"Negotiate Anything" is the #1 negotiation podcast in the world, celebrated with over 10 million downloads, hundreds of 5-star reviews, and a global audience from +180 countries. Negotiation is the ultimate problem solving tool, allowing you to not only get better deals, but to also have better relationships. Our podcast dives deep into the art of negotiation. Hosted by lawyer, bestselling author, and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute , Kwame Christian Esq., M.A., each episode is a transformative journey that equips listeners to confidently navigate challenging conversations with negotiation and communication experts around the globe. Listeners learn to balance assertiveness with empathy, building trust while setting boundaries and managing emotions. As in the bustling business world, exceptional negotiation skills can be the differentiator, our episodes are tailored to give you that unique advantage. But it's not just about transactions or business discussions. "Negotiate Anything" emphasizes that life itself is a series of negotiations. Whether you're deliberating with a tough client, discussing terms with a new partner, or navigating personal relationships, our show promises invaluable insights. Prepare to immerse in practical scenarios, absorbing techniques that don't just improve your negotiation prowess but also elevate your career and personal life. At The American Negotiation Institute, we believe the best things in life are on the other side of difficult conversations. And our goal is to change the world, one difficult conversation at a time. So, tune in, and empower yourself with the tools to negotiate anything, anywhere. Produced by the American Negotiation Institute Part of the LinkedIn Podcast Network About the host: Kwame Christian is a business attorney, best-selling author, and Founder & CEO of the American Negotiation Institute (ANI), a global consulting firm that specializes in negotiation and conflict resolution. Recognized as one of the world's top negotiation experts, Kwame gained prominence after his viral TEDx Talk, Finding Confidence in Conflict, which has garnered over 400,000 views. He has authored two best-selling books, Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life (2020) and How to Have Difficult Conversations About Race: Practical Tools for Necessary Change in the Workplace and Beyond (2022). He is also a regular contributor to Forbes. Kwame is also the host of Negotiate Anything, the world's #1 negotiation podcast, which has attracted more than eight million downloads and listeners in over 180 countries since its inception in 2016. He has taught negotiation, communication, and mediation advocacy at the university level, including The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law, the country's top-ranked law school dispute resolution program. Kwame earned his law degree, masters in public policy, and bachelors in psychology from The Ohio State University. He was the winner of the John Glenn College Young Alumni Award (2020) and Moritz College Outstanding Recent Alumnus Award (2021), making him the only person in the university's history to win alumni awards in consecutive years from both the law school and the masters of public affairs program. He was also named among Columbus' 2022 40 Under 40 award recipients. In addition to his accomplishments, Kwame is a practicing attorney, working with businesses and their owners to secure better deals, solve complex problems, and overcome legal challenges. He is also a popular LinkedIn instructor, teaching over a dozen courses with over 600,000 learners taking his courses. Outside the professional sphere, Kwame is a devoted family man and proud father of two boys. An avid chess enthusiast, he has played over 20,000 games and earned a ranking in the 99th percentile on Chess.com.
What if you could turn every difficult conversation into an opportunity for connection and understanding? In this episode, Kwame Christian is invited by Melina Palmer, host of The Brainy Business podcast and instructor at Texas A&M University's Human Behavior Lab, to give a special guest lecture on the psychology of negotiation. Kwame breaks down his Compassionate Curiosity Framework — a simple, science-backed approach to managing emotions, defusing tension, and creating better outcomes in both business and life. You'll learn how to: Stay calm and effective under pressure Use empathy as a strategy (not just a feeling) Handle difficult personalities — even bullies Set boundaries without escalating conflict Turn emotional conversations into productive solutions This class blends behavioral science, emotional intelligence, and real-world negotiation strategies into one powerful lesson. If you've ever wished you could stay in control when conversations get tough — this episode is for you. Get the first chapter of any of Melina's books for free: www.thebrainybusiness.com/ANI Buy the Book "HOW TO APPLY BEHAVIORAL ECONOMICS SO CUSTOMERS BUY": https://thebrainybusiness.com/pricing-book/ https://www.amazon.com/Truth-About-Pricing-Behavioral-Economics/dp/1684813433 Follow Melina Palmer on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinapalmer/ The Brainy Business https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinapalmer/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
This special masterclass brings together three of the world's leading voices on communication, psychology, and leadership to explore one of life's most essential skills — how to have difficult conversations. Harvard's Sheila Heen unpacks the power of shifting from blame to contribution and shows how understanding power and intent can transform conflict into collaboration. Psychologist Dr. Lara Pence reveals how internal curiosity and emotional self-awareness shape every negotiation and help us stay grounded when tensions rise. Finally, Kenji Yoshino offers a framework for addressing the most complex identity and justice conversations of our time, teaching us how to cultivate curiosity, disagree respectfully, and apologize authentically. Across these three masterclass episodes, you'll learn how to listen deeply, speak bravely, and lead conversations that heal, connect, and create real change — at work, at home, and in society. Featured episodes Harvard's Sheila Heen Reveals Why We're All Negotiating the Wrong Way - Sheila Heen — Harvard Law School Professor & Co-Author of Difficult Conversations Becoming a Better Negotiator Through Curiosity With Lara Pence, PsyD, MBA-Dr. Lara Pence — Clinical Psychologist & Mindset Consultant for Spartan Race Mastering Conversations: Say the Right Thing with Kenji Yoshino - Kenji Yoshino — NYU Law Professor & Co-Author of Say the Right Thing: How to Talk About Identity, Diversity, and Justice
In this episode, Jimmy Wales, the founder of Wikipedia, joins Kwame Christian to explore one of the biggest challenges of our time: the collapse of trust. From misinformation and social media outrage to AI deepfakes and short-term thinking, Jimmy shares what he's learned about truth, integrity, and human connection after decades shaping the world's largest source of information. Discover why trust is disappearing—from our politics to our personal relationships—and what it actually takes to rebuild it. This conversation dives deep into how algorithms shape what we believe, how technology manipulates emotion, and how each of us can bring honesty and balance back into our lives. If you've ever felt that the Internet is dividing us more than connecting us, this episode will change how you see the digital world—and what you can do about it. Connect with Jimmy Buy the book The Seven Rules of Trust: A Blueprint for Building Things That Last by Jimmy Wales Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They judge you in milliseconds — before you say a single word. And if your presence doesn't match your message, you're not just being ignored — you're being dismissed. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with presence expert Evan Weiner to explore the hidden science behind how people experience you — and why that can instantly boost or sabotage your power in negotiation, leadership, and life. From physical presence and aesthetic identity to the neuroscience of dopamine and status, you'll learn: Why your style, posture, and polish matter more than you think How to build presence that defends your reputation and commands respect The surprising way your body language could be creating “communication dissonance” What to do today to become instantly more persuasive — without changing who you are If you've ever felt like people don't take you seriously — or don't listen no matter how well you speak — this episode will shift the way you show up forever. Connect with Evan Weiner www.evangweiner.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In honor of Veterans Day, we bring you a special three-part masterclass celebrating the power of service, courage, and communication. Each guest — a distinguished leader shaped by the military experience — reveals a different side of what it means to lead and connect in complex times. Dr. Heiss Gibson explores humility and trust in the age of artificial intelligence, showing why the best leaders never stop learning. Michèle Flournoy takes us inside the rooms where history was made, from the Bin Laden raid to the cultural transformation of the Pentagon, revealing how strategy and empathy coexist under pressure. Finally, Brian Ahearn shares a deeply personal journey of reconciliation with his father, a Vietnam veteran, proving that influence and healing often begin with one honest conversation. Together, these stories remind us that true leadership isn't about rank or power — it's about service, humanity, and the conversations that move us forward. The One Thing Smart Leaders Miss About AI: Professor Hise Gibson — Retired U.S. Army Colonel & Professor at Harvard Business School High Stakes Negotiation: How to Win With Persuasion with Michèle Flournoy -Former U.S. Under Secretary of Defense for Policy Brian Ahearn: The Hard Talks We Avoid—And Why We Need Them Brian Ahearn — Chief Influence Officer at Influence PEOPLE & Author of His Story, My Story, Our Story
Why do smart, successful people feel trapped in constant busyness? In this episode, Dorie Clark — author of The Long Game — joins Kwame Christian to reveal why thinking long-term feels almost impossible in a world that rewards urgency. They explore the psychology of busyness, how scarcity rewires our decisions, and what it takes to find courage, patience, and joy in the process — even when the world keeps screaming “faster.” In this episode: Why “I'm busy” has become the new humble brag The emotional roots of scarcity and overwork How to build meaning instead of chasing more The courage required to think long-term What AI and technology mean for the future of communication Connect with Dorie dorieclark.com Buy the Book: THE LONG GAME How to Be a Long-Term Thinker in a Short-Term World Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Welcome to the Sales Masterclass — a powerful three-part series designed to help you master the art of persuasion, influence, and closing high-stakes deals. In these episodes, you'll go far beyond basic sales tactics. You'll learn how to: Build instant trust without sounding salesy. Uncover what truly motivates your clients to say yes. Handle objections with confidence and strategy. Close deals that create long-term relationships, not one-time wins. Whether you're an entrepreneur, consultant, or professional negotiator, this masterclass will help you understand human behavior at a deeper level and use that insight to sell with integrity and impact. Episode 1: The Psychology of Persuasion Episode 2: Influence Without Manipulation Episode 3: Closing the Deal with Confidence Subscribe and turn on notifications so you don't miss any part of this series. Each episode builds on the last.
What if the key to success in business wasn't strategy or money — but humanity? In this powerful conversation, Neri Karra — author, entrepreneur, and refugee turned global business leader — shares her remarkable journey from fleeing Bulgaria at age 11 to building an international fashion brand and teaching at top universities. Neri opens up about resilience, ambition, and faith — and reveals the negotiation and leadership lessons she learned from immigrant entrepreneurs around the world. From rebuilding a life with nothing to creating a company rooted in empathy, this episode is a masterclass on how humanity can drive business, connection, and success. You'll learn: How to turn rejection into opportunity Why resilience and faith are the true engines of ambition The secret negotiation strategies of immigrant entrepreneurs How empathy and storytelling create lasting trust in business If you've ever wondered how to lead with both strength and compassion — this episode will change the way you see success. Connect with Neri Buy the Book -Pioneers: 8 Principles of Business Longevity from Immigrant Entrepreneurs www.pioneersbook.com
We think of deception as evil — but in negotiation, it's often something else. It's protection, survival, or strategy. In this masterclass on deception in negotiation, experts break down how lies actually work, why people distort the truth, and how to uncover what's really being said beneath the surface. You'll discover the psychology of manipulation, the signals of half-truths, and the emotional intelligence required to navigate gray zones without losing trust or power. This is not about spotting liars — it's about understanding human behavior when the truth is dangerous. In this masterclass you'll learn: Why deception appears in almost every negotiation. The difference between strategic silence and manipulation. How to protect yourself without becoming cynical. How trust and control coexist in high-stakes conversations. The subtle art of detecting intent — not just facts. This bundle includes three conversations: The Psychology of Deception: Why We Lie Reading the Hidden Signals: What's Not Being Said The Ethics of Deception: Trust, Strategy, and Survival If you've ever wondered how much truth is really being negotiated — this is your answer.
Everyone feels fear before a negotiation — fear of rejection, failure, or not being good enough. In this 3-part masterclass, three powerful conversations reveal how to turn that fear into clarity, confidence, and control. You'll learn how experts face internal resistance, imposter syndrome, and emotional pressure — and use those same fears to gain power at the table. Chapters include: Fear of being seen Fear of losing Fear of not being enough Watch till the end — your mindset about fear (and negotiation) will never be the same.
Most people use AI wrong — and that mistake is already costing them deals. In this episode, negotiation expert Keld Jensen reveals how to actually use artificial intelligence to gain an edge at the table — from preparation and simulation to emotional intelligence and trust-building. Discover how negotiators who embrace AI are not becoming less human, but more effective, faster, and more honest. Learn how AI can: Prepare you in seconds instead of hours Simulate your next negotiation before it happens Decode emotions and behavior from your counterpart's messages Strengthen transparency, confidence, and collaboration Help you avoid the biggest mistakes people make when prompting Connect with Keld Jensen Buy the Book - The Smart Negotiator: Unlocking the Power of AI and Human Insight in Effective Deal-Making by Keld Jensen keldjensen.com Keld Jensen's store Keld Jensen has trained leaders in more than 60 countries and written 27 books on negotiation, including The Smart Negotiator. In this powerful conversation with Kwame Christian, they explore how AI is redefining trust, truth, and the future of human connection in business. Watch now to learn the right way to use AI in negotiation — before it replaces you. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
People wait until they feel ready to change — but what if that moment never comes? In this powerful conversation, Doug Bopst shares how hitting rock bottom led him to rebuild his life, one small step at a time. From addiction and a prison sentence to becoming an award-winning trainer and author, Doug's story is proof that transformation doesn't start with confidence — it starts with action. Join Kwame Christian as they talk about discipline, self-worth, and the mindset that turns pain into purpose. If you've ever doubted your ability to change, this episode will remind you: you don't have to be ready — you just have to start. Connect with Doug YouTube Channel: @dougbopst1 IG: @dougbopst The Adversity Advantage Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Listen to learn: How to rebuild your life after failure Why consistency matters more than motivation The mindset that turns rock bottom into a foundation for growth
When life shatters everything you thought was safe, what do you do next? In this powerful conversation, emotional recovery coach Louize Yafai shares how she rebuilt her life after losing everything — her marriage, her company, and her sense of self. From surviving financial and emotional abuse to helping others turn pain into strength, Louize reveals the mindset shifts and daily actions that transform suffering into resilience. You'll learn: How to rebuild confidence when you've hit rock bottom The secret power of changing your inner language Why self-compassion isn't weakness — it's strategy How hidden personal struggles silently shape workplaces and leadership Whether you're healing from heartbreak, burnout, or loss, this episode will show you that your lowest point can become your turning point. Connect with Louize www.louizecoaching.co.uk Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Mahesh Guruswamy — Chief Product and Technology Officer at Kickstarter and author of How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It — sits down with Kwame Christian to reveal the emotional side of leadership no one talks about. Buy the Book: How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It: A Manager's Guide by Mahesh Guruswamy From earning $40,000 in his first tech job to leading global teams, Mahesh learned that success isn't about titles or wealth — it's about courage, gratitude, and making the right call even when it hurts. In this powerful conversation, you'll learn: Why the hardest decisions are often the right ones How to “roll the dice” and take bold career risks The secret to staying grounded in gratitude and perspective Why authenticity—not ambition—is the real mark of leadership If you've ever wondered why success can still feel empty, or why doing the right thing sometimes hurts the most — this episode will give you the clarity you've been looking for. Buy the Book: How to Deliver Bad News and Get Away with It: A Manager's Guide by Mahesh Guruswamy
Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you've ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn't something you're born with — it's something you build, one uncomfortable step at a time. Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu
In this enlightening episode of the Negotiate Anything podcast, host Kwame Christian sits down with self-esteem and relationship expert Natalie Lue. Natalie shares her personal journey of transformation from a chronic people pleaser to a boundary-setting advocate. This conversation dives deep into the intricacies of people pleasing, highlighting how it serves as a barrier to authentic relationships and self-worth. Listeners will gain valuable insights into identifying their own people-pleasing behaviors and the empowering life changes that can result from setting boundaries effectively. In this episode, we cover: How to identify people-pleasing tendencies and their subtle manifestations in daily interactions. The empowering nature of overcoming people pleasing and its positive impact on relationships. A simple technique for distinguishing between actions driven by desire versus obligation. Follow Natalie on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this engaging episode, Lauren Sabo takes the reins to explore negotiation strategies with challenging clients. The conversation delves into the intricacies of managing client expectations, recognizing the characteristics of difficult interactions, and setting effective boundaries in professional relationships. Drawing from both their experiences and professional backgrounds, Christian and Sabo provide listeners with practical insights that transcend the legal industry, applicable to anyone navigating complex client interactions. Listeners are invited to learn the art of deal discovery and enhance their emotional intelligence to foster more successful negotiations. What will be covered: Common traits and characteristics of difficult clients and how to anticipate challenges in negotiations. Strategies for managing client expectations and aligning goals for successful negotiation outcomes. Techniques for setting clear boundaries and knowing when to part ways with a challenging client. Follow Lauren on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They told us that vulnerability was a flaw — a sign of weakness. But what if the truth is the opposite? In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Kwame Christian, bestselling author and CEO of the American Negotiation Institute, sits down with Jamie Librot, former Global Head of Executive Talent Management at JPMorgan and author of Find Your Gobi. Together, they flip the script on what real strength looks like — exploring why our greatest growth begins the moment we stop pretending to have it all figured out.
Money, happiness, and the elusive idea of “enough.” In this conversation, best-selling author Morgan Housel (The Psychology of Money, The Art of Spending Money) shares raw insights on why chasing more rarely leads to fulfillment—and how to rethink the way we use money as a tool for freedom and meaning. Buy the book The Art of Spending Money. Hosted by Kwame Christian, this interview dives deep into: Why more money won't automatically make you happier The hidden cost of comparison and envy How to define “enough” in your own life The difference between knowledge and wisdom (and why most people confuse them) Practical lessons on money, freedom, and decision-making that Morgan learned firsthand Whether you're an investor, entrepreneur, or simply someone who wants to build a healthier relationship with money, this episode will shift the way you think about wealth, success, and happiness. About Morgan Housel: Morgan is the best-selling author of The Psychology of Money and The Art of Spending Money. His writing has shaped how millions of people think about money, risk, and human behavior. Buy the book The Art of Spending Money. https://www.morganhousel.com/aosm Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Every day, you make choices that feel completely your own — but what if they aren't? In this episode, bestselling author Richard Shotton (The Choice Factory, The Illusion of Choice) reveals how small, almost invisible biases shape the way we think, buy, and negotiate. From the words we use to the way we frame decisions, Richard explains how psychology quietly steers our behavior — and how you can use this knowledge to persuade, influence, and connect more effectively. Whether you're a negotiator, leader, or simply curious about why humans act the way we do, this conversation will change the way you see decision-making forever. Buy The Choice Factory: 25 behavioural biases that influence what we buy - by Richard Shotton Connect with Richard Shotton www.richardshotton.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Fear, not skill, is what's costing you opportunities at the negotiation table. In this powerful conversation, negotiation experts Kwame Christian and Kathryn Valentine expose the hidden reason most people fail to ask for what they deserve. It's not a lack of strategies — it's the fear of rejection, backlash, or simply starting the conversation. You'll learn: The one simple question that can unlock raises, promotions, and perks instantly. How to turn a “no” into opportunity without burning bridges. Why negotiation isn't about your worth — and what it's really about. The hidden ROI of just five hours a year of negotiation practice (hint: it can be worth $1M+). How fear shows up differently for men and women — and what to do about it. If you've ever walked away from a tough conversation kicking yourself for staying silent, this episode will show you how to step in with clarity, confidence, and courage. Connect with Kathryn Valentine Kathryn Valentine's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Respect isn't soft — it's the sharpest power move in any negotiation. Buy The Book: Leading with Respect: Adventures of an Off-Price Fashion Pioneer: https://www.amazon.com/Leading-Respect-Boardroom-Marcy-Syms/dp/0806544813 Most people think negotiation is about leverage, contracts, and numbers. But Marcy Syms — former CEO of Syms clothing stores and author of Leading with Respect — knows the real power comes from something far deeper: respect. In this conversation, Marcy shares how being underestimated became her secret weapon, why culture can make or break multimillion-dollar deals, and how trust and regard are the hidden currencies behind lasting success. From walking into boardrooms as the youngest woman on the New York Stock Exchange to navigating mergers where culture ate strategy for breakfast, Marcy reveals how respect isn't “soft” — it's the sharpest strategy you can bring to the table. You'll learn: Why being underestimated can give you an edge. How to turn disrespect into leverage in high-stakes negotiations. Why 70% of mergers fail — and how culture and respect could save them. How to walk away from deals (and jobs) that don't honor your values. Whether you're negotiating in business, leadership, or your personal life, this episode will change how you see respect — not as a weakness, but as the ultimate power move. Connect with Marcy Syms marcysyms.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Gaslighting isn't just a relationship issue—it happens at work too. In this powerful conversation, psychotherapist and author Farah Harris opens up about her own painful experience with a toxic hire who weaponized her teachings, blurred boundaries, and tried to undermine her confidence as a leader. Buy The Book: The Color of Emotional Intelligence by Farah Harris Fara's website: www.workingwelldaily.com Together with Kwame Christian, Farah unpacks: The subtle red flags of manipulation and gaslighting in the workplace Why emotionally intelligent leaders are prime targets for toxic behavior How to set healthy boundaries without losing your empathy Practical tools to stay grounded, reclaim your power, and protect your well-being If you've ever left a meeting or conversation feeling drained, confused, or doubting yourself—this episode is for you. Learn how to spot manipulation early, safeguard your leadership, and build healthier professional (and personal) relationships. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Everything you've been told about reducing stress is wrong—and it might be making things worse. In this episode, neuroscientist Rebecca Heiss reveals groundbreaking insights about why trying to eliminate stress at work often backfires. You'll learn the science-backed strategy to turn stress into your greatest professional advantage, how your beliefs about stress directly impact your health and performance, and practical tools you can start using immediately to transform workplace anxiety into lasting resilience. If you're tired of fighting a losing battle against stress, this conversation could change everything. Connect with Rebecca Rebecca's Instagram Rebecca's YouTube Channel Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
I was recently a guest on Codie's show, The Big Deal Podcast, and the episode turned out great. Codie generously let us repost that episode here, so all of you get to hear our conversation about negotiation, deal-making, leadership, entrepreneurship — and yes, relationships too. I know you're going to love it. Without further ado, here's my guest appearance with Codie Sanchez on The Big Deal Podcast. If you're ready to start owning businesses, escaping the rat race, and building your future, all the info is in the description. Get your tickets here https://contrarianthinking.biz/msmkwame and Use code KWAME100 to get a discount.
Most people fail in negotiations because they don't prepare, confuse influence with persuasion, or push when they should pull—Giuseppe Conti, the world's #1 Negotiation Guru, shows you how to avoid these mistakes. Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life Connect with Giuseppe Giuseppe's Website Buy the book Negotiation + Influence = Success: Quick Lessons to Help You Win in Corporate Life Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! In this conversation with Kwame Christian, Giuseppe shares the proven strategies behind his decades of experience teaching negotiation and influence at top universities and advising Fortune 500 companies. What you'll learn in this episode: The critical mindset shift between influencing internally vs. negotiating externally Why lack of preparation is the #1 mistake people make—and how to fix it How to balance anchoring with empathy to strengthen deals and relationships The role of AI as your “smart intern” in negotiation preparation Why making the other party feel satisfied can be as valuable as the deal itself
Why do we keep ending up in toxic relationships — even when we know better? Buy the book Fawning: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with psychologist and trauma therapist Dr. Ingrid Clayton to explore the hidden reason behind this pattern: the fawning trauma response. Ingrid shares how complex trauma rewires the nervous system, why simply “setting boundaries” often doesn't work, and how shame keeps us stuck in cycles of people-pleasing. Together, they unpack the science of safety, what it really takes to break free, and why healing is less about quick tips and more about reconnecting with yourself. If you've ever wondered why saying “no” feels impossible — or why you're drawn to the very relationships that hurt you — this episode will change how you see yourself and your story. Connect with Ingrid BOOK: FAWNING: Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves--and How to Find Our Way Back INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE: https://www.instagram.com/ingridclaytonphd/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3PvWTgJMirURfgHWj3h28g WEBSITE: https://www.ingridclayton.com/ Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The future of work is here — and it's neurodivergent. In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with disability lawyer and neurodiversity advocate Laura Greenberg to explore why embracing neurodiversity is no longer optional — it's a competitive advantage. You'll discover: Why assumption is the risk when it comes to managing people How neurodiversity shapes communication, conflict resolution, and innovation The real reason some body language cues can be misleading — and how to avoid costly misreads How leaders can build psychological safety so everyone can bring their authentic selves to work What happens to companies that fail to adapt (and why Gen Z won't work for them) Whether you lead a team, negotiate deals, or simply want to understand people better, this episode will challenge the way you see communication forever. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Connect with Laura brickergraydon.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if your body is sabotaging your negotiation — and you don't even know it? In this episode, legendary FBI agent and behavioral expert Joe Navarro reveals the subtle cues that expose confidence, weakness, and intent — long before words are spoken. With 25 years in the FBI, Joe shares stories from counterintelligence missions, elite spy-catching operations, and high-stakes negotiations where every movement mattered. You'll learn: – The nonverbal mistake that ruins deals before they start – How to command authority without saying a word – Why “benign curiosity” is the ultimate secret weapon in difficult conversations – The psychological patterns all powerful communicators share Whether you're negotiating with a client, a boss, or a narcissist — this episode will change how you see people… and how they see you. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Connect with Joe Be Exceptional Book Follow Joe on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Colin M. Fisher, author of The Collective Edge: Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups, to explore the hidden psychology of group dynamics. From the dinner table to the boardroom, every group is a negotiation — balancing individual goals with collective success. You'll learn: Why adding more brains to a meeting often creates more problems. The “Goldilocks rule” for group size (and why 4–5 people may be perfect). How psychological safety transforms conflict into collaboration. Practical strategies to prevent disengagement and get real buy-in. How family conflicts mirror team conflicts at work — and how to resolve both. Whether you're leading a team, joining a new group, or navigating tricky family dynamics, this conversation will help you see groups in a whole new way. Connect with Colin M. Fisher colinmfisher.com Buy now: The Collective Edge - Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube
Energy beats strategy — and former Siemens & Alcoa CEO Klaus Kleinfeld reveals the playbook to end burnout, regain focus, and execute at the highest level. In this conversation, Klaus Kleinfeld breaks down why energy management—not tactics—separates elite leaders from exhausted teams. You'll hear how to turn purpose into a “laser,” control emotions under pressure, win buy‑in without formal authority, and build routines that actually stick when life is chaotic. Connect with Klaus Kleinfeld: Buy the Book: Leading to Thrive: Mastering Strategies for Sustainable Success in Business and Life Follow Klaus Kleinfeld on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube In this episode, you'll learn: The Energy Stack: body, mind (emotional + mental), and spirit—and how each fuels performance. Purpose as a Force Multiplier: why purpose focuses energy like a laser and makes hard work feel lighter. Emotion Control Under Fire: observer mindset (“interesting…”), the Buddha “gift” story, and box breathing (4‑4‑4‑4) you can use mid‑negotiation. Beating Burnout with Micro‑Habits: morning training, sleep + light discipline, intermittent fasting, and travel resets that keep leaders sharp. Compartmentalization & Presence: shutting the “monkey mind” to be fully with family or fully at work—on purpose. Buy‑In Without Authority: build a burning platform (competition + customer reality), tell human stories, and pass the “Saturday morning” test. #Leadership #Burnout #HighPerformance #Energy #Purpose #EmotionalIntelligence #Negotiation #ChangeManagement #TeamCulture #KlausKleinfeld #Siemens #Alcoa #CEO #Mindset #Routines
AI can write, edit, even cast—but it still can't do what made TV legend Bonnie Hammer unstoppable: read the room. In this candid conversation with Kwame Christian, Bonnie unpacks the human meta‑skill behind great leadership and negotiation—reading people and context in real time—and how it powered her “Blue Skies” era at USA & SYFY (Monk, Psych, Burn Notice). She shares why “fake it till you make it” fails (and what to do instead), how to hire for humility and team-first culture, why presence matters (“be in the room”), and how to build a spider‑web career that thrives through industry upheaval, streaming shakeups, and the rise of AI. What you'll learn Reading the room: the irreplaceable skill that beats AI and drives better decisions, deals, and teams. Face it till you make it: Bonnie's upgrade to the old career cliché—and how to apply it immediately. Hiring & culture: spotting humility, collaboration, and truth‑tellers (not cheerleaders). Media shifts: streaming, bundling, budget pressure—and what creators should do now. AI & guardrails: what to protect, what to embrace, and where human storytelling wins. Presence & influence: first impressions, listening deeply, and speaking the language of the room. Mentorship that works: why challenging mentors accelerate growth (Barry Diller story inside). Women at work: the most damaging “lie” and how to replace it with actionable strategy. Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube Keywords: Bonnie Hammer, reading the room, negotiation, leadership, team culture, hiring, mentorship, women at work, Blue Skies brand, USA Network, SYFY, Monk, Psych, Burn Notice, streaming strategy, AI in media, presence, career advice, spider‑web career, truth‑teller mentors, Kwame Christian, Negotiate Anything Podcast Connect with Bonnie Buy Bonnie's new book, 15 Lies Women Are Told at Work bonnie-hammer.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most people are doing branding completely backwards — and it's killing their results. In this powerful conversation, global CEO and marketing thought leader Giuseppe Stigliano reveals why everything you thought you knew about branding is wrong, and what to do instead. You'll discover: Why “pushing” your brand no longer works in today's saturated market The shift from making people want things to making things people want How to apply marketing principles to your career, relationships, and personal brand The five steps every human relationship — and every great brand — follows Why trying to be on every platform is a losing game, and the smarter alternative Giuseppe has advised some of the world's top business leaders, co-authored books with Philip Kotler (the father of modern marketing), and his work has reached over 100,000 people worldwide. This episode isn't just about selling products — it's about understanding people, creating real value, and building a brand that attracts without chasing. If you want to stand out in a world drowning in choices, this is your blueprint. Connect with Giuseppe giuseppestigliano.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! folk discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube
Be nice, be invisible—brand leaders pick a strategic enemy and own the category. Buy the book The Strategic Enemy - How To Build & Position a Brand Worth Fighting For. By Laura Ries In this episode, branding strategist Laura Ries (daughter of positioning pioneer Al Ries) breaks down why playing it safe kills momentum, how to define a category you can own, and how the psychology of contrast turns brands into movements. We dig into visual hammers, multi-brand vs. line extensions, and the bold decision to say no so a brand can finally say something. You'll learn: What a strategic enemy is (and isn't)—and why it supercharges word-of-mouth How to choose the right category first, then dominate it with brand The role of a visual hammer (icon, color, shape) in instant recognition Why line extensions backfire—and when a new brand is the winning move How personal branding uses the same rules (signature look, ruthless focus) Why advertising should reinforce, not introduce, a positioning Connect with Laura Buy the book The Strategic Enemy - How To Build & Position a Brand Worth Fighting For. By Laura Ries Laura Ries Website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Discount code "KWAME" gives 30% discount over 3 months TL;DR what is folk? folk is a CRM, and extension, that helps businesses build real relationships and close deals. Why is folk better? folk is simple, integrated, and proactive to use. folk's value proposition? folk CRM does the busy work for you, so you can focus on growing your service business. folk's tagline folk, like the sales assistant your team never had What product details will most excite your audience? • Our seamless integrations with social channels • Our 1-click Enrichment that finds contact details for y ou • Know the best leads to reach out to with AI Follow-up s Useful links & resources • folk's website • folk's Linkedin • Simo, our CEO's, LinkedIn • folk's Youtube
Are you tired of saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with life coach and hypnotherapist Amy Green Smith to unpack the hidden costs of people-pleasing—and how to finally break free. Together, they explore the surprising ways emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal expectations shape your ability to negotiate—whether in the office, at home, or in everyday life. Amy reveals the evolutionary roots of people-pleasing, when it can actually help you, and when it slowly erodes your self-worth. By the end, you'll understand exactly how your self-perception impacts your influence, your relationships, and your overall life satisfaction—and what to do about it. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Connect with Amy https://amygreensmith.com/ Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/ Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast
Everything you've been told about reducing stress is wrong—and it might be making things worse. In this episode, neuroscientist Rebecca Heiss reveals groundbreaking insights about why trying to eliminate stress at work often backfires. You'll learn the science-backed strategy to turn stress into your greatest professional advantage, how your beliefs about stress directly impact your health and performance, and practical tools you can start using immediately to transform workplace anxiety into lasting resilience. If you're tired of fighting a losing battle against stress, this conversation could change everything. Connect with Rebecca Rebecca's Instagram Rebecca's YouTube Channel Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What does it really take to build a $745 million startup from the ground up? Hint: It's messy, painful, and nothing like the glamorous success stories you've heard. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with Cas and Mike Lazerow—the entrepreneurial power couple behind the massive success of Golf.com, which they sold to Time Warner for $745 million. But behind the impressive exit lies a story of relentless struggle, countless pivots, and emotional battles most founders never talk about. Cas and Mike pull back the curtain on entrepreneurship's harshest realities, sharing: How embracing brutally tough conversations transformed their business (and marriage). The secret mindset shifts that separate those who rise from those who burn out. Why falling in love with the hardest parts of your journey can become your ultimate competitive edge. This isn't just another success story. It's an honest look at the intense emotional cost that comes with high-stakes entrepreneurship—and a masterclass in how to survive the darkest moments of building something great. If you're grinding day after day, wondering why success still feels impossibly far away, this episode offers the reset and insights you never knew you needed. Welcome to the real journey. It's time to start shoveling. Hit play now, and discover what success truly costs. Buy The Book: Shoveling $h!t: A Love Story About the Entrepreneur's Messy Path to Success Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most people will never learn what you're about to hear... In this one-hour masterclass, Kwame Christian sits down with Mike Inman — the #1 negotiation trainer who has coached over 8,000 B2B negotiations and closed more than $1 billion in deals. Mike shares raw, practical, and battle-tested advice you can use immediately to transform the way you negotiate. No fluff. No theory. Just one straight hour of negotiation strategies that actually work. If you've ever wondered how world-class negotiators stay calm under pressure, adapt to any situation, and win without destroying relationships, this is your episode. Connect with Mike negotiationtraining.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
If you feel stuck, changing jobs might not be the answer. In this powerful conversation with bestselling author and workplace strategist Elizabeth Lotardo, we uncover the real reason so many professionals feel unfulfilled at work… and what to do about it. Buy The Book: Leading Yourself: Find More Joy, Meaning, and Opportunities in the Job You Already Have (Despite Imperfect Bosses, Weird Economies, Lethargic Coworkers, Annoying Systems, and Too Many Deliverables You'll learn: The mindset shift that can transform your job (without a promotion or raise) How to find meaning, joy, and growth right where you are Why “ownership” might be the most freeing concept of your career The 4-word mental reframe that changes everything If you're tired of waiting for your boss, your company, or your next role to fix things… this episode is your chance to take control — starting today. elizabethlotardo.com Follow Elizabeth Lotardo On LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
The future you're building is scaring the people around you — and that's exactly why you feel stuck You're not stuck because you lack vision — you're stuck because the system fears the future you're trying to build. In this powerful conversation, futurist and strategist Hussein Hallak joins Kwame Christian to unpack what it really takes to lead when the future is uncertain, the past is pulling you back, and the system resists every step you take. We dive deep into: Why most people live according to decisions they made 10 years ago How to reclaim your narrative and stop outsourcing your future The real reason leaders burn out when trying to create change How AI is accelerating faster than we can psychologically handle What to do when your organization isn't ready for your vision This episode is for you if you're building something that doesn't exist yet — and you're tired of asking for permission to do it. husseinhallak.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Your nervous system holds the key to real confidence. You know the moment—your chest tightens, your mind blanks, and you freeze… right when it matters most. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Jay Fields, somatic coach to Fortune 100 leaders and author of Teaching People Not Poses, to unpack the real reason we lose confidence under pressure—and how to stop it. Discover Jay's powerful “Hey, Wait” method to interrupt emotional hijacks, stay grounded in tense conversations, and actually like who you are when the stakes are high. Whether you're negotiating, leading, or trying to stop people-pleasing, this conversation gives you tools your nervous system will thank you for. This isn't mindset fluff—it's embodied change. Connect with Jay jaymoonfields.com Listen to The Hey, Wait Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You've done the work. You've checked every box. But somehow, promotions pass you by, your ideas go unheard, and less qualified people keep rising faster. Why? Because in today's world, connection beats competence. In this episode, you'll learn why being excellent isn't enough—and how to start building the kind of strategic relationships that actually move careers forward. Our guest is a top relationship strategist who has coached leaders around the world on how to turn their network into a true competitive edge. You'll walk away with practical tools to be remembered, respected, and recommended—without ever feeling fake. If your work isn't speaking for itself, maybe it's time to let the right people do the talking. Connect with Ronen Book a call with Ronen Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if everything you believe about homelessness is wrong? In this eye-opening episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Beth Silverman, co-founder of the Lotus Campaign, to reveal the hidden economic drivers behind America's housing crisis — and why traditional charity models often do more harm than good. Discover how Beth has housed over 430 people at less than $1,000 each by building radical partnerships with landlords, nonprofits, and governments. Learn how to overcome resistance, align competing interests, and persuade private sector players to solve public problems. If you're ready to ditch the myths and discover real solutions, this episode is for you. lotuscampaign.org Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Narcissists don't negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You'll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and beyond. Whether you're navigating divorce, workplace conflict, or family drama, this episode offers practical tools to handle narcissists with confidence, clarity, and control. If you've ever felt powerless with a toxic person, this is your roadmap to take your power back. Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Rebecca's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if you could detect a lie without asking a single question? In this episode, we sit down with John R. "Jack" Schafer, a former FBI behavioral analyst and author of The Like Switch, to uncover the elite tools used by the FBI to detect deception—tools you can use in your everyday life. From the subtle power of elicitation to the science behind the word “well,” Dr. Schafer reveals how small signals can expose big lies. You'll learn how to read nonverbal cues, handle omissions, and disarm deception without damaging the relationship. Whether you're negotiating a deal, interviewing a candidate, or just navigating a tough conversation, this episode will change the way you listen, forever. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Think you're in control of what you're saying? Think again. Before you utter a single word, elite negotiators are already reading you — through your posture, your gestures, your tone, your tension. In this episode, Kwame sits down with The Master Negotiator Greg Williams, one of the world's top experts in body language, to reveal the invisible signals that shape the outcome of every negotiation. You'll learn how to spot the hidden meaning behind someone's words, how to time your own message for maximum impact, and how to protect yourself when someone tries to use your own body against you. If you're not reading these signs, you're negotiating blind. Connect with Greg Williams Follow Greg on LinkedIn https://www.themasternegotiator.com/ Free Negotiation Blog by Greg Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the key to changing someone's mind isn't speaking louder—but listening deeper? Buy the Book: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes - by Emily Kasriel In this episode, Kwame sits down with award-winning BBC journalist and executive coach Emily Kasriel, whose revolutionary eight-step framework for deep listening has trained over 1,000 leaders in 119 countries—from IBM executives to British army officers. Together, they dive into the uncomfortable truth: most of us think we're listening... but we're actually just waiting to speak. You'll learn: Why listening doesn't mean agreement—and how this single idea can transform conflict How to disarm defensiveness with one powerful question The neuroscience behind why we shut down during disagreement How deep listening can unlock collaboration, connection, and even persuasion Whether you're dealing with workplace tension, a heated argument at home, or polarized conversations in your community—this episode shows you how to transform pressure into presence, and resistance into real connection. Because the most persuasive people aren't always the ones who speak best… they're the ones who listen like it matters. Connect with Emily www.emilykasriel.com Buy the Book: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes - by Emily Kasriel Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Is vulnerability at work a strength… or a trap? In this eye-opening conversation, best-selling author and leadership expert Jacob Morgan challenges the modern myth of vulnerability in the workplace. Together with Kwame Christian, they unpack the difference between being vulnerable and leading with vulnerability—showing how one can build trust and the other can quietly ruin your credibility. Jacob shares the hard truths he uncovered after interviewing 100 CEOs and surveying over 14,000 employees, and reveals how vulnerability—when paired with competence—can become your most powerful leadership and negotiation tool. You'll learn: Why vulnerability without action can backfire The surprising psychology behind how people receive vulnerability A real-life story of how grief in the middle of a negotiation changed the outcome A simple formula to balance transparency and authority in high-stakes conversations This is not about being soft. It's about being smart. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most leaders focus on results. The best ones focus on people. In this powerful conversation, Kwame Christian sits down with legendary leadership expert Mark Miller — a man who spent over four decades building Chick-fil-A from the inside out — to uncover the truth about what actually makes someone worth following. Forget titles, tactics, and charisma. This episode dives into the five fundamentals of uncommon leadership — including the one thing most leaders ignore: the heart. You'll learn: Why technical skills aren't enough to inspire loyalty How to balance results and relationships without burning out The leadership habit that instantly sets you apart What real courage looks like in tough conversations Why “thinking others first” can change your life and your team If you've ever wondered what separates forgettable bosses from the leaders who change lives, this is the blueprint.
What is trust, really? In this special LinkedIn Live edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian breaks down the psychology behind trust—and why it's so easy to lose but so hard to rebuild. Drawing on research, real-life examples, and audience questions, Kwame explores how trust is more than a strategy—it's a feeling, a positive bias, and a fragile emotional bank account. You'll learn: Why respect, empathy, and safety are the foundations of trust What it means to make “deposits” into a relationship How to rebuild trust after a mistake—or an ethical breach What to do when you're dealing with someone who doesn't trust anyone And how to protect yourself from the dark side of trust Whether you're leading a team, managing clients, or repairing a broken relationship, this episode gives you the practical tools and mindset shifts to build deeper, more resilient trust—one drop at a time Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most conversations fail before they even begin—because nobody sets the rules. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Lewis VanLandingham from Sandler Training to uncover the hidden dynamics behind unmet expectations. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or just trying to have better conversations in life, this episode reveals why clarity up front changes everything. You'll learn how to set clear agreements before the meeting even starts, how to create trust by giving people permission to say no, and how to take the pressure out of every interaction. From prospect meetings to personal relationships, this is the negotiation skill you didn't know you needed. What Will Be Covered The concept and importance of setting expectations in negotiations The role of upfront contracts in sales processes Practical applications of setting expectations in various aspects of life, including sales, meetings, and personal relationships Follow Lewis on LinkedIn goblueriver.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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