Talk that Sh!t with the Melvin's

Send us a topic!!!!Ever tried to name your top five movies of all time? The struggle is real, and in this episode, we attempt the impossible while digging into what makes certain films stick with us forever. Our journey begins with a brutally honest take on "Warfare," a film many critics crowned as this year's masterpiece. We break down why this supposedly tension-filled war drama left us completely underwhelmed, questioning whether every true story deserves the big-screen treatment. This sparks a larger conversation about what truly makes a cinematic experience memorable – is it emotional resonance, unexpected storytelling, or something else entirely?The conversation flows naturally into our own movie obsessions, from Sandra Bullock's underrated gem "Murder by Numbers" to beloved classics like "The Bone Collector" and "Cape Fear." We share those comfort films we'd watch on repeat (hello, "Dracula Untold" and "Train to Busan") and why certain actors like Ryan Gosling never quite hit "great" status despite solid performances. Our mutual appreciation for Daniel Craig's James Bond leads to a confession: his portrayal was so perfect that earlier Bond films now feel like pale imitations.Korean productions receive special attention as we celebrate shows like "Night Agent," "All of Us Are Dead," and "Hellbound," examining why international content often takes creative risks American productions shy away from. We even touch on the political implications of overseas filming and why certain countries produce consistently innovative entertainment.Want more recommendations? We've got them – from zombie outbreaks to fantasy worlds, from thrillers to underrated comedies. Drop us a comment with your own impossible top five movie list or tell us if you've watched "Eastbound and Down" yet. Because while we might not always talk movies on this podcast, when we do, we absolutely Talk That Shit.Support the show

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Send us a topic!!!!What does it mean to exist in a neutral emotional state, neither happy nor upset? We explore this often misunderstood middle ground and how it affects our relationships when partners misinterpret neutrality as anger or indifference.The conversation shifts to character analysis as we break down the hit horror series "From." Each of us shares which characters we identify with most—from Donna's outward strength despite inner vulnerability to Victor's underappreciated wisdom. The show's masterful character development keeps viewers invested even when the mysterious plot leaves us with more questions than answers after three seasons.Our discussion heats up when we debate what truly makes a film worth watching. Does an actor's performance make or break a movie? Can you separate your enjoyment of a story from your opinion of the people portraying it? This launches us into passionate territory as we analyze performances from Michael B. Jordan to Denzel Washington, and question whether certain actors consistently deliver or merely have occasional moments of brilliance.The remake debate gets personal as we consider whether classics like "Practical Magic" and "The Outsiders" should ever be reimagined. We reminisce about what we call the "golden era" of actors—those performers who created such distinctive personas that anyone following seems like an imitation. This leads us to question: are remakes necessary when originals still resonate so deeply?By the end, we celebrate the wonderful diversity in entertainment preferences, from disaster films to late-night cartoons. Join us for a conversation that's equal parts introspective and playfully argumentative—just like any great relationship. What actors make or break movies for you? Which classics would you protect from remakes at all costs? Share your thoughts and favorite cartoons with us!Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!What keeps a relationship strong through life's toughest challenges? After 16 years together, we've discovered it's not about avoiding difficulties but navigating them as a united front. This episode dives deep into what it truly means when relationships are "tested" – those pivotal moments that force you to question everything about your commitment. Whether it's financial hardship, personal loss, or periods of growth that seem to pull you apart, these tests reveal the true purpose of partnership.We celebrate the surprising statistic that two-parent households have risen to 70% for the first time in three decades. Our theory? This generation is choosing differently. We're marrying our friends, building relationships based on genuine connection rather than obligation, and breaking toxic cycles we witnessed growing up. The difference is palpable – more homes where partners actually like each other, creating healthier environments for their children and modeling what love should look like.The most powerful segment explores finding safety within your partnership. Many people, especially men, struggle with vulnerability because they've been judged or dismissed when opening up in the past. We share personal stories about creating that sacred space where your complete, unfiltered self is not only accepted but treasured. It's a transformative realization when you discover your partner is the one person who truly sees you – all of you – without judgment.Trust emerges as the foundation of everything, built not through words but through consistent observation of someone's actions. How they treat others, how they speak when no one's watching, and whether their actions align with their values reveal their true character. This observational approach to trust serves as protection against manipulation and betrayal.Join us for this intimate conversation about building relationships that last through life's inevitable storms. Whether you're in a long-term partnership, just starting out, or healing from past relationships, you'll find wisdom in recognizing that the most beautiful bonds are forged through challenges overcome together.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!"The heart doesn't lie," Siobhan shares during this raw, unfiltered conversation about love, trust, and forgiveness. In this spontaneous late-night episode, we peel back the layers of what happens when relationships face betrayal and the difficult choices that follow.We kick things off with a seemingly simple question: "Are there things about me that still make you nervous?" This opens the door to a much deeper exploration of our own journey through infidelity, reconciliation, and growth. Would we advise someone else to stay or leave in a similar situation? Would we want our own daughter to forgive such transgressions? These questions force us to confront uncomfortable truths about love and its limitations.Perhaps the most provocative moment comes when we challenge the widely-accepted notion of unconditional love. "Unconditional love is a fake ass fairy tale," we argue, as we break down why every relationship actually has boundaries, deal-breakers, and yes—conditions. This isn't pessimistic; it's realistic. Understanding your non-negotiables is crucial to building healthy connections rather than martyring yourself on the altar of a flawed ideal.We also dive into self-worth and how doubting yourself can sabotage relationships before they even begin. "Don't discredit yourself," Siobhan advises, reflecting on how his own insecurities nearly derailed our relationship in its early stages. Meanwhile, I emphasize knowing yourself completely before committing to another person, ensuring you won't sacrifice your values when challenges arise.Time emerges as another critical theme—specifically, the importance of not wasting it. If you know you're not ready or not fully invested, the kindest thing you can do is be honest rather than string someone along. After all, time is the one resource none of us can recover.What would you tell others about love and relationships? Share your thoughts with us and join this ongoing conversation about the messy, beautiful reality of human connection.Support the show

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Send us a topic!!!!Returning after a month-long break, Lala and Shavaughn  dive deep into life's most profound revelations in this soul-baring conversation about authenticity, health, and family milestones.When Siobhan utters the powerful realization that he's spent 27 years of his life living for others, listeners are offered a raw glimpse into the transformative journey that comes with reaching 40. "When you break that mode of not trying to live for somebody else, now you crazy," he reflects, capturing the paradox of how society often pathologizes those who finally choose authenticity.The couple doesn't hold back as they discuss Siobhan's recent health concerns – from mysterious arm tingling to sleep apnea worries – revealing the vulnerability that comes with confronting our mortality. Between navigating Nevada's challenging healthcare system and accepting the changes their bodies are experiencing, they strike a balance between humor and genuine concern that makes their struggles universally relatable.Family milestones take center stage as they celebrate their youngest son Colin losing his first tooth and getting his first haircut. These transitions spark a poignant discussion about completing their family journey, with Lala sharing her peace about not having more children: "I've done the baby stuff, the diapers, the formula... I won't ever be starting over and I think that's great."Perhaps most intriguing is Siobhan's recounting of a dream visit from his late grandmother, delivering wisdom that perfectly addresses their current life challenges. This spiritual dimension adds depth to their conversation about relationships, differences in parenting styles, and how they've embraced "living different" despite others' judgments.Whether you're questioning your own authenticity, navigating health concerns, or simply trying to find your way in relationships, this episode reminds us that the messy, complicated journey of figuring it all out is universal – and you're never alone in the process.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Anthony Mackie's controversial statement that "success is given, not earned" ignites a passionate debate about parenting, expectations, and how we define achievement. What began as a response to an urgent listener email evolves into a profound examination of the messages we send to our children about hard work, reward, and disappointment.We tackle tough questions head-on: Are we setting kids up for crushing failure by promising that diligence guarantees success? At what point do we stop blaming our parents for our disappointments and take ownership of our own mindsets? Is getting into your dream school or landing your ideal job the only measure of success, or is there something deeper we should be teaching the next generation?The conversation reveals a crucial distinction between success as external validation versus success as personal growth and integrity. Through examples ranging from college admissions to celebrity encounters, we explore how society's narrow definitions of achievement impact our self-worth and happiness. We challenge listeners to reconsider what "making it" truly means beyond accolades or recognition.Whether you're a parent wondering how to prepare your children for life's inevitable disappointments, someone questioning your own definition of success, or simply intrigued by the complex relationship between effort and outcome, this episode offers valuable perspective on measuring achievements on your own terms. The ultimate takeaway? Success isn't just about the rewards you receive but about who you become in the process of pursuing your goals.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Step into the world of the Melvins as they explore the intricacies of aging, love, and personal growth during this engaging episode. As Lala and Shavaughnapproach the big 4-0, they reflect on the pivotal milestones in their lives that have led them to this moment. This isn't just about getting older; it's a celebration of personal journeys filled with laughter, fears, and love. Join the duo as they dive into their culinary passions, share listener testimonials, and remind us all of the significance of maintaining our community connections.Their candid conversation seamlessly intertwines humor with poignant reflections, making it clear that while aging can feel daunting, it can also provide rich opportunities for self-discovery and fulfillment. They unpack what it truly means to embrace life's passages, encouraging listeners to appreciate their personal journeys and the relationships that enrich them. With touching anecdotes and relatable experiences, this episode speaks to anyone navigating changing life phases.As Siobhan and Lala share their struggles and joys, they also highlight how important it is to remain connected to what we love—even through fear and uncertainty. So whether it's about finding joy in baking, understanding the essence of friendship, or learning to embrace another birthday, the Melvins remind us that life is best experienced together.Don't miss out on this heartfelt conversation—it's not just about age, it's about connection, purpose, and a sprinkle of good humor. Subscribe to join us on this journey and feel free to share your thoughts about milestones in your life!Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Ever tried to add a little theatrical flair to your Spanish practice, only to be met with laughter from your friends? Lala certainly has, and she's here to share the hilarity of her language learning journey with Babbel, complete with tips, tricks, and a dash of playful banter from Siobhan. It's all about embracing the cozy, pajama-clad vibes and finding the funny side of speaking a new language. Get ready to giggle as we explore how adding a bit of drama can make language acquisition an unexpectedly entertaining adventure.Relationships can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope, with balance being key. We candidly unpack the complexities of partner support and the art of aligning with your significant other. Through personal anecdotes and a sprinkling of wisdom, we tackle the tough topics of conflict resolution and mutual respect. Discover how being on the same page with someone special can enhance not just your relationship, but your entire outlook on life. It's all about understanding, empathy, and navigating the sometimes choppy waters of love with grace.Personal space is sacred, and protecting it can feel like a modern-day quest. Listen as we discuss the transition from youthful social butterflies to adults who cherish solitude. We highlight the importance of setting boundaries and the delicate dance of balancing social interaction with the need for peace. Whether it's about keeping the energy positive in your space or valuing genuine connections over superficial ones, this episode is a heartfelt reminder to prioritize what truly brings joy and harmony into our lives.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Have you ever found yourself in a heated debate over candy texture? On this episode of "Talk That Shit With the Melvins," we kick things off with some chaos and hilarity about memory cards and malfunctioning phones, leading us into an unexpectedly deep dive into the world of gummy candies. As we debate the merits of firm vs. soft candy, we also find ourselves pondering how candy preferences tie into age and the elusive Mr. Goodbar. Join us for a deliciously entertaining romp through the world of sweets.What does it truly mean to leave a legacy? We explore this profound question with a humorous twist, weaving in personal anecdotes and a spirited discussion about comedian Kevin Hart's unique style. Our reflections take us through the power of humor and positivity in shaping how we are remembered by others. We challenge ourselves—and you—to embrace laughter and authenticity as we strive to leave a joyful impact on the world.Social interactions can be as tricky as navigating a candy aisle. Seriously, do people truly dislike you, or is it just envy? We tackle the fine line of likability, delve into the complexities of social anxiety, and discuss the often performative nature of grief and legacy. Through candid conversations, we highlight the importance of setting boundaries and engaging in uncomfortable discussions as a path to growth. As we wrap up, we invite you into our ongoing dialogue about life's quirks, inviting your own reflections on legacy and relationships.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!What if being misunderstood is actually a badge of honor?" Lala takes us on an emotional journey of embracing her non-conformity amidst familial misunderstandings. With heartfelt reflections, she challenges societal norms and champions individuality, highlighting the liberating feeling of staying true to oneself despite external pressures. Through candid anecdotes, Lala opens up about the delicate balance of maintaining family connections while respecting personal boundaries, offering insights into how the younger generation can be guided toward independent thinking even amid familial strife.As we continue, we navigate the tricky waters of past and present relationships. From the importance of choosing partners wisely to the regrets of dishonesty, this episode examines the complexities of romantic entanglements and the lessons learned from them. We humorously ponder the idea of a "disappointing Mondays" group, where people can share their relationship woes. Yet, beneath the humor, there's a serious exploration of how our character is shaped by transformative experiences and pivotal moments that force us to confront our flaws and grow.Finally, we dive into the journey of trust and vulnerability in personal relationships. Reflecting on our paths as loners and how shared activities like cooking and gaming have helped build a legacy together, we underscore the importance of openness in healing. With gratitude for our listeners' support and questions, we invite you to join a conversation that celebrates individuality, challenges societal expectations, and explores the intricate layers of human connection.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Ever felt the weight of juggling multiple talents while trying to meet the expectations of everyone around you? We've been there, and in this episode, we share our personal stories about the chaos of balancing personal and professional identities. We dive into the hilarious and sometimes frustrating dance of staying true to ourselves amidst the judgments of others. From iconic sports figures to everyday scenarios, we question the fine line between natural talent and hard-earned skill, using anecdotes that might make you chuckle or nod in agreement.Time management and personal boundaries are like those elusive mythical creatures everyone talks about but few have actually mastered. Join us as we navigate the internal tug-of-war between saying "yes" to everything and the all-important "no" that protects our sanity. Our candid reflections reveal the joys and struggles of keeping passion projects fun and spontaneous, even when professional demands beckon like an unyielding siren. Get ready for a rollercoaster of insights on maintaining enthusiasm and the art of dodging the pitfalls of overcommitment.Our homes aren't just where we store our stuff; they're a stage for daily comedy acts featuring playful banter and accountability mishaps—yes, we're looking at you, forgotten bathroom light! We use humor to explore personal growth and accountability, sharing lighthearted tales that highlight the importance of honesty and self-awareness. As we humorously debate whether our podcast episodes are long enough, we invite you for a peek into our dynamic exchanges, sprinkled with superhero jokes and telepathic connections. So sit back, relax, and join us on "Talk That Shit With the Melvins" for a hearty laugh and a dash of wisdom.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Ever wondered if you're giving too much grace in your relationships or if entitlement is clouding your sense of gratitude? We kick off this lively episode of "Talk That Shit with the Melvins" with some candid camera angle jokes and dive into the heart of appreciating the little things. Join us as we question the prevalence of entitlement in modern times and share personal stories on nurturing gratitude within families despite life's external pressures. We promise you'll walk away with a fresh perspective on how grace and gratitude can transform your daily interactions.Imagine starting each day with a genuine thankfulness for the people around you—it sounds simple, but the impact is profound. As we explore the subtle line between complaints and concerns, we delve into the role of God's grace and whether it's possible to extend too much of it, potentially compromising our personal boundaries. By reflecting on cherished familial relationships and the influence of loved ones who've passed, we emphasize the importance of balancing compassion with self-care. Our conversation is filled with laughter and profound insights into how these experiences shape resilience and personal growth.Relationships can be the ultimate learning ground, especially when it comes to communication and understanding. Through our shared stories, we reflect on the unexpected paths life takes and the lessons learned from choosing to grow alongside a partner. Whether it's confronting issues in real-time or adapting to each other's communication styles, we underscore the value of empathy and adaptability. This episode offers a thoughtful look at finding purpose through challenges, encouraging listeners to appreciate meaningful interactions and learn from every relationship dynamic.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Ever wondered about the complex dance of roles and responsibilities in relationships? Our guest, Eddie, also known as "Elicious," kicks things off with a provocative question that sets the stage for a lively discussion about how men and women contribute uniquely to a successful partnership. We share our thoughts on the importance of balance, highlighting the diverse dynamics that make every relationship distinct. As an unexpected event unfolds on screen, you'll enjoy our spontaneous reactions and genuine interaction, adding a layer of excitement to our conversation.Have you ever thought about the gaps in sex education and the real-life implications they cause? We tackle this pressing issue head-on, sharing personal stories about the impact of fear-based approaches that many parents take. Our conversation underscores the importance of providing comprehensive and honest guidance to young people, especially in the face of changing societal attitudes towards sex and relationships. Through a friend's alarming experience with STI awareness, we remind everyone about the crucial need for better sexual health education.Curious about how social media and modern technology shape our lives and relationships? We explore the influence of platforms like Instagram and TikTok, discussing both their creative potential and their sometimes harmful effects on self-perception. From personal anecdotes about taking social media breaks to the art of choosing relationships wisely, we offer insights into cultivating meaningful connections in today's world. Through humor and sincerity, we emphasize the need for self-awareness and communication, aiming to enrich your understanding of intimacy and the importance of observing people closely.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!What if musicals could transcend the traditional audience and pull everyone into their enchanting world? We open with the buzz surrounding "For Good," the much-anticipated sequel to "Wicked" debuting next November, and reflect on how this musical saga evokes powerful emotions and universal connections. Through heartfelt reflections and personal anecdotes, we explore the profound impact of music, even in its saddest moments, and the joy it brings to all who embrace it. A touching story of a military man finding solace in Delilah's radio show in Japan serves as a testament to music's incredible ability to bridge distances and provide comfort.In an era of evolving roles and relationships, how do stay-at-home moms maintain allure and authenticity? We tackle this fascinating question by challenging the traditional notions of what it means to be "sexy," emphasizing confidence and individuality over just physical appearance. Our lively conversation, fueled by fan mail, underscores the importance of genuine connections that transcend superficial transformations and societal expectations, celebrating the unique qualities that naturally draw partners together. Personal growth and spiritual journeys redefine perceptions of femininity and allure, highlighting the beauty of authenticity and self-acceptance.Balancing motherhood and self-care can seem like a tightrope act, yet it's crucial for personal confidence and well-being. We examine societal norms and expectations that often burden new moms, emphasizing the significance of genuine communication and the balance between external beauty and inner growth. From the power of nonverbal communication to the shared responsibilities within a family, our discussion celebrates the quirks and intricacies of human connection. By fostering a supportive environment where authenticity thrives, we aim to inspire continuous personal improvement and meaningful relationships. Join us in this exploration of music, relationships, and self-worth, as we challenge stereotypes and celebrate the beauty of being true to oneself.Support the show

Send us a topic!!!!Have you ever wondered how something as simple as a name could hold so much power in a relationship? Join us in this heartfelt episode of "Talk That Shit with the Melvins" as we unravel the subtle intricacies of names and identity, drawing from a humorous yet eye-opening moment involving Siobhan and his mother. This candid conversation uncovers how seemingly trivial oversights can reveal deeper layers of communication and inclusion within a marriage. By sharing these personal anecdotes, we hope to shed light on the importance of recognition and belonging, especially when merging lives and identities.Forgiveness is often seen as a singular event, but we challenge this notion by exploring it as a daily choice that enriches relationships. Through open discussions, we navigate the complexities of letting go of past grievances, emphasizing the growth and understanding that comes from continuous forgiveness. You'll hear stories that highlight the importance of reassurance and mutual respect, illustrating how both partners can support each other through old wounds and insecurities. Alongside this, we share the joy of embracing each other's quirks and imperfections, demonstrating how small acts of thoughtfulness can significantly enhance mutual happiness and connection.As we continue, our conversation shifts towards the thrilling pace of organic connections and the unexpected joy of finding someone with whom everything just clicks. Personal stories about spontaneous adventures and shared experiences reveal how a strong foundation of friendship and love is built. We also reflect on the value of listener interaction and how it enriches our podcast journey, often sparking new insights into our own relationship. This episode promises to leave you smiling, as we celebrate the beautiful complexity of companionship and the continuous evolution of love and understanding.Support the show

In this heartfelt episode of Talk That Shit with The Melvins, we're diving into the experiences, conversations, and life lessons that have strengthened our bond as partners, friends, and teammates. From navigating challenges to celebrating victories, we're sharing the pivotal moments that have brought us closer together and kept our connection strong through it all.Join us as we reflect on what it truly means to grow as a couple, how vulnerability has shaped our trust, and the shared stories that remind us why partnership is a journey worth cherishing. Whether you're in a relationship, navigating friendship, or just looking for perspective, this one's for you.Tune in and join the conversation.

When was the last time someone's belief in you propelled you to greater heights? This episode is all about the wind beneath our wings, those special individuals who champion our dreams and stand by our side through thick and thin. We kick things off with a heartwarming stroll down memory lane, exploring our personal growth in 2024, where laughter mingles with deep reflection. I reminisce about the pivotal role my partner played in my journey to the live entertainment big leagues, and how a mentor's nudge transformed a hobby into the burgeoning Ellie Heartbreak brand.Have you ever wondered how relationships can tenderly sculpt your essence, or how family life can both ground you and send you flying? Here, we peel back the layers of the evolving dynamics of personal growth and the quest for fulfillment. We uncover the enchanting allure of New York's yuletide charm and tackle the myth that life pauses post-parenthood. Instead, we celebrate the liberating dance of responsibilities and adventure, painting an honest portrait of the joys and trials that shape our shared human experience.Strap in as we rev up for a heady discussion on goal setting, where self-improvement meets humor and honest ambition. Whether it's honing our health or sharpening our business acumen, we're all about seizing the reins of life with a hearty laugh and a steadfast gaze toward the horizon. As the conversation crescendos, our collective voices rise in a chorus of encouragement, reminding each listener that with a dash of camaraderie and a sprinkle of time management, this year's goals are not just dreams but destinations we're actively charting.

Have you ever pondered over the paradox of life and time? Ever found yourself stuck in the mind-boggling conundrum of whether to bring a lost loved one back to life or to journey back in time to their era? Striking a balance between humor and gravity, our latest episode takes you through an exploration of these profound dilemmas, focusing on the intricate dynamics of family relationships and the potent memories of those who are no longer with us. As the conversation unfolds, you'll find us leaning towards the fascinating concept of time travel as the more desirable option.Navigating the complex waters of family ties, we delve into the deep recesses of our personal histories, unraveling the expectations that come with being raised by grandparents and the void their absence creates. As we confront the struggles of sustaining relationships with distant or lost family members, we underline the importance of acknowledging the efforts each family member makes to maintain contact. The tone turns serious as we examine the impact of a family member's absence and the influence it has had on our relationships and interactions with each other.In the concluding segment of the episode, we emphasize the importance of cherishing memories with our loved ones, especially those who are no longer with us. The conversation takes a philosophical turn as we ponder the after-effects of a family member's absence and how it shapes our relationships. With a touch of spirituality, we discuss manifesting blessings and battling adversities. Join us on this journey as we navigate these thought-provoking topics in the latest episode of our podcast.

What if the love we experience is just an illusion, a tool for manipulation? In an intriguing discourse, we unravel the complex tapestry of love, questioning its authenticity and exploring its potential as a master manipulator.We begin our journey into the heart of emotion by debating love's existence. Is our understanding of love real or is it merely a facade, a construct we have built based on our wants and needs? There's a bold claim: we argue that the only genuine, unconditional love exists between us and our spiritual beliefs. As we travel further into the labyrinth of emotion, we tackle the idea of love as a form of manipulation, intentional or unintentional. We explore how our words and their meanings, moulded by societal constructs and personal experiences, can greatly influence our relationships and comprehension of love.Communication is the vehicle that drives our relationships, and in the final leg of our journey, we navigate the dynamics of this integral part of our interactions. We explore how comprehension levels, speed of discussions, and potential misunderstandings can impact our relationships, once again bringing our attention to love's potential for manipulation. In the end, it all boils down to self-reflection and learning from our experiences. After all, isn't that what makes us better at love? Join us as we encounter Queen Nigah, explore the implications of her actions on our relationships, and discover what it really means to love.

Picture a world where men are labeled as "whores" and women are subjected to the same sexual expectations as men. Sound perplexing? That is precisely the norm-busting terrain we're treading in this exhilarating episode. Together, we bulldoze through traditional gender roles and double standards, unearthing the confusion that lies beneath. We grapple with the idea of a 'body count' in sexual relationships and its effect on self-esteem and mutual respect. Furthermore, we also explore how the increasing societal acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community is transforming our perception of relationships.Do men gain respect from their peers for having multiple sexual partners? Why does an individual's sexual history become a hot topic amongst partners? These are the questions we dare to ask, dissecting societal norms and the underlying need for validation. We also analyze why some men feel compelled to compare their sexual experiences, shedding light on the mystery of respect, and its troubling dependence on one's number of partners.As we conclude this rollercoaster of an episode, we reflect on the significance of vulnerability in relationships. Discover how Chris Brown's life journey is interconnected with the concept of minimalism and the value of life. We challenge ideals of a "perfect" partner and question why people feel the need to change themselves. Lastly, we explore how essential it is to avoid rant-inducing conversations for personal growth. So strap in, fasten your intellectual seat belts, and get ready for a wild ride through societal norms, relationships, and life's ultimate meaning.

Navigating the intricate dynamics of co-parenting, this episode promises to foster understanding and provide insights on the delicate matter of introducing a new partner to your children post-breakup. What's the trick to handling the potential whirlwind of emotions, ensuring a harmonious environment for your children, and addressing the inevitable concerns around dating again? Buckle up for a heart-to-heart session on this complex issue, as we discuss parental boundaries, managing jealousy, and ensuring your children's emotional well-being is always the priority.Switching gears, we set our sights on the titans of the entertainment industry and dissect the intriguing role of unions in this sphere. Ever wondered how these unions champion fair wages, health benefits, and influence where productions are filmed? This episode unravels it all! We even revisit the 2008 writers' strike, examining the potential impact it could have had on your beloved television shows and what a mass exodus of writers could possibly mean for the industry.As we round off this episode, we amplify the need for being your own advocate, especially given the fast-evolving landscape of entertainment with streaming services creating their own shows. We are not just talking about it; we're sharing real-life experiences and practical advice on how to steer your career in these uncertain times. Hold on to your seats, folks, this episode is filled with riveting discussions, expert insights, and potentially life-altering takeaways!

Do you ever feel like the spark in your relationship is dwindling because of life's relentless demands? This episode is somewhat of a wake-up call, interweaving thought-provoking stories and humor while unpacking the intricacies of relationship dynamics. We started things light, chatting about our bustling lives, Starbucks' Halloween collection, and our love for the show Station 19. We also touched on an entertaining confusion moment about Nicole Parker and Nicole Murphy that you'll definitely get a kick out of. Transitioning into a more serious note, we dove into the concept of comfortability in relationships and how it's often a culprit for a lack of attention. Remember when you used to rub your partner's feet or prepared breakfast in bed? We reminisce about those little things that often get taken for granted once we get too comfortable. We also took the time to emphasize the essence of spontaneity and how breaking routines could breathe fresh life into relationships. Picture this: you're all dressed up for a surprise date in a fancy restaurant! We believe it's always a good idea to keep an extra outfit in your car; you'll never know when you'll need it.Finally, we tackled the elephant in the room - the struggles of balancing life and relationships, a conversation sparked by Nicole Parker's interview about seeking attention in her marriage. We confronted societal norms branding life as a cycle of school, work, and retirement, challenging listeners (yes, that's you!) to value their own happiness and needs. We also dived into the differences between how men and women seek attention in relationships, accentuating the role that communication plays. We're excited for you to join us in this exploration, and we hope you'll walk away with the realization that it's okay to seek attention in a relationship, and that expressing gratitude towards our partners, regardless of how busy life is, is of paramount importance.

Are you ready to chuckle and get serious? Join us on an enlightening journey as my co-host Shavaughn  Melvin and I explore life's ambiguities, laugh about relationship backups, and delve into the significance of living in the present. We'll navigate the tricky spaces of self-confidence and the danger of being too preoccupied with fall-back plans. Shifting gears, we explore the often-overlooked role of children in conversations, debating the importance of their opinions in adult discussions and the boundaries that should be set. Respect, we argue, is not an age-earned privilege, but should be earned through actions and behavior. Prepare to rethink parent-child dynamics as we delve into the fine line between bluntness and rudeness, arguing that respect should be a two-way street.Finally, we'll share personal anecdotes and share our thoughts on expressing opinions, standing up for oneself, and the value of honesty. Lala's story of asserting herself as a nine-year-old will inspire you to voice your opinions fearlessly. We'll also discuss the importance of setting personal boundaries, being mindful of the conversations we partake in, and the energy we let into our circles. We promise you an episode packed with wisdom, laughs, and food for thought. Tune in and let's get started.

Have you ever wondered how important it is to set personal boundaries in relationships? How can one balance the open-door policy of hospitality with keeping your life drama-free? In our latest podcast episode, we share raw insights from our own experiences on these subjects and more. We take you on a journey of understanding our evolution as individuals and as a couple. We discuss how critical time is to our personal and collective growth and how our relationship has shaped our value of time.This episode is infused with candid discussions on the warmth of family, inclusive relationships, and the influence of a single person's emotional and spiritual support during rough patches. We dive headfirst into the whirlpool of managing negative energies, setting boundaries, and handling their breach. Discover how an open channel of communication can create a safe space for expressing feelings and venting frustrations. We also peel back the layers of the paradox of protecting without understanding and how fear and manipulation influence our lives.We touch on enjoying solitude, creating our own bubbles of peace, and the freedom it brings. Our approach to parenting, providing a safe haven for our children to thrive, and their awareness of the world is also explored. Join us for an insightful discussion on the dynamics of relationships, personal boundaries, and the importance of a peace-filled, drama-free life. Don't miss out on this opportunity to reflect and perhaps redefine your own boundaries and priorities.

Ever wondered if it's possible to shatter someone's heart without them ever expressing it? Ever grappled with the emotional turmoil of heartbreak and the crucial art of self-reflection? We invite you to join us on a journey through the intricate world of relationships and understand the dynamics of respect, rudeness, and recklessness in communication. We question the societal outlook on these themes and ponder upon the intriguing correlation between recklessness and heartbreak. Through meaningful dialogues, we delve into the causes and aftereffects of reckless attitudes. We explore ways to liberate oneself from defensive cycles and discuss relationship compatibility, the significance of shared aspirations, and the power dynamics that come with trying to impress in a relationship. As we venture further, we closely examine the role of honesty, profound conversations, and apologies in preserving healthy relationships and averting heartbreak. We also contemplate the serious consequences of breaking hearts and discuss how life events can help us expand and learn from our blunders.In the concluding segment, we reflect on how being open and honest with ourselves and those around us can foster deeper connections. We share our wisdom and insights gleaned from heartbreak and discuss methods to evaluate trust and the progress of relationships. Guide yourself through the minefield of emotions and learn to navigate relationships like a pro. Join us, and you might just walk away with a fresh perspective on heartbreak and relationships.

What's up people of the world!!! Today we talk about what makes you the boss of me!!

What's up people of the world!!! Today lets talk about what it means to be a business minded person.

What's up people of the world!!! Today we have a very up in your face topic about, Race and dating outside your Race, what's your feelings on this?

What's up people of the world!!! Today we are talking about the Human code! click on the link to find out what that means.

What's up people of the world!!! Let's talk about a few subject that fall in line with Life, Love, Mind, and matter. Let's talk about it. 

Is there a battle between men and women. Like is it wrong from me to want to hang out and watch a game with my women? Let's talk about this!

What's up people of the world!!! Is Society killing the media today. Let's talk about.

What's up people of the world!! Watched a 5 part Documentaryof 2pac mom and his life and we have a lot to unpack.

What's up people of the world!! Today one of our listeners asked us a question. It's a great question to ask. Have a listen and let us know. If you want us to ask a questions tag is on IG- Talkthatshitwiththemelvins or send us a email Talkthatshitwiththemelvins@gmail.com

What's up people of the world!! Today we are talking about this video of Chance the Rapper smacking a women's butt and the comments behind it and expressing our feeling about this. 

What's up people of the world!! Today we are talking about do I we everything about did we experience enough people before we got married. What morals did we have before we got together.

What's up people of the world. We are back and back with vengeance. What's been going? where have we been/ What's new ? We talk about It all in this eps!!Food places we spoke on- Chris and Eddies/ Shows we watching- Night agent/ Netflix..

What's up people of the world. Today we're having a conversation about what's  happening in films today and are they watered down? Are they gonna get worse or getting better!

What's up people of the world!!! Today lets talk about people that are energy suckers..

Lets have a little fun today! where playing a game with LALA Melvin called this or that!

What's up people of the world! Today we have a fun. Lets talk about is Music fair when it comes to the growth of people. 

Today we are talking about the cons of people showing us off. 

What's up people of the world!! Today we have a long one. We have three special guest on the show to talk about what men have to go through when it comes to sex and problems during sex.

What's up people of the world. Today the Melvins talk about along term problems we get from being young and having certain things happen to us. 

What's up people of the world! Today we are talking about why our parents want us to be like them. Sit back and relax and listen to the show.

What's up people of the world. Today the Melvins are talking about things that stress you out at work and why do we bring that stress home to our families. 

What's up people of the world! Today we are talking about the big word RESPECT and does it need to be earned and not given. Sit back and enjoy this topic.