Podcast appearances and mentions of lara mcelderry

Lara McElderry is a founder of the Married To Doctors podcast. She holds a master's degree in teaching from the University of Arkansas, focusing on family dynamics.   Lara navigates the medical world for 17 years while supporting her husband through various stages of his medical career, all while raising five boys.   She created her podcast to provide a supportive space for physician's spouses, addressing the unique challenges they face.   Laura explains how her niche podcast connects physician spouses, allowing them to share their challenges and support one another.   She also discusses her business growth, including securing sponsors and the significance of consistency in content creation, celebrating her first year of uninterrupted podcast publishing. Website:  Married To Doctors  Instagram: marriedtodoctors   Previous Episode: iam165-founder-and-podcaster-passionate-about-family-dynamics-in-the-medical-world   Check out our CEO Hack Buzz Newsletter–our premium newsletter with hacks and nuggets to level up your organization. Sign up HERE.  I AM CEO Handbook Volume 3 is HERE and it's FREE. Get your copy here: http://cbnation.co/iamceo3. Get the 100+ things that you can learn from 1600 business podcasts we recorded. Hear Gresh's story, learn the 16 business pillars from the podcast, find out about CBNation Architects and why you might be one and so much more. Did we mention it was FREE? Download it today!

In this last episode of the Married to Doctors Podcast, Lara shares her hopes for her listeners in what they have gained from her show. Lara has increased the dialogue for physician families and physician spouses and became a voice for the physician family community. "I hope that throughout this podcast you have been able to go from pessimistic thinking, or a little bit more on the pessimistic side, to the optimistic side, as you have seen more possibilities for you and your physician marriage." -Lara McElderry  

Conversations around sex and intimacy can be awkward and difficult. But it can lead to a deeper connection. In this episode, Lara shares why talking about sex in your marriage is important, questions to think about, and how to bring up the conversation with your significant other. Inside the Married to Doctors Membership they will be doing a deep dive into sex and intimacy. Interested in joining in and learning from this conversation? Come join us inside the membership! "You matter. Your thoughts and feelings matter. Your opinion on your sex life matters. And it's ok to have that conversation with your spouse." -Lara McElderry

Why should you work toward believing new things? Well, it's more than making resolutions. It is about becoming your best self. In this episode, Lara shares various phrases to be mindful of when working on believing new things.  We all have an idea of who we have been, who we currently are, and who we want to be. Tune in to this podcast episode to learn more about believing new things, how to be ok with where you are, and how to get to where you want to go. It all starts with a belief.  "I just want you to know that right now where you are, is ok. Because the more you can feel ok with where you start, the less judgement you're going to take in to making changes about yourself." -Lara McElderry

Communication. This is one of the most common tips given when it comes to marriage advice. In this episode, Lara discusses a few different ways we communicate with each other, particularly when our medical spouse shares good news with us. "It is a beautiful feeling. If you've ever had that kind of support in your life, than you know what I'm talking about. When someone is really excited for you and the work that you are doing, and they are supportive of you." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses four thoughts for a more thoughtful holiday season. As you listen, consider what you are thinking, why you are thinking it, and why you believe what you do. Hope these thoughts help make your Christmas a more enjoyable holiday this year! "As people in relationships with physicians, we are multitasking. We have a lot going on, particularly if you're running your family and your household, as well. You're pulling off this holiday, and I just want to give you the option to consider a 'no'. Sometimes, a 'no' means more of 'yes' to the things that you really want to do." -Lara McElderry

I still have a few 1:1 coaching spots open for you! If you hate getting into fights with your spouse, this is your invitation to spend more of your precious moments at home IN LOVE instead of being angry, upset, or annoyed! RSVP NOW!   Who would you be if you felt less misunderstood by your spouse and more appreciated in your marriage? No time is better than now and no investment is as valuable as this investment in yourself. And don't forget to join the party on FB! Medicine, Marriage & Money  And 39.6 community WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE Medicine:  How she feels about the Romance of Medicine Why not getting her dream job was a blessing Why her hubby changed from surgery to pathology  back to surgery   Marriage:  How their marriage survived despite no communication during his surgery internship What a “bid for connection” means and how this helps your marriage Money: Why money does not correlate to happiness What money challenges they faced during residency   TAKE HOME POINTS FROM Lara McElderry Sometimes you just have to go through it. Not every day is happy. There is misery. There is tragedy.  This is exactly who I am supposed to be and exactly who I am supposed to serve. Same with my spouse…. Look for “bids for connection”. If you are not looking for it, you will not find it. Without noticing this...you are not connecting to the level you can! WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF What would happen if I stopped? How often do I wonder “what if” Do I share my spouse's goals? How long can I go without spending money?   FEATURED ON THIS SHOW Website: www.marriedtodoctors.com *This podcast is a member of the Doctor Podcast Network SPONSOR: Locumstory

I still have a few 1:1 coaching spots open for you! If you hate getting into fights with your spouse, this is your invitation to spend more of your precious moments at home IN LOVE instead of being angry, upset, or annoyed! RSVP NOW!   Who would you be if you felt less misunderstood by your spouse and more appreciated in your marriage? No time is better than now and no investment is as valuable as this investment in yourself. And don't forget to join the party on FB! Medicine, Marriage & Money  And 39.6 community WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER IN THIS EPISODE Medicine:  How she feels about the Romance of Medicine Why not getting her dream job was a blessing Why her hubby changed from surgery to pathology  back to surgery   Marriage:  How their marriage survived despite no communication during his surgery internship What a “bid for connection” means and how this helps your marriage Money: Why money does not correlate to happiness What money challenges they faced during residency   TAKE HOME POINTS FROM Lara McElderry Sometimes you just have to go through it. Not every day is happy. There is misery. There is tragedy.  This is exactly who I am supposed to be and exactly who I am supposed to serve. Same with my spouse…. Look for “bids for connection”. If you are not looking for it, you will not find it. Without noticing this...you are not connecting to the level you can! WALK AWAY ASKING YOURSELF What would happen if I stopped? How often do I wonder “what if” Do I share my spouse's goals? How long can I go without spending money?   FEATURED ON THIS SHOW Website: www.marriedtodoctors.com *This podcast is a member of the Doctor Podcast Network SPONSOR: Locumstory

Lara discusses five common thinking traps that people fall into. This episode will help you discover the power of the pause to help you through difficult situations. Utilizing these tips will help you become more in tune with your thoughts and thinking patterns so you can show up as the person you want to be in life. Don't get stuck in these common thinking traps! "I always like to say that when I encourage you to be curious, I don't want you to play dumb, like you have no idea ever. But, I do want you to show up with genuine curiosity. Like, 'Hey I know you love me, so why did you say that?'" -Lara McElderry

This episode is all about puppy training! Lara shares how six simple puppy rules can apply to relationships and relationships with ourselves. "Because I'm a marriage coach, and I talk about this stuff a lot, it's always on my mind. And I thought, Oh isn't interesting, how the same things I'm learning about puppy training go right a long with a marriage." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses the Me, Marriage, and Medicine course starting this October and what to expect.  She also explores the topic of anger. "Is this really anger? Or maybe this is more resentful? Maybe what I really feel is guilt, ashamed, grief, fear, entitlement, victimization, fatigue, injustice, anxiety, hurt, or offended. Can you see how all of things fall under anger? But they actually mean different things." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses how we can be kind to ourselves. She looks at this topic through the lens of parenting and your physical appearance, but it can be applied to every situation. "And I also hope that you can love yourself. Not in an egotistical way, but in a way where you are speaking kindly to yourself. You know we want others to love us, to love our hair, to love our parenting. But, many time they do love us and they give us those compliments, and we're the ones that can't accept it because we haven't been kind to ourselves." -Lara McElderry

In today's episode, Lara shares 9 tips for handling difficult conversations around vaccines. Specifically, she speaks about how to approach interactions on social media when it comes to the COVID-19 vaccine.  "Who likes to hear that they're wrong, especially like an open platform like Facebook. Again, no one wants to be embarrassed. If you can keep them from being embarrassed, you're going to get a lot further." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara shares experiences from others married to doctors on the tender topic of how the pandemic has affected their doctor-spouses. Specifically, the side affects we may see in them and ourselves. This topic recently came up in the Married to Doctors Facebook Group. Lara also shares a few thoughts on how we as humans have the gift of choice and can decide how we will respond to the challenges we face. "Someone's else response: I'm exhibiting the side effects. I told my husband I would probably always be a germaphobe. That I was sorry I was ruined. He was so fantastic with his response. It's ok if you're a germaphobe. You are not ruined. And that's where I got the titled for this podcast. I love that. You are not ruined." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara walks you through an exercise to try when dealing with a difficult person in your life. We all have someone we are annoyed of or feel we should love them more than we do. So, grab a sheet of paper and walk through these exercises.  "What does it feel like when you've chosen not to love this person? Does it feel justified to you? Does it feel like it's the right thing? Does it feel crappy? Does it feel like a loss in your life? Does it feel empty or sad or dark or frustrating?" -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses three ways to help YOU when your doc-spouse is stressed out. Whether it's exams, studying, boards, or patients, stress is inevitable. Lara also shares 10 thoughts to help combat the stress along the medical journey. "I really want you to try to have radical acceptance of who this person is you've married. And how they manage their time. How they do things." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses some personal experiences, how we process feelings, and ways we can balance our thoughts. She address what it means to assess your emotions with “And, Or, But… and It’s Possible.” Sadness, anger, loss, and pain are basic emotions of life. Dealing with them effectively can be a struggle and it can be tempting to act on those feelings right away. Often that impulse doesn’t fix the situation that caused the emotions. In fact, it may lead to more problems to deal with later on. So why not do something about it?  Giving yourself the space to question the state of your mind can drastically change your state of being and, when reciprocated, does the same for your significant others. Find out a few ways to balance your thoughts in this episode! "It's ok for me to be happy and sad, right? It's ok to have both of those emotions, and I don't necessarily have to choose. Maybe they are both true." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses the question, "Are you childish?" It actually has nothing to do with age or life experience, but everything about how we manage our feelings. She gives some life coaching tips on how we can become an emotional adult instead of relying on others to make us happy or secure. "So, what is our option? Our option is to become an emotional adult instead of an emotional child. Emotional adults take responsibility for our own feelings. This is the best news because than we aren't dependent on anyone else for our own happiness. We are much more empowered to create our own happiness." -Lara McElderry

It's ok to be happy! In this solo episode, Lara explores what is happiness, why we sometimes avoid it, and how to experience it more fully.  "So, we were just all happy and thankful and in a good place. And you know what my brain did? I swear if it didn't say, 'Lara, somethings coming. Whenever things get good, something bad always happens. There's always something on the horizon. Don't get too excited. Don't enjoy this too much. The bottom is going to fall out.'" -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara talks about how to handle things when other people judge you for having money. There are many assumptions and stereotypes that are made about physician spouses when it comes to finances. Lara helps us explore our own beliefs about money to address this issue. "Have you ever been told that you're just lucky to be married to a doctor? Did that go over well? Likely not. For me, it didn't go over well for a long time. I was like, what are you talking about? I married this guy who was going to be a math teacher. Ok? I didn't marry a doctor. What are you talking about luck? We had to go through bachelors degree, MCAT, med school, and all of these things, and six figure debt. You just immediately want to get into your story." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara discusses how to fight like you love each other. Often it can be difficult to bring up hard conversations, we worry about our spouse's response. Lara shares four things to think about before having a hard conversation and other components to consider during that conversation. "So that's not really conversation, that's more of like, 'I'm going to tell them something.' So, if you're really wanting to have a conversation, try the thought that 'I'm willing to learn something new.'" -Lara McElderry

In this episode we get to know the incredible women behind the Married to Doctors Podcast, Lara McElderry. Lara is a relationship and life coach, as well as the host for the Podcast Married to Doctors. I hope you enjoy. Talk to you soon. Lara's Instagram: @marriedtodoctors SONG OF THE DAY : Guestbook by: Novo Amor CONTACT ME : @chantellee.lace EMAIL : dear.chantelleelace@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/chantellee-lace/support

It's Lara's birthday! In this episode, Lara shares 5 fun facts about herself. So, tune in and learn more about your podcast host and one-on-one coach for physician spouses. Lara also discusses more about her new group coaching course, Me, Marriage, and Medicine. The course starts Feb 1st and goes for 14 weeks. "You know me, come on, I'm Lara McElderry. I have spoken all over the country to medical schools and I have a podcast that comes out every week. You're probably familiar with that. I have five sons, I've been married about 20 years. It will be 20 years in October. And I absolutely love coaching people." -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara shares 5 Tips for Enjoying the Pandemic Holiday Season. It's been a hard year. People have suffered deaths, isolation, sadness, and depression. It has been taxing emotionally, physically, spiritually, and financially. It's important we keep some things in mind as we move into December and the holiday season. "When considering your expectations, it's not so much about should you have high expectations or low expectations. But rather, should you have right or wrong expectations. And what I mean by that is focus on having correct expectations, right?" -Lara McElderry

In this episode, Lara takes a look at processing 2020 in a healthy way. It has been somewhat of a mess of a year, so Lara talks about how your thoughts can cause overwhelm. Plus, she discusses how you can take better control of your feelings by understanding the thought that is giving you negative feelings. Look, your brain is going to scan for evidence for what you tell it. And recounting problems over and over, it's only going to make them grow. -Lara McElderry

Gratitude. In this episode, Lara shares the benefits of giving thanks and 20 things she is thankful for in her life in honor of 2020. Expressing gratitude is a practice that doesn't cost money or take a lot of time. Gratitude improves our mental and physical health. So, remember this Thanksgiving and throughout the year to give thanks! "Wherever this medical journey has taken us, it has been full of beauty when I've stopped to look for it." -Lara McElderry

Unbalanced with Lara McElderry  When was the last time that you felt the scales were tipped in YOUR favor? Not recently? Not often? Yeah...us either. Lara McElderry is a veteran Mom, Wife, Business Owner, Coach, and a successful Podcast Host. As a Coach, she has not only poured into me but also pours into the lives of countless medical spouses annually. With a busy Trauma Surgeon for a husband and 5 boys in tow, Lara knows all about feeling UNBALANCED. Tune in as we talk about doing the necessary, mom guilt, the power of NO, relationship tips and how to shift our thinking for a healthier us. This is an episode you won't want to miss! LINKS MENTIONED Married to Doctors  www.marriedtodoctors.com  Bio:  Lara McElderry studied Family and Consumer Science and graduated from the University of Arkansas with a Masters Degree in Teaching. She has worked with youth and adults and has a strong interest in family dynamics.  Lara has been navigating the medical world for the last seventeen years as she has supported her husband through medical school, residency, a specialty change, fellowship, as well as raising five boys. She is the founder and podcast host of Married To Doctors. Her show is an interview-based weekly podcast.  Spouses of physicians share their stories and experts share advice as Lara leads a discussion asking personal and hard questions that explore the joys and challenges of being Married to Doctors.

Loneliness and relationship troubles are common obstacles faced by medical students. These struggles are intensified for students during testing and test preparations, but the effects on family members can be severe as well, including loneliness, financial concerns, and extended partner separation. Today’s guest discovered an unusual way of combatting some of these obstacles: podcasting. In this episode of Prosperous Doc, our host Shane Tenny is joined by Lara McElderry, an English teacher who is married to a physician. After teaching children for several years, Lara chose to put her career on hold to support her husband as he pursued a medical career. Lara discusses the number of times she had to move for her husband and the toll that took on her; moving for medical school, for residency training, and then for an attending position (8:03), not to mention the debt they incurred in the process. But, most importantly, Lara tells us how she overcame the low points during this ordeal, by finding something she connected with that also resonated with other people, her podcast. “[A] part of it has been embracing a new identity but still keeping those talents and interests that I had and finding new ways to use them. [I always remind people] “your life may not look like you thought it would, but that doesn’t mean that your strengths have changed. You just have to find new and creative ways to use the strengths that you’ve been blessed with.” (11:57) Lara McElderry has found a way to connect with and help people that are facing similar obstacles, not as a professional marriage counselor, or as a therapist, but as a shoulder for people with nowhere to turn. While physician suicide is a commonly discussed issue, Lara highlights the alarming suicide rate of women married to male physicians. Coupled with the pressure of the lavish public expectations of a physician’s lifestyle, Lara believes this increased risk can be attributed to feelings of isolation and loneliness, feeling like they’re not contributing, and feeling like they’re second fiddle to their physician husband. (21:50) For Lara, discovering creative and productive spaces can help overcome stressful situations and loneliness; she stresses how common it is to face such struggles when married to a physician. To learn more about overcoming the struggles facing physician spouses or to contact Lara, visit her website (https://marriedtodoctors.com/). Financial Wellness TipThis episode’s financial wellness tip focuses on estate planning and the importance of investing in an experienced attorney. With a DIY approach or an inexperienced attorney, you run the risk of your estate documents being prepared improperly, leaving your children and loved ones to face the consequences. Always remember to make sure you find an attorney that specializes in estate planning. Another important tip to consider is to double-check your beneficiary designations on accounts and policies, something you can do without spending a penny on an attorney. Ready to take your wellness game to the next level? Subscribe to our Prosperous Doc newsletter HERE (https://www.sdtplanning.com/subscribe-podcast). Prosperous Doc podcast by Spaugh Dameron Tenny highlights real-life stories from doctors and dentists to encourage and inspire listeners through discussions of professional successes and failures in addition to personal stories and financial wellness advice. Spaugh Dameron Tenny is a comprehensive financial planning firm serving doctors and dentists in Charlotte, NC. To find out more about Spaugh Dameron Tenny, visit our website at (http://www.sdtplanning.com). You can also connect with our host, Shane Tenny, CFP at shane@whitecoatwell.com or on Twitter. CRN202207-268824

Peggy Haslach takes over the podcast this week with a special bonus episode. When I was young, mothers would say to their daughters, “Settle down and find yourself a good doctor to marry.” Today we are joined by Lara McElderry host of the “Married To Doctors” podcast who tells us that being married to a doctor is not the life of shopping and country clubs people seem to think it is. And she is very appreciative to the role she can play helping her doctor and other spouses of doctors.The Spouses are the glue in the household.   The spouses of doctors often must put their own lives on hold while their spouses finish their residencies and fellowships. That often requires they put up with moving and the possibility that it will take some time to get to their “dream doctor job.” The purpose of the “Married To Doctors” podcast is to provide community and support to those spouses that share the similar experiences of being married to a doctor.The Spouses are the CEO, CFO and COO of the household.  Often if the non-medical spouse in the household will be the ones that run the household both financially and operationally. These spouses not only need to keep the home running, but they need to learn how deal with specific issues that doctors and their families face.The spouses are on the front line with their spouses during the COVID–19 crises.  Those doctors who are treating the COVID patients are putting their lives on the lines. Those doctors that are not treating  COVID-19 are clearing their schedules and are only working on limited cases and with limited supplies. This is putting stresses on the family. Doctors, nurses and all the professionals are truly our heroes right now.Tip of the Day:  It is important that we all take care of ourselves so that we can be there to care for our families. We are all looking for good solid advice and support these days. Please share if you know or work with an expert at working with people like you. If you’d like to learn more about Lara, her and her work, check out MarriedToDoctors.com.  You can also find a link to her MarriedToDoctors podcast: http://marriedtodoctors.libsyn.com/ and her new Positivity When Social Distancing Podcast: http://socialdistancing.libsyn.com/For a video recording of this episode, check out the Finity Group’s YouTube channel.  And for more financial planning tips from Peggy Haslach, find her on LinkedIn: @PeggyHaslach or FaceBook:  Peggy Haslach – Finity Group, LLCDiscussions in this show should not be construed as specific recommendations, legal, or investment advice. Always consult with your investment professional before making important investment decisions. Advisory services through Cambridge Investment Research Advisors, Inc., a Registered Investment Advisor. Securities offered through Cambridge Investment Research, Inc., a registered Broker/Dealer, Member FINRA/SIPC.  Finity Group and Cambridge are not affiliated.

Comments on Married to Doctors? 888-563-3228 Description The Married to Doctors podcast pushes away the stereotypical "doctor-wife" image and is a space where people from all different backgrounds can find a community, explore solutions and share stories about the unique challenges that come from being in a relationship where medicine often feels like the extra partner. We discuss loneliness, debt, communication, romance, moving, parenting and more. The host of Married to Doctors is Lara McElderry, a trauma surgeon's wife, who has been navigating the medical world for the last seventeen years as she’s supported her husband through medical school, residency, a specialty change, fellowship, as well as raising five boys. She hopes the podcast will inspire others to share and implement ideas for how to make successful homes happier. Thank you, subscribers, for the amazing reviews! Website https://marriedtodoctors.com/ Opinion The audio and energy is good. It starts good, then you do a TON of "how the sausage is made" and I don't think your audience cares. If you're interviewing 2 or 4 people we don't care. In the words of Valerie Geller, "There is no such thing as too long, only too boring" and if it's not boring, keep it in the episode. If the emails are good read them. Then when you get to the interview you introduce the show (again), and start to talk about how you're interviewing four people (again).  Get to the content. Get A Full Review If you’d like a full review of your podcast, check out Podcast Review Show or if you need Podcast Consulting, Book an Appointment Today Get Your Podcast Reviewed Sign up, fill out the form and get reviewed.Get a full review on the Podcast Review Show. Free Subscription to the Podcast Rodeo Show Subscribe to the show and never miss another episode on Google Podcasts and Apple Podcasts. For more options see www.podcastrodeoshow.com/subscribe Work With Me Start your podcast with a membership to the School of Podcasting, or let me be your podcast mentor and guide and work side by side.Find out more at https://podcast-rodeo.pinecast.co

In this short episode I share my experience with resentment in my marriage. Being married to a man in medical school is not easy and no one prepared me for this resentment. You will hear the ways in which I recognized resentment and utilized gratitude to combat this lingering emotion. I share other useful tools that I have discovered over the years and that have worked for my grappling with resentment. And these emotions and feelings are not exclusive to medical marriages, there are tidbits here for anyone in an intimate relationship.Disclaimer: my husband is the most incredible man in the world, and has never said or acted in a way that made me feel angry or like a martyr. My resentment stemmed from my own internal narrative given our situation and my inadequate way of transitioning. I am thankful for the ways that he has given me space to process all these emotions. Honorable mentions: Resentment. (2019, March 5). Retrieved from https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/resentmentJharris@ustravel.org. (2020, January 13). National Plan for Vacation Day. Retrieved from https://www.ustravel.org/events/national-plan-vacation-dayMarried to Doctors, Lara McElderry "10 thoughts to make me feel better when Stephen is working" Kim's 10 thoughts to make me feel better

Episode 132: Tips for communicating about money in your marriage to make sure you’re on the same page for saving, spending, and financial wellness with Lara McElderry of the Married to Doctors podcast and special guest host Cassie Michael from The Thrifty Couple. Why Couples Fight About Money According to [...]

Lara is the host of the popular podcast, Married to Doctors. On today's episode she talks about how she finds peace and fulfillment as a doctor's wife as well as lessons she has learned through interviewing dozens of physician families.  Learn more about Lara and how to work with her by visiting marriedtodoctors.com or listening to her podcast, Married to Doctors. 

Lara is the host of the popular podcast, Married to Doctors. On today's episode she talks about how she finds peace and fulfillment as a doctor's wife as well as lessons she has learned through interviewing dozens of physician families.  Learn more about Lara and how to work with her by visiting marriedtodoctors.com or listening to her podcast, Married to Doctors. 

In today's episode, we speak to Lara McElderry, the founder and host of the, “Married to Doctors,” Podcast. She shares what it's really like to be married to a physician, the challenges physician spouses face and how they can protect and rediscover their own self-identity along the way. In this episode, you will learn: How Lara met her husband and their journey into the medical field. What are some challenges that spouses of physicians face? How education disparity affects physician spouses. How physician spouses can rediscover their self-identity. Why Lara feels that life coaching is important for physicians and spouses as well. Lara McElderry studied Family and Consumer Science and graduated from the University of Arkansas with a Masters Degree in Teaching. She has worked with youth and adults and has a strong interest in family dynamics. Lara has been navigating the medical world for the last seventeen years as she has supported her husband through medical school, residency, a specialty change, fellowship, as well as raising five boys. She is the founder and podcast host of, “Married to Doctors”. Her show is an interview based weekly podcast. Spouses of physicians share their stories and experts share advice as Lara leads a discussion asking personal and hard questions that explore the joys and challenges of being Married to Doctors. Links we discussed in the show: Check out Lara's amazing podcast: Married to Doctors. To learn more about Lara's coaching programs click: here. Special thank you to this week's show sponsor: Set for Life Insurance! If you are in need of life or disability insurance, or if you need a second opinion to be sure you are insured appropriately, call Jamie Fleischner at Set for Life! Thank you for listening to the Hippocratic Hustle! I know that time is your most valuable resource so I really appreciate you spending some of it with me. If you enjoyed today's show, please share it! If you'd like to help me improve and grow the podcast, send your suggestions to: Carrie@HippocraticHustle.com Lastly, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast, so you won't miss an episode!

In episode 44 we talk with 3 spouses who are married to high income earners. We get to hear the point of view from other side of Physician on Fire, Chief Mom Officer and Married to Doctors.

Episode Notes What happens in a relationship when one has an advanced degree and the other spouse doesn't?  In this episode, Lara shares her thoughts and advice on how educational discrepancies can sometimes affect a medical relationship.   For more resources and the transcripts of previous episodes visit www.marriedtodoctors.com Lara McElderry is the podcast host and founder of Married to Doctors.  She and her husband got married before he decided to start down the medical path.  For the past sixteen years, they’ve struggled and triumphed through the MCAT, medical school, residency, and fellowship with several twists and turns along the way, including a specialty change. In addition to this, they both knew they wanted children, and bravely brought five boys into the world!  Their sons range in age from fourteen to four. Lara has learned through her own experiences that being married to a physician is not an easy journey, but she’s also realized that having the right mindset can help make a successful home happier. You can purchase the loneliness workbook here.  If you'd like a free 20-minute coaching call with Lara (and find out what they are like) email lara@marriedtodoctors.com  Just say "interested in coaching".  It's that easy!  

Lara McElderry was a Teacher when her husband suddenly decided to commit to a career in medicine. 16 years later after supporting her husband, Josh through the upheaval of medical school, training and developing a successful career Lara decided to start a website and podcast sharing the difficulties of being married to a doctor. You can follow Lara's story at https://marriedtodoctors.com (Married To Doctors) and on https://www.facebook.com/marriedtodoctors (Facebook) and https://www.instagram.com/marriedtodoctors (Instagram)

Episode Notes In this episode, the host of the podcast Lara McElderry will be sharing some stories from her own journey as a physician spouse and how she became inspired to start a podcast.  She’ll be talking about some of the struggles her and her husband faced in medical school when their two-year-old son was diagnosed with a brain tumor, her decision to give up a great teaching job to support her husband, and how she dealt with several moves when her husband decided to change career paths.  She’ll also share some of the feelings of resentment and inadequacy she initially felt at having to fill the role of a stereotypical “doctor’s wife” and how she’s learned to appreciate herself and find her own voice. Click here to see a timeline of Lara and Josh’s medical journey and click here to read Lara’s article in Physician Family Magazine. About Lara Lara McElderry is the podcast host and founder of Married to Doctors.  Her and her husband got married before he decided to start down the medical path.  For the past sixteen years, they’ve struggled and triumphed through the MCAT, medical school, residency, and fellowship with several twists and turns along the way, including a specialty change. In addition to this, they both knew they wanted children, and bravely brought five boys into the world!  Their sons range in age from fourteen to four. Lara has learned through her own experiences that being married to a physician is not an easy journey, but she’s also realized that having the right mindset can help make a successful home happier.

My guest Lara McElderry knows all about the struggles of being married to a surgeon: the crazy hours, the extensive amount of time spent in training, and the toll it can take on any relationship dynamic. And in this episode, she offers up her time and provides some tips and advice for those who might be in the middle of a similar situation. It doesn't matter if a medical related position or not, all careers have the potential to be disruptive to a relationship and there are ways around sacrificing the longevity and health of your love and sex life. Lara went to school for Family and Consumer Science and has a master's degree in teaching from the University of Arkansas. And she lives in Missouri with her trauma surgeon husband and her children. Listen along and enjoy! Married to Doctors Lara begins this episode with some important details about her marriage and how despite the unique aspects of it and the stressful medical school, training, and moving that it entailed, that she still learned how to achieve the proper balance of intimacy with her husband. Now she now has a podcast called Married to Doctors and has learned some valuable things along the way about intimacy and relationships. The Challenges That Demanding Careers Can Have on Relationships When talking about her marriage with her trauma surgeon husband, the biggest challenge that she highlights is the difference in responsibilities that arise from different perspectives, careers, and work dynamics. Like many relationships, Lara was a stay-at-home mom and found it challenging to work with her husband coming home from work and wanting to spend intimate time with her almost immediately. But as she said, she soon realized that it was ok to leave the dishes dirty, and X and Y and Z unattended, even though she struggled with doing so. Especially because she grew up in a household where sleep was foregone if the dishes weren't done or other responsibilities weren't taken care of. In her husband's eyes, there was only a small amount of time they got to see each other every day. Eventually, she grew comfortable with being a little more flexible, and they both met halfway. This type of flexibility to difficult to cultivate, but very, very important. For more on the challenges, listen along to the episode! Solutions for Prioritizing Intimacy and Sex Lara says that when you have a hectic, crazy schedule due to a career, or a big family that takes a lot of your time and energy, scheduling your sex life can be very beneficial. She understands that not everyone subscribes to the method, but it can be a really useful tool for prioritizing such an important part of the relationship. And this doesn't mean formally setting up a designated time and place for sex but keeping a somewhat fixed idea of when sex is going to happen. Because your hours might vary widely, scheduling might be hard, but as Lara states, a loose schedule is useful. She also talks about the importance of teaming up with your spouse around the house to free up more time for sex. Doing things that help create situations having sex more readily available is a great strategy. Prioritizing the Relationship Finding things to do with one another is so important. And you can do things as a couple with the kids still around. As Lara states about the new things that she and her husband like to do together, to see each other anew on a consistent basis, they are vital for broadening and deepening the relationship. And it also has considerable carryover to a better sex life. And all of these activities don't have to revolve around lavish excursions to exotic places; they can take place at home, through simple means and through simple acts of affection and connection. For much more on this beautiful idea, listen to Lara describe it. No Such Thing as Happily Ever After! Lara tells us that of course, we won't suddenly stop facing struggles in our relationships, but if we can learn to face each change, each move or job change with a bit of curiosity and resiliency, we will be well-equipped to have a great relationship and great sex. For much more, listen along to Lara McElderry. And make sure to check out her podcast Married To Doctors. Key Links for Lara: Lara's podcast: https://marriedtodoctors.com/ More info: Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.com Web - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/ Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/ If you're enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcast Better Sex with Jessa Zimmerman https://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/More info and resources: How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com Access the Free webinar: How to make sex easy and fun for both of you: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

My guest Lara McElderry knows all about the struggles of being married to a surgeon: the crazy hours, the extensive amount of time spent in training, and the toll it can take on any relationship dynamic. And in this episode, she offers up her time and provides some tips and advice for those who might be in the middle of a similar situation. It doesn’t matter if a medical related position or not, all careers have the potential to be disruptive to a relationship and there are ways around sacrificing the longevity and health of your love and sex life.Lara went to school for Family and Consumer Science and has a master’s degree in teaching from the University of Arkansas. And she lives in Missouri with her trauma surgeon husband and her children. Listen along and enjoy!Married to DoctorsLara begins this episode with some important details about her marriage and how despite the unique aspects of it and the stressful medical school, training, and moving that it entailed, that she still learned how to achieve the proper balance of intimacy with her husband. Now she now has a podcast called Married to Doctors and has learned some valuable things along the way about intimacy and relationships.The Challenges That Demanding Careers Can Have on RelationshipsWhen talking about her marriage with her trauma surgeon husband, the biggest challenge that she highlights is the difference in responsibilities that arise from different perspectives, careers, and work dynamics. Like many relationships, Lara was a stay-at-home mom and found it challenging to work with her husband coming home from work and wanting to spend intimate time with her almost immediately.But as she said, she soon realized that it was ok to leave the dishes dirty, and X and Y and Z unattended, even though she struggled with doing so. Especially because she grew up in a household where sleep was foregone if the dishes weren’t done or other responsibilities weren’t taken care of.In her husband’s eyes, there was only a small amount of time they got to see each other every day. Eventually, she grew comfortable with being a little more flexible, and they both met halfway. This type of flexibility to difficult to cultivate, but very, very important.For more on the challenges, listen along to the episode!Solutions for Prioritizing Intimacy and SexLara says that when you have a hectic, crazy schedule due to a career, or a big family that takes a lot of your time and energy, scheduling your sex life can be very beneficial. She understands that not everyone subscribes to the method, but it can be a really useful tool for prioritizing such an important part of the relationship.And this doesn’t mean formally setting up a designated time and place for sex but keeping a somewhat fixed idea of when sex is going to happen. Because your hours might vary widely, scheduling might be hard, but as Lara states, a loose schedule is useful.She also talks about the importance of teaming up with your spouse around the house to free up more time for sex. Doing things that help create situations having sex more readily available is a great strategy.Prioritizing the RelationshipFinding things to do with one another is so important. And you can do things as a couple with the kids still around. As Lara states about the new things that she and her husband like to do together, to see each other anew on a consistent basis, they are vital for broadening and deepening the relationship. And it also has considerable carryover to a better sex life.And all of these activities don’t have to revolve around lavish excursions to exotic places; they can take place at home, through simple means and through simple acts of affection and connection. For much more on this beautiful idea, listen to Lara describe it.No Such Thing as Happily Ever After!Lara tells us that of course, we won’t suddenly stop facing struggles in our relationships, but if we can learn to face each change, each move or job change with a bit of curiosity and resiliency, we will be well-equipped to have a great relationship and great sex. For much more, listen along to Lara McElderry. And make sure to check out her podcast Married To Doctors.Key Links for Lara: Lara’s podcast: https://marriedtodoctors.com/More info:Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

My guest Lara McElderry knows all about the struggles of being married to a surgeon: the crazy hours, the extensive amount of time spent in training, and the toll it can take on any relationship dynamic. And in this episode, she offers up her time and provides some tips and advice for those who might be in the middle of a similar situation. It doesn’t matter if a medical related position or not, all careers have the potential to be disruptive to a relationship and there are ways around sacrificing the longevity and health of your love and sex life.Lara went to school for Family and Consumer Science and has a master’s degree in teaching from the University of Arkansas. And she lives in Missouri with her trauma surgeon husband and her children. Listen along and enjoy!Married to DoctorsLara begins this episode with some important details about her marriage and how despite the unique aspects of it and the stressful medical school, training, and moving that it entailed, that she still learned how to achieve the proper balance of intimacy with her husband. Now she now has a podcast called Married to Doctors and has learned some valuable things along the way about intimacy and relationships.The Challenges That Demanding Careers Can Have on RelationshipsWhen talking about her marriage with her trauma surgeon husband, the biggest challenge that she highlights is the difference in responsibilities that arise from different perspectives, careers, and work dynamics. Like many relationships, Lara was a stay-at-home mom and found it challenging to work with her husband coming home from work and wanting to spend intimate time with her almost immediately.But as she said, she soon realized that it was ok to leave the dishes dirty, and X and Y and Z unattended, even though she struggled with doing so. Especially because she grew up in a household where sleep was foregone if the dishes weren’t done or other responsibilities weren’t taken care of.In her husband’s eyes, there was only a small amount of time they got to see each other every day. Eventually, she grew comfortable with being a little more flexible, and they both met halfway. This type of flexibility to difficult to cultivate, but very, very important.For more on the challenges, listen along to the episode!Solutions for Prioritizing Intimacy and SexLara says that when you have a hectic, crazy schedule due to a career, or a big family that takes a lot of your time and energy, scheduling your sex life can be very beneficial. She understands that not everyone subscribes to the method, but it can be a really useful tool for prioritizing such an important part of the relationship.And this doesn’t mean formally setting up a designated time and place for sex but keeping a somewhat fixed idea of when sex is going to happen. Because your hours might vary widely, scheduling might be hard, but as Lara states, a loose schedule is useful.She also talks about the importance of teaming up with your spouse around the house to free up more time for sex. Doing things that help create situations having sex more readily available is a great strategy.Prioritizing the RelationshipFinding things to do with one another is so important. And you can do things as a couple with the kids still around. As Lara states about the new things that she and her husband like to do together, to see each other anew on a consistent basis, they are vital for broadening and deepening the relationship. And it also has considerable carryover to a better sex life.And all of these activities don’t have to revolve around lavish excursions to exotic places; they can take place at home, through simple means and through simple acts of affection and connection. For much more on this beautiful idea, listen to Lara describe it.No Such Thing as Happily Ever After!Lara tells us that of course, we won’t suddenly stop facing struggles in our relationships, but if we can learn to face each change, each move or job change with a bit of curiosity and resiliency, we will be well-equipped to have a great relationship and great sex. For much more, listen along to Lara McElderry. And make sure to check out her podcast Married To Doctors.Key Links for Lara: Lara’s podcast: https://marriedtodoctors.com/More info:Book and New Course - https://sexwithoutstress.comWeb - https://www.bettersexpodcast.com/Sex Health Quiz - http://sexhealthquiz.com/If you’re enjoying the podcast and want to be a part of making sure it continues in the future, consider being a patron. With a small monthly pledge, you can support the costs of putting this show together. For as little as $2 per month, you can get advance access to each episode. For just a bit more, you will receive an advance copy of a chapter of my new book. And for $10 per month, you get all that plus an invitation to an online Q&A chat with me once a quarter. Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/bettersexpodcastBetter Sex with Jessa Zimmermanhttps://businessinnovatorsradio.com/better-sex/

The people who’ve been alongside us through medical school, or even now as we go about our typical day in medicine, deserve recognition. To help me extend this appreciation for all physician spouses is Lara McElderry of the Married to Doctors Podcast. Read more: http://www.doctorsunbound.com/podcast/the-medical-support-system-a-focus-on-the-family

Lara McElderry has a background in family sciences and graduated from the University of Arkansas with a Masters Degree in Teaching. She has worked with youth and adults and has a strong interest in family dynamics. Lara has been navigating the medical world for the last seventeen years as she has supported her husband through medical school, residency, a specialty change, fellowship, as well as raising five boys. She is the founder and podcast host of Married To Doctors. Her show is an interview based weekly podcast. Spouses of physicians share their stories and experts share advice as Lara leads a discussion asking personal and hard questions that explore the joys and challenges of being Married to Doctors. Website: https://marriedtodoctors.com/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriedtodoctors/ Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/married-to-doctors/id1323179967?mt=2

Physician family finances can feel like a unique situation, usually due to a high debt load in comparison to other fields. These groups feel they can’t talk to anyone leading to feelings of loneliness, esp. for their spouses. This episode’s panel, Curtis Webster, Lara McElderry, and Donna Rovito, reminds us that being a part of a community is a huge part of sustaining sanity through a seemingly lonely time. Make sure to subscribe to get our free templates!

Are you married to a doctor? Do you find being married to a doctor isn't as glamorous as society assumes? Lara McElderry is the host of the Married to Doctors podcast, where she explores how you can navigate having a relationship with a spouse that is a physician. According to Lara, being married to a physician is not an easy journey, but she has also realized that having the right mindset can make a successful home happier. To learn more about Lara, visit: https://marriedtodoctors.com/lara/ To learn more about Houston Money Week visit: www.Houstonmoneyweek.org   http://www.cheatsheet.com/personal-finance/how-schools-can-improve-their-personal-finance-education.html/ Financial Advisor Magazine Articles: http://www.fa-mag.com/news/advisors-stay-the-course-amid-monday-s-market-drop-22864.html?section=3  http://www.fa-mag.com/news/on-it-s-80th-anniversaryadvisors-consider-social-security-s-impactfuture-22784.html?section=3 You can listen live by going to www.kpft.org and clicking on the HD3 tab. You can also listen to this episode and others by podcast at: http://directory.libsyn.com/shows/view/id/moneymatters or www.moneymatterspodcast.com #KPFTHOUSTON #HoustonMoneyWK #Married2Doctors

Hey Wednesday, Friends! Today I have the lovely Lara McElderry on the show and she is sharing her passion for having a thriving marriage in the hard seasons. Being married to a doctor, Lara has had her fair share of difficult, demanding seasons but she never lets that be an excuse to let her marriage suffer. I LOVE her amazing advice that any married woman will be able to relate to! Enjoy! XOXO

In this conversation, we talk with Lara McElderry, Host of the Married to Doctors Podcast.  And she dives into the unique challenges of being married to a doctor, as well as the shifts she had to have in her mindset, when it comes to equating time with love, student loan debt with stress, wealth with snobbery and […] The post Episode 089: Married to Doctors | Lara McElderry appeared first on Legendary Marriage: Build a life, a love, and a legacy together..

In this episode I interview Lara McElderry from the Married to Doctors podcast. Some might find that being married to a doctor isn’t as glamorous as society assumes. Having a physician spouse and having a strong relationship can be difficult. It is common to feel resentment, friction, and stress in your relationship despite how much you love each other. Lara's mission statement is simple, "Making Successful Homes Happier." We talk about how to do that in this episode.   If you found this podcast useful, visit our blog at http://whitecoatinvestor.com/ for more personal finance and investing information. Find an engaging and helpful community in our forum at http://whitecoatinvestor.com/forums/   This episode is sponsored by Adam Grossman of Mayport Wealth Management. Adam is a Boston-based advisor and works with physicians across the country. Unlike most other advisors, Adam offers straightforward flat fees for both standalone financial planning and investment management. Whatever stage you're at in your career, Adam can help you get organized with a personalized financial plan and can help you implement it with a low-cost index fund portfolio. Adam is a Chartered Financial Analyst and received his MBA from MIT, but more importantly, you'll benefit from Adam's own personal experience with many of the same financial obstacles and opportunities that face physicians. To learn more, visit Adam's website mayport.com/whitecoat to download a free e-book especially for physicians.

My friends, in this show, I try and dig deep to find interesting people. Our guest today is not a doctor, but she is married to one. She is married to a surgeon and she is on a mission to help other physicians. Help them to understand their path and what it is like to be married to a physician.   She and her husband got married before he started his medical path. For 16 years they have struggled, triumphed through the MCAT, through medical school, through residency and fellowships including a specialty change. They have 4 kids and she knows that being married to a physician is not an easy journey. I know she is going to bring to us some wisdom and talk to us through their journey. Please help me welcome, Lara McElderry! Welcome, Lara! In this podcast you will: Learn the lessons that Lara would share with the physicians on how they could support their spouse and nurture their marriage. Discover the curveball that they dealt with that could have ended her husband's medical career. Learn how they survived having 3 kids while her husband was in medical school and residency and Lara was a stay at home mom. Find out the 3 subjects she aims to focus on within her podcast: Married to Doctors. Take in the biggest financial mistake that they made that Lara would not want you to do or have to go through. For all the show notes, transcription and more, check out the podcast website at http://doctorfreedompodcast.com/