bisexuality and self-described sluttiness, he breaks down exactly how sexual shame negatively impacts our lives, and how we can unlearn the harmful, entrenched messages that society imparts to us. —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Want to get in touch with Sex Ed with DB? Email us at sexedwithdb@gmail.com. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den, Uberlube, Magic Wand, and Future Method. Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! —— About Sex Ed with DB: Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more. —— Sex Ed with DB, Season 8 Team: Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) Producer and Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen Associate Producer: Sadie Lidji Marketing Coordinator: Kate Fiala
Today, we're talking about the ins-and-outs of this double strike and what AI has to do with it. We'll also talk about Canadians and their connections to social media and we'll also define the latest internet trend, "Girl Dinner." Joining us to break all of this down is host of the podcast, Fraudsters, Seena Ghaznavi, as well as sex columnist, Zachary Zane! ——Thank you to this week's sponsors: Miracle Brand - Go to TryMiracle.com/FAKETHENATION and use the code "FAKETHENATION" to claim your FREE 3 PIECE TOWEL SET and SAVE over 40% OFF. ——Rate Fake The Nation 5-stars on Apple Podcasts and leave us a review! Follow Negin Farsad on Twitter Email Negin fakethenation@headgum.com Support her Patreon ——Host - Negin Farsad ——Producer - Andrew McGuire ——Theme Music - Gaby AlterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
On a new TAGS LIVE aka Talk About Gay Podcast the live edition, Host Steve V. and Co-host Kodi Maurice Doggette are back with all new hot topics, gay sex topics plus they welcome their Special Guest, Zachary Zane to talk new book, BOYSLUT, bisexuality and more!Follow up on Troye Sivan's sexy video for 'Rush' and the lack of body diversity that some are calling out...Follow up on being spontaneous and being spontaneous in the bedroom...Bachelorette alumni Josh Seiter on being 75% straight and 25% into men plus his Only Fans and upcoming adult content...Zachary Zane joins the show to talk new book, BOYSLUT, bisexuality, and more! Thirst Trap! Visit ZacharyZane.comGet BOYSLUT on AmazonFollow Zachary Zane on IG: @zacharyzaneFollow Steve V. on IG: @iam_stevevFollow Kodi's Life Coaching on IG: @kmdcoachingFollow Kodi on IG: @mistahmauriceTAGSPODCAST is Sponsored by Better Help. Get 10% Off your first month. Visit: BetterHelp.com/tagsJOYMODE is your pre-workout for sex! Spice things up in the bedroom and do it safely. Try JOYMODE and get 20% Off your first order with us. Go to usejoymode.com/TAGSWanna drop a weekly or one time tip to TAGSPODCAST - Show your love for the show and support TAGS!Visit our website: tagspodcast.comNeeds some advice for a sex or relationship conundrum? Ask TAGS! DM US ON IG or https://www.talkaboutgaysex.com/contactSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/talk-about-gay-sex-tagspodcast/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Zachary Zane, author of Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto stopped by to talk about bisexual sluttiness, rejecting bi assimilationism, and his hairy butthole. We had a ton of fun breaking down bi stereotypes and bringing some bi chaos to pride month. Join Patreon at $11/month to get the complete interview here, as well as access to the archives of interviews with discussions ranging from how to find a sex positive therapist, to how to navigate your local kink scene, to the scientific origins of masochism. Oh yeah, and my only public recorded convo with Mr. Dune. Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad
A bi-for-bi open marriage, crossdressing, and a series of passionate artistic love affairs — no, it's not 2023, it's 1923! On this month's pride minisode I'm bringing you the story of bisexual it girl Vita Sackville-West, and the letters that made her a queer icon. The Fabulous Forgotten Life Of Vita Sackville-West Our next Deep Dive with bisexual author Zachary Zane is on 6/7 at 5 pacific. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends, Join Patreon starting at $5/month! Miss the Friday Q&As? They live on here & are totally free and public. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Go here for information on how to record a voice memo Subscribe to the subby substack here. Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad
Kaya is joined by sex activist, columnist, and author Zachary Zane to discuss his personal journey in healing from sexual shame and living with OCD as a bisexual man. If you're ready to get out of your comfort zone and also have some laughs along the way, listen in to expand not just your mind but vocabulary to unpack social stigmas surrounding sexual desire. Follow ZachZach's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacharyzane_/?hl=enCheck out “Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto”: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/boyslut-zachary-zane/1141910850 Follow Us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/directionallychallenged__/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
You slutty scholars deserve more stuttiness! This episode welcomes back columnist, sex expert, and activist Zachary Zane. We talk about how to handle rejection from both sides, face sitting, and Zachary teases us with an excerpt from his newly released book Boyslut! Don't miss his book tour and order your copy today! https://www.zacharyzane.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced by Sluts & Scholars Media, LLC. It is a shame free educational podcast made for your entertainment and informational desires only. The podcast, any opinions we share, and any resources including social media and emails from us are not therapy, medical care or professional advice and do not create a patient-client relationship. None of the information, opinions, suggestions, resources or exercises mentioned in this podcast should be used without clearance from your health care provider. All opinions, information and ideas expressed by the guests are solely their own. If you need emergency mental health or medical help, please call 911 or 988 or go to your nearest emergency center. We hope you enjoy the show.
This week we are joined by author and sex columnist Zachary Zane to talk his latest book "Boy Slut: A Memoir & Manifesto". We begin with a quick catch up before diving into an exercise that helps combat premature ejaculation. Happen to have a throw-up kink? Well Zachary shares how to make deep-throat puking a fun time before keeping it spicy with a wild threesome story. Bi-sexuality takes over the conversation as Zachary shares his experience being a bi-sexual man and what his experience has been. Follow this week's guest on IG @zacharyzane_ & be sure to purchase his book "Boy Slut: A Memoir & Manifest" wherever you purchase books Available May 9th Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pages Instagram @whoreible_decisions Twitter @whoreiblepod Don't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions Want some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COMSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ever wondered if there's more to your sexuality than you ever realized? Or relationship models that challenge everything you're used to? Men's Health and Cosmo sex columnist Zachary Zane has been there. As a self-proclaimed “boyslut,” he's radically open about his journey as a bisexual, polyamorous man and tells all in his forthcoming book: BOYSLUT: A Memoir and Manifesto. He shares how he came to understand his attraction to all genders, his experience living in a polycule, why it's healthy for all of us to get used to rejection, and how bisexuality for men is gaining more visibility. He also helps me answer your questions on exploring bisexuality while in a long-term relationship, how to respond if you're in a hetero relationship and your partner tells you they're bisexual, and how to find casual, no strings attached sex.Show Notes:Ask Emily: What is a Penis Ring and Why Should I Use It?The Sexiest Morning Routine EverPRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your PleasureSMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto: Bookshop | AmazonMore Zachary Zane: Website | Instagram | Twitter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Allison's dead grandma is emailing her. A listener writes in to ask if they can still use weed for their mental health even though their therapist doesn't approve. Gabe reveals the reasons they got a new therapist who specializes in autism. Then author Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk about his book Boyslut, his life as a bisexual polyamorous man, and his OCD. He is basically Gabe and Allison's son. And finally, all the sexy secrets and friendship fun from Allison's Bachelorette weekend! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign up for Forever Dog Plus at foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus And make sure to follow us on Twitter, instagram and Facebook at ForeverDogTeam to keep up with all of the latest Forever Dog News
Allison's dead grandma is emailing her. A listener writes in to ask if they can still use weed for their mental health even though their therapist doesn't approve. Gabe reveals the reasons they got a new therapist who specializes in autism. Then author Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk about his book Boyslut, his life as a bisexual polyamorous man, and his OCD. He is basically Gabe and Allison's son. And finally, all the sexy secrets and friendship fun from Allison's Bachelorette weekend! This has been a Forever Dog production Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production by Coco Llorens Executive produced by Brett Boham, Joe Cilio, and Alex Ramsey. To listen to this podcast ad-free Sign up for Forever Dog Plus at foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus And make sure to follow us on Twitter, instagram and Facebook at ForeverDogTeam to keep up with all of the latest Forever Dog News Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices