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Why do bad boys get women while nice guys are ignored? In this video I break down why assertiveness, boundaries, and a dominant masculine presence make men more attractive than passive behavior. Learn how confidence, frame, and masculine energy create real attraction and why strong male leadership separates alpha men from frustrated beta males in today's dating market.
If your self-worth depends on being liked, playing the “good girl,” or keeping everyone else happy, you're stuck in Emotional Outsourcing™. In this episode, our bestie Bea Albina, a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Master Certified Life Coach, and author of End Emotional Outsourcing™, is back and teaching us how to quit people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependent habits FOR GOOD. We cover: Why we emotionally outsource in the first place. Bea explains how codependency, people-pleasing, and perfectionism are survival strategies we learned early on, NOT character flaws. How Emotional Outsourcing™ keeps you stuck and miserable. We unpack the hidden ways outsourcing your worth drains your energy and relationships. The nervous system's role in healing. Bea shares SIMPLE somatic and polyvagal tools to help you actually regulate and build resilience. Why people-pleasing sometimes feels safer than saying no. Learn how your brain and body keep you locked in old patterns and how to break free. Practical ways to set boundaries without guilt. Simple scripts and reframes for protecting your energy without shame. How to move from perfectionism to self-trust. Shift from performing for approval to living as your authentic self. Daily practices to reconnect with your worth. Because you are SO worthy. Bea teaches us grounding tools to build confidence, self-compassion, and inner safety. PREORDER BEA'S BOOK HERE! (and then go to her website HERE to get all the special preorder goodies!) Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Most men today are stuck as frustrated beta males with no frame, no game, and no chance in dating. In a world where 75% of men are overweight or obese, just being fit already puts you in the top 25%. Learn alpha traits like game and frame to rise into the top 5–10% of men in today's dating market.
When a woman settles, it's not love—it's survival. Resentment grows, intimacy fades, and you become her Plan B. Learn the signs she's settling for you, why respect matters more than comfort, and how to become the man women admire instead of the man they tolerate.
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Warning signs of simp behavior are everywhere—and most men don't even realize they're doing it. In this livestream we'll break down how to avoid simp behavior, reprogram weak instincts, and hold a strong mental frame that keeps respect and attraction alive. If you've ever asked yourself why women test men, why respect disappears when you act needy, or how to stop being a simp once and for all, this is your playbook. We'll cover the core of red pill mindset, how to build self respect, why boundaries matter in relationships, and practical dating advice for men over 30 who want stronger results with women. You'll learn how to spot signs you are simping, how to replace weak mindset habits with self mastery, and how to keep your masculine frame in modern dating. Don't waste another date with behaviors that kill attraction—discover how to upgrade your mindset today.
Dating single moms does not make you a cuck. In this livestream we break down one of the most debated topics in the red pill space: should men date single moms? Some gurus argue that being with a woman who has kids automatically makes you a stepdad, but that's not the truth. We'll explore the original meaning of cuckoldry, why boundaries matter, and how men can date single moms successfully without losing their frame. We'll cover who should absolutely avoid dating single moms, why single dads often make the best matches, and how parenting plans and timing affect the success of these relationships. For men over 30, understanding hypergamy, frame, and attraction dynamics is key if you want to avoid costly mistakes and actually enjoy dating women with kids. Loyalty, confidence, and boundaries determine success—not old stigmas.
You can love her, stay loyal, and still watch her attraction fade. In this livestream we're unpacking hypergamy, frame, and why loyalty alone doesn't protect a man in marriage. Too many men over 30 give everything yet lose desire and respect at home. We'll explore how betatization erodes attraction, why wives test boundaries, and what it takes to maintain frame in long term relationships. You'll learn practical tools rooted in male sexual strategy—like dread, abundance mindset, and rebuilding masculine presence—that stop attraction from collapsing. This isn't theory, it's the raw truth men need if they want lasting intimacy, respect, and connection in marriage. Discover how to stop giving away your power, how to recognize when you're slipping, and how to reclaim the qualities that make you desirable again.
This past Sunday, Pastor Brian shared a message titled, "God Meant it For Good" from Genesis 37-50.
Attraction dies when a man forgets his frame. In this episode we uncover how Red Pill awareness reshapes your dating mindset, destroys the soulmate myth, and exposes why hypergamy is a permanent factor in attraction.
If she loses interest fast, it's not your looks or money—it's your vibe. Women respond to play, humor, and outcome independence more than logic. In this episode, discover how playful flirting tips, teasing without being mean, and creating a separate reality ignite attraction. We'll cover why outcome independence dating keeps you relaxed and confident, how mystery in attraction makes you unforgettable, and how roleplay, humor, and playful touch escalation spark desire. Stop over-investing early, start being the prize, and use seduction through storytelling and spontaneous adventures to keep her hooked. Learn confidence through fun, spinning plates to kill neediness, and playful banter examples that pass tests with ease. If you want to know how to keep attraction alive, exude relaxed energy, and flirt playfully while maintaining curiosity, this is your roadmap to becoming the man women chase.
✨ Ever feel like your brain just won't shut off... even when everything's actually fine in your relationship? You're spiraling, checking for signs, running worst-case scenarios, and overanalyzing their every move... but you know deep down, it's you, not them.
Wake Up Dead Man, it's time for Baconsale to take A Big Bold Beautiful Journey and look ahead to the films releasing this fall and winter. We'll begin by Conjuring up the Last Rites for the movies we want to bomb. It's One Battle After Another as we take The Long Walk through all that Fire and Ash. However, The End Continues when we use our podcast For Good and give our picks for each film we think is a Good Boy. This episode can feel like a bit of a Frankenstein at times, but Joel, Kent, and Zack will do their best to keep you entertained and make it to The Grand Finale. Do The Running Man, and then press play to Search for SquarePants.
Why do women detach so quickly, rewrite history, and ignore a man's sacrifices? The answer lies in solipsism — the subconscious lens that shapes how many women see relationships. In this episode, we break down solipsism in dating, why women test men, and how hypergamy and shifting standards reframe attraction. If you've ever wondered why she seemed indifferent after a breakup, why intimacy felt like leverage, or why your sacrifices went unnoticed, this will give you the missing piece. We'll cover solipsism psychology, survival mechanisms, entitlement mindset, and how to maintain your frame in relationships. For men over 30 who want dating clarity, attraction strategies, and relationship advice, understanding solipsism is essential. Learn why women project feelings as truth, create victim narratives, and minimize male pain, plus how to build a resilient mindset and protect your frame in modern relationships.
Are you losing respect in your relationship without realizing why? It's a frame problem. In this episode we uncover why men over 30 often struggle with attraction, respect, and influence in long term relationships — and how it all comes back to frame and mindset. Drawing from praxeology and the concept of the Dominant Masculine Presence, we'll explore how mental frame shapes attraction, decision making, and personal authority. You'll learn how to rebuild a strong frame in marriage, apply stoic frame control to conflict, and reset your paradigm to attract respect and connection again. Whether you're facing marriage problems, relationship doubts, or loss of attraction over time, this discussion will show how mastering masculine frame and reframing your mindset can change everything.
Most men have no idea why their wives really leave — until it's too late. In this video, we reveal 20 shocking reasons wives divorce their husbands that go beyond the usual excuses. From losing masculine polarity to slipping into pure provider mode, we break down how hypergamy, poor boundaries, emotional overexposure, and neglecting competitive social value quietly erode attraction.Learn the signs your wife is losing respect, why emotional connection alone isn't enough, and the critical role of leadership, ambition, and mystery in keeping her invested. If you're a man over 30 who wants to understand female loyalty, prevent attraction loss, and build a marriage that lasts, this is the hard truth you need to hear before it's too late.
The harder you try to control life, the more it pushes back. In this episode, discover why letting go, trusting the process, and living in flow can transform everything—especially for men over 30 seeking peace, confidence, and better relationships. Learn how to stop forcing life, release control, and shift from overthinking to inspired action. We'll cover the law of non resistance, mindfulness for men, and practical steps to find inner peace while staying driven. Whether you're navigating stress, seeking clarity, or wanting to align with your goals faster, this is your blueprint to trust life and create the results you want without the constant grind. Stop controlling everything and start allowing life to work for you.
You've been chasing a number on the scale for years. Maybe you've even hit it a few times… but it never sticks. The weight comes back, life gets in the way, and you find yourself starting over. Again. It's exhausting. It's frustrating. And it's not because you're lazy, unmotivated, or “bad” at sticking to a plan. The truth? Your goal weight was never the real goal. In this episode, I'm sharing the identity shift that changes everything... the one that breaks the “lose it, gain it back” cycle and makes your healthy habits stick FOR GOOD. Tune in to learn: Why focusing only on your goal weight keeps you stuck The real target you should be aiming for instead How to make healthy habits feel natural — so the results actually last BTW... Book your free 1:1 session by clicking here You can keep chasing the same 10 pounds… or you can finally become the version of you who doesn't have to. GET YOUR FREE HEALTHY GIRL REBRAND WORKSHEET HERE Don't forget to: GRAB YOUR FREE GET STARTED GUIDE (& 7 day planner) by clicking here BUY YOUR READY TO LOSE PLANNER HERE: click to buy Get daily mindset and weightloss tips by following me on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/readytolosecoach/
Are you feeling frustrated and unheard in your marriage because you're always the one initiating intimacy? Do you feel like your wife is not making an effort to connect with you on an emotional and physical level? You're not alone. Many men struggle with feeling like they're carrying the weight of intimacy in their relationship, and it can be draining and demoralizing.In this video, we explore the reasons why you may be feeling this way and what you can do to address the issue and strengthen your connection with your wife. Whether you're looking for ways to communicate your needs more effectively or seeking strategies to reignite the spark in your relationship, this video is for you.
She's colder. Texts slower. Less affection. And you feel it slipping.This episode reveals the unseen patterns that cause women to pull away, and how men over 30 can stop reacting and start becoming. If you want real attraction, it starts from within.
Why do some men attract effortlessly—while others get ignored?It's not game or looks. It's belief. This episode dives deep into the psychology of identity, self-image, and how rewiring subconscious paradigms changes everything in love and life.
If every relationship feels like déjà vu, it's not bad luck—it's your blueprint.This episode unpacks how your early wounds, habits, and mindset shape every future relationship. Time to break the cycle and stop repeating history. Watch this before your next first date.
Marriage in the modern era – is it all romance and happily ever after? Think again.In this video, we're lifting the lid on the harsh realities of modern marriage that nobody wants to talk about. From the pressures of social media to the expectations of societal norms, we're diving into the unfiltered truth about what it really means to be married in today's world.Whether you're single, in a relationship, or already hitched, this video will make you question everything you thought you knew about marriage. So, sit back, relax, and get ready for a dose of real talk about modern marriage.
What if the life holding you back isn't real, but built by invisible beliefs you never chose? Discover the trap most men fall into, why it keeps you stuck, and how to finally reclaim control in business, love, and your sense of purpose.➡️ Want to master your mindset and build an unshakable masculine presence?Click here nowVIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMFWatch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZWatch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxTREADY FOR 1:1 COACHING?➡️ Book your Breakthrough & Battle Plan Session:https://call.fixdeadbedrooms.comBOOKS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE:➡️ Learn the life lessons I wish I knew when I was 18:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17➡️ Get your wife to bang you again:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DRSVJF77➡️ Move on from your ex FOR GOOD:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F7GRVN8TFOLLOW ME:TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpodInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/Twitter – https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPODFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcastCOMMUNITIES:➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack:https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/➡️ Become a Spotify Subscriber:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
Texting your ex keeps you stuck. Here's why you must stop now to rebuild confidence and momentum. Learn how real men heal, grow, and move forward by putting themselves first. Discover the psychology behind no contact and the habits that create lasting change after heartbreak.
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Vulnerability feels honest, but it's costing you her respect. If your openness turns cold fast, this is why. Learn why oversharing ruins attraction, how strength gets tested, and what to do when vulnerability backfires. Watch now and reclaim your place in the relationship.
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“Elphaba wasn't the villain. She was the spellbreaker.” In this powerful Pride Month episode, Alexander Blue Feather reflects on the moment Wicked became his lifeline. It was June 2003, freshly diagnosed with HIV, newly exiled from the Mormon church, and standing at the edge of a new life. Then Elphaba soared across a Broadway stage, green-skinned and defiant, and something shifted forever. Now, 22 years later, Alexander returns to that sacred moment as the trailer for Wicked: Part Two, For Good is released. He shares how Elphaba became a queer archetype and teacher, how sobriety reshaped his soul, and why pride means more at 52 than it ever did at 30. This episode celebrates 10 years clean from hard drugs, explores the grief of losing a parent, honors gender expansiveness, and affirms that queerness is holy. It's part memoir, part spell, part sermon for the ones who had to leave to live. Topics include: • Queer identity and Pride then vs. now • Living with HIV for 22 years • 10 years sober from crystal meth and hard drugs • Elphaba as a mirror for queer becoming • Gender expansiveness and chosen family • Spoken-word taglines and healing through Broadway For the ones with glitter in their scars -- you were never wicked -- you were always becoming.
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In this unique episode, in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month and the celebration of our 5th Podversary. One of the most challenging things about being neurodivergent is learning to accept ourselves in a world where being different often marks you as an outsider. Using my obsession with Wicked and exploring four of Stephen Schwartz's iconic songs —from the hopeful longing of "The Wizard and I" to the defiant liberation of "Defying Gravity"—my goal in this episode is to connect them to the distinct stages of our ADHD journey in learning to embrace our differentness. So, grab your broomstick and let's go on an adventure to Oz. Episode Highlights:Did you ever find yourself thinking: “If I just find the right planner /medication/ job/coach, I'll finally feel normal”? That's what I call the “fix me” phase — and it's just the first chapter in a powerful process. In this episode, I walk you through four major songs from “Wicked” that map out the ADHD journey to self-acceptance:“The Wizard and I”: The bittersweet hope that someone or something outside of us will finally fix what feels broken.“Popular”: The pressure to fit into neurotypical molds, no matter how unnatural it feels, and why those “helpful tips” so rarely work.“Defying Gravity”: The exhilarating breakthrough of embracing your true self and rejecting systems that were never built for your brain.“For Good”: Honoring everyone who contributed to your journey, finding peace with imperfection, and stepping into deeper self-acceptance.Whether you're still searching for that magic fix, trying to fit into neurotypical norms, or learning to soar with your own brand of brilliance, this episode is an invitation to recognize the real magic within yourself. Join me as I encourage us all to “keep defying gravity together”—and celebrate just how far we've come, thanks to a little help from our friends in Oz.Inspired by this episode? Click this link to share it with a friend. Complete song lyrics for “The Wizard and I”, “Popular,” “Defying Gravity,” and “For Good” can be accessed here for reference. Used with permission by Scribd. All songs from “Wicked” were written by Stephen Schwartz and the clips used in this podcast recording were performed by various artists from The Studio Allstars Used with permission from One Media PublishingDigital distribution label based in Pinewood Studios, UK ©2008 © 2025 ADHD-ish Podcast
Myra Ruiz has starred in not one, not two, but three different productions of Wicked. After opening the original Brazilian production, she returned to the role in two separate non-replica revivals. She can also be heard as the voice of Elphaba in the Portuguese dub of the Wicked movie. This week, the Sentimental Men learn all about Myra's unparalleled journey with Wicked and what life is like for a musical theatre actress in Brazil. Plus, the boys get Sentimental about Tony nominations, descriptions of the For Good trailer and the music they're most excited to hear in the new movie. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices