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Is it possible you've had ADHD your entire life and just didn't know it? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode of The Midlife Makeover Show, Wendy chats with Kate Moryoussef, host of the award-winning ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, EFT practitioner, and author of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit. After being diagnosed with ADHD at 40, Kate embarked on a journey of healing, self-discovery, and advocacy for women navigating late-in-life diagnoses. Kate breaks down how hormonal changes in midlife can unmask previously undetected ADHD symptoms, why so many women are being misdiagnosed (or completely overlooked), and how holistic tools like EFT tapping, nervous system regulation, nutrition, and spirituality can make a world of difference. With raw honesty and heartfelt passion, Kate empowers listeners to see ADHD not as a flaw—but as a difference that deserves understanding, support, and even celebration.
In this week's episode, Han is joined by Kate Moryoussef – host of the award-winning ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, ADHD lifestyle and wellbeing coach, EFT practitioner, and newly published author of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit.Kate shares her personal journey of receiving an ADHD diagnosis at 40, how it interlinked with her daughter's diagnosis, and the ripple effects of awareness that changed both their lives. We dive into:Key Takeaways:The emotional impact of late ADHD diagnosisWhy masking, self-criticism, and burnout are common in neurodivergent womenThe nuanced connection between ADHD and disordered eatingEmotional regulation, perfectionism, and self-soothing behavioursThe role of screening and neurodivergent-informed support in eating disorder treatmentHow ADHD affects women uniquely across the lifespan, including hormonal healthKate's holistic wellbeing tools for managing ADHDTimestamps: 00:47 – Kate's journey to diagnosis & supporting her daughter 04:00 – ADHD traits in women & the power of community 10:00 – Masking, friendships & self-acceptance 17:00 – Disordered eating & ADHD: what Kate has learned from hosting the podcast25:00 – Why neurodiversity should be at the forefront of healthcare 35:00 – The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit: who it's for & how it helps 43:00 – Holistic, neuroaffirming support toolsResources & Links:Kate's websiteThe ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit (available from 17 July)Kate on Instagram: @adhd_womenswellbeingTrigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of disordered eating, ADHD, and trauma. Connect with Us:Subscribe to the Full of Beans Podcast hereFollow Full of Beans on Instagram hereRead our latest blog hereThank you for listening and being part of this important conversation!If you loved this episode, don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit!Sending positive beans your way, Han
In this week's 'Wisdom' episode, we explore the connection between ADHD, perfectionism, and burnout, and how these patterns often shape our daily lives without us realising. I've also written about this deeply personal topic in Chapter 6 (Prevent Burnout) of my upcoming new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit. On today's episode, we revisit conversations with Natalie Englander, an accredited senior CBT therapist and Michaela Thomas, a Clinical Psychologist, coach and author.From procrastination and people-pleasing to self-criticism and the pressure to keep going, we unpack the emotional toll perfectionism can take. We also discuss practical tools like mindfulness and how reframing perfectionism with curiosity and compassion can help us work with our brains, not against them.
Preorder my book: The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit here.This special bonus episode features an insightful conversation between Kate and Alex Partridge, host of the ADHD Chatter Podcast. Originally recorded for Alex's show, this episode delves into the realities of being a woman with ADHD, the emotional toll it can take, and how Kate's new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, was born out of her personal and professional experiences as an ADHD wellbeing coach.Alex founded 2 social media giants, UNILAD and LADBible, aged just 21 and was then diagnosed with ADHD at 34. Since then, he has become a powerful advocate for neurodiversity online, reminding us all that we're not broken; we're different and have always been enough. Key Takeaways:Why understanding ADHD is crucial for women and girls to dismantle shame and stigmaHow ADHD impacts women's mental and physical health, often in overlooked waysThe emotional toll of being misunderstood, judged, or feeling like you don't fit inCommon ADHD struggles like overwhelm, anxiety, people-pleasing, and a harsh inner criticHow ADHD shows up uniquely for women, especially across life stages and hormonal changesThe importance of neuro-affirming support, creating a sense of safety, and building self-trustThe power of boundaries, self-awareness, and community for women with ADHDKate's heartfelt advice for her younger self and women recently diagnosed with ADHDThis episode is a powerful reminder that awareness, compassion, and connection can transform the ADHD journey for women, helping them to feel seen, supported, and empowered to thrive.Links and Resources:Missed our ADHD Women's Summer Series? Get the workshops on demand [here].Join the Waitlist for my new ADHD community-first membership launching in September! Get exclusive founding offers [here].Find my popular ADHD webinars and resources on my website [here].Follow the podcast on Instagram: @adhd_womenswellbeing_pod Kate Moryoussef is a women's ADHD lifestyle and wellbeing coach and EFT practitioner who helps overwhelmed and unfulfilled newly diagnosed ADHD women find more calm, balance, hope, health, compassion, creativity and clarity.
Cycle tracking isn't a fad or something you can only do if you menstruate. Rooted in ancient wisdom, modern science, and female empowerment, understanding your cycles is key to helping you channel and nurture your energy, enhance your strengths, honour your needs and boost emotional well-being.Many of us are navigating the complex interplay between our hormonal cycles and ADHD, and this conversation aims to shed light on how cycle tracking can help us reconnect with our bodies. We'll explore how hormonal fluctuations impact our well-being and the importance of recognising these changes, not just as symptoms to endure, but as valuable insights into our overall health. In this episode of the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, Kate is joined by Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, co-authors of The Cycle Book. Together, they offer practical insights, personal stories, and expert guidance on how understanding your hormonal cycle can transform your wellbeing.Laura, a certified sex and couples therapist, and Morgan, a seasoned midwife and reproductive care advocate, share their unique perspectives on navigating hormonal health through PMDD, endometriosis, postnatal depression, and beyond.Preorder my book: The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit here.What You'll Learn:The power of cycle tracking as a tool for self-understanding, self-advocacy, and healingWhy no two cycles are the same, and how learning your hormonal patterns is essentialThe emotional and physical realities of conditions like PMDD, endometriosis, and postnatal depression (especially in neurodivergent women)How to begin advocating for yourself in a medical system that often overlooks women's hormonal healthWhat to do when you're not getting the support you need from healthcare providers, and how to persist without burning outWhy it's vital to start these conversations young, empowering girls to understand and trust their bodiesThe value of community, curiosity, and consistency in your hormone health journeyThis episode is a compassionate call to action: your body is not a mystery, it's a source of wisdom. With the right tools and support, every woman can learn to track, understand, and advocate for her hormonal wellbeing.You can connect with Laura and Morgan via their Instagram page (@thecyclebook).Timestamps:06:20 - Understanding Hormonal Cycles and Neurodivergence10:40 - Understanding Hormonal Fluctuations and Neurodivergence19:24 - Understanding Cycle Tracking and Its Impact on Wellbeing32:33 - Exploring Hormonal Impacts on Mental Health40:50 - Navigating the Healthcare System: Advocacy and ChallengesLinks and Resources:Missed our ADHD Women's Summer Series? Get the workshops on demand [here].Join the Waitlist for my new ADHD community-first membership, launching in September [
ADHD Women: The High Cost of Being a “Pleasant Child” In this vulnerable episode, I open up about something I've only recently started to fully unpack: how my colicky infancy may have been the beginning of my lifelong masking as a woman with ADHD. What happens when the only way we feel loved is by being quiet, easy, and accommodating? We'll talk about early emotional abandonment, attachment patterns, and the cost of becoming "the good girl." I also dive into why so many ADHD women disconnect from their bodies, needs, and authentic self—and what we can do to begin reclaiming who we truly are. If you've ever felt drained by over-functioning, perfectionism, or trying to be palatable to others, this episode will hit home. —⏱️—CHAPTERS—⏱️— 00:00 Introduction: Unpacking Masking and ADHD 00:46 Early Childhood and Masking Origins 01:10 Welcome to the Podcast 01:52 Personal Stories and Family Dynamics 03:40 The Impact of Early Experiences 06:34 ADHD and Societal Expectations 09:20 Navigating Adulthood with ADHD 15:25 Reclaiming Authenticity and Self-Love 28:04 Introducing the Journal Book Experience 31:21 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
In this week's 'Wisdom' episode, we explore Chapter 5 (Live in Sync With your Hormones) of my upcoming new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, focusing on the often-overlooked hormonal factors (particularly progesterone) that can influence ADHD symptoms, especially during our menstrual cycles, perimenopause and menopause.In this conversation, we revisit Kate's chats with Dr. Emma Ping, a menopause specialist, and Adele Wimsett, a women's health practitioner and author. Together, they unpack how hormones like progesterone, oestrogen, and testosterone interact with the ADHD brain, and why understanding this link is crucial for women's wellbeing.
What if everything you're seeking: peace, purpose, connection, has been inside you all along, and it's not that you need to try hard... but soften into who you already are?In this soulful episode, I sit down with Cathy Heller, a renowned teacher, top podcaster and bestselling author. She hosts one of the top spiritual podcasts, Abundant Ever After, and she's the author of the USA Today bestselling book, Abundant Ever After: Tools for Creating a Life of Prosperity and Ease.Join us for a spiritually grounded conversation about what it means to come home to yourself and how everything begins to fall into alignment when you do. We talk about the cost of hiding who we are, and how real healing begins when we honour our true desires. This episode is a reminder that when you show up as yourself, the universe meets you there, because who you are is the magic.Preorder my book: The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit here.What you'll learn in this episode:How burnout can come from disconnecting from your true self.How ADHD women can thrive when they stop masking and start honouring their true rhythm.Why spiritual fulfilment often begins with asking: What do I truly desire, and is that desire aligned with my values?How creativity, softness, and self-connection can support healing, especially for neurodivergent minds.That your worth isn't based on what you do, but on who you are and how you love.How our inner resources, empathy, insight, love, are what truly connect us.How to let go of urgency and honour your soul to let life come to you.Why being yourself is the most powerful way to connect with others and with life itself.This conversation is a powerful reminder that everything you're looking for begins with being who you already are.You can connect with Cathy via her Instagram page (@cathy.heller).Timestamps:02:48 - Cathy's Journey to Self-Acceptance: Understanding Neurodivergence and Personal Power15:16 - The Power of Desire: Understanding What We Truly Want22:42 - Breaking Down Belief Systems30:13 - Embracing Creativity and Letting GoLinks and Resources:Missed our ADHD Women's Summer Series? Get the workshops on demand [here].Next ADHD Wellbeing Workshop: A bonus Q&A to ask me anything about ADHD and my new book! - July 8th 24th @1.30pm. Book [here].Join the Waitlist for my new ADHD community-first membership launching in September! Get exclusive founding offers [
Healing ADHD Burnout by Reclaiming Your Feminine Power (with Eleonore de Posson) If you've ever found yourself teetering on the edge of burnout—over-functioning, disconnected from your body, and stuck in “fix it” mode—this episode is your permission slip to pause. This week, I'm re-airing one of the most powerful conversations I've had on the podcast, with spiritual teacher and author Eleonore de Posson. And I'm doing it for a reason: I've been living in burnout recovery myself. After months of falling into hustle patterns and misaligned doing, I chose to stop. To soften. And to return to the feminine. What supported me most? Eleonore's 21-Day Sacred Feminine Reset—an offering I had purchased last year but wasn't ready to receive until now. Her work, her presence, and this conversation are part of the medicine I needed—and I want to share that with you. In this episode, we explore: Why ADHD women often operate from wounded masculine energy How feminine energy helps heal burnout, regulate your nervous system, and restore clarity The six gifts of feminine sovereignty (and how to actually embody them) The difference between divine and wounded masculine and feminine energy What ancient spiritual traditions—from Mary Magdalene to Traditional Chinese Medicine—can teach us about healing and reclaiming power How structure, flow, intuition, and groundedness all work together for ADHD women Even though this episode originally centered on entrepreneurship, the wisdom here is for all ambitious ADHD women—especially those navigating burnout, emotional overwhelm, or spiritual disconnection. ✨ If you're ready to experience the same feminine reset that supported me, check out Eleonore's 21-Day Sacred Feminine Reset here. https://www.eleonoredeposson.com/21daysfr ✨ If you found this episode helpful… Please follow, subscribe, and share it with another ADHD woman who needs support!
Dr Judith Mohring has over 25 years' experience of clinical and organisational practice having studied medicine at Cambridge and graduating as a gold medal finalist. She enjoyed a distinguished career as a private psychiatrist in the City and Harley Street before founding The Natural Psychiatrist to focus on education and coaching, enhancing business productivity and performance. She is an expert trainer for the UK Adult ADHD Network, on the advisory board for The Centre for Neurodiversity at work and a visiting lecturer in organisational psychiatry at King's College London. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:56 What people will learn in this episode 04:13 How ADHD presents in women during Perimenopause 07:17 The 3 key hormones that are impacted by Menopause 13:38 Advice for partners, family and friends 15:03 Traits of Menopause that can be confused with ADHD 17:43 Tiimo advert 19:17 Does ADHD get worse after Menopause 24:35 The Menopausal shame chain reaction 29:00 How to manage the symptoms of Menopause 30:00 Unusual traits of the Menopause that Google won't tell you 35:04 The ADHD Item 37:57 The ADHD agony aunt 41:20 3 Rules To Live By Visit Dr Judith Mohring's website
In this week's wisdom episode, we explore Chapter 4 (Regulate Your Nervous System) of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit and dive into the essential connection between our nervous system, hormonal health, and trauma-informed healing.We reflect on our conversations with Allegra Foxlie (a trauma and hormone specialist, podcast host, embodiment expert, and author of HTR: The Hormone Tension Release) and Paula Rarick (an advocate for hormonal sensitivity and brain-body integration) to explore how nervous system regulation can be the foundation for sustainable wellbeing.What You'll Learn:Why the nervous system is key to hormonal and emotional regulation, especially for ADHDers.How trauma and early stress dysregulate the nervous and endocrine systems, leading to autoimmune conditions.How nervous system patterns shape hormonal responses, epigenetics, and long-term resilience.Practical tools like breathwork, vagus nerve activation, and habit shifts to support daily regulation.Why cortisol can feel addictive, and why calm may feel unfamiliar or unsafe for some.The value of combining talk therapy and body-based practices for deep healing.How ADHD, autism, BPD, and hormonal sensitivity share common nervous system traits.
Are you the go-to friend for everyone else's problems, but feel utterly depleted?In this episode, I'm diving into how trash boundaries in friendships can wreck your energy, your nervous system, and even your career. If you've been the unpaid therapist in your social circle or you're constantly saying yes when your body screams no, this one's for you.Why women with ADHD are more likely to tolerate one-sided, draining friendshipsThe difference between being supportive and being someone's emotional dumping groundHow internalized ableism leads to over-accommodating behavior in friendshipsRed flags that it's time to reevaluate or release certain friendshipsScripts and strategies for setting boundaries that protect your energy and peaceLinks:
Want to fall in love with your ADHD brain and make it work for you? Learn more about my patented program, Your ADHD Brain is A-OK Academy here: programs.tracyotsuka.com/signup___When you live with ADHD, it's easy to get stuck in a cycle of overwhelm, shutdown, and shame. But what if there's a way to interrupt that pattern without judgment, without spiraling, and without trying to “fix” yourself?Vanessa Gorelkin is a licensed therapist, executive coach, and returning favorite on the podcast. With 30 years of experience across clinical care and executive leadership, she specializes in helping ADHD women find clarity, stability, and actual tools that work. In this episode, she introduces us to Internal Family Systems (IFS), a powerful framework that helps us make sense of our emotional chaos by getting curious instead of self-critical.Tracy and Vanessa dive into the difference between the “manager” and “firefighter” parts of our brain, how IFS can reframe emotional dysregulation, and why so many high-achieving women with ADHD still feel like they're “too much.” They also talk about the surprising way shame shows up in our daily lives, and how compassion is more than just self-care; it's a powerful strategy for long-term emotional regulation.Vanessa also shares how IFS creates space for your inner world to feel less chaotic, less punishing, and more connected. You'll learn how identifying and working with your internal parts can build self-awareness, reduce reactive patterns, and unlock a deeper sense of agency.Whether you're new to IFS or already deep into parts work, this episode offers real, relatable guidance for anyone looking to create more emotional balance and self-trust.Resources:Website: https://vanessagorelkin.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsvanessagorelkin LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessacahngorelkin1 Send a Message: Your Name | Email | Message Learn more by connecting with Tracy through Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest, or visit adhdforsmartwomen.com.Are You Ready to Discover Your Brilliance? Order Now: https://adhdforsmartwomen.com/bookJoin Your ADHD Brain is A-OK: https://adhdforsmartwomen.com/aokVisit our website: https://adhdforsmartwomen.comJoin our community of ADHD For Smart Ass Women: https://www.facebook.com/groups/tracyotsuka Join What Do I Do With My Life Masterclass: spyhappy.me/classUnlock your best days with Blends: https://adhdforsmartwomen.com/blends
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Kate Moryoussef, host of the award-winning ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, to discuss the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent mothers. Both diagnosed in their 40s, Kate and I share authentic insights about self-acceptance, burnout prevention, and how to be the calm anchor for our families. Key Topics Discussed The grief and relief that comes with a late ADHD diagnosis Why self-compassion must come before self-acceptance Recognizing the subtle signs of approaching burnout How ADHD presents differently across life stages and hormonal changes The importance of being the calm anchor in dysregulated family moments Practical burnout prevention strategies for ADHD women Breaking free from societal expectations and "shoulds" The ripple effect of self-care on family dynamics Sincerely, ❤️ Holly Blanc Moses, The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist ⭐️ Click here for free resources, trainings, and continuing education- ⭐️ Get your FREE BEHAVIOR DETECTIVE GUIDE To support neurodivergent children and teens, we need to understand their unique needs and honor their experiences. The Behavior Detective Guide breaks down information to help identify barriers and patterns, leading to neurodiversity affirming approaches. • Parents click here • Therapists click here • Educators click here ⭐️ Get your FREE SOCIAL SUCCESS GUIDE Social interaction can be confusing and anxiety-provoking for neurodivergent children and teens. The Social Success Guide provides practical strategies to support social confidence and authenticity. • Parents click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/276666 • Therapists click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/271718 • Educators click here - https://www.hollyblancmoses.com/pl/271424 ⭐️ Hey Therapists! Come on over for NEURODIVERSITY-AFFIRMING CONTINUING EDUCATION Enhance your therapeutic approach with our affirming and engaging trainings while earning CE credits to fulfill your professional development requirements, as our courses are approved by the NBCC. Neurodiversity therapists click here ⭐️ Welcome to our PARENT MASTERCLASSES WITH Q&A Each live class is packed with supportive strategies on the topics parents want most. Can't make it live? No worries, because you'll get the replay. Sign up to be the first to know when the next masterclass is scheduled. Parents click here for your masterclasses ❤️ You're invited to my FACEBOOK GROUPS. Can't wait to see you there:) ➡️ Parents, come on over and join the Autism ADHD Facebook Group for Parents https://www.facebook.com/groups/WiredDifferentlyGroup ➡️ Therapists & educators, join the Facebook Group for professionals https://www.facebook.com/groups/professionalsforwdchildren ❤️ Thanks for sharing this episode and supporting The Autism ADHD Podcast!
Sorry, I Missed This: The Everything Guide to ADHD and Relationships with Cate Osborn
ADHD in women is often misunderstood, even by ourselves — and hormones are a big part of the story. This week, host Cate Osborn chats with psychiatrist and researcher Dr. Lotta Borg Skoglund about how hormone cycles affect ADHD in women. From PMS to perimenopause, we explore how shifting hormones can change how ADHD shows up — and how that impacts mood, focus, and relationships.Dr. Borg Skoglund shares what the research says, what often gets overlooked in diagnosis and treatment, and how understanding the patterns in your cycle can make everyday life a little easier.Related resourcesADHD Girls to Women by Dr. Lotta Borg SkoglundLotta's research group, GODDESS ADHDA guide to hormones and ADHDFrom the Climbing the Walls podcast: Are hormones the final frontier for women with ADHD?Timestamps(01:42) The changes in hormones during the menstrual cycle, and how they can affect ADHD symptoms(04:57) ADHD symptoms across hormonal life milestones like puberty, pregnancy, and menopause(10:21) The formation of Lotta's research group GODDESS ADHD(14:25) The importance of this overdue research, and the constant dismissal of women's hormonal challenges(17:12) Mapping your cycle to help understand your ADHD symptom fluctuations(21:10) How do we track these things if our cycles are non-traditional?(24:06) How do hormones connect to Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria?For a transcript and more resources, visit the Sorry, I Missed This show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at sorryimissedthis@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
What happens when your perfectly planned day falls apart and your brain refuses to cooperate?Today I'm chatting about:Why identifying your energy and focus levels is the key to choosing your next stepHow to get unstuck using the “easiest task” strategyThe truth about perfectionism and why doing a “shitty job” might be exactly what you needHow emotional dysregulation hijacks your productivity and simple ways to resetMy personal system for dumping brain clutter without getting overwhelmedSchedule a free consult call with Jamie: https://calendly.com/outsmartadhd/adhd-coaching-consult
This week, Alex chats to Kate Moryoussef, the host of the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast and the author of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit book. She's had thousands of conversations with ADHD experts and late diagnosed ADHD women and she's here to share her biggest learnings. 00:00 Trailer 02:45 What's your mission in the ADHD space? 05:50 Kate's personal diagnosis story 11:41 The common areas of struggle for ADHD women 18:15 the affects of feeling misunderstood 20:51 Tiimo advert 25:23 The consequences of not feeling “enough” 30:02 The hidden costs of people pleasing 36:24 The reality of being an introverted extrovert 37:37 3 ways to recharge the ADHD brain 39:56 Advice for young undiagnosed ADHD women 42:28 When in your life did you feel most heard? 44:15 Kate's ADHD item 47:56 The ADHD agony aunt 50:48 A letter from the previous guest Find Kate on Instagram
Kate Moryoussef is the host of award-winning and chart-topping The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, a women's ADHD Lifestyle & well-being coach, EFT practitioner, and NOW author, helping burnt-out, overwhelmed, and unfulfilled newly-diagnosed ADHD women find more calm, balance, hope, wellbeing, compassion, creativity and clarity. In this episode, Kate Moryoussef shares tips on how to navigate ADHD as a woman, including hormone replacement therapy, the connection with the various phases of the menstrual cycle, and provides resources for learning more to determine if you have ADHD. Learn more about Kate here: https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/ Instagram: @kate_moryoussef Listen to her podcastThe ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast here: https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/adhd-podcast Pre-order her book The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit here: https://www.adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/adhd-womens-wellbeing-toolkit Get 15% off Peluva minimalist shoe with coupon code COACHTARA here: http://peluva.com/coachtara CHAPTERS: 0:00 Intro 4:45 What life was like for Kate before realizing she had ADHD 10:43 Menstrual cycle and ADHD 18:30 Estrogen and progesterone for ADHD 27:45 Sensibility of the nervous system with ADHD 42:15 Find out if you have ADHD 49:00 Resources from Kate
This week on the ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, I'm joined by Paula Rastrick, EMDR therapist, psychological trauma specialist, and author of the upcoming book Sensitive Women: A Trauma-Informed, Neurodiverse Approach to Hormonal Sensitivity.Together, we explore how hormonal sensitivity, trauma, and neurodivergence are deeply connected and how understanding this can help you better regulate your nervous system and emotional responses.From perimenopause to past trauma, Paula shares empowering insights into how women can reclaim their wellbeing by honouring their unique physiology and lived experiences. Whether you're neurodivergent, highly sensitive, or navigating hormonal changes, this episode offers practical tools and a compassionate perspective.What You'll Learn:How genetics, trauma, and environment shape your neurodivergent experienceWhy nervous system dysregulation shows up as anxiety, fear, and hypervigilanceWhy cortisol can feel addictive and keep you stuck in cycles of hyperarousalHow hormonal shifts like PMDD affect stress tolerance and emotional regulationHow trauma can be processed without words through body-based methods like EMDRWhy removing people and environments that dysregulate you supports healingHow taking responsibility for your reactions helps you reclaim your powerWhy not absorbing other people's emotions protects your nervous systemHow prioritising space, freedom, and flexibility supports long-term wellbeingSimple morning habits that lower cortisol and help regulate your dayTimestamps:02:00 – ADHD, hormones, trauma and your nervous system23:12 – Hormonal changes and their emotional impact32:46 – What happens when we suppress emotions36:42 – Mindfulness and nervous system balance for healingIf you've ever felt overwhelmed by emotional ups and downs or struggled to feel calm in your body, this episode will give you the validation and gentle strategies you've been looking for.You can connect with Paula via her website, www.thebrainbodymethod.com or Instagram @mrspaularastrickLinks and Resources:Book on to the next ADHD Wellbeing Workshop about Creating ADHD 'Routines' and 'Structures' - Stability in Choppy Waters! Click here to book.Catch all the previous ADHD Women's Wellbeing Workshop Series workshops here. Available to buy now as on-demand. If you love the podcast but want more ADHD support, get a sneak peek of my brand new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit and pre-order it here!Launching September! Tired of ADHD support that doesn't get you? My new compassionate, community-first membership ditches the overwhelm by providing support aligned with YOU! Join the waitlist now for an exclusive founding member offer!Kate Moryoussef is a women's ADHD lifestyle and wellbeing coach and EFT practitioner who helps
Nikki Daye, a school psychologist and ADHD advocate, grew up in the foster care system. She was diagnosed with ADHD as a child, but her medical records were eventually lost. As she got older, her ADHD diagnosis wasn't considered. Instead, her symptoms were misdiagnosed as anxiety, PTSD, and bipolar disorder. While her ADHD diagnosis was “lost in translation,” Nikki spent a lot of time feeling misunderstood and unsupported. It wasn't until adulthood that she finally got the clarity she needed. Now, she's using her experience to advocate for kids with ADHD, including her own daughter.Related resources6 ways ADHD and PTSD can look alikeADHD and traumaTimestamps(01:18) Nikki's first ADHD diagnosis as a teenager(03:30) Nikki's experience with echolalia (05:27) ADHD treatment, speculating other diagnoses, and medical records being lost while in foster care(09:11) “Aging out” of her ADHD diagnosis, and coming back to it(15:08) Nikki's intersectional “aha” moments (20:33) Nikki's work helping kids like her, and her daughterFor a transcript and more resources, visit the ADHD Aha! show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org or record a message for us here. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Feeling exhausted trying to juggle it ALL with ADHD?You're definitely not alone! Today I'm joined by the incredible Kate Moryoussef
In this week's episode of The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast, I'm joined by couples counsellor and author Lisa Rabinowitz to discuss what really happens when ADHD shows up in a relationship and how to evolve and grow through it together.Whether you have ADHD, your partner does, or you're both neurodivergent, this conversation offers real-life tools and insights to help you feel more connected, understood, and supported.Lisa, author of Why Won't You Stop Interrupting Me?, shares how ADHD can create challenges with communication, emotional regulation, and reactivity, and how couples can move from blame to teamwork. What You'll Learn:✨ Why ADHD can make communication harder and how to reduce misinterpretation and reactivity✨ How understanding both partners' neurodivergence creates more compassion and connection✨ What a “talk nook” is, and why creating space for safe conversations can transform your relationship✨ How to use tools like timers, summaries, fidget toys, ChatGPT, and bullet points to support better discussions✨ Why self-awareness and emotional responsibility matter for both partners✨ How to move from blame to teamwork, and what it means to approach your relationship like a “3-legged race”✨ The role of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) in relationships and how to navigate needs for independence✨ Why having a shared goal and taking small steps forward together builds empowerment and trust✨ How to start using your ADHD diagnosis as a tool for deeper understanding✨ Encouraging, science-backed advice from Lisa's work with couples navigating ADHD challengesTimestamps:
In this episode, Kate is joined by Kelly Smith, an ADHD advocate, meditation teacher, and founder of Yoga For You, to explore how meditation and mindfulness can become powerful tools for those with ADHD. With a background in neuroscience and personal experience with ADHD, Kelly shares how short, daily practices like breathwork, grounding, journaling, and visualisation can help calm the nervous system, regulate emotions, and improve focus.Together, we bust the myth may meditation myths and explore how just 8–12 minutes of intentionality each day can rewire the brain to reduce overstimulation, increase dopamine and GABA, calm the amygdala, and strengthen the prefrontal cortex.Whether you're overstimulated, overwhelmed, or just unsure where to start, this conversation offers practical ways to make meditation work for your ADHD brain and your unique lifestyle.What You'll Learn In This Episode:✨ The power of short, consistent meditation sessions, especially for ADHD brains✨ The neuroscience of mindfulness: how dopamine, GABA, the amygdala, and prefrontal cortex are involved in focus, anxiety reduction, and emotional regulation✨ How meditation helps reduce overstimulation and supports executive function✨ The difference between intentional introspection and overthinking✨ How grounding practices like prayer, journaling, or breathwork can build intentionality and future visioning✨ How to find a meditation style that suits your ADHD brain e.g. visualisation, body awareness, or focused breathing✨ Why visualising your “ideal self” can lead to subtle but powerful life changes✨ How meditation strengthens memory, emotional control, and clarity by rewiring the brain over time✨ Why mindfulness needs to be personal and consistent, not perfect Timestamps:
This week, Kate is joined by Dr. Kara Davey, Senior Clinical Psychologist, trauma specialist, and adult ADHD expert. Dr. Davey shares both personal and professional insights into how unresolved trauma can amplify ADHD symptoms, especially in women, and why understanding this connection is vital for healing and long-term wellbeing.Dr. Davey discusses her own ADHD diagnosis following a stillbirth, which deeply shaped her clinical perspective. Together, we explore how trauma, especially “small t” traumas like chronic stress or emotional invalidation, can go unrecognised but significantly impact mental health and functioning.Throughout the episode, Dr. Davey emphasises the need for trauma-informed, ADHD-aware care and the benefits of therapies like EMDR and somatic work in processing trauma.What You'll Learn in This Episode:✨ How trauma (both “big T” and “small t”) can worsen ADHD symptoms in women✨ The emotional toll of undiagnosed ADHD and its link to complex PTSD (cPTSD)✨ Delayed ADHD diagnosis in women, often triggered by grief or life stressors✨ The generational impact of undiagnosed ADHD in families✨ Why validating emotional and relational trauma is key for ADHD support✨ How therapies like EMDR and somatic work can help process trauma✨ The importance of ADHD-aware, trauma-informed therapy✨ Why remote therapy offers accessible, ADHD-friendly mental health careTimestamps:
✨ PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK, THE ADHD WOMEN'S WELLBEING TOOLKIT HERE! ✨In this week's episode, we shift the focus from labels to brain health. Dr. Asad Rafi, psychiatrist and ADHD specialist, joins me to answer a listener's powerful question about recognising ADHD at 60 — and whether it's ADHD or natural cognitive ageing.You'll also hear from Lucinda Miller. As clinical lead of the NatureDoc team, with over 25 years of experience as a naturopath and qualifications in Functional Medicine, Lucinda's book, Brain Brilliance, was published in August 2024. She discusses the significance of understanding how hormonal changes impact mental health and brain health.Together, we explore how age, hormones, and life experiences can impact our brain health, cognitive function, and why it's not always a straightforward ADHD diagnosis.What You'll Learn:✨ Why thinking about brain health, not just ADHD, is key to managing symptoms effectively✨ The difference between having features of ADHD and symptoms✨ How menopause and hormonal shifts can mimic or unmask ADHD✨ Why context and impact of ADHD symptoms throughout your life matter more than diagnosis checklists ✨ How to tell the difference between ADHD and natural cognitive changes ✨ Why brain fog isn't always ADHD, and why it matters to know the difference✨The specifics when it comes to nutrient levels like Iron and Zinc✨ How your brain chemicals affect your mental clarity✨ Eating to support your brain health and functionDr. Rafi offers a thoughtful, holistic approach to late-life neurodivergence, helping us ask: Has it always been there, or is something else going on?If you're navigating hormonal changes, questioning your focus, or wondering if ADHD fits, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a brain-first perspective.Timestamps:
Hiiiiiiii ADHD bestie BABES! Today we're sharing the recording of our VERY FIRST live podcast event (a few weeks ago) where we celebrated the launch of Grace's book The ADHD Focus Friend... AND reaching the amazing podcast milestone of 250K downloads! We had such a wonderful time meeting some of our gorgeous listeners in person and we can't wait to meet more of you in the near future!We discuss Grace's book The ADHD Focus Friend and why it's different to traditional productivity tools because it's designed for inconsistency, demand avoidance and messiness. Grace explains how the book design reduces the load on working memory and why productivity is connected emotional regulation and nervous system regulation.We get the tea on what she DIDN'T want to put in the book and why, as well as answer questions around PMDD, parenthood, working memory, RSD and so much more. RSD corner: Tara is RSDing that you can't see her making finger quotations when uses the phrase "acting normal" in reference to ND kids , but pls know she is.Sending you allll the love and if you RSD we will just be exceptionally mad so don't plzLots of loveeeee Tara and Grace! Xxx----------------------------
In this week's episode, Kate speaks with Rachel Morgan-Trimmer, a neurodiversity consultant, TEDx speaker, and author of How to Be Autistic: A Guide for the Newly Diagnosed. Together they explore the complex intersection of ADHD and autism, and what it means to truly support neurodivergent people at work and beyond.Rachel shares her journey of late diagnosis, burnout, and self-discovery, and unpacks the lesser-known ways mental and physical health can be affected when ADHD and autism go unsupported. They dive deep into the power of language, the harm of assumptions, and how workplaces can move from just “awareness” to real, sustainable inclusion through low-cost, high-impact interventions.What You'll Learn:✨ Why the overlap between ADHD and autism can feel confusing — especially for women✨ How internalised stigma, shame, and burnout can show up at work✨ What sustainable, inclusive systems for neurodiveristy look like in the workplace✨ How to support neurodivergent employees and be a better manager ✨ The role of passion, purpose, and flexibility in helping neurodivergent employees thrive✨ Why workplace inclusion must centre both health and performance✨ Why neurodiversity training is more in demand than ever✨ How changing the narrative from “not enough” to “full of potential” helps productivity and outcomes ✨ Rachel's personal experience riding the wave of ADHD and autism — and how she empowers others to be their authentic selvesTimestamps:
Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.Emilia McGuckin was surprised when a teacher suggested her son might have ADHD. As a teacher herself, she thought she would have spotted the signs. But after diving into the research, an even bigger surprise hit her: Could she have ADHD too?Emilia, a high school and college teacher, was hesitant to pursue an ADHD evaluation. She'd felt dismissed by medical providers in the past, an experience all too common for many women. But when she finally got diagnosed, everything started to make sense. What she once saw as “character flaws” or “personal failings” turned out to be overlooked symptoms of ADHD.Related resourcesIs ADHD hereditary? ADHD icebergTimestamps(01:10) Emilia's son's ADHD diagnosis(04:42) Hyperfocusing on ADHD to help her son, and realizing she has symptoms too(06:49) Apprehension about seeking an ADHD evaluation, after not being believed by doctors in the past(09:20) Feelings and coping after diagnosis(11:56) An “avalanche of ADHD” in the family(17:02) How Emilia and her son's diagnoses changed how she teaches(20:29) Busting ADHD mythsFor a transcript and more resources, visit the episode page on Understood.We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdaha@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Join health and science journalist Danielle Elliot as she investigates the rise of women recently diagnosed with ADHD. Listen to Climbing the Walls now.Many people with ADHD, especially women, consider themselves people pleasers. It can become a habit to start putting others first without thinking, even when it goes against what we really want. This can lead to some resentment down the line. This week on Tips from an ADHD Coach, Jaye talks about how pleasing others all the time can turn from selfless into self-serving. Listen for tips on what to do if we've spent our whole lives trying to please others at a cost to ourselves. Related resourcesADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD)Setting boundaries in relationships with ADHDCore values exerciseTimestamps(00:39) Laura's quote(03:08) ADHD and people pleasing(07:49) When people pleasing changes from selfless to self-serving(10:37) What can we do?(13:25) Recap For a transcript and more resources, visit the Tips from an ADHD Coach show page on Understood.org. We love hearing from our listeners! Email us at adhdcoachtips@understood.org. Understood.org is a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering people with learning and thinking differences, like ADHD and dyslexia. If you want to help us continue this work, donate at understood.org/give
Hey Team! Today's episode is all about navigating ADHD as a late-diagnosed adult—especially for women who have spent years pushing through life without realizing why things felt so much harder. I'm talking with Kate Moryoussef, a UK-based ADHD coach who was diagnosed at 40 and has since made it her mission to help women work with their brains, not against them. She hosts The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Podcast and her upcoming book is The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, where she dives deep into strategies for managing ADHD beyond just productivity hacks. In this conversation, we get into the realities of late diagnosis, why ADHD in women is often overlooked, and how hormones can throw an extra curveball into the mix. Kate shares her personal journey of discovering ADHD through her daughter's assessment, and we talk about how self-compassion, nervous system regulation, and finding the right support can make a huge difference. There's a lot here about understanding ADHD as a whole-body experience—not just something that affects focus or productivity. This is another one where I had the wrong mic set up, so apologizes for that. If you'd life to follow along on the show notes page you can find that at HackingYourADHD.com/218 YouTube Channel My Patreon Suscribe to the newsletter here! This Episode's Top Tips Especially for women, work on understanding the role of hormones. ADHD symptoms can intensify during certain phases of the menstrual cycle or perimenopause, and awareness of these fluctuations can help with better self-regulation. And, hey, ADHD men, you also have hormones that can fluctuate. Instead of constantly pushing yourself to meet neurotypical expectations, recognizing that ADHD comes with different needs can be a game-changer. Avoid forcing yourself into rigid productivity schedules, and try to recognize your natural rhythms to make work and life feel easier. Finding ADHD-friendly ways to approach tasks (instead of just trying to "be more disciplined") leads to better long-term success. You don't have to overhaul your entire life—focusing on little shifts, like setting boundaries or adjusting your expectations, can create lasting improvements.
Dr. Louise Newson is a physician, menopause specialist and member of the UK Government's Menopause Taskforce. She is also an award-winning doctor, educator, and Sunday Times best-selling author, committed to increasing awareness and knowledge of perimenopause and menopause. 00:00 Trailer 02:39 What will the audience learn in this episode 06:21 How hormones influence ADHD traits 13:30 How "in the dark" are women still about their own hormones 20:41 Tiimo advert 21:50 At what stage of the monthly hormone cycle is ADHD most manageable 27:03 How female contraception is affecting ADHD traits 28:41 The correlation between menopause and ADHD diagnoses's in women 30:48 Advice for ADHD women approaching menopause 40:55 The link between Emotional Dysregulation and Menopause 44:14 Hallowell Brain Health Advert 45:34 The link between AuDHD and hormones 50:26 The ADHD item 56:43 The ADHD agony aunt 01:01:30 A letter from the previous guest Find Dr. Louise Newson on Instagram
My new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, is available to order here.On this week's ADHD Women's Wellbeing 'Wisdom' episode, we revisit an interview I did with Dr. Miguel Toribio-Mateas, a clinical neuroscientist and nutrition researcher, to explore how food choices, stress management, and gut health influence executive function, sensory processing, and ADHD tendencies.As someone who personally navigates life with ADHD and autism, Dr. Miguel brings both scientific expertise and lived experience to the conversation, sharing practical, compassionate strategies to help you support your brain through nutrition.Throughout this conversation, we shared anecdotes from various projects, illustrating how different approaches can lead to unique outcomes. By collaborating with others and sharing ideas, we can enhance our creative process and produce assets that resonate with audiences on a deeper level. What You'll Learn:✨ How gut health directly impacts ADHD symptoms like focus, mood, and emotional regulation✨ The link between self-compassion and gut health (yes, being kinder to yourself can improve digestion!)To discover more about his transformative work and offerings, visit drmiguelmateas.com or connect with him on Instagram (@drmiguelmateas).Ready to swap burnout and overwhelm for balance and ease this spring? Join me for breakthrough ADHD Wellbeing Workshops and step into more compassionate self-acceptance. https://adhdwomenswellbeing.co.uk/adhd-womens-wellbeing-seriesFind Kate's popular online workshops and free resources here.Kate Moryoussef is a women's ADHD lifestyle and wellbeing coach and EFT practitioner who helps overwhelmed and unfulfilled newly diagnosed ADHD women find more calm, balance, hope, health, compassion, creativity and clarity. Follow the podcast on Instagram.Follow Kate on Instagram.Takeaways: We discussed the importance of being adaptable in our ever-changing world, especially in business. Communication is key; we emphasized how clear dialogue can prevent misunderstandings. Setting realistic goals helps us stay focused and makes it easier to track our progress. We explored various strategies for time management that can boost productivity effectively. Building a supportive network is crucial; we shared tips on how to connect with others. Embracing failure as a learning opportunity can lead to greater long-term success. Mentioned in this episode:Gratitude link