My Letter isn't Scarlet, it's F*****g Gold.

Manifestation Coach, Global Wellness Leader, Author & Podcast Host Kim Mellor is powerfully impacting the lives of thousands of women throughout the world. Her mission is to empower 1 Million women to live their highest vision, freedom & joy. www.kimmellor.com hello@kimmellor.com @kimmellor_

Alison Jamison is a certified conversation and relationship coach for women who are coming out (bi/pan/queer) later in life. She helps them decide what their identity means for their relationship and how to create the love life of their wildest fantasies. She teaches clients how to have deeper conversations with their minds, bodies, and partners so they can create the relationship they truly desire. Website: alisonjamison.com Free Consultation: alisonjamison.com/coffeedate IG: instagram.com/alison_jamison_coaching Free Opt In: https://mailchi.mp/alisonjamison/coming-out-question-freebie Podcast: Hey Babe, I'm Queer!? (anchor.fm/hbiq)

Navi Bliss is a certified love and relationship coach, certified inspirational speaker and host of the blissful love podcast. She has also been featured on Global News and CTV and has a viral video on A Plus Media and Chicken Soup for the Soul. Growing up with a mother who was physically and emotionally abusive left Navi with a tattered sense of self and low self esteem. This sent her on a path of horrible, toxic and abusive relationships until she reached her breaking point in 2016 after walking away from an abusive relationship. After going on a healing journey, Navi was able to flip the script on her own life and is now determined to help others to do the same. As a coach, Navi's mission in life is to help people fall head over heels in love with themselves so that they can effortlessly attract blissful love into their lives. As a inspirational speaker Navi uses her own stories of overcoming childhood abuse and neglect, to inspire others that anything is possible and they too can overcome any obstacles in their way. You can overcome your past heartbreaks and trauma, you can fall in love with yourself completely and learn to feel good in your skin everyday and you can have the most blissful magical relationship too and Navi can show you how! Website: www.naviblisscoaching.com Instagram/Twitter/Clubhouse: @navibliss Facebook: Navi Bliss Coaching

A living library of wisdom and power, Kelly has been able to remember and integrate many past lives as a wisdom keeper, activator of Kings and Queens, and holder of the Chalice Light Codes. Here now in this special time in history to usher in a new Golden Age. An age where leaders are connected and activated to their Divine selves, where they lead for others with love and compassion and have the depth and richness to help this evolution flow with the cosmic currents. Kelly has studied deeply in Mystery Schools Traditions, Shamanic Arts, and Womb Awakening – all tools that have awakened in her own wisdom. She now works with Leaders to awaken and integrate their wisdom for them – to help them realize their greatest mission on earth and to help raise the consciousness of humanity. Www.kellymorgan.tv  www.instagram.com/kellymorgancoach

Avery Thatcher is a former ICU RN who noticed the majority of the reasons people found themselves in the ICU were because of illnesses and diseases linked to chronic stress. She decided to get out of the reactive side of medicine and now helps people prevent burnout and reverse the negative health effects of stress. She believes in the importance of real, raw and vulnerable conversations to normalize our human experience and remind us that we're not alone in our struggles. Https://becomingavery.com Https://intstagram.com/becomingavery  

Dawn Davis is a bold, assertive, passionate, queer, femme domme, Confidence Specialist, modeling for others how to take up space unapologetically. Empowering women FOR DECADES to be confident and brave, to say no, to talk about sexuality, sex, and consent (sexual and not). Showing women how strong and powerful they are! She helps women love themselves and their bodies, ask for what they want, expand boundaries, and challenge the status quo, without shame. No subject is taboo. #NOTSORRY Website: https://dawndaviscoaching.com Instagram: Instagram.com/DawnDavisCoaching/ Facebook: https://facebook.com/DawnDavisCoaching/ Medium: https://dawndaviscoaching.medium.com/ Tiktok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdaGuoxu/  

Yani Kramer is a Tantric Coach & Bodyworker. And the founder of Pleasure Portal for women. Since leaving her old life in Amsterdam, she has been on a journey around the world. Activated embodied and channeled wisdom - learning & teaching about sacred sexuality, conscious (open) relating, tantra, kink, taoism, the shamanic arts. She's here to help you have hot intimacy and deep connections. All in a playful, warm and sacred way. Adding some pleasure magick into your life! https://www.instagram.com/yaniverse___/ Free Pleasure Workshop! yaniverse.mykajabi.com/freepleasureworkshop Pleasure Portal, 6-wk course for women: https://yaniverse.mykajabi.com/offers/vQHKn2BX/checkout

My name is Charlotte Kaye and I am a life coach, decluttering coach and host of the Cozy and Connected podcast. Through my life coaching services I help women be who they are and do what they want, guilt-free…while smashing the patriarchy and manifesting world peace.   www.charlottekayecoach.com www.instagram.com/charlottekayecoach

TJ's pronouns are zhi/zir/zirself and is a first-generation Chinese-American. Zir left behind a corporate project management job in order to deliver more impactful and meaningful work helping small business owners adopt an abundance mindset when it comes to their money. TJ is on track to retire by age 40 and wants everyone to know that it's just a matter of educating yourself if you're ready to attain financial independence. https://eztree.me/TheRightWey Instagram: @TJ.Wey Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/T.J.Wey/

Azaria Menezes aka The Pussy Fairy is a trauma-informed Sex and Intimacy coach that works with women, moms, and couples to figure out what that thing is that's holding them back in the bedroom. She supports folks to find back to feeling turned on, ecstatic and orgasmic in and out of the bedroom. Azaria supports her clients to re-ignite that spark back into their sexuality or relationships so that they can fall more in love with themselves and/or each other. She also hosts the podcast: Getting Intimate where she brings practical ways to invite more pleasure into your body, relationships, and sex life. Website: www.thepussyfairy.com www.azariamenezes.com FREE OPT-IN https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a-portal-to-healing PODCAST : Getting Intimate https://www.azariamenezes.com/podcast Instagram : https://instagram.com/azaria.menezes?utm_medium=copy_link Facebook group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/309842676890814

In this episode, I talk about how I've noticed areas of my life that my boundaries have been loosey fucking goosey. And how this relates to committing to myself and my own happiness.

In this episode, I share about my first experience with plant medicine - mushrooms - it was quite the ride!

In this episode, I share about my surf trip and visiting my pertner's family for the first time. We come from very different backgrounds and cultures, which makes our relationships fun, but at times, also very challenging. 

I was on the Desire on Fire Podcast and I'm resharing the episode here :). I share about my personal sexual journey and how my sexuality has evolved over time. Enjoy! Check out the Desire on Fire podcast here: Apple Podcasts | Spotify

Sex and dating can feel so serious sometimes. It can feel like there's so much pressure/expectation. How can you feel more confident and playful in these situations while also communicating your desires and boundaries?

I have talked about this concept quite a bit, but it felt really relevant to share about this week. I just got a tattoo with this symbolic meaning and wanted to share my experience and how getting out of my own box has completely transformed my life. Hoping you get something from it as well. xx

In this episode, I casually talk about what I'm going through right now. The experiences I'm having, the thoughts and fears coming up, the excitement, and everything in-between. Shoot me a message if you can relate or want to connect. Xx

In this episode, I talk about opening my relationship and the emotions that have accompanied this process. Several months ago, I shared that I was going to open and how I felt about that. Now, I have officially opened my relationship and it's so much different than I expected. Listen to learn more.

In this episode, I share about my journey with mental health and some ways that have helped me to stay positive and keep moving forward amidst the challenges life gives me.

In this episode, I share how I like to spend the last few days of the year. How I reflect on the previous year and how I prepare for the new year. Listen to get some tips or ideas for how you can do the same!

In this episode, Kori and I sit on my bed and chat allll about relationships. We're both in committed and deeply fulfilling partnerships with men, but our relationships look SO different from one another. We talk about this all the time as friends, but this time, we decided to share out insights and experience while recording. Enjoy :) Kori Zornes is the founder of Revamp Retreats. She is currently living her dream life on the magical island of Bali! She spends her time surfing, saving animals, teaching, and building her online community — all of her biggest passions. Kori has spent the past 10 years in the wellness space, from teaching yoga and nutrition, to working for non-profits and eventually building her own thriving company that leads life-changing retreats around the world. Her life is filled with freedom, following her desires, and connection — and it's Kori's biggest mission to help others do the same! She believe everyone deserves to create their dream life, and be completely lit up, inspired, and passionate all along the way.

In this episode, we talk about what it's like to have challenging and confronting conversations sober. Whether you're in recovery, sober curious, or just want to know how to connect with people sober, this episode is for you!  Vulnerable communication can feel really scary. But connection with other humans is all any of us truly wants. So why does it feel so hard? How many times have you drunkenly connected with someone and had that EPIC vulnerable chat until the sun came up? But what if  you could have those conversations without alcohol, without losing sleep, and without the hazy memory but a clear recollection of what was said?  We're here to tell you that you CAN have that. But it takes work and may feel a bit uncomfortable when you first try it. Listen to learn more.

A real look into what's possible in sisterhood. Marga and I always have the juices conversations when we're NOT recording. Just catching up as friends. This time, we decided to record ourselves, give you a peek into our friendship and show what it can sound like when two turned on women come together and share about their lives. Enjoy!

Most of us avoid fear, shy away from the discomfort. But what would happen if you chose differently?

Lizzie Vance is a book midwife, writing coach, and magick maker, has been in the writing and publishing industry for 14+ years. Lizzie is passionate about helping her clients reclaim their sovereignty through the medium of writing. Her not-so-secret hobby is writing and teaching erotica, and she particularly loves witnessing women discover new parts of themselves as they unwind their blocks and open themselves up to what's possible when they unleash their desire. lizzievance.com facebook.com/lizzievancebooks IG: @lizzievance

This one is so fun! One of my good friends, Kelley Bode, and I share about our dating experience – specifically, how we both went from eating pussy to worshipping penis – and all the lessons we learned along the way. It's been a transformational journey for both of us, as exploring your sexuality always is ;)

I'm an intimacy and relationship trainer and coach. I help women and men feel more confident, connected, and self-expressed when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and sex. Sex and intimacy can be deeply fulfilling and nourishing and yet, many people do not know how to access it. The trainings I offer are a combination of coaching and powerful exercises that help you discover self-imposed constraints around sexuality and relationships. You will learn how to express and communicate what you need, feel your body more intensely and be in touch with your desires. A new set of tools and strategies will help you past limiting beliefs, leaving you empowered, and free to take new actions and behave differently in situations where you previously felt stuck. I coach from a place of experience, recognition, and compassion. I have been working in the area of coaching, training and personal development for over 15 years. I use my training in a variety of modalities combined with the philosophy and the practice of Orgasmic Meditation. Social media links https://www.turnonnl.com/ https://www.instagram.com/turnon_the_netherlands/ https://www.facebook.com/turnonthenetherlands/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaberlinski/ Survey Help me help others better! Please fill in this 5 minute survey: https://forms.gle/WgFPUsc97qZJmXAs6

Jenna Switzer is committed to empowering students to live a life fully turned on to pleasure. Originally from Canada, she is a passionate yogi, teacher teacher, and pelvic floor empowerment coach. She has lead workshops, trainings, retreats, and classes domestically and internationally. During her initial yoga teacher training, Jenna developed a passion for anatomy which grew throughout nearly a decade of yoga teaching. Through her studies of anatomy, Jenna began to focus on the power of pelvic floor work, both physically and energetically. Jenna's online courses and one-on-one work has helped hundreds of students, men and womxn, empower their lives. Jenna currently creates and teaches from a small surf village in Bali, Indonesia.

We talk about what it's like to have sex sober and how awkward it can be at first! Listen to get some insights on how we both have navigated it and how it can be sooooo much better. In 1999, Katie chose sobriety over suicide. That was the moment, she discovered her life's calling. She's been passionately committed to her recovery and helping others achieve long-term recovery ever since. She's been working in the treatment field since 2006 in inpatient, outpatient, peer recovery support and education. Personally and professionally, she's helped thousands of people in their recovery journey. Since she got sober, she's lived an extraordinary life. Though she initially thought sobriety would be the death of fun, she soon discovered it was just the beginning of a great adventure. She's been lucky enough to enjoy extended world travel, experience plenty of thrilling adventures and is committed to self-exploration and personal growth.

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Taking risks can be terrifying, AND it's a necessary part of change and getting what you want. I share a bit about how this may play out in your life and how I've had to take risks as well.  Surfing has been one of my biggest teachers and I share with you what I've learned so you can get the lessons too :)

In 1999, Katie chose sobriety over suicide. That was the moment, she discovered her life's calling. She's been passionately committed to her recovery and helping others achieve long-term recovery ever since. She's been working in the treatment field since 2006 in inpatient, outpatient, peer recovery support and education. Personally and professionally, she's helped thousands of people in their recovery journey. Since she got sober, she's lived an extraordinary life. Though she initially thought sobriety would be the death of fun, she soon discovered it was just the beginning of a great adventure. She's been lucky enough to enjoy extended world travel, experience plenty of thrilling adventures and is committed to self-exploration and personal growth. https://www.myrecoverypartner.com/  

Kristin is a former 15 year corporate hustler turned Intuitive Life Coach.  She spent years hustling for happiness through seeking fulfillment outside of herself.  It wasn't until Kristin turned within that she rediscovered her power and was able to initiate her life purpose path.  Kristin is passionate about helping womxn orient back to the magic within themselves.  She can help you examine and clear limiting beliefs that hold you back from your greatness and attune to your intuitive wisdom so that you can lead your life in truth. Links: www.kqcoaching.com https://linktr.ee/kqcoaching instagram.com/kqcoaching facebook.com/kqcoaching https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6vg-40DuCGXYPaCOBVm6kw?view_as=subscriber   To schedule a call with me or learn more, go to talksexwithkayla.com

In this episode, I talk about self-love, what it means, and ways you can start implementing more of it into your life for more energy, love & connection – both with yourself & others.

Here are some resources if you're considering opening your relationship or want to know more: The Ethical Slut The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory Relationship Agreements

Have you ever wondered how to get your sexy back and feel good in the process? Between work, the kids and their activities, and taking care of your aging parents, you fall into bed exhausted every night. You remember a time when sex was the best thing ever, but now, you can take it or leave it. If you know there is more to life and love but just don't know how to achieve it, then you've come to the right place. Dr. Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD, a.k.a. “Dr. Brandye”, is among the country's well-known physicians. As a board-certified OB/GYN and Women's Pleasure Coach, she brings a unique approach to women's sexual health, achieving a holistic integration of the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual elements of you. This creates lasting positive change in how you view yourself, your body, and your pleasure. She is called upon by various local and national media outlets to give a fresh perspective and new information on women's health trends. Dr. Brandye is the founder and chief medical advisor for DrBrandyeMD.com, where she has created a safe space to discuss real-world strategies to help women learn the truth about sex and orgasms, and embrace their feminine essence, so they feel good both inside and outside of the bedroom. Her book, “My O My! A Committed Woman's Guide to Getting the Great Sex She Deserves”, is an Amazon #1 Bestseller and has helped numerous women to live their Best. Sex. Life. Ever! Born and raised in South Central Los Angeles, California, Dr. Brandye earned her undergraduate degree from the University of California at Riverside, earned her doctor of medicine from the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA/Charles R. Drew University of Medicine and Science. She completed her residency training at Rochester General Hospital in Rochester, New York, and she currently has a thriving telemedicine practice in addition to providing quality women's health services in the Los Angeles area for over a decade! Websites: www.drbrandyemd.com (pleasure coach) Book: www.MyOMyBook.com BioHacks for a Better Sex Life PDF: www.biohacksforbettersex.com Stop Faking It! The Secret to Amazing Orgasms: www.StopFakingItCourse.com IG: @dr.brandyemd FB: @DrBrandyeMD

Anna Eden is a Dating & Intimacy Coach who helps high-achieving individuals to unlock their true desires so they can feel more fulfilled in their life and in bed. She's an advocate for sensual empowerment and radical honesty, deeply passionate about the power of living from the heart and spirit. Her mission is to spark a change in the way we relate, love and make love. Through her coaching, podcast and courses, she supports men and women to step into a free and shame-less world where they can access their sensuality, express their sexuality and create the relationships they are longing for. Anna is the host of the podcast Love in the Modern Age and founder of the platform Conscious Connection. https://instagram.com/annaedencoach/  

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Amanda Biccum is an evolutionary coach who pushes against the norm of what is possible in sex, love and relationships. She has spent the last 7 years traveling the world, gaining insight from ancient eastern spiritual practices and studying with various mentors in the fields of Tantra, Yoga, Qigong, Taoism and other embodiment practices. Her background is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and she blends her studies of East and West to support the balance of the masculine and feminine in personal and group coaching practice. https://amandabiccum.com/ https://www.instagram.com/madambiccum/

Taylor is the creator of a blog dedicated to sharing the power and magic behind learning, growth, and connection. She believes that connecting to one's mind, body and soul is essential for a happy life, that travel should be a form of expansion instead of escapism, and that self-acceptance is the cure to most of life's woes. On her blog and podcast, Happy Tracks, you'll find content to empower and inspire you to embrace life just as it is through travel, yoga, and radical self-acceptance. https://www.taylorstracks.com/ https://www.instagram.com/taylorstracks/  

Check out my IG @talksexwithkayla and reach out - let me know how this episode resonates with you :)

Molly Godfrey is a viral content creator and the ‘go-to' relationship coach for high-achieving women in their 30s. She has been recognized as a trusted love advisor, helping her clients get unstuck and land their dream relationship. Her clients often hold executive positions at Fortune 500's and through Molly's customized but repeatable framework 72% are in exclusive relationships. Molly has mastered the art & science to fulfilling and meaningful relationships and her work has captured the attention of close to half a million readers through her columns on Medium and other large women's independent media sites. https://mollygodfrey.com/ https://instagram.com/askformolly

Arja Hendrikx is a holistic health coach and tantra teacher specialised in sexuality. You can learn everything you always wanted to know about tantric sexuality from a holistic and integrative perspective. Having studied both traditional tantric lineages as well as modern sexology, holistic health & integrative nutrition, Arja combines the spiritual with the material and opens your mind, your heart and your sex to a whole new world most people only dream of. Arja has helped thousands of women & couples from all around the world to radically transform their sexual health, personal wellbeing and body confidence to connect deeper with themselves, their sexuality and the intimacy with their partner. https://www.arjahendrikx.com/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/tantricwoman

In this episode, I share about my current experiences and how our biggest desires are also the scariest to pursue.  Likely your deepest desires feel like the scariest things in the world. But leaning into them, acknowledging them, sharing them, and receiving them is what leads to freedom and being fully expressed. It's super vulnerable, yes, but it's also a practice that leads to more intimacy, connection & joy. The practice (yes, it's a practice) of embracing your desires and moving through fear is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. So lean into the discomfort and freedom that comes with it

As an intimacy + empowerment coach, Charlie supports individuals who are feeling stuck in their sex life to have more fulfilling and passionate sex. Charlie has always been passionate about human connection, relationships, and sexuality. After years of professional dancing, she found herself on the path of yoga, philosophy, and meditation. Through yoga, she began experiencing a deep liberation in her body and soul. She realized she had spent most of her life feeling uncomfortable within her body, which resulted in deep discomfort in her sexuality. Soon after, she began diving into the world of tantra, which led to many powerful breakthroughs in her relationship with herself, her body, and her sexuality. She knew she had to spread this knowledge to women and non-binary individuals. She currently works 1:1 with clients in her program specifically designed to help liberate individuals in their relationship with themselves as well as their partner(s). Charlie is currently training with the Tantric Insitute of Integrated Sexuality, led by Layla Martin, which blends the realms of neuroscience, tantra, as well as sex, love, and relationship coaching. Website: charlie-henderson.com Instagram: charliehenderson_coaching

Queer Dating Coach, Ariella Serur, is on a mission to disrupt traditional dating advice and transform the dating pool into one we enthusiastically want to jump into. In her practice, she helps kind, queer folks navigate the dating landscape so they have the courage to go after what they want in dating and in life, without feeling overwhelmed or exhausted. If you want to learn how to date, or date better, she'll help you understand what you want and how to talk about it, so dating becomes an enjoyable process and satiating part of your personal growth journey. Ariella is a Certified Life Coach, Registered Yoga Teacher, and is currently receiving a Graduate Advanced Certificate from Columbia University's School of Psychology in Sexuality, Women, and Gender with a concentration in LGBTQ Issues. Socials: instagram.com/queerdatingcoach Website: queerdatingcoach.com

Enjoy this episode with yours truly.  I would love to hear from you! Feel free to reach out on Instagram @talksexwithkayla or schedule a call on my website kaylayoder.com.  

Zara is an intuitive relationship coach, energy medicine practitioner, and published author. She specializes in helping women find their love-alignment by addressing mind, body, and voice. Her methodology combines ritual, guided visualization, somatic practices, and intuitive readings to guide women to greater clarity, confidence, and connection in love. Originally from Berkeley, CA, Zara now serves her global community from Lisbon, Portugal. http://zaramarinfranks.com/ https://www.instagram.com/zaramarinfranks/ https://www.facebook.com/ZaraMarinFranksIntuitiveRelationshipCoaching

Alexandra Ballensweig is the founder and CEO of humhum, a platform for conscious connection and dating. Through humhum, Alexandra is on a mission to shift the paradigm of how we relate to one another— shifting our outcome oriented relationship to engaging, to a process and growth-oriented one by changing the container within which we connect. humhum is an expression of Alexandra's love for both methodical and mysterious means of self-evolution, and her penchant for entrepreneurship and creative expression. Prior to founding humhum, she worked as a consultant in Strategic Design and Product Management for 7 years for fortune 500s and start-ups. Alexandra is a KRI certified Kundalini Yoga teacher, and a Reiki Master Teacher and Facilitator trained in the Usui Method. Personal practice plays a critical role in Alexandra's life and work. She has had the privilege of sitting multiple month-long silent retreats to study and practice meditation in the Theravada Buddhist tradition over the last six years. She maintains a committed daily meditation and yoga practice to live, work, and serve creatively, spaciously, and with integrity. https://www.humhum.space/ https://www.instagram.com/humhumspace/

Anastasia is a nomadic shibari artist, who uses rope as a media. She teaches sensual & decorative shibari, does group rope meditations and creates interactive rope installations. Her rope sessions and photo sessions are helping people to have a moment of self-love, see themselves in a new light & feel more aware and confident. Anastasia's goal is to change the perception of shibari as an only kink related thing and spread the awareness about benefits of shibari. https://www.instagram.com/voudou.ropes_/