"Negotiate Anything" is the #1 negotiation podcast in the world, celebrated with over 10 million downloads, hundreds of 5-star reviews, and a global audience from +180 countries. Negotiation is the ultimate problem solving tool, allowing you to not only get better deals, but to also have better relationships. Our podcast dives deep into the art of negotiation. Hosted by lawyer, bestselling author, and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute , Kwame Christian Esq., M.A., each episode is a transformative journey that equips listeners to confidently navigate challenging conversations with negotiation and communication experts around the globe. Listeners learn to balance assertiveness with empathy, building trust while setting boundaries and managing emotions. As in the bustling business world, exceptional negotiation skills can be the differentiator, our episodes are tailored to give you that unique advantage. But it's not just about transactions or business discussions. "Negotiate Anything" emphasizes that life itself is a series of negotiations. Whether you're deliberating with a tough client, discussing terms with a new partner, or navigating personal relationships, our show promises invaluable insights. Prepare to immerse in practical scenarios, absorbing techniques that don't just improve your negotiation prowess but also elevate your career and personal life. At The American Negotiation Institute, we believe the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. And our goal is to change the world, one difficult conversation at a time. So, tune in, and empower yourself with the tools to negotiate anything, anywhere. Produced by the American Negotiation Institute Part of the LinkedIn Podcast Network About the host: Kwame Christian is a business attorney, best-selling author, and Founder & CEO of the American Negotiation Institute (ANI), a global consulting firm that specializes in negotiation and conflict resolution. Recognized as one of the world's top negotiation experts, Kwame gained prominence after his viral TEDx Talk, Finding Confidence in Conflict, which has garnered over 400,000 views. He has authored two best-selling books, Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) and How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race: Practical Tools for Necessary Change in the Workplace and Beyond (2022). He is also a regular contributor to Forbes. Kwame is also the host of Negotiate Anything, the world's #1 negotiation podcast, which has attracted more than eight million downloads and listeners in over 180 countries since its inception in 2016. He has taught negotiation, communication, and mediation advocacy at the university level, including The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law, the country's top-ranked law school dispute resolution program. Kwame earned his law degree, masters in public policy, and bachelors in psychology from The Ohio State University. He was the winner of the John Glenn College Young Alumni Award (2020) and Moritz College Outstanding Recent Alumnus Award (2021), making him the only person in the university's history to win alumni awards in consecutive years from both the law school and the masters of public affairs program. He was also named among Columbus' 2022 40 Under 40 award recipients. In addition to his accomplishments, Kwame is a practicing attorney, working with businesses and their owners to secure better deals, solve complex problems, and overcome legal challenges. He is also a popular LinkedIn instructor, teaching over a dozen courses with over 600,000 learners taking his courses. Outside the professional sphere, Kwame is a devoted family man and proud father of two boys. An avid chess enthusiast, he has played over 20,000 games and earned a ranking in the 99th percentile on Chess.com.
Most people are optimizing for the wrong kind of smart — and it's costing them everything when the world shifts. Liz Tran is a former venture capital executive, CEO coach, and author of AQ. She spent years inside the highest-pressure rooms in tech before walking away to build a coaching practice rooted in one conviction: the people who thrive in chaos aren't the smartest or the most emotionally intelligent — they're the most adaptable. Connect with Liz Website: https://liz-tran.com/ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/liztran1 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/liztranwrites/ Headshot Link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1N6ik2WblfgHVX7NSRbfpR96g56f4Uxd6/view
What if the most powerful stress-relief tool you have access to is completely free — and you've been ignoring it your whole life? In this episode, Kwame sits down with Tracy Teuscher — PR strategist, branding expert, and certified eco-therapist — to explore why modern life is burning us out, and how reconnecting with nature can restore what chronic stress quietly destroys. They dive into the science of forest bathing and phytoncides, why kindness is not weakness, how to set better boundaries without losing your warmth, and what it really means to lead with authenticity in a world designed to distract you. Tracy also shares her deeply personal journey through loss, grief, and a decade of using nature as medicine — and gives you simple, actionable practices you can start today, whether you have a forest nearby or just a stone in your pocket. Connect with Tracy LinkedIn - Tracy Teuscher https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyteuscher Nature Therapy Earth Website - https://naturetherapy.earth/Nature Therapy Earth Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/naturetherapy.earthNature Therapy Earth YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@naturetherapyearth The Buzz Maker® Website - https://www.thebuzzmaker.com/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thebuzzmaker Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/thebuzzmaker LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/thebuzzmaker/ Save Ohio Bees Website - https://saveohiobees.org/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/saveohiobees Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/saveohiobees Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the very thing holding you back from success isn't your skill—but your silence? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden cost of not advocating for yourself—and why staying quiet could be costing you far more than you realize. From physicians navigating burnout and unfair contracts to professionals leaving millions on the table by avoiding salary negotiations, this conversation unpacks the real stakes behind everyday decisions we're often too uncomfortable to confront. You'll hear powerful insights from industry leaders who challenge the belief that negotiation is conflict—and instead reframe it as a collaborative, career-defining skill. Discover why saying “no” is often the most professional thing you can do, how to build leverage without burning bridges, and why your long-term success depends on setting boundaries today. This episode isn't just about negotiation—it's about identity, courage, and reclaiming control over your career and your life. If you've ever hesitated to ask for more, feared being seen as “too much,” or struggled to advocate for yourself, this is the perspective shift you've been waiting for. Because at the end of the day, the question isn't whether you can negotiate—it's whether you're willing to.
Most entrepreneurs talk about deals. Alex Jekowsky of CENTS has negotiated over $220 million worth of them. In this episode on negotiation, acquisitions, fundraising, and entrepreneurship, Alex breaks down the real psychology behind high-stakes dealmaking — from navigating multimillion-dollar acquisitions to building trust with investors, overcoming rejection, and turning painful setbacks into transformational opportunities. But this conversation goes far beyond tactics. Alex shares the emotional realities of entrepreneurship: the pressure, the uncertainty, the loneliness, and the resilience required to keep building when the odds are against you. From renegotiating a failed acquisition deal on the back of a coffee shop receipt to raising the largest venture round in laundry technology history, this episode is packed with battle-tested lessons on leadership, authenticity, reputation, and growth. You'll learn:• Why the best negotiators focus on alignment, not manipulation• The hidden danger of “selling” instead of “showing”• How great founders structure deals people actually want to win• Why pain tolerance may be the ultimate entrepreneurial advantage• The mindset shifts that helped Alex scale Sense into an industry-defining company Whether you're raising capital, buying a business, leading a team, or negotiating your next opportunity, this episode delivers practical wisdom from someone who's lived every side of the table. This isn't theory. It's real-world dealmaking at the highest level. Connect with Alex Jekowsky:
What if the real reason you feel stuck, burned out, or unseen isn't because you're not capable… but because you've been performing as someone you're not? In this deeply honest and powerful conversation, leadership coach, keynote speaker, and author Patience Ogunbona shares the internal negotiations that transformed her life, career, and voice. From walking away from performative success to embracing quiet confidence, Patience reveals why authenticity is the missing piece behind true influence, fulfillment, and courageous leadership. Together, we unpack: Why trying to “prove yourself” quietly destroys performance The identity shift that changes how you show up in conversations and leadership How introverts can lead powerfully without pretending to be extroverts The hidden connection between burnout and self-betrayal Why the wrong environment slowly erodes your confidence and worth How to trust your own voice again — even after years of masking The surprising power of “I am” statements and identity-based transformation Practical strategies for difficult conversations, meetings, interruptions, and leadership as an introvert Patience also shares the deeply personal story behind writing her new book, the breakthrough framework she uses with clients, and the mindset shifts that help leaders move from not worthy to noteworthy. If you've ever felt exhausted from performing, struggled to speak up, or wondered whether success should feel more aligned than this — this conversation is for you. Because the most important negotiation you'll ever have… is the one happening inside your own head. Connect with Patience Ogunbona:
You think you're being authentic. You're not. In this powerful conversation, media expert, keynote speaker, and author Jeanne Sparrow breaks down the real meaning of authenticity — and it's not what you think. Most people confuse authenticity with oversharing. Others stay silent, mistaking fear for integrity. Jeanne explains why true authenticity isn't about saying everything — it's about knowing who you are, what you bring to the table, and how to use that power with intention. You'll learn: Why oversharing kills trust (and isn't real connection) How to tell the difference between fear and truth How to adapt without losing yourself Why your presence speaks louder than your words — and how to own it Whether you're leading a team, having a tough conversation, or just trying to show up more powerfully — this episode will change how you think about being “yourself.” Connect with Jeanne jeannesparrow.com Buy now The Book - FEARLESS AUTHENTICITY - by Jeanne Sparrow Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if everything you've been taught about persuasion is only scratching the surface—and the real edge lies in understanding how people actually behave, not what they say they'll do? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden psychology behind high-stakes negotiation, blending behavioral science, real-world data, and cutting-edge research to uncover what truly drives influence. You'll hear from world-class experts across disciplines as they break down powerful, often counterintuitive strategies—from why admitting your weaknesses can increase your credibility, to how something as subtle as using precise numbers or asking the right kind of question can dramatically shift outcomes. Discover the science behind the “Stolen Thunder” effect, learn why most negotiators sabotage their own offers without realizing it, and explore how language—down to a single word—can make your message more memorable, persuasive, and trustworthy. You'll also get a rare look into how AI and large-scale data are transforming our understanding of negotiation, revealing patterns in human behavior that were previously invisible. Whether you're closing deals, leading teams, or navigating everyday conversations, this episode will challenge your assumptions and equip you with practical, research-backed tools to communicate with clarity, confidence, and impact. Because negotiation isn't about winning arguments—it's about understanding people.
What if the most powerful move in negotiation isn't saying yes—but having the courage to say no? In this masterclass episode, you'll hear three dynamic voices unpack a deceptively simple idea: how boundaries, clarity, and conviction can transform the way you negotiate — at work, in business, and in life. From walking away from multimillion-dollar deals to reclaiming your time and energy, these conversations reveal what it really takes to stay aligned when the pressure is on. Nicole Walters shares the high-stakes decisions behind building—and not selling — a thriving business, and why protecting your autonomy is the ultimate leverage. You'll learn how to slow down fast-moving deals, command respect at the table, and trust your internal compass even when everything looks perfect on paper. Then, Regan Walsh dives into the hidden cost of saying yes to everything — and how “shedding the shoulds” can unlock clarity, confidence, and control over your life. Her practical frameworks will help you make faster, cleaner decisions without guilt or second-guessing. Finally, Eliana Goldstein brings it home with a powerful look at boundaries in real time — how to set them, communicate them, and hold them, even when it's uncomfortable. Because the truth is, the real negotiation often happens within yourself first. This isn't theory — it's real strategy, real stories, and real moments of choosing courage over comfort. If you've ever struggled to advocate for yourself, felt stretched too thin, or wondered how successful people make tough calls with confidence — this episode will change how you show up in your next conversation.
The future you're building is scaring the people around you — and that's exactly why you feel stuck You're not stuck because you lack vision — you're stuck because the system fears the future you're trying to build. In this powerful conversation, futurist and strategist Hussein Hallak joins Kwame Christian to unpack what it really takes to lead when the future is uncertain, the past is pulling you back, and the system resists every step you take. We dive deep into: Why most people live according to decisions they made 10 years ago How to reclaim your narrative and stop outsourcing your future The real reason leaders burn out when trying to create change How AI is accelerating faster than we can psychologically handle What to do when your organization isn't ready for your vision This episode is for you if you're building something that doesn't exist yet — and you're tired of asking for permission to do it. husseinhallak.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You're not being ignored because your ideas are bad — you're being ignored because your delivery is forgettable. Buy the book: Speak, Memorably: The Art of Captivating an Audience by Bill McGowan In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist and communication coach Bill McGowan joins Kwame Christian to expose the hidden mistakes even smart professionals make when they speak. From meetings to pitches, presentations to interviews, you're probably missing key moments to influence — and you don't even realize it. You'll learn: Why “winging it” is sabotaging your credibility The 3 parts of a message your audience always remembers How to craft punchy openings, unforgettable closings, and sticky metaphors What “theftosterone” is — and how to protect your ideas from being stolen The truth about authenticity (and why faking it isn't always bad) Whether you're a leader, speaker, or content creator, this episode will sharpen the way you speak — forever. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or frustrated at work — this is the episode that changes how you play the game. In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the uncomfortable, often unspoken art of managing up — and why most people get it wrong. From reframing your boss as your “most important customer” to navigating toxic leadership and workplace conflict, this episode delivers practical, real-world strategies you can actually use. You'll hear powerful insights on how to: Influence your boss without triggering defensiveness Turn frustration into productive, business-focused conversations Address toxic behavior—whether it's your manager or a difficult colleague Speak up early (before problems spiral) and reclaim your power at work Navigate high-stakes conversations—even in remote environments This episode goes beyond theory. It's about mindset shifts, courageous conversations, and the reality that sometimes, the most powerful move isn't changing your boss — it's changing how you show up. Because at the end of the day, managing up isn't about control. It's about clarity, strategy, and knowing when to stand your ground.
We don't get dopamine at the finish line — we get it in the chase. Which means every goal you're killing yourself to reach is quietly wired to disappoint you the moment you arrive. Jess Ekstrom found this out the hard way. She scaled Headbands of Hope to millions in revenue, got acquired, hit the Inc. 500 — and felt nothing within minutes. Her new book, Making It Without Losing It, is the framework she built from the wreckage of that realization. Connect with Jess jessekstrom.com Buy the Book Making it Without Losing It by Jess Ekstrom Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
This episode is a special reverse interview. Kwame was invited onto Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby's Love, Happiness and Success podcast, where she turned the tables and dug into the psychology, personal history, and hard-won inner work that built the negotiation expert you know from this feed. If you've ever wondered who taught the teacher — this is that conversation. Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LP, LMFT is a licensed psychologist, therapist, and relationship coach whose work lives at the intersection of emotional intelligence and real, lasting change. She asked the questions most podcast hosts don't think to ask. The result is one of the most honest, personal episodes Kwame has ever recorded. Listen to the Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, world-renowned chef and entrepreneur Robert Irvine reveals the turning point that changed his leadership forever. He built his empire through grit and command — but it wasn't until he embraced empathy that everything truly leveled up. Robert shares the raw, behind-the-scenes lessons that reshaped how he leads people, grows businesses, and connects in high-stakes negotiations. If you think success is just about pushing harder, this conversation will flip that idea on its head. chefirvine.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They judge you in milliseconds — before you say a single word. And if your presence doesn't match your message, you're not just being ignored — you're being dismissed. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with presence expert Evan Weiner to explore the hidden science behind how people experience you — and why that can instantly boost or sabotage your power in negotiation, leadership, and life. From physical presence and aesthetic identity to the neuroscience of dopamine and status, you'll learn: Why your style, posture, and polish matter more than you think How to build presence that defends your reputation and commands respect The surprising way your body language could be creating “communication dissonance” What to do today to become instantly more persuasive — without changing who you are If you've ever felt like people don't take you seriously — or don't listen no matter how well you speak — this episode will shift the way you show up forever. Connect with Evan Weiner www.evangweiner.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the hardest part of negotiation isn't the other person — but the story you're telling yourself? In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, two expert perspectives reveal how identity, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence shape every conversation you have. Columbia professor Beth Fisher-Yoshida shares how slowing down, asking better questions, and resisting snap judgments can transform conflict into connection. Then, negotiation strategist Glenn explores why your identity — who you choose to be in the moment — is your greatest advantage. It's not just about tactics; it's about showing up with clarity, empathy, and intention. You'll learn: Why curiosity outperforms confrontation How your internal narratives drive your outcomes When to push forward—and when to walk away This episode isn't just about negotiating better deals — it's about becoming a better communicator in every part of your life. Because how you show up changes everything.
Most high achievers don't have a skills problem. They have a belief problem — and the scariest part? The very belief that made them successful is often the one quietly holding them back. Muriel Wilkins is an executive coach with over 20 years of experience, co-founder of Paravis Partners, host of the Coaching Real Leaders podcast, and author of Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs That Limit Your Potential. She has coached some of the most accomplished leaders in the corporate world — and what she keeps finding is that the ceiling isn't strategy. It's a story. Connect with Muriel www.murielwilkins.com www.linkedin.com/in/murielwilkins IG: coachmurielwilkins Buy the Book: Leadership Unblocked: Break Through the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most people are failing at their goals because they've been taught the wrong way to set them. Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller In this transformative episode, Caroline Miller, a leading expert in goal setting and positive psychology, exposes the fatal flaws of the widely accepted SMART goals approach. Caroline reveals the difference between learning goals and performance goals, explains why most people are stuck with "zombie goals," and offers a revolutionary, evidence-backed method for achieving big, life-changing goals. Through powerful stories and actionable insights, she shows you how to cultivate resilience, unlock your true potential, and shield your dreams from those who unknowingly sabotage them. This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to achieve their biggest ambitions without falling into the trap of mediocrity. Connect with Caroline Buy Now: Big Goals: The Science of Setting Them, Achieving Them, and Creating Your Best Life by Caroline Miller www.carolinemiller.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Andy Henriquez turned a rejected job application into a masterclass in human influence — and the only tool he used was a 30-second story. Andy Henriquez is a business storytelling coach, founder of the Master Storyteller Academy and the Million Dollar Storyteller Mastermind, and a keynote speaker who has trained executives at Google, Accenture, Bacardi, and Pratt & Whitney. He's a protégé of the legendary Les Brown — and in this conversation, he makes a compelling case that storytelling isn't a soft skill; it's the most underutilized negotiation weapon you already own. This is one of those rare episodes where the guest doesn't just talk about their craft — they demonstrate it in real time, and Kwame admits on mic that this conversation fundamentally changed how he shows up as a speaker and negotiator. Connect with Andy Andy's YouTube channel www.fivestoryframework.com Andy's Instagram Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the life you want isn't on the other side of a risky leap — but quietly waiting for you to build it, step by step, right where you are? In this powerful episode, Mitch Matthews shares a refreshingly practical roadmap for turning untapped expertise into real impact — and real income — without burning down your current career. From hustling for his first dream job at 13 to building a thriving coaching and speaking business, Mitch reveals how small, strategic actions can unlock massive transformation over time. Together, we unpack the myth of the “all-or-nothing” entrepreneurial leap and replace it with something far more sustainable: a repeatable system for building authority, income, and fulfillment on your own terms. You'll learn why most professionals aren't burnt out — but bored out, how just 15 minutes a day can reignite purpose and momentum, and why your “everyday knowledge” might be your most valuable (and overlooked) asset. We also dive deep into the psychology of decision-making, the role of negotiation in shaping your career path, and the hidden leverage of building something on the side — even before it generates revenue. Mitch introduces his “Authority Bridge” framework, a step-by-step approach that helps professionals grow a side mission into a meaningful income stream — sometimes even opening unexpected doors within their current roles. Whether you're craving more impact, more income, or simply more meaning in your work, this conversation will challenge how you think about risk, growth, and what's truly possible. In this episode, you'll discover: Why “steps of faith” beat blind leaps every time The difference between burnout and boredom — and how to fix both How to turn your existing skills into a profitable side venture The simple “sequence” most people miss when trying to monetize their expertise How building authority on the side can strengthen — not threaten — your current career This isn't about escaping your life. It's about expanding it — with intention, clarity, and confidence. FREE WORKSHOP:Listeners can find it at: //www.mitchmatthews.com/time. It's $97 but you can use the coupon code NEGOTIATE to get it for FREE! https://members.matthewstraininginternational.com/next-chapter Connect with Mitch Matthews Podcast: Dream Think Do Website: MitchMatthews.com Program: Authority Bridge
What if the biggest mistake in your next negotiation isn't what you say—but when you say it? In this masterclass episode, Negotiate Anything pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood—and most high-stakes—moments in your career: the conversation that determines your value. From first impressions to final offers, you'll hear how elite negotiation minds approach the same challenge from radically different angles—and how you can build a strategy that actually works for you. Join host Kwame Christian as he sits down with top experts to break down the psychology, strategy, and subtle language shifts that can mean the difference between leaving money on the table and commanding the offer you deserve. Learn how to master the infamous “tell me about yourself,” navigate early salary questions without losing leverage, and deploy powerful tactics like anchoring, deflection, and strategic repetition—all while staying gracious, confident, and in control. You'll also uncover: Why “no numbers until they love you” can transform your negotiating power The simple phrasing shift that instantly elevates your perceived value How to structure a counteroffer that can add tens of thousands to your salary The hidden role of tone, timing, and emotional discipline in high-stakes conversations This isn't theory—it's real-world negotiation, broken down step by step. And with multiple expert perspectives, you'll gain the clarity to craft your own approach—because success doesn't look the same for everyone. If you've ever second-guessed your worth, stumbled through a high-pressure conversation, or wondered how top performers consistently get more—this episode will change how you negotiate, forever.
What if the real reason money conversations feel so uncomfortable… has nothing to do with money at all? In this Masterclass Episode, we unpack the deeply emotional, psychological, and relational layers behind how we talk about money — and why so many of us avoid it. Through powerful conversations with financial experts and real-life stories, you'll discover that money isn't just numbers — it's identity, upbringing, fear, love, and everything in between. From understanding your “financial blueprint” to navigating conflict with partners who see money completely differently, this episode reveals why even the smartest, most successful people struggle with financial conversations — and how to change that. You'll learn how childhood experiences shape your money habits, why empathy beats judgment every time, and how shifting from “my way vs. your way” to “our way” can transform relationships. We also dive into the hidden dynamics of shame, blame, and self-worth — and introduce practical tools to help you build confidence, communicate clearly, and negotiate not just for more money, but for a richer, more aligned life. Whether you're navigating finances with a partner, preparing for a high-stakes negotiation, or simply trying to feel more in control of your financial future — this episode will challenge how you think about money and give you a new way forward. Because mastering money conversations isn't about having the right answers — it's about asking better questions, starting with yourself.
When a negotiation catches you off guard, the real battle isn't with the other person — it's with your own mind. Buy the Book Sharp 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company In this eye-opening conversation, cognitive scientist Dr. Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal how to recover quickly, stay calm, and turn unexpected pressure into strategic advantage. Drawing on neuroscience and real-world stories, they break down why your brain freezes under stress — and how simple techniques can help you think sharper, react smarter, and protect the deal when it matters most. If you want to master emotional resilience and negotiate like a true pro, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Therese Huston theresehuston.com Buy the Book - Sharp - 14 Simple Ways to Improve Your Life with Brain Science Follow Therese on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Damon West, Coffee Bean author & ex-felon sentenced to 65 years, reveals the 4-word message from a jail cell that flipped a life sentence into a global movement — and the exact mindset that can do the same for your hardest negotiations. Connect with Damon damonwest.org Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
From sleeping on the beach to building a billion-dollar empire — this episode proves that adversity isn't the end of your story, it's the beginning of your edge. In this powerful masterclass from Negotiate Anything, you'll hear how top performers across industries transform setbacks into strategic advantage—and how you can do the same. Entrepreneur Shaheen Shahn unpacks the mindset behind mastering negotiation, revealing why success isn't about memorizing tactics, but about showing up with presence, authority, and authenticity. Along the way, he shares hard-earned lessons from surviving adversity, navigating high-stakes business, and turning rejection into rocket fuel. Then, through real-world stories of crisis, competition, and resilience, you'll discover what it truly means to negotiate—not just with others, but with yourself. From managing emotions under pressure to building trust in chaotic situations, this episode breaks down how elite performers stay grounded and decisive when it matters most. Whether you're closing deals, leading a team, or navigating life's toughest conversations, this episode will challenge how you think about influence, confidence, and human connection. Because at the highest level, negotiation isn't about winning—it's about becoming the kind of person others trust to win with.
If you've been pushing hard but feeling empty, this episode will challenge everything you believe about high performance. DJ Vanas — Air Force veteran, member of the Ottawa Nation, and author of The Warrior Within (Penguin Random House) — brings centuries of tribal wisdom into a single, urgent message: you cannot be of service to anyone when you are falling apart. DJ has spoken at Fuqua School of Business at Duke University and Yakima Tribal Jail in the same week. His work spans 574 federally recognized tribes, healthcare systems, military organizations, and Fortune-level business teams. He doesn't teach cutting-edge frameworks — he teaches ancient ones that have been proven under the worst conditions in human history. Connect with DJ Vanas nativediscovery.com Buy the Book: The Warrior Within Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Ben Swire is an organizational consultant, facilitator, and author whose work with Fortune 500 teams, law firms, and schools reveals a hard truth: what passes for "connection" at work is mostly just noise. Water cooler talk. Weekend recaps. Friendly but forgettable. [0:08] Ben has built his entire methodology — called Safe Danger — around a single, deceptively simple idea: real trust only forms when people take small, intentional risks to let others actually know them. And the results are stunning — from IT teams at law firms sharing stories of divorce and addiction to leaders rebuilding their teams after workplace tragedies. In this episode, Kwame and Ben go deep on what curiosity, vulnerability, and psychological safety actually mean — and why most people are only operating at a surface level of all three. Connect with Ben Swire benjaminswire.com Buy the book: Safe Danger Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this engaging episode, Lauren Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies for managing client expectations and aligning goals for successful negotiation outcomes. Techniques for setting clear boundaries and knowing when to part ways with a challenging client. Follow Lauren on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the secret to winning any negotiation isn't what you say—but what you notice about yourself in the moment? In this masterclass episode, we dive deep into the hidden power of curiosity—and how turning inward can completely transform the way you show up in high-stakes conversations. From unpacking the “mental baggage” we bring into every interaction to mastering subtle behavioral cues that influence outcomes, you'll hear how top performers think, feel, and act under pressure. Featuring insights from a clinical psychologist and a former FBI behavioral expert, this episode blends psychology, negotiation strategy, and real-world storytelling to reveal: Why internal curiosity is your greatest negotiation advantage How past experiences silently shape your reactions (and sabotage results) The small, often overlooked behaviors that can make or break a deal Practical ways to stay present, composed, and effective—even in tense conversations The language shift that instantly lowers defenses and builds collaboration This isn't theory—it's a blueprint for becoming more self-aware, more persuasive, and ultimately, more effective in every conversation that matters. Your challenge: Get curious—about your thoughts, your emotions, or your behavior—today. It might just change everything. Because better negotiators don't just understand others… they understand themselves first.
They told us that vulnerability was a flaw — a sign of weakness. But what if the truth is the opposite? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kwame Christian, bestselling author and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, sits down with Jamie Librot, former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of Find Your Gobi. Together, they flip the script on what real strength looks like — exploring why our greatest growth begins the moment we stop pretending to have it all figured out.
Joshua Weiss—co-founder of the Global Negotiation Initiative at Harvard University—explains why your greatest set of facts will always lose to a compelling narrative. Josh has spent years collecting real-world experiences through the Negotiation Stories Project to show how conflict actually works when emotions run deep and the "ivory tower" theories hit the real world. If you've ever felt like your perfectly articulated strategy fell on deaf ears, this masterclass on storytelling and "intelligent failure" is for you. Connect with Joshua Weiss The Negotiation Stories Project: NegotiationStories.net Website: JoshuaNWeiss.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can't do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room. In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI. What you'll learn Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams. Face it till you make it: Bonnie's upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately. Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders). Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now. AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins. Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room. Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside). Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast Connect with Bonnie Buy Bonnie's new book, 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work bonnie-hammer.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Master the secret tactics spies use to win trust and uncover the truth. In this gripping episode, Jeremy Hurewitz, corporate intelligence expert and author of "Sell Like a Spy," reveals the secret persuasion tactics used by the CIA, FBI, and elite intelligence officers. Hurewitz draws on his years of experience working alongside former CIA case officers, FBI negotiators, and counterintelligence experts to share powerful strategies for winning trust, gathering intelligence, and persuading anyone — even when they don't want to share. From the art of elicitation and radical empathy to mastering deception detection and reading people like a book, this episode is packed with real-world spycraft secrets you can use in sales, negotiations, and everyday interactions. Hurewitz also shares jaw-dropping stories of espionage, including how intelligence agents use access agents and covert techniques to gain crucial information. How spies turn targets into traitors — and how you can ethically turn leads into loyal customers. The secret to asking questions that reveal everything without raising suspicion. Why detecting deception is about recognizing red flags — and how to spot them. How to use intelligence techniques to build trust and influence anyone. If you've ever wanted to know how spies get people to reveal their deepest secrets, this episode will show you how to apply the same tactics in your life. Connect with Jeremy Jeremy Hurewitz Buy the Book Sell Like a Spy: The Art of Persuasion from the World of Espionage Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Aaron Calafato — master storyteller, consultant, and creator of the 7 Minute Stories podcast — reveals why showing up as your real self in high-stakes moments is actually a skill you have to train, and exactly how to build it. Aaron has spent 15+ years helping leaders, founders, and sales professionals communicate with genuine confidence. He's built a global audience across Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and Pandora — with zero ads, zero scripts, and zero pretense. Connect with Aaron Calafato www.7minutestoriespod.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the biggest deal you're negotiating… is the one you're making with yourself every single day? In this powerful masterclass episode, we unpack the hidden cost of stress, burnout, and emotional overwhelm—and why pushing harder might actually be the worst strategy you can choose. From the front lines of emergency medicine to the depths of somatic psychology, you'll hear two expert perspectives that will challenge how you think about productivity, performance, and well-being. Dr. Tamara Beckford breaks down the science of burnout—from subtle fatigue to full-blown crisis—and reveals why self-care isn't selfish, it's a strategic advantage. Learn how to advocate for yourself at work, lead with intention, and turn stress management into a measurable ROI for both your career and your organization. Then, somatic psychotherapist Manuela Mischke-Reeds takes you deeper—into the body. Discover why your emotions aren't obstacles to overcome, but intelligent signals to understand. Through the lens of trauma-informed leadership and embodiment, you'll learn how to regulate your nervous system, navigate difficult conversations, and access a level of self-awareness most people never reach. This episode isn't just about managing stress—it's about redefining success, reclaiming control, and making better internal “deals” that actually serve your life. Because if you don't learn how to negotiate with yourself… you might be winning at work, but losing where it matters most.
Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level. In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You'll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic. Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld: Buy the Book: Leading to Thrive: Mastering Strategies for Sustainable Success in Business and Life Follow Klaus Kleinfeld on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube In this episode, you'll learn: The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance. Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter. Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation. Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp. Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose. Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test. #Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines
Mónica Guzmán is a journalist who couldn't even have an honest conversation with her own parents about politics — and she turned that painful personal failure into a methodology that works in boardrooms, courtrooms, and living rooms. Mónica is a bridge-builder journalist, Senior Fellow at Braver Angels, host of A Braver Way podcast, and bestselling author of I Never Thought of It That Way. In this episode, she breaks down the neurological and psychological forces that shut down curiosity at the exact moment you need it most — and gives you a practical framework to stay grounded when every instinct tells you to run, fight, freeze, or fold. Connect with Mónica Guzmán Website / Braver Angels: braveerangels.us Podcast: A Braver Way — available wherever you listen Book: I Never Thought of It That Way Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Resources Mentioned Book: I Never Thought of It That Way — Monica Guzman Book: How Minds Change — David McRaney Book: We Were Made for These Times — Lingo (Black Buddhist nun) Book: American Covenant — Yuval Levin Podcast: A Braver Way with Monica Guzman Concept: Conflict Resilience (CQ) — Bob Bardone [00:21:52] Research: Receptive Language — Julia Minson, Harvard Business School [00:14:00]
Patrick Leddin reveals the negotiation mindset that helped him close a 50/50 book deal with James Patterson — and the one relationship trap that nearly cost him everything. Patrick Leddin is a professor at Vanderbilt University, former U.S. Army Ranger, and co-author of the New York Times bestselling book Disrupt Everything — co-written with James Patterson. He has taught negotiation and leadership for over a decade, and his work has been brought to life as a Franklin Covey course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact. In this episode, Patrick unpacks the surprising link between disruption and negotiation — and why the habits of a positive disruptor make you a sharper negotiator. Connect with Patrick Leddin: Website: patrickleddin.com / disrupteverything.com Buy The Book: Disrupt Everything Community: Share your disruption story at the community page on his website Franklin Covey Course: Disrupt Everything: Innovate for Impact Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most people think negotiation is about winning — but what if that mindset is exactly why they keep losing? In this masterclass episode, you'll hear three expert perspectives that completely reframe how negotiation actually works — from high-level strategy to real-world legal battles to the future of human communication. The common thread? The best negotiators aren't the most aggressive — they're the most curious, self-aware, and trust-driven. You'll discover why asking questions is more powerful than making arguments, how trust directly impacts profitability, and why most professionals are unknowingly leaving value on the table. From uncovering hidden variables in complex deals to navigating emotional clients and high-stakes disputes, this episode breaks down what separates average negotiators from elite performers. You'll also learn: Why curiosity — not confidence — is the real negotiation superpower How trust reduces friction, cost, and conflict in any deal The hidden role of emotion and irrational behavior in decision-making How to build relationships that turn into long-term leverage Why most organizations fail without a clear negotiation strategy How to balance collaboration vs. competition in real-world scenarios The overlooked communication skills that will define success in the future Whether you're closing deals, managing conflict, or simply trying to communicate more effectively, this episode gives you a practical blueprint to negotiate smarter — not harder. Because negotiation isn't about dominating the other side — it's about understanding them better than anyone else.
In this enlightening episode of "Negotiate Anything," host Kwame Christian sits down with expert Jack Schafer to explore the intricate dynamics of deception and how it fits into the broader context of negotiation and human interaction. Schafer, with his extensive background in law enforcement and behavioral analysis, shares insights into understanding deception not merely as a negative influence, but as a complex element of communication. The discussion covers the art of deception detection and techniques to manage conversations where dishonesty is present, emphasizing empathetic and respectful approaches that maintain relationships. Listeners are equipped with innovative techniques that integrate strategic questioning, observation of non-verbal cues, and ways to make people feel respected and valued, which can transform the negotiation landscape. What will be covered: Techniques to detect deception through behavioral and verbal cues. The use of elicitation in negotiations to gain truthful information without direct confrontation. Strategies to handle deception while preserving relationships in negotiations. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Why do smart, successful people feel trapped in constant busyness? In this episode, Dorie Clark — author of The Long Game — joins Kwame Christian to reveal why thinking long-term feels almost impossible in a world that rewards urgency. They explore the psychology of busyness, how scarcity rewires our decisions, and what it takes to find courage, patience, and joy in the process — even when the world keeps screaming “faster.” In this episode: Why “I'm busy” has become the new humble brag The emotional roots of scarcity and overwork How to build meaning instead of chasing more The courage required to think long-term What AI and technology mean for the future of communication Connect with Dorie dorieclark.com Buy the Book: THE LONG GAME How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next? In this powerful conversation, emotional recovery coach Louize Yafai shares how she rebuilt her life after losing everything — her marriage, her company, and her sense of self. From surviving financial and emotional abuse to helping others turn pain into strength, Louize reveals the mindset shifts and daily actions that transform suffering into resilience. You'll learn: How to rebuild confidence when you've hit rock bottom The secret power of changing your inner language Why self-compassion isn't weakness — it's strategy How hidden personal struggles silently shape workplaces and leadership Whether you're healing from heartbreak, burnout, or loss, this episode will show you that your lowest point can become your turning point. Connect with Louize www.louizecoaching.co.uk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he's learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world's largest source of information. Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives. If you've ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it. Connect with Jimmy Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Gaslighting isn't just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader. Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks: The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being If you've ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What do you do when a high-stakes negotiation turns aggressive? In this episode, Ken Sterling—EVP at BigSpeak, USC professor, and legendary dealmaker—reveals why the loudest person in the room is often the least dangerous. Ken grew up on the rough streets of New York, where he learned that negotiation wasn't just a business skill; it was a survival tactic. He shares a harrowing story of surviving a literal gun to his head at age 15 by using the very principles of leverage and influence he uses to close multi-million dollar deals today. If you want to move from "amygdala hijack" to a position of absolute calm, Ken's TILT Framework is your roadmap. Connect with Ken Sterling: Website: BigSpeak.com Book: Tilt: Trust, Influence, Leverage & Timing LinkedIn: Ken Sterling Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the biggest thing holding you back in negotiations isn't your strategy — but your mindset? In this powerful masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we bring together multiple expert voices to unpack what really drives success in negotiation—and why confidence, belief, and ambition often matter more than tactics alone. You'll hear from Wies Bratby, founder of Women in Negotiation, whose clients have achieved an average 93% salary increase, alongside business coaches and legal experts who reveal how mindset shifts, communication skills, and relationship-building can transform your career and life. This episode goes far beyond surface-level tips. It dives into: Why most people aim too low—and how to start asking for what you actually deserve The hidden impact of underpayment and how to reposition your value How confidence, not just competence, drives breakthrough results The role of networking, collaboration, and an abundance mindset in long-term success Practical ways to set boundaries and navigate difficult conversations with clarity You'll also learn why negotiation isn't just about money—it's about identity, self-worth, and the courage to step into bigger opportunities. If you've ever hesitated to ask for more, avoided a tough conversation, or questioned your value, this episode will challenge your thinking and give you the tools to move forward with intention. Because at the end of the day, the best opportunities aren't given—they're negotiated.
What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It's messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you've heard. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders never talk about. Cas and Mike pull back the curtain on entrepreneurship's harshest realities, sharing: How embracing brutally tough conversations transformed their business (and marriage). The secret mindset shifts that separate those who rise from those who burn out. Why falling in love with the hardest parts of your journey can become your ultimate competitive edge. This isn't just another success story. It's an honest look at the intense emotional cost that comes with high-stakes entrepreneurship—and a masterclass in how to survive the darkest moments of building something great. If you're grinding day after day, wondering why success still feels impossibly far away, this episode offers the reset and insights you never knew you needed. Welcome to the real journey. It's time to start shoveling. Hit play now, and discover what success truly costs. Buy The Book: Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story About the Entrepreneur's Messy Path to Success Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You can have the best facts in the world, but if you're a bad storyteller, your message will never land. In this special Masterclass edition of Negotiate Anything, we go deep into the art and science of Storytelling. You'll hear from two experts with completely different lenses: Allegra Salomon, an award-winning fiction writer, and John Moore, a master of LinkedIn communication and IT marketing. Whether you are writing a book, prepping a keynote, or trying to win a deal on LinkedIn, these strategies will help you move from being "just another voice" to being truly unforgettable. Connect With Allegra Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/there-s-nothing-left-for-you-here-allegra-solomon/7c35def4fe3bc669?ean=9781961897441&next=t Website: https://www.allegra-solomon.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goldengxl/?hl=en Connect with John Moore Follow John on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Conflict doesn't have to break relationships—it can actually strengthen them when handled the right way. In this masterclass episode of Negotiate Anything, we explore the art and strategy of building rapport in even the most difficult conversations. Featuring insights from experts across law, business, and high-stakes negotiation, this episode reveals why connection—not control—is the real key to influence. You'll learn how top negotiators stay composed in tense situations, use curiosity to uncover what's really driving conflict, and ask the kinds of questions that make people feel heard and understood . From emotionally charged disputes to everyday workplace friction, the ability to build rapport can completely shift the outcome. But rapport alone isn't enough. This episode also dives into the balance between empathy and strength—when to collaborate, when to hold firm, and how to position yourself strategically without damaging the relationship. Whether you're navigating tough conversations at work or looking to sharpen your communication skills, this episode will give you practical tools you can use immediately.
Narcissists don't negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You'll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and beyond. Whether you're navigating divorce, workplace conflict, or family drama, this episode offers practical tools to handle narcissists with confidence, clarity, and control. If you've ever felt powerless with a toxic person, this is your roadmap to take your power back. Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Rebecca's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the reason you're being overlooked isn't your performance — but your relationships? In this masterclass episode, we unpack the uncomfortable truth most high achievers avoid: doing great work isn't enough. If you've ever watched less qualified colleagues rise faster, felt invisible in meetings, or wondered why your career isn't matching your effort, this conversation will hit home. Featuring insights from relational intelligence expert Ronen Olshansky and leadership veteran Mark Miller, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about networking, influence, and leadership. You'll discover why “networking” feels fake (and how to fix it), how small acts of generosity can transform your career trajectory, and the mindset shifts that turn relationships into your greatest competitive advantage. We go beyond surface-level tactics and dive into: The hidden reason top performers get passed over — and how to change it How to build authentic, strategic relationships without feeling transactional Why asking for help is actually a powerful act of leadership The concept of “co-elevation” and how to create a network that actively lifts you The leadership habits that multiply your influence — both in conversations and in life Whether you're a heads-down operator ready to step into leadership, or a seasoned professional looking to deepen your impact, this episode gives you a clear, practical roadmap to stop being overlooked — and start being remembered. Because success isn't just about what you do. It's about who you bring with you — and who's willing to speak your name when you're not in the room.
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