Hyphenated Lives

This is the final episode of the Hyphenated* podcast. For this episode we discuss some of our highlights of the show, and why we are deciding to end the show, centering around a final question- "Is POC Solidarity Even Possible?" We are so grateful for all of your support over the last year and a half and hope you enjoy the final episode. Also, we are trying to raise $135 for our webhosting to keep the podcast online for the coming year. If you loved the podcast and want to see it stay online as a resource for you and your friends, please consider donating to www.tinyurl.com/hyphenatedlives2. Kari is especially strapped for cash right now, so any and all support is super appreciated to keep the podcast online after February 15.

In our previous episode, we discussed abusive relationships and how many abusive elements in relationships are normalized in our society, in part because of racism, sexism, and so forth. This week, we talk about how to end the cycle of abuse and how to build loving, healthy relationships. We also discuss discuss the Antonio Martin case, and our personal New Year’s resolutions as well.

For this week we’re talking about abuse and how its various forms are normalized in society. From the fact that counseling and psychiatry have racist/sexist/ableist views baked in the cake to gaslighting; abusive behavior is normalized and very often marginalized people are the ones who bear the brunt. We also address signs of abuse in relationships, and in the context of family life as well.

Mike Brown, Eric Garner, Protests, Black Organizing, White "Allies" , Obama's (non) response & More. In this episode we delve into what's been happening over the past two weeks in the US.

For this week’s episode, Kari (back from hiatus) and Chuks take on the idea of “Asian Privilege.” Why do so many people, from white people to People of Color, believe and propagate this idea? But first: Michael Brown’s parents are to stand at the U.N. and the circus surrounding Rasmea Odeh’s trial. Listener questions this week come from rosieisrising with regards to why someone would chose to partake in the imperialist machine that is the U.S. armed forces and givingyoutheflick about Australia.

How do schools and our education system reproduce inequality and teach us lies like the "bootstraps myth" when we all know that as POC we have to work twice as hard to get half as much? How important is mentorship for students of color from teachers of their respective backgrounds? For this episode (Kari is gone for the week), Chuks talks with Shirley, an Asian American public school teacher, to explore these questions and more.

There’s this pervasive cultural narrative that deliberately and consciously aims to depoliticize love (e.g. the cries of "Love is love!" and "But love is pure!")—it could even be called a national project in this age of "color blindness". The implications of this are far and disturbing. Love is not just love, and who we choose to love is tied into systems of domination like white supremacy and patriarchy. Love, whether we like it or not, is incredibly political, especially when we (as POC) date white people. In this episode we dive in to discuss these messy racial dating politics of dating white people as a POC. We are joined for this discussion by Chuk's friend Shirley (onetoc on tumblr), and we also discuss for short news: #FergusonOctober, Vonderrit Myers, Gay Marriage and "How To Get Away With Murder"

"We are never going to get anywhere as long as our economies of attraction continue to resemble, more or less, the economies of attraction of white supremacy." Junot Diaz In this episode, Kari and Chuks joined by two special guests- John (ninjaruski) & Khadee (rococobutter), use this Junot Diaz quote as a jumping off point to discuss decolonial love. We also discuss US imperialism, ISIS and Emma Watson's "feminist" speech and answer a question about AAVE appropriation and boundary policing.

What is a feminist killjoy? Kari and Chuks discuss this idea coined by Sara Ahmed for this week’s episode. We start off by discussing a terrible op-ed in The Age, an Australian newspaper, that demonizes the women caught in the Hollywood nude photo privacy breach. Then, onto anonymous questions about the APIA designation in American racial politics and further commentary on the ALS ice bucket challenge.

For H*33, Kari is back! We start off with some quick news--the Queen’s birthday, Michael Sam being cut from the St. Louis Rams, and the ceasefire from Gaza--before moving into the main topic of ableism. What are some ways in which ableism is commonly perpetuated in our society? When it intersects with race and class and gender? For this week’s asks and submissions from listeners, we read uneclochette’s submission about codeswitching, an anonymous ask about our recording style, and nicejewishqueer’s submission regarding anti-Semitism in anti-Zionist movements.

What is "code switching" and what’s it like navigating white spaces in America as a black man and Asian American woman from very different backgrounds? What are the types of bodies which have more or less ability to move through white spaces and how do we codeswitch without constantly centering whiteness and an implicit desire to comfort white people? Chuks along with special return guest Lucy (ragstoreverie) - Kari is out for the week- address these questions and more on this week’s episode of Hyphenated on “Code Switching & Talking to White People”

Kari and Chuks met for the first time in person this past weekend, so we kick off the episode introducing our guest this week, Ryan, and ragging on each other. In the news this week: Rihanna’s appropriative spread for W magazine, Miley Cyrus’s photoshopping herself over Nicki Minaj, the bombing of Iraq, and Michael Brown. Ryan joins us this week for our main topic of how to move the conversation on class forward. So often the conversation and movements surrounding class are dominated by white men. How do we work to move them forward so that a larger movement inclusive of all those who need it happens? For listener asks, we answer an anonymous ask about our future programming; bitches-dont-know-why-i-just’s asks about responding to friends who don’t want to come to consciousness; Joyced’s ask about the neo-imperialism that is teach English at international schools.

What the hell happened in Ferguson? (x, x, x, x, x)

Chuks, Kari, and special guest Homam (you can find him @homamzituni on Twitter) discuss Beyonce and Nicki Minaj’s ***Flawless remix before moving onto discussing about Israel and Palestine. In the news, we hear and don’t hear a lot about what is going on in Gaza. Why do we hear certain narratives? What is manufacturing of consent and corporate media, and how does it inform our opinions and eventually foreign policy? Listener asks come from preppymarxist about talking about why anti-zionism without anti-semitism; scspeak about the problematics of “Lunar New Year” festivals; notcoral about Jack & Jill class politics.

Kari and Chuks are joined by Lindsay, who blogs under the handle Ichumato, to talk about class divisions in POC communities. Where are the divides? How do they form? And most importantly, how do we work across them? But first, in the news: the continued violence in Gaza and the history Scarlett Johanssen is making with “Lucy” (as well as how problematic the movie is). For listener asks this week, we answer an anonymous ask about other Asian-American media stars we didn’t touch upon last episode; another anonymous ask about our analysis of Beyonce and Jay Z’s relationship; i-kool-kat’s ask about how to deal with people and conversation of “but not all ____.”

This week for H*28, Chuks and Kari are joined by ragstoreverie to discuss Asian-American Media. In the last few years, especially the rise of YouTube stars, Asian American media has boomed with Wong Fu Productions, Fung Brothers, KevJumba, JK Films/David So, Jabbawockeez, and many more. They play an important role in the community--needed representation and control of production, for example--but they are not without their problems. For asks this week, we answer an ask from Sarah about access to social justice movement, butchrobot about developed/developing nation terminology, and 2goldensnitches about fighting with family members over the Gaza-Israel conflict.

After a month-long hiatus (sorry y’all), Kari (now blogging at voguedissent and heauxchinoise) and Chuks are back! We open this episode with a quick discussion about Beyonce and Jay Z’s potentially impending divorce, Gaza, and the children at the border. This week’s main discussion centers on what has happened in our lives lives in the past month, namely thinking about the role of our (obscene) class privileges and what that means for the work we do. For listener questions, we have anonymous questions about how we record, getting involved in anti-oppression advocacy work in high school, and analyzing Jewish guilt about Israel and Palestine, and an ask from jezebelwasunbothered about our lack of discussion regarding the accessibility of higher education when we talked about the Ivory Tower in a previous episode.

John, who blogs under the handle ninjaruski, joins Chuks and Kari as special guest this week. We first discuss the shots fired between TLC and Rihanna and “homeless spikes” that have popped up in London. Then, to the main topic: “can we really talk about feminism and racism in a meaningful way in academic institutions that have inherently made by white supremacist patriarchal capitalist structures?” (x, x, x, x. x). For listener asks, we answer an anonymous ask about television shows with POC-dominated casts; i-kool-kat’s submission regarding intra-POC solidarity; all-the-pieces-matter451’s asks regarding our lack of inclusion of indigenous/native peoples in the discussion about intra-POC solidarity.

Kari and Chuks, for H*25, start things off with talking about all the teeny-boppers dropping the n-word and the attack on V. Stiviano outside of an exclusive Manhattan hotel. From there we move onto paying our respects to Maya Angelou and Yuri Kochimaya. Their passing brings into question where intra-POC solidarity is now and the future of the fight for civil rights. We field a thanks from an anonymous asker; catlovesmochalike’s submission regarding Harry Potter and media representation; an observation from an anonymous asked regarding all-POC television casts.

Chuks and Kari kick things off with Elliot Rodgers and the #YesAllWomen movement that’s sprung up as a result. We then move onto a discussion about examples of POC appropriating other POC and unpacking what the implications are. For asks this week, we field three anonymous asks: one about the legitimacy of feminism, anti-racism, etc. classes in universities; traveling the world as a Black woman and dealing with the ramifications of global oppression; experiencing possible racism abroad as a POC.

For this week’s episode, Kari, Chuks, and special guest Ubong kick off the episode with a happy birthday shoutout to Yuri Kochiyama and Malcolm X, a quick discussion of Macklemore’s anti-Semitic costume, and a longer discussion about ABC’s new shows for the fall. The main discussion this week centers on being Black in Asia. Both Chuks and Ubong share their experiences in Taiwan and mainland China, respectively, and upack the causes and ramifications of their experiences. We answer three asks this week: the first comes from makingofamelody, who asks about People of Color being racist against other People of Color; an anonymous asker, who asks about multisexual privilege (Kari’s piece here); an anonymous asker, who asks about sex positivity (Kari’s piece here).

This week’s episode, Kari and Chuks open with a shoutout to Conchita Wurst and a discussion of that fight between Jay Z and Solange. Not only is a toxic and painful situation being reduced to memes and jokes, but Solange is now being reduced to the stereotype of Angry Black Woman. We then move onto a discussion about the good and bad of #BringBackOurGirls (x, x, x, x, x, x, x). Listener asks come from solar-powered-biscuit-dunker, who sent in a question about monosexual privilege; an anonymous asker, who asked about reclaiming sex positivity; turtpurff, who juxtaposed our Rihanna episode and sex positivity is for white women episode to ask about Women of Color embracing their sexuality.

H*21 starts off with Chuks and Kari discussing V. Stiviano’s interview with Barbara Walters before moving into how sex positivity is for white women. From slut walks to finding sex empowering, feminism’s latest thing is sex positivity. But is sex positivity something all women can practice? For this week’s listener asks, we answer an anonymous ask regarding Lupita’s PEOPLE cover and another anonymous ask about what to do when you can’t find a good therapist who is willing to help you through the issues of race, gender, and sexuality.

For H*20, Chuks and Kari kick the episode off with a quick bit on the Donald Sterling race row before discussing the American media’s coverage of the South Korean ferry tragedy. Not content with reporting the tragedy as is, “Western” media has indulged in some major racism and whitewashing of history. We also answer asks from palidosauria about high school exchange programs, acrylic-afternoons about Laverne Cox and Lupita Nyong’o’s omission from TIME’s 100 Most Influential list despite their high approval ratings on Time’s online poll, and an anonymous asked about LGBTQ* spaces in Africa.

On this week’s episode of Hyphenated*, Kari and Chuks momentarily squeal about Lupita’s PEOPLE Most Beautiful Cover before moving onto Rihanna. Rihanna, Rihanna, Rihanna: where do we begin? Not only does the Queen of Cool set international trends of fashion, music, and culture, people’s reactions to her reveal a lot about society’s expectations for proper womanhood and Black womanhood. For this week’s asks, we answer an ask from noir97 about the Peace Corps, an anonymous ask about racism in K-pop, an ask from valentine about Green Peace, and hamselves’ two cents about Eleanor & Park.

Kari and Chuks, with special guest Cynthia, discuss anti-blackness in K-pop. From racism early on to the now-ubiquitous appropriation of Black culture while disparaging Black people, from what the artists do to the fans’ reactions, we trace the history and analyze anti-blackness in K-Pop. We also answer an anonymous ask about Nicki Minaj’s sexuality, an ask from ithinkimgettingthefear about racial politics on a university campus, and an anonymous ask about dealing with a friend who’s coping with trauma.

This week, Kari and Chuks share anecdotes and discuss issues facing the LGBTQ* community. Anecdotes fom aikuroumikisugi, toonzle, thebisweptbisexual, and several anonymous submitters shed light on experiences they’ve had in being marginalized in the LGBTQ* community. For this week’s weekly topics, we discuss how the Queen’s world tour has come to an end; Jennifer Lopez’s bad boyfriend situation; Michelle Rodriguez and Cara Delevingne’s public romance; Jezebel’s bad reaction to #CancelColbert, and a thoughtful reaction to #CancelColbert; a Black student who’s killing it with college acceptances. We have an update from jeriorlizorart, chimatsuri’s two cents on the JET program, and an anonymous ask about Kim Kardashian’s racial identity. Follow us on: Facebook | Soundcloud | iTunes | Tumblr | Twitter

This week, BlackinAsia and unapologetically-yellow discuss mental illness in POC communities. From the high rates amoungst Women of Color to toxic stress, from the importance of self-diagnosis to how mental illness and mental health issues are not talked about because they are normalized, mental illness in POC communities is not an oft-discussed topic. (x, x, x, x, x, x) For this week’s weekly topics, we have Kim Kardashian’s Vogue cover, Michelle Obama’s trip to China, the Taiwanese student protests, and Divergent’s strong opening weekend. We also answer two anonymous listener asks about supporting LGBTQ activism in Africa and mentioning the neo-imperialism of English-abroad programs to a Vietnamese-American friend who plans on doing JET.

This week for episode 15, BlackinAsia and unapologetically-yellow discuss the rise of anti-LGBTQ movements in Africa. Recently, BlackinAsia participated in a rally protesting draconian anti-LGBTQ legislation in Nigeria. There is growing recognition that the anti-LGBTQ movements aren’t as clear cut as Western media like to portray them as, but there are still gaps in understanding. For our weekly news topics, we discuss #whitemanmarchprotestsigns, a history teacher’s question of would you rather be a slave or a factory worker during the Industrial Revolution, the white-washing of Tiger Lily, and Lupita’s potential upcoming role. We also answer a question from hamselves about special needs education around the world and an anonymous question about donating to KUMFA. Limit(less) Website: http://limitlessafricans.com Limit(less) Facebook: http://facebook.com/limitlessafricans

For episode 14, BlackinAsia, unapologetically-yellow, and special guest peaceshannon discuss the state of international adoption and the recent murder of Hyunsu. peaceshannon provides important framing of the international adoption industrial complex as well as the specifics of Hyunsu’s murder. News topics this week include the Oscars and the falling out between 18 Million Rising and Suey Park, and we answer a listener ask from canadiaplease about comparisons between the Civil Rights’ Movement and the marriage equality movement and an anonymous listener’s question about the “eat the cake Annie Mae” line in Drunk in Love.

This week, in episode 13, unapologetically-yellow and BlackinAsia discuss women versus women competition. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, in her now-famous TEDTalk, speaks of competition between women for jobs as a potentially good thing. But is it? From Sheryl Sandberg’s “Lean In” to the pitting of female pop stars against one another to allotting space for only one female black rapper to be considered a great in the history of hip-hop, is it a good thing? For news stories, we cover Michael B Jordan’s casting as Johnny Storm; Garcelle Beauvais’s unsolicited advice to Beyonce; Piers Morgan losing his gig; Yuna Kim’s shocking finish at the Sochi Olympics. We give an update on unobservables ask from last episode, and we answer asks from jazzy-jay115 (discussions about anti-blackness in Kpop being skewed to an American context), uroppahatesu (our thoughts on Nicki Minaj’s latest song, “Lookin-ass n****), and a couple anonymous listeners.

This week on Hyphenated*, unapologetically-yellow and BlackinAsia invite special guest Oscar discusses the little-reported students protests in Venezuela. What is going on? What is the background of the protests? What has happened so far? Why isn’t the media, mainstream or alternative, covering this? For a few resources on what is going on, here are three (x, x, x,) links [available on our tumblr page]. For other news stories, we cover the Dunn trial; Kansas’s anti-gay segregation bill; Mohammad Assaf being banned from performing at the World Cup; Nicki Minaj’s apology with regards to using Malcolm X’s image. We also answer questions from viewblackmirage, unobservables, and notafanofstripedcardigans. Oscar: http://twitter.com/americo_oscar

For this special addendum episode, unapologetically-yellow and BlackinAsia answer questions submitted by theultraintrovert (about Neal Brennan’s horrible comments), givingyoutheflick (about The Hollywood Reporter’s roundtable and Oprah’s answer) and a couple anonymous asked (about ankhs and visa concerns for immigrants).

In episode 11 (it’s finally out!), BlackinAsia and unapologetically-yellow discuss a topic submitted by friedapples centered on BlackinAsia’s post about identity politics in the black community, the “splintering of Black America,” and overcoming these divides and building community. This week, in news stories, we have Mario Balotelli breaking down at the pitch after having racist taunts hurled his way; Michael Sam coming out; the problems with The Biggest Loser’s most recent season; the French media going into a tizzy about rumors of an affair between President Obama and Beyonce. Other reader questions and submissions concern “Asian privilege” and a couple articles that have recently come out about “Asian privilege,” and solar-powered-biscuit-dunker’s concern with calling people out in class.

In Episode 10, unapologetically-yellow and BlackinAsia discuss the amazingness of Queen Lupita. Lupita has been slaying the awards circuit for 12 Years a Slave, from the fashion to her acceptance speeches where she directly calls out white supremacy. Unfortunately, white supremacy has been fetishsizing her and her career trajectory is yet to be seen. We also discuss SNL’s inclusion of a Black female cast member, Nigeria’s anti-gay law, Justin Bieber's arrest; and a K-pop group wanting to be known as “Black Kids” and “Black Freedom.” We answer asks from jaddasroots about body positivity and the negative effects of obesity and notkingkong about a white friend who insists on proving her point.

In Episode 9, we discuss the continual erasure of Black people from Black culture, especially in music. No Black artists were in the top ten for Billboard’s top hits of 2013, and the Rock Hall of Fame failed to induct any Black artists this year (the second in the Hall’s twenty eight year history). We also discuss the Golden Globes and racism in Hollywood; Idris Elba and the BAFTAs; Mindy Kaling’s Elle cover; birthday shoutouts to Tina Knowles and Blue Ivy; figure skating’s latest race mess. We answer an anonymous question about responsibility in the face of ignorance and givingyoutheflick’s question with regards to Lorde’s ignorance.

Episode 8: Jennifer Lawrence’s “body positivity” comes under fire In this week’s discussion, we discuss a recent piece in the Huffington Post re: Jennifer Larence’s body shaming that is disguised as “body positivity.” (Kari has received an ask about this before, and this has been a point of contention in the Tumblr community as well.) At the end of the day, our policing of women’s body center on patriarchal constructs. For the news this week, we discuss Beyonce’s “Self Titled” series; an American football player who was let go for his support of gay rights; Jay Z’s Barneys collection’s net profit; Idris Elba’s hilarious tweet. We also answer a couple listener questions about our previous review of Catching Fire and how to deal with problematic media (and situations) in our lives.

1. Episode 7, Part 1: Weekly Discussion (#BlackPowerYellowPeril) In this week’s discussion, we discuss #BlackPowerYellowPeril, from the history of Black-East Asian solidarity (and the hiccups in it as well), the problems with #BlackPowerLiberAsian as a negative response to #BlackPowerYellowPeril, and some of our favorite tweets from the hashtag. 2. Episode 7, Part 2: News Stories In this week’s news stories, Beyonce courts controversy with an Instagram photo and the use of audio from the Challenger diaster in XO; Keanu Reeve’s 47 Ronin is set to be 2013’s biggest box office bomb; Nicholas Anelka, a French footballer, lands in hot water after performing a reverse Nazi-salute on the pitch; an update on Idris Elba. We also answer asks from ithinkhernamewaskaylyn about a horrendous tumblr and kamikazelove about coming out as queer POC.

1. Episode 6, Part 1: Weekly Discussion (Teaching English abroad) In this week’s discussion, we discuss the imperialistic machine that is teaching English abroad. What do we mean by cultural imperialism? Is there a way to teach English abroad in a socially conscious manner? What are some of the common things that Chuks and Kari have seen, given that they both have or currently are teaching English abroad? We have input from kenyabenyagurl, salviprince, thenaughtyscholar, and feministdonut. 2. Episode 6, Part 2: News Stories In this week’s news stories, Rihanna fronts Balmain’s SS2014 campaign and converts the bedrooms of her New York apartment into a giant walk-in closet; Michelle Howard is nominated to become admiral and vice chief of naval operations; the Renisha McBride story gets dirtier; Yayaoi Kusama’s I Who Have Arrived in Heaven is so popular to the point that people are waiting hours to see it; Amazon and Target have gone to war against Beyonce. We also discuss asks from ithinkhernamewaskaylyn with regards to Tommy Sotomayor and his comments about Black women and wait-i-dontthink-t-getit with regards to something that popped up on Twitter.

1. Episode 5, Part 1: Weekly Discussion (Beyoncé’s Feminism & New Album) In this week’s discussion, BlackinAsia and unapologetically-yellow discuss Beyoncé’s surprise album, Beyoncé, and the feminism she embodies in this work. There is a lot to love about the album (x, x, x, x, x, x, x), and we discuss some of the problematic aspects of the album as well (x, x, x). Will white people and other people who aren’t black women willfully misinterpret Beyoncé? What does this album mean for the world as a manifesto for black American womanhood?

Episode 5, Part 2: News Stories In this week’s news stories, Oprah fending off more questions about her choice to not have children; Erykah Badu as the latest campaign model for Givenchy; Golden Globe nominations; a plastic surgeon who has operated on his two adopted daughters. We also answer listener questions and submissions from notkingkong about a willfully clueless white friend and waitwhatwhywhenhow about an Ethiopian-American woman’s opinion of Black American women.

In this week’s news stories, we have Jay-Z and Beyoncé’s vegan (food-only) challenge; Twitter’s meltdown over Lorde’s Asian boyfriend; the casting of Wonder Woman; two quick music spots. We also answer a listener question from wherehotstrangersmeet about Black Pete in the Netherlands/Belgium and 2goldensnitches about “defending your own” when “your own” is people of privilege.

SPOILER ALERT. In this week’s discussion, we discuss Catching Fire. The movie gets a lot right, from the portrayal of (white) women to how oppression is carried out. However, when it comes to race, the movie gets a lot wrong. We have input from ideologyofaminor, saotome-michi, and panaghiotis223 about where the movie could’ve been different. Despite the movie portraying race in an artificial suspension, a lot of fans are still uncomfortable with casting choices for the opposite reasons we are.

In this week’s news stories, we have a white man cooking in China becoming an internet sensation (like Eat Your Kimchi); the New York Times sneaks a racist anti-Asian article in time for Thanksgiving; Indian Actress (Mallika Sherawat) vs. Indian female journalist meets Buzzfeed; Selena Gomez shades Justin Bieber. We also answer a listener question from theragingfeminist about dealing with internet debates.

In this week’s discussion, in light of Fear of a Brown Planet’s bit on reverse racism, the focus will be on “reverse racism,” “misandry,” and defining power/privilege/oppression. (For the paper mentioned in the episode about reverse racism, click here.) So often as activists we do one thing after another without pulling back and taking a look at the ideas underlying our work. We work to debunk these “reverse-isms” and take a look at some of the core ideas to social justice activism.

HYPHENATED* Episode 2, Part 2: New Stories In this week’s news stories, we have the Huffington Post’s piece on the REAL history of Thanksgiving; XOJane’s piece on the pressure to be thin Asian/Asian-American women face; Katy Perry’s racist performance at the AMAs; Dow Jones at a record high even as public education continues to fail poor communities of color; a blast from the past. We also answer a listener question from cocksucking-accent about taking degrading jobs.

HYPHENATED* Episode 2, Part 1: Weekly Discussion- “Do non-native POC benefit as settlers on native lands? In this week’s discussion, the focus will be on the exclusion of Native peoples and erasure of their issues from anti-racism discussions. ferntales sent an amazing submission (and paper!) about our roles, even as POC, in the system of colonial oppression, and we will be discussing our thoughts. DISCLAIMER: in this episode, when we refer to Indigenous/Native peoples, we are referring to those in lands now called America/Canada.

In this week’s discussion, the focus will be on deconstructing "Pacific Rim." The movie contains a lot of progressive ideas and portrayals of People of Color, yet it still relies on some problematic tropes. Related topics: Black-Asian solidarity, the portrayal of Asian women and men in Western media, and the tensions that rise between Women of Color and Men of Color due to (lack of) media representation.

In this week’s news stories, we have Ines Rau and Tyson Beckford’s photoshoot; the tale of two waitresses and their tips; Lady Gaga’s ARTPOP flop and Thor 2’s opening weekend numbers; Lily Allen’s non-apology; Renisha McBride.