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What do you do when life starts to feel like it's spiraling out of control and you can't figure out why? In this conversation, Haley and Dustin sit down with Levi Lusko, pastor, best-selling author, and founder of Fresh Life Church to talk honestly about grief, loss, and the unexpected season of crisis that led to his newest book, Blessed Are the Spiraling. Levi shares the devastating loss of his five-year-old daughter, the long reach of grief, and how he found hope in the midst of unimaginable pain. He also opens up about the 18-month personal spiral he walked through in midlife : panic attacks, identity questions, and the long road back to himself and Jesus. This conversation will encourage you and challenge you to see your hardest seasons differently. Your most difficult season might just be where God is doing his deepest work. Subscribe to the podcast and tune in each week as Haley and Dustin share with you what the Bible says about real-life issues with compassion, warmth, and wit. So you have every reason for hope, for every challenge in life. Because hope means everything. Hope Talks is a podcast of the ministry of Hope for the Heart. Listen in to learn more [0:01:40] Hope as an Anchor in Suffering [0:02:31] Losing a Child and Facing Unimaginable Grief [0:04:32] Hurting with Hope Still Hurts [0:05:00] Jesus' Grief as a Model for Deep Emotion [0:05:40] Choosing Healing over Numbing and Distraction [0:07:16] Beauty from Ashes and Time-Traveling Grief [0:08:20] Healing as Connection, Not Betrayal, to Loved Ones Levi Lusko Resources Get Levi's book, Blessed are the Spiraling: https://levilusko.com/blessed-are-the-spiraling Learn more about Levi Lusko: https://levilusko.com/ Hope for the Heart resources Join us at Called to Care on Saturday, June 13! Learn more about the event here: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/called-to-care Connect with Hope for the Heart on social! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopefortheheart Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopefortheheart Learn more about the ministry and resources of Hope for the Heart: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/ Learn more about Hope Talks and catch up on past episodes: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/hopetalks/ Want to talk with June Hunt on Hope in the Night about a difficult life issue? Schedule a time here: https://resource.hopefortheheart.org/talk-with-june-hope-in-the-night God's plan for you: https://www.hopefortheheart.org/gods-plan-for-you/ Give to the ministry of Hope for the Heart: https://hopefortheheart.donorsupport.co/page/hope-talks -------------- Bible verses mentioned in this episode Hebrews 6:19 – "We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. It enters the inner sanctuary behind the curtain." John 11:35 – "Jesus wept." Philippians 2:27 – "Indeed he was ill, and almost died. But God had mercy on him, and not on him only but also on me, to spare me sorrow upon sorrow." Matthew 5:3-4 – "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Psalm 34:18 – "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Genesis 28:16 – "When Jacob awoke from his sleep, he thought, 'Surely the Lord is in this place, and I was not aware of it.'" Isaiah 53:5-6 – "But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities... and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all." Isaiah 46:4 – "Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you." John 6:68 – "Simon Peter answered him, 'Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.'" Jeremiah 12:5 – "If you have raced with men on foot and they have worn you out, how can you compete with horses?" Hebrews 11:37-38 – "They went about in sheepskins and goatskins, destitute, persecuted and mistreated — the world was not worthy of them." Psalm 19:1 – "The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands."
The Stanley Cup Final is well under way and there have been some big comebacks. Will Mitch Marner drive a dagger into Leafs Fans' hearts and win the Conn Smythe? Are the games super exciting or mind-numbingly boring with fits of excitement in between. And what do refs discuss when a puck is shot over the glass? Listen Here: Apple Podcasts Direct MP3 iHeart Radio Spotify GET YOUR SCUTTLEPUCK MERCH AT SCUTTLEPUCK'S DASHERY STORE Title Player: Lucien Deblois News Puck over glass discussion Babcock to the Oilers? Dylan Larkin to leave Red Wings? Guess the 5th - Stanley Cup Final How many icings can they pack into one game? Is the flip pass the new breakout? Is this good hockey? Connections: Last Week: Wayne Gretzky, Mario Lemieux, Sidney Crosby, Bernie Parent, Bobby Orr This Week: J.S. Giguere, Connor McDavid, Reggie Leach, Ron Hextall Next Week - Playoff updates
Send us Fan MailIn this deeply personal episode, host Andrea Atherton sits down with holistic anxiety coach, yoga therapist, and podcast host Sofia Fiotaki to explore how anxiety, survival patterns, childhood conditioning, and nervous system dysregulation shape the way we experience love, dating, relationships, and connection. Sofia shares her powerful journey from living behind a mask of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and social anxiety to discovering what it truly means to feel safe enough to be seen. Together, Andrea and Sofia unpack why so many people long for deeper connection yet unconsciously push it away when they have no idea where to start healing.For years, Sofia struggled with crippling social anxiety, panic attacks, addictions, eating disorders, and an overwhelming fear of being known. Like many people navigating relationships, she learned to adapt, perform, and become whoever she believed others would accept. Yet despite being surrounded by people, she often felt profoundly alone. Through her healing journey, Sofia began to understand the nervous system's role in protection, attachment, avoidance, and emotional intimacy. She shares how learning to work with her body, heal old wounds, and reconnect with herself transformed not only her relationship with anxiety but also her capacity to experience authentic love.Andrea and Sofia dive into the connection between emotional safety and intimacy, why survival patterns often masquerade as personality traits, and how healing allows us to stop abandoning ourselves in the pursuit of acceptance. This conversation offers hope and practical wisdom for anyone who has struggled with anxiety, fear of rejection, people-pleasing, emotional avoidance, or difficulty trusting others. If you've ever wondered why love feels difficult, why vulnerability feels scary, or what it takes to create genuine connection, this episode will remind you that real intimacy begins when we feel safe enough to take off the mask and let ourselves be fully seen.Sofia Fiotakihttps://www.instagram.com/sofia_c_fiotaki?utm_source=qrhttps://www.facebook.com/share/1ENdrcqCwm/?mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.tiktok.com/@holistic_anxiety_coach?_r=1&_t=ZN-974brFH6TBucoaching@sofiafiotaki.com (email)30-minute Consultation with Andrea https://www.andreaatherton.com/booking-calendarAndrea Atherton Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/Love Anarchy Websitehttps://www.andreaatherton.com/podcasthttps://loveanarchypodcast.buzzsprout.comLove Anarchy Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/loveanarchypodcast/Andrea Atherton Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/andreaatherton-17/
In this episode of The Better Life, Dr. Pinkston sits down with Dr. Stephanie Byerly—an anesthesiologist, TedX speaker, and certified life and leadership coach—for a profound and eye-opening conversation about the hidden epidemics affecting women's health: unprocessed trauma, emotional numbness, and the exhausting treadmill of the "achiever identity." Dr. Byerly shares her powerful personal journey, from surviving a chaotic childhood and a traumatic marriage to a life-changing epiphany during a psychodrama workshop. She realized that she had spent her life emotionally numb, a trait that directly mirrored her career in anesthesia. Key Topics Discussed: The "UnNUM" Method: How Dr. Byerly helps high-achieving women move out of survival mode and reclaim their agency using cognitive thought models and somatic safety. The Midlife Awakening: Why women in their late 30s to 50s suddenly experience a "screaming soul" as hormonal shifts and self-actualization force them to confront years of shrinking to fit in. The Trapped Trauma & Autoimmunity Connection: A medical look at how chronic stress, high ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) scores, and stuffed-down emotions manifest as chronic pain, fatigue, and autoimmune conditions, a reality that both Dr. Pinkston and Dr. Byerly have personally navigated. The Narcissist Magnet: Why highly successful, brilliant women are uniquely targeted by narcissistic personalities, and how to heal and become "unstoppable" after breaking free. Dismantling the Patriarchy's Playbook: Understanding the socialization, "likability clauses," and external validation traps that keep women overworking at the expense of their own well-being. https://www.stephaniebyerly.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us Fan MailMost people picture emotional avoidance as someone who shuts down, refuses to talk, or is clearly in denial. But after 30 years of working with clients, Anna knows that's not usually how it shows up. The people she sits across from are often smart, self-aware, and totally capable of talking about their lives. They can explain their patterns in detail. They just can't actually feel them.Join Anna and Tim as they get into what emotional avoidance really looks like in everyday life, and why it's so easy to miss. Chronic busyness, overthinking, saying "I'm fine," going straight to irritation instead of the hurt underneath it. These don't look like avoidance; they look like personality. And that's exactly what makes this so hard to catch in yourself.This Episode Covers:Why emotional avoidance is a nervous system strategy, not a character flaw.The difference between being able to explain your feelings and actually feeling them.How chronic busyness and constant noise function as avoidance of stillness.Why anger and irritation are easier to access than what's actually underneath.Numbing behaviors that feel normal until they don't.What "I'm fine" is really doing and why it builds resentment over time.The real cost of avoidance when it starts running your life from underground.Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.Mad love!Book a Discovery Call for Coaching/Therapy: https://calendly.com/badassconfidencecoach/coachingThe podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYquDon't forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!CONNECT WITH ANNA:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolinEmail hello@annamarcolin.comWebsite https://www.annamarcolin.com
In today's digital age, many of us have experienced that strange phenomenon of losing track of time while scrolling through social media. Have you ever found yourself deep in TikTok or Instagram, only to realize that hours have passed without you remembering what you even looked at? This feeling of being disconnected from reality is what I like to call "emotional anesthesia." In this post, we will dive into what emotional anesthesia means, how it affects our children, and what we can do to help them reconnect with their emotions.www.knbcommunications.com
Book a session with Emily DeVargas HERE In this episode of the Wild Medicine podcast, Dr. Tara welcomes Emily DeVargas, an intuitive trauma-informed practitioner specializing in energy work. Emily shares her personal journey into energy healing, discussing her experiences with loss and trauma that shaped her understanding of emotional patterns held in the body. The conversation explores the transition from animal healing to human healing, the various modalities Emily employs, and the differences between energy work and traditional therapy. They delve into the emotional connections to food, the quest for safety, and the importance of understanding client needs. In this conversation, Dr. Tara and Emily DeVargas explore the complexities of intuition, healing, and emotional awareness. They discuss how to channel intuition positively, the significance of patience in the healing process, and the signs that indicate progress in emotional healing. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing emotions, the challenges of healing, and the need for self-discovery and self-care. Takeaways Emily's journey into energy work began with personal trauma. Energy healing focuses on emotional patterns held in the body. Animal healing provided a non-judgmental space for Emily to practice. Reiki is just one of many modalities Emily uses in her practice. Energy work complements traditional therapy by addressing the body and emotions. Sustainable weight loss requires addressing emotional patterns, not just diet. Many people use food for comfort and emotional regulation. Clients often seek healing for unexplained pain or recurring life patterns. Intuition plays a significant role in Emily's healing practice. Healers also need support and guidance in their own journeys. Emily turned off her intuition due to fear of negative outcomes. Realizing that intuitive messages can be supportive and loving is crucial. Healing requires patience and cannot be rushed. Clients often feel more at peace as they heal. Recognizing patterns in the body can aid in healing. Healing is a messy and nonlinear process. Emotions need to be felt to facilitate healing. Self-discovery involves asking what we truly need. Numbing emotions can keep us stuck in trauma. Healing requires bravery and a willingness to face discomfort. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Energy Work and Emily's Journey 07:04 Transition from Animal Healing to Human Healing 10:03 Exploring Energy Healing Modalities 11:55 Energy Work vs. Traditional Therapy 17:31 Emotional Patterns and Food Relationships 23:40 The Quest for Safety and Regulation 24:14 Understanding Client Needs and Patterns 32:03 Intuition in Healing Work 33:40 Turning Off Intuition: A Personal Journey 36:07 Channeling Intuition for Positive Outcomes 38:36 The Healing Process: Patience and Timing 42:47 Recognizing Signs of Healing 50:03 Navigating Emotions: The Path to Self-Discovery Stay Wild. Connect with Emily DeVargas on INSTAGRAM Connect with Dr. Tara on INSTAGRAM Connect with Dr. Michelle on INSTAGRAM This episode is brought to you by: www.MichellePeris.com Ready to reclaim your Wild? JOIN THE WAITLIST Learn more about The Poppy Clinic: www.poppyclinic.com Is Naturopathic Medicine for you: LEARN MORE HERE Take our HORMONE QUIZ Are you a clinician looking for more impact? START HERE FREE RESOURCE: Try our Burnout Archetype Quiz: https://twc-jqgxs.involve.me/archetype-quiz
This week, Dina Perrine joins me to share what happened when she attended the first-ever Magic House Retreat in Lisbon, Portugal. Her experience was profound — and honestly, I think you'll want to hear every word of it. Dina came home with something she didn't expect: a completely new relationship with pleasure. She learned that pleasure is nourishing, that numbing is not the same thing, and that activating her senses is the pathway to feeling genuinely good in her body. She also healed her plantar fasciitis. (Yes, really.) What she says about pleasure versus numbing will shift how you think about why you reach for alcohol — and what you actually need instead. If you've been curious about the Magic House, this episode is your inside look. Grab your spot at the April 2027 Magic House Retreat: https://www.angelamascenik.com/magichousefounderscircleFollow Dina on Instagram @latinadina About Angela Mascenik Angela Mascenik is a certified stop over-drinking coach with nearly eight years of experience helping high-achieving women change their relationship with alcohol. She is the host of Stop Over-Drinking and Start Living — almost 400 episodes — and the founder of Alive AF!, a monthly membership for women doing this work together. She also runs The Magic House, a retreat center in Lisbon, Portugal, where women gather for immersive sober retreats focused on the body, the mind, and real transformation. Her approach is compassionate, shame-free, and rooted in the belief that you don't have to want sobriety to want a better life.
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Astronauts come back from space describing the same strange shift: a sudden connection to humanity, compassion for living things, and this visceral understanding of how fragile Earth really is.They call it the overview effect.Caroline Paul has spent years thinking about a version of that shift closer to home—through flying, through attention, and through awe. And her new book, Why Fly, is built around that question: what changes in us when the world suddenly feels bigger than our problems?In this conversation, we get into the takeaways you can actually use: how to practice presence without turning your life into a self-improvement project, why awe can act like a mental reset, and how adventure—done thoughtfully—can help you move through hard seasons with more clarity and courage.If you enjoy conversations that are equal parts story and usable insight, you'll probably want Why Fly on your nightstand. Caroline's work is a gift. Enjoy! Why Fly: https://www.carolinepaul.com/why-fly
#148: On today's episode, Masha Kay, nervous system regulation coach, jumps on the podcast to unpack the deeper psychology behind high achievement and how it's a tool for nervous system regulation. Han shares her Substack (linked here), which opens a conversation into what it actually means to heal beyond just intellectualizing your patterns and explore how many ambitious people use work, achievement, and constant productivity as coping mechanisms to avoid feeling, and how protector parts developed in childhood can continue running our lives long after we no longer need them to survive.The girls get into:productivity as a coping mechanism & form of emotional avoidancewhy high achievers struggle to slow downnervous system regulation, trauma healing, & somatic healingwhat “parts work” actually isprotector parts & how they try to keep us safe from feelings that once weren't safe to experiencewhy intellectualizing your healing is not the same as embodying itdissociation, overwhelm, & constantly needing to stay busyreconnecting to the body & learning how to feel below the neckwhy healing can actually feel unsafe for the nervous systeminner child work, emotional suppression, & survival strategieshow ambition and achievement can become trauma responseswhy awareness alone doesn't always create transformationlearning how to feel instead of avoidthe difference between numbing and true healingLearning to surrender to the process of healing& MORE!This episode is for anyone who feels they may be using productivity and achievement as a form of emotional suppression or avoidance, anyone feeling frustrated in their healing journey despite being “self aware,” anyone pursuing trauma healing and looking into nervous system regulation, or anyone wanting to better understand parts work, protector parts, inner child healing, and what it actually means to feel instead of intellectualize.CONNECT BELOW:follow Masha hereCheck out her program hereCONNECT with HAN:follow Han herefollow HOW I SEE IT herefollow Han on Substack herewatch HOW I SEE IT on YouTube hereshop the podcast merch herework with Han: howhanseesit@gmail.com00:00 – Introduction02:44 – Productivity addiction & high achievers using work to cope03:58 – Achievement as nervous system regulation04:47 – Why ambitious people struggle to be with themselves07:54 – Productivity as emotional avoidance08:41 – Work, avoidance, & disconnecting from feeling09:13 – What are “protector parts”?09:41 – Understanding parts work & internal family systems12:46 – Why healing can feel blocked16:15 – When the “high achiever” part takes over healing18:31 – How protector parts keep us safe20:14 – Awareness, observation, & compassion in healing22:35 – Dissociation & living outside the body27:35 – The inability to stay present with feeling32:40 – Intellectualizing vs actual self awareness36:44 – Anger, discomfort, & emotional control37:58 – Observation creates separation from emotion39:39 – Beginning somatic experiencing41:32 – Reconnecting to the body through orienting52:55 – Why slowing down is harder for high achievers1:00:00 – Numbing vs actual healing1:05:37 – Building ambitious lives to avoid pain
In a world that demands instant results, we’ve found a thousand new ways to numb the pain of existence. Join Dr. James Spencer and Dr. Ben Mathew for the final installment of our series as they tackle the normalization of "quick-fix" drugs—from anabolic steroids and TRT in the fitness world to the rise of GLP-1s like Ozempic. We explore the dangerous trade-offs of modern biohacking and why the Christian life calls us to lean into the "friction" of reality rather than anesthetizing ourselves against it. If you've ever felt the pressure to "optimize" your body at the expense of your soul, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss: The Normalization of Performance Enhancers: Why younger generations are turning to steroids and TRT for social media clout. The "Numbing" Culture: How we use substances to avoid the "existential sniffles" and the discomfort of growth. The GLP-1 Wave: Examining the psychological and spiritual implications of the newest drug trends. Sanctification vs. Optimization: Why the Christian walk requires "grit" and "friction" that a pill or injection can’t provide. Working Toward Your Own Dismissal: A challenge to leaders and counselors to build structures that help people find freedom, not just temporary relief. Don’t miss this deep dive into how we can bear faithful witness in a culture that wants to edit out every struggle. Get early access and a bonus with a Patreon membership. Subscribe to our YouTube channel To read James's article on this topic, check out his author page on Christianity.com.
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On today's episode, host Kate Lindsay is joined by Andrea González-Ramírez, a senior writer at The Cut whose recent piece explores why so many people have stopped reading the news. Instead, we're “numbing out” after years of constant bad news on social media, to the point that even an assassination attempt on President Trump doesn't earn a mention in our group chats. But how do we draw the line between necessary self care and privileged ignorance? This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, and Kate Lindsay. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On today's episode, host Kate Lindsay is joined by Andrea González-Ramírez, a senior writer at The Cut whose recent piece explores why so many people have stopped reading the news. Instead, we're “numbing out” after years of constant bad news on social media, to the point that even an assassination attempt on President Trump doesn't earn a mention in our group chats. But how do we draw the line between necessary self care and privileged ignorance? This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, and Kate Lindsay. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On today's episode, host Kate Lindsay is joined by Andrea González-Ramírez, a senior writer at The Cut whose recent piece explores why so many people have stopped reading the news. Instead, we're “numbing out” after years of constant bad news on social media, to the point that even an assassination attempt on President Trump doesn't earn a mention in our group chats. But how do we draw the line between necessary self care and privileged ignorance? This podcast is produced by Vic Whitley-Berry, Daisy Rosario, and Kate Lindsay. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Overcome Loneliness & Build Deep, Meaningful Connections. Start Here: https://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/loneliness-promo?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=overcoming-loneliness&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=OJvRD9IPNhs&utm_content=pod-05-02-26&el=podcast Fearful Avoidants don't just shut people out… they often shut themselves out, too. What looks like emotional distance is often something much deeper happening inside the nervous system. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson explains why Fearful Avoidant Attachment Styles self-numb and shut down and what's really happening beneath the surface. You'll learn how self-numbing is a dissociative coping strategy, why past wounds are stored in the subconscious mind, and how these unresolved triggers can create cycles of emotional overwhelm followed by shutdown. Thais also breaks down how this leads to dorsal vagal shutdown, where individuals feel emotionally flat, disconnected, and unable to engage and shares how healing requires both subconscious reprogramming and nervous system regulation. Key Takeaways ✔️ Fearful Avoidant self-numbing is a protective coping strategy ✔️ Past wounds are stored and shape present reactions ✔️ Emotional triggers can create cycles of overwhelm and shutdown ✔️ Numbing behaviors are attempts to escape dysregulation ✔️ Dorsal vagal shutdown leads to emotional disconnection ✔️ Healing requires both reprogramming and regulation ✔️ Awareness is the first step to breaking the cycle Timestamps 00:00 – Fearful Avoidants Don't Just Shut People Out 00:38 – 1. Self-numbing is a Dissociative Coping Strategy 01:57 – 2. Our Minds Are Wired to Store Past Wounds as a Protective Strategy 03:34 – 3. This Can Lead Them to End Up in a Self-Numbing Cycle 04:19 – 4. Dorsal Vagal Shutdown Mode Puts One in a State of Emotional Flatness 05:04 – Overcoming Loneliness & Creating Fulfilling Connections Course 06:16 – How to Heal 07:42 – Like, Share, and Subscribe for More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
Rick sits down with Blake Bauer, an author and counselor known for challenging the way people think about healing, self-worth, and personal responsibility.You might say you want to feel better. Less anxious. Less stuck. More clear. But if you're honest, there are still parts of your life you're avoiding. Patterns you keep repeating. Pain you keep blaming on where you came from instead of what you're doing with it now. This conversation doesn't let you stay comfortable in that.In this conversation, Blake Bauer, who has spent decades helping people break destructive cycles and rebuild from the inside out, makes a direct claim most people don't want to hear. Healing doesn't start with understanding your past. It starts when you stop using it as a reason to stay the same. Together, he and Rick go into what it actually takes to stop numbing, stop performing, and take ownership of your life without excuses.In this interview you'll learn:Why blaming your past quietly keeps your patterns aliveWhat self-sabotage actually looks like when you're honest about itThe difference between numbing pain and actually resolving itWhy success on the outside doesn't fix what's broken underneathWhat it really means to take responsibility for your lifeKeywords: self worth, personal responsibility, healing journey, trauma and accountability, self sabotage, emotional patterns, breaking cycles, inner work, mindset shift, personal growth truth, mental health reality, stop blaming others, ownership mindset, self awareness, addiction recovery mindset, purpose and clarity, emotional healing, leadership and self mastery, high performer burnout, identity and behavior, subconscious patterns, discipline and healing, truth about self improvement, alignment and integrity, root cause healing
Jesus offers living water that actually satisfies, unlike the temporary escapes we turn to when life gets hard. Stop numbing out and start healing.
If you've ever picked up your phone when what you really needed was rest, connection, or just a moment to breathe — this clip is for you. Monica Packer shares a simple, judgment-free process for recognizing numbing behavior and turning it into a moment of genuine self-care. This is personal growth and development in the most practical sense: no shame, no perfectionism, just getting curious about what you actually need and making a choice that feels aligned with who you are. If you're working on daily habits that support your well-being, or looking for self-compassion practices that are realistic for busy moms, this one will resonate. Because how to feel happy often starts with just asking yourself one honest question: What do I need right now? Listen to the full episode here: https://www.aboutprogress.com/blog/what-i-do-with-numbing-behaviors Preorder Sticky Habits book today! Leave a rating and review Check out my workshops! Follow About Progress on YOUTUBE! Full Show Notes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Colleen Freeland, intuitive drinking coach, host of It's Not About the Alcohol podcast, and founder of Emotional Sobriety Coaching, shares a more compassionate and emotionally intelligent conversation around alcohol, especially for high-achieving women who want to understand their habits without shame. We talk about mindful drinking, emotional coping, mom wine culture, relationships, projection, family dynamics, emotional regulation, and what women can actually do to feel safer, calmer, and more connected without relying on alcohol. This episode looks at the deeper reasons women drink and challenges the idea that the only path forward is black-and-white sobriety or strict control. Join my private community at The LongHer Life for ongoing protocols, live coaching, and deeper support. WE TALK ABOUT: 00:05 - Why drinking less is not always the real solution 02:35 - The difference between drinking to celebrate and drinking to cope 06:05 - Why sobriety alone does not always fix the deeper pattern 07:20 - How self-identity shapes your relationship with alcohol 11:25 - How alcohol can create tension inside marriages and families 13:35 - Why your relationship with alcohol changes as you age 18:05 - The overlap between biohacking perfectionism and alcohol patterns 21:15 - How travel, nature, and slowing down can soften wellness obsession 25:20 - Why nervous system regulation may be the ultimate biohack 30:30 - How to tell whether you want alcohol or emotional relief 33:30 - The simplest way to know if alcohol has become a coping tool 35:20 - What alcohol may be helping you avoid feeling 36:30 - How to become your own source of safety and support 39:35 - Why women are conditioned to suppress emotions and stay composed 42:55 - How to support a partner without making alcohol the main issue 46:55 - Why self-compassion works better than shame for behavior change RESOURCES: Want protocols built specifically for women, live coaching, and real talk about peptides and longevity? That's what The LongHer Life is for. Private. Uncensored. Ongoing. Colleen Freeland's website and Instagram LET'S CONNECT: Instagram, TikTok, Facebook Shop my favorite health products Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube Music
What if anxiety isn't something to suppress… but something to understand? In this solo episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel shares his personal experience with anxiety and the shift that happens when you stop avoiding it and start listening to it. This episode explores emotional suppression, numbing behaviors, and the deeper signals behind anxiety that most people ignore. Kelly breaks down how facing discomfort, rather than escaping it, can lead to real healing and long-term change. Key Takeaways
Clay Cross grew up in a high-achieving environment that looked stable on the outside, but behind the scenes was shaped by addiction, secrecy, and a lack of emotional safety. From an early age, he learned to suppress anything beyond success or anger—carrying that mindset into boarding school and eventually into young adulthood. As expectations around achievement grew, so did his substance use. What followed was a pattern of expulsions, broken trust, and increasing distance from the life he was “supposed” to be building. After a turning point, Clay stepped away from everything familiar to pursue recovery—eventually becoming the owner and CEO of the very program where he once sought help. But his story isn't just about sobriety—it's about redefining success, rebuilding identity, and what it really takes to feel at home in your own life.Clay's Resources: Website: Ascend RecoveryInstagram: @ascendrecoveryFacebook: Ascend RecoveryConnect with Joanna Lilley Therapeutic Consulting AssociationLilley Consulting WebsiteLilley Consulting on Facebook Lilley Consulting on YouTubeEmail: joanna@lilleyconsulting.com#TherapeuticConsulting #LilleyConsulting #Successful #TherapeuticPrograms #Therapy #MentalHealthMatters #MentalHealthAwareness #Podcast #PodcastCommunity #TheJourney #SuccessIsSubjectivePodcast #TheUnpavedRoad #PFCAudioVideo #AscendRecovery #OutdoorTherapy #LifeInRecovery #RecoveryWorks
Never go grocery shopping when you're hungry, and never go dating when you're vulnerable.When you are in a season of pain or transition, your "predator radar" is compromised. You aren't looking for character; you're looking for an escape. In this video, we discuss why being in a vulnerable state makes you the primary target for narcissistic "Hero" tactics and how to protect yourself.Key Points Covered:The Rescue Trap: How narcissists use your pain to bypass your boundaries.Numbing vs. Bonding: Why you can't properly vet a partner when you're using them to fix your loneliness.The Scent of Vulnerability: Why toxic people are drawn to those in a "low" season.The Solution: Why reaching "neutrality" on your own is the only way to safely date.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.
Ready for real change? Find free support today at: https://highnoon.org/ Sometimes the reason you keep going back to the same habit isn't lack of discipline, it's disconnection. Disconnected from yourself. Disconnected from God. Disconnected from the people you've quietly built walls around. And when that disconnection lingers, escape starts to feel easier than healing. Scrolling. Numbing out. Isolation. Because isolation always finds an outlet. What you'll hear in this episode: • Why the opposite of addiction is connection • How isolation quietly feeds destructive habits • Why reconciliation is part of healing • How one honest conversation can change everything Sometimes freedom doesn't begin with quitting, it begins with reconnecting. Because isolation feeds addiction, connection starves it. If this conversation resonates with where you are right now, here's the next step: Working through habits and looking for healing? Join Ascend (free): highnoon.org/ascend Preparing intentionally for marriage? Join Core: highnoon.org/join-core Married and rebuilding connection and intimacy? Join Radiant: highnoon.org/join-radiant #HighNoon #NoShadows #HealingThroughConnection #BreakTheCycle #PornRecovery #EmotionalHealing #FaithAndHealing #RelationshipHealing ------------- [ABOUT THIS PODCAST] High Noon is an international organization that helps our faith community experience Radiant Blessings through sexual integrity and living without shadows – as God intends for us. We do this through online programs, educational content, and live events. -------------
Most of us have been there. A hard day, a stressful afternoon, a moment where you're just…done. And before you've made any kind of conscious decision, you're in the kitchen. Eating something you didn't really plan to eat. Sometimes it feels chaotic and out of control.And it helps! For about two minutes. And then it doesn't. And then the guilt shows up, the emotions you were trying to escape come back, and you feel worse than before.If that loop sounds familiar, this episode is going to give you a completely different way to understand it.Because this isn't about willpower. It isn't really about food either. There's actual neuroscience behind why emotional eating feels so impossible to break. And once you understand this, things will start to make a lot more sense.In this episode, we cover:Why you're not actually "addicted to food" and what you're ACTUALLY craving insteadThe trigger–behavior–relief loop that makes emotional eating feel automatic and beyond your controlHow this pattern forms, often starting in childhood, and why it has nothing to do with weaknessWhy food takes up SO much space when it becomes your main source of comfort or reliefWhat the real goal is (hint: it's not better food control)Two journal questions to help you start seeing your own pattern more clearlyIf emotional eating has felt like something that just takes over no matter how hard you try, this episode is going to help you understand why. And that understanding is the beginning of actually changing it.
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Shame isn't a quirk — it's a weapon. If you're sick of feeling like the problem, this episode puts the truth on the table. The Impulsive Thinker® and Dr. Shawn Horn demolish what you think you know about shame. In This Episode: The difference between shame, toxic shame, and guilt How shame-bound identity hijacks your decisions Why ADHD brains get stuck in people pleasing, perfectionism, and self-protection What You'll Take Away: Shame is a social emotion — it starts outside, then you absorb it Toxic shame attacks your identity, not your actions ADHD Entrepreneurs are experts at hiding, not because they want to, but as self-protection The self-sabotage you feel is a defence against rejection Healthy shame corrects behaviour — toxic shame cripples growth GUEST BIODr. Shawn Horn is a licensed clinical psychologist, TEDx speaker, author, and host of Inspired Living Podcast. She helps neurodiverse entrepreneurs crush toxic shame and build real self-acceptance. Check out her book Thrive Socially with Adult ADHD. ABOUT THIS EPISODE This episode of The Impulsive Thinker® goes hard at shame with Dr. Shawn Horn, breaking down why ADHD Entrepreneurs can't just "think positive" when the world is hell-bent on making them feel defective. The Impulsive Thinker® sharpens the line between guilt and shame — and why most people get it dead wrong. Expect talk about toxic shame, identity condemnation, and why society's measuring stick is always pointed at you. Dr. Shawn Horn explains how shame is installed in childhood, why it sticks, and how it keeps you hustling for worth. This isn't theory — it's neuroscience and lived reality. You'll hear how healthy shame sparks change, but toxic shame becomes the filter you see the world through. People pleasing, workaholism, over-functioning — they're all rooted in this shame-bound identity. Real talk about what that costs you as an ADHD Entrepreneur. If you're done with being told you're the problem, you need this episode. High-achieving, neurodivergent, black sheep — get ready to hear the truth. Hit play now. Email me about it at andre@theimpulsivethinker.com. Remember — ADHD failure is measured on society's measuring stick. Not yours. Your brain runs on interest, not importance. That's not a flaw. That's a different operating system. ADHD is not a deficit. It's a difference.
How To Heal From Narcissistic Abuse & Break Free http://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/narcissistic-relationships?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=narcissistic-relationships&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-04-03-26&el=podcast When a relationship ends and No Contact begins; what is a Fearful Avoidant actually feeling? If you're a Fearful Avoidant or you're trying to understand one, this video walks you through the emotional stages they typically experience after a breakup. Because Fearful Avoidants have both Anxious and Avoidant tendencies, their experience during No Contact is rarely linear. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four key stages Fearful Avoidants often move through and how to navigate each one in a healthy way. Episode Summary You'll learn: • Why Fearful Avoidants may initially feel relief or freedom • How ambivalence begins to creep in • When and why they start missing their ex • The difference between wanting reconnection and wanting commitment • What must happen during the re-bonding stage to avoid repeating old patterns This video also explains why breaking No Contact too early or approaching reconnection incorrectly can push a Fearful Avoidant back into Avoidance. If reconnection is going to happen, it must be intentional and growth-oriented. Key Takeaways ✔️No Contact activates both the Anxious and Avoidant sides of a Fearful Avoidant ✔️Initial relief can last several weeks, especially if the relationship felt overwhelming ✔️Numbing behaviors can mask deeper loneliness ✔️Ambivalence is a transition stage not a final decision ✔️Missing an ex doesn't always mean readiness for commitment ✔️Healthy re-bonding requires discussing what didn't work the first time ✔️Without conscious repair, old patterns will repeat Timestamps 00:00 – What Do Fearful Avoidants Experience During No Contact? 00:48 – What Is No Contact? 01:59 – 1. They May Initially Experience Relief or Freedom 04:44 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 05:34 – 2. They Reach a Stage of Ambivalence 06:28 – 3. They Start Missing Their Ex 08:08 – 4. They Enter the Re-Bonding Stage 08:41 – Discuss What Wasn't Working the First Time Around Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
You're not stuck because you lack discipline. You're stuck because you're avoiding what you need to feel. In this episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel sits down with Randy Lyman to explore the missing piece most high performers overlook: emotional alignment. Randy explains why success without emotional connection leads to emptiness and how unresolved emotional energy continues to shape your life until it's fully felt and released. This conversation dives into trauma, inner child work, the body storing emotions, and why numbing pain also numbs joy. Kelly shares his experiences with emotional breakthroughs, healing, and what happens when you finally stop running from what you feel. Key Takeaways
Barlas Günay is a registered psychologist who has spent 13 years guiding thousands through childhood trauma recovery and what he calls self-reparenting — the deliberate practice of giving yourself what your parents couldn't. His thesis is: you cannot heal while still participating in "normal." The processed food, the numbing, the people-pleasing, the job that's slowly killing you — these aren't separate from the psychological suffering, they are the suffering. Real change asks more of you. Authenticity, nervous system regulation, and the willingness to be the only sane person in the room.Time Stamps (00:00) Self Love Reality Check (00:35) Opening Conversation (05:51) Episode Start (06:56) Barlas' Origin Story (10:06) What Self Reparenting Means (21:28) Quitting Alcohol For Good (23:05) Defining The Self (25:26) Ego Confusion Explained (32:37) Healing Trap And Avoidance (41:55) Healing through Rejecting Norms (48:07) Military Service Grad School Drive (52:02) Self Hatred and Numbing (56:13) Calling Out with Care (59:17) Avoiding Truth Costs (01:02:17) Reparenting and Boundaries (01:06:37) Somatic Trauma Work (01:11:47) Roleplay and Visualization (01:18:01) Books RecommendationsGuest Linkhttps://www.instagram.com/acceptandact/ https://www.patreon.com/cw/acceptandact Connect with UsJoin our membership Friends of the TruthRise Above The Herd Take the Real AF Test NowDiscover Your Truth Seeker ArchetypeWatch all our episodesConnect with us on TelegramFollow us on InstagramAccess all our links
Burnout Is Contagious: The Hidden Psychology Destroying High Performers | Dr. Guy Winch Why "Work-Life Balance" Is a Lie, How Stress Infects Your Relationships, and The Psychological Shift That Stops the Grind Is your ambition fueling your life — or quietly infecting everyone around you? What If Your Burnout Isn't From Overwork… . But From the Way Your Mind Is Wired Around Work? . Burnout isn't just exhaustion. . It's a psychological contagion. It's identity fusion. It's unconscious rumination. And for high performers, it's often self-inflicted. In this episode of The Dov Baron Show, Dov sits down with psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch, author of "Mind Over Grind," to expose the hidden psychology behind leadership burnout, work stress, and the myth of work-life balance. If you are ambitious, driven, competitive, and relentless…This conversation will hit close to home.
In this powerful episode of the Hi Felicia Podcast, Felicia sits down with Rachel McElreath, a breakthrough coach, speaker, and host of the BFFR Unfiltered Podcast. Rachel shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming alcoholism, autoimmune disease, a cancer scare, brain lesions, and some of life's most humbling seasons. As a single mom who walked away from the corporate world, Rachel chose to turn her pain into purpose. Today she helps purpose-driven women stop hiding, stop numbing, and start owning the rooms they walk into without needing alcohol to feel confident. This conversation dives into identity, healing, self-trust, and what it really takes to rebuild your life when everything you thought defined you falls away. If you've ever felt like you were shrinking, numbing, or playing small in your life… this episode will feel like permission to reclaim your power. In This Episode We Talk About: The hidden cost of "socially acceptable" drinking Why high-achieving women often use alcohol to cope Rebuilding self-trust after difficult seasons How health challenges can become powerful wake-up calls What it means to truly live authentically Why women deserve spaces for deeper connection and truth About Rachel McElreath Rachel McElreath is a Breakthrough Coach, speaker, and host of the BFFR Unfiltered Podcast. She helps purpose-driven women stop hiding and turn their pain into purpose. After navigating multiple autoimmune diagnoses, a cancer scare, brain lesions, alcoholism, and life as a single mother, Rachel left the corporate world to build a coaching practice devoted to helping women reclaim their voice and power. Through her coaching and community, she guides women to stop numbing, take up space, build self-trust, and form real soul-led connections. Connect with Rachel Follow Rachel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelmcelreath__ Listen to her podcast: BFFR: Pain To Purpose Connect with Felicia Follow Felicia: https://www.instagram.com/feliciaromero/ Follow the podcast: https://www.instagram.com/thehifeliciapodcast/ If you loved this episode, take a screenshot and tag us on Instagram so we can share! And if this conversation resonated with you, please leave a review and share the episode with a friend who needs to hear it
FREE RESOURCE: Try our Burnout Archetype Quiz: https://twc-jqgxs.involve.me/archetype-quiz In this episode of the Wild Medicine Podcast, Dr. Michelle and Dr. Tara explore the transformative power of breath work. They discuss how breath work can create emotional safety, facilitate healing, and help individuals process their emotions. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding breath, the impact of modern stressors, and the necessity of creating safe spaces for healing. They emphasize the significance of self-trust and the ability to choose how to respond to life's challenges, ultimately highlighting breath work as a powerful tool for personal growth and emotional alchemy. Takeaways Breath work can create a sense of safety and emotional regulation. The journey into breath work is deeply personal and transformative. Emotional safety is crucial for personal growth and healing. Breath work helps in processing difficult emotions and experiences. Understanding breath is essential for managing stress and anxiety. Modern stressors contribute to shallow breathing and emotional dysregulation. Self-trust is vital for making empowered choices in life. Breath work can facilitate emotional alchemy and healing. Creating safe spaces is essential for effective breath work. The tools for healing and growth are often already within us. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement 02:49 Journey into Breath Work 07:52 The Need for Somatic Practices 12:32 Transformative Power of Breath Work 19:24 Breath Work as a Tool for Healing 26:00 Understanding Modern Breathing Patterns 32:32 Empowerment Through Breath Work 34:37 Navigating Emotional Disconnects 37:07 The Power of Breathwork 40:36 Emotional Alchemy and Self-Discovery 47:15 Creating Safety and Regulation 53:17 Processing Emotions vs. Numbing 57:19 The Art of Breathwork Facilitation Stay Wild. Connect with Dr. Tara on INSTAGRAM Connect with Dr. Michelle on INSTAGRAM FREE RESOURCE: Click the link and see if the SHED METABOLIC RESET PROGRAM is a good fit for you! This episode is brought to you by: www.MichellePeris.com Ready to reclaim your Wild? JOIN THE WAITLIST Learn more about The Poppy Clinic: www.poppyclinic.com Is Naturopathic Medicine for you: LEARN MORE HERE Take our HORMONE QUIZ Are you a clinician looking for more impact? START HERE
2026 is testing discernment. False prophecies are rising. The Freedom Project – led by Emilio Ortiz & Anne Tucker – is a live initiation for those who refuse to be spiritually misled.If you're ready to channel your own soul, and walk this next chapter with authority – we begin March 1st. Secure your place here
In this episode, we explore what unbothered energy actually is and how it's rooted in presence, self-trust, and nervous system regulation rather than avoidance or shutdown. This is a conversation about staying connected to yourself while life unfolds, and learning to respond from clarity instead of reactivity.Things Mentioned:1:1 Life Coaching with ZoeyKambo Ceremonies in TorontoIf you enjoyed this episode please rate & review it on Spotify & Apple Podcasts. More from Zoey: Website | InstagramYouTube - Main Channel | Vlog Channel
Digital Clutter Is Numbing You (And You Don't Even Notice)Digital clutter has been normalized as “just life.”Constant notifications. Endless scrolling. Background noise all day long.But what if it's not harmless?In this episode, we're talking about how digital clutter doesn't just distract you — it slowly numbs you out from your happiness, clarity, and emotional awareness.This conversation is part of an ongoing series exploring why clarity, motivation, and fulfillment don't come from trying harder… they come from removing what's quietly draining you.You'll hear:Why constant input flattens emotional awareness and dulls joyHow digital, mental, and emotional clutter disconnect you from yourselfWhy numbness is often mistaken for “being fine”Why decluttering feels harder when you're already disconnectedWhat actually helps you reconnect without doing a full digital detoxIf you've been feeling off, unmotivated, or disconnected from yourself lately — this episode will help you understand why.Let's Connect!- Work with me - https://www.florasage.com/workwithme- Website - https://florasage.com- YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/florasage
There are ways Christians escape that don't look like rebellion. They look like busyness. Performance. Endless content. Religious activity. We stay "engaged," but we are quietly numb. And over time, that numbness settles into the body as anxiety, irritability, and bitterness we don't know how to name. This week on Win Today, Stephen McWhirter joins me to discuss the socially acceptable ways believers avoid reality and why those patterns keep us stuck. Stephen's story is raw. He grew up in a violent home, ran hard from God through addiction and self-destruction, and encountered the presence of the Lord in a moment that changed everything. We explore how trauma and rebellion can coexist with spiritual language, how bitterness lodges itself in the body, and what it means to become a resting place for chaos rather than a reactor to it. This episode isn't about shame. It's about sobriety. If you've been medicating pain with distraction, ministry, content, or noise, this conversation will help you confront what you've been avoiding and rediscover what it means to be radically restored. Guest Bio Stephen McWhirter is a singer, songwriter, and worship leader known for his powerful testimony of transformation and his passion for helping others encounter the presence of God. After growing up in a tumultuous home and spending years in addiction and rebellion, Stephen experienced a radical encounter with Christ that reshaped his life and calling. He now leads worship and shares his story nationally, pointing people toward healing, identity, and freedom in Jesus. Show Partner SafeSleeve designs a phone case that blocks up to 99% of harmful EMF radiation—so I'm not carrying that kind of exposure next to my body all day. It's sleek, durable, and most importantly, lab-tested by third parties. The results aren't hidden—they're published right on their site. And that matters because many so-called EMF blockers on the market either don't work or can't prove they do. We protect our hearts and minds—why wouldn't we protect our bodies too? Head to safesleevecases.com and use the code WINTODAY10 for 10% off your order. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my book "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
In this episode, Rachel Hanson: From Numbing to Nurturing — Boundaries, Balance & Becoming Whole, I sit down with Rachel,... The post Rachel Hanson: From Numbing to Nurturing — Boundaries, Balance & Becoming Whole appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.
How many times have you turned to Netflix, shopping, or a glass of wine to avoid feeling something uncomfortable? This is a pattern so many of us get stuck in. In this episode, I'm joined by my best friend, Master Certified Life Coach Rachel Hart, to explore why we do this and what actually helps us change it. This episode is the perfect starting point for understanding why we numb our emotions in the first place, and why learning to feel them instead of avoiding them is the key to creating lasting change in your life.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: schoolofnewfeministthought.com/466Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/Learn more about Rachel Hart's work at rachelhart.com/
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of suicide, mental health crises, domestic violence, & family trauma. How do you build the desire to stop drinking when alcohol feels like your only escape from an overwhelming life? Richard shares his struggle with using alcohol to cope with family challenges, including his son's mental health crisis and decades of marital strife, while Stephanie uncovers a deep-rooted fear that she must be "everything her husband needs" or risk losing him. Both face the uncomfortable truth that alcohol has become essential to their coping and connection. Coach Soraya helps Richard explore activities that bring him joy outside his difficult home environment, while Coach Hayley guides Stephanie through layers of guilt and self-blame to discover an empowered path forward. In Richard's Session: Naming the “pit in my stomach” & why alcohol feels like quick relief Caregiver stress, court dates, & how trauma at home boosts cravings Swimming, hot–cold routines, & finding joy outside the house Mapping resentment in a long marriage without shaming himself Health signals that matter: rising blood pressure & honest tracking Practical ways to build the desire to stop drinking when life is chaotic …and more topics on coping, boundaries, & self-compassion In Stephanie's Session: “We connected over wine”—grieving old rituals without glamorizing them The “chameleon” habit & learning to be herself in her marriage Reframing guilt into an empowered decision to grow Talking intimacy without alcohol Expecting discomfort, choosing compassion, building new cues for connection Tiny experiments that strengthen how to build the desire to stop drinking at home …and more insights on mindset, identity, & shared change Soraya Odishoo is a compassionate Certified This Naked Mind Coach who blends somatic healing with therapeutic models to support recovery. She serves people who feel disconnected from their true selves and want freedom from substances or behaviors that no longer serve them. Her collaborative heart-centered, trust-based trauma-informed approach has a strong focus on accessibility for BIPOC & LGBTQIA+ communities. Soraya's passion is guiding clients back to their personal power so they can find peace, purpose, & lasting healing. Learn more about Coach Soraya: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/soraya-arjan-odishoo-alpc/ Hayley Scherders is a certified TNM Coach with training from the Canadian Addiction and Mental Health Association. Drawing from personal experiences, Hayley understands how tough change can be & provides a safe, compassionate, & judgment-free space where her clients can feel supported. She believes that with the right mindset, anyone can change their life at any time. Learn more about Coach Hayley: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/hayley-scherders/ Episode links: nakedmindpath.com Related Episodes: Getting Past Emotional Drinking Triggers | Reader's Question | E616 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-616-readers-question-getting-past-emotional-drinking-triggers/ Is Motivation Alone Enough? Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E774 - https://thisnakedmind.com/is-motivation-alone-enough-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e774/ Finding Hope for Long-time Drinkers | Reader's Question | E600 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-600-reader-question-finding-hope-for-long-time-drinkers/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, & more. Until next week, stay curious!
Sometimes the hardest pain to name is the one hidden behind achievement, routines, and “keeping it together.” In this episode, we explore why unresolved inner patterns don't disappear—they reorganize your life from the background. On Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Yusuf welcomes Dr. Christiaan Oranje for an experiential, puzzle-style conversation on suppression, emotional numbness, and why mindset work alone may not create lasting change. This episode is for anyone who feels exhausted despite doing “all the right things,” and wants a clearer path toward resilience, emotional clarity, and sustainable healing. About the Guest: Dr. Christiaan Oranje is an international transformational speaker and best-selling author of The Elvis Syndrome. He works primarily with affluent women over 40 who feel unfulfilled despite outward success, and he shares his “triple dynamic” framework for deeper transformation. Key Takeaways: Notice how numbing “solves” discomfort short-term but reduces access to joy long-term. Use life triggers as mirrors—signals pointing to what needs healing, not proof you're failing. Expect growth to be non-linear: resurfacing patterns can mean you're ready for a deeper layer. Build a “safety net” before deep inner work: structure, skills, and self-care reduce resistance. Practice shifting from fear-based states into a more resourceful “state of excellence” in real time. How to Connect With the Guest: https://thesoulmattersmentor.com/ A free downloadable ebook and a complimentary consultation are available, listeners can reach out via email - confidential@walkingtheredcarpet.co.uk Listeners can access free downloadable eBook, designed to help them quickly transform any negative feeling or thought quickly, rather than carrying them for longer than necessary. This eBook comes with three guided audio tracks, that walk listeners step-by-step through the practice, making it easy to apply in real life. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it's become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.
Marijuana doesn't ruin most people's lives. It just makes staying the same feel comfortable. In this episode, we take an honest look at marijuana as a coping tool and how something that helps you relax, numb out, or get through hard days can quietly turn into the thing that keeps you stuck. This isn't an anti-weed conversation. It's a real one that you may need to have with yourself. We talk about why weed feels like it helps, how it lowers emotional urgency, and why relief without resolution can delay real change. When you use marijuana to cope with stress, anxiety, boredom, or dissatisfaction, you often stop listening to the very signals meant to push you toward growth. We'll discuss the difference between coping and avoiding. How weed mutes emotions instead of helping you process them. Why comfort can quietly block motivation and progress the lies you tell yourself about relaxation, creativity, and “deserving it”. What actually happens when you stop using weed to cope and why discomfort isn't a problem. This episode is for anyone who feels “fine” on the surface, but knows something deeper isn't changing. If you've ever wondered whether marijuana is helping you heal or just helping you tolerate a life you've outgrown this conversation is for you. xoxo, Jeannet Work with Jeannet: Apply for one on one private coaching: https://forms.gle/bwoTL8HCUDPmM1LY8 Get my FREE workbook to help you identify the skills you can monetize with an online business: https://www.jeannetsacks.com/monetizeskills Coaching Business Workshop: This Workshop is designed to take you from newbie to launching your own Online Coaching Business or restructure your current Coaching Program so it starts making you money. You will develop your Coaching Program and create streams of income from the comfort of your home, while having an impact on others. https://www.jeannetsacks.com/coachingbusiness Subscribe to my newsletter for awesome tips to live your best life: https://www.jeannetsacks.com/newsletter Instagram: @JeannetSacks Website: https://www.JeannetSacks.com
Pain management is a vital component of the tattooing process that can significantly influence both the client experience and the quality of the final artwork. As discussed in the podcast episode, effective pain management not only helps clients endure longer sessions but also enables tattoo artists to work more efficiently and produce superior results. This week's guest is renowned tattoo artist Cindy Maxwell, whose stunning, large-format, Japanese-inspired tattoos have captivated many for over 27 years. Hailing from San Francisco, Cindy shares insights into her tattooing journey, her passion for fitness through jiu-jitsu and CrossFit, and her nomadic lifestyle. Join us as we delve into the world of tattooing and explore Cindy's unique perspective on art and life. Don't forget to check out her stunning work on Instagram at @Cindy_Maxwell. Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with art, passion, and heartfelt stories! [00:02:03] Collaboration between tattoo artists. [00:05:08] Numbing cream in tattooing. [00:11:40] Pain management in tattooing. [00:15:34] Creating your own life. [00:17:16] Pursuing an art career. [00:24:34] Japanese tattoo culture exploration. [00:32:06] Life in a sprinter van. [00:34:55] Fear of being ordinary. [00:39:10] The nature of consciousness. [00:41:36] Gypsy lifestyle and personal growth. [00:48:48] Collective energy in tattoo shops. [00:54:12] Tattoo trends among youth. [01:01:09] Creative evolution of black tattoos. [01:06:32] Tattooing and business marketing challenges. [01:10:05] Tattooing career challenges today. [01:13:43] Apprenticeship in tattooing today. Quotes: "The reality is they're just not ready to go through it at that moment." "I'm here to be of service, within reason." "I got into tattooing as a way to get into a group of folks that I felt were nonjudgmental." "Most of us got into tattooing because we are creative types who don't like being told what to do, and we want to create our own life." "I've always thought about like, you got to go where you grow." "I have had this idea for my whole life, I think that there are infinite ways to live a life and it would be a shame to just pick one." "As people, our best and worst qualities are the same thing. And I realized that cities are the same." "I think a tattoo can be anything somebody wants it to be." "You can only take so much from a business that you don't put more back into." Stay Connected: Chats & Tatts: Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Connect with Aaron: Aaron IG: http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com Connect with Cindy: IG:https://www.instagram.com/cindy_maxwell
What do we reach for when life feels uncomfortable, confusing, or heavy? In this episode, we explore how distraction, numbing, and limiting beliefs can quietly keep us stuck—spiritually, emotionally, and physically. This conversation is for Christian women who want clarity instead of confusion, peace instead of just pushing through, and a faith-centered way to think about healing and forward movement. Together, we reflect on Scripture, freedom in Christ, and what it means to stop numbing and start paying attention to what God may be inviting us to face. Distraction, Numbing, and the Cost of Avoidance We live in a culture filled with noise and “respectable” distractions. While many of these things aren't inherently wrong, they can become ways we avoid discomfort, grief, or truth. Over time, numbing keeps us from facing what needs healing and from experiencing the joy that comes from walking in our calling. Freedom Has Value in Itself Galatians 5:1 reminds us that Christ set us free for freedom itself. This verse points to God's heart—freedom is not just a means to an end; it matters on its own. When we live distracted or numb, we often settle for less than what Christ already made available to us. Limiting Beliefs That Keep Us Stuck Many women carry quiet beliefs that shape their health and spiritual choices: “I've always been sick.” “I'll never change.” “The Bible is too hard to understand.” These beliefs can slowly steal motivation and hope. It Is Not Too Late to Begin Again No matter your age, history, or past decisions, it is never too late to make a different choice. While salvation is a free gift received through faith, our daily decisions still matter. The steps we take today can influence our peace, our health, and the way we live out our calling. When God Doesn't Give a Clear Answer There are seasons when we ask God for direction and don't receive a clear, immediate response. In those moments, discernment may look less like waiting and more like taking one faithful step. Sometimes God invites us to move forward and trust that He will guide us along the way. Time-Stamped Highlights 00:00 – A reflective question about numbing and healing 00:09 – Galatians 5:1 and God's heart for freedom 00:39 – The grief of wasted potential and missed joy 01:37 – How delighting in God reshapes our desires 02:07 – Respectable distractions and subtle numbing 02:32 – “Permissible vs. beneficial” and the role of boundaries 03:30 – Limiting beliefs that quietly keep us stuck 04:25 – Why it's never too late to begin again 05:25 – Salvation by grace and why our daily choices still matter 06:50 – Freedom as something God deeply values 07:15 – Cultural lies about inevitability and helplessness 08:14 – Obedience, faith, and taking the next small step 09:12 – Turning to God instead of numbing or avoiding 09:42 – Invitation to Health Clarity Sessions and quiet gathering Key Takeaways • Freedom is something Christ intentionally offers and values • Distraction and numbing can quietly keep us from healing and growth • Limiting beliefs shape what we believe is possible for our health and faith • It is never too late to change direction or take a new step • Clarity often comes after movement, not before it • God meets us in honesty, not avoidance If this episode stirred something in you and you feel overwhelmed, unsure, or disconnected from your body and direction, you don't have to navigate it alone. I offer one-on-one Health Clarity Sessions for women who want a calm, faith-centered space to listen, discern, and identify wise next steps—without pressure or fixing. You can learn more at: herholistichealing.com/clarity And if what you need right now is simply space—to sit with God, Scripture, and other women—I'm also hosting a gathering focused on presence and reflection. There is no pressure to share, no coaching, and no expectations—just space. Details are available at: herholistichealing.com/gathering Start with the $47 Workshop Learn more: herholistichealing.com This content is for informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice.
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Most men don't grieve by sitting in circles and talking about feelings. They grieve by working harder, staying busy, isolating, or pushing pain down until it shows up as anger, anxiety, exhaustion, or illness.In this powerful episode of Men Talking Mindfulness, Will Schneider and Jon Macaskill sit down with Michelle Ann Collins—grief coach, mindfulness teacher, and survivor of profound loss—to explore how men actually process grief and why “try harder” is not a plan.Michelle shares her personal journey through her husband's suicide, PTSD, dissociation, and recovery through somatic, body-based mindfulness. Together, they unpack why men are conditioned to suppress grief, how shame and regret keep men stuck, and why embodied practices—not forced emotional expression—are often the safest entry point into healing.This conversation offers real tools men can use in their truck, at work, or at home—without needing to relive the trauma or perform vulnerability.In this episode, you'll hear:• Why men and women feel grief similarly but process it differently• How action-style grief shows up as overworking, isolation, or emotional shutdown• Why suppressing grief often leads to anxiety, panic, illness, or burnout• How embodied mindfulness helps men stay present without dissociation• What post-traumatic growth actually looks like in real life• A simple grounding practice men can use anywhere• How to move from the grief cave toward meaning without rushing the processIf you're a man carrying loss silently—or supporting someone who is—this episode offers a grounded, compassionate path forward.Sponsor:Peptides for Health by Mark L. Gordon, M.D. is a two-volume series exploring the science and clinical application of therapeutic peptides.Medical Edition Vol. 1 Release: December 22, 2025Consumer Edition Vol. 1 Release: January 20, 2026Discount Code: PFH25Medical Edition Offer Window: Dec 20, 2025 – Jan 31, 2026Consumer Edition Offer Window: Jan 20 – Feb 20, 2026Proceeds support the Children of Veterans Program.Preview both editions: https://tbihelpnow.org/biohack-yourselfLinks & ResourcesJoin the Men Talking Mindfulness team at the 2026 Spartan Race and take mindfulness into real-world challenge. This is about grit, presence, and brotherhood under pressure. Learn more and join the team here: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/spartan-race-2026More episodes & resources: https://mentalkingmindfulness.comMental fitness & coaching with Will: https://willnotfear.comBook Jon to speak with your team: https://jonmacaskill.comLearn more about Michelle's work: https://inhabitjoy.comIf this episode resonates, follow the show, leave a rating and review, and share it with one man who needs to hear it.This episode was co-produced by Robert Lopez of https://www.cratesaudio.com/Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.
There's a reason your hunger fades when life gets busy and your soul gets loud: boredom becomes a shortcut to numbing, entitlement masquerades as discernment, and self-pity convinces you that endurance is optional. This week on Win Today, Bethel Music's Kristene DiMarco joins me to confront the quiet habits that starve spiritual hunger and to show us how to train the soul when worship feels flat, prayer drags, and offense stands in the doorway of growth. We talk about the discipline of boredom, the anatomy of hunger, why entitlement and self-pity atrophy endurance, and how to lay down your "right" to be offended by everything in life so true formation can continue. If you feel dulled by distraction, easily offended, or tired of mistaking relief for transformation, this conversation will call you back to the long road of love. Guest Bio Kristene DiMarco is a songwriter and worship leader with Bethel Music, known for penning and recording modern hymns and congregational anthems and for leading worship at churches and conferences around the world. Her albums and collaborations with Bethel Music and Jesus Culture have introduced a wide range of songs to the global church, and she continues to write and lead with a focus on honest lyrics, theological clarity, and resilient faith. Show Partners We spend a third of our lives asleep, so stop treating your bed like an afterthought. Cozy Earth's Bamboo Sheets are a game-changer. They're silky smooth, breathable, and cool to the touch. And they're more than bedding; Cozy Earth also makes bath essentials, pajamas, and men's and women's loungewear designed to bring calm and comfort to everyday life. Try their sheets risk-free with a 100-Night Sleep Trial and a 10-Year Warranty. Start the New Year right. Head to cozyearth.com and use code WINTODAY for up to 20% off. And if you see a post-purchase survey, tell them you heard about Cozy Earth on Win Today. SafeSleeve designs a phone case that blocks up to 99% of harmful EMF radiation—so I'm not carrying that kind of exposure next to my body all day. It's sleek, durable, and most importantly, lab-tested by third parties. The results aren't hidden—they're published right on their site. And that matters, because a lot of so-called EMF blockers on the market either don't work or can't prove they do. We protect our hearts and minds—why wouldn't we protect our bodies too? Head to safesleevecases.com and use the code WINTODAY10 for 10% off your order. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
What if healing doesn't start with managing your emotions—but with understanding how your brain responds to fear, grief, and hope? In this episode, Dr. Alison sits down with neurosurgeon, author, and Iraq War veteran Dr. Lee Warren to explore trauma, loss, faith, and the brain's God-given capacity to change. After unimaginable loss, Dr. Warren shares how “self-brain surgery”—learning to notice and interrupt destructive thought patterns—helped him restore hope and agency without bypassing grief. This conversation will help you understand: —Why most of our thoughts are repetitive, negative, and often untrue —How trauma wires automatic thoughts—and how those patterns can change —How faith and neuroscience meet in practical ways —The difference between the mind and the brain, and why that distinction matters for healing This episode offers hope without shortcuts. It honors the reality of suffering while reminding us that our past does not get the final word — not neurologically, not emotionally, and not spiritually.
Do you ever wonder if the habits you rely on to get through the day might actually be holding you back from living a full, rich life? Maybe it's a nightly glass of wine, scrolling on social media, or even working extra hours . These strategies might help you feel a little better for a minute but they may numb be dimming your life in the big picture. My guest today is Cecily Mak, co-founder of Wisdom Ventures, a fund investing in human connection and well-being, and the author of a booked called Undimmed. Cecily shares her personal journey of identifying the “dimmers” in her life—habits that dulled her ability to fully experience life—and how she transformed her life in the process. Some of the things we discuss are: How to recognize your dimmers What to do when you find something that is dimming your life Why some habits that seem positive, like generosity or productivity, can sometimes be dimmers How to create a 30-day experiment to get distance from your dimmers How uncomfortable emotions can guide you toward meaningful change Why redefining your relationship with discomfort can make you mentally stronger How alcohol was dimming Cecily's life and what happened when she gave it up Subscribe to Mentally Stronger Premium for exclusive content like weekly bonus episodes, mental strength challenges, and office hours with me. Links & Resources CecilyMak.com Undimmed Related Episodes 150 - 7 Bad Mental Habits and How to Break Them 204 - 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do in Today's World Connect with the Show Buy a copy of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do Connect with Amy on Instagram — @AmyMorinAuthor Visit my website — AmyMorinLCSW.com Sponsors OneSkin — Get 15% off OneSkin with the code STRONGER at https://www.oneskin.co/ Quince — Go to Quince.com/stronger for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns! Hollow Socks — Buy 2, get 2 free at hollowsocks.com BetterHelp — This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try and get 10% off at betterhelp.com/mentallystrong Shopify — Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/mentallystronger Lola Blankets — Get 35% off your entire order at Lolablankets.com by using code STRONGER at checkout. Experience the world's #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. AirDoctor — Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code STRONGER to get UP TO $300 off today! Uncommon Goods — Go to UncommonGoods.com/Stronger for 15% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Using alcohol to numb emotions—does it really keep you safe, or just keep you stuck in old patterns? For Ann, alcohol became the shortcut to avoid conflict and silence emotions she'd been told to keep hidden since childhood. For Mandy, the urge to drink after work felt like the only way to shut off stress and self-criticism. In this powerful coaching session, Coach Zoe invites both women to explore what's really underneath the desire to drink when feelings become overwhelming. Together, they uncover the links between shame, perfectionism, anxiety, and cravings—and learn practical ways to process emotions without running from them. Their stories show how self-compassion, body awareness, and simple grounding tools can open the door to healing. This conversation is both raw and hopeful, reminding us that the urge to numb is really an invitation to feel, heal, and choose differently. In Ann's session: The lifelong habit of emotional suppression The neuroscience behind drinking to numb feelings Learning to identify and name emotions for the first time Recognizing that needing is not a threat to survival Starting to care for yourself and your body as a path to healing The power of holding space for yourself and your emotions Acknowledging the journey of emotional recovery And more topics… In Mandy's session: The emotional weight of unprocessed past experiences How a lifetime of hypervigilance creates the need to escape Realizing that self-sabotage is a coping mechanism Finding new, creative hobbies to replace drinking The wisdom of the body and the courage to feel Gaining confidence in your own perspective and voice Acknowledging that the journey to healing is not always linear And more… Zoe Ewart is a Certified Naked Mind Senior Coach who brings her experience and understanding to help with the tricky parts of life's big changes. Her coaching gives you an enjoyable, light-hearted, and safe environment to effortlessly take back control of alcohol so you can feel better physically, mentally, and spiritually. Zoe taught Pilates for 15 years. She has four adult children and more animals than the Ark ever had. Learn more about Coach Zoe: https://thisnakedmind.com/coach/zoe-ewart/ Episode links: nakedmindpath.com Related Episodes: How To Rewire Your Brain To Stop Drinking - Meet Our Coaches - E827 - https://thisnakedmind.com/how-to-rewire-your-brain-to-stop-drinking-e827/ Feeling Your Emotions Without Alcohol - Understanding the Urge to Drink - Alcohol Freedom Coaching - E799 - https://thisnakedmind.com/understanding-the-urge-to-drink-e799/ Healing From Using Alcohol to Numb Emotional Pain - Reader's Question - E564 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-564-coaching-questions-how-to-start-healing-from-numbing/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious! Quince: Find gifts so good you'll want to keep them with Quince. Go to Quince.com/naked for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + a free item for life at Hungryroot.com/nakedmind with code nakedmind Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at Shopify.com/mind Aura Frame: Get $35 off Aura's Carver Mat frame at AuraFrames.com with promo code NAKEDMIND Masterclass: Get 15% off any annual membership at MasterClass.com/NAKEDMIND