"Come On Man" Podcast

Discover the secret to becoming irresistible to women when you're not available. Learn how to create an aura of mystery and confidence that draws women to you, even when you're not actively pursuing them. Understand the psychology behind why women are attracted to men who are not available and how you can use this to your advantage. Get insights into the art of subtle flirting, building anticipation, and creating a sense of intrigue that will leave women wanting more. Whether you're looking to improve your dating life or simply want to understand the dynamics of attraction, this video will reveal the surprising truth about what makes you irresistible to women when you're not available.

Most men destroy their marriages not through weakness—but through anger. In this episode, discover why “going Rambo” ruins attraction and how calm, steady leadership rebuilds respect. Learn how resentment, performance, and forced alpha energy backfire, and why true masculine power comes from quiet consistency. The 1000-foot rope metaphor reveals how to repair a sexless, distant marriage by setting the tone, controlling your emotions, and becoming the man she can trust again.

Most men drift through life without purpose—stuck in indecision, distraction, and fear. This video exposes Napoleon Hill's “Outwitting the Devil” concept and how drifting destroys focus, freedom, and success. Learn how to overcome procrastination, mental manipulation, and weak habits by developing self discipline, courage, and clear purpose. Discover how faith, intention, and decisive action make you immune to fear—and why most men never break free.

Discover the signs that indicate if she's the one worth dating long term. In this video, we'll explore the key characteristics and qualities to look out for in a partner that can make a relationship last. Learn how to identify if your girlfriend has the potential to be your lifelong companion and build a strong, healthy relationship together. Whether you're in a new relationship or have been dating for a while, this video will provide you with valuable insights to help you make an informed decision about your partner. Find out if she's the one worth investing your time and emotions in, and get closer to finding your perfect match.

You won't believe some of these marriage laws are still on the books. From states banning “mystical” officiants to laws forbidding husbands from kissing their wives on Sundays—these outdated rules reveal how absurd and restrictive marriage can be. We'll explore 20 of the dumbest marriage laws across America and why every man should understand the legal side before saying “I do.” Modern marriage isn't just emotional—it's a legal contract with consequences.

The world doesn't reward fairness — it rewards power. In this live stream, learn how to build a Dark Triad mental frame rooted in narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Discover how to master emotional detachment, project confidence, and influence others without effort. We'll break down Machiavellian strategy, narcissistic confidence, and the psychology of fear so you can command respect and never compete for it again.

Status didn't save Tom Brady, Jason Momoa, Brad Pitt, or Will Smith — and it won't save you either. In this livestream, we break down why fame, success, and money can't hold a woman's attraction without frame and game. Learn how masculine presence, emotional control, and leadership create lasting respect. If you've ever wondered why high-status men still lose women, this episode explains everything they won't teach you about real attraction.

Most men lose power in relationships without realizing it. In this episode, we break down how to get your needs met by regaining control of your frame, not through arguments or begging, but through action and presence. Learn the truth about dread, attraction, and leadership. Discover how confidence, scarcity, and self-improvement reignite respect and desire. This is about becoming the prize, not pleading for it.

Discover the impact of constantly sharing your problems with others on your relationships and personal growth. Learn how oversharing can affect your mental health and well-being, and find out when it's necessary to open up to others and when it's better to keep things to yourself. Explore the fine line between seeking support and becoming a burden to those around you. Get ready to gain a new perspective on the importance of boundaries and self-reflection in maintaining healthy relationships and achieving emotional balance.

There are 10 things you should NEVER let women know about you when dating — because once you reveal them, attraction and respect start to disappear. Most men overshare without realizing it, and it costs them everything.In this video, we'll uncover the 10 secrets you must protect if you want to maintain mystery, power, and control in your relationships. You'll learn why women lose interest when you share too much, how to avoid common mistakes men make when opening up, and what to do instead to keep her chasing you.

Why are modern relationships collapsing? In this exclusive John Gray interview, bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus reveals why women today struggle in love due to feminism, masculine energy, and hormonal imbalance. We discuss his new book Be Happy With or Without a Man, rising divorce rates among lesbians, why women file most divorces, and how men can protect themselves in modern dating. Learn the truth about communication, emotional balance, and why women may be the problem in relationships.Find Dr. Gray at https://www.marsvenus.com/

Women constantly test men, and most fail because they break frame for short-term validation. In this episode, we unpack the secrets of masculine frame, how to project alpha energy, and why holding your reality matters more than anything. Discover how dominance hierarchies, emotional control, patience, and leadership shape attraction. If you're over 30 and serious about success in relationships, this is the ultimate guide to frame control, dating dynamics, and earning respect without losing power.

Men debate if women's body count matters, but here's the truth: her sexual past does impact her ability to pair bond, stay loyal, and build long-term connection. The problem is you will never know her real number—women lie, minimize, and hide it. Obsessing only kills your frame. Instead, focus on how she treats you today, her respect, her loyalty, and her consistency. Stop pedestalizing her past and start evaluating her present behavior. That's where your real power lies.

Discover the truth behind the age-old tradition of men paying the bills in long-term relationships. Is it still expected for men to cover the costs, or have times changed? Watch as we dive into the dynamics of modern relationships and explore the financial responsibilities of both partners. From dating to marriage, we'll examine the evolving roles of men and women in covering expenses and whether the traditional norm still applies. Join the conversation and share your thoughts on this sensitive topic.

Discover the secrets to maintaining a strong masculine frame in today's society. In this video, we'll explore the key characteristics and traits that make a man maintain his masculine frame, and how it can impact his relationships, career, and overall well-being. Learn how to develop the confidence, self-discipline, and emotional intelligence needed to embody a strong masculine presence. Whether you're looking to improve your personal relationships, advance in your career, or simply become a better version of yourself, this video will provide you with valuable insights and practical advice on how to maintain a strong masculine frame. Tune in to learn more about the importance of masculine frame and how it can benefit your life.

Women reveal more than they realize when they're falling for you. From eye contact and touch to emotional investment and subtle tests, attraction shows up in hidden signals. In this video, learn how to spot the signs she wants more, avoid confusing friendliness with desire, and understand the psychology of real attraction so you never miss her interest again.

Discover the truth behind the sigma male phenomenon and whether it's just a facade for beta males in disguise. In this thought-provoking video, we explore the concept of sigma males and their supposed characteristics, and examine if they are truly a distinct group or just beta males coping with their circumstances. Join the discussion as we dive into the world of male archetypes and uncover the reality behind the sigma male label. Are sigma males the true lone wolves they claim to be, or are they just beta males trying to fit in? Watch to find out and share your thoughts in the comments below.

Discover how the principles of Stoicism can be applied to prevent violence and promote peace in the wake of tragic events like Charlie Kirk's assassination. Explore the potential for men to use Stoic philosophy as a tool for personal growth, self-reflection, and non-violent conflict resolution. Learn how the teachings of Stoicism can help individuals develop emotional resilience, empathy, and a stronger sense of justice, ultimately contributing to a more harmonious and peaceful society. Join the conversation and find out how men can use Stoicism to stop violence and create positive change.

Discover your worth in the dating scene with this insightful video, where we explore the concept of dating market value for men. Understanding your dating market value can significantly impact your relationships and dating experiences. In this video, we delve into what determines a man's dating market value, how it affects their love life, and provide valuable tips on how to improve yours. Whether you're looking to boost your confidence, enhance your dating profile, or simply understand the dynamics of the dating world, this video is for you. Learn how to navigate the dating market with confidence and find meaningful connections. Watch until the end to gain a deeper understanding of your dating market value and how to leverage it to achieve your relationship goals.

Think being “nice” keeps her interested? Wrong. Most men sabotage attraction without realizing it. From seeking constant approval to overlooking warning signs, these are the most damaging relationship mistakes men make. If you want respect, desire, and loyalty that lasts, you must understand the hidden behaviors that quietly destroy connection. In this video we expose why so many men fail in love and what you can do differently to build strength, confidence, and a relationship she truly values.

Why do bad boys get women while nice guys are ignored? In this video I break down why assertiveness, boundaries, and a dominant masculine presence make men more attractive than passive behavior. Learn how confidence, frame, and masculine energy create real attraction and why strong male leadership separates alpha men from frustrated beta males in today's dating market.

Most men today are stuck as frustrated beta males with no frame, no game, and no chance in dating. In a world where 75% of men are overweight or obese, just being fit already puts you in the top 25%. Learn alpha traits like game and frame to rise into the top 5–10% of men in today's dating market.

When a woman settles, it's not love—it's survival. Resentment grows, intimacy fades, and you become her Plan B. Learn the signs she's settling for you, why respect matters more than comfort, and how to become the man women admire instead of the man they tolerate.

Warning signs of simp behavior are everywhere—and most men don't even realize they're doing it. In this livestream we'll break down how to avoid simp behavior, reprogram weak instincts, and hold a strong mental frame that keeps respect and attraction alive. If you've ever asked yourself why women test men, why respect disappears when you act needy, or how to stop being a simp once and for all, this is your playbook. We'll cover the core of red pill mindset, how to build self respect, why boundaries matter in relationships, and practical dating advice for men over 30 who want stronger results with women. You'll learn how to spot signs you are simping, how to replace weak mindset habits with self mastery, and how to keep your masculine frame in modern dating. Don't waste another date with behaviors that kill attraction—discover how to upgrade your mindset today.

Dating single moms does not make you a cuck. In this livestream we break down one of the most debated topics in the red pill space: should men date single moms? Some gurus argue that being with a woman who has kids automatically makes you a stepdad, but that's not the truth. We'll explore the original meaning of cuckoldry, why boundaries matter, and how men can date single moms successfully without losing their frame. We'll cover who should absolutely avoid dating single moms, why single dads often make the best matches, and how parenting plans and timing affect the success of these relationships. For men over 30, understanding hypergamy, frame, and attraction dynamics is key if you want to avoid costly mistakes and actually enjoy dating women with kids. Loyalty, confidence, and boundaries determine success—not old stigmas.

You can love her, stay loyal, and still watch her attraction fade. In this livestream we're unpacking hypergamy, frame, and why loyalty alone doesn't protect a man in marriage. Too many men over 30 give everything yet lose desire and respect at home. We'll explore how betatization erodes attraction, why wives test boundaries, and what it takes to maintain frame in long term relationships. You'll learn practical tools rooted in male sexual strategy—like dread, abundance mindset, and rebuilding masculine presence—that stop attraction from collapsing. This isn't theory, it's the raw truth men need if they want lasting intimacy, respect, and connection in marriage. Discover how to stop giving away your power, how to recognize when you're slipping, and how to reclaim the qualities that make you desirable again.

Attraction dies when a man forgets his frame. In this episode we uncover how Red Pill awareness reshapes your dating mindset, destroys the soulmate myth, and exposes why hypergamy is a permanent factor in attraction.

If she loses interest fast, it's not your looks or money—it's your vibe. Women respond to play, humor, and outcome independence more than logic. In this episode, discover how playful flirting tips, teasing without being mean, and creating a separate reality ignite attraction. We'll cover why outcome independence dating keeps you relaxed and confident, how mystery in attraction makes you unforgettable, and how roleplay, humor, and playful touch escalation spark desire. Stop over-investing early, start being the prize, and use seduction through storytelling and spontaneous adventures to keep her hooked. Learn confidence through fun, spinning plates to kill neediness, and playful banter examples that pass tests with ease. If you want to know how to keep attraction alive, exude relaxed energy, and flirt playfully while maintaining curiosity, this is your roadmap to becoming the man women chase.

Why do women detach so quickly, rewrite history, and ignore a man's sacrifices? The answer lies in solipsism — the subconscious lens that shapes how many women see relationships. In this episode, we break down solipsism in dating, why women test men, and how hypergamy and shifting standards reframe attraction. If you've ever wondered why she seemed indifferent after a breakup, why intimacy felt like leverage, or why your sacrifices went unnoticed, this will give you the missing piece. We'll cover solipsism psychology, survival mechanisms, entitlement mindset, and how to maintain your frame in relationships. For men over 30 who want dating clarity, attraction strategies, and relationship advice, understanding solipsism is essential. Learn why women project feelings as truth, create victim narratives, and minimize male pain, plus how to build a resilient mindset and protect your frame in modern relationships.

Are you losing respect in your relationship without realizing why? It's a frame problem. In this episode we uncover why men over 30 often struggle with attraction, respect, and influence in long term relationships — and how it all comes back to frame and mindset. Drawing from praxeology and the concept of the Dominant Masculine Presence, we'll explore how mental frame shapes attraction, decision making, and personal authority. You'll learn how to rebuild a strong frame in marriage, apply stoic frame control to conflict, and reset your paradigm to attract respect and connection again. Whether you're facing marriage problems, relationship doubts, or loss of attraction over time, this discussion will show how mastering masculine frame and reframing your mindset can change everything.

Most men have no idea why their wives really leave — until it's too late. In this video, we reveal 20 shocking reasons wives divorce their husbands that go beyond the usual excuses. From losing masculine polarity to slipping into pure provider mode, we break down how hypergamy, poor boundaries, emotional overexposure, and neglecting competitive social value quietly erode attraction.Learn the signs your wife is losing respect, why emotional connection alone isn't enough, and the critical role of leadership, ambition, and mystery in keeping her invested. If you're a man over 30 who wants to understand female loyalty, prevent attraction loss, and build a marriage that lasts, this is the hard truth you need to hear before it's too late.

Stop unknowingly destroying attraction with the words you use. In this live stream, we reveal the subtle phrases men over 30 use that quietly erode respect, connection, and desire. From “happy wife, happy life” to constantly asking for approval, these killer phrases send the wrong signals, making you seem insecure, indecisive, and dependent. Learn exactly what to avoid and how to replace these attraction killers with confident, masculine communication. We'll cover the most common relationship mistakes men make, why certain words kill attraction instantly, and proven ways to keep attraction alive in long-term relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or rebuilding after divorce, you'll discover how to talk to women in a way that inspires respect and keeps the spark alive. Upgrade your conversation habits today and take control of your relationship dynamic.

The harder you try to control life, the more it pushes back. In this episode, discover why letting go, trusting the process, and living in flow can transform everything—especially for men over 30 seeking peace, confidence, and better relationships. Learn how to stop forcing life, release control, and shift from overthinking to inspired action. We'll cover the law of non resistance, mindfulness for men, and practical steps to find inner peace while staying driven. Whether you're navigating stress, seeking clarity, or wanting to align with your goals faster, this is your blueprint to trust life and create the results you want without the constant grind. Stop controlling everything and start allowing life to work for you.

Your heartbreak doesn't have to define you. The moment you start applying the proven heartbreak recovery steps in this video, you'll begin to reclaim your strength and rebuild your life.For men over 30 facing breakup pain, divorce, or relationship loss, we'll walk through actionable ways to heal emotionally, stop obsessing over your ex, and find peace faster. You'll learn how to rebuild confidence, use mindset shifts for emotional recovery, and create a life that excites you again.From understanding the breakup healing process to developing self improvement routines, every tip is designed to help you move forward with purpose. Whether you want to overcome breakup depression, stop missing her, or start thriving after divorce, this is your roadmap to emotional freedom. Watch now to start moving on after heartbreak and step into the best chapter of your life.

Are you feeling frustrated and unheard in your marriage because you're always the one initiating intimacy? Do you feel like your wife is not making an effort to connect with you on an emotional and physical level? You're not alone. Many men struggle with feeling like they're carrying the weight of intimacy in their relationship, and it can be draining and demoralizing.In this video, we explore the reasons why you may be feeling this way and what you can do to address the issue and strengthen your connection with your wife. Whether you're looking for ways to communicate your needs more effectively or seeking strategies to reignite the spark in your relationship, this video is for you.

Still losing your cool when things go sideways? Learn the exact steps to hold frame, even when emotions are high. If you're a man over 30 looking to stop reacting, lead with strength, and reset how others respond to you, this deep dive is your wake-up call.

Think divorce is fair? Think again. Alimony and child support laws haven't kept up with the modern world, and men are paying the price. If you're over 30 and navigating modern relationships, this truth-packed breakdown will challenge everything you thought you knew.

She's colder. Texts slower. Less affection. And you feel it slipping.This episode reveals the unseen patterns that cause women to pull away, and how men over 30 can stop reacting and start becoming. If you want real attraction, it starts from within.

Why do some men attract effortlessly—while others get ignored?It's not game or looks. It's belief. This episode dives deep into the psychology of identity, self-image, and how rewiring subconscious paradigms changes everything in love and life.

If every relationship feels like déjà vu, it's not bad luck—it's your blueprint.This episode unpacks how your early wounds, habits, and mindset shape every future relationship. Time to break the cycle and stop repeating history. Watch this before your next first date.

Marriage in the modern era – is it all romance and happily ever after? Think again.In this video, we're lifting the lid on the harsh realities of modern marriage that nobody wants to talk about. From the pressures of social media to the expectations of societal norms, we're diving into the unfiltered truth about what it really means to be married in today's world.Whether you're single, in a relationship, or already hitched, this video will make you question everything you thought you knew about marriage. So, sit back, relax, and get ready for a dose of real talk about modern marriage.

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Texting your ex keeps you stuck. Here's why you must stop now to rebuild confidence and momentum. Learn how real men heal, grow, and move forward by putting themselves first. Discover the psychology behind no contact and the habits that create lasting change after heartbreak.

Vulnerability feels honest, but it's costing you her respect. If your openness turns cold fast, this is why. Learn why oversharing ruins attraction, how strength gets tested, and what to do when vulnerability backfires. Watch now and reclaim your place in the relationship.

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