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The HealthyADHD Podcast is an offshoot of the popular website HealthyADHD.com. Through a mix of science, expert interviews, and personal insight, Liz Lewis bridges the gap between experts in the field of ADHD, and the adults living with the condition. It

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    My ADHD and Covid Experience

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2021 32:31


    I've been saying for months that I'd write down my experience. But I kept waiting and googling and hoping some other ADHD creator would do it for me. Since it didn't happen I finally recorded everything I could remember about that period of time in March of this year. For now this will be the last episode of the HealthyADHD Podcast. There's so much noise right now in this space, and I don't want to add to it. But I'm keeping the door open for later. I still love having conversations so I won't rule it out. You can work with me 1:1 by going HERE.The Enclave is going strong!  We have tons of great conversations planned for fall.And as always, my inbox is open at liz@healthyadhd.comSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Settling Our Souls with Kate Moryoussef

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2021 44:39


    Listen in as Kate explains how she uses EFT, or "tapping," to help ADHD women deal with anxiety, overwhelm, and life with ADHD. You'll hear:Kate's ADHD storyThe benefits of combining Eastern and Western philosophies of treatmentHow EFT works, with examplesWhat makes tapping so accessible and effective for ADHDCoaching by KateThe Ambitious Mum PodcastKate on InstagramGet the Wellbeing First Aid KitThe ADHD Enclave - helping ADHD women lead calmer, more satisfying lives through the strength of communitySupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Kin-Keeping and Other Expectations of ADHD Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2020 17:08


    My good friend Jaclyn Paul, from The ADHD Homestead is back!I recently wrote a rant email about why it sucks that women*** bear the burden of the holiday season. In fact, we do all the invisible work of life, so kin-keeping shouldn't be a surprise.Because her timing is always perfect, Jaclyn contacted me last week and we engaged in a series of voice messages about the concept of kin-keeping, and the added mental/emotional burdens of 2020. Jaclyn recorded our conversation, as well as an audio version of her original article on kin-keeping. As always, we both put a lot out into the world, and we appreciate your support. Thanks for listening.Support The ADHD Homestead on PatreonSupport Healthy ADHD on Buy Me a CoffeeSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Commitment v. Motivation

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 10:42


    Another drive by podcast, this time from the parking lot of my son's orthodontist.Motivation is fleeting - so I'm betting on commitment. Here are my thoughts. Join the Enclave  - share your stories with other women who "get it."Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    The Enclave Social Membership

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 6:58


    A drive by podcast recorded on the floor of my office. Why I'm so proud of the Social Membership in the ADHD Enclave. Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Women's Hormones and ADHD with Linda Roggli

    Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 19, 2020 54:10


    I asked my sweet (and super fun) friend Linda Roggli to tell me everything she knows about hormones. So she did, and it was great.We talk:Types of estrogenWhy estrogen is so important for mood and dopamineHormones over the lifespan for ADHD womenWhy so many of us are diagnosed with depression, firstThe role of progesteroneThe disconnect between gynecologists and psychiatristsFinding supportive relationships + people who "get it"Being more gentle with yourself"Our brains create our lives." - LindaADDiva.netThe ADHD EnclaveSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    The ADHD Nutritionist on women, diet culture, and intuitive eating

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2020 56:55


    Becca King is a registered dietician specializing in intuitive eating. Since I liked her content so much I asked her to chat with me about some of the issues surrounding diet and ADHD women.  The connection between ADHD and binge eatingADHD medicationsDopamine seeking is a THINGDiet culture and womenThe intermittent fasting trendIntuitive eating definedHealing our relationship with food ~ learning to pauseHow to eat more intuitively (even NOW in a pandemic)Is sugar really the enemy?Make a "project" out of dieting, overthinkingBecca's program details ADHD Nutritionist on InstagramThe ADHD EnclaveADHD conference 2020Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Elliott and I discuss online education and special brains

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2020 16:34


    For all the parents muddling through online education, this one is for you!I've asked my son a few times if he would talk about his, "special brain" on the podcast.  Over the weekend we decided to  go ahead and talk a little about being raised by a mom who also has a special brain, and how he feels about school right now. In short - he's not as miserable as I thought. And he is actually learning. Next time he's going to tell stories about having an ADHD mom. Sign up for the Annual International Conference on ADHD . (Nov 5-7th)Video - How to register for the conferenceTell your stories, manage your emotions, and create change in the EnclaveSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Rene' Brooks stops by to discuss all the things

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2020 109:58


    My dear friend Rene', of Black Girl Lost Keys, lives less than an hour away from me. Whenever we get together we talk for hours.  Since our conversations are so rich and cover so much ground we decided to record one. Unfortunately we had some serious echo, we'll do better next time. In this episode we cover:Cooking catastrophe's and why ADHD adults need to keep meal planning simpleADHD women in relationshipsWhy we shouldn't treat neurotypicals as the enemy, OR compare ourselves to themTime management in our working livesAbleism - what it is, and what it isn'tSelf-improvement is NOT ableistWhy change is so hard, and why some of us fight against itRene' shares her personal experience with depressionAnd we only drop 2-3 swears the whole episode! Rene's Home Base - Black Girl Lost KeysRene' on Twitter Rene' on PatreonMy Meal Planning EbookSupport this podcast and my other work - Buy Me a CoffeeSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD across the lifespan

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2020 20:40


    This is a one-off episode about how I was diagnosed, and how my awareness and attitude about ADHD has changed over time. I also throw in a little commentary on what I wish I knew about ADHD in my younger years. Register for ADHD Con 2020 (all online!)Buy me a CoffeeThe ADHD Enclave - live small group coaching that you can affordSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Saying NO (and YES)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 20:37


    Every time you say, "yes" to something you are saying, "no" to other things. I'm not sure who first wrote this, but it's entirely true. There is certainly an art to saying NO. But there is some room to say YES in our lives.Here's a list of things I'm saying YES to, as well as a few things I'm saying NO to. I hope it helps you to evaluate the YES's and NO's in your own life. The ADHD EnclaveAudible audio books - for when you can't focus but you need a brain breakBuy Me A Coffee - support women with ADHDSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Music as Medicine for ADHD

    Play Episode Play 56 sec Highlight Listen Later Sep 17, 2020 54:01


    Today I bring you an inspiring interview with my new friend, Ian Walker.Like many of us Ian grew up in a time when the ADHD diagnosis wasn't as common. He experienced the bullying, academic struggles, and low self-confidence that so many of us do. But Ian developed his own, "medicine" for ADHD that he now shares with the world. Listen in as we discuss:- The role of faith in treating his ADHD- You can't screw up when it comes to worship- Developing an inner sense of security through music- How music became the best medicine for ADHD and managing emotions- the divine inspiration for writing his book, and the writing process Ian has big plans to carry his message of Music Therapy for ADHD to everyone. His podcast The Arts Report will be available soon!Music for the ADHD Brain on FacebookStirring My Soul to Sing on AmazonIan on TwitterIan on InstagramSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD Meal Planning Revisited

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2020 25:41


    I don't cook. I don't get any satisfaction out of prepping ingredients and making meals.But**  I do meal plan. I feed my family every week, even when I don't want to. And I was asked to speak on the topic again at this year's International Conference on ADHD. With that in mind I made this updated episode. You will hear me discuss:why I don't believe in shopping every dayhow to stock your family staplesplanning dinners firstlimiting options for breakfast/lunches/snackssetting boundaries with your family around meal planningAlso, this year's ADHD conference is all online. Online = less expensive. You should go!Join the Enclave and hang out with me and some other brilliant ADHD women.Buy me a coffee to support my work, and provide support and peer coaching to other women. Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Half-a$$ed homeschooling

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2020 10:25


    So this is really a rant about my experience so far with hybrid education.As a former teacher I don't blame the teachers at all. But as an ADHD mom trying to run a business and manage my life day-to-day, I'm really struggling. I had a schedule in place to keep me productive, and now that schedule has been blown up.It feels impossible to schedule podcast guests and write articles after 6 hours of fighting and crying our way through school work. We get it done, but it's not pretty.If you are a parent who is also struggling through this new era of education, I stand with you.Send me your homeschool rant at healthyadhd@gmail.comSupport this podcast and my other work ~ Buy me a coffee. We start individual Peer Coaching sessions this week in the Enclave. Join us for more info and a free month!Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    My use of the word, "healthy"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2020 18:51


    As much as I love talking to doctors and researchers, I've never looked at ADHD from a purely clinical perspective. I've always looked at ADHD as a lifestyle factor. One small piece of a much larger puzzle. Health isn't just about looking a certain way, and it isn't just about the absence of disease. Health is about taking care of your body, taking care of your mind, and forming meaningful relationships.Humans are infinitely complex. I like to think about ADHD from a WHOLE person perspective. It allows us to see past the symptoms and the labels and move away from the, "fix it" mentality. Join the ADHD EnclaveSupport my workSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    The Link Between ADHD and PTSD with Allison Arkfeld

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 68:36


    ***REPOST***Allison Arkfeld, MA AMFT, is a Somatic Psychotherapist working out of Long Beach, CA.There is growing evidence that a multi-modal approach to treating ADHD that includes body work, meditation, medications, traditional therapy, and coaching – holds great benefit.In this thought-provoking episode you will learn about:Empowerment within the bodyUsing body sensations to self-regulateMulti-modal support for ADHDReal-life applications for polyvagal theoryThe difficulty in treating PTSD with an ADHD mindThe healing power of human connectionDefining trauma (it's not what you think!)Corrective experiences that healHow ADHD and PTSD affect social interactions/interpersonal relationshipsThis is episode will open yours eyes to the connection between your ADHD mind and your body.Find Allison on InstagramLink to ptsd-adhdBuy me a Coffee and support this Podcast for just $3Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Turning Intentions Into Actions with Dr. Russell Ramsay ~ Part 2

    Play Episode Play 59 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 13, 2020 44:48


    Dr. Ramsay continues to drop unbelievably relevant information in this second episode.This time we discuss in much more specific terms:The role of Automatic Negative Thoughts in ProcrastinationWays to question your negative thoughtsManaging discomfort as the main emotional task in ADHDHow perfectionism shows up in ADHDAnxiety as a short-acting stimulantDefining Procrastivity and why we do itTask initiation, techniques for getting startedMoving through discomfort so you can get things doneDr. Russell Ramsaycbt4adhd - blogFinding Coping Strategies That Work For You - Psychology today The ADHD Enclave - Peer Coaching for smart ass women with ADHDHealthyADHD mailing list - The only emails about ADHD that don't suckSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Turning Intentions Into Actions with Dr. Russell Ramsay ~ Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2020 67:56


    I finally did it!I worked up my nerve and asked Dr. Russell Ramsay to talk to me about his new book, Rethinking Adult ADHD - Helping Clients Turn Intentions Into Action.What started out as a conversation about task initiation and getting things done - turned into soooo much more. In part one, you will hear us discuss:What makes ADHD a little different from other mental health diagnosesThe truth about, "working twice as hard for half as much"How and why self-distrust and self-mistrust developDr. Ramsay's thoughts on why anxiety is so prevalent with ADHDThe role of self-regulatory efficacy in our ability to work toward goalsThe main cognitive themes of ADHD + why he wrote the bookAutomatic thoughts, positive/negative distorted thoughts leading to avoidance Can you choose your thoughts? The "ugh" of getting startedExternalizing motivation Find Dr. Ramsay HERE Link to buy his bookLink to join my list so you can get emails about ADHD that don't suck.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    On being a Good Girl with ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2020 31:31


    I am beyond sick of trying to be a good girl. I'm also pretty sick of women with ADHD thinking they are less-than. Maybe you aren't like other women, but you are not less-than. You are not BAD. You can acknowledge your strengths and your struggles at the same time.You and I are changing the narrative of our lives.Setting our own expectationsSaying what we thinkAsking for what we wantManaging emotionsApplying our own rulesForming our own beliefsTelling our storiesIt costs nothing to be REAL.All it takes is a willingness to stop trying so hard to be GOOD.Link to Untamed by Glennon Doyle Link to the ADHD Enclave - where you can tell your story.Link to get the only emails about ADHD that don't suckSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD Coping Strategies (gone bad)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2020 58:36


    Today Rick Webster returns with a topic that I had NEVER thought to talk about before. Some of the more maladaptive coping skills that we with ADHD might adopt in an attempt to move through the world. On the surface many of these things seem to work. But long-term, most of the strategies aren't very good for us. Some*** day there will be a full length article on this. I swear. Listen as we talk about:Oppositional behavior (temper tantrums aren't cute anymore)Black/white thinkingPlanned procrastination to force performancePerfectionismNegative types of self-soothingFind Rick and RenaFi.The ADHD Enclave - where we tell our stories, manage our emotions, and create the changes that lead to calmer, more satisfying livesSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Coaching Your Child on Social Skills with Caroline Maguire, PCC, M.ED

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2020 62:16


    We all know social skills are important. I mean...lets be honest, even many ADHD adults struggle to navigate the social world. So I invited Caroline Maguire to talk with me about coaching neurodivergent children on social skills.We drop a lot of great examples in this episode, as well as some very useful techniques for coaching your own child. I cannot overstate how impactful Caroline's work has been for my son and I. And how wonderful she is to talk to. You will hear us discuss:Everyone focuses on academics, when they should be focused on social skillsA simple definition of executive functionMetacognition explainedWhat it means to be mentally flexibleHow to take a, "coach approach" to talking to your kidsWhy low self-awareness is a problem for children and adultsTeaching children to recognize reactive behavior and anger in themselvesShowing our children that friendships are activeLink to Caroline's Website Amazon link to Why Will No One Play With Me? Meet other ADHD moms in the ADHD Enclave!Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Talking ADHD, Money, and Emotions with Rick Webster

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 50:04


    I'm sooo excited to bring this episode to you featuring Rick Webster of Rena-Fi.Instead of typing a 1500 work post in here, I'll just put the bullet points:Aim for financial stability, before wealthIncome isn't the problem, it's how you manage what you haveEmotional dysregulation ---> panic, reactive thinkingA budget is just the surface, you have to go deeper to figure out what's going onWhy auto payments are your friendGetting real with yourself + embracing personal responsibility = feeling more in control of your moneyThere is no linear or one-size-fits-all solutionBehavioral change takes time to learn, so does financial literacyCreating mindfulness around your spendingRick's thoughts on ADHDers using cashThe need for ADHD brains to feel rewardedConsidering your future-self when making decisionsThe missing self-trust that all ADHDers seem to struggle withScarcity mindset, feeling stuck, and dwelling on past mistakesRick's overarching message is that money problems cannot be solved by creating a new budget or making more money. You have to get to the emotional root of the problem to create more financial security for yourself. And Rena-fi provides accessible, affordable options to do that. Find Rick Webster @ https://rena-fi.comFull written post can be found here.Join the Enclave -  I bring together brilliant women to manage our emotions, tell our stories, and create the changes that lead to calmer, more satisfying lives with ADHD!Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Talking creativity, woo woo, and releasing control with Dominic Velando

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2020 80:35


    I've met a ton of really cool people while working in and around the ADHD community and it's leaders. But there are very few people whom I can talk to for hours. (4 hours!)Dominic Velando is an artist and a creative thinker. Much like myself, he doesn't just think about managing symptoms all day. One of my goals with this podcast is to talk to the most** interesting people. Dominic is definitely one of those people.Listen as we talk:Growing up with your dad as a special ed teacherBeing an outsider in a small town Iowa high schoolA new way of looking at creativityThe unique ADHD ability to connect the dotsSuccess and failure in collegeFinding a, "flow state"Getting comfortable with metaphysics and woo wooFollowing your intuitionThe ADHD impact on relationships and careerReleasing control and getting comfortable with uncertaintyFollow Dominic as Hyperfocus Dopamine on Instagram to see more of his work.Like having high-level conversations in a private environment? Join the Enclave!I bring together brilliant ADHD women to manage our emotions, tell our stories, and create the changes that lead to a calmer more satisfying life with ADHD.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Talking Meal Planning, Gut Health, and Being an ADHD Mom with Anna Rubano

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2020 54:30


    In this episode you will hear:Anna's personal history with ADHDHow ADHD shows up in her lifeWhat led her to become a holistic health coachThe underrated, but VERY important, impact of diet on your functioning with or without ADHDWhy we need to lose the guilt about pleasing everyone in our houseKeeping it simple when meal planning for both you and your familyhttps://intunewithannak.comSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Rick Green and The Emotional Tornado of ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2020 49:29


    They say that ignorance is bliss. And sometimes, “knowing”  you have ADHD doesn't make things easier, it makes things more complicated.Listen in as Rick Green and I discuss the emotional landscape of life after the adhd diagnosis.In this episode you will hear:After you've struggled for so long, the profound to realization that you are NOT aloneThe “death” of the old you, or who you were before the diagnosisChallenges and barriers to diagnosisThe Evolution of Totally ADDThe big issue of how ADHD shows up in your life, and your sense of selfThe stages of dealing with the diagnosisAnger, depression, and feeling things sooooo deeplyStaying open to therapy and other support, even when you want to resistCognitive Behavioral Therapy – that you can apply yourself!Living the ADHD reactive life – and learning the power of the PAUSELearning to externalize and manage self-talkSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Self-Compassion and ADHD Women

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2020 22:51


    ADHD Women and Self-Compassion do not just go together.At least not in a conversation.You know what I mean. ADHD women don't talk about self-compassion the same way we talk about our struggles.But I'd argue this is a conversation we should be having.The Negative Thought Vortex of ADHD, combined with the Executive Function difficulties inherent to the condition, make it difficult to manage emotions, plan ahead, and maintain meaningful relationships.You will certainly have days that feel like a struggle. You will always have to manage your self-talk.But you will also have progress. And days where you feel like anything is possible.What I love about the practice of self-compassion is that you can do it on your own at any time. It's another tool in your ADHD toolbox.Listen to my thoughts on ADHD Women and Self-Compassion below.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Changing the Narrative for ADHD Women

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2020 33:44


    This is the audio version of the posts on my website.Tech issues aside, you will notice that I'm experimenting a bit with the format.The Radical Guide for ADHD women, written by Sari Solden and Dr. Michelle Frank, is the single biggest influence in how I run my peer coaching and support group. The principles and exercises shared in the book are perspective changing for women with ADHD.You'll hear me discuss:ADHD as an identity issueZooming out to get some perspectiveDiagnosis and treatmentThe humanistic, whole person view of ADHDHiding in your life v being SEENLimiting beliefsHow we address these topics in The EnclaveLink to A Radical Guide for ADHD Women Check out the Enclave - I bring together ADHD women to peer coach each other, so that we can manage our emotions, tell our stories, and create the changes that lead to calmer, more satisfying lives.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    It's not just about ADHD, it's about your life with Dr. Michelle Frank

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2020 61:18


    **Repost of my conversation with Dr. Michelle Frank ***In this thoughtful conversation about life for ADHD women you will hear:Dr. Frank's feelings about ADHD as a gift or a curseThe importance of acknowledging ADHD and other invisible conditionsThe concept of realistic hopeThe belief that we are not enough, or we are too muchMy meltdown after giving birthThe role of gender in our expectations for ourselvesRealizing you are not a burden, and it's ok to take up space in the worldMisunderstandings about therapy and other supportCommon relationship issues in, “mixed” couplesLink to original written postLink to Dr. Frank - private practiceSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Multitasking Sucks

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2020 16:04


    This is the audio version of the Instagram Live I did earlier in the week.And...the article I updated from three years ago.We are in the middle of a pandemic and we're pretty much forced to multitask in order to survive.I have to parent, teach, make a home, make a living etc. And I have to do all of these things every single day. You too?ADHD people are at a breaking point. Many of us hit a wall last week.Some of us have given up and just started numbing out on Netflix and food. We are in no position to work on our personal growth right now. And that's totally ok. Whether you have ADHD or not, multitasking does not work. The research is solid on this.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Talking Identity, Boundaries, and Communication with Samantha Cooper

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2020 46:41


    I first met Samantha on Instagram, and I immediately liked her quiet but informed vibe. In social media land often the loudest mouth wins. So I was really excited when I noticed she would be presenting at the 2019 Annual ADHD Conference in Philadelphia.While coaching clients Samantha utilizes her ADDCA coach training, positive psychology, and her background in public health and epidemiology. And yes, Samantha also has ADHD.She calls her business Unconventional Minds Coaching – because everything about her background and her style is unconventional. In the best possible way!Samantha is the only coach I've met who takes an interest in social justice and improving wellness inequities. She is open to, and has worked with clients who have (or have had) unconventional, non-normative, and/or marginalized experiences and identities, including:blended families (e.g. divorce, separation, adoption, multiple co-parents, chosen family, etc)family estrangementtransgender, non-binary, and gender non-conformingLGBT, LGBTQIA — lesbian, gay bisexual, queer, asexual, pansexual, intersexpolyamorous, polyamory, open relationshipsBDSM / kinkunconventional occupations (e.g. activists, artists, performers, sex educators, sexuality coaches/surrogates)During this conversation I got soooo much education and it got me thinking that insectionality needs to be discussed much more in the coaching and ADHD community.Listen in as we discuss:Samantha's ADHD storyThe difference between therapy and coaching, and the road to becoming a coachThe definition of IntersectionalityThe connection between the LGBTQ+ community and neurodiversityThe emotional process of developing and implementing boundariesHow your identity changes when you stop being a people pleaserHow we are both verbal processors, and how it can get us in troubleSupport the show

    Relationship Skills Matter (Even when there's not a pandemic)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2020 104:38


    Jaclyn Paul returns to discuss relationship skills in the time of Coronavirus. We had initially talked about this as an episode called, "How not to kill your family during the pandemic." But we decided that Corona news had reached a saturation point, and we wanted to explore the topic of relationship and parenting skills on a broader scale.In this episode Jaclyn and I tell some intimate stories - some from the past and some from the present, about our spouses and our children. It's a long one, but we verbal processors make some really good points.You will hear:How info and advice can quickly become overwhelming for the ADHD brain, leading to irritability and overwhelmThe story of the sewer pipes in my yard bursting, and Jaclyn's husband playing an April fools prankThe realization that everyone is a little bit more prickly right nowOur mutual confusion and appreciation for our husbands' ability to transition into this new normal and maintain emotional equilibriumApplying Brene' Brown's 50/50 idea to our marriages - https://brenebrown.com/unlockingus/Negotiating parenting and household labor during this new, "normal"No school, lessons, outside activities = parents adjacent to their children and trying to fill all the roles (parent, teacher, coach, buddy) without any breaksScreen time confessions for us and our childrenSheltering in place means all feedback and arguments are higher stakesEsther Perel's idea that the current situation is accelerating the pace of relationshipsChoosing your battles, AND your own behaviorModeling self-awareness and apologies The ADHD HomesteadThe ADHD Enclave - where I help smart, motivated ADHD women understand and manage emotions, so they can feel calmer and more satisfied with their lives.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Getting my Parent Training with Erin Snyders of Honestly ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2020 51:29


    We are currently in our third week of parenting, home schooling, working from home, and trying not to have a breakdown. So I thought I'd continue my theme this week of parenting.Erin and I recorded this over a month ago, but it's just as relevant now as it was then.Listen in as we discuss:Educating parents that are new to the whole, "ADHD thing"Strategies for neurotypical families will not usually work for our familiesThe importance of parent coaching and how it impacts our children's symptomsParental reactions often exacerbate ADHD struggles for kidsThe parenting mindset you need to feel more empoweredPower struggles + assuming positive intentModeling how to apologize and reconnect after a conflictManaging your own ADHD so you can model the behavior you want to seeFear of judgment and social media pressuresFun, cheap, but frequent*** rewardsErin's message for parents just learning about ADHD with their kidsHonestly ADHDErin on FacebookSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Parents WITH ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 45:08


    ****This podcast is reposted from October, 2019I thought we could use a change from the Corona Virus news to something relevant and important during all times.I've written about it. ADDitude Magazine has had some coverage of it. But there is not a lot of research available about how having ADHD as an adult impacts our ability to parent. When we have kids our own issues become amplified.Parents with ADHD need help with three main areas life management, emotional management, and self-care. Listen in as we discuss all three. Find Dr. Caldwell:Dr. Marcy CaldwellRittenhouse Psychological Assessments Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Touching Base During Corona Week 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2020 24:43


    Another random episode. We've all had another week of social distancing, and some of us are actually being told not to leave our homes. I'm not a therapist, and I'm not funny like Whitney Cummings. But one thing about me is I've developed a skill for consistency. So that's what I'm offering the world. This week I discuss:- my hesitation about posting an article about, "positive life changes"- people wasting mental/emotional energy worrying about dumb things- why thinking about trivial things can actually be a coping mechanism- things you DO NOT need to worry about- creating calm when you brain is not calm- how predictability can help us feel more safe- social support during this crazy time- we need to stop comparing our suffering with others. Everyone's emotions are valid.- ****A look into my own anxiety about the future of my family- creating a plan for worst case scenarios so you don't have to think later- the importance of observing and understanding your own thinking (yes, again!)In case you were wondering, I do believe we can make positive changes in our lives. Corona virus or not. As always, we are stronger together.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Touching Base During the Corona Virus

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 33:56


    ***Warning this one is pretty much unedited. I say ummmm, and so a lot.I've been looking for ways to give people a soft place to land during all of this craziness.I'm posting daily touch points on Facebook and Instagram. I recorded this episode to tell you what is working for my family now, and how I am choosing to manage my mind around all of this.You'll hear my thoughts on:Hyperfocusing on news about coronaManaging our minds during a crisis (this will need to be continued)Creating a flexible structureWorking at home with kidsTaking care of yourselfHow I'm planning to offer supportAs I state in this podcast, I want to find ways to be of service to my community without taking advantage of anyone. Email me if you want to hop on to a group call. Spots will be limited for privacy reasons.Here is a link to my post on Beating the Negative Thought VortexEmail me at healthadhd@gmail.comSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD Awareness and Support in the Age of Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2020 26:31


    This is a podcast/post I've had brewing for a while in my brain.  I've seen some huge shifts in where people get their ADHD info over the last few years. Some of it is really good. Things like podcasts have made high quality information more accessible to everyone. But social media has actually made it more difficult for people to get good information. There is so much noise, so much misinformation, it's become overwhelming. The average person cannot tell the difference between a well-intentioned content creator, and a person who really just wants to make some quick cash without knowing much about  ADHD at all. We've lost sight of what real community looks like. We think we have to put up with what's out there. Or shell out a bunch of money to get help. I believe we can do better. Get a list of experts who actually know about ADHD. (Top of the page in orange)Link to the Enclave Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Margaux Joffe on ADHD, Inclusion, and Work Accommodations

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2020 67:31


    Margaux Joffe, the creator of Kaleidoscope Society, sits down with me to discuss her own ADHD diagnosis, and how we can open up the conversation about neurodiversity in the workplace. Listen in as we discuss:Margaux's diagnosisHer career trajectory and how she started the first Neurodiversity ERG at VerizonUnderstanding your rights under the ADAIdeas for disclosing your diagnosis, and advocating for yourselfKnowing your strengthsCommon accommodations that actually helpBS office politicsFinding meaningful work and knowing its ok to change your mindLinks to websites mentioned in this episodeJob Accommodation NetworkAmericans with Disabilities ActKaleidoscope SocietyMargaux JoffeSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Parenting for College and Career Success

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2020 44:35


    Parenting for college and career success requires us to lead our children to the intersection of interests, education and work. (Without imposing our own expectations.)Listen to Lynn Miner-Rosen and I discuss college and career success.In this podcast you will hear:What is a gap year?How parents can avoid negative messagingWhy college is NOT for everyoneManaging parental expectationsCommon challenges in collegeChoosing and changing majorsThe importance of doing researchUtilizing on-compus resourcesAnxiety as an underlying factor for the success of our kidsDon't forget to pick up Lynn's free download just for See in ADHD Listeners! Link to Lynn's Website and coaching servicesSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Questions about ADHD medications?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2020 81:21


    Laurie Dupar has answers!At least once per week I get an email or a post in my membership about medications. Often the questions are posted because ADHD adults are simply not able to get the information they need for themselves and their families. Confusion abounds and people turn to unreliable sources of information - like Facebook groups and other social media.So I asked Laurie, an ADHD coach, and experienced psychiatric nurse practitioner, to sit down with me and discuss some of the questions I hear most frequently. I will produce a written post about this in the future. This is a loooong one. But well worth the listen!We discussed:The lack of ADHD information available to prescribers during their trainingCommon misunderstandings about ADHD in both physicians and pharmacistsThe lack of communication between prescribers and patientsThe real deal on long-term effects, normal side effects, and imagined side effectsStimulants v. non-stimulants, and the development of medicationsHow stimulants work, and how non-stimulants workThe difference between prescription medications and street drugsWhy medications need to be changed/adjusted on an ongoing basis throughout the lifespanPregnancy, breast feeding, menopause and the role of estrogen in ADHDLaurie's iACT center training programLaurie's 5-week Medication CourseSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD After Dark - Discussing my sex life with Dr. Ari Tuckman

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2020 46:17


    I'll be writing a more detailed post about ADHD relationships, sex, and Dr. Tuckman's book in the future. For now, enjoy this funny but also VERY informative conversation. In this episode, you will hear:The origins, and results of Dr. Tuckman's sex surveyThe ADHD effect on relationships and sexual satisfactionGender differences in, "mixed" ADHD couples The sexual eagerness cluster in men & womenThe importance of managing ADHD All the ways ADHD squeezes out time for sexThe parent-child dynamicMy sex life (if you are curious) Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    The Healthy (non)ADHD Husband Speaks

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2020 31:45


    So many people have asked me about the Hubs and how we keep our relationship strong. He has been featured on my Instagram profile, and I've written a couple articles about my thinking around relationships and making a marriage work.The truth is much simpler (read: not easier) than you might think.So I gathered questions from some of my community members, and some followers on social media. Then the Hubs sat down with me in my uber professional recording booth in the spare bedroom and answered them.Some of his answers surprised even me. And he has offered to come back again as needed to discuss “mixed” relationships in the future.In this episode you will hear:How we metThe most annoying parts of living with meHis thoughts on gender roles in modern marriage/relationshipsWhy seeking mental health treatment should not be shamefulOur collective feelings about couples counselingThings he likes best about meSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    STOP numbing out, and start relaxing

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2020 22:59


    In this short episode I tell the story of my recent trip to Puerto Rico.In short, I was cut off from my normal buffering activities. At first, I was totally annoyed because I didn't know how to, "relax" without something to take me out of my own thoughts. Then I discovered that in order to really calm my nervous system, and turn down the volume on my racing thoughts...I had to cut myself off. And I did. And it was magical.This episode is the result of a conversation that we had in the ADHD Enclave about the distinction between numbing out and relaxing. Numbing out = intentionally avoiding FEELING things, or thinking about things, or taking some action. Numbing out almost always involves some temporary pleasurable activity like social media, or bingeing on Netflix. Relaxing = intentionally engaging with your own thoughts. Allowing yourself to breathe, think, and even feel your emotions. This episode is not prescriptive, I really just want people to think. Join the ADHD Enclave and be part of the conversation.Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD Women and Productivity Shame

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020 14:27


    ***Episode pre-recorded***Make no mistake being a stay-at-home-mom or homemaker is work. I daresay the expectations are higher for women on the homefront than anywhere else.And don't even get me started on multi-tasking. It just doesn't work.No wonder so many of us suffer with productivity shame.I brought this conversation about ADHD women and productivity shame into my private Enclave group.The podcast I recorded was a direct result of those conversations.In this episode you will hear:Productivity ShameFalse productivity and businessThe difference between speed and efficiencyMultitasking does NOT workLess doing. More Being.Energy management leads to productivitySupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Travel tips for ADHD adults

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2020 51:19


     I asked coach Jennie Friedman to come on so we could talk podcasting and her coaching practice, and we ended up discussing my trip to Puerto Rico with my husband.In the end we produced a VERY informative episode, including:- packing for a vacation- getting to the airport on time- navigating airport security- remembering EVERYTHING you need- managing stress prior to travel- thinking ahead without having a meltdown- learning to relax and rest your brainReach Further CoachingSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    ADHD Men Struggle, too

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2020 44:31


    **This episode was first aired in March, 2019.**As a society, we need to start looking at mental health in our young men.It's one thing to diagnose a little boy with ADHD and give him some medication - but we need to provide more emotional support. And we need to make it socially acceptable for parents to seek help for their sons. So that when they grow into men, they know it's ok to ask for help.Marc Almodovar is willing to have these conversations. He believes in telling his own story, and empowering other men to share theirs, too.wellnesswithmarc.com/blankinstagram.com/wellnesswithmarc/Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Laura the ADHD Mama

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2020 45:01


    ***This episode was recorded in March, 2019***Join Laura The ADHD Mama and I for a conversation about all things ADHD.Creating the career that works for youMaking a living (or not)Coming back from failureParenting with and for ADHDMedical MarijuanaADHD medicationThis is an honest, authentic conversation between two women who have a lot in common. Including our desire to serve other women with ADHD.Find Laura on Facebook as The ADHD Mama. Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    Momming with ADHD Emotional Hyperfocus

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2019 65:30


    One of my favorite people, and former guests, Jaclyn Paul stops by to discuss emotional Hyperfocus in moms with ADHD.We had intended to discuss how we often take little missteps and build them up in our mind until they are a measure of our entire lives...but we went a teensy bit off our notes.As always, the conversation is jam-packed with usable and relatable info, even if we didn't stick to our agenda.- Little things are big things to the ADHD brain- Jaclyn's meltdown and emotional focus death spiral after a calendar mishap- "But it means EVERYTHING." - and how fiction often mirrors real life- Why we agree that Hyperfocus is NOT a superpower- Parenting PTSD when your child is getting in trouble at school- All roads lead to time blindness (YES, even emotional ones)- The broken down car analogy for figuring out what isn't working in your life- Why some ADHDers don't believe they are capable of change- Forming small, sustainable habits- The power of writing to process emotions and experiences- Women's hormones and ADHDRelated links:The ADHD HomesteadOrder from Chaos - Jaclyn's bookWanna join the conversation? check out the Enclave.Email me at HealthyADHD@gmail.com if you want to suggest a topic for me to research or a person for me to interview. Support the show

    Life Skills with ADHD

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 68:54


    The ADHD Homestead is one of my go-to resources for information and perspective on being a woman living with ADHD. Jaclyn is one of my favorites you guys!In this recording made in March 2019, we discuss all things Life Skills with ADHD:- BS'ing our way through the educational system- The ADHD affect on marriage- Becoming a writer, author- Finding your, "Why"- Real-life organizing for ADHD- The power of the pause with ADHD- The idea that Failure is not a permanent state- Jaclyn's upcoming project management appSHOW NOTES:adhdhomestead.netDo The Thing App - mailchi.mp/dothething.app/mailinglistGetting Things Done - amzn.to/2uoCGl2Is It You, Me, or Adult ADD? - amzn.to/2ul3bIlOrder from Chaos - amzn.to/2U6SkQDSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    12 Days of ADHD Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2019 23:02


    Despite how it may seem, I really do enjoy the holidays. I enjoy the community giving aspect of the season, and I like seeing people that I only see at this time of year.For most of my adult life I have managed to avoid the cooking, organizing, and other EF-heavy tasks that I stink at.But this time of year I cannot avoid these tasks and it makes me a little nuts. The Holidays bring out the crazy in everyone. I just choose to be open about it.When it became evident that I needed a plan to recover, I created the Winter Online Retreat for myself and my community. Everyone who joins us for the retreat gets a little gift in the mail from me + 10 weeks of learning, connection, and personal growth.Listen to my poorly executed holiday rant, and send me ideas for next year!Support the show

    5 Ideas to go from chaos to calm (even with ADHD)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2019 20:07


    ***This episode first aired in February, 2019.***For more info on increasing self-awareness, see this post.See this post on Emotional Management.The five strategies discussed include include:Identifying the difference between things you can control, and things you cannot.Becoming conscious of your thought and behavioral patterns.Managing your emotions.Taking action instead of complaining.Looking forward, not backward, in your life. Support the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

    How to get accommodations in college

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2019 51:58


    Today's guest is Emma Strong.Emma contacted me after listening to an earlier episode and told me she had info to share about college accommodations for ADHD. So naturally I asked her to join me on the show.In this episode you will hear:Emma's personal experience with ADHDHer experience as an academic advisor for first semester freshmanThe purpose of a, "learning community" on a college campusWhat choosing a major means, (and what it doesn't), in terms of your future careerTypes of accommodations that are commonly available to studentsWorking with the disability services office of your universityThe biggest difference between K-12 accommodations, and college accommodations**** Other supports: tutoring, study groups, office hours with the professorYou don't have to use accommodations, but if you set them up at the beginning they will be there when you NEED themAccommodations for mental health are becoming more common (thank goodness!)Testing and other health services available for students who need to be evaluated for ADHD and other conditionsPrivacy on campusFirst steps toward getting the support you needSupport the show (https://the-adhd-enclave.mn.co)

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