Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast

In this deeply moving episode, Mitch and Mills sit down with their client and now colleague, Amelia Gow, to share a moment that shaped her life forever. At just 16 years old, Amelia found out she was pregnant—and made the heartbreaking decision to place her son for adoption. She opens up about what life was like back then, her mother's reaction, the moment she let him go, and the turbulance that followed. Together, they explore the emotional weight of a system that offered little care or communication, and the decades-long ripple effects of that experience. Now, 20 years later, Amelia reflects on meeting her son's parents, reconnecting with her past, and how that journey became a catalyst for her own transformation. This episode is about grief, courage, identity—and the power of choosing healing when life gives you no clear roadmap. Raw. Brave. Unforgettable. Thank-you Amelia for sharing your journey.

In this episode, Mitch and Mills get real, raw, and unfiltered, sharing the biggest life lessons they've learned along the way. Kicking things off with a game of 2 Truths 1 Lie, they put each other (and you) to the test before diving into the experiences that shaped them. They cover:

You have probably heard about the new Netflix series, “Adolescence”, that has got everyone talking. In this episode, Mitch and Mills go beyond the surface chatter about the themes of toxic masculinity and social media and unpack why they think most people completely missed the deeper message of the production. They cover:

In this episode, Mitch and Mills explore the wild world of AI—not just the tech, but how it's reshaping the way we think, feel, and see ourselves. From AI-generated images of Mitch (and the uncanny realism of deepfakes) to the deeper conversation around consciousness, creativity, and fear, they unpack the biggest questions about where we're heading. They dive into:

In this episode, Mitch and Mills break down the key habits that separate the wealthy from everyone else—and no, it's not just about working harder. From who they surround themselves with to how they think about money, they reveal the mindset shifts that lead to long-term success. They cover topics like:

In this episode, Mitch and Mills dive into one of the biggest relationship game-changers—money. How you and your partner handle finances can either build trust or create tension, and social media isn't making it any easier. They break down:

In this episode, Mitch and Mills sit down with Patrick Gavin, CEO and Founder of MUTE Ltd., to unpack his incredible journey from his early days to leading a publicly listed company. MUTE is a global electric e-bike subscription model that is currently operating in 8 countries with over 10,000 members—including 4,000+ in Shanghai alone. MUTE is shaking up the transport industry with a disruptive ‘user-ship' model, removing the hassle of ownership and making electric mobility more accessible. With rapid expansion, MUTE is projected to have over 20,000 members by the end of 2025. Patrick shares: How his upbringing shaped his entrepreneurial mindset: - The journey from startup to scaling internationally - Lessons from taking a company public - The future of mobility and the shift from ownership to ‘user-ship' - His story proves that anything is possible with the right vision, adaptability, and resilience. Find out more about Patrick Davin and MUTE Ltd: patrick.davin@e-mute.com

In this episode, Mitch and Mills dive into the raw and often complicated topic of betrayal. They break down the different types of betrayal—because it's not just about physical affairs—and explore the many ways it can show up in our lives and relationships. The conversation unpacks how unspoken values and unclear agreements create space for betrayal to happen. They discuss the role of values in relationships, how a lack of communication can lead to resentment and confusion, and most importantly, what you need to see in the betrayal to move forward. Whether you're looking for understanding, or a fresh perspective on betrayal, this episode offers powerful insights on how to turn your perception of betrayal into growth. ADD SOCIALS: Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this episode, Mitch and Mills chat with Tiziano Sguerso, a Family Constellation expert, about the hidden patterns shaping our lives. They explore how family dynamics influence relationships, finances, and even health—often repeating across generations. Tiziano introduces the morphogenetic field, revealing how unconscious family connections impact our choices. They dive into:

In this episode, Mitch and Mills tackle the buzzword vulnerability and how it's often misunderstood—especially online. They dive into the difference between genuine vulnerability and the performative kind, where people label themselves as “vulnerable” but are really just putting on a show. The conversation explores what it means to truly be yourself, how openness and authenticity are often mistaken for vulnerability, and how the version of you trying to stay in control might be calling itself “vulnerable.” It's a raw, no-nonsense look at embracing your essence and what it means to show up as your authentic self—without the labels. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this special end-of-year episode, Mitch and Mills are here to help you kick off the new year with some real talk on goal-setting. Instead of the usual “new year, new you” hype, they dive into what it means to set realistic goals and actually make moves toward the life you want. This episode is ideal to listen to before the new year rolls in, to make sure you give yourself time to reflect, plan and prepare for the year ahead! They talk about the power of NOW—staying present and grounded when setting goals so you're not just dreaming but actually moving forward. With practical tips on writing goals, a look at perspective shifts, and a breakdown of SMART goals, this episode is packed with down-to-earth advice to keep you inspired and focused as you step into the new year. Whether you're looking to make big changes or small tweaks, this one's for you! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this episode, Mitch and Mills are joined by Dr. Michael Breus, a renowned sleep expert, to break down the basics of wellness and how simple changes can transform your life. Dr. Breus shares his personal journey from psychologist to sleep expert. They dive into the essentials: sleep, drink, and breathe, covering everything from optimizing your sleep schedule based on your chronotype to building a morning routine that sets you up for success. Dr. Breus shares insights on hydration (think H2O, mineral water, and what's really in your tap), the physiology of breathing, and how most of us could improve the way we breathe. They also touch on biohacking tools like aura rings and tracking devices, the role of melatonin, dream states, and how improving your sleep can change everything. If you're ready to upgrade your wellness game, this episode is a must-listen! Chronoquiz: https://sleepdoctor.com/sleep-quizzes/chronotype-quiz/ to help you discover your ideal sleep type. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this episode, Mitch and Mills share all the highlights from their 3-week adventure through South America, joined by his son, Oliver. Mitch talks about watching Oli's personality come alive on the trip, and they dive into what it was like traveling together and with 30 clients, especially with Oli navigating being away from his mum and finding his stride with his dad by his side. From checking out iconic spots like Machu Picchu and some hidden local gems guided by locals, to even hitting up the Joe Rogan Comedy Club (Mitch was fan girling), they discuss it all. As always, they discuss their learnings, highlights and struggles along the way. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this episode, Mitch and Mills unpack Mitch's journey of recovery after injuring both his wrists and back. Forced to slow down and surrender to the healing process, Mitch shares the challenges and revelations that came with embracing vulnerability and allowing others in. He talks about his experience being rushed to emergency, including his encounter with Ketamine. As Mitch opens up about what he's learned—about himself, about the people around him, and about the importance of letting go—listeners are invited into a raw and honest reflection on resilience, humility, and the unexpected beauty that can emerge from our hardest moments. Join us as we explore how true strength often lies in surrender. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In this episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, hosts Mitch and Mills dive into the world of parenting to explore how you can build resilience in your children through attached parenting. With so much parenting advice out there, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed and confused. Mitch and Mills break down these complexities, offering practical insights to help you make informed decisions. Join us as we discuss the impact of immediate gratification, and how attached parenting can foster emotional strength and resilience. Mitch and Mills provide straightforward advice and share real-world strategies to help you raise confident and resilient kids who are ready to face life's challenges head-on. Tune in for an engaging conversation that cuts through the noise and empowers you with the knowledge you need to nurture your child's development. Don't miss this enlightening episode of Dorothy and the Dealer—subscribe and listen now! Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/

In this insightful episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, hosts Mitch and Mills dive deep into the concept of connection. They explore the dynamics of making genuine connections, discussing the difference between making bids for connection and hotwiring it. Discover how various individuals experience and respond to connection differently, and learn practical strategies for building authentic relationships. Mitch and Mills relate these concepts to a range of relationship types, including romantic partnerships, friendships, and even connections with your children. Whether you're looking to strengthen existing bonds or forge new ones, this episode offers valuable insights into creating meaningful, lasting connections in all areas of your life. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that will enrich your understanding of how to connect more deeply with those around you! Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/

This week, our duo sits down with business strategist Phil Bouwman, and trust us—you're about to elevate your game!

Mitch chats with none other than Judge Kennedy—the judge who sent him to prison years ago! Together, they unpack what it really means to forgive yourself and others. It's a raw, real conversation about healing, growth, and the power of letting go. You won't want to miss it!

In todays day and age with the increase in social media use, we are noticing a shift in our ability as a society to critically think and deduce false information from what is real. In this conversation, Mitch and Mills discuss: — Thinking for yourself — Divide in perspectives — Societys lack of critical thinking skills — Right versus wrong — Asking critical questions and doing research — Taking what people say for face value This chat encourages everyone to take their power back with decision making and invites us all to re-think the way to respond to situations that can cause a divide, in everyday life. Wanna hear more? Let's connect! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

Join Mitch and Mills in this podcast episode as they explore the concept of Masculinity. This discussion touches on; - What society deems to be a ‘masculine' man - Toxic masculinity - Wounded masculine - When to summon masculine energy and qualities Whether you are looking to gather a deeper understanding of the men in your life or how you can summon the traits and characteristics of a strong man, this episode can benefit everyone. Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

So, you've probably heard the buzzword “hedonism” thrown around in the personal development world, right? But what does it actually mean for our day-to-day lives? How can we add a bit of hedonistic fun to our routines to make life better? In today's episode, Mitch and Mills are having a casual chat about what hedonism is all about and why it's something you might want to explore. They'll share some easy and fun tips on how to bring hedonistic habits into your daily life to boost your joy. Mitch and Mills will also talk about shaking things up and breaking free from the same old, same old. They'll dive into how to stop those repetitive behaviours and the difference between chasing happiness (you know, those quick dopamine hits) versus chasing joy (the deep, soul-satisfying stuff). ---------- Get social with us! Instagram: instagram.com/mjbseminars/ Facebook: facebook.com/mjbseminars/ Dorothy and the Dealer Podcast: youtube.com/c/DorothyandtheDealer

In today's episode, Mitch and Mills sit down and answer some questions that our clients have been asking at the moment. They talk about different topics like perception, parenting, investing and dissatisfaction. Question 1: It's been hard to be a mum when I don't know what a good mum looks like. I'm always afraid that I'll damage my daughter in someway like my mum damaged me. I still have so many issues because of how cruel my mum was to me as a kid. How do I make sure my daughter feels safe, loved and can come to me for anything if I don't have an example to follow? Question 2: First step in property development once your WHY is sorted. Investors? Builders? Question 3: Does anyone have suggestions for feeling more fulfilled in life, even if you're not exactly unhappy? I just feel like something's missing. Tune in as Mitch and Mills share their insights, personal experiences, and practical advice on these thought-provoking questions!

Missed the dad jokes? We're back with more from the man behind Mitch's humor—Eamon Behan! Join us as we dive into more of Eamon's hilarious stories and priceless dad wisdom. Get ready for laugh-out-loud moments and heartwarming tales that show how a dad's love and laughter can shape a life. Don't miss out on this fun, feel-good episode that's all about the joy and legacy of a great dad!

Ever wonder who's responsible for Mitch's endless supply of dad jokes? In this episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, we introduce you to "the man behind the man"—Eamon Behan. Get ready for some laughs as we chat about the hilarious moments, quirky wisdom, and legendary dad advice that shaped Mitch into the person you know and love. Join us for a fun, lighthearted conversation that proves behind every great coach is an even greater dad.

Buckle up for another epic ride!  Join your favorite duo on Episode 192 of the Dorothy and the Dealer podcast: 'Lost and Found.'

Have you ever wondered what it might be like for speakers in the field of personal development, on their own journeys for growth and self-discovery? In this episode, join Mitch and Mills as they reflect in casual conversation about their own personal journeys with growth and self-discovery, all whilst navigating coaching others in the field of self-development. In this episode, we get to see another side to the two speakers, as they share how others' perceptions of what being a mentor is like can be far from reality and how they too, don't always have their shit together.

Back for more? Dive right into Part 2 with Mitch and Mills as we keep unraveling the mysteries of DMT. They've got more insights and fascinating details about this powerful psychedelic. Join us for another episode!

How do you equip kids to have the bravery to face bullies and maintain their mental health? Recently, Mitch experienced this for himself when one of his daughters was picked on - and in the process he discovered how easy it is for that personal development mindset to go out the window when you want to protect your kid.  But he learnt some important lessons in the process, which he and Mills are breaking down in this new podcast episode that's a MUST LISTEN for any parent. Quick takeaways: Setting strong boundaries is a MUST.  Help them shape their inner warrior Let them build relationships with trusted people Transformation starts from YOU so lead by example.

Can you tell a person's relationship with their parents based on their hair? What about how reckless they are based on their nose? Well, you might be surprised by how much our physical body gives away about the subconscious issues going on for us… In this week's exciting new podcast episode we're chatting with Nerida Mills, who's spent years studying and training in the psychosomatic field, about how ailments, trauma, and personality points show up in the body. As she says “The body is beautiful, because it cannot lie. It expresses the truth of the moment.” This is a MUST LISTEN if you want to unlock the secrets behind your skin, and especially if you want some (funny) insights into what Mitch and Mills' faces reveal about them! 

Are you living paycheck-to-paycheck? Then STOP what you're doing and read this. There are a lot of people doing it tough right now. They're trying their best to save and they feel like they're getting pushback from the universe everytime they go to the shops, open their bills, or see interest rates increase for the TENTH time. So, we've come together to chat about not just WHY this is happening, but the steps you can take right now to start getting ahead. Be warned though. This stuff ain't easy. You've got to be prepared to do the work.  Because it all boils down to 2 things. Where you are getting your money (Are you putting the DEMAND on yourself) Where you are spending your money (Are you being REAL about measuring it) If you're ready to put ‘scraping by' behind you, then tune into this episode and discover the strategy that will get you started.

We all know what transformation starts from within… but how deep does it really go? Organs? Tissues? Cells? Molecules? When we talk about shifting your perspective as a way of changing your life, this process isn't something that simply takes place on an exterior level. It also happens to your cells. Just how layered it goes is what we're talking about with Microbiologist Lina Farfan, who returns for this special part two episode of Dorothy and the Dealer.  Listen now to hear this science in simple terms, as well as new perspectives on antibiotic resistance, herd immunity, and how fungi have proven themselves more intelligent than humans! (well… sometimes).

Are fungi smart enough to take over the world? Did life on earth come from comets? What's the importance of fungi to crops, medicine, and the human brain? And what can all this science tell us about personal development?  They're the questions we're chatting about with Perth Microbiologist Lina Farfan, in this special podcast episode.  The good news - we're probably not headed down the path of The Last Of Us. (We made her ASSURE us of this after we finished recording) But there's still plenty to learn in the meantime about mushies (and the universe)…

If you let it, fear will RUN your life into the freaking ground. You see, the truth is we all like to think that we're immune from fear. We say we're not scared to be in a relationship, build the business of our dreams, or spend time with our own thoughts. But how often do you hear about people trying to control these very things? They boss their partner around. Micromanage their business. Or organise every moment of their lives to be doing something. That's because control > comes from fear. And fear > comes from a lack of clarity.  But when you're able to get clear, the fear starts to melt away and you're left feeling completely empowered! Which is what we're chatting about in this new podcast episode. Fix your fear today! Next time you're scared or controlling something, ask yourself these three questions: Where am I afraid? Where am I not trusting? Where am I not clear?

How do you deal with criticism? When you're doing something important in life, you're bound to ruffle a few feathers. So how are you meant to react when this happens? The secret is in owning your part of things. When you own your role, the places where you need to look within, and how clear your intentions are, then it will stop feeling like criticism.  In this week's episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, we expand on this idea and show you the ways criticism shows up in your life, and how to manage it when it does.

Want to know the simplest sign that you're hiding an inner wound? You're repeating the same cycles When you get stuck in a repetitive rut; whether it's with your finances, your relationships, your friends, or your family, this behaviour is a sure bet that there's something deeper you're trying to avoid. Step one on any growth journey is realising that whether it's a glass ceiling or a Bandaid, there're many ways we'll dress up the stuff we don't want to face or push past. So are you ready to understand your inner wounds and heal them? Then make sure you listen to this episode of our podcast Dorothy and the Dealer.

When it comes to the masculine and the feminine, we often fall victim to thinking we can only live in one space with our significant other. But to develop strong, connected relationships, we have to learn to embrace both.  So, how do we find the balance? That's what we're chatting with MJB's Mind Body expert and relationships specialist Nerida about in this episode, as she describes how to bring attention to the feminine through tasks that let you be heard, and how to nurture the masculine by bringing practicality and organisation to the table.  If you're struggling with your partner - this is a must listen.

What do you think the effect of the pharmaceutical industry has been on plant medicine?  It's a hotly debated topic, but we've got to admit Dr Dave's perspective feels like one of the most balanced ones we've heard in a while.  If you're keen to learn more about the power of plants, how to balance CBD use, the difference between the cannabinoid and opioid systems in the body and much more then tune into the second part of our conversation with our friend and client today!

It's time to talk Marijuana Okay, straight up… We're just going to apologise for the sound quality on this one as our microphones weren't working. But the content in this podcast makes up for it, we promise.  In this episode, Mitch and Mills are joined by everyone's favourite doctor Dave, to talk about the legalisation of cannabis, its use in holistic and western medicine, and how to balance the scepticism with the potential benefits of its use.  Here's our top three takeaways: The history of cannabis is SO much more complex than we thought!  There's a whole network in the human body called the Cannabinoid System that deals with these molecules and chemicals.  Cannabis is just one tool to assist with transformation. Like everything in your life, healing requires balance with lifestyle, mindset, and much more. If you enjoy this episode stay tuned because we've got a part 2 with Dr. Dave coming next week!

Whether it's criticising other people because we want to divert attention away from something we're afraid to work on within, or thinking we've missed out on something when that ‘loss' might actually have been a blessing in disguise.  Lessons come in many forms In this podcast episode we're chatting about the quotes that help us shift our perspective and bust through our glass ceiling. Here's hoping they do the same for you!

The success of any business is 80% mindset.  So, when you feel like you're being slammed by a problem, these are the three questions you should be ask yourself to work smarter not harder! Is this a problem with understanding what to do? (purpose) Is this an issue with figuring out how to do things? (strategy) Is this a struggle with believing I can do it? (self-worth) A mindset breakthrough is all you may need to see things differently! Tune in to learn more. 

YOU have loyalties around money! Everyone does.  Lines you won't let yourself cross - because subconsciously you believe if you did you would be disappointing someone you love.  But it's stopping you from stepping up, and claiming what is yours. In this latest episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, we tackle these beliefs about money  - and teach you how to give yourself permission to break free from this mindset. If you want to SMASH your savings goals in 2023, then check it out now.

We're diving straight into personal development this year on our podcast Dorothy and the Dealer, with a look at the 5 simple ways you can bring the right energy in 2023. The energy of transformation, love, light and growth. Follow along with the recap:  Take stock of the last year - Check in with feelings, lessons, growth, gratitude. Create your challenges - How were they blessings, why did it need to happen, but also did you create your own challenges - because that's how you master life. Honour the lessons - don't learn the same thing over and over. Apply the lessons to grow. Look at the cycles happening and talk about the one you are in to bring awareness to it. Plan your ‘flow state' activities - daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly. Things that help you feel present. Plan the fun. Be consistent - growth is a continuous spiral upwards. If you don't put in the work in the marathon you'll be at the same point next year.

He's our number one most-requested guest on the podcast, and so, what would be better to bring you on Day 4 of our Christmas Giveaway then… A masterclass on inspiration with Dr. John Demartini  This special podcast episode of Dorothy and the Dealer is more than an HOUR long - because it's jam-packed with everything from money, to synchronicity, and everything in between. We love collaborating with incredible minds like John, and we hope it blows your minds as much as it did for us! Don't forget - Live life inspired x

We know WHAT boundaries are… WHEN we need them… So that just leaves us with one last question… HOW do we go about establishing them? That's the topic on everyone's lips today in the latest podcast from our Boundaries mini-series, with Mitch and Mills honing in on 5 steps you can take right now to protect your peace. Interrogate the discomfort (don't numb it) Set boundaries with yourself first (Go within before focusing outward Communicate. Communicate. Communicate. (Stop expecting others to get your position without telling them it first) Make it a statement (Questions imply you're open to moving the lines. You don't have to excuse yourself) Be strong but not defensive (When you are the latter you perceive others can take that boundary off you) Remember - it's not our job to make everyone love us. It's to create clear lines so that when others want to come in, they know the rules.

Setting and enforcing strong boundaries can be the difference between imploding  your life and transforming it.  It should come as no surprise then that this is one of the things we're asked to speak about most often. So, over the next two weeks we're giving you a mini-series of podcasts about this! Including how to know you need boundaries in your life (Part 1) and what to do to put them in place (Part 2). In this episode Mills is dishing out FIVE signs boundaries are lacking in your life. Constantly being a people pleaser (where do you stop and someone else starts) An inability to speak up (Or being too emotional when you do) Feeling guilty or anxious all the time (Because you're putting more value on someone else) A fear of rejection (Not wanting to lose someone else, but losing yourself instead.  You carry resentment that people don't ‘know' what you need.  (People can only ‘cross' lines if you've actually set & communicated them first.

It's time to talk Shantaram. With the release of the book's adaptation on Apple TV last month, we figured there's no better time to dive into the world of India, and the genius that is Gregory David Roberts' story. Dubbed “the greatest book you'll ever read” by Mitch, Shantaram is a rich exploration of India as it truly is, and one man's journey to finding freedom within himself there. In this special episode, you'll get to hear how the book has affected Mitch and Mills lives - including the first time they read it, how it has shaped their travels to India, and even Mitch's connection to the famed author who wrote it.  Tune in to this episode now for a little mental escape to India.

Falling out of love with someone is one of the greatest pains you can endure in life. But did you know that 99% of the time it comes down to just one of two things…  #1 - You find that your individual values have grown so vastly different that they no longer work together.  Or  #2 - You are no longer communicating in terms of those values. Now, there's not a lot you can do about number one if you want to stay true to who you are. But number two? That one we can fix.  In this episode of Dorothy and the Dealer, Mitch and Mills break down the four steps you can take to nurture connection and love with your partner. Set a particular time each week (or day) to talk - Come together in a place of respect and understanding. Leave judgement out of it - Create a space that is safe and free from finger-pointing. Remember that it is you and your partner against the problem, not you against your partner. Use structured questions - Things like “Is anything unresolved for you?” or “In what ways can I show up for you this week to show I care?” Remember to acknowledge the good - All relationships are about balance, so don't forget to praise instead of just raise problems.

Tell us your Halloween Tradition? We know Halloween isn't massively popular in Australia (yet), but there's plenty of things that this holiday can teach us about personal development. The values of traditions and what they can bring to our lives The need to set strong boundaries The importance of leaning into discomfort for growth So, this spooky season, listen in as Mitch and Mills run through their Halloween traditions (just WAIT until you hear what Mitch got up to as a kid).  This 15-minute bite will get you in the haunting spirit…