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We were teammates and now we are lovers, encouraging you to communicate more freely and openly, in your own relationships, to reap the amazing benefits of uninhibited healthy communication. Join us bi-weekly as we discuss topics such as, pop culture, relationship dynamics, date night activities and maybe even a little flag football! Discover how we nurture our growing relationship with intentional acts, questions, love and service.

Beautifulll & Ace


    • May 28, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from Together Real Bad

    We Launched a Biz Together!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 46:25


    In this episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace open up about the highs, lows, and hilarious moments of launching their new business venture together — Jem Junkies. From working the Black Boy Art Show in Chicago to building a brand that blends beauty and culture, the duo shares what it's really like to start a business with your partner. They talk about:

    New Episode Coming Wednesday!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 0:22


    What's up y'all! With the long weekend, and how busy we were, we just could not fit the Podcast in the schedule. But don't worry we are back with an episode early Wednesday morning. See you then! Beautifulll and Ace

    The Closet Has Rooms

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 59:54


    In this episode, we talk about what it's like to really come out — not just once, but in layers. Inspired by a touching DM from a listener in London and a major coming out moment with family, we peel back the curtain on the fears, family dynamics, social media choices, and joy that come with showing up fully as yourself. ✨ Inside: Funny & frustrating bed-making battles A Mother's Day coming-out story (with a twist!) Being “out” at work, but not on Facebook Responding to a listener who asked, “How do I come out to myself?” And of course, a few laughs, a lot of love, and even more truth. We're grateful to have a space where we can be soft, honest, and hilarious at the same time — and we're grateful for YOU for helping us make it possible. ❤️ Tap in. Let's keep growing, together.

    LGBTQIA But the "B" is Silent

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 67:27


    In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the complexities of bisexuality, identity, and love in queer relationships — inspired by a real conversation with our incredible Airbnb guest, Demita Frazier!

    The Blame Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 61:46


      **Patreon Episode - Visuals*** patreon.com/c/TogetherRealBad In this Patreon episode of Together Real Bad, Beautifulll and Ace get real about navigating blame in relationships—from late-night matcha disasters to emotional misfires and unspoken expectations. We kick things off with a check-in on work, wellness, and that one neighbor who might just be a villain. Then we get personal about family brunches, coming out, and why setting emotional traps (even unintentionally) never ends well.

    When Being Right Goes Left

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 65:05


    In this honest and hilarious episode, Beautifulll and Ace dive deep into the question: Would you rather be right or stay in a relationship? From "I told you so" moments to the petty Olympics, they're unpacking ego, communication, and growth in a real relationship. This episode also features: Their experience at a Black-owned Chicago hotel

    Let's NOT Talk About Sex, Baby!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 64:58


    EXCLUSIVE CONTENT: A full video version + behind-the-scenes extras are available on Patreon! Join the Together Real Bad community on PATREON  for unfiltered convos & bonus content.  

    Blood, Bonds, and Boo'd Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 69:10


    She Is The One, Not The Two

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 61:15


    In this episode of Together Real Bad, the hosts explore the importance of growth, accountability, and compromise in relationships. They discuss what it truly means to be “the one” for each other and share insights on how they challenge and support each other in personal and professional spaces. Listeners will hear candid conversations about navigating relationship dynamics, improving communication, and holding each other accountable while maintaining love and respect. Whether it's about staying on top of household routines, growing businesses together, or simply showing up for a partner, this episode is packed with real-life lessons, humor, and heartfelt moments. Topics Covered:

    Growing Pains

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 68:19


    *All Visuals Will Now Be Posted On Patreon* Patreon:Together Real Bad You can still catch short on YouTube Leave a comment sharing how you've handled growing pains in your relationships. Share this episode with a friend who could use some relationship real talk! Send us a S.O.S letter (Save Our Situation) for advice on your love situatiion at 2getherrealbad @gmail.com  Follow us on TIkTok: together.real.badpod Follow us on IG: together.real.badpod   In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode of Together Real Bad, we take you on a journey through the highs and lows of navigating growing pains in relationships. We dive into what it means to move past the honeymoon phase, embracing personal growth, and staying intentional about connection amidst life's chaos. With candid conversations about chore wars, managing expectations, and finding balance in love, we share our struggles, successes, and strategies for making it all work. In the final moments, we discuss the importance of mutual accountability, the challenge of setting personal and shared goals, and how communication helps us grow stronger every day. Deep Dive into the Final 15 Minutes: The last 15 minutes of this episode focus on navigating conflict and the challenges of maintaining mutual accountability.   We discuss: How personal habits and past behaviors influence current expectations. Why giving each other grace is crucial when developing new routines. The difficulty of addressing unmet expectations without criticism. How we're working together to balance household responsibilities, including a deep dive into our “Sunday is laundry day” experiment. We also touch on emotional drift—how life's demands can make it harder to feel connected—and share how intentional communication and shared goals can help bridge the gap. The conversation ends on a hopeful note, emphasizing the importance of patience, compromise, and understanding in building a stronger partnership. If you loved this episode, don't forget to: Subscribe to our Patreon channel for more episodes and bonus content. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok for behind-the-scenes moments and updates.   Leave a comment sharing how you've handled growing pains in your relationships. Share this episode with a friend who could use some relationship real talk! Send us a S.O.S letter (Save Our Situation) at 2getherrealbad @gmail.com  Follow us on TIkTok: together.real.badpod Follow us on IG: together.real.badpod

    Happy New Year!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 57:45


    In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace recap year end 2024 and move into 2025. Beautifulll gives a much awaited coming out update, new friends, new community, goal setting and football updates!   *We apologies in advance for our dogs, they were actin a damn fool!*   Drop us a line or a question: 2getherrealbad@gmail.com

    It's Cheesy But We're Doing It, Again!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 51:16


    In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about their upcoming vacation, and recap their goals that were set at the beginning of 2024.   *Beautifulll & Ace will be taking a break until January 6th!* Stay tuned to their social media for more content and bts stuff! together.real.badpod

    The Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 36:01


    In this episode Beautifulll & Ace have candid conversation about the happenings in their lives in the past few weeks.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - 2getherrealbad@gmail.com   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

    Quid Pro Quo

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 62:31


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about week updates, date night diaries, flag football, SOS letter and the nature of quid pro quo in their relationship.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - 2getherrealbad@gmail.com   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

    Crazy, Stupid, Love...And Priorities

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 65:04


    In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about coming out updates, Love Is Blind, a brush with a Basketball Franchise Owner, Date Night Activities and prioritizing each other   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - 2getherrealbad@gmail.com   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

    Impulse Chicago

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 54:13


    In this episode, Beautifulll & Ace chat with Darren Parker of Impulse Chicago! This is a departure from their normal platform but Beautifulll & Ace feel it's necessary to amplify the voices of the LGBTQIA+ Community who are here to help, support and engage the community. Founded in 2009 by Jose Ramos, Impulse Group is a nonprofit organization dedicated to building a stronger and healthier community for gay men. Hosting over 400 events annually in twenty-six cities across the globe, Impulse seeks to create a brave space to engage, support and connect our community.

    Eat The Cat, Eat Eat The Cat!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2024 64:30


    In this episode Beautifulll & Ace talk about the debate, project 2025, “I Kissed A Girl” on Hulu, fantasy football, flag football, date night diaries and how there is more than one way to skin a cat in relationships, navigating how people believe that their way, is the right way, when it comes to tasks or events in a relationship.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation   https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - 2getherrealbad@gmail.com   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!

    Fear Factor

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2024 82:50


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Labor Day Weekend, fantasy football, Mic Check, Chicago Sky, Date Night Diaries, Fears that pop up in relationships and how to  calm them. Lastly, stay tuned for their new segment SOS Letters: Save Our Situation Letters. where they read community letters and give thoughts on the situation.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. It's a great way to support the pod! patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation    https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/together.real.badpod/ Email Us Your Save Our Situation questions (SOS) - 2getherrealbad@gmail.com   Thank you all for your support. Please comment, like and share! It helps so much to support the pod!!      

    A Fall From Grace

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2024 61:47


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the DNC, the hectic weekend, why they missed their recording day, volunteering, coming out, letter update and the impact of grace on relationships and everyday life.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod!patreon.com/TogetherRealBad   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

    Grace

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2024 2:01


    Unfortunately, we have been overwhelmed with life lately and we are unable to drop an episode at our regular day and time. Not to worry though! We will be dropping and episode late Tuesday or early Wednesday and ironically enough, it will be about grace.    We appreciate you and all of the support that we have been getting over the past year! Thank you all! Beautifulll & Ace

    Is This Love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2024 61:38


    In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about the olympics (track), date night, alabama boat brawl anniversary and love: are you receiving or just passively standing in it?   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Patreon: We have a Patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod! Patreon   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

    When Boredom Strikes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2024 72:21


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the countdown to coming out, Simone Biles and the Olympics, Blvckscene, Biden's drop out, date night activities and when boredom strikes, how to get around boredom in relationships.   Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad   Pateron: We have a patreon episode we think you might like. Check it out here: We are working on some exclusive content for our community. Catch our very first Patreon episode below. Its a great way to support the pod! Patreon Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you! Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust  

    Why So Serious?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2024 61:01


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss, Pride South Side, Date Night Diaries, and the power of play in their relationship. Follow, Join, Support: https://bio.site/togetherrealbad Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust  

    Heavy Pour

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2024 56:05


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Pride month, South Side Pride, Couples Therapy on MAX, Date night diaries, and how they intentionally pour into each other through out their relationship   Together Real Bad is launching a Discord Server! What is Discord you ask? Our listeners can chat with each other, share their thoughts on episodes in real-time, and even get direct feedback from us! Need some advice or someone to talk to? Sign up for direct access to "your friendly neighborhood" TRBP hosts(tell us what movie this is from)! The community is super friendly and supportive, making it feel like we're all part of something special. Plus, with voice chats and live events, it's like we're all hanging out in the same room. If you love our podcast, let continue the conversation  –  https://discord.gg/hyJCrDEq  We are so excited to be able to interact in real time with you!   Support The Pod! Everyone loves a good T-shirt right? Oh, and a hat! We are really gaining some momentum with our podcast and we are so appreciative for everyone's support. We just dropped a few T-shirts and a hat, if you would like to support further! It would mean the world to us.  We appreciate yall! - In Love We Trust Store - https://www.togetherrealbad.com/in-love-we-trust

    Flaw Less

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 64:49


    Beautifullll and Ace discuss Ace's birthday, South Side Pride, Discord Launch, their subscribers and supporters, their friends engagement and how they are vulnerable with each other flaws and all.

    Breakup Blueprint

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2024 68:33


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss their up coming Discord community, Pride South Side, TikTok Live, Memorial Day, Flag Football, Date Night Diaries and how each of them knew it was time to move on from past relationships.

    The Do-Over

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 65:36


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about (HBO) Max's Seeking Sister Wives and Seeking Brother Husband. Mother's Day. Last episode update. Date night. Relationship regrets and navigating those regrets differently in their relationship.

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    Scrolling Apart

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 50:58


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the WNBA Draft and the NFL Draft, Pride South Side (Chicago) and how social media can have an effect on communication in relationships.

    Friends, How Many Of Us HaveThem?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2024 42:47


    In tihs episode, Beautifulll and Ace talk about, the death of OJ Simpson, NCAA Womens Basketball Championship and friendships while being in relationships and nurturing the friendships you have outside of your relationship.

    You, Me and Dupree

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2024 34:01


    In this episode, Beautifulll and Ace explore un-traditional relationship structures. They also talk about their experiences with these un-traditional structures, how they navigated their experiences, is it a possibility in their own relationship and how it affected their previous relationships.   If you want to check out the Bonus Episode of Together Real Bad, entitled Sweet N Low Daddy, you can purchase it by clicking here. In the bonus episode Sweet N Low Daddy, Beautifulll & Ace talk about being "flewed" out by Beautifulll's sugar daddy. What her experience was, how Ace feels about, will it happen again and what the expectation are on actually having a sugar daddy.

    Be Humble, B**tch Sit Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2024 68:53


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss A2 flag football championship, a Goldman Sachs trip to NYC, Love is Blind and how being humble in their relationship has helped to create a safer space in comparison to their past relationships. They will also discuss how they may struggle to be humble in their current relationship. Lastly, don't know how to be humble? They have a few suggestions for you!

    Therapy Tings!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2024 62:33


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace have special guests Ashley and Alona! Ashley and Alona are avid listeners and join us to talk about their experience with individual therapy and couples therapy and how effects their relationship.   Below are the tools Alona & Ashley talked about as part of their therapy exercises! Use them!!   1. Check-ins:  Set a time/day weekly that typically works best for you to have them. If that doesn't work, schedule out a time/day after each check-in to make sure it's in your calendar.  Please feel free to use whatever language you feel comfortable with but be mindful to stay within the realms of this template.    Check-In Template 1. Individual Check-In:  - On a scale of 1-10, how has your week been? - What made it a ___ ? [Ex. What made it a 6?] - How can you go from a ___, to a ___?  [Ex. How can it go from a 6 to a 7?]   2. Couple Check-In:  - On a scale of 1-10, how are you feeling in our relationship this week?  - What made it a ____?  - How can it go from a ___, to a ____?  *Key- SMALL goals and take it one goal at a time. We're not aiming to jump 2 numbers, we're just aiming to go from one number to the next.    Also- don't be afraid to take notes. When your partner is telling you how they go from one number to the next, they are giving you the answer key. Write some thoughts down on your phone so you can be intentional about being a part of getting them to the next level.    2. I-Feel Statements:  I feel _______ when ________. I'd prefer _________ Again, these statements help to ward off blaming your partner and helps you to stay focused on you and your feelings. I've also attached an emotions wheel for you to utilize.    3. Speaker/Listener You express something to your partner using 4 sentences or less. Your partner repeats what they've heard and then you respond in 4 sentences or less.  This helps you to think about what you're going to say before you say it. It also keeps you on task and makes sure you are interpreting what your partner is saying correctly.   

    21 Questions Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2024 62:16


    In the episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss the Super Bowl, our fitness journey so far, the Netflix Series Down For Love, Club Shay Shay's interview with Monique and answering the remainder of the 21 questions. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples!  Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS  Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf  

    21 Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 60:10


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss Megan The Stallion, Love On The Spectrum, Chicago Restaurant Week, The Super Bowl and 21 Questions. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC  Channels Earns Small Commission from Affiliate Links    

    Give Me A Kiss

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2024 65:59


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace discuss football, the judge who got jumped, 2024 goal updates, weekend travels and Five levels of intimacy. Ace also discloses something that cause a bit of friction on air.   Arcane Wonders Onitama Board Game https://amzn.to/3SdUk5Q  The game Ace and Beautifulll played for at least 10 hours during their recent travels . Really good for road trips! Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf LightingIts super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Affiliate Links Earn A Small Commission

    It's Cheesy But We're Doing It!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2024 83:09


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about how they spent their Christmas and New Year, Katt Williams' epic interview with Shannon Sharp and New Year goals. They will be setting these goals on air during the podcast! So, consider this sort of an intimate look into something that is typical more private. Beautifulll and Ace hope to inspire others to hold them selves accountable, not for doing a 180 an accomplishing all of these goals, but for having the courage to try, and try and try again. Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster ProWe use this to capture and record our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf LightingIts super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Channels Earns   A Small Commission for Affiliate Links

    Friend Or Foe

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2023 58:25


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace have a special guest, Pam B. their neighbor! Pam is an LGBT ally and has raise a young African American man as an ally too. She is also married to a straight man who is also an ally. We talk to Pam about her experience as an ally and how she was able to raise a young black male in today's current climate.   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c Rodecaster Pro We use this to capture and record  our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS  

    Getcha ”A” Game Up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2023 62:20


    In this episode Beautifull and Ace discuss playing Madden 2024 for the first time, Roller Skating together for the first time and the five A's that they practice for a healthy loving relationship.   The book we mention by David Richo can be found here: https://amzn.to/46LmXfK   Tools we use to produce our podcast: Opus Clip is an AI generate social media clip producing machine! Its cuts our post production time down dramatically by producing up to 30 clips for social media in a matter of minutes. https://www.opus.pro/?via=e35c7c   Rodecaster Pro We use this to capture and record  our audio https://amzn.to/3uT6skA   Sony ZV-1 The most compact powerful camera we have ever used! https://amzn.to/3tk6Qbf   Lighting Its super bright! https://amzn.to/47R1inC     Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

    I'm In A Funk

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2023 57:22


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the Cassie, Diddy and Kim situation. They also take a deep dive into depression and its impact on self, family and friends.

    Upper Cut, Jab, Hook, Haymaker

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2023 53:24


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about their Vegas vacation, fighting fair in their relationship and resisting the urge to sacrifice their relationship safe space.

    It's Our Anniversary!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2023 67:46


    In this episode Beautfiulll and Ace discuss flag football, Ace's high school alumni powder puff team, ABC dates and what it was like during the first year of our relationship! Please like, follow and share!  Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

    My Partner Has A.D.D. Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2023 67:48


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about Love is Blind, Ace's induction into her high school hall of fame and living together while coping with Beautifulll's A.D.D.   Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

    Two Women And A CRV

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2023 56:08


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace talk about the BIG MOVE, celebrity breakups, Flag football Chicago Blitz training camp,  and rur first JuJitsu class Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad WE LOVE THESE PRODUCTS: Fur - Their products are awesome! Check them out, especially for ingrown hairs! https://furyou.com/discount/TOGETHERREALBADPOD15     Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS        

    Lesbians For Christ

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2023 63:42


    In this episode, we will discuss the latest in pop culture, our respective flag football teams, and how religion or lack there of plays a role in our lives. We will also touch on our personal experiences with attending church and our thoughts on mega-churches, all inclusive churches and ordered churches.   Please like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS

    Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2023 53:53


    Beautifulll & Ace discuss Football, Bob Barker's Passing, Hamilton is coming to Chicago, and our experiences with cheating and being cheated on in our past relationships and what the outcomes were.   Please  review, like, follow and share! Instagram instagram.com/together.real.badpod TikTok tiktok.com/@together.real.badpod Website togetherrealbad.com Buy Me A Coffee buymeacoffee.com/Togetherrealbadpod Patreon patreon.com/TogetherRealBad Check out some of our favorite Amazon finds for couples! Monopoly Secret Vault (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Uno All Wild (Good Game Night Activity) https://amzn.to/3L69cAp Boogie Board (Leave your love a love note) https://amzn.to/45ueDRG Hers and Hers Passport Covers (These are really cute!) https://amzn.to/3Z1fkPS  

    Jamaican me NOT happy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2023 63:01


    Not your average Hoochie Daddie

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2023 67:38


    In this episode Beautifulll and Ace go live on Youtube! They talk about Hoochie Daddies on Tubi, Age appropriate sexuality conversations with kids, masculine women carry and pregnancy, trust and dating at different ages.   Want a visual of Ep 7, where Beautifull and Ace went live on youtube? - click here!  Please follow us on on all of our social media platforms here!! We are on Youtube TikTok Instagram and our website togetherrealbad.com   Please follow, share, like and review! We truly appreciate it!!  

    Age Ain't Nothing But A Number

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2023 40:31


    In this episode, Beautifulll & Ace discuss their epic unplanned weekend, a possible sugar daddy relationship, putting together furniture and how their age gap plays a role in their relationship.   Want to follow us on our social media pages? Click Here to see how "Together Real Bad" we really are! If you like our podcast, please consider giving us a follow and a review, we would truly appreciate it!  

    Who's taking out the trash?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2023 37:15


    In this episode Beautifulll & Ace discuss work, Ultimatum Queer Love Edition Reunion,  gender roles and how Beautifulll views gender roles differently depending on the sex she's dating or in a relationship with.   Want to follow us on our social media pages? Click Here to see how "Together Real Bad" we really are! If you like our podcast, please consider giving us a follow and a review, we would truly appreciate it!

    Past Trauma, Current Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2023 36:39


    Beautifulll & Ace discuss birthday activities, Ultimatum: Queer Love Edition, and how some past traumas have seeped into their relationships and how they manage to keep them at bey through understanding and communication.

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