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Dr. David Gruder is a Corporate Counsel who is a 12-award-winning multi-bestselling clinical and organizational psychologist. As an Executive Team Orchestrator and Culture Catalyst, he makes integrity profitable by equipping socially responsible businesses with missing mindsets, skillsets, and procedures to actualize their unique calling in helping humanity's most elevated future emerge. As President of Integrity Culture Systems™ and director of the Center for Enlightened Self-Sovereignty™, he provides keynotes, training programs, executive consulting, writing, and media interviews. He also hosts the “Reimagining Humanity's Future and Yours” show. His main website is DrGruder.com. This episode is sponsored by the coaching company of the host, Paul Zelizer. Consider a Strategy Session if you can use support growing your impact business. Resources mentioned in this episode include: Dr. David Gruder's site Reimaging Humanity's Future show Dr. David Gruder's books Article on the Transformation Economy David Gruder on Linkedin Paul's Strategy Sessions Pitch an Awarepreneurs episode

In this thought-provoking episode of 'Healthy and Awake' podcast, Mike Vera engages with Dr. David Gruder, a renowned psychologist and a critical thinker who discusses the intersection of human consciousness, technology and happiness. Dr. Gruder dares to challenge conventional beliefs and gives insights into how our sense of happiness and freedom can be hijacked through societal 'spells' and technology, particularly artificial intelligence. Shedding light on the emerging future of humanity, he presents two contrasting paradigms: 'Homo Machina', a human-machine hybrid dominated by AI, and 'Homo Spiritus', individuals more connected with love, wisdom and their higher selves. He expresses optimism for the latter future, emphasizing the importance of spiritual self-sovereignty and enlightening self-awareness. Throughout the discussion, we also cover topics such as propaganda, 'rockefellerization' of medicine, leadership, and the role of AI in propaganda.Dr. Gruder's main website is DrGruder.com and you can learn about The Center for Enlightened Self-Sovereignty at TheCESS.com. TUNE IN TO HIS SHOWSReimagining Humanity's Future and Yours: DrGruder.com/RHFYBoosting Business Value: DrGruder.com/BBVThe One Thing: DrGruder.com/TOTApply for Free Membership in The Center for Enlightened Self-Sovereignty: www.TheCESS.comRead of Listen to My Latest Bestselling Business Books: Media.NimbilityWorks.com __________________________________________________________________

Dr. David Gruder, PhD, is a clinical & organizational development psychologist and bestselling 12-award-winning Human Potential Strategist, Business Lifecycle Psychologist, and Culture Architect, who was Named America's Integrity Expert by Radio-TV Interview Report. Dr. Gruder has written, contributed to, or been featured in, 26 books... plus Forbes, Inc., Entrepreneur, and Nonprofit Performance magazines, among hundreds of media and podcast interviews, in addition to having provided keynotes, training & consulting worldwide. Now in his senior decades, David characterizes himself as a recovering psychologist and professional troublemaker. Some of the many hats he continues to wear include President & Founder of Integrity Culture Systems™ , Co-Founder & Partner with NimbilityWorks™, Chief Integrity Officer of the Lydian Foundation, Business Lifecycle Psychologist for Blue Sky Business Resources, Legacy Faculty for CEO Space International™, Founder of the Government Trust Restoration Project, and Ritual Elder with the ManKind Project. His next two interconnected books, scheduled to be released in mid-2022, are The Nimble C-Suite and The Nimble Company. His main website is DrGruder.com. David lives in San Diego, California, and despite a very full professional life, he most loves enjoying plenty of time with his wife Laurie and their two cats.

Dr. David Gruder, PhD, is a clinical & organizational development psychologist and bestselling 12-award-winning Human Potential Strategist, Business Lifecycle Psychologist, and Culture Architect, who was Named America's Integrity Expert by Radio-TV Interview Report. Dr. Gruder has written, contributed to, or been featured in, 26 books... plus Forbes, Inc., Entrepreneur, and Nonprofit Performance magazines, among hundreds of media and podcast interviews, in addition to having provided keynotes, training & consulting worldwide. Now in his senior decades, David characterizes himself as a recovering psychologist and professional troublemaker. Some of the many hats he continues to wear include President & Founder of Integrity Culture Systems™ , Co-Founder & Partner with NimbilityWorks™, Chief Integrity Officer of the Lydian Foundation, Business Lifecycle Psychologist for Blue Sky Business Resources, Legacy Faculty for CEO Space International™, Founder of the Government Trust Restoration Project, and Ritual Elder with the ManKind Project. His next two interconnected books, scheduled to be released in mid-2022, are The Nimble C-Suite and The Nimble Company. His main website is DrGruder.com. David lives in San Diego, California, and despite a very full professional life, he most loves enjoying plenty of time with his wife Laurie and their two cats.

Welcome back to Part 2 of this interview with Dr. Gruder. If you missed part 1 please pause and head back to episode 14 of the Create A New Tomorrow Podcast to be able to catch the whole interview. Dr. David Gruder is a twelve award winning integrative psychologist. He's president of the Integrity Culture Systems, which work focuses on what he calls self sovereignty, and that serves us all. He equips leaders, influencers and entrepreneurs who are called to repair and evolve the world in their own unique ways with inner, outer and spiritual skills to expand their positive impact. And a super change Catalyst's without sacrificing their lightheartedness, health, financial well-being or cherished personal and work relationships *Episode Highlights* *David* [00:01:53] You know, Stephen Covey, as you're very well aware of, who wrote Seven Habits of highly effective people, among other things, one of his principles that people regularly cite is the principle called Begin With the end in mind. *David* [00:02:08] I think he almost got it right, but not quite. Begin with the best possible end in mind. *Ari* [00:04:12] Yeah. You know, I've said that quite a lot. You know, when I hear people talk about the Constitution and how amazing it is, and I'll say it would be great if we actually tried to live by the ideals that we claim. Right. This week, we hear a lot of claims of what this country is at its finest possibility. But I've never seen. The attempt for it to be lived that way and understood that way. *David* [00:06:45] Right. Well, what you're speaking to right now, and I'm loving that you're bringing this up, Ari, is is again, you know, it's kind of like a variation on that on that UNICEF New Year's card that my family got. The greater peace will only come with this after the smaller peace we make with each other. *Ari* [00:10:34] And I think a lot of people mistaken in what integrity is to something outside of themselves, not something within themselves. Yes. In action that you take verses away, that you feel inside of you. And so I'd like you to talk a little bit more about integrity itself and how that relates to a person taking on actions outside of themselves before they do the work inside. *David* [00:11:10] Right. Which, of course, never works well, if we take actions outside of ourselves before we've done the inner work, then, you know, if if you're if we're taking action from a foundation of crap, we're gonna get crap. Very simple. *Ari* [00:21:40] Also, you know, I mean, we really have have a slippery slope when it comes to legislating morality, legislating vices and telling people what they can and can't do with their personal space. However, when you talk about companies, as you were saying earlier, and legislating what companies can do to people's space, that might be a little bit different. *David* [00:25:50] We have to remove the blocks to the awareness of love. Love's presence, presence. We have to learn how to be authentic. We have to change ourselves. We have to remove the traumas that stand between us and being authentic. So I think there is a fundamental universal. Morality, and it's built into our wiring. And when we can agree on what we have, yes, about then we can put our differences into a context that allow our differences to enrich UST rather than divide us. *David* [00:34:16] You've probably heard it, too, about the little boy who's out in the woods. And one day he sees this. This butterfly trying to make its way out of the cocoon. And he is standing there feeling what feels to him like deep compassion. All he wants to do is to rescue, save this this butterfly from the pain of of having to break out of its cocoon so it can fly away. And so he breaks the cocoon open and the butterfly falls dead to the ground. He picks up the butterfly. He runs home to to his mother and he's crying. And he said he's saying what? What happened? I tried to help this butterfly and it died. What? What a horrible person am I? What did I do wrong? *Ari* [00:37:11] And give us that path forward so that we can create a new tomorrow, so that we can activate our vision for a better world. And so that we can be these impactful Integris humans that we were designed to be. *Ari* [00:37:30] What would that path be? *Resources and Links* * *https://drgruder.com* * *https://drgruder.com/academy* * *https://CreateANewTomorrow.com* * *https://www.facebook.com/arigronich* *Full Transcription* *Ari&Davidpart2.mp3* *Ari* [00:00:02] Has it occurred to you that the systems we live by are not designed to get results? We pay for procedures instead of outcomes, focusing on emergencies rather than preventing disease and living a healthy lifestyle. *Ari* [00:00:14] For over 25 years, I've taken care of Olympians, Paralympians, A-list actors and Fortune 1000 companies. If I did not get results, they did not get results. I realized that while powerful people who controlled the system want to keep the status quo. If I were to educate the masses, you would demand change. So I'm taking the gloves off and going after the systems as they are. Join me on my mission to create a new tomorrow as a chat with industry experts. Elite athletes thought leaders and government officials about how we activate our vision for a better world. We may agree and we may disagree. But I'm not backing down. *Ari* [00:00:51] I'm Ari Gronich. And this is. Create a new tomorrow podcast. *Ari* [00:01:03] Welcome back to part two of this interview, if you missed the part one. Head back to the previous episode before you listen to this one. Now, we'll dive right into the conversation from the moment that we left off. Thanks again and welcome back. *Ari* [00:01:18] As an operational planner, along with all your other accolades. *Ari* [00:01:24] Right. If we were going to operationally plan this, which is basically taking it from the result that we want and working our way down to the beginning. *Ari* [00:01:36] What would be the first steps on that operational plan to shift the system as it is and start that development into a lack of insane, insanity? *David* [00:01:50] Right. *David* [00:01:53] You know, Stephen Covey, as you're very well aware of, who wrote Seven Habits of highly effective people, among other things, one of his principles that people regularly cite is the principle called Begin With the end in mind. *David* [00:02:08] I think he almost got it right, but not quite. Begin with the best possible end in mind. *David* [00:02:18] If we don't start with a utopian vision, if we don't start with a vision of what we want to strive toward, the ideal future that we're not going to have tomorrow. But we have a true north that we're that we're pointing toward. If we don't have that, then we don't have a country. This country, the United States, was birthed based in large part on and in a its origins, a utopian vision. And then they got to crafting the Constitution and made all kinds of compromises and disenfranchized certain people and allowed slavery to continue and all kinds of nasty, dark, shadowy stuff. But it started off as a vision. A vision of a society. That is functioning at the intersection of personal freedom and the common good, where all are considered to be equal in terms of their right to have opportunity to make of it as they will and where. The government was mandated to function and legislate at the intersection of what preserves individual freedom and what promotes the common good. That was an audacious idea that people that people would actually be in a society whose government was mandated to be a servant to its citizens, not to itself, not to the common good. I'm sorry. Not to special interests, not to itself. That's that was a radical notion back then. It was a utopian notion back then. What I would say to you today is all of those utopian notions, great concept, still never been tried. *Ari* [00:04:12] Yeah. You know, I've said that quite a lot. You know, when I hear people talk about the Constitution and how amazing it is, and I'll say it would be great if we actually tried to live by the ideals that we claim. Right. This week, we hear a lot of claims of what this country is at its finest possibility. But I've never seen. The attempt for it to be lived that way and understood that way. *Ari* [00:04:50] And so there's always been such a dichotomy of divergence between ideal and reality. And I want to help bring the ideal into reality. So what do we need to do in order to create that? *David* [00:05:08] The master planning, again, starts with envisioning the best possible end, getting on the same page about. About what that looks like in principle. And then reverse engineering coming backwards from that best possible end to the question of where are we now in relationship to that and how do we deliberately construct a bridge that takes us from where we are now to the best possible hand over time with patience and persistence and a dedication to not abandoning the vision. *David* [00:05:49] This is what. Great companies do. *David* [00:05:52] It's what great societies are theoretically capable of doing. But not if we're fighting against each other over whose ideology is right and wrong. *Ari* [00:06:04] That's that's a good point, because my my question to you based on that, is everybody has their own vision of what utopia is. Right. They have their own belief system about it. And most of the belief system is created by the traumas that they've experienced in their life and the experiences I say Traumas, because the traumas in the experience are really what shape our belief system and what we think of as utopia in our heads may not necessarily be the answer for our hearts and our, you know, and our humanity. *Ari* [00:06:42] So how do we bridge that gap first? *David* [00:06:45] Right. Well, what you're speaking to right now, and I'm loving that you're bringing this up, Ari, is is again, you know, it's kind of like a variation on that on that UNICEF New Year's card that my family got. The greater peace will only come with this after the smaller peace we make with each other. *David* [00:07:06] And what I would add is and within ourselves, we human beings tend to be have an inner community of self that is at war with itself. And the war comes from our traumas. The war comes from the undigested life experiences that we've had, the life experiences we've been through that we didn't know, and we still haven't figured out how to harvest great deep spiritual gifts from. So those pieces of unfinished business remain the boss of us. And if we go back to Maslow, when someone is in survival mode, they don't see utopia. They don't see what are what's possible, because all they're settling for is is surviving. It's like The Ballad of Jack and Diane and John Cougar Mellencamp. And the line from that song is Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone. Are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? But that's that's the majority of society. They are. They are believing that they just have to muddle through in life. They long ago gave up their ideals, their their vision. And it's because of what you said, Ari. They have been taught to tolerate undigested life experiences inside themselves and to believe that the best they can do is hope to live with their scars rather than being shown ways that they can transform through their scars into an elevated way of living. *Ari* [00:08:53] That was those very beautiful way of putting it. And, you know, to any listener out there who's thinking, I don't know what to do next. I know I'm listening to you and I'm understanding the words that you're saying and I just don't know what to do next. Where would where would you. You know, suggest somebody start with that. *David* [00:09:23] Well, I'll say something that might sound self-serving, but it really is my answer to the question. I have an online course called the Integrity Guide to having it all how to put your genius where your dreams are and that course. Teaches people not simply a mindset, but very specific, step by step by step sequence skills, skills that are developed in a specific order because one set of skills builds on the next, builds on the next. And it the entire focus of that course is to help people outgrow their survival plan and upgrade their trival plan and their ability to live there. Thriveal plan. That's the resource that I would recommend. *Ari* [00:10:17] Awesome. So I have I have. *Ari* [00:10:21] I was I'm glad that you brought that up, because while I don't mind you being a little self-serving, I was being self-serving in having you mention a word, which is integrity. *Ari* [00:10:34] And I think a lot of people mistaken in what integrity is to something outside of themselves, not something within themselves. Yes. In action that you take verses away, that you feel inside of you. And so I'd like you to talk a little bit more about integrity itself and how that relates to a person taking on actions outside of themselves before they do the work inside. *David* [00:11:10] Right. Which, of course, never works well, if we take actions outside of ourselves before we've done the inner work, then, you know, if if you're if we're taking action from a foundation of crap, we're gonna get crap. Very simple. *David* [00:11:25] Now about integrity. Integrity is one of those words that unfortunately falls in a category I referred to as true, but not useful because tons of people. Truly an authentically not not as lip service, but tons of people truly believe in the idea of integrity. But when I ask them to tell me what integrity is and what skills are necessary, they they don't know how to answer. And so forget for the moment about ill intended people who don't believe in integrity. What I'm talking about right now are people who authentically believe in integrity, just like most people, and authentically believe in collaboration. But they've never been trained in the skills that enable them to walk the talk. So what is integrity? *David* [00:12:14] Integrity revolves around the three core drives that I was referring to earlier, our drive to be who we truly are, authenticity, our drive to bond with others connection and our drive to influence the world around us. Impact, authenticity our authenticity. Core drive is about being in integrity with our selves, with our own, the promptings that come from our deepest self, our deepest nature, our deepest callings and and connection. The connection core drive is about relationship integrity, doing what we say we're going to do and holding ourselves accountable when when what we do is not aligned with our intentions and then impact our impact or drive corresponds with collective or societal integrity being an integrity with the groups that we are a part of. *David* [00:13:14] So integrity is not one dimensional, it's three dimensional. And as someone who was primarily motivated for the largest part of my life up until about 20 years ago, by contributing to societal integrity, I sacrificed myself integrity. I killed off my first marriage. Well, that was cocreator. The killing off was cocreator. But my part in killing off my first marriage was because I became so self neglectful that my heart shut down. And even though I was a dutiful husband and I did all the right things and I didn't do them as a martyr or feeling like I was sacrificing myself, I became so depleted that the thing that my first wife most rightly wanted from me, which was my heart, stopped being available. So I was out of integrity with myself and in my primary relationship, all while I was pursuing all of my social improvement initiatives. And that is is what I call One-dimensional integrity. It was a light bulb moment when I realized that I understood a fair amount of relationship about relationship integrity, even though I was falling to the wayside with some of that. And I understood a lot about societal integrity, but I didn't count integrity with myself as a form of integrity. There are other people who are at it at a different point with that, where they're all about themselves and they're and they're all about being an integrity with themselves. And if you don't like who I am and what I do, that's your problem. Well, that's one dimensional integrity. That's not three dimensional integrity. Integrity is three dimensional. *Ari* [00:15:07] That's you know, that's a really good point because. I've had similar experiences, and I think that everybody can relate to this is sacrificing yourself. *Ari* [00:15:21] For others or sacrificing yourself of sacrificing others for yourself, right? *Ari* [00:15:29] I think that that we can relate to this as a regular thing, and I don't think that it's necessarily. *Ari* [00:15:38] Common to have only one of these things right? Depending on the relationship, I'm sacrificing myself here for the better good here or I'm sacrificing the better. Good for this here. You know, sacrificing in the middle. *Ari* [00:15:54] Right. *Ari* [00:15:54] We're always having a balancing act between sacrificing our integrity and keeping it because we are such a busy society. Because we've had to create our value by what we do. *Ari* [00:16:10] And this kind of goes back to the original part of our conversation is, is the sacrifice for work and money worth the lack of integrity towards ourselves? And if not, how can we as a society lift each other up to that place of integrity vs. you know, I, I let's just say I didn't vote. *Ari* [00:16:40] Somebody doesn't vote. Right? Why? Because I don't feel like my vote counts, as you were saying at the beginning of this conversation. Well, that help. I sing my integrity as a contributing impact person both to myself and to the society at large. *Ari* [00:16:59] Right. So how do we shift this perspective from nothing. I do really matters anyway. *David* [00:17:09] This is what you're what you're pointing toward is a is people's belief in a law of scarcity that in order to have this, I have to sacrifice that. And when we allow that either or thinking to affect our happiness formula, we're basically screwed. So if I think that I have to sacrifice my integrity in order to have financial well-being. Or that I have to sacrifice financial well-being in order to keep my integrity. I am engaging in psycho spiritual insanity. I'm engaging in either or thinking when what is what our design is is both and thinking. Our design is to live at the intersection of our authenticity, our connection with others and our positive impact in the world. It's not one being sacrificed for the other two or two being sacrificed for one of them. It's all three in synergy, in collaboration with each other. We have collectively forgotten that vision of being human and because of that we are operating as a society. Again, there's some lovely individuals who have, you know, woak awakened from the spell. But as a society, we are still under the spell of a profoundly and dysfunctionally and harmfully sic happiness formula. It is not a real happiness formula. It's a dystopian formula. And we don't know it collectively, and it's time that people started calling it like it is. I am not a fan of political correctness. I am a fan. Huge fan of treating people with respect, compassion and regard. And when I am civil with people, when I am authentically respectful to them, toward them and compassionate toward them, I don't have to worry. One split second about about political correctness. Political correctness as an attempt to legislate morality and morality cannot be legislated. It can only be developed in us because we've healed those traumas that you you're referring to earlier so that we are living our authentic self rather than our wounded self. *Ari* [00:19:42] Yeah, you know, I agree. I don't think that. I'm not a fan of political correctness. I'm not I'm not a fan. So much of correctness at all. You know, I really like if somebody were to point out my the experience of my life is very rare moments that I've actually been what somebody else might consider to be correct. *Ari* [00:20:11] And I would imagine that that's probably the same thing behind closed doors that anybody and everybody else that's listening. *Ari* [00:20:22] Would be able to relate to. Is that correctness is on? *Ari* [00:20:29] It's unlegislated all because nobody has the same morality. Not a single person has every single thing in alignment with ever with another person's morality. And so how can we possibly legislate that? You know, we've tried because of religion. So religion originally was the first attempt at legislating morality, in my opinion. *Ari* [00:20:54] All right. Let's see what we can do to take a set of a community that's tribal. Right. *Ari* [00:21:03] And create a civil society so that we can all live together in somewhat peace and harmony. Right. And then and then let's create some rules around that. So don't covet you know, don't steal. Don't murder. Right. These are all commandments. But really what they are is legislating a level of morality because, you know, don't murder unless, of course, you're being attacked. *Ari* [00:21:30] Right. Don't don't covet somebodies, you know, goods unless it's driving you to be better so that you can afford those goods. *Ari* [00:21:40] Also, you know, I mean, we really have have a slippery slope when it comes to legislating morality, legislating vices and telling people what they can and can't do with their personal space. However, when you talk about companies, as you were saying earlier, and legislating what companies can do to people's space, that might be a little bit different. *Ari* [00:22:10] And we've kind of gone backwards on this and we stop legislating corporate structures in favor of deregulation. Right. *Ari* [00:22:23] And started to regulate people's behavior as it relates to things even, you know, like in the olden days, in the 20s of of alcohol prohibition. *Ari* [00:22:37] Also, we prohibit the things that we think as a society are morally questionable. *Ari* [00:22:45] And then we allow a company to poison our food, poison our water, poisoned our air in in attempts for profit for money. *Ari* [00:22:55] So, you know, when we look at this as a society at large and we go, is this working optimally? *Ari* [00:23:05] Is this moving our world and our society forward? I say no. *Ari* [00:23:13] Caveat, maybe a little. *Ari* [00:23:15] In some places and not in others. But really the whole point of this conversation is to awaken people into some other points of view that may not be politically correct or agree with your point of view. *Ari* [00:23:32] So. *Ari* [00:23:33] How do we agree to disagree? *Ari* [00:23:39] And still be authentically ourselves without having to worry about the offense of political correctness,. *David* [00:23:50] The way I think we start to do that is by establishing first. *David* [00:23:55] What we agree to agree upon. So what I mean by that, for example, is that. And I have I have a different perspective about the Ten Commandments. I view the Ten Commandments not as commandments, but as promises. *David* [00:24:18] That when you are in alignment with love, you can't help but behave those ways, not because you should, but because behaving in any way other than those ways would just be out of integrity for you wouldn't feel good. It wouldn't feel right. I don't agree that there is no universal morality. *David* [00:24:40] I am firmly convinced that there is. But it's not a Theal a theology. It's a universal morality that is built into our fundamental human nature, related to our three core drives. That that when we are. Truly, who we are designed to be when we are authentic, when we are bonded, when we're connected, when we are loving. And when we are devoted to having positive impact in the world. Expression of our three core drives is our fundamental morality and is integrity. *David* [00:25:26] In other words, what I'm saying is we are designed by our wiring to live within to in integrity. And it is our trauma structure. It's our unfinished business. It's our societal programing that is dysfunctional societal programing that seduces us out of our fundamental human nature. We have to learn how to love. *David* [00:25:50] We have to remove the blocks to the awareness of love. Love's presence, presence. We have to learn how to be authentic. We have to change ourselves. We have to remove the traumas that stand between us and being authentic. So I think there is a fundamental universal. Morality, and it's built into our wiring. And when we can agree on what we have, yes, about then we can put our differences into a context that allow our differences to enrich UST rather than divide us. *Ari* [00:26:25] That is beautifully stated, and I like having people who disagree with me because that allows me to learn something new. *Ari* [00:26:35] And, you know, it's why I it's why when I'm looking on Facebook, for instance, all start searching for things that go completely against my point of view at I don't fall into that echo chamber that we or bubble thought bubble that that we started talking about. *Ari* [00:26:56] And I have the ability to then say, OK, what is this? And, you know, I've never had the thought. I think I got it, this friend, this person, because of what they're posting. Right. I've never had that as something that I've thought, huh? No, they don't. They don't agree with me. I think I'm going to defend them. *Ari* [00:27:18] Right. Yeah. *Ari* [00:27:20] Such a foreign kind of a concept in my world. So how come it's such a common. *Ari* [00:27:28] Fundamental thing happening in the world, because it just seems like it seems ridiculous to me. *David* [00:27:37] Well, at the macro level, I think it's happening in the world today because. Because we have. A species that species being humanity. That is in a collective state of terror and the collective state of terror that I believe humanity is in right now. Is that all of the old structures? Are crumbling because they're being outgrown. The things that the structures that were helpful in propelling us forward in fits and starts and an imperfectly for the last couple of thousand years. Are not the structures that are going to propel us forward the next couple of thousand years? And when people fall into a trap that I think we're programed to fall into, which is to identify who we are through what we believe. Then if what we believe starts to crumble, we stop thinking we can know who we are. So we desperately cling to old belief systems in order to hold onto some version of identity. And that's a very false version of identity. You know, you're talking about being a human doing. Right. And when when in a society teaches us to be human doings, when first and foremost we are human beings. Right. And so this is this is, I think, at the heart of of the problem. Ah ah. Ways of understanding and our ways of functioning are crumbling. It's scaring the crap out of most people. And so they are becoming more and more tightly bonded, tightly and tightly woven to their belief system because they are afraid they won't know who they are. If those systems crumble. *Ari* [00:29:51] That's a that's an interesting way of looking at it. You know, as I was thinking about what you're saying. The image in my head was that of meat inside of a pressure cooker. All right. You put the meat in the pressure cooker and it's hard. *Ari* [00:30:10] You put it in. *Ari* [00:30:12] Massive amounts of pressure and heat. [00:30:16] Make it soft vs., say, a diamond that's been created over years of intense pressure and heat. *Ari* [00:30:27] Right. Creates this beautiful thing called the diamond. *Ari* [00:30:32] And I believe that in some ways the weaknesses of our society were caused because our culture was like you were saying earlier, our parents wanted us to be have it better than they had it. *Ari* [00:30:50] And so they attempted at every point to remove the pressure cooker. *Ari* [00:30:59] And the way I look at it, it begins with C sections at birth because they have found that the people who have C sections that are born from a C section. And this isn't this isn't to say to somebody who's had one, you're bad for having one. *Ari* [00:31:20] It's just to say that in general that the first struggle of a human being is the struggle for life coming out that small tube. *Ari* [00:31:33] And then coming out into the world and we have removed that first struggle and some people have postulated that that has itself. *Ari* [00:31:45] Become part of the weaknesses of the people who have been born that way. I know that when when Gabriel was born, we had to have a C-section because of a fibroid. *Ari* [00:31:58] And we did what we called a natural C-section, which was smaller hole. And we had him, like, squeeze out more. So it would be mimicking more experience. Right. *Ari* [00:32:13] But the more we coddle our society, the more we remove the pressure cooker. And, you know, the lesson of the lobster is is the same a lobster. *Ari* [00:32:27] Outgrows his shell by making the shelf so tight around the body that it has to be removed. *Ari* [00:32:37] And we have artificially removed the shell and this stunted the growth. Right. What do you think of any of what I just said? *David* [00:32:50] I think it's spot on. I think that part of why we have so many immune system problems in people today is because we stopped, you know, when I was a kid. *David* [00:33:03] We didn't have the term free range children because all of us were free range children. So there wasn't a term for it. It's what kids did. They they ran around and had a great time together and got in trouble sometimes and fell and and scraped their knee or broke their leg or whatever it was, parents who coddled their children. *David* [00:33:26] On the other hand, these were the children who who grew up with entitlement disorder. These are the children who grew up thinking that the world owed them something because they didn't grow up with self responsibility. They didn't grow up with with experiencing growth coming from pain. Not to say that we should be seeking out pain all the time, because I don't think we're supposed to seek out pain all the time. I think we're supposed to have be familiar enough with pain so we don't run from it. And so it can wisen us. It can help us become wiser rather than more defeated. So, you know, when we have when we have a society that is antiseptic, that is trying to protect people, we fall into that old teaching story. *David* [00:34:16] You've probably heard it, too, about the little boy who's out in the woods. And one day he sees this. This butterfly trying to make its way out of the cocoon. And he is standing there feeling what feels to him like deep compassion. All he wants to do is to rescue, save this this butterfly from the pain of of having to break out of its cocoon so it can fly away. And so he breaks the cocoon open and the butterfly falls dead to the ground. He picks up the butterfly. He runs home to to his mother and he's crying. And he said he's saying what? What happened? I tried to help this butterfly and it died. What? What a horrible person am I? What did I do wrong? And of course, the mom's response in this teaching story, the healthy response was, honey. *David* [00:35:12] Your compassion was wonderful. *David* [00:35:16] And you tried to save this butterfly from an experience it needed to have in order to be able to fly away, and you simply didn't know that. And this in turn, reminds me of one of my favorite sayings from a 20th century theologian by the name of Reinhold Niebuhr, which is that our mission? *David* [00:35:39] Is if we really care about elevating people and about elevating the world. Our mission is to both comfort the afflicted and to afflict the comfortable. Not one or the other. *David* [00:35:56] Both. And this is what I was referring to in the beginning in our first segment about at the end of the segment about. About the two forms of love. If we have nurturance without challenge, nurturing love, without challenging love, we get narcissistic, entitled people. If we have challenging without nurturance, challenging love without nurturance, we get shamed. *David* [00:36:22] And disempowered people or tyrants. It's got to be both and. *David* [00:36:30] But we don't live in a both and society anymore. We live in an either or society. And that is the fundamental sickness of our society today is vastly immature either or thinking that we are programed into having. And that we better wake the hell up out of. If we want to evolve into a next golden age. *Ari* [00:36:52] That's that's a very profound thing. And, you know, I'm going to ask you a question I haven't asked anybody, which is. *Ari* [00:37:01] If I was to ask you a question that would sum up. The sum total of everything we've talked about. Right. *Ari* [00:37:11] And give us that path forward so that we can create a new tomorrow, so that we can activate our vision for a better world. And so that we can be these impactful Integris humans that we were designed to be. *Ari* [00:37:30] What would that path be? *David* [00:37:34] It would be the path toward what you've heard me say. It's the path towards self sovereignty that serves us all. It's the intersection of self responsibility in the context of living in a in a society where we are responsible for ourselves and we are contributing to the common good. Not one over the other. Self sovereignty that serves us all. *Ari* [00:38:04] That is that's beautiful and I so appreciate you being here and I think we've had plenty of. *Ari* [00:38:12] Tools that somebody can take away from this conversation and start applying, if you were to give just one other tool for the how, so that somebody can take that conceptual knowledge and wisdom that we just spent an hour and a half disseminating. Right. One simple tool. *Ari* [00:38:38] To activate that in them. What would that will be. *David* [00:38:44] That the toll would be a an imagery, a piece of imagery. That's about shifting our mindset. And the imagery is of a jigsaw puzzle. So imagine a jigsaw puzzle where all the pieces are out on the table and they're all upside down. And we're in a group of people and we're all busy turning all the pieces over so that we see what's what's on each piece. *David* [00:39:11] And then, sure enough, some of us cluster around finding pieces that are the corners of the puzzle and others of us cluster around finding pieces that are the edges of the puzzle. And others of us start making discoveries about parts of inside the puzzle that are elements of the picture that the puzzle is creating, like a window or a door or flower or whatever. *David* [00:39:40] And imagine that one other thing, which is that unlike a typical jigsaw puzzle, we're on the cover of the box. You see what the puzzle is supposed to look like when it's done. *David* [00:39:53] There is no box, so we don't know what the puzzle is supposed to look like when it's done. And we have two choices. We can either start to polarize and accuse the cornerists of being horrific people because all they care about is the corners or the edge ists or the flowerists or the doorists or the window ests. *David* [00:40:17] Rather than saying. Isn't it wonderful that you're so focused on the corners that you're identifying those on behalf of all of us? And the edges and the flowers and the and the doors and the windows so that we can co discover togather what the picture is meant to look like when it's all put together. That vision of synergy, of collaboration, if we can keep that in mind and in our hearts and in our spirits when we are interacting with other people who have different perspectives from ours. *David* [00:40:55] The magic is just going to start happening. That's the last tool I'll leave you with. *Ari* [00:41:01] That is. *Ari* [00:41:02] That's a beautiful image and I so appreciate you being here. I appreciate this conversation and the gifts that you've just given the audience. I hope that they will walk away from this conversation, having pulled at least 20 or 30, not just one, but 20 or 30 good gems that they can then take with them and and really, really start to create their new tomorrow and activate their vision for a better world, because this is my way of impacting the world. *Ari* [00:41:41] Is to bring these kinds of conversations out into full view of the public so that we can have deep, considerate conversations about where we want to be, who we want to be and what we want to create in this world. *Ari* [00:41:58] And I really appreciate you being here. What's again, you know, I'd like you to actually say the Web site, both for you as well as for that particular integrity piece and how people can get a hold of you if they'd like to learn more from you. *David* [00:42:17] Sure. So, first of all, thank you for your mission of service. Because what you're doing through this podcast has the potential to have widespread, important, significant impact, positive impact in the world. So my main Web site is DrGruder.com. That's drgruder.com. And if you want to be in touch with me, you'll find on drgruder.com a blue button that says contact and click on the blue button and you'll have different ways of contacting me. The Integrity Guide to having it all course that's available. You can find that by going to drgruder.com/academy. That'll take you to the Doctor Gruder Academy page. And it's the first course that's listed. dr.gruder.com/academy. *Ari* [00:43:17] Excellent. Thank you so much. And thank you audience for sticking with us, listening to this episode. *Ari* [00:43:23] And I wish you a really, really blessed day. *Ari* [00:43:29] And I wish you the kahunas to challenge yourself. *Ari* [00:43:38] To become the person that, you know, you are already inside and to shift what you might be doing now to create something more based on results performance and create a better world with us. Collaborate with us so that we together can bring in and usher in this new society that is focused on creating a world we all can live in, in harmony with nature. *Ari* [00:44:11] And I just I bless you all. Hope you have a healthy day. This has been another episode of Create a New Tomorrow with your host, Ari Gronich. And thank you so much, David Gruder, for being here. We really appreciate all of your wisdom and experience. *David* [00:44:27] Thank you. Thank you for having me. *Ari* [00:44:30] Thank you for listening to this podcast. I appreciate all you do to create a new tomorrow for yourself and those around you. If you'd like to take this information further and are interested in joining a community of like minded people who are all passionate about activating their vision for a better world, go to the Web site, create a new tomorrow. Com and find out how you can be part of making a bigger difference. I have a gift for you. Just for checking it out. *Ari* [00:44:55] And look forward to seeing you take the leap. And joining our private paid mastermind community. Until then, see you on the next episode.

In this episode I interviewed Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner and gifted healer Laurie Morse on one of her numerous specialties: guiding women in navigating their menopause journey and preventing or reversing Heart Disease, so they can enjoy vibrant health throughout their second half life. Laurie's latest book, Reverse Heart Disease Naturally ~ The Woman's Guide to Not Die before Your Time, was an instant Amazon bestseller. She also provides 2 great gifts at the end of the episode, which you can access via https://www.DrGruder.com/hearthealth

In this episode I interviewed Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner and gifted healer Laurie Morse on one of her numerous specialties: guiding women in navigating their menopause journey and preventing or reversing Heart Disease, so they can enjoy vibrant health throughout their second half life. Laurie's latest book, Reverse Heart Disease Naturally ~ The Woman's Guide to Not Die before Your Time, was an instant Amazon bestseller. She also provides 2 great gifts at the end of the episode, which you can access via https://www.DrGruder.com/hearthealth

In the 2020s, Propaganda-Proofing yourself has unfortunately become an essential self-development skill for citizens, influencers, and leaders. As you discovered in Episode 3 of this podcast, this starts with aligning yourself with FREEsponsibility and the Five Great Truths of Thriving Societies. Episode 4 builds on this by exposing the anatomy of propaganda more fully than you’ve ever heard, so you can free yourself from today’s relentless mindjacking attempts far more effectively than you’ve ever known how to do. More on Propaganda: Watch the video of Dr. Gruder’s TEDx talk on the hidden dynamics of propaganda — The Hijacking off the American Dream — on the www.HijackingOfHappiness.com home page. This adds more depth to what is covered in this Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast episode. Then explore the website to learn more about how you can break free from the hijacking of health, prosperity, problem-solving, and patriotism. More on FREEsponsibility & the 5 Great Truths of Thriving Societies: Access the FREEsponsibility MasterClass and InfoSource at www.5GreatTruths.org. It takes you on a deep dive into what you discovered (or will discover) about this by listening to Episode 3 of the Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast. More on Successful Self-Development: Access a free masterclass on what went wrong in the human potential movement and how to take charge of your self-development during the 2020s decade like never before at www.DrGruder.com/hpmasterclass. It builds on what you discovered (or will discover) about this by listening to Episode 2 of the Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast.

In the 2020s, Propaganda-Proofing yourself has unfortunately become an essential self-development skill for citizens, influencers, and leaders. As you discovered in Episode 3 of this podcast, this starts with aligning yourself with FREEsponsibility and the Five Great Truths of Thriving Societies. Episode 4 builds on this by exposing the anatomy of propaganda more fully than you’ve ever heard, so you can free yourself from today’s relentless mindjacking attempts far more effectively than you’ve ever known how to do. More on Propaganda: Watch the video of Dr. Gruder’s TEDx talk on the hidden dynamics of propaganda — The Hijacking off the American Dream — on the www.HijackingOfHappiness.com home page. This adds more depth to what is covered in this Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast episode. Then explore the website to learn more about how you can break free from the hijacking of health, prosperity, problem-solving, and patriotism. More on FREEsponsibility & the 5 Great Truths of Thriving Societies: Access the FREEsponsibility MasterClass and InfoSource at www.5GreatTruths.org. It takes you on a deep dive into what you discovered (or will discover) about this by listening to Episode 3 of the Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast. More on Successful Self-Development: Access a free masterclass on what went wrong in the human potential movement and how to take charge of your self-development during the 2020s decade like never before at www.DrGruder.com/hpmasterclass. It builds on what you discovered (or will discover) about this by listening to Episode 2 of the Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast.

In this second episode of the "Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up" Podcast, Dr. Gruder challenges the status quo of the human potential movement. We need to radically revision self-development in the 2020s decade so we’re better equipped to rise above the societal and political craziness, and become more fully authentic, happy, healthy, & empowered as individuals, and more effectively integrious, collaborative, & impactful as citizens. In this Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast episode, Dr. Gruder unveils a powerful strategic framework to help this happen. You'll find the free resource Dr. Gruder mentions toward the end of this episode at www.DrGruder.com/hpmasterclass. Discover where Dr. Gruder stands on the issues he is missioned with addressing at www.DrGruder.com/position-statement.

In this second episode of the "Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up" Podcast, Dr. Gruder challenges the status quo of the human potential movement. We need to radically revision self-development in the 2020s decade so we’re better equipped to rise above the societal and political craziness, and become more fully authentic, happy, healthy, & empowered as individuals, and more effectively integrious, collaborative, & impactful as citizens. In this Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast episode, Dr. Gruder unveils a powerful strategic framework to help this happen. You'll find the free resource Dr. Gruder mentions toward the end of this episode at www.DrGruder.com/hpmasterclass. Discover where Dr. Gruder stands on the issues he is missioned with addressing at www.DrGruder.com/position-statement.

In this second episode of the "Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up" Podcast, Dr. Gruder challenges the status quo of the human potential movement. We need to radically revision self-development in the 2020s decade so we’re better equipped to rise above the societal and political craziness, and become more fully authentic, happy, healthy, & empowered as individuals, and more effectively integrious, collaborative, & impactful as citizens. In this Wake Up, Wise Up, Step Up podcast episode, Dr. Gruder unveils a powerful strategic framework to help this happen. You'll find the free resource Dr. Gruder mentions toward the end of this episode at www.DrGruder.com/hpmasterclass. Discover where Dr. Gruder stands on the issues he is missioned with addressing at www.DrGruder.com/position-statement.

#EvolveYourMoneyRelationship with David Gruder, PhD [Part 3-3] Want lots of MONEY? Then time to call out the giant "Money-Elephant" in the room! #BeFEARless #FaceEverythingAndRise Put on your galoshes, cuz it's getting deep (I had to pull out my Jimmy Choo fishing waders for this one ~ bahaahahh!) We must shine the light on the Not-Enough-Money myths that are blinding us from #MoneyShadowFreedom.  Failure is my best teacher! My greatest life altering debacle was my FAILED suicide attempt. "I had reached the end of my rope, it was do, or die...and, in my reality---a matter of life and death. So, miraculously, I chose LIFE." ~ #KarenLoveLee However, not without massive resistance, I was willing to tough it out by committing to learning what I did not know was "in shadow," by finally taking full #SelfResponsibility. David brilliantly sums up our shared sentiments based on our personal experiences, "My clarity, innovations and contribution to human potential came from my being in pain over an issue in myself, and going out on a journey to find resources that helped to an extent, but not far enough..." Eventually realizing, "The only resource I could depend on to get me where I wanted to go was my RELATIONSHIP with source. And then, wisdom coming through me that's smarter than me." Profoundly relating, I was in awe. This is almost identical to what I went through, which confirms what I truly believe ~ the beings we attract are mirror-reflections to and for us, as opportunities for greater growth and wisdom. "Thank you, David, for being this wise and relatable reflection." Part 3 is so rich in nutrients to nourish your #MoneyRelationship that you're going to want to listen to this one over and over again! Dr. David drops this mind-blowing #TruthBomb, "The faulty formula is 'Money Creates Wealth.'" Having learned and lived by this code of ethics to a fault---being enslaved to his practice, he neglected himself, creating a cycle of depletion, stress and destruction. Humbly admitting, "...that was my contribution to the demise of my first marriage." I interject with "sounds like drowning, which is what I felt like after my sister died." David depicts more accurately, "I was pretending to tread water, while I was actually in the process of drowning." This is all about acknowledging all the elephants in the room without any self-judgement. Using past experiences of what did not serve us by transforming who we are, our behaviors and actions to evolve and elevate every aspect of life. Part 3-3: Monetization Mastery — Replacing Myths & Shadow Programming With the Missing Keys: Why affirmations aren’t nearly enough. Identifying your M-Wealths. Taking charge of your life energy allocations. Evaluating your monetization decisions. Filling your monetization gaps. Dr. David Gruder, PhD, DCEP | Integrity Culture Systems™ | www.DrGruder.com 11-award-winning multidisciplinary psychologist who has provided keynotes & training programs on 3 continents in 8 countries for 40+ years. Trailblazer in integrated self-development, integrity restoration, leader effectiveness, business success, culture architecture, and ethical ways to market, sell, & embody personal power. GRACIOUS & ETERNAL THANKS FOR DAVID'S RAVE REVIEW: "Karen is a top-flight podcast host. She cares so much about her listeners that she devoted an unusual amount of time to understand both my work and me deeply enough to be certain that interviewing me would be highly valuable for her listeners. During the show she brought our discussion to a far deeper level of understanding, and a far greater amount of transparent self-disclosure, than any of the other multiple hundred media interviews I’ve given. What a class act Karen is. Her rare level of devotion to serving her listeners is truly precious. Consider yourself blessed to have discovered her. I sure do." ~ Dr. David Gruder, PhD, "America's Integrity Expert" www.KarenLoveLee.com PLEASE CONTACT KarenLoveLee@gmail.com #KarenLoveLee #KarenLoveLeeTV #KarenLoveLeePodcast #ThePowerOfSelfEVOLution #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs

#EvolveYourMoneyRelationship with David Gruder, PhD [Part 2-3] Our relationship to money is now starting to heat up! Why? Because the more we delve into our relationship to our SELF, and the truest "Crystal Ball," our Inner-Child, the more telling our relationship to "Money," or lack thereof. We can only connect dots of wisdom looking backwards. Therefore, making these profound connections to our scorned childhood experiences, which lurk "In Shadow," shall set us free. #SelfFreedom As I encourage Dr. David to share on the deepest level, as holding back on my show is prohibited ~ lol! He brings on the woo-woo! As far as I'm concerned the woo-ier the better!! This, by far, is the bulk of my own "Wealth," referring to David's eye-opening tagline, "Wealth Creates Money." David shares his near death experience at age 3 that paved the way to his own lack of wealth rearing it's ugly head decades later, simply because of what was hidden in his shadows.... Uncanny yet inspiriting,  I recall similar supernatural experiences that informed my own self-sabotaging patterns, which fed right into our like-ways---as David eloquently professes to being an "Addicted giver and phobic receiver." "Yikes, I'm not liking what I see in the mirror! However, the only reason to keep looking heartily into the Mirror-of-SELF is because auspiciously, the virtue that emerges is breath-taking." ~ #KarenLoveLee, #SelfLoveSpecialist Part 2-3: Money Shadow Freedom Money Shadow Programming — Getting Free: Reversed Sourcing Entitlement Scripts Money Risks Spiritual Reciprocity Blocking BONUS: Dr. David brilliantly enlightens us with, "The Law of Reciprocity is more powerful than the 'Law of Attraction.'" Dr. David Gruder, PhD, DCEP | Integrity Culture Systems™ | www.DrGruder.com 11-award-winning multidisciplinary psychologist who has provided keynotes & training programs on 3 continents in 8 countries for 40+ years. Trailblazer in integrated self-development, integrity restoration, leader effectiveness, business success, culture architecture, and ethical ways to market, sell, & embody personal power. RAVE REVIEW "Karen is a top-flight podcast host. She cares so much about her listeners that she devoted an unusual amount of time to understand both my work and me deeply enough to be certain that interviewing me would be highly valuable for her listeners. During the show she brought our discussion to a far deeper level of understanding, and a far greater amount of transparent self-disclosure, than any of the other multiple hundred media interviews I’ve given. What a class act Karen is. Her rare level of devotion to serving her listeners is truly precious. Consider yourself blessed to have discovered her. I sure do." ~ Dr. David Gruder, PhD, "America's Integrity Expert" www.KarenLoveLee.com PLEASE CONTACT KarenLoveLee@gmail.com #KarenLoveLee #KarenLoveLeeTV #KarenLoveLeePodcast #ThePowerOfSelfEVOLution #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU #EmpoweringYouThroughUs  

Evolve Your Money Relationship with David Gruder, PhD [Part 1-3] When it’s time to grow and level up, seek experts, specialists & professionals who know first-hand by facing, enduring and persevering through their own humbling experiences of failure; who persistently self-reflect, risk, reinvent, restructure and execute; and are willing to be #RealRawRelatable in the name of EMPOWERING YOU!  My special guest, Dr. David, who refers to himself as a “Recovering psychologist,” which is what sealed the deal to collaborate on a phenomenal podcast series simply because I resonated to his #WordsOfWisdom! This followed hearing his brilliant sound bite, “We live our lives at the level of our wounds, not our wishes.” POW ~ right to my gut! I intuitively felt that I must connect with him, not only for his spot-on messaging, but most impactfully, his beingness….In short, I dig his vibe!!!!!  I am honored to associate with extraordinary people, but when an “11-Award Winning Multidisciplinary Psychologist & Best-Selling Author; Business Consultant, specializing in Leader Effectiveness, Enterprise Success, and Culture Architecture & International Speaker/Trainer,” is candidly transparent and humble---willing to be an "Open Book," I'm more enthralled than ever! Refreshing authenticity, like Dr. David’s, yet atypical in the realm of psychotherapy, is what has made THE difference along my own journey of #SelfEVOLution. And, the very thing that was missing from all of mine, and my clients’ numerous therapists, counselors & mentors. Most notably, just like myself, “The Grudes” is beyond being outside the box -- he rolls without any box!  I am a descendant of Chinese royalty, and genius academic Master Degrees/PhD's; Radcliffe, Harvard, Cornell, Princeton, Oxford -- yadda-yadda, yawn!! Though, what was gravely missing was the ability to feel interrelated, connected and understood...  “Yet, despite his breadth of experience, accolades and requests, you won’t find a speaker, trainer, or trusted advisor who is more joyful, approachable, humble, collaborative, and teachable, than Dr. Gruder.” ~ www.DrGruder.com/about My whole “Schtick” is transforming and transcending the UNconscious childhood wounds that ultimately stop us from sustaining our fullest-purest potential...The only thing that saved and catapulted my life! So, when I heard David say, “Wounds,” I immediately knew, “This is the guy!” Ironically, when asked what podcast topic he’d like to delve into, he blurts out, “Money Shadow Freedom,” illuminating misconceptions in shadow, giving way to understanding how “Wealth Creates Money,” NOT the other way around.  Ta-dah! A topic after my own heart, and exactly what I have been hyper-focusing on in my immediate life for the past several months. Ladies and gentlemen, “Ask, and thou shall receive!” And, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” The mysteriously astounding subconscious phenomenon is that consciously, this was not even remotely on my radar. BAM! This is the LAW OF ATTRACTION at its best!!!! Buckle up, and let’s ride this confronting, yet exhilarating roller-coaster, EVOLVE YOUR MONEY RELATIONSHIP.  “There isn’t anything more exquisitely divine than our primary Relationship-to-SELF, in which all other RELATIONSHIPS are based.” ~ Karen Love Lee, #SelfLoveSpecialist BONUS: David shares his Success Secret Formula ~ Download and listen NOW! Part 1-3: Money Shadow Freedom Money Myth-Busting — Waking Up From the Money Spell: Cultural Money Polarization (Wealth versus Integrity) Faulty definitions of money and capitalism. False conceptions about what causes greed. The myth that money is anti-spiritual. Dr. David Gruder, PhD, DCEP | Integrity Culture Systems™ | www.DrGruder.com "Award-winning psychologist who has provided keynotes & training programs on 3 continents in 8 countries for 40+ years. Trailblazer in integrated self-development, integrity restoration, leader effectiveness, business success, culture architecture, and ethical ways to market, sell, & embody personal power." www.KarenLoveLee.com PLEASE CONTACT KarenLoveLee@gmail.com #KarenLoveLee #KarenLoveLeeTV #KarenLoveLeePodcast #ThePowerOfSelfEVOLution #KarenLoveLeeEmpowersYOU

How can you use integrity and accountability to create positive disruption in your market and in your business? You’ll learn from Dr. David Gruder the four critical elements that foster an environment where your customers trust you to deliver, creating a compelling competitive advantage, especially with executives. Dr David is widely recognized as a highly regarded speaker, trainer & executive coach in the areas of leadership, entrepreneurship, organizational development, and personal development. He has authored The New IQ: How Integrity Intelligence Serves You, Your Relationships, and Our World, and Transcendent Thought and Market Leadership 1.0 with Bruce Wright, along with other books and publications. Get more information at: www.DrGruder.com www.HijackingofHappiness.com www.TheNewIQ.com Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join the Selling Disruption Show Community today: sellingdisruptionshow.com Selling Disruption Show Facebook Selling Disruption Show LinkedIn

Do you push down your anger or blow up? Do you direct it toward yourself or toward others? There are 4 shades of anger. Three aren’t merely ineffective: they’re harmful. One is very helpful. Each needs to be dealt with differently. Now YOU can learn how, during a FREE webinar David Gruder is  giving this coming Thursday, June 18, 2015 (or watch via the recording!). David Gruder is a 9-award-winning psychologist who developed the world's first & only Full Spectrum Anger Effectiveness Secrets™ system. You probably didn't know that did you? This webinar is for you if you want to get the upper hand on your own anger with other people's anger. It's for you whether the anger you're dealing with anger is in your personal life, your work life, or your community. The Full Spectrum Anger Effectiveness Secrets™ system is acclaimed across cultures around the world because of its universal usefulness: ** “One of the best theories of anger (and how to use it wisely) I've read.” ~ Beth Spencer, Australia. ** "Terrific. Original. Very well articulated. Even helps people answer their own questions.” ~ Iwowarri Berian James, Nigeria. ** “Without this system, it would have taken me a lifetime to develop my ability to resolve conflict without anger or force.” ~ Craig Collins, USA. Don't be left out. Register now: www.DrGruder.com/angerwebinar! And remember to spread the word by forwarding this email to your colleagues and friends, and posting the link on Facebook, LinkedIn, Google+, Twitter, and so forth.