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Your pattern isn't bad luck; it's self-worth and who you attract, and until you get self-concept vs. self-esteem, you'll keep landing in the same relationship wearing a different face. You don't choose partners with your standards; you choose them with what you believe you deserve. Your standards are the list you post. Your self-concept is what you actually accept when someone shows up. And if you can't hold your own gaze in the mirror, you will take crumbs and call it a meal.This isn't a character flaw; it's wiring. Your brain runs a search engine on how you see yourself, and it will scroll past every green flag to hand you the reddest one on the field, because that flag matches the file. You haven't been unlucky in love. You've been accurate, accurate to a self-image that was never true to begin with.Episode Takeaways:Recognize the difference between what you post as your standards and what you actually accept as your self-concept.Trace your dating pattern back to a nervous system that mistakes familiar for safe, not to bad luck.Question whether "no chemistry" is actually peace your body hasn't learned to recognize yet.Treat self-worth as evidence you build, not an affirmation you repeat.When you stop treating single as a waiting room and start treating it as the workshop where the next love of your life gets built, starting with you, everything downstream shifts. The filter changes. The chooser gets rebuilt. And the woman who finally holds her own gaze in the mirror stops handing herself crumbs, because she knows she was never a famine to begin with.If this episode resonated, the first 14 days inside the Manifesting Miracles Academy are completely free — link below.✨ MANIFESTING MIRACLES ACADEMY ✨ Your first 14 days are completely free.Join now: https://manifestingmiracles.thinkific.com/pages/memberships
Scripting manifestation isn't wishful thinking; it's a direct line to your reticular activating system, and once you understand how those two work together, you stop writing vague goals and start writing orders. Because right now, somewhere between today and January 1st, the version of you who shows up next year is already being written. The only real question is who's holding the pen.Most of us default to hoping. We say "I want more money" or "I want to be happy" and call that a goal, then wonder why nothing changes. This episode calls out that pattern directly: the difference between a wish that begs and an order that expects, and walks through what happened when a canceled contract became the moment everything shifted.Episode Takeaways:Recognize the difference between a wish that begs and an order that expectsWrite your goals in present tense, with real numbers and real dates, instead of vague hopesUnderstand how your Reticular Activating System only finds what you've actually written downLearn why a Cornell study on goal setting found people were 41% more likely to hit goals they wrote downConfront the old codes that keep you earning everything the hard way instead of receiving it in peaceThe version of you who places the order instead of making the wish stops chasing and starts expecting. She writes the date, the number, the truth, and then she waits in peace instead of checking the kitchen. That's the difference between watching January arrive and actually building it.If this episode resonated, the first 14 days inside the Manifesting Miracles Academy are completely free — link below.✨ MANIFESTING MIRACLES ACADEMY ✨ Your first 14 days are completely free.Join now: https://manifestingmiracles.thinkific.com/pages/memberships
Identity work isn't about sitting down with a thousand journal prompts and a 17 step mindset routine (even though that's what the internet would make you believe). Identity work starts with observing your current identity: how you show up in your business, the language you use, the subconscious beliefs you hold about yourself.So if you want to know how to change your identity, we start with something I call 'hidden clues'. It's what I listen for in every client conversation, in every message, and it's where your limiting beliefs give themselves away without you noticing.Topics covered on Identity Work:What are throwaway sentences, and what do they tell me about you that you can't hear?Once you notice your throwaway sentences, ask yourself these 3 identity work questionsWhy does your brain keep collecting proof of the identity you're actively trying to change?Does your future self feel like someone else ENTIRELY? Good, that's exactly what we're looking for!Connect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meCome say hi on Instagram | YouTube | WebsiteRelated episodes:296. Identity Work Explained: What Does It Actually Mean to Change Your Identity?132. Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality
We'd love to hear from you!The reticular activating system is the key to training your brain to notice more good. In this Season 7 premiere, Tina Boogren shares a simple daily practices that prime your brain to scan for what's going well instead of what's wrong. It's a small habit with a surprisingly powerful ripple effect. For episode resources, see https://www.tinaboogren.com/. Music: Happy Clappy Ukulele by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com.
Episode 406 explains how movement prepares the brain but does not guarantee learning. It traces the full sequence—movement, RAS-driven readiness, salience and relevance, focused attention, encoding, retrieval and repetition, and recovery and sleep—that turns activation into lasting memory and performance. The episode offers practical steps in a Move–Focus–Learn protocol: use brief movement to create readiness, clearly identify and remove distractions for one learning target, interact with material in meaningful ways, practice retrieval and spaced repetition, and protect recovery to support consolidation. Listeners are encouraged to test these simple experiments for school, work, or personal learning to make experience more usable and improve attention, memory, and performance. ON THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN: ✔ Why movement prepares the brain but does not guarantee learning ✔ How attention directs the capacity movement creates ✔ Why meaning and emotional relevance capture attention ✔ The difference between paying attention and actually learning ✔ How retrieval and repetition help new information stick ✔ How seeing, hearing, explaining, and applying an idea can help us remember it ✔ How restorative sleep supports memory and learning ✔ A practical Move–Focus–Learn Protocol for school, work, or your own personal learning The central idea is simple: Movement opens the window. Attention determines what enters. Repetition strengthens what remains. And recovery helps the brain integrate what it has experienced. Welcome back to the Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast, where we bridge neuroscience, social and emotional learning, and human performance so we can create measurable improvements in our well-being, achievement, leadership, productivity, and results. I'm Andrea Samadi, and if you've been following along through Season 16, you'll know that we have been building what I call The Brain's Operating System for Human Performance—a neuroscience-based framework designed to help us understand how the different systems of the brain and body work together to influence how we learn, adapt, connect, lead, and ultimately, how we perform. We are currently in Phase 3, focused on Movement, Learning, and Cognition. As I prepared for this phase, I went back through more than 400 episodes of the podcast and organized them according to the five phases of this framework. I wanted to see whether any patterns would emerge. And some did. Phase 1, Regulation and Safety, includes 57 episodes. Phase 2, Neurochemistry and Motivation, includes 41 episodes—the smallest category, possibly because this is the area I have explored the least with my learning. Phase 3, Movement, Learning, and Cognition, includes 174 episodes—the largest category by far. Phase 4, Perception and Social Intelligence, includes 68 episodes. And Phase 5, Integration and Meaning, includes 71 episodes. When I saw that 174 episodes—more than 40 percent of the entire podcast—fit into Movement, Learning, and Cognition, it immediately showed me where much of my curiosity has been directed over the years. I have always been fascinated by learning: How do we prepare the brain to learn? What captures our attention? Why do some ideas (or people) remain with us while others disappear? How does knowledge become something we can retrieve, apply, and actually use to improve our lives? And while I am spending most of my spare time hiking, or at the gym over the years, I wonder, how does this movement that I'm doing help to improve my attention, or memory, and finally, where does recovery fit into this process? The past few weeks, I'm finally connecting the dots with how important recovery is with this equation. I'm also learning how to determine what's important to me. John Medina's Brain Rules book explains what holds our attention. He reminds us that “we don't pay attention to boring things (or people).[i] As we continue through these five phases of The Brain's Operating System for Human Performance, I'm especially curious about how we will move beyond understanding these lessons, to begin implementing what we are learning, and connecting more ways to improve how we learn, adapt, connect, lead, and ultimately perform in our day to day lives. That will become an important part of the upcoming workbook—which is a practical way for each of us to identify what we have already strengthened, where gaps may remain, and which specific actions can help us to improve our own learning, well-being, and performance. Because the purpose of this 5 Phase Framework is not simply to collect more information about the brain. It is to understand how the systems connect—and then use that understanding to create meaningful change. “Attention Is the Gate—How Movement Becomes Learning.” For today's Episode 406, we'll connect Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules to the Movement Loop we have been building throughout Phase 3—and answer the next important question: Once movement activates and prepares the brain, what determines whether that readiness becomes lasting learning? You can review our full interview with John Medina from EP 42[ii] from February 2020. (find the link in the reference section of the show notes). INTRODUCTION: THE MISSING STEP We have spent this phase so far, examining how movement changes the brain. Dr. Chuck Hillman and Paul Zientarski[iii] showed us that movement prepares the brain for learning. Dr. John Ratey[iv] helped us understand how exercise influences neurochemistry, BDNF, and neuroplasticity. Dr. Kristen Holmes[v] showed us that recovery helps determine whether strain becomes adaptation. And our restorative-sleep episode explored where some of that recovery, adaptation, and integration may occur. But one important question remains: A brain can be activated, chemically prepared, and physiologically ready—but what determines what it actually learns? The answer begins with attention. Movement may create the readiness to learn, but readiness alone is not learning. The brain must still select what matters, focus on it, interact with it, encode it, revisit it, and eventually integrate it. That gives us the pathway we will explore today: Movement creates readiness. But what is the filter in our brain that helps us to focus on the things that are most important to us. What gives us the ability to pay attention to something? The RAS- or The Reticular Activating System. Before we continue, let's remind ourselves what the RAS is. The RAS—or reticular activating system—is a network of neurons extending through the brainstem that helps regulate wakefulness, alertness, and our readiness to respond to incoming information. We explored this system previously in Episode 272, “Priming the Reticular Activating System to Achieve Our Goals.” In that episode, we described the RAS as a type of filter that helps us notice information connected to what we have identified as important. For example, once you decide that you are interested in a particular type of car, you may suddenly begin seeing that car everywhere. That's the RAS filtering system in our brain. The cars were already there, but your attention now has a reason to prioritize them. In Episode 272[vi], we applied this idea to goal-setting. When we clearly identify an intention, we may become more likely to notice relevant information, opportunities, and connections that were previously present but did not receive our attention. That explanation gave us a useful starting point. But here in Episode 406, we can add more precision. The RAS is not a tiny gatekeeper sitting in the brain and personally deciding what we will learn. It is part of a broader network that helps maintain the level of arousal and alertness required for our attention. It helps the brain become available to notice whatever it is that is important to us. Then salience, relevance, emotion, intention, and our current goals help determine what receives priority. Focused attention directs our limited cognitive resources toward the selected information. Next, encoding and repetition help strengthen what we want to focus on. And recovery and sleep help to further support its consolidation and integration. So our expanded Movement Loop now looks like this: you can see an image in the show notes to expand this understanding. Movement supports brain activation. RAS helps the brain become awake, alert, and ready to pay attention. Salience and relevance (or what matters the most to us) helps to determine what receives priority. Our focused attention selects what gets our priority. Encoding and repetition further strengthens this pathway. Recovery and sleep (that we've dove deep into) support consolidation and integration. And together, these processes increase the likelihood that experience becomes learning—and that learning becomes available for future performance. Whatever it is that we have put our attention on, is now made usable. This shows us how our understanding has evolved since Episode 272, three years ago. Then, we were asking: How can our intention help us notice what matters with the attainment of our goals? Now, years later, with more understanding, we are asking: Once the brain is alert and something important has captured our attention, what sequence of events must occur for that information to become lasting learning? We are no longer asking only what must remain top of mind so we can notice opportunities connected to our goals. We are asking what happens next: How does something we notice become something we understand? How does something we understand become something we remember? And how does something we remember become knowledge or a skill we can retrieve, apply, and use to improve our performance? This is where Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules help us to connect the pieces. Let's begin with Lesson One: Lesson 1: Movement Creates Readiness—Not Guaranteed Learning Movement can increase alertness, circulation, and readiness for cognitive work. But why might movement have such a powerful relationship with the brain? Dr. John Medina explains this through an evolutionary lens. His point is that the human brain did not develop while we were sitting motionless at desks or staring at screens. It developed while human beings were moving through changing outdoor environments, solving immediate problems, and continually responding to the world around them. Let's listen to how he explains it. CLIP 1 John Medina “The human brain was designed to solve problems related to surviving in an outdoor setting, in unstable meteorological conditions—and to do so in constant motion. The constant motion is where the exercise comes in. But the rest of that—the more a school, or any of us, can recreate the world of the Serengeti, the place where this brain actually grew up, the better things are. And exercise, particularly outdoor exercise, is a terrific example of this idea.” When Medina refers to the Serengeti, I don't think he is suggesting that schools should literally recreate the dangers or conditions of an ancient environment. He is giving us an evolutionary picture of the conditions under which the human brain developed: We moved. We navigated changing environments. We encountered new sensory information. We solved problems. We adapted to uncertainty. And we did these things together rather than remaining physically still for most of the day. Outdoor movement may bring several of these conditions together. We are moving our bodies while also responding to changes in light, temperature, terrain, sound, distance, and direction. This helps explain why movement belongs at the beginning of our Movement Loop. But it also brings us to an important distinction: Movement creates readiness. It does not guarantee learning. A student can move before class and still become distracted. A leader can exercise before work and still spend the morning reacting to notifications. An athlete can warm up physically without becoming mentally focused on the strategy or skill required next. Movement can help activate the system. The RAS in the brain helps us become awake and alert. But the brain must still determine what stands out, what is relevant, and what deserves focused attention. Movement opens the window. Attention determines what enters through it. Our Key lesson: Movement prepares the brain. Attention directs the preparation. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before your next period of demanding cognitive work, use movement to create a window of readiness. Take a five-to-ten-minute walk, complete a brief movement break, stretch, or choose another form of movement appropriate for your ability and environment. But do not move without deciding what comes next. Before you begin, identify the specific task you will return to: “When this movement break ends, what will receive my attention?” For a student, it might be the first problem on a math assignment. For a leader, it might be the one decision that requires uninterrupted thinking. For an athlete, it might be the cue, strategy, or skill that needs to remain at the center of practice. Movement creates the opportunity. A clear intention helps direct what happens next. Your experiment is: Move briefly, choose one target that you want to complete with this intention, and begin that task immediately after the movement ends. Lesson 2: Attention Is the Gate In EP 395[vii], we examined what captures attention: Meaning Emotion Relevance Intention Reward Human connection Now today's episode shows how we move beyond why the brain notices something and explains what attention does after movement has prepared the system to learn. Attention acts as a filter. The brain encounters more information than it can consciously process, so it must select what receives priority. This creates the bridge: Brain activation creates capacity. Attention distributes that capacity. Our Key lesson: What the brain does not attend to has little opportunity to become lasting learning. Andrea's Application This distinction between brain capacity and cognitive efficiency became personal for me when I reviewed the results of my 2020 brain scan. We covered this topic on EP 84[viii] and we will do a thorough review of what was learned with our brain scans at Dr. Daniel Amen's CA Clinic. The evaluation that I received after my scan was completed with Dr. Shane Creado, suggested that I had areas of strong capacity, but that my brain appeared to be working harder than necessary to complete certain tasks in the cognitive testing. A possible contributor we discussed was sleep deprivation. I want to be careful here: a SPECT scan is not a direct measurement of attention or learning, and my results cannot tell us that insufficient sleep caused a specific attention pattern. But the experience gave me a useful way to think about what we are learning today. Having cognitive capacity does not necessarily mean that we are using that capacity efficiently. I may be motivated, active, and ready to work—but if I am under-recovered, under-slept, distracted, or trying to process too many competing inputs, my brain may have to expend more energy to sustain focus. This helped me understand the Movement Loop at a more personal level: Movement can help activate my brain. Attention gives that activation a target. But recovery may influence how efficiently I can sustain that attention and use it for learning. My scan did not define what my brain could do. It gave me another reason to examine the conditions under which my brain performs at its best. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before asking yourself—or someone else—to focus, make the target of attention clear. Start by completing this sentence: “The most important thing to notice right now is…” Then reduce the competition around it. We all know to do this. Silence unnecessary notifications. Close unrelated tabs. Remove extra materials from view. Avoid asking the brain to switch repeatedly between tasks. If you are teaching, make the relevance visible: “Why does this matter?” “What should students be listening or looking for?” “How does this connect to something they already know?” If you are working independently, write your one priority clearly where you can see it. Remember, the goal is not to force the brain to attend to everything. The goal is to help it identify (with your RAS-that filter in your brain) what deserves your priority. Your experiment is: Choose one target, (something you want to accomplish) remove as many unnecessary sources of interference as possible, and create one meaningful reason to pay attention. This also helps explain why keeping your desk clear, your closet organized, or your car tidy may make you feel calmer and more focused. How we do anything is how we do everything. Every object, notification, unfinished task, or piece of visual clutter can become another potential signal competing for your attention. That does not mean everything must be perfectly organized before you can begin (while some of us would prefer to work this way), perfection can become its own form of interference. Just get started. It simply means that when you reduce unnecessary visual and mental competition, you make it easier for the brain to recognize the priority in front of you. Clear the space. Name the target. Create the relevance. Then give the task your full attention. Lesson 3: Attention Is Necessary—but It Is Not Enough Paying attention to information once does not guarantee that it will be remembered. This is where Dr. Medina's memory rules enter: Repeat to remember. Remember to repeat. The first refers to giving new information more than one opportunity to be encoded. The second points toward revisiting information over time. This allows you to extend the Movement Loop: Movement prepares the brain and body. Attention selects what to focus on. Retrieval and Repetition strengthens our focus. Recovery helps us to integrate what we are learning. PUT THIS INTO ACTION After learning something new, do not immediately reread it. First, look away from the material and try to retrieve it. Ask yourself: “What were the three most important ideas?” “How would I explain this without looking at my notes?” “What can I remember on my own?” Retrieval reveals the difference between recognizing information and actually being able to access it. Then return to the material, check what you missed, and retrieve it again later—after an hour, the next day, or several days afterward. For students, this could mean closing the textbook and explaining the lesson to a partner. For professionals, it could mean summarizing a meeting before reviewing the notes. For personal learning, it could mean recording a short voice memo explaining the idea from memory. Your experiment is: Learn it once, retrieve it without looking, and schedule a brief return to it later. See if you can remember it. Attention begins the pathway. Retrieval and repetition help strengthen it. Andrea's Application This lesson reminded me of one part of the cognitive testing that accompanied my brain scan at Amen Clinics: a Continuous Performance Test, or CPT. In the version I completed, letters appeared on a computer screen. The instruction was to press a button whenever a letter appeared—except when the letter was X. This type of task may sound simple, but it requires you to remain attentive over time, respond consistently, and inhibit your automatic response when the target letter appears. My results indicated that this was an area in which I did not perform as strongly. Looking back, I remember hearing the basic instruction: press the button for every letter except X. But I do not remember fully appreciating that the speed and consistency of my responses also mattered. This gave me an important real-life lesson: Hearing an instruction is not the same as accurately encoding everything the task requires. Before beginning something important, pause and ask: “What exactly am I being asked to do?” “What details determine successful performance?” “Can I explain the instructions back in my own words?” And, when appropriate, write down the key steps before beginning. This applies in a classroom, during a meeting, while completing an assessment, or whenever accuracy matters. First, attend to the full instruction. Then restate or retrieve it. Clarify anything that is missing. And only then begin the task. My experience showed me that attention is not just about working harder or concentrating more intensely. It is also about identifying the correct target—and making sure we understand the complete task before directing our effort toward it. Lesson 4: Learning Becomes Stronger When It Has More Than One Path Dr. Medina's Brain Rule #9 about sensory integration and vision(meaning our brains learn and remember best when multiple senses—like sight, sound, and touch—are engaged at the same time) give you the practical learning background to involve ALL of your senses. While teaching and learning you can ask: Can I see it? Can I hear it? Can I explain it? Can I demonstrate it? Can I connect it to something I already know? Can I apply it physically or practically? The goal is not sensory stimulation for its own sake. It is to provide clear, relevant pathways through which the learner can interact with the information. Our Key lesson: The more meaningfully we interact with information that we are learning, the more opportunities the brain has to encode and retrieve it. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Choose one idea you want to remember and interact with it in at least two meaningful ways. You might: See it in a diagram. Hear it explained. Say it in your own words. Write or draw it. Teach it to someone else. Demonstrate it physically. Connect it to a previous experience. Or apply it to a real problem. The goal is not to add noise or stimulation. More input is not automatically better. Each interaction should make the idea clearer, more relevant, or easier to retrieve. For example, instead of only reading about the Movement Loop, you could draw the sequence, explain it aloud, and identify where it appears in your own daily routine. Your experiment is: Take one important idea and represent it in two different, meaningful ways. The more deeply we work with information, the more opportunities the brain has to encode and retrieve it. Andrea's Application If you have been listening to this podcast for a while, I'm sure you have noticed that when I organize an idea into a framework—or represent it in a visual graphic—it begins to come to life. I can see how the pieces from past episodes connect, can explain the concept more clearly, and retrieve and apply it to my life more easily. It's also difficult to forget something when there's a visual image connected to it if you are the type of learner who needs to see something to make it stick in your memory. LESSON 5: RECOVERY HELPS LEARNING CONTINUE AFTER ATTENTION ENDS So far, we have followed learning through four important steps: Movement prepares the brain and body. RAS helps “turn on the lights,” allowing us to become awake, alert, and ready to respond. Next, the brain begins identifying what might be important to us. Salience refers to something that stands out—perhaps because it is new, unexpected, emotional, or connected to a possible reward or threat. Relevance refers to how closely that information connects to our goals, needs, experiences, or interests. In simple terms: Salience asks, “What stands out?” Relevance asks, “What matters to me?” Attention through the RAS next directs the brain's spotlight toward the information selected for deeper processing. Imagine a flashlight shining on whatever it is that you have picked to be important to learn. Encoding creates the initial memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. But learning does not necessarily end when we close the book, leave the classroom, finish the meeting, or stop practicing. The brain still needs time to stabilize, organize, and connect what we learned. This is where recovery and sleep enter the Movement Loop. SLEEP IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF LEARNING Sleep is not a period when the brain simply switches off. While we sleep, the brain continues processing information from the day. Newly encoded memories may be reactivated, strengthened, reorganized, and connected with knowledge we already have. This is called memory consolidation. In simple terms, consolidation helps make a new memory more stable and easier to access later. Deep non-REM sleep and REM sleep may support different but overlapping parts of this process. Deep sleep is associated with physical restoration and the consolidation of certain facts and experiences. REM sleep has been associated with emotional learning, procedural skills, creative connections, and integrating new experiences with older memories. But we should not think of these as completely separate jobs. Deep sleep and REM are parts of a repeating sleep cycle, and both may contribute to learning. This is why I use the phrases: Deep sleep helps me recover from the hard work I did that day. REM may help me integrate what I experienced and what it meant to me. The word “may” matters because sleep is more complex than saying that deep sleep only restores the body and REM alone integrates learning. The most important lesson is this: What we focus on while we are awake gives the brain something to work with while we sleep. Retrieval and repetition strengthen the information before sleep. Then sleep provides conditions that can help stabilize, organize, and connect what we learned. THE MOVEMENT LOOP IN SIMPLE TERMS Let's put the complete cognitive side of the Movement Loop into simple language. MOVE—to prepare the brain and body. BECOME READY—RAS- in the brain helps us become awake, alert, and available to respond. NOTICE—salience helps something stand out because it is new, emotional, unexpected, rewarding, or potentially threatening. RELEVANCE—relevance helps the brain recognize how that information relates to our goals, needs, interests, or previous experiences. ATTENTION—directs our mental resources or a spotlight toward the selected information. ENCODE—begins forming a memory of what we are focused on. RETRIEVE AND REPEAT—strengthens the memory and makes it easier to access again. RECOVERY and CONSOLIDATION—so the brain and body can restore, and sleep can support memory consolidation. Leading us to-- INTEGRATION—to connect the new learning with what we already know. APPLY—Making the learning available and ready to use when we need it. So, in its expanded form, the Movement Loop looks like this: Movement → RAS-Supports Readiness → Salience and Relevance (what's important to us)→ Focused Attention → Encoding (forms the memory of what we are focused on)→ Retrieval and Repetition (to strengthen the neural pathway) → Recovery and Consolidation (important for the brain and body to be rested and recovered)→ Integration (connect new learning with what we already know)→ NEW Learning and Performance (ready and available for us whenever we need it). Here is an even easier way to remember how we LEARN: Move. Wake or Get Ready. Notice. Focus. Form a Memory. Strengthen it. Recover it. Connect it. Use it. Movement prepares the system. The RAS helps us become alert. Salience and relevance identify possible priorities. Attention selects the target. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. Recovery and sleep help stabilize it. Integration connects it. And application makes it useful. These stages do not always occur in a perfectly straight line. We may notice something before we are fully focused on it. We may need several rounds of encoding and retrieval. We may sleep on an idea and understand it differently the following day. Or we may try to apply what we learned and discover that part of the pathway still needs strengthening. That is why this is a loop rather than a one-way process. Application produces feedback. That feedback shows us what we understand, what we can retrieve and use, and what still requires attention, repetition, or recovery. Then that feedback guides the next cycle of learning. We move again. We become ready. We direct our attention toward what matters. And with each cycle, we build learning that becomes more accessible, adaptable, and useful in our performance. PUT THIS INTO ACTION Before ending your next learning or work session, take one minute to ask: “What is the most important thing I want to remember?” Without looking at your notes, write down the central idea in your own words. Then decide when you will retrieve it again—perhaps later that day or the following morning. After that, give yourself permission to recover. When your attention is fading, another exhausted hour may not be as valuable as a break or a full night of sleep. The following day, try to retrieve the idea again before looking at your notes. Notice what remained accessible and what needs another repetition. Your experiment is simple: Summarize it. Sleep on it. Retrieve it again. Because learning begins while we are awake—but recovery and sleep help the brain continue the work. The Move–Focus–Learn Protocol BRINGING THE FIVE ACTIONS TOGETHER Here is the full Move–Focus–Learn experiment: Test this in school, work or personal learning: Use a brief walk or appropriate movement break before demanding cognitive work. This is what I told Dr. Medina 6 years ago is the only way I'm able to stay focused on writing difficult topics, like this one. Identify the one thing that deserves your attention next. Pick one priority you will focus on. Remove interference. Reduce unnecessary notifications, competing tasks and distractions. This can take a few minutes ahead of time, but keeps the learning slate clean so to speak. Create relevance. Ask, “Why does this matter to me—or to this learner?” Interact with the information you want to learn. Explain it, visualize it, discuss it, demonstrate it or apply it. Retrieve it. Close the book or screen and recall the important ideas without looking. Repeat it later. Return to the information after time has passed. Protect recovery. Allow sleep and recovery to support the next stage of learning. REVIEW AND CONCLUSION As we close out Episode 406, I want to return to the question we began with: Once movement activates and prepares the brain, what determines whether that readiness becomes lasting learning? The answer is not one single process. Learning emerges through a sequence of connected conditions: The brain and body must become ready. Something must stand out and feel relevant. Attention must select it. The information must be encoded. It must be retrieved and revisited. And recovery and sleep must provide opportunities for consolidation and integration. Dr. John Medina's Brain Rules helped us follow this sequence through five key lessons. LESSON 1: EXERCISE PREPARES THE BRAIN Movement helps create biological conditions that support alertness, attention, and cognition. The RAS contributes to this process by helping us become awake, alert, and ready to respond. But movement creates an opportunity—not a guarantee. A prepared brain still needs direction. LESSON 2: ATTENTION SELECTS WHAT MATTERS The brain encounters far more information than it can consciously process. Salience helps us notice what stands out. Relevance connects that information to our goals, needs, interests, or previous experiences. Attention then directs the brain's spotlight toward the selected target. Movement may create greater readiness, but attention determines where that readiness goes. LESSON 3: RETRIEVAL AND REPETITION STRENGTHEN WHAT ATTENTION BEGINS Paying attention once may create familiarity, but familiarity is not the same as learning. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval asks the brain to locate that information again. Repetition gives us additional opportunities to strengthen our access to it. This is why explaining an idea without looking at our notes can be more useful than simply rereading it. Attention begins the pathway. Retrieval and repetition help make it last. LESSON 4: MEANINGFUL INTERACTION HELPS LEARNING STICK We can strengthen encoding by interacting with an idea in more than one meaningful way. We might see it, hear it, explain it, draw it, demonstrate it, or apply it. The goal is not to add as much stimulation as possible. The goal is to give the brain clear and relevant ways to understand, represent, and later retrieve the information. This is something I have experienced while creating this podcast. When I organize an idea into a framework or bring it to life in a visual graphic, I can see how the pieces connect. That helps me explain the idea more clearly, remember it more easily, and apply it more effectively. LESSON 5: RECOVERY ALLOWS LEARNING TO CONTINUE Learning does not necessarily end when we close the book, leave the classroom, finish the meeting, or stop practicing. During sleep, newly encoded information may be reactivated, stabilized, reorganized, and connected with existing knowledge. Deep non-REM sleep and REM sleep may contribute to this process in different but complementary ways. This is why recovery is not separate from learning. Recovery is part of the learning process. PUTTING THE MOVEMENT LOOP TOGETHER The complete cognitive side of the Movement Loop now looks like this: Movement prepares the brain and body. RAS-supported arousal helps us become awake and alert. Salience and relevance help identify possible priorities. Attention selects the target. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen it. Recovery and sleep support consolidation. Integration connects the new learning with what we already know. And application makes that learning available when we need it. Or, in its simplest form: Move. Wake. Notice. Focus. Form. Strengthen. Recover. Connect. Use. Movement creates readiness. Attention provides direction. Encoding begins the memory. Retrieval and repetition strengthen the pathway. Recovery supports consolidation and integration. And application turns what we have learned into improved performance. Together, these processes help turn activity into lasting learning. FINAL THOUGHT This is not the first time we have explored Dr. John Medina's work, but each return has allowed us to ask a different question. In Episode 42[ix], we asked: How should schools and workplaces change when we understand the brain? In Episode 370[x], we asked: How can neuroscience and emotional regulation improve learning environments? In Episode 395[xi], we asked: What captures attention and motivates behavior? And here in Episode 406, we asked: How does an activated and attentive brain convert an experience into learning? That question has helped us add important detail to the Movement Loop. Movement alone does not create learning. Attention alone does not create lasting memory. Repetition without meaning may not produce understanding. And effort without recovery may not give the brain the conditions it needs to consolidate and integrate what happened. Each part of the process matters. Before we close, consider these questions: What are you preparing your brain to notice? Where is your attention going after you move? Are you interacting with important information deeply enough to encode it? Are you retrieving what you are learning—or merely rereading it? And are you protecting the recovery that allows learning to continue? Because what we repeatedly attend to, retrieve, and apply begins to shape what we know, what we can do, and how we perform. PREPARING FOR EPISODE 407 Movement can prepare the brain. Attention can direct it. Encoding can begin the memory. Retrieval and repetition can strengthen it. And recovery can help consolidate and integrate it. But every part of this process requires energy. The brain needs energy to direct attention, form memories, regulate behavior, and sustain performance. The body needs energy to move, adapt, recover, and begin the cycle again. So in Episode 407, we will revisit Jason Wittrock's work through a more current and carefully defined lens. We'll examine his experience with nutrition and fasting as an applied practitioner and personal case study, while comparing those ideas with current evidence surrounding nutrition, blood-sugar stability, metabolic flexibility, recovery, and performance. Because the brain and body cannot sustain performance without the energy required to power the system. I'll see you next time as we ask: How does metabolic health influence our capacity to move, learn, recover, and perform? RESOURCES Clip 1 with Dr. John Medina https://www.youtube.com/shorts/zDItOHAc8qQ Full Interview with Dr. John Medina https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFzg5nQnEMs REFERENCE [i] John Medina's Brain Rule #4 https://brainrules.net/article/attention/ [ii] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 42 with Dr. John Medina on “Implementing Brain Rules in Schools and Workplaces of the Future” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/dr-john-medina-on-implementing-brain-rules-in-the-schools-and-workplaces-of-the-future/ [iii]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 403 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-first-how-a-20%e2%80%91minute-walk-lights-up-the-brain/ [iv]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 404 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-matters-how-every-move-rewires-the-brain/ [v] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 405 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/movement-isnt-enough-how-recovery-drives-real-adaptation/ [vi]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 272 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/brain-fact-friday-on-priming-the-reticular-activating-system-to-achieve-our-goals-in-2023/ [vii] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 395 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/theory-of-mind-the-missing-link-between-attention-reward-and-motivation/ [viii]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 84 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/how-a-spect-scan-can-change-your-life-part-3-with-andrea-samadi/ [ix] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 42 with Dr. John Medina on “Implementing Brain Rules in Schools and Workplaces of the Future” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/dr-john-medina-on-implementing-brain-rules-in-the-schools-and-workplaces-of-the-future/ [x]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 370 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/brain-rules-revisited-how-neuroscience-can-transform-classrooms/ [xi]Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE 395 https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/theory-of-mind-the-missing-link-between-attention-reward-and-motivation/
Have you ever had that feeling like something is missing in your business? No matter how much progress you've made, how many clients you've worked with, how many courses you've invested in, there's still a little voice telling you that you haven't quite found it yet.I hear this a lot. And it always comes from women who are doing incredibly well on paper. So they convince themselves they need to improve their messaging, find a new strategy, or that they've outgrown their positioning.No, you don't.There's something deeper going on in your subconscious mind, and it has everything to do with your reticular activating system and the limiting beliefs underneath that keep you stuck in that "I'm still missing something" feeling. It's time to overcome that self doubt!Topics covered on Feeling Like Something Is Missing:Why do you still feel like something is missing even though your business is doing well?What is the reticular activating system filter and why does it matter for your business?The reason comparison gets so loud when you're already wondering what you're missing.The question to ask instead if you want to overcome that self doubt once and for all.Connect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious InstituteCome say hi on Instagram | YouTube | WebsiteRelated episodes you may enjoy:132. Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality220. Change the Way You Think About Comparison Forever
Send us Fan MailWhat if the belief that's quietly shaping your entire life isn't true? The question, "Am I enough?" rarely announces itself out loud. Instead, it hides behind perfectionism, people-pleasing, overworking, comparison, and the constant search for external validation.In this episode, we uncover where the belief of "not enough" really begins, why it becomes so deeply embedded, and—most importantly—how to free yourself from it. Because once you see how this story is created, you stop living your life as though you're constantly trying to earn your worth.We explore how childhood experiences can shape a lasting sense of inadequacy, whether through criticism, feeling unseen, rejection, or the meaning we innocently attached to situations as children. From there, we examine how this belief continues to influence our adult lives—through social media comparison, relationship patterns, career success, and the pursuit of achievement as a way of proving our value.I also share a personal moment involving my own podcast statistics and how easily genuine self-expression can become a search for validation if we're not paying attention.Drawing on the wisdom of Byron Katie, Eckhart Tolle, and Michael Singer, we explore practical ways to question limiting beliefs, create space between ourselves and our thoughts, and rediscover the truth that our worth was never something to earn. We also look at the Reticular Activating System and why asking better questions can transform the evidence your mind begins to notice—shifting your confidence, mindset, and daily experience.This is an invitation to stop chasing your worth and remember what has been true all along:You were never broken. You were never missing anything. You have always been enough.Support the showThank you for listening
This is my fifth and final episode before Sari returns, and I'm leaving you with a topic that completely changed my life: manifestation. I used to think it was complete bullshit, too. But it's not magic—it's neuroscience, awareness, and getting out of your own way. In this last episode, I break down: Why fear and self-doubt are the biggest obstacles to creating the life you want The "Upper Limit Problem" and how we unknowingly sabotage ourselves How your brain's Reticular Activating System helps you recognize opportunities that were there all along The story of how Sari and I manifested our dream beach house The daily ritual I use to stay intentional, focused, and moving toward the future I want to create Thank you for hanging out with me this summer. It's been an honor, and I hope these conversations challenged you to think differently—about your cases, and about yourself. Until next time, Coach K If you'd like to explore some of the resources I mentioned in the episode, I've included links below. The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks – Learn how to identify and overcome the "Upper Limit Problem"—the subconscious beliefs and self-sabotaging behaviors that keep you from reaching your full potential. The Power of Consistency by Weldon Long – A practical guide to creating lasting success through daily habits, intentional action, and a clear vision for the life you want to build.
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How do you believe in yourself when you're the best in the world at believing in everyone else? Someone in your world is doubting herself right now, and you don't hesitate for one second to tell her why she's ready. But when you need to believe in yourself, suddenly you need more proof, more time, more certainty.In today's episode I'm talking about why it is easier to believe in everyone else than yourself. We'll look at why your subconscious treats self belief as a threat while backing everyone else feels completely safe, and one tool that will help you change it all.You already coach everyone else brilliantly, so this week I want you to become your own client and coach yourself.Topics covered on How To Believe In Yourself:Why does believing in everyone else feel so much easier than believing in yourself?Why does backing a client feel safe while backing yourself feels like a threat?What is your subconscious getting backwards about self belief?How do you coach yourself in the moments you struggle to believe in yourself?Connect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious MembershipCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeRelated episodes:132. Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality263. How to Make Your Subconscious Believe What You Consciously Want264. Why Self Belief Is More Important Than Strategy (Subconscious Secrets)
(0:00) Intro(0:32) The Shocking Story of a Muslim and a Soldier(1:53) Why Didn't He Run Away?(2:31) Reticular Activating System & Limbic Lock(3:36) Thousands Died Because of Mental Defeat(4:12) When Belief System Overpowers Common Sense(5:06) This Is Still Happening Today(5:52) Tatars, Fatwas & Yajuj Majuj(7:36) How Misinterpretation Locked the Muslim Mind(8:17) Blind Authority and Religious Fear(9:28) The Mongols Later Became Muslims(10:18) Taking Scholars as Final Authority(12:21) America, Israel & The Modern Muslim Fear(13:31) Train Your Children to Break the Lock(14:01) Only Allah's Word Is Final(15:14) Fear Created by Parents and Society(16:13) Making Everything Great Except Allah(17:31) How This Mindset Forms in Childhood(18:23) Do Not Make the Qur'an Negative for Children(19:31) Fear of Qur'an Creates Dependence on Others(20:42) Why Muslims Stopped Researching the Qur'an(22:41) Fear of Humans More Than Allah(24:42) Technology, Iron Dome & Modern Idols(26:00) Faith vs 100% Certainty(27:03) What Real Iman Actually Means(30:52) Scaring Children Creates Defeated Adults(31:47) Love of Dunya and Fear of Death(33:07) The Real Idols Inside the Muslim Mind Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What if your next level was not just something you could visualize, but something you could hang on your wall and see every single day? This week on the Glow Up, Gyrl Podcast, Kyra sits down with Cameron Cohen, Los Angeles-based artist and creator of the Manifestation Painting, a unique form of visual manifestation. Through a guided visualization process, Cameron maps out her clients' goals and intentions and translates them into custom paintings that hold the frequency of those intentions and serve as a daily reminder of the life they are calling in. She is also the artist behind the Love Mural exhibit, a series of hundreds of smaller paintings infused with the frequency of love being shared with people around the world. This conversation is equal parts science, art, and soul, and it will absolutely change how you think about manifestation. In this episode: What a Manifestation Painting actually is and how the entire process works The science behind why visual manifestation works: the Reticular Activating System explained Why vision boards stay hidden under guest beds and how art changes that The role of belief, emotion, and deserving in making manifestation actually work How Cameron discovered she could read paint patterns the way others read tea leaves Why COVID was a renaissance for Cameron and how it birthed her entire practice What it means to reinvent yourself at 50 and keep going anyway The Love Mural exhibit and the frequency of love being sent around the world Whether you have been trying to manifest for years or are just starting to get curious about the practice, this episode is going to give you a whole new framework for calling in the life you are meant for. Learn more and commission a painting: cameroncohenart.com Follow Cameron: @cameroncohenart Stay connected to Glow Up, Gyrl: Website: glowupgyrl.com | Email: hello@glowupgyrl.com Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn: @glowupgyrl | Facebook: @glowupgyrlatl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This podcast is made possible by our listeners and viewers. If this show has brought you value, you can support it by becoming a member of The Way Forward, our platform designed to help you find the health and freedom community (people, practitioners, schools, farms, and more) near you. Your membership directly supports the podcast and the work we do.A neuroscience student at UT Austin is challenging the foundation of his own field.Brandon Cowling is a 20-year-old pre-med junior with over 70K followers, exploring where neuroscience meets consciousness. His perspective matters because he's inside the curriculum asking the questions most students are trained not to ask.You'll learn why the Epstein file release functions as mass trauma neuroscience, hijacking the amygdala and shutting down the prefrontal cortex across millions.This episode is jam-packed. Together, we examine Kundalini as a measurable nervous system phenomenon, how the spiritual community and scientists jump to causes they can't prove, why the placebo effect might be the most ignored truth in modern medicine, the Ancel Keys fraud, manifestation as both biology and something more, and what it means to increase love into a system designed to make you feel helpless.You'll Learn:[0:00] Introduction[13:51] The Ancel Keys fraud that built decades of saturated fat dogma[24:49] How 4 adult rabbits became the safety proof for infant vaccine adjuvants[32:05] Is consciousness created by the brain or expressed through it?[49:17] What neuroscience says about kundalini and why it's not just woo[58:47] A Law of One dream, a vibrating awakening, and a message about Ra[1:04:57] Why spiritual people jump to esoteric causes too fast, and scientists miss the metaphysical[1:26:30] The Tanganyika laughter epidemic and what 204 contagion studies found[1:31:37] Why going pre-med while knowing the system's corruption is the harder path[1:38:34] German New Medicine, cancer, and how belief itself becomes the cure[1:48:36] Service to self versus service to others and the 51% threshold for polarization[1:54:35] Why fighting darkness with darkness fails, and love is the only real weapon[2:10:07] Skepticism about government UFO disclosureRelated The Way Forward Episodes:The Hidden Meaning of The Law of One: Densities, Love & Humanity's Evolution | Edmund Knighton | YouTubeResources Mentioned:Neuroscience of the Epstein Files by Brandon's Brainwave | InstagramSecret of Light by Walter Russel | Free PDFThe Surrender Experiment by Michael A. Singer | BookCan You Catch A Cold?: Untold History & Human Experiments by Daniel Roytas | BookThe Ra Material: Law of One by Elkins, McCarty and Rueckert | BookA Course in Miracles | WebsiteFind more from Brandon:Brandon Cowling | InstagramSoltopiah | WebsiteFind more from Alec:Alec Zeck | Instagram | XThe Way Forward | InstagramDonate to The Way Forward here.The Way Forward is Sponsored By:Want more crypto insights and a community to back you up?Join the Crypto Freedom Academy today. It's 100% free and designed to help you master the markets.
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to notice opportunities, guidance, and synchronicities everywhere they go while others feel disconnected and lost?In this episode of Inspire Create Manifest, Joe explores a powerful question:Is the renewing of the mind that Paul spoke about actually the spiritual practice of directing our attention?Drawing connections between scripture, neuroscience, neuroplasticity, and the Reticular Activating System, Joe breaks down why what we focus on shapes what we experience.This isn't about positive thinking.It's about intentional focus.You'll discover how Philippians 4:8 and Proverbs 23:7 align with modern science, why your brain continually searches for evidence that supports your dominant thoughts, and how faith may not change what exists around you, but radically change what you're able to notice.If you're ready to move from fear into faith, from distraction into awareness, and from uncertainty into clarity, this episode is for you.
What if the only real limit is the story your brain keeps accepting? Kyle and Brent Pease — co-founders of the Kyle Pease Foundation and veteran Ironman competitors — have completed over 150 races together, including multiple Ironman events, with Kyle racing from his wheelchair. But this isn't a story about disability. It's about what becomes available when you decide to see possibility where others see a ceiling. In this episode, Kyle and Brent share how a single question — can people in wheelchairs do an Ironman? — launched a movement that helped over 170 athletes cross more than 1,300 finish lines in one year alone. If you want to lead at a higher level, perform with more grit, and discover what you're actually capable of, this conversation will rewire the way you see your own limits. ABOUT LARRY OLSEN Larry Olsen is a Two-Time Vistage Speaker of the Year and Fortune 50/500 Executive Performance Advisor with 40+ years of client work at Toyota, PepsiCo, Starbucks, Harley-Davidson, Honda, American Airlines, State Farm, Frito Lay, Lexus, and Tropicana. He is the author of Get a Vision and Live It! and the founder of Performance Driven Neurology, the methodology combining cognitive psychology and neuroscience for C-suite leadership. ABOUT KYLE AND BRENT PEASE Kyle and Brent Pease are brothers, co-founders of the Kyle Pease Foundation, and one of the most decorated inclusive endurance duos in the world. Kyle, who has cerebral palsy and has used a wheelchair for 41 years, is an Ironman finisher and the face of a 15-year movement that is redefining what inclusion looks like in endurance sports. Learn more about the Kyle Pease Foundation at kylepeasefoundation.org. READY TO START YOUR OWN BRAIN HACKS PRACTICE? If something Kyle, Brent, or Larry said landed for you in this episode, the next step is the Brain Hacks Intensive. It is a guided practice that walks you through the foundational mindset shifts behind the Performance Driven Neurology methodology, the same shifts Larry teaches Fortune 500 executives and the same principles Kyle and Brent have lived out for 15 years. Brain Hacks Intensive: https://neuromindedcollective.com/brain-hacks-challenge CONNECT WITH LARRY Website: larryolsen.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/larry-r-olsen CONNECT WITH KYLE AND BRENT Website: kylepeasefoundation.org
In today's episode we talk about the Red Car Theory and how your brain's filtering system shapes the way you experience the world.We dive into the Reticular Activating System why being specific about your goals matters and how your focus determines the opportunities you notice each day. We also talk about how your brain works in a similar way to social media algorithms showing you more of what you consistently pay attention to.This episode is your reminder to become more intentional with your focus and start training your mind to recognize the opportunities that may already be all around you.If you're ready to surround yourself with inspiration, opportunities and women who dream big, join us at the most expansive event of the year for women: Business & Dreams Summit. We'd love to meet you there! Business & Dreams Summit Thank you so much for listening and being part of this journey with us!P.S. If you're curious to learn more about our coaching program Business & Dreams Academy, join our waitlist here.You can also DM us “BDA” on Instagram at @businessanddreams.
Hey guys, so I posted a carousel on Friday night breaking down my funnel and honestly the DMs have been wild.The part that shocked people the most? I sell 40+ courses every month with no ads and no launches. People just find them and buy.So I'm walking you through the whole thing in this episode.How I go from a post on Instagram to a $7 course sale to people buying again and again. The customer ladder. The Google Doc method for the mastermind. Why 72% of people actually finish my courses and come back.The mechanics are simpler than you think, and I promise 90% of you are missing step one.Come listen. I think this one's going to be useful
Reality INspyrd | The Law of Observation, Your RAS & Co-Creating Your Reality Hey, firefly. This one's for you. ✨ In this episode Ashley goes deep into the Law of Observation and the silver thread connecting quantum physics, synchronicity, and your Reticular Activating System (RAS) — the network of neurons in your brain stem that filters what you consciously see and experience every single day. Whatever you are observing, expecting, and collecting evidence for... your reality keeps delivering. The question is — what are you tuned into? In This Episode We Cover: What the Reticular Activating System (RAS) is and how it shapes your reality Whether synchronicities were always there — or if you're co-creating them How limiting beliefs get wired in through your upbringing, environment, and lived experiences The observer effect — quantum physics, the tree in the forest, and what it means for your life How to consciously reprogram your RAS through hypnosis, meditation, breathwork, prayer, and affirmation Karma, fate, and what it means to learn through the hard stuff Being the alchemist of your own life Why getting present every day is the most radical act of self-reclamation Ashley's personal tools and an open invitation to go deeper Referenced In This Episode: Dr. Joe Dispenza Gregg Braden The Matrix — the observer effect + quantum reality The Reticular Activating System (RAS) The observer effect in quantum physics Try This: Pick something simple — a blue butterfly, an owl, an old $5 bill. Set the intention to see it. Watch what your RAS does. Then ask yourself — what else are you open to? Work With Ashley: If you want support through breathwork, hypnosis, meditation, or movement — Ashley's got you. Reach out via Instagram or the website below. If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs it
What if the reason your affirmations are not working has nothing to do with how hard you are trying, and everything to do with how your brain is wired? In this birthday special solo episode, I am pulling a teaching straight from inside the Creative Frequency to introduce you to one of the most powerful mindset tools I have ever used: askfirmations. These are not affirmations. They are curiosity-driven questions that hijack your Reticular Activating System and send your brain on a search for evidence, opportunities, and possibilities it was literally filtering out before.I am breaking down the real neuroscience behind why curiosity works better than forced belief, including how it activates dopamine, lowers nervous system resistance, and bypasses the identity blocks that keep you stuck. I also walk you through the full askfirmation practice so you can start using it today. This one is a gift, literally. It is my birthday, I am turning 55, and I am giving you access to the kind of teaching I usually only share inside my paid programs. Do not skip the show notes. There is a birthday gift waiting for you there too.In this episode, you'll learn:00:27 -- Austin, Birthday week, and what is coming this summer01:06 -- Why so many people are in a hard season right now and what curiosity has to do with it02:19 -- What the Creative Frequency is and why I pulled this teaching for the show04:59 -- What askfirmations are and why they work where affirmations fall short07:25 -- The neuroscience: RAS, identity, nervous system, and how curiosity rewires all of it13:39 -- How curiosity activates dopamine and shifts you from desperation to energized pursuit16:49 -- How to practice curiosity daily and the stillness ritual that makes it land19:19 -- Your askfirmation exercise: how to write, record, and use your list every single day20:48 -- Birthday gift announcement: free visibility activations from The BreakthroughHere are the resources mentioned in the show:Birthday Gift - Free Visibility ActivationsThe Creative FrequencyThe Wealthy Creative SocietyAre you enjoying the podcast? We'd be so grateful if you gave us a rating and review! Your 5 star ratings help us reach more businesses like yours and allows us to continue to deliver valuable content every single week. Click here to review the show on Apple podcast or your favorite platformSelect “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review”Share your favorite insights and inspirationsIf you haven't done so yet, make sure that you subscribe to the show wherever you listen to podcasts and on Apple Podcast for special bonus content you won't get elsewhere.xo, Tracy MatthewsFollow on Social:Follow @Flourish_Thrive on InstagramFollow @iamtracymatthews InstagramFollow Flourish & Thrive Facebook
There's a story I tell clients that gives them goosebumps every single time. It involves me ugly crying on my bed in 2020, an iced latte's worth of frustration, and a request I made to the universe that was so ridiculous, so unlikely, there was no way it could ever come true. A blue panda.The universe delivered 3 days later.And it cracked open everything I thought I understood about subconscious beliefs. I'm talking about the gap between knowing vs believing. This gap is the reason so many of you are stuck in the exact same income, same clients, same ceiling, year after year.Because you can have the qualifications, read the books, follow the coaches, and still find yourself lowering your prices on sales calls and taking 5 days to post one piece of content. That's the gap between knowing vs believing. And the fix lives inside your reticular activating system, not your strategy.By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly which side of that gap you're on. And what it actually takes to cross it.Topics covered on Subconscious Beliefs:The blue panda story, what happens when you ask the universe for a sign so ridiculous it cannot possibly come true, and it does anywayYour subconscious beliefs are running 95% of every decision in your business so better make sure they're aligned with your goalsYour reticular activating system can be your best friend or worst enemy, this is how to hack your brain to help you smash your goalsVision boards, journaling prompts, and New Year's decisions are not enough to shift your subconscious beliefs on their ownThe subconscious mind work I did to build my self beliefConnect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious MembershipCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeRelated episodes you may enjoy:117. Moving Out of Victim Mentality132. Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality261. Why Manifestation Isn't Magic... It's Just Good Subconscious Programming
#284: Josie is talking about body image, confidence, and why women are more exhausted than ever by the pressure to look perfect. From SkinnyTok and “Pilates body” culture to the return of ultra-thin beauty standards, Josie breaks down the cultural shift happening right now, and why obsessing over shrinking ourselves is stealing so much more than just our confidence. She shares the mindset shifts and psychological tools that genuinely helped heal her relationship with her body, including somatic psychology, embodied cognition, the Reticular Activating System, and how to stop letting insecurity dictate your life.You'll learn:The psychology behind body insecurity and comparisonHow social media rewires the way we see ourselvesThe connection between confidence and nervous system safetyWhy “body positivity” can feel unrealistic (and what to practice instead)How to stop letting insecurity control your summerThe most healing mindset shift for body image and self-worthFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
So I woke up this week and lost 150 followers overnight. Sigh…But what happened next was not what I expected at all. I did one tiny thing, took me less than five minutes, and the results genuinely shocked me.Come listen. I think this one's going to stick with you
That number sequence you keep seeing. The song that plays at exactly the right moment. The stranger who says the thing you needed to hear. These aren't accidents — they're messages, and this episode is all about learning to receive them. Alea breaks down the power of writing your synchronicities down and how that simple act speaks directly to your subconscious, training your Reticular Activating System to filter reality toward alignment and meaning. The more you honor the signs, the more the universe sends them. Alea explores how synchronicities are the bridge between your inner world and outer reality — proof that your psyche and the cosmos are in constant conversation. Jung believed these charged "meaningful coincidences" were messages from the collective unconscious, the great invisible field that connects us all. In other words, the Great Beyond isn't silent. It's been speaking to you all along — in symbols, in timing, in the shivers you feel when something just clicks. Your job? Start writing it down.You are loved. I stand with all humans on earth in love.Work with me, your host, here: Thelovelyalea.comOrder MEANINGFUL MANIFESTATION thelovelyalea.com/bookGet spiritual 1-on-1 Coaching thelovelyalea.com/servicesBecome a Patreon Member to get behind the scenes, extra content, and workshops.patreon.com/thelovelyaleaFollow me on Instagram instagram.com/thelovelyalea ( Remember I will never DM you for readings - watch out for Scammers ! )Intro Music by LGHTWRKR https://on.soundcloud.com/aMPrn31mG8mp3Er7gH
https://teachhoops.com/ In this episode of Coach Unplugged, we dive into a psychological concept that is taking the coaching world by storm: The Red Car Theory. Have you ever decided to buy a specific car—let's say a red Jeep—and suddenly you start seeing that exact car on every corner, in every parking lot, and on every highway? Those cars didn't magically appear; they were always there. Your brain just started "highlighting" them because you told your Reticular Activating System (RAS) that they were important. In coaching, this is the ultimate tool for Intentional Excellence. If you don't tell your players what to look for, their brains will filter out the very opportunities you need them to seize. The Red Car Theory in basketball is simple: You get what you emphasize. If you spend your week talking about "Energy Givers," your players will start noticing (and becoming) energy givers. If you focus on "winning the 50/50 balls," your team will suddenly start seeing those loose-ball opportunities half a second faster than the opponent. During the mid-season January grind, teams often lose their way because their "Red Car" has become the scoreboard or their shooting percentages. Use your TeachHoops member calls to re-calibrate your focus. By picking one "Red Car" per week—whether it's communication, transition sprints, or high-hand closeouts—you train your team's collective brain to hunt for that specific advantage. Finally, remember that the "Red Car" works both ways. if you constantly focus on the "Red Cars" of missed calls, bad luck, or injury frustration, your brain will find "evidence" everywhere to support a victim mentality. To build a championship culture, you must be the Chief Filter Officer. You must explicitly define what the "Red Cars" are for your program. When your players stop seeing "the game" as a blur of motion and start seeing the specific "Red Car" opportunities to impact winning, you have achieved a level of Mental Mastery that few teams ever reach. Stop coaching the noise and start coaching the "Red Cars." The Power of the RAS: Understanding how your brain filters out 99% of what it sees. Emphasis is Reality: Why your team becomes exactly what you choose to highlight in practice. Choosing Your "Red Car": How to pick one tactical or cultural focus to dominate the week. Avoid the "Negative Filter": Guarding against focusing on things you cannot control. Red Car Theory, Reticular Activating System, basketball coaching focus, team culture, intentional excellence, high school basketball, youth basketball, basketball IQ, coach development, mental toughness, player development, championship habits, "The Villanova Way," coach unplugged, teach hoops, basketball success, leadership standards, practice planning, energy givers, athletic leadership. Show NotesKey Takeaways for Your Program:SEO Keywords Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Send Wilk a text with your feedback! (incoming msgs only - I can't reply) Corey Nathan, host of "Talkin' Politics and Religion Without Killin' Each Other" joins Wilk for a conversation about what it actually takes to bridge divides, starting with one of the hardest conversations a person can have: telling your Orthodox Jewish father you've become a Christian.They dig into the real mechanics of tribalism — how confirmation bias works, why the reticular activating system locks us into one-sided views of the world, and how outrage entrepreneurs profit from keeping people angry at each other.But this isn't just a diagnosis. Corey and Wilk talk about practical ways to shift your frame of reference, why one degree of movement matters more than a 180-degree conversion, and what it looks like to stay in relationship with people you profoundly disagree with.If you've ever lost someone — not to death, but to a divide — this one is worth your time.Learn more about and connect with Corey Nathan by checking out the full show notes for this episode at www.DerateTheHate.com.The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for all you've got. Make every day the day that you want it to be!Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on:Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our contact page: DerateTheHate.com/ContactThe Derate The Hate podcast is proudly produced in collaboration with Braver Angels — America's largest grassroots, cross-partisan organization working toward civic renewal and bridging partisan divides. Learn more: BraverAngels.orgWelcome to the Derate The Hate Podcast!*The views expressed by Wilk, his guest hosts &/or guests on the Derate The Hate podcast are their own and should not be attributed to any organization they may otherwise be affiliated with.
You've been waiting for the proof... the consistent months, the sold out programme, the income that finally feels like enough, the moment you can see exactly how it's going to work before you fully back yourself.And every time you get close - something shifts. The goalposts move, you explain it away and you go back to waiting.In this episode, I break down exactly what is happening in your subconscious when you wait for proof and wait for the how and why both of them are the same pattern keeping you exactly where you are. You'll learn why your RAS is actively filtering out every piece of proof you already have, what the proof is actually supposed to give you that no external result ever will, and what actually has to happen first before everything changes.This episode ends with four subconscious prompts to help you work through the proof pattern yourself, so make sure you have a quiet moment to sit with them before you close the episode.Topics covered on Why Waiting for Proof is Keeping You Stuck:What the proof pattern actually is and why waiting for the proof and waiting for the how are the same subconscious moveThe Reticular Activating System, why your brain is actively filtering out the proof you already haveWhat you actually believe the proof is going to give you and why no external result can ever deliver itWhat actually changes everything - the subconscious decision and identity shift that makes the proof and the how finally arriveFour subconscious prompts to help you identify and start shifting your own proof patternConnect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious MembershipCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeRelated episodes you may enjoy:[ep.132] Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality [ep.263] How to Make Your Subconscious Believe What You Consciously Want For full show notes visit https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/why-waiting-for-proof-is-keeping-you-stuck
In this episode, we ditch the science lecture and go straight to the energetics — breaking down the three manifestation methods that have been a core part of my daily practice for the past eight years, plus some exciting life updates.Get your Spot in Success Frequency: https://www.marleyrose.ca/success-frequencyWhat we cover:1. The Morning Unicorn ListWrite down 111 reasons why you are magical, unique, and worthy. Read it daily — ideally out loud in front of a mirror. Level up by recording your list in an app like Higher Self and playing it while you get ready or drive. Pro tip: turn your affirmations into "ask formations" — swap "I am so beautiful" for "How am I so beautiful?" Your brain loves finding answers to good questions.2. Digital Vision BoardsYour phone screen is one of the most powerful manifestation tools you own — you check it dozens of times a day. Create a vision board as your phone or laptop wallpaper and let your Reticular Activating System do the work. I share the story of how a Bali villa vision board led me to the exact property in real life. New upgrade: use AI to create realistic mock-ups of your goals (like a bank account screenshot with your target number) for an even stronger visual anchor. Message me on Instagram with "vision board" for a free template.3. Feeling It FirstThe real unlock isn't thinking your way into a manifestation — it's feeling like you already have the thing. Write it out with gratitude ("I am so grateful for $10k/month"), then genuinely embody that frequency. I share how this showed up with the Skinny Confidential — and why timing and trust matter more than we think.Also mentioned:Human design, sacral authority, and why my strategy is my sacralUsing Claude AI to explore your human design chartSuccess Frequency: a free 3-day live training on manifesting through vibrational alignment (link below)A small, intimate live event in Toronto on May 9 — feminine energetics, money, and magnetism (DM me on Instagram if you're called)Upcoming travels: Morocco, Madrid (ATP tennis tournament!), northern Spain, and back to CanadaResources:
Send us Fan MailThis video is also available here on my YouTube channel! PLEASE SUBSCRIBE!!Your reality isn't as fixed as you think… it's filtered.In this video, I'm breaking down the Reticular Activating System (RAS) and how it literally shapes what you see, experience, and believe is possible in your life. This is where manifestation meets neuroscience.If you've ever felt like some people “get lucky” while others stay stuck, or wondered why once you focus on something you suddenly see it everywhere… this is why.Your brain is constantly deciding what matters and what doesn't and that decision is shaping your entire reality.In this video, you'll learn:What the Reticular Activating System actually doesWhy your identity controls your resultsHow your beliefs filter your realityHow to consciously direct your mind to support your manifestationsThis is the missing link between “thinking positive” and actually changing your life.Reality isn't something you just observe… it's something you participate in creating.If you're ready to start seeing different results, you have to start seeing differently.✨ Let me know in the comments: what are you choosing to focus on from now on?#Manifestation #LawOfAssumption #MindsetShift #RealityCreation #RASSupport the show
The One Question That Rewires Your Brain for More Money, Love & Opportunities What if your life could start getting better today… not because you're working harder, but because you're asking better questions? In this episode, Jackie introduces a simple but powerful question that can shift your mindset, rewire your brain, and open you up to more money, love, opportunities, and unexpected wins:
We talk about luck constantly. Lucky breaks. Bad luck. Some people just seem to “have it.”But what if luck isn't magic at all?In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores what's happening in the brain when we attribute outcomes to luck. From attentional style to the Reticular Activating System and attribution bias, this episode unpacks how mindset and neural filtering shape what we see, what we miss, and what we believe about ourselves.If you've ever caught yourself thinking, “I never get lucky like that,” this episode will challenge that narrative in a grounded, science-forward way.In This Episode, You'll Learn:Why the brain prefers simple explanations like “luck”How defaulting to luck can short-circuit pattern recognitionWhat Dr. Richard Wiseman's research reveals about “lucky” vs. “unlucky” peopleHow cognitive flexibility influences opportunity detectionWhat the Reticular Activating System does and why it mattersHow beliefs shape attention, perception, behavior, and outcomesThe role of attribution bias in protecting identityWhy probability is often mistaken for magicKey Concepts Discussed:Pattern detection and neuroplasticityAttentional style and cognitive flexibilityThe Reticular Activating System as the brain's filtering systemBelief → Attention → Perception → Behavior → Outcome loopsProbability vs. randomnessMoving from passive observer to active participantReflection Questions:Where in your life are you using the word “luck”?What patterns might be present beneath the outcome?What is your attention currently trained to notice?Where could you widen your focus?What inputs could increase the probability of the result you want?Closing ThoughtWhat if the difference between lucky and unlucky isn't fate, but focus?Your brain will support whatever you consistently train it to scan for.Until next time, choose peace. ★ Support this podcast ★
✨ Episode SummaryIn this powerful New Year episode, Relationship Coach Keana W. Mitchell guides you through the process of creating a clear, emotionally grounded vision for love in 2026. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long‑term relationship, this episode helps you understand why vision—not just goals—is essential for building healthy, fulfilling love.Keana breaks down the psychology behind vision‑setting, explains how your brain filters relationships based on what you imagine, and shows you how to align your desires with your values. You'll learn how to identify what you truly want in a partner, how to distinguish between negotiables and non‑negotiables, and how to create a vision that inspires growth without slipping into unrealistic expectations.This episode is all about clarity, emotional safety, and intentional love.
Here is what you will discover on this week's episode of The GMS Podcast: 1) The Emotional Mechanism That Searches For Familiar Feelings 2) Network Of Neuron In Your Brain Stem 3) Filter Between Subconscious And Conscious Awareness 4) What Gets Attention, What Gets Ignored 5) Responds To Consistent Attention 6) RAS Does Not Seek Truth, It Seeks Consistency 7) Committing To Who And What You Attract *Visit This Link to Request a Free 20 Minute Coaching Session* https://www.goldenmastermind.com/coaching-call-signup/ *Connect with Jeffery* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeffery.combs Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeffery_combs/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jefferycombs Website: https://www.goldenmastermind.com/ *Jeffery's Books* (2019 Bestseller) The Breakthrough Factor - https://www.goldenmastermind.com/product/the-breakthrough-factor/ The Anger Factor - https://www.goldenmastermind.com/product/the-anger-factor/ The Procrastination Cure - https://www.goldenmastermind.com/product/the-procrastination-cure/ Psychologically Unemployable - https://www.goldenmastermind.com/product/psychologically-unemployable-remastered/ More Heart Than Talent - https://www.goldenmastermind.com/product/more-heart-than-talent-book/ *Other Ways to Listen to The GMS Podcast* Website: https://www.goldenmastermind.com/podcast/ Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3D07Y6f Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3Qd4FvC
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Mindset Beyond Positive Thinking Trusting Dorothy Podcast | 12 Weeks of Free Coaching Week 5 What if the missing piece in your health journey isn't another strategy… but a mindset shift that changes everything? In Week 6 of the 12 Weeks Free Coaching series, we go beyond positive thinking and dive into the mindset shifts that make every practical tool actually work. Whether you're just joining or have been here from the beginning, this episode is for you. If you've ever found yourself stuck in negative self-talk, running on guilt or shame, or waiting to feel good until the results arrive, this episode will show you why feeling good now is not just a nice idea, it's the neuroscience and energetics behind lasting change. In This Episode, You'll Learn: ✔ Why mindset is just as important as every practical weight loss strategy ✔ How to choose what things mean instead of defaulting to unhelpful stories ✔ Why "this isn't working" is one of the most dangerous thoughts on your journey ✔ How free will and the "everything is optional" mindset reduce resistance ✔ The neuroscience behind affirmations and why feeling matters more than words ✔ How your Reticular Activating System filters your reality based on your beliefs ✔ Why guilt and shame never create lasting change ✔ How a regulated nervous system allows mindset shifts to actually land ✔ The power of starting your morning with intention and feeling ✔ How to write affirmations that your brain can actually believe This Episode Is Especially Helpful If: You struggle with negative self-talk or an inner critic that won't quit You use guilt or pressure to try to motivate yourself and it keeps backfiring You're waiting to feel good until you hit your goal You want to understand the science behind mindset and habit change You're ready to approach your health from a place of choice instead of obligation You want your affirmations and morning practice to actually work _____________________________________________________________________ ✨ Ready to go deeper?Sign up through the link in the show notes and join this 12-week coaching experience. Mentioned in this episode: Trust Your Body, Change Your Habits 12 Weeks of Free Coaching Join HERE 2 Week Mini Coaching and Lift Library for 3 Months Details HERE Peace & Prosperity Coaching HERE Within a self-guided journey to more peace and calm in your nervous system and life. HERE _____________________________________________________ Click HERE for the Show Notes. If you enjoyed the episode, leave a review - it means the world to me + helps the show reach more people! Thank you!
Secondary gain is the reason you keep pulling back every time things start working. Not because you're lazy. Not because you don't want it. But because your subconscious is getting something from keeping you exactly where you are.In today's episode, I'm walking you through the exact process I use with my 1:1 clients to find what causes self-sabotaging behaviours, the NLP techniques I use to uncover subconscious patterns running underneath, and the four prompts that will help you figure out what your secondary gain actually is.I'm also sharing a personal story from when I was a kid doing song and dance competitions that I only recently connected to why I pull back from visibility in my business.If you've ever asked yourself, "why do I self-sabotage when things are going well," this episode is going to hit differently. Grab a pen. You're going to need it!Topics covered on Secondary Gain:What is secondary gain?Why do you self-sabotage when things are going well even when you've done so much work on yourself?The subconscious patterns I recently discovered underneath my visibility behaviour.How to find the exact moment your secondary gain kicks in using NLP techniques.What causes self-sabotaging behaviours after a wave of momentum?The four-step process to uncover your self-sabotage patterns, secondary gain behind them, name it and start to shift it.Journal prompts on Secondary Gain:1. Find the patternWhat is the exact moment it happens for you?What was going right before you pulled back?Find all the journal prompts at https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/your-self-sabotage-has-a-payoff-that-you-dont-know-about-heres-how-to-find-your-secondary-gainConnect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious MembershipCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeRelated episodes you may enjoy:199. What Are You Gaining from Staying Where You Are?132. Harnessing the Reticular Activating System to Turn Dreams into Reality117. Moving Out of Victim Mentality
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Hi everyone!In this episode of The Positivity & Prosperity Podcast, I'm breaking down the real balance between surrender and aligned action — especially when it comes to manifesting money, growing your business, or stepping into a higher-paying job.You'll learn:✨ Why clarity is essential (your brain needs specific instructions)✨ The difference between acting from certainty vs acting from panic✨ What “letting go” actually means (and what it doesn't)✨ Why aligned action is still a crucial part of manifestation✨ The 4-step framework: Decide → Embody → Act → ReleaseWe explore the neuroscience behind manifestation, including how your Reticular Activating System filters opportunities and how identity shapes your results.If you're ready to stop chasing money and start expecting it — this episode will shift how you approach manifestation forever.
Learn how the Reticular Activating System trains your brain to recognise opportunities, clients, and growth that were always there but previously unseen. Your Brain Listens to What You Feed It There's a part of the brain called the Reticular Activating System (the RAS).It's the gatekeeper between your conscious thoughts and what you actually notice in the world around you.Struggling to stay focused, make clear decisions, or move your business forward with consistency?In this episode, I explain how the Reticular Activating System (RAS) a powerful brain-based filtering system directly influences your focus, mindset, confidence, and ability to achieve business goals.For female business owners and entrepreneurs, understanding the RAS can change how you approach growth, productivity, and opportunity.You'll learn:What the Reticular Activating System is and how it affects attention and decision-makingHow taking a digital detox from consuming content that doesn't align with your goals can support new timelines being created. Clarity - Re-enforcement & openness. Willing to be open to multiple solutions and opportunities. From scarcity to possibility. One statement spoken out loud “How can I make this work?” Why clarity and goal-setting reprogram the brain for business successHow the RAS helps you notice opportunities, clients, and resources that were already availablePractical ways to train your brain to support business growth and leadership Three Questions That Shift EverythingIf you want to retrain your RAS, start here:1: What question have I been repeating that closes me down2: What is my brain currently helping me prove that I don't even want to believe?3:What new question could open up a path I'm not seeing yet?This episode is for women who want to work with their brain, not against it and build a business with more ease, clarity, and direction.
Send us a textEver feel like you're doing all the right things but still ending up in the same place? Like you're putting in the work but something invisible keeps holding you back? You're not alone—and it's not your fault. Most of us are living on autopilot, controlled by beliefs we picked up before we were 7 years old. Beliefs we never questioned. Beliefs that aren't even true.In this episode, Alison Lager reads from her book The Wake Up Call and drops some serious truth bombs about why we stay stuck, how childhood programming literally rewires your brain, and what it takes to finally break free from mediocrity and victim mentality.
Support the show:https://www.paypal.me/Truelifepodcast?locale.x=en_USOne on One Video Call W/George https://tidycal.com/georgepmonty/60-minute-meeting# Episode 1: “You Are Living in Flatland (And You Don't Even Know It)”-----**Welcome to the dimensional war. You just don't know you're fighting it yet.**In 1884, Edwin Abbott wrote *Flatland* - a mathematical romance about a two-dimensional world where beings live as shapes on a plane, unable to perceive the third dimension of depth. He thought he was writing social satire.**He was actually writing a transmission about 2026.**About YOU.Living in a reality you think is solid, complete, “realistic” - while being completely blind to dimensions you can't perceive.**Your worth measured in 2D metrics:** Credentials. Salary. Followers. Job titles.**Your identity flattened to geometry:** How many “sides” you've accumulated in the game of status.**Your future planned on a horizontal plane:** Assuming linear time, guaranteed tomorrows, safe predictability.**You are A Square. And you don't even know you're trapped.**-----## What if I told you there's a vertical dimension hiding in plain sight?**Not “up” in some abstract spiritual sense.**But **UP** as in: *What becomes visible when death shatters your 2D certainty?*When you're fired after 26 years and your identity evaporates.When someone you love faces mortality and all your careful plans dissolve.When you turn fifty and realize you don't fit in the traditional game anymore.**These aren't tragedies. These are dimensional initiations.**Moments when the **Sphere** - a being from a higher dimension - enters your flat world and shows you: *Everything you thought was solid is just a cross-section.*-----## This episode activates your Reticular Activating System.That part of your brain that filters reality - deciding what you notice and what you ignore.**After this episode, your RAS will be tuned to see Flatland everywhere:**- In conversations where people brag about credentials- In systems designed to keep you flat and measurable- In your own thoughts when you catch yourself playing the 2D game- **In the moments when death whispers: “None of this is real”****Once activated, you can't deactivate it.**You'll start seeing the prison bars. The dimensional limitations. The game beneath the game.**And you won't be able to unsee it.**-----## This isn't a book review. This is an initiation.I've been lifted out of Flatland three times:- **Fired after 26 years** (identity death - the 2D game of job = worth revealed as illusion)- **Wife fighting cancer** (mortality confrontation - the future I was planning for might not exist)- **Turning fifty** (threshold moment - realizing I don't fit in the traditional workforce anymore)**These were my Sphere moments.** When death entered my flat world and showed me dimensions I couldn't perceive before.Now I'm back in Flatland. But I'm… changed.I can't play the game anymore. Can't pretend credentials matter. Can't believe in “realistic” thinking.**Because I've seen the vertical dimension.**And once you've been there - once you've been initiated by death, loss, shattering - **you can never fully believe in Flatland again.**-----## What you'll discover in this episode:**The architecture of Flatland** - How 2D thinking imprisons you without you realizing it**Death as the third dimension** - The vertical axis that breaks the flat plane of “normal life”**Your initiations** - Recognizing the moments when the Sphere appeared in YOUR life (and you might have missed it)**The RAS activation** - How this episode will permanently change what you perceive in your reality**The elder's burden** - What to do when you've been lifted out but dropped back into a world that thinks you're crazy-----## WARNING: This is not safe content.This episode is designed to make you **dangerously curious** and **a little uncomfortable.**Not reassured. Not inspired in the Instagram quote way.**Initiated.**By the end, you'll question:- Whether your job defines you (it doesn't - that's Flatland)- Whether your plans are guaranteed (they're not - that's 2D thinking)- Whether “being realistic” is wisdom (it's not - it's prison maintenance)- **Whether consensus reality is actually real (it's not - it's Flatland)**You'll start seeing patterns you can't unsee.Noticing dimensional breaks you used to ignore.Recognizing when death is trying to teach you something.**And there's no going back.**-----## This is Part 1 of a 6-episode series exploring:**Episode 1:** You Are Living in Flatland (And You Don't Even Know It) ← *You are here***Episode 2:** The Sphere Has Already Appeared. You Just Don't Remember Yet.**Episode 3:** Being Lifted Out - What You See From the Vertical Dimension**Episode 4:** Dropped Back In - When You Can't Fit in Flatland Anymore**Episode 5:** The Prison of Consensus Reality - Why They'll Call You Crazy**Episode 6:** Living Between Dimensions - The Work of the Initiated-----## Required reading (but read it AFTER this episode):***Flatland: A Romance of Many Dimensions*** by Edwin Abbott Abbott (1884)- Free online, any edition- ~100 pages- **Warning:** After this podcast series, you won't read it as fiction-----## The quote that changes everything:*“You are not crazy for seeing dimensions others can't perceive. You've just been initiated by death. And prisoners who see the bars become insurgents.”*-----**Your RAS is now activated.****You can't unknow this.****Welcome to the vertical dimension.****Welcome to the resistance.**-----*Initiated by death. Returned to Flatland. Speaking from the vertical dimension.**This is the Flatland series. This is the dimensional war.**And you just enlisted.*-----**[CONTENT WARNING: Discusses death, mortality, job loss, cancer, identity dissolution, dimensional initiation, reality destabilization, and the systematic dismantling of consensus thinking. Not recommended for those committed to remaining comfortably two-dimensional.]**-----## About this series:Following the 5-episode *Don Quixote* initiation series (where we explored tilting at windmills, vision vs delusion, defeat at fifty, and coming home), the *Flatland* series takes you deeper into dimensional knowing.**This is live philosophy.** Real-time transformation documented through literature.Not memoir. Not self-help.**Transmission from someone who's been lifted out and dropped back.**Consider this your field manual for the dimensional war.-----*Listen with headphones. Take notes. Your future self will thank you.* One on One Video call W/George https://tidycal.com/georgepmonty/60-minute-meetingSupport the show:https://www.paypal.me/Truelifepodcast?locale.x=en_US
New year, new goals… same roadblocks? In this episode, I break down the real reason your business stalls: it's not your funnel or your content calendar, it's your psychology. When your identity says "I'm overwhelmed" or "I'm not influential," no strategy can save you. When your identity says "I own my time" and "I'm a finisher," even simple actions compound. We'll cover: Mindset > Strategy: Why ~80–95% of your results come from psychology, not tactics. Identity first, habits second: How your I am statements become the ceiling—or the launchpad—of your business. RAS 101: Train your Reticular Activating System to spot opportunity (and quit deleting it). Do less, better: Fewer moves, the right energy, and why repetition rewires faster than novelty. 10-minute morning formula: A simple daily process to anchor your vision, elevate your state, and execute. What you'll get A plug-and-play 10-minute morning protocol to rewire identity A simple "belief → evidence stack" exercise to upgrade your story A focus filter: how to identify the few moves that move revenue A re-listen plan (why repetition > chasing the next tactic) Next steps Choose 3–7 "I am" statements. Read them daily. Track real-life proof (your "table legs") that each is true. Pick three needle-movers and complete them before 10 a.m. for one week. Revisit your top 1–2 transformative books/podcasts—on repeat for 30 days. If you've got a question you want me to answer on the show, watch my IG Stories, I'm bringing back the Q&A series soon. Share this with a friend who's stuck in tactic-chasing and tag me so I can cheer you on. Subscribe To My Newsletter: https://moirakfitness.activehosted.com/f/28 Join My FREE High Vibe Life Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/811935653862055 Learn more about MAKE Wellness: https://meet.makewellness.com/?referral=74249EEEC5 FREE Habit Tracker https://bit.ly/HighVibeHabitTracker Rise up planner + Book Of Proof Journal https://bit.ly/moirakucababooks Rise Up Course https://bit.ly/moirariseupcourse Follow Me On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moirakucaba/?hl=en Watch On Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@moirakucaba5802
In 1999, Harvard researchers showed participants a video and asked them to count basketball passes. Halfway through, a person in a gorilla suit walked into the center of the frame, beat their chest, and walked off. More than half the participants never saw it. The gorilla was obvious, unmistakable, right there on the screen—and their brains made it completely invisible.This is called inattentional blindness. And it's happening to you right now with money.Your brain processes eleven million bits of information per second. Your conscious mind can handle about forty. That means your neurology is deleting 99.9996% of reality before you ever become aware of it—including money-making opportunities that are passing right in front of you every single day.These are wealth scotomas. Blind spots specifically calibrated to hide financial opportunities from your perception. They were installed in childhood, before you had any say in the matter. They've been running ever since, silently filtering out the very abundance you've been trying to create.This activation is different from anything you've experienced. We're not adding anything to your mind. We're removing the obstructions that have been blocking your natural ability to see opportunity. We're reprogramming your Reticular Activating System—the part of your brain that decides what you notice—to let through what it's been deleting for decades.A wealthy person and a struggling person can walk down the same street, meet the same people, hear the same conversations. One sees opportunity everywhere. The other sees nothing but confirmation of how hard life is. Same reality. Different filters. Different lives.Your filters are about to change. The opportunities that have been invisible are about to become obvious. The wealth that has been hidden in plain sight is about to reveal itself.
What if changing your life starts with changing how you see yourself? In this episode, I'm joined by Mimi Bouchard, founder of Activations, who went from deep self-doubt to building a $40M business and living her dream life. Mimi shares how visualization and her energizing audio method (Activations) helped her rewire her identity and manifest success. We also break down the science behind it and how to use it in your busy life. We talk about the neuroscience behind Activations (like the Reticular Activating System and neuroplasticity), how they fit into busy lives, and who they're for. Use my link below to get your FREE 2-week trial and exclusive discount! Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/happy SKIMS - The SKIMS Holiday Shop is now open at SKIMS.com. Let them know we sent you by choosing Earn Your Happy podcast in the dropdown after you purchase. Brevo - Head to brevo.com/happy and use the code HAPPY to get 50% off Starter and Business Plans for the first 3 months of an annual subscription. Aura Frames - save on the perfect gift at AuraFrames.com - get $35 off Aura's best-selling Carver Mat frames with promo code EARN at checkout. Northwest Registered Agent - Build your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes. Visit www.northwestregisteredagent.com/paidearn Blinds.com - The Black Friday deals at Blinds.com are going strong all month long! Save $50 off when you spend $500 or more - use code EARN at checkout. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Why your self-image is the starting point for change. 08:00 Why most mindset tools don't create lasting change. 14:45 What makes Activations different from meditation and affirmations? 23:00 Who is Activations for? 35:00 Mimi's 2-step framework to design your dream life. 44:30 Why does success look different for everyone? 50:00 How lifelines and parallel realities influence your manifestation. 01:01:30 How to get your FREE 2-week trial of Mimi's Activations. RESOURCES Head HERE to unlock the Activations app FREE for 2 weeks + exclusive Earn Your Happy discount. Try completely risk-free with the 14-day money-back guarantee! (Note: For the free trial and discount, use the website link, not the app store) Get your copy of Mimi's “Activate Your Future Self” HERE! Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Mimi: @mimibouchard
Your conscious mind has committed to your 2026 vision. But your subconscious? It's not convinced. In this episode, I break down the exact mechanism of how your subconscious works and give you the daily protocol to reprogram it so your mind is finally aligned with where you're taking your business. Learn the three modalities that actually rewire your subconscious, the RAS activation technique that trains your brain to notice what you're becoming and the exact journaling, hypnotherapy, and visualisation practice you can start today.Topics covered on How to Make Your Subconscious Believe:How your subconscious mind actually worksThe three modalities that reprogram your subconscious (visualisation, hypnotherapy, journaling from identity)The RAS Primer: priming your Reticular Activating System first thing in the morningThe Integration Protocol: your daily practice to align your mind with your visionWhy assuming the belief works better than trying to believe itThe guided visualisation: connecting with your 2026 identityThe 30 day challenge: exactly what to commit toYour RAS Primer Questions (Fill in blanks based on your 2026 goal - Future Pace Your Day):Today, what will I notice about myself?Today, I will notice that I'm ______________________________Today, people will see me as someone who ___________________Today, I will handle ________________ with ease because _______What am I choosing to do today from this identity?Today, I'm going to ________________________________________Today, I will show up as someone who _______________________Today, I'm taking aligned action by _________________________How will I move through my day?My energy today will be ____________________________________When someone challenges me today, I will _____________________By the end of today, I will feel ____________________________Connect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious Membership for more hypnotherapy workCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeFind the full show notes & more resources at www.rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/
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In this episode of Workday Playdate, Erin unpacks a simple idea: your words are wands. AKA, the way you talk to yourself is actively shaping what happens next.Erin introduces the concept of “Words Are Wands,” exploring how inner dialogue influences confidence, creativity, opportunity, and action. Drawing from improv, neuroscience, and real-life moments, she breaks down why most of us are stuck in negative, repetitive thought loops, and how to interrupt them on purpose.Through a five-step improv-based framework, Erin shows how reframing your thoughts isn't “toxic positivity,” it's a skill. One that helps you work with your brain (hello, Reticular Activating System) instead of against it.The big takeaway: when you change your language, you change what feels possible.Inside This Episode:Words Are Wands: How your inner dialogue quietly dictates your future.The Thought Loop Problem: Why 80% of our thoughts are negative, 95% are repetitive, and what that means for confidence and burnout.Reframing Without the Eye Roll: How to shift thoughts in a way that actually unlocks creativity and forward motion.The Brain on Focus (RAS Explained): How your Reticular Activating System filters reality, and how to train it to spot opportunities instead of threats.An Improv Framework for Mindset Shifts: A five-step approach for noticing thoughts, reframing language, and choosing aligned action.Small Actions, Big Shifts: Why tiny, intentional moves matter more than dramatic mindset overhauls.Who This Episode Is For:High performers stuck in negative self-talk or overthinking loopsLeaders, creatives, and humans who want more confidence and clarityAnyone craving a mindset shift that's practical, playful, and grounded Fans of improv, personal growth, and brain-friendly self-improvementYour FreebieYou've tried the emails, the all-hands rollout, and the polished decks, but the vision still isn't landing.That's because people don't buy into a vision that's presented to them; they buy into one they help shape. The 30-Minute Vision-Setting Meeting Template gives you a simple, human-centered way to create alignment, spark ownership, and build real momentum. Download it here.No, You Hang Up First (Let's Keep Connecting)Did today's episode resonate with you? Leave us a review sharing your favorite insight and we'll send you a free signed copy of I See You! A Leader's Guide to Energizing Your Team through Radical Empathy.Have another question that we can answer? Leave us a Speakpipe audio clip and we'll answer it in an upcoming episode.Don't want to miss another episode? If you're a Spotify listener, find our show here and click “Follow.” If you're an Apple Podcast listener, click here and make sure to hit “+Follow.”Want access to a bunch of free resources for your work life? This is your personal jackpot that gives you access to the frameworks that help us thrive both personally and professionally. Whether you're trying to improve your daily routine, flesh out an idea that you've had for quite some time, or want to add more play into your day - these resources have got your back.Want 2 emails a week from us? One with a quick tip you can implement right away to enhance your personal and/or professional lives & one of our famous F.A.I.L. Fourward Friday newsletters? Subscribe here.Connect with Erin Diehl x improve it!Erin's websiteErin's InstagramErin's TikTokErin's LinkedInimprove it!'s websiteimprove it!'s InstagramSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
From the secrets behind Shohei Ohtani's 64-square goal-setting framework to a comprehensive breakdown of Nvidia's earnings and the durability of the AI bull market. We also debate Scott Galloway's controversial take on why the anti-alcohol movement and remote work might be the worst things to happen to young men...Welcome to the Alfalfa Podcast
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The Same Tool Used by Olympic Athletes & Top Performers to Change Your Life If you've ever wondered how elite athletes, top entrepreneurs, and high-performers create insane results… this is it. And no — it's not woo, it's not wishful thinking, and it's not pretending life is perfect. It's science. And when you learn to use it to rewire your subconscious, override old limiting beliefs, and shift the way you feel about your life… everything changes. Here's the wild part: Science says 95% of your brain activity is unconscious. That means almost everything you do — your habits, reactions, decisions, fears, beliefs — is driven by the part of your mind you don't even realize is in control. It's running old programs.Old stories.Old beliefs you didn't choose. So the question becomes: How do you work with your subconscious mind to rewrite those stories so you can get MORE of what you want in life… and LESS of what you don't? This episode breaks the whole thing down for you. You'll learn:
So much of your food and body battle comes down to one thing: belief. The women who finally break free from diet culture aren't the ones with more willpower — they're the ones who learn to change the beliefs holding them back. In episode 260 of Fitness & Sushi, I'm going to show you why the beliefs you hold about yourself are the true drivers of your choices, and how to finally break free from the stories diet culture has planted in your mind. In this episode – “How to Break Free From Limiting Beliefs About Food, Your Body, and Exercise” – you'll learn…
This episode is brought to you in part by Activations and is a paid partnership with Mimi Bouchard. Sponsored content helps support the podcast so we can continue bringing valuable insights to our audience. What if transforming your life starts with rewiring your self-image? In this episode, I sit down with Mimi Bouchard, founder of Activations, who went from deep self-doubt and anxiety to building a $40M business and living her dream life. Mimi shares how she used powerful visualization and a unique, energizing audio method (Activations) to reprogram her identity and manifest success. We talk about the neuroscience behind Activations (like the Reticular Activating System and neuroplasticity), how they fit into busy lives, and who they're for. Use my link below to get your FREE 2-week trial and exclusive discount! Check out our Sponsors: Airbnb - Start making money by listing your home on Airbnb with an experiences Co-host, find a co-host at airbnb.com/host Northwest Registered Agent - Don't wait—protect your privacy, build your brand, and set up your business in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://northwestregisteredagent.com/earn today. Open Phone - Stop running your business from your personal phone. Get 20% off your first 6 months at openphone.com/earn Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy This Is Small Business podcast - listen on apple podcast (or your favorite podcast app.) BambooHR - Experience the software that makes HR easier for all of your employees. Try BambooHR for free at bamboohr.com/freedemo HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 How did you overcome shame, anxiety, and self-doubt? 08:00 Why typical self-help tools aren't enough to rewire your mind. 14:45 How Activations differ from other tools and how they work faster. 23:00 Who are Activations for? 31:00 Mimi's two-step process for creating your dream life. 39:15 Why does success look different for everyone? 44:45 How lifelines and parallel realities relate to manifesting your desired life. 56:15 How to get your FREE 2-week trial of Mimi's Activations. RESOURCES Head HERE to unlock the Activations app FREE for 2 weeks + exclusive Earn Your Happy discount. Try completely risk-free with the 14-day money-back guarantee! (Note: For the free trial and discount, use the website link, not the app store) Get your copy of Mimi's “Activate Your Future Self” HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Mimi: @mimibouchard