Conversations with a Dom

Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn't your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren't into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what's the best way to meet a unicorn?Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice.Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They've got you covered. Expect candid discussions on pegging, face slapping, balancing desires in a D/s dynamic, and how to keep that dominant spark alive.With plenty of laughs, real talk, and insightful tips, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you deepen your BDSM relationships and own your kink with confidence.00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:35 Chocolate and aphrodisiacs 02:16 Funny anecdotes and misunderstandings 03:19 First listener question: dominance during oral 05:53 Pros and cons of DS relationships 08:59 Losing dominance drive 12:32 Bringing up kinks with a new partner 14:10 Dealing with extreme kinks 23:45 Feeling like a fraud as a dom 30:07 Developing dominant skills 37:37 Navigating dominance and submission dynamics 38:09 Compromise and communication in kink 39:07 The rubber band analogy 39:49 Recommended reading: with sprinkles on top 40:50 Balancing desires in DS relationships 42:01 Exploring impact play and resistance 44:01 Discussing face slapping and personal limits 54:54 Spontaneity in BDSM 59:02 Finding time for DS scenes 01:09:07 Preparing for pegging--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Send your thoughts via textChief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships.We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language.If you're a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner then this podcast is for you!Resources:Stephanie Goerlich's website: https://www.stefanigoerlich.comThe PDF of exercises: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/negotiationwkshts.htmlOur website: https://kinkyevents.co.ukTimestamps:00:00 Introduction00:58 Kinky Statistics02:28 Introducing the Book: With Sprinkles on Top04:39 Exploring Kink and Communication06:50 Personal Kink Experiences and Fantasies10:01 Discussing Threesomes and Boundaries24:06 Fantasy Worksheet Exercise33:42 Exploring Desires and Fantasies34:19 Power Dynamics and Control35:24 Communication and Connection37:05 Erotic Vocabulary Exercise--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Send your thoughts via textChief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones.Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising the flexibility of the exercises to suit individual dynamics.The episode encourages couples to actively practice these exercises to foster trust, empathy, and a more satisfying relationship.00:00 Introduction to 30 Communication Exercises00:30 Why Communication Matters in D/s Relationships01:28 How to Approach These Exercises02:03 Week 1: Foundation of Communication02:08 Day 1: Joint Journaling02:28 Day 2: Desire Mapping03:22 Day 3: Create Safe Words03:44 Day 4: Daily Check-Ins04:02 Day 5: Feedback Session04:40 Day 6: Communication Games06:11 Day 7: Weekly Reflection06:30 Week 2: Exploration and Education06:50 Day 8: Research Assignment07:19 Day 9: Sensation Play Experiment08:06 Day 10: Role Reversal08:29 Day 11: Boundary Testing09:35 Day 12: Kink Workshop or Webinar10:38 Day 13: Fantasy Sharing11:12 Day 14: Weekly Reflection11:40 Week 3: Deepening Trust and Connection11:47 Day 15: Trust Exercises12:08 Day 16: Gratitude Lists12:24 Day 17: Surprise Day12:43 Day 18: Vulnerability Night13:10 Day 19: D/s Day Out13:46 Day 20: Aftercare Focus14:06 Day 21: Weekly Reflection14:41 Week 4: Integration and Future Planning14:48 Day 22: Dynamic Goal Setting15:18 Day 23: Contract Review/Creation15:58 Day 24: Creative Play16:31 Day 25: Self Care Day16:47 Day 26: Community Engagement17:15 Day 27: Legacy Letter17:45 Day 28: Celebration Session18:27 Day 29-30: Reflection and Relaxation18:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Send your thoughts via textChief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS relationship. The conversation covers themes of edging, teasing, and the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs. They also highlight the roles of communication and consent in their dynamic, delving into a detailed recount of a night filled with massages, dirty talk, and slow, anticipatory teasing, culminating in deep emotional and physical connection.00:00 Introduction and Naughty Sexting01:51 Dreams and Desires04:56 Consent and Boundaries07:25 Anticipation and Preparation16:36 Unexpected Massage25:07 Teasing and Restraints30:39 Building Anticipation: The Art of Teasing31:19 Exploring Sensitivity: Techniques and Reactions33:30 Roleplay Dynamics: Daddy's Not Supposed to Touch34:09 Graphic Details: Fingering and Feedback35:58 The Fantasy and the Reality: Toys and Tools36:54 Psychological Elements in BDSM39:17 The Importance of Relaxation and Comfort43:23 Edging and Penetration: The Balancing Act46:21 The Climax: Achieving Multiple Orgasms51:55 Aftercare and Reflection52:27 Final Thoughts and Resources--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to more fulfilling experiences.Support the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It's a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community.Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode packs everything you need to broaden your kinky social circle and step up your BDSM game, served with a side of cheeky humour and warmth.[00:01:16] Finding BDSM Events: The hosts discuss starting with FetLife and the significance of attending munches to meet the community.[00:03:03] Challenges for Women on FetLife: Moineau shares her experiences with the platform, highlighting the importance of safety and privacy.[00:04:11] Utilizing FetLife for Events, Not Dating: Chief elaborates on how FetLife serves best for finding events rather than forming personal connections.[00:09:30] Word of Mouth: Emphasizing the value of personal recommendations in discovering events and making kinky friends.[00:10:06] Collaborative Events: The hosts discuss how event newsletters from groups like Fox Den can introduce attendees to broader networks.[00:14:00] Finding BDSM-friendly Events on Vanilla Platforms: Suggestions for locating events with a BDSM twist on sites like Eventbrite.[00:16:48] Gender Dynamics at Munches: An observation on the male-dominated attendance and strategies for women to find more inclusive spaces.[00:18:00] Alternative Social Gatherings: Exploring book clubs and erotic poetry readings as unconventional avenues to meet kinky individuals.[00:22:31] Sex-positive Charities as Networking Hubs: Highlighting the role of charities in connecting people with the BDSM community.[00:24:11] Different Types of BDSM Events: Distinguishing between social, educational, and play-focused events to align with personal interests.[00:26:53] The Challenge of Finding the Right Events: Acknowledging the effort required to find fitting BDSM events and the rewarding nature of successful connections.[00:27:43] Imagining Future Gatherings: A light-hearted fantasy about forming an ideal kinky circle and dinner club.Support the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy.Join us for an enlightening discussion that demystifies the transition into a D/s lifestyle, offering insights and encouragement for those curious about the path of sexual exploration and deepened partnership.Key Points & Timestamps:[00:00:26] Liz discusses beginning their D/s journey and overcoming challenges related to depression and medication.[00:03:21] Chief and Liz reflect on how D/s dynamics can revive intimacy in long-term relationships.[00:04:30] Introduction of the sex menu as a transformative tool for couples.[00:06:02] Liz shares the initial conversation with Tom about exploring a D/s relationship, highlighting the importance of communication.[00:07:59] Transitioning from minimal communication about sex to frequent, open dialogues.[00:12:34] Liz describes the liberating aspect of submission in her otherwise dominant life roles.[00:14:17] Discussion on the gradual introduction and evolution of D/s dynamics in a relationship.[00:15:22] Homework assignments as a method for exploring and expressing desires within the D/s context.[00:18:40] Overcoming a hiccup in a scene and the importance of safe words and aftercare.[00:23:20] Liz shares the positive changes and deeper connection in her relationship since embracing D/s, encouraging open discussions about sex and desires.[00:29:14] Surprises and adjustments made after filling out the sex menu.[00:32:39] Liz emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear and engaging in open communication with partners.[00:38:14] Looking forward to the future of their D/s dynamic and exploring new activities together.[00:41:48] Final thoughts: The significance of communication and not being afraid to discuss desires and boundaries with partners.Support the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.Support the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

What's it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You'll hear:Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating contact.What really happens in a session: Examples of what Dominatrices do and don't do, and how you should communicate with them.Why fantasy and reality aren't the same: Insights into the expectations versus the realities of BDSM play, emphasising consent, communication, and safety.How Tom's experiences have impacted him personally: Tom's reflections on how these experiences have facilitated personal discovery and emotional growth.Tune in for an authentic conversation that demystifies the world of professional domination.Support the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM community can become more inclusive for individuals with autism and neurodivergence. Many thanks to Puppy Ripley, and we hope you love the episode.Useful linksInstagram: @puppyripley, @pupsofirelandSwitchboardKinky EventsSupport the show--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom.Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53. Find out more about Miss Mae Ling: https://missmaeling.com/.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband?'. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets!--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down.We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple daring enough to explore. We also share a cascade of top-notch ideas you can try out that will transform your bedroom into a playground of passion. So join us for an adventure into the wild side of sensual intimacy that you won't want to miss!--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Could you imagine showing up to a Shakespearean play in full gimp attire? Talk about a culture shock! In this episode, we delve into the controversial world of public kink and discuss what makes public displays of kink both intriguing and potentially inappropriate.We also share 5 ways you can engage in powerplay and D/s in public, including sharing a personal story of a hilarious mishap with a cat and a remote-controlled toy. We discuss navigating the thrilling yet risky world of public play, emphasizing the importance of understanding the potential risks. As always, we end with a friendly reminder about the legalities of public sex because as much as we love a good gimp suit, it's best saved for the right environment.So join us for an episode that's as enlightening as it is entertaining, and remember - keep it kinky, but keep it considerate!--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Have you ever wondered about the intriguing world of Pleasure Domination, or how to optimize pleasure and communication within relationships? Prepare to have your curiosity satisfied, as we have an enlightening conversation with Chief and Moineau, exploring the fascinating dynamics of a Pleasure Dom and the importance of prioritizing the well-being of the submissive partner, even when they seek pain. We delve into the nuances of creating a safe, consensual environment, and how this contrasts dramatically with the typical perception of a Dom who focuses primarily on pain.Navigating relationships where one partner has a kink that the other doesn't may seem like a challenge, but don't fret. We offer insights on how the Pleasure Dom approach can bridge this gap. We venture into the territory of effective communication and language, discussing how to express your desires, avoid feeling resentment and ensure both partners feel valued. Get ready to discover how a Pleasure Dom's focus on giving pleasure can lead to a satisfying experience for both the Dom and their submissive partner.Lastly, we describe techniques that maximize pleasure. We touch on the need to be responsive to your partner's reactions during a scene and how to hone in on their kinks. While Pleasure Domination might seem like a niche topic, the conversation highlights the universal importance of understanding and satisfying your partner's needs, effective communication, and maintaining a consensual environment in any relationship. Tune in for a captivating exploration of Pleasure Domination and its potential to enrich your relationship dynamics.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Moineau discusses her experiences with anxiety and how it impacts her BDSM, sex and dating life.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Which wand vibrator is best? Chief pits two Le Wand massagers against his trusty Lovehoney mains powered magic wand vibrator to see which one triumphs. Moineau kindly volunteers her body for science.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. They explore interesting topics, like the differences in fantasies between genders, and discover what percentage of men and women have fantasized about:Having sex with multiple menEngaging in intimate encounters in unconventional placesSwinging with both known and unknown couplesExploring the act of urinating on a partnerThe goal of this latest episode is to entertain and normalize the wide range of sexual fantasies. It reminds us that it's perfectly okay to fantasize about almost anything. So, kick back, enjoy, and let your imagination run wild!--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you. The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and defining core desires are crucial in creating a successful dynamic. We discuss the importance of developing a support community and attending kinky events to connect with like-minded people and learn new skills. Join us as we celebrate progress and growth on the kinky journey while being kind to ourselves.Topics DiscussedMistakes beginner submissives make repeatedly.How to avoid sub-frenzy and take things slow and steady.Developing communication skills and the importance of negotiations between the sub and Dominant.Identifying red flags and looking out for your safety.How to define core desires, create a sex menu and develop a supportive community.The importance of community and interacting with like-minded people.Society's changing views on normal sexual behaviour.The Art of Submission course designed for beginner submissives.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, visit the accompanying Kinky Events article.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, and a favourite new activity - face f*cking. Listen along for spicy tips to incorporate into your power play dynamic and get a sense of what really happens in a real-life D/s relationship.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events, Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she helps people safely discover kinky connections and intimacy. Mistress Jayne can be found on Instagram @sexcoachsarahjane.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I've used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy!--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for the Herpes simplex virus (HSV). We talk about:What HSV is and what the symptoms areHow Emily contracted HerpesWhat she does and doesn't do in her dynamic to keep herself and others safeHow it impacts play with her Dom--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it. Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and parental wounds, which can be very sensitive topics. Please proceed with caution if these are triggering for you.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to L.A.M. (London Alternative Market); why consent is sometimes a grey area, especially when it comes to implicit vs explicit consent; why punishments aren't always what they seem; and then ask ChatGPT what it knows about BDSM (quite a lot!).--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast about D/s and BDSM for beginners, Chief and Moineau reflect on their 2022 kinky activities, discuss Chief's new course for beginner submissives, and answer questions asked by the Kinky Events Community members.

In this episode Belle talks about her experiences as a beginner submissive, how she overcame shame around her sexual desires, what her submissive training involved, and how getting involved in dominance and submission has impacted her life.

Anal aficionado Moineau and anal virgin Belle answer questions submitted by readers of the Kinky Events community (Join here! kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community) in this sub takeover episode, where Chief has been banished!They answer questions such as:How did/do you prepare mentally for anal play? And is it a different mindset when you were just starting on your own to when you were with Chief?What did Chief do to help you feel more comfortable with it?What helped you get past feeling self-conscious?Have you learned to like anal sex?Did you start your anal exploration alone?What did you do for your first time? Did you do it In the shower with lots of lube, or start off on anal beads first, or straight in with a butt plug?Did you use lube when you first started?What was the first thing you used after fingers then?

In this episode Chief and Moineau discuss how they've recently hit a slump, and some strategies they're thinking about introducing in order to keep the dynamic fresh and exciting. You'll learn about the power of rituals, ideas to keep your dominant and submissive energy alive, and how to encourage your partner to take on a more dominant or submissive role.

In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau talk to Kels and Tess from Squirm, an adult sex education platform committed to promoting healthy sexual communication. You'll learn ways to improve how you communicate about sex and desires with partners, how to bring up kinks, common mistakes to avoid, and how to be a more effective communicator in general.Remember to subscribe to the podcast and visit KinkyEvents.co.uk for a free guide on introducing BDSM into your relationship.

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief (a male Dominant) and Moineau (a female submissive) experiment with Wisdom, an app where mentors can give talks, share knowledge, and help make the world a better place. They discuss Subspace, Subdrop, Aftercare, and other things related to BDSM and dominance and submission.

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, the podcast all about dominants and submissive's, Moineau (a sub) asks Chief (a dominant) some personal questions about kink and BDSM, including what got him into it, what his favourite toys are, and much more!

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom (a BDSM podcast for beginners) Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk browses through the BDSM subreddit for questions, reads them out, and give some answers and advice. Topics include prostrate massage, when does a sub become a Dom, and funishments.

In this week's episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I are joined by Rosa Maxwell, a sex, love, and relationship coach based in London. We discuss:How to connect to your authentic desiresHow to share those desires with partnerHow to overcome feelings of shame about your sexual wants and needs 

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk take on Buzzfeed's sex quiz in a head to head battle. Who knows more about sex? Listen to find out. We answer the sex questions and discuss the answers, throwing it tips and tricks to improve your sex life along the way.

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk delve into Reddit to answer questions posted to the BDSM subreddits, and read out other people's answers. Questions include "My boyfriends too nice, what can I do?" and "My partner wants a threesome, what should I say?". If you're a beginner Dominant or submissive then these questions and answers will help you avoid the common pitfalls for the D/s lifestyle.

Chief from KinkyEvents.co.uk discusses the trials and tribulations of dating when both kinky and non-monogamous. He discusses the best places to meet other people into Dom/sub dynamics, non-monogamy, and kink, and also at what point you should disclose this bombshell to potential partners.

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk chat to Seren Sins, a London based female Dom, and Mistress of Experiences. You'll learn what drove her to become a Dom, the kinds of experiences she offers, and some incredible tips on how YOU can embrace your desires and implement a little bit of kink into your relationships if you're just starting out.

Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss the Dual Control Model of sexual response, and take the sexual temperament quiz from Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are. Follow along and complete the quiz yourself, learn about sexual exciters and inhibitors, and how they can influence your sexual arousal, and impact your relationship.

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, Chief and Moineau from KinkyEvents.co.uk discuss how to introduce kink and Dom/sub power play into your relationship for beginners. We discuss: common challenges faced when bringing up kink with your partner; techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s, including using sex menus, sharing porn, and establishing judgement-free zones; 3 important questions to ask your partner; and common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting a dynamic. ContentsIntroduction [00:00:42]Common challenges when discussing kink with your partner [00:01:40]Techniques to overcome nervousness, shame, and improve communication in D/s dynamics [00:07:33]Using sex menus [00:08:03]Sharing porn and erotic fiction [00:12:10]Establishing a judgment-free zone [00:15:15]Making compromises [00:18:12]3 questions to asks your partner [00:20:29]Getting rid of expectations and setting time limits [00:22:13]Tips specifically for Dom/sub dynamics [00:24:17]Common issues beginner Doms and subs encounter when starting out [00:29:38]Wrapping up [00:31:48]

Chief discusses tips for those who are new to D/s and want to become the best Dominant they can be. This episode discusses consent, your Dom personality, where to find a submissive to date, and a whole lots more about the world of Dom/sub dynamics.

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Jessica from Pleasure Island Parties and I discuss sex parties. What really happens at them? How do you get invited? What sort of people attend? This and more are discussed in intimate detail. If you've every been curious about attending an adult play party, this one is for you.

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom I answer questions submitted by readers on my website KinkyEvents.co.uk, including:Do Doms really care about/love their subs?What would be a good punishment for talking back or attitude?Do you take enjoyment in punishments?What is one thing that turns on a Dom?Would you hurt your sub?

In this episode of Conversations with a Dom Moineau and I discuss subspace.What subspace feels like?Are there levels of subspace?The two components of subspaceWhat activities put you into subspace?Subspace and consent