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Have you ever found yourself wrapped up in a relationship, only to wonder later if you were being manipulated?Well, today we're diving deep into the world of seduction, manipulation, and the often overlooked power dynamics at play with the help of CIA veteran Andrew Bustamante, who knows all too well how these tactics are used both in espionage and everyday life.In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, we're pulling back the curtain on how the human brain can be influenced by hormones and emotional connections to uncover how to spot those red flags before you get too entangled.Andrew is here to break down the three-step process of human sexuality, explain how predators like narcissists find their targets, and give us the tools to protect ourselves from falling into manipulative traps.Trust me homie, with Andrew's insights, you'll gain a better understanding of the power dynamics at play and how to navigate them with confidence and clarity!!In this episode, we go DEEP into:- How YOU can identify and outsmart manipulators before they even have a chance to play their games- The surprising role hormones play in attraction and why understanding them can give you a serious edge in relationships- How to build authentic connections without falling prey to emotional persuasion- The real difference between seduction and genuine romantic interest- And soooo much more!!By the end of this episode, you'll have a toolkit to recognize and deflect manipulation, understand the role of hormones in emotional and sexual engagement, and maintain control in your relationships.So guys, no more second-guessing or blaming yourselves when things feel off. This episode will arm you with the knowledge to stand strong against manipulation and build relationships that genuinely respect your worth and boundaries!!So let's dive right in, guys!! I'm Lisa Bilyeu and welcome to Women of Impact.SHOWNOTES00:00 Dopamine and noradrenaline make things exciting.08:52 Taylor Swift shirt makes me seem harmless.15:51 Can't keep up with Taylor Swift convo.18:59 She hits the gym hard daily, for sure!25:50 Attraction and connection often lead to affairs.27:53 Energy level ups with more intense activity.33:53 Seduction in spy work: Building trust, not sex.37:59 Women worry about being manipulated or seduced.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever been controlled by someone mentally or emotionally, then you know how crushing it is to your confidence, your self-esteem, and your belief in yourself. You question HOW this person convinced you to do or say or believe things that you KNOW deep down to your core are not true? WHAT did they do to get you to fall for the lies and change so much, without you even frikin' realizing it? And HOW can you make sure it doesn't happen to you again?? Well homie, the reality is that this type of manipulation happens more often than you might think, 1 on 1 in toxic relationships and sometimes even whole groups of people at a time in a cult. So in this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to get to the bottom of how good, well-intentioned, educated, “normal” people like you and me can fall into the trap of a controlling person like a cult leader or narcissistic romantic partner, and literally leave behind their life, family, job, money, friends, belief system, sanity, and everything about themselves for this person. And whether it's coz of a cult, a toxic partner, or a guy at work that keeps trying to convince you to join this “amazing self-help group”, if you think it “won't happen to you” – well homie you're actually that much more likely to become their next target and victim!!!! And that's why today's guest is none other than the ultimate cult expert and deprogrammer, Rick Alan Ross. This guy is an aboslute LEGEND when it comes to cults!!We go deep into: - the type of people who start cults.- how cults like NXIVM and Scientology bring people in.- what specifically makes a person more vulnerable to saying yes and “drinking the Kool-aid”.- strategies used by notorious cult leaders to gain control and brainwash people (and you'll be surprised by what they have in common with your toxic ex!!!).- HOW you can actually avoid getting into a cult or toxic relationship in the first place.- & so much more!!!This episode is truly FILLED with the knowledge you NEED if you want to have any hope of spotting the cult leaders, con men, and toxic boyfriends BEFORE they can rope you, or anyone you love, into their manipulative world and cut you off from the life YOU want to live!!! Follow Rick Alan Ross:Website: https://culteducation.com/X: https://x.com/RickAlanRossGet “Is This a Cult?”: https://a.co/d/hKoEsRtFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Lindsay Clancy case is one of the most gut-wrenching tragedies making headlines, and has torn the public opinion, (and even relationships) apart. Was it unspeakable heartbreak? Psychosis? Or criminal intent, plain and simple? Today, I'm joined by forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry, the woman who bravely took the stand in the Depp-Heard trial, to unravel the real-life consequences every woman needs to think about. Not just for herself, but for every mother, wife, and daughter who might need help before it's too late.We break down the psychology, the law, and those impossible “what would I do?” dilemmas that are dividing men, women, and the world.Here's exactly what we dive into:The difference between baby blues, postpartum depression, and postpartum psychosis (and why most mothers never, ever hurt their children)The systems failures that are failing mothers, and what HAS to changeWhy women often hide dark thoughts, and why “blaming the husband” misses the real pointThe crucial first step to get help, without fear, shame, or losing your kidsChapter Titles:Baby Blues vs. Postpartum Depression vs. Psychosis: The Real RisksThe Truth About Postpartum Psychosis and Filicide: Numbers No One Tells YouMeds, Misdiagnosis & System Failure: Is This the Real Root?Overmedication, Missed Warnings & Hindsight BiasShould Kids Be Taken Away? The Danger of OverreactionIntrusive Thoughts vs. Hallucinations: How to Tell the DifferenceDid the Medical System Fail Her? Ethics, Testing, and Protocol DebatesWhy This Case Divides Men and Women, and the Hidden Biases at PlayCan Insanity “Set You Free”? What Actually Happens If You're AcquittedIf You're Struggling Right Now: What to Do and How to Get Help“I Don't Feel Understood”: How Partners Can Actually Hear Each OtherThank you To our Sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaQualia: Go to qualialife.com/LISA and use code LISA for 15% offNeed Support? These Resources Can Help: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org/ The National Maternal Mental Health 24/7 Hotline: https://mchb.hrsa.gov/programs-impact/national-maternal-mental-health-hotline?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=24031728478 National Helpline for Mental Health, Drug, Alcohol Issues | SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/helplines/national-helpline Follow Shannon Curry:Website: https://currypsychology.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroupFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this transformative episode of Women of Impact with the phenomenal Thais Gibson! We're diving deeper into the stages of relationships and revealing the critically important role of understanding attachment styles.Seriously, homie, once you grasp these concepts, you'll have a whole new perspective on your relationships. You'll learn how to navigate the power struggle stage, set healthy boundaries, and communicate your needs effectively – all essential skills for building a rock-solid connection with your partner.Ready to reclaim your relationship power? Let's jump right back in! SHOWNOTESUnderstanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from itRecognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviorsMastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflictBreaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationshipsAnd soooo much more!!!FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another insightful episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu. You know the feeling when you're in a relationship that's going so well, but suddenly you hit a rough patch? It's like everything was sunshine and rainbows, and then BOOM, you're questioning everything. You think, 'If we were so right for each other, why does it feel so hard now?' You're constantly wondering if this is just a phase or if it's a sign you're not meant to be. You start doubting yourself, your partner, and maybe even relationships as a whole.Well, let me break it down for you! You're not alone in this. Being in a relationship comes with stages and trust me, they aren't all easy-breezy. We go from the excitement of dating to the honeymoon phase and then hit the power struggle – the make-or-break stage where vulnerability and communication are EVERYTHING.But don't worry, homie! Today's episode is a crash course in navigating these stages with grace and insight. Our special guest, Thais Gibson, is here to guide us through the maze of relationship dynamics.If you've ever found yourself caught in a whirlwind of relationship struggles and doubted if you could ever find stability and happiness, this episode is your guide to transformation! You'll walk away equipped to handle challenges with compassion and clarity, and learn how toturn those tough moments into building blocks for a stronger connection. SHOWNOTESUnderstanding the real challenges behind the power struggle phase and how to grow from itRecognizing attachment styles and how they shape your relationship behaviorsMastering the art of communicating needs effectively without spiraling into conflictBreaking free from toxic patterns and moving toward stable, committed, and blissful relationshipsAnd soooo much more!!!FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's get real: ever wonder why you sometimes second-guess yourself even when you KNOW something's not right? Or why people, yes, even “friends,” partners, or bosses, can keep you stuck, controlled, or exploited for YEARS? This second half is your masterclass on psychological defense and reclaiming your power.Former CIA ops officer Andrew Bustamante is back, ripping the lid off the step-by-step manipulations used by abusers, cult leaders, narcissists, and even the “nice guy” you're dating. He breaks down his framework for vetting trust, seeing through hidden motives, and how to un-park yourself from a relationship where you're “on the backburner.” If you want the bulletproof system for seeing through lies, protecting your heart, and never getting played again, this is your guide.SHOWNOTESThe disposal (“parking”) framework: How cheaters keep you on the back burnerHow to spot when the “new normal” in your relationship is a trap“Switch tracking”: The hidden sign someone's changing your realityWanted vs. unwanted information: The question that reveals honest intentDetecting lies: how CIA ops actually build trust (operational tests you can use today)False assumptions, unwanted info, and feelings-based vetting Vet, validate, analyze, and synthesize: The CIA trust formula for your relationships Synthesis: making choices that ACTUALLY serve you (and not the abuser's agenda) Thank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Andrew Bustamante:Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy's CIA book ‘Shadow Cell': https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever get that chill down your spine, the one that whispers, “You're being watched” or “He's hiding something”?You question yourself. You second-guess your intuition. And before you know it, you're tangled in someone else's game.In this first half of our conversation, I'm sitting down with a former CIA spy and human behavior expert who's about to blow open the playbook on manipulation, lying, and the dark side of seduction. We break down exactly how predators target women, from body language to emotional hooks, plus, the CIA frameworks you can use to stay two steps ahead and protect your power.SHOWNOTES:The body language shift that makes you untouchableSimple hacks to avoid being targeted (and why sunglasses work)Target the strays: Why isolation makes women vulnerableDigital manipulation: How tech amplifies danger for womenControl by rideshare: Everyday ways we give up safetyFilters vs. funnels: How abusers “pre-select” their victims onlineThe authority con: Why we don't question doctors, teachers, or “father figures”The RICE framework: The 4 levers manipulators use to control womenThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Andrew Bustamante:Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4asr05N Read Andy's CIA book ‘Shadow Cell': https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/ Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age.Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We'll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don't shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence.Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction.SHOWNOTESInterviewed 103-year-old author Noel post-accident.Seduction involves complex emotions of pleasure-pain.Show effort specific to her interests continually.Seduction: Women's ancient strategy to gain power.Women prioritize emotions over looks in attraction.Stardom's impact diminished due to technology.Exploring the sublime in our contracted world.Acknowledge mentor's impactful work; use knowledge responsibly.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact with your host, Lisa Bilyeu! Today, we are diving deep into the art and psychology of seduction with the legendary author of "The 48 Laws of Power," Robert Greene. In this episode, we'll uncover the intricate dynamics of seduction, exploring the strategic tactics and psychological nuances that have influenced relationships throughout history and into the digital age.Join us as Robert reveals the powerful concept of the "sublime" from his upcoming book, sharing insights inspired by his near-death experience. We'll delve into the emotional complexities of love, the impact of social media on our fantasies, and the timeless dance of masculine and feminine energies in relationships. Lisa and Robert don't shy away from controversial topics, touching on manipulative techniques like negging and isolation, while emphasizing the importance of authenticity and emotional intelligence.Get ready to challenge your perspectives, learn how to protect yourself from manipulation, and understand the deeper layers of attraction.SHOWNOTESSpotting dangerous signs in relationships for protection.Build trust by becoming their genuine friend.Trust your gut intuition and observe cues.Analyze interactions later to understand true intentions.Supportive community with occasional negative comments reflected.Authenticity is crucial; avoid insincere niceness.Beware of isolation tactics, stay vigilant.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever agonized over those “did I just imagine that?” moments, or you're paralyzed by whether to stay or go in a relationship, this episode will shake you awake. Robin Dreeke is back, and he tears down the mechanics of emotional hijacking, trauma bonding, and why so many women end up excusing, rationalizing, and staying loyal to partners (or bosses, or friends) who are flat-out unsafe.We dissect the psychology behind infamous true crime cases to expose exactly how predators normalise their worst behaviours, and how families, even professionals, look the other way. Robin hands you the roadmap to reclaim your curiosity, develop laser-sharp situational awareness, and finally break the cycle of manipulation and abuse. We talk about red flags, the paralysis of indecision, and the step-by-step playbook for handling “hard” conversations that aren't about feelings, but observable facts. This is self-defense for your mind, relationships, and future.SHOWNOTESReading Courtroom Behavior: What's Performative, What's RealCan You Predict Violence? The Truth About “Best Masks” & Past PatternsHow to Research & Investigate People in Your LifeBTK's Family: How Predators Set Household Rules & Silence CuriosityWhy Critical Thinking Gets Beaten Out of Us, and How to Get It BackThe Three Questions That Break Emotional HijackingWhy It Takes 7 Times to Leave: The Science of Trauma Bonding & ParalysisWhy the “Titanic” Can't Turn: Recognizing When It's Time to GoThe Art of “Hard” Conversations: Why You Must Stick to Observable BehaviorsHope, Change, and the Truth About Relationship RecoveryFBI “Code of Trust” & Jedi-Level Relationship BuildingTactics That Manipulators Use to Fast-Track TrustThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Robin Dreeke:MasterClass: http://masterclass.com/robindreekeWebsite: https://www.robindreeke.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rdreekeX: https://x.com/rdreekeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCms3TC7728CLcm4XVxtVOfgHidden Killers: https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspodSpeaking / booking: https://www.robindreeke.com/speakingFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Welcome back to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication.Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey.Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss!SHOWNOTES130:53 Family dynamics complicate boundaries; break generational patterns.132:43 Avoid discussing food-related topics; set expectations.142:07 Hold boundaries for self-worth and safety.143:35 Setting boundaries can revoke undeserved privileges.152:58 Boundaries have shifted; reevaluation is essential.154:34 Attempt to set boundaries led to escalation.101:01:06 Shifted mindset: openness, curiosity, self-assured communication.101:04:51 Embracing change transforms difficult family dynamics.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another compelling episode of Women of Impact! Today, we're diving deep into the world of personal boundaries, narcissistic family dynamics, and the power of self-preservation. Joining us is the insightful Terri Cole, an expert in boundaries and emotional intelligence. In this episode, our host Lisa Bilyeu opens up about her journey towards self-empowerment, particularly her desire to feel strong enough to leave a relationship in the event of infidelity.We'll explore the complexities of dealing with narcissistic mothers, the importance of setting and enforcing boundaries, and how to handle inappropriate or intrusive questions with confidence. Terri brings a wealth of strategies, from using humor to deflect provocations to preparing mentally for challenging family gatherings. She also emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, self-preservation, and the necessity of clear, open communication in maintaining healthy relationships.Whether you're struggling with boundary issues, dealing with a narcissistic parent, or looking for practical tips on maintaining your mental health, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable advice.Then, We'll dive deep into the art of setting boundaries with in-laws, the challenges of maintaining independence in a partnership, and the importance of clear communication. Whether you're dealing with toxic family members, navigating difficult in-law relationships, or simply striving for a healthier family dynamic, this episode is packed with valuable tips and powerful stories to inspire your journey.Tune in as we explore the delicate balance of maintaining personal authenticity and protecting your mental health amidst the complexities of family expectations and societal norms. It's a conversation you won't want to miss!SHOWNOTESChallenge invasive questions with "Why ask me that?"Strategically prepare to manage family gathering interactions.Setting boundaries takes time and practice.Understanding narcissistic mothers: It's a hidden struggle.Ineffective delegation leads to disordered boundaries.Betrayed friend's trust drops relationship level.Unwillingness to discuss toxic, narcissistic relationships.Stopped engaging due to unhealthy relationship dynamics.Overcame abuse; family reacted with disbelief, slander.Boundaries clash with cultural differences, acceptance needed.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and I'm PUMPED to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today about something SO important and SO hard to do, and that's setting AND HOLDING your boundaries! And the amazinggggg woman here to help is the Boundary Boss herself, my homie Terri Cole.!Terri has been on the show a number of times because she is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women to put toxic people in their place!! And in this episode, she's sharing soooo many amazing tactics and insights into setting and holding your boundaries AND how to deal with the people in your life and exactly WHAT to say to those who don't respect your boundaries. We go into: - The 5 categories of boundaries & why you need health boundaries in all of them - Why boundaries are the best BRIDGES in your relationships, NOT BLOCKS!!- How to get away from the manipulator who is exploiting your good heart to get you to stay - Actual word for word Boundary scripts you can use to flip the conversation and power dynamic when someone is blatantly crossing your boundaries - How to deal with someone who repeatedly & purposefully crosses your boundaries- And MUCH MORE! So listen up homie!! Cause your comfort and your feelings frikin' MATTER, and the ONLY person's feelings that are YOUR responsibility are YOUR OWN – it's NOT your responsibility to take care of the feelings of others!!! Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Podcast: https://www.terricole.com/podcast/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever ask yourself, why does leaving a toxic partner have to hurt THIS much? Or why do even “normal” people become someone you don't recognize during divorce?This episode is for the woman who's drowning in manipulation, confusion, and that sneaky cycle of regret, wondering if fighting for your freedom is even worth it.Today I'm sitting down with divorce lawyer Holly J. Moore, who's spent nearly two decades deep in the trenches of human behavior, breakups, and what our ugliest moments reveal.If you've ever felt paralyzed by threats, blamed for everything, or scared to start over, Holly's seen it all, and she gets brutally honest about the hardest parts…and how to survive them with your soul intact.Here's exactly what we dive into:The secret psychology of revenge during messy divorces (and why it's NOT about the stuff)Why “normal” people act totally unhinged, and what's REALLY fueling their actionsHow to handle emotional, financial, and physical abuse when you're trying to leaveSmart moves to protect yourself, legally and emotionally, when the other side plays dirtyChapter TitlesRevenge Tactics: Emotional, Physical & Financial AbuseThe Survival Instinct: Why Threats Center on Kids (and Women's Triggers)Hidden Money? Forensics, Accusations, and What Clients NEED to Know“Sometimes Staying Feels Easier Than Leaving”: Stories of ManipulationThe Real Pain Chart of Divorce (And Why You're Not “Crazy”)When Playing the Victim Becomes a Legal StrategyTop Causes of Divorce, And What Holly Really Sees Behind the StatsMoney, Control, and Avoiding the Conversations That Kill RelationshipsWhen Your Past Is Used Against You: Celebrity Divorce ExamplesAddiction's Role, and The Heartbreak No One Talks AboutPerimenopause, Power, and Why Women Walk Away NowWho Plots, Who Grieves: Divorce Games That Reveal Gender DifferencesThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for a free trial at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Holly J Moore:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmooreMoore Family Law Group: https://www.moorefamilylawgroup.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MadeForMooreFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to the second half of this illuminating episode of "Women of Impact!" The conversation with Afrika Brooke continues as she shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming fears rooted in childhood and how these experiences shape her current approach to brave, honest expression. Lisa and Afrika dive into actionable strategies for handling disrespectful behaviors, especially within family dynamics, and stress the importance of establishing firm boundaries.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the art of pausing and reflecting before reacting, maintaining integrity while being empathetic, and building confidence through consistent, truthful actions. Lisa and Afrika also explore the concept of self-betrayal, setting the stage for practical advice on navigating social pressure, groupthink, and developing effective communication skills both personally and professionally. Tune in to discover transformative strategies for asserting yourself and living authentically, no matter the situation.SHOWNOTES[00:00] Recap of Part 1 and diving into values alignment.[05:30] Honest communication: Balancing truth and relationships.[12:15] Navigating family dynamics and setting boundaries.[18:40] Groupthink and the courage to think independently.[23:50] Vulnerability: Building stronger relationships through honesty.[28:30] Closing thoughts: The ongoing journey of self-expression.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another episode of "Women of Impact!" In this riveting first half, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with the profoundly insightful Afrika Brooke. They delve deep into the nuances of honesty and accountability in our relationships. Afrika shares her powerful reflections on defensiveness in relationships, emphasizing the difference between desired and embodied values. We'll hear from Lisa as she opens up about her own journey with her husband, Tom, detailing how they navigate giving each other permission to hold one another accountable without slipping into defensiveness.Afrika and Lisa discuss the impact of direct honesty, the importance of practicing honesty to avoid self-righteousness, and how addressing insecurities can lead to true alignment with one's goals. This part of the episode sets the stage for understanding how self-awareness and emotional intelligence play critical roles in personal growth and intimate connections. Get ready to uncover groundbreaking insights that will transform the way you communicate and relate to others around you.SHOWNOTES00:00 Understand your fears before addressing patterns.19:01 Environment shaped my hyper independence and feelings.26:29 Fragmented identity led to decade-long alcohol struggle.38:24 Resentments led to manipulation in relationships.42:04 Shame and embarrassment hinder self-awareness.53:39 Ownership interrupts conflict through personal responsibility.01:01:45 Apologetic demeanor affects many, especially women.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you thought part 1 was jaw-dropping, you're NOT ready for the second half. Gregory Hartley and I dive into one of the wildest “he said, she said” true crime stories, where the difference between life and death comes down to tiny, split-second clues in body language. Want to know how to spot a liar in real time? Or how to tell the difference between someone genuinely afraid and someone just putting on a show? This episode is filled with practical, empowering insight that you're going to use for the rest of your life.We break down the testimony from a brutal attempted cliff murder (the Koenig case), showing you signs of lying, truthfulness, shock, and residual emotion, with step-by-step analysis you can apply to your own gut instincts. Plus, Greg gives us the science behind culture, gender, “women's intuition,” and why some people refuse to see the truth (until it's too late). There's even a rapid-fire game to test your own skills. This isn't just for true crime lovers, it's survival 101 for every woman who refuses to be caught off guard ever again.SHOWNOTESComparing his and her stories: congruency, illustration, and the gestures that mean “truth”Adapting, stress, and grooming: The difference between nervous energy and a liar's “tell”Why neither side wants to reveal every detail, and where the truth hidesMemory, trauma, and why big stress rewires what you actually recallCultures, gender, and why you can't spot red flags until you know their baselineHarsh truths: Why the most dangerous men are the ones you already knowThe Pink & Blue Flag Game: Who lies better, who cracks first, and why women's intuition can save your lifeFollow Gregory Hartley:Website: https://readbodylanguage.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanelFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today's sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you ever wonder if you'd know how to spot a dangerous man before it's too late? Or feel like your intuition is screaming at you, but you just can't put your finger on why? This episode is an absolute masterclass in reading people, protecting yourself, and never again missing the signs that could save your life. I'm joined by one of the world's top experts in body language, interrogation, and deception detection, Gregory Hartley. He's spent decades training military, law enforcement, and intelligence agencies, and now, he's here to give US the tools to see what others miss.We break down the infamous Scott Peterson case, why the man who murdered his wife fooled so many, and the real red flags that women too often overlook. Greg walks through the real signals of grief, shock, and deception (in the wild and in relationships), and gives me and all of you a crash course on how to spot liars, manipulators, and the body language tells that might literally save your life. Trust me, you'll NEVER look at a first date,or a true crime story, the same way again.SHOWNOTESThe Scott Peterson case and why women miss red flagsShock vs. sorrow: How trauma affects emotional responsesLies of omission, lies of commission, and the “verbal bridging” techniqueThe brain under stress: How stress hormones make people slipThe 5 key body language tells: gestures, illustrators, regulators, adapters, barriersPsychopaths, stress, and why they don't react to fear like you doPeterson's baseline vs. performance: Spotting the real person through his voice Introducing the Koenig case: When a hike turns deadly and he said/she said gets realWhy “odd” isn't always guilty, and how women (and horses!) are wired for riskThe logic test: How stories fall apart when the narrative is fakeUniversal emotional tells; why true fear and grief ALWAYS leak outFollow Gregory Hartley:Website: https://readbodylanguage.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thebehaviorpanelFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today's sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate.Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts.The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly.SHOWNOTES-No charges yet; potential expanded investigation forthcoming.-Suing politicians or celebrities risks scrutiny, safety.-Abusers target easy victims; legal systems complicate.-Questioning celebrity adoration and accountability in society.-Karen Conti: author, radio host, crime expert.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by ex-CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and renowned defense attorney Karen Conti for a riveting discussion on the complex interplay between power, money, and justice in high-profile cases. Focusing on Sean "Diddy" Combs, the panel unravels allegations of abuse, manipulation, and the concealed video evidence that has sparked intense debate.Our guests delve into the mechanisms of reputational protection, the ethics and legality of selective video management by hotels, and the broader implications of federal investigations that could ripple through the entertainment and financial sectors. They also touch on the societal idolization of celebrities and the reluctance to believe victims of abuse, especially in racially charged contexts.The conversation does not shy away from the darker aspects of celebrity culture, including the psychological and legal struggles victims face, and the role of powerful networks in perpetuating harmful behavior. Andrew and Karen provide insights into the strategic use of influence and blackmail, comparing Diddy's case to other notorious figures like Jeffrey Epstein and R. Kelly.SHOWNOTES-Prosecutor challenges: doubt, juror skepticism, evidence.-Normalization leads to acceptance of inappropriate behavior.-Narcissism fueled by adoration led to crime.-Hollywood power and blackmail delayed revelations.-The entertainment industry is extremely abusive.-Reputational protection industry safeguards high-profile individuals.-We define our own privacy, not others.-Diddy appears dazed; Cassie tries escaping situation.-Apology video seemed scripted and well-produced.-Professionals empathize with aggressors, differing amateurs.-Was his organization structured like a business?FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Women of Impact"! Today, our incredible host, Lisa Bilyeu, sits down with the brilliant and insightful Gretchen Rubin, best-selling author and happiness expert. Together, they explore the fascinating world of personal tendencies and how they shape our ability to meet expectations and form lasting habits. Gretchen delves into her "Four Tendencies" framework—obligers, questioners, upholders, and rebels—offering invaluable insights on how to leverage these traits to achieve personal success and happiness.In this episode, you'll discover the powerful role that outer accountability, self-awareness, and embracing individual differences play in our emotional well-being. Lisa and Gretchen highlight the importance of enjoying the journey rather than just the outcome, the impact of sleep, diet, and exercise on our moods, and the transformative effects of focusing on relationships and connecting through our senses.Gretchen also shares her wisdom from her latest book, "Life in Five Senses," and offers practical tips for using music, taste, and even scent to enhance our emotional states and deepen our relationships. Whether you're a rebel resisting the norm or an obliger thriving with accountability, this conversation will provide you with the tools and perspectives needed to craft your unique path to happiness. Tune in and get ready to be inspired!SHOWNOTES00:00 Seek new experiences, address loneliness, take action.05:27 Focus on actionable steps, not just outcomes.08:44 Questioning traps, obstacles, and external validation in happiness.13:40 Meditation didn't work, that's okay, I'm different.15:54 Four tendencies framework identifies individual personality types.18:47 Obligers need outer accountability for inner expectations.22:55 Questioners seek thorough understanding before taking action.26:36 Sweetheart not ideal as accountability partner.28:01 Empowerment through understanding habits and choices.34:29 Strong relationships, support crucial for happiness.36:26 Five senses are key to happiness and wellness.39:37 Lost memory leads to new taste experiences.45:19 Indulging senses can uplift and energize.46:14 Effusive praise for genius scent and yearning.49:28 Encouraging self-improvement through subscription and following.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know that feeling when you're dismissed, underestimated, or downright disrespected, and you start to wonder if you're the problem… or if the world is just stacked against you? Homie, THIS is your episode.I'm sitting down with Tracy Walder: Ex-CIA and FBI, one of the only women in history to serve as a special agent in both agencies, and literal expert at uncovering the truth when lives are on the line. But today isn't just about spy stories. It's about training YOU to stand your ground, outsmart manipulation, and build unbreakable emotional resilience…no matter who tries to make you small.From surviving toxic workplaces and “Malibu Barbie” insults to resisting gaslighting from the world's most powerful men, Tracy shares the mindset, boundaries, and psychological tools you need to protect yourself and rebuild your confidence.Here's exactly what we dive into:How to spot (and survive) subtle disrespect, from the boardroom to the bedroomReal-life “spy tactics” any woman can use to stay in control under pressureHow to recognize and resist manipulation, even when it's weaponized kindnessHandling gaslighting, shrinking to “fit in,” and dealing with toxic womenChapter TitlesMale Allies: When Do You Clap Back, And When Do You Play the Long Game?Managing Emotions Under Fire: Should You Shut Down or Speak Up?The Art (and Cost) of Compartmentalization,And When It BackfiresManipulation Tactics: When “Kindness” Is Actually ControlGaslighting on the World Stage, And How to Hold Your Reality FirmThe Power of Evidence: Staying Grounded With Facts (Not Just Feelings)How Not to Shrink: Advocating for Yourself and Naming DisrespectWhen Women Tear Down Other Women: Isolation, Rumors, and Self-EsteemThe Secret to Building Resilience: Naming Emotions, Facing Fears, and Finding Your CrewFollow Tracy Walder:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunexpectedspyTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunexpectedspyYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@theunexpectedspy Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuThank you to today's sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today we are diving into the murky world of destructive cults and manipulative relationships with our expert guest, Rick Alan Ross. In this eye-opening discussion, we'll explore the sinister techniques of love bombing and conditional affection, the perils of manipulation and dependency, and the devastating impacts of isolation and indoctrination.We'll also delve into the challenging journey of leaving these toxic environments and the intricate process of recovery. Rick will shed light on the startling realities of female cult leaders, such as Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and discuss the role of intelligence and success in cult recruitment. We'll get a closer look at extreme cult behaviors and the manipulative power of leaders like Charles Manson, while highlighting the importance of cult awareness in today's society, especially through social media.Additionally, we'll cover fascinating stories of high-profile cases like Susan Carlson's “Love Has Won” and the notorious cult leader Keith Ranieri of nxivm, dissecting the dual-edge sword of the internet in both aiding and exposing cult activities. Join us as we delve into the psychological entrapment of cult members and uncover interventions that can potentially save lives.Whether you're familiar with cult dynamics or learning about them for the first time, this episode promises to be both informative and chilling. So sit back, get comfortable, and let's jump right in!SHOWNOTES00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Women of Impact, where today's conversation will take you deep into the world of cults and manipulative relationships. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and joining me is cult expert Rick Alan Ross. In this episode, we unravel the insidious tactics of love bombing and conditional affection, the manipulation and dependency that cults and abusive relationships foster, and the isolation and indoctrination techniques that rob individuals of their autonomy.We also delve into the intricacies of leaving such environments and the intense feelings of shame and guilt that often accompany this challenging process. We'll discuss gender dynamics in narcissistic behaviors, the rise of female cult leaders like Amy Carlson and Elizabeth Claire Prophet, and the complex realities faced by cult members. From high-profile cases like Charles Manson's manipulation tactics and Leslie Van Houten's eventual transformation, to the impact of modern social media in cult awareness, Rick offers invaluable insights into how cults recruit even the most intelligent individuals and celebrities.Plus, we explore the critical role of intervention and the journey towards recovery, touching on compelling stories like Elizabeth Smart's and Patricia Hearst's abductions and subsequent reprogramming. Whether you're curious about the psychological traps of cults, or looking for ways to protect yourself and others, this episode is a powerful guide to understanding and safeguarding your autonomy.SHOWNOTES00:00 Beware of manipulation: Love bombing and control.04:27 Isolation limits feedback, ensuring control and dependency.08:31 Charismatic leader controlled, abused small devoted following.12:04 Beware online groups for cult-like behaviors.15:19 Keith Raniere trial: witnessed downfall after lengthy battle.18:00 Seek professional help to understand and recover.21:32 Mark uses social media to educate against cults.25:15 Manson incited race war due to failed fame.29:32 Cult leaders manipulate followers into apocalyptic narratives.33:02 Leslie Van Houten: cult recovery, family support, transformation.35:42 Elizabeth Smart kidnapped, abused, coerced, threatened family.39:17 Patty Hearst, SLA involvement, prison, Carter commutation.44:22 Defining cults, coercive tactics, and family concerns.47:29 Love-based relationships reveal truth through discussions.51:50 Find me on Twitter @XallenRoss; culteducation.com resources.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you thought Part 1 was wild, just wait, because now, we're flipping the script and digging even deeper into the mindsets and tactics you NEED to recognize if you want to protect yourself from psychological warfare. Writer, content creator, and, yes, openly diagnosed sociopath Kanika Batra is back for the second half of our conversation, going even deeper into the “rotation” of romantic partners, how sociopaths weaponize compliments, and the terrifyingly effective 4-act psychological cycle they use to keep you hooked and doubting your sanity.We even bring Kanika's husband into the studio for a raw, honest look at what it's like to love and live with a sociopath, and why it actually works (sometimes better than you'd expect). Plus: real talk on sobering up, finding faith, and what to do if you think you've got a sociopath in your circle.Learn the tricks (from mapping insecurities to reputational warfare) that could save you from the worst heartbreaks and con-games. And yes, find out what makes women harder to fool, why even “ride or die” friendships can go nuclear, and the crucial (sometimes tragic) differences between a sociopath and a narcissist in relationships.SHOWNOTESThe Perks (and WARNING SIGNS) of Being Friends with a SociopathThe “Rotation” and Dating Playbook: Regent, Placeholder, DecoyHow Women and Men Manipulate Differently, And Why Women Are Harder to FoolPsychological Terrorism: The 4-Act Formula for Gaslighting Inside Kanika's Marriage: Stability, Manipulation, and Facing the TruthAddiction, Dopamine, and Getting Clean Confessions of a Sociopath: Rapidfire Truths and Petty WinsHow to Spot a Sociopath: Eye Contact, Yawn Test & the Deeper “Mask”Why Rules, Faith, and Structure Actually HelpKanika On Parenting, Self-Worth, and Building a Good LifeThank you to today's sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Kanika Batra:Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wondered if you'd know if a sociopath was your friend… or even YOU? In this episode, I sit down with Kanika Batra: Author, beauty queen, and one of the most self-aware diagnosed sociopaths on the internet, to rip the mask straight off the stigma.Kanika doesn't just talk about living with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD), she tells you exactly how a female sociopath thinks, strategizes, and manipulates, in brutal, unfiltered detail. But don't get it twisted: this isn't just about danger and darkness. Kanika is here so YOU can spot the manipulation and betrayal before it happens: Wether it's in love, at work, or in your closest girls' group chat. We're bringing you the red flags, the psychology, and yes, the protection plan, so you never ever get caught off guard again.From “masks” and hot rage to psychological cages and the razor-thin line between loyalty and revenge, Part 1 lays everything bare, including how and why Kanika targets, tests, and treats people, plus what women need to watch for most.SHOWNOTESHow Sociopaths Lie and Manipulate, and Why You'd Never Know Understanding the Ingenue, Femme Fatale, and Therapist Masks “Snark Pages” and True Stories of Retaliation How Sociopaths Treat Their Real Friends vs. Everyone Else What Betrayal Means, and Why It Fuels Extreme Payback Inside a Female Sociopath's Mind: Family, Childhood, and Hypocrisy Loyalty, Control, and the Calculus of FriendshipWhy (and How) Sociopaths Can Love Their Own Way “The Hidden Suffering of the Psychopath”: Loneliness, Loyalty, and Why Sociopaths Snap The Art of Psychological Cages: Obligation, Triangulation, and Blacklisting Reputational Warfare: How Female Sociopaths Destroy Without Violence Thank you to today's sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Kanika Batra:Website: kankarose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kanikabatra/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/kanikabatra Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols.In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she's lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way.She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential.But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves.And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives.SHOWNOTES00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes.16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships.29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media.35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics.52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments.57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times.01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience.FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enLISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpactSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols.In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she's lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way.She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential.But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves.And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives.SHOWNOTES00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes.16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships.29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media.35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics.52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments.57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times.01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience.CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaNetsuite: Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at https://netsuite.com/womenCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enLISTEN AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpactSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and I'm soooo frikin' excited to share this episode of Women of Impact with you today!!Today's guest has been singing about “GIRL POWER” since the 90s, but secretly dealt with abuse in her toxic marriage for 10 YEARS. She tried to leave SO MANY TIMES but kept going back to him and the vicious cycle of abuse before she finally got her power to leave, once and for all!! It's the inspiring, cheat-print-wearing, the one and only “Scary Spice” of the Spice Girls, Mel B!! She is getting so real and honest about how she finally escaped the abuse FOR GOOD and took back her power AND how now she's helping spread the word and support the strong, amazing abuse survivors allllll around the world. Mel is here to help us spot the warning signs and GET OUT of toxic relationships before it's too late. We cover soooo much in this interview, including: - Why the abuser is SO GOOD at hunting you down & controlling you - How abuse slowly sneaks up on you and why IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT - The 15 signs of what abuse looks like- Why it's SO HARD to break the abuse cycle and how 1 promise Mel made actually helped her to leave FOR GOOD- The 2 words Mel has for ANYONE stuck in an abusive relationship- How shame and guilt will keep you trapped & hiding the toxic parts of your relationship- How to deal with the 2 questions you will be asked again and again after you stop hiding the abuse and leave - Why you should ALWAYS listen to your gut intuitionSo homies, listen to Mel B and don't let your shame, guilt, and denial keep you abused, used, and trapped in misery!!!It's time to stand up and take your GIRL POWER back and never let someone take it from you again!!! Follow Mel B:Website: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialmelbGet Your Copy of “Brutally Honest”: https://geni.us/brutallyhonestpbFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know that split-second when someone seems “perfect” (charming, vulnerable, smart) but your gut says run?Ever wondered how even the smartest women end up dating (or almost marrying) master manipulators, narcissists, or even psychopaths? Homie, this is your episode.Our guest this week is world-renowned forensic psychologist Dr. Eric Hickey. He has sat face-to-face with some of the most dangerous serial killers and predators in history, and what he reveals will blow your mind. This conversation pulls back the curtain on exactly how these men fool even the experts, the subtle red flags women miss, and why emotional needs can become our biggest blind spots.You'll learn the psychological traps predators use, why low self-esteem isn't just about looks, and the powerful, tactical moves you can make to protect yourself (and your friends). No fluff, only hard truth and big empowerment.Here's exactly what we dive into:The mind games even trained professionals fall for (and how to outplay the player)How trauma from childhood creates cycles of control, both for women and for menThe personality traits that attract manipulators (and the mindset shift that disrupts those patterns)Real-world tactics for spotting red flags online, in public, and in your own relationshipsChaptersHow Predators Play the Nice Guy (and Why That's Their Best Trick)Women as Targets: Intelligence & Articulation as WeaponsThe Marriage Manipulator: Real Stories of Emotional AbuseSerial Killers & Sexual Violence: The Dark Path of EscalationRed Flags You Ignore: From Prison Interviews to Everyday RelationshipsRoot Causes: Childhood, Dependency & How Strong Women Get TrappedThe Rationalization Trap: Why Women (and Mothers) Excuse AbuseStalking, Gaslighting & The Power of FearIn the Grocery Store: How Predators Engineer Their OpportunitiesCrimes of Passion vs. Calculated Evil: Can Anyone “Snap”?Domestic Violence: Death Rituals, Promises, and EscalationThe #1 Move to Protect Yourself (and Why Good Men Support It)Thank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaFollow Dr. Eric Hickey:Website: https://darkmatterspodcast.com/ Instagram: instagram.com/darkmatters.truecrime YouTube: www.youtube.com/@Dr.EricHickey Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with cold case investigator Paul Holes, where we're continuing to dive deep into how dangerous manipulators and predators hide in plain sight and use subtle, everyday behaviors to manipulate and control without you even realizing it.And Paul's breaking down exactly what these predators, manipulators, and dangerous offenders do to fly under the radar, and the subtle signs you need to be looking for so you can spot their manipulation before it's too late and you're under their control!So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Paul Holes. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseOneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!Follow Paul Holes:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holesPodcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJbGet your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNxFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What do you do when someone you thought you could trust does something so out of character that you're caught completely off guard?At first you don't think too much of it, but then you start to notice there's actually a pattern – of control, manipulation, and coldness. It's those little manipulations where they deny something happened or downplay it that really start to chip away at your sense of reality, your confidence, and your sense of self – and before you know it, you don't even recognize yourself anymore. The sad truth is, manipulators are masters at making you doubt your own reality, and by the time you realize what's happening, you're already trapped in their web. And that's why on today's episode of Women of Impact, we are diving deep into how these dangerous people – like psychopaths and predators you expect would be SO obvious to spot – are actually the ones hiding in plain sight and waiting for their opportunity. Here to pull back the curtain on exactly how dangerous people operate right under our noses is cold case investigator Paul Holes. This guy spent years hunting down some of the most elusive predators out there, including the infamous Golden State Killer. And what he's sharing today is going to make you rethink everything you thought you knew about spotting danger. We go deep into: Signs to look for when dating or meeting someone new that could be giveaways that something is actually “off” about themWhy some of the most dangerous people are often the ones who seem the most “normal”How people like the Golden State Killer can hide in plain sight for DECADES, all while committing horrific crimesAnd how YOU can spot those subtle signs of manipulation and control that most people don't see until it's unfortunately too frikin' lateThe reality is guys, that psychopaths are often hiding behind the “normal” people you see every day – the barista making your coffee, your co-worker that everyone loves, or even your boyfriend that you've been with for MONTHS. But by the end of this episode, you'll know the giveaway signs that a predator is trying to trick you and blend into everyday life, and how YOU can protect yourself and the people you love from these predators, abusers, manipulators who just want to get power and control over you. CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSCaraway: Visit https://www.carawayhome.com/WOI or use code WOI at checkout and get 10% off you your next purchaseOneSkin: Visit https://oneskin.co and use code LISA for 15% off to make your skin look, feel, and act younger with OneSkin!Follow Paul Holes:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paul.holesPodcasts: https://www.smalltowndicks.com/ & https://open.spotify.com/show/4k4K2WpZFxlTGoCzY40hJbGet your copy of “Unmasked”: https://a.co/d/4e2uQNxFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When was the last time you said your desires out loud…or even admitted them to yourself? In Part 2, Caitlin V and I dive DEEP into the heart of women's sexuality: Body count shame, the “good girl” myth, what to do when sex fizzles in a long-term relationship, and why honoring YOUR truth (not just your partner's) is the only path to lasting pleasure and freedom.We break down how women can restore their relationship with their own bodies, what to do if you and your partner want different things, and the rules I swear by in my own marriage to keep desire AND honesty alive. Learn the communication tools to revive intimacy after a sexual dry spell, plus the empowering strategies to clear resentment, heal shame, and finally, unapologetically ask for what YOU want, in and out of the bedroom. Homie, your sexuality is your superpower, let's set it free.SHOWNOTES“Body count,” shame, and the female experience: Whose story are you living?Why feeling “too much” or “not enough” keeps us from pleasureMoving through betrayal, bed death, and starting the sex talk againNavigating mismatched desires and honoring YOUR needsWhy radical honesty (and permission to say “no”) changes everythingBuilding erotic creativity after years: Small steps for big changeWhy tying sex to love and worthiness holds women back (and how to undo it)Communication after “bed death”: From silence to true connectionThe single phrase that transforms your relationship (and your sex life)Thank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Caitlin V:Website: https://caitlinvneal.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinVFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Okay ladies, this one's for YOU. Ever secretly wondered if your wildest desires, romantic daydreams, or untamed fantasies are “normal”? Or maybe you crave more passion, more play, and more pleasure, but aren't sure how to even start that conversation? Enter the powerhouse Caitlin V: sex therapist, intimacy coach, and the straight-talking woman who's helped thousands of women discover exactly what THEY want in bed.In Part 1, we're going behind the scenes of female fantasy: unpacking Twilight, Fifty Shades, why yearning to be desired is at the heart of so much, and how to finally own your erotic power without shame. Caitlin V breaks it all down: why scheduling sex is actually hot (and necessary!), how to safely explore archetypes and kink, and why women's pleasure is far more creative and expansive than you've ever been told. If you're done hiding, done playing small, and SO ready to claim the sex and intimacy you deserve, start here.SHOWNOTESWhy feeling desired is at the core of women's fantasiesScheduling sex vs. spontaneityBreaking down archetypes: Vampires, dominance, surrenderTwilight & the erotic pull of restraint and safetyTaboo, kink, and why your fantasy is more normal (and healing) than you thinkSafely claiming sub/dom play and power dynamicsErotic Blueprints: What actually turns women onHow to break down, name, and ask for your exact desiresExploring the edges: consent, taboo, and reclaiming shame as pleasureFantasies about threesomes and queerness: Normalizing what women wantThe animal, the goddess, and every archetype a woman can beThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Caitlin V:Website: https://caitlinvneal.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/caitlinvictoriousx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinVFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this unbelievable conversation with Dr. Ramani where she is sharing with us her “cheat sheets” of all her best strategies for dealing with the relentless manipulation and games that a narcissist plays. Odds are you've encountered a narcissist before, and whether it's someone in the workplace or someone in your own home, each encounter with them can make you question your worth, ignore warning signs, and even give up your power to them. In part 2, we get into: - Why you need to learn to listen to your body for the red flags- How to effectively deal with the charm AND lack of empathy of a narcissist- Dr. Ramani's 3 steps to narcissistic resistance so you can break free from the abuse- & MORE!The reality is the narcissist will never change, so it's up to you to make a change and take your power back so you can live your life without losing confidence in who you are. Don't forget to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It's Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fAnd if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It's Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another amazing episode of Women of Impact! I'm Lisa Bilyeu and today we're tackling how to deal with narcissists in all sorts of situations, from the workplace and professional settings, to family, friendships and romantic partners. The amazing world renowned psychologist and narcissist expert Dr. Ramani is back and she's got even more wisdom to share from her 20+ years of experience studying narcissists and working with narcissistic abuse survivors. With sooo much love and compassion, Dr. Ramani is giving us the advice we need, but might not WANT to hear when it comes to THAT narcissist in our lives. In Part 1, we're going deep into:- Why you MUST DISENGAGE with the narcissist when they are playing the victim- How “soul distancing” can protect your well-being when the narcissist is gaslighting and invalidating you- The counter-intuitive way to take your power back & ending a narcissistic relationship - Why you WANT to explain & defend yourself to the narcissist, but NEVER, EVER should- & SOOOO much more!!! Let's be real guys, we'll all have to face a narcissist at some point or another, and this episode will arm you with the strategies you need to come out of each encounter without losing yourself. Be sure to order your copy of Dr. Ramani's new book, “It's Not You” here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniOrder “It's Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know when heartbreak feels like it's not just the loss of a person, but a total betrayal by LIFE itself? When every friend's “just get over it” sounds like an insult, and you're sick of pretending you're OK? Well homie, then this is your episode. And Matthew Hussey is here to guide you through not just surviving, but actually thriving after heartbreak.In this juicy second half, we get real about what keeps women from healing (spoiler: it's about WHO you let headline your life). Matthew breaks down the four main types of heartbreak, how to make sure you're ACTUALLY mending (not just spinning), and the signs you're finally ready for real, healthy love. Plus, how to spot the real green flags in men so you never waste precious years on toxic cycles again.SHOWNOTESStop blaming yourself: time wasn't wasted, and anger is your friendWhy the pain threshold is often what finally sets you free (and why amnesia is your enemy)The hidden addiction to heartbreak, and why it keeps you “safe” but smallHyper-vigilance, wounds, and breaking the generational cycleYour pain serves a purpose, but does it deserve to be the headline of your next 20 years?Don't let pain write your life: How to separate emotion from the story you attach to itMatthew's “Five Days to Mend”, where to go now if you're stuck in the darknessThe four green flags: consistency, feeling accepted, meeting you where you are, and surviving the hard stuffRapid fire game: Masculinity, femininity, and finding the person who will actually cherish ALL of youThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.comFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever feel like love is just one giant, nerve-wracking gamble? Like the people who are supposed to love you the most end up hurting you beyond belief, and you're left questioning your own reality? Trust me, you are not alone. In this raw and must-listen episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with Matthew Hussey, relationship coach, New York Times bestselling author, and the straight-talking Brit who has helped millions of women get real about love, self-worth, and healing after trauma.Matthew and I are diving deep into the sneaky world of coercive control, manipulation, and narcissistic relationships. We're uncovering why nearly half of women find themselves with controlling partners, what keeps so many of us stuck in toxic cycles, and the miracle of breaking free. Learn the actual steps to stay guarded enough to protect your heart, but open enough to receive real love again. I demand honesty on this show, and you're about to get it.SHOWNOTESThe case for slowing down: why we lose objectivity in loveAdvancing in love like a boxer: how to protect yourself without closing offThe context clues you must look for: how do they handle stress, family, friendships, conflict, and YOU when you're sick?The science: up to 63.3% of women with abuse will develop PTSD, and why psychological wounds are the slowest to healThe cult of two: Why leaving is a miracle, not a failureWhy so many women opt out of dating, and the real risks of closing your heart for goodThe story of Gisele Pellicault, and how finding love again after unimaginable trauma is still possibleSelf-love after heartbreak: can the next chapter be the best one?Why going no contact with parents or partners is sometimes the only way (you are NOT a snowflake for protecting your peace). The four types of heartbreak: why you can feel grief for someone you never even datedThank you to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://www.matthewhussey.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thematthewhussey Join his free Five Days to Mend heartbreak event: https://www.mendweek.comFOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to this fascinating episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy, Andrew Bustamante, where we're talking all about what to do to spot the liar from a mile away and crack their con before they even have a chance to gain your trust and use it to manipulate you!And we're going even deeper into the tools and tactics that secret undercover agents use so that you can protect yourself from manipulators, abusers, con men, narcissists, and even cult leaders and figure out whether someone is actually being genuine or actually fabricating a lie to manipulate and abuse your trust. Don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Andrew Bustamante. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What up guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu here, and I'm going to tell you something that's an absolute frickin' fact that no one wants to believe AND is the reason we find ourselves getting tricked, used, manipulated, cheated on, and gaslit…EVERYONE LIES!From small innocent white lies to really freaking hurtful, huge lies that are like a bombshell that ends up destroying your life, your relationship, and your confidence. Now the sooner we can just accept the fact that everyone lies, the sooner you can start to figure out how to spot the lies, uncover the truth, and take your power back so you won't be manipulated ever again. And so here to help us uncover the web of lies and reveal the truth is former CIA spy and agent, Andrew Bustamante!! Andrew has literally been professionally trained in how to gain people's trust very quickly and how to use that trust to get information, and today he's going to be teaching us:- the three parts that go into building trust- what a con man, serial killer, or cult leader will do to gain your trust quickly - how to take control back and ask the right questions to test and reveal the true intentions behind someone's actions- how famous people like P Diddy, Bill Cosby, and R Kelly were able to lie and manipulate and abuse people to the EXTREME This episode is a masterclass on how to become a human lie detector and crack the con!!!By the end of this episode, your tool belt will be full of the tools that top agents in the CIA use to crack the cons, expose the lies, and manipulate the manipulator so you can protect your own damn self-confidence, reveal the truth behind anyone's actions, and then take your power back in any situation!!Follow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ladies and gentlemen, get ready to explore the taboo world of sex, shame, and mental health with our very special guest, Emily Morse. As a sex and relationship expert, Emily has seen it all and is here to spill the tea on how shame can hold you back from experiencing true pleasure.In this episode, we're diving deep into the three types of shame that can wreak havoc on your sex life: rejection shame, exposure shame, and self-blame. Emily shares her insights on how these shame patterns can be traced back to childhood experiences and societal messages that leave us feeling disconnected from our own bodies and desires.But it's not all doom and gloom - Emily also shares her top tips for overcoming shame and embracing your sexuality. From challenging limiting beliefs to practicing self-love and communication with your partner, she's got the tools you need to take your pleasure to the next level.And let's not forget about the power of orgasms! Emily dishes on how getting busy can actually boost your mental health by reducing stress and increasing feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin. Plus, she shares some juicy stats on just how many women have experienced sexual trauma and how it can impact their ability to let loose in the bedroom.But don't worry, this episode isn't just a downer - Emily is all about empowering women to prioritize their pleasure and aim for at least 25% fun in their daily lives. She even gives a shout-out to the joys of solo play and how it can help you get in touch with your own body and desires.So if you're ready to break free from shame and embrace your inner sex goddess, grab a glass of wine, settle in, and get ready to learn from the one and only Emily Morse. It's time to get shameless and prioritize your pleasure like never before!SHOWNOTES00:00 Identifying the pleasure thieves: stress, anxiety, worry.04:12 Stress during sex may indicate underlying issues.07:52 Addressing physical and mental shame for confidence.11:11 Challenging limiting beliefs, embracing therapy for growth.16:18 Repressed sexuality stems from unsafe environments.18:04 Shame about masturbation can hinder sexual exploration.21:29 Untreated trauma worsens over time, seek help.22:56 Pleasure is essential for productivity and presence.28:12 Hidden side effects of medication impact sex life.29:27 Believe in your deserving of a healthy sex life.CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORSShopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those moments you can't shake, when everything looks perfect, but deep down you feel a chill that says, “something is wrong”?What if the real danger isn't what you see, but what you don't see: The hidden drives, the shadows, that play out behind closed doors?In today's episode, I sit down with philosophy researcher and shadow work expert Previn Karian to expose the psychology of why women end up in cycles of pain, manipulation, and even abuse, and how recognizing the “shadow” in ourselves and our partners is the first step to walking away with dignity and power.This one is raw, honest, and truth-telling. We dig into uncomfortable places, but it might be the perspective shift that sets you free.Here's exactly what we dive into:The “male shadow”: How to recognize when it's not your job to “fix” him (and what to do instead).Why super successful, charming men aren't always safe (the “bigger the light, the bigger the shadow”)The difference between sadism and masochism: How these hidden drives play out in both men and womenHow women's own shadow makes us vulnerable to repeat cycles of abuseChaptersDon't Get Seduced by “Light”: Why Success Isn't SafetyHow Sadistic Drives Show Up: From Microaggressions to ViolenceThe Giselle Pellico Case: Shadows Hiding in Plain SightThe Masochistic Man: Nice Guys, People Pleasing, and Hidden RageSpotting the Difference: Explosive Rage vs. Quiet DepressionWhy Men Lack the Language for Their PainThe Core Shadow Wound of Women, And How We OvercomeCan Women Be Sadistic Too? Rewriting the NarrativeThe Masculinity Crisis: Feminism, Power, and the Red Pill BacklashThe #1 Thing To Do When You See His ShadowWhy You Can't Rescue a Man (and What Real Support Looks Like)Thank you to this episode's sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFollow Previn Karian:Website: www.tec4mind.comThe Empty Chair Online (Facebook Community): https://www.facebook.com/groups/1119909063319697YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qyyU-JSsgE0&t=80sFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this incredibly revealing and unnerving conversation with top defense attorney Karen Conti talking all about how dangerous people like narcissists, conmen, and even serial killers will deceive and manipulate you to get what they want. And we're diving even deeper into breaking down allllll the plays master manipulators like P Diddy, Jeffery Epstein, and John Wayne Gacy use to trick you, lie to you, and hurt you AND how YOU can protect yourself from the dangerous people that are hiding in plain sight and looking for nice, unsuspecting, and compassionate women like you and me to take advantage of!So don't miss this final part with Karen Conti.And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Karen Conti:Website: https://www.karenconti.com/Order “Killing time with John Wayne Gacy”: https://a.co/d/0Idrn4BSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Have you ever met someone that just oozed charm, made you laugh, was soooo damn charismatic, they just seemed like they were totally nice, normal, harmless person??…and then come to find out they were actually secretly a manipulative and abusive wolf hiding in sheeps clothing? And no one, ESPECIALLY YOU, can believe that the *seemingly* nice guy, is actually the guy who was prolifically cheating on his wife, stealing money from his employer, or even worse… and you had NO IDEA?!?! The thing is guys, dangerous people are lurking everywhere, and if you want to protect yourself from befriending, dating, or even becoming a victim of conmen, toxic narcissists, abusers, or worse, you HAVE TO know how to protect yourself. And that's why on this episode of Women of Impact, we're talking to defense attorney Karen Conti!! And she is revealing exactly what a dangerous person can, AND WILL, do to get what they want, and how you can protect yourself from their sneaky tactics used to deceive and manipulate you, like charm, humor, and even acts of kindness. We dive DEEP into: - The playbook master manipulators like P Diddy, Jeffery Epstein, and John Wayne Gacy use to trick you, lie to you, and hurt you - Strategies you can use to keep YOUR power and NEVER let a conman, abuser, or even serial killer take your power from you - How to spot the manipulation and lies every scammer, swindler, narcissist, toxic ex, and even serial killer will use to catch you off gaurd, take advantage of you, and frikin' hurt you with- And sooo much more!!! So my homies, listen up coz I guarantee your assumptions about the behavior and personality of a dangerous person are going to change after listening to this!! Follow Karen Conti:Website: ⁠https://www.karenconti.com/⁠Order “Killing time with John Wayne Gacy”: ⁠https://a.co/d/0Idrn4B⁠See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you're dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER. Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin' sanity.Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fIn this episode, we're diving into:Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them!What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self.Why it's SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”.And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist's mind games because you can't always see them coming…So whether you're in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together. Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamaniPre-Order “It's Not You”: https://a.co/d/7qYmF0fFollow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those moments when your gut is SCREAMING that something's off, but everyone else just shrugs it off like, “You're overreacting”? Homie, this is the episode that finally puts a spotlight on why your intuition is your biggest superpower, especially when the whole world tries to gaslight you out of it.Today, we're diving DEEP into the body language, verbal gymnastics, and high-stakes manipulation behind one of the most infamous cases of our time. We're breaking down Ghislaine Maxwell: Reading her cues, calling out the lies, and exposing the hidden “tells” that every survivor and truth-seeker NEEDS to spot. From depositions to prison interviews, and the voices of survivors, we don't just talk about red flags, we put them under a microscope for you.Here's exactly what we dive into:The #1 body language signal that screams deception (and what “effort” really means)Why narcissists act like the victim, even when they're on trialHow to reframe victim memories (and why “I don't recall” is such a calculated phrase)The psychology behind grooming and how powerful people protect each otherChapter TitlesRating Ghislaine's Honesty: Why 5/10 Is a Red FlagWhen “I Don't Recall” Becomes a ShieldNarcissism, Victim Mentality & High-Stress ResponseThe “Fifth Amendment” Defense: What That Really SignalsHot Seat Behavior: What Happens When The Truth Is UncomfortableThe “Gas Tank” Theory: When Liars Run Out of EnergyStatement vs. Responsibility: Who Does Ghislaine Blame?How Nefarious Was She, Really? The 9/10 ArgumentSurvivor Stories: How Grooming and Broken Trust BeginEye Movements: Truth, Memory, and Self-ProtectionAssessing Survivor Credibility: 8 Out of 10 HonestMaxwell & Epstein Photos: The Real Power DynamicThank you to this episode's sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaFollow Andrew Bustamante:Website: https://everydayspy.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this episode of Women of Impact with the amazing Terri Cole. If you're ready to stop the cycle of overgiving and burning out, then my homie, you're in the right place. And we're getting even deeper into the nitty-frikin-gritty of: - how to spot self-destructive patterns- how to set solid boundaries no one can push- taking back your power & your voice This episode gives you a blueprint for how you thrive – not just survive – within a relationship, including the one that you have with yourself!!And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you're always the one: jumping in to fix things, taking care of everything, and helping everyone with their problems – then my homie, listen up, coz this episode of Women of Impact is for YOU!! Today we're diving into the world of high-functioning co-dependency with none other than my girl, Terry Cole. Terry Cole is a licensed therapist and bestselling author who empowers women to break the cycle of living without boundaries so they can have better boundaries, more effective communication, healthier relationships, and less B.S. in their lives!!! And she is breaking down:- how to actually start building strong personal boundaries- recognizing the patterns of high functioning codependency- why getting your validation fix from others is super frikin damaging- understanding the blueprint for prioritizing yourself- the ways you might actually be attracting a narcissistic partner This episode will help you to take your power back and create a life that is genuinely fulfilling, where you're not actually sacrificing your sake for everybody else. This is the thing that could actually be holding you back from going after that job, that relationship, or anything else in your life – and you don't even realize it!!Follow Terri Cole:Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/Pre-order “Too Much”: https://hfcbook.com/FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've ever asked yourself, “Why can't I break free?” or “Am I going crazy?” Part 2 of this episode is your roadmap back to yourself, your sanity, and your strength.Richard Grannon is back as we tear the mask off manipulative dynamics for good: Not just naming the problem but arming you with the survivor's playbook. We get brutally honest about the devastating fallout of narcissistic relationships, why traditional therapy often fails (or even retraumatizes), and what it actually takes to heal, escape, and never go back. This is about reclaiming your narrative, rebuilding your identity from the ground up, and never being anyone's pawn, “fixer,” or fantasy again. You will walk away with tactics, scripts, and hard-won hope.SHOWNOTESWhen even empathy is exploited: the trap of pity and guilt in abuseMoving on: why breaking free from narcissists feels impossible (but isn't)Giving up vs fighting: the first real step to freedomMy own kryptonite and boundaries: what keeps you stuck and why you must choose yourselfFour Steps to Healing: Choose yourself – Regulate your emotions – End the fantasy – Build real structureBeyond “survivor”: refusing to let trauma be your only identityHow to find a safe therapist: red flags, traps, and what to demand at the startFacing your “dragon”: Why leaving can be the scariest (but most vital) act of allResources for survivors, STAR Network, and what it means to be “the hero of your own life”Thank you SO much to everyone tuning in and fighting for their healing. Check the links below for free support and more resources!Thank you to this episode's sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON:Follow Richard Grannon:Website: https://www.richardgrannon.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannonYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannonSTAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.ukFOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu):Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those relationships where you're told you're “too sensitive,” “too needy,” or you just “can't take a joke”… but your gut says, run? This is the masterclass on narcissists, emotional predators, and the cunning manipulation tactics they use to rope women in, keep them stuck, and leave them doubting their own sanity.I sat down with Richard Grannon, renowned psychological educator and author, who's made it his mission to expose the dark science behind narcissistic abuse. If you've ever felt like you were the only one trapped in someone else's reality—gaslit, guilted, or forced to play games you had no idea how to win—homie, you are not alone. In Part 1, we break down the actual playbook of narcissists, how they bait their partners, and the psychological patterns that keep women vulnerable to these emotional predators. Whether you're in it, healing from it, or supporting a friend—this episode will shake you awake.SHOWNOTESCan a narcissist truly love or commit? Psychopaths vs NarcissistsHow narcissists perform vulnerability to hook caring women Sex, intimacy, and the weaponization of desire: what narcissists really wantWithholding sex as control: Why it hits women at the core of identityCommitment and marriage in the narcissist's worldviewChildren as pawns: what having kids means for a narcissistThe terrifying truth about intergenerational narcissismRelationship violence: gendered patterns and the hidden dangersThe predators playbook: scanning and selecting vulnerable targetsThank you to this episode's sponsors: K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.comOneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisaMonarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.comFOLLOW RICHARD GRANNON:Follow Richard Grannon:Website: https://www.richardgrannon.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardgrannonYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RichardGrannonSTAR Network: https://www.star-network.org.ukFOLLOW ME (Lisa Bilyeu):Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpactTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.