Pays To Be You!

Today I'm answering some questions asked by my community (if you're not following me on IG at @magicmedicineandart make sure you do to have your questions answered!) and I'm riffing on:  1. How to honour your need to rest when the people around you don't get it. 2. How to make money from your passions especially when you're multi-passionate, &. 3. How to start a podcast. If you wanna keep in touch you can come along for the journey on the 'gram here: @magicmedicineandart.Or you can learn from me or work with me here.And you can put it right here *HUG*.

Today I'm talking about 5 ways you can have a medicinal effect in this world just by you existing. This is by no means THE way but I personally believe these are incredible ways you can meet humans where they are & herald in a new generations of humans that don't have to keep perpetuating pain & trauma because they haven't been shown another way to be.We're talking specifically about:1. Being authentic & transparent - meeting people where they are and walking alongside them, rather than speaking down to them, & being open about what life is really like as a human.2. Embracing being fully human & honouring our cyclical nature as animals, rather than continuing to prioritise & glamourise the aspects of our cycle that are outwardly productive.3. Acknowledging our own uniqueness & creating space for others to be who they are, even (& especially!) if that's different from us & if that's different from who they used to be.4. Becoming emotionally intelligent & learning how to hold & process our emotions so we don't keep projecting our pain onto others. This for me is probably THE MOST IMPORTANT way we can be a role model for other people, especially our precious young ones, so we don't keep inflicting cycles of avoidance & punishment because we've never been taught how to feel. *Trigger warning* I do talk about a case of historical sexual abuse in my family that has recently been processed through the Courts so if this is a sensitive subject for you, permission to skip this.5. Cultivating true self-love & self-worth, which is an on-going journey, but an incredibly meaningful one because we unconsciously put a lot of pressure & expectations onto others when we don't feel worthy as we are.If you wanna keep in touch you can come along for the journey on the 'gram here: @magicmedicineandart.Or you can learn from me or work with me here.And you can put it right here *HUG*.

In this episode I'm leaving no stone unturned and sharing the good, the bad & the vulnerable around answering my soul calling and stepping out in my purpose even though I had no certainty, just unwavering hope that there must be a better way. I talk about lessons I learnt the hard way - like not spiritually bypassing our very valid human needs, like needing to regulate our nervous system.  Magic, Medicine & Art is essentially a love letter from my inner child to yours. And I'm inviting you on an adventure with me!  An adventure through our magical, multi-dimensional, metaphysical nature.  We're going to weave magic with our minds.  We're going to overflow medicine from our hearts.  We're going to share art from our soul.  And we're going to have a giggle doing it.  So if you're down to ride, letsssssssgooooo!You can come along for the journey on the 'gram here: @magicmedicineandart.You can learn from me here.And you can put it right here *HUG*.

This is Magic, Medicine & Art.  It's essentially a love letter from my inner child to yours. And I'm inviting you on an adventure with me!  An adventure through our magical, multi-dimensional, metaphysical nature.  We're going to weave magic with our minds.  We're going to overflow medicine from our hearts.  We're going to share art from our soul.  And we're going to have a giggle doing it.  So if you're down to ride, letsssssssgooooo! You can come along for the journey on the 'gram here: @magicmedicineandart.You can learn from me here.And you can put it right here *HUG*.

And so it begins.  This is Magic, Medicine & Art.  It's essentially a love letter from my inner child to yours.  Since those motherfuckers from Hogwarts never sent us our letters, I'm sending you this letter on behalf of “the universe”.  (Or “god”.  Or “life”.  Or existence.  Or whatever you call that humming in your chest that precedes you.). And I'm inviting you on an adventure with me!  An adventure through our magical, multi-dimensional, metaphysical nature.  We're going to weave magic with our minds.  We're going to overflow medicine from our hearts.  We're going to share art from our soul.  And we're going to have a giggle doing it.  So if you're down to ride, letsssssssgooooo!  You can come along for the journey on the 'gram here: @magicmedicineandart.You can learn from me here.And you can put it right here *HUG*.

This is the final episode of the Pays To Be You podcast. I know, *gasp* *clutch your pearls* it's OUTRAGEOUS!But a new chapter is here.As of now, it's Magic, Medicine & Art & it's going to be such a vibe!Pays To Be You will be classified as my 2nd season, with Magic, Medicine & Art heralding in the 3rd season of my podcast & will be the banner under which all previous episodes will fly.Come along for the adventure!And as always, if you wanna caffeinate my content so this sweet, sweet, wisdom keeps flowin' then you can do so here.And you can jump on over to my website or check out my Insta' story highlights to see all the ways we can weave magic together.

Today we're switching lanes and I'm talking, from my personal experience, about breaking addictive habits & behaviours. Specifically talking about how it's not the *thing* we want - it's how we believe it will make us feel. AND how we can release the physiological grips of cravings if we're able to release the thought before it works it's way into our bodies. Some of this may sound controversial, but I can hand on heart say this has changed my life so I wanted to share it with you.  And if you wanna buy me a coffee 'cos you love my work in the world you can do so here.As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today I'm talking about what I wished I had've known when I got into manifestation / magic 10+ years ago and how we need to soothe our nervous system, FEEL our emotions, and keep. moving. forward.  If you want to dive deeper into this, there's a whole masterclass on this in Potent. Check out here for more deets.And if you wanna buy me a coffee 'cos you love my work in the world you can do so here.As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Let's normalise having human emotions!  We're talking all about true emotional intelligence - or what I prefer to call emotional wisdom - and we're truly so much more magical & powerful for having emotions - not less!  Feeling  doesn't mean that anything's gone wrong. Feeling  doesn't mean that you need to fix things right away. They can just mean you're humaning perfectly. They can just mean that you're actually processing life.  If you want to dive deeper into this, there's a whole masterclass on this in Potent. Check out here for more deets. And if you wanna buy me a coffee 'cos you love my work in the world you can do so here.As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this mini episode I'm riffing on the biggest thing that's screwed me over in my entrepreneurial path: my perfectionism & buying into this idea that there's a "right" way to do things - & thinking I MUST do it perfectly in order to succeed.  If you to join Potent, my upcoming 10 week experience, or you want more details, just click here.And if you wanna buy me a coffee 'cos you love my work in the world you can do so here.As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this repurposed FB live I'm chatting all about Potent, my upcoming 10 week group training program.  It's for you want to work WITH your unique nature, not use force & will power to get stuff done like others tell you you need to. You wanna SHINE bright - not burn out trying!  I'm basically just teaching you everything I learnt the hard way & wished I had've known when I answered my soul calling in 2016 when my nervous system was freaking the F out & I was working against my energetic rhythms & my Human Design (my unique nature) & felt like I was throwing shit at the wall while simultaneously pushing shit up hill.  For more details or to join, just click here.And if you wanna buy me a coffee you can do so here. As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

I've always been lazy & I thought that was a bad thing! But honestly, toxic productivity ideals have left a lot of people feeling unsafe, over-whelmed & anxious, & it's a never-ending hamster wheel! Besides, if you can only succeed by hustling your nuts off you won't let yourself relax when you get there because unconsciously you'll believe the only reason you got it is because you worked so hard so you won't want to “waste all your hard work”. It's never ending.  It's not the fact that you're lazy that holds you back from succeeding, it's: the SHAME you have around it, & the BELIEF you need to be different in order to succeed.  Laziness can be EFFICIENT.  It's not about needing to be insanely productive; it's about being POTENT.   Speaking of which, if you want to join my latest group container Potent you can check it out here.  And if you wanna buy me a coffee you can do so here.  As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this potent solo episode we're talking about the recent break I've had from social media & forward facing aspects of my business, & overcoming the narrative of inconsistency & needing to be on all the time in the name of opening ourselves up to deeper wisdom & clarity & purpose.  If you want to buy me a coffee you can do so here: https://buymeacoffee.com/michaelalloyd  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can flick me a message on Insta to chat about it or to book in for a free discovery call.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this potent transmission I'm chatting with my homegirl & fellow Human Design sorceress Rose Tautari. We tumble down the rabbit-hole that is HD and riff on finding our balance & alignment in a wild, peopley world, overcoming burnout, being a 6/2 and 4/6 projector & so much more.  You can kick it with Rose on the 'gram (@rosetautari), join her brand new membership Coven or tune into her incredible podcast Cosmic Imprint.   If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can flick me a message on Insta to chat about it or to book in for a free discovery call.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm chatting with an incredible coach & human, who I also have the privilege of mentoring, all things people pleasing and putting other people's needs first, to learning how to honour our desires, find our voice and fill our own cups.  You can immerse yourself into Tanya's empowering & insightful world by heading to her FB page: Nurtured Nourished Soul.   If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can flick me a message on Insta to chat about it or to book in for a free discovery call.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

A lot of people know about mindset work, but are you honouring your emotional, physiological and energetic requirements as a human soul? Do you care about how you feel or do you intellectually dismiss the very real physiological things that happen in your body?  In this conversation we're talking about how to stay emotionally and energetically well so you love your life and you're genuinely excited to achieve your meaningful goals.  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can flick me a message on Insta to chat about it or to book in for a free discovery call.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm riffing on my journey to becoming a coach: from what went well, to how I struggled, the unforeseen lessons that grew me into a coach & human I'm PROUD to be.  Ultimately who we become in the journey IS the magic!  And if you're like, "ooohhhh yeah, I'm ready to be that bish!", then you can join Start the Damn Thing today! You can message me or email me at paystobeyou@gmail.com.If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today we're talking about the unconscious reasons you didn't get what you wanted in 2021 and how to make 2022 THE year you get magical stuff done!And if you're like, "oh yep, this is for me", then you can join Start the Damn Thing today! You can message me or email me at paystobeyou@gmail.com. If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today we're talking about getting out of your own damn way and putting your creativity and your wisdom out into the world! We're talking about moving beyond the over-thinking and fears and doubts and actually just DOING IT!  And if you're like, "oh yep, this is for me", then you can join Start the Damn Thing today! You can message me or email me at paystobeyou@gmail.com.  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

This episode is for you if you've been meaning to start the thing for a really long fricken' time now but you get overwhelmed by not knowing how, not knowing the strategy or the plan - and even if you do, you find yourself procrastinating on it or self-sabotaging your efforts.  And if you're like, "oh yep, this is me", then you can join Start the Damn Thing today! You can message me or email me at paystobeyou@gmail.com.  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today I'm bringing you a training from a group coaching cocoon, Real Love, to share with you my favourite tool for feeling at peace with who I am & to have deep intimacy with myself, with my partner & with life.  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode we're chatting about starting that thing that's been on your heart for yeeeeaaaars! We're talking about overcoming the self-sabotage, the self-doubt, the feels, the "am I good enough to do this?", the "is this actually going to work?"s and doing the damn thing NOW! 'Cos if you're called it's because there are people calling you. Stop being selfish - pick up the damn phone already!  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm talking about how I went from being single & feeling so incredibly frustrated in dating to falling in love with the most beautiful man. This is for you if you're ready to understand some of the energetics, mindset & strategy involved to manifest your soul mate.If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this week's episode I'm chatting with my beautiful friend, Kerryn Hewson, who is an intuitive success coach & an expert on cyclical living & self-leadership - among many things! She helps women create their own wildly unrealistic dream lives for themselves & their families with an abundance of space, fun, joy, and ease.   We chat about how intuition is the strategy in our businesses, why the structured, masculine way of doing business burns us the F out & how we can achieve the BIG things on our heart's while soothing our nervous system & working with our natural, feminine energy flows.   You can kick it with Kerryn:  On Insta': @kerrynhewson. Or by joining her brand spankin' new FB Group Experiencing Success: Conversations.   If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode we're talking about breaking bad habits, overcoming self-sabotage & understanding our mind on a deeper level so we know why it loooooves to keep us "stuck". It's the perfect season to release the old & embrace the new so if you're ready to ride the cosmic momentum tune into this saucy wee transmission.  If you want to want to work with me 1:1 you can book a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta to chat about it.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode we're talking about awakening to your magic, power, worth & genius by dropping this whole muggle act & understanding that you're the creator of your reality.  This was part of the Magic Makers Summit, created by the incredible Rachel White (who was on episode 33). If you want to check out the magic she's doing in the world you can find her on Insta: @byrachelwhite.    If you want to enter The Cocoon be sure to book in a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

I am bringing you an incredible live training all about how you can manifest like a mo' fo' & live a life that is truly a masterpiece by harnessing the power & potency of your conscious & unconscious mind.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know! If you want to enter The Cocoon be sure to book in a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

But what if it's actually kind to trigger others? What if it's actually doing others a disservice by being all light & fluffy & not rocking the boat so as to not upset their sensibilities? Be BOLD like you ARE, you majestic maaaaaaatrucker you!  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!  If you want to enter The Cocoon be sure to book in a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today I'm bringing back the audacious, outrageous, incredible Nicole Middleton & we're chatting about being "too much", being "a lot", speaking our truth - even when it's unpopular or controversial - & stepping out with BIG energy in this world.  If you wanna kick it with Nicole you can find her on the 'gram - @nicolemiddleton.co.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!  If you want to enter The Cocoon be sure to book in a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I talk about a belief that will transform the lives of those around you. If you implement & apply this one belief to how you see the people you know and loving it will change the F'ing game! This is perfect for you if you want to become a coach, a healer or a leader - or just become a more loving, powerful friend to the people you love dearly.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!  If you want to enter The Cocoon be sure to book in a free discovery call on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm bringing my now DILF of a partner back on the Pays To Be You podcast to chat about life as parents, how things in our relationship have evolved & the constant juggle of being a good parent while also taking care of your own needs.  This is a conversation you mamas & dadas out there will appreciate because we don't fluff it up - we spill the real T up in huuuurrrrr.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I am sharing the Your Unique Genius Frequency masterclass & activation. It is potent. It is powerful. It is profound. And if you let it, it will shift you on a physical, mental, emotional & spiritual level & beyond!  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

We're tapping into our deepest wisdom & true power by accessing the very thing we've been taught as a society to avoid, numb, deny or overlook - lest we be "too emotional", unstable, unbalanced or a "crazy b!tch". We're talking about our emotional wisdom & how to finally heal from those unresolved patterns that, if left untouched, rule our lives.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Wait, what?! You can feel good and have fun in the journey AND it makes success all the more inevitable?! Yeah boo. In this episode I'm telling you why ease & pleasure is fundamental in your success and how you can infuse more magic on the daily to make yo'self a pleasure Queen.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm riffing on how to give less fucks about what other's think about us & how we think we ought to live. Life is ultimately about how we personally experience it so understanding that other people & other things do not have power over how we feel is truly liberating!  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

I think this solocast is my favourite of all time! I'm talking about learning to truly loving yourself right the F now, exactly as you are and how you can practically do that.  I would love to know what this brings up for you so flick me a message on Insta & lemme know!If you want to immerse yourself in one of my coaching cocoons be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode I'm bringing you the recording of the Unf*ck your Relationship with Food masterclass I delivered on Instagram. We're discussing why stressing about food is not only a waste of life, but it actually doesn't even help you lose weight or be healthy!  This is for you if you've struggled with eating, dieting, bingeing, emotional eating and your relationship with your body.  If you want to find out more about the Body Love cocoon and how you can feel gorgeous in the skin you're in you can do so here. Or you can check out other ways to work with me.  As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this solocast I riff on doing life your way, making your own damn decisions, living in alignment with your Human Design, following your intuition & ditching the idea that someone knows more about what you need than you do. If you want to book in a Human Design reading or a coaching session be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

It's a privilege to bring you behind the scenes of this heart-felt coaching session with an incredible human being where we talk about her journey with disordered eating (bulimia, anorexia, bingeing & purging) & learning to love herself.  If you or someone you love have struggled with your relationship with food, your body & your mental well-being because of it, I'm sending you so much love, & this episode is my gift to you.  If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.  

In this episode we chat all about how to quieten our inner critic and stop self-sabotaging, how to feel at ease in yourself as you journey towards your goal, how to overcome self-doubt and over-thinking, understanding the unconscious blocks that could be sabotaging your success and getting your subconscious mind on-board with magnetising the results you want.  If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.  

Hey fraaaands! In this episode I'm taking you behind the scenes of a closed door conversation with my mum about her Human Design! I talk about what Human Design is, what it means to be a generator, what it means to have a defined sacral, a defined spleen, her fear gates and what it means to have an emotional authority.  If you want to book in a Human Design reading be sure to apply on my website or flick me a message on Insta.   If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.  

Sup witches! Today we're talking about the primal, instinctive fear many of us have as we go to share our magic with the world. A deeper part of us wants us to keep our wisdom & power within, because it fears that if we're fully seen, heard & known that something bad will happen... and it disguises this fear as perfectionism, over-thinking, co-dependency, addictions, body image issues - all kinds of things to distract us from shining like never before!  If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode you're a fly on the wall of a coaching session with an incredible friend who's ready to love her body, stop worrying about her weight, have fun again with food and lose a few kilos in the process.   We also talk about life with digestive issues (IBS) and how making friends with our emotions is key to feeling more at ease in our bodies.   I have created a new offering called the Body Love Cocoon for those ready to stop getting up in their heads about their bodies and are ready to finally feel at ease in their skin. You can find more information here or you can email me at paystobeyou@gmail.com to have a chat.   If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Sup ho! Offended? Don't be. Today I'm talking with the exquisite Hanne Rachael, founder of the Slut Project, former sex industry contributor and sexual empowerment leader.   We talk about, well, you guessed it: SEX! We talk about things that respectable women often shy away from, when in actuality it's such an important area of life as human beings that needn't have so much stigma and moral connotations attached.   Beyond the nitty gritty, we talk about feeling comfortable in our bodies, being at peace with our sexual past and preferences, and becoming more intimate (read: less awkward) with ourselves as sexual beings.   You can join the Slut Project on Facebook here.Or kick it with Hanne on the 'gram: @hannerachael. As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Hey friends, in today's episode I'm chatting to you about discovering Human Design and how it utterly transformed my life! Coming to terms with life as a Projector has been incredibly gratifying and liberating, but equally uncomfortable as I come up against the mainstream conditioning I've received around what being productive and successful looks like. I for sure am still battling with my "laziness wound" as a result of living in a world that is predominantly run by people that have a defined sacral central (my sacral and heart are completely open), but every day I'm getting better at honouring my needs, honouring my design and living in alignment with who I'm here to be.   I'd love to know your design and if you want me to shed any light on what your design means, just flick me a DM on Insta. As always, if you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In this episode your homegirl's  bringing you behind the scenes of a real life 1:1 coaching session. I'm speaking with the incredible Joni who has said "yes" to her purpose as a Sex & Relating Coach and sexual educator.     We coach her through the fear of triggering her friends & family, showing up authentically on social media & validating herself on the journey so she stays the course to her inevitable success.    If you want to kick it with Joni, you can follow her:On the 'gram: @joni.m.coaching. Or on the book of Face: Joni Morrissey. If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

I'm riffing with the incredible Kaya Wong - business & personal development mentor, space holder and Master Reiki teacher & healer and we riff on her real life rebirth. From break ups to business shutdowns, we're talking about releasing & transmuting the old so we can embrace the exciting new opportunities on our horizon. You can connect with Kaya:   on the 'gram: @kaya.a.wong. or on Patreon: Kaya Wong. If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily!

In this episode your homegirl's mixing it up and I'm bringing you behind the scenes of a real life 1:1 coaching session. This session is all about helping an incredible human being get started on her big vision and helping her speak to and magnetise the clients she's here to serve.  This is for you if you're keen to answer your inner calling, step into purposeful business and make big moves in this world.  If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

I'm droppin' this sweet, sweet bonus episode into yo' face 'cos there are so many people out there (myself included) who spend waaaaaaay too many years & way too many F's stressing about things not working, worrying about failing & craving certainty & security as they dive into the unknown. This episode is for you my friend.If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

Today my homegirl Monica Ferguson and I are jivin' on heart break, healing and the hard lessons we learn in love! We get deep, we get vulnerable and we reveal the strength we've found through being effed over in the name of love.  You can kick it with Monica:  on the 'gram: @mon3.0. on Facebook. on her website. or you can listen to her World Domination podcast.  If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily or flick me a message at paystobeyou@gmail.com to work with me.

In today's episode I'm kickin' it with the incredible Nicole Middleton who is an incredible coach, speaker & podcaster of the We Are Wildfire brand. We riff on being unapologetically ourselves, owning our uniqueness, trusting we're enough & allowing ourselves to do business in a way that feels OH SO GOOD!  You can connect with Nicole:   on the 'gram: @nicolemiddleton.coon Facebook.   or join her group We Are Wildfire.   If you're diggin' this episode be sure to connect with your homegirl on the 'gram so you can see all the shenanigans I'm up to on the daily!