"Come On Man" Podcast

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A podcast for fellow students of the game. Men who want to get better with women, and for men who just want to be better in general. We take teachings from multiple sources, and have experts on regularly to teach you how to achieve everything you want in

Paul B.


    • Aug 27, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Play is the Essence of Game: How to Effectively Seduce Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2025 76:16


    If she loses interest fast, it's not your looks or money—it's your vibe. Women respond to play, humor, and outcome independence more than logic. In this episode, discover how playful flirting tips, teasing without being mean, and creating a separate reality ignite attraction. We'll cover why outcome independence dating keeps you relaxed and confident, how mystery in attraction makes you unforgettable, and how roleplay, humor, and playful touch escalation spark desire. Stop over-investing early, start being the prize, and use seduction through storytelling and spontaneous adventures to keep her hooked. Learn confidence through fun, spinning plates to kill neediness, and playful banter examples that pass tests with ease. If you want to know how to keep attraction alive, exude relaxed energy, and flirt playfully while maintaining curiosity, this is your roadmap to becoming the man women chase.

    Understanding Female SOLIPSISM in a Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2025 69:47


    Why do women detach so quickly, rewrite history, and ignore a man's sacrifices? The answer lies in solipsism — the subconscious lens that shapes how many women see relationships. In this episode, we break down solipsism in dating, why women test men, and how hypergamy and shifting standards reframe attraction. If you've ever wondered why she seemed indifferent after a breakup, why intimacy felt like leverage, or why your sacrifices went unnoticed, this will give you the missing piece. We'll cover solipsism psychology, survival mechanisms, entitlement mindset, and how to maintain your frame in relationships. For men over 30 who want dating clarity, attraction strategies, and relationship advice, understanding solipsism is essential. Learn why women project feelings as truth, create victim narratives, and minimize male pain, plus how to build a resilient mindset and protect your frame in modern relationships.

    Attraction Dies When You Forget THIS Frame Rule...

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2025 65:55


    Are you losing respect in your relationship without realizing why? It's a frame problem. In this episode we uncover why men over 30 often struggle with attraction, respect, and influence in long term relationships — and how it all comes back to frame and mindset. Drawing from praxeology and the concept of the Dominant Masculine Presence, we'll explore how mental frame shapes attraction, decision making, and personal authority. You'll learn how to rebuild a strong frame in marriage, apply stoic frame control to conflict, and reset your paradigm to attract respect and connection again. Whether you're facing marriage problems, relationship doubts, or loss of attraction over time, this discussion will show how mastering masculine frame and reframing your mindset can change everything.

    20 Shocking Real Reasons Wives Divorce Their Husbands

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2025 66:07


    Most men have no idea why their wives really leave — until it's too late. In this video, we reveal 20 shocking reasons wives divorce their husbands that go beyond the usual excuses. From losing masculine polarity to slipping into pure provider mode, we break down how hypergamy, poor boundaries, emotional overexposure, and neglecting competitive social value quietly erode attraction.Learn the signs your wife is losing respect, why emotional connection alone isn't enough, and the critical role of leadership, ambition, and mystery in keeping her invested. If you're a man over 30 who wants to understand female loyalty, prevent attraction loss, and build a marriage that lasts, this is the hard truth you need to hear before it's too late.

    The "Attraction Killer" Phrases You're Using Without Knowing It

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2025 57:33


    Stop unknowingly destroying attraction with the words you use. In this live stream, we reveal the subtle phrases men over 30 use that quietly erode respect, connection, and desire. From “happy wife, happy life” to constantly asking for approval, these killer phrases send the wrong signals, making you seem insecure, indecisive, and dependent. Learn exactly what to avoid and how to replace these attraction killers with confident, masculine communication. We'll cover the most common relationship mistakes men make, why certain words kill attraction instantly, and proven ways to keep attraction alive in long-term relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or rebuilding after divorce, you'll discover how to talk to women in a way that inspires respect and keeps the spark alive. Upgrade your conversation habits today and take control of your relationship dynamic.

    The More You Force Life, The Less It Works (Do This Instead)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2025 66:53


    The harder you try to control life, the more it pushes back. In this episode, discover why letting go, trusting the process, and living in flow can transform everything—especially for men over 30 seeking peace, confidence, and better relationships. Learn how to stop forcing life, release control, and shift from overthinking to inspired action. We'll cover the law of non resistance, mindfulness for men, and practical steps to find inner peace while staying driven. Whether you're navigating stress, seeking clarity, or wanting to align with your goals faster, this is your blueprint to trust life and create the results you want without the constant grind. Stop controlling everything and start allowing life to work for you.

    Your Heartbreak Will Start Healing the Moment You Watch This

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 81:15


    Your heartbreak doesn't have to define you. The moment you start applying the proven heartbreak recovery steps in this video, you'll begin to reclaim your strength and rebuild your life.For men over 30 facing breakup pain, divorce, or relationship loss, we'll walk through actionable ways to heal emotionally, stop obsessing over your ex, and find peace faster. You'll learn how to rebuild confidence, use mindset shifts for emotional recovery, and create a life that excites you again.From understanding the breakup healing process to developing self improvement routines, every tip is designed to help you move forward with purpose. Whether you want to overcome breakup depression, stop missing her, or start thriving after divorce, this is your roadmap to emotional freedom. Watch now to start moving on after heartbreak and step into the best chapter of your life.

    "I Have So Much Resentment Towards My Wife Because Of Our Dead Bedroom"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 56:36


    Are you feeling frustrated and unheard in your marriage because you're always the one initiating intimacy? Do you feel like your wife is not making an effort to connect with you on an emotional and physical level? You're not alone. Many men struggle with feeling like they're carrying the weight of intimacy in their relationship, and it can be draining and demoralizing.In this video, we explore the reasons why you may be feeling this way and what you can do to address the issue and strengthen your connection with your wife. Whether you're looking for ways to communicate your needs more effectively or seeking strategies to reignite the spark in your relationship, this video is for you.

    Why Men Keep Losing Frame (And Don't Even Know It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2025 66:03


    Still losing your cool when things go sideways? Learn the exact steps to hold frame, even when emotions are high. If you're a man over 30 looking to stop reacting, lead with strength, and reset how others respond to you, this deep dive is your wake-up call.

    Top 20 Shocking Facts: Why Alimony & Child Support Must Be Abolished

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2025 49:33


    Think divorce is fair? Think again. Alimony and child support laws haven't kept up with the modern world, and men are paying the price. If you're over 30 and navigating modern relationships, this truth-packed breakdown will challenge everything you thought you knew.

    Why Women Pull Away and What to Do About It

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2025 69:29


    She's colder. Texts slower. Less affection. And you feel it slipping.This episode reveals the unseen patterns that cause women to pull away, and how men over 30 can stop reacting and start becoming. If you want real attraction, it starts from within.

    Why Do Some Men Call Themselves The Prize But Still Get Ignored?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 54:48


    Why do some men attract effortlessly—while others get ignored?It's not game or looks. It's belief. This episode dives deep into the psychology of identity, self-image, and how rewiring subconscious paradigms changes everything in love and life.

    How Your Past Shapes Your Future Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2025 66:14


    If every relationship feels like déjà vu, it's not bad luck—it's your blueprint.This episode unpacks how your early wounds, habits, and mindset shape every future relationship. Time to break the cycle and stop repeating history. Watch this before your next first date.

    The TRUTH About MODERN MARRIAGE: What They Don't Tell You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 72:39


    Marriage in the modern era – is it all romance and happily ever after? Think again.In this video, we're lifting the lid on the harsh realities of modern marriage that nobody wants to talk about. From the pressures of social media to the expectations of societal norms, we're diving into the unfiltered truth about what it really means to be married in today's world.Whether you're single, in a relationship, or already hitched, this video will make you question everything you thought you knew about marriage. So, sit back, relax, and get ready for a dose of real talk about modern marriage.

    The REAL Reason You Aren't Successful

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2025 68:05


    What if the life holding you back isn't real, but built by invisible beliefs you never chose? Discover the trap most men fall into, why it keeps you stuck, and how to finally reclaim control in business, love, and your sense of purpose.➡️ Want to master your mindset and build an unshakable masculine presence?Click here nowVIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxTREADY FOR 1:1 COACHING?➡️ Book your Breakthrough & Battle Plan Session:https://call.fixdeadbedrooms.comBOOKS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE:➡️ Learn the life lessons I wish I knew when I was 18:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17➡️ Get your wife to bang you again:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRSVJF77➡️ Move on from your ex FOR GOOD:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8TFOLLOW ME:TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Twitter – https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPODFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastCOMMUNITIES:➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack:https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Subscriber:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe

    The Science Behind Why You Shouldn't Text Your Ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2025 53:18


    Texting your ex keeps you stuck. Here's why you must stop now to rebuild confidence and momentum. Learn how real men heal, grow, and move forward by putting themselves first. Discover the psychology behind no contact and the habits that create lasting change after heartbreak.

    Why Vulnerability is a Death Sentence For Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2025 66:09


    Vulnerability feels honest, but it's costing you her respect. If your openness turns cold fast, this is why. Learn why oversharing ruins attraction, how strength gets tested, and what to do when vulnerability backfires. Watch now and reclaim your place in the relationship.

    This Mindset Hack Is the Key to Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 48:04


    One overlooked belief is holding you back—this mindset upgrade changes everything.➡️ Want to master your mindset and build an unshakable masculine presence? Click here now:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Fix your failing marriage:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFGet over your ex for good:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZDevelop an unshakable frame:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT--------------------------------------------READY FOR 1:1 COACHING?➡️ Book your Breakthrough & Battle Plan Session:https://call.fixdeadbedrooms.com--------------------------------------------MORE BOOKS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE:➡️ Life lessons I wish I knew at 18:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17➡️ Get your wife to bang you again:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRSVJF77➡️ Move on from your ex FOR GOOD:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8T--------------------------------------------FOLLOW ME:TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Twitter – https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPODFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast--------------------------------------------COMMUNITIES:➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack:https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Subscriber:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe--------------------------------------------Search Terms:"how to change your mindset for success""what is the law of assumption""how to stop self-sabotage habits""daily mindset rituals for high performers""how to reprogram subconscious beliefs""how to set intentions that actually work""how to build belief in yourself""why assumptions shape your results""top mindset hack for entrepreneurs""how to stop hitting the same mental blocks"

    No Contact Rule: What REALLY Happens When You Disappear?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2025 51:03


    You disappeared to win her back—here's what really happens when you stop chasing.

    What Women Wish Men Knew (And A Few That They Don't)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2025 62:21


    Most men miss what really matters to her—this episode reveals why she pulls away.

    Master Your Emotions to Boost Her Attraction

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2025 76:05


    She's not drawn to your moves—she's drawn to how you handle pressure.

    They Aren't Your Soulmate, Just a Habit

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 27:04


    That “soulmate” might just be a cycle you're stuck in—and it's costing you years.

    Godly Virility vs Lust—You've Been Taught Wrong w/ Giff Lasta

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 69:35


    Discover how Christian men can pursue love boldly—without passivity or pressure.

    Discover the Hidden Truth: Think and Grow Rich Isn't Just About Money

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2025 56:54


    Why most men feel lost—until they take back control of their mental frame.

    Why Smart Men Keep Failing in Love (And How to Fix It)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2025 66:48


    Why smart, successful men unknowingly kill attraction—and how to break the cycle for good.

    Relationship Myths That Keep You From Happiness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2025 62:19


    Exposing 3 toxic relationship myths that kill marriages—and how to escape them fast.

    Think Like a Warrior: Alpha Mindset Secrets They Hid from You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2025 71:32


    Ancient warrior philosophy meets alpha mindset training—reclaim your power from within.

    How To Avoid The Wrong Women (And Choose The Right One)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2025 54:11


    Still single? It's not luck—it's unclear standards. Here's how high-value men lead with clarity.

    The Christian Sex Advice That's Ruining Marriages

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2025 51:45


    Exposing toxic Christian sex advice (especially from guys like Larry Solomon)—don't let faith-based myths destroy your marriage.

    The Number One Emotion Sabotaging Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2025 46:17


    You're not fixing your marriage—because you're holding onto silent resentment.

    Why Your Date Strategy Screams Low Value

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 56:26


    Friday dates kill your image — use this bold first-date formula to flip attraction fast.

    Why Fantasy Helps Couples Connect Deeply

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 47:35


    Your wife wants more than routine — she wants to feel desired.Learn how fantasy reignites emotional intimacy and brings passion back to your marriage.

    The One Mindset Shift That Will Change Your Dating Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 62:08


    Your dating life isn't broken — you're just using the wrong mindset.Let's fix that, brother.

    Still Afraid to Approach Women? Watch This

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2025 55:03


    Still freezing up after divorce?Here's how to kill fear and reclaim your confidence.

    The Unspoken Rules About Attraction Men Must Know

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 60:43


    Discover the unspoken attraction rules every high-value man must master in 2025.

    How to Recover from a Toxic Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 56:06


    She's gone — but your power isn't.Here's how to rebuild your frame and forget that B*tch.

    Why Dating After Divorce Feels Impossible (And What To Do)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 60:24


    Rebuild your dating game after divorce with proven strategies that actually work.

    Is Divorce Imminent? Top 20 Warning Signs She's Done

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 49:12


    Is she quietly planning to leave?Spot these hidden signs before it's too late.

    How WWE Villains Manipulate Your Emotions

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2025 45:59


    Why Nice Guys Get Dumped (Every Time)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 54:59


    The Dangers of Prioritizing Others Over Yourself in Love

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 61:23


    The One Paradigm That Keeps You Weak in Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 50:07


    One mindset keeps you weak, invisible, and undesirable.Here's how to break it — before it breaks you.

    Why You're Still Not Over Her

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 56:25


    Stop chasing healing.Start transforming with tactical tools that rebuild your masculine power.

    Major Red Flags That Indicate Your Wife Might Be Cheating

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 44:10


    Think she's cheating?These red flags may confirm what your gut already knows.

    How to Turn Her Complaints Into Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later May 16, 2025 50:04


    Reclaim your frame.Turn conflict into connection — without losing her desire.

    Why Getting Your Ex Back Is a Trap

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 66:47


    Trying to get her back?This mindset will destroy you — here's how to break the cycle.

    Emotional Intelligence: The Secret Ingredient in Love

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 53:20


    Cold marriage?Emotional intelligence might be the secret to revive attraction and desire again.

    Why stability in relationships starts from within

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 57:49


    Without inner stability, your relationships will reflect chaos.Fix this now — or stay stuck forever.

    THIS Mindset Shift Stops Heartbreak

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 44:49


    Rejection isn't love — it's ego. Break free and reclaim your masculine power now.

    The One Conversation That Will Change Your Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 52:09


    Fail in the Main Event and lose her forever—learn how to lead when it matters most.

    Stop Saying “I Love You”—Start Doing This Instead

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 53:12


    Saying “I love you” won't win her heart—holding frame will. Here's why.

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