The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver

Welcome back to another episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's show, Lori and David dive into a challenge faced by many blended families: What happens when one partner feels that their stepchild is being disrespectful, and the biological parent doesn't step in? Kicking things off with a listener's heartfelt question, Lori and David unpack the complexities of stepkids shouting or insulting their stepparent and stepsibling, as well as the tension that arises when boundaries and respect are on the line. Throughout the episode, they discuss practical strategies for handling disrespect without overstepping boundaries, the importance of focusing on your own responses, and how to talk to your partner about these challenging issues without stirring up more conflict. The hosts also highlight why sibling (and step-sibling) rivalry can sometimes be just as much about building bonds as it is about butting heads, and why letting kids work out their differences can lead to healthier relationships in the long run. Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or somewhere in between, today's episode offers real-life insights and actionable advice on navigating respect and boundaries in a blended family. Grab your headphones and get ready to "nacho" your way to a happier home! In this episode, we discuss: Nacho Parenting Philosophy in Conflict Scenarios Responding to Disrespect from Stepchildren Perceptions of Respect and Boundaries Stepparent vs. Biological Parent Discipline Dynamics Navigating Sibling and Stepsibling Relationships Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: "Nacho Kids Academy saved my sanity and my marriage. It took a little while because my husband wasn't happy with me Nachoing. He didn't understand it. But once he saw the positive changes from my Nachoing, he couldn't deny that Nachoing was changing things for the better.” ~ Ellison - Happy stepmom in TX  

On today's episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with  "Bookworm Stepmom," for a heartfelt and engaging conversation about navigating the highs and lows of blended family life. Stepmom opens up about her journey from single and childless to stepmom of two girls and mom to two more young children, one of whom is autistic. They dig into the realities of co-parenting with an ex, maintaining balance in a blended household, and how stepmom's personal experiences as a stepchild shape her compassionate approach to stepmotherhood. From honest discussions about the challenges of special needs parenting and managing finances for the future, to candid stories about family dynamics, Bookworm Stepmom shares wisdom, humor, and practical tips for anyone in a blended family. Whether you're a stepparent, bio parent, or just love an honest family story, this episode is packed with lessons and laughs you won't want to miss! In this episode, we discuss: Expanding the family with "ours" kids Dealing with high-conflict and jealousy Navigating divorce, affairs, and co-parenting Parenting Special Needs ("Ours") Child Financial planning and inheritance in Blended Families Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: I Didn't Need to Leave - I Just Needed to Nacho I was emotionally exhausted, constantly fighting invisible battles in my own home. My stepkids ignored me, my partner seemed stuck in the middle, and every day felt like I was losing a piece of myself. I thought the only way to find peace was to leave. Then I found the Nacho Kids Academy. At first, I was skeptical - how could not parenting actually help? But the step-by-step guidance, real-life examples, and support inside the Academy opened my eyes. I learned how to let go of the responsibilities that were never mine to begin with. I stopped trying to fix things I didn't break. And I finally started healing. The results? Less tension. More laughter. A stronger marriage. And oddly enough, a better connection with my stepkids now that I've stepped back. Nachoing didn't mean giving up. It meant choosing peace—and I'll never look back. If you're struggling, this isn't just a course. It's a lifeline." ~ Jessica T. - A now happy stepmom! Thanks Nacho!      

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this heartfelt and relatable episode, hosts David and Lori dive into the annual struggle of graduation ticket allocations. With only a handful of coveted seats for high school and college ceremonies, blended and extended families are often left negotiating who gets a spot in the audience—and who doesn't. Through personal stories and a bit of humor, David and Lori explore the emotional minefield that limited tickets can create for parents, step-parents, grandparents, and, most importantly, the graduates themselves. They emphasize the importance of keeping the celebration focused on the students and share creative ideas for making everyone feel included, even if they can't physically be at the ceremony. Whether it's planning an after-party or tuning in to a livestream, they remind listeners that graduation is about honoring the kids without piling on extra stress. Join them as they navigate one of the tricky realities of modern family life. In this episode, we discuss: Graduation Ticket Challenges Emotional Impact on Graduates and Families Solutions When Tickets are Limited Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: "Before finding Nacho Kids Academy, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. I loved my husband, but the constant tension with his kids and the drama with the ex was tearing me apart. I felt like I was walking on eggshells in my own home, trying to parent kids who didn't want me there. Joining Nacho Kids Academy was a game-changer. I learned how to step back without stepping away, how to Nacho the things that weren't my responsibility and focus on my relationship with my husband and myself. The coaching calls, the community, the step-by-step layers, it all gave me tools I didn't even know I needed. Now, my home feels peaceful again. I can show up as a loving partner without feeling like I'm constantly battling for space or respect. And the best part? My relationship with my stepkids has actually improved because I'm no longer forcing something that wasn't working. If you're a stepparent feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or ready to give up, please, do yourself a favor and join Nacho Kids Academy. It saved my marriage and my sanity." - Sarah M., Stepmom of 2  

In this enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we explore the fascinating world of stepfamilies in American history with our special guest, Lisa Wilson, the esteemed author of "A History of Stepfamilies in Early America." Lisa shares her journey of uncovering the untold stories and patterns of stepfamilies, reflecting on her personal experiences as a member of such a family. Delving into historical dynamics, Lisa discusses how the perception and roles within stepfamilies have evolved over centuries, from the challenges of integrating into what was once an emotionally-focused family model to combating age-old prejudices against stepmothers. Lori and David, our hosts, invite listeners to a thoughtful conversation about the societal shifts that have affected family structures, highlighting the continuity of certain challenges stepfamilies face today, reminiscent of those from the 18th century. They touch on topics like the legal rights of step-parents, the economic considerations of remarriage, and even the portrayal of stepparents in popular culture. Join us as we navigate this intriguing historical landscape, uncovering insights that resonate with modern stepfamilies and fostering a greater understanding of how these blended households have always been a fundamental part of the American family fabric. In this episode, we discuss: Historical context of stepfamilies Stepparents' challenges and shifts in family dynamics Societal perceptions and misconceptions Modern Community and family structures Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: “I thought I had tried everything. Books, blogs, even therapy, but nothing helped me feel less like an outsider in my own home. Then I found Nacho Kids Academy. Within weeks, the stress in our home dropped dramatically. I finally understood that I didn't have to fix everything or be the 'bonus mom of the year.' I learned how to support my partner without losing myself. The daily tension? Gone. The constant guilt? Lifted. The relationship with my stepkids isn't perfect, but for the first time, it's not painful. Nacho Kids gave me my peace and my power back.”- Sarah M., Stepmom of 3 and Proud Nacho'er  

Welcome to this episode of the NK Podcast, where hosts Lori and David dive into the intricacies of celebrating Easter within stepfamilies. The holiday season can be a delightful time, but it also brings unique challenges when navigating custody schedules and traditions in blended families. In this episode, Lori and David share personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to manage these situations, offering creative solutions for celebrating Easter, even if it's not on the traditional date. They'll also discuss the importance of setting and respecting court-ordered holiday arrangements and the concept of life not always being 'fair' – a valuable lesson for kids in stepfamilies. Whether it's creating new family traditions or creatively handling gift-giving, Lori and David provide insightful tips for a harmonious holiday experience. So, grab a cup of coffee, sit back, and let's explore how to navigate Easter in a stepfamily with grace and flexibility.

Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, hosts Lori and David welcome the insightful Karen McNenny, also known as the Good Divorce Coach. Karen joins us to challenge the traditional narrative of divorce as a conflict-ridden process. She introduces the concept of a 'good divorce,' presenting it as a tool, rather than a weapon, to transform family dynamics positively. Karen shares her personal journey and the genesis of her coaching business, emphasizing the importance of reshaping the divorce experience to focus on protecting future relationships, especially for those who co-parent. Tune in as we explore how thoughtful, intentional divorce processes can lead to a more harmonious family structure, even across two homes. Get ready to shift your perspective on divorce and discover how this transformation can ease not only the divorce process but also foster a healthier blended family dynamic. Enjoy the show! In this episode, we discuss: Concept of a Good Divorce Parenting and Communication Post-Divorce Introduction of New Partners Maintaining Healthy Boundaries Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: I Thought Divorce Was the Only Option "I thought my marriage was doomed. My wife and I couldn't agree on anything when it came to her kids. Every argument ended with one of us saying, ‘Maybe this just isn't going to work.' Then we found Nacho Kids. I realized that my role wasn't to discipline or fix anything - it was to support my wife as she parents her kids. The shift in our home was almost instant. The tension disappeared. The kids were happier, my wife wasn't stuck in the middle, and I could actually enjoy being in my own home again. If we hadn't found Nacho Kids, we wouldn't be together today. It's that simple.” - Mike R., Virginia, USA

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the often misunderstood concept of "nacho parenting." They start by addressing a common question: Does nachoing mean ignoring your stepkids? Lori shares her own journey of using nacho parenting to navigate difficult dynamics with her stepchildren, emphasizing that it's more about choosing not to engage rather than ignoring. Lori and David explain how this approach helped improve their family interactions. With anecdotes and guidance, Lori and David provide a deeper understanding of how nacho parenting can lead to healthier and happier blended families. Join them as they dispel myths and offer strategies to help stepfamilies thrive. In this episode, we discuss: Importance of Not Engaging Emotional Management Flexibility in Nacho Parenting Handling Disrespect from Stepkids You never Nacho safety Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: I Was at My Breaking Point - Nacho Saved My Life "I don't say this lightly—Nacho Parenting saved my life. I was drowning in anxiety and depression because I felt like a failure as a stepmom. No matter what I did, I was met with rejection, and it ate away at my self-worth. I started having thoughts that scared me. That's when I found Nacho Kids. It completely changed how I saw my role. I stopped trying to be someone I wasn't meant to be and learned to set healthy emotional boundaries. For the first time in years, I feel free. I feel like myself again. And because I took care of myself, my marriage and stepfamily relationships have improved naturally. Nacho Kids didn't just save my marriage—it saved me.” - Jessica K.

Hey, Nacho Parents! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind story of a step couple who faced some major challenges blending their families. They've got a history that goes way back, but things got complicated when their relationship rekindled as an affair. Now, they're dealing with the fallout, especially with one of the kids knowing about the affair. The catch? This kid has no idea that her mom actually cheated first, causing a whole lot of tension and misunderstandings. Join us as we break down how this couple is managing to mend relationships, navigate the truths and misconceptions, and work towards a harmonious future together. You won't want to miss this one! In this episode, we discuss: Lies cause damage Disagreements on household rules and enforcement Consequences of affairs on family dynamics Do you set the record straight? Should you tell your kid the truth about your ex - their bio parent? Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: “I Was Ready to Walk Away—Now We're Stronger Than Ever” "Before I found Nacho Kids, I was on the verge of leaving my marriage. The resentment, the constant fights over parenting, and feeling like an outsider in my own home had worn me down. I thought I had to be a ‘parent' to my stepkids, but all it did was create conflict and push me further from my husband. Learning to Nacho gave me permission to step back, focus on my marriage, and let go of what wasn't mine to fix. Now, instead of fighting over stepfamily issues, my husband and I are a team again. This method didn't just save my marriage—it saved my sanity.” ~ Emily S. - USA  

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids podcast! In this episode, titled "Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms/Stepfamilies," hosts David and Lori dive into the complex dynamics of navigating Mother's Day as a stepparent. With Mother's Day just around the corner, they tackle the often-sensitive issue of unmet expectations and the potential for hurt feelings. Lori and David offer practical advice for stepparents on setting boundaries and communicating desires with their partners, the importance of self-care, and how to embrace Stepmother's Day. The hosts also explore the pitfalls of comparison and emphasize the significance of creating one's happiness. So, join David and Lori as they bring a mix of heartfelt insights and light-hearted banter, aimed to make this Mother's Day a cherished occasion for everyone involved. In this episode, we discuss: Navigating expectations as a stepmom on Mother's Day Stepmother's Day Focusing on yourself Avoiding comparisons Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: The Stepmom Who Thought 'Nachoing' Meant Ignoring "At first, I thought Nachoing meant just ignoring my stepkids, but Nacho Kids Academy taught me that it's really about setting boundaries, respecting my role, and creating a healthier family dynamic. Once I stepped back, I was shocked at how much better my marriage and my relationship with my stepkids became. It turns out, they actually like me better when I'm not trying to parent them!" ~ Amanda R.  

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes Mae, a stepmom navigating the challenging dynamics of her blended family. Mae lives with her partner, their two-year-old child, and her partner's kids—a 13-year-old girl and a 10-year-old boy. Mae shares the trials she's faced stepping into a maternal role, dealing with stepchildren full-time due to their mother's sporadic involvement. Tune in as she candidly discusses the struggle of balancing her partner's expectations, managing her stepson's anger issues, and finding harmony through the Nacho Kids method. Whether you're a new stepmom or have been in the role for years, Mae's story offers relatable insights and genuine conversation about creating a cohesive family. Join us as we dive into these real-life stories, real people, and real help in blending families!   In this episode, we discuss: Behavioral Challenges with Stepson Challenges of Disengagement Managing Emotions and Responsibilities Honesty and Family Conversations Future Concerns and Stepson's Behavior Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: The High-Conflict Ex Situation "My stepkids' mom made our lives miserable. It felt like everything I did was wrong, and my husband was stuck in the middle. After joining Nacho Kids Academy, I stopped trying to compete with their mom and started focusing on my own peace. The drama doesn't affect me like it used to, and my husband and I are finally on the same page. This program saved my sanity!" ~ Kara L., KY, USA  

In this milestone episode of the NK Podcast, we're celebrating our 300th episode! Join hosts Lori and David as they reflect on five and a half years of podcasting, sharing their journey and the valuable lessons they've learned along the way. From the challenges and joys of blending families to the unexpected twists and turns of stepfamily life, Lori and David dive deep into their personal experiences. They share heartwarming stories of growth and transformation, emphasizing the importance of resilience and adaptability in the face of change. Tune in to hear how the Nacho Kids method has helped them navigate the complexities of stepfamily life and how their podcasting journey has not only impacted their lives but also touched the hearts of listeners around the world. This special episode is a testament to the power of perseverance, connection, and the shared goal of creating better blended family experiences. In this episode, we discuss: Reflection on Consistency and Challenges Adult Children Moving Back In Family Gatherings and Dynamics Distance in Relationships Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories: The Stepparent with Adult Bio Kids & Younger Stepkids I raised my kids to adulthood, so I thought I knew what I was doing when I married my husband, who still had young kids. I quickly realized step-parenting is NOTHING like regular parenting! Nacho Kids Academy gave me the tools to step back, respect my husband's role as their dad, and focus on supporting rather than controlling. Now, instead of stress and resentment, our home feels more like a partnership! - Debbie W.  

In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of the NK Podcast, we're joined by stepmom Whitney, who revisits her story after first appearing on the podcast three and a half years ago. Whitney shares an incredible journey that showcases resilience, compassion, and the power of relationships in the midst of adversity. As a stepmom with no biological children and a 17-year-old stepdaughter, Whitney recounts her experience of supporting her stepdaughter's mother through a terminal cancer diagnosis. This candid conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, the emotional challenges of navigating a blended family, and the unexpected bond that formed between Whitney and her stepdaughter's mother. Join hosts Lori and David Sims as they explore Whitney's remarkable story of love, strength, and the unexpected paths life can take. Don't miss this episode, which is sure to resonate with anyone who has faced life's challenges with an open heart.

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, Lori and David dive into a critical conversation about the challenges and misconceptions faced by stepparents. They explore three common phrases that should never be uttered to a stepparent. First, the hosts debunk the idea that stepparents knew what they were getting into when joining a blended family, emphasizing the unexpected trials involved. Next, they tackle the unrealistic expectation that stepparents should love their stepchildren like their own, highlighting the unique dynamics and relationships within a family. Finally, Lori and David clarify the misconception that stepparents are "parents too," discussing the complexity of roles within a blended family. Join us as we uncover some hard truths and foster understanding and empathy for stepparents navigating these complex relationships. So, stay tuned for an enlightening episode filled with candid discussions and relatable insights! In this episode, we discuss: General Discussion on Expectations in Life and Relationships Clarification and Healthy Expectations in Stepparent-Child Relationships Understanding Unrealistic Expectations The Complexity of Roles Guarding Against Harmful Assumptions: Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I thought since I had kids of my own and grew up in a stepfamily that I knew how to be a stepdad. Wrong. My wife and I fought constantly about discipline, boundaries, and how we should treat all the kids ‘equally.' Nacho Kids Academy helped me realize that ‘equal' isn't always ‘fair' and that my role in my stepkids' lives wasn't to be their dad. Once I stopped trying to force things, our home became so much calmer. The biggest surprise? My stepkids actually started coming to me on their own! We owe you so much, Lori & David!" - James T.  

In today's episode, host Lori welcomes Raffi Bilek, a marriage counselor based in Baltimore and the author of "The Couple's Communication Handbook: The Skills You Never Learned for the Marriage You Always Wanted." Raffi shares his experiences working with couples and emphasizes the importance of effective communication in relationships. He discusses cultural differences in communication, how childhood influences our communicative skills, and the challenges couples face when navigating conversations about money, expectations, and parenting in stepfamilies. Throughout the conversation, Raffi offers insights into improving dialogue and understanding within relationships, underlining the significance of empathy and active listening as keys to resolving conflicts and building stronger connections. Join us as we dive into these essential topics and learn how to enhance communication in our personal lives. In this episode, we discuss: Communication Skills Expectations and Conflict Empathy and Understanding Emotional Regulation Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: Stepmom and Bio Mom "Blending families is HARD. I didn't understand why my husband treated my kids differently than his, and I was constantly frustrated that his kids got away with things mine never would. Nacho Kids Academy completely changed my perspective. Instead of comparing, I started focusing on what I could control—my own parenting and my relationship with my husband. The difference has been incredible. My stress level has dropped, and I don't feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells anymore!" - Rachel M.  

Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother. We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother. We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in! In this episode, we discuss: Emotional Turmoil Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation Nacho Kids testimonial: Transforming Our Family "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I've built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.

Welcome to NK Podcast Shared, Episode 294. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother. We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother. We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in! In this episode, we discuss: Emotional Turmoil and Stepdaughter's Relationship Progression Managing Social Media and Family Privacy Emotional and Logistical Complexities Parental Alienation Nacho Kids testimonial: Transforming Our Family "The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I've built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" – Sarah T.

Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori dives into the intricate world of step-parenting and maintaining a harmonious blended family. Join her as she chats with Jessica, a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate from North Texas, who shares her journey of being a full-time stepmom to a 10-year-old while navigating the complexities of a custody battle and fostering a positive co-parenting dynamic. Jessica emphasizes the power of not taking things personally to reduce stress and negativity and the benefits of using Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) to build trust and stability within her family. As she discusses the challenges and strategies involved in blending families, Jessica provides invaluable insights into maintaining a neutral role, fostering empathy, and creating lasting family rituals to strengthen bonds. Tune in for practical advice on intentional parenting, self-awareness, and effective communication, all aimed at providing stability and joy in blended family dynamics. And of course, don't miss the hosts' light-hearted closing where they remind us, "Life is good when you nacho." Let's get started! In this episode, we discuss: Not Taking Things Personally Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) Supportive Partner in Stepparenting Self-work and Personal Healing Stepparent Boundaries and Support Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "Joining Nacho Kids Academy was the best decision I've made for my stepfamily. I was overwhelmed, frustrated, and feeling like a complete outsider in my own home. I tried everything — and nothing seemed to work. The constant tension with my stepkids and even with my partner was taking a toll on me. But when I found Nacho Kids Academy, everything changed. Lori and David's guidance helped me understand that I didn't have to control everything. I learned to step back, take a breath, and let go of things that weren't my responsibility. The method taught me how to respond instead of react, and I finally started to find peace in my role as a stepparent. I've gone from feeling resentful and exhausted to calm, confident, and in control of my emotions. My relationship with my partner has improved drastically, and my home is no longer filled with constant conflict. The support inside the academy has been a lifeline. The resources, Q&A calls, and community have made me feel seen and understood. If you're a stepparent struggling to find your place, stop searching — Nacho Kids Academy is what you need. It's not just a method; it's a life-changer." - Lucy R., Nacho Kids Academy Member 

Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! Today we dive into episode NKP290 with our special guest, Kim Early. Join us as Kim shares her profound journey through the complexities of modern behavior, spiritual growth, and the challenging dynamics of blended families. Kim brings her unique philosophy, advocating for the removal of polarizing concepts like right and wrong, and highlights the importance of personal choices and spiritual reckoning. Kim opens up about overcoming initial animosity towards her stepson's mother, revealing how she sought peace and enlightenment amidst conflict. She discusses shifting negative thinking patterns, the essence of self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and spreading kindness through community work. We delve into the intricacies of family dynamics, from managing holiday schedules to the emotional strains of step-parenting. Kim shares her challenges and triumphs, including her experiences with strained relationships and maintaining positive energy. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to leave you inspired and contemplative. Let's jump right in!   In this episode, we discuss: Philosophy on Right/Wrong Mindset and Growth Boundaries and Self-Love Handling Social Media Conflicts Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "I didn't realize how much stress I was putting on myself trying to discipline my stepkids. Nachoing showed me that it's okay to let the biological parent handle the parenting while I focus on being a positive influence. It's been a huge relief, and I've noticed the kids respect me more now." ~ Mark L., Stepfather of 3  

Welcome to another insightful episode of NK Podcast, where we dive into navigating the complex dynamics of stepfamilies during the holiday season. In this episode, Lori sits down with Claudette Chenover, a seasoned stepmom coach, to discuss the common challenges and emotional hurdles that come with gift-giving and family traditions in blended families. Claudette shares personal anecdotes, including a poignant moment when her sister's exclusionary gift-giving upset her stepdaughters. They talk about the importance of fairness, managing expectations, and how thoughtful, handmade gifts often create lasting memories. You'll hear practical tips on budgeting, balancing family dynamics, and embracing experiences over material gifts to foster connection and joy. Whether you're shopping for gifts or planning festive activities, this episode offers invaluable advice to ensure your holiday season is filled with warmth and togetherness without the stress. Tune in as we delve into creating meaningful family experiences and keeping the holiday spirit alive in every member of your blended family. In this episode we discuss: Navigating Holidays as a Stepfamily Stepparent Dynamics and Gift Challenges Establishing Family Traditions in Blended Families Gift Expectations Fairness Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Success Story: “A Fresh Start for Our Blended Family” "We were struggling to blend our families and felt like we were failing as a couple. Nacho Kids Academy gave us practical tools to manage our roles, communicate better, and reduce the stress in our home. Now, we feel like we're finally thriving as a team." — David and Lauren P., Married 4 years  

In this heartwarming and humorous episode of NK Podcast Shared, host Lori is joined by the insightful Laura Petherbridge, also known as "The Smart Stepmom." Join them as they navigate the complex dynamics of blended families during the holiday season. Lori humorously reflects on how blended family experiences have contributed to her gray hair and general aging, even joking about needing a plastic surgeon who offers discounts for stepmoms. Together, they delve into the significance of self-care, the value of laughter, and the importance of maintaining realistic expectations to manage stress and disappointment. Whether discussing the intricacies of gift-giving, the emotional impact of holiday music, or the critical need to prioritize real-life connections over social media, Lori and Laura offer practical advice sprinkled with wit and wisdom. They also address the persistent challenges faced by stepfamilies, from navigating holiday schedules to maintaining fairness among children. Tune in and discover why, as Lori puts it, "Life is good. When you nacho." In this episode, we discuss: Self-care and Managing Stress Fairness in Gift-Giving Managing Blended Family Holiday Schedules Handling Emotional Triggers and Nostalgia Holiday Considerations  Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “Stepping Back Was the Best Thing I Did” "I thought I needed to parent my stepkids for our family to work, but it only caused fights and stress. Nacho Kids taught me that stepping back doesn't mean not caring—it means creating healthier relationships. Now, I focus on being a supportive partner, and my relationship with my stepkids has actually improved!" — Michelle H., Stepmom of 2  

Welcome to the NK Podcast Shared! In episode 285, Lori sits down with Becky, a stepmom navigating the intricacies of her second blended family. Lori and Becky delve into the challenges and emotional landscape of co-parenting with a partner's ex-spouse, particularly when negative influences and controlling behaviors emerge. They explore meaningful strategies for establishing healthy boundaries, maintaining positive interactions with stepchildren, and prioritizing the well-being of the family unit amidst turmoil. Listen in as Becky candidly shares her journey through past relationships marked by infidelity and deceit, the adjustments faced blending families, and her commitment to staying supportive yet respectfully detached. Discover how Becky navigates her roles while ensuring that her contributions bolster the child's environment positively. This episode offers invaluable insights for anyone dealing with complex family dynamics, emphasizing the significance of boundaries, communication, and prioritizing relationship health. Stay tuned to hear more about Becky's path to rediscovering her sense of self, overcoming obstacles, and maintaining stability in a blended family setting. Plus, don't miss the details on our upcoming meet and greet in Scottsdale, Arizona, on December 7th. Join us for an enlightening conversation you won't want to miss! In this episode we discuss:  Reluctance to marry Past relationships and trust issues Communication and Boundaries When bio mom bashes stepmom to the kids Nacho Kids Testimonial: “A Must for Every Stepparent” "I didn't know how to set boundaries with my stepkids or how to communicate effectively with my partner about it. Nacho Kids Academy taught me how to do both in ways that have improved our household dynamics. I recommend this to every stepparent who is struggling to find their place without overstepping!" — Melanie G., Academy member for 6 months  

Welcome to NK Podcast Shared, Episode 284! In today's episode, host Lori sits down with guest Brian Peterson to dive deep into the financial intricacies of blended families. Brian, with over 16 years of experience in financial planning and a personal background in blended family dynamics, offers invaluable insights into managing finances. They discuss the advantages of placing land in trusts, the importance of financial transparency, and strategies to handle the complex finances of blended families. Lori shares personal anecdotes about maintaining financial independence and the emotional challenges that accompany it, while Brian shares his journey from military service to financial planning, and the unique financial solutions his firm offers to blended families. Don't miss out on their candid conversation about maintaining family bonds, balancing financial responsibilities, and navigating the emotional landscapes of loss and new beginnings. Plus, Lori has a special invitation for listeners in Scottsdale, Arizona—you won't want to miss it. So, tune in and learn how to make "Life good when you nacho"!   In this episode, we discuss: Blended Families and Finances Financial Arrangements in Relationships Financial Independence Financial Communication Financial and Family Planning Tools   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “My sister-in-law told me about Nacho at a family reunion. She saw me trying to help the stepkids and the attitudes they gave me, and then the resulting stress it caused me. She simply said, “I heard about this Nacho thing for stepparents. Check it out. It might help you.” I am so thankful I did! And I decided to join the Academy because what better way to learn about it. I am still in shock of how this changed our family! Everyone is much more at peace and I'm finally happy after seven years of stepfamily misery!” A.Q.  

Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, host Lori delves into a vital discussion on the increasing role of mediation and technology in reducing the stress of parental disputes during divorce and separation. Joined by our expert guest, they explore the importance of keeping children's best interests at heart while navigating the complexities of family law. We'll highlight the growing trend of parents opting for out-of-court conflict resolution, the challenges faced by those representing themselves due to financial constraints, and the critical need for judges to acknowledge personal aspects of each case beyond mere attorney interactions. Much of our conversation focuses on "Our Family Wizard," an app designed to streamline co-parenting communication. We'll examine its plethora of features, from unalterable messaging to expense management and audio/video calls, all aimed at reducing misunderstandings and fostering cooperative co-parenting. Lori reflects on her personal experience, sharing anecdotes about how improvements in communication tools could have eased her past co-parenting struggles. Additionally, we touch on legal complexities, the importance of clear court orders, and practical communication techniques like the BIFF method to handle high-conflict situations effectively. Whether you're a parent going through a separation or interested in family law, this episode provides valuable insights and practical tips to navigate these challenging waters. Tune in to discover how innovation and empathy can transform co-parenting and reduce litigation stress. In this episode, we discuss: "Our Family Wizard" App Communication in Co-Parenting Legal Documentation and Order Writing Technology in Legal Agreements Nacho Success Story: “The Support I Didn't Know I Needed” "I wasn't sure if Nacho Kids Academy was for me, but it ended up being exactly what I needed. The guided content gave me practical steps to take, and the group calls offered a place to share and get advice. It's made me a better husband and father, and I feel more confident in my role as a stepdad." — Jason H  

Welcome to Episode 282 of NK Podcast! In this insightful episode, hosts David and Lori are joined by returning guest Mikel Van Cleve, a certified financial planner with a focus on blended family dynamics.  Mikel was previously on episode 273 where he discussed his blended family experience. Today, we delve deep into the intricacies of estate planning, financial transparency, and the unique challenges faced by blended families. Mikel shares his expert advice on finding qualified estate attorneys and financial planners who truly understand the complexities involved.  We'll explore topics such as the importance of having clear estate documents, preventing unintentional disinheritance, the emotional sensitivities in blended families, and practical tips for managing joint and separate finances. Mikel also touches on his ongoing research into financial infidelity and wealth transfer within blended families, offering listeners credible resources for further guidance. Lastly, join Lori and David as they announce their upcoming visit to Scottsdale, Arizona, and invite listeners to connect with them. With humor and valuable insights, this episode aims to equip you with the knowledge to navigate the financial and emotional terrain of blended families. Don't miss out!   In this episode, we discuss: Importance of using a financial planner with blended family experience Discussions to have with your partner sooner rather than later What's fair/equal Communication is key Updating estate documents  Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “Helped Me Understand My Role as a Stepfather” "Being a stepfather is tough, especially when you're trying to figure out where you fit in. Nacho Kids Academy helped me understand my role and gave me the tools to communicate better with my wife and her kids. It's been a huge help in reducing the stress in our family and strengthening my relationship with my wife." — David K., Stepfather of 2  

Welcome to episode 281 of the NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, hosts David and Lori take us on an introspective journey as they reflect on their complex and often tumultuous path of blending their family. From personal stories about negotiating relationships with stepchildren, coping with emotional and physical health crises, and the innovative concept of "Nachoing," they reveal the raw, real side of navigating blended family dynamics. They recount their own experiences, from the optimism at the start of their marriage to the breaking points that almost led them to divorce, and how they found hope and healing through intentional disengagement and personal growth. In this episode we discuss: How Nacho Kids came about Stepfamily struggles Finding hope in darkness Self-development Nacho Parenting Success Story: "I am so thankful I found this before we got married. It helped us so much with addressing issues that we never would have thought of. It helped us identify our expectations of each other and expectations of our roles in the blend. We are eternally grateful for Nacho Parenting and the Nacho Kids Academy! " ~ S.D.

Welcome back to the NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori is joined by returning guest Keri to dive deep into the complexities of modern family dynamics, focusing on blended families. Lori starts by sharing her feelings about having a different last name from her son, Jackson, and the emotional weight it carries. Keri opens up about her joy in changing her name after marriage for family unity, and they explore the evolving perspectives on last names and identity. The conversation also tackles the challenging dynamics that come with being a step-parent, highlighting Keri's experiences and insights. Together, they discuss the emotional rollercoasters, the importance of communication, and the delicate balance of fairness between biological children and stepchildren. Keri reflects on her own childhood with separated parents, revealing how her upbringing shaped her current parenting style. In this episode, we discuss: Being an ours kid When parents reconcile Challenges of a split family Nacho Parenting Success Story: "My sister told me about Nacho Kids when I told her how I hated my stepfamily life. She actually paid for me to join the Academy for a year. I am so thankful she did this. I am finally happy in my blend and know how to navigate the challenges we face, thanks to Nacho!!" ~ E.W.

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, host Lori chats with Michaela Bucchianari, "The Anxious Stepmom." Learn more about Michaela's journey of navigating anxiety, from her professional expertise as a clinical psychologist to her real-life experiences as a stepmom. Listen as Michaela shares how her skills-focused approach transformed her perspective on stepmotherhood, making it an enjoyable part of her life. You'll hear about Lori and Michaela's relatable stories of panic attacks, blending families, and the unexpected challenges that come with stepfamily dynamics. Together, they explore practical tips for managing anxiety, the importance of a supportive network, and the power of shifting your mindset from solving problems to developing skills. Plus, don't miss the unique tools and techniques Michaela uses to stay grounded and resilient, even in the face of public anxiety episodes. In this episode, we discuss: Anxiety Management Blended Family Progression Managing External Pressures Personal Growth in Stepfamily Dynamics Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “As a child of divorce, I thought I knew how stepfamilies run and What I was getting into. Boy was I wrong. I was so frustrated and hated my stepmom life until I found this Nacho parenting. In just a short time, I felt less stressed and there were noticeable changes for the good in our home. I'm only a few weeks in as a member of the academy, I'm so excited to see what the future holds!” ~ J.N.  

Welcome to NK Podcast 278. In this episode, titled "Between Two Homes ~ Bradley Craig Part II," we're thrilled to continue our enlightening conversation with Bradley S. Craig, author of "Between 2 Homes." Bradley, a mediator and family dynamics expert, dives deep into the intricacies of co-parenting, our terminology, and the evolving structures of blended families. Lori and Bradley discuss why he prefers the term "period of responsibility" over "period of possession." We unpack the concept of "nesting," explore the roles of step-parents, and examine how nuanced language impacts family relationships. Bradley shares his advocacy for transformative mediation and practical approaches to conflict resolution, emphasizing the importance of consistent parental involvement and respectful communication. Whether you're a parent navigating co-parenting challenges, a mediator seeking new strategies, or interested in family dynamics, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice to support healthy, cooperative family environments. So, tune in as we explore the complexities and sensitivities of modern parenting with Bradley S. Craig.   In this episode, we discuss: Having a Victim Mentality Terminology Impact Emotional Burden on Children Parentification and Child Development Strategies for High-Conflict Co-Parenting   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “My sister-in-law told me about Nacho at a family reunion. She saw me trying to help the stepkids and the attitudes they gave me, and then the resulting stress it caused me. She simply said, “I heard about this Nacho thing for stepparents. Check it out. It might help you.” I am so thankful I did! And I decided to join the Academy because what better way to learn about it. I am still in shock of how this changed our family! Everyone is much more at peace and I'm finally happy after seven years of stepfamily misery!” A.Q.  

Welcome to NK Podcast 277, where we dive deep into the complexities of blended families, co-parenting, and everything in between. In today's episode,  Lori has the pleasure of speaking with esteemed guest Bradley S Craig, a Licensed Master Social Worker and Certified Family Life Educator, known for his insightful book Between 2 Homes. Today's conversation ranges from the nuanced roles of stepparents to the intricacies of custody modifications, all the way through effective co-parenting techniques and the societal impact of blended family dynamics. This interview was so full of information we had to split it up into two parts!  We explore the often misunderstood influence of stepmoms, the implications of custody change requests post-remarriage, and the significance of terminology with terms like "bonus mom" and "nesting." Bradley shares his wisdom on maintaining consistent family dynamics, avoiding common pitfalls in high-conflict co-parenting situations, and adopting a professional mindset for better child welfare. We'll also discuss practical tools like the "Our Family Wizard" app, the pressures societal norms place on stepfamilies, and Bradley's recommendations for effective co-parent communication. This is not just a theoretical discussion; Bradley also brings in his personal experiences and professional insights, making it a must-listen for anyone navigating the challenges of blended families. Stay tuned for a thought-provoking conversation that offers valuable strategies, empathy, and a fresh perspective on stepfamily complexities.  Let's dive in!   In this episode, we discuss: Stepmom Influence Trust and Boundaries Court System and Legal Procedures Parenting Facilitators Business Mindset in Co-parenting Terms and Perceptions   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I have never seen anyone care so much about helping others. Lori goes above and beyond for her clients. You can tell she and David both do this to truly help others. They are a blessing to the world of stepparents!” ~ K.H.

Welcome to Episode 276 of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this episode, hosts David and Lori discuss some of the complexities of stepfamily dynamics with special guests Will and his stepmom Jo. Jo, who has no biological children and has been in a relationship with Will's father for four years. They explore Will's transition from living with his mother to moving full-time with his father and Jo, discussing how responsibilities and structure have positively impacted his life. Will opens up about the emotional challenges he faced, including dealing with depression and adjusting to new household routines. We'll also delve into Jo's role in Will's life, how cool of a stepmum she is, and the importance of building trust and friendship between stepparents and stepchildren. Jo and Will share a story of being blessed to have each other in their lives.    This episode is filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and relatable experiences that provide valuable insights into stepfamily relationships. Whether you're part of a stepfamily or just interested in family dynamics, you'll find something meaningful in today's conversation. So sit back, relax, and join us for a candid discussion on navigating life in a blended family!   In this episode, we discuss: Adjusting to New Living Arrangements Building Trust and Friendship Influence of a Stepparent: Stepfamily Challenges and Integration Celebrating Milestones   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “As a family court attorney, I have had several of my client's partners, who are stepparents, of course, mention Nacho Parenting over the past several months. Being curious about this method, I decided to look into it. I read the blogs but wanted to know more about these people and what they were teaching people. After reviewing the content, I'm convinced the family court system should mandate a class on the Nacho method!” ~ W.O.  

Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this enlightening episode, hosts David and Lori dive deep into the complexities of blended family dynamics just in time for the holiday season. Tune in as they share insights on upcoming events like the 5th Annual Step Family Summit with Claudette Chenevert and the release of exciting challenges such as the Nacho Guided "Change Your Stinking Thinking" Challenge, and a special opportunity for our podcast listeners.  Lori and David discuss navigating family gatherings, the intricacies of gift-giving, and managing expectations within stepfamilies. They share practical tips on handling holiday schedules and ensuring no one feels left out, even in financially tight situations. Plus, they address the emotional challenges children in blended families face and emphasize the importance of equipping them with resilience tools. Don't forget to check out the Nacho Kids Academy for resources to improve your blended family relationships. Join us for an episode packed with valuable advice and heartwarming stories, and remember—life is good when you Nacho!   In this episode, we discuss: General Challenges of Holidays in Blended Families Rotating Schedules Gift Giving in Blended Families Grandparents and Fixed Incomes Balancing Fairness and Realistic Expectations   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I wish I would have signed up for one-on-one coaching with Lori sooner. I've been going to therapy for years because of the blended challenges. My most recent therapist relocated and only has in-person meetings, so I decided I'd see what the Nacho people had to offer while trying to find a new therapist. In just one hour with Lori, just one, and I learned more than I had learned in two years from my therapist! I'm still in shock! Thank you, Lori, you are the best!” ~ B.A.  

Welcome to Episode 273 of the NK Podcast, "Nacho Parenting Really Works!" Today, Lori dives into the fascinating dynamics of blended families with her special guest, Mikel Van Cleve, a certified financial planner with a unique personal story. Mikel opens up about embarking on a whirlwind romance that led to marriage just three months later. We explore their challenges with differing parenting styles, their impact on their children, and the innovative Nacho Parenting technique that transformed their family life. Join us as Michael shares the ups and downs of blending families, including feeling as if he had to choose between his wife and kid and the eventual reconciliation between his wife and daughter. We discuss the importance of modeling healthy relationships for children and the inherent favoritism towards biological kids. In this episode, we discuss: Stepdaughter stepmom relationships Relationships within the blend  Biological child goeing to live with the “other” biological parent Choosing between your partner and your kid Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting method for the win. Again!   Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I joined the Nacho Academy after reading about it in the Atlantic magazine. My partner and I were about to split up because of the kids. I watched one of the video courses in the Academy and told my partner she had to watch it! I was so excited!! After she watched it, we agreed that we would give this crazy Nacho Parenting a shot. Life is so much better in only two months! We still have much to learn, but we are both hopeful about our relationship and future. We will forever love the creators of Nacho Parenting!” P.E.

Welcome to NK Podcast! In today's episode, we dive deep into the intricate world of blended families with our special guest, Matthew Steiner. As a Christian stepdad who has navigated the complexities of step-parenting and the "Nacho" method, Matthew shares his journey of balancing faith, family dynamics, and the emotional challenges that come with being a stepparent. Matthew opens up about his personal experiences, including the frustrations of not being able to control decisions and timelines related to his stepchildren, and the eventual harmony achieved through improved co-parenting and understanding roles. Join us for an honest and heartfelt conversation that promises to offer valuable insights for any parent or stepparent navigating similar waters.   In this episode, we discuss: Realizing the limitations of a stepparent's role. Tensions due to discipline and shared finances. Frustration with lack of control over decisions and timelines related to stepchildren. Household rules and chores expectations. Effective co-parenting Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I am so appreciative of all Lori and David do to help stepfamilies. They treat you like family and honestly care about you and your blend! They changed our lives! Rock on David and Lori and fellow Nachoers!” ~ O.T.  

Welcome to another episode of the NK Podcast! Today we're diving into a compelling and deeply personal conversation with Destiny Burgess, who shares her experience navigating the complex dynamics of blended family life. In this episode, Destiny discusses her struggle with being overprotective, and the challenges posed by her partner's high-conflict ex. We'll explore how Destiny juggles being a step-parent, dealing with traumatic events, and maintaining her mental health through counseling. Join host Lori as she unpacks the nuances of setting boundaries, dealing with disrespect, and finding balance in a stepfamily after Destiny's decision to step back from certain responsibilities. This episode promises to shed light on the trials and triumphs of blended families and offers valuable insights into creating harmony amidst chaos. In this episode, we discuss: When to Nacho Adding an Ours kid High-conflict bio-mom Overwhelmed stepmom Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: "This method is absolutely amazing! I had worked with other stepfamily coaches about disengaging and it never worked, so I decided to give this a try. Thank goodness I did! This is so much more than disengaging, that's why it didn't work before! Thank you Lori and David for teaching us how to better our blended lives. I will be forever grateful!" ~ G.V.

In this episode, Lori talks with Keri, a stepmom of four years who has one bio kid and two stepkids, well technically one stepkid. The other stepkid is not her partner's biological child and stopped coming for visitation about two years ago. This is her second blended family. Her first blend lasted eight years, and Keri was very involved in her stepdaughter's life. After swearing to never date anyone else with kids, she met her now husband and yep, ended up in another blend. And guess what? This blend isn't the same as her first one!   In this episode, we discuss the following: Moving to be with your partner and their kids Being a high school teacher and stepmom Asking your partner to change their visitation schedule Stepparent communicating with partner's ex Super stepmom crashes Finding Nacho! Adding an ours baby to the blend Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “Coming from a blended family, I thought I wouldn't struggle like most stepmoms do. After all, I have had three stepmoms and two stepdads. I had lots of “experience”. Little did I know that my world would be turned upside down two years after our marriage. I found the Nacho Academy through a friend who is a therapist and suggested it after telling her I was ready to give up and that I couldn't do this anymore. I was hesitant at first because of some of the negative stuff I heard, but after listening to one of the courses and crying my eyes out, I knew this was my tribe! I knew the negative I had heard about the method was not accurate and this is what I needed. I needed to Nacho and my husband and his kids needed me to Nacho too! It has made a tremendous difference in our blend and I'm excited to continue learning in the Academy from Lori & David.” ~ L.G.  

In this episode, Lori and David talk to family law attorney Billie Tarascio of Modern Law. Billie supports the Nacho method and discusses some family court issues.  In this episode, we discuss the following: Nacho Kids Family court challenges Self-representation Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “My son and his new wife are a blended family. I joined the Academy in hopes of learning things to help them navigate their blend. It was absolutely amazing the amount of content in the Academy! I decided to gift my son and his new wife a year-long membership. They are putting Nacho into place in their home and are so much happier and feel they have hope they didn't have before! Thanks, Lori and David, for all you do!” ~ I.W.  

In this episode, Lori and David answer questions submitted by followers. These questions are based solely on the question without having any details of the person's dynamics.  In this episode, we discuss the following: Relationship between stepparent and stepkid What if the bio parent doesn't step up What if you hate your stepkid and have zero desire to fix it Should you Nacho from the beginning or wait until things cause stress Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I hated my life. I had no desire to continue my blended relationship. Then, my partner found Nacho Kids while listening to podcast and decided we should join the Academy together. Three months later, our lives are so much better! It was the best decision we ever made. We are creating a happy healthy blended family now thanks to Nacho!” ~ E.R.  

In this episode, Lori and David answer questions submitted by followers. These questions are based solely on the question without having any details of the person's dynamics.  In this episode, we discuss the following: How do you get a Disneyland parent to stop guilt parenting? How to get your grown up stepkid to allow you to see the grandchildren more? How do you nacho stuff that directly affects you?! Does it get better after they all turn 18? Is blending always this hard? Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I just finished the Nacho Kids Guided Bootcamp. I am shocked at how much I learned in just a few minutes a day! This was a treasure of information that has already started to improve our blend! God Bless you, Lori and David, for everything you do to help stepfamilies. You are your method are amazing!” ~ P.C. - stepdad from Florida  

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to Stepdad Sean. Sean has been blending for over two years. His biological kids are no longer at home, and he has three stepsons who all live in the house. Sean has raised his kids and doesn't feel he should have to help raise the stepkids. The stepkids have poor manners and are a bit spoiled. He fights for that parental role because he doesn't understand being a husband without being a parent.  In this episode, we discuss the following: Preparing didn't help Adult bio kids and teenage stepkids Not wanting to raise someone else's kids Fighting for control Hugely different parenting styles Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “This Nacho stuff is completely opposite of what everyone told us to do. We were struggling and decided what the heck. We did still love each other and made the decision to give this Nacho thing a try. Three months later, we are ALL happier and in a much better place. Life really is good when you Nacho!” ~ J.B.S.  

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, speaks with Krista St-Germain about navigating grief as a stepparent. As a widow, stepkid, and stepparent, Krista shares her journey and wisdom. Her stepdad stayed in his lane and her stepmom was a little more authoritative.  In this episode, we discuss the following: Supporting a partner when you have different parenting views Secondary losses Five stages of grief  Time in relation to grief Respecting previous relationships Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I can't believe how much better our lives are because of Nacho Parenting!” ~ E.V.  

In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to Anthony J. Mohr. Anthony's father, Gerald Mohr, was a well-known radio actor before slipping to the Hollywood B-list thanks to the advent of television. Accepting the lead in a dying Swedish TV series, he fell for the script girl and divorced Mohr's mother, who went on to meet and marry another divorced person, credit card industry pioneer Stanley Dashew. As his stepfather's career rose and his biological father's eased downward, Anthony tried to find his place. One weekend, he was sailing on his stepfather's fifty-eight-foot catamaran; the next, his Swedish stepmother told him that they were poor. Coming of age in a time when divorce was rare and viewed as shocking, Anthony lived at the edges of what others regard as a dream world, a place where reality and fantasy blend, maps lead to the homes of the stars, and obstacles abound. In this episode, we discuss the following: Being a child of divorce Two different lives Fighting in front of the kids Building bonds Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “As a licensed therapist, a patient mentioned Nacho to me. I was intrigued. I looked into this Nacho method, and I must say it is genius! I am now referring all my stepfamily clients to the Academy!” ~ T.G.  

In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to Lisa Johnson. Lisa is co-author, along with her partner Chris Barry, of “Been There Got Out.” Like Lori and David, Lisa and Chris use their first-hand experience to help others. In this episode, we discuss the following: Toxic relationships High conflict divorce Legal abuse Cohesive control Jennifer's Law Nacho Kids Academy Success Story: “I am a family law attorney. I kept hearing about this Nacho parenting from clients and in the courtroom. I decided to join the Nacho Academy to see what it was all about. Man, this stuff is gold! I'm referring all my clients to the Nacho Academy even if they aren't currently in a blend, they will most likely be in one soon! I love what Lori and David are doing and can't express how much the world needs this!” ~ M.L.B.