T&A Talk Sex

T, Christina Hepburn, meets with Wry, a speaker, events planner & fetish performer, to talk fire play (that's right, fire ...on the skin!), the BDSM scene, healthy consent communication, and all of its challenges - the ways someone can fall short of using their voice, and what we can do about it.  He also share about his own journey into this world! It's a lively conversation on both ends, sharing about our personal lives and perspectives.  AND THEN T gets "fleshed" (and makes a video to show you all what it looks & feels like!) It's a pretty wild topic - DON'T TRY THIS AT HOME! Find more from Wry HERE: https://www.youtube.com/user/awryperspective

There's a lot of sparring on social media over whether the Aziz Ansari story amounts to "just bad sex" or if it speaks to something more about our relationship to sex in American culture, and how we can educate ourselves to practice true consent.  Christina chats with Dating Advice Girl, Erin Tillman, @datingadvicegrl, about the nuances of the encounter, what's really going on in our culture around objectification and dehumanization, the new definition of consent and a generational disagreement, and what Erin's ideal version of a date would look like (healthy communication about respective intentions), and the space for each person to decide.  

Get inspired to make a difference! Christina met up with Lauren Stephenson in NYC to find out how she started the organization Women to the Front.  The conversation starts in media res discussing the current feminism movements and how to navigate all the differnt opinions, and launches in to how Lauren went from feeling powerless after the 2016 election, to empowering herself and a group of friends to take action on the specific issues she is most passionate about.  Women to the Front specifically holds fundraisers for the organizations that are already doing the great work Lauren admires.  She discovered they needed PR support, so that's just what her group did!  Feeling like you want to go from powerless to proactive? Listen to this episode to get some ideas on how to do just that! Find more about Women to the Front Here: https://www.facebook.com/womentothefront/?rc=p

John Rosania, founder of Honesty Lab (www.honesty-lab.com) talks with Christina about how to really thrive in your relationship - What if you just said what you're actually thinking in your relationships, during sex, and anywhere else you happen to be? The results are better communication, more intimacy, personal growth, and full bodies forgiveness.  Christina did a workshop with John that was remarkable, so Christina invited him onto the show to share his techniques for healing wounds in relationships (romantic and platonic), and for starting on the right foot with new ones! It's truly an eye-opening conversation! 

Some of you may have caught the angry blitz on Christina's social media profile, as well as T&A's Patreon account.  An interesting scenario unfolded where the wife of an acquaintance felt she was a threat due to her work as a professional cuddlist.  T&A talk about the experience of being harassed, and how this person might have approached her frustration differently for positive growth. Meanwhile Christina coaches a friend through confronting her partner on cheating in a constructive manner!   

Stephanie (A) shares that she's moving to Boulder! Why? When?! She's ready for a change this fall!  She gets candid with Christina (T) about waiting too long, even when her inner voice said 'it's time'.  How does holding ourselves back hurt us in and out of the bedroom? How can we be more proactive to make those changes necesary in our lives? Christina shares what's new in her life, and how she's had to move on from relationships that didn't encourage growth.  How about you? What changes are you ready to make for your better self? 

'A' talks to Deborah Kagan, women's mojo recovery specialist, speaker and author about what exactly female empowerment IS and why it is essential to a woman and a couple's well-being and yes, sex life.   Plus, how we go about empowering the ladies, without forgetting our wonderful men.  Tune in to this backstage interview at the 'Rock Your Mojo Women's Weekend' 'A' recently atteneded, to hear Deborah's philosophy and experience with mentoring women all over the world with finding their mojo. Check out Deborah's Work at www.deborah-kagan.com and follow her on IG @deborahkagan

Women love the alpha male and the 'bad boy', but if you're a conscientious dude, how do you manage to give women what they crave sexually while abstaining from acting like a total douche?  Where's the balance? And what does being a 'bad boy' even mean? T&A are here to set the record straight and share their own experiences.  Plus, men's body hair- so rarely talked about and so much to say!  If you're even wondering what the hell we're talking about - you need to listen as T&A share what works and what doesn't with men's fuzzy nether-regions.

T&A talk with Obi, former men's relationship coach, & creator of Dude Panel, about the Harvey Weinstein scandal that is helping to redefine gender dynamics in America.  What does this show us about our culture, and the ways men and women communicate? How do we shift away from this behavior, and give our youth practical tools to have healthy relationships? Micro-aggressions or low level sexual harrasment is pervasive.  How can men best pursue a woman while creating space for women to use their voices, and still exist in the workplace? It's a thorny topic that T, A, and Obi energetically dive into, with a lot of gems on how to effectively communicate with the opposite sex! 

Usher's getting sued for not disclosing he had herpes before sex and passing the STI along.... so much to unwrap with this one! No pun intended haha.  Plus the girls respond to a concerned dad who can't help his involuntary erections when his hot teen daughter wants to cuddle.  For a dad who wants to model a healthy male relationship with his daughter, he can't just push her away- what to do?  Plus, this is the first full episode of the podcast that's going up on video available to all on our youtube channel.  Link below.  Apologies in advance for the sub-par audio as we learned our mics died out only too late.  Head to youtube to watch, and head to Patreon to become a supporter of the show!  Even $1/month helps keep the lights on. https://youtu.be/k2sNpQNx6n8 www.patreon.com/tatalksex

On this month's episode of Ask T&A, a young listener writes in about her concerns entering the casual sex scene.  At 23 y.o and having one sexual partner, she asks her potential lovers to show her paper proof of their STI history even if they're going to use a condom.  Is this too much, or just enough?  Plus, given all the recent hubbub about birth control, what are the best options?  Then - low libido at 23, how can I get more into it and managing pubic hair?  And T&A share their newest sexual adventures! (not together:)  A jam-packed, super honest and hilarious episode- one of our favorites!

While 'T's away in europe, 'A' interviews her insightful friend 'Richard' who looks back on his marriage of just under 20 years to share his key takeaways of what exactly went wrong and shares the major pitfalls and what he would have done to avoid them.  It's always hepful to learn from our mistakes, and the mistakes of others!  And Richard's story is no exception.  A great episode to hear for any human being who might ever be in reationship with any other human being.

Talking about your sex life publicly isn't always easy.  In this week's mini-episode, 'T&A' grab a quick chat with Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson from the hit podcast Guys We F*cked on just that topic.  Listen in as the girls talk shop and share an inside look at how speaking openly about their action has both hurt and helped their sex lives.  Always in support of those raising their voices to change the game on female sexuality, check out their podcast wherever you do your listening and grab a ticket to their live show at www.sorryaboutlastnightcomedy.com

After months of seperation due to 'A's travel sabbatical, T&A are back together and have so. much. to. talk. about.  'A' sums up here travel experience- why she went and what she got out of it and then the girls give a sexy reading in english of the hot lyrics to the latin smash hit Despacito. 'T' shares her latest professional endeavor- Cuddling! Yep, she's a professional cuddler (what could be more appropriate?!) as well as her adventures with the Diva Cup.  Plus, the new summer trend: teen girls in thong bikinis- too much or just right?  And 'A' shares her latest revelations on finding a partner after insights from her little bro's wedding.  And finally, the T&A are launching their Patreon page (finally!) which means if you love the show, now you can show your support and help keep the lights on!  Check it out at www.patreon.com/tatalksex     

Ladies, the Period Repair Manual is here! We are not small men, meaning we have our own complex hormone system that has purpose and works in our favor if we maintain it! T talks with Dr. Lara Briden, naturopathic doctor with 20 years experience and author of Period Repair Manual, who breaks it down for us. Tate of Cuddle Domme from ep. 140 guest co-hosts, and shares their experience with endometriosis, allowing Dr. Briden to discuss natural treatments.  Your menstrual cycle is a report card to how you're treating your body and managing stress.  Tune in to learn facts about your hormones, and how to get closer to that goal of "no pain" on your period! 

Guest, Tate, a queer cuddle domme, chats thoughtfully and articulately with T (Christina Hepburn) about whether or not "over-analyzing sex kills the beauty of sex?" If it doesn't kill the beauty, why not? How can we avoid monotony with sex? And furthermore, what exaclty is a cuddle domme? Tate explains their work as a cuddle domme, and what they accomplish in a session with individuals seeking their skill set.  T and Tate get personal about childhood gender expectations, and how it impacted them for better or worse. 

Is the foot fetishist more evolved than the rest of us? T questions what the foot has to offer & if we are overlooking an opportunity for greater connection through our feet & ears by chatting with a foot, hand, and ear reflexologist, Christina Crabtree (https://www.facebook.com/touchbalanceyoga). David Rodwin, guest co-host (www.jadelake.com), storyteller & filmmaker, inquires about her kundalini yoga practice.  How is kundalini defined?  What are the stigmas around our bodies that prevent healing, increase stress, and suppress our sexuality? What is the science and art of reflexology, and how can it benefit all of us? David and Christina share anecdotes and observations around arousal, and stigmas around what is considered sexually acceptable in our culture.  It's a raucous, full conversation that covers everything from the healing affects of reflexology to the concept of pleasure, and how we can experience a rounded healthy life in general! 

Ep. 138, What is a pelvic floor therapist? There's a whole doctor dedicated to my vagina? Sara Chan Reardon, a women's pelvic health therapist chats with T and the hilarious and smart guest host, Lora Somoza, from the podcast Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza, about how we can all benefit from pelvic muscle relaxation, and all the things that could be causing you trouble down there without you even knowing about it! We also get into the challenges that come up after child birth, and how to remedy those issues ...which could be the reason you or your partner doesn't want to have sex post-babies!  It's a fun episode full of great facts & recommeded info! Also don't forget to check out our sponsors' skin care & acne treatment, BIOCLARITY, and use our code TATALKSEX (T's been using all month, and loves it!)

In this episode 137, T has an intimate chat with Dave Booda of the Dude Panel Podcast, a favorite guest, about our personal approach to relationships, how we've handled pitfalls, and grown, and how the way we, as a culture, approach dating is hurting our ability to connect with that person, how more physical touch amongst friends can be good & not creepy (while Booda massages my feet during the show, hooray), and how to manage that guy friend who won't take no for an answer, and may even "gaslight" you as a woman to wear you down. In fact, you can conquer this dude's determination, and survive to still be friends at the end of it!   

T discusses the wild new frontier of sex tech with expert, Bryony Cole from The Future of Sex podcast and comedian, Malie Mason, and what that might mean for real life in-person relationships.  Is it good or bad, or neither? What does it say about our society? How can it help us? How can it hurt us? And how do we use the future of sex to our benefit? We get deep, we laugh, learn and have a good convo about VR , our vibrators, and if those genital gadgets can really preserve a long distance relationship?!! A chimes in about her adventures in Europe!  

Due to a technical glitch (damn those internet elves!) last week's show cut out at 10 minutes.  Sorry about that!  It was such a good show and we really want you to hear the whole talk given many listerners have written in requesting this topic, so we're repsoting the FULL episode this week.  Thanks for your patience!  T had so many conversations with distressed husbands, and mothers who also felt anxiety about their low sex drive, that she sought out some answers from mothers Heather Brooker of Motherhood in Hollywood podcast and Sheri Winston who have made it through the sex drought. Sheri Winston is also a sex expert-midwife/nurse turned sexuality teacher of Intimate Arts Center.  There's good news, and lots of insight into the actual pregnancy process, the sensual pleasures of it, and how we can still maintain intimate, sensual connection, even after the pregnancy.  How can we best stay connected with our partners and feel appreciated on both ends? These ladies know best!   Don't miss our discount Promo Code 'TATALKSEX' for our newest sponsors, the all natural skin care product, BIOCLARITY that we share in the middle of the episode, either! Episode 135, Because Sex isn't Ever Just About Sex. Find A's sensual massage videos here: www.stephanieallen.com/massage

T had so many conversations with distressed husbands, and mothers who also felt anxiety about their low sex drive, that she sought out some answers from mothers Heather Brooker of Motherhood in Hollywood podcast and Sheri Winston who have made it through the sex drought. Sheri Winston is also a sex expert-midwife/nurse turned sexuality teacher of Intimate Arts Center.  There's good news, and lots of insight into the actual pregnancy process, the sensual pleasures of it, and how we can still maintain intimate, sensual connection, even after the pregnancy.  How can we best stay connected with our partners and feel appreciated on both ends? These ladies know best!   Don't miss our discount Promo Code 'TATALKSEX' for our newest sponsors, the all natural skin care product, BIOCLARITYthat we share in the middle of the episode, either! Episode 135, Because Sex isn't Ever Just About Sex. Find A's sensual massage videos here: www.stephanieallen.com/massage  

ASK T&A! T of T&A discusses our listeners' burning questions and biggest problems with guest hosts, Lindsey and Krista from Almost 30 Podcast.  T shares fun tweets from our listeners, all three ladies talk about their own greatest life lessons, then launch into the important questions from our guests! Will the older guy commit to her with all of his post-divorce baggage? and What she can do to show him she's a great partner he can trust! What happens when he cums inside you withouth asking? Do you have to have the safe sex talk after the fact? AND UBER lands in hot water when Susan J. Fowler shares her personal experience of gender discrimination and sexual harrassment while working there for 1 year.  The show gets deep when Krista discusses her own experience with sexual harrassment in the workplace, what happened next, and how we as women can protect ourselves from victimization (how men can play a part in shaping a safer work environment for their favorite women too!)  Don't miss our discount PROMO Code for our newest sponsors, the all natural skin care product, BIOCLARITY that we share in the middle of the episode, either! Episode 134, Because Sex isn't Ever Just About Sex. Find A's sensual massage videos here: www.stephanieallen.com/massage 

T of T&A (Christina Hepburn) chats openly with Jacq Jones, about her experiences in reproductive health care and what led her to opening a sex shop.  Jacq Jones is a passionate advocate for a sex positive world, radical consent, sex ed, safer sex and reproductive health care. She has worked in sex education and reproductive health care since 1994. She is the owner of Sugar, a sex positive, education focused, lesbian owned, multi-gender operated sex toy store in Baltimore and online at SugarTheShop.com. *Tune in for a discount promo code to her sex shop*! Ep.133, Because sex isn't ever just about sex! 

How do we avoid the Valentine's Day cliches, and create an authentic experience your partner will love? VDay is an opportunity to really say "I appreciate you".  T shares our listeners' stories about the best thing they ever did or received on Valentine's Day, and then T chats with Amy Weissfeld (JoyfulSelfLove.com) and Jackie Meldrum (MakingYourOwnBed.com), 2 accomplished sex coaches, about improving your game with a lover, and walk us through what they teach in their Master Lover Mindset course.  Truly riveting! As we all know, practice makes perfect! You can find A's sensual massage videos at www.StephanieAllen.com/massage and we share a 10% promo code + free lubricant for the SugartheShop.com owned by next week's guest, Jacq Jones, in case you want to spruce up your game on VDAY! 

A lot of women don't say no to sex to avoid conflict, or because they actually like the guy and don't want to hurt his feelings.  And a lot of guys are completely unaware they've crossed a line because she didn't say no and seemed into it -so why would they think anything was wrong?   It doesn't take a full-on rape experience for a woman to feel compromised and unfortunately, the fact is compromised sex happens ALL THE TIME.  T&A share their most recent experiences that both, coincidentally, happened to leave them feeling objectified and pretty shitty.  And if T&A can get in that situation- anyone can.  In this must-listen episode, T&A talk with Emily Best and Erica Anderson, co-creators of F*ck Yes, a series that shows ladies and gents how to say F*ck Yes to sex, to break down how our society's approaches and underlying beliefs around sexuality can make even the nicest of guys- actually kind of rapey.  The ladies share for they guys what goes on in their heads that puts them on guard and makes them feel uncomfortalbe, and how to approach them differently so they can say F*ck Yes to having sex.

It’s Ask T&A day, where listeners write in with their questions.  On this month’s episode: ‘Help! We’ve just moved in and can’t stop fighting, does this mean we’re incompatible?’ Then, ‘My girlfriend says she’s too stressed for sex.  I wanna be there for her, but this is getting frustrating, what do I do?’

Sex is a breeding ground for embarrassing moments (no pun intended). Bodily fluids, acrobatic moves, feelings, uncontrollable urges- Anything can happen!  So Tom McLoughlin ((Director Jayson 6, Date with and Angel) and Peter Desberg Phd (clinical psychologist) created The Bad Sex Manual to help us get through the stickiest of situations when having sex with someone new by adding in a little humor to the situation.      

In a rousing discussion with Natasha Chandel from the podcast ‘Kinda Dating’, the ladies weigh in on women’s reactions to Trump by trading in their long locks for flat tops.  Is it the end of femininity or just rebellion? Plus some interesting angles on the meaning of hair and how it may affect relationships.  Then the girls discuss the emergence of blow job cafes serviced by female robots.  Be sure to check out Natasha’s podcast @kindadating  

Happy New Year!  It's 2017 and T&A love to take stock of an entire year that has now passed, by looking at what they've learned from all their adventures with the opposite sex.  Youtuber Trisha Hershberger from 'The Naked Truth' and actor/comedian Sina Amedson join in this round table chat as the group shares their biggest take aways from love in 2016, and what they will do differently in the brand-spanking new year to come.  Listen in and get ready to take stock of your own 2016 love-life learns and join T&A to set an intention for 2017.  

On this month’s episode of ‘Ask T&A’, the girls help a fellow sista’ overcome her fear of the texture of cum so she can happily finish her guy off.  Then a young woman wants to know, ‘how long do I wait for him to get over his ex?’ Plus, after twenty years of marriage, what do you think of a man wearing women’s panties?  T&A share their insights.  

We hear a lot about what can go wrong when infants and kids don't ge enough touch, but what about adults?? T&A talk with professional cuddlers, Jean Franzblau and Fei Wyatt (creators of Cuddle Sanctuary in Los Angeles), about the epidemic of no touch in a digital world, our mindset of scarcity, and the negative effects on our health and emotions, and how you can get more non-sexual touch and intimacy in your everyday life, especially as we head into the holidays with ...perhaps those family members who don't always show us the affection we need.  Jean and Fei also offer solutions for creating more touch amongst friends and family. 

A has always been  a huge advocate for good posture- because it's HOT!!  In this informative episode, T&A talk about how important posture has been in selecting their mates :) Plus, they share their own journeys through poor posture, and then chat with CEO & Co-Founder of Lumo Lift technologies, Monisha Perkash, to get the inside scoop on how important good posture is.  Monisha shares bad posture trends in men versus women, what may be the cause behind it, the horrible affects of bad posture and how her device can help you fix it!  If this episode doesn't make you sit straighter, nothing will!  

What's the deal with fetishes?  Where do they come from, and do they need to be overcome? T&A get inside the mind of a fetishest with a raw and insightful conversation with master storyteller Dylan Brody, who's opened for Dave Sedaris and has been featured on NPR, when he shares the riveting story about the origin of his own fetish- for handicapped women.  Dylan shares what life is like having a fetish, how it's impacted his marriage and wether or not fetishes need to be fixed.

T&A weigh in on audience's questions: In this month's episode of T&A's advice show, how to rebound after a bad first date (on election night!), best car sex positions?  And can too much masturbation hurt your sex life??  

It's Thanksgiving week, which means time for T&A to reflect on all the things they're grateful for this year- the not so suitable for the dinner table things.  Lora Somoza from the podcast, 'Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza' joins this roundtable chat which sparks scintilating conversation on vibrators, masturbation, their body issues growing up as kids and even some deeper family issue stuff.  Fun and entertaining, yet always deep, Happy Thanksgiving from T&A!

Inspired by the lush, sexy, and joyous erotic thriller, The Handmaiden, directed by Park Chan-wook, T&A invite Carlisle Forrester (comedian and podcast cohost of 2 Girls, 1 Guy) to discuss the eroticism featured in the film, and what it says about women, our ability to get turned on by each other and our resistance to diving down under.  Then all 3 ladies speak freely about their own sexual encounters with other women, and what we learned about ourselves through it. 

Let's be honest, all this 'Consent is Sexy' talk... isn't really that sexy.  But when T&A's friend Dave Booda from the podcast 'Dude Panel' wrote an article sharing his experience of being acused of rape from a lover he thought he had consentual, awesome sex with, it was clear the issue needed addressing for even the most well-intentioned guy.  He thought this chick was totally on board... so how do you know she really does want to have sex with you?  T&A have a lively discussion around Dave's article sharing their own experiences and how at the root of all this consent talk is good old fashioned seduction.  Listen in to find out how to get her begging for you so you never have to wonder if she really does want to have sex with you.  Here's a link to Booda's article published in the Good Men Project.  http://boodaism.com/permission/

Do we bale on our relationships too soon?  Have you ever wondered if maybe you would be better off if you just had some patience and stayed with that person? The idea of sticking through a relationship come hell-or-highwater has become somewhat of a relic.  When an 'insurmountable' obstacle comes along, we chalk it up to incompatability, and skip along to find someone more up our alley now that we're wiser for it.  But is this a modern mindset that keeps us from reaping the rewards of a long-term,  investment?  Should we listen to our grandparents?? In this week's episode, 'T' drags herself from the dredges of her period malaise to share her thoughts as to why it might not have been the wisest decision to leave her most recent long-term partner...  but then again, would she be the person she is today if she hadn't?  It is a rousing topic and lively debate this week as the girls dig in...

It's Ask T&A Day!  In this month's episode, find out what causes a red, irrated and smelly penis, but the scarier thing is how unnoticed this goes by most men!  Then, T&A dive in and give an incredibly detailed play by play of how to make a girl cum from oral sex, and more specifically, them :)  All the insider tips and tricks are in this one! Happy listening...

Wow, we totally had a show topic for this week- and then Jayson Thibault from Punch Drunk Sports happened! Which made for an epic episode.  His candid discussion about all things relationships, sex, family, and growing up with lesbian parents bring us to a higher level of honesty! How does a young boy growing up with all women affect him as a man? How does T growing up with her father affect her as a grown woman? A shares her personal story about her mom's ovarian cancer, and how she handled the experience.  And so much more real talk happens in this episode.  Enjoy!

After T&A attended amateur stripper night in support of their friends, they were seriously thinking about a career change!  Inspired by these regular 9-5 er's struttin' their stuff for the first time on the pole in PUBLIC, T&A sat down with a couple of these brave ladies to hear all about their experience.  They share how they got into taking pole dancing class, their biggest challenges, their partner and friend's reactions, and how it helped transform them into the sensual creatures they always wanted to be.  And yes, this does translate to the bedroom.  Ladies, if you struggle with being sensual or even understanding what that is, and guys, if you want to understand women more, tune in to this fascinating and lively episode.

EP 114! In homage to the fall and the change of season, we're talking all about endings and new beginnings, with comedien Lahna Turner.  'A' shares her relationship revelations from a session with a psychic that changed her romantic life, then Lahna gets candid and raw about currently going through a divorce and we get the full  story of how 'Limeade', her new comedic, visual album from the title parady of Beyonce's 'Lemonade' came into being.  Plus, a lively debate over how to handle the death of intimacy after children enter the picture with a real-life mom, and then we cap it off with 'New Dick', Lahna's HILARIOUS new song from Limeade.  

In this month's episode of Ask T&A, the girls tackle three listener's questions... well, two listeners and one very curious uber driver.  A wife writes in wanting to know how she can get her husband to be more romantic with her, the curious Uber driver is dying to know how to get his wife to be sexual with him again, and one listener in transition wants to try a period of celibacy- but can she do it without leaving her relationship?  All this, a load of laughs and a firey debate between T&A over differing views in this months advice episode.  Have a question or comment?  Write in for next month's episode at advice@TAtalksex.com

Obi and Booda, the esteemed dudes of Dude Panel Radio (also for your viewing pleasure on youtube), hijack this week's episode of T&A Talk Sex and turn the hosts, into the guests.  Hear the gang talk about growing up and getting bullied (and kicking ass), Booda's new revelations on the importance of taking the romance out of falling in love, and an in-depth and hilarious analysis of what each of the host's sex sounds actually mean. 

Still decompressing from their Burning Man 2016 adventures, T&A hop on air to talk all about it aaaannnd of course, T&A happened to land in the hands of two, savvy lovers who gave each of them sexual experiences that will forever change their sex lives.  Hear about T's first ever tantric massage and what quality in a lover she now refuses to go without! Plus, A has the best sex of her life and shares the secret that made her go from completely sexually uninterested, to the best sex of her life- instantly.  When the man burns... it is no joke.  

While T&A make their way back from Burning Man, listen in on secret archived episode #3 where the girls talk with burlesque performer Mona Bella to take a look at the difference betwwen sexuality and sensuatliy, and what impact they both have on our sexual experiences.  Are you sensual? Sexual? Can you be both? How? and Why? 

In this month's advice episode, listeners Ask T&A - what's going on that's making the sex I have uncomfortable? Can a relationship survive without sex? Plus a listener's thoughts on gentlemanliness, dating and finances

In this lively episode T&A talk with Dave Neal, comedien and host of the podcast, 'Sex Actually' and rest assured when you get three hosts of sex talk podcasts, there's a lot of sharing going on - like how Dave successfully managed to get out of the friend zone with his now girlfriend(!)  Plus T&A take advantage of having a guy in studio and pick Dave's brain on what might be behind some male behaviors that keep popping up that we women just don't get.  Check Dave out @DNealz and be sure to listen to Sex Actually wherever you do your podcast listening.

As more travel takes T&A out of the studio, we get to play you episode two of our secret archives from when we first started the show all those years ago (2014:)  Get to know T&A so much more as we interview each other and have an in-depth share of our personal stories and what led us to start the show- then called 'Pushing Boundaries with T&A'.  

Does the modern march towards equality keep men from being men and women from being women?  And how is that affecting our relationships?  In this riveting and lively conversation T&A talk with two, true gentlemen: John, A's lover- and Stuart, T&A's dear friend, to get their insightful and provactive take on what it means to be a gentleman and why they get turned off by a woman who won't let them treat a lady like a lady.  A fascinating conversation to be heard by any man who's a little lost on how to be a man in today's culture, and for any woman who might be losing touch with her femininity in an effort to be the strong woman of today.