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“How Do I… Deal with Difficult People?”Today we continue our Summer Study of the Book of Proverbs.Today's teacher is Chris Guillotte.
Book Vs. Movie: I Know What You Did Last SummerThe 1973 Lois Duncan YA Novel Vs. the 1997 Movie "I Know What You Did Last Summer" revolves around a group of friends, Julie, Helen, Ray, and Barry, who accidentally hit a stranger with their car on a dark, lonely road. In a panic, they make a harrowing decision to hide the accident, believing they can escape the consequences. However, one year later, their lives unravel as they receive ominous messages from a mysterious figure who knows their deadly secret.Lois Duncan's novel, published in 1973, unfolds in the 1970s. The film, directed by Jim Gillespie, modernized the story to the late 1990s. This update significantly alters the atmosphere and dynamics, replacing the retro feel of the book with a more contemporary vibe.Between the book & movie, which did we like more? Have a listen and find out! In this ep, the Margos discuss:YA Horror novels of the 1970sAuthor Lois DuncanThe differences between the 1973 (and the updated) version of the story and the movieThe cast of the 1997 film: Jennifer Love Hewitt (Julie James,) Sarah Michelle Gellar (Helen Shivers,) Ryan Phillipe (Barry Cox,) Feddie Prinze Jr. (Ray Bronson,) Bridgette Wilson (Elsa Shivers,) Anne Heche (Missy Egan,) Muse Watson (Ben Willis/The Fisherman,) Johnny Galecki (Max Neurick) and Stuart Greer as the Officer.Clips used:“I think he is dead”I Know What You Did Last Summer (1997 trailer)“We will dump the body”“We will take this to our graves”Killer in the balconyWhat Are You Waiting For?Music: Jennifer Love Hewitt's “How Do I Deal?”Book Vs. Movie is part of the Frolic Podcast Network.Find more podcasts you will love Frolic.Media/podcasts. Join our Patreon page “Book Vs. Movie podcast”You can find us on Facebook at Book Vs. Movie Podcast GroupFollow us on Twitter @bookversusmovieInstagram: Book Versus Movie https://www.instagram.com/bookversusmovie/Email us at bookversusmoviepodcast@gmail.com Margo D. Twitter @BrooklynMargo Margo D's Blog www.brooklynfitchick.com Margo D's Instagram “Brooklyn Fit Chick”Margo D's TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@margodonohuebrooklynfitchick@gmail.comYou can buy your copy of Filmed in Brooklyn here! Margo P. Twitter @ShesNachoMamaMargo P's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shesnachomama/Margo P's Blog https://coloniabook.weebly.com/ Our logo was designed by Madeleine Gainey/Studio 39 Marketing. Follow on Instagram @Studio39Marketing & @musicalmadeleine This show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5406542/advertisement
Book Vs. Movie: I Know What You Did Last SummerThe 1973 Lois Duncan YA Novel Vs. the 1997 Movie "I Know What You Did Last Summer" revolves around a group of friends, Julie, Helen, Ray, and Barry, who accidentally hit a stranger with their car on a dark, lonely road. In a panic, they make a harrowing decision to hide the accident, believing they can escape the consequences. However, one year later, their lives unravel as they receive ominous messages from a mysterious figure who knows their deadly secret.Lois Duncan's novel, published in 1973, unfolds in the 1970s. The film, directed by Jim Gillespie, modernized the story to the late 1990s. This update significantly alters the atmosphere and dynamics, replacing the retro feel of the book with a more contemporary vibe.Between the book & movie, which did we like more? Have a listen and find out! In this ep, the Margos discuss:YA Horror novels of the 1970sAuthor Lois DuncanThe differences between the 1973 (and the updated) version of the story and the movieThe cast of the 1997 film: Jennifer Love Hewitt (Julie James,) Sarah Michelle Gellar (Helen Shivers,) Ryan Phillipe (Barry Cox,) Feddie Prinze Jr. (Ray Bronson,) Bridgette Wilson (Elsa Shivers,) Anne Heche (Missy Egan,) Muse Watson (Ben Willis/The Fisherman,) Johnny Galecki (Max Neurick) and Stuart Greer as the Officer.Clips used:“I think he is dead”I Know What You Did Last Summer (1997 trailer)“We will dump the body”“We will take this to our graves”Killer in the balconyWhat Are You Waiting For?Music: Jennifer Love Hewitt's “How Do I Deal?”Book Vs. Movie is part of the Frolic Podcast Network.Find more podcasts you will love Frolic.Media/podcasts. Join our Patreon page “Book Vs. Movie podcast”You can find us on Facebook at Book Vs. Movie Podcast GroupFollow us on Twitter @bookversusmovieInstagram: Book Versus Movie https://www.instagram.com/bookversusmovie/Email us at bookversusmoviepodcast@gmail.com Margo D. Twitter @BrooklynMargo Margo D's Blog www.brooklynfitchick.com Margo D's Instagram “Brooklyn Fit Chick”Margo D's TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@margodonohuebrooklynfitchick@gmail.comYou can buy your copy of Filmed in Brooklyn here! Margo P. Twitter @ShesNachoMamaMargo P's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shesnachomama/Margo P's Blog https://coloniabook.weebly.com/ Our logo was designed by Madeleine Gainey/Studio 39 Marketing. Follow on Instagram @Studio39Marketing & @musicalmadeleine
How Do I Deal...with Julie James? No one's favorite Final Girl returns as the boys dive into a sequel that perpetuates the "sequels suck" stereotype. Or does it? Turn on that Karaoke Machine and find out! Coming Soon: Serial Mom (1994) feat. Buffy Gays----Don't forget to rate us / leave a review!Follow us!Instagram: @scaredgaypodcastTikTok @scaredgaypodcastEmail: scaredgaypodcast@gmail.comPablo: @theexercistsfPaul: @paulyoueverwantedMusic by Ronnie Carrierronniecarrier.comArtwork by Patrick AllisonInstagram: @waywardwink
If your period is missing and you are on the fence about going "all in" for HA recovery, we highly encourage you dive straight into this episode - like, right now. Brittany shares a few common reasons, fears, and doubts for why women tend to stay stuck in their recovery. Although choosing recovery is not an easy task, the benefits of healing your body are truly unmatched. If you still don't believe us, Brittany shares a powerful testimonial from a Period Recovery Breakthrough member that is sure to inspire you. Are you are finally ready to go "all in" and recover your missing period? Then you may want to consider applying to our next round of Period Recovery Breakthrough, our 12-week group coaching program! If you submit your application by Monday July 3rd, you'll get $250 OFF + a FREE 1:1 bonus call with Brittany, so don't wait! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok Ready for period recovery coaching? Apply for the next round here: We start July 23rd! Sources Referenced: The Fueled & Well Podcast - Episode 13: How Do I Deal with Weight Gain? ➝ Listen on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts The Fueled & Well Podcast - Episode 1: Intuitive Eating 101 ➝ Listen on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts The Fueled & Well Podcast - Episode 2: Not Sure How to Start Eating Intuitively? Listen for Your First 3 Steps! ➝ Listen on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts The Fueled & Well Podcast - Episode 11: "But That's Not Healthy!" and Other Intuitive Eating Myths ➝ Listen on: Spotify | Apple Podcasts --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brittany-wehrle/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/brittany-wehrle/support
A new MP3 sermon from Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: How Do I Deal with Doubt? Subtitle: Good Question Speaker: Aaron Berry Broadcaster: Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay Event: Youth Date: 12/7/2022 Length: 41 min.
A new MP3 sermon from Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay is now available on SermonAudio with the following details: Title: How Do I Deal with Doubt? Subtitle: Good Question Speaker: Aaron Berry Broadcaster: Faith Baptist Church of Palm Bay Event: Youth Date: 12/7/2022 Length: 41 min.
Vi leads this show solo and reads from their old Christian journal from nine years ago. What was their deconversion process like? Is it similar to yours? Call toll-free at 585-526-8774 or tiny.cc/callSG to share your story or just vent about the holiday season. ___________________TIME STAMPS & CALL NOTES 00:00 - Intro - Vi Is Solo This Week02:23 - Can People Choose Their Beliefs? - Javier (he/him) - SC18:13 - Vi Reads from An Old Deconversion Journal 25:44 - My Family Doesn't Believe I'm An Atheist - Cameron (he/him) - MN38:16 - What Kind of Culture Should Atheists Build? - Mark (he/him) - CA 55:53 - Why Is It So Easy to Believe In God? - Steven (he/him) - AZ 1:07:04 - My Friend Thinks God Is Punishing Her… HELP? - Caleb (he/him) - MD1:15:30 - Jesus Wants Us To Be Mean to Atheists - Jim (he/him) - OH1:22:16 - How Do I Deal with Street Preachers? - Chris (he/him) - SCT 02:23Can people choose their beliefs? Vi says that answering “Yes” or “No” are both wrong: this is a “yes, and” situation. People both have the ability to choose what beliefs they strengthen, and are ultimately not in charge of the moment one belief wins out against others. That's why it's always dangerous to hold harmful beliefs, even if you don't act on them. 18:13 Vi has brought an old journal that they wrote almost a decade ago. “The Quest for God” laid out how 20-year-old Vi was struggling with belief, parsing apart what was true and untrue about what they'd been told, and trying to figure out what next steps were. A raw, real moment that hopefully resonated with others. 25:44 This caller is having trouble with his family after coming out as an atheist. They are telling him he's broken, they are unfollowing him on social media, and generally making him feel unwelcome. They also happen to be in an MLM, which makes things even worse! Vi gives this caller permission to kick these folks out on their ear: “Jesus said to avoid you.” 38:16Now that atheists are growing as a demographic in the US, what should we be focusing on to make sure we aren't repeating the problems we are seeing with a Christian majority? Repeat caller Mark is wondering what next steps are, and Vi says something shocking: We need to stop talking about religion. 55:53This caller points out that God is easy to believe in because the idea of God is so baked into our culture. Vi agrees: this is why apologetics work. You have to believe in God already in order to be convinced by any of the major arguments for God. We need to eradicate the idea of a maximally great God before we can truly be free. 1:07:04What do you say to someone who is convinced that God is punishing them? Vi points out that it's actually scarier to imagine that things happen for no reason than to imagine a god is punishing you. At least you're still kind of the main character, and not just an incidental casualty of the universe. Also, landlords suck. 1:15:30 We talked about some atheists having trouble with their families this episode, but isn't that exactly what Jesus said to do? Didn't he tell Christians to desert their families, even end things violently, in order to follow him? Vi once again says “Yes” and “No.” If we're looking at the historical context of Jesus's words, he's actually talking about a political rebellion! 1:22:16 Repeat caller Chris asks how to deal with the street preachers that he's seeing everywhere. He's tried reasoning with them and he never makes any progress! Vi says it's a lost cause to try and debate with them, but what this caller CAN do is make them seem utterly ridiculous. ___________________Skeptic Generation is LIVE every Sunday at 11:30am-1:00pm CTCall on your phone: 585-LA-MURPH (585-526-8774) Call online: https://tiny.cc/callSG Love the show? Become a patron: https://tiny.cc/donatetoSG Buy our new Class of ‘22 merch: http://tiny.cc/SG22MerchHelp with our studio: https://tiny.cc/SGwishlist Join us after the show on Discord: https://tiny.cc/SGdiscord To find out more, visit https://www.skepticgeneration.com Copyright © 2022 Skeptic Generation. All rights reserved.
Let's drink some Dark 'N Stormy's because we are going to the Bahamas on the 24th episode of The Horror Stans Podcast!!! On this one we are getting into 1998's sequel "I Still Know What You Did Last Summer". Once again we are joined by our friend Brandon Austin to discuss this iconic(?) movie! Listen as we discuss an improved Julie James, a script so ridiculously dumb that it just makes us enjoy it that much more, ask Matt if he now knows who Brandy is (queen!) and try our best to get Jennifer Love's Hewitt's soundtrack song "How Do I Deal" up the charts! Follow us on Instagram and Twitter: @horrorstans Steve- @screamsteve/ @stesta621 Matt- @mcavo92 Brandon Austin: Instagram- @brand029 Twitter- @BrandonAustinG
Steve Swartz, "Biblical Answers to Critical Questions, Part 7: How Do I Deal with Unbelieving Relatives?" (Selected Scriptures) from the Biblical Answers to Critical Questions series.More sermons available online at www.gbcob.org.
Steve Swartz, "Biblical Answers to Critical Questions, Part 7: How Do I Deal with Unbelieving Relatives?" (Selected Scriptures) from the Biblical Answers to Critical Questions series. More sermons available online at www.gbcob.org.
Steve Swartz, "Biblical Answers to Critical Questions, Part 7: How Do I Deal with Unbelieving Relatives?" (Selected Scriptures) from the Biblical Answers to Critical Questions series. More sermons available online at www.steadfastinthefaith.org.
There is stuff in the Bible that is hard to understand and difficult to explain. And too often, the first time many Christian kids encounter these difficult parts of the Bible is when an atheist professor brings them up in a class, or a friend who is a secular humanist challenges them in the cafeteria or at work. Kids are getting blindsided because they didn't cover those topics in Sunday School or in their youth group. Moms and dads, we aren't doing our kids any favors when we skip these parts of the Bible. In this episode, Catherine discusses what can happen when our kids get questions about parts of the Bible that they've never considered or even heard before. Then she offers 7 practical guidelines on how to approach these sections of Scripture with your kids.GUIDELINES: 1.Take away the ambush. 2.Don't ignore the question.3.Don't downplay the question. 4.Pray about it.5.Get to work. (Research)6.Stand on what you know.7.Wrestle out loud. ARTICLES & PODCASTS MENTIONED:1. “How Do I Deal with the Terribly Disturbing Parts of Scripture?”: https://bit.ly/3wWtlC6 2. “Why Does the Bible Tell Women to be Silent and Not to Teach?”: https://bit.ly/38Xw1Gy3. “Christian Kids Are Leaving the Faith. What Can We Do About It?”: https://bit.ly/3t0WUjt4. CPCW Episode 2: “What is the Key for Our Kids to Have an Authentic Faith?”: https://bit.ly/3z7o5NJ 5. CPCW Episode 3: “How Do I Teach My Kids to Contend for Their Faith?”: https://bit.ly/3a5DDa6 RESOURCES CITED:A New Kind of Apologist by Sean McDowell: https://bit.ly/3M4rfnX The Questions Christians Hope No One Will Ask by Mark Mittelberg: https://bit.ly/391XJlkSCRIPTURES CITED:James 1:5FOLLOW CATHERINE:Email questions or answers to Catherine catherine@catherinesegars.com.
Mark Wheat- Sunday PM - May 8 2022- -How Do I Deal with Sin-- 1 Samuel 7-2-17
*WARNING!! DONT LISTEN TO THISS ONE WITH YOUR KIDS!* EP 36 How Do I Deal with Mom Guilt- Redefining Success as a Busy Working Mom- Time to Slay that Monster Like David Slayed Goliath We're going to talk about this big monster, and we're going to take this thing down. And this big monster that we're going to talk about today is called mom guilt. I know all of you guys have had this monster in your house. We're about to take this mom guilt monster down like David took down Goliath. Are you ready? Let's go. Podcast: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifepodcast IG: @angietoninirogers Community: http://bit.ly/whollymadelifefbgroup Email: angietoninirogers@gmail.com Wholly Made Life™ Short Assessment: http://bit.ly/shortassessment Hey, what's up ladies. Welcome back to episode 36. And today we are going to talk about it. We're going to talk about this big monster, and we're going to take this thing down. And this big monster that we're going to talk about today is called mom guilt. I know all of you guys have had this monster in your house. We're about to take this mom guilt monster down like David took down Goliath. Are you ready? Let's go. Hey, welcome back ladies. And we're going to talk about this big monster that I know a hundred percent of you guys who have kids deal with probably on a daily basis, if not multiple times. And it is the monster giant called mom guilt. I said it we're going to take them down. Like David took down Goliath because it is time to stop the madness and slay that giant. Okay. Number one, mom, guilt. What is it? It is basically when you feel guilty for doing things other than being a mom when you go to work, when you start your business, when you try to do self care, when you try to go to the bathroom for the love of God, with the door closed this mom guilt. And not only that, that you kind of put this on yourself, but it comes from expectations from society. Maybe it comes from your mother-in-law. Maybe it comes from your mom. Maybe it comes from your sister. Maybe it comes from your best friend. Maybe it comes from your church. You know, everybody's got an opinion on what kind of mom you should be and what you should and should not be doing. Maybe it's all their opinions about whether you should breastfeed or not breastfeed, or whether you're teaching your kids sign language, or whether you are putting your kid in an extra tutoring class or allowing your kid to be in gymnastics and cheerleading and soccer and baseball and all of these things. You know, whether you are going to every sports event that your kid has, there are so many things that cause this monster mom guilt in for me, a lot of it is related to my work for a very, very long time. Most of my kids' lives. Actually all of my kids' lives until June, until I just dropped Clayton off to college. My career essentially came first. I spent double the amount of time on my career and businesses that I then I did at home with my kids. It didn't mean I wasn't a mom. It just meant that a lot of my time was away from my kids. So yes, my kids were in daycare for for most of their lives. So it is so real, this guilt that we feel is so real, it's overwhelming, it's stressful. It's a lie that we believe. And we're going to talk about how to slay that thing today. Okay. So, you know, there are some things that you might feel a twinge of guilt for that is valid, and that should make you stop and think about the ramifications of what it is. For example, if you are using extremely harsh words or yelling a lot, like I, you know, I am very passionate as you can probably tell three people that know me, especially people that I've worked with, just know that I get very passionate. My voice gets really loud and Ammonite it animated. And I use my hands a lot and I move a lot. And so they're like, you know, calm down, you know, and sometimes it can be misperceived as that I'm angry or something like that. But sometimes it's just that I'm just passionate about something and it's just the way I express myself. But I also, on the other hand am a yeller. I did a lot of yelling, especially once my second one came around, I had Clayton. And then of course, you know, he, that was easy for the first four years. I was by myself where he was by himself. And so it was, it was quite frankly easy, easier. And then when the second one came and then certainly when the third one came you know, I have all boys and the two little ones just fought and wrestled and listen, I'm all about that boy life. But what people, you know, sometimes don't tell you about kids or, you know, all of the things that, you know, we pray and we're thankful for our kids and stuff, but we all have those things that like, you know, the blowout diarrhea all the way up the back while you're trying to get out of the house. And then you got two kids that just knocked the lamp off the table and the dog that threw up on the floor all at once when you're trying to get out and get them to school on time so that you can get to work on time. You know, people don't really talk about that part of motherhood, but the way that I responded to that is sometimes I yelled a lot and it was, it's not, it was something I felt guilty about. And so that guilt is not necessarily to condemn myself and not forgive myself, but it is purposeful. It is, I guess there is a, a worthiness to that guilt because that isn't the best way to be yelling all the time at my kids. That's not the best way they think I'm critical. They think, you know, it, they just grow up thinking that I, they can never do anything. Right. And then I'm always going to yell and I'm never going to be happy and I'm never going to laugh and they're going to have fun, all those things. And so sometimes that guilt is there in it, but it gives you an opportunity to step back and do some self-awareness and some self-assessment to say, okay, what can I do differently? Okay. But most of the other guilt that we're talking about, the things that are related to expectations from everyone else, and then the own expectations you are putting on yourself, because you have some grand idea of what a great mother looks like, and you're not meeting up to that. But if you're thinking about the Brady bunch, you know, and I don't know some other Suzy homemaker person that does all of these perfect little things and puts notes in the, in the lunch boxes with the cute little, you know, Mickey mouse shaped sandwiches and, and heart cantaloupes. And, you know, come on, give me, give me a break at that. Number one is not me. And quite frankly, I feel no guilt for not doing that. Now I, I have in done the little notes in the lunchbox, but you all want to know the straight truth is that when my kids were going to school and they were taking their lunch, Dwayne, my husband made their lunches. I, I can't remember the last time I made my kids' lunch. Okay. It just is what it is. And you know what, I'm okay with that. I don't feel guilty about that anymore. But the point is is that there are so many things that we feel guilty about, and especially when it comes to work. So let's just talk about a few things that might be making you feel a little guilty. Number one, how many of you guys sometimes get a little annoyed with her kids? I, how many of you guys sometimes get annoyed with the nonstop talking or the look at me, look at me. Look at me. Look at me, look at me, look at me and then look at me again. And that's awesome. You've done the same thing a million times over now. I love the stuff out of my kids. Okay. But let's just be honest. If you've ever been annoyed by one of your kids, I want you to, you know, raise your finger, raise your hand. Or if you're in the car with your kids right now, maybe this is an episode you should listen to later, but I probably should have given that Kathy in the beginning, but it's just life. It is what it is sometimes, you know, on episode 35, I think I just talked about the mood elevator. Sometimes you're in the red, on your mood elevator. You're way, way low. And you're on that impatient and frustrated, or maybe you're a little angry and hostile and you just aren't in the mood for that right then. And sometimes we give ourselves a lot of guilt for that. Well, I want you to know that it's okay to sometimes not feel like answering that question that they've asked a million times already. Okay. It's okay. Something else. Let's talk about being a little bored here. Here's the truth. I love working in my career. I love running a business. I love feeling that sense of accomplishment. I also love when my kids you know, get a blue ribbon at the swim meet or when my kids get honor roll. I love those things because it makes me feel like I've done something to help that my kid earned that. So I feel a sense of accomplishment for both things. And it's okay. If you focus on your career and being a mom at the same time, it's okay. It's okay. If you actually enjoy your career more than reading goodnight moon. Okay. It's okay. There's no reason to beat yourself up about these things. Big thing I want to talk about is it's okay to redefine what you feel like successes in being a mom. It's okay to redefine those. If you have not sat down to really think about what is it to be successful as a mom? What, what would I feel good at the end of the day or at the end in 20 years when my kids are all grown up, what would make me feel good as if I have succeeded as a mom? What are those things? And then it doesn't seem like such a big deal that you didn't do that extra game of Play-Doh today. We talk, it's a balance, right? You have 15 minutes of dedicated time with your kiddo and you play a game with them, or you read a book or you go to a soccer game or you go watch them on the trampoline, whatever it is you're doing, that's dedicated time that you're spending time, but it's not going to break, make or break. If you don't spend the extra hour making a Play-Doh castle, it's just not, it's not going to in the end of 20 years, it's not going to make or break whether or not you were successful as a mom. So I just want you to stop beating yourself up. It's it's our kids are going to be okay. The number one thing is that if we have given our kids to God and we've given our faith and trust in God that he is going to cover us and stand in the gaps where we have not done everything we could have, or we failed in certain things, or we yelled one too many times. I think about my childhood growing up and my mom and dad best that they could, but they were perfect and they may mistakes. I ended up okay. And my kids are going to end up. Okay, too. So it's okay. My mom worked, my dad worked we, we were home alone a lot and we turned out fine. It's just a lie to think that your focus on your career or your focus on instead of doing a Play-Doh castle, you are going to finish this report, or you're going to make this one phone call. It's just in the grand scheme of things in 20 years, when your kid is out, all grown up, think about what it is that you would want to know about your kid to feel successful. And then just backtrack from there, just focus on small things. We've talked about this in the whole relationship, part of our pie, where we're talking about parenting, we've talked about, you know, time blocking, where we just schedule in 15 minutes, a day or an hour, a day, or whatever it is that you feel comfortable with, you makes you feel good that you have spent with your kid. You've taken that intentional time to let your kid know that you're there from the, for them. And that they're important to you and that kind of thing. So just be intentional about those things. Okay? The other thing is to reach out for help. Listen, we need that village. It takes a village to raise a child. We've talked about this. You need your village. You need your village. People reach out for help. I, a hundred percent promise you that somebody, you know, is feeling the same way you are about that next diarrhea. Blow out that went up through the baby's or that last ER trip, because your kid jumped off the couch yet, again, thinking he was Superman or that time you went to the ER, and then the guys at the ER, actually had a social worker come in and talk to you because this is the third ER trip, because your kid continues to jump off the top of the playground at the school. Yeah, that's true. My little Clayton who now he'll be 19 in July. He jumped off the top of the playground at daycare three times, he had to deuce eggs in two weeks on his head, same, same place. And he ended up with a stretcher fracture in his leg because he was jumping off the playground. So I had to have a conversation because stress fractures in legs are not normal. Now of course there were lots of witnesses and they all, you know, settle that. And it wasn't a big deal. Other than you know, that there are no nurses and doctors are doing their job in, in the ER, but for the love of God, you end up in the ER, three times because your kid keeps jumping off the playground at school. You're not there. What are you going to do? I, you know, I felt guilty yeah. About it. And I felt like horrible about it because I was at work, but what am I going to do? Lord have mercy. So things like that, that just make you feel so helpless and guilty. You've got to reach out for help is I is where I was going with that. You've got to reach out for help. You've got to take your own time for self care. You've got to protect your physical and mental health. You deserve to have help. You deserve to have a break. And it is time that you take that stone out of your pocket and shove it in the face of this monster called mom guilt and put it down for good slate. It, cut off its head and hold it up for everybody to see and say, no, no more. I am not going to, to succumb to these expectations that are unrealistic. That don't matter. At the end of the day, it just doesn't matter that it didn't take the five extra minutes and do the extra Plato castle today. It just in a long scheme of things, the grand scheme of things, it's just not going to matter again. We talk about balance. This is not an every, you know, you don't skip it every year, but it's okay. Oh, here's another good one. Oh my gosh. This is. And especially as they get older, well, it happens a lot when they're little, you know how your kids like repeat stuff that you and your husband were talking about in your home. And then they go and repeat stuff that you said about someone. Well, so first, first lesson don't talk about people in front of you at all, but especially in front of your kids, if you, you know, you don't want your kids to repeat it. But secondly, think about the time where your throwing a tantrum in the middle of the floor. Look, I promise you, another mom has experienced that. I have, you know what I did, I walked around the corner and I said, when you're ready, when you're ready to get up I'm ready to go. And I went and I stood by the door and I kind of watched from afar, monitoring him for safety. And I waited. He was throwing a tantrum about a Snickers bar. I kid you not the looks, the looks that I got in this door. Oh my gosh. I swear somebody was probably going to call security if I didn't go over and get them in a few minutes. But it is what it is. Listen, every single toddler in their life throws a tantrum. And sometimes yes, it's in front of a big, a big audience. And it is what it is. It's just inevitable. Your kids are going to do something that is going to be embarrassing to you. But let me tell you something. It doesn't mean anything related to your parenting. You know, when my kid posts something on social media, he's 18 years old. Yeah. There's things that I might be embarrassed of because I am attaching what the choices are that he's making to everything that I did to raise him. The reality is he is his own person. He's going to make his own choices. And sometimes those choices are not going to be ones that approve of so I can make that clear. I don't approve of that choice. I would like for you to take that down off social media, that is embarrassing to me. You are not representing me as your mother in a way that I want you to, but that is life. It doesn't, it doesn't define all the things that I, that one act that my child does. Doesn't define who I am as a mom. It doesn't mean that I don't have to talk myself down when things like that happen, but you just have to put in perspective, okay. I've rambled on quite a bit. I just wanted to speak to mom guilt because I know that thing is real. I know it, it, it, you know, it doesn't feel like a lie, but it is sometimes when you're in the middle of it, it just doesn't feel like a lie. But let me tell you something, mom, guilt is a lie for the most part. It's a lie. It here's the thing. Pray about the guilt that you're feeling, pray about it because God and the Holy spirit will guide you and let you know, is this something that I need to look at like that? But like that one example I was giving of me yelling too much. That was real. And the Holy spirit you know, I, I prayed about it and it was very clear. It was revealed to me that I was yelling too much. I was stressed and taking out the fact that I was irritated and tired and spinning everything that I had at work. And I didn't have anything left for my kids. So I was just yelling. I had no patience left. So I had to figure out how to rebalance that so that I would not spend all the time that I had with him yelling. So sometimes it's, it's good. So define what success looks like to you, define what those expectations you are. You have of yourself and make sure that those expectations are realistic and pray about it. Pray about those times that you're feeling is especially guilty about something, pray about it and let the Holy spirit kind of lead you on what you need to do about that. If you have set realistic expectations and you are still feeling guilty about something, then pray about it because he will show you what it is that you need to look to do differently. Guys, if you are feeling stuck, if you are in a place where you cannot, sometimes all it takes is somebody else outside of your situation, to look at what's going on and help you see something differently. Sometimes we're so deep in a situation that we just cannot see, see beyond it. If you're in that place and you just need another set of eyes, reach out to me, email me at Angie, tonyRogers@gmail.com. And I will help you by being that other set of eyes, I will make sure with you that the expectations you've set for yourself are fair and they're reachable. They're attainable. And if you know, you're in so deep that you cannot see above the water, I will help you get to a place where you can see above the water again. All right, ladies, we will see you on the next episode. Get ready, slay that giant. No more mom, guilt taking over it's time for you to slay that giant once. And for all I know you can do it. You have been called specifically for your children. You were given your children on purpose for a purpose. You were exactly who God called you to be for your children. For the world changers that you are raising. They are yours to raise, and God has given you them, and he's trusted you with them. So do not feel any more guilt about you being the mom. God chose you specifically to be the mom for your child. Okay? No more mom guilt. That giant is slain. Hallelujah!
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Get more at podsematary.com! Read our afterthoughts for this episode at https://twitter.com/PodSematary/status/1274452757827723264 CW: Rape It’s summertime on Pod Sematary! Chris & Kelsey go on a tropical vacation just in time for hurricane season… oh, and there’s a killer fisherman there, too. The Classic Film: I Still Know What You Did Last Summer (1998) "The murderous fisherman with a hook is back to once again stalk the two surviving teens… who had left him for dead, as well as cause even more murder and mayhem, this time at a posh island resort” (IMDb.com). JRF The Modern Film: Revenge (2017) "Jen is enjoying a romantic getaway with her wealthy boyfriend, which is suddenly disrupted when his sleazy friends arrive for an unannounced hunting trip... culminating in a shocking act that leaves Jen left for dead... Jen survives and reemerges with a relentless, wrathful intent: revenge” (Shudder). Revenge is a very well-made film, with brilliant visuals and an inspiring theme, but is any of that worth actually sitting through it? Audio Sources: "Agent for H.A.R.M." (Mystery Science Theater 3000 S09E15) produced by Best Brains "Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure" produced by "Halloween" (1978) produced by Compass International Pictures "How Do I Deal” written by Dillon O'Brian, Phil Roy & Bob Thiele Jr. and performed by Jennifer Love Hewitt “I Still Know What You Did Last Summer” produced by Columbia Pictures, et al. "Jurassic Park" produced by Amblin Entertainment and Universal Pictures "Lose Yourself” written by Marshall Mathers and performed by Eminem "Pet Sematary" written by Dee Dee Ramone & Daniel Rey and performed by The Ramones “Revenge” produced by M.E.S. Productions, et al.
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Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 11th, 2018, and beyond, including: On Bodily Autonomy: Dear Jennifer: "My perfect girlfriend insists on getting breast implants" Sense & Sensitivity: "I'm concerned about teenage daughters posting model shots on Instagram" Ask Amy: "Girl pressed for nude photo should wear T-shirt instead" Ask Ellie: "I don't feel bad enough to end the affair I'm having" Savage Love: "Guy Alarmed, Yeah, By Younger Boyfriend's Interest" Ask a Manager: "my coworker interrupts my work to ask why I look so serious" r/relationships: "I'm [24 F] on vacation without my boyfriend [33 M] because he missed his flight. Would it be wrong to live it up and ignore him for a few weeks?" Listener Apin'eht, Thorny Duelist: Sadistic Work Bully Update and How to Leave a Job Review Without Burning Bridges Reference: Opinion Overflow #24: "How Do I Deal with a Sadistic Work Bully?" Kairluma, the Wonder of Haraka: Pink Bridesmaid Wedding Dress Update Reference: #71: Han and Matt Hoard Their Apps Advice Column Alert: "Baggage Check" on Washington Post Baggage Check: "Is My Therapist Slut-Shaming Me?" Shoutout to Carolyn Hax & Ask Amy: "How to show solidarity with a recovering alcoholic" Shoutout to Is It Normal?: "My son wants to wear dresses and I'm scared for him" Shoutout to Ask Dotty: "How do I make my partner shut up while I'm watching my shows?" Social Q's Turns 10: Philip Reflects (CW: Suicide) Submit your favorite questions or questions you may have for the podcast to hanandmattknowitall@gmail.com, anonymously at bit.ly/askhanandmatt, or to askahelpinghan@gmail.com for a Han-only written answer on hanandmattknowitall.com. Looking to support us? Desperately in need of a fantastical alter-ego? You can become a Patreon supporter and donate to us monthly for all kinds of sweet perks!
How Do I Deal with My Rebellious Teen? (Season 1 Episode 8) How do I handle my rebellious teen? Is there something I need to change about my parenting? What’s the best way to confront him about his sin? In this podcast, Dr. Richard Caldwell and Dr. Ken Ramey emphasize the importance of not only speaking the truth of God’s Continue Reading The post How Do I Deal with My Rebellious Teen? appeared first on Straight Truth Podcast.
How Do I Deal with Anxiety? (Season 1 Episode 6) How Do I Deal with Anxiety? Anxiety is an issue that all of us face at some point in our lives. What can we do when we’re crippled by worry, fear, and dread? What is the answer for the anxiety that so often plagues us? In this podcast, Dr. Richard Continue Reading The post How Do I Deal with Anxiety? appeared first on Straight Truth Podcast.
You hear the word "temptation.” What do you think of? For some of us it might be best to NOT answer this question out loud. For others it might be dark chocolate or getting even or pushing the envelope or wanting to take what is not ours. In every case, such enticement is directly built upon our human desires, and our human desires left unfettered will continually fabricate webs of attraction, entitlement and deceit. These webs are binding, sticky and tenacious, and once we allow ourselves to touch them we may find ourselves too close to walk away, too weak to resist and too willing to try it out – you know, "just this once!" Temptation has shattered many relationships, disrupted many positive pathways and broken the contentment of many lives. Unfortunately, it is not only alive and well, it is being fed, fostered and flaunted by our present society! What do we do! How do we get that genie back in its bottle? For a Christian, the first thing to accomplish is the understanding of what “temptation” actually means in the Bible. Like many words in the English language, the Greek word here has different shades of meaning. For instance, it says that when Jesus went into the wilderness for 40 days after his baptism, he was going to be “tempted” by Satan. Tempted here obviously means enticed, while in 2 Corinthians 13:5, it tells us to “examine” ourselves...and that is the exact same Greek word. Obviously the Bible isn’t telling us to entice ourselves (though I am sure that some would love for that to be the case) but it is telling us to scrutinize ourselves. Entice and scrutinize - same Greek word – different applications and slightly different meanings. The bottom line here is that temptation is a hard testing spurred on by either good or evil that challenges the very core of our character! So, how do we learn to recognize, do battle with and overcome temptation? As you might have thought, the Bible gives us several significant tools to help us here. First, it gives us reasons why we need to fight this fight and then it gives us a step-by-step process to do the fighting with. James 4 is a vital chapter for us in our foundation to fight temptation. Second, the Bible also gives us examples of those who succumbed to the enticing allurements of temptation. Some of these examples are detailed enough for us to observe what happened that allowed the seed of temptation to be planted, to take root, to sprout and to grow into the devious life-sucking mess that temptation inevitably brings. Using the tools of enlightenment and example together is a powerful way to form our battle plan against temptation. Oh, and throwing in a story from Greek mythology also helps to make the point! Please check out our September 11, 2017 podcast, “How Do I Deal with Enticing Temptations?” and see for yourself. We are all plagued with temptation on one level or another and that means we are all subject to falling prey to that which would hurt us and those around us. Learn how to fight the fight – it just might save you untold grief!
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On this episode of the Online Marketing Made Easy Podcast, I share with you some insight I’ve recently discovered about myself. It’s something that I’ve always known on some level, but I’ve just recently really owned it and started to be actively aware of it. I decided to share it with you, because maybe you can relate. Here’s the deal. Sometimes my mind is a pretty scary place to live as a result of the stories that I create about my experiences. When I’m in my head, these stories are completely true and real, but in reality, they are just perceptions. As an example, in the early years of my business if I promoted something and it didn’t go as well as I thought it should, the story that would play in my mind was that I’m just not as good as my peers, that I didn’t have what it takes to be a success, that I’m in over my head, and that I should have never left Tony Robbins. These stories crushed my confidence! Now that I’m more aware of these stories, I try to spend as much time as possible in the present moment, where life is actually happening, rather than focusing on these stories that I’ve made up. This approach has helped me quiet fears, doubts, and worries as they pop up as I’m building my business. I’m sharing this with you because these stories are something we all have to deal with from time to time. Because of that, I invited my good friend and mentor, Marie Forleo, founder of B-School, best selling author and the creator of the award-winning web show MarieTV.com, back to the show as my first repeat guest. I specifically asked Marie to come on the show to explore these mindset pitfalls, because Marie is not only a marketing pro, she also has a great way of pulling you out of your head and into the present moment where things tend to look very different than they do in our minds. Marie and I discuss the following three mindset pitfalls that entrepreneur’s tend to face as they’re building their business: #1: How Do I Deal with the Competition? Competition can be destructive, especially when you’re first starting out and are vulnerable. It can cause a downward spiral that Marie refers to as “the comparison hangover.” You may be tempted to look at someone else’s videos, Facebook Page, Twitter stream and so on and feel like you’ll never get there. The comparison hangover can make people feel like crap and some people even use it to take themselves out of the game. But competition is actually a very positive thing that can fuel you and drive you to succeed. It can be a healthy form of peer pressure that can actually push you to strive for more. One thing I learned when I was working with Tony Robbins is that it’s important to surround yourself with people who are more successful than you so that it motivates you to strive to do even better. While you’re doing so, it’s important to remind yourself that they used to be right where you are and didn’t attain their level of success overnight. It’s up to each of us to pay attention to these signals and the type of story we’re making up in our minds regarding our competition, and choose to make competition a positive thing. #2: How Do I Deal with Criticism in My Business? If criticism shows up on the doorstep of your blog or your Facebook Page, it’s important to deal with it head on. In many cases, critics just want to be heard, so if you acknowledge them and their point of view, and tell them you respect where they’re coming from and perhaps even find a point in their criticism that you agree with and acknowledge it, it works wonders. By doing so, you completely disarm them and open up a dialogue. When you respond with something like, “I completely agree with you on that point” or “I can really see where you’re coming from,” both of you may actually end up learning something! Naturally, we’re not talking about rude and tasteless comments or things that are sexually offensive, but criticism where someone is legitimately upset or doesn't agree with your point of view. Marie shared a saying that is important to remember: All human communication is either a loving response or a cry for help. [Tweet This] This perception is a very helpful tool for all of us to remember. When someone’s criticism is a cry for help, showing respect and acknowledging them can really help. In addition to this, constructive criticism – if you don’t shy away from it – can make you better in the same way that competition can. It can help you to raise your game and grow considerably. Now remember, we’re not talking about rude comments on YouTube where people criticize your appearance or things that have no basis in truth. Another tip is that when someone criticizes you, take a look at what they’ve created in their own life or business. People who are truly successful themselves are unlikely to hatefully critique someone else, especially online. #3: How Do I Deal with a Lack of Follow Through? Follow through is one of the most important lessons that Marie has ever learned. She shared some thoughts from a friend of hers and one of her favorite authors, Steven Pressfield. It’s important to ask yourself, “Am I operating like an amateur or a pro?” It’s a simple question, but the answer is profound and changes everything. Amateurs are people who show up every now and then, flake on their commitments, don’t take their work seriously and are more likely to get lost in things like addiction, drama, negativity, or eating constantly. They may have a lot to do, but have a ton of excuses about why it doesn’t get done. We all know amateurs and in fact have all been an amateur at some time in our lives. In contrast, a pro is someone who shows up no matter what, who gets results no matter what, and figures out how to make things work. Pros take themselves seriously and are dependable. A pro is different from a perfectionist. Pros produce no matter what, even if it can’t be done perfectly. For example, if a pro has made a commitment to publish content a certain day of the week, death is about the only thing that could keep it from happening. A pro also understands that the only way to get good at something is to do it consistently. If you’re struggling with perfectionism, focus more on the actual content, rather than the bells and whistles that are nice to have, but not 100% necessary. It also helps to get things started, knowing that everything is going to be an iteration. For example, when you initially release a course, it may not be just the way you want it to be, but you can keep making improvements. This is what Marie did when she first launched B-School, her online school for modern entrepreneurs. B-School has now been out for five years, and has grown into a comprehensive soup to nuts program that changes people’s lives.
It's been a year since the last entry in this series & I finally found enough tracks to mix a continuous vibe. I used 2 tracks from the past (3 years ago), since I wasn't satisfied how that mix was back then. Where's the uptempo Head Nod Soul Joints??? Guess our production crew will have to concentrate on that in 2013! That's what's missin'! Hope you dig what you hear.. Let me know what cha think. Feel free to post anywhere, but chu bet not be sellin' my shiggity homie!! Peace.. (1) "Remember" ~ J-Dilla ft. Bilal (2) "Eye See You" ~ iSHE' (3) "Settle Down" (M-Phazes Remix) ~ Kimbra (4) "Date Nite" (Tall Black Guy Remix) ~ Malice & Mario Sweet (5) "Truly Deeply Madly" (BusCrates 16 Bit Ensemble Remix) ~ Fayth Hope (6) "Dream Land" ~ Andy Allo ft. Blu (7) "Aganju" ~ Bebel Gilberto (Question Remix) ~ Bebel Gilberto (8) "Mist" ~ Freddie Joachim (9) "Longin" ~ Ge-ology ft. Yukimi Nagano (10) "Lady Love" ~ Dwele (11) "WannaBeWhereUR" ~ Floetry ft. Mos Def (12) "Good Rap Music" ~ Bahamadia (13) "Black Apple With Love" ~ MeLo-X ft. Jesse Boykins III (14) "How Do I Deal" ~ Dwele ft. Slum Village (15) "4evermore" ~ Anthony David ft. Algebra & Phonte (16) "Still" ~ Trumaine Lamar (17) "Who Was I Trying To Fool" ~ Iman (18) "Love Me" ~ Teri Tobin (19) "Just Friends (Sunny)" ~ Musiq Soulchild (20) "Come Around" ~ The Foreign Exchange (21) "I'm Only Human" ~ Zo! & Tigallo (Phonte)