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Emotional numbing and dissociation is often a response to trauma, grief or loss. You might feel empty, dead inside, or like you can't cry. Numbness is a common symptom of PTSD. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership check out our free course Grounding Skills for Stress, Anxiety and PTSD: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/grounding-skills-for-anxiety-stress-and-ptsd/?utm_medium=YTDescription&utm_source=YouTube Full Video w/ Thomas: https://youtu.be/mIypaYoKXQg Embodiment playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-FLbFboMWs&list=PLiUrrIiqidTVO0sPOvlvYyAc0XJhsQQi8 Emotional numbness can feel like you're cut off from life—flat, disconnected, or like you're just going through the motions. Many people describe feeling blank, unable to cry, or watching life from the outside. This experience is more common than you think, and it's often a nervous system response to overwhelming stress or trauma. In this video, Emma McAdam from Therapy in a Nutshell explains why people go numb or experience dissociation, and what you can do about it. We'll explore the science of the freeze response, how numbing protects us when emotions are too big, and why it shows up after trauma, grief, chronic stress, or burnout. Learn how to stop nightmares and night terrors in adults, understand PTSD-related sleep issues, and get practical treatment tips for better rest and recovery. Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership What's the difference between nightmares and night terrors—and how do you stop them, especially in adults? In this video, we break down nightmares vs night terrors, including how they relate to PTSD, trauma, and stress. Learn how to recognize the signs of nightmare disorder, and what treatments like Imagery Rehearsal Therapy, trauma-focused therapy, and sleep hygiene can do to help. We also explore night terrors in adults, which are rare but sometimes linked to PTSD. Whether you're seeking effective night terrors treatment, support for trauma-related sleep issues, or just want to understand why your sleep feels so disturbing, this video offers insight and real tools. If you or a loved one suffer from intense dreams or frightening sleep episodes, you're not alone—and healing is possible. #Nightmares #NightTerrors #NightTerrorsInAdults #HowToStopNightmaresInAdults #NightmareDisorder #PTSD #sleeptherapy Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell Learn more in one of my in-depth mental health courses: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com Support my mission on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therapyinanutshell Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.therapyinanutshell.com Check out my favorite self-help books: https://kit.co/TherapyinaNutshell/best-self-help-books Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger Institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC
Is quitting alcohol just about the drink itself, or is there something deeper at play? Anna Donaghey sits down with trauma-informed healer Emma Lyons, founder of The Trauma Matrix, to explore how shame hides beneath so many of our habits, including drinking, and keeps us stuck in self-judgment, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. If you've ever felt that gnawing ‘not enough' feeling, or wondered why cutting back on booze feels so hard, this episode will help you see what's really fueling the urge and give you powerful new tools for release.Here are the Highlights:00:00 Introduction: Why releasing alcohol requires releasing shame02:08 Meet Emma Lyons04:49 Family scapegoat, inherited shame & the roots of addiction07:54 Why therapy doesn't work until you address shame09:00 Shame vs. guilt: The toxic cocktail that attacks our sense of self12:40 Manipulation, compliance, and the gaslighting of “for your own good”13:39 How shame hijacks the body and drives coping strategies17:16 Shame shuts down empathy19:37 Narcissists, repression, and the Velcro effect of internalised shame22:01 Scapegoats, golden children, and not being yourself25:54 Imposter syndrome, perfectionism and anxiety are all just shame with better PR28:43 Numbing shame with alcohol30:51 How not-enoughness fuels drinking32:01 Why shame is always toxic and why society says otherwise35:41 How children can pick up parental shame, accidentally and unconsciously38:39 Drinking to numb, feeling flawed, and repeating the pattern39:31 You can't bully shame into submission48:17 What happens when shame is released48:42 Why alcohol loses its job when shame no longer needs numbing49:28 Where to find Emma Lyons (+free gift for listeners)Anna's group coaching community ‘Unstuck!' helps identify your alcohol ‘stories' and beliefs, breaking the cycle of alcohol and all the shame that goes with it. For more information and to find out how to join, please follow this link: https://www.winetowatercoaching.com/unstuck-1 To further explore your relationship with alcohol, check out Anna's self-guided programme, The Big Drink Rethink Experiment: https://www.thebeliefscoach.com/the-big-drink-rethink-experimentAnd apply the code POD99 to purchase for just £99 as a podcast listener.If you're loving the podcast and would like to give Anna a warm, fuzzy feeling of appreciation, then you can buy her a coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/bigdrinkrethinkAbout the host Anna:Anna is a certified Alcohol Mindset Coach, trained by Annie Grace of This Naked Mind. Drawing on her own journey out of alcohol addiction, she now helps others explore and control their drinking. With a career spanning 25 years as a Strategist in the Advertising industry, she combines her own lived experiences, with great insight into what makes us tick and what influences us to behave the way we do.Connect with Anna:Website: thebeliefscoach.comLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annadonagheyInstagram:
Shadow work around numbing, not caring, and giving zero f*cks explores the self-protective side of emotional shutdown — and how to gently reawaken the parts of us that care an awful lot.In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph unpack how avoidance, denial, and numbness often began as brilliant childhood survival strategies. Georgianna shares a deeply moving story about her son's “I don't care” — and how meeting his shutdown with compassion revealed a tender sensitivity beneath the surface. Steph reflects on her own years of “not caring” and how that numbness was actually proof of how deeply she cared, without tools to manage the feelings that come with caring.Together, they explore how to create inner spaciousness without shutting down, and how to reclaim the part of us that still longs for connection, safety, and care — for ourselves and others.Discover how:“I don't care” can signal care that's gone undergroundSpaciousness builds capacity for love, not distance from itFeeling is the bridge back to passion and aliveness"Like finding gold." – Alma W."The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B.LIVE training & practice programs:wholeheartedloving.comGet our self-compassionate body-based toolkitEvery episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT.With love,Georgianna & Steph
Stop Numbing, Start Living: Your Biggest Threat to Happiness (and How to Beat It) What's the single biggest threat to your happiness? It's not your job, the news, or even social media. It's the quiet, daily choice to numb ourselves. We all do it: we check out with endless scrolling, we overeat, we overwork, and we use fleeting comforts to avoid our feelings. These habits give us temporary relief, but they kill our potential for true joy and deep connection. Today, we're exposing the numbing epidemic for what it is. More importantly, we're giving you the playbook to stop numbing, finally face what you're avoiding, and start living a fuller, more authentic life. If you're ready to finally beat this hidden threat, stick around. Let's dive in. New Episode of the Happiness Podcast with Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D.
In this episode, Ashleigh and Rachel have an impromptu mental health chat, talking about their own personal struggles and ways in which we can all face our challenges head on rather than looking for ways to numb or distract ourselves. Mental health is such a huge part of physical health (and vice versa) and it's helpful to take a step back from muscles and macros every now and then to talk about the bigger picture. After all, most of us are working on our health so we can enjoy life to the fullest. And also, to lighten the mood, they talk Halloween costumes. This is a vulnerable one, and if you enjoyed it or found it resonates with you, we'd love for you to leave a comment in Spotify or share the episode on social media. We hope you find this episode helpful; if you do, please rate/review/subscribe and share it with someone who could benefit! If you have comments, feedback, or questions please send them to musclescience4women@gmail.com. Check out the latest program from Muscle Science for Women: The Fit Pregnancy Specialization program! The program offers a customizable training program that will adjust throughout your pregnancy, a full exercise video library, a downloadable resource document and a 90 minute lecture walking through details like safe exercise selection, likely fitness challenges during pregnancy, how to eat to support a healthy fit pregnancy, and so much more. Read more about our new program at this link, and reach out if you would like the military/first responders discount: https://www.rgfit.com/fit-pregnancy You can also learn about the flagship strength program at https://www.musclescienceforwomen.com Learn more about the hosts at rgfit.com and ashleighvanhouten.com
In this episode, we sit down with Amber Romaniuk for a deep dive into the numerous root causes of emotional eating. She discusses how the food industry has shaped our behaviors by promoting highly processed, dopamine-driven foods that hijack our brain's reward pathways and keep us stuck in cycles of craving, guilt, and restriction. Amber highlights the role of dopamine in these patterns, showing how food becomes a quick emotional fix and how disrupted hormones, gut health, and blood-sugar balance can intensify cravings. She offers practical steps for healing, including building awareness around emotional vs. physical hunger, stabilizing blood sugar with nourishing foods, supporting digestion and hormones, and cultivating safety and self-trust instead of restriction or shame. Addressing food addiction, she emphasizes compassion, mindset work, and non-food coping tools to break binge-and-restrict loops. She also shares her insights into the use of GLP-1 medications, as well as more information about her Body Freedom Program, which helps women release diet culture, heal their relationship with food, balance hormones and digestion, and create lasting “body safety” through mindset shifts, nutrition, and emotional healing—all aimed at achieving freedom from food obsession and reconnecting with the body's innate wisdom.Amber Romaniuk is an Emotional Eating, Digestive and Hormone Expert, with 12 years experience helping high achieving women create a level of body confidence, intuition and optimal health through powerful mindset healing, self-care and overcoming self-sabotage with food.She does this through addressing the key negative thoughts, patterns and limiting beliefs that keep women stuck in the same behaviors for years and decades, that they haven't been able to break.Her podcast “The No Sugarcoating Podcast” has 2+ million downloads, over 600 episodes and is listened to in over 90 countries.Amber overcame her own emotional eating after gaining and losing more than 1000 lbs and spending over $50,000 on binge foods, and spending 5 years balancing her hormones and digestion. She also dismantled her deep limiting beliefs and behaviors keeping her stuck in the same looping patterns.Now she helps others achieve the biggest healing miracles of Body FreedomTM so they have the confidence and health to create amazing lives.SHOW NOTES:0:39 Welcome to the podcast!1:40 Amber Romaniuk's Bio2:11 Welcome her to the show!3:09 Her turning point9:34 Influence from the food industry11:52 Impact of childhood on eating behaviors13:44 Numbing out with food15:20 Renee's journey with food19:39 Low Dopamine25:58 Food disorders in men27:28 The Kardashian influence30:04 Intuition & discernment for self-healing32:58 *MIMIO HEALTH*34:49 The downsides of GLP-1s39:45 Food addiction & Perimenopause49:02 Body positivity movement52:22 Her morning routine advice57:42 Body Freedom Program1:00:20 Where to find her1:01:06 Her final piece of advice1:01:44 Thanks for tuning in!RESOURCES:*MIMIO HEALTH - code: biohackerbabes to save 20%WebsiteBody Freedom ProgramNo Sugar Coating PodcastInstagramFacebookYouTubeSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/biohacker-babes-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
In this episode of the David Watson Podcast, betrayal-trauma practitioner Mr Jay breaks down what really happens to your brain and body after infidelity or a breakup, why the pain can feel worse than grief, and the practical steps to move from shock to stability to rebuilding. We talk about • Why betrayal trauma is different: it feels personal, it's a “secret society,” and it even rewrites your past • The brain on betrayal: amygdala overdrive, prefrontal cortex shutdown, hippocampus and time/place distortions • Triggers and “emotional flashbacks,” and how to calm the system so you can think again • The early rule: don't make major decisions in the first 3–6 months; choose from empowerment, not fear • Needs assessment 101: what you actually need in week 1 vs. week 12 • Betrayal blindness and the thousand micro-justifications that precede an affair • Reframing the inner dialogue: separating your worth from someone else's choices • Pebbles and raindrops: tiny promises that rebuild self-trust and self-esteem • Practical tools: journaling, simple meditations, walking, “gratitude with reasons,” and everyday follow-through • Staying vs leaving in long relationships: finances, family systems, resentment, and compassion without excusing • The “dash” on the tombstone, bridge-and-volcano analogy, and other mindsets that help you keep going Key takeaways • Healing time beats time alone. Numbing and avoiding stretch the pain; gentle daily work releases it. • You are 0% responsible for someone else's decision to betray. You're 100% responsible for how you show up next. • Self-esteem returns through kept promises to yourself. Start very small and be consistent. • If you stay, rebuild from safety and transparency; if you leave, leave when you feel grounded and resourced. Resources and mentions • Mr Jay, betrayal-trauma practitioner and relationship coach • Gratitude journal exercise: list 3 things you're grateful for, with 3 reasons each • Music mention: The Lady of Shalott by Loreena McKennitt If you're in the thick of it Please don't do anything rash. Give yourself days and weeks to settle your nervous system. Talk to someone trained in betrayal/trauma. Being heard and guided changes everything. Where to find Mr Jay https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com
What if I told you that the eating disorder you're battling isn't really about food at all—it's about rejection? In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on my own rejection story and how those painful moments shaped my relationship with food, my body, and control. From being told to "get in line by size" at dance practice to corporate disappointments and broken friendships, I'm sharing the rejection wounds that led me down the path of disordered eating. Here's the truth: perfectionism is rejection prevention. It's the way your brain tries to avoid the emotional trauma of feeling "not enough." And your eating disorder? It offers the illusion of protection—a false comfort that promises to fix everything and prevent future rejection. But the only thing it really does is lead to the deepest rejection of all: rejecting your own worthiness. Today, we're dissecting rejection together. I'm meeting you in that painful place so you can discover what I've learned: your rejection story can become your redemption story. Rejection isn't the end—it's God's protection, His redirection, and often the most powerful motivator for transformation. If you've been shrinking yourself to fit into spaces you were rejected from, this episode is your invitation to take up space again, feel free again, and reject the rejection that was never yours to carry. What You'll Learn: [02:30] The moment everything changed: My dance practice rejection story and how one comment shifted my entire relationship with my body [05:00] Why perfectionism is actually rejection prevention—and how it fuels your eating disorder [07:15] The cycle that keeps you stuck: Fear of rejection → False control → Isolation → Disordered eating behaviors → Reinforced rejection fears [09:45] How early experiences shape your relationship with safety (and why you desperately want to be seen, heard, and loved) [12:00] Protection strategies your brain uses: Numbing through restriction, creating physical armor through body changes, food rituals as predictable comfort [15:30] My personal rejection timeline: From Disney on Ice to corporate promotions, college boyfriends to broken friendships—the moments that shaped my story [18:00] The powerful reframe: Rejection is God's protection and redirection. What would you have missed if those doors had stayed open? [20:30] How recovered people reject rejection—practical steps to heal and move forward [23:00] The three questions to ask when rejection voices show up: "So what? Says who? Who cares?" Key Takeaways:
If you're ready to take your growth to the next level, DM me “level up” to learn about private breathwork and coaching — only three spots open this month with exclusive October bonuses.You can send "level up" to me on Instagram or Facebook @jonnycpardoe or Linked In Jonny Pardoe, alternatively coaching@jonnypardoe.comSpeak soon.In this powerful episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, we explore the hidden forms of addiction that many people overlook — from overworking, scrolling, and people-pleasing, to food, validation, and control.Addiction isn't just about substances — it's about escaping discomfort and avoiding the emotions we fear most. In this deep and honest conversation, we unpack how to face emotional pain head-on, reconnect with your body, and begin the healing process that leads to genuine confidence and self-trust.If you've ever found yourself running from stillness, this episode will help you understand why — and how to finally come home to yourself.Ready to feel more focused, confident, and in control? DM me “level up.” I'm working privately with three men this month — including direct WhatsApp support and October-only bonuses.You can send "level up" to me on Instagram or Facebook @jonnycpardoe or Linked In Jonny Pardoe, alternatively coaching@jonnypardoe.com. Speak soon.
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We all get stuck. Fear, comfort, distractions, numbing habits, they keep us spinning on life's hamster wheel. In this solo episode, Kelly Siegel gets real about what's holding you back and gives you the exact steps to break free. From numbing emotions with alcohol to rebuilding discipline through a 90-Day Reset Plan, Kelly shares battle-tested strategies for facing the truth, cutting the noise, and creating a daily system that actually works. If you're tired of excuses and ready for change, this episode is your wake-up call. What You'll Learn in This Episode:
No time to market your books, or build and nurture relationships with your target readers on social media? I know, you may have a love/hate relationship with social media. Me too. If you're sticking with social to market your books, are you using it to connect with new readers? Nurture existing ones? Or perhaps you're simply using social to scroll and numb out instead. Don't let that last one distract you! Let's get real today about the time we're spending on social.Related Episode:How to Write Off Social When Marketing Your Book☑️ START YOUR AUTHOR PODCAST CHECKLIST
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In this powerful episode, Lindsey gets vulnerable about the connection between trauma and eating disorders, sharing why sometimes it's okay to look at our past to catapult us into our future. If you've experienced trauma and are wondering how it connects to your eating disorder, this episode will provide hope, healing insights, and practical steps forward. Discover the 6 essential things to remember about your past that can transform your recovery journey and help you move from survival to thriving. Note: This episode addresses sensitive topics around trauma. Lindsey emphasizes that as a recovery coach, she focuses on the here and now of recovery, while encouraging professional therapy support for trauma processing. Key Topics Covered:
Send us a textSend me an email at manspacetherapy@gmail.com to gain access to the beta version of the e-course. Limited to 10 spaces.In this conversation, Matt explores the concept of the 'Seven Chambers of the Man's Soul,' focusing on the psychological and emotional states that men often navigate. He introduces three primary chambers of the mind: the Compliance Chamber, the Withdrawal Chamber, and the Defiance Chamber, each representing different coping mechanisms and emotional responses. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing these chambers to foster emotional awareness and personal growth, ultimately encouraging men to confront their fears and anger for true transformation.TakeawaysCompartmentalization is a common survival mechanism for men.Avoiding conflict can lead to emotional stagnation.Imagery can aid in understanding complex emotional states.The Compliance Chamber is focused on appeasing others' demands.The Withdrawal Chamber offers temporary relief but leads to long-term issues.Numbing behaviors can exacerbate underlying stress.The Defiance Chamber contains repressed anger and fear.True transformation requires confronting uncomfortable emotions.Breaking free from these chambers is essential for emotional health.Engaging with one's internal experience fosters deeper connections.Sound bites"Ignore or push through your pain.""Avoid conflict at all costs.""You believe you'll make it work."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Seven Chambers of the Man's Soul02:56 Understanding the Three Chambers of the Mind05:50 Exploring the Compliance Chamber09:10 Delving into the Withdrawal Chamber12:09 The Defiance Chamber: Anger and Fear15:02 Breaking Free from the Chambers17:57 Conclusion and Next StepsSpread the word! The Manspace is Rad!!
يظلّ سؤال العجز حاضرًا اليوم وسط الإبادة المستمرة: كيف نفهم مشاعرنا بعد سنتين من القهر والفقدان، وكيف نُدرك إنسانيتنا وسط مشاعر العجز والخذلان والنجاة الثقيلة؟هل نحن أمام مشاعر عابرة فرضتها سنتان من الإبادة، أم أننا نحمل على ظهورنا تراكمًا طويلًا من الصدمات التاريخية الممتدة عبر أجيال؟ هذا الحوار وُلد من فضولنا الجماعي لنفهم أنفسنا أكثر، لنسأل: ما الذي أصابنا فعلًا خلال العامين الماضيين، وكيف صارت مشاعرنا مرآة لواقعنا السياسي والاجتماعي والنفسي؟
In this episode of Success is Subjective, Joanna Lilley talks with Leah Malone—a clinician and recovery advocate who's walked the long road from perfectionism and numbing to real, grounded healing. Leah opens up about how she spent years living a life that looked “successful” from the outside, checking all the boxes she thought she was supposed to. But inside, she was disconnected, overwhelmed, and stuck in a cycle of numbing through everything from food and shopping to busyness and addiction.What happens when you stop running from discomfort? Leah shares what it looked like to slow down, sit with hard feelings, and grieve the life she thought she wanted—making space for the life she was truly meant to live. Her story is honest, heartfelt, and a powerful reminder that healing is messy, nonlinear, and so worth it. Leah's Resources:Grace & Emerge RecoveryConnect with Joanna Lilley Therapeutic Consulting AssociationLilley Consulting WebsiteLilley Consulting on Facebook Lilley Consulting on YouTubeEmail joanna@lilleyconsulting.com#TherapeuticConsulting #LilleyConsulting #Successful #TherapeuticPrograms #Therapy #MentalHealthMatters #Podcast #PodcastCommunity #TheJourney #SuccessIsSubjectivePodcast #TheUnpavedRoad #PFCAudioVideo #TraumaRecovery #TherapyJourney #Healing #PersonalGrowth #TherapyWorks
“There are some very universal pieces of armor that we all wear: foreboding joy, perfectionism, and numbing.” — Brené BrownIn this episode of The Wholehearted Series, we explore what it means to cultivate a resilient spirit—a key guidepost in living a wholehearted life. At the heart of this guidepost is a liberating invitation: let go of numbing and powerlessness.Many of us have learned to disconnect from pain through busyness, perfectionism, or emotional shutdown. But numbing doesn't just protect us from discomfort—it dulls our capacity for joy, creativity, love, and connection. In this episode, we unpack how to shift from powerlessness to purpose, and how resilience is less about pushing through, and more about recovering well, choosing hope, and staying connected to what makes us feel alive.You'll hear:The five traits resilient people have in commonWhy hope is not an emotion but a way of thinking (thanks to Dr. C.R. Snyder's research)The role of spirituality, storytelling, and recovery seasons in building inner strengthWhat it means to reclaim power when trauma has shaped your nervous system's defaultHow I personally wrestled with powerlessness, and how nervous system awareness became a turning pointThe truth about numbing: why it's not neutral, and how it slowly distances us from our fullest selvesWhether you're healing from burnout, living through a hard season, or learning how to show up for yourself with more compassion, this episode will meet you where you are—with insight, encouragement, and the reminder that you're not alone.Get your free Wholehearted Living journal prompts. https://calm-sun-843.myflodesk.com/x5yo2oyoyuBook a free discovery coaching call: www.ella-hooper.comFollow me on Instagram:@ella.hooper__
Getting lost in anxiety, shame, or self-loathing? Spiritual leader Gabby Bernstein wants you to acknowledge all the messy parts of your true character. Spoiler: you're not going suddenly to like yourself overnight, but acknowledging the uncomfortable bits will get you there sooner!In this chat with Fearne, Gabby explains how ‘protector parts' like perfectionism, people pleasing, and numbing out can spiral into extreme self-soothing behaviours like drug or porn addiction if they're not dealt with.Fearne and Gabby chat about anxiety as a protection mechanism, exploring why being focused on the heart palpitations and hyper-vigilance is stopping you dealing with your deeper wounds.Plus, Fearne notices that her OCD is back so Gabby takes a moment to help her check in with her current stress levels – you can follow along with this exercise too!Gabby's latest book, Self-Help, is out now.If you liked this episode of Happy Place, you might also like: Mel RobbinsNatalie LueTell Self-Limiting Beliefs To Bugger Off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This is a Fan Fav episode. One of the hardest things to accept as an adult is that many of the beliefs you have about yourself and the world you live in were developed from a childhood where you didn't know any better and you weren't equipped with the resources or capacity to process the complexities of life happening all around you. Those experiences helped you shape the story you tell yourself today. Whether the story is good or bad is irrelevant considering that chances are the story isn't even accurate or factual. Marissa Peer is not just a best-selling author, she is a trained hypnotherapist that created Rapid Transformational Therapy, or RTT. She joins Lisa here to discuss the ideas from her latest book, Tell Yourself a Better Lie. Her tips and strategies are powerful to rewrite your story and create a narrative that gives you meaning, fulfillment and more happiness. Check out Marissa Peer's latest book, Tell Yourself a Better Lie: https://amzn.to/39U2M7w Original air date: 5-18-22 SHOW NOTES: RFPI Illness | The unconscious role, function, purpose and intent of illness [1:06] OCD Control | Marissa shares about an OCD patient's illness rooted in control [5:55] Uncover The Root | Uncovering when and why trauma starts helps to identify the cause [10:14] Choose for Yourself | Helping people see their normalized behaviors on their own [17:07] Change Isn't Hard | Choosing the unfamiliar over what's familiar and comfortable [22:49] Be Enough | How you go from thinking it, to saying it, to actually feeling it's true [27:19] Lie to Yourself | Marissa on why the lies you tell yourself are super powerful [30:39] Be Flaw-some | How you are a flawed person in a flawed relationship, be proud [36:20] Stressed Eating | Examining how you are hardwired and being accepted or not accepted [38:27] Self Sabotaging | Why people self destruct because they don't feel self-worth [43:53] Feel Your Emotions | Marissa on why allowing yourself to feel all emotions is good [47:20] Outcome of Beliefs | Words shape your reality and that's controlled by your thoughts [51:03] Follow Marissa Peer: Website: https://marisapeer.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarisaPeer Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marisa.peer.therapy/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if what keeps you going is also keeping you stuck? Does venting actually help, or is it actually making you feel worse? This powerful, hope-filled conversation might just change your entire approach to rest—it did for me. Cognitive psychologist and neuroscientist Dr. Therese Huston joins me for a conversation that's incredibly helpful for anyone feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or stuck in numbing patterns. I'm not exaggerating when I say it is a game-changer. If you've been feeling off-center, burned out, or unsure how to truly rest, this episode will meet you with both compassion and science-backed tools to help you reset—even when you don't have much time. We cover: The surprising truth about venting—and why it may not be helping Why certain “breaks” leave you more drained How to reset your brain in less than five minutes (yes, really) Simple, science-backed techniques to calm your nervous system Why numbing behaviors (like mindless snacking, scrolling, or binging TV) can feel good—but keep you stuck Two powerful on-air practices you can do right along with us This is not about productivity hacks. It's about reclaiming your peace and tending to your soul—so you can show up as the person you want to be, no matter what your day looks like.
In this episode, Stephen Martin discusses the concept of neurodiverse burnout, particularly in individuals with dyslexia and ADHD. He highlights the challenges faced by neurodiverse individuals, including overstimulation, the lack of warning signs for burnout, and the importance of rest and boundaries. Stephen emphasizes the need for self-awareness and personal responsibility in managing one's mental health and well-being.TakeawaysNeurodiverse burnout is common and not a sign of laziness.Overstimulation can lead to mental exhaustion for neurodiverse individuals.Recognizing the signs of burnout is crucial for recovery.Rest should be restorative, not just a distraction.Setting boundaries is essential for mental health.It's important to take ownership of your well-being.Self-care practices can help recharge your mental energy.Numbing behaviors can be a temporary solution but should be balanced.Creating a supportive community can aid in personal growth.Awareness and grace towards oneself are key in managing neurodiversity.Keywordsneurodiverse burnout, dyslexia, ADHD, mental health, overstimulation, boundaries, self-care, awareness, rest, responsibility, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:truthaboutdyslexia.comJoin our Facebook Groupfacebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia
Hey sister, if you've ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of burnout, numbing out with distractions, or just too tired to figure out what needs to change—this conversation will meet you right where you are. In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Melissa Batt, Christian life coach and host of the Priorities on Purpose podcast. Melissa shares her raw and redemptive story of chasing success in direct sales, only to realize she was sacrificing the very people and calling God gave her. We talk about: The warning signs of living on autopilot (and how to wake up before the crash) Why “you're not lazy”—you might just be carrying emotional overload Melissa's personal moment of clarity that changed everything What it means to circle the wagon and begin again, with intention How we need to declutter our homes and minds to help us heal and change Why your comfort zone may feel cozy—but it's not where you're meant to live What living on purpose really looks like when you're still in the thick of life Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, spiritually dry, or just hungry for more from this season of life, Melissa offers a gentle nudge and a bold reminder: God already knows—and He's ready to meet you in the mess. Scripture to Remember:
Episode 351. (Rebroadcast of Episode 2.) The most important thing in prepping is realizing you and those around you have normalcy bias. Related to that is numbing down. Listen to the show and you'll see what we mean. Find out all the ways to hear the show by going to www.prepping2-0.com. Subscribe, rate, review, and comment - that really helps us. Patreon supporters get lots of exclusive and cool stuff for as little as $2 a month. Whoa. What a deal.
Episode 351. (Rebroadcast of Episode 2.) The most important thing in prepping is realizing you and those around you have normalcy bias. Related to that is numbing down. Listen to the show and you'll see what we mean. Find out all the ways to hear the show by going to www.prepping2-0.com. Subscribe, rate, review, and comment - that really helps us. Patreon supporters get lots of exclusive and cool stuff for as little as $2 a month. Whoa. What a deal.
Welcome to episode 314 of The Cloud Pod, where your hosts, Matt and Ryan, are holding down the fort in Justin's absence and bringing what's left of our audience (those of you still here after the last time they were left in charge) the latest and greatest in cloud and tech news. We've got undersea cables, vector storage, and even some hobos – but not the kind on trains. Plus, AWS S3 gets its Vector Victor. Let's get started! Titles we almost went with this week: S3 Gets Direction: AWS Points to Vector Storage Vector? I Hardly Know Her! S3’s New AI Storage Play S3 Finds Its Magnitude and Direction Claude Goes to Wall Street Anthropic’s Bull Run Into Financial Services AI Assistant Gets Its Series 7 License Nova Scotia: AWS Brings Regional Flavor to AI Models The Fine-Tuning of the Shrew: Teaching Nova Models New Tricks Nova-caine: Numbing the Pain of Model Customization AgentCore Blimey: AWS Gives AI Agents Their License to Scale The Agent Infrastructure: Mission Deployable From Zero to Agent Hero: AWS Tackles the Production Problem SageMaker Gets Its Data Act Together From Catalog to QuickSight: A Data Love Story The Great Data Unification of 2024 AWS Free Tier Gets a $200 Makeover EKS-treme Makeover: Cluster Edition #⃣100K Nodes Walk Into a Cluster… S3 Gets Direction: Amazon Points to Vector Storage Amazon S3: Now with 90% Less Vector Bills and 100% More Dimensions Follow Up 01:03 SoftBank and OpenAI's $500 Billion AI Project Struggles to Get Off Ground The $500 billion AI effort unveiled at the White House has struggled to get off the ground and has scaled back its near-term plans. It’s been six months since the announcement, where they said they would spend $100B almost immediately, but now they have a more modest goal of building a small data center by the end of the year in Ohio. Softbank committed to $30 billion earlier this year, and it is one of the largest ever startup investments by them, which led them to take on new debt and sell assets. This investment was made alongside Stargate, giving them a role in the physical infrastructure needed for AI. Altman, though, has been eager to secure computing power as quickly as possible and has proceeded without Softbank. Publicly, they say it’s a great partnership, and they look forward to advancing projects in multiple states Oracle was part of Stargate, but the recent 30B deal just signed with includes a commitment of 4.5 gigawatts of capacity, and would consume the equivalent power of more than two Hoover Dams, or about 4 million homes. Oracle was also named part of the deal with UAE firm MGX as a partner, but Oracle CEO Safra Catz said that Stargate hadn't been formed yet, as of last month. 02:31 Matthew – “…everyone’s like, how hard can it be to build a data center? But it’s c
In this powerful episode, Amb. Elisha sit down with Katie Baker, author of When the Universe Holds Your Hair Back, who shares her inspiring journey of healing from childhood trauma and finding peace. Katie opens up about the challenges she faced in her adulthood, including struggling with unresolved abuse, unhealthy coping mechanisms, and the moment she realized change was necessary. Through heartfelt stories, Katie explains the importance of self-investment, confronting your past, and the life-changing lessons learned during her healing process. She discusses how her children's support helped her embrace a year of healing, including using therapeutic psychedelics to address deep-rooted trauma. Katie also busts common myths about trauma recovery, emphasizing that healing is not linear and that success on the outside doesn't always reflect internal struggles. She encourages listeners to trust in their worthiness and the power of surrendering to the healing process. Tune in for insights on overcoming trauma, seeking validation from within, and the importance of embracing a supportive community. Katie's story serves as a beacon of hope for anyone looking to reclaim their life after pain. Key Takeaways: • The impact of childhood abuse can last well into adulthood, but healing is possible. • Numbing strategies like drinking or overworking often mask the deeper emotional pain. • Authentic healing requires trust, vulnerability, and support from loved ones. When the Universe Holds Your Hair Back is Katie's memoir and a tool for those looking to heal themselves and their communities. Connect with Katie: https://www.peaceandfirehealing.com/ Book: When the Universe Holds Your Hair Back available on Amazon. Join us for a conversation that will open your heart and inspire your journey of self-healing! ... Want to be a guest on WITneSSes? Send Elisha Arowojobe a message on #PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/member/ambelisha Elevate your business with Anastasia's expert consulting. Use code Elisha3 for an exclusive offer and transform your business today! https://resurrectionmentor.wixsite.com/so/42PDEPEB8?languageTag=en Feel like something's missing? Start Living the Magical Life today. Buy Now: https://a.co/d/4sHrFx2 Amb. Elisha just published a transformational workbook, buy now: https://ambelisha.gumroad.com/l/Llaenlap
Have we become the walking dead in the Church?In this eye-opening 30-minute episode, Sersie Blue pulls back the veil on a quiet epidemic. Many Christians are walking in spiritual truth, but physically asleep. The culprit? Toxic food! It's leaving us with high blood pressure, obesity, mental fog, and chronic fatigue, even as we lift our hands in worship and cry out for revival.Sersie shares her wake-up call from living with high blood pressure and mental fog to experiencing healing and clarity through the Daniel Fast. She reveals how what's on our plate may be keeping us from fully stepping into our purpose.This isn't just about eating better; this is about being set free. Because the Holy Spirit doesn't just want to renew your spirit, He wants to resurrect your energy, your clarity, and your health. It's time to stop living like zombies and rise into vibrant, obedient, Spirit-led living.Romans 12:2"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind..."How processed food creates a “zombie-like” state, spiritually foggy, physically drainedWhy our health struggles are not just physical but deeply spiritualSersie's personal story of breaking free from the food coma through the Daniel FastHow the Holy Spirit partners with us to break strongholds, even in our eating habitsWhy changing what you eat is a radical act of worship and warfare Join the Free Weight Loss MasterclassLet this be your first step out of the food fog and into the life God designed for you. https://www.healthyformypurpose.com/weight-loss-masterclass-opt-in-podcast
Welcome back, Booty Gang! Episode 53 of Butt Honestly is dripping with steamy stories, heartfelt questions, and some... creative uses of pool toys. Dr. Carlton is fresh off another veryhands-on pool party, while Dangilo had a weekend so wholesome it practically needs a halo emoji.This week's mailbag is bursting with goodies:
Mid-Summer Slump, I don't think so! It's summer, it's hot, and your body is speaking—maybe through irritation, inflammation, restlessness, or fatigue. Let's talk about the common urge to cool down by numbing out: wine on the patio, nightly ice cream, endless scrolling. But what if cooling down could actually reconnect you to your body, not disconnect you? In today's episode, I'm talking about how to truly cool down during Pitta season in a way that nourishes your feminine body and doesn't lead to burnout, depletion, or disconnection. Where to connect with Andrea Website: https://andreaclaassen.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/seasonalandrea Perimenopause Support Quiz: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/681d3069f79fde0015c88d8c Wise Woman Reset: https://andreaclaassen.com/wisewomanreset 3 Day Mini Cool-Down Challenge- https://andreaclaassen.com/3-day-mini-cooldown-challenge Andrea Claassen Bio Andrea Claassen is an Ayurvedic Wellness Counselor, RYT 500 hour yoga teacher, and personal trainer who has been in the wellness space since 2007. She specializes in cyclical living. Her mission is to help women learn how to slow down, tune in and connect to their inner wisdom. The three pillars she focuses on are movement, mindfulness & mother nature through an Ayurvedic lens. You can hear more from Andrea on her Peaceful Power Podcast where she aims to deliver actionable takeaways for you to live a more holistic lifestyle. Connect with Andrea on her website at www.andreaclaassen.com
If you've ever had one of those “how is this my life?” moments in sobriety—when it feels like everything is crashing down around you and a glass of wine (or five) sounds like the only way to survive the storm—you are not alone. Sobriety doesn't give you a free pass from heartbreak, betrayal, or complete life plot twists. But it does give you the tools (and the clarity) to get through the mess without self-destructing. In this episode, I sat down with Tiffany Jenkins—bestselling author of the memoirs High Achiever and A Clean Mess—to talk about how to survive hard times in sobriety. And not just survive, but eventually rebuild your life without numbing out. For the full shownotes, kindly go to this podcast episode link: https://hellosomedaycoaching.com/surviving-hard-times-in-sobriety-moving-through-betrayal-divorce-and-rebuilding-your-life-without-numbing-out/ 4 Ways I Can Support You In Drinking Less + Living More Join The Sobriety Starter Kit, the only sober coaching course designed specifically for busy women. My proven, step-by-step sober coaching program will teach you exactly how to stop drinking — and how to make it the best decision of your life. Save your seat in my FREE MASTERCLASS, 5 Secrets To Successfully Take a Break From Drinking Grab the Free 30-Day Guide To Quitting Drinking, 30 Tips For Your First Month Alcohol-Free. Connect with me for free sober coaching tips, updates + videos on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest and TikTok @hellosomedaysober. Love The Podcast and Want To Say Thanks? ☕ Buy me a coffee! In the true spirit of Seattle, coffee is my love language. So if you want to support the hours that go into creating this show each week, click this link to buy me a coffee and I'll run to the nearest Starbucks + lift a Venti Almond Milk Latte and toast to you! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/hellosomeday
Whether we're talking sigils, somatics, or the neuroscience of orgasm, this episode drives home one truth: your body holds wisdom, your desires matter, and your sexual energy is a force that can heal, transform, and manifest the life you want. In this intimate and eye-opening episode of the HEAL with Kelly podcast, I sit down with world-renowned sex, love, and relationship therapist Dr. Laura Berman to explore the transformative principles behind her latest book, Sex Magic — a guide to harnessing your sexual energy to consciously create the life you crave. With over 30 years of experience, a PhD from NYU, multiple New York Times bestsellers, and regular appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show, OWN, and Showtime, Dr. Berman brings unmatched wisdom, heart, and depth to this liberating conversation. Together, we unpack how women can reclaim desire beyond societal conditioning, move from performative intimacy to sacred connection, and why emotional safety — not just physical stimulation — is the true foundation of erotic fulfillment. Dr. Berman shares practical tools for cultivating quantum intimacy in long-term relationships and explains why chasing dopamine highs often leaves us empty —and what to do instead. But this episode doesn't stop at sex—it dives into the soul. Dr. Berman vulnerably shares the heartbreaking loss of her son, the metaphysical experience that followed, and how that grief cracked her open to a new level of embodiment, frequency healing, and spiritual awakening. Her journey through somatic release, emotional alchemy, and full-body “yes” living is as inspiring as it is instructive. If you're ready to rewire your relationship with pleasure, power, and presence — this one's for you. Key Moments You'll Love: [00:00] Intro [02:55] The Pandemic Porn Problem [08:11] What You Really Want [18:03] Sigil Creation Process [28:38] The Communication Revolution [34:46] Divine Masculine & Feminine [37:47] The Situationship Lesson [54:31] Feeling vs. Numbing [57:43] The Full Body Yes LINKS Dr. Laura Berman Website: https://drlauraberman.com/ Dr. Laura Berman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/ Sex Magic on Amazon: https://amzn.to/45oDmd5 --------------------- ABOUT THE HEAL WITH KELLY PODCAST: The HEAL with Kelly Podcast (formerly The HEAL Podcast) is a continuation of the HEAL documentary and HEAL book. Kelly Noonan Gores, a passionate seeker on a mission to find out the true extent of human potential and healing, continues the conversation by interviewing leading doctors, scientists, spiritual teachers, and healers around the globe. She also interviews real people with remarkable healing stories who have turned around supposedly incurable diseases. So much more is possible when it comes to healing than we are often told by mainstream, conventional medicine. The HEAL with Kelly Podcast will inspire you with hope and empower you with knowledge, tools, awareness, and a strong belief that almost anything is possible when it comes to healing. A most powerful and intelligent healer resides within us all and The HEAL with Kelly Podcast will teach us how to activate this innate healer within. Listen to all episodes of the HEAL with Kelly Podcast now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts Spotify: https://tinyurl.com/healpodcast-spotify Apple: https://tinyurl.com/healpodcast-apple See where you can watch HEAL Documentary now by going to: https://healwithkelly.co/documentary.html Read The HEAL Book with double the content of the movie: https://healwithkelly.co/book.html As an Amazon Associate, HEAL with Kelly earns from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. Disclaimer: The information shared in this episode is intended for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your physician or qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, supplement routine, or health practices. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
John discusses Trump's decision to send missiles to Iran's nuclear sites without consulting congress... then immediately declaring victory the next day. He then interviews Shermin Kruse about her new book "Stoic Empathy: The Road Map to a Life of Influence, Self-Leadership, and Integrity". Next, John speaks with one of New York City's Democratic Mayoral Primary candidates Michael Alexander Blake about what he can do for New York as mayor. And winding it up, comedian Rhonda Hansome is back to joke with listeners about Trump's destructive lies and war cosplay.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
When Ayla Casey's husband was diagnosed with young-onset colon cancer, her world cracked open. What followed was a sacred and painful journey through caregiving, loss, and deep transformation. In this episode, Ayla shares what it means to witness pain rather than bypass it, how grief lives in the body, and why she believes reclaiming your voice is the first step toward healing. We talk about metabolizing grief, choosing to stay, and how Ayla's legacy work now bridges music and healthcare to honor her husband's life.Chapters:0:00 - Intro: What It Means to Stay2:00 - Life Before the Diagnosis5:00 - The Shock of Young-Onset Cancer8:00 - Caregiving & Survival Mode13:00 - Numbing, Addiction, and Presence18:00 - Metabolizing Grief24:00 - Building a Legacy Through Music30:00 - Reclaiming the Body + Daily Joy38:00 - Practicing Presence After Loss44:00 - How Ayla Works with Grievers + Caregivers46:00 - Gratitude and Final ReflectionsConnect with Ayla:Website: alchemyforhumanhearts.comInstagram: @aylaccaseySubstack: alchemyforhumanhearts.substack.comConnect with Tiff:Website: tiffcarson.comInstagram: @iamtiffcarsonFree Meditation + Retreat Info: tiffcarson.com/retreat
Stephanie discusses Trump's decision to send missiles to Iran's nuclear sites without consulting congress. She also talks about our own right-wing terrorist - Vance Boelter being a prepper. Guests Olivia Troye and Cliff Schecter.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Do you ever feel like you're stuck in a loop—scrolling, numbing out, avoiding what really matters—and you don't know how to get out of it?Have you caught yourself thinking, "Why am I even fighting anymore?" or "What's the point when nothing seems to change?"This episode of Mothers Who Know with Karen Broadhead will shake your soul awake.This week, we explore Warrior Chemistry—the powerful spiritual and physical response that breaks through numbness, despair, and self-doubt. Karen walks us through how to stop falling asleep at the wheel of our lives and instead rise up as God's secret weapon in our homes, hearts, and personal battles.You'll learn:What warrior chemistry actually is—and how it shifts your emotional and spiritual state in secondsHow to reclaim your thoughts and body from the adversary's subtle liesHow to use your "why" to fight back when giving up feels easierWhy spiritual numbness often looks like productivity (and how to catch it)Real-life stories of women who fought through shame, addiction, fear, and spiritual apathy—and wonThis isn't just encouragement. It's activation.If you feel like you've been spinning, numbing, or hiding, this is your wake-up call to stand in your truth, feel the Spirit again, and take your place in the battle.
Do you feel like you eat, drink, and scroll too much — and wish you didn't? I drank too much for years. I overate for years too. And while I didn't hate it all the time, towards the end… I just felt stuck. Every day felt like Groundhog Day. Every Monday felt like I was starting again. I wasn't making progress in the areas that mattered to me. I felt unfit, tired, and sluggish all the time. My clothes didn't feel right, and I didn't feel good in my skin. In this episode, I'm sharing how I broke free from each of those habits. I used a different strategy for alcohol and for food — and both have changed my life in different ways. Tune in to hear: The big turning point in my alcohol journey Why I had to handle sugar and emotional eating differently What's actually changed in my life since healing from both If you're stuck in that cycle and don't know how to break it — I hope this helps.
In This Episode: We explore what it really means to let your spouse know you beyond surface communication and into emotional truth. We'll talk about the difference between empathy and vulnerability, how stuffing emotions can quietly stall your repair. The Importance of vulnerability that real connection can't happen without it.What You'll Learn:How your nervous system tries to protect you—and what healing asks insteadWhy emotional honesty is necessary for rebuilding connectionReal-life examples of letting your spouse know you againPractical steps for stepping into safe vulnerabilityThank you for tuning in!We're here to support couples healing from infidelity and betrayal, offering encouragement, practical skills, and expertise each week. As certified relational recovery coaches, we are passionate about guiding you toward hope, empathy, and lasting healing.Stay connected with us and access all the resources we offer—coaching sessions, groups, and more—by visiting this link.Your Hosts:Hali RoderickCertified Relational Recovery CoachTICC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-C, Brainspotting PractitionerRead Hali's BioStephanie HambyCertified Relational Recovery CoachMCLC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-CRead Stephanie's BioWe look forward to journeying with you!Learning Vulnerability - allowing your spouse to know you.Different than empathy Stepping out of our old protective mechanismsStopping stuffing the emotions
You know what I used to call numbing out? A mini vacation. Whether it was wine at the end of the day (I'm now 13 years sober), scrolling endlessly, or just anything to avoid feeling the full weight of my emotions, it all came down to one thing: avoidance. And that's exactly what I'm getting into in this solo episode, the real reasons we numb, what it costs us, and how to begin doing something different. This one goes beyond “just stop doing it.” I'm talking about the discomfort, the deep emotional wiring, and why it makes total sense that you've been avoiding hard feelings. But also, how the shift starts. (Hint: it's not by beating yourself up.) I'm pulling straight from my book How to Stop Feeling Like Shit and breaking down specific tools to start feeling your feelings, even if you're a beginner. What You'll Hear: How numbing and avoiding are really about running from emotions What my therapist told me that I really didn't want to hear (spoiler: she was right) The “holy emotions” we're often most afraid to feel: grief, shame, terror, rage The biggest clues that you might be avoiding emotions (including the empathy test) Three key tools to start feeling your feelings: acceptance, curiosity, and self-trust The role of somatic work, breathwork, and psychedelic therapy in emotional healing You're not broken because you've been numbing out. Your body's been doing its best to keep you safe. This episode is about getting curious, not judgmental; and starting to build a new way forward, one brave feeling at a time. Resources: How to Stop Feeling Like Shit - The 8-Week Experience How to Stop Feeling Like Shit (book) Minisode 675: New Level, Old Devil: Why Family Of Origin Stuff Keeps Showing Up Episode 658: Lesson 1 on self-abandonment, codependency, and self-trust Episode 659: Lesson 2 on The Four Holy Emotions: How Grief, Terror, Rage, and Shame Unlock Your Power My Ketamine Therapy Journey secret podcast series Facing Love Addiction, Pia Mellody When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron Book recommendations: I love a good personal development book, and you do too, right? I've compiled a list of book recommendations, as mentioned in past episodes. Check out these amazing book recommendations here. Happy reading! MSN is supported by: We love the sponsors that make our show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: andreaowen.com/sponsors/ Episode link: http://andreaowen.com/676 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is chronic pain ruling your life? Whether it's back pain, menstrual discomfort, fibromyalgia, or autoimmune flares, today's episode of The Women's Vibrancy Code offers a new, liberating approach. Host Maraya Brown welcomes Dr. Njideka N. Olatunde—a master reflexologist, board-certified naturopath, and leading voice in culturally integrating traditional healing with modern medicine. With decades of experience helping thousands overcome pain without medication, Dr. Olatunde shares how reflexology and the power of touch offer transformative, natural solutions for pain rooted in stress, trauma, and imbalance. In this empowering episode, we cover: The pain-stress connection: how unprocessed stress becomes physical pain Why reflexology works to relieve pain—virtually or in person How the body can't heal until it's in a state of rest and relaxation Why numbing pain with meds often worsens long-term wellness What the medical system is missing (and how to self-advocate) How to listen to your body before it screams louder Simple daily touch techniques to stimulate natural healing Why chronic pain often needs emotional, mental, and spiritual release Plus, Dr. Olatunde shares how anyone can learn reflexology at home, how to find time for wellness despite life's demands, and why playfulness and gratitude are underrated healing tools. If you've ever felt dismissed, stuck, or out of options, this episode will give you hope, strategy, and a holistic path forward—rooted in empowerment, science, and ancient wisdom. Timestamps: [04:29] — Dr. Olatunde's journey into healing [11:25] — The surprising reality of virtual reflexology [13:00] — How stress becomes physical pain [16:00] — Pain must go first: the 3-step healing process [20:00] — Why healing can't land if you're in pain [25:00] — How reflexology stimulates natural pain relief [29:00] — Numbing shuts down your nervous system [34:00] — Pain's root causes go beyond the body [37:00] — Is your body a warehouse or a sacred temple? [41:00] — Final message: use gratitude + play as daily healing tools Connect with Dr. Njideka Olatunde: Read Reflexology Today - A Family Affair: https://buy.stripe.com/7sI9Baal56cYesgcMZ Website: FocusOnHealing.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/PainReliefwithReflexology Instagram: https://instagram.com/evolving_butterfly LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/njidekanolatunde/ Free gift: https://touchologyreflexology.com _______________________ Feeling exhausted and burnt out? It's time to hit PAUSE. Join us for a free 7-day virtual experience designed to help you reignite your energy, confidence, and clarity in just one hour a day. Save your seat now: https://marayabrown.com/pause/ _______________________ The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta: Your 90-Day Health Reset Ready to take your health to the next level? The Women's Vibrancy Accelerator Trifecta offers deep, personalized support to help you regain control of your energy, hormones, and well-being. This program includes: Three one-on-one calls with Maraya Dutch Plus Test and full assessment Bi-weekly live Q&A sessions Self-paced health portal covering energy, hormones, libido, and confidence Podcast listeners get an exclusive discount. Use code PODCAST. Learn more and enroll now: https://marayabrown.com/trifecta/ _______________________ Free Wellness Resources Access free tools like the Menstrual Tracker, Adaptogen Elixir Recipes, Two-Week Soul Cleanse, Food Facial, and more. Download now: https://marayabrown.com/resources/ _______________________ Subscribe to The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast Listen on Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and Spotify. _______________________ Connect with the Show Find us on Facebook, Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group _______________________ Apply for a Call with Maraya Brown Start your journey with personalized support. Apply here: https://marayabrown.com/call _______________________ About Maraya Brown Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine-trained Women's Health and Wellness Expert (CNM, MSN). She helps women feel energized, confident, and connected to themselves and their lives. With over 25 years of experience, she specializes in energy, hormones, libido, confidence, and deep transformation. _______________________ Disclaimer The content of this podcast is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only and does not constitute medical or professional advice. Listeners should consult with a qualified professional before making any health decisions.
Not all addictions look like rock bottom (Amazon Affiliate). In this episode, Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton explore the subtle ways first responders can spiral—without even realizing it—through overworking, excessive fitness, gambling, or emotional numbing. Learn how to recognize the red flags of unhealthy coping and take back control before it becomes self-destruction.
What happens when the pain you've been running from becomes the very thing that sets you free? In this moving episode of The Big Silence, Karena sits down with somatic therapist and author Britt Piper to explore the transformative journey from trauma to healing. Britt shares her deeply personal story—of childhood abandonment, sexual assault, addiction, and eventual redemption—and how somatic therapy became the missing piece in her healing puzzle. Together, they dismantle the silence around pain, trauma, and recovery, while offering tangible tools to begin reconnecting with your body, your story, and your truth.If you've ever felt like healing was out of reach or wondered if you'd ever be able to trust again—this conversation is your permission slip to begin.Can We Ever Fully Heal From Trauma We Don't Remember?Britt answers this by redefining what healing actually looks like—and how the body always remembers, even when the mind does not.00:01:13) Who Am I Without My Title? Britt's Story BeginsBritt shares how she's choosing to define herself by her humanity, not her job.She opens up about being a survivor of complex trauma—and why authenticity matters now more than ever.Introduces somatic therapy and how it differs from traditional talk therapy.Describes the moment she realized trauma was stored in her body, not just her mind.(00:05:50) Early Trauma, Numbing, and Rock Bottom in a Jail CellBritt reflects on growing up in a household that ignored pain and buried emotion.She recounts the series of self-destructive behaviors that led to hospitalization and arrest.Shares how a judge's unexpected words became a turning point: “You need to learn how to live with your pain.”Describes the raw, detox-like physical process of emotional release while in jail.(00:13:55) The Healing Power of Somatics: Britt's TransformationBritt explains how somatic experiencing changed her life—and how she got off meds as a result.She began training with pioneers like Dr. Peter Levine and launched her own trauma recovery program.Her book, Body First Healing, offers a blend of science and memoir to make trauma healing accessible.Emphasizes the body's ability to heal when we stop bypassing it.(00:17:30) Trust, Attachment & Finding Love After TraumaHow Britt learned to trust again and build a relationship after abuse.She explores attachment styles and how her marriage helped her rewire old trauma.Her husband's wisdom: “You need to learn to love yourself more than you love me.”Somatic tools for navigating relationships with grace, even when triggers arise.(00:24:55) Inner Child Work, Co-Regulation & Somatic Love LanguageBritt breaks down “parts work” and how our younger selves show up in adult relationships.The science behind co-regulation and why calm nervous systems heal together.How to track body cues (like tightening or softening) to determine if something is a “yes.”The role of touch, consent, and boundary mapping in relational healing.(00:26:48) Healing From Sexual Assault: Where to StartWhy healing ≠ justice—and why survivors should never be pressured to report.Tools for reclaiming agency: from choosing how to share your story to developing a “support plan.”The Now What Workbook: Britt's free guide to navigating life after sexual trauma.Key reminder: “You don't need to relive it to heal it.”(00:33:52) Motherhood, Panic Attacks & Intergenerational HealingHow becoming a mom triggered Britt's own unresolved early childhood trauma.The emotional and physical signals that led her to understand her anxiety...
Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don't miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why do avoidant attachment styles turn to numbing instead of soothing—and what's the cost? In this eye-opening episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down the difference between true self-soothing and numbing behaviors in fearful and dismissive avoidant individuals. From emotional eating to shopping, gambling, or overconsuming media, these behaviors often mask deeper unmet needs for comfort, safety, and connection. What You'll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why fearful and dismissive avoidants struggle to self-soothe in healthy ways ✔️ How childhood conditioning leads to numbing behaviors as a survival mechanism ✔️ The neuroscience behind why we repeat unhealthy patterns despite knowing better ✔️ How to rewire addictive behaviors by identifying the real needs underneath ✔️ Why creature comforts like food, porn, or spending are often misused as coping tools ✔️ Simple daily practices to shift from coping to healing (without judgment) Whether you're avoidantly attached or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a powerful roadmap to break free from numbing loops and create lasting emotional regulation. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in healing attachment wounds. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she's guided more than 70,000 students in reprogramming subconscious patterns for deeper connection and freedom. Helpful Resources:
Many first responders use screen time, alcohol, or isolation to “shut down” after their shift—but this numbing behavior (Amazon Affiliate) may be masking deeper emotional exhaustion. In this episode, Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton break down how to spot the signs and offer practical ways to cope with stress in healthy, restorative ways.
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Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by your emotions that you'd do anything to forget what's bothering you? In those moments, reaching for a drink—and then another, and another—can feel like the only way to escape. But this pattern of using alcohol to numb difficult emotions creates a problematic cycle that actually decreases your emotional resilience over time. Tune in this week to learn about one of the most common patterns that makes it difficult to change your drinking habits: the Escape archetype, and three strategies that will help you work with your emotions rather than trying to drown them. Find a personalized approach that helps you change your habit in my new book, The Ultimate Guide to Drinking Less, here: https://rachelhart.com/guide/ Discover alternative approaches to drinking less inside our membership program, Take a Break: https://rachelhart.com/tab/ Get the full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://rachelhart.com/418
Master nutrition psychology for lifters, building a strong mindset for muscle and meals, and achieving peak performance. Unlock the mental game of nutrition and transform your lifting journey. This episode delves into the critical role of Nutrition Psychology for Lifters, going beyond basic dietary recommendations. We welcome Marcus Kain of Strong Not Starving to explore the mindset shift needed to navigate emotional eating, build resilience, and achieve lasting peace with food. Discover practical strategies to master your mindset, enhance distress tolerance, and cultivate a healthy relationship with nutrition. The Foundation of Nutrition Psychology for Lifters: Beyond the Plate Nutrition Psychology for Lifters goes beyond the simple mechanics of calories and macronutrients; it delves into the complex interplay between the mind, emotions, and food choices. Marcus Caine of Strong Not Starving joins us to shed light on how this field addresses the deeper challenges individuals face with food, moving beyond basic dietary recommendations. A key concept is the "Horse & Rider" metaphor, which illustrates the dynamic between the subconscious and conscious mind. Understanding this dynamic is crucial for lifters, as nutrition decisions are often driven by emotional factors more so than training decisions, leading to lower compliance rates. A critical aspect of Nutrition Psychology for Lifters is recognizing and eliminating unlikely solutions. This involves moving away from unsustainable dietary restrictions and focusing on building essential skills and long-term habits. It's about acknowledging that lasting change isn't about quick fixes but about cultivating a healthy relationship with food. This approach emphasizes that true mastery in nutrition isn't about the absence of difficult feelings but rather about developing the ability to navigate those feelings effectively. Numbing or distracting from emotions, such as through unhealthy food choices, is not a viable long-term strategy. Navigating Emotional Eating and Building Resilience Through Nutrition Psychology for Lifters Advanced emotional regulation is a cornerstone of Nutrition Psychology for Lifters. It involves moving beyond simply numbing or distracting oneself from difficult feelings and instead learning to navigate discomfort without resorting to unhealthy eating patterns. Understanding your "Window of Tolerance" for discomfort is crucial in this process. This awareness helps lifters recognize when food is being used as an emotional escape. Celebratory situations present unique challenges, and Nutrition Psychology for Lifters encourages individuals to be mindful of the diminishing returns of enjoyable food experiences. It's about learning to enjoy moments without losing sight of long-term goals and avoiding the trap of getting swept up in the moment to the point of discomfort. Building distress tolerance is essential for developing resilience in Nutrition Psychology for Lifters. This involves consistent practice and repetition to build the ability to handle discomfort and emotional triggers effectively. It's about finding that balance of letting go and enjoying things while also being aware of when it's time to call it a day. The ability to navigate that point of "I've had enough" without feeling deprived is a skill that takes time to develop, but it's crucial for achieving lasting freedom and trust in your nutritional choices. Practical Strategies and Habit Formation in Nutrition Psychology for Lifters Building trust in oneself through practice is fundamental in Nutrition Psychology for Lifters. This trust comes from consistent action and self-observation, demonstrating the ability to follow through on commitments. Developing novice skills for mindful eating is a vital first step, which includes practicing non-judgmental awareness of thoughts and feelings and removing "good" and "bad" labels from food. Learning to notice and name feelings is also a crucial skill. This involves identifying and acknowledging emotions in real-time and recognizing when distress begins to arise. Nutrition Psychology for Lifters provides practical tools to help individuals learn to tolerate discomfort, avoid emotional spirals, and practice separating emotions from identity. It's about avoiding catastrophizing, urgent decision-making, and cultivating self-compassion. By focusing on these practical strategies and habit formation, lifters can develop a sustainable and healthy relationship with food, ultimately supporting their fitness goals and overall well-being. PS - Save 50% on Your First Month of Online Coaching with code"50off3": https://bit.ly/3DxESOu Connect with our guest Strong Not Starving website Podcast Instagram Connect with the hosts Niki on Instagram Andrew on Instagram Connect with the show Barbell Logic on Instagram Podcast Webpage Barbell Logic on Facebook Or email podcast@barbell-logic.com
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